1 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: Hey fam, Hello Sunshine. Today on the bright Side, we're 2 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:09,799 Speaker 1: popping off and dishing on the biggest pop culture stories 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: of the week, Which celebrity shared gum with their partner 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: upon first meeting, and we're diving into the internet's hottest debate, 5 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: the best way to connect with your child free friends. 6 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: Amanda Klutz is heered a weigh in. She's the co 7 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: host of the talk and a moderator on Live from 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: the Other Side with Tyler Henry. It's Friday, September twenty seventh. 9 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: I'm Danielle Robe. 10 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 2: And I'm Simone Voice, and this is the bright Side 11 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 2: from Hello Sunshine, a daily show where we come together 12 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 2: to share women's stories, laugh, learn and brighten your day. 13 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 3: Simone another great week of shows. 14 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 2: Truly, our conversation with Connie Chung makes me wish I 15 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 2: had Amuri. I'll never be over that conversation. 16 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: She's just so iconic and she was hilarious and truly 17 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: a trailblazer. Another trail blazer we sat down with was 18 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: Laverne Cox, and she discussed the lessons she learned in Hollywood, 19 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: from the struggles to the triumphs. She was super candid 20 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: about everything, including the evolving beauty standards in Hollywood and 21 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:10,639 Speaker 1: what beauty means to her today. 22 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:12,960 Speaker 3: Did you have any other standouts? 23 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 4: Yeah? 24 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: I also really enjoyed talking about the seven principles of 25 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 2: self reliance in the workplace with communications expert Maha abuelnine 26 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 2: and I mean. 27 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: Simone, the love of our lives, Natasha Rothwell, Oh my gosh, 28 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: a dream. That was just an interview that hit my heart. 29 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: I was thinking about her the whole rest of the 30 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: day and I'll never forget how shook she was when 31 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: we told her that Gail King raved about her new 32 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: Hulu series. 33 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 4: Like we broke news to. 34 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 2: Natasha, we experienced the full range of emotions in that interview, laughter, tears, pride, 35 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 2: it was. It was emotional and I was so here 36 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 2: for it. And I'm also here for our conversation we're 37 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 2: having today. Not only is it Friday, but we get 38 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: to pop off and dish on the week's biggest moments 39 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 2: in popc culture. But before we go there, it's time 40 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 2: to spotlight our favorite moment of the week, brought to 41 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 2: you by our friends at BMW, the Ultimate Electric driving Machine. 42 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: We've talked a lot about our travel this summer, and 43 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: now I'm dreaming of taking a solo trip. 44 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:19,239 Speaker 2: Solo travel has exploded in popularity in recent years. Seems 45 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 2: like more people than ever are planning to take solo trips. 46 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 3: Solo travel is so freeing. 47 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,920 Speaker 1: I mean no coordinating schedules, no mismatch budgets. 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Lots of space, couch like seats, ambient 73 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 2: lighting for peak vibes. 74 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: You want to enjoy the journey. Okay, this is a hypothetical. 75 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: You're getting in the car right now to take a 76 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: solo trip. No kids, no work, just you where you're going. 77 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 2: I got a few thoughts. One of the best places 78 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: in the US to travel by yourself has to be Sedona, Arizona. 79 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: So I might head up that way and hit up 80 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 2: Joshua Tree along the way, or I'd head north and 81 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: go to Carmel by the Sea for a little R 82 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: and R. 83 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 4: How about you? 84 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: Ooh, First of all, Sedona's one of my favorite places 85 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: I've ever been. It's a perfect mix of mystical and magical. 86 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: But since we're traveling solo, I won't go either of 87 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: those places, even though I really want to see you. 88 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 3: I think I'd send it a little further. 89 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: I'll cueue up my longest playlist and go to Santa Fe, 90 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: New Mexico, go see some beautiful art the Georgia O'Keeffe 91 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 1: Museum and do a walking tour of the city. Or 92 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 1: I'd head up the coast and drive to San fran 93 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 1: or big sir. 94 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 4: Ooh, both excellent choices. 95 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: Okay, besides riding and style, what do you think is 96 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 2: the best way to treat yourself on a solo trip? 97 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 3: The treat is the trip? No, what about you? 98 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 2: I mean a little spa never hurt ooh good call. 99 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 3: Head over to BMWUSA dot com for more. 100 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 4: We've also got an exciting Hello Sunshine announcement to share 101 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 4: with you, Best Siees. 102 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: If you've ever watched Legally Blond and thought, hey, I 103 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 2: want to be Elwoods, well now is your chance. There 104 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 2: is an official worldwide open casting call for young Ell 105 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 2: in the upcoming Legally Blonde prequel series, which will follow 106 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 2: a sixteen year old El Woods navigating high school in 107 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 2: the nineties. Check out finding l dot com for more info. 108 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: That is so exciting, Daniel, do you think we should apply? 109 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: Are we two Brunette. Wigs are great. We could do it. 110 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: We could definitely do it. I love how you pointed 111 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 2: out Brunette. I'm thinking we're too old this. This needs 112 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 2: to be a high school Ellwoods thanking our way out 113 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 2: of the age range here. Oh my god, I didn't 114 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: even think about that. 115 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: I still think about my life on like semesters, so 116 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:46,679 Speaker 1: I mentally, I'm there. 117 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 2: I'm still twenty eight in my mind, so I'm with you. 118 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 2: We also want to shout out one of our past guests. 