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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all but.

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Speaker 1: All at all, So don't given them.

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Speaker 2: Black the million bus busbooz.

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Speaker 3: Oh Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Listening to.

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Speaker 5: Lot Joy.

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Speaker 6: Well, ye Joy.

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Speaker 7: Show.

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Speaker 3: You don't you.

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Speaker 8: Love your.

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Speaker 6: Phone? Turn?

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Speaker 7: You gotta turn.

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Speaker 6: I got to turn the mouth turn. You probably got

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Speaker 6: to turn the mouth mount turn the water of the money. Look, come.

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Speaker 2: Come on you, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You

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Speaker 2: all listen to the voice. Come on dig me now,

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Speaker 2: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Ain't

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Speaker 2: god good man? I mean really, hey, you know what

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Speaker 2: today I'm gonna try something different, and it's amazing. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna try something different because that's kind of what we're

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Speaker 2: gonna talk.

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Speaker 5: About this morning. Do something different this year.

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Speaker 2: Look, if what you've been doing has just gotten you

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Speaker 2: to this point and you are not content with the

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Speaker 2: point you are at, then we.

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Speaker 5: Need to make an adjustment. I mean, don't that seem

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Speaker 5: like the common sense thing to do?

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Speaker 2: It does to me. Let's just do something different this year.

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Speaker 2: Make a commitment. I'm gonna do something different. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: put forth a little bit more effort. I'm gonna quit trying,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it this year. You know, sometimes that

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Speaker 2: simple change of attitude is enough. Instead of trying, I'm

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Speaker 5: And it's just as simple as that.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes, just remove certain words out the way, stop trying

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Speaker 2: to do something. You know, I decided this year, you know,

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Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna try to be a better person this year.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go about the business of being a

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Speaker 2: better person this year. And see how that worked, you know,

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Speaker 2: Because like I've said a thousand times, so if you

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Speaker 2: keep doing what you been doing, you gonna keep getting

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Speaker 2: what you been getting.

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Speaker 3: It.

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Speaker 2: Don't change it, don't change unless you change it. But

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Speaker 2: you have the power to change it. The power of

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Speaker 2: decision is in your hands. Decide to do the do

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Speaker 2: something different, make a commitment, say you know what, this year,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do the right thing.

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Speaker 5: Now, let me warn you.

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Speaker 2: When you decide to do the right thing, understand, here

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Speaker 2: come the haters. What they not gonna let you do

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Speaker 2: is make a conscious decision to be a better person

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Speaker 2: without something to be said. Come on, now, you think

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Speaker 2: the devil just gonna let you all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: you gonna you're gonna be better when he needed to

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Speaker 2: keep you on the wrong side of the track.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna go up on the other side, so he

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Speaker 5: come to haters.

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Speaker 2: Now, now let me tell you what's gonna happen, because

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Speaker 2: I'm speaking from experience. This is what I know, and

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Speaker 2: all of you out there and notice to be true

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Speaker 2: because all I'm doing right now, we just having to

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Speaker 5: When you decide to do the right thing, it's going

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Speaker 2: Some people ain't gonna like your decision because now your

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Speaker 2: to take care of your kids in spite of it all,

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Speaker 2: or your decision to man, I'm gonna come in here,

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Speaker 2: to be loved, and all this here, Okay, Now that's

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Speaker 2: gonna put somebody on the out looking in. You do

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Speaker 2: understand that when you decide to come to work on

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Speaker 2: Now all of a sudden, Man, you ain't coming in

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 5: Now they looking at me like I'm crazy by myself.

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Speaker 2: Because when you decide to do the right thing, it's

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Speaker 2: Look at him now, and now he gonna go home.

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Speaker 2: Now he know he been out here in the streets, right,

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Speaker 2: Yeah man, yeah, yeah, you just made that decision. But

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: Guess what. The girl that you've been going over to see,

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Speaker 2: Because now you're going home. Your boy's gonna talk about you.

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Speaker 2: Because you're going home, and you're gonna get some flat

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Speaker 2: when you do the right thing, here comes somebody ain't

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Speaker 2: gonna like it. Somebody want you to stay wrong, misery

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Speaker 2: love company. When you make the decision to do the

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Speaker 2: you know what they gonna do. They gonna point out

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Speaker 2: the way you were in the past versus the way

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Speaker 2: you decided to be brand new.

