WEBVTT - Sympathy Pains 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:04.160 Hell, We suck at being newlyweds with Dean Aungler, Haylen Lurkey, 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:06.880 and Jared Haven an iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:10.680 What is going on? Everybody? Welcome to an all new. 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:14.400 Episode of Suck, Suck, Sucking and Sucking More. 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:16.280 This is your host. 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:21.320 This is your host, Dean Sucky Bell, joined by Kaylen 0:00:22.040 --> 0:00:28.400 sucker Bell and Jared's sucky Mcsuckerson Haven and Jared Jared 0:00:28.440 --> 0:00:30.560 sucks in more ways than one this week? 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:32.920 Do you wanna do you guys want to take a 0:00:32.960 --> 0:00:34.400 gander of what I'm talking about? 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:36.960 What happened this week fantasy football? 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:38.720 That's right. 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:41.440 I went into I went into Monday Night with a 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:44.560 fifteen point deficit and I justin Herbert and Keenan Allen. 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:46.200 Let's just beed this up. 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:50.280 By saying that you're slowing us down and Keenan Allen 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:52.959 and they got me maybe sixteen points and I won 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:54.279 by just just. 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:57.000 The hair of my chin. So we have to have 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:59.840 you now do something. We now have to have you 0:00:59.880 --> 0:01:00.360 do something. 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:03.880 The podcast listeners choose the punishment, Yes they should. 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:08.479 Yep, they should, because I'm not creative enough to choose something. 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:12.480 But it needs to be embarrassing. But like not so embarrassing. 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:15.240 So should they send emails or comment on the Instagram? 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:16.720 How should we dictate what I think? 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:18.720 What we should I think, what we should do. I'll 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:23.440 ask for some for a video of this right here. Hey, hey, hey, 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:26.960 listeners of suck Nation out there, if you could please 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:31.880 send some ideas for Jared's punishment for fantasy football. Make 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:35.040 it make it bad bad, make it real bad, but 0:01:35.080 --> 0:01:40.880 also make it light and fun, and make it make 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:43.360 it something that he'll actually do, because sometimes people make 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:45.319 it so bad that no one would ever actually do it. 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:49.120 Yeah, they're like, post yourself naked. You know, I don't 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:50.240 want a sexual harassment case. 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:50.880 And just one. 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:52.720 He just lost one game. It's not like he lost 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:56.160 the whole league, so it can't be that bad. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:01:56.280 --> 0:02:00.639 but yeah, let's get into this riveting episode because Kaitlin, 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:02.240 obviously he's talking about fantasy football. 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:04.600 I do, I do. I'm in fantasy football. It's just 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:06.560 not that interesting to me. I don't know how interesting 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:08.960 it is to our listeners. 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:10.280 Some news with Dean. 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:14.440 We are in Carmel right now, and Dean's been pretty 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:16.600 uh oh, debilitated. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:19.240 I'm gonna be real cranky today I just been on 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:22.000 the phone with insurance for probably collective four hours over 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:23.799 the past two days, and. 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:25.120 I just. 0:02:27.240 --> 0:02:29.320 I know you hate insurance, but what is the route? 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:30.280 Because I saw this. 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:31.280 I don't know. 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:33.040 That's why I need to talk to insurance to help 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:33.600 me figure it out. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:34.560 But you can't. 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:36.000 You need to go to the hospital. 0:02:36.960 --> 0:02:38.960 Yeah, maybe I need to do that, but then. 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:41.280 Our deductible is so high, so charge me. 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:43.160 I can't go to urgent care because in an urgent, 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:47.399 urgent care can't refer you to an orthopedist. 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:49.160 They said that, we don't know if it's true. 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:52.040 It's so frustrating I am. 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:54.720 Anyways, he's been having this like crazy pain. He's been 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:58.160 talking to doctors. He had an appointment scheduled after like 0:02:58.240 --> 0:03:00.560 five hours on the phone, they called it. I'm literally 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:02.840 right before this podcast, and they were like, sorry, we 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:05.960 didn't assign, you didn't work out, You're we're canceling your appointment. 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:08.720 And he is in the most excruciating amount of pain, 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:12.440 Like when it hits, he's just shaking and I feel 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:12.880 so bad. 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:14.600 Yeah, it's not fun. 0:03:15.440 --> 0:03:18.959 It's so weird because it like comes and goes, like 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.239 right now it hurts a little bit, but I would 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:23.880 say for like sixteen to eighteen hours a day, don't 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:26.640 even notice it. But then there's like six hours where 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:29.800 it's the most excruciating pain in my life, and it 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.960 just throbs and throbs and throbs, and every time it throbs, 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:37.080 it's like sends me into the stratosphere in terms of pain. 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:40.040 It is the most painful thing I've ever experienced. It 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:40.960 started on Sunday. 