1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:10,399 Speaker 1: Live from the Duncan Studios Chicago, runs on Duncan Chicagom 2 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: and iHeart Radio station. It's the French Blown Away, as 3 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: am I the Jason Brown, the official sports reporter of 4 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: the French Show, got the can't lose parslay exactly right. 5 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: I know I how you doubted me, and I you're right. 6 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what research analyzation, analyzation that the analyzation. 7 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 1: That's exactly what my problem was with it. Um of 8 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: course that the Huskies are from the winner last night, 9 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: thought oh there you go. That's excellent m and they 10 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: won by seventeen points. They did hit a free throw 11 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: and they won, So that was the parslay. So it's 12 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: the haventeen. That's amazing. I hope you all win lots 13 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: of money. I think maybe you were involved in the 14 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: fixing of the women's game too. I think you knew 15 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: you knew the spread on this one. So did you 16 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: have something to do? Were you trying to take down 17 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: Caitlin Clark? No? Oh no, no, Yeah, we don't like 18 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: her like the other girl. Yea, maybe, oh you liked 19 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: Angel better than Caitlin. Yes, we stand her. I like 20 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:25,559 Speaker 1: Angel too, but I like Caitlin. Yeah, she needed her time. 21 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: You can't. I'm sticking people walking around saying they're the 22 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: goat and they're not the goat. I get sticking people 23 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: saying they're the best, and then they get showed up 24 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 1: like it's not okay, pop stuff. I still think she's 25 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: the goat. I mean, I think that's sort of statistically proven. 26 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: But she lost, so she's not a great She lost. Well, 27 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan lost games. He didn't lose him in the final, 28 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: Final finale. But your latest game you lost, and then 29 00:01:56,320 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: you're gonna go around and say this was the final, 30 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: as the championship is the finals. No, it's true. I 31 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: don't know a lot about sports, but you can't say 32 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: you're the greatest and then your last game you lost, thinking, well, 33 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: you know what, you clearly know more than I do today. 34 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 1: So I yeah, seventeen points did Yeah, Yeah, you're my 35 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: friend of the goat. So who am I to say anything? No? 36 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: Good morning, Kaitlin, Jason Brown, Hi, hi Hi, Rufio Pauline 37 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,839 Speaker 1: is here, Hey, Ki Ki Moby Shelley. In a little bit, 38 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: let's see the entertainment reports coming up. At about fifteen minutes, 39 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: we'll do headlines before that in what's trending? What you're 40 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: working on? Kaylin, Let's see so you won't believe what 41 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:42,119 Speaker 1: Kendall's got Bed Morney doing. Oh it's Trump, the new Tupac. 42 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: Why you buy a house that a celebrity died in? 43 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: And Fred I have a surprise for you. Oh my goodness, 44 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 1: talk about the tea thing right there? Oh my god, 45 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: I'll hang around, good right thing. Fred show is on gag, 46 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: Good morning, glad you're here. Guys on the French Show 47 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 1: six twelve one or three five? Kissed up from Chicago 48 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: number one of vas extation trending stories. We'll get to 49 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: go next. Um the big day of Chicago, the mayoral runoff. 50 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: That's the whole story. So that's not much of a tease. 51 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 1: Um the parts slay h Donald Trump, the moon, Remember 52 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: that spy balloon, Remember that whole thing. All those Shenanigans 53 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: remember that. Get an update on them. You wonder what 54 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: it was doing. I'll tell you. Doctor Fauci is back. 55 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: Did you see the video of the baseball fan that 56 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,839 Speaker 1: tried to propose in the outfield and got absolutely taken out? 57 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: It's the best. I mean this dude, he's on there. 58 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: He's on a knee proposing, and this security guard comes 59 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: from about one hundred feet away and just straight up 60 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: just just decks the guy. I mean, all his life 61 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: waiting for this and boom. Yeah, that's why I got 62 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: into security, right so I could do this. Man came 63 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: from left field and just bolted to this man. I've 64 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: an update on that, and then a story in Arizona 65 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: that I've been just on the pulse off, very very 66 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: concerned about, and I'll it has come to a peaceful 67 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: resolution and I'll share it with you in just a second. 68 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: That the entertainment reports coming up. Got lots of tickets today, 69 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: let me see black Hawks, a lot of Peloosa four 70 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: day passes, Ava Max tickets, got all of that on 71 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: the way this morning. Four hundred showbills. Yeah, waiting by 72 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: the phone this morning. Lots of stuff on the way. 73 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: On the French show, we're back in a couple of minutes. 74 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: It's the Threat Show on one three five. Kiss at them. 75 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: This is what's trend. If you live in Chicago, vote 76 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: from mayor today. Do it two people. Someone will get 77 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: fifty percent. Someone will be the mayor today. Yeah, there 78 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: you go. That's my most of my political thoughts right there, 79 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: that's where we're at. Get out and vote. Yeah, there's 80 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: voting in the suburbenty two right yeah, and uh yeah, 81 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: school stuff up. So yeah, get out there and you 82 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: know what you're my roofs the attitude size you're right, 83 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: stop and schools stuffs. Every town, every city has something 84 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: to vote onto, right, yeah, that's the attitude. That was fantastic. 85 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you city. Yeah, from here to over 86 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 1: yards vote for some seat or something today. Right, Yukon 87 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 1: brought home it's fifth national title with eight seventy six 88 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: fifty nine victory over San Diego State, And that was 89 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: exactly what Jason Brown said would happen. I mean the 90 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 1: number of points exactly. Yeah. Wow, wow, I can't believe 91 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: you're s seventeen points. And because that's first of all, 92 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: that's a blue out National championship game. Because you thought 93 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 1: it was you calm for like the longest time. Yeah, 94 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: So Columbia, I don't know communications over here. You didn't 95 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: seem real clear on the name of the school. So 96 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: communication school, yeah, right um. Former President Trump was charged 97 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: with thirty four felony accounts for falsification of business records. 98 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: According to one reporter, and legal experts say that falsification 99 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: of business records is always prosecuted as a misdemeanor, but 100 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: it's been elevated to a felony in this case. Donald 101 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: Trump will report today he'll not be handcuffed, and there 102 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 1: will be no mug shop, and he will not be 103 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: held in a jail cell either. The indictment is still 104 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: under seal, but the DA's office allegedly leaked information to 105 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: the medium, and leaking from a sealed indictment as a 106 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: felony as well. Trump's lawyers will immediately file emotion to 107 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 1: dismiss after they have the opportunity to review the indictment. 108 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,559 Speaker 1: So he landed in New York lass night and almost 109 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: see what happens with that. Today, NASA has named the 110 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 1: four astronauts who will fly to the Moon at the 111 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: end of next year, and a woman the first woman 112 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 1: on the Moon, by the way, and three men, including 113 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 1: the first black astronaut on a lunar mission. The four 114 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: astronauts will be the first to fly NASA's Orion capsule, 115 00:06:56,600 --> 00:07:00,479 Speaker 1: launching on top of a Space Launch System rocket from 116 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: Kennedy Space Center no earlier than late twenty twenty four. 117 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: They will not land or even go into lunar orbit, 118 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: but they'll fly around the Moon and head straight back 119 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: to worth ten day moon shot. If that goes well, 120 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: then NASA aims to land two astronauts on the Moon 121 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: by twenty twenty five or so. So we're going back 122 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: there nice um that big bag of Then they leave 123 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: like a bag of poop or something on the Moon, 124 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: or they left some like stuff up there. Yeah, I 125 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: don't know what they left up there. Fun facts. They 126 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: left something up there, duty it may have one of 127 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: my fun facts. I just can't remember everything that I do. 128 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: You know, I'll look it up. They left some stuff 129 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: on the Moon. What are I supposed to do with 130 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 1: their poops? I think they just let them. They just 131 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: let them go out into space. I think, yeah, if 132 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: you go, it doesn't land, it just floats forever. And 133 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: then they left a bag of something up there space broo. Yeah, 134 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: they said, what have we left on the Moon aside 135 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: from trash from food packaging to wet white one hundred 136 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: packets of human urine and excrement equipment that it no 137 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: longer needed. It's like my fifty ms flat screens up there. 138 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: Because now I got an eighty two. So I just 139 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: left it up there. I'm like, someone will want it, 140 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: someone will take it. Remember that whole spy balloon thing, 141 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: Nobody was really talking about it. It wasn't really like 142 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 1: all the rage that the random balloons floating over the 143 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: United States. We didn't know what they were. It was 144 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: revealed yesterday that the Chinese spy balloon that was shot 145 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 1: down after traveling across the US was able to collect 146 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: signals of intelligence from military sites and then take pictures 147 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: of it. I guess um well. The stories told CNN 148 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 1: that the balloon was able to transmit the data it 149 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 1: collected back to Beijing in real time. A spokesperson for 150 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: the Department of Defense said yesterday that she couldn't verify 151 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: that due to security concerns. The intelligence community, though, says 152 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: it's not much to worry about because the Chinese balloon 153 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 1: couldn't gather much more than what our country said lights 154 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: are capable of gathering. So there take that we got 155 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: more or the same or whatever, So we're not worried 156 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 1: about that low balloon floating around up there. Doctor Fauci, 157 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 1: you remember him, the former director of the National Institute 158 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: of Allergy and infectious disease. Held the town hall on 159 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: CNN where he discussed the next pandemic. He said, the 160 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: next pandemic, and there will be one. There will absolutely 161 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: be an outbreak of another pandemic in the next year. 162 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: Maybe there might be one. But I'm not going back inside. 163 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: So you guys do whatever you want to, but I'm 164 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: not doing it. I don't think you ever did go 165 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: back inside. I don't think you ever did go And 166 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: I think we all were out here the whole time. 167 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 1: I think we need to work and I went home. 168 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: I think we resisted the whole thing. I think we 169 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:48,559 Speaker 1: said no, no, the show must go on, and we 170 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: were the only ones in the whole world driving around. 171 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: It was like Armageddon or something. I could get here 172 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: so fast it was crazy. Yeah, I mean west Loop 173 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:58,839 Speaker 1: to here. You know, at the time when I was 174 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,599 Speaker 1: doing the whole west Loop thing, man like five minutes. No, 175 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 1: I didn't see one car half the time when I 176 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: was doing that whole when I was doing the whole 177 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: west Loop thing, Yeah, it was a traumatic time. It 178 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:15,199 Speaker 1: was the La Dodgers fam who was leveled mid proposal 179 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: on the field has received a one year ban from 180 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: the stadium. So his name is Ricardo Juarez and he 181 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: can't go to Dodger Stadium. After taking the field to 182 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: propose amid the Dodgers opening day game versus Arizona last Thursday, 183 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: his fiance Ramona did say yes. In various videos film 184 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: from around the park, he jumped the barriers, ran into 185 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:37,839 Speaker 1: the oddfield before turning to face the crowd and his girlfriend. 186 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 1: He was then speared by a security guard while down 187 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: on one knee, which resulted in a hospital vishim. She said, yes, 188 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 1: he can't go back for a year. Um, but I 189 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: guess all is well because he got what he wanted. 190 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: She should go back in the year and they should 191 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,959 Speaker 1: get married the dump them over together if he can 192 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: recover from his injuries. Because that dude got tackled. You're right. 193 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: I mean that security guard was like he saw the 194 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: moment and seize the moment. I'm gonna get employee of 195 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: the month. Watch this, Watch this. But like people people 196 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: are commenting on the video like, oh, he's gonna sue. 197 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, sue for what. He wasn't one on the field. 198 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: You can't do that. And I've been captivated by this 199 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: story and I've just been on the pulse of it, 200 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: and I've been looking for updates. I've been listening to 201 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: my police scanner the whole time. But an Arizona dairy 202 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: queen's fifteen foot giant red spoon has been recovered and 203 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: business can continue. Now. This is not the one I 204 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 1: grew up going to um. But last week in Phoenix, 205 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 1: a dairy queen had a fifteen foot tall red spoon 206 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 1: stolen from outside the restaurant. Now it's been found. The 207 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 1: most shocking part of the story is that a guy 208 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 1: playing Pokemon Go spotted the spoon, and he was playing 209 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:51,439 Speaker 1: Pokemon Go. That's the part that concerns me. I did 210 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: not realize, are we still playing that game. I didn't 211 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: read that we're still doing that Pokemon Go. I had 212 00:11:57,679 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: no idea. I thought we were way way over them. 213 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: He spotted at lane. You're a middle school recognize it 214 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 1: from the news. He called the police and UM, yeah, 215 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: they got their spoon back. So all you know all 216 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 1: as well as a dairy queen in a fifteen foot spoon. Um. 217 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: It's sam S a m Day of Action to create 218 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: awareness and prevention of sexual assault, National School Librarian Day 219 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: to Day and National HAGA newest person day. You know 220 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: what to do, Jason. I'm coming for your news, but 221 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:29,839 Speaker 1: we hugging today girl. You're gonna take the girl and 222 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: get today much respect. Shots they didn't get a response. 223 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 1: Really really crazy. I thought for sure, I was said 224 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 1: in her phone and she was awaiting my tex kiss. 225 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: The latest entertainment news is on the Fred Show. Looks 226 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: like Bad Bunny and Kendall Jenner are still going strong 227 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 1: because she's got this man on the back of a 228 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: damn horse. New photos showed him riding the same horse 229 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 1: at the Hidden Hills Equestrian Center. She was in front 230 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: and he was in back, holding tightly to her head 231 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: while they were taking selfies. She's got this man on 232 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 1: the back of her horse. It did not look quee. 233 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: They're just like love right there. That is love. Back 234 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: riding is one step of love the same horse. That's 235 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 1: a whole different level of love. That is crazy. Was 236 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: there saddle involved or no saddle? But I don't know 237 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 1: if she rides English. I have to look at the 238 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: photo again. But does that I mean, is that something 239 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: that I was just concerned? It was concerning about it. 240 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: Everyone's in other regions and stuff like that, but English, 241 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: you still have a saddle. I think. I think there's 242 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: still some form of saddle, and Western not Western has 243 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 1: like the big saddle with the horn on. Yeah, saddle there. Okay, 244 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 1: I'm worried about it, that's all I'm saying. So the 245 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:51,079 Speaker 1: little benitos are fine. We got to protect everybody, you know. 246 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: I know how fun it was that I want to 247 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:56,559 Speaker 1: be in a room with these two, like Loki I do. 248 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 1: I just want to hear how they talk to each other, 249 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 1: what they say, the conversation in like imagine, I need 250 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: to like, do you want to go horseback riding? And 251 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: he's just like, maybe let's go. Yeah. It's just so 252 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: funny to me, it's wilds so funny. I mean he 253 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: must be in love because those photos prove it. I 254 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: think he's well. As you know, she's been a horse 255 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: girl for years and she gives horse girl energy. And 256 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: Bad Bunny's actually got a couple of music videos where 257 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: he has horses. He's on horses, So I guess maybe 258 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: that's how they bonded. I have no freaking idea. I 259 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: can see it right now. Bad Bunny was like, let's 260 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: go horseback riding, and then she's like okay, and then 261 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: I go out and there's one horse. Where's the other horse? No? 262 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: You front me back two emo, e me, she's in question? Horse? Yeah, 263 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: amost you say horse? How do you say? Yeahbayo? One 264 00:14:54,680 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: saddle saddle? Maybe that's their four play. You know, I 265 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: don't um And would you guys? I know Rufio has 266 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: answered this, yes, um, But with the rest of you 267 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: buy a house that someone died in tragically? No, I 268 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: would not tragically. And it got me thinking about it 269 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: got me thinking about the number of like hotels I've 270 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: stayed in in my life, and you know that weird 271 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 1: stuff has happened. I mean, it's very possible that I've 272 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: stayed in a hotel room where somebody died. It's very 273 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: but we all have its, say, you know a few 274 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 1: hotel rooms a year, someone has definitely died in the 275 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: hotel you've been. I mean, I'm just trying to think 276 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: of like places where you would sleep other than home 277 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: bad stuff has happened, or you you actually owned a 278 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: how someone died in Yes, my stepdad of my mom 279 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 1: our childhood home. There's yeah, it didn't. You know, it's 280 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: a tragic. It was a young kid and he yeah, 281 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 1: took his own life really unfortunate. Yeah, did you did 282 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: you like have a have it like some sort of 283 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: seance or like yesh sage or what did you do 284 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 1: to get the energy or maybe the energy is good 285 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: energy for you. I don't know. It's interesting because my 286 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 1: mom said that she would hear a lot of things 287 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: that I was little. I mean, I don't remember it, 288 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: but you know, she'd hear like boot stomping. I was 289 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 1: three years old. I didn't have boots to stomp in, 290 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 1: so she called the priest. They came, and they did. 291 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 1: The whole thing was like a grown esque man stomping, right. 292 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: You know for sure I lived in a hunted house too, 293 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: But they were nice ghosts. So I feel bad that 294 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: that ghost was sad um. But Aaron Carter's estate is 295 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: trying to sell the la home where he died, and 296 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 1: this is so so sad. So Aaron bought the house 297 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 1: back in twenty nineteen, and he tweeted his excitement, writing, 298 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: I finally owned my first home in California. I have 299 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 1: a place to call my home. Worked very diligently and 300 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: hard and consecutively on myself, mind, body, and soul, and 301 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 1: hold on my computer just blacked out that was wild 302 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 1: and kept myself out of trouble. I get to do 303 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: what I love every day things to everyone who believed 304 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: in me at this point in my life. So that 305 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: makes me really sad. The seven bed fore bath house 306 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: will come with a full remodel of the bathroom where 307 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: the late singer's housekeeper found him dead last November, and 308 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:05,479 Speaker 1: the money made on the house will go to Aaron's 309 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 1: estate and into a trust for his one year old son, Prince. 310 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 1: So hopefully, you know, somebody buys it and so Prince 311 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,399 Speaker 1: can have some of that money. Donald Trump's lawyer is 312 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 1: just as nuts as you might think that she would be, 313 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 1: because she says Trump is the new Tupac boy, which 314 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: isn't girl. It's a girl boy girl. She tried it, 315 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 1: and it's not sitting right with Tupac's family, as you 316 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: can imagine. So POC's sister said Kor says, my brother 317 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:38,440 Speaker 1: was measured by his integrity, his principles, and personal collective responsibility. 