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Speaker 5: How you all of a sudden claiming this one I.

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Speaker 2: Saw you doing that. Please understand, when you make the

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Speaker 5: Here they come you a hypocrite.

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Speaker 2: You think they don't call me that? They called me that,

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey, I hear, man. Look on Twitter, you try

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Speaker 2: to tweet people positive stuff. Here come a tweet you

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Speaker 2: fake your family and all that. I ain't say my

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Speaker 2: family was, man, I'm just trying to give out some

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Speaker 2: positive encouragement, you know. But here it come, you a hypocrite.

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Speaker 2: I remember when you was out on a tour with

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Speaker 2: the Kings of Comedy. Yeah, me too, I remember that too,

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Speaker 2: But I ain't out on tour with them no more.

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Speaker 2: We done all changed.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 2: So now what you want me to do? You wanna

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Speaker 2: keep living up to what you saw me as what

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Speaker 2: I was? And I can't get no credit with you

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Speaker 2: for what I'm trying to be. Now that's that. Now

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Speaker 2: you're gonna be a hypocrite, you fake? Nah, man, you

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Speaker 2: ain't fake. You just have made the decision to be

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Speaker 5: You just changed it.

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Speaker 2: Don't let them hate to shake you. Man, go own

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Speaker 2: about your business. When they talking about you. Look at

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Speaker 2: him now, gonna try to go home. He been with

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Speaker 2: he gonna try to go home now, Man, he know

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Speaker 2: Friday nights. Man, we done told our girls this where

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Speaker 2: They gonna say you're a hypocrite. But do the right thing.

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Speaker 2: God will bless you for that. That's something in Proverbs

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Speaker 2: that says, if you honor God, if you do the

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Speaker 2: right thing, if you seek him out, God will cause

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Speaker 2: his blessings to chase you down. Do you understand me

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Speaker 2: what that means? Can you imagine what would happen in

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Speaker 2: your life if God were to take some blessings and

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Speaker 2: So now if he has got some blessings that he

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Speaker 5: You look up and here come another one, that go

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm trying to get my life to because

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Speaker 2: at the end, man, what I do not want, man,

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Speaker 2: And not even at the end, I just don't want now,

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Speaker 2: God to have all these boxes up in heaven, these

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Speaker 2: He can't even ship blessings to me. Because I'm just

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Speaker 2: so dead wrong that I'm blocking the blessings man, that

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Speaker 2: and see what God got for me.

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Speaker 5: And remember, Donny McLurkin got a song out.

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Speaker 2: We ain't got time to play it now because I

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Speaker 2: we fall down, but we get up. He has a

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Speaker 2: That's the deal, y'all. Look, you gonna make some mistakes.

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Speaker 2: trying to be righteous, you're gonna fall. Get up. Don't

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Speaker 2: You're gonna fall a bunch of times. Just don't stay there.

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Speaker 2: Just get up, man. That's the only difference between a

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Speaker 2: that's what the revealing news is. Saints is really sinners.

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Speaker 2: They're the same people. They just keep getting up, that's all, man.

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Speaker 1: You're listening easy to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. In his opponents to Steve Harvey, Morning

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Speaker 2: Show is now here. It is today, a new day,

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Speaker 2: another opportunity, a blessing. God is good.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 5: I love God. I do, man, I'm but I love it.

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Speaker 2: Man. Now, I don't love as much as he loved

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Speaker 2: me because I'd have been through with me a long

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Speaker 2: time Because I really would have. That's how I know

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Speaker 2: he loved me, because I'd have been through with me

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Speaker 2: a long time ago. You did what, man, don't come

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Speaker 2: in here with that no more, Steve what so man,

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Speaker 2: I appreciate it. Man, everybody, good day today. Shery Strawberry

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Speaker 2: calling for real Mouth of the South Junior and that

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Speaker 2: legend that is nephew Tommy. Hey, Julia, what's on your

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let me ask you this off man.

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Speaker 1: You got to have to ask this on because you

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Speaker 1: you know, you on your journey.

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Speaker 10: Man.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people gonna have to stay true to

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Speaker 11: I've seen you do this over the years, just working

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Speaker 11: with you, just being who you are each and every day,

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Speaker 11: because some people feel like they got to go do

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Speaker 11: with everybody else doing if they doing that, I gotta

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Speaker 11: But I've seen you be the same consistent Steve Harvey

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Speaker 4: Where'd you learn that from?