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:45.240 Started on Sundays. It's arounday four Wednesday, So day four 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:48.480 you're still experiencing excrucating pain. How often does it happen 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:48.880 per day? 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:52.120 It probably like three times a day, for like an 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.120 hour at a time, three or four times for an 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:56.760 hour at a time. Yeah, it's like literally is insane. 0:03:56.800 --> 0:03:58.600 I feel like such a whimp too, because I'm like, 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.200 why is this her? 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:01.600 How can I make it? 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:03.400 And so like Kaylyn got me a heating pad, I've 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:05.440 got my their gun, and like that helps a lot, 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:09.840 but it's still is like like insufferable, and I have 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:11.160 no idea what it is and I can't make an 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:12.400 appointment to get it looked at. 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:14.640 Because you feel like a baby. 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:18.760 Because my assumption is that you can handle pain pretty well. 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:22.479 Some things that you've gone through previously, which makes me 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:25.760 feel like you're in a decent amount of pain if 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:28.640 it's really bothering you. So is this the leg that 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:30.280 you broke? What do we think the issue? 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:33.760 So there's a couple things that I think it might be. 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:35.400 It is the leg I broke in the exact same 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:37.159 spot that I broke in. There's a couple of things 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:39.719 that the Instagram nurses have advised me. 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:40.160 It might be. 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.039 No one's diagnosing it, but they're saying what it might be. 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:45.120 They're saying it could be necrosis, which is not good. 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:47.039 And that's the whole reason I got the hardware put 0:04:47.080 --> 0:04:49.520 my leg was to fight the necrosis. It's like, I 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:50.800 don't know exactly what it is, and I'm not going 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:52.800 to pretend like I do. It could be like the 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:58.080 hardware has jiggled loose or something and that's obviously causing 0:04:58.080 --> 0:04:58.520 a lot of pain. 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:01.280 It could be an infection of some or like even. 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:03.520 If I got sick or like got a cut on 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:05.440 my foot that got infected, it could come up here 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:09.679 and infect that. Or it could be like the femoral 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:13.479 neck has this cartilage, dear laborum, my laborum cartilage could 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:15.920 be really I'm angry, and like I've said, I'm just 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:18.080 going to translate into the episode. 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:20.040 Why would that affect you? Just pointed to your shoulder, 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:21.160 which is where it is. 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:24.000 No, so there, I think you have a shoulder laborum 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:26.320 and a hip labrum. I think there's I think laboram 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:28.440 is just a general term for like a socket. 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:30.800 I'm looking up necrosis. 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:32.720 Yeah, that's of. 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:34.640 All those options, I don't know which one I would want. 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:37.000 It to be the least, but yeah, maybe just a 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:38.800 loose hardware that seems the most fixable. 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:41.840 But it sucks, Yeah, and then like it'll feel better. 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:43.279 I'll be like I'm back, I'm back to normal. 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:46.320 And then we'll be sitting at dinner and like across 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:49.000 my legs weird or something, and I think it's like 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:51.760 a circulation issue, and so I might need to get 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:52.680 my leg amputated. 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:55.719 You're not gonna have to get your leg amputated. But 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:59.400 it does says that necrosis is the death of body 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:03.560 tissue in a curs when two little blow blood flows 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:06.480 to the tissue, which sounds like it potentially could be 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:09.000 that if you're saying that you feel like may sometimes 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:11.440 you cross your legs something happens where you're not getting 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:12.240 enough blood there. 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:12.960 It's so weird. 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:15.200 It's like, you know your your heart is obviously pumping 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:17.400 blood through your body, and so when the pain really 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:21.080 kicks in, it like hurts, and every time my heart 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:24.880 beats and pumps, I can feel more pain because I 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:27.080 feel like there's like a blockage of something down there, 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:30.839 and that's like what's causing the pain, like a blockage 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:33.360 of the blood vessels. So like every time the heart pumps, 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:36.240 it just like triggers a bunch of pain receptors. 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:38.799 It sucks. I don't wish this on anybody. 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:42.040 Yeah, And the tough thing is is like we just 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.600 got new insurance because we're married, we live in Vegas, 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:48.080 and we just can't find a doctor. I thought you 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:49.880 just like go to a doctor, you find a doctor 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:53.080 that accepts your insurance, But no, they have to accept 0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:56.000 you as their primary care physician. 0:06:56.040 --> 0:06:57.679 I don't know, it makes zero sense. 