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Speaker 1: What's up, everybody? And welcome to another episode of Bachelor

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Speaker 1: Happy Hour. I'm your girl, Rachel Lindsay and joining me again,

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Speaker 1: which I'm so pleased about. It's my wonderful co host

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Speaker 1: Becca kou Friend. Hello, everybuddy, what's up? You got? You

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Speaker 1: gotta have like a what's up everybody? Y'all? Grocery store

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Speaker 1: Joe was here. He was like, what up? What up?

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Speaker 1: And we were lying joining I need a new text line.

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Speaker 1: I guess. I don't know. Sometimes when I put on

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Speaker 1: the spot, I started to say words that I usually

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Speaker 1: would never say. Okay, so I just said, y'all, and

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Speaker 1: I'm from Minnesota. We don't say that there. Y'all is universal.

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Speaker 1: Everybody says it. Now I feel like overseas people were saying, y'all,

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Speaker 1: we're overseas. I don't know. I think I wanted to

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Speaker 1: make that up, so now I'm saying things that I

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Speaker 1: may have They were actually speaking another language, but it's

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Speaker 1: kind of like y'all. Well, listen. Ever since you've been

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Speaker 1: a guest host on a Bachelor Happy Hour, you've been

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Speaker 1: a co host, which again you are today, but I

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Speaker 1: have yet to put you in the hot seat. And

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Speaker 1: everybody who comes to Bachelor Happy Hour sits in the

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Speaker 1: hot seat. Yeah no, seriously, cue the music. Now it's

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's as intense as the one that

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Speaker 1: you're used to with Chris Harrison. But this is doable.

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Speaker 1: But Chris Harrison, it's it's that was more intense because

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Speaker 1: you're in front of a live audience. This may be

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Speaker 1: more intense because because questions like like there, we're not

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Speaker 1: on TV, so I can pretty much fucking say anything

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Speaker 1: like that. So I'm gonna see my cell phone. Known, guys,

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Speaker 1: it's been fun. Care no, no, no, don't worry. It's

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Speaker 1: gonna be a good time. You're gonna have fun no

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Speaker 1: matter what. So let's get right to it now. One

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Speaker 1: of my favorite memories of you was on the fifteen

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Speaker 1: year reunion, the Bachelorette reunion, you told the story about

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Speaker 1: how you and Garrett broke the bed doing one of

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Speaker 1: your happy couples. Now, wait a minute, you didn't have

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Speaker 1: to tell us that story because we all saw it

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Speaker 1: the next day. It was like, h what's wrong with

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Speaker 1: that headboard behind them? That looks like it's a little

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Speaker 1: bit broken. Yeah, so I feel like that's just the

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Speaker 1: tip of the Iceberg, and you probably have some more

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Speaker 1: juicy stories to tell, So please, for all of our

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Speaker 1: Bachelor happy our listeners, do you tell. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how juicy this is, but so there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: time that you have downtime with you know, your team,

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Speaker 1: the we get makeup, and we have a beautiful stylist

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Speaker 1: downtime with your team. And I think it was halfway

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Speaker 1: through I was I was obviously very into Garrett all

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Speaker 1: the way through, but he had never for some reason,

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Speaker 1: I'd never seen him with a shirt off, and I

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Speaker 1: really wanted to. And so Gina, the makeup artists, and

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Speaker 1: I were sitting there one night and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I really want to see Garrett with a shirt off.

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Speaker 1: I just want to see what I'm working with here.

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Speaker 1: And they happen to have these T shirts that we

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Speaker 1: so she's like, oh, it's right here, just take that.

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Speaker 1: Tell him you want to see what he looks like

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Speaker 1: in it. And then we all just like catch glimpses

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Speaker 1: came through. Wait where are you were? I think we're

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Speaker 1: in last guess Okay, yes, because we were at a

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Speaker 1: row ceremony and him and I snuck away got to

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Speaker 1: take it off a little like Chippindale style. The camera

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you were asking all the relevant questions

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Speaker 1: to me. I think I would have liked when I

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Speaker 1: I feel like you might want to put that out there.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't. But I will say I when we were

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Speaker 1: he's he's looking fun, he's getting back in the gym. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you what's a juicy story, because I'm trying to think, well,

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Speaker 1: what was a juicy story from my season? Um, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you I almost got physical. I was. I was.

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Speaker 1: I was physically ill on the two on one on

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Speaker 1: my season. You didn't have to go, no, I did.

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Speaker 1: But I realized how much like when people talk about

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Speaker 1: can't think of anything crazy. I mean, did you sneak

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Speaker 1: no cameras, but we weren't alone. We were with the producers.

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Speaker 1: I did also. I think it was on Garrett's hometown. Actually,

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Speaker 1: we usually they keep you separate, you know, in the vehicles,

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Speaker 1: if people didn't know that. But Garrett and I had

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Speaker 1: but that was fun. I think we just made out

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Speaker 1: are times I was adamant though I was like, I

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Speaker 1: just let you be at it. Yeah. No, absolutely, And

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Speaker 1: We're living in California. Now, we got a dog, We're

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Speaker 1: talking about potentially buying a house. Like all these adult

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Speaker 1: and it's not all of the glitz and the clam

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Speaker 1: I always have your own bathroom, which is very important.

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Speaker 1: So it's like we have our separate living quarters in

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Speaker 1: It's so funny. I'm listening to you talk about the

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Speaker 1: of Brian and I and I think a successful way

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Speaker 1: to Becca and she now, that's for your daughter. This

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Speaker 1: is for my child. Okay, who's gonna have the baby first?

427
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Speaker 1: So we talked about Minno, who's obviously your little fur baby.

428
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Speaker 1: But you have another baby? Do you know where I'm

429
00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,480
Speaker 1: going with this? You do you have another baby? I'm like,

430
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:41,159
Speaker 1: special announcement. No Be the label, Yes, really really working

431
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,920
Speaker 1: on now it's all come to fruition. It's out there. Yes,

432
00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 1: um tell us about Well, I want to know how

433
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,520
Speaker 1: you came about, not with the name, but she's like

434
00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,879
Speaker 1: the concept and how you decided to do it. In

435
00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,400
Speaker 1: a world where people seem to be having their own

436
00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 1: fashion lines, Be the label seems to be so different

437
00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 1: from anything that I've seen in regards to at least

438
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 1: the Bachelor franchise. So Be the label is solely loungewear.

439
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: And that's the part that I mean. I yes, on

440
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:12,960
Speaker 1: the show, we're always stressed up and put together because

441
00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 1: we have a lot of help. I don't like to

442
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 1: wear I don't like to wear clothes. I don't like

443
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:24,120
Speaker 1: to wear uncomfortable clothes. I'm literally always in my sweats

444
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,720
Speaker 1: or my leggings when I'm at home. That's all I'm in, Like,

445
00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 1: that's all you'll find me in, probably to the point

446
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,240
Speaker 1: where Garret's like, can you not wear the same black

447
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:35,639
Speaker 1: leggings every day? So I started the loungewear line just

448
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 1: because I feel like the majority of women like to

449
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 1: be comfortable, and I still wanted something that when you're

450
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 1: at home or even running Errandson going out, you want

451
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,119
Speaker 1: to feel put together. You don't want to feel like

452
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 1: a slob or like this is your old ripped T shirt.