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Speaker 2: Well? Through experience mostly, But then you know, my mama

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Speaker 5: She said, get off the mother paths. God did put

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Speaker 5: When no two people have that.

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Speaker 2: All you gotta do is look at your fingerprint. Everybody

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Speaker 5: I ain't ever met mo producers, rappers.

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Speaker 5: So, what what's your goal here? Y'all want to be

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I got a rap career, I said to myself. So

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Speaker 2: No, yes, you know, but there's people see the success

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Speaker 10: Huh.

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Speaker 5: Look how many podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Not the Kardashian Coming up at thirty two minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour, we'll hear from the nephew. He is back

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Speaker 1: to run that prank back right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. Hey it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old

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Speaker 1: All right, it is time now to start your morning

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Speaker 1: off with the nephew and run that brank back. What

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Speaker 2: This right here is K doll K doll. Let's go

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Speaker 10: Hello, Uh, you know I'm trying to reach I'm trying

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Speaker 10: to read tears.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a fair to this.

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Speaker 10: This K doll is Uh is a branding?

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Speaker 3: Is branding? Your brother? Then?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: That's my brother? He locked up whole what's up? Okay?

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Speaker 10: Yeah cool? Hey look I just got that I was

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Speaker 10: actually I was locked up with your brother. We was

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Speaker 10: I took care of him.

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Speaker 3: Uh. He told me that he was.

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Speaker 10: He had been writing you to tell you and you,

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Speaker 10: I know, he don't get off for another couple of years.

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Speaker 10: But like he told me that when he was writing

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Speaker 10: that you know, you was gonna take care of me

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Speaker 10: when I got out. So you know, like I said,

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Speaker 10: I just got out last night, and I wanted to

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Speaker 10: come by and pick up the first ten grand you

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Speaker 10: know sometime this wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

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Speaker 10: wait wait how much? Did you just say ten grands? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 10: I mean he told me he had already wrote you

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Speaker 10: and told you what was up. No, bro, I ain't

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Speaker 10: he know, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on,

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Speaker 10: hold on, right, you know, okay, he told now now

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Speaker 10: you know he had told me that you you got

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Speaker 3: It's twenty grand.

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Speaker 10: Wait, that's twenty grand, bro. I got a wife and kids.

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Speaker 10: I got a family take care of. Ain't no, I

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Speaker 10: ain't got ten grand to deal with. I got to

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Speaker 10: feed four kids and a wife. Okay, okay, so what

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Speaker 10: you hold on? Hold hold up, man, So what you're

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Speaker 10: saying Brandon was lying to me the whole time. What

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Speaker 10: I'm telling you is just locked up. Eighty had to

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Speaker 3: This.

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Speaker 10: Ain't no ten grand over here, ain't no twenty grand

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Speaker 10: need to wait two years till we get out and

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Speaker 10: deal with that. Get no, No, it ain't it ain't

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Speaker 10: it ain't finling.

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Speaker 3: It ain't finish.

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Speaker 10: File like that nigga here was since to go down. Okay,

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Speaker 10: now I'm coming over there, Frat, so coming over here.

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Speaker 3: Ten grand?

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Speaker 10: The first ten grand is old, old frat. Now what

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Speaker 10: I ain't got the first? First of all, what you

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Speaker 10: need to know is this right here. I don't care

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Speaker 10: nothing about going back.

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Speaker 3: My thing is just right here.

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Speaker 10: This paper supposed to be rich. I took care of

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Speaker 10: your brother. All these years while I was up in

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Speaker 10: And now you're finish, Come tell me you're finish to

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Speaker 10: come tell me now, guys, how to put in his work.

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Speaker 10: Not y'all ain't finna play up. You ain't finna happen

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Speaker 10: like this. Yeah, that's what I'm telling you'all. Just don't

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Speaker 10: put in work to provide for my family, me and

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Speaker 10: my wife working. You're telling me that you're gonna come

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Speaker 10: even got for that's locked up. Hey man, look, I'm

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Speaker 10: not I'm not. I'm not feeling uh, first of all,

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Speaker 10: all this backing fool like this. Hell, this ain't nothing

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Speaker 10: that I do. You understand, I don't do this. I

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Speaker 10: don't go back in food. Un You know what it

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Speaker 10: is is ten green being on Friday. Now, if you

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Speaker 10: this deal, I'm coming looking for terrys, you know, looking

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Speaker 10: for my ten grand. That that that's all that is

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Speaker 10: ten grand. I put some tams up y'all to come

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Speaker 10: over here to my house to my family. Talk about

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Speaker 10: you finna get ten grand. But my no good brother

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Speaker 10: is locked up. Hold on, hold on, cause see you're

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Speaker 3: Hell.