119 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 4: Ah. 120 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 2: We love her, the multi talented Mikayla j Rodriguez, because 121 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 2: her new album thirty three, which we talked about in 122 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 2: our conversation, is officially out in the world now, so 123 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 2: go give it a listen wherever you get your music, 124 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 2: and if you want to listen to our episode with her, 125 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 2: we will link it in the show notes. 126 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: Besties, Okay, Danielle, let's do it. It's sound to pop off, 127 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: so ready. Joining us today is the co host of 128 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: the Talk. She's also a moderator on the new Netflix 129 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 1: series Live from the Other Side with Tyler Henry, and 130 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: she's here with us now, Amanda Klutes. 131 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: Welcome to the bright Side. 132 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 5: Thanks guys, thanks for having me. I'm so happy to 133 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 5: be here. 134 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 4: It's so fun to have you in studio with us. 135 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 2: You are a co host, yeah, the Emmy winning daytime 136 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 2: talk show, The talk YEP, and we hear that every 137 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 2: morning before you go on air, you have an extra 138 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 2: peppy get ready routine. 139 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 4: Will you share it with us? Yes? I do, well. 140 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 6: I jump rope for ten minutes every day. And what 141 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 6: I've just kind of started as my tradition at the 142 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 6: talk is I do that, you know, right before hair 143 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 6: and makeup at the talk. So it's just my way 144 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 6: of like getting my body go in. 145 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 4: Do you go in? 146 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 6: And honestly, sometimes you guys, know, being busy ladies, that's 147 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 6: my workout, Like that's all I get. So it's nice 148 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 6: because when I do it and I realized, like I 149 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 6: can't fit anything else in, I'm like, well, at least 150 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 6: I did my ten minutes. 151 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 4: Probably so good for the old brain, it is, Yeah. 152 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 6: And just like having those ten minutes for myself because 153 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 6: you know, I mean it's a lot of hair and 154 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 6: makeup and outfit and styling and producers coming in telling 155 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 6: you about the guest ba blah blah blah, and your brain. 156 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 2: Is like Ah, it's pretty chill hosting a daytime show, right, 157 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 2: so chill. 158 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 4: Yes, okay. 159 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: I also have something else that we have to ask 160 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 2: you about. We just seed more context here. Oh okay, okay, 161 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 2: So we recently saw you dressed up as a hot dog. 162 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 4: Uh huh, yes, can you explain why? 163 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 6: Yes, that was a segment we were doing on the 164 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 6: talk about our first ever jobs. And one of my 165 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 6: first jobs in high school was I was Frankie the 166 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 6: Keener Wiener. I dressed up in this hot dog costom 167 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 6: and would stand outside of my local supermarkets selling wieners. 168 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 6: And I would also march through the aisles of the 169 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 6: supermarket promoting them. Or I'd be in cars and parades 170 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 6: around Canton, Ohio. So that was my first job. So 171 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 6: they took me back to a hot dog stand on 172 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 6: Santa Monica and I relived my hot dog moment. And 173 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 6: I have to say, you, guys, I got on that 174 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 6: costume and I was like, it's going to be back. 175 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 4: It's a vibe. It's a vibe in here. 176 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, good in here. I have a hard hitting question 177 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 1: for you about this. Yeah, were people nice to you 178 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: when you were living inside the hot dog costume in 179 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: high school or were because some people are really rude 180 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: to people in those outfits. 181 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:45,319 Speaker 6: Yes, most of the time people were actually very nice. 182 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 6: I mean it is Canton, Ohio, so it's very Midwest town, 183 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 6: and yeah, I got a lot of I would also 184 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 6: be dancing out there. 185 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 5: People liked me so sweet. I wouldn't see my face either. 186 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 2: I respected you before, I have so much more respect 187 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 2: for you now that I know this about you. I 188 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 2: honestly thought my first job was pretty bad. I was 189 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 2: a zombie cheerleader in a haunted cornways in Memphis, Tennessee, 190 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 2: and I had to pop out of trash cans in 191 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 2: the pitch dark and scare people. 192 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 4: But I think, I think you take this on, Amanda 193 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 4: mad Are. 194 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 3: Sure well. 195 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: My first job was dancing for barn bot Mitzvah's. I 196 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 1: was like getting the party going. 197 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 4: I did that too. 198 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 6: That was one of my jobs during Broadway shows that 199 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 6: I When I wasn't in a Broadway show, I was 200 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 6: dancing at bar mitzvahs and bat mitzvahs in New York City, 201 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 6: which some of them, as you can imagine, were bigger 202 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:39,239 Speaker 6: and better than weddings. 203 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's me. 204 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 1: You and Tiffany Hattish that went around the bar and 205 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: bot mitzvah circuit. 206 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 4: Apparently that's hilarious. Okay, have we ever tried jumping rope 207 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 4: as a hot dog? As a hot dog? 208 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 6: No, I have not, actually, but I have no doubt 209 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 6: that I could do it. I have jumped rope in 210 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 6: point shoes, in heels. Of course, I can kick to 211 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 6: my head while I'm jumping rope. 212 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 4: You know, Okay, we know people at The Talk, We're 213 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 4: going to make a call. I want to see this 214 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 4: hot dog jumping rope competition rope. 215 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 6: I did play the trumpet while I was a hot 216 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 6: dog on that segment. Wow. 217 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, So before we start to pop off, we 218 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,199 Speaker 1: have to ask you about another series that you're a 219 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: part of, because you're not just a co host on 220 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,959 Speaker 1: The Talk. You have a new Netflix show out which congratulations, 221 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: that's so exciting. 