453
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,359
Speaker 1: So I started working with this amazing team up in

454
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 1: la and the designer who she's fabulous. She actually came

455
00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 1: she worked on the lunge were line for Tommy Hill figure,

456
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 1: so she has a lot of it experience. But it's

457
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:05,119
Speaker 1: been such a unique process for me because I didn't

458
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: go to school for fashion. I this is totally new

459
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:09,680
Speaker 1: to me, so I'm still learning as I go, but

460
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,360
Speaker 1: it really is a creative outlet for me to get

461
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 1: my hands on fabrics and prints and patterns and styles

462
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 1: and picking out colors like I have such a say

463
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 1: in it, and I want really involved, very inviting that

464
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 1: I'm slapping my name on some clothing line like in

465
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: it from beginning, yes, yes, like so when you say

466
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 1: my baby, like it is legit my baby. It's probably

467
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 1: the scariest, one of the scariest things I've ever done,

468
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: because you never know, especially if it's something so new

469
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 1: to you never know how it's going to go. And

470
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 1: so we started, I think up in January or February,

471
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 1: so it's been a long time coming, almost a year now,

472
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 1: and I wanted it to be a fun thing to

473
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 1: where the followers of our Instagram a help beet the

474
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Speaker 1: label official, can have a say, and so I really

475
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,160
Speaker 1: wanted to be interact with them where it's like, well,

476
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 1: if anyone follows it, like we'll slap on different options

477
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 1: for colors and pick what the followers want or I

478
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 1: get all these different dms and feedback on styles and

479
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: if they want oversized things, and so we try to

480
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 1: incorporate what everyone's asking for within the line. I mean,

481
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 1: it's a very slow process because you can only have

482
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 1: a certain amount of pieces for each line, but it's

483
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: been a very fun creative outlet. So there seemed to

484
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 1: be so many different aspects when it comes to BE

485
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,200
Speaker 1: the Label, explain to us the partnership that you have

486
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 1: with Women One. So Women one is a nonprofit organization

487
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 1: who so back backtracking a little bit, when I started

488
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 1: up with Be the Label, I really wanted to have

489
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 1: some sort of charitable aspect and so that was something

490
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: that I'd driven home with the team since day one.

491
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: And so we partnered with Women One because what they're

492
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: doing is amazing. All of or not I shouldn't say

493
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,159
Speaker 1: all of three percent of our proceeds or sales go

494
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:04,199
Speaker 1: to There's a couple different sides to this. You can

495
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 1: sponsor a family over in Africa. They're also building what's

496
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: called the center of Worth for women to go to

497
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: there that need resources they need maybe it's more or

498
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 1: better education, they need information on their sexual rights, whatever

499
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 1: it might be, literacy, and so we're they're building the

500
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 1: center of worth where women can go to a safe

501
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: place to get access and tools to what they truly need.

502
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 1: And then also playing into that is a lot of

503
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 1: times what people don't realize is when these girls leave

504
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: their families and their homes. I mean, they're a huge

505
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: factor of how these families function and survive and and

506
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 1: and get things done, whether it's around the home or

507
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: make money, and so they then also help the families win.

508
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 1: The women are gone to better support them as well.

509
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 1: So it's love it. There's so much to it, and

510
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 1: it's so it's so humbling to Dale who who started

511
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 1: when in one she's she's amazing to talk to and

512
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,640
Speaker 1: to hear her speak on it, it's truly empowering. I've

513
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 1: asked her and I don't think it's going to happen

514
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 1: anytime soon, but I've asked her if we could potentially

515
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 1: do a trip out there to help get involved with

516
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: this with the Center of Worth. But it's it's something

517
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: that's really special and I think it's important at least

518
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 1: for this brand to give back in some way. Yeah. No,

519
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: I think that people should follow suit in what you're doing.

520
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 1: That if you're going to do something you know that's

521
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: passionate to you, as far as be the label which

522
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 1: has come about, because that's this is a lifestyle for you,

523
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: this is how you are, this is what you wear,

524
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,880
Speaker 1: and that comes out in your clothing. But then also

525
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: you're giving back at the same time to something you're

526
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,199
Speaker 1: also passionate about. I can't unsee it. I'm like, well,

527
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 1: if I'm going to do something, then this is exactly

528
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 1: how I need to be doing it as well. And

529
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 1: I will say I'm pretty outspoken with like women's rights,

530
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: inequality and so, and that's just not in the US

531
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 1: like that it needs to be everywhere. I think that

532
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 1: it needs to be talked about even more and we

533
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: need to start making a great change. And that education

534
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 1: is so important. I mean my mom was a teacher,

535
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 1: but education, Yeah, I gotta get them together. So I

536
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: see how important that can be. And I can see

537
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 1: how important, you know, a woman's sexual education is and

538
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: getting access to all of the right tools and necessities

539
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: that you need to be successful and carry out in

540
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: this world. And so that's why I really wanted to

541
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 1: focus on a charity that gave back to the women

542
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 1: and supported them. You sound like you need to be

543
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 1: running for office. I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no,

544
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: I mean are their local elections going on in Carlsberg please?

545
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,199
Speaker 1: So I can't. I couldn't. I don't do politics. Ee,

546
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,640
Speaker 1: that couldn't bury someone in it. I couldn't do it either.

547
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: It's like, just give me a picket sign and let me, like,

548
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: you know, like protests, lobby, do a stand in, sit

549
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 1: in something I will say I did. I did the

550
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 1: Women's Marching Minnesota a couple of years ago, and I

551
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: think I had one of the best signs and I

552
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 1: still have it to this day. What did it say? Well,

553
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: so I made two of them. Um okay, you know

554
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 1: the sound like you know with opp Yeah, you know. So.

555
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: One of the sponsors of it was Planned Parenthood, So

556
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 1: I did like the logo like you down with PP

557
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 1: like Planned Parenthood. And then the other side, which was

558
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: like tick credit for this one. It had a bunch

559
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,640
Speaker 1: of glitter on it. It said keep your politics away

560
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: from my lady bits. Oh that's very cute. I love

561
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: and you should still have I'm never getting rid of it.

562
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: I know, I really really like that. Um okay, So

563
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: I have to keep going because your resume is just

564
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 1: beyond Not only do you have baby minnow? Well no,

565
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 1: let's just start from the beginning. Not only do you

566
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: have a fiance in Garrett, now, you have a fur

567
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: baby with baby Minnow, you have your second child, be

568
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 1: the label, and you also have this brand new project

569
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 1: that you announced on Bachelor Happy Hour the other week

570
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: you've got Bachelor Live on stage. Yes, yeah, And I

571
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 1: mean just hearing you talking about Bachelor Live on Stage,

572
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: it sounds like the ultimate experience. Like I'm almost kind

573
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 1: of like maybe we should change some of the concept

574
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: of the show and incorporate a little bit of basslor

575
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: live on stage in it. I mean you're talking Broadway choreography, music, dating, Becca, Ben.

576
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: This show will give you everything it's it is, and

577
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 1: I think people still kind of question what it's going

578
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 1: to be about or what it will look like. It's

579
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: basically like if you were to buy tickets to a

580
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: Broadway show, you're getting that. I mean, we have a

581
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: full set design that changes. We have obviously Ben and

582
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 1: I are co hosting together, but you have a full

583
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: dance crew everything. My favorite part is the costume changes.

584
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: What the jealousy, Rachel, I'm you're going to make an appearance,

585
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 1: let me let me know if you need to ticket

586
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: some time off you need a subage speak off, Rachel.

587
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: But um, it's just it's going to be such a fun,

588
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: interactive thing for the audience because people, I think in

589
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: vaterination gets so invested in the leads and the contestants,

590
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: and this is a fun way to bring it to cities.

591
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: So we're gonna go to sixty six cities. It's gonna

592
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: be a crazy wild ride because Ben and I are

593
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: going to be living out of tour buses for sixty

594
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: six well shows more. It's gonna be a long time.

595
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 1: But it's just a way for people to feel like

596
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: they're part of the Bachelor world. We're gonna have Bachelor

597
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: Askue dates, We're gonna have the Row ceremonies, but it's

598
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: also a way for them to interact and feel like

599
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: they have a say in someone's love life locally. Yeah,

600
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: I guess I would ask what is the key difference?