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Speaker 10: Wait, well, first of all, what did you just say

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Speaker 10: on him? When I get over there? What you say

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Speaker 10: I'm gonna put some things up. Yeah, talk about ten

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Speaker 10: thousand dollars. I had another ten in a couple of months.

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Speaker 10: You lost your line. I ain't got I worked my offer.

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Speaker 10: You're gonna tell me that you want ten grand? Another

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Speaker 10: ten grand in a few months. Are taking care of

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Speaker 10: my brother while he locked up. Nobody tell you to

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Speaker 10: take care of him. That's a broken man. Let him

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Speaker 10: belt just had of so much dumb dumb. Hey, hey,

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Speaker 10: hey dog, look at it. I understand all of it.

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Speaker 10: Just you saying, but what you but you got to

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Speaker 10: So sil I don't know what's going on. What I

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Speaker 10: do know where you'll do Friday. This Friday, I'm coming

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Speaker 10: to get ten grand. From ten. So you got to

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Speaker 10: fix this right here. Anyway you're gonna fixt so I

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Speaker 10: and that's just it right there, Come Friday, I'm I'm

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Speaker 10: hond on?

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Speaker 9: K Dog?

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Speaker 10: You say your name down? Maybe from the third This

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Speaker 10: woo my du But I'm gonna tell you something. You

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Speaker 10: think it ain't gonna go. I'm gonna give you anything

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Speaker 10: be laying down, brou I'm gonna be what gonna be

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Speaker 10: laying down? You come over here and try to for

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Speaker 10: me and my family and my kids. It ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: You okay?

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Speaker 10: Then that then that that's where we're at.

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Speaker 3: The baby.

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Speaker 10: Then we just we just don this for Friday then

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Speaker 10: because it don't make me know. I know already know.

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Speaker 10: We ain't gotta wait to know Friday, K Dog. We

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Speaker 10: ain't gotta wait to fight. I'll meet you somewhere.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna like you.

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Speaker 10: Think it's gonna go down once I get you ad

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Speaker 10: thing I got and lay your down. I'm gonna be

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Speaker 10: in there with my brother Brandon whooping his putting me

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Speaker 10: into he doesn't got your bed. I'll tell you, hey,

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Speaker 10: you know, first of all, if you ain't got the

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Speaker 10: ten grade, you might well gone on and bring you

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Speaker 10: now anyway, get this hold, okay, I ain't no need

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Speaker 10: to get your out here and get a job like

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Speaker 10: everybody else. I don't care how long you've been in

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Speaker 10: and everybody got a job. I'm busting you want ten

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Speaker 10: work for that ten grade and get you out here

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Speaker 10: and washed cars touch grad. Hey man, Hey, hey, you

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Speaker 10: know what I'm gonna tell you?

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Speaker 3: Know what your your brother?

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Speaker 10: One thing about him he was right about you, though

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Speaker 10: he was right about you. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 10: I'm gonna tell you what thing else he told me

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Speaker 10: about jo What? What the hell did he tell you

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Speaker 10: about me? He told me to tell you who I

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Speaker 10: really was. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harbin

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Speaker 10: Morning Show. Your sister Defta got me the prank.

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Speaker 9: Phone call you.

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Speaker 6: Who is this.

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Speaker 3: Man? This is this is this is nephew.

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Speaker 10: Joby man for the Steve Harvey barn and show your sister.

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Speaker 10: The Vita got me the prank phone call? You get them?

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Speaker 3: I didn't.

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Speaker 10: I hadn't let up a cigarette in the house. I

444
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Speaker 10: can't smoke in the house.

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Speaker 3: The Vita.

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Speaker 10: I'm gonna get hurt you all right, man, and I am.

447
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Speaker 9: Boy.

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Speaker 3: You had me on.