222 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you. 223 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:32,079 Speaker 3: It's called Live. 224 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 1: From the Other Side with Tyler Henry. So for anyone 225 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: who doesn't know, Tyler Henry is a twenty eight year 226 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: old psychic medium and in the show, he connects with 227 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 1: people who have passed on. I watched the episode with 228 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: Krishelle and it was really moving. You've spent a lot 229 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: of time with Tyler. Now I'm wondering if your intuition 230 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: has been heightened at all. 231 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 6: Well, you know, listen, I'm a Pisces and so I 232 00:10:56,760 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 6: have good intuition already. I've always felt like I've had 233 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 6: a strong intuision my entire life. 234 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 4: But I will tell you that Tyler is. 235 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 6: Just an extraordinarily amazing human being. He just vibes on 236 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 6: a different level. He's an old soul and a young 237 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 6: soul at the same time. He's the most genuine, kind, supportive, 238 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 6: happy person. Everything he seems to be on camera in 239 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 6: his shows is actually who he truly is. And it's 240 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 6: been really awesome being able to sit next to him 241 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 6: and witness what he does that close to him. It's 242 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 6: really kind of inspiring and comforting and healing and all 243 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 6: the things. Yeah, that's really great to hear. How many 244 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 6: goosebump moments. So many goosebump moments. I mean, I love 245 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 6: when he surprises himself. That's one of my favorite things. 246 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 6: Like he'll be saying something and then the guest will 247 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 6: you know, be like yes, and he'll be like, oh, 248 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 6: it's like crazy, you know, I mean, it's he's he's 249 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 6: really gifted. He really truly does have a gift, and 250 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:12,079 Speaker 6: I think that anyone that gets to experience of reading 251 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 6: from him is so lucky. 252 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's clips of him from past readings that he's 253 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: given where things have come to fruition. 254 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 3: He seems really gifted. 255 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean it's extremely special to see, you know, 256 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,959 Speaker 6: the guests on our show react, you know, I mean 257 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 6: it's getting I've been read now a couple of times, 258 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 6: not by Tyler yet, but I remember the first time 259 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 6: I ever went to a medium reading, I was so 260 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 6: scared and nervous and I didn't really quite believe. So 261 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 6: I was a bit of a skeptic as well, and 262 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 6: you know, I grew up religious and so it was 263 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 6: sort of always kind of not you know, accepted necessarily, 264 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,680 Speaker 6: and so I was really really timid. And I can 265 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 6: see that in some of our guests. But then how 266 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 6: they open up to him and they start trusting him 267 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,719 Speaker 6: because of the information that he is receiving and delivering 268 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 6: to them. It's so beautiful because we all have walls 269 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 6: right around our grief, around our trauma, around things that 270 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 6: we tell ourselves, and the walls just start coming down 271 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:22,559 Speaker 6: and then that trust is built with Tyler and then 272 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 6: they open up and have these emotional breakthroughs and it's 273 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 6: just really special to be there and see it. 274 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:31,119 Speaker 4: So everybody tune in live on Tuesdays. 275 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 3: It's live. 276 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 6: It's live. Yes, it's a live reading. No edits he's 277 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 6: just going out there live and he does not know 278 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 6: who he's reading. I don't even know who the guest is. 279 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, my god. 280 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:47,439 Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's get into the biggest stories of the week. 281 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's do it. Okay, y'all. 282 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 2: I've got something to chew on and you'll see what 283 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 2: I mean in a moment. So Kristen Bell was on 284 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 2: the View this week and she confirmed a story that 285 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 2: her husband Dak Sheche had previously shared. 286 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:03,439 Speaker 4: So here's a story. 287 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 2: On their second meeting at a Detroit Red Wings game. 288 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 2: He asked Kristen Bell if she had any gum, and 289 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 2: she said no, just this, and she coyly took the 290 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 2: gum out of her mouth, and then Dax took the 291 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 2: gum that she had been chewing and put it in 292 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 2: his own mouth. 293 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 4: So clearly, is it okay? 294 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 3: Why is it a great move that's so like take charge? 295 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: First of all, I love someone that's not grossed out 296 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: by anything. I have like a no gross meter. If 297 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship with you, we're sharing everything, and so. 298 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 4: I liar, liar. 299 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 2: I am calling liar because I have talked about poop 300 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 2: on this show. 301 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 4: I don't know. 302 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 3: We don't share toilets. 303 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: That's the only thing I don't share, Okay, and we 304 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: don't share stories of toilet talk. 305 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 4: You do have a limit, so fun of it. 306 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: I'll share popsicles, I'll share towels. 307 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 3: I'll share like. 308 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: If you're having ice cream and I want to lick, 309 00:14:58,800 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: please give me some. 310 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 2: See I'm super hypocritical because I will take someone's ice cream. 