601
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: Because if I'm if I'm a Bachelor nationer just made

602
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: that up bachel Nation, and I'm like, Okay, i know

603
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: the season's about to come on. I'm watching the season,

604
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 1: but why do I want to go to the show, Like,

605
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: what's the key difference that's gonna make me get a

606
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 1: different experience at Bachelor Live on Stage? Well, I mean,

607
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: besides watching Ben and I maybe dance, it's so Bachelor

608
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 1: Live on Stage. Since we'll be any each city, it's

609
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: gonna feel like home. People are gonna know the people

610
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: who are in the show with us. I mean, we are,

611
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: of course picking the Bachelor contestants from each city. We're

612
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: picking the contestants to date this guy, so it's like

613
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: you can watch this love story in your area unfold.

614
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: There's going to be so many bits of each city

615
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: incorporated to each individual show that it's really going to

616
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, I know this person, or I know

617
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: this place, or I know what they're talking about. So

618
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: it's not going to feel so like you so unreachable.

619
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: And one thing that I love and that I actually

620
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: will be doing with some of my single friends is

621
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: nominating them so people can go with and I don't

622
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: want to give too much away, so we'll have some contestants,

623
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: but we're also going to be pulling from the audience.

624
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: So if anyone's friends know that they're going to be

625
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: one of the contestants or a potential, like you want

626
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: to go and support them, like, since it's going to

627
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: be so interactive, like they're going to have a say

628
00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: like I want to hear big friend groups or families

629
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 1: in the audience like cheering on their girl or cheering

630
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: for the bachelor. It's just going to be very hands

631
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: on and something that you can't do from a TV screen. Yeah,

632
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: I love that people are going to feel like they're

633
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: a part of it, you know what I mean, Like

634
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: you watch it on TV. It's a fantasy, but now

635
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: you actually have a say in it, you can relate

636
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: to in it. My god, you might even be in it.

637
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 1: You have no idea what you're going to experience exactly,

638
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,719
Speaker 1: because this is all so new. I know you're excited

639
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: about it, But are you nervous at all? Yes, I

640
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: of course. I mean I can't really talk normally, so

641
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: to do it on the stand. You've been a fantastic

642
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: girls stop in front of thousands of people is a

643
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 1: little nerve wracking. We're talking thousands. I love it. Yeah,

644
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 1: it'll be I mean, and I'm sure like stars born.

645
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: Literally you said thousands and I saw stars for But yes,

646
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 1: I'm nervous. But Ben, I think is the perfect person

647
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: to be doing this with because he I mean, he's

648
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: been on stage before, he of course has this podcast.

649
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 1: He just is so good about making not only me,

650
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: but everyone around him just feel comfortable and welcome and

651
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: like like they've known him forever. So he's going to

652
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: be such a good support system throughout this and watching

653
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: him interact with fans who I've seen, or even members

654
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: of the crew who were meeting now for workshops for it,

655
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: like everyone just I think, feels at home with him

656
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: and like they've known him forever. So I think it's

657
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 1: going to be a great show, but it'll also have

658
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 1: like that comfort factor like you hopefully kind of know us. Okay,

659
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 1: so you say that Ben is the perfect co host,

660
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 1: which I actually agree with you. I think that you

661
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: two are going to be fantastic together. I know there's

662
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: some choreography. I like, how is he doing? I mean,

663
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: the last time I saw Ben dance was when I

664
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: challenged him at the lip sync battle that beat him? Right, Okay,

665
00:32:56,040 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: will you kill them Rachel, you kill bad? No, in

666
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 1: all honestly, thank you, But in all honesty, I thought

667
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: Ben was gonna win when Ben crawled on the floor.

668
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: So this is why I'm telling you, guys, if you

669
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,239
Speaker 1: don't know what you're gonna get when it comes to him,

670
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: Because I know you guys have started choreography already and

671
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: you're learning the moves, but the actual date is February thirteen,

672
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you Ben crawled on his dragged his

673
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 1: body on the floor. Well, rachels that probably wasn't the

674
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: last time you'll see that. I'm just saying, lady, Yeah,

675
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a good one. Well, and Ben is

676
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: such a good sport with everything. Okay, Becca, this all

677
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: sounds so exciting. I wish you were starting Bachelor Live

678
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 1: on Stage today. Unfortunately I know that is not the case.

679
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: So the people and myself will have to continue to

680
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: keep waiting. But how can they get tickets to see

681
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: this spectacular of it? Well? Please, everybody, I would love

682
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 1: to see you there. There will be meeting greens after

683
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: each show, so you can go to Bachelor Live Onstage

684
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: dot com if you want to apply, or if you

685
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: have any single friends that you want to nominate Bachelor

686
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: Live on Stage dot com. I'm already there. Mentally, I'm

687
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: already there. Now. We do have the holidays coming up.

688
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,800
Speaker 1: Do you and Garrett have any like special traditions that

689
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: you like to do? Oh wait, no, the number one

690
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: question is where are you celebrating? Because you always get

691
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: that we actually don't know yet. So it's it's tough

692
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: this year because my sister just had a baby, his

693
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 1: brother just had a baby, so our families are all

694
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: over the place, So we're still trying to decide um

695
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 1: regardless of where we're going to be minnows ready to fly.

696
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 1: She's coming with us. She's also passed out right now.

697
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, the only did you ask what holiday traditions? Yeah?

698
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: What are you? Do? You have any holiday traditions that

699
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: maybe you can Garrett of starting some? I don't know

700
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: we are going to start some. So we didn't have

701
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: a tree last year because we were traveling so much.

702
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 1: So I'm already asking him if we can get multiple trees. Okay,

703
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: but the only, the only, I wouldn't even call it

704
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 1: a tradition. The thing that I love about the holidays

705
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: I love nutcrackers, like not the physical one in your

706
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: hand where you eat the food, but like the little men.

707
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 1: And so I've been stocking up all year on are

708
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: you serious? I'm nutcrackers? How many do you have? I

709
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: have a handful right now. I have given some away

710
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 1: as gifts. Okay, so it's not massive. But I did

711
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,719
Speaker 1: actually meet a woman when I was buying my last

712
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: couple who had I think three hundred and sixty eight

713
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 1: and she's I mean, she's cools. Can I be honest?

714
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 1: I think they're horrifying. Do you mean, they kind of

715
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: are creepy, But but I think they're just so vintage.

716
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 1: That's what I like, is like the old kitchy Christmas stuff. Yeah,

717
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,320
Speaker 1: I just I think it's cool if that's the tradition.

718
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 1: I don't think it's three hundred and sixty six or

719
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 1: whatever that number was cool, But I just, yeah, there's

720
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: something about them that just is disturbing to me. Well,

721
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 1: you're going to be really disappointed in your holiday gifts

722
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 1: that I give you this Well, what I was going

723
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 1: to say is, don't give me a nutcracker. I'll take

724
00:35:55,880 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 1: be the label fine, but not for me. But since

725
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: this year is coming to an end, and we know

726
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:08,919
Speaker 1: we started Bachelor Happy Hour this year, and because we're

727
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 1: coming to the end of the year, I feel like

728
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 1: it's only right and it's very, very fitting that we

729
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 1: celebrate the end of twenty nineteen on Bachelor Happy Hour

730
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: with a fun countdown and revisit the top five OMG

731
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 1: moments on the podcast so far. Like, it's hard to

732
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: limit them to just five because there have been a

733
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: lot of juicy moments and I know you haven't been

734
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: there for all of them. But like we had to

735
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 1: narrow down to top five. I feel like we should

736
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 1: have honorable mentions. I'll try to remember that and then

737
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,800
Speaker 1: you try to think of some too. But here we go.