318 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 1: If you missed it. His lawyer made the connection on 319 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 1: the same day he footed in New York for his 320 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,879 Speaker 1: indictment and said his legal trouble is going to boost 321 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,959 Speaker 1: his poll numbers just like Pock's record sales went up 322 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 1: after spending time in prison. Okay, and lastly, a Harry 323 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 1: Potter TV show is in the works for HBO Max. 324 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 1: The project will be directly based on the books, not 325 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 1: the movie spin offs like Fantastic Beasts. Each season will 326 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:04,879 Speaker 1: draw from one of the books. So it's going to 327 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 1: go on for a while. If this happens, I'm busy, 328 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: then you're not a potterhead. We'll be busy. Um. Under 329 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: the deal, jk. Rowling would maintain a degree of creative 330 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 1: involvement with the show and Fred, I have a surprise 331 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 1: for you. Oh, yes, that's right. It was a surprise 332 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,439 Speaker 1: for me. What is a surprise? Yes? Guess what shirt 333 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 1: I am wearing under the sweatshirt? Are you wearing the 334 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: fashioned shirt? I'm wearing the fashioned shower? Are you wearing 335 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:40,439 Speaker 1: the fashion? Donald Trump's Donald Trump? And it's not a photoshop. 336 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 1: It's Donald Trump and Stormy? Are you going to the 337 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: gym after this? Is it? Why does this driver really happen? 338 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: I know, I don't know. You don't write a story 339 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 1: about the shirt. I occasionally get really excited when I 340 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:57,399 Speaker 1: see things I think Klon would like. Now, Calin is 341 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 1: a Lucille Ball fanatic but for summer, and a Tupac person. 342 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: So for some reason, when I saw this shirt on 343 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 1: Facebook on one of those ads and it was Tupac 344 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 1: and Marilyn Monroe together, I was like, oh my god, 345 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 1: perfect for Klin because for some reason, in my mind, 346 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: Lucille Ball and Marilyn Monroe the same person, and I 347 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 1: realized that they're not, so I had to have the shirt, 348 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: so I bought it. It took like six months to 349 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: arrive from Cambodia. The box came like it had been 350 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: honestly through World War three fashion, and I gave it 351 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 1: to her. I was so excited. It's from a brand 352 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: called fashion, Oh my god, and I didn't think you'd 353 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 1: ever wear but I gave it to you anyway, and 354 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 1: you are wearing it today. It's a shirt of Tupac 355 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 1: and Marilyn Monroe and they're sitting on like a stoop together. 356 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: Obviously a real picture, Yeah, obviously a real picture. Yeah. Yeah, 357 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm so excited that you're wearing it. Though. I was 358 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: so like when I saw it him, like, Calyn has 359 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: to have this. I don't know why. Yeah, yeah, it 360 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: probably was one of them. It was probably produced just 361 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, it might have been. It might have 362 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:03,640 Speaker 1: heard me talking in here, but they got a little wrong. 363 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 1: But that's okay. It's fashion. I'm so glad that you 364 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 1: are enjoying that. Yeah, and listen, I'm gonna you know, 365 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 1: if I sweat, no one will know. So it's kind 366 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 1: of a boot drive fit material for sport modes it 367 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: absolutely and that's I knew that when I bought it. 368 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:23,239 Speaker 1: I love that about you and where to check out 369 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:26,439 Speaker 1: on mine today? Gerard Pique, Fire's back at Shakira. This 370 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,679 Speaker 1: is getting really messy. It's on frenchhow radio dot com. 371 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: You didn't turn Benamina Benjamin on vacation again? Ye? Correct? Yeah? 372 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 1: This boy yeah New Orleans or something like that. How 373 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,479 Speaker 1: like how I want to go? Can I go? Does 374 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 1: he just take it? Or does he ask us if 375 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 1: he can? I mean, do we get to Do we 376 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:49,199 Speaker 1: have any saying this? Like? No? Right? I just he 377 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 1: tells me every month what days he needs off. Oh 378 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,920 Speaker 1: that's really nice. Okay, Well let me tell you a 379 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 1: few days I need off then, like, okay, that's great, 380 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 1: how many more days? Great? Do we go to you now? 381 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,239 Speaker 1: Because I want to know you? Let me take every day, 382 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 1: every day is approved. Thank you. Hey, you're the closest 383 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: in management in this room. So yeah, this is fantastic, 384 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 1: This is great. Yeah, I'm not gonna you guys may 385 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: first Umn somehow the highest riking person. Yeah, I've worked remotely. 386 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 1: I work remotely for like two days and I get 387 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 1: fifty emails where are you? Where are you? I haven't 388 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 1: seen our boss in eight weeks, honestly, Like it's seriously, 389 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 1: I work, I work remotely. You know you really should 390 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,400 Speaker 1: be in and you know, you know what you're doing. 391 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: You know, you're just you. Do you have any focus 392 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: or whatever? It's like, who are where are the rest 393 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 1: of you? I don't even know who works here anymore. 394 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: I mean unless there's a eighteen foot sandwich around here. 395 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 1: I don't see any of the suits, none of them 396 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: eighteen foot sandwich. There some other kind of Shenanigan and 397 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 1: they'll be here Thursday. Oh don't worry, I know, because 398 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: there's funning games going on. That's another thing. How come 399 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 1: the funny game? First of all, it's okay that the 400 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,119 Speaker 1: funny game son't happen during our show, because then we 401 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: we lose Rufio anyway, but we certainly any other distraction 402 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 1: for him. We're gonna lose him today because I know 403 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 1: because Lee is coming and so now, No, I'm gonna 404 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 1: go out there to guard it. That's what I'm going 405 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 1: out there to do. No, You're gonna work and finish 406 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 1: the show and then we're going to worry about the 407 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 1: food later. That's what we're gonna because out there the 408 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 1: vultures will end up eating una. I'm gonna leave it 409 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 1: in a bag until we're done. Let's great A stern note. Yeah, 410 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: I mean, you guys know this place is absolutely savage. 411 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 1: Like you know that you guys heard about plant gate. 412 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 1: There was a whole thing with plant gate. For some reason, 413 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 1: we spent a tremendous amount of money on plants, and 414 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,640 Speaker 1: there are plants everywhere, and people just started taking them home. 415 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 1: It wasn't like and I realized that there is stuff 416 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 1: that shows up here that people can take home. But 417 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 1: these plants were laid around the office and the whole thing. 418 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: And then there was an actual email sent out to 419 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 1: the entire staff that said, can you please bring back 420 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 1: any plants that you decided were for you because they're 421 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 1: for the office. And the same thing happens. We get 422 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,880 Speaker 1: you know, restaurants bring us food all the time, very kind, 423 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,040 Speaker 1: is so ive lee today, and they're gonna put it 424 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: out there and then it's like a free for all. 425 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: It's like if it's there, then that means anybody can 426 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 1: have it, and that is not true. That is nuts 427 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 1: and and you know what, like maybe we want to 428 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 1: take the food home. It's our food right after if 429 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 1: we don't eat it all, that's not very nice, just 430 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 1: not it's not food. But anyway, well, but it's is 431 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: any different than Rufio just taking whatever he wants first 432 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: and then we get what's left over, which is usually happens. 433 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 1: It's just one versus all of them down there, right, No, 434 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,400 Speaker 1: Benjamini's on vacation again, that must be nice. Um Honestly, 435 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: as an intern, I can't remember taking anywhere near this 436 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,440 Speaker 1: much vacation. I really can't. Like, I just I don't. 437 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 1: It's wild. But um, yeah, like I had funerals and 438 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,400 Speaker 1: I like one take. Yeah it might leg be falling off. 439 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 1: I have one leg another one, I guess it looks 440 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:54,360 Speaker 1: like to me. But they when they died the BB 441 00:23:54,480 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: all that they had a leg too. But yeah, we 442 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 1: kind of wish you had were laying on the floor 443 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:07,679 Speaker 1: for like three days come to work and there were 444 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 1: various I mean there was like bodily fluids all over 445 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,959 Speaker 1: the place and she had to lay down and foam 446 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 1: and donuts. But you're right, she didn't come. And here's 447 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 1: we don't talk about that enough. What kind of enlargement 448 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 1: is Benjamine getting? And he still can't up to work? 449 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 1: All right? Jason apparently learned yesterday what I what I 450 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 1: guess is straight man chivalry. I guess, like if you're 451 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: dating a woman, maybe, but I don't know if it's 452 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,439 Speaker 1: just romantic chivalry ism. I think it's just I think 453 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 1: you're supposed to I think men in the you know whatever, 454 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 1: the forties or fifties or sixty or whatever, we're supposed 455 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 1: to do these things and it was considered chivalrous, okay. 456 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 1: And and there's one that you pointed out that I 457 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: don't understand. I've never understood it. It It doesn't make any sense, um. 458 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: And it's it's the one where you're supposed to walk 459 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,679 Speaker 1: on the outside of a woman. So like so like 460 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: if you're walking down the street or something, you're supposed 461 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,879 Speaker 1: to be on the car side, or if you're walking 462 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 1: through the crosswalk. You're supposed to be on the car side, 463 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: which is really honestly either side, but you're supposed to 464 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:10,679 Speaker 1: be on the car side here. But here's the thing 465 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 1: I've never gonna sit about that particular one is I'm 466 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty pounds and um uh and and 467 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: so if a car hits me first, like, I'm not 468 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 1: going to break the barrier, Like, it's not like the 469 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 1: car is gonna just hit me and stop and not 470 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 1: hit you. Now it's going to be a car and 471 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty pounds of masks on top of you. 472 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't think that's really going to save your life. 473 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 1: It's really getting splashed and stuff too, though my dad 474 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: used to always yeah, I was just thinking car is 475 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: going around, it's gonna get wet if a car comes by. Yeah, 476 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,680 Speaker 1: as the man's supposed to be paying attention. So yeah, 477 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 1: it's a car. Yeah, yes, yeah, Yes. The same thing 478 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 1: goes when you have kids too. You're you're walking on 479 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 1: the outside of the the kids on the instant. Well, the 480 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:02,640 Speaker 1: kid thing, I understand, it's the same. Not really, kids 481 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 1: and adults are not the same. A child is less 482 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 1: likely to I'm half your size I think it's the 483 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 1: same thing. Like you definitely to walk in the street. 484 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,200 Speaker 1: Kids don't necessarily know not to walk in the street. 485 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 1: You gotta like you know, kids or kids like Polly 486 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,359 Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily know where to go on the sidewalk the 487 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,439 Speaker 1: way that you do. You're a grown up, all right, 488 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,119 Speaker 1: just push me in the road. Then, yeah, I'm not 489 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 1: getting wet. I mean, hell, if you said that on 490 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 1: a day, I would run. No. I I hold doors, 491 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: and you guys know this. This is the way I 492 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: was taught. And what's funny is I've even gotten some 493 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 1: I've gotten some flak for it before, like, oh, you 494 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: know I could hold my own door, trust me. Some 495 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: weird stuff has happened over the years when and not 496 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: on dates per se, but like people will give you 497 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 1: a bad look and I don't what doesn't matter. So 498 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 1: you you didn't realize this was a thing, though, Jason, No, 499 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 1: so I was. I was three men and then one 500 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,679 Speaker 1: woman and we were walking down the street and um, 501 00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 1: the woman was like closest to the street and one 502 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 1: of the guys, not me, was like, oh, we're so rude, 503 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: Like you have to move over, and like we're gonna 504 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,440 Speaker 1: walk here it's like and he was like, what's wrong 505 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 1: with you guys? I'm like, what are you talking about? 506 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 1: And then he had to like explain to me that, like, 507 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,120 Speaker 1: I guess that's a thing, which is, yes, I'm fine 508 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: with getting hit by a car instead of you guys. 509 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,159 Speaker 1: Like maybe like if it hits me, it gives you 510 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,120 Speaker 1: like another second to like jump out of the way 511 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 1: or something. But I didn't think about the splashing thing too. 512 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 1: I just don't think it's gonna wake up biker. There's 513 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 1: a lot of things. It's just like courtesy. I don't 514 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 1: know if my like I have pregnant friends and like 515 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,719 Speaker 1: I I guess would be the man in that scenario. 516 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 1: But I always do stuff like that for my friends. 517 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,680 Speaker 1: Have you ever judged me? Like if we're walking down 518 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 1: the street and I'm not walking near this show because 519 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: I feel like I protect you, I don't ever don't 520 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 1: ever go on the other side, like with if you're 521 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 1: walking with Kaylin. I know this for a fact that 522 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 1: there's a pole you gotta go out and get mad 523 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: at you. Yeah. So here's my issue is that when 524 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 1: I can only hear out of one years, so I 525 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,400 Speaker 1: I go to the side. If we're walking down the sidewalk, 526 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 1: I just go to the side where I can hear 527 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 1: you talking. It has nothing to do it. So like, 528 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: sometimes depending on which direction we're going, I'm going to 529 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 1: be on the inside of the outside because my left 530 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 1: ear doesn't work. So so what is it You want 531 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,399 Speaker 1: me to protect you from this car that's not going 532 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: to hit us? Or do you want me to hear 533 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: what you're saying? It's outs are I'm in trouble either 534 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 1: way if I'm not listening to you Slash. If I 535 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,120 Speaker 1: get run over by a car and then you get 536 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: hit too, I'm probably gonna have issues either way. Rufio. Yes, no, 537 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I mean, I know you have the 538 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 1: one ear, but like, if you just go with the 539 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: way traffic is going all the time, you should be good. 540 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,440 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, right, because the traffic will 541 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,239 Speaker 1: be on your left side and that's your bed side, right, 542 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 1: I guess, And then the woman will be on your 543 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: right side the inside. I guess. He really doesn't want 544 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 1: to do this. It's not that I don't want to 545 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: do it. I just don't think it works. But I 546 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 1: just never thought about it. I mean, no one ever 547 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 1: told me who was supposed to tell when the man 548 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: walking next to the curb. I believe he started in 549 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: New York because when people used to throw their trash 550 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 1: out the window, they wanted to avoid the woman getting 551 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 1: hit because she would walk closer to it. People people 552 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: throwing trash get hit by some tracks. This is so funny. 553 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,239 Speaker 1: And then here's another explanation. The reason why men are 554 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 1: supposed to walk on the street side when walking on 555 00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,239 Speaker 1: the sidewalk with the woman is because back in the day, 556 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 1: the pamps used to make the women walk on the 557 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 1: street side. We're making ridiculous excrements the window. What what what? 558 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 1: I don't know about that? Yeah, I don't know. Are 559 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: they Does anyone believe in any of these other you know, 560 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 1: sort of? I guess old Acts of Chivalry five nine, one, 561 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 1: one three five, Like, is anyone being held accountable for 562 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: this stuff anymore? I'm not sure. Hey, Scott, Yeah, what 563 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 1: do you teach? Hey? Hey, what's up man? You teach 564 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 1: medieval readings? Yeah? Well, yeah, used to be British literature. 565 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: I see your English? That amps high school, okay, And 566 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: it used to be brittlet And that was the reason 567 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 1: in medieval times they would well excrement out the window 568 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 1: because they didn't that indoor plumb me and if you 569 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 1: were closer to the walls, you were less likely. Thanks 570 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 1: you you get great. Okay, Well we don't do that anymore. 571 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: So problem solved. Man, Yeah, okay, talking man. I've been 572 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 1: a fan for a long time. I love all you. 573 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you, Scott, have a great day. Appreciate you. Man. 574 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: You look at that we're learning here this morning. Hey Mark, Yes, 575 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 1: hi Mark, good morning, good morning. How are you? Hey man? 576 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: Are you great? Thank you? Are you? You're in dischivalry? 577 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 1: You're you're way into it. I can tell well, no, no, 578 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 1: I just I used to be. You gave up, you 579 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 1: gave up, he got hurt. Well, I was brought up 580 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 1: that way. No, no, yeah, so what do you yeah? 581 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 1: Tell me, Well you were talking about it and another out. 582 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 1: Deb's the way I was brought up in. Another reason 583 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: that people kind of did that was like if you 584 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,239 Speaker 1: were with your girlfriend or whatever, you didn't want them 585 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 1: to be like, you know, whistle at or holliad my 586 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 1: guys trying by kind of hadn't walk on the inside 587 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 1: instead of on the street side. That's all. Yeah, Well, 588 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 1: when I walk with women. Sometimes they assume that they're 589 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: being whistled out, but really it's me. I'm being whistled 590 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 1: Jason walks on the street side Like every time I 591 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: I'm walking on the street with a woman, he starts 592 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 1: whistling on me and she's like again, I'm like, no, 593 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: that's Jason, that's for me. That's not for you, girl. Yeah, 594 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: thank you, Mark, have a good day. Okay, Yeah, I mean, okay, Hey, Claire, 595 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 1: I used to be you've been told that. You've been 596 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 1: told the same thing about the pamps. Yeah. I had 597 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: a friend way back in the day and he was 598 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 1: a little older than me, and he straight up dragged 599 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 1: me on the other side of the street one day 600 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 1: and he told me, like I don't want anybody to 601 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:53,239 Speaker 1: think also talking about Wow, I've never once thought, as 602 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 1: I'm driving down you know, whatever street, that the woman, 603 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 1: if she's on the outside, that I you know, she's 604 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:00,480 Speaker 1: fair game, that I can hoot and holler and throw 605 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 1: throw a fifty at her and see what happens. I've 606 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 1: never I've never once thought that. But um, okay, well 607 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 1: thank you Claire. Well that's fun for you. Yeah, I 608 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 1: guess hanging on there, I'm on my way, I'm gonna 609 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 1: get some twenties and go driving down the street to 610 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: one King and see how things go. Thank you, Claire, 611 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: have a good day. Hey Tim, what's up? Tim? Hey? 612 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: How are you going? Tim is here? No, this is 613 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 1: not the Big Tim, This is just Tim. What did 614 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 1: you want to say? Good morning? Welcome? Oh, thank you? 615 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 1: Thank you always listening to the show. Um, so I'm 616 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 1: actually a police officer. When my wife go out, When 617 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 1: my wife and I go out, there are certain things 618 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 1: that both of us, um, you know, whenever we're walking 619 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 1: holding hands, always my left hand with her hand. Uh, 620 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: you know, obviously my duty off duty weapon is able. 621 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm able to access that, um you know. And then 622 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 1: also yeah, I know she likes to have a good 623 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: view of the restaurant out, but always have a good 624 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 1: view of the door and all that. So I guess 625 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: a little bit different idea of