311 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 2: I'll take a bite of every single thing my husband orders, 312 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 2: that's for sure. But when it comes to sharing toothbrushes, 313 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 2: absolutely not. I found out a couple of weeks ago 314 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 2: that we had been sharing toothbrushes without my knowledge, and 315 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 2: I freaked out. 316 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 4: I felt like I had been violated, and this is 317 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 4: my husband. 318 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 2: But I think they're just there is a line we're 319 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 2: you know, you can get too close. 320 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 6: What do you think, Amanda, I'm on board with the toothbrush, 321 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 6: not on board with a towel. For some reason, I 322 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 6: want my own bath towel, and I don't want you 323 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 6: to use it, And this doesn't make sense because we're 324 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 6: both clean. I just I want my own. But in 325 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 6: this story, I feel like I can really relate to 326 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 6: this because I am dating and I have been dating, 327 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 6: and I'm dating somebody new currently, and in that new 328 00:15:55,840 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 6: young it's all right, it's all fun and like the 329 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 6: PDA is fun and you can't take your hands off 330 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 6: of each other. And I love that this was their 331 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 6: second date because like I could totally see this happening 332 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 6: to me, because like you're just so infatuated with the 333 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 6: person that like, yeah, you want their gum or you 334 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 6: want you know, you just want to like be cute 335 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 6: and PDA. 336 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 4: So I'm all for this. 337 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 2: Actually, that is such a great point, Amanda. The timing 338 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 2: here really matters, because I think if it happened on 339 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 2: the second date, it's like a cute rom com moment. 340 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 4: Yeah. 341 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 2: If it happens like twenty years into marriage, I'm like, 342 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 2: what are you doing? 343 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 4: Like really, oh yeah. 344 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:36,479 Speaker 3: I'm the opposite. 345 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, the second date, I don't even know you. I 346 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: don't want to swap anything with you now. 347 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 4: Twenty what is but Danielle. 348 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 6: But if it's like second date, and you know, like 349 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 6: this guy is this is this is definitely going more 350 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 6: than second date, Like you want know that, I know 351 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 6: in a first date in two seconds if I want 352 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 6: to sit there for the rest of the date. So 353 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 6: if we're on a second date, you're definitely most likely 354 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 6: getting a third day, which means take my gum. 355 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 4: Y'all are unaned. This is crazy, Amanda. 356 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 3: How do you make time for dating? Amiss your schedule? 357 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:15,679 Speaker 6: It is so hard, Danielle, It's so hard, you know, listen. 358 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 6: I would just say that it's a it's a very 359 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 6: hard balance, especially right now doing these two shows and 360 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 6: then also being a mom and then finding a babysitter 361 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 6: to be with my son post nanny ing or nanny ing. 362 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:32,919 Speaker 6: I have a manny, not a nanny, so I have 363 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 6: to find like the extra help. It is so hard. 364 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 6: And you know what I will say, I really really 365 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,360 Speaker 6: appreciate when I'm on a date with a man and 366 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:45,719 Speaker 6: he acknowledges like, thank you so much for making this 367 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 6: work tonight, because he knows if he's dating me, I'm 368 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 6: a single mom. He knows how many jobs I have 369 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 6: to be able to provide for my son and I 370 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 6: he knows that I need to get a babysitter in 371 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 6: order to be out with him that evening. So like 372 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 6: it's which is so nice when a man is like, 373 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 6: thank you so much for making the time, because like, 374 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 6: I want to make the time, otherwise I would not 375 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 6: be there. 376 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 5: But it's hard. It's really really tough. 377 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 6: I have a ton of help, and I'm constantly asking 378 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 6: for help in order to have a life, have a 379 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 6: mom life, and then have a work life, and to 380 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 6: manage all of that is sometimes you just feel crazy 381 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 6: and psycho and you feel bad too, Like you feel 382 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 6: like you're not being a good mom, you know, because 383 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:31,360 Speaker 6: you're leaving I feel like I'm leaving Elvis, and I'm 384 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 6: like I'm leaving him again, but like I really want to. 385 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 4: Take time to go out to dinner. 386 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: Hard. Yeah yeah, yeah, Well I have a question for 387 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: you too being moms, because I'm not a mom yet. 388 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 1: So there is an online controversy that has nearly broken 389 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: the Internet. Not so. Remember when Kim K broke the 390 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 1: Internet for the first time, the Internet had never been broken. 391 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 4: Now it's been broken. 392 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 3: This is nearly breaking the Internet just as much. 393 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 394 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 1: So, A TikTok user posted a video titled how to 395 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:03,679 Speaker 1: Talk to your child free Friends, and it went viral. 396 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 1: So in it, she lays out some basic rules of 397 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: decorum for friends with kids to follow when talking to 398 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 1: their adult friends who don't have kids. So I'm gonna 399 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna read the list of rules and then I 400 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: want your reactions left g LFG one keep it to 401 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 1: adult conversation. 402 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 4: Two. 403 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: No logistics of activities and summer camps. Three, try to 404 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: find something else to ask us about other than our 405 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 1: dating lives. 