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:00.840 And he's like, this isn't emergency, and they're like, yeah, 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:02.520 we'll get you in on the fifteenth to twentieth and 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:05.000 he's like, no, I am in the most excruciating amount 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:08.160 of pain. But again, our deductible is so insanely high, 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:10.240 so we could go to the er, but then we're 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:12.360 just going to be paying thousands and thousands and thousands 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:12.880 of dollars. 0:07:13.400 --> 0:07:15.000 Insurance is a scam. 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:17.160 It's a scam. I've been saying this for years. 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:19.720 Insurance, well, insurance is definitely a little bit. I mean, 0:07:20.120 --> 0:07:23.400 it's important when you need it, obviously, but times like 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:25.840 this where it's frustrating, Well, why what do I pay 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:29.880 for if I can't cover anything? But you're, uh, you 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:31.640 have to find a doctor. That makes sense. But I 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:34.480 feel as if I'm going to talk to Ashley's dad 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:38.360 about this because he knows obviously a lot in this department. 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:40.160 I feel like you would be able to go to 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:43.520 the er and then send the bill to your insurance 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:46.280 and they'll be able to pay for it. 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:48.920 Yeah, you know, I think I think I might just 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:49.520 end up doing that. 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:52.240 You need to go, yeah, like it just it just 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:54.840 needs to happen, because I guess my fear would be 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:56.400 that you just let it go on too long and 0:07:56.440 --> 0:08:00.240 then something does happen where you know, well, that's a 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:01.400 you're going to lose your leg. 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:03.920 But that would suck. I could I could bear losing 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.120 my leg Like below the knee. I think I could be. 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.040 Okay with that, but this is like growing. 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:09.920 Yeah, if I was like a full if it was 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:11.880 a full leg, I'd be really really sad. If it 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:13.720 was like a below the knee amputation, I'd be like. 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:15.400 Oh, that sucks, Well, I'll survive. 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:17.080 You're being so blase. 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:20.480 I'm just saying I think I could manage that, but 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:23.280 I wouldn't be able to manage a full leg amputation. Okay, 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:25.640 But oh, what was I going to say? 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:29.800 Oh, it's so strange because I obviously got my I 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:32.560 broke my leg four years ago next month of be 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:36.400 four years And this happens sometimes, not this exact situation, 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:39.200 but like there's discomfort that I'm faced with sometimes, but 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:40.920 then all of a sudden, it just like snapped into 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:42.720 this like insane discomfort. 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:44.680 And so that's just been my life for the past 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:45.160 four days. 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.960 And I feel bad for Kailin because like she's like, 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:49.480 you know, we just checked into our hotel and carmel 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:52.520 yesterday and I like sprinted to the bed, put the 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:55.040 heating pad on and was there gunning and like screaming 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:56.920 in agony, and she's just like walking around like can 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:59.679 I help you? And I'm like, no, just leave me alone. 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:03.600 He's cranky right fully, So, but now I feel like 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:07.400 you'll understand a little bit when I'm pregnant in my pains. 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:09.120 I feel like you'll have a little bit more empathy 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:11.400 towards it. I don't know, because it seems like it's excruciating, 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:14.400 so like maybe labor, I don't know. I feel like 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:15.800 it gives you a good understanding. 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:17.240 So this is a good thing for me. Then you're 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:17.840 happy about this. 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:20.680 Yeah, when he's walking around on his one leg while 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:23.959 you're pregnant, he'll have really good perspective on life. 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:25.800 I just hope that I can keep my leg long 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:29.280 enough to not pass that gene onto the kid, like 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:31.320 you know, if i'm if I have one leg at 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:33.640 the point of conception, then that kid might be. 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:37.280 He thought that was so. 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:39.120 Good. 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:42.040 Yeah, yeah, laughter is the best medicine. 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:44.319 Yeah yeah. The last thing I'll say on his leg is. 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:47.240 Okay, So his doctor's appointment maybe it's Friday, maybe it's not, 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:49.640 We're not sure. Uh, And then he has to wait 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:52.200 to get in with an orthopedist. So then it's it's 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:53.760 literally going to be like another two weeks. 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:54.280 So I think I. 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:57.800 Vote er yeah, and you can't go to urgent care 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:01.240 because the urgent care can't refer you to an Orthopedia said, oh, well, 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:02.440 I just need to reiterate that. 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:06.280 Yep. It's just it's mind blowing, and it's like I 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:06.880 never go to. 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:09.840 The doctor for anything, and like this is why. This 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:11.880 is exactly why I never go to the doctor. Not this, 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:13.640 but this is such a big reason why. Like I 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:18.040 hate having to like call a bunch of places schedule 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:20.080 something and then you can't go here because it doesn't 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.320 accept your insurance. Oh you can't go here because you 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.040 haven't set it up yet, or like it's just like 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:24.880 so frustrating. 