what chivalry is, you know, 626 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 1: being able to defend your woman. Okay, you know, but 627 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 1: we have those little standards and adds, so a little 628 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 1: bit different from what you know the average person is 629 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 1: thinking with you know, who's on you know, the street 630 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 1: side of things. Yeah, because your training takes over, right, 631 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,280 Speaker 1: because that's how your your program because you got it 632 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 1: gone and you look for things with other people don't. 633 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: Jason has got a little turned on to be honest 634 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 1: with you when he heard gone and things like that. 635 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:33,840 Speaker 1: So and me. Yeah, yeah, honor uniform badge, Yeah, something 636 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 1: like that. So, Tim, I don't know if you if 637 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 1: you ever change your mind, Jason's here for you. Okay, Tim, 638 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 1: let me know. Oh okay, yeah, He's like, I'll keep 639 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 1: that in mind. Yeah. Perfect, Thank you, Thank you for 640 00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 1: protecting us to Tim, appreciate you problem. You guys have 641 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: a safe thing you too. Thank you. That wasn't Tim's 642 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:57,120 Speaker 1: gun you were looking at. That was something else. Hey, Jillian, Hi, Jillian, 643 00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 1: good morning. We're learning all about chivalry here this morning, 644 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 1: and personal part I shouldn't tell us more so. I'm 645 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 1: a mom. I have like a four year old in 646 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,280 Speaker 1: the six year old, and I was actually just saying 647 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 1: how when I'm in parking lot, I actually have my 648 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:14,359 Speaker 1: kids on outside, not by the parked cars because our 649 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,359 Speaker 1: head locking like in front of me a little bit, 650 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,239 Speaker 1: because if they like the people backing up and not 651 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 1: paying attention, I don't want my kids ringing over by 652 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,719 Speaker 1: a car um where I can at least see the 653 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 1: car moving on the outside of the parking lot. Okay, 654 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,800 Speaker 1: all right, said, makes sense? All right, Jilian, Well thank you, 655 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:33,239 Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you guys. Let me see 656 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:35,760 Speaker 1: here what other acts of chivalry here are we supposed 657 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 1: to be doing? Opening doors? Yeah? Out chairs? You're taking 658 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,680 Speaker 1: off old chair. It's so awkward. Love it. They don't 659 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,520 Speaker 1: excuse me. You definitely only get a bench, like, hey, 660 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 1: I'll take the booth please. Would you guys laid down 661 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 1: your peacode if there was a puddle, and I'm used, 662 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 1: what brand of peacode was it? Oh? No, it's all 663 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 1: right if it's stay with you if it's If it's fashion, 664 00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 1: then absolutely I would you know that's curtle. That jacket 665 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 1: will absorb the whole puddle. Yeah, it will because I 666 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 1: actually have a fashion jacket and it has Doctor Seuss 667 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: and Jesus hanging out together. It's drive fit. It'll soak 668 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: up anything. Don't worry about if I'm wearing that, no 669 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,719 Speaker 1: issue whatsoever. It's fine. Otherwise I pick you up before 670 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 1: my theory goats going in the big puddle. 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It's Tuesday for 680 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:12,759 Speaker 1: fourth Hi, Kaylin, Hello, Jason Brown, Rufio, Paulina kis here. 681 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,399 Speaker 1: Good morning, Shovin Shelley. In a little bit we'll play 682 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,759 Speaker 1: our little showdown game. Four hundred bucks is the price 683 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 1: because snap for six game winstreak, blogs, audio journals. In 684 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 1: just a second, stay or ago, we'll debate some relationship drama, 685 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,839 Speaker 1: lollapaloos and four day passes and the entertainment report all 686 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: coming up. What are you working on, Kaylin um why 687 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: Louis Capaldi might have to quit music already? And I 688 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,839 Speaker 1: will tell you which artist is calling themselves the wrap 689 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,760 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift And we're kicking off an hour of commercial 690 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,239 Speaker 1: free frend show right now, Yeah, they talk better than 691 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 1: they tie. These are the radio blogs on the French 692 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,560 Speaker 1: shid like writing in our diaries, we call them blogs. 693 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,920 Speaker 1: Pauline has got one. Yes, Oh thank you so much, 694 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,239 Speaker 1: dear blog um. You know, so I was getting hit 695 00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 1: up yesterday by I would say, like a student. As 696 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 1: a former student of mine. So if you didn't know, 697 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: I was an after school matters instructor, I taught podcasting 698 00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,720 Speaker 1: UM at two CPS schools UM. I took a breaking 699 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 1: break from that. Probably don't see myself going back in 700 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 1: that way, but maybe doing other things. But I do 701 00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:18,360 Speaker 1: have this one student. She was like just so special 702 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 1: to me right like, she was so just I don't 703 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:22,920 Speaker 1: know how to describe it. She was just so on it. 704 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,879 Speaker 1: She was really smart. She's really intelligent. Honestly, she acts 705 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 1: more mature than me, and I'm thirty, and I just 706 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 1: feel like she just carries that, you know, so well. 707 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,879 Speaker 1: And she's been emailing me. So we've been talking and stuff, 708 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 1: and she's gonna be a well she's a senior right now. 709 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,320 Speaker 1: So she's graduating in like two months. I think they graduate. 710 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 1: It's crazy, I know. So she's like asking for advice 711 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,040 Speaker 1: about college and stuff. Right, and then she wants to 712 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:46,800 Speaker 1: do like media. I don't know if it's more of 713 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,880 Speaker 1: like um, like news or if it's just radio. I 714 00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 1: don't think she's you know, sat yet on that, but 715 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:53,920 Speaker 1: that's okay. So I'm kind of helping like guide her 716 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 1: through that. And she kind of told me yesterday like 717 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 1: you're a mentor to me, and I was like, that 718 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 1: is so sweet, But girl, am I qualified to be 719 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,319 Speaker 1: a mentor? Like? You know what I mean? It makes 720 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 1: you question because I feel like in this industry, you're 721 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:07,759 Speaker 1: just in life. A lot of people have talked about 722 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,439 Speaker 1: growing up with mentors. I didn't have that. I didn't 723 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 1: have a mentor like and it really sucks because I 724 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 1: feel like if I could do it all over again, 725 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 1: I would have asked for a mentor. The reason that 726 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 1: I never did look into that or even care to 727 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,399 Speaker 1: ask or even like want to is because I felt 728 00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,680 Speaker 1: like I was bothering people because that's the Paulina thing. 729 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 1: And Paulina feels like she's always bothering people. So I 730 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:26,440 Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to like be you know, 731 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,320 Speaker 1: like annoying. I don't want people to think, you know 732 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,360 Speaker 1: what I mean, like I'm doing too much so I 733 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,400 Speaker 1: always kind of stuck to myself. Probably the biggest mistake 734 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,440 Speaker 1: of my career. And I'll always say that because I 735 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:36,880 Speaker 1: feel like I could be so much further, just so 736 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,360 Speaker 1: much more heads, so much more confident in what I do. 737 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,960 Speaker 1: So I'm just like, you know, am I qualified to 738 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 1: be a mentor? Like that's a big responsibility in my opinion. 739 00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I want to be there for people, 740 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,000 Speaker 1: especially if you come from like my neighborhood South Side 741 00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,280 Speaker 1: of Chicago where I grew up. I still live their planet, 742 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 1: saying the rest of my life, like I want to 743 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,879 Speaker 1: be that person for the younger generation. But it makes 744 00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:58,800 Speaker 1: me question, like who the hell am I to be? That? 745 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 1: Is that impossibly send you? I mean, do you have 746 00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 1: a do you have the proper qualifications? Do you have 747 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,359 Speaker 1: a No? Do you have a mentor license? I think 748 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,640 Speaker 1: you're say mental health, good mental health. No, I don't 749 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,279 Speaker 1: have that, but I thought you were going to say that. No. 750 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,120 Speaker 1: I really feel like I'm not even where I want 751 00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,160 Speaker 1: to be. So it's like, you know, can somebody who's 752 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,440 Speaker 1: not where they necessarily want to be yet, can they 753 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,480 Speaker 1: be a mentor? You know what I mean? Like, well, yeah, 754 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,440 Speaker 1: because you know, you know more than the person who's 755 00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 1: asking you. Yeah, so you know you can you know what, 756 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:28,799 Speaker 1: you know, you've had success, so you can help her 757 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 1: avoid even if it's just a little bit. You know, 758 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,719 Speaker 1: they're probably things that you've been through that you can 759 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,480 Speaker 1: advise her on that that you would do differently. Now, 760 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,400 Speaker 1: so yeah, I think so I think you're qualified. Okay, 761 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 1: I mean you went through it, Like you just said, 762 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 1: you went through it, and you said if you had 763 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,279 Speaker 1: a mentor, you would do these things differently in your life. 764 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 1: So then you tell her that, yes, and then there 765 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:51,759 Speaker 1: you go, now you're a mentor booms like that. But 766 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,960 Speaker 1: it's like like if you haven't done that or like 767 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:56,320 Speaker 1: you know that was that my path? For example? Like 768 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 1: who am I to tell that to somebody? But I 769 00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,400 Speaker 1: guess that's like being even a p right, Like I'm 770 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,400 Speaker 1: sure you're gonna tell Ashland things that you did that 771 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,359 Speaker 1: you're like, son, don't do this in a way, right, 772 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:08,520 Speaker 1: It's kind of like parenting teaching people how to drive. 773 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 1: I'm fine, Like, as long as it has nothing to 774 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:14,920 Speaker 1: do with driving, timeliness, charging got you, As long as 775 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,480 Speaker 1: you has nothing to do with those three things, I'm fine. 776 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 1: With that. That's crazy because she asked me, will you 777 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 1: teach me how to drive? Yeah? And yeah? Can I 778 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 1: have her number? Because I'm gonna intervene see something, say something, 779 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, everybody, I can't have this 780 00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:36,919 Speaker 1: kid growing up this way. Stair after Sissa a part 781 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,480 Speaker 1: of The Fred Show at eight five five, five nine 782 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 1: five Lama Palus of forty passages in like fifteen minutes 783 00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:47,920 Speaker 1: in the middle of an hour of commercial free Fred Show. 784 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:51,400 Speaker 1: You don't have to go anywhere. Good morning, but you're here, Jacob. Hi, 785 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:58,439 Speaker 1: how you doing? Good morning, Jacob. So this is called 786 00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 1: stago And normally we are are debating someone's relationship issue 787 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 1: and then and then, you know, we all sound off 788 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,960 Speaker 1: on whether you should you know, the direction of your 789 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:10,360 Speaker 1: life should take, and uh, we're always right and so, 790 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 1: but today is what I understand, This is not as 791 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,640 Speaker 1: much of a of a of a go stay or 792 00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:20,800 Speaker 1: go kind of debate, right right, yea, So I'm obviously 793 00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 1: calling for a relationship advice, but I'm not the one 794 00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:27,640 Speaker 1: who's considering leaving at all. Okay, I just kind of 795 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:29,480 Speaker 1: want to get your opinion on what do you think 796 00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,319 Speaker 1: that I should do in this situation? Right, because that's yeah, 797 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,719 Speaker 1: why would you not call a morning radio show to 798 00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 1: ask what we love that you do? We love that 799 00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,080 Speaker 1: many people do. So let's hear it. Jacob, explain what's 800 00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:44,360 Speaker 1: going on, Pauline of the mentor friend, the mentor, the 801 00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:48,800 Speaker 1: relationship mentor. Okay, because when it comes to relationships, this 802 00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:52,279 Speaker 1: guy knows what to do. Go ahead, please just now 803 00:41:53,600 --> 00:42:00,719 Speaker 1: go go go on, shut up. What we're talking about, 804 00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:05,479 Speaker 1: Jacob's Jacob turn. Yeah. So recently, I'm at this work 805 00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:09,360 Speaker 1: conference with me and well, a bunch of my co 806 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,920 Speaker 1: workers and I. We got pretty drunk and then we 807 00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:15,279 Speaker 1: ended up going back to my room and you know, 808 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:19,040 Speaker 1: we just had a nightcap or two. You know, it 809 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:20,880 Speaker 1: happens all the time, right, How many people are we 810 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:24,840 Speaker 1: talking about in this room? It was about eight of us, Okay, 811 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: all right, a little room party going on, all right, 812 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 1: I got it. Yeah, And one of my female co 813 00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 1: workers she just passed out, like in my room. So 814 00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:40,120 Speaker 1: I actually told everyone to go. And then I was 815 00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,880 Speaker 1: pretty drunk, but I slept on the couch and I 816 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:48,680 Speaker 1: gave her my bed. So absolutely nothing happened between us. 817 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:52,440 Speaker 1: We're just friends. But now I'm kind of wondering if 818 00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:56,600 Speaker 1: I should tell my girlfriend or not. No, no, no, 819 00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:59,319 Speaker 1: there is nothing good that will come from that. You're 820 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,840 Speaker 1: telling me right out, Jacobs Safe Place. You did not 821 00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:06,040 Speaker 1: nothing happen, nothing, nothing inappropriate. There was no nudity, there 822 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,360 Speaker 1: was no touching, there was no JTC, there was nothing. No, no, 823 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,720 Speaker 1: I wouldn't call into the radio to like put myself 824 00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,120 Speaker 1: on blast. Well if something did happen. We've heard a 825 00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:19,640 Speaker 1: lot of things. I'm always honest with well, I'm usually 826 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 1: honest with my girlfriend, but I'm worried that she's not 827 00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 1: going to believe that nothing happened, like you just said. 828 00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:29,719 Speaker 1: And that's no, no, no, there's nothing good that's going 829 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 1: to come from revealing this. If you're telling me nothing happened, 830 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:37,239 Speaker 1: if that's really what happened, then then it then then 831 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:41,800 Speaker 1: we move right on. I don't know. Game, don't what 832 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:51,480 Speaker 1: Why would he? Why would talk about? What is the game? Okay, No, 833 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:54,880 Speaker 1: go ahead, keeping ahead. I mean, what if your girlfriend 834 00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 1: just happens to be in the same room with the 835 00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,880 Speaker 1: co worker at a Christmas party or something, and then 836 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,880 Speaker 1: she goes, oh, thank you so much for letting me 837 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,960 Speaker 1: crash in your world. Gonna come out, It's gonna go up, 838 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,800 Speaker 1: like what do not take the risk you have to 839 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:13,600 Speaker 1: tell her and that, Yeah, it's somebody's gonna get along 840 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,200 Speaker 1: and talk about the hotel party. More that have to 841 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,320 Speaker 1: come up. That doesn't necessarily have to come up. It 842 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:23,319 Speaker 1: doesn't have to, but it will. Nothing happened. This guy says, 843 00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,040 Speaker 1: nothing happened, and you know what, This goes back to 844 00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: a debate that we've had many times on this show. 845 00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:32,279 Speaker 1: Even if something did happen, which it didn't, but he 846 00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:34,360 Speaker 1: gets to live with that, He gets to live with that, 847 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 1: but she doesn't. He doesn't have to mess up her 848 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,719 Speaker 1: life too because he screwed up on a business trip. 849 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,560 Speaker 1: But that didn't happen. So we're not even talking about this. Trust. 850 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,480 Speaker 1: Wouldn't you believe your partner if they told you the 851 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,239 Speaker 1: full story? Like I would literally text right away like yo, babe, 852 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:48,399 Speaker 1: I'm messing out. She's in the bad. I just want 853 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,400 Speaker 1: to let you know what's going on. I'll be on 854 00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 1: FaceTime right Yeah, for sure. I would drunk for that. 855 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,960 Speaker 1: Well in the morning then I would say, I mean, 856 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,040 Speaker 1: you were too drunk, so are you sure not to tell? 857 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 1: Because are you there? I am not condoning cheating at all. 858 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,879 Speaker 1: Cheating is not good. No one should ever cheat. He's 859 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: saying he didn't cheat. That it was two people passed 860 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,320 Speaker 1: out in separate spaces in one room. Nothing good is 861 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,960 Speaker 1: going to come from that conversation. I think sometimes we 862 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,920 Speaker 1: look the other way. She is none that your girlfriend 863 00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 1: is none the wiser. Fred, what if you had a girlfriend? 864 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:24,719 Speaker 1: I don't want to know. I guess is what it 865 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,399 Speaker 1: comes down. But she didn't cheat on me. I don't 866 00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 1: want to know. I understand that. And she didn't cheat 867 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,960 Speaker 1: on you in this scenario either, So the one that 868 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 1: I'm making up. So here's my thing about that. Though 869 00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:36,560 Speaker 1: it comes up later, you're the only person in the 870 00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,880 Speaker 1: room that didn't know about this party, didn't know people crashing. 871 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 1: You're the only one. Well, then it comes back to 872 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,520 Speaker 1: that trust. The canon was just referring to, well, do 873 00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:43,960 Speaker 1: you feel a little goofy like you could have just 874 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:45,719 Speaker 1: told me, babe, could you just spend like, oh, nothing 875 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 1: happened right? Like mind? You know there's a way to 876 00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:51,560 Speaker 1: bill to make yourself not look shady. Yeah, it's transparency. 877 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,920 Speaker 1: Everything comes back around. I would be so appreciative if 878 00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 1: if my boyfriend was like, hey, this is a situation. 879 00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm good babe. This is I think it could all 880 00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:03,080 Speaker 1: to start a whole fight. It's not necessary either. It's 881 00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,600 Speaker 1: gonna start a flappish That's what I'm saying. It's just 882 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:09,000 Speaker 1: FaceTime in the moment. Maybe go okay, she's sleeping up room, Okay, Greg, 883 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,600 Speaker 1: go sleep in a lobby. That's what I'm saying. Let 884 00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:13,920 Speaker 1: her hand the room. That's what I'm saying. Let her 885 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,120 Speaker 1: have the room. Go get another room, Go get another thing, 886 00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,279 Speaker 1: Go sleep when your buddy's room. I don't you know what. 887 00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:23,040 Speaker 1: It's just just just not happen. Lie right, there's it's 888 00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,719 Speaker 1: not a lie. It's a lie. How are you lying? 889 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,120 Speaker 1: How are you lying? Is a lie? Man? It was 890 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:34,320 Speaker 1: lying as you Nobody knew that. Ask you if it 891 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,239 Speaker 1: never comes up, how is it a lie? It's not 892 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,640 Speaker 1: a lot? Oh my god, omitting it's such a lie. 893 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,319 Speaker 1: It's I'm stated, and I don omit it, then it's 894 00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,279 Speaker 1: a lie. I would rather have a conversation with that 895 00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,759 Speaker 1: coworker and be like, hey, we know the situation. Nothing 896 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,360 Speaker 1: ever happened. Please don't bring this up. Really, I didn't 897 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:53,200 Speaker 1: get fair. You know why nothing happened? Now you happen. 898 00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,239 Speaker 1: I don't want to have this conversation with my girlfriend, Like, 899 00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,480 Speaker 1: I know, it's gonna probably start a fight because you 900 00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,480 Speaker 1: know you're you know, your significant other. It's like, I 901 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,840 Speaker 1: know this, I'm gonna start a fight. I know nothing happened. 902 00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:04,040 Speaker 1: You know nothing happened. Let's just keep it that way. 903 00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:09,799 Speaker 1: You're making secrets with your coworker. I just I just think. Look, 904 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,840 Speaker 1: it's it's not an ideal situation, right, it's not ideal. 905 00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:16,879 Speaker 1: But nothing happened. He's saying nothing. Now if now it's 906 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,640 Speaker 1: a different story, if they cheated, Now you have to 907 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,319 Speaker 1: have the debate, do I tell do I not tell? 908 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:25,319 Speaker 1: Whose life? Do I mess up HER's mind? Both of us? 909 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 1: That's a whole different conversation. And if you cheat in itself, 910 00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,920 Speaker 1: that's deception, that's a lie. So then you're lying by omitting. 911 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,440 Speaker 1: There's nothing to omit here because nothing happened. Right, Oh god, 912 00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:39,839 Speaker 1: how is it any different than if we both fell 913 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:41,839 Speaker 1: asleep in the backseat of a car on a road trip. 914 00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 1: How is it any difference, m we fell asleep next 915 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:51,239 Speaker 1: to each other, nothing happened. Difference, However, boyfriend would know 916 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,880 Speaker 1: that I'm in a car with Fred. Okay, Okay, your 917 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,360 Speaker 1: boyfriend knew that his girlfriend knew he was on a 918 00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:59,200 Speaker 1: business trip. Yeah, not in the hotel with Lisa or whatever. 