738
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: We're going to start with number five. Number five is Nick.

739
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: Have you met Nick. I've met him in person once, Okay,

740
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:53,840
Speaker 1: very briefly. Okay, So number five is Nick talks about

741
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: a civil war happening within Bachelor Nation. I feel like

742
00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 1: there's a civil war brewing amongst Bachelor Nation cast. You

743
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: get like, I just feel like, here's the thing when

744
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 1: the civil war, because I know which side. I'm all,

745
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: here's the thing, here's the thing, here's the thing the North.

746
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:17,799
Speaker 1: Uh like social and it's all social media's fault, um

747
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 1: like with like you're like in the middle of it.

748
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: When when I like on Caitlin's season was kind of

749
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: the beginning and with them in social media height and

750
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 1: then JoJo's season and now it's like we're full blown

751
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: to social media, and then it's also gotten younger, and

752
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: then there's like, um like yeah, all the people like

753
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: the JoJo's and Caitlin's and Tanner and Jade and me,

754
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: and like you're kind of in that, and then you

755
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: have like it's like Hannah and uh, Colton started this

756
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: new wave of cast members, and there's just there's this

757
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: constant like it's high school and it's like the Sharks

758
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: and the Jets, just like it's an OLG reference from

759
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: the West Side story. And everyone's just like everyone's pretending

760
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,879
Speaker 1: to be friends. Everyone's just going after the same fat

761
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: fit fund deals and everyone's just like jocking for position

762
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: and everyone's just kind of talking shit. It's kind of

763
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: fun and they're just gonna be this big rivalry. It's

764
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: like it's like the Marvel Civil War movie, like everyone's

765
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: kind of friends, like real, kind of like each other.

766
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 1: I wish he's around Tier. So Becca, do you think

767
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: that there's a civil war happening in Bat's or nation? Well,

768
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,839
Speaker 1: I think that, Uh, that is very extreme. I don't

769
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: know if i'd call it the civil war. Um. I

770
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 1: do see the change, and I feel like I'm kind

771
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: of in the middle, like Switzerland, where I don't know

772
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 1: if I even like play a partner because I feel

773
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 1: like I'm not like the og and I'm not like

774
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: because I'm a little bit older than the past contestant.

775
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 1: So I do feel it, though I do see it.

776
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 1: I think social media just has such a hand in

777
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:55,280
Speaker 1: everything these days that whether it comes to like brand

778
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 1: deals and endorsements or people just now feeling like they

779
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: can say when ever, at whatever point, they also need

780
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: to realize that that's going to have repercussions. People are

781
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 1: going to read and hear, and so I don't know.

782
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 1: I feel like in the past, like growing up watching

783
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: the show, it seems like everyone for the most work

784
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: got along. There wasn't really any beef, where now there

785
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: is more. So I just but why do you think

786
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 1: that is? Like? Why to me, there doesn't unless someone

787
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: actually says question someone's character, right, I'm not talking about

788
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: someone's actions on the show because in so many different

789
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: forms of you know, they're different media outlets or however

790
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 1: you do it through, whether it's an interview, a podcast,

791
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 1: sitting on a TV show, we all give our opinions

792
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 1: about what we're actually seeing on the show, and that's

793
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: really all you can do because we're not producers and

794
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 1: we're not behind the scenes. So unless someone is saying

795
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: something where you're attacking someone's character who they are as

796
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: a person, I don't understand the need for there to

797
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: even be a civil war or for people to be

798
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: fighting with each other. I agree, and I think the

799
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 1: main thing that it comes down to is just age.

800
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 1: To be honest, the show is skewing younger. Now we're

801
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 1: getting older, and so I think there's just that disconnect

802
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: where again and yelled at me the last time I

803
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: was on your podcast, as I said, I felt kind

804
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: of like a grandma yea, And I yelled at you

805
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: because if you're her grandma, I'm dead no. But but

806
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: I do see the age thing, and I think I

807
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 1: think when you come from the show, you know, especially

808
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 1: if I would have been I could have never done

809
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: the show any younger. I was twenty seven when I

810
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 1: first started on the Bachelor season. I was not ready

811
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: or in the right mindset when I was younger, and

812
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: I think a lot of them are now younger. There's

813
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 1: still a lot of growth and growing up to do.

814
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: And when you're forced into the situation to come out

815
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: of the show and have like all these amazing things

816
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 1: being thrown at you and people thrown at you, and

817
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: all of these great travel opportunities, it's easy to get

818
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 1: lost in the shiningness of it all and to kind

819
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: of feel like you're on top of the world. You're invincible,

820
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 1: you can say whatever, do whatever, And so I think

821
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: it just comes down to age. Yeah, I think age

822
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 1: has I think age has a lot to do with it.

823
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: And because of age, it's more of people are people

824
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 1: care about and are motivated by completely different things than

825
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: maybe the ogs are. Totally Yeah, and I've seen it.

826
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I came off of my show, well not

827
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 1: my show, so I came off as a bachelor. We've

828
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: talked about this, and I still stay in touch with

829
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: some of the girls there, Like some of those girls

830
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 1: will be friends for life. Most of them I don't

831
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:39,439
Speaker 1: talk to, if I'm being honest, just because our lives

832
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:43,879
Speaker 1: went separate ways. And and I feel like now it's

833
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: more like people come from the show and they're all

834
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: traveling together and going to these events together and appearances together,

835
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: and it's all like a very tight knit, close group.

836
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:57,399
Speaker 1: From the recent seasons that it kind of like Nick said,

837
00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 1: it feels like high school. It's kind of clicky. And

838
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's going to change, because I

839
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 1: think it's just honestly gonna keep growing for a while.

840
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 1: It just it well, No, I mean, I think it's

841
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 1: interesting that he says civil war because it's like that's

842
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: that's a battle and at some point it's got to

843
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,760
Speaker 1: come to a head and blows have to take place.

844
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 1: So it was shocking to me when he used the

845
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 1: term civil war, because I said, if we're taking this

846
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 1: this metaphor that you're using to to exactly for what

847
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:35,320
Speaker 1: it is, something is about to happen. Feel Game of Thrones,

848
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 1: Are you a lover or fight? I'm a fighter. I'm

849
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: aral lover. I'm winning. I'm on your team. I feel

850
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: like we're in a Game of Thrones episode where it's

851
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: like the North versus King's Land. Who are you on

852
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: Game of Thrones? I'd be dead, I'm sure you would.

853
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 1: For sure we are killing the Night King. Yeah, all

854
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: of it. You know what. I feel like I could

855
00:42:56,239 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: be Brand of Tarth only because she's like like winning Powerman.

856
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 1: I'm not a good fighter, but I think I could

857
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:05,959
Speaker 1: get scrappy if I had to. Brand got to sleep

858
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: with Jamie, so I'm all about it. That is true.

859
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: And I was still a little weird at out with that,

860
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: only because Brand's gotta get some No, she definitely does.

861
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: I love her. Jamie. I'm like he grew on me

862
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: a little bit, But she could have done better. I'm

863
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: just saying I actually see you as a sansa. Oh

864
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: really yeah, like people thought they knew her. And then

865
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 1: at the end she was like, actually this is what

866
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 1: I remember when the show started. Okay, we're getting a home.

867
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 1: Actually no, no, you know what I'm tearing because I

868
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 1: just like to drink. Okay, that's who I am. I

869
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:42,800
Speaker 1: like my wine too much. Okay, Next OMG moment. Next

870
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 1: OMG moment is when Jed leaves listeners torn over his

871
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: explanation of the dock quote unquote and it's meaning in

872
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 1: his relationship with Hailey Stevens. What the hard part is

873
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 1: to understand is the saying I'll wait for you, meet

874
00:43:57,400 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 1: you at the dock, or I remember what you said,

875
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: and then thinking that that was and then going and

876
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: telling Hannah, you know you thought that it was over right, Like,

877
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,360
Speaker 1: I don't understand. I can't connect those two things, do

878
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And I think a lot

879
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: of people listening or and I think that same thing.

