1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: Talk talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: opinion who talks back the relationship. And I definitely used 3 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: to call it nigga, a son of a bitch and 4 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: he used to get so good as his mom had 5 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: passed dumb. No, never, I was never calling him you know, 6 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: he was really taking it first, almost like are you 7 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: talking about my mama like that? I'm not talking about 8 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: your mama. Son of a bitch isn't like it? But 9 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: what is the son of a bitch? Though him? But 10 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 1: so his mama is a bit so that's why he 11 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: takes especially if he at these Okay, all right, yeah, 12 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:42,919 Speaker 1: now if we want to talk literal, but we're not 13 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: talking literal of them. Are women having problems from these men? 14 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,919 Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying because they were raised by 15 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: But that's the thing where I have I have dealt 16 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: with women over the years who have told me like 17 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: I wasn't emotional, I didn't get mad about certain things, 18 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: like oh, show me some emotion, like I had women 19 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: like purposely try to send me exactly they sure do, 20 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: like they'll call me a bitch ass nigga to get 21 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: me the show emotion. And when I almost punched the 22 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: ship out of you. Then I'm a bit your ass nigga. 23 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, I'm like, come on now, nigga, exactly. 24 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: But but and just for the record, I have never 25 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: ever hit a woman that I have dated in my 26 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: entire data women you haven't dated, maybe one. But she 27 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:35,199 Speaker 1: had got super disrespectful with my mama and my mama 28 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 1: house and were family. We were all family. We moved 29 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: past it. It was all with it, you know. But 30 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: you know, I mean her brother would have stole off 31 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 1: for me, you know what I'm saying, or stole off 32 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: on my sister if I said that, you know. But 33 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: we all families, so we all have just completely moved 34 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: past it. Yeah we Yeah, we are definitely patched that up. 35 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: But I've never, out of anger like hit a woman. 36 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: I've never felt the need to. And I feel like 37 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: that's because I always feel like I'm the prize. So like, 38 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: I bit, call me whatever you want to say, go 39 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: out here with these other niggas and you don't see 40 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: that you're gonna get worse. You can call me whatever 41 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: you want to try to get me mad, call me 42 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: a whole ass nigga. Bit I just know that I know, 43 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: thank you. I'm glad you don't. But I just know 44 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: that the niggas out here ain't ship, and you're gonna 45 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: go out here and you're gonna get one of them. 46 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: I feel like we say that a man. I don't look, 47 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 1: I don't say nothing. I just say. I just say. 48 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: I just say, choose better. I always tell you something 49 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: good men, so I say, but I also know a 50 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: lot of terrible I know, I know a lot of 51 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: terrible men relationship wise. Now, I would definitely say as 52 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: far as relationship goes, I feel like ninety percent of 53 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: the men are bad for relationships. When we talk about 54 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: good people, good fathers, I feel like easily seventy or 55 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:56,839 Speaker 1: I feel like of all men are good, genuinely good 56 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: hearted and are good will will be good fathers and 57 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: given the opportunity. But I just feel like a lot 58 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 1: of men who are quote unquote debbie dads, they suffer 59 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: from bad advice. Because I remember when I whenever I 60 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: when I was going through my custody situation, so many 61 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: of my my homies were like, man that ship, for 62 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: that ship, Man, pay pay your child support, let her do. 63 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, pay my child supporting. Just let her do whatever. 64 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: When your son get old enough, just explain to that 65 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: you're gonna get to a point here, gonna want to 66 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: know his daddy. Then you could tell him about his mama. 67 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: You won't eventually see all that. Bro, you want me 68 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: to go fourteen years without fifteen when I see kids? 69 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: Out of mind for a lot of men. So this 70 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: is what I want you to say. How do how 71 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: do we get that percent of? What can men do 72 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: to get that? Of I feel like they I feel 73 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: like they just I feel like they just don't know 74 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: how to be good. But men or not been as 75 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: far as relationships, it's the same way with women. I 76 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of women of them are bad 77 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: in relationships because they just don't know what a good 78 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: relationship looks like. We don't don't have we don't like 79 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of I mean, let's just 80 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: be honest with you. We could we could get into 81 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: we can just go into systemic racism. We can go 82 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: into just the overall things that society has done to 83 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: the black family on purpose to divide us. We could 84 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 1: we could get into that. But we most of us 85 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: know these things, but without these positive images out there 86 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: of a black family. You know, it's hard for anybody 87 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: to really emulate anything. So do you think that a 88 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: man that doesn't take care of his kids, do you 89 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: think that man should have any friends or should he 90 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: be ostracized in the community, Should he have any friends? 