919 00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 1: So I just now that you say it was Lisa 920 00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,879 Speaker 1: at Harlott. All right, Jacob, let me take some phone 921 00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,080 Speaker 1: calls on this. Don't saying a word. Yeah, don't do it. 922 00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 1: You're walking into the You're walking into a buzz saw here. No, 923 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:18,239 Speaker 1: don't listen with a woman. Listen to the way I'm 924 00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,319 Speaker 1: telling you. If he ends up, he'll be calling back 925 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,439 Speaker 1: a few weeks later, be like, hey, it's like, thanks 926 00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,040 Speaker 1: for the advice. Guys. It's not worth it. Nothing. If 927 00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 1: nothing happened, it's not worth it. Thank you, Jacob. Have 928 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:31,520 Speaker 1: a good day. Um eight five nine one one three five. 929 00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 1: Some things are just better, like I do, Yes, I do. Hey, babe, 930 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm really drunk, but there's a girl in my room. 931 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to bad exactly. That's gonna go great, that's 932 00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 1: gonna go really well. Your night. I love a second. 933 00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 1: Let me ask you an honest question. Yes, oh boy, 934 00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:54,719 Speaker 1: and I want to be honest answered. Okay, big Tim, 935 00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,239 Speaker 1: you love him, you trust him? Yes? He facetimes you 936 00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,800 Speaker 1: drunk from a room in Toledo where he's on a 937 00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:04,719 Speaker 1: business trip, you know, for it's a tougher ware convention. Yes, 938 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,719 Speaker 1: and he's there to buy the latest and greatest and tupperware. 939 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 1: And he facetimes you from a room and says, hey, 940 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,160 Speaker 1: this check back here. Fell asleep in my room. Yes, 941 00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,120 Speaker 1: we were having a quote unquote room party. She just 942 00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,719 Speaker 1: happened to pass out in my bed over here. I'm 943 00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,800 Speaker 1: just gonna sleep on the couch. You ain't or you 944 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:24,400 Speaker 1: are not going to go. That's okay, no worries. See tomorrow, 945 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,239 Speaker 1: you're gonna you're gonna go. Why was she in your room? 946 00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:30,920 Speaker 1: Why is everybody else? Where's everybody else? Why are you drunk? 947 00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:35,000 Speaker 1: Who is she? What's going on? Have you done this before? 948 00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,320 Speaker 1: It's gonna become this whole thing, and it's it's indefensible. 949 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:41,640 Speaker 1: It's it's because a lot of what you a lot 950 00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:45,800 Speaker 1: of words gonna go. There is no answer because it's irrelevant. No, 951 00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:48,160 Speaker 1: it's not irrelevant. You need to tell me, and you 952 00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 1: surely do not need to be making secrets with other people. 953 00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:54,880 Speaker 1: And my man called me from Toledo, Paulina, charge up 954 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:58,000 Speaker 1: the carcase up there. You won't make it because it 955 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:05,279 Speaker 1: won't be anywhere in I got you, we'll stop a lot, 956 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,040 Speaker 1: but we're going to take mine. I'll be honest, in 957 00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,719 Speaker 1: this day and age where we're at right now, I 958 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,080 Speaker 1: would probably get another I'd probably just go get another room, 959 00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:15,160 Speaker 1: see the same. Yeah, I mean, I really would just 960 00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,480 Speaker 1: avoid the whole situation. But just for a lot of reasons. 961 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,160 Speaker 1: One because I'm in a relation. If I were in 962 00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 1: a relationship, too, because I don't want any there to 963 00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 1: be any sort of rumor about what Because here's the 964 00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:28,399 Speaker 1: other thing. All those other people left the room party 965 00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:29,920 Speaker 1: and it's just a two way us, so people are 966 00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 1: gonna say stuff. So I would just be like, you 967 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,960 Speaker 1: know what, I'm I'm sleeping in my my coword whatever. 968 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 1: I would just get out of that situation. But but 969 00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:40,160 Speaker 1: but but nothing happened. And if we believe this man 970 00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,200 Speaker 1: when he says nothing happened that, I don't know what 971 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,800 Speaker 1: the point is in telling on yourself. Oh my goodness, 972 00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:48,239 Speaker 1: I really don't know what the point is. You're you're 973 00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 1: you're walking into a arm again. Enough, you're walking into 974 00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:57,439 Speaker 1: a fire for no reason, because everyone's brain is gonna 975 00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:00,640 Speaker 1: go a million different directions and it's not even necessar Siri. Oh, 976 00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,040 Speaker 1: it's going to be a fire. If your co worker 977 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:04,759 Speaker 1: happens to tell me that she was in your room, 978 00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,279 Speaker 1: I'm going don't tell me. Okay, it's gonna be some 979 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,600 Speaker 1: smoking the city, right. I don't even know why a 980 00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:11,920 Speaker 1: person would say that, though, especially if they know you're 981 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,359 Speaker 1: in a relationship and nothing happened. I don't know why 982 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 1: at the holiday party the next year, if she'd walk 983 00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,600 Speaker 1: up and go, hey, thanks again for letting me stay 984 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:22,520 Speaker 1: in your hotel, he said the wrong name about people 985 00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:26,600 Speaker 1: like people get drunk and get loose. Live happens every day. Yeah, 986 00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,680 Speaker 1: he thrown under the bus him, good morning, welcome, whoa, 987 00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:33,839 Speaker 1: that's that's the bus. So I was worried about right 988 00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:38,080 Speaker 1: there opening. Oh my god, are you a prison guard? 989 00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:42,360 Speaker 1: Are you in prison? Kim? Which one is it? Okay, 990 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,160 Speaker 1: you're in the car. So what do you do in 991 00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:48,040 Speaker 1: this situation? Do you do you come clean that your 992 00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:50,400 Speaker 1: co workers slept in your room but nothing happened, or 993 00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:55,319 Speaker 1: do you just I just let it go because people 994 00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:58,279 Speaker 1: only admits the things if they've done something wrong and 995 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:01,440 Speaker 1: they want to feel better. Yes, see, I would think 996 00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 1: if a woman came if I'm dating a girl, she 997 00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:05,480 Speaker 1: comes to me and she tells me this combolated story 998 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,560 Speaker 1: about whatever. I'd be like, I don't know the whole story, 999 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,799 Speaker 1: Like this is a cover up, Like exactly Kim's point. 1000 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,799 Speaker 1: You're telling me part of the story so that if 1001 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:17,240 Speaker 1: it ever comes up, then that's the explanation. But nothing happened, 1002 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,319 Speaker 1: so there's nothing to talk about. That's why you faced 1003 00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,879 Speaker 1: them in the moment. That's part of the Thank you, Kim, 1004 00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 1: have a great day. Yeah you don't, don't. Hey, Lewis, 1005 00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:31,279 Speaker 1: good morning, Your morning, Lewis, What do we do here? 1006 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,719 Speaker 1: It's a double edged sword. He rolls, She's gonna she's 1007 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:37,680 Speaker 1: gonna flip out, and he doesn't tell her it's gonna 1008 00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:41,440 Speaker 1: be even worse later. Damn he does, doesn't. Yep, So 1009 00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:43,640 Speaker 1: I say we avoid the conflict at old costs because 1010 00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 1: there's nothing to fight about. He can avoid it and 1011 00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,880 Speaker 1: hope it don't. But if it does, it's going to 1012 00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,480 Speaker 1: be even worse. Yes, it is, like why would why 1013 00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 1: would it ever come up? That's what I'm saying to 1014 00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:56,640 Speaker 1: an example of when you did that. Yeah, that's way different. 1015 00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,520 Speaker 1: What if he mistook an him? He mistook a name 1016 00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:04,040 Speaker 1: in your example, because Paulina was dating more than one guy, 1017 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,960 Speaker 1: that he didn't know that didn't know that you do. 1018 00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:12,040 Speaker 1: But that's that's different than being like, hey, thanks so 1019 00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:13,880 Speaker 1: much for letting me sleep in your room, in your 1020 00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:15,880 Speaker 1: bed that one time we got really drunk after the 1021 00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:21,680 Speaker 1: room party at the hotel. Merry Christmas. Come on, if 1022 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,920 Speaker 1: the co workers attracted to let it be known. But 1023 00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 1: this is what I'm saying. Here we go to stretch himself. 1024 00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:32,879 Speaker 1: Here we go. See now we've just spun it into 1025 00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 1: this whole other scenario where there are no answers because 1026 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:40,319 Speaker 1: nothing happened. Louis, thank you, thank you as you called, 1027 00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:41,919 Speaker 1: and people are like, this is why your single. Fred. 1028 00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,759 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm single because I don't want to 1029 00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:51,359 Speaker 1: deal with this. I didn't do anything. Hey, Amanda hie Man, 1030 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:56,120 Speaker 1: you were saying, hey, love you too. You're saying tell, yes, 1031 00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, tell because it's gonna be so. So 1032 00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 1: if like in passing at like a future company party 1033 00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,799 Speaker 1: or something, somebody that was at that hotel room says 1034 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:10,320 Speaker 1: something just like really innocent and passing about her getting 1035 00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:13,440 Speaker 1: so drunk that she passed out, and like the girlfriends 1036 00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 1: just sitting there like wait, what happened? Why do I 1037 00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:20,480 Speaker 1: have rat ass employee, coworkers. Why did I so rat ass? 1038 00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:22,440 Speaker 1: I did it to a co worker the other day. 1039 00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:24,320 Speaker 1: He went on a trip. I didn't know it was 1040 00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,239 Speaker 1: a secret. I threw him under the bus because he 1041 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:28,880 Speaker 1: told me he went, but I didn't know it was 1042 00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:32,160 Speaker 1: a secret, and he got in trouble. I think another day. 1043 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,640 Speaker 1: I want to hear that story later. But anyway, UM, okay, 1044 00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:38,120 Speaker 1: you're kind I get in a fight either way, just 1045 00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:41,320 Speaker 1: like getting the fight now. Hello, I guess all right, amana? 1046 00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:45,879 Speaker 1: Thank you? Yeah, I don't, I don't know. Hey, Lenny, 1047 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:48,400 Speaker 1: how are you doing, Lenny? Good morning? Yes, I'm a 1048 00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:50,520 Speaker 1: good morning. How are you great? Thank you for listening, 1049 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,600 Speaker 1: for calling? What what do we do here? Stairgo? Not 1050 00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,640 Speaker 1: really a stair goo? But do you tell about the 1051 00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 1: co worker who passed out in your room and nothing happened? 1052 00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,719 Speaker 1: Or do you or do you kind of pretend nothing 1053 00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,720 Speaker 1: it never happened? Well, I think one of the questions 1054 00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,720 Speaker 1: would be how long ago did this happen? I'm assuming 1055 00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,600 Speaker 1: relatively recently, if hits on his mind. I didn't ask, 1056 00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:13,560 Speaker 1: but I'm assuming somewhat recently. If it was not that 1057 00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:17,800 Speaker 1: long ago, I say, pal, because just coming clean, I 1058 00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:21,319 Speaker 1: agree is probably better. But if it happened a while ago, 1059 00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:24,600 Speaker 1: that's going to cause a huge fight, because, okay, if 1060 00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:27,080 Speaker 1: it happened two months ago, why didn't you tell me? Then? 1061 00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:30,759 Speaker 1: Are you worried because something happened? And I'm going to 1062 00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:34,160 Speaker 1: find out when I shouldn't. I can't even imagine anyone 1063 00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:36,480 Speaker 1: I've dated calling them and going, yeah, there's a strunkrel 1064 00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 1: passed that in my bed, but nothing happened, And I'm 1065 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:41,319 Speaker 1: just gonna see when the couch tell good good night? 1066 00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,440 Speaker 1: How in the morning? A million questions, Why is she 1067 00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:47,839 Speaker 1: in your bed? How did she get in your room? 1068 00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:49,960 Speaker 1: Why did you think that was appropriate? And then it 1069 00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:51,759 Speaker 1: becomes a whole site about a bunch of stuff when 1070 00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:56,240 Speaker 1: nothing happened and nobody was harmed? Letty, thank you? Remember 1071 00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,600 Speaker 1: if nothing happened, Well see that we're really this is it, 1072 00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:02,440 Speaker 1: We're now. This is exactly why you don't say anything. 1073 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,959 Speaker 1: This is exactly why you don't say anthing, because because 1074 00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:06,520 Speaker 1: it's a bunch of different scenarios. Well, how do you 1075 00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,920 Speaker 1: know nothing happened? Do you remember? And now you're mad 1076 00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:10,680 Speaker 1: because it could have happened. How did you put yourself 1077 00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,080 Speaker 1: in that situation? How do you again, there's a million 1078 00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:15,440 Speaker 1: different reasons why you could walk into a buzz on this. 1079 00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:18,279 Speaker 1: But Lenny, thank you, have a good day. I'm glad 1080 00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:25,000 Speaker 1: you called. You don't like it? Hey, Jessica, Hey, how's 1081 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:29,360 Speaker 1: it going? Hey Jessica, good morning? What say you? I'm 1082 00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,600 Speaker 1: honestly conflicted, but I'm leaning towards not saying anything because 1083 00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,320 Speaker 1: I was in a similar situation with my boyfriend. He 1084 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,879 Speaker 1: used to travel for work all the time, and there 1085 00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:42,280 Speaker 1: was an incident where a girl was and she didn't 1086 00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,360 Speaker 1: end up sleeping in his room, but they were in 1087 00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,960 Speaker 1: the room together alone for a while, and he did 1088 00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:48,920 Speaker 1: tell me. And now it's two and a half years 1089 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,879 Speaker 1: later and I still don't trust him. So I don't 1090 00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 1: know if you want to create long lasting relationship problems 1091 00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:57,480 Speaker 1: of something that never even really happened. I mean, that's 1092 00:56:57,520 --> 00:56:59,959 Speaker 1: the same as I don't know saying that the co worker. 1093 00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:02,600 Speaker 1: My co worker flirts with me, you know, or something 1094 00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:04,440 Speaker 1: you come home, my coworker flirts with me. It's like 1095 00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:07,120 Speaker 1: that could be totally innocent. But now every time you 1096 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:08,920 Speaker 1: go to work, I'm thinking in my head, I'm just 1097 00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:11,319 Speaker 1: thinking of different scenarios where it's like, sometimes I don't 1098 00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:14,480 Speaker 1: need to know everything because it doesn't help me. Oh 1099 00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:16,720 Speaker 1: so so and so likes you. It worked, that's great. 1100 00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:18,720 Speaker 1: So every day you go to work and have meetings 1101 00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,960 Speaker 1: with this person, this person likes you, and your significant 1102 00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,160 Speaker 1: other may have a zero interest and we may never 1103 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:25,959 Speaker 1: cheat on you. But now in the back of my mind, 1104 00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:28,440 Speaker 1: it's like, cheez, get a new job, get a new job. 1105 00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:30,440 Speaker 1: You sho, can't go work there anymore. I don't like 1106 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,240 Speaker 1: it because that kind of flirts with you every day, 1107 00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:33,800 Speaker 1: and so now every day I'm tortured when you go 1108 00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:36,040 Speaker 1: to work. And I didn't need to know because that 1109 00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:39,320 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that I'm gonna get cheated on. Thank you, Jessica, 1110 00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:47,080 Speaker 1: Have a great day, Chris, Chris, good morning. Hey, what 1111 00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:49,760 Speaker 1: do you what do you think should should he tell 1112 00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 1: his girlfriend that a woman from a business trip room 1113 00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:59,120 Speaker 1: party fell asleep in his in his bed, or and 1114 00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:01,880 Speaker 1: he fell asleep the couch? Or should he just pretend 1115 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:06,040 Speaker 1: I could never happen. Well, the thing is that it 1116 00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:10,960 Speaker 1: already happened, like a few weeks ago whatever, and he 1117 00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:14,080 Speaker 1: hasn't already told her. I would just leave it alone. 1118 00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:16,920 Speaker 1: If it would have happen like right down there, I 1119 00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:20,600 Speaker 1: would have just told my cofriend. Look, just so you know, 1120 00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:24,320 Speaker 1: she's drunk. She's passed on my bed. There's no fishing 1121 00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:28,040 Speaker 1: that is going on. But this situation, I mean us 1122 00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:31,720 Speaker 1: on top bed. Egan. If a word brought up in 1123 00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:34,400 Speaker 1: the future, he has full commons say, look, I didn't 1124 00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:37,720 Speaker 1: do anything to this girl, so what's the problem. And 1125 00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:40,080 Speaker 1: if it did come up, the girl would would would 1126 00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:41,840 Speaker 1: recount the same story. The girl be like, oh, no, 1127 00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,120 Speaker 1: nothing happened. I was just a drunk idiot, you know. 1128 00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:46,360 Speaker 1: I mean, so if it did come up, then she 1129 00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:50,000 Speaker 1: can tell the truth too, because it's the truth, right. 1130 00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, Chris, have a good day. IM glad you called. Man, 1131 00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:57,000 Speaker 1: appreciate you, Thanks for listening. People are like getting on me, 1132 00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,200 Speaker 1: Like Fred just hates confrontation. Fred's not like you to 1133 00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:01,880 Speaker 1: run from account of No. If it's me, I would 1134 00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:04,520 Speaker 1: probably try and get myself out of the situation, like 1135 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,640 Speaker 1: I physically would would try and remove myself from that situation. 1136 00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:10,760 Speaker 1: But if I didn't for some reason and nothing happened, 1137 00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,120 Speaker 1: I just don't know what the hell I'm doing coming 1138 00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:19,920 Speaker 1: clean about something I didn't do. Sometimes the truth is 1139 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:28,600 Speaker 1: too truthy, No, sometimes yes, that put that on a 1140 00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:32,960 Speaker 1: pillow admit that in there sell it. On ency Let's 1141 00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:34,760 Speaker 1: do a lot of Palus of four Day passes. Next 1142 00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:37,320 Speaker 1: up to Billie Eilis and the Entertainment reporting show Bis 1143 00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:39,920 Speaker 1: Shelley on The Fred Show four Day a lot of 1144 00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:42,520 Speaker 1: Palus passages. You can buy them a lava Pellus dot com. 1145 00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,880 Speaker 1: They're on sale now or calling number twenty five. They 1146 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:48,120 Speaker 1: are free for you. On The Fred Show five nine 1147 00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:52,480 Speaker 1: One Kiss Up. The latest entertainment news is on The 1148 00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:55,440 Speaker 1: Fred Show. Over the weekend, the former soccer star and 1149 00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,920 Speaker 1: X two Shakira Gerard Pique sat down for an interview 1150 00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,880 Speaker 1: and talked about how he's been handling all the criticism 1151 01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:05,240 Speaker 1: he's been getting since they split last year. So following 1152 01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:08,520 Speaker 1: the news of his affair with model Klara, fans were 1153 01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:11,960 Speaker 1: quick to slam him on social He said, for example, 1154 01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:15,120 Speaker 1: my ex as Latin American, you can't imagine the comments 1155 01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:19,240 Speaker 1: I've gotten on social media from her fans. Millions of barbarities, 1156 01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:22,960 Speaker 1: which means a bunch of barbarians. These people have no 1157 01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:25,280 Speaker 1: lives and why should I care. I'll never meet them. 1158 01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:28,360 Speaker 1: They're robots, you know. After his interview, lots of people, 1159 01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:32,520 Speaker 1: including Shakira herself called him out for xenophobia after he 1160 01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:36,760 Speaker 1: implied that Latin Americans are barbarians. For criticizing him, Shakira 1161 01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:39,760 Speaker 1: tweeted in response, writing proud to be Latin American, along 1162 01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:45,240 Speaker 1: with dozens of flag emojis. I listened to the whole interview. 1163 01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:47,840 Speaker 1: It was a lot of him basically being like, feel 1164 01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,120 Speaker 1: sorry for me because I'm getting hate because I cheated, 1165 01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:54,480 Speaker 1: and it's hard for me to feel sorry for him, right, yeah, 1166 01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:58,640 Speaker 1: and moving on. Louis Capaldi has been pretty open about 1167 01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:01,439 Speaker 1: his struggles with tourettes and drum and said it's gotten 1168 01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:03,560 Speaker 1: so bad lately that it might force him to quit 1169 01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:06,360 Speaker 1: music altogether, which makes me really sad. He said, my 1170 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:08,600 Speaker 1: tick is getting quite bad on stage now. I'm trying 1171 01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,280 Speaker 1: to get on top of that. If I can't, I'm eft. 1172 01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:15,440 Speaker 1: Lewis is Or first shared that he was diagnosed with 1173 01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,960 Speaker 1: Tourett's last year, which is a disorder involving repetitive movements 1174 01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,760 Speaker 1: or unwanted sounds or ticks that can be that cannot 1175 01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:23,960 Speaker 1: be easily controlled. If you missed it, there was a 1176 01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:26,600 Speaker 1: really heartwarming moment from one of his shows that went 1177 01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:30,160 Speaker 1: viral earlier this year of him experiencing some symptoms while 1178 01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:32,360 Speaker 1: singing his number one hits Someone You Loved, and the 1179 01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:35,320 Speaker 1: audience actually sang the song and finished it for him. 1180 01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:37,560 Speaker 1: It was a really sweet moment, said, it's only making 1181 01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:39,480 Speaker 1: music that does this to me. Otherwise I can be 1182 01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:41,280 Speaker 1: fine for months at a time. It's kind of a 1183 01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:43,440 Speaker 1: weird situation. Right now, the tradeoff is worth it. But 1184 01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:46,000 Speaker 1: if it gets to a point where I'm doing irreparable 1185 01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:49,000 Speaker 1: damage to myself, I have to quit. So I know 1186 01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:52,560 Speaker 1: that makes me really sad. Billie Eilish also struggles with Tourette, 1187 01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:55,520 Speaker 1: so maybe they hopefully they're like a support system for 1188 01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,479 Speaker 1: each other. Hers actually goes away when she's performing, I believe, 1189 01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:02,280 Speaker 1: so it's interesting how it affects them differently. And lastly, 1190 01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:05,000 Speaker 1: Offset says he's taken a cue from Taylor Swift because 1191 01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,680 Speaker 1: he's beefing with his own label over ownership of his 1192 01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:10,480 Speaker 1: solo recordings. The Amigos rapper is in the middle of 1193 01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 1: a really bitter legal war with Quality Control Music, and 1194 01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:16,800 Speaker 1: according to new legal documents, the saga all began back 1195 01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:20,280 Speaker 1: in twenty thirteen when Offset agreed to produce solo records 1196 01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:22,920 Speaker 1: for the label. Things were all good till twenty fifteen, 1197 01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:25,919 Speaker 1: when he says they entered and asked him to sign 1198 01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:28,360 Speaker 1: a different deal. They ended up with one hundred percent 1199 01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:31,280 Speaker 1: control of his singles, but then in twenty eighteen there 1200 01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:34,320 Speaker 1: was another contract. So basically, I'll save you the confusing stuff. 