406 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 4: Four. 407 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: If we visit you from out of town, please do 408 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:38,640 Speaker 1: not take us to kids parties. Five my quote husband 409 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:42,199 Speaker 1: won't let me permission excuse for not coming to you. 410 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 3: What what does that mean? 411 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 2: She's saying like, I don't want to hear that you 412 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 2: can't come out with me girl, because your husband said 413 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 2: you can't. 414 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 3: Oh, okay, yeah, okay. 415 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 1: Number six come to our events, birthdays, careers, milestone celebrations. 416 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 1: That's kind of asking a lot, okay. Number seven and 417 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 1: check in and number eight don't be envious. Well as 418 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 1: you can imagine, people had an opinion or two. 419 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:09,919 Speaker 3: What is yours? Amanda? 420 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 4: It's funny. 421 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 6: I feel like I really do live in between these 422 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 6: two worlds. Even though I'm a mother, but because I 423 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 6: only have one child and that I'm also dating, I 424 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 6: feel like I live in both of these worlds, where 425 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 6: like I hang out with single friends that don't have kids, 426 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,360 Speaker 6: and I very much enjoy hanging out in that environment 427 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 6: and not talking about kids and not doing kid things. 428 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 6: But then when I'm hanging out with my mom and 429 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:40,880 Speaker 6: my mom friends, I'm, you know, doing all the mom 430 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,719 Speaker 6: things and talking. So I sort of feel like I 431 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 6: kind of get the best of both worlds here, and 432 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:50,159 Speaker 6: I don't necessarily ever have to cross these paths, like 433 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 6: where I'm in a situation where they're like, can you 434 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 6: please stop talking about your kid, because I'm usually then 435 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 6: with the friends that I am like roaming around, you know, 436 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 6: with you know, my single girls. 437 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,719 Speaker 4: So I don't know what do you guys say. 438 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 6: Because I live in both of these worlds, I'm double 439 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 6: dip in here. 440 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,160 Speaker 2: I get that, I get that, you know what, people 441 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 2: come up to me and say that I don't Whenever 442 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 2: I tell people that I have children, they're surprised. People 443 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,640 Speaker 2: tell me I have like childless energy, and I don't 444 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 2: know what to make of that. I don't know if 445 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 2: that's a huge insult or a compliment. Now that's a 446 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 2: good compliment. I think you don't seem tired or worn down. 447 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 2: Oh well, that means I'm performing well. So this list 448 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:38,479 Speaker 2: I some of these things I can get behind. You know, 449 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:42,160 Speaker 2: don't exoticize my dating life. That's something that I try 450 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 2: to be mindflow. Yeah, especially when I'm talking to like 451 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 2: my single girlfriends come to our events. Of course, I 452 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 2: want to come to everything and support as much as 453 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 2: I can. Check in absolutely, that's just like the baseline 454 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 2: for a good friendship, right. However, the audacity of the 455 00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 2: person who made this list, like just to make a 456 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 2: list and say, like keep it to adult conversation, no logistics, 457 00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 2: Like I think there should be harmony. You should be 458 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 2: able to have conversations that don't involve your children or 459 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,880 Speaker 2: your family, Like we are whole people outside of being moms. Yes, 460 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 2: But at the same time, like, if you're my friend, 461 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 2: I think it's natural to want you to take an 462 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 2: interest in some things related to my children, even if 463 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 2: you don't have children yourself, and I as a mom, 464 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 2: like I fully support my childless friends, like I would 465 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 2: die for my childless friends because I want. I think 466 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:35,119 Speaker 2: it's important that childless women know that they have worth, 467 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 2: you know, outside of yeah, pro creating. So I just 468 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 2: would never make a list like this. But if I did, 469 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 2: if I did make a list, let's say a big 470 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 2: if if I did make a list and flipped it 471 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 2: and I made a list that was like, here are 472 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,400 Speaker 2: the things that you shouldn't talk about if you don't 473 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 2: have kids. Maybe on the list would be don't tell 474 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 2: me how tired you are. Maybe on the list would 475 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 2: be don't tell me how messy your house is. Maybe 476 00:22:58,400 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 2: on the list would be, don't tell me how about 477 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 2: how your pet is your child. 478 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:05,639 Speaker 4: But I'm not saying I'm making a list. Okay, you're right, 479 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,400 Speaker 4: I'm not saying i'm making one. I'm just saying if. 480 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:11,119 Speaker 6: I did, I really like that last one, I'm not 481 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 6: going to repeat it. I'm not going to repeat it 482 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 6: because you said it. So I'm just going to say 483 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 6: that I liked that one. 484 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 4: She's picking up what I'm throwing down. 485 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like this list is kind of mean. 486 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 1: I think it's kind of. 487 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 4: Hard to you. I do too, it's my harsh tie. 488 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like or there's different rungs of friends. So 489 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 1: if you're in my like first or second rung. I 490 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,399 Speaker 1: want to know about your kids. They're an extension of you. 491 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 1: I probably really love your kids. I do if I 492 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:42,719 Speaker 1: can make it. I want to come to their parties. 493 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: I want to see them grow up. I want them 494 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 1: to know me. I want to know them. So this 495 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,880 Speaker 1: kind of feels like, I don't know, it's just too 496 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:51,360 Speaker 1: harsh of. 497 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 3: A line for me. 498 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,199 Speaker 1: The one thing I will say is I have a 499 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: really good friend from high school, and we're in totally 500 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 1: different periods of our lives. She has two kids, one 501 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: on the way, so she's about to have three kids, 502 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:09,160 Speaker 1: and I have a podcast and she sometimes goes into 503 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 1: great detail of things like certain toys or washing bottles, 504 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:16,639 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't really want to hear the 505 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 1: minutia of anybody's life, let alone the minutia of like 506 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: the logistics of children. 