91 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't. I think that more men 92 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: need to step up because I always say, there's women, 93 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: we be having lunches, brunches, conferences, all these different things, 94 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: so we could sit down and talk about our bullshit. 95 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: But men you'll claim you have nobody to talk to. 96 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: And if there's a good man, if there's a man 97 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: who's a self complaim good man, you need to reach 98 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 1: out to these niggas who ain't doing ship and speak 99 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 1: to them and talk to them, and then it won't 100 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: always look like it's the woman fashion these men. You 101 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. We need more help from the 102 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 1: good men. The quote unquote good men need to reach 103 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: back to the other men who are struggling, who just 104 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: have a group of surrounded by a bunch of a 105 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: lot of men don't be receptive. So I would say, 106 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: from my experience, I get a lot of young men 107 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 1: in my inbox texting me demming me whatever on the 108 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 1: regular basis who want me to mentor them. But I 109 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: know that I'm an exception to the rule in a 110 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 1: lot of ways because a lot of these niggas just 111 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: be old men. They don't be o G s. I 112 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: know I'm an o G. I try to get the 113 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: best advice. I know. I was raised by by real 114 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,479 Speaker 1: o gs who gave me great advice. But then I 115 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: know a lot of my friends sometimes to give me 116 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 1: bad advice. But because I know that y'all are just 117 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: my friends, y'all really gonna be on my side. A 118 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 1: lot of times. I do talk to the o G s. 119 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: I have brothers, I have uncles, cousins. I have a 120 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: lot of people who are able to sort of get 121 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 1: me and check you know what I'm saying. And I 122 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 1: associate with people who are like me. I don't go 123 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: and associate with people who aren't like me. Like I 124 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: said earlier, a lot of these men, they try to 125 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: level up. If they see a nigga with jury, they 126 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: see a nigga with women, he automatically becomes big Bro. 127 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: They don't look at his character, don't look at his morals, 128 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: don't look at his values. Big Bro bib. But a 129 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: lot of look, a lot of them be straight clowns. 130 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 1: They just got money, you know what I'm saying. And 131 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: a lot of these niggas want to want money too, 132 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: so they're big bro to death thinking they're about to 133 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: get some opportunities to some money. And let's be clear, 134 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: niggas like niggas with money. To be clear, of course, 135 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, nigga, No, seriously, nobody likes 136 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: a broken nigger. Ben women know that nobody does, um, 137 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 1: and that's that's just real. But I have embraced the 138 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: fact that I'm older. I've embraced the fact that I 139 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,799 Speaker 1: have a lot of knowledge. I embraced the fact that 140 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: you know, Um, I come from a background that has 141 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 1: taught me to be smart. It was cool to be smart, 142 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: it was cool to be on point. But I do 143 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: know a lot of people don't have that, you know, 144 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: Like I feel like a lot of people who come 145 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: from that type of background, they fight their whole lives 146 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: to be street niggas. And you've got a lot of 147 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: these old, these old people who are supposed to be 148 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: o g s who try to act like the young niggas. 149 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: They want to live vicariously through the through the young niggas, 150 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: and like, bro, like just accept the fact you're you're 151 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: thirty fives and up. You should be transitioning, you know, 152 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: Like like these niggas are not transitioning, like they want 153 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: to be young niggas, no growth whatsoever. I've always wanted 154 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: to grow. But I always know that I come from 155 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: a different background. I'm always being pushed, I'm always being challenged. 156 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: Like I understand that I'm different. I knew. So you know, 157 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: you don't have any friends that don't have no relationship 158 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: with their kids. I have like some that have strained 159 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: the relationships with their kids, and and and a lot 160 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: of times when I came in, the relationship was already strained. 161 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: But I always try to let them know, like, bro, 162 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: you know, the court system is here for you. Like 163 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: they will argue with their baby mamas. I hear them 164 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: on the phone arguing with their baby mamas, and they 165 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: try to work everything out with their baby mamas. A 166 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: lot of these dudes have you know, charges that may 167 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: be on probation. But like dam I own want them 168 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: crackers in my business, Bro, I don't want them just 169 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: at the third But I always try to let them know, like, 170 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: bro handle whatever legal issues you have and go and 171 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: get a nigger fresh out of jail, gonna get two 172 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: days a week with his child. That's just all is 173 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:36,319 Speaker 1: to it. But I feel like a lot of people, 174 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: including women and men, both the children really aren't the issue. 