880
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: So I want to give you the opportunity to sort

881
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 1: of explain that, right. I would really like to touch

882
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 1: on the dock and a lot of people will probably

883
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: not believe this. But if you went to Haley and

884
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 1: even asked her, she would tell you the truth on this,

885
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,319
Speaker 1: I would hope. But the doc is a metaphorical thing

886
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: for meditation that I taught her. That's what it was.

887
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: It was not a physical doc, and to the public eye,

888
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 1: it's going to look like an actual doc. And when

889
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 1: I read that note back, I was like, damn it.

890
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 1: That looks like I'm saying, let's meet at this dock.

891
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: But I practice meditation. I'm passionate about it. It was

892
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: something that I taught her to do, to go to

893
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: this docket in her mind and to like sit there

894
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: and be at peace. And that's what that was. My

895
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: first takeaway from that is he has very loud gulps.

896
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 1: If I just the only one to notice that, I mean,

897
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: what is your take on Jed, because you know Bachelor

898
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: Happy our listeners, they've heard my take on it. I

899
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 1: actually did google the doc after he said that. I

900
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,279
Speaker 1: found nothing, not a thing. Is it something that he

901
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 1: made up? But he doesn't say he made. I took

902
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 1: it as he made and he very well could have. Okay,

903
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 1: in his defense, I took it as in meditating. Maybe

904
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: this is something that people do where he just because

905
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: he'll threw it out there. Yeah, but I also don't

906
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 1: believe anything that comes out of Jed's mouth, So you know,

907
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: before he even started, there was no doc to me,

908
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 1: I think. I mean, if I was Hannah, I would

909
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 1: not have continued the relationship. So in that regard, if

910
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:56,399
Speaker 1: I was hurt in that situation, I would have ended

911
00:45:56,440 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: it as well. I think Jed it kind of reminds

912
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: me of my ex a little bit, who when we

913
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: saw him on the show. Yes, okay, unfortunately where he

914
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 1: you know, he's more quiet, but he kind of knows

915
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 1: what to say to get by, Like his explanation is

916
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,839
Speaker 1: not great, but he knows how to word it where

917
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: people could be like okay, I get it. Yeah. I

918
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: don't meditate, so I don't know. I don't think I

919
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,400
Speaker 1: have the capacity to like chill enough where I can

920
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 1: just like envision something like call me and so I

921
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: don't see that also though, like I never read this

922
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 1: note or saw this note, so I think only Jed

923
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 1: knows in his mind in his doc. Yeah, I mean,

924
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: the whole Jed interview was an OMG moment, Like the

925
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: whole freaking thing was just it was my biggest regret

926
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: is that I wasn't here to sit and talk with Jed.

927
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 1: I'm so. I'm actually very proud of that interview. We

928
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: got a lot of flak for it for one way

929
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 1: or the other, but I'm proud of it because we

930
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: were able to talk to him first, We were able

931
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 1: to ask ask him in depth questions, and you know,

932
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:09,399
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, giving him a fair

933
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: chance and asking those questions the end of the at

934
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: the end of the day, I was like, you're full

935
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: shit still, you know he is. Yeah. I mean his

936
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 1: explanation throughout that entire interview, it's like, of course, no

937
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: one goes on the show. I think at this point,

938
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:28,919
Speaker 1: no one's going on the show because they're dead set.

939
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm going to be the one. I'm

940
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: going to meet my person. That's it. Like, there's so

941
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 1: much more to it, and like he said, he went

942
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 1: to go to pursue his music career. Did he have

943
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 1: feelings along the way? Yes, I watching it back, never

944
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: felt like it was genuine. I felt like there was

945
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 1: there was a lack of emotion there, Like I felt

946
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 1: like when they would talk and interact, it was like

947
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: a kind of a blank wall. Like he would just

948
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: kind of shut down and be like, Okay, well you

949
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: said this, so I'm going to respond in this way,

950
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: or you did this to me, so I'm going to

951
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 1: do it this way like he wants. He just knew

952
00:47:57,080 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 1: to go far enough how to keep going. I think

953
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: like the will will figure out about this whole doc situation.

954
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: Is if Hailey tells us if it was realer, Yeah,

955
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 1: physical I talk to her again? She got enough? Do

956
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 1: you talk to her again? Sorry? I don't want to

957
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: hear from her again. I just think she just got

958
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 1: way too much media attention. Yeah, it is what it is,

959
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,919
Speaker 1: real quick before you move on to the next OMG moment.

960
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: So if you were on that one on one with

961
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,479
Speaker 1: Jed and he told you that he came from his music,

962
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: would you have sent him home? You know, here's what

963
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 1: I was actually thinking about that. Um. I think in

964
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: that moment I would have definitely had a lot of questions.

965
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: I think I would have played it out a bit

966
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: more because, as we said, I think you were Ali

967
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 1: asked him this, like if that was your like main

968
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 1: intention coming on the show, like why did you then

969
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: keep bringing your guitar? And so I think I would

970
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,359
Speaker 1: have played it out to see, like, if you're here

971
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: for me, and of course I know that you play

972
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: music and you sing grain and whatever, that's one thing.

973
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: But if I already know that, you don't need to

974
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: keep doing it, so I would just play it out. Also,

975
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 1: I don't know if I don't think Ja's my type,

976
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: so probably not. Yeah, I would have send him home

977
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: in two seconds. Yeah, okay, but we all know how

978
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 1: that ended and how it worked out, and Hannah is

979
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: much better off without him and she's doing her thing. Next.

980
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: Top OMG moment of twenty nineteen, Christina learns that Dean

981
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 1: was quote in love with her unquote when they were dating.

982
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 1: Let's listen. It's been two years since my time on

983
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:28,720
Speaker 1: the beach. I had so much going to do because

984
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 1: following Paradise, for that following year, Deana and I actually tried.

985
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm still seeing each other, so that was a very

986
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: insightful and very um I learned a lot from that relationship.

987
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 1: Dean said he was in love with you on the podcast.

988
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:46,919
Speaker 1: I just want to say that on my podcast, we've

989
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 1: never said it to each other, and I didn't didn't know.

990
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: On our podcast, Dean said that he was in love

991
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 1: with you. Wow. I'll say it was never verbalized, but

992
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: the feeling was mutual. I'm calling bullshit on that one.

993
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: Keep going. I just okay, if you love somebody, you're

994
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: gonna tell them, and you're not going to use it

995
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,799
Speaker 1: as a cop out on somebody else's podcast, Like there's

996
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: what's the point at this point? And even saying that, Well,

997
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 1: that's why I believed him, because yes, well, first of all,

998
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 1: I'm in love with Christina. I mean, I just love her.

999
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 1: See her later tonight. I really am tequilin what is it?

1000
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 1: Tequelin suits Tequila um. But the reason I believed him

1001
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 1: is because it did not benefit him to say that

1002
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: at the time was he with Kaylin at this point?