507 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 3: I want to hear about their personalities. 508 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 1: You know. 509 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,160 Speaker 2: It's totally fair, yes, that they try to be really 510 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 2: conscious of like over sharing details. 511 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 4: You know, I think that's on us too. 512 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 6: I remember, before I had a kid, specifically like being 513 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 6: around maybe even my sisters, like trying to have a 514 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 6: conversation with her, but she couldn't actually have the conversation 515 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 6: because she's like, Jimmy stopped, and you're like, so tracy, 516 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 6: like when I but Jimmy Jimmy and you're like and 517 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 6: then after a couple of those, you're like, I'm just 518 00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 6: gonna just call me back. 519 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just gonna I'm not never mind, it's not important. 520 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:05,159 Speaker 6: But you really really wanted to have that conversation, but 521 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 6: you couldn't because your mom friend or mom's sister like 522 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 6: couldn't even have the conversation because she couldn't control her children. 523 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, that used to annoy me. 524 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,080 Speaker 1: So it's so funny you say that I feel the 525 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 1: same way, and then I really try to have empathy 526 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 1: because I'm like, Okay, they're dealing with a lot. 527 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 3: I have another friend. I can call call me back. 528 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 6: Yes, yes, But I think that we as moms also 529 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 6: have to figure that out and find that balance because 530 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:36,199 Speaker 6: I remember it didn't make me feel good, and so 531 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 6: I think that we like, it's been something that I've 532 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,879 Speaker 6: tried to be cognitive of, like, Okay, if Elvis is 533 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 6: in the room, like I really do want to be present. 534 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 6: If I'm talking to you about something and you seem 535 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 6: to be really needing my advice or help. 536 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,360 Speaker 4: You know what I mean, Danielle. 537 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 2: As I was thinking about the word empathy, you took 538 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 2: the word right out of my mouth. I think that's 539 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 2: what's missing in these conversations about women, about our roles 540 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 2: to and I think as friends who are in different 541 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 2: stages of life, we need to bring that empathy to 542 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 2: the forefront. I can remember a conversation that I had 543 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:12,120 Speaker 2: with one of my closest friends for over fifteen years now. 544 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 2: She kind of sat me down after I had kids 545 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 2: and was like, Hey, I feel like something has really 546 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,680 Speaker 2: changed here. I don't know what's behind it. I don't 547 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 2: know what's make of it. I don't know if it's 548 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 2: something I did, but I feel like something's different. And 549 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 2: we had to have this really open conversation where I 550 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 2: was just like, yeah, you know what, to be honest, 551 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,399 Speaker 2: things are going to be different for me, and here's 552 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 2: how I can bring you in. And I think she 553 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 2: was able to do the same thing, but yeah, we 554 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 2: got to bring the empathy. 555 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:39,639 Speaker 4: Well, bravo to your friend. 556 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 6: Also, way to act like an adult and not a 557 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 6: seventh grader, because that's no seriously, like that is an 558 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,160 Speaker 6: adult woman coming to you and saying let's sit down 559 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,879 Speaker 6: and have a conversation. Yeah, that is a hard friend 560 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 6: to find, so you should keep her around because she 561 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 6: is emotionally stable and a grown ass. 562 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 4: So guys, we love that. Amen. Amen, Amen, we. 563 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 2: Need to hit pause on Popping Off, but we'll be 564 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 2: right back after a short break. Stay with us, and 565 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 2: we're back to Popping Off with the co host of 566 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,880 Speaker 2: the talk, Amanda Klutes. Okay, we're gonna take a hard 567 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:30,359 Speaker 2: left turn here. So Demi Moore says she's done with 568 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,560 Speaker 2: the male gaze. So she's out on the press circuit 569 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,879 Speaker 2: promoting her new film called The Substance, and she says 570 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 2: this film in particular is causing her to reevaluate her 571 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 2: whole relationship with her body. So in a recent interview 572 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,880 Speaker 2: with The New York Times, she talked about how at 573 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 2: sixty one, she's finally comfortable in her own skin. And 574 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 2: she says that in this film The Substance, she knew 575 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 2: there were going to be shots and angles of her 576 00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 2: that were quote, not looking good, not flattering. However, she 577 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,919 Speaker 2: found liberation in not having to be perfect. And I 578 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 2: can only imagine after the career that she's had and 579 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 2: being so public facing for decades. How freeing that must 580 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 2: have felt. And she talked about this film, you know, 581 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 2: being an exploration of that male perspective, the male gaze, 582 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 2: and how women sometimes we also buy into it, right, 583 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,679 Speaker 2: and we also play into it. And she feels like 584 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 2: she did that when she was younger and felt this 585 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,120 Speaker 2: need to look perfect and many of her roles over 586 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 2: the years. You know, I did Broadway for sixteen years, 587 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 2: and I was in the ensemble. Most of the shows 588 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,679 Speaker 2: that I were in, I were next to nothing costumes, 589 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 2: so I was constantly aware of my body and my size. 590 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 2: When I was a racket, we had weigh ends, so they, 591 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,479 Speaker 2: you know, you had to stay a certain size and shape. 