449
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Speaker 10: Come to my wife. Man, It's all good, man. I

450
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Speaker 10: gotta ask more of them. What is the badest, and

451
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Speaker 10: I mean the saddest radio show in the lane?

452
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Speaker 3: Man? You know what? It is?

453
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Speaker 10: A Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're gonna make me go

454
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Speaker 10: see my mother now. Holidays, I'm gonna have to go

455
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Speaker 10: see that man in jail.

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Speaker 1: D and Orangeburg. D. You write to my husband and

472
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Speaker 1: I agreed on practical gifts this Christmas. I gave him

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Speaker 1: a suit and a small TV for his office. He

474
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Speaker 1: bought an air fryer for me and changed our shower

475
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Speaker 1: head and said, those were my gifts. How do I

476
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Speaker 1: get him to understand those aren't gifts?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 1: Really, appliance, I mean.

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Speaker 2: You get air frying he changed?

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Speaker 5: Ooh he it's how stupid is your host?

481
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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I can't help you with that. Lady. Yeah, you should

483
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Speaker 2: have never said practical gifts. Don't you let a man

484
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Speaker 2: off the hook. He his idea practical youiance, Here's what

485
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Speaker 2: you have to do. You have to say, this is

486
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Speaker 2: what we call practical gifts. Give him a list and

487
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Speaker 2: you could buy me any two of those things on

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Speaker 2: that list. You won't because you can't just leave it

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Speaker 2: up to me, and we stupid. You brought him a

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Speaker 2: suit of TV. He bought your shower head. She benefit

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Speaker 2: for both of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, sorry about that. D Cherrelle in Newark says,

493
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Speaker 1: the childhood friend is dating my daddy and she's upset

494
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Speaker 1: with me because I wouldn't allow her to come to

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Speaker 1: my home with him because my mother was there. She said,

496
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Speaker 1: my mom is grown and needs to come to terms

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Speaker 1: with it. Is she crazy or right?

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Speaker 2: Yes? She is crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she's crazy.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna start saying stuff that I think really

501
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Speaker 2: help people. You need to jump on her. That's ye,

502
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Speaker 2: daddy and didn't want to bring over there in front

503
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Speaker 2: of your mama. You need to jump on her right there.

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Speaker 2: Next question, Yeah, jump on, That's what.

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Speaker 11: I'm going say.

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Speaker 2: No, we're gonna have to start wooing people. Tommy then

507
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Speaker 2: told me that, but I was going forward. But we

508
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Speaker 2: really need to starting some people. Bring my daddy over

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Speaker 2: the house and about over here, yo yo yo, mama

510
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Speaker 2: need to get over and deal with it. Heal fa

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Speaker 2: helf fun. I don't know. My MoMA ain't fit to

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Speaker 2: get over nothing. Wow, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Millicent and Henderson, Millicen says, I saw

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Speaker 1: new pictures of a woman on my son's phone and

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Speaker 1: he's only fifteen. My husband is a pastor, so I'm

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Speaker 1: scared to tell him. My son was embarrassed and said

517
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Speaker 1: he got the photos on a website. Should I tell

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Speaker 1: his daddy? Or is this just a teenage phase?

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Speaker 2: You know, no phase, that's forever. This ain't no phase.

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Speaker 2: He must be gun. He liked women, naked women?

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Speaker 3: What? What? What? What? What?

522
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Speaker 5: This ain't no phase.

523
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Speaker 2: He finished this to be till he died, until he died.

524
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Speaker 2: This ain't no phase. This is till he died. Wow,

525
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Speaker 2: he's gonna be trying to look at niggad women from here.

526
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Speaker 2: You can tell his daddy, you can tell you can

527
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Speaker 2: tell his pastor if you want to. He tells whoever

528
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Speaker 2: you want to. What is his daddy gonna say to him?

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Speaker 2: That's tommy, you got boys all that over fifteen. I've

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Speaker 2: seen stuff on my son's phone. I couldn't have been

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Speaker 2: more proud.

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Speaker 13: Well mine is my youngest is but yeah, but not

533
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Speaker 13: that oldest boy. Don't swipe through that phone?

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Speaker 2: Hell, are you yeah something?

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Speaker 9: Hey?