1003
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 1: When he said that he was with Kaylin, everybody knows

1004
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: that I didn't. When it comes to the whole situation,

1005
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 1: I have not been team Kaylin. So to make that

1006
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 1: confession on our podcast and you're currently with Kaylin that

1007
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 1: could have really been detrimental to his relationship because he

1008
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 1: didn't have to say it. It wasn't like I said,

1009
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: were you in love with her? I don't think I

1010
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 1: even asked him that. He just said it, and I

1011
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 1: was like, WHOA. Definitely Chris did he did he explain

1012
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: why he never told that to her? No, I don't

1013
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 1: even think we asked. I think Ali and I were

1014
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: both like what, um, Yeah, I think I think he

1015
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 1: thought it was understood, which yeah, which kind of showed

1016
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: the level of maturity when it comes when it came

1017
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 1: to their relationship. But it was definitely like an O

1018
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 1: M G. I mean I literally might have been on

1019
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: my phone like, girl, let me tell you what. Can

1020
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 1: you just repeat that, I'm going to put my phone

1021
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 1: on speaker real quick for my girl here. No, but

1022
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 1: I mean it. I mean it seems assuming they'll still

1023
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 1: be together in this podcast. I mean, it seems like

1024
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: it didn't hurt Dean's relationship with Klein. But that is

1025
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: why I believed him, because that was a risky thing

1026
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: to say, being in a relationship with someone who we

1027
00:51:56,480 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: know had a tumultuous relationship with Christina. That's true. That

1028
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 1: is a good point. I guess I don't know enough

1029
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: of again, because I didn't watch all of Paradise, I

1030
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,479
Speaker 1: don't know enough of what. I didn't watch the season

1031
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: that they were on years ago, so I don't know

1032
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: what the extent of it was, But I just I

1033
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 1: have a problem. I I know, I season I kept

1034
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 1: pushing honesty, and so it's like, if you felt that

1035
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: for somebody in the moment, you should have said that

1036
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: and not not to say it was a cop out. Now.

1037
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. And maybe he said it because he

1038
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 1: truly meant it. Maybe he said it because he wanted

1039
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: to appear like more emotional, like he did have that capacity.

1040
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm not sure because I don't really know, Dean. But

1041
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:45,800
Speaker 1: I just if you, if you feel something that strongly

1042
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:49,839
Speaker 1: about and loves a big deal, then you shouldn't throw

1043
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:51,880
Speaker 1: it around lately, and you should tell that person. I

1044
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: will say in the moment. I will say in the moment,

1045
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 1: he made it seem like he didn't realize he did.

1046
00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: It was kind of like, in reflecting back once he

1047
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,759
Speaker 1: lost her, he was like, oh, I really believe I was,

1048
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 1: you know, I thought I was in love with her

1049
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 1: at the time it got it seemed more like that, Okay, um, okay,

1050
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the next, the next one, the next. Oh.

1051
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,280
Speaker 1: Number two on the list of the top five OMG

1052
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 1: moments of twenty nineteen, Ari admits the real reason he

1053
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: went to Winner Games was to see Lauren's producer and

1054
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: ask how she was. Okay, I want to talk to

1055
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: you guys about this because Lauren, we've never spoken, but

1056
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 1: I have spoken about you actually with Ari before I

1057
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:35,320
Speaker 1: knew it was you. Okay, we want you want to

1058
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: take take us back in time a bit, because the

1059
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 1: first time I met Ari, it was during we were

1060
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: on the road to Winner Games. Okay, and we had

1061
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: a blast. Okay, it was it not We had so

1062
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 1: much fun. So we're in the middle of nowhere could

1063
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 1: have been Iceland from the way the way it was looking,

1064
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 1: and we had nothing to do but eats me, Ari

1065
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: and Jojo eat and drink, and so we're having such

1066
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: a good time. And so Ari just really started opening

1067
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 1: up to us and talking to us, and Jojo and

1068
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 1: I are listening and so this is also our season.

1069
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:08,800
Speaker 1: Was the first time I got to watch a season

1070
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 1: and had no um, yeah, tell me names. I don't

1071
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 1: want to know names. Yes, So it was one and two.

1072
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 1: That's how we were referring to things. And I'm just

1073
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:24,759
Speaker 1: listening to him talk about um, the season, and I

1074
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 1: and Jojo and I look at each other and we

1075
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 1: we were like, you know, we really think you like

1076
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 1: that number two, that number two, I think that's who

1077
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 1: you need to be with. And at the time we

1078
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 1: didn't know it was you. So it's it's funny that

1079
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: that we knew that and we were holding onto that

1080
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 1: secret and then come to find out, you guys are

1081
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: it is number two. Number two was the one, and

1082
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: now you guys are happy, you know, married parents. I'm

1083
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: dating number three. So and you don't make it a

1084
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:58,479
Speaker 1: weird job. It's all right, you know, it's the Bachelor world.

1085
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: That's what we signed up for. Yeah. But I remember

1086
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 1: like thinking about Winner Games and I was like, oh,

1087
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 1: you know, if I go to Winter Games, I can

1088
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: probably see Lawrence producer and then maybe like see how

1089
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 1: she's doing. You know. I was like, that was my

1090
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: whole motivation for actually going to Winter Games. Is it

1091
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 1: weird to hear that? Yeah? Well, yes, it is my

1092
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 1: first time of hearing it. Um Where do I begin? Um? Okay.

1093
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: The timeline of everything is very interesting because when Ari

1094
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 1: and I I mean to me, obviously this is fresh

1095
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:39,919
Speaker 1: and new. Um. But from how he made it seem

1096
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: the entire time after we got engaged to when he

1097
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:48,919
Speaker 1: ended things that like his feelings for her were done,

1098
00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 1: the only thing I ever knew that he felt bad

1099
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 1: about is how things ended, and like for hurting somebody,

1100
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 1: which I could understand, which is normal, which of course

1101
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 1: is normal. Like and I and I had even talked

1102
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: to Garrett after our season, like I feel bad for

1103
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 1: like you don't have enough time to really explain everything

1104
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:08,400
Speaker 1: to your runner up, And so I totally could empathize

1105
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 1: in that regard. But everything that he had said when

1106
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 1: him and I were together was like I'm happy, Like

1107
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:18,320
Speaker 1: I feel bad about it, but I don't want I

1108
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 1: don't want a part of that. Like. So, so what

1109
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: I was being told versus what he was really thinking

1110
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 1: is clearly completely different. Um. You know what I think

1111
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 1: pisses me off the most is that right before Winter Games,

1112
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 1: he had me knit a scarf so he could wear

1113
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,439
Speaker 1: it to Winter Games. And that took me a long

1114
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 1: time so he could wear it and be like, oh yeah,

1115
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 1: my fiancynit the scarf, And that took me so many hours.

1116
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: That's what I pissed about the show. I don't know,

1117
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: I don't remember that. I wish I would have known

1118
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 1: about that scarf. That scarf at the time, I didn't

1119
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 1: know about I didn't know who you were the time

1120
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:56,319
Speaker 1: at the time he was saying it, you were number

1121
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 1: one and number two, yeah, and we were just like,

1122
00:56:58,280 --> 00:56:59,800
Speaker 1: my gosh, you just kind of need to nip this

1123
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,839
Speaker 1: in the bud because this is this does not sound okay. Well,

1124
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 1: I mean know, like I think it's obviously he loved Lauren,

1125
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 1: like he cared about her. He should have been much

1126
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:12,359
Speaker 1: more upfront about that. But I had said since day one,

1127
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:15,240
Speaker 1: when I knew he was struggling with like that guilt,

1128
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 1: I was like, why don't you reach out to her?

1129
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: I was always the one I remember. Yeah, So it's

1130
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: not like he needed to go and see this producer

1131
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 1: and ask how she was doing. I had told him

1132
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 1: right away, like you should. If you need to get

1133
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 1: that guilt off your chest, you should do it. Yeah.