175 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: They want each other. They're so bitter towards each other 176 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: that the children, not always, it's not always, but the 177 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: children are just paused because remember they didn't want the 178 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: children at first, that they didn't sit down and playing 179 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: out having children. They wanted to be together. And they 180 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: got so wrapped up in each other that the nigger 181 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: wasn't pulling out or the girl didn't get up whenever 182 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: he said, get up off and get upout for getting product. 183 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:08,319 Speaker 1: So they went so love with each other. The kid 184 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: was just a product of it. The kid was never 185 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 1: supposed to be here. You see what I'm saying, Many 186 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: of us, like many of us, you know what I'm saying. 187 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I can't say with me because my days 188 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: were married, but my mom definitely said I wasn't supposed 189 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: to be married. Married, my mom said, and my dad 190 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 1: my mom said, your dad was done at three, Like 191 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 1: I had to hide your pregnancy from him for the 192 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: longest until you know, he just got to the point 193 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 1: where I couldn't hide it no more and he was pissed. 194 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: He was like like the four ye the fourth. So yeah, 195 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: I do understand that. You know, a lot of the 196 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 1: children weren't meant to be here, and a lot of 197 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: times people are just navigating parenthood without proper role models 198 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: and with kids that they really didn't first the first place. 199 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: They wanted the other person. So now both are using 200 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: the kids. And for the most hard, a man can 201 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: be with a woman and really just I mean a 202 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: man cannot be with a women really just want to 203 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: be a dad. Men can do that. Yeah, yeah, bitch, 204 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: were cool and all, but yeah, I want to see 205 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: my son. For the most part, women when they have kids, 206 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,679 Speaker 1: they go into a family mode, and the family includes 207 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 1: the child and the dad. So it takes a long 208 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: time for them to just settle for the fact that 209 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 1: I'm a single parent and it's not gonna work single 210 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: excuse me a parent that's single. I'm a parent that's single. 211 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: Or when they finally get over the dude, now they 212 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: want the family so bad that they're trying to create 213 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 1: the family with other men who really aren't worthy of 214 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 1: being in the family. You know what I'm saying. So, 215 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 1: and I've been in that predicament before. I have so 216 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 1: many women who tell me my most attractive quality is 217 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: the fact I'm a good father. They're like, that is 218 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: your most attractive quality. You're attractive in other ways, but 219 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: that right there. Run it from you money. But how 220 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: does that make you feel knowing that you don't want 221 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: kids outside of marriage? Um, he don't want no more 222 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: babies at this point period? No, No, I could, I could, 223 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 1: I could do another one, but my but the window 224 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 1: is closing. That's what we're talking about, closing. I don't 225 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 1: want to. I don't want to be fifty with a 226 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 1: tom closing or closed. You said, I want you to 227 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: marry a woman who already had kids, I would how old? Um, 228 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: they would at least have to be four or five 229 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: or better. Job symbol, daddy, chuck, give me a dollar 230 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: any problem, especially if she got a daughter, come in, baby, 231 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,439 Speaker 1: got two boys, come in, Daddy got you, Cody got you? 232 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: But but no. So the only reason why I put 233 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: an age in limit on the kids is because when 234 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 1: the kids are a certain age and my daddy depend no, 235 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: because I want to catch them young. So they don't 236 00:11:54,800 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: say that can you catch them either? They're like yo, yo, yo, 237 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: you can't take me to the studio. I know, well, 238 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: be with all the celebrity rapp ship. You know young dolf, 239 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: you know the baby, you know that you can't take it. 240 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:17,199 Speaker 1: So but what's wrong with that? Sometimes you know what 241 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 1: I'm saying. But um, when they're that young, they're still 242 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 1: a little bit of an attachment between the mom and dad. 243 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:28,839 Speaker 1: So you gotta be as you you got two or 244 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 1: three month oh, because even if even if, like I said, 245 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: a man can be detached and just want to be 246 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: a dad. But that woman is gonna get you. Hell, 247 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,959 Speaker 1: the woman gonna the first woman after don't be the 248 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: don't be the first woman after don't do not know 249 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 1: even the second or the third, the first get up 250 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: there and the numbers. Now, she's just another bitch. Last 251 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: one didn't last long either, you know, the last mama