1201 01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:36,960 Speaker 1: They're each holding on to different contracts. His is the 1202 01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,280 Speaker 1: most recent that says he owns his songs and now 1203 01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:42,120 Speaker 1: he's calling himself the rap Taylor Swift and is considering 1204 01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:45,880 Speaker 1: rerecording everything like she did, which makes me just laugh. 1205 01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:49,040 Speaker 1: That's really funny. You go offset, hopefully Taylor will help you, 1206 01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:51,760 Speaker 1: and we're to check out online today. Black China has 1207 01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:54,520 Speaker 1: advice if you need to leave only fans. It's on 1208 01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:56,760 Speaker 1: Fred Show Radio doc. Okay, I'm gonna go see what 1209 01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:59,680 Speaker 1: that is. Yeah, I got a good offer. I'm just 1210 01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm making too much money hard to get off. I 1211 01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:04,160 Speaker 1: feel like I can hardly count all the money I'm 1212 01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:07,840 Speaker 1: making on only fans. It's unbelievable. Who knew that, gray 1213 01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:10,520 Speaker 1: haired salt and Pepper and dad buds, we're so in 1214 01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:17,400 Speaker 1: on only fans. Oh yeah, it's wild. Hey Aaron, yea, sir, Aaron, 1215 01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:20,280 Speaker 1: I mean I'm so popular and only fans that it's 1216 01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:22,840 Speaker 1: hard for me to even focus on my day job here, 1217 01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:25,120 Speaker 1: you know what. And I'm just so exhausted from being 1218 01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:28,760 Speaker 1: up all night, you know, fulfilling all these requests for people. 1219 01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:31,640 Speaker 1: But I just I come in here so tired, and man, 1220 01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:34,600 Speaker 1: are you know what it's like, Aaron, don't you? Oh? 1221 01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:37,320 Speaker 1: I mean I can only imagine. Yeah, yeah, well I 1222 01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:38,920 Speaker 1: want you to go a lot of palooza. And by 1223 01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:41,040 Speaker 1: the way, thank you for supporting my only fans as well, Aaron. 1224 01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:42,720 Speaker 1: I appreciate that I saw you last night. Thank you 1225 01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:45,520 Speaker 1: for the coin. What do you get coins on there 1226 01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 1: or something? What do you I don't even know what 1227 01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:48,560 Speaker 1: I get. I don't know what I'm getting, only fans 1228 01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:53,560 Speaker 1: money like that. I don't cash money? Yeah yeah, cash 1229 01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:55,720 Speaker 1: money millionaires taken over for the nine nine of the 1230 01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,440 Speaker 1: two thousand times? Are you giving these people? Tell us 1231 01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,760 Speaker 1: the best kind? If I wanted to subscribe, I would 1232 01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:03,120 Speaker 1: like a preview, like what do you what do you? 1233 01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:06,600 Speaker 1: What are you offering? Well, based on some of you know, 1234 01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:08,720 Speaker 1: some of the hype you've done for me over the years, 1235 01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:11,520 Speaker 1: you might like it. Okay, yeah, yeah, I mean, if 1236 01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:13,840 Speaker 1: you're gonna do only fans, then then give give the 1237 01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:17,280 Speaker 1: fans what they want, which is everything. Okay, I give 1238 01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:20,200 Speaker 1: them everything tonight. I want all of you tonight, and 1239 01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:22,480 Speaker 1: that's when I give them. That's what people say to me, 1240 01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:26,120 Speaker 1: and that's what I do my only fans tonight. Yeah okay. Um, 1241 01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:28,720 Speaker 1: she's like, this is you guys are dumb. This is dumb. 1242 01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:31,240 Speaker 1: A lot of palus and four day passages. That's what 1243 01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:32,960 Speaker 1: you get for having to put up with us right now, 1244 01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:38,600 Speaker 1: you win it. Congratulations, Thank you so much. I'm so excited. Yes, 1245 01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:40,600 Speaker 1: you're going, and thank you for listening. Everyone else, come 1246 01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:42,080 Speaker 1: by their tickets at lot of palus at dot com. 1247 01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:46,080 Speaker 1: Hang out one second, have a great day. Thank you too, 1248 01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:48,680 Speaker 1: say right there. Appreciate you all. This morning. I heard 1249 01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,480 Speaker 1: radio app. You can listen to us live each morning 1250 01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,040 Speaker 1: and can catch up with us on the iHeart Radio 1251 01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:54,400 Speaker 1: app as well. Search for the French show The Tangent 1252 01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:57,800 Speaker 1: Are Off Fair Uncensored podcast. New episode of that is 1253 01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:00,600 Speaker 1: up right now. We recorded that ye today so we'll 1254 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:04,360 Speaker 1: check it out. Um showby Shelley five nine, one three five. 1255 01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:06,200 Speaker 1: You want to take on our pop culture expert in 1256 01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:13,560 Speaker 1: five questions for four hundred bucks, call now, Oh my mom, 1257 01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:23,360 Speaker 1: My mom you're gonna die. You're gonna die. On the sales, 1258 01:05:25,360 --> 01:05:31,680 Speaker 1: Little doctor was wild. You heard that? Only fans? What 1259 01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:37,720 Speaker 1: is this? Oh doctor? That was wild? No, well she 1260 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:41,560 Speaker 1: was holding the camera right, Wow, she did that? You 1261 01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:45,800 Speaker 1: did that night? Did that? She was hold the cameramber 1262 01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:47,560 Speaker 1: my only fans last night. So but but it was 1263 01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:50,080 Speaker 1: to worry about Hobby. She was just holding the camera right, 1264 01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:55,080 Speaker 1: there's no issue. It's the friend show one kiss at him? 1265 01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:58,560 Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes? The battle showbis. Shelley 1266 01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:06,560 Speaker 1: in the showbiz showed me how you doing show biz? 1267 01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:08,360 Speaker 1: I'm good all I heard of that audio in my 1268 01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:10,160 Speaker 1: headphones and I'm like, what is happening? I thought my 1269 01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:19,080 Speaker 1: phone was like I'm some videos watching fans last life. 1270 01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:22,000 Speaker 1: That must have been it. Thank you for your support. 1271 01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:25,600 Speaker 1: You're welcome. Appreciate that. I'm handing a cole. Good morning, 1272 01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:31,360 Speaker 1: Good morning, Cale, tell us all about you please sure. 1273 01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:35,720 Speaker 1: My name is Nicole. I am a quality project mutt 1274 01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:38,640 Speaker 1: manager in the healthcare field. So on my way to 1275 01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:40,840 Speaker 1: work right now. Well, thank you so much for listening. 1276 01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:43,720 Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Four hundred bucks a surprise Shelley's record 1277 01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:47,640 Speaker 1: seven hundred and forty six on a six game win streak. 1278 01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:50,400 Speaker 1: Some ties in there and stuff, but um six game 1279 01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:52,320 Speaker 1: win streak. Let's see if you can win the money. 1280 01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:55,760 Speaker 1: Good luck guys, all right, Nicole, good luck, good luck 1281 01:06:57,160 --> 01:07:00,120 Speaker 1: to respective you would get the hell out? We go 1282 01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:04,120 Speaker 1: after the boof poof? Should go? Okay? Answer within question 1283 01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:07,960 Speaker 1: number one? Who won the NCAA Men's Championship last night? 1284 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:16,000 Speaker 1: It was yuk yukon the trailer for Secret Invasion dropped? 1285 01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:22,120 Speaker 1: Is that a Marvel or a DC movie? A couple 1286 01:07:22,280 --> 01:07:24,560 Speaker 1: is going viral for grinding at a concert during this 1287 01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:27,480 Speaker 1: song ready for It? Whose song had concert? Was it 1288 01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:35,160 Speaker 1: all three too? I don't know? You know? Okay? Two 1289 01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:37,760 Speaker 1: questions left. Name one of the two country singers who 1290 01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:45,240 Speaker 1: hosted the CMT Music Awards h not one of them. 1291 01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:48,120 Speaker 1: Drake and shock Fans were the new song that features 1292 01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:52,000 Speaker 1: an audio clip of this reality star named Kim Kardashian 1293 01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:59,520 Speaker 1: talking to her mom. Name her Chris. I just gave 1294 01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:05,640 Speaker 1: it to you, Kim Kim. Two? Wow, miraculous. I don't 1295 01:08:05,680 --> 01:08:08,760 Speaker 1: know how you did that. That was wild? Yeah, that 1296 01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 1: was crazy. Wow. Let's bring Shelley back. She got a two? Okay, 1297 01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:16,599 Speaker 1: she got a two. Here we go. Question number one 1298 01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:22,680 Speaker 1: who won the NCUBA A Men's Championship last night. That 1299 01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:27,000 Speaker 1: is correct. The trailer for Secret Invasion dropped? Is that 1300 01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:31,040 Speaker 1: a Marvel or a DC movie? Oh? Marvel? That's right. 1301 01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:33,880 Speaker 1: A couple's going viral for grinding at a concert during 1302 01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:36,320 Speaker 1: the song ready for It? Whose song a concert? Was it? 1303 01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:39,439 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift? Yeah? Name one of the two country singers 1304 01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:44,640 Speaker 1: who hosted the CMT Music Awards m Carrie Underwood, No 1305 01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:51,519 Speaker 1: Kelsey Ballerini or Kat Brown. Finally, Drake shocked fans with 1306 01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:53,640 Speaker 1: a new song that features an audio clip of this 1307 01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:58,599 Speaker 1: reality star talking to her mom namer Kim Kardashian's four 1308 01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:02,400 Speaker 1: You Win, Nicole, I'm sorry, You're gonna have to say, 1309 01:09:02,560 --> 01:09:04,559 Speaker 1: my name is Nicole. I got showed up on the Showdown. 1310 01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:07,760 Speaker 1: You know the rest My name is Nicole and I 1311 01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:14,360 Speaker 1: got showed up on the Showdown, and I have to 1312 01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:19,680 Speaker 1: do it. Can you do it? You can hang with 1313 01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:37,640 Speaker 1: our car real? Yeah. Before things went awry, it was 1314 01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:39,840 Speaker 1: heading in a direction I didn't want it to go in, 1315 01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:41,880 Speaker 1: you know, so we shut it down right away. We 1316 01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:45,000 Speaker 1: shut it down right away. Um, Nicole, have an amazing day. 1317 01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:46,960 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening. Have a good day at work. Okay, 1318 01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:53,120 Speaker 1: thank you you guys to stay right. Damn Shelley, if 1319 01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:55,080 Speaker 1: you found out no no, no, no, no no no, 1320 01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:57,200 Speaker 1: not if you found that, not if you found out 1321 01:09:57,680 --> 01:09:59,880 Speaker 1: If Sholby is Mike, you know he travels a lot. 1322 01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,320 Speaker 1: He's in the military. Uh huh um, he's a seaman. 1323 01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:06,920 Speaker 1: And if if he got himself in a situation where 1324 01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:10,720 Speaker 1: one of his female colleagues fell asleep and his I 1325 01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:15,920 Speaker 1: don't know, ship bunk bunk is sweet. I don't know. 1326 01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:20,080 Speaker 1: He's a high level guy. Um. But if nothing happened whatsoever, 1327 01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:23,400 Speaker 1: and there was nothing like like really no impropriety, It 1328 01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:26,160 Speaker 1: was just like ah, Shenanigans or whatever we got, we 1329 01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:28,080 Speaker 1: had too much to drink and we fell asleep. Would 1330 01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:33,960 Speaker 1: you would you really want to know? Absolutely crazy? Yeah, why, 1331 01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:37,840 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a fight. But what was she doing? 1332 01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:41,040 Speaker 1: I trust yeah, Now, I will tell you this. I've 1333 01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:42,840 Speaker 1: dated access or if they told me that, then that's 1334 01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:46,120 Speaker 1: a problem because I don't trust them. Right the context 1335 01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:48,320 Speaker 1: of the parson, you know what I mean? You trust him, 1336 01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:50,320 Speaker 1: but you trust him in the future to do like 1337 01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:53,120 Speaker 1: for him to convincing her out of her own answer. 1338 01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:00,760 Speaker 1: What we do is cold in the future, if something 1339 01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:03,080 Speaker 1: like that were to happen again or whatever. Yeah, I'd 1340 01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:05,920 Speaker 1: like to think, so, yeah happened. If it's a repeated problem, 1341 01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:09,439 Speaker 1: then she's in my bunk again on top of me. 1342 01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:16,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't know why I told 1343 01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:19,840 Speaker 1: her not to, but nothing happened the waves. Yeah, that's 1344 01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:25,120 Speaker 1: exactly right. It was high seas. Yeah, all right, it's 1345 01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:27,679 Speaker 1: getting worse. This is a problem is if you come clean, 1346 01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:30,080 Speaker 1: then it becomes this, Well, what happened and what was 1347 01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:31,920 Speaker 1: she wearing? And what was the thing? And now often 1348 01:11:31,960 --> 01:11:33,680 Speaker 1: does it happen? And what other things have you not 1349 01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:37,599 Speaker 1: told me about? And that's right next Sarago, when refuels 1350 01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:39,479 Speaker 1: like maybe he's a spy, I'm gonna be like, ah, 1351 01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:44,320 Speaker 1: you're creating situations that are happening, all right, all right, Shelly, 1352 01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:47,240 Speaker 1: Well that's what a healthy relationship sounds like. Right there, everyone, 1353 01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:50,559 Speaker 1: there's an example. What's coming up on your show later 1354 01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:53,360 Speaker 1: on today ten to noon? Uh? Did you know? And 1355 01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:55,479 Speaker 1: I feel this is important information. And given all the 1356 01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:58,360 Speaker 1: plants in the office of that they scream if you 1357 01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:01,200 Speaker 1: cut them, yes I did. It makes you so sad 1358 01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:04,200 Speaker 1: and I think about it all the time. I'm yes, 1359 01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:06,559 Speaker 1: plan to have like feelings, and they can feel when 1360 01:12:06,560 --> 01:12:08,439 Speaker 1: you cut them. I'm gonna play the noise for you 1361 01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:13,840 Speaker 1: when they scream I'm a pig. Yes, yes, yes, that's 1362 01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:16,280 Speaker 1: why I was watering them. I couldn't unread this. I 1363 01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:18,519 Speaker 1: know this is very sad. Screen. Is that why you 1364 01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:20,439 Speaker 1: took him all home? Because you didn't want anyone else 1365 01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:23,799 Speaker 1: to hurt? I want to sound like when the overwater 1366 01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm like you did. I wandered him once, sounds like, 1367 01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:31,960 Speaker 1: and then I found out being a whole guy. It's 1368 01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:43,000 Speaker 1: only you might hear something of that. God, I hate that. 1369 01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:48,040 Speaker 1: Please don't ever do that again. Okay, I've changed them 1370 01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:52,080 Speaker 1: underwater guys. That was me. I'm an amazing sound effect artist, 1371 01:12:53,640 --> 01:12:55,559 Speaker 1: like that guy, you know, the guy I'm talking about. 1372 01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:58,080 Speaker 1: They can do all them everybody get Yeah, they can 1373 01:12:58,120 --> 01:13:00,280 Speaker 1: do all this stuff with his yeah, all the all 1374 01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:05,400 Speaker 1: the voices with his mouth. You know cool? Oh my god, alright, 1375 01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:14,400 Speaker 1: I gotta go. No, you're fine, Shelly, i'na mention. So 1376 01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:20,519 Speaker 1: what ticket? I was like, you are you? Like? Chillian 1377 01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:22,920 Speaker 1: with the perfect nunciation, was like, I got to gott 1378 01:13:29,040 --> 01:13:32,960 Speaker 1: that is a drowning plant. Everybody knew it. Somebody was 1379 01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:43,800 Speaker 1: drowned out. It was a drowning plant. Everybody knew what 1380 01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:49,639 Speaker 1: that was. Because I'm a sound effect expert. You guys, 1381 01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:56,280 Speaker 1: I'm unlocking new talents that you didn't even know. Okay, 1382 01:13:56,640 --> 01:13:58,880 Speaker 1: good news, happy story. Shout out to United Auto win 1383 01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:01,680 Speaker 1: she'er in seven seven, three to five thousand. They got 1384 01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,680 Speaker 1: you covered, Chicago. Tell them something good. Caleb oh, a 1385 01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:08,559 Speaker 1: Florida cross country team known as Boss Cross, has been 1386 01:14:08,640 --> 01:14:11,599 Speaker 1: doing something really amazing to help shelter dogs find homes 1387 01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:13,960 Speaker 1: because for the last six years, the Florida High School 1388 01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:17,080 Speaker 1: runners have partnered with the Humane Society of Tampa to 1389 01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:20,439 Speaker 1: help promote animal adoption. The idea came about in twenty 1390 01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:23,760 Speaker 1: seventeen after a Boss Cross team mom saw an ad 1391 01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:26,720 Speaker 1: to volunteer with the Humane Society and shared it with 1392 01:14:27,040 --> 01:14:29,840 Speaker 1: the team and their coaching staff. Coaches then decided to 1393 01:14:29,920 --> 01:14:32,200 Speaker 1: get the boys involved. Now, each summer and during some 1394 01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:34,960 Speaker 1: fall and winter breaks, the Boss Cross boys will run 1395 01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:39,519 Speaker 1: daily with the adoptable pups and Glenn Hatchell, manager of 1396 01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:42,680 Speaker 1: the Humane Society Tampa Bay, so the dogs always come 1397 01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:45,200 Speaker 1: back relaxed after running with the team. Some of the 1398 01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:47,679 Speaker 1: dogs have made such an impression that they were actually 1399 01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:50,360 Speaker 1: adopted by some of the boys families on the team. 1400 01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:53,200 Speaker 1: And then now when they're out running, other people see 1401 01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:56,080 Speaker 1: these que dogs and they're getting adopted like left and right, 1402 01:14:56,560 --> 01:14:58,320 Speaker 1: just because of this great idea. So I love it 1403 01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:02,840 Speaker 1: so much. I love that too. Yeah, So a couple 1404 01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:05,720 Speaker 1: fell in love messaging on next door. Do you guys 1405 01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:10,679 Speaker 1: used this thing next door? Yeah? People in the burbs 1406 01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:12,480 Speaker 1: used it. I guess you can talk about your neighborhood 1407 01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:14,840 Speaker 1: and stuff. After forty years of living in the same 1408 01:15:14,880 --> 01:15:18,120 Speaker 1: neighborhood they'd never met, they started messaging on next door, 1409 01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:22,040 Speaker 1: and they fell in love. Chris logged into the hyperlocal 1410 01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:25,360 Speaker 1: online bulletin board to look for bargains when he spotted Michelle. 1411 01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:29,800 Speaker 1: The forty four year old loved her pick, so he 1412 01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:33,360 Speaker 1: sent a wave notification and then she popped one back. 1413 01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:35,559 Speaker 1: After two weeks of chatting, they went on a date 1414 01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:37,360 Speaker 1: and realized while they had never met, they had so 1415 01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:39,519 Speaker 1: much in common. They hung out at the same park 1416 01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:42,599 Speaker 1: as the I guess kids in the neighborhood. They had children, 1417 01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:45,400 Speaker 1: the same schools. Oh as children, They hung on the 1418 01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:48,240 Speaker 1: same park. They kids went to the same schools, They 1419 01:15:48,320 --> 01:15:50,640 Speaker 1: went to the same bars. They'd never lived more than 1420 01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:53,240 Speaker 1: a few minutes walk from each other. Seven months after 1421 01:15:53,320 --> 01:15:56,080 Speaker 1: their first message, the pair of quite an item. Spending 1422 01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:58,880 Speaker 1: half of their time together, they found that they share 1423 01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:02,400 Speaker 1: so many things bees, all kinds of stuff. So great. 1424 01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:05,160 Speaker 1: Here's another website that's not a dating website that's going 1425 01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:08,600 Speaker 1: to become a dating website, just like LinkedIn. LinkedIn not 1426 01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:13,200 Speaker 1: a dating website. Fine, people use it like that? Do 1427 01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:17,479 Speaker 1: they do? Well? Sometimes that's what you can find. You know. 1428 01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:19,599 Speaker 1: Sometimes you type in people's name and their LinkedIn comes 1429 01:16:19,680 --> 01:16:23,080 Speaker 1: up first. Really and you're gonna send like an h 1430 01:16:23,160 --> 01:16:25,040 Speaker 1: away meeting in your building? Right? You know what I'm saying. 1431 01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,000 Speaker 1: The average age in my building is nine hundred. Hell, 1432 01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:31,640 Speaker 1: that's a good name with mine. Oh you know, you 1433 01:16:31,840 --> 01:16:35,840 Speaker 1: know I'm on that will real quick. Yeah, well on 1434 01:16:36,439 --> 01:16:39,439 Speaker 1: one of my Pamela Anderson over here when you didn't 1435 01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:42,680 Speaker 1: hear my skills, So maybe Waiting by the phone is 1436 01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:50,160 Speaker 1: now Live from the Duncan Studios, Chicago runs I'm Duncan 1437 01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:56,960 Speaker 1: and Juice Chicago Kiss FM, an i Heeart radio station. 1438 01:16:57,160 --> 01:17:00,439 Speaker 1: It's a French morning everyone, Tuesday, April forth The Fred 1439 01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:04,160 Speaker 1: shows Kay Once Here High Jason Brown's here Can Keeping 1440 01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:07,400 Speaker 1: the morning Paulina Rufio, Showbiz Shelley all here as well, 1441 01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:11,000 Speaker 1: A thousand bucks paying some bills you win in three 1442 01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:13,360 Speaker 1: minutes after Lady Gaga, I have your phone right there 1443 01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:15,200 Speaker 1: to text and win. Waiting by the phone from the 1444 01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:18,040 Speaker 1: Hall of Fame. After that, why did someone get ghosted? 1445 01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:23,960 Speaker 1: Will investigate Blackhawks tickets, gave a Max Jakes and the 1446 01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:26,439 Speaker 1: Entertainment Report all coming up in the next twenty minutes. 1447 01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:29,000 Speaker 1: What you're working on, Kalen? So, I have bad news 1448 01:17:29,120 --> 01:17:31,839 Speaker 1: for the dude that tried to propose at Dodger Stadium, 1449 01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:34,000 Speaker 1: good news for Disney adults and Fred. Do you know 1450 01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:38,840 Speaker 1: what a revenge dress is? I can guess. Okay, I'm 1451 01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:41,760 Speaker 1: gonna teach you the art of the revenge dress. Okay, good, 1452 01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:45,160 Speaker 1: that's exciting. Once again, I'll stick around. Appreciate that. That's 1453 01:17:45,200 --> 01:17:46,960 Speaker 1: the whole challenge each towers to see. If I don't 1454 01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:49,240 Speaker 1: get up and leave, I'm trying and just go home, 1455 01:17:49,439 --> 01:17:51,960 Speaker 1: go back to bed. Fred show is a commercial? Free 1456 01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:58,160 Speaker 1: Gaga money? Why were you left waiting by the phone? Selena, 1457 01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:01,160 Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome, good morning, Hey, how's it going? We 1458 01:18:01,240 --> 01:18:03,160 Speaker 1: are great, glad you're here. We call this waiting by 1459 01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:05,840 Speaker 1: the phone. Of course, Why don't you tell us what's 1460 01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:08,439 Speaker 1: going on with this dude, Eddie. We want to know 1461 01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:10,560 Speaker 1: how you met, about any dates that you've been on, 1462 01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:14,200 Speaker 1: and what's going on right now. Okay, so we met 1463 01:18:14,320 --> 01:18:17,200 Speaker 1: on Hinge, that app you guys know, Oh yeah, I'm 1464 01:18:17,200 --> 01:18:19,040 Speaker 1: a pretty good I don't know if I'm I don't 1465 01:18:19,120 --> 01:18:20,839 Speaker 1: pay any money, but I guess I'm a good customer. 1466 01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:24,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm a frequent frequent user. I don't 1467 01:18:24,320 --> 01:18:26,679 Speaker 1: know anyway, So, okay, so you met on this app Hinge, 1468 01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:29,799 Speaker 1: and then we went out twice, so once for drinks 1469 01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:32,720 Speaker 1: and then we went out to dinner and drinks, and 1470 01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:35,120 Speaker 1: so it was like nor like it was good, and 1471 01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:37,560 Speaker 1: I thought, you know, after two dates, we're going to 1472 01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:40,040 Speaker 1: be on roll. But then after our second date, he 1473 01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:42,000 Speaker 1: went m IA. So I don't know where the hell 1474 01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:45,320 Speaker 1: he went. I don't know what's up, and it didn't 1475 01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:47,240 Speaker 1: seem like it was gonna I don't know, Like I 1476 01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:49,360 Speaker 1: don't know why I got ghosted at all, Like that 1477 01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:52,000 Speaker 1: doesn't happen to me. And also like this is going 1478 01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:54,400 Speaker 1: on okay, I mean a two date ghost too. I 1479 01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:56,200 Speaker 1: mean we hear about a lot of one date ghosts. 