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:28.840 Yeah, anyways, let's change the subject to something more positive. 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:31.080 My arms feel really good. 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:34.360 That's great. Upper bodies feeling good. 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:37.360 Yeah, what do you want to talk about today, Jared? 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:43.160 Talk about Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, let's talk about Chris 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:44.760 and Chris Harrison's wedding and l. 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:49.920 And Lauren's wedding. Yeah, it was great. We feel very 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:54.920 honored to be invited. I think I don't think I 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:58.160 know that Ashley is closer with Chris than I am, 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:01.760 so I'm definitely kind of a plus one in this situation. 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:04.160 But I still. Of course I'm friends with Chris and 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:07.480 I'm friends with Lauren as well. Lauren's the best I've 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:10.440 gotten to know her over the past like five years. 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:13.480 I guess. We actually went to a trip. It was funny. 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:16.760 I went on a trip Ashley and I to Can't 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:21.880 Coon for this partnership with E And it was me Ashley, 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:27.320 Evan and Carly when they were still married, and Lauren, 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:30.240 Lauren Zema and we were down in Can't Kuon and 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:31.680 we were staying at the resort and it was a 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:34.840 really fun time and it was great. And we were 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:38.320 in a car, I think, driving to dinner and we 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:40.880 were talking about dating and Lauren was like, well, I'm 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:44.240 kind of kind of talking to someone someone, And of 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:47.040 course we were like, oh, who is it. She's like, well, 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:49.480 he's kind of in the public eye, so I don't 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:51.680 want to say anything. And of course now we know 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:56.240 it's Chris Harrison and she's talking to four Bachelor members. Yeah, 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:58.480 so we're like brying her, like who is it? Who 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:04.200 is it? And then I joked around and I said, 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:06.320 has this person ever handed out a rose? 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:06.960 Nice? 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:11.360 And she kind of paused and she was like, well no, 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:14.720 And I was like that's weird. So we start going 0:12:14.760 --> 0:12:17.840 through all Bachelor Nation members and we're like, are you 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:19.720 dating anybody from Bachelor and. 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:22.359 Then thinking it was like a former Bachelor or something. 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:25.480 Former contestant, and then jokingly I was like, are you 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:30.000 dating Chris Harrison? And then she said she was like no, no, no, no, 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:31.959 like keeping it under wraps. She did a good job. 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:33.800 And then, of course fast forward a few weeks later, 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:36.880 it comes out that you know, Chris and Lauren are dating, 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.559 and I was like, son up a I called it. 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:42.000 So I felt very proud of that moment. So we were 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:46.280 talking about that over the week two thousand before the pandemic. 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:48.560 So eighteen tenty nineteen. 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:52.400 Season five ish, So that's what you're saying. 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:55.080 You were down there for filming, No, we were down 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:57.640 in Cancun for different It was I think it was 0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:01.480 a partnership with Sandals resort. It was really nice. It 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:05.040 was a beautiful resort, and they had a partnership with 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:08.040 e And then they're bringing down some bachelor couples and 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:10.319 they were putting his package together and so it was 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:15.800 supposed to be three couples. It was me us, Carly 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:17.880 and Evan and then Tanner and Jade. But Tanner and 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:20.800 Jade bailed the last second. Love them, but god, they 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:22.839 bail and everything. But it makes sense because we always 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:24.840 joked about how they would always bail on things, but 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:27.240 now having kids, were like, yeah, we bail on things 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:31.600 to get it. So the wedding was in Austin and 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:35.800 it was really nice. So Friday night was a bachelor 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:41.560 get together and it was at their house at Lauren 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:46.080 and Christ's house in Austin. Beautiful house and it was nice. 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:50.320 So it was Caitlin was there, Jason was there. So 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:51.840 that was weird because they both got invited. 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:55.240 Yeah, I saw that it broke up weird, like were 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:56.199 they weird to each other? 0:13:56.240 --> 0:13:59.800 It was normal, It wasn't weird. But of course there 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:04.720 were you know, not tension. It was fine, They were fine. 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:06.800 I wonder if it was more like everyone else was 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:09.959 uncomfortable because they felt like they should, you know, they 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:11.280 were probably uncomfortable, you know. 