592 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 6: They would like, you know, measure the fat on your arms. 593 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 6: They don't do that now. Times have changed. 594 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 3: Do you have any PTSD from that? 595 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 6: Uh No, not really, because I think and I think 596 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 6: this is where it relates to Demimore. It's like we 597 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 6: have changed as a society so much. And she especially 598 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,479 Speaker 6: like you know, when she started making movies to now 599 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:17,680 Speaker 6: like how the male gaze has affected her then and now, 600 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 6: you know, I mean how women were treated or objectified 601 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 6: in movies or impress or impressed tours of movies then 602 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 6: to now is completely different. And I also think that 603 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,719 Speaker 6: age here really really helps. I've noticed that, you know, 604 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 6: even now at forty two, I feel so much more 605 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 6: confident in my body and my skin because of my age, 606 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 6: And I would hope that only gets better and better 607 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 6: because you start caring less and less about what people think. 608 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 4: And so then I think. 609 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,720 Speaker 6: As you care less and less, you get more comfortable 610 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,719 Speaker 6: in your own body and your own skin. And I 611 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 6: think that's what she's showing and saying, I don't know, 612 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 6: what do you guys? 613 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 3: I think so too. 614 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: I first learned about the male gaze in college in 615 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 1: a film class, and they were talking about it as 616 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: a way to shoot something and so like certain camera 617 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 1: angles because many directors or camops were men and still 618 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 1: are to this day, to be honest, and so it's 619 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 1: like you're shooting a scene depicting women as the object 620 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 1: of desire, and it's almost like think like of a 621 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,719 Speaker 1: woman walking away and men would shoot up the skirt 622 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: type of a thing, where a woman who was shooting 623 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 1: it might shoot at eye level, and so it changes 624 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: the way you view this woman. 625 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 4: Wow. 626 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,720 Speaker 1: And I think Demi Moore probably has really experienced that 627 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 1: firsthand as an actress and has seen how those shots 628 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,719 Speaker 1: have changed over the years. Women have become more active 629 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 1: participants instead of objects of desire, Thank god. But I 630 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: have to tell you I was like kind of shook. 631 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: A few weeks ago. We have the Hello Sunshine Collective 632 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: and we had a virtual meeting and the CEO mentioned 633 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 1: something about the male gaze and said that she was 634 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: asking herself how much time has she spent thinking about 635 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 1: the male gaze? Acting out of the male gaze? And 636 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 1: I'd never thought about that for myself. It made me 637 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: question how much time I've spent doing that, And I have. 638 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 3: To tell you quite a lot. 639 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 1: I buy clothes thinking that, I do a lot of 640 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: things thinking about the male gaze. Maybe it's because I'm 641 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 1: single still. I don't know if that changes as your partnered, 642 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 1: but I've been thinking about that since Sarah Hardin said it. 643 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 2: If you ever want to experience the sensation of being 644 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 2: free from the male gaze, get yourself some queer female friends. 645 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 2: Get yourself some lesbian friends, because they are fully liberated. 646 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 2: Some of them have been their whole lives. Some of 647 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,640 Speaker 2: them found that liberation later on. But mm hmm, it's 648 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:51,719 Speaker 2: a lot to learn from that. 649 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 6: I don't know. 650 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,800 Speaker 4: That's a great point though, Danielle. It's like if you. 651 00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, because even just being single and dating in these 652 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 6: last couple of years, it's, uh, it's almost impossible to 653 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,920 Speaker 6: get the male gaze out of your head even if 654 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 6: you try, even if it's a healthy balance, it's still 655 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 6: there because you are a single woman trying to find 656 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 6: a man, and so you're very aware of that male 657 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 6: gaze and how to dress or how to walk or 658 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 6: how to look in order to appeal to that. 659 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 4: It's interesting, it's so true. 660 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 1: I even think about the opposite, like things I wear, 661 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 1: how I want to be perceived in work meetings. If 662 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 1: I know a man is going to be at dinner, 663 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, tonight, I'm going to a big group dinner 664 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,160 Speaker 1: and I have this really hot dress I want to wear. 665 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 1: And then I found out there was going to be 666 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: a bunch of men there, and I was like, I don't. 667 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 3: Want to do I don't want to wear that. Yep, 668 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 3: that's the male gaze. 669 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 4: It works both ways. 670 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, it really does want the attentions, you know, on 671 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 2: the attention, you know. Going back to what you were saying, 672 00:32:55,400 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 2: Amanda about age being such a huge factor here. I 673 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 2: read a book earlier this year called Women Rowing North 674 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 2: by Mary Pifer, and it got me really excited about 675 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 2: aging because she cites research that shows that women become 676 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,959 Speaker 2: increasingly happy after age fifty five. Oh interesting, and happiness 677 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 2: is actually like at its lowest point in our twenties, 678 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 2: so that tracks it kind of does. Although I think 679 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 2: at the time I thought I was happy. But stories 680 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 2: like this, you know, what Demi Moore is realizing, makes 681 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 2: me excited to get older. 