1480 01:18:56,280 --> 01:18:58,760 Speaker 1: But usually if you get a second date. I mean, 1481 01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:01,080 Speaker 1: obviously the first date went well enough to for the 1482 01:19:01,200 --> 01:19:03,160 Speaker 1: second date, so that's a little bit rare. But let's 1483 01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:06,759 Speaker 1: call this dude Eddie. We'll ask him some questions. Hopefully 1484 01:19:06,760 --> 01:19:07,880 Speaker 1: we can get him on the phone. You'll be on 1485 01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:09,560 Speaker 1: the phone too, and we'll see what's going on, and 1486 01:19:09,640 --> 01:19:12,240 Speaker 1: maybe this is something we can straighten out and set 1487 01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:15,559 Speaker 1: you guys up on another date and pay for that. Okay, okay, okay, 1488 01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:17,400 Speaker 1: I gotta play one song. Can you hang on for 1489 01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:20,479 Speaker 1: a second. Yeah, sure, thank you. Let's see what happens next, 1490 01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:23,479 Speaker 1: Part two of waiting by the phone after Rihanna back 1491 01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:25,920 Speaker 1: in two minutes. The Fred Show is commercial free right now? 1492 01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:29,000 Speaker 1: Glad you're here? One oh three five Rihanna on The 1493 01:19:29,040 --> 01:19:31,439 Speaker 1: Fresh Show one oh three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number 1494 01:19:31,439 --> 01:19:36,000 Speaker 1: one hit music station. Blackhawks tickets in less than ten minutes. Selena, Yeah, 1495 01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:38,599 Speaker 1: all right, let's call this dude Eddie. You met on Hinge, 1496 01:19:38,680 --> 01:19:41,320 Speaker 1: you went on two dates, and after the second date 1497 01:19:41,360 --> 01:19:44,719 Speaker 1: he ghosted you. It's bothering you, as it would most people, 1498 01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:46,320 Speaker 1: and you kind of want an explanation. You want to 1499 01:19:46,360 --> 01:19:48,920 Speaker 1: know what's going on. Yeah, yeah, I mean I don't. 1500 01:19:49,560 --> 01:19:53,519 Speaker 1: I have no idea what it was because everything went 1501 01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:57,200 Speaker 1: really well and I don't know, like I just thought, okay, yeah, 1502 01:19:57,240 --> 01:19:59,560 Speaker 1: we're third date definitely, you know, it just felt like 1503 01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:01,479 Speaker 1: it was. Yeah, it's bugging you, as it would a 1504 01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:03,080 Speaker 1: lot of people. So let's call him right now, see 1505 01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:10,439 Speaker 1: if we can figure this out. Good luck. Okay, Hi, 1506 01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:14,760 Speaker 1: is this Eddie? Yes? Is this Eddie Fred from the 1507 01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:16,720 Speaker 1: Fred Show? The whole crew is here. I have to 1508 01:20:16,800 --> 01:20:18,400 Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now, 1509 01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:20,840 Speaker 1: so I need your consent to continue with the calls 1510 01:20:20,840 --> 01:20:25,360 Speaker 1: that Okay if we talk for a second. Uh yeah, sure, 1511 01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:28,960 Speaker 1: what's about? Thank you very much. We're calling on behalf 1512 01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:31,479 Speaker 1: of a woman named Selina. I guess you met her 1513 01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:33,080 Speaker 1: on hand and you went on two dates. Do you 1514 01:20:33,200 --> 01:20:38,280 Speaker 1: remember this woman? Uh? Yes, they do. Okay, Well, Um, 1515 01:20:38,680 --> 01:20:40,760 Speaker 1: she told us that she thought that you guys were 1516 01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:43,599 Speaker 1: getting along, well, I thought that things were really moving 1517 01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:45,680 Speaker 1: in the right direction, and says that she hasn't been 1518 01:20:45,720 --> 01:20:48,320 Speaker 1: able to get ahold of you that you've been ghosting her. Um, 1519 01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:50,439 Speaker 1: can you explain maybe why that is and we can 1520 01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:55,040 Speaker 1: tell her and go from there. Um yeah, I just 1521 01:20:56,160 --> 01:20:59,680 Speaker 1: you know me. Can we get any more. You know what, 1522 01:21:00,040 --> 01:21:03,240 Speaker 1: why isn't she for you? I just like I don't, 1523 01:21:03,400 --> 01:21:08,160 Speaker 1: I don't think. Okay again, I mean, so shall we 1524 01:21:08,200 --> 01:21:10,760 Speaker 1: tell her that? And she's gonna go why So I'm 1525 01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:16,360 Speaker 1: gonna ask you again what's the deal? Um? All right? Um? 1526 01:21:16,720 --> 01:21:22,000 Speaker 1: So okay, Like both times we went out, she wore 1527 01:21:22,880 --> 01:21:27,720 Speaker 1: like a really really really low cut top and like 1528 01:21:28,400 --> 01:21:32,840 Speaker 1: everyone was staring at her the entire night. Kay, And 1529 01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:36,200 Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm not a dude who likes to share. Um, 1530 01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:38,120 Speaker 1: when I go out with you, I'm wanna go out 1531 01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:39,400 Speaker 1: with you. I don't want to go out with you. 1532 01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:42,120 Speaker 1: And like every other guy and like some gout in 1533 01:21:42,240 --> 01:21:45,519 Speaker 1: the in the in the bars, I have a lot 1534 01:21:45,560 --> 01:21:47,720 Speaker 1: of a lot of comments. I'm sure everyone does. But um, 1535 01:21:48,120 --> 01:21:50,840 Speaker 1: you guys aren't even together. I mean it's like, I mean, 1536 01:21:50,920 --> 01:21:53,680 Speaker 1: she's never your property, but you're not even You're not 1537 01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:55,880 Speaker 1: even in a committed relationship here. I mean, I don't 1538 01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:57,880 Speaker 1: know why you would have any input over over what 1539 01:21:58,040 --> 01:22:00,600 Speaker 1: she's wearing or what you'r you know, what sort of 1540 01:22:00,720 --> 01:22:05,519 Speaker 1: your comfort level is because you're not together even. But 1541 01:22:06,280 --> 01:22:08,960 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I don't. I mean, yeah, we're not 1542 01:22:09,240 --> 01:22:11,599 Speaker 1: in a relationships. So I don't have to keep dating her, 1543 01:22:11,640 --> 01:22:13,200 Speaker 1: Like I don't want to date someone who just like 1544 01:22:14,680 --> 01:22:18,080 Speaker 1: to everyone. Okay, can I con I talk now? This 1545 01:22:18,280 --> 01:22:22,000 Speaker 1: is a hello? Yeah, can I talk now? Yeah? Eddie, 1546 01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:24,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry selina us here and I'm sure she has 1547 01:22:24,360 --> 01:22:29,120 Speaker 1: something to say about your your hot take here? What wild? Well? 1548 01:22:29,160 --> 01:22:31,320 Speaker 1: I just I mean, like, are you kidding me? Like, 1549 01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:34,439 Speaker 1: I can't war whatever to hell I want? I don't 1550 01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:38,160 Speaker 1: understand what the hell is it? Like, I'm not I'm 1551 01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:40,560 Speaker 1: not saying you can't wear whatever you want, but I 1552 01:22:40,640 --> 01:22:44,240 Speaker 1: don't want other dudes like staring at my girls. Areolas 1553 01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:49,800 Speaker 1: seriously whatever? Like I mean, I like, I'm I date 1554 01:22:49,920 --> 01:22:53,280 Speaker 1: so it looked good? So what the hell like? Yeah, 1555 01:22:53,320 --> 01:22:54,960 Speaker 1: but you didn't look good. I mean you just you 1556 01:22:55,040 --> 01:22:57,479 Speaker 1: were exposing yourself to everyone. Wait, she looked good enough 1557 01:22:57,479 --> 01:22:59,400 Speaker 1: for you to go on two dates? I mean, so 1558 01:22:59,479 --> 01:23:02,880 Speaker 1: what's these you here? You're not making any sense? Like 1559 01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:04,680 Speaker 1: that's what I thought after the first day of the 1560 01:23:04,680 --> 01:23:06,240 Speaker 1: first day, I was like, all right, son stressed me, 1561 01:23:06,320 --> 01:23:09,000 Speaker 1: Like maybe she got like a little carried away, but 1562 01:23:09,080 --> 01:23:11,880 Speaker 1: you do it twice, like that's apparently your thing, and 1563 01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:14,920 Speaker 1: like it's obviously going to attract attention to yourself in 1564 01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:17,719 Speaker 1: that way. And I just feel, I mean, are you insecure? 1565 01:23:18,000 --> 01:23:20,160 Speaker 1: Like you can't be with a woman who dresses the 1566 01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:22,200 Speaker 1: way she wants to, in a way that makes her 1567 01:23:22,240 --> 01:23:24,240 Speaker 1: feel good, in a way that she believes makes her 1568 01:23:24,320 --> 01:23:28,519 Speaker 1: look good. And I assume in some way, you know, 1569 01:23:28,600 --> 01:23:31,280 Speaker 1: in some aspect for your benefit, she was trying to 1570 01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:33,720 Speaker 1: impress you. I mean, it'd be one thing for you 1571 01:23:33,840 --> 01:23:36,880 Speaker 1: to say, hey, you know what, she dresses a little 1572 01:23:36,920 --> 01:23:39,640 Speaker 1: flashy for me. You know, I'm a little more conservative. 1573 01:23:39,680 --> 01:23:41,840 Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable, but this whole I don't share a thing. 1574 01:23:42,280 --> 01:23:44,880 Speaker 1: What is that? Like? Are men not allowed to look 1575 01:23:44,920 --> 01:23:48,200 Speaker 1: at her? It's not your like looking at at you? 1576 01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:50,240 Speaker 1: For what reason? Like I say that she's the one 1577 01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:54,640 Speaker 1: who's insecure if she's dressing that way. Okay, I'm going 1578 01:23:54,720 --> 01:23:56,840 Speaker 1: on a date. I'm going on a date, and like, 1579 01:23:57,160 --> 01:24:00,559 Speaker 1: what's this about my aeriel up? Well, I don't even 1580 01:24:01,160 --> 01:24:03,680 Speaker 1: they were popping out like like you, like they were 1581 01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:09,360 Speaker 1: not you. Is she supposed to wear a bag when 1582 01:24:09,400 --> 01:24:11,040 Speaker 1: she goes out with you? Like I don't understand, like 1583 01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:14,040 Speaker 1: what's gonna be acceptable outfit? But there's like there's a 1584 01:24:14,200 --> 01:24:17,880 Speaker 1: difference between like a short skirt and then a skirt 1585 01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:21,240 Speaker 1: that like exposes your ass. Yeah, I'm good, Like I'm good, 1586 01:24:21,280 --> 01:24:22,960 Speaker 1: I don't we don't need to date, like, I'm good, 1587 01:24:23,000 --> 01:24:24,920 Speaker 1: I'm glad we found out. I'm gonna be signed out 1588 01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:27,920 Speaker 1: because like this is just stupid. Sorry, no, I mean 1589 01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:30,720 Speaker 1: this is ridiculous again the share thing and that and 1590 01:24:30,920 --> 01:24:34,799 Speaker 1: I I don't again. You could have phrased this entirely differently, 1591 01:24:34,840 --> 01:24:36,439 Speaker 1: but you're not going to control what she wears. It's 1592 01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:39,040 Speaker 1: not up to you. And you know, if you don't 1593 01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:40,640 Speaker 1: like it, then you're right, don't go out with it. 1594 01:24:40,720 --> 01:24:43,320 Speaker 1: But then don't talk to us about sharing. And you 1595 01:24:43,400 --> 01:24:47,120 Speaker 1: know that's ridiculous. Guy, like like is able to be 1596 01:24:47,320 --> 01:24:50,160 Speaker 1: like basically like all of her body, then that sharing 1597 01:24:50,280 --> 01:24:55,000 Speaker 1: like your girls here? Guy, Yeah, I'm not. I don't 1598 01:24:55,040 --> 01:24:56,400 Speaker 1: try a man like he didn't get to see them 1599 01:24:56,400 --> 01:24:57,840 Speaker 1: after two dates. That's why he's not going for the 1600 01:24:57,920 --> 01:25:00,280 Speaker 1: third k he's not gonna see them at all. Now, UM, 1601 01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:02,559 Speaker 1: I appreciate you answering the phone at least, and Selena, 1602 01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:04,479 Speaker 1: there's your answer. Now, I think you can probably feel 1603 01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:07,400 Speaker 1: pretty good moving on with this. You do, this is 1604 01:25:07,640 --> 01:25:10,479 Speaker 1: this is closure. This is good, like like way better 1605 01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:12,240 Speaker 1: than mean ghost did. Now I know, and now I 1606 01:25:12,479 --> 01:25:15,519 Speaker 1: really know. Let's get you into the Blackhawks game. You 1607 01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:18,360 Speaker 1: win next after the weekend, the Entertainment Report, Fun Fact 1608 01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:21,599 Speaker 1: trending stories all coming up on the commercial Free Friend Show. 1609 01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:23,439 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having us on one h 1610 01:25:23,520 --> 01:25:28,720 Speaker 1: three five Kids that fab text at five nine one 1611 01:25:28,760 --> 01:25:32,200 Speaker 1: one h three five. You guys are absolutely ridiculous. There's 1612 01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:34,960 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with not wanting a woman who exposes yourself constantly. 1613 01:25:35,040 --> 01:25:37,639 Speaker 1: You guys shamed him without ever even considering his side. 1614 01:25:37,720 --> 01:25:41,760 Speaker 1: Be better. I'll try, yeah, I just you know, it's 1615 01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:43,760 Speaker 1: real simple. Just don't go out with her again. You 1616 01:25:43,880 --> 01:25:46,080 Speaker 1: have to shame somebody, yeah, I mean as far as him. 1617 01:25:46,160 --> 01:25:48,200 Speaker 1: I don't think you get to decide on a first 1618 01:25:48,280 --> 01:25:50,439 Speaker 1: date or a second date what your day's gonna wear. 1619 01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:52,400 Speaker 1: And if you don't like what that person wears, then 1620 01:25:52,880 --> 01:25:55,000 Speaker 1: don't go out with him again. It's so simple, right, Yeah, 1621 01:25:55,040 --> 01:25:56,840 Speaker 1: it seems pretty simple. So I don't I don't know. 1622 01:25:58,120 --> 01:26:00,479 Speaker 1: Trying to be better though, well same each day I 1623 01:26:00,560 --> 01:26:03,320 Speaker 1: wake up and for the textures especially, I try and 1624 01:26:03,400 --> 01:26:05,240 Speaker 1: be better, But I don't know. I feel like maybe 1625 01:26:05,240 --> 01:26:07,720 Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship for months or years or something, 1626 01:26:08,040 --> 01:26:10,640 Speaker 1: then maybe you have some input in right, you can communicate, 1627 01:26:10,840 --> 01:26:13,920 Speaker 1: you know, in a healthy manner. What what makes you comfortable? 1628 01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:16,840 Speaker 1: You know each other wears. But I don't know that 1629 01:26:16,920 --> 01:26:18,640 Speaker 1: that's something that you decide on a first date or 1630 01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:21,439 Speaker 1: that you get to dictate. But yeah, you know, just 1631 01:26:21,600 --> 01:26:23,519 Speaker 1: I get an idea. Just get back on the dating apps. 1632 01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:26,640 Speaker 1: Just just go go take somebody else not for you. 1633 01:26:26,840 --> 01:26:30,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, Blackhawks tickets, Thank you fans game versus the 1634 01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:34,320 Speaker 1: Philadelphia Flyers on April thirteenth. You can buy your ticket 1635 01:26:34,400 --> 01:26:36,720 Speaker 1: to Blackhawks dot com slash ticket to calling number twenty five. 1636 01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:40,720 Speaker 1: He's eight five five nine one h three five kiss up. 1637 01:26:41,160 --> 01:26:44,519 Speaker 1: The latest entertainment news is on the Fread show. Ricardo Juarez, 1638 01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:47,280 Speaker 1: the dude who stormed the field at Dodger Stadium, says 1639 01:26:47,320 --> 01:26:49,240 Speaker 1: he can't go back for a year thanks to his 1640 01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:52,679 Speaker 1: little impromptu proposal, but he's not upset because he avoided 1641 01:26:52,880 --> 01:26:55,680 Speaker 1: jail time and his girlfriend Ramona did say yes. He 1642 01:26:56,000 --> 01:26:57,960 Speaker 1: is in some pain though, because if you missed it, 1643 01:26:58,320 --> 01:27:01,240 Speaker 1: he stuck onto the field to propose and got railed 1644 01:27:01,439 --> 01:27:03,960 Speaker 1: by a security guard. He was hurting the next morning, 1645 01:27:04,040 --> 01:27:06,240 Speaker 1: actually said his new fiance how to take him to 1646 01:27:06,320 --> 01:27:09,439 Speaker 1: the hospital. He's feeling okay now, But he did also 1647 01:27:09,520 --> 01:27:12,559 Speaker 1: say that the whole thing wasn't planned. He initially wanted 1648 01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:14,960 Speaker 1: to pop the question in the stands, changed his mind 1649 01:27:15,000 --> 01:27:17,120 Speaker 1: when he saw how close they were to the field, 1650 01:27:17,400 --> 01:27:19,400 Speaker 1: and we know what happened from there. The couple, who 1651 01:27:19,439 --> 01:27:21,760 Speaker 1: have been together for three years, is now planning to 1652 01:27:21,800 --> 01:27:24,120 Speaker 1: say I Do in August. And due to all the 1653 01:27:24,360 --> 01:27:28,000 Speaker 1: exposure that this proposal has gotten, they have been receiving 1654 01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:30,240 Speaker 1: a ton of offers to help make their dream wtn't 1655 01:27:30,240 --> 01:27:32,880 Speaker 1: come true. So it ended out good for them, and 1656 01:27:33,040 --> 01:27:34,360 Speaker 1: he'll just wait it out and then he could go 1657 01:27:34,439 --> 01:27:37,920 Speaker 1: back that security guard. You know, if it wasn't for 1658 01:27:38,000 --> 01:27:40,760 Speaker 1: that man either, you wouldn't get this exposure. I'll just 1659 01:27:40,800 --> 01:27:43,280 Speaker 1: say it would. I'm pretty sure he would because he 1660 01:27:43,360 --> 01:27:44,960 Speaker 1: was in the middle of an outfield of a major 1661 01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:47,000 Speaker 1: league baseball game. Pretty sure we get the exposure. But 1662 01:27:47,160 --> 01:27:49,280 Speaker 1: it was a tackle. It's a tackle that makes that video. 1663 01:27:49,800 --> 01:27:51,479 Speaker 1: You know. No, I don't think he's gonna get invited 1664 01:27:51,520 --> 01:27:55,960 Speaker 1: the weather. I'm pretty sure you guys slam him some 1665 01:27:56,040 --> 01:28:01,560 Speaker 1: dough or something, right, you guys out? Yeah, Okay. The 1666 01:28:01,720 --> 01:28:05,160 Speaker 1: Rock announced that Mohana, the twenty sixteen animated comedy he 1667 01:28:05,320 --> 01:28:08,320 Speaker 1: was in is getting a live action remake. He said, 1668 01:28:08,520 --> 01:28:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm deeply humbled and overcome with gratitude to bring the 1669 01:28:11,320 --> 01:28:14,160 Speaker 1: beautiful story of Mohanna to the live action big screen. 1670 01:28:14,600 --> 01:28:18,320 Speaker 1: This is my culture and this story is emblematic of 1671 01:28:18,360 --> 01:28:21,760 Speaker 1: our people's grace and warriors strength. The movie, which is 1672 01:28:21,800 --> 01:28:25,320 Speaker 1: still or which is currently in development, will celebrate islands, 1673 01:28:25,439 --> 01:28:29,720 Speaker 1: the islands, communities and traditions of Pacific Islanders, seeing through 1674 01:28:29,760 --> 01:28:32,080 Speaker 1: the eyes of a young woman eager to pay her 1675 01:28:32,120 --> 01:28:34,320 Speaker 1: own path. He will be in the reboot, by the way, 1676 01:28:34,400 --> 01:28:36,320 Speaker 1: didn't confirm if he's going to play the same character 1677 01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:38,919 Speaker 1: or not, but he will be involved and I'm excited 1678 01:28:38,920 --> 01:28:41,439 Speaker 1: about this. I know Paulina will be too. Because for 1679 01:28:41,520 --> 01:28:44,840 Speaker 1: the first time ever, Coachella will stream live stream all 1680 01:28:44,960 --> 01:28:48,960 Speaker 1: six stages across both weekends on YouTube. I watch every year. 1681 01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:51,680 Speaker 1: I call it Couchella. I love watching it. But they 1682 01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:53,680 Speaker 1: only showed some of the stages, so now you can 1683 01:28:53,760 --> 01:28:57,800 Speaker 1: see all of them both weekends, starting April fourteenth at 1684 01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:01,800 Speaker 1: sixth Central time, continuing the second weekend, which is April 1685 01:29:01,880 --> 01:29:04,439 Speaker 1: twenty first, at the same time. For those who can't watch, 1686 01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:08,639 Speaker 1: live performances will be available each night after the live stream, 1687 01:29:08,800 --> 01:29:12,040 Speaker 1: and many bigger artists will also be available on demand. 1688 01:29:12,479 --> 01:29:14,959 Speaker 1: Bad Bunny, Black Pink, and Frank Ocean are all headlining. 1689 01:29:15,320 --> 01:29:19,400 Speaker 1: Some other performers are there like Rosalia, Becky g Gorillas, 1690 01:29:19,479 --> 01:29:22,479 Speaker 1: The Gorillas, Burna Boy, Metro Boomin, and a lot more. 1691 01:29:22,520 --> 01:29:24,880 Speaker 1: It's a pretty good lineup so it'll be fun to watch. 1692 01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:28,439 Speaker 1: And lastly, the vander Pump Rules Tell All reunion is 1693 01:29:28,479 --> 01:29:32,800 Speaker 1: getting closer every day and Bravo just dropped the reunion looks. 1694 01:29:32,880 --> 01:29:36,040 Speaker 1: And for a Bravo fan or any fan of a 1695 01:29:36,120 --> 01:29:39,080 Speaker 1: reality show that has a reunion, the looks, the looks 1696 01:29:39,160 --> 01:29:40,920 Speaker 1: are a big deal. Now, fred I would love if 1697 01:29:40,960 --> 01:29:43,479 Speaker 1: you would go to FRENCHO radio dot com and take 1698 01:29:43,520 --> 01:29:47,600 Speaker 1: a look at miss Ariana Maddox's dress. This is what 1699 01:29:47,720 --> 01:29:50,000 Speaker 1: we call a revenge dress. Okay, let me, I'm gonna 1700 01:29:50,040 --> 01:29:52,080 Speaker 1: look right now. I need your what's our website again, 1701 01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:55,479 Speaker 1: French a Radio dot com? Oh yeah yeah, and it's 1702 01:29:55,520 --> 01:29:57,960 Speaker 1: the first story. Click it, it'll take you right to 1703 01:29:58,040 --> 01:30:00,880 Speaker 1: the photo website. I love our web site. I need 1704 01:30:00,960 --> 01:30:03,200 Speaker 1: your opinion and that you know she did it perfectly. 1705 01:30:03,280 --> 01:30:09,280 Speaker 1: The execution, yeah, the color, the body, How hot does 1706 01:30:09,360 --> 01:30:13,040 Speaker 1: she look? Does she look and that is what we 1707 01:30:13,120 --> 01:30:16,479 Speaker 1: call a revenge dress. I guess Lala, one of her 1708 01:30:16,520 --> 01:30:19,160 Speaker 1: cast mates, was gonna wear red, but she said, you 1709 01:30:19,240 --> 01:30:21,800 Speaker 1: know what, girl, this is your moment you wear red. 1710 01:30:21,880 --> 01:30:25,080 Speaker 1: Everybody rallied around her, so they all wore more muted colors. 1711 01:30:25,240 --> 01:30:27,760 Speaker 1: Rachel the Cheater was in mint green. Of course, we 1712 01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:30,880 Speaker 1: don't really care looking a mess. I don't have a 1713 01:30:31,000 --> 01:30:34,200 Speaker 1: specific date for the reunion other than late spring. But 1714 01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:37,720 Speaker 1: Rachel and Tom the Cheaters are still together. And while 1715 01:30:37,800 --> 01:30:40,960 Speaker 1: Arianna is away filming a movie for Lifetime, she's having 1716 01:30:41,000 --> 01:30:43,599 Speaker 1: a glow up. She's acting in a movie. Rachel has 1717 01:30:43,640 --> 01:30:47,840 Speaker 1: been spotted at Arianna's house with a whole bag okay, 1718 01:30:48,120 --> 01:30:49,840 Speaker 1: and the people who made the whole bag, like the 1719 01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:53,040 Speaker 1: designer they dragged her. They posted, you know, we got 1720 01:30:53,080 --> 01:30:56,360 Speaker 1: the bag with none of the baggage. It was iconic marketing. 1721 01:30:56,920 --> 01:30:58,880 Speaker 1: But they are still together. They were also seen talking 1722 01:30:58,960 --> 01:31:01,360 Speaker 1: during the reunion. So, so what's the logic here? You 1723 01:31:01,400 --> 01:31:03,519 Speaker 1: look really hot and then your ex season is like 1724 01:31:03,800 --> 01:31:05,840 Speaker 1: just grable theory. You're supposed to be like, Oh, I 1725 01:31:06,000 --> 01:31:07,800 Speaker 1: don't know why I messed that up. Yeah, I don't 1726 01:31:07,840 --> 01:31:09,560 Speaker 1: think it works that way though. Really, I've had some 1727 01:31:09,680 --> 01:31:11,360 Speaker 1: guys tell me it does hurt to see you at 1728 01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:14,439 Speaker 1: the club, you know, looking good. I don't know, because, well, 1729 01:31:14,439 --> 01:31:17,600 Speaker 1: because if you if you broke up with somebody, I 1730 01:31:17,680 --> 01:31:20,760 Speaker 1: mean unless you, I guess you could cheat and then 1731 01:31:20,840 --> 01:31:23,040 Speaker 1: feel like an idiot and then wish you hadn't done it. 1732 01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:25,040 Speaker 1: But if you broke up with someone, usually you're not 1733 01:31:25,800 --> 01:31:28,720 Speaker 1: as physically attracted to them as you once were, or 1734 01:31:28,800 --> 01:31:32,720 Speaker 1: maybe their physical appearance could because it's tarnished by other things. 1735 01:31:33,040 --> 01:31:34,800 Speaker 1: Like a person who I think is hot when I 1736 01:31:34,880 --> 01:31:37,280 Speaker 1: first meet them, I typically don't think is as hot 1737 01:31:37,360 --> 01:31:39,280 Speaker 1: when I when we're breaking up. Yeah, well he didn't 1738 01:31:39,280 --> 01:31:41,320 Speaker 1: break up with her. He just he's having an affair 1739 01:31:41,360 --> 01:31:43,080 Speaker 1: and he got caught. He was banging both of them, 1740 01:31:43,240 --> 01:31:46,880 Speaker 1: well right, and so that maybe maybe he has regret now. 1741 01:31:46,920 --> 01:31:48,720 Speaker 1: But at the same time, maybe he was out. You know, 1742 01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:51,200 Speaker 1: I'm not justifying cheating, but maybe he was over it 1743 01:31:51,280 --> 01:31:53,639 Speaker 1: and moved on. But I guess I see the logic, Yeah, 1744 01:31:53,680 --> 01:31:56,559 Speaker 1: and always work for me though, right, Yeah, sometimes it works, 1745 01:31:56,840 --> 01:31:59,080 Speaker 1: But all the attention I would assume would probably annoy 1746 01:31:59,160 --> 01:32:00,840 Speaker 1: him too. If dudes are like, oh my god, you're 1747 01:32:00,840 --> 01:32:03,519 Speaker 1: the Oh yeah, he's gonna cry in the cart. For 1748 01:32:03,640 --> 01:32:06,400 Speaker 1: me is when I see somebody who I dated with 1749 01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:10,519 Speaker 1: someone else, because then I start to doubt myself, like 1750 01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:14,880 Speaker 1: what now I can never have it and or at 1751 01:32:14,920 --> 01:32:17,200 Speaker 1: least I can't have it now, and like it could 1752 01:32:17,240 --> 01:32:19,160 Speaker 1: have been me? What did I miss? You know what 1753 01:32:19,200 --> 01:32:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like I tend to have revisionist history when 1754 01:32:22,400 --> 01:32:25,280 Speaker 1: I see someone I dated, even if it didn't work 1755 01:32:25,320 --> 01:32:27,400 Speaker 1: out or fizzled on its own. Then I see that 1756 01:32:27,479 --> 01:32:30,439 Speaker 1: person with someone else, and I'm like, hmmm, I don't know. 1757 01:32:30,840 --> 01:32:33,000 Speaker 1: That tends to work for me more than you looking 1758 01:32:33,080 --> 01:32:35,680 Speaker 1: hot out because dress might get her someone to date, 1759 01:32:35,840 --> 01:32:38,479 Speaker 1: and I hope it's someone way bigger than the acts 1760 01:32:38,479 --> 01:32:40,680 Speaker 1: because he tries to like do music and act. I 1761 01:32:40,720 --> 01:32:43,080 Speaker 1: don't know. He's a weirdo. He plays the saxophone terribly 1762 01:32:43,479 --> 01:32:45,400 Speaker 1: or is it the trumpet? I think he plays the 1763 01:32:45,439 --> 01:32:49,120 Speaker 1: damn trumpet. Anyways, maybe she'll get him someone and then 1764 01:32:49,280 --> 01:32:52,439 Speaker 1: he'll be one of those woodwinds. Well I guess, I 1765 01:32:52,479 --> 01:32:55,120 Speaker 1: guess it's sacks to woodwind. The trumpet is not a 1766 01:32:55,160 --> 01:33:03,360 Speaker 1: woodwind instrument. I was just gonna say, Well, he plays 1767 01:33:03,360 --> 01:33:06,000 Speaker 1: the trumpet and is awful, and he's stupid. He's stupid. 1768 01:33:06,160 --> 01:33:08,160 Speaker 1: He's going to be sad. Um more to check out 1769 01:33:08,160 --> 01:33:10,160 Speaker 1: online today if you want to see the dress. It's 1770 01:33:10,400 --> 01:33:13,920 Speaker 1: it's amazing and she's she's self conscious and I did 1771 01:33:14,080 --> 01:33:16,280 Speaker 1: hear that For the first time ever, the cast heard 1772 01:33:16,320 --> 01:33:19,400 Speaker 1: her say I feel really hot and so we love 1773 01:33:19,479 --> 01:33:23,240 Speaker 1: that for you girls. On freshow radio dot com. Hey Kristen, Yes, 1774 01:33:23,520 --> 01:33:26,639 Speaker 1: Hi Christy, good morning. How are you? Hi? Good morning? 1775 01:33:26,840 --> 01:33:30,519 Speaker 1: How are you? What's going on? Tell me everything? Um? So, 1776 01:33:30,760 --> 01:33:33,000 Speaker 1: I just dropped my kid off is a second day 1777 01:33:33,040 --> 01:33:36,120 Speaker 1: of preschool and I listened to you guys every morning. 1778 01:33:36,160 --> 01:33:38,680 Speaker 1: I've been listening for years and years and years. And 1779 01:33:39,640 --> 01:33:42,440 Speaker 1: we're taking my son to his first Bowls game tonight, 1780 01:33:42,800 --> 01:33:45,240 Speaker 1: and so I was like, oh my gosh, I could 1781 01:33:45,240 --> 01:33:46,840 Speaker 1: try to win and take him to his first I 1782 01:33:46,880 --> 01:33:50,759 Speaker 1: want him to be that cool kid. Like you're about 1783 01:33:50,800 --> 01:33:54,519 Speaker 1: to be that cool mom because you got the Blackhawks tickets. 