1134
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 1: So it was never that was never the issue. So

1135
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 1: I think like for him to say, oh, I just

1136
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 1: wanted to check in on her, like you could have

1137
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 1: done that on your own. Yeah, he clearly had aleteria motives,

1138
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: which we all know how that story ends. So moving on,

1139
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 1: moving on, good riddance, all right. Moving on to number one,

1140
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 1: Blake calls out Kaylin for her confusing Timeline says they

1141
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 1: were talking for months, but while they were talking, she

1142
00:57:55,760 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 1: was still quote heartbroken over Colton unquote for after the

1143
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:04,439
Speaker 1: final rows and interviewing to be the bachelorette. And let's

1144
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 1: hear that I was with Colton and he was head

1145
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:11,480
Speaker 1: FaceTime to Cassie. Give me months because I don't think

1146
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: the timelines add up, so I want to like put

1147
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: every Yeah, this was roughly so the first time I

1148
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 1: ever like it was on the FaceTime was the like,

1149
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: roughly mid December, the exact day, December twenty eighteen, you guys,

1150
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: let's go. Um. So, yeah, so we had I was

1151
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: just with Colton FaceTime Cassie and I was with him,

1152
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 1: and of course you know Kayln Cassie our best friends.

1153
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 1: She popped in and I said hi. You know, it

1154
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: was one of those Colton's like Colton did he like

1155
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: set us up? It was one of those it was

1156
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 1: like you should have his number ball at that kind

1157
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:41,919
Speaker 1: of thing. Started talking. Um talked to Hill about mid March.

1158
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: I want to say March eighth is when it was

1159
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 1: kind of like we didn't really talk, but we we

1160
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 1: had talked to Hill about mid March, but it wasn't

1161
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 1: like it was very sporadically to find talking because to her,

1162
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 1: its facetiming three times a day. We definitely didn't FaceTime

1163
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 1: three times a day. We did FaceTime, we did, but

1164
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 1: it was definitely not three times a day. And we

1165
00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: did it. How much was it? Um? I want to

1166
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: we facetimes twelve times? Probably total in that like, what

1167
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 1: was that four months? Say? Twelve fifteen times? Yeah? Okay, yeah,

1168
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 1: and you seemed confused, Ali, because that is not what

1169
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 1: Kaylin said. Yeah, that's not that is not what she said. Yeah,

1170
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 1: twelve fifteen times through the three months that we talked

1171
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:21,360
Speaker 1: to Can we get your phone records? I'm learning from

1172
00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 1: chel I want the facts. Yeah, um, I guess within that,

1173
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to establish a timeline because, like Ali said,

1174
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 1: this is where things get sticky. Did you watch Women

1175
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: Tell All on Colton Season? I did, and that's filmed

1176
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 1: about February, yep, towards the end of February, and you

1177
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: guys were still communicating at this point. You get why

1178
00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:47,240
Speaker 1: I'm asking that question. You watched it, right, and what

1179
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 1: we saw was how emotional Kaylin was about Colton and

1180
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,600
Speaker 1: how the love that she had for him, and how

1181
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: heartbroken she was, and she was crying and if as

1182
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 1: a viewer you felt that. But according to what both

1183
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 1: of you guys are saying, even Kaylin says she had

1184
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 1: talked to you for a few months before Stage Coach.

1185
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 1: So it's confusing as to why you have such Kaylin

1186
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: had such tears and talking about Colton and how and

1187
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 1: it seemed very present tense. But in the meantime she's

1188
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 1: talking to you and has some sort of connection. You know,

1189
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 1: for her, it seems like maybe it was deeper, but

1190
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 1: for you it was more of like something casual getting

1191
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 1: to know each other. What was What were your thoughts

1192
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 1: when you watched Women Tell All and you saw that? Yeah, so,

1193
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 1: and yeah, I think you even kind of saw it

1194
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: on Colton's face a little bit. I think he was

1195
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:39,760
Speaker 1: kind of like taken aback by the way because he

1196
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: knew that we were talking. I think you kind of

1197
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: saw on Colton's face too, he was kind of like,

1198
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 1: wait a minute, din't they lived together at that point?

1199
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: Didn't Cassie, Kaylin and Colton all lived together? Yeah? Basically

1200
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 1: I think yeah, yeah, yeah, I just don't think that

1201
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:53,680
Speaker 1: they had cast at the Bachelorette at that point. Now

1202
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: that's very correct. Yes, So I feel like I've said

1203
01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 1: a lot when it comes to the Kaylin situation, So

1204
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 1: I'm very curious as to your thoughts and opinions on it. Yes,

1205
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I'll chime him. So this it's a sticky

1206
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 1: situation because obviously I don't think anyone's going to know

1207
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: the full truth. We're going to hear both sides of

1208
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: both Kaylin and Blake's story. I will say this though,

1209
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not close with Blake anymore. Obviously got

1210
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 1: to know him on the show. He though, I think

1211
01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 1: he's a pretty honest dude. I think he tells the truth.

1212
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 1: He dealt with a lot, and I don't think I

1213
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:43,880
Speaker 1: don't think his timeline is inaccurate. I think what he's

1214
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: saying really was pretty factual. Again, I don't know full details,

1215
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 1: but I think, like just I know Blake a little

1216
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: bit better than Kaitlin because obviously I spent two months

1217
01:01:56,600 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 1: with him. I think he's not a sky and I

1218
01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:03,360
Speaker 1: don't think he was put through the wringer. But I

1219
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 1: think that everything he's saying in the timelines really do

1220
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 1: add up. Um. I think what they both went through

1221
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 1: was really crappy. I mean, I I don't envy either

1222
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 1: of them. Also, I don't think I would ever want

1223
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 1: to do paradise after everything. You could not pay me

1224
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 1: enough to ever do that. But um, I have to

1225
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 1: say I think I believe Blake a little bit more

1226
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:35,720
Speaker 1: in this regard. Um. Granted, I didn't read all of

1227
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: the text messages that were released because they were deleted.

1228
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 1: You probably well. And also so when this all went down,

1229
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 1: Garrett and I were in Bali and my phone I

1230
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 1: was like thirteen hours ahead of back here, So my

1231
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: phone phone was blowing up from people being like, oh

1232
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: my god, can you believe what's going down? Guess what's happening?

1233
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: And I had no idea. I'm like, I'm just trying

1234
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 1: to sip a bean a clot and like get a

1235
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 1: sun tan over here. Um. So it wasn't until I

1236
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 1: came back that I started up on some of it.

1237
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, when you're in talks for the

1238
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: bad surette it. It's not that quick. I mean, like

1239
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: you have some time to think about it. And I'm

1240
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 1: sure she had time to chat with him, but leave

1241
01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 1: her options open. So I think my take on it,

1242
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 1: and I'm probably going to get a lot of backlash

1243
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:22,400
Speaker 1: for this is that like what Blake said went like

1244
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 1: it probably was more of a not an open relationship,

1245
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: but a much more chill like let's see what happens

1246
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:32,680
Speaker 1: like nothing serious. Yeah, I don't think that you should. Well,

1247
01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 1: thank you for sharing your opinion. I don't think you

1248
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 1: should get flak for it. I think you're being honest,

1249
01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 1: which is what you do. Like when you podcast or

1250
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: you're you know, analyzing the show. You look at what

1251
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 1: you're being shown. Sometimes you have outside variables like the

1252
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 1: text messages or all this drama surrounding their situation, and

1253
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 1: you give your opinion on it. I don't think that

1254
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with that, And I think that you know,

1255
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:01,840
Speaker 1: as long as you have a reason for believing that,

1256
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 1: that's fine. Just like you're open for someone disagreeing with

1257
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:08,400
Speaker 1: what you say. I think the hardest thing is when

1258
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 1: doing this and giving an opinion. When it comes to

1259
01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:14,400
Speaker 1: women giving opinions about women, a lot of times the

1260
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 1: negative is, oh, my goodness, you're not empowering women, and

1261
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 1: it's like, no, I'm not empowering bad behavior. It is

1262
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:26,720
Speaker 1: nothing against I'm saying I can't stand her as a woman.