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Speaker 2: Man. My son's hand me their phone right now and

537
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Speaker 2: they say, Dad, I want you to look at his

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Speaker 2: full pictures. Just wipe left full pictures. Don't go no

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Speaker 2: further than you already know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm all right.

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Speaker 2: I'm moving on to.

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Speaker 1: To Norris and Gary uh Norris writes my company downside.

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Speaker 1: So now I share my office with a cute younger

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Speaker 1: lady that was just hired. I told my wife about

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Speaker 1: it because she because she comes by my office occasionally,

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Speaker 1: she doesn't like it and wants the new girl out

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Speaker 1: of there. What do I do in this situation? From Norris?

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Speaker 14: Now?

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Speaker 2: Norris, Well, they can't. They can't fire this young girl

550
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Speaker 2: because she's cute and your wife don't like it. But

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Speaker 2: ask your wife a couple other things. Does she like?

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Speaker 2: You might not like this girl, but you like groceries,

553
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Speaker 2: You like shelter, you like transportation because that's what this

554
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Speaker 2: company pays for. Now you need to get overpast your

555
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Speaker 2: little insecurities. Yeah, she's a cute little girl, but that's

556
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Speaker 2: all it is. You gonna deal with it. You gotta

557
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Speaker 2: build some trust. You don't trust your man, that's on you.

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Speaker 3: But you do like.

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Speaker 5: Groceries though, When you do like a roof over your

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Speaker 5: head and shopping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure she likes all of that. So what

562
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Speaker 1: should she do in this situation?

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Speaker 2: Just deal with it, dog, she gotta deal with it.

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Speaker 2: You can't get rid of that little girl. The company downside,

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Speaker 2: they don't put over there. He ain't got no power

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 1: She's gonna try to pressure him to get another job.

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Speaker 2: Watch. Wow, I wouldn't do that.

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Speaker 4: I'll just say, don't you come on in here and

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Speaker 4: meet him?

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Speaker 1: And then what you said the husband?

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Speaker 4: Would you would say that, Yeah, he's got a nice personality.

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Speaker 1: She's nice. That's what the wife's gonna say. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to meet her.

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Speaker 4: I thought it was a good idea, my man. You

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Speaker 4: look how I'm looking at you.

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Speaker 11: I'm just trying to figure out if you mad at somebody.

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Speaker 11: Let's get some conflict resolution in here. Let's all work together.

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Speaker 2: Okay, next question.

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Speaker 1: Share that's the last one, Steve, that's the last one.

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Speaker 2: You just shut him up, Steve Harbin Martin show man.

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Speaker 1: Flora says, I've been sleeping with our yard man for

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Speaker 1: a while and he doesn't like wearing protection. We got

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Speaker 1: into an argument about it, and now he's not answering

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Speaker 1: my husband's texts to come to our yard. How can

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Speaker 1: he be so petty when he knows I'm married?

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Speaker 2: Here right here, God, y'all, y'all got to quit writing

588
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Speaker 2: us with all this craziness, acting like it's normal. You're

589
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Speaker 2: not qualified, don't wat y'all do y'all, y'all, I can't

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Speaker 2: apply no rules to this stuff because y'all keep coming

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Speaker 2: up with all this abnormal mess like it's regular. I'm

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Speaker 2: sleeping with my yard man and it's been going on

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Speaker 2: for a while, but he don't like to use protection,

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Speaker 2: so I kind of bought it up. And now he

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Speaker 2: didn't quit returning my husband's text because he mad, well,

596
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Speaker 2: what's wrong with him?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: Lady? You know? And I like the way they don't

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Speaker 2: mention it. At first, I'm sure with the yard man, okay, cool,

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Speaker 2: ain't no problem. But now he don't like to wear protection.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Now I spoke to him about it, that we should

603
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Speaker 2: wear protection because I'm married. Now he didn't. They got

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Speaker 2: an argument. He didn't quit text returning my husband's text

605
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 2: because he mad at me, what kind of man?

606
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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 1: How can he be so petty?

608
00:29:59,440 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 2: She said?

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Speaker 5: How can he be so petty?

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Speaker 7: Wait?

611
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Speaker 2: A minute when you had his baby. How petty that

612
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Speaker 2: gonna be when the baby come out looking like the

613
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Speaker 2: god because you know he got a big full head.

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Speaker 1: This craziness it is, I ain't good.

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Speaker 6: For you man.

