1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: It's time for to catch a cheater. And Anne is 4 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: on the phone today. She's been with her husband Vince 5 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: for two years, but now she thinks something might be 6 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: going on. So we'll see if we can help her out. 7 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: And sorry you have to come on the show this way, 8 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: but what's up? Why do you think Vince might be 9 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: messing around? 10 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. Mostly in our marriage things have 11 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 2: been great, but like the things have been really different. 12 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: I don't even know where to start, Like, I don't know. 13 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 2: For almost two years, it was like we were in 14 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 2: our honeymoon period. We had great intimacy, great physical connection, 15 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 2: and then it just kind of dropped off just the 16 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: best way I can say. 17 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 3: Okay, but isn't that kind of normal though, Like you know, 18 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 3: once a relationship starts to progress, I mean, you're not 19 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 3: going to stay as active as you were in the beginning. 20 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:51,959 Speaker 3: Is it like there's something else that. 21 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 2: He's doing or yeah, yes, I know what you mean. 22 00:00:55,360 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 2: But this would been very, very sudden. And yeah, there's 23 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: been a few things, like just all of a sudden, 24 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 2: he wasn't interested and he was he was looking around 25 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 2: stressed and just like not being in the mood. But 26 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 2: I I really believe he's avoiding me because he's been 27 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 2: with other women. 28 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 3: Really, so you really feel that way. 29 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: How long ago did the incidency stop? 30 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 2: A couple of months. I guess I'm not. My brain 31 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 2: is so foggy right now. I'm not really sure. But 32 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 2: I don't really sure because I went to a doctor 33 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 2: because I thought I had a UTI, but it turned 34 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 2: out to be a quivinia, which, yeah, you know, something 35 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: like that. It's like it's a very approached way to start, 36 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, only met you guys. He's been saying 37 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 2: late at work every night and he's not coming to 38 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 2: home like tired from an eleven hour day. Let'll tell 39 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: you that he's coming. I'm a little bit too cheery 40 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 2: for someone who I just did late. It works dominating 41 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:10,519 Speaker 2: and then on top. 42 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: Of it, you know, I mean, did you ask him 43 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: about the STD. 44 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 2: No, I haven't told him. I really wish that he 45 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 2: I've been sort of like hoping he would come out 46 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 2: and tell me himself. But if I did, I feel 47 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 2: like he's just gastling me and tell me that I 48 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 2: was imagining things of you know, the doctor was wrong 49 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:29,959 Speaker 2: in the space. 50 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: That's the kind of thing that you really can only 51 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: get from doing that with somebody. 52 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, I can tell you I did not get 53 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 2: this from someone else, Like it's not like, oh oop, 54 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 2: it's not a US video. Oops, I was wrong, Like 55 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:47,519 Speaker 2: I've never had that happen. 56 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:49,639 Speaker 3: I just want to see him put that on you 57 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 3: if for any reason, like thinking that you are the 58 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 3: one that contracted it from somebody else, because I feel like, 59 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 3: isn't it possible you will correct me if I'm wrong, 60 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 3: Like if one person has that, it may not. 61 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if it works that way with that 62 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: particular one. But it can be like that with certain things. Okay, 63 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: people cannot have symptoms, especially men because of the way 64 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: our bodies are not have like symptoms of certain things, 65 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: and then you can pass it along, right, does not 66 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: know that you had it. But you guys have been 67 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 1: together for a long time, right, I. 68 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 2: Mean we've been marrying two years and we're being together 69 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 2: before that. So yeah, this has ever gotten quamitia before. 70 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 1: So I think when it comes to HPV, for example, 71 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: that's something that men can have and not know and 72 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,839 Speaker 1: it doesn't affect men the same way it does women. 73 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no women, I mean women can not 74 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: show symptoms of either as well, but it just it 75 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 2: kind of depends. But after a while, after years, you're 76 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 2: gonna get sick eventually. 77 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: Well this is a. 78 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: Problem, though, because now he not only cheated on you, 79 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 3: he's putting your health at risk, and he's not communicating 80 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 3: an he's say late, now, I'm sorry to get upset 81 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 3: for you, and I'm really sorry. 82 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 2: Thank you. I need as many people to be upset 83 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: in my own Yeah. 84 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: All right, well, well we'll play a song come back, 85 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: and you already told us what grocery store he's a 86 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: rewards card member at, so we'll tell him we're from 87 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: the grocery store and say that just for being a 88 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: rewards member, he's won free flowers delivered from our floral department, 89 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 1: and we'll see if he sends those to you or 90 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: to somebody else. Okay, thank you, Okay, we'll get you 91 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,919 Speaker 1: to catch a cheater right after this, if you're just 92 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 1: joining us for to catch a cheater. Anne is on 93 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 1: the phone and she thinks that her husband of two 94 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: years named Vince, might be messing around. So we're about 95 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,679 Speaker 1: to call him and pretend to be from the grocery 96 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: store that he's a rewards member at and say that 97 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: he's this month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered from 98 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: our floral department, and we'll see if he sends those 99 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: to his wife Anne or to somebody else. But before 100 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 1: we do that, and why don't you break down your 101 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: situation for us again real quick. 102 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 2: Basically, my husband of two years has been coming on 103 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 2: from late from work every night. I thought I had 104 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 2: a UTI. That turns out he gave me qumydia. 