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Speaker 1: Harry Styles, it's kiss am, I am I gonna? I

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Speaker 1: don't know how am I gonna feel during this trending

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Speaker 1: report right now?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: I picked it because I thought I would tickle your pickle.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm just gonna say in my walk up song,

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Speaker 4: where is it?

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Speaker 1: There? It is? Can we not use that phrase anymore?

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 1: Uh, Susan, let's take a vote. I think it's a

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Speaker 1: little inappropriate.

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Speaker 3: Is it tickle your fancy? Is that better?

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Speaker 1: Better? Better?

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Speaker 3: I want my kids to hear that I'm.

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Speaker 1: With you on that to say, I feel like a

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Speaker 1: little taken a like a I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I could find tickle your fancy. I thought it wuld

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Speaker 2: tickle your fancy.

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Speaker 1: I gotta look at that one up too, but sure. Anyway.

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Speaker 4: So the thing is, I had someone say to me

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Speaker 4: not seven days ago, we need to find out why

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Speaker 4: you're so afraid of marriage, right.

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Speaker 3: Oh jeez? Yeah, it is interesting though, yep.

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Speaker 1: But why why.

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Speaker 3: Are you not afraid?

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's not for me. I've said this before.

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Speaker 2: Because you don't You're you're afraid that it's going to fail.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna, I don't know, I don't know. I

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Speaker 4: just hear so many scary stories about why does it matter?

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Speaker 4: Like you have app my parents have a happy marriage.

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Speaker 4: You have a happy marriage. But then I have friends

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Speaker 4: like right, you.

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Speaker 3: Don't need to compare yourself to everybody else, please you don't.

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Speaker 4: I live in a game of the world of comparison.

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Speaker 4: So anyway, I'm just telling you that's that's what's going on.

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Speaker 4: There's the lay of the land.

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Speaker 1: But didn't that change after forty that I the comparing.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't maybe the compared, but I do listen

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Speaker 4: to all the different stories and like all the narratives

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Speaker 4: are in my head.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not so much about comparing. I think what

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Speaker 2: you're trying to say is like you hear all these

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Speaker 2: horror stories, so it's like a little like I don't

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Speaker 2: want to yeah.

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Speaker 4: But again I see my parents. So anyway, this is

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Speaker 4: not a training report for me. This is a training

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Speaker 4: report for you, Tanya.

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Speaker 2: But whoever that person was, I would encourage you to

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Speaker 2: explore it because I do think getting to the root

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Speaker 2: of these things would kind of just open up. It

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Speaker 2: would just like open your mind up to different things

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Speaker 2: that you didn't really realize.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Funny, I blocked them Okay.

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Speaker 3: So Minka Kelly knows how to block somebody, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know how to block them. I'm ignoring them.

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Speaker 2: Minka Kelly is doing promo for her new memoir Okay,

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Speaker 2: and it's called Tell Me Everything. That's coming out early May.

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Speaker 2: But she said something that I really want to hone

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Speaker 2: in on, and it's her perspective on marriage. She said,

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Speaker 2: I don't know about marriage. I'm not opposed to it.

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Speaker 2: I think I might be a little afraid of it.

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Speaker 2: I don't have a blueprint of it really working out.

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Speaker 2: It's not the most important thing to me. And I

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Speaker 2: found this to be interesting because I feel like oftentimes

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Speaker 2: we feel we need to change our views, or if

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Speaker 2: you're dating somebody for a really long time and you

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Speaker 2: don't necessarcessarily have the same views on marriage or children,

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Speaker 2: you feel like you have to compromise, and these are

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Speaker 2: big things to compromise on. And so I just I

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Speaker 2: felt the story was encouraging because I think that it's okay.

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Speaker 2: I think Minka Kelly will find the shoe that's going

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Speaker 2: to fit her foot, do you know what I'm saying? Like,

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Speaker 2: I think she will meet somebody that might have the

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Speaker 2: same opinion or have the same viewpoint as her.

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Speaker 4: He's great that she said this. I do too, just

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Speaker 4: rereading the quote, I don't know about marries. I'm not

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Speaker 4: opposed to it. I think maybe a little afraid of

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Speaker 4: it because I don't have the blueprint. Well that's interesting

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Speaker 4: because I have the blueprint and I'm still afraid of it.

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Speaker 1: Correct. Maybe she have Mika on to talk about.

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Speaker 3: This, love, but I'm sure she'd come on.

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Speaker 2: She's promoting her memoirs memoir.

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Speaker 1: I'm playing.

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Speaker 4: Between that, Okay, the words that we can't say well

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Speaker 4: well with four of them, both memoir and put.

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Speaker 1: And we all struggle with certain words.

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Speaker 4: Those are mine, yeah, very and she I'm really glad

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Speaker 4: to hear her say.

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Speaker 2: It, though, me too because I also think too, there's

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Speaker 2: a little bit of this stigma out there that all

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Speaker 2: women want marriage and that's not.

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Speaker 1: All people at some point have to be.

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Speaker 4: But I don't think that's the stigma any happy that

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Speaker 4: was the stigma, Like, yeah, ten years ago, fifteen years

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Speaker 4: we're still.

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Speaker 1: I wonderful.

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Speaker 4: I wonder if Nika gets people like I get people

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Speaker 4: say to me, we need to figure out why you

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Speaker 4: don't want to get married. I want to fix strangers

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Speaker 4: say that to her too.

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Speaker 2: I think she's exploring it. She seems like a therapy

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Speaker 2: girl to me.

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Speaker 1: Did you are you speculating or I.

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Speaker 2: Am speculating just because no, I saw a bunch of

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Speaker 2: the press that she's been doing it.

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Speaker 4: All right, great, well, thank you for that. There's a

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Speaker 4: therapy session this morning. Yeah, it's good to have one.

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Speaker 4: When you ever walk out of therapy not feeling better?

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Speaker 2: Tanya never one time, because I was like, really getting

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Speaker 2: to a breakthrough and he's like, times up. I was like,

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Speaker 2: are you joking to wait another week to figure this out?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Boy? Keeping you coming back from more?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right, here's the song or somethingbou ear apologize me.

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Speaker 3: I'd rather hit him on one more time.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know I heard this on a go for

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Speaker 1: six months in my place, but I got these damins on.

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Speaker 1: Is that a remake of it? It's not the original. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I was in the gym doing a heavy weight set

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Speaker 4: and hearned that that's all we can play.

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Speaker 2: By the way, your heavy weight set, that's what he

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Speaker 2: really wants to talk about.

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Speaker 3: How heavy the exercise.

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Speaker 1: Plates, plates, plates.

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Speaker 3: Arms, If you're doing arms and chest.

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Speaker 1: Chest, I have forty five's on the bar.

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Speaker 3: Oh in the bar.

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Speaker 1: Wow, this is in the bar already. Forty yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: send you some video if you want some content.

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Speaker 4: Is that like one hundred something too much? Fifty minutes

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Speaker 4: of non stop kisses.

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Speaker 1: Next, it is on