1263
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 1: I'm just not agreeing with the behavior. That was exhibited

1264
01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:33,240
Speaker 1: by this woman, and there is such a difference in that.

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Speaker 1: And like you said from the very beginning, we will

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01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,440
Speaker 1: never know the truth. We weren't there, we weren't involved

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01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 1: with it. But it looks bad on both ends. I've

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01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 1: said what I said on prior podcasts and I mean them,

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01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 1: and I mean it seems like everybody is doing just

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01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 1: fine now and hopefully they leave all that energy in

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01:04:53,240 --> 01:04:56,240
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen and in twenty twenty they can move on

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01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 1: with their lives, do their own thing and we don't

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01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 1: have to talk about it. Yeah. I just wanted to

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01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 1: say right now, starting twenty twenty, no one should go

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01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 1: to Stagecoach and no one should talk to each other

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01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 1: before Paradise unless Stagecoach pays you. Because the publicity this

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01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 1: stage Coach has received from the Bachelor franchise, you can't

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01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 1: pay for that. You could not pay me enough to go,

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01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 1: I would amember. I know I better be paid and

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01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 1: performing on the flyer everything for me for me to

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01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 1: be able to go. And I mean that like as

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01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 1: in a Blake who's given it so much attention. Well,

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01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 1: that sums up our top five OMG moments. It was

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01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 1: so hard to get them down to five. But I

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01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:38,240
Speaker 1: think we've done a really good job of summarizing the

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01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:42,439
Speaker 1: top five. I really enjoyed doing this though, Like well,

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01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 1: I've enjoyed listening to you week after week. I will

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01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 1: say I want to flip the script a little bit,

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01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:51,360
Speaker 1: because Rachel, you have done such an amazing job at

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01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:55,440
Speaker 1: hosting this week after week. I now want to try

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01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 1: to take your place and do the interviewing. Nope, that's it,

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01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 1: we haven't We're done. Thank you twenty nineteen. We'll see

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01:06:03,120 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 1: you guys in two thousand. Rachel, besides me, who has

1294
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: been your very favorite interview so far? Oh that's an

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01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:16,480
Speaker 1: easy one. Nil Lane's Lane. He was a treat you guys.

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01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 1: I know you enjoyed listening to the podcast with him

1297
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 1: because you thought you were going to hear one thing,

1298
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 1: you got something completely different. But it could do it

1299
01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 1: no justice. He needs to be in the room with

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01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:27,240
Speaker 1: him and fill his energy. He just needs to co

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01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 1: host with you with us at his house selfishly. That's yes,

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01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:37,160
Speaker 1: all right. So of course, in the spirit of the holidays,

1303
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 1: we have to play a game. We love to play

1304
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 1: games on Bachlor happy hours, so of course we're going

1305
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 1: to play Nati or nice. And Becca and I are

1306
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 1: going to be playing Santa Claus here, and we're basically

1307
01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 1: going to name a member of bach Nation, and then

1308
01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna say whether they're on the nice list or

1309
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 1: the naughty list. Got it? I feel like we're going

1310
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 1: to get in trouble for this. This is, this is,

1311
01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 1: this is not going to end well. But starting off,

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01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 1: Demi Burnett naughty, your nice, naughty, but only because I

1313
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 1: love her and she's a little sasas, I'm gonna put

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01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:06,160
Speaker 1: her on the nice list, Okay, and I mean naughty

1315
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 1: in the best way. Debby, Yeah, Blake, not even nice?

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Speaker 1: Nice nice, yeah, nice nice. Colton, let me ask this

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01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 1: Colton naughty. Okay, we'll go with that one. Ashley I naughty?

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01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 1: Oh what about you? I would say? Nice? Okay, Clay

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01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:39,920
Speaker 1: nice nice? Yep, Tasia nice, Dean naughty? Nick oh a special.

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01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 1: So I'm starting the civil war? He just merely mentioned it, Okay, Okay,

1321
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 1: you know he's the general of this battle. Grocery store, Joe,

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01:07:48,920 --> 01:07:51,600
Speaker 1: you should Okay, it's nice. I think we're gonna agree

1323
01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:58,480
Speaker 1: on that. Nice. Trista Sutter nice, nice, Tanner naughty. J

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01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:05,560
Speaker 1: P J naughty. I have known that there there's no

1325
01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 1: bad blood. I know I do love Titia, but I

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01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 1: would say, I mean, okay, the way you mean demmy

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01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 1: naughty in a good way, I mean jpuj naughty in

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01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:17,160
Speaker 1: a good Okay. You guys around are naughty nice less?

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01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:24,000
Speaker 1: That makes sense, all right? Um Kaylin naughty jet naughty.

1330
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 1: He doesn't ring it cold, Hannah j n nice are okay?

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01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: And the spirit of you being my co host fucking naughty,

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01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:40,960
Speaker 1: super naughty. He's the one with the reindeer in the sleigh.

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01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:48,240
Speaker 1: Just kidding what Chris Harrison nice naughty. I don't only

1334
01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:50,240
Speaker 1: say naughty. I know what you mean when you say

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01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: that thought. Garrett nice? Nice? Why is it Brian's name

1336
01:08:54,000 --> 01:09:00,120
Speaker 1: on here? I'll say Brian nice? Miss man out definitely naughty. Oh,

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01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:01,920
Speaker 1: I was gonna say nice. It's she's been so good

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01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 1: since she's been here. She's been very good since she's

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01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:05,760
Speaker 1: been here, because she's on her best behavior. I had

1340
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:08,240
Speaker 1: a prep for the podcast. He's so good, wait till

1341
01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:10,599
Speaker 1: she leaves a little nugget of coal in the corner.

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01:09:11,280 --> 01:09:15,560
Speaker 1: Copper nice. Definitely nice. He's like, he's so good. He is,

1343
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 1: he's single, he is, but he's also is he yeah,

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01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 1: Well that's meant all right, Becca. I've had too good

1345
01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 1: of a time chatting with you. It's been so much

1346
01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 1: fun to host these podcasts with you. I hope you've

1347
01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:35,640
Speaker 1: enjoyed yourself too, though I have enjoyed myself, I think

1348
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:38,639
Speaker 1: too much. Yeah, she's hurt from laughing. It's always such

1349
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:40,800
Speaker 1: a fun time with you. But I am happy as

1350
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:43,840
Speaker 1: much as I loved batchlor Happy Hour. I am glad

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01:09:43,920 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 1: this is the last episode of the year, and I'm

1352
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:48,680
Speaker 1: glad that it's with you. I have to tell you that.

1353
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 1: But I have one more question for you before we go. Okay,

1354
01:09:52,680 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 1: do you and Garrett have any goals or resolutions for

1355
01:09:55,479 --> 01:10:00,040
Speaker 1: twenty twenty? Oh? Man, I think we definitely do you.

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01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 1: I think our number one goal is to buy a house.

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01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 1: I don't know where where yet, um whether we're going

1358
01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:09,920
Speaker 1: to live in it right now or just use it

1359
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 1: as an investment property. But I want to be an

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01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: adult and finally buy. I'm seeing your renting. I'm over it.

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01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 1: I am so I'm so team renting, by the way,

1362
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 1: are you? But I like what you said, like if

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01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:21,240
Speaker 1: we buy, we'd probably end up renting it out because

1364
01:10:21,800 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 1: our new Year's resolution needs to be. Where are the

1365
01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:26,719
Speaker 1: Ava Solo's living? Yeah, that's that's really the fume culture.

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01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:30,120
Speaker 1: That's it's looking that way at least if this Ava

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01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:32,720
Speaker 1: Solo has to say in it. But no, Becca, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much again for being here, Thank you bat

1369
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 1: Nation for listening. Happy holidays so you guys be safe.

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Speaker 1: We will see you in twenty twenty