105 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: Oh that's how you need to know. I'm sorry, and 106 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,039 Speaker 1: certainly seems like something's going on. I mean, but we'll see. 107 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: We'll give them a call and hopefully we can get 108 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: it all figured out for you. 109 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 2: Are you ready it? Okay? 110 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 1: Here we go. 111 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 2: Hello. 112 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Corribel calling from I was looking for 113 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: our rewards card member named Vince. 114 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 2: Uh yeah yeah, see Hey. 115 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: Vince, please don't hang up. This is not a marketing 116 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 1: phone call. I'm actually calling with a big congratulations here 117 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: this month's winner. 118 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 2: Uh uh? What was what is this call regarding? 119 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: Well, maybe you don't know. Every single month, we choose 120 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: one lucky rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered 121 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: from our floral department. You've just won thirty six long 122 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: stim red roses, a box of candy or chocolate, and 123 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 1: a card to be delivered to anybody that you want, 124 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: absolutely free. It's a three hundred sixteen dollars value. Really, yes, congratulations. 125 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 1: The first thing that I would need from you would 126 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: be the first and last name of the person that 127 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: you want to send the flowers to, and then if 128 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: you want to put anything on the card, and then 129 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: we'll get the address and that's it. 130 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: Okay, you can make it out to Maya. 131 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 1: Maya, gotcha great? And then do you want to add 132 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 1: a card along with it? 133 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 2: Can you write you may have burned me, but damn 134 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 2: it was fire. 135 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 1: Sure, I'm not going to ask any questions, but yes, 136 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: I can put that on there. Also, I'll let you 137 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: know that this is the Jubil Show. 138 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 2: It's actually a radio show. Mike. 139 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:41,799 Speaker 3: This is Nina. 140 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 2: Hi. Hi, I'm Victoria. 141 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, my name is Jeubel. And we do a segment 142 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: on the show called to Catch a Cheater where if 143 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: you think your significant other might be messing around you 144 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: see you. They send flowers too. And your wife Anne 145 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: is on the phone listening and probably wants to know 146 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: who my. 147 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 2: What? Excuse me? Oh my god, I can't believe this 148 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: is avery. I kind of thought that maybe it was 149 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 2: a stake and it was like nothing like Oh my god, 150 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 2: oh my god, I can't have been Seriously, I know 151 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: that you're cheating on me with someone to do this. 152 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: I can't believe this. 153 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 3: And what are you doing? What am I? 154 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 2: What am I? What are you doing? Oh my god, 155 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 2: what are you doing? You're such a liar. I can't 156 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: believe that you've a bumpy kit. Oh my god, my 157 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 2: health in danger. You put everything in danger. Honey, honey, honey, honey. 158 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 2: Look Maya is a coworker and she helped me at work. 159 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: That's it. 160 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 2: No, No, I don't buy that. I went to the 161 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: dog dirt. I can't even speak right now because you're 162 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: not sending flowers to someone who's helping me. It works. 163 00:07:51,920 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 2: They're such a liar. I look, I I tryalize. Say 164 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 2: the doctor was wrong, Say the doctor was wrong. I 165 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 2: don't know what you're talking about. Okay, this is you're 166 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 2: being crazy. I can't believe you. Don't tell me I'm 167 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 2: crazy right now. I do not tell me I'm crazy. Look, 168 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 2: this is I'm I think that this is a big overreaction. 169 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 2: Anything can say, because there's such a big liar. 170 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 3: Where do you know? 171 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 2: Where do you go from? Many from your co worker? 172 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 2: You're not getting it from just walking around? 173 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 3: How do you come back from that? 174 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you might as well just admit events. 175 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: I mean, even with your card, you don't mind that 176 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: you got it, which is ye. 177 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,839 Speaker 2: Look it was joke was so terkey. I can't believe 178 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 2: that you could choke about that. I don't waughing. 179 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 3: That's so embarrassing. 180 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 2: No way that you like laughed it all, don't dare you. 181 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 2: It's just it's just it's not just what does that 182 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 2: even mean? 183 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 3: That doesn't mean anything. 184 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 2: Oh man, that doesn't mean anything. That doesn't mean anything. 185 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 2: I mean I got emotional. I mean you you're a 186 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:26,319 Speaker 2: marriage a thing going. I don't get in. I han't 187 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 2: hasn't been right at home for a minute. You know, 188 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 2: it hasn't been right and right. 189 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 3: You gave your wife plumdia bro. 190 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 2: Nothing said I need to do anything to you. Baby. Look, 191 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 2: it's just it's many, Okay, if you can't rid of it, 192 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 2: it's cure, you know. No, it's just marriage. I can't 193 00:09:50,679 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 2: believe that I don't you, you know, my hang up 194 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 2: on him. I don't even know what to say anything. Yeah, 195 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 2: hang up on him. 196 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm very sorry. 197 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 2: Sorry, I guess I don't know why. I'm surprised. I 198 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 2: don't know that I thought it was going to go 199 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 2: that way. I'm sorry. 200 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 3: No, I don't apologize. I think at the very least 201 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 3: you would have hoped that he would have shown some 202 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 3: type of remorse at the very least. 203 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 2: Yes, Yeah, I can't believe he just laughed that off 204 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 2: in it. Oh my god, I'm in shock. I really. 205 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 2: Part of me just thought that it was all going 206 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 2: to be a misunderstanding, I believe. But thank you for 207 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 2: helping me get to the bottom of that. I really 208 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 2: appreciate it. 209 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:38,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, and let us know if you need anything. 210 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, thank you. The Jewel Shows to Catch a Cheater.