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Speaker 5: Next ship stew coming.

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Speaker 2: Up right after.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. So here's a question

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Speaker 1: for you guys. Is there a time in your life

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Speaker 1: where you celebrated something before you had it? You know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, before you should have? Oh God, come

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Speaker 1: on me, what.

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Speaker 2: God did that?

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Speaker 4: What happened?

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Speaker 2: I got?

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Speaker 13: I booked the show. It was a Jamie Jamie Fix

627
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Speaker 13: was going to do a show called uh it was

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Speaker 13: it was, Oh God, variety show like that, and and

629
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Speaker 13: the show. And I came home celebrated through a party

630
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Speaker 13: that I got. I got a TV show and in

631
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Speaker 13: the show never happened. My god, show never happened.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you spent all that money?

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Speaker 13: Oh Man got a call from his His manager at

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Speaker 13: the time was Marcus King. Got a call from market.

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Speaker 13: We got your show, were good? Oh good Man went

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Speaker 13: home through a party, spent a whole bunch of money. Yeah,

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Speaker 13: didn't did not happen.

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Speaker 1: All just spending money all.

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Speaker 11: What about your junior oh did they They tease me

640
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Speaker 11: about every time I go back to Houston. I mean

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00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 11: playing against Woolwich High School of Football. I was running back.

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Speaker 11: I broke out from the one yard land ran all

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Speaker 11: the way to the fire. I started putting my hand

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Speaker 11: up and got tackled at the other one.

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Speaker 2: You just don't know.

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Speaker 4: So now my whole name at the barber shop is

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Speaker 4: ninety nine.

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Speaker 1: Did come ninety nine with the wool Ridge Right High

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Speaker 1: schooling man? I celebrated justice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, come on, Steve, I.

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Speaker 9: Know you have.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: My biggest one was nineteen seventy eight. Yeah, year I

654
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 2: ordered that triple plum cutting its final final roof, crushed

655
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 2: the little seats burgundy, burgundy, burgundy, white stare wheel wrap

656
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 2: had already ordered it because of the I was getting

657
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 2: a big commission check for selling this life insurance couple

658
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Speaker 2: life insurance policy to this couple. It was all ago.

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Speaker 2: She said, I just need my husband to see this.

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Speaker 2: Can you come by one more time? I came by

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Speaker 2: and I was I had to brochure in my briefcase

662
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 2: of the cutness. He said, We're not gonna do it.

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Speaker 2: What excuse me? Excuse me? Now that's what the husband said,

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Speaker 2: we're not gonna do it. We don't want the policy.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna look somewhere else. So I lost two things

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Speaker 2: that day. Well, that night, I lost the cutlass because

667
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 2: now there's no way I can get it because I

668
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 2: ain't got the money.

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Speaker 5: But I went to work the next day and lost

670
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Speaker 5: my job.

671
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Speaker 6: Job.

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00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 2: It's after the white dude said, and we're not gonna

673
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 2: do it. Yeah, when I got up, I didn't cuss

674
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,239
Speaker 2: him out, but the table got turned over.

675
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: The tables just don't get turned over the table.

676
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 5: What happened to my hand got caught up under when

677
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 5: I stood up real fast.

678
00:33:58,680 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 1: You know you flipped that.

679
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 5: It was nineteen seventy eight. I was fraight hood.

680
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:08,959
Speaker 2: I ain't famous, I ain't I ain't told a joke

681
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 2: yet for a quality, didn't have a brand to concern

682
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:17,760
Speaker 2: myself with with wide open and available for all lawsuits.

683
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:21,320
Speaker 2: Because I have nothing, you can win. So nineteen seventy

684
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 2: eight was the prime time to mess with me. I

685
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 2: had nothing. Flipping to your golden gloves, Yeah, flippy, I

686
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: walk came in the next morning. Everybody was looking at me. Oh,

687
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,439
Speaker 2: if you good, Tom want to see.

688
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: You all right, So here's a question for you, Steve

689
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 1: and tom and Tommy and Jr. If one of your

690
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: relatives were going to write just like a trashy tell

691
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: all novel about you, about your family, what would they

692
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: write about you? What would they say?

693
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 2: Go ahead, fellas, Oh what would they? Yeah?

694
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 1: Come on, Junior, I know you, Tommy, what you got?

695
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:05,880
Speaker 2: That's that's telling on myself.