682 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:32,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know. 683 00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,840 Speaker 6: Jane Fonda does a lot of podcasts and she's been 684 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 6: on some recently, and she's a great listen because she 685 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 6: has a very very strong self confidence now at her age, 686 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 6: and I think it's been there for a little while. 687 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 6: But she is so like, I don't want a man, 688 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 6: I don't need a man. I am happy where I am. 689 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 6: She's just really kind of fabulous. So if you need inspiration, 690 00:33:58,280 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 6: she's a good one to listen to. 691 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 3: Amanda, I love that you said that. 692 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 1: Her whole documentary now that you mentioned that, is kind 693 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 1: of about the male gaze and the role it's played 694 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 1: in her life and how she's evolved out of it. 695 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 1: That's such a great call. Amanda, You're so fun. Will 696 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 1: you come back? 697 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 5: I would love to guys. You guys are fun too. 698 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 5: I love this great fun to park around with, having 699 00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,759 Speaker 5: like a little Kiki with my girlfriends. 700 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,680 Speaker 4: It felt so natural and the time flew by. I know, Wow, 701 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 4: that was great. Thank you guys, Well. 702 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,440 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for popping off with us today. 703 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:30,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 704 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 5: I love the bright side. 705 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,439 Speaker 4: You are the bright side. Ah, thank you. 706 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,799 Speaker 2: Amanda Klutz is a co host on The Talk and 707 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 2: a moderator on the new Netflix series Live from the 708 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:44,439 Speaker 2: Other Side with Tyler Henry. You can watch her every 709 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,399 Speaker 2: day on The Talk on CBS. 710 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 1: It's time for another quick break, but don't go anywhere, 711 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,120 Speaker 1: because when we come back, we're sharing what's in our 712 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 1: cart this week. 713 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:02,080 Speaker 3: We're back, all right, simone. It's Friday. 714 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 1: Let's get ready for the weekend with What's in Your 715 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,920 Speaker 1: Cart presented by Walmart. 716 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 3: Welcome to your Walmart. 717 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,719 Speaker 1: This is our weekly segment where we have the opportunity 718 00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 1: to share a product that we are loving right now. 719 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 2: Okay, so it's officially Halloween in my house now. Danielle 720 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 2: and my boys have become obsessed with scaring each other, 721 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 2: like hiding behind a door and jumping out and yelling boo. 722 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,319 Speaker 2: I guess it just is in their DNA, because I 723 00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 2: love a good prank. 724 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 4: That's so cute. 725 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 2: Well it is unless you're walking into your living room 726 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,759 Speaker 2: on a brand new white rug holding a glass of 727 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:35,399 Speaker 2: chilled red. 728 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 4: Oh no, yeah, I know. Don't worry though. 729 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 2: I went to Walmart and got some Resolve carpet cleaner, 730 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:45,280 Speaker 2: spray spot and stain remover. Who with a few sprays, 731 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 2: my rug was actually back to new woo. 732 00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 3: Few is right. 733 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,600 Speaker 1: But I do think you need to get your boys back. 734 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 1: Oh I did, but I learned a big lesson in 735 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:54,800 Speaker 1: the process. 736 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 2: What's that Don't jump out of your kid's closet and 737 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:00,879 Speaker 2: scare them right before they go to bed. 738 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 3: That is terrifying. I can't believe you did that to them. 739 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:06,960 Speaker 4: I know my timing was terrible. 740 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:08,839 Speaker 1: Well, it sounds like you may need that white noise 741 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:10,479 Speaker 1: machine you gave me a couple weeks ago. 742 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, and some more grenache. 743 00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,360 Speaker 1: Well that's it for today's show. Thanks to our partners 744 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 1: at Walmart. On Monday, we've got another edition of shelf 745 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 1: Life for you. Author Margaret Wrinkel joins us to talk 746 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,360 Speaker 1: about her book The Comfort of Crows, which is the 747 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,080 Speaker 1: one hundredth book pick for Reese's Book Club. 748 00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 2: Join the conversation using hashtag the bright Side and connect 749 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:36,400 Speaker 2: with us on social media at Hello Sunshine on Instagram 750 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 2: and at the bright Side Pod on TikTok oh, and 751 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 2: feel free to tag us at Simone Boyce and at 752 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:43,360 Speaker 2: Danielle Robe. 753 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 1: Listen and follow The bright Side on the iHeartRadio app, 754 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:51,879 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The bright 755 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 1: Side is a production of Hello Sunshine and iHeart Podcasts 756 00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 1: and is executive produced by Reese Witherspoon. 757 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:02,520 Speaker 2: Production by Arkana Audio. Our producers are Jessica Wenk and 758 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 2: Christa Ripple. Our senior producers are Janis Yamoka, It'si Kintania 759 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,680 Speaker 2: and Amy Padula. Our engineer is PJ. Shahamutt. 760 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 1: Ar Cona's executive producers are Francis Harlowe and Abby Ruzka. 761 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,240 Speaker 3: Arcana's head of production is Matt Schultz. 762 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:22,120 Speaker 2: Natalie Tuluk and Maureen Polo are the executive producers for 763 00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 2: Hello Sunshine. 764 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 1: Julia Weaver is the supervising producer and Ali Perry is 765 00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 1: the executive producer for iHeart Podcasts. 766 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 3: Tim Palazzola is our showrunner. 767 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,960 Speaker 2: This week's episodes were recorded by Josh Hook and Joel Morales. 768 00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 2: Our theme song is by Anna Stump and Hamilton Lighthouser. 769 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,920 Speaker 1: Special thanks to Connell Byrne and Will Pearson. 770 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,839 Speaker 2: I'm Simone Boyce. You can find me at Simone Boice 771 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:45,560 Speaker 2: on Instagram and TikTok. 772 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 3: And I'm Danielle Robe on Instagram and TikTok. That's ro 773 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:50,319 Speaker 3: O b A Y. 774 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 4: We'll see you Monday, y'all. 775 00:37:51,600 --> 00:38:02,320 Speaker 2: Keep looking on the bright side.