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:14.199 I think it was just more kind of sadness more 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:17.480 than anything. Because literally, so on the way home or 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:20.080 home Jesus, on the way back to the hotel that night, 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:27.880 in the uber was me, Ashley, Tanner, Jade, Caitlin, and 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:32.480 Jason so it was a couple's uber pretty much, except 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:35.600 there's two couples and then one couple that literally just 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.120 broke up a couple of months ago, so that was 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:39.640 it was just like, you know, of course we're talking, 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:42.360 everything's fine, but you know, we had a couple of 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:44.200 drinks at that point, so I think I could tell. 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:46.840 It was just like a little kind of like sad, 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:51.840 I guess. But and then Arian and Lauren were there, 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:56.080 Bob Guiney was there, Who's the best? Ben and Jess Uh. 0:14:56.920 --> 0:14:59.200 There was just a ton of people there, Trista who's 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:02.120 so sweet, Joe, Joe, Tasha, There's a lot of a 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:03.920 lot of cool, a lot of people. 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:17.880 So many how many people were there total. 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:21.320 So the wedding itself was like two hundred. He was 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:24.680 pretty big. So on Friday night was just Bachelor people. 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:28.080 Was really nice and it felt very sweet because obviously 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:31.440 Chris's exit has been you know, highly publicized. You know, 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:35.600 you don't know how he feels about talking about Bachelor 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:41.320 because it ended so badly, But it made me really 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:45.960 happy to see that this the franchise that he was 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:48.600 part of for so long that means so much to us, 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:50.920 and like Chris means so much to us because he 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:55.120 was in that world and really, you know, even though 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.040 a lot of you know, production had a huge part 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:58.560 of it, Chris had a big part of it as well. 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:01.600 So it's really cool to see that he still holds 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:05.520 that near and dear to his heart, Bachelor Nation, and 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.120 he really does care. And so that was cool Friday 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:11.440 Nights just to see him talking about, you know, us 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:14.040 and the experiences that we've gone through and how much 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:17.560 it means to him and the friendships and the love 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:20.360 that has come from it. So that was really cool. 0:16:20.520 --> 0:16:22.640 Wells Wells was there. Wells and Ben spoke at the wedding. 0:16:22.840 --> 0:16:27.080 They were obviously great. So and then the wedding itself 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:29.320 was like two hundred people, and then it wasn't supposed 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:30.280 to be a wedding, it was supposed to be a 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:33.360 big party. And then they announced Chris and Lauren and 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:36.200 they came in and then they got on stage. It was, 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:38.640 you know, really nice done. I'm sure you saw pictures. 0:16:39.040 --> 0:16:41.040 And they said that they had a little private ceremony, 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:43.480 which we knew about a couple weeks ago in Nappa 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:48.360 with just their family, but apparently at the ceremony they 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:50.640 had a change of heart, and they actually really wanted 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:53.200 to get married in Austin because it's their homes where 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.320 they lived, and it just meant more to you know, 0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:57.680 meant a lot to them to actually say their vows 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:00.600 and officially get married in Austin rather than now. So 0:17:00.640 --> 0:17:02.600 while they still had a small ceremony in Napa, they 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.399 actually have they said, we're actually gonna get married right 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:07.679 now and have a small ceremony. So they ended up 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:09.880 bringing up the Efficient and then they had the ceremony there, 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:11.760 which is really cool because we were not expecting that. 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:14.000 And then they got married and then it was just 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:16.840 a big party and it was cool because Harrison, uh, 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.000 he just he leaned into it and he had a 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:23.000 great night. Like the last song by the band. Harrison 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:26.760 went up there and he goes, this is the final 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:29.639 song of the evening, like a little band when you're ready. 0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:31.439 So it was just like it was cool, you know, 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:34.679 like it was it was fun. And Lauren is just 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:37.040 the sweetest, like she's I know, you guys know Lauren, 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:42.560 She's just a freaking ball of energy. And she had 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:45.240 a blast and it was cool seeing their family there 0:17:45.320 --> 0:17:49.040 and all their friends and it was fun. It was great, beautiful, 0:17:49.400 --> 0:17:52.239 food was great. It was very low key, like there 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:55.480 was a buffet, line band. Yeah, it was fun. It 0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:56.000 was a great time. 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:59.119 That's awesome. Who got the drunks great question. 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:03.840 Definitely Kaylin, Caitlin, Kyleen So, Kaylin Friday and I got 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:07.080 a little tips a little tipsy. Uh it was. It 0:18:07.200 --> 0:18:12.919 was very sweet. But uh, probably also because Jason was 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:14.560 there right, you know, it's like, oh God, if you 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:16.359 see your ex right there, let's just have a couple 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:19.920 couple of pollai's. I would say, yeah, it looks. 0:18:19.720 --> 0:18:22.240 Pretty, it looks prety. Buddy buddy in that picture though, 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:23.240 that big group picture. 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:25.960