1784 01:33:54,520 --> 01:33:58,080 Speaker 1: You're going, oh my god, I'm so thank you guys 1785 01:33:58,160 --> 01:34:01,400 Speaker 1: so much. You are in No, you're the best. Who 1786 01:34:01,479 --> 01:34:05,400 Speaker 1: cried more when you dropped? Is it your son? Oh? Yes, 1787 01:34:05,520 --> 01:34:08,440 Speaker 1: I have a son. Yeah. Um so he almost got emotional, 1788 01:34:08,800 --> 01:34:10,360 Speaker 1: but he gave me like the biggest hug he ever 1789 01:34:10,520 --> 01:34:13,760 Speaker 1: gave me staying bye um and that that like made 1790 01:34:13,800 --> 01:34:15,320 Speaker 1: me cry in the car. I was like, oh my god, 1791 01:34:15,520 --> 01:34:18,040 Speaker 1: like my heart's exploading. But I'm so like I was like, 1792 01:34:18,240 --> 01:34:20,600 Speaker 1: I'm so sad to see him go like off. But 1793 01:34:20,720 --> 01:34:22,120 Speaker 1: now you got the whole day. What the hell are 1794 01:34:22,120 --> 01:34:23,720 Speaker 1: you gonna do with your You can just do whatever 1795 01:34:23,720 --> 01:34:26,000 Speaker 1: you win, could do cart wheels, you can go, you 1796 01:34:26,040 --> 01:34:28,560 Speaker 1: can just do whatever you're read pretty much, I have 1797 01:34:28,640 --> 01:34:31,960 Speaker 1: a little bit more freedom. Yes, well yeah, sometimes you'll see, 1798 01:34:32,000 --> 01:34:34,040 Speaker 1: like you hear the stories about like my friends who 1799 01:34:34,080 --> 01:34:35,639 Speaker 1: have kids now and they'll take their kid to school 1800 01:34:35,640 --> 01:34:37,200 Speaker 1: for the first day and they're crying and the kids like, 1801 01:34:37,240 --> 01:34:40,000 Speaker 1: can you guys get out of here? I'm trying to 1802 01:34:40,000 --> 01:34:42,640 Speaker 1: glove out on my day here. Yeah, Like I got 1803 01:34:42,720 --> 01:34:44,720 Speaker 1: stuff to do here, we got we got nap time 1804 01:34:44,760 --> 01:34:46,920 Speaker 1: coming up, we got snacks. You know, we're gonna do 1805 01:34:47,080 --> 01:34:48,880 Speaker 1: right lay later on, Like, can you get the hell 1806 01:34:48,880 --> 01:34:52,200 Speaker 1: out of here? I got a busy day, full schedule. Bye, mom, 1807 01:34:53,080 --> 01:34:54,760 Speaker 1: But you're going to the Blackhawks game, and I love 1808 01:34:54,800 --> 01:34:56,160 Speaker 1: you and I hope you have a great day, and 1809 01:34:56,520 --> 01:34:58,880 Speaker 1: I hope you guys have a good time too. You 1810 01:34:59,040 --> 01:35:01,040 Speaker 1: are the best. I love you guys, Thank you so 1811 01:35:01,200 --> 01:35:03,280 Speaker 1: much again, thank you, Hang on one second, have a 1812 01:35:03,360 --> 01:35:16,800 Speaker 1: good day so much. I got a trending story about 1813 01:35:16,800 --> 01:35:21,040 Speaker 1: the Moon in just a second here. But um, do 1814 01:35:21,120 --> 01:35:25,240 Speaker 1: you know what space smells like? Well, it smells like 1815 01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:28,120 Speaker 1: how you how you know? Yeah, I've been leaving stuff 1816 01:35:28,200 --> 01:35:32,960 Speaker 1: up there. We talked about earlier, yall, y'all, I didn't 1817 01:35:33,000 --> 01:35:35,800 Speaker 1: leave any poop when I was there. Well, but people, Yeah, 1818 01:35:35,800 --> 01:35:38,080 Speaker 1: we learned this morning that people have been leaving you know, people, 1819 01:35:38,640 --> 01:35:42,519 Speaker 1: astronauts have been leaving trash on the Moon. It smells 1820 01:35:42,640 --> 01:35:46,640 Speaker 1: like diesel fuel and barbecue. Wow. I might like that. Um. 1821 01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:48,960 Speaker 1: This is mainly due to the amount of dying stars 1822 01:35:49,080 --> 01:35:53,840 Speaker 1: in the galaxy. The combustion releases a compound called polysilic 1823 01:35:54,240 --> 01:35:59,080 Speaker 1: aromatic hydrocarbons rolls off the tongue and that smells like 1824 01:35:59,200 --> 01:36:01,680 Speaker 1: fuel and bar a cue. Oh wow, so you have 1825 01:36:01,800 --> 01:36:04,760 Speaker 1: to you're like right cooking ribs up in here? Is 1826 01:36:04,800 --> 01:36:08,000 Speaker 1: that Chicago que? I like to smell a gas and 1827 01:36:08,080 --> 01:36:10,080 Speaker 1: I like to smell a barbecue. Yeah. I like to 1828 01:36:10,080 --> 01:36:13,320 Speaker 1: smell a gas too. I really it's probably not okay. 1829 01:36:13,360 --> 01:36:15,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, that's a great that's a great smell. 1830 01:36:15,360 --> 01:36:17,639 Speaker 1: It is a great smell. I know, I'm not encouraging 1831 01:36:17,720 --> 01:36:20,479 Speaker 1: that you don't miss it, though, I'm just saying, oh, 1832 01:36:20,760 --> 01:36:29,560 Speaker 1: we know miss gang over here. I can't even know 1833 01:36:29,600 --> 01:36:40,559 Speaker 1: where that. Yeah motor with gas, Yeah car payment guy here, 1834 01:36:42,520 --> 01:36:44,000 Speaker 1: you tell me you have a tesla without telling me 1835 01:36:44,080 --> 01:36:46,280 Speaker 1: you have a tesla? Who don't miss the gas station? 1836 01:36:49,880 --> 01:36:52,120 Speaker 1: Trending stories after Sam Smith in two minutes, The Fresh 1837 01:36:52,120 --> 01:36:56,360 Speaker 1: Show is one h three five, GISs up, hey have 1838 01:36:56,400 --> 01:36:59,680 Speaker 1: a max tickets after nine, We'll give you those. Is it? 1839 01:37:00,680 --> 01:37:03,360 Speaker 1: Is it? Lala on Thursday? Jason Brown, Yes, Thursday ticket 1840 01:37:03,439 --> 01:37:06,720 Speaker 1: takeover Lalla fealoos the tickets every hour, paying bills after 1841 01:37:06,840 --> 01:37:08,680 Speaker 1: night too, another chance at a thousand bucks on the 1842 01:37:08,720 --> 01:37:11,439 Speaker 1: French show. Trending stories and just the second blogs coming 1843 01:37:11,520 --> 01:37:14,560 Speaker 1: up as well. Um, how do you know and I 1844 01:37:14,600 --> 01:37:17,640 Speaker 1: don't mean an obvious way like because they got it 1845 01:37:17,720 --> 01:37:19,920 Speaker 1: rolls Roycism. How do you know when you got a rich, 1846 01:37:20,040 --> 01:37:23,680 Speaker 1: rich friend? How do you what is what is a 1847 01:37:23,760 --> 01:37:27,560 Speaker 1: telltale sign? And again not a material item? Oh like 1848 01:37:27,720 --> 01:37:31,000 Speaker 1: Ruvio with this tesla. I mean he's rich rich, um, 1849 01:37:31,160 --> 01:37:34,040 Speaker 1: but look at price tags when they're shopping. Okay, yeah, 1850 01:37:34,080 --> 01:37:36,519 Speaker 1: but how do you know item. I guess, well, that's 1851 01:37:36,640 --> 01:37:38,560 Speaker 1: that's rich rich. If you're just buying stuff and you 1852 01:37:38,600 --> 01:37:40,519 Speaker 1: don't even look, they don't worry about like when it 1853 01:37:40,560 --> 01:37:44,880 Speaker 1: says MP next to food, they're like, you know, market price. Yeah, 1854 01:37:45,200 --> 01:37:48,040 Speaker 1: they're not concerned. When they're very knowledge about money. You 1855 01:37:48,080 --> 01:37:50,600 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, honey, Oh, I put my diversify 1856 01:37:50,800 --> 01:37:57,320 Speaker 1: And you don't have to be rich to know you 1857 01:37:57,400 --> 01:37:59,840 Speaker 1: got money to sound you're moving money right the right. 1858 01:38:00,160 --> 01:38:01,960 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And you do have to 1859 01:38:02,000 --> 01:38:03,439 Speaker 1: be rich because it's trust me. If you're poor, you're 1860 01:38:03,479 --> 01:38:05,400 Speaker 1: not growing up hearing those words. I wou'd tell you that. 1861 01:38:06,160 --> 01:38:07,720 Speaker 1: That means, well, you don't. I guess what I'm saying 1862 01:38:07,840 --> 01:38:10,000 Speaker 1: is you don't have to be rich to ask questions 1863 01:38:10,000 --> 01:38:14,120 Speaker 1: about financial literacy and to save right. True. I used 1864 01:38:14,120 --> 01:38:15,560 Speaker 1: to think early in my career when I made no 1865 01:38:15,680 --> 01:38:17,640 Speaker 1: money that I didn't have enough money to save it. 1866 01:38:17,760 --> 01:38:21,519 Speaker 1: I wish I didn't think that, because I did, and 1867 01:38:21,640 --> 01:38:25,799 Speaker 1: I wish I had saved earlier in my career. M Paulina, 1868 01:38:26,439 --> 01:38:29,400 Speaker 1: what is it? That's sort of an unwritten way that 1869 01:38:29,560 --> 01:38:32,320 Speaker 1: you know, if you've got a rich, rich friend, I 1870 01:38:32,360 --> 01:38:35,000 Speaker 1: would say the kind of statements that they make. And 1871 01:38:35,120 --> 01:38:38,840 Speaker 1: by that it's like the questions like I'm rich. No, 1872 01:38:39,000 --> 01:38:41,280 Speaker 1: it's more of like, um, like when you go on vacation, 1873 01:38:41,400 --> 01:38:43,000 Speaker 1: like like where do you go on vacation type thing? 1874 01:38:43,040 --> 01:38:44,519 Speaker 1: Like I grew up going to like you know, camping 1875 01:38:44,560 --> 01:38:46,360 Speaker 1: on the forest and they would go skiing and ask me, 1876 01:38:46,520 --> 01:38:48,360 Speaker 1: I mean you tell me who's the rich friend? You 1877 01:38:48,400 --> 01:38:50,320 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like I think of it that way. 1878 01:38:50,360 --> 01:38:51,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, this is what you do on your 1879 01:38:51,800 --> 01:38:54,200 Speaker 1: spare time, and I'm over here working three jobs, so 1880 01:38:54,280 --> 01:38:56,960 Speaker 1: you know, it's condiment. Well, the one thing I learned, 1881 01:38:56,960 --> 01:38:59,320 Speaker 1: by the way, is that trips and material items actually 1882 01:38:59,360 --> 01:39:02,840 Speaker 1: really don't tell you if someone's actually rich. It just 1883 01:39:02,960 --> 01:39:04,559 Speaker 1: tells you if someone wants you to think they're rich. 1884 01:39:05,000 --> 01:39:06,880 Speaker 1: I've learned that because some people you find out that 1885 01:39:07,000 --> 01:39:10,519 Speaker 1: they it's all leased on credit cards and they owe 1886 01:39:10,560 --> 01:39:12,200 Speaker 1: a ton of money and they don't really have anything. 1887 01:39:13,280 --> 01:39:15,360 Speaker 1: But this was a question on Reddit and then the 1888 01:39:15,520 --> 01:39:18,479 Speaker 1: Daily Mail went through and like I guess consolidated here. 1889 01:39:18,520 --> 01:39:22,040 Speaker 1: But here are signs that you know that somebody's quietly 1890 01:39:22,560 --> 01:39:28,080 Speaker 1: rich rich shunning designer clothing and logos. Apparently the super 1891 01:39:28,240 --> 01:39:30,720 Speaker 1: rich people these days, they don't wear anything with a 1892 01:39:30,760 --> 01:39:35,240 Speaker 1: print on it. Yes, that's like if you watch Succession, 1893 01:39:37,000 --> 01:39:39,799 Speaker 1: like that he wears one of the dudes wears. Kendall 1894 01:39:39,920 --> 01:39:42,400 Speaker 1: wears a baseball hat, which apparently is a new rich 1895 01:39:42,479 --> 01:39:45,439 Speaker 1: rich accessory that's like eight hundred dollars. It's an eight 1896 01:39:45,560 --> 01:39:48,880 Speaker 1: hundred dollars brown hat and it's just a baseball hat. 1897 01:39:48,920 --> 01:39:51,680 Speaker 1: There's nothing, no logo on it anything, but apparently that's 1898 01:39:51,720 --> 01:39:55,040 Speaker 1: the new super rich accessory. But it's eight hundred dollars. 1899 01:39:55,280 --> 01:39:56,680 Speaker 1: But if you watch, if you look at the way 1900 01:39:56,680 --> 01:39:59,280 Speaker 1: he dresses a lot of times, there's no label on 1901 01:39:59,400 --> 01:40:02,599 Speaker 1: anything on any of them because they're just super rich. 1902 01:40:02,680 --> 01:40:04,200 Speaker 1: And I guess they don't. They don't feel the need 1903 01:40:04,240 --> 01:40:06,479 Speaker 1: to to let you know it with a with a 1904 01:40:06,600 --> 01:40:12,000 Speaker 1: G or a Louis Vuitton or whatever else. Um, a 1905 01:40:12,240 --> 01:40:17,000 Speaker 1: perfect smile and brilliantly white teeth means that you are 1906 01:40:17,120 --> 01:40:22,200 Speaker 1: rich rich because financial I'm not rich rich anymore. Um. 1907 01:40:22,560 --> 01:40:25,000 Speaker 1: It's funny that you mentioned what what you said about 1908 01:40:25,000 --> 01:40:28,840 Speaker 1: people being financially literate, because staying silent during money discussions 1909 01:40:29,000 --> 01:40:30,880 Speaker 1: is apparently assigned to a lot of people that somebody 1910 01:40:31,000 --> 01:40:34,320 Speaker 1: is quietly really really rich. Oh, I just that's means 1911 01:40:34,320 --> 01:40:36,240 Speaker 1: staying quiet because I ain't got no money to move around. 1912 01:40:36,600 --> 01:40:38,639 Speaker 1: You know, I agree with that. I do too. Yeah, 1913 01:40:38,720 --> 01:40:40,639 Speaker 1: they don't want you to be rich too. They want 1914 01:40:40,680 --> 01:40:42,719 Speaker 1: they want to be quiet. I don't think that's true. 1915 01:40:42,800 --> 01:40:45,920 Speaker 1: They don't want to hurt your feelings. Yeah, I think 1916 01:40:45,960 --> 01:40:47,920 Speaker 1: that's what I think. It's like if you say something 1917 01:40:48,000 --> 01:40:50,800 Speaker 1: that's unrelatable, like like I get it, but teach me, 1918 01:40:51,040 --> 01:40:53,000 Speaker 1: like I wish I had saved in my furrow one kids. 1919 01:40:53,040 --> 01:40:54,640 Speaker 1: Like some people are like, dude, I'm I'm I'm like 1920 01:40:54,800 --> 01:40:56,720 Speaker 1: paycheck to mouth, you know what I mean. So I 1921 01:40:56,760 --> 01:40:58,920 Speaker 1: think sometimes you say things that you intend to be 1922 01:40:59,520 --> 01:41:02,719 Speaker 1: helpful or that you know you you, but other people 1923 01:41:02,800 --> 01:41:05,920 Speaker 1: hear it as, oh, you have excess. Well I don't 1924 01:41:05,920 --> 01:41:08,320 Speaker 1: have the excess to do that. So some people just 1925 01:41:08,360 --> 01:41:12,360 Speaker 1: don't say anything. Using the phrase we're comfortable, that means 1926 01:41:12,439 --> 01:41:14,720 Speaker 1: that you're secretly rich rich. I don't know about that. 1927 01:41:14,880 --> 01:41:16,479 Speaker 1: My grandparents used to say that, and they were not 1928 01:41:16,680 --> 01:41:19,760 Speaker 1: rich rich. They did well for themselves like that. They 1929 01:41:19,880 --> 01:41:23,440 Speaker 1: you know, they were financially stable, but they were comfortable. 1930 01:41:23,680 --> 01:41:26,519 Speaker 1: It wasn't like, you know, they didn't worry when they 1931 01:41:26,560 --> 01:41:28,320 Speaker 1: went to the grocery store, if the if their credit 1932 01:41:28,360 --> 01:41:30,800 Speaker 1: card was gonna work or not. But they also, you know, 1933 01:41:30,840 --> 01:41:33,120 Speaker 1: they didn't have a They didn't have a Rolls Royce 1934 01:41:33,160 --> 01:41:36,600 Speaker 1: or Lamborghini or anything like that. Driving an average but 1935 01:41:36,760 --> 01:41:40,080 Speaker 1: reliable car might be a secret that people are rich rich. 1936 01:41:41,360 --> 01:41:46,040 Speaker 1: It could also be that you have a reliable, average car, right, 1937 01:41:46,320 --> 01:41:48,160 Speaker 1: you could write, it could also be that you're not 1938 01:41:48,320 --> 01:41:52,479 Speaker 1: rich rich. That's what you got um keeping their friendship 1939 01:41:52,600 --> 01:41:57,800 Speaker 1: circles small I could possibly mean that someone is quietly rich. Yes, 1940 01:41:58,400 --> 01:42:01,720 Speaker 1: the minimalist homes and see pulled the core mean that 1941 01:42:01,800 --> 01:42:10,400 Speaker 1: you are rich casually partaking in expensive hobbies skiing, sailing, golfing. 1942 01:42:11,520 --> 01:42:15,880 Speaker 1: That means that you're rich, apparently secretly. Maybe a taste 1943 01:42:15,920 --> 01:42:18,680 Speaker 1: for caviars cargo, that's not a secret. I mean, I 1944 01:42:18,720 --> 01:42:20,200 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know a lot of poor people 1945 01:42:20,240 --> 01:42:23,080 Speaker 1: that are like, I'll take some caviar with that, you know, 1946 01:42:23,400 --> 01:42:27,160 Speaker 1: I guess I don't know. I assume caviar is expensive. 1947 01:42:27,160 --> 01:42:29,240 Speaker 1: I don't eat it, so I don't really know. But 1948 01:42:29,400 --> 01:42:31,240 Speaker 1: if someone says that they like, you know, go home 1949 01:42:31,320 --> 01:42:34,960 Speaker 1: and eat caviar, I'm assuming there's some sophistication, there's some 1950 01:42:35,040 --> 01:42:40,479 Speaker 1: money no digital footprint. Those with generational wealth tend to 1951 01:42:40,560 --> 01:42:43,000 Speaker 1: keep a low profile, and they often don't have any 1952 01:42:43,080 --> 01:42:46,280 Speaker 1: social media or digital footprint of any kind, which keeps 1953 01:42:46,320 --> 01:42:48,960 Speaker 1: them low profile. Big tim rich rich out there, No, 1954 01:42:49,320 --> 01:42:51,720 Speaker 1: not yet, But that's why I like a man with 1955 01:42:51,840 --> 01:42:58,080 Speaker 1: no social media. Oh, I see what else here? Coasting 1956 01:42:58,160 --> 01:43:01,040 Speaker 1: through life means that somebody's rich, I don't. I don't know. 1957 01:43:01,600 --> 01:43:04,160 Speaker 1: That's that would be hard to define. I think, well, 1958 01:43:04,200 --> 01:43:07,760 Speaker 1: I don't know what coasting through life means. Coasting through 1959 01:43:07,840 --> 01:43:09,880 Speaker 1: life well, but it could also mean you don't give 1960 01:43:09,880 --> 01:43:12,280 Speaker 1: a damn right. It doesn't mean that you're rich. It 1961 01:43:12,320 --> 01:43:15,280 Speaker 1: could mean you just don't care about anything, which I don't. 1962 01:43:15,280 --> 01:43:17,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's necessarily a sign that you're rich. 1963 01:43:17,760 --> 01:43:20,439 Speaker 1: I can write a better list or not. Okay, well 1964 01:43:20,479 --> 01:43:22,120 Speaker 1: what else would you put on it? Yeah? I don't know. 1965 01:43:22,200 --> 01:43:25,840 Speaker 1: I just like we said, like the talking about finances, 1966 01:43:25,880 --> 01:43:27,479 Speaker 1: I feel like, okay, if you're if you're the silent 1967 01:43:27,479 --> 01:43:28,720 Speaker 1: one in the room, you probably know the most and 1968 01:43:28,720 --> 01:43:30,719 Speaker 1: you're not sharing for a reason. That's how people stay 1969 01:43:31,000 --> 01:43:32,760 Speaker 1: in that community. And they don't want to share the 1970 01:43:32,800 --> 01:43:34,720 Speaker 1: wealth or they don't want to share knowledge. That's my 1971 01:43:34,800 --> 01:43:36,240 Speaker 1: hot take don't at me, or you could at me, 1972 01:43:36,280 --> 01:43:38,400 Speaker 1: it's fine. And then my other part, I think would 1973 01:43:38,400 --> 01:43:40,559 Speaker 1: be like I said, the vacationing, because I have heard 1974 01:43:40,640 --> 01:43:42,600 Speaker 1: like wealthy people, just the way they speak about it 1975 01:43:42,720 --> 01:43:44,439 Speaker 1: is very different, you know what I mean, even like 1976 01:43:44,600 --> 01:43:46,519 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's different. But like growing up, right, 1977 01:43:46,600 --> 01:43:48,680 Speaker 1: if you say, like, oh, I grew up even doing 1978 01:43:48,760 --> 01:43:51,240 Speaker 1: certain sports. I've come to find just based on certain 1979 01:43:51,439 --> 01:43:54,040 Speaker 1: neighborhoods in Chicago, if you did certain sports like hockey 1980 01:43:54,439 --> 01:43:56,880 Speaker 1: versus basketball, I could tell right away what neighborhood you 1981 01:43:56,920 --> 01:43:59,000 Speaker 1: came from or what kind of background you came from. 1982 01:43:59,120 --> 01:44:01,680 Speaker 1: For the most part, just be because I think it's statistically, 1983 01:44:01,680 --> 01:44:04,639 Speaker 1: excuse me, proven that those are two different, like income levels, 1984 01:44:04,640 --> 01:44:07,120 Speaker 1: because to play hockey you need like you need money, right, 1985 01:44:07,280 --> 01:44:08,519 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So stuff like that, I 1986 01:44:08,840 --> 01:44:11,439 Speaker 1: pick up a little cues like that. The car thing 1987 01:44:11,479 --> 01:44:13,920 Speaker 1: I don't like. I don't agree with that. Everyone's having 1988 01:44:13,960 --> 01:44:16,599 Speaker 1: a car is a privilege in my opinion, So average 1989 01:44:16,680 --> 01:44:18,760 Speaker 1: or not, you got a car, you got wheels. Yeah, 1990 01:44:18,920 --> 01:44:20,760 Speaker 1: but I think people assume that if you have an 1991 01:44:20,800 --> 01:44:22,800 Speaker 1: expensive car that you have money. And that was my point. 1992 01:44:22,840 --> 01:44:26,280 Speaker 1: I know plenty of people that yes, that I have 1993 01:44:26,560 --> 01:44:30,080 Speaker 1: wild financing on an expensive car that they cannot afford. 1994 01:44:30,160 --> 01:44:33,400 Speaker 1: I know, people paying like fourteen hundred dollars car payment. 1995 01:44:33,439 --> 01:44:36,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, that is insane, and they try to and 1996 01:44:36,240 --> 01:44:38,160 Speaker 1: obviously they try to make it the norm because obviously 1997 01:44:38,320 --> 01:44:40,400 Speaker 1: they're like, if he's paying fourteen hundred dollars, I could 1998 01:44:40,439 --> 01:44:42,640 Speaker 1: pay fourteen hundred dollars to get the same car, Like, 1999 01:44:42,840 --> 01:44:47,040 Speaker 1: please don't do that. A taste for car s car 2000 01:44:47,120 --> 01:44:53,160 Speaker 1: go tasting. You're awfully quiet over here. Yeah, it's always eating. Yeah, 2001 01:44:54,720 --> 01:44:56,720 Speaker 1: this guy you should see his lunch today. It's like 2002 01:44:56,880 --> 01:45:07,320 Speaker 1: all caviars. It's just show on one h three fives 2003 01:45:07,439 --> 01:45:11,280 Speaker 1: that this is what's trendy on more than one DM today, 2004 01:45:11,840 --> 01:45:15,040 Speaker 1: both from people I know and people who listen. Fred 2005 01:45:15,120 --> 01:45:18,200 Speaker 1: on Air on the Old Ram commenting on the fact 2006 01:45:18,240 --> 01:45:20,600 Speaker 1: that I'm wearing a hat and then like, people like 2007 01:45:20,800 --> 01:45:22,880 Speaker 1: the way that I look in a hat. I think 2008 01:45:22,920 --> 01:45:28,200 Speaker 1: hats can be very deceptive, so can sunglasses. I mean, 2009 01:45:28,240 --> 01:45:31,519 Speaker 1: they're like, there are people that wear a hat girls guys. 2010 01:45:31,640 --> 01:45:34,479 Speaker 1: But girls, you know, I can only speak to me 2011 01:45:34,600 --> 01:45:37,280 Speaker 1: on what I'm attracted to, and they'll wear a hat 2012 01:45:37,400 --> 01:45:39,960 Speaker 1: and you're you'll be like whoa. And then but you 2013 01:45:40,040 --> 01:45:43,400 Speaker 1: gotta don't be don't fall for that. You gotta see 2014 01:45:43,439 --> 01:45:45,920 Speaker 1: what the person looks like without a hat on. The 2015 01:45:46,040 --> 01:45:48,040 Speaker 1: Other thing is you gotta see what a person looks 2016 01:45:48,040 --> 01:45:50,760 Speaker 1: like without sunglasses on, because I've I'm more than once 2017 01:45:50,840 --> 01:45:53,439 Speaker 1: I've seen someone with sunglass, like big sunglasses on. It 2018 01:45:53,560 --> 01:45:56,719 Speaker 1: be like hello, they take the glasses off and like goodbye. 2019 01:45:58,880 --> 01:46:01,360 Speaker 1: Some sums not sent to call or something's not rhymy, 2020 01:46:01,439 --> 01:46:04,640 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not. I mean, you know, they got 2021 01:46:04,720 --> 01:46:07,200 Speaker 1: like one one eye like cyclops right in the middle, 2022 01:46:08,280 --> 01:46:10,640 Speaker 1: you know, like that like a minion. Don't minion to 2023 01:46:10,760 --> 01:46:15,320 Speaker 1: me have one eye? You know. So this is a trick, 2024 01:46:15,360 --> 01:46:17,200 Speaker 1: I mean, and I think I think men and women 2025 01:46:17,240 --> 01:46:20,160 Speaker 1: can fall for this. Yeah, but apparently people like the 2026 01:46:20,200 --> 01:46:24,800 Speaker 1: way I look at a hat. But again, I've gotten 2027 01:46:24,840 --> 01:46:27,120 Speaker 1: more compliments today about the hat, So I guess people 2028 01:46:27,160 --> 01:46:29,080 Speaker 1: people are saying it is like covering your damn head up, 2029 01:46:29,560 --> 01:46:33,000 Speaker 1: and you might get more or any you know, I 2030 01:46:33,080 --> 01:46:35,040 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just no one compliments me when I 2031 01:46:35,160 --> 01:46:37,920 Speaker 1: just called my hair and and well that's what they're 2032 01:46:37,960 --> 01:46:39,080 Speaker 1: used to it. They see that every day. You know 2033 01:46:39,080 --> 01:46:41,240 Speaker 1: what I'm saying that which is it up. Wow, that's true. 2034 01:46:41,880 --> 01:46:45,240 Speaker 1: And I love how the urban legend around here is 2035 01:46:45,280 --> 01:46:46,960 Speaker 1: that if I wear a hat, it's because I was 2036 01:46:47,040 --> 01:46:49,240 Speaker 1: up to something last night. But every time I wear 2037 01:46:49,280 --> 01:46:50,880 Speaker 1: a baseball even cake, he's like, what is it? What 2038 01:46:50,920 --> 01:46:52,920 Speaker 1: are they talking about? Every time I war a baseball 2039 01:46:52,960 --> 01:46:54,479 Speaker 1: hat and I show up to work, it's like, oh, 2040 01:46:54,640 --> 01:46:56,200 Speaker 1: last night was a good night, because I guess it 2041 01:46:56,360 --> 01:46:58,719 Speaker 1: used to be either that I was at someone else's 2042 01:46:58,800 --> 01:47:01,160 Speaker 1: house or I was too lazy to comb my hair 2043 01:47:01,280 --> 01:47:03,240 Speaker 1: or something. Because you just take a shower in the morning, 2044 01:47:03,280 --> 01:47:05,639 Speaker 1: that's why. And normally like you wouldn't take a shower, 2045 01:47:05,720 --> 01:47:07,800 Speaker 1: just be wearing a hat, be like, hey, Fred got 2046 01:47:07,840 --> 01:47:11,080 Speaker 1: it in last night. Well trust me, if I got 2047 01:47:11,160 --> 01:47:14,599 Speaker 1: it in, I definitely take a shower. By the way, 2048 01:47:14,760 --> 01:47:17,160 Speaker 1: my mind it was just blown by a fact, not 2049 01:47:17,280 --> 01:47:19,680 Speaker 1: a Fred's fun fact, just another thing. But I read. 2050 01:47:19,720 --> 01:47:22,360 Speaker 1: I'll tell you about it in a minute. Mind blown 2051 01:47:22,400 --> 01:47:23,880 Speaker 1: by this. I did not know you could do this. 2052 01:47:24,360 --> 01:47:27,400 Speaker 1: I was today years old when I learned something that 2053 01:47:27,520 --> 01:47:29,040 Speaker 1: I will share with you in just a minute. Of that, 2054 01:47:29,479 --> 01:47:32,000 Speaker 1: my friends, is how you execute a tease yep. In 2055 01:47:32,120 --> 01:47:34,120 Speaker 1: this business, how I get on promos everybody, That's what 2056 01:47:34,200 --> 01:47:38,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying, I don't know if you heard that, because 2057 01:47:38,360 --> 01:47:39,840 Speaker 1: you all heard it. I didn't even know. I actually 2058 01:47:39,880 --> 01:47:41,920 Speaker 1: didn't even know that. Yeah, but I'm on a promo 2059 01:47:42,000 --> 01:47:47,800 Speaker 1: with Elvis Ranny. Guys, I just wanted to do about 2060 01:47:47,880 --> 01:47:50,559 Speaker 1: one percent of people know what? Why that would mean 2061 01:47:50,640 --> 01:47:53,800 Speaker 1: anything to anybody, but typical in our business. You know, 2062 01:47:53,840 --> 01:47:55,960 Speaker 1: there's a promo running on all of the I Heart 2063 01:47:56,000 --> 01:47:58,599 Speaker 1: stations across the country, and it's got me saying, hey, 2064 01:47:58,640 --> 01:48:01,400 Speaker 1: it's the Fred Show. She's wonderful. I really appreciate that, 2065 01:48:01,840 --> 01:48:04,400 Speaker 1: And typical to our business. I've gotten about fifteen phone 2066 01:48:04,439 --> 01:48:06,720 Speaker 1: calls from other radio personalities going, how'd you get on 2067 01:48:06,840 --> 01:48:10,760 Speaker 1: that thing? What I'm gonna play that? How'd you get 2068 01:48:10,800 --> 01:48:15,840 Speaker 1: on there? I love? Technically, it's two promos that are right, like, dude, 2069 01:48:15,880 --> 01:48:18,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's amazing. I stopped asking for things 2070 01:48:18,200 --> 01:48:19,760 Speaker 1: a long time ago, and now they give them to me. 2071 01:48:19,800 --> 01:48:22,920 Speaker 1: It's amazing. It's unbeliased, Chris crazy. That's how it's dope, 2072 01:48:23,000 --> 01:48:25,280 Speaker 1: and that's how it works exactly. We are dope, and 2073 01:48:25,400 --> 01:48:27,200 Speaker 1: that's how. That's what I tell everybody when they call me, 2074 01:48:27,439 --> 01:48:29,679 Speaker 1: how'd you get in the promo? I go, because we're dope. Yeah, 2075 01:48:29,800 --> 01:48:34,040 Speaker 1: be dope. That's me right. Yeah, I'm just gonna kick 2076 01:48:34,040 --> 01:48:36,240 Speaker 1: you talk to him from that one. Yeah, way, either 2077 01:48:36,360 --> 01:48:39,800 Speaker 1: kick you or Paulina handle all of my sort of well, 2078 01:48:40,560 --> 01:48:43,200 Speaker 1: you handle the haters for me. Tell them. Response to 2079 01:48:43,280 --> 01:48:47,800 Speaker 1: an external email, I said, send this audio. Somebody's your voice. 2080 01:48:47,920 --> 01:48:51,240 Speaker 1: Somebody emailed me in their facts and said we need you. 2081 01:48:51,880 --> 01:48:54,479 Speaker 1: We need your social Security number, bank account and routing 2082 01:48:54,520 --> 01:48:57,719 Speaker 1: in where it got you, and we need your voice 2083 01:48:57,760 --> 01:49:00,360 Speaker 1: to say hi, I'm Fred, and you can have all 2084 01:49:00,400 --> 01:49:03,000 Speaker 1: that money. Right, And I did all that and look 2085 01:49:03,040 --> 01:49:09,519 Speaker 1: what happens. Yeah, two pro votes exactly twelve training. If 2086 01:49:09,520 --> 01:49:10,920 Speaker 1: you've been listening for a little while, you know that 2087 01:49:10,960 --> 01:49:13,400 Speaker 1: whoever our new person in charge of like for the company, 2088 01:49:13,439 --> 01:49:16,160 Speaker 1: the company wide in charge of tech, they try and 2089 01:49:16,200 --> 01:49:18,000 Speaker 1: trick us like two or three times a week. And 2090 01:49:18,080 --> 01:49:19,720 Speaker 1: I know they're trying to train us like not to 2091 01:49:19,800 --> 01:49:23,519 Speaker 1: be idiots. But I'm like, guys, you really think we're done? 2092 01:49:24,200 --> 01:49:27,960 Speaker 1: Like you keep doing it, like, stop stop emailing me faxes. 2093 01:49:28,040 --> 01:49:30,200 Speaker 1: I don't believe you. Jason believed you once. I don't 2094 01:49:30,200 --> 01:49:33,519 Speaker 1: believe you. Even he doesn't believe you anymore, but not again. 2095 01:49:34,160 --> 01:49:38,760 Speaker 1: Hopefully anything to my email. I love that of the 2096 01:49:39,000 --> 01:49:40,960 Speaker 1: of the six seven people on this show, that people 2097 01:49:40,960 --> 01:49:43,639 Speaker 1: who consistently fall for it and have had to receive 2098 01:49:43,680 --> 01:49:48,439 Speaker 1: additional training are Paulina and Jason. Anybody could guess that 2099 01:49:50,680 --> 01:49:54,040 Speaker 1: may oral runoff is today. Um Yukon brought home his 2100 01:49:54,200 --> 01:49:57,439 Speaker 1: fifth national title last night, and Jason nailed it. They 2101 01:49:57,520 --> 01:50:01,639 Speaker 1: won by seventeen points. And he knew it. He knew 2102 01:50:01,680 --> 01:50:05,439 Speaker 1: it all doubt. Former President Donald Trump was charged with 2103 01:50:05,600 --> 01:50:09,200 Speaker 1: thirty four felony counts of falsification of business records, according 2104 01:50:09,240 --> 01:50:14,160 Speaker 1: to a reporter, and today he will not be handcuffed, 2105 01:50:14,320 --> 01:50:17,240 Speaker 1: no mug shot, no jail cell involved, as he reports, 2106 01:50:17,280 --> 01:50:21,320 Speaker 1: I guess for these charges. Nassam is sending its first 2107 01:50:21,439 --> 01:50:24,400 Speaker 1: Moon crew in fifty years, which includes a woman and 2108 01:50:24,800 --> 01:50:28,120 Speaker 1: a black astronaut, the first woman and the first black 2109 01:50:28,200 --> 01:50:31,639 Speaker 1: astronaut on a lunar mission. Remember the whole of spy 2110 01:50:31,720 --> 01:50:34,720 Speaker 1: balloon thing. Remember them. It was revealed yesterday that the 2111 01:50:34,840 --> 01:50:36,960 Speaker 1: Chinese spy balloon that we were talking about a few 2112 01:50:37,000 --> 01:50:39,519 Speaker 1: weeks ago that was shot down after traveling across the US, 2113 01:50:39,600 --> 01:50:43,840 Speaker 1: was able to collect signals, various forms of intelligence from 2114 01:50:43,880 --> 01:50:47,320 Speaker 1: military sites, take pictures, and transport to transmit all of 2115 01:50:47,360 --> 01:50:49,320 Speaker 1: that back to China. But we're not supposed to worry 2116 01:50:49,360 --> 01:50:51,920 Speaker 1: about that though, because we all have satellites up in 2117 01:50:51,960 --> 01:50:53,560 Speaker 1: space anyway to do all this. So I don't know 2118 01:50:53,600 --> 01:50:55,640 Speaker 1: what they're doing that for. I guess we got it. 2119 01:50:55,720 --> 01:50:57,679 Speaker 1: We got the same stuff that everyone has, the same stuff. 2120 01:50:58,160 --> 01:51:01,600 Speaker 1: They all know. So whatever. Doctor Fauci's back, and he 2121 01:51:01,680 --> 01:51:04,800 Speaker 1: seems to think that another pandemic is coming. This is 2122 01:51:04,840 --> 01:51:07,120 Speaker 1: his quote, the next pandemic, and there will be one. 2123 01:51:07,520 --> 01:51:10,240 Speaker 1: There will absolutely be an outbreak of another pandemic in 2124 01:51:10,320 --> 01:51:14,200 Speaker 1: the next year. Yeah, that's what he has to say. 2125 01:51:14,200 --> 01:51:16,479 Speaker 1: And this is a case that we've been following very closely, 2126 01:51:17,000 --> 01:51:20,120 Speaker 1: but an Arizona Dairy Queen's giant red spoon has been 2127 01:51:20,200 --> 01:51:21,960 Speaker 1: recovered by police and all as well in the world. 2128 01:51:22,120 --> 01:51:26,280 Speaker 1: It's a fifteen foot red spoon that was stolen from 2129 01:51:26,320 --> 01:51:28,360 Speaker 1: the restaurant. The most tracking part of the story is 2130 01:51:28,400 --> 01:51:31,240 Speaker 1: the guy who found it was playing Pokemon Go when 2131 01:51:31,280 --> 01:51:34,760 Speaker 1: he found it. I don't know if anyone told him no, 2132 01:51:34,920 --> 01:51:39,439 Speaker 1: but it's playing that anymore. It's SAM Day of Action 2133 01:51:39,600 --> 01:51:42,920 Speaker 1: to create Awareness and Prevention of Sexual Assault, National School 2134 01:51:42,920 --> 01:51:46,320 Speaker 1: Librarian Day to Day, and it's National Hug a newsperson 2135 01:51:46,439 --> 01:51:48,560 Speaker 1: day today as well. I'll tell you when I just 2136 01:51:48,680 --> 01:51:51,640 Speaker 1: learned a minute ago. And as with many things that 2137 01:51:51,720 --> 01:51:53,920 Speaker 1: I think are amazing, you guys are all going to 2138 01:51:53,960 --> 01:51:58,240 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I knew that, but maybe you didn't. Okay, 2139 01:51:58,439 --> 01:52:00,479 Speaker 1: I'll tell you this much. It involves an air friar. 2140 01:52:01,080 --> 01:52:04,519 Speaker 1: Oh yes, mind, mind absolutely blown. I'll tell you just 2141 01:52:04,640 --> 01:52:12,439 Speaker 1: a second on the Live from the Duncan Studios Chicago 2142 01:52:12,640 --> 01:52:22,200 Speaker 1: runs on Duncan Chicago and I Heart Radio Station. Morning. Everybody, 2143 01:52:22,240 --> 01:52:24,280 Speaker 1: glad you're here. Thank you so much. If you miss 2144 01:52:24,320 --> 01:52:26,160 Speaker 1: any part of the show, the iHeartRadio app is where 2145 01:52:26,200 --> 01:52:28,040 Speaker 1: to go search for the Fred Show. Also Fred Show 2146 01:52:28,120 --> 01:52:30,720 Speaker 1: Radio dot Com, fred Show Radio and Instagram. Um and 2147 01:52:30,800 --> 01:52:33,480 Speaker 1: if you miss stay or go Earlier it was very controversial. 2148 01:52:34,560 --> 01:52:36,600 Speaker 1: Rufio and I of course had the right perspective and 2149 01:52:36,760 --> 01:52:40,439 Speaker 1: other people had others. That's, you know, the smart women 2150 01:52:40,479 --> 01:52:43,000 Speaker 1: in the room. We're guiding him the right way, right, 2151 01:52:44,080 --> 01:52:46,880 Speaker 1: we're trying to stir it up and would make it 2152 01:52:46,960 --> 01:52:50,320 Speaker 1: worse add gasoline to it. Well, y'all, we're trying to 2153 01:52:50,439 --> 01:52:54,759 Speaker 1: do um. You know again, it's the simple stuff around 2154 01:52:54,800 --> 01:52:58,439 Speaker 1: here that it tends to be so popular. Maybe we 2155 01:52:58,479 --> 01:53:01,840 Speaker 1: should just do a like I was today years old 2156 01:53:01,880 --> 01:53:04,240 Speaker 1: when I learned something, you know, kind of bit because 2157 01:53:04,280 --> 01:53:08,080 Speaker 1: this this, I shook it by this. The topic is, 2158 01:53:08,400 --> 01:53:10,920 Speaker 1: or the headline of the article in the Huffington Post 2159 01:53:11,080 --> 01:53:14,120 Speaker 1: is how to get more meals out of a box 2160 01:53:14,200 --> 01:53:18,400 Speaker 1: of cereal. So cereal is expensive. It's always kind of 2161 01:53:18,439 --> 01:53:20,439 Speaker 1: been expensive in the grocery store. It's it's getting more 2162 01:53:20,479 --> 01:53:26,679 Speaker 1: expensive though. Apparently there are ways to stretch your cereal though. Okay, 2163 01:53:26,800 --> 01:53:30,240 Speaker 1: one is you can freeze a box of cereal to 2164 01:53:30,400 --> 01:53:33,160 Speaker 1: keep it from going stale. I did not know that. 2165 01:53:33,360 --> 01:53:35,639 Speaker 1: That's not the one that that guy has me shook. Though. 2166 01:53:36,560 --> 01:53:38,960 Speaker 1: You can use the cereal and other meals like breading, 2167 01:53:40,040 --> 01:53:41,519 Speaker 1: you know, something like that. You don't want to waste it. 2168 01:53:41,800 --> 01:53:43,400 Speaker 1: You could add it to desserts. I got all that. 2169 01:53:43,600 --> 01:53:46,600 Speaker 1: Here's the one. If your cereal is stale, did you 2170 01:53:46,760 --> 01:53:49,519 Speaker 1: know that you can bring it back to life in 2171 01:53:49,600 --> 01:53:53,240 Speaker 1: the air fryer or the oven. What kind of cereal 2172 01:53:53,320 --> 01:53:57,800 Speaker 1: were talking here? Like, apparently you could put cereal in 2173 01:53:57,920 --> 01:54:01,439 Speaker 1: your air fryer and it's bakes it again or something 2174 01:54:01,479 --> 01:54:03,800 Speaker 1: and brings it back to life. I'm trying to see 2175 01:54:03,880 --> 01:54:06,080 Speaker 1: here what the explanation for how this is or how 2176 01:54:06,160 --> 01:54:11,240 Speaker 1: this works. I don't understand the science. Um I did not. 2177 01:54:11,360 --> 01:54:13,439 Speaker 1: I didn't know you could do this gets rid of 2178 01:54:13,520 --> 01:54:20,000 Speaker 1: the staleness. Yeah, let me see here. Um yeah, I 2179 01:54:20,040 --> 01:54:22,519 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know how you do that. You 2180 01:54:22,560 --> 01:54:25,080 Speaker 1: could read crisp it an easy way to bring stale 2181 01:54:25,120 --> 01:54:27,719 Speaker 1: cereal back to life in an oven or air fryer. 2182 01:54:28,120 --> 01:54:30,559 Speaker 1: Spread the cereal in an even layer on a baking 2183 01:54:30,640 --> 01:54:32,760 Speaker 1: sheet and crisp it and the three and a three 2184 01:54:32,840 --> 01:54:34,960 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty degree fahrenheit oven for about five to 2185 01:54:35,080 --> 01:54:37,160 Speaker 1: ten minutes. In the air fryer, cook it for three 2186 01:54:37,400 --> 01:54:41,920 Speaker 1: ninety for two to four minutes. That's wild to me. 2187 01:54:42,680 --> 01:54:44,640 Speaker 1: You can bake your damn cereal and eat it and 2188 01:54:44,800 --> 01:54:48,640 Speaker 1: make it better. The air fryer does everything. This is 2189 01:54:48,680 --> 01:54:52,000 Speaker 1: why everyone needs one. Have you ever had anything You 2190 01:54:52,120 --> 01:54:53,760 Speaker 1: guys make it seem like the air fryer is this 2191 01:54:53,880 --> 01:54:57,080 Speaker 1: magic device. You make it seem like everything you put 2192 01:54:57,120 --> 01:55:00,240 Speaker 1: in there comes out like Wolfgang Puck made it. Yes, 2193 01:55:00,360 --> 01:55:04,080 Speaker 1: save my relationship. Have you ever put anything in the 2194 01:55:04,120 --> 01:55:06,320 Speaker 1: air fire and it's and it came out not like 2195 01:55:06,440 --> 01:55:08,760 Speaker 1: wolf King Buck cooked it? Like? Okay, this was not. 2196 01:55:09,200 --> 01:55:11,120 Speaker 1: You make it seem like it just transforms into a 2197 01:55:11,200 --> 01:55:13,560 Speaker 1: gourmet meal. You put it, it's got a it's gotta 2198 01:55:13,640 --> 01:55:16,720 Speaker 1: mess up. No, I had one meal that messed up. Yeah, 2199 01:55:16,800 --> 01:55:19,440 Speaker 1: what was it? Pork chopsky out sagi was gross. That 2200 01:55:19,520 --> 01:55:28,480 Speaker 1: was your braiding though I didn't use. I don't know. 2201 01:55:28,480 --> 01:55:33,240 Speaker 1: I don't know why. I'm I consider myself a man 2202 01:55:33,360 --> 01:55:36,240 Speaker 1: of has many random, you know, pieces of knowledge in 2203 01:55:36,320 --> 01:55:37,920 Speaker 1: my head, and I did not know that. I don't 2204 01:55:37,920 --> 01:55:40,040 Speaker 1: know why. I'm blown away by this because there's nothing 2205 01:55:40,120 --> 01:55:42,360 Speaker 1: worse than stale cereal, and I wouldn't do it with 2206 01:55:42,480 --> 01:55:46,120 Speaker 1: anything that had like fruit in it or dehydrated. But 2207 01:55:46,240 --> 01:55:50,680 Speaker 1: I'm guessing if it's like I don't know, or something corn, 2208 01:55:50,800 --> 01:55:54,640 Speaker 1: I guess you can bake it taste good. Again. You're 2209 01:55:54,680 --> 01:55:59,080 Speaker 1: welcome there you go, Yes, thank you. Yeah, no one's 2210 01:55:59,120 --> 01:56:03,760 Speaker 1: thanking me except for you, but you're welcome. Show. I 2211 01:56:03,920 --> 01:56:07,000 Speaker 1: just read that. I mean the amount of just information 2212 01:56:07,160 --> 01:56:10,880 Speaker 1: that we weed through every day, you know, to make 2213 01:56:10,920 --> 01:56:12,880 Speaker 1: the show, and every now and again. I'm just like, 2214 01:56:13,040 --> 01:56:14,880 Speaker 1: you've got a be kidding me. Someone just asked, can 2215 01:56:14,920 --> 01:56:17,000 Speaker 1: you do it with potato chips? I don't know. In theory, 2216 01:56:17,440 --> 01:56:21,760 Speaker 1: probably in theory it should work. Um our audio journals 2217 01:56:21,800 --> 01:56:23,600 Speaker 1: like we're writing in our diaries. We call them blogs. 2218 01:56:23,640 --> 01:56:25,080 Speaker 1: I haven't done one in a minute, I don't think. 2219 01:56:25,120 --> 01:56:29,960 Speaker 1: But dear blog, Um, how many people in here actively 2220 01:56:30,000 --> 01:56:36,720 Speaker 1: go into therapy? I know? Okay too, Caitlin and Paulina 2221 01:56:36,760 --> 01:56:40,320 Speaker 1: raise their hands. Um, we are actually not it's actually 2222 01:56:40,360 --> 01:56:46,440 Speaker 1: not a television show. So nobody can sigue with the room. 2223 01:56:48,600 --> 01:56:50,960 Speaker 1: They raise your hand and then say, I'm like, oh okay. 2224 01:56:51,680 --> 01:56:53,880 Speaker 1: And then I had that. I had that what second 2225 01:56:53,880 --> 01:56:56,560 Speaker 1: of concern with Can I share that? Or is that private? 2226 01:56:57,320 --> 01:56:59,120 Speaker 1: That was what I was worried about, Like you raised 2227 01:56:59,160 --> 01:57:00,840 Speaker 1: your hand? But like, was I supposed to say a number? 2228 01:57:00,920 --> 01:57:04,000 Speaker 1: Can I say my name? That you guys are equally 2229 01:57:04,160 --> 01:57:06,120 Speaker 1: as crazy as I am. We are proud to be 2230 01:57:06,160 --> 01:57:10,240 Speaker 1: in therapy. No, I agree with you. Um. The number 2231 01:57:10,280 --> 01:57:14,200 Speaker 1: one question that I get as somebody who attends weekly 2232 01:57:15,720 --> 01:57:18,440 Speaker 1: and advocates for it for other people as well, is 2233 01:57:19,080 --> 01:57:22,000 Speaker 1: does it work? That's the number one question I get? 2234 01:57:22,160 --> 01:57:25,080 Speaker 1: Does it work? Work? And my answer is I don't. 2235 01:57:25,760 --> 01:57:29,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. Like do I feel better? Yes? Do 2236 01:57:30,080 --> 01:57:32,480 Speaker 1: I get to bounce things from work and personal life? 2237 01:57:32,520 --> 01:57:33,960 Speaker 1: You do? I get to bounce it off of this 2238 01:57:34,120 --> 01:57:36,520 Speaker 1: person and then they you know, they do their therapy 2239 01:57:36,600 --> 01:57:38,640 Speaker 1: thing where they put it in the blender and then 2240 01:57:38,680 --> 01:57:40,600 Speaker 1: spit it back out at you and you hear it 2241 01:57:40,600 --> 01:57:42,520 Speaker 1: in a different way or whatever. Like yeah, all that. 2242 01:57:43,480 --> 01:57:45,360 Speaker 1: But when I say to people I don't really know, 2243 01:57:46,680 --> 01:57:49,080 Speaker 1: then the immediate answer all every time is well, then 2244 01:57:49,120 --> 01:57:51,200 Speaker 1: needing a new therapist. Like It's like, it's like, every 2245 01:57:51,240 --> 01:57:53,200 Speaker 1: time you walk out of the therapist office, you should 2246 01:57:53,240 --> 01:57:54,680 Speaker 1: you should feel like you just had like you were 2247 01:57:54,720 --> 01:57:57,040 Speaker 1: just on Oprah and you just had like an epiphany 2248 01:57:57,080 --> 01:58:00,400 Speaker 1: and like an aha moment and whatever. I don't think 2249 01:58:00,440 --> 01:58:03,560 Speaker 1: that's true. Yeah, I don't think that's true. And I 2250 01:58:03,640 --> 01:58:06,000 Speaker 1: also think that other people would be a better gauge 2251 01:58:06,160 --> 01:58:08,200 Speaker 1: of whether or not therapy is work. I mean, yes, 2252 01:58:08,400 --> 01:58:10,800 Speaker 1: do I feel better, do I think it's helpful? But 2253 01:58:10,920 --> 01:58:13,480 Speaker 1: I also, like, I think other people in my life 2254 01:58:13,560 --> 01:58:15,600 Speaker 1: I would trust to be a better gauge of whether 2255 01:58:15,680 --> 01:58:18,160 Speaker 1: it's working for me or not. To do other people 2256 01:58:18,240 --> 01:58:20,280 Speaker 1: feel like I'm pleasant to be around most of the time? 2257 01:58:20,320 --> 01:58:22,640 Speaker 1: Do other people feel like I, you know, am able 2258 01:58:22,680 --> 01:58:26,240 Speaker 1: to manage stress or you know difficult situations better. I 2259 01:58:26,280 --> 01:58:28,720 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm not sure if it's the question I 2260 01:58:28,760 --> 01:58:31,760 Speaker 1: could answer, but I asked my therapist about this this week. 2261 01:58:32,640 --> 01:58:34,240 Speaker 1: I said, well, you know what, what do you what 2262 01:58:34,360 --> 01:58:36,320 Speaker 1: am I supposed to think about that? Like, am I 2263 01:58:36,400 --> 01:58:41,400 Speaker 1: supposed to think, yeah, yes, this works and for sure 2264 01:58:41,520 --> 01:58:44,560 Speaker 1: one hundred percent, and you know there's an endpoint where 2265 01:58:44,600 --> 01:58:48,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, good, I'm cured, and then I don't 2266 01:58:48,640 --> 01:58:51,960 Speaker 1: have to go anymore. And her answer was basically no. 2267 01:58:52,240 --> 01:58:53,880 Speaker 1: But I can't tell if she's saying that because she's 2268 01:58:53,880 --> 01:59:00,040 Speaker 1: trying to like keep her job or one client. I 2269 01:59:00,040 --> 01:59:02,360 Speaker 1: don't think that as someone for someone who doesn't go 2270 01:59:02,400 --> 01:59:05,600 Speaker 1: to therapy, I'm always recommending it to other people. Why 2271 01:59:05,640 --> 01:59:07,840 Speaker 1: don't you go? I don't know. I just I just 2272 01:59:08,200 --> 01:59:10,200 Speaker 1: haven't done it in my adult life, but I think 2273 01:59:10,240 --> 01:59:12,040 Speaker 1: you have to. But I mean, like, if you're recommending 2274 01:59:12,080 --> 01:59:13,840 Speaker 1: it to other people, then I guess I wonder why 2275 01:59:13,880 --> 01:59:16,560 Speaker 1: you yourself wouldn't because I believe it works. I do 2276 01:59:16,720 --> 01:59:18,920 Speaker 1: believe it works, and you just don't want it to 2277 01:59:18,960 --> 01:59:20,800 Speaker 1: work on you. Well, I just ever tried it as 2278 01:59:20,840 --> 01:59:23,120 Speaker 1: an adult, but I did go as a child after 2279 01:59:23,280 --> 01:59:25,800 Speaker 1: losing my mom, and I feel like it worked wonders 2280 01:59:26,200 --> 01:59:28,000 Speaker 1: and as a kid, I didn't realize, like I was like, 2281 01:59:28,160 --> 01:59:30,040 Speaker 1: why am I going to talk to this lady, But 2282 01:59:30,240 --> 01:59:32,840 Speaker 1: years looking back, I'm like, oh, that probably really helped 2283 01:59:32,880 --> 01:59:35,280 Speaker 1: me through that. So I always recommend it to people. 2284 01:59:35,600 --> 01:59:38,280 Speaker 1: I've just never as an adult, been like I need 2285 01:59:38,360 --> 01:59:41,760 Speaker 1: to go, but I think you don't. I mean I 2286 01:59:41,840 --> 01:59:43,960 Speaker 1: think everyone should go. I do, and I don't think 2287 01:59:44,000 --> 01:59:46,360 Speaker 1: you're ever gonna feel like you're healed or cured because 2288 01:59:46,360 --> 01:59:48,440 Speaker 1: we're humans and we live life every day. There's always 2289 01:59:48,440 --> 01:59:51,040 Speaker 1: gonna be things coming up. But I to me, it's 2290 01:59:51,080 --> 01:59:54,800 Speaker 1: an evolution rights jury too. I mean, I admit that 2291 01:59:54,880 --> 01:59:58,560 Speaker 1: not everybody can afford it, and our health insurance is 2292 01:59:58,600 --> 02:00:01,000 Speaker 1: certainly not helping us with that, and most people, I 2293 02:00:01,080 --> 02:00:05,840 Speaker 1: think I have the same situation. But um, it's what 2294 02:00:05,920 --> 02:00:08,400 Speaker 1: you gotta do. Though. This is my advice to you 2295 02:00:08,480 --> 02:00:11,680 Speaker 1: though as a radio personality, and you're not as weird 2296 02:00:11,720 --> 02:00:14,440 Speaker 1: as I am. But what you gotta do is what 2297 02:00:14,600 --> 02:00:17,680 Speaker 1: I did. Um many years ago, when I started with 2298 02:00:17,760 --> 02:00:20,360 Speaker 1: this lady, I said, look, I need you to help me, 2299 02:00:21,360 --> 02:00:23,680 Speaker 1: but I don't need you to fix me, because if 2300 02:00:23,720 --> 02:00:26,960 Speaker 1: you fix me, my career is over. True, Like, I 2301 02:00:27,080 --> 02:00:29,280 Speaker 1: just need you to help make my life manageable for 2302 02:00:30,080 --> 02:00:31,960 Speaker 1: me and the people around me that I care about 2303 02:00:32,280 --> 02:00:36,280 Speaker 1: but do not fix me, because then I will not 2304 02:00:36,320 --> 02:00:38,440 Speaker 1: be interesting to anybody anymore, and I'll have to get 2305 02:00:38,480 --> 02:00:41,000 Speaker 1: a job like it, I don't know, preparing taxes or something. 2306 02:00:41,400 --> 02:00:43,080 Speaker 1: Not that those people aren't interesting, but I mean I 2307 02:00:43,120 --> 02:00:45,480 Speaker 1: wouldn't be. I wouldn't have a radio show. Not everybody 2308 02:00:45,480 --> 02:00:47,160 Speaker 1: works at H and R block should have a radio show. 2309 02:00:47,200 --> 02:00:49,800 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna keep it. Really, I think even they 2310 02:00:49,840 --> 02:00:51,440 Speaker 1: would tell you they don't need to have it. I 2311 02:00:51,520 --> 02:00:54,480 Speaker 1: think my CPA if I called it right now, If 2312 02:00:54,560 --> 02:00:57,480 Speaker 1: I called Kevin right now, is that his name? Oh yeah, 2313 02:00:57,680 --> 02:01:01,560 Speaker 1: I don't even know who. Well, it's a shady deal. 2314 02:01:03,200 --> 02:01:06,120 Speaker 1: He's affordable if I should. If I were to call 2315 02:01:06,200 --> 02:01:07,960 Speaker 1: him right now and say, should you do a radio show, 2316 02:01:08,000 --> 02:01:10,560 Speaker 1: he'd say no. He would say no, But then someone's 2317 02:01:10,560 --> 02:01:17,560 Speaker 1: texting me right now. M Fred. There's always an end goal. 2318 02:01:18,240 --> 02:01:21,280 Speaker 1: After certain progress, I move my clients to BUI weekly 2319 02:01:21,360 --> 02:01:23,800 Speaker 1: and then monthly, and I graduate them. You should be 2320 02:01:23,840 --> 02:01:27,120 Speaker 1: discussing your goals in relation to your brain stem, limbic 2321 02:01:27,280 --> 02:01:32,480 Speaker 1: system and prefrontal cortex every No, you're kidding. I don't 2322 02:01:32,480 --> 02:01:35,680 Speaker 1: think that's true, because I'm no, I don't think I'm 2323 02:01:35,720 --> 02:01:38,360 Speaker 1: graduating from therapy. Do you guys feel like you're going 2324 02:01:38,400 --> 02:01:40,280 Speaker 1: to graduate from it and you're just gonna be cured 2325 02:01:40,320 --> 02:01:42,200 Speaker 1: one day and never go again. You can graduate. I 2326 02:01:42,240 --> 02:01:44,600 Speaker 1: mean some of my friends have like literally reached the 2327 02:01:44,680 --> 02:01:46,880 Speaker 1: point where they feel like what they went for has 2328 02:01:46,960 --> 02:01:49,320 Speaker 1: been solved. I think it's I mean, I think it's 2329 02:01:49,400 --> 02:01:53,200 Speaker 1: different if you if you have anxiety or depression something 2330 02:01:53,280 --> 02:01:55,720 Speaker 1: that obviously doesn't go away, then you probably should be 2331 02:01:55,760 --> 02:01:57,480 Speaker 1: in it, you know, for as long as you can. 2332 02:01:57,600 --> 02:01:59,640 Speaker 1: But I think there if you're going situationally, you can 2333 02:01:59,720 --> 02:02:02,080 Speaker 1: grab du Yeah that makes sense. Yeah, but I didn't 2334 02:02:02,120 --> 02:02:03,960 Speaker 1: go for a breakup or I didn't. I didn't go, 2335 02:02:04,200 --> 02:02:08,120 Speaker 1: you know because daddy issues or whatever. I mean I could, 2336 02:02:08,520 --> 02:02:12,000 Speaker 1: but um well I just go just as a resource, 2337 02:02:12,080 --> 02:02:13,680 Speaker 1: you know. I just think it's a good idea. It's 2338 02:02:13,960 --> 02:02:15,960 Speaker 1: great resource because you can talk to your friends all 2339 02:02:16,000 --> 02:02:20,160 Speaker 1: you want, but they're your friends and they're probably gonna 2340 02:02:20,200 --> 02:02:21,880 Speaker 1: tell you most of the time. Not only is, but 2341 02:02:21,920 --> 02:02:23,720 Speaker 1: they're probably gonna tell you what you want it what 2342 02:02:23,960 --> 02:02:26,240 Speaker 1: you want to hear, and they're gonna be supportive. It's 2343 02:02:26,280 --> 02:02:28,200 Speaker 1: so it's a therapist, but that the therapist job isn't 2344 02:02:28,240 --> 02:02:30,600 Speaker 1: to tell you that You're right. The therapist job is 2345 02:02:30,600 --> 02:02:32,920 Speaker 1: to help you, you know, sort of reconsider what you're saying. 2346 02:02:33,240 --> 02:02:36,400 Speaker 1: I try to like gently tell my friends like, hey, 2347 02:02:36,560 --> 02:02:39,040 Speaker 1: like you should try therapy because I am like the 2348 02:02:39,520 --> 02:02:42,280 Speaker 1: free therapist, and they go, no, I have you, and 2349 02:02:42,360 --> 02:02:46,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh god, please go. I can't handle all 2350 02:02:46,040 --> 02:02:49,840 Speaker 1: this problem everybody's problems, you know, Like I'm like, no, 2351 02:02:50,360 --> 02:02:52,920 Speaker 1: you should pay someone you like to pay me. You 2352 02:02:52,960 --> 02:02:54,840 Speaker 1: should team up with a therapist and like give ten 2353 02:02:54,880 --> 02:02:57,200 Speaker 1: percent off coup on some friends. Oh my god, code 2354 02:02:59,080 --> 02:03:00,760 Speaker 1: like the first five minutes with me or free. But 2355 02:03:00,840 --> 02:03:03,040 Speaker 1: then I'm moving you on. Yeah. I have to say though, 2356 02:03:03,080 --> 02:03:04,560 Speaker 1: like it's such a struggle. I have a lot of 2357 02:03:04,560 --> 02:03:06,640 Speaker 1: people reaching out, like how do I find the right one? 2358 02:03:06,720 --> 02:03:09,520 Speaker 1: And and my entire life I hadn't found the right 2359 02:03:09,560 --> 02:03:12,120 Speaker 1: one until just recently. I finally found someone that I 2360 02:03:12,200 --> 02:03:14,440 Speaker 1: feel like I have a connection with is helping. So 2361 02:03:14,840 --> 02:03:17,080 Speaker 1: that's what happened. Number of years ago. I got lucky 2362 02:03:17,560 --> 02:03:19,280 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh wait a minute, like this 2363 02:03:19,480 --> 02:03:21,280 Speaker 1: is oh, this is different than all the other ones 2364 02:03:21,320 --> 02:03:22,760 Speaker 1: I was forced to go to, like when my parents 2365 02:03:22,840 --> 02:03:25,120 Speaker 1: got divorced or whatever. But then I started like overthinking it. 2366 02:03:25,160 --> 02:03:27,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, wait a minute, Like it is there supposed 2367 02:03:27,320 --> 02:03:28,440 Speaker 1: to be a like a Do I get like a 2368 02:03:28,480 --> 02:03:30,080 Speaker 1: star at the end of this or like a badge 2369 02:03:30,160 --> 02:03:31,760 Speaker 1: or something like in the military. Do I get like 2370 02:03:31,840 --> 02:03:34,040 Speaker 1: one of those little things that goes on the board 2371 02:03:34,160 --> 02:03:35,920 Speaker 1: you know that says I went to you know, therapy, 2372 02:03:36,040 --> 02:03:38,280 Speaker 1: or like the little color you know what I mean, 2373 02:03:38,760 --> 02:03:40,400 Speaker 1: I get like a medal of honor or something, yeah, 2374 02:03:40,640 --> 02:03:43,040 Speaker 1: patch or something, and it's like, oh, you graduated, You're done, 2375 02:03:43,080 --> 02:03:45,040 Speaker 1: You're cured. Oh I don't think. I don't think that's 2376 02:03:45,080 --> 02:03:47,080 Speaker 1: ever gonna happen. What did you like? What did you 2377 02:03:47,200 --> 02:03:49,040 Speaker 1: like about her that made her feel like this is 2378 02:03:49,120 --> 02:03:52,160 Speaker 1: the one for me? She's hot? No, I'm not side 2379 02:03:52,160 --> 02:03:54,240 Speaker 1: of it. That's not true. But she's very attractive. But no, 2380 02:03:54,440 --> 02:03:56,360 Speaker 1: that's not it. I don't know. Um, you know what 2381 02:03:56,480 --> 02:03:58,840 Speaker 1: it was. I'll tell you what it was. Yeah, every 2382 02:03:58,920 --> 02:04:01,840 Speaker 1: therapist I've ever been too, as soon as they hear 2383 02:04:01,920 --> 02:04:04,440 Speaker 1: I have an estrangement with my father, that's all they 2384 02:04:04,520 --> 02:04:07,360 Speaker 1: want to talk about. They it's like too easy, Like, dude, 2385 02:04:07,400 --> 02:04:10,400 Speaker 1: I took intro to psychology, Okay, I know about Freud. 2386 02:04:11,320 --> 02:04:13,640 Speaker 1: You know this is too basic, it's too simple. And 2387 02:04:13,800 --> 02:04:15,760 Speaker 1: she was the first one that was like she you know, 2388 02:04:15,920 --> 02:04:18,200 Speaker 1: a few weeks, gets to baseline, hears me out, and 2389 02:04:18,280 --> 02:04:20,760 Speaker 1: then she's like, okay, well then you know, let's talk 2390 02:04:20,800 --> 02:04:22,800 Speaker 1: about X Y Z. And that wasn't even on the list. 2391 02:04:23,320 --> 02:04:25,120 Speaker 1: And she's like, yeah, I don't you know, we can 2392 02:04:25,160 --> 02:04:26,800 Speaker 1: talk about that. But I don't think if you I 2393 02:04:26,800 --> 02:04:30,160 Speaker 1: don't think that's if you resolve that in whatever whatever terms, 2394 02:04:30,200 --> 02:04:33,000 Speaker 1: I don't think, then you're just normal and you don't 2395 02:04:33,040 --> 02:04:34,720 Speaker 1: have any issues, and you'll you don't have to talk 2396 02:04:34,760 --> 02:04:36,880 Speaker 1: to me ever again. And she was the first one. 2397 02:04:37,040 --> 02:04:39,240 Speaker 1: Everyone else is like, tell me how you feel about 2398 02:04:40,160 --> 02:04:43,400 Speaker 1: your dad? Oh yeah, And I'm like, this too easy, 2399 02:04:43,680 --> 02:04:46,080 Speaker 1: it's too obvious. Keep digging. You're making a lot of 2400 02:04:46,160 --> 02:04:49,600 Speaker 1: money here. It's expensive, right, give me something else. That's 2401 02:04:49,640 --> 02:04:54,360 Speaker 1: why I liked her. Yeah, a which is a little 2402 02:04:54,360 --> 02:04:59,920 Speaker 1: weird because, um, because I get that it's better than nothing. 2403 02:05:00,120 --> 02:05:02,040 Speaker 1: But when I went to the office, like I could, 2404 02:05:02,200 --> 02:05:04,280 Speaker 1: I could. It's like, when I come here, I think 2405 02:05:04,320 --> 02:05:06,640 Speaker 1: I do a better job here than when I'm working 2406 02:05:06,680 --> 02:05:09,960 Speaker 1: remotely because I'm here to work. I'm here to do 2407 02:05:10,080 --> 02:05:11,920 Speaker 1: the show. This is like the room you come in 2408 02:05:12,000 --> 02:05:13,680 Speaker 1: to do the show or whatever, and you go to therapy. 2409 02:05:14,200 --> 02:05:15,840 Speaker 1: You know, that's the room that you're I don't know, 2410 02:05:15,920 --> 02:05:18,000 Speaker 1: and there's a face to face and there's body language 2411 02:05:18,040 --> 02:05:19,680 Speaker 1: and there's a whole thing. Now I'm just in my 2412 02:05:19,800 --> 02:05:21,800 Speaker 1: house in my underwear basically, and I have been for 2413 02:05:21,880 --> 02:05:24,440 Speaker 1: three years, and so it's like the same place I 2414 02:05:24,520 --> 02:05:26,760 Speaker 1: sleep and eat, now I'm doing therapy there. It's like, 2415 02:05:27,480 --> 02:05:29,160 Speaker 1: you know, I guess I get in a tiny little 2416 02:05:29,200 --> 02:05:31,640 Speaker 1: way why people who work from home. You know, it 2417 02:05:31,760 --> 02:05:35,080 Speaker 1: was hard to compartmentalize for so long because at some 2418 02:05:35,200 --> 02:05:37,680 Speaker 1: point it's like I'm doing everything here. It's all the same, 2419 02:05:37,760 --> 02:05:40,040 Speaker 1: it's all one big thing. And for me, I guess 2420 02:05:40,080 --> 02:05:43,000 Speaker 1: it's easier to like, Okay, now it's time to do therapy, 2421 02:05:43,040 --> 02:05:44,640 Speaker 1: and now it's time to work. And now it's time 2422 02:05:44,680 --> 02:05:46,320 Speaker 1: and I need a place to go to do that. 2423 02:05:47,320 --> 02:05:49,680 Speaker 1: Some people, I guess can see it as a luxury, 2424 02:05:49,880 --> 02:05:51,440 Speaker 1: but I don't know. I could see maybe like fifty 2425 02:05:51,520 --> 02:05:54,520 Speaker 1: fifty being better. You don't make maybe half a home 2426 02:05:54,600 --> 02:05:57,800 Speaker 1: and half in the thing. But the body language, you 2427 02:05:57,840 --> 02:06:00,840 Speaker 1: don't get that over the It's hard to get that 2428 02:06:01,840 --> 02:06:05,680 Speaker 1: over the zoom because I only see her face basically, Yeah, 2429 02:06:05,800 --> 02:06:08,320 Speaker 1: my mom walks with her clients, her younger clients specifically. 2430 02:06:08,360 --> 02:06:10,240 Speaker 1: And I love that because she says they share a 2431 02:06:10,320 --> 02:06:12,800 Speaker 1: lot more. They're just like walking outside, you know, around 2432 02:06:12,840 --> 02:06:15,040 Speaker 1: in nature. Yeah, and I love that. So they go 2433 02:06:15,240 --> 02:06:17,880 Speaker 1: on little walks and it gets people to share more, 2434 02:06:17,920 --> 02:06:23,960 Speaker 1: I think than they would normally. Yep. Um, but hey Jackie, yeah, 2435 02:06:24,120 --> 02:06:26,720 Speaker 1: hi Jackie, good morning. You're a therapist. Oh boy, here 2436 02:06:26,760 --> 02:06:32,200 Speaker 1: we fruit therapist. Tell me something I am. So I 2437 02:06:32,320 --> 02:06:34,200 Speaker 1: love that you guys are talking about this. And I 2438 02:06:34,400 --> 02:06:37,920 Speaker 1: think that traditional therapy sitting across from the therapist just 2439 02:06:38,080 --> 02:06:41,680 Speaker 1: doesn't work. So you need to find a therapist that 2440 02:06:41,760 --> 02:06:43,680 Speaker 1: works for you. So like might no practice that I 2441 02:06:44,240 --> 02:06:46,440 Speaker 1: own with my co owner, we do a lot of 2442 02:06:46,480 --> 02:06:49,720 Speaker 1: different things. We go outside, we play sports with them, 2443 02:06:49,800 --> 02:06:52,440 Speaker 1: We take them like to eat, to get coffee. It's 2444 02:06:52,480 --> 02:06:55,040 Speaker 1: not just sit in front of each other and you know, 2445 02:06:55,480 --> 02:06:58,760 Speaker 1: to have all your deepest, darkest secrets. Cool, okay, all right. See, 2446 02:06:59,200 --> 02:07:01,120 Speaker 1: And so there are people out there. I think that 2447 02:07:01,320 --> 02:07:04,080 Speaker 1: that's what they think about when they think of therapy. 2448 02:07:04,160 --> 02:07:05,320 Speaker 1: They just I gotta go in there. I got to 2449 02:07:05,360 --> 02:07:07,320 Speaker 1: sit across from a stranger and tell themm my, you know, 2450 02:07:07,880 --> 02:07:09,920 Speaker 1: internal secrets. That sounds like you've got it eating a 2451 02:07:09,960 --> 02:07:13,920 Speaker 1: different way to appeal to people. Absolutely, yeah, absolutely. And 2452 02:07:14,000 --> 02:07:15,920 Speaker 1: the other thing is is that it's a job interview 2453 02:07:15,960 --> 02:07:18,120 Speaker 1: for the clients, right, So like if you go in 2454 02:07:18,320 --> 02:07:21,360 Speaker 1: and you don't feel that vibe, please don't go back. Agree, 2455 02:07:21,440 --> 02:07:23,240 Speaker 1: don't go back. It's up to you to make that 2456 02:07:24,120 --> 02:07:26,160 Speaker 1: um call because they think, you know, if you're a 2457 02:07:26,200 --> 02:07:28,600 Speaker 1: good therapist and you get that vibe also and you know, 2458 02:07:28,920 --> 02:07:30,720 Speaker 1: like it's nothing, it's not you, it's just it's not 2459 02:07:30,800 --> 02:07:32,880 Speaker 1: a good fit a part. Would you agree though, that 2460 02:07:33,000 --> 02:07:37,800 Speaker 1: there doesn't necessarily have to be like an end point? 2461 02:07:37,920 --> 02:07:40,920 Speaker 1: Like you know, to my point about work, does it work? 2462 02:07:41,040 --> 02:07:42,960 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I think so. And then when I 2463 02:07:43,000 --> 02:07:44,280 Speaker 1: say that, it's like, oh, you don't have a very 2464 02:07:44,320 --> 02:07:45,720 Speaker 1: good therapist. And I'm like, I think I have a 2465 02:07:45,760 --> 02:07:47,440 Speaker 1: great therapist. But I don't know. I don't know what 2466 02:07:47,600 --> 02:07:50,440 Speaker 1: the I don't know what the end is really or 2467 02:07:50,920 --> 02:07:53,760 Speaker 1: does everything there is? There shouldn't be an end. You 2468 02:07:53,800 --> 02:07:56,000 Speaker 1: should be able to go back as many times if 2469 02:07:56,080 --> 02:07:59,680 Speaker 1: you want, and throughout different life circumstances. And I always 2470 02:07:59,760 --> 02:08:02,640 Speaker 1: let people come back because why wouldn't I? They I 2471 02:08:02,760 --> 02:08:05,760 Speaker 1: know they're stories, Why would have you? I just I 2472 02:08:05,800 --> 02:08:08,000 Speaker 1: don't understand it. It's not like nine sessions and we 2473 02:08:08,120 --> 02:08:10,560 Speaker 1: work some magic and you're good, right, Like it's this 2474 02:08:10,760 --> 02:08:14,080 Speaker 1: ongoing thing. We're dynamic, we're constantly changing, so we need 2475 02:08:14,120 --> 02:08:16,720 Speaker 1: to keep keep getting that tune up. Yeah, and I 2476 02:08:16,760 --> 02:08:18,400 Speaker 1: mean it looks she's like a might the way a 2477 02:08:18,800 --> 02:08:22,080 Speaker 1: group honor is available for Jackie the therapist. You can 2478 02:08:22,160 --> 02:08:25,080 Speaker 1: log onto this. Thank you for calling it, for listening, Jackie, 2479 02:08:25,080 --> 02:08:27,560 Speaker 1: you have a good day. Yeah, thank you too. I 2480 02:08:27,560 --> 02:08:31,240 Speaker 1: don't know all these people are gonna call hey, Julie, Hi, 2481 02:08:31,560 --> 02:08:34,520 Speaker 1: I'm a therapist. Oh, Julie's a therapist. I don't even know. 2482 02:08:34,600 --> 02:08:37,200 Speaker 1: I should just open the phones up each morning and 2483 02:08:37,240 --> 02:08:38,760 Speaker 1: just tell you what I think and get it for free. 2484 02:08:38,840 --> 02:08:41,200 Speaker 1: But anyway, um, yeah, what didn't you want to say? 2485 02:08:41,280 --> 02:08:45,400 Speaker 1: Good morning? Well, I'm a child and family therapist, and 2486 02:08:46,200 --> 02:08:49,720 Speaker 1: I just think it's really important to have like goals 2487 02:08:49,840 --> 02:08:53,040 Speaker 1: for your clients and you know, make sure that you're 2488 02:08:53,080 --> 02:08:58,760 Speaker 1: making a lot of progress. And I love graduating my clients. Hmm. 2489 02:08:59,400 --> 02:09:02,000 Speaker 1: I work with though. So it's alts are different because 2490 02:09:02,000 --> 02:09:04,920 Speaker 1: they're damaged for life, you know. Yeah. I mean to me, 2491 02:09:05,080 --> 02:09:08,040 Speaker 1: it's like, I don't think there's one particular thing that 2492 02:09:08,160 --> 02:09:10,160 Speaker 1: I was there to address. I was just like, you 2493 02:09:10,200 --> 02:09:11,720 Speaker 1: know what, I know a lot of people that that 2494 02:09:12,240 --> 02:09:15,000 Speaker 1: make this a part of their their sort of regimen, 2495 02:09:15,160 --> 02:09:17,640 Speaker 1: successful people, and so I'm going to do it too, 2496 02:09:17,840 --> 02:09:20,120 Speaker 1: And so I go every week. It's almost more of 2497 02:09:20,200 --> 02:09:21,680 Speaker 1: like a luxury. It's not like I went in there 2498 02:09:21,680 --> 02:09:23,600 Speaker 1: to get over a breakup or something. You know, if 2499 02:09:23,600 --> 02:09:25,120 Speaker 1: if that were the case, then at some point I 2500 02:09:25,200 --> 02:09:27,720 Speaker 1: hope we get over that and move on or whatever, 2501 02:09:27,760 --> 02:09:30,080 Speaker 1: and then maybe I stopped going to this person. But 2502 02:09:30,560 --> 02:09:34,120 Speaker 1: that's how the kids will come back though, Like they'll 2503 02:09:34,160 --> 02:09:36,839 Speaker 1: come back in high school, then they'll go to college, 2504 02:09:36,960 --> 02:09:39,280 Speaker 1: and then they'll come back to theraity therapy. So like 2505 02:09:39,840 --> 02:09:43,600 Speaker 1: I graduate them through like each developmental phase almost. So 2506 02:09:43,800 --> 02:09:46,040 Speaker 1: it's really special to work with children. Plus, I mean, 2507 02:09:46,080 --> 02:09:47,840 Speaker 1: don't fix them because they got to come back to you. 2508 02:09:48,160 --> 02:09:50,839 Speaker 1: You gotta make money, Julie, I mean, you can't completely 2509 02:09:50,880 --> 02:09:54,080 Speaker 1: fix these people. It's bad for business. You know what. 2510 02:09:54,200 --> 02:09:59,120 Speaker 1: There's so many bad therapists out there that I have 2511 02:09:59,200 --> 02:10:01,960 Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, Julie's like, I know exactly what the 2512 02:10:02,000 --> 02:10:04,080 Speaker 1: problem is here, but I'm gonna just spoon feed this 2513 02:10:04,080 --> 02:10:05,360 Speaker 1: to you because they got to get at least ten 2514 02:10:05,400 --> 02:10:07,480 Speaker 1: sessions out of you, because this is it's a business. 2515 02:10:07,880 --> 02:10:10,400 Speaker 1: It's a business. If you're a therapist, get your butt 2516 02:10:10,560 --> 02:10:14,480 Speaker 1: in the office, stopping lazy, go to your client. Hey, okay, 2517 02:10:15,200 --> 02:10:19,360 Speaker 1: interests making a statement in the industry right now on 2518 02:10:19,440 --> 02:10:21,640 Speaker 1: the Friend Show. Thank you, Julie. I'm glad you called me. 2519 02:10:23,400 --> 02:10:28,000 Speaker 1: She called out your therapist. She did, Yeah, she did.