696
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:14,760
Speaker 1: That's that bad. Right, we gotta read these body.

697
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 2: I just I say I could do it with my

698
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 2: siblings because you got to remember my youngest brother, he's

699
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 2: eleven years older than me. Oh right, yeah, and when

700
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 2: we was growing up close, we ain't had nothing. They

701
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 2: ain't gonna tell the thing now?

702
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: Why not now?

703
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 2: Because I'm paying it? Yeah, so my book would be

704
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 2: all about my past. He didn't have nothing, Okay.

705
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 1: He stole and you stopped saying that.

706
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 2: Mis Paie's house crossed the street. He wrote in the

707
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 2: Jackson's window and said he didn't do it and all that.

708
00:35:59,640 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 1: Okay.

709
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,959
Speaker 2: Came home every day with a bag of potato chips

710
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 2: in the pop and he ate where he get this

711
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 2: money from?

712
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: He stolehip? All right, JUNI, we love your family. Now,

713
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: now what would your family say about you in this book.

714
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 11: Oh, I'll stinch you that they're gonna say I stinch you.

715
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 11: I know, I know they gonna say I'm stinchy. Definitely,

716
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 11: all they gonna say he ain't sharing nothing. I ain't

717
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 11: sharing nothing my sister.

718
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 4: No, my life got messed up four years after I

719
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 4: was born. When she got here, it changed. I became

720
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 4: standing in because she got everything.

721
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: You're jealous all the way, all of a sudden, all

722
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: my toy.

723
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I couldn't stand at four.

724
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 11: All my toy used to be everywhere, my fifth Christmas chain,

725
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 11: just your stuff in the corner.

726
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: I couldn't stand this.

727
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 4: Then I'm over behind the tree, open and gets nobody

728
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 4: to see me. I did nobody know what I got?

729
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 2: You love it.

730
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 11: I gotta remote control, call you gotta what behind the

731
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 11: trailer by see me husted up everywhere? I hate We've

732
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 11: been friends since I.

733
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 6: Know your sister.

734
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: Yeah you're still holding a grudge.

735
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, all right, guys.

736
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: Coming up. Thank you you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,319
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738
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:36,280
Speaker 7: on cold nights, waking you up every time. Mattress firms

739
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741
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Speaker 7: undisturbed rest.

742
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743
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746
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Speaker 12: subject to location. See store for details.

747
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 1: And it's time now for a round of would you rather?

748
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: Would you rather? On a cold winter day, enjoy a

749
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,880
Speaker 1: bowl of hot chili or a bowl of gumbo.

750
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,800
Speaker 2: Junior, better eat that hot chili as soon as you

751
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 2: get cold. For this in the hospital, eat the chili,

752
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 2: chili or something.

753
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 4: I want the gumbo to gumbo hot.

754
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 10: Yeah.

755
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 5: Why do you steal any cold climbs you need to take?

756
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 3: You?

757
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: This is not about sickle cell.

758
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 2: It is if it get cold enough. This how I do.

759
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 2: Right here, I've learned about sickle cell me than I

760
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,879
Speaker 2: have never known in my life hanging with my little homie, Junior.

761
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 4: Right now, you got the best phone call steal.

762
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 2: Don't nobody call better than you do? Though?

763
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: Hello? Hey all right now, no.

764
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 2: No, no, no, this is how I go. Hey, Junior,

765
00:38:55,680 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 2: you're doing You're doing well, hold of dog hanging that

766
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 2: dog clicking, Because I don't want to be the one

767
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 2: on the phone that he last talked to. Because all

768
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 2: in the criminal investigation, you know, they looking at his phone.

769
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 2: See they looking at his phone log and then they

770
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 2: looking at her the last phone call. Now I'm down

771
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 2: at the police station. What did he say?

772
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 3: No?

773
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:25,800
Speaker 2: Crazy?

774
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 5: Forty eight hours.

775
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 2: When they find the phone, they always want to talk

776
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 2: to the last person that talked to him.

777
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 8: I've seen that on forty eight hours investigation.

778
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 5: But if he had a crisis, I'm not goin to

779
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 5: be the last one.

780
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 2: Click. He got dead.

781
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 5: But he can talk to he got.

782
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 2: He gotshi, he can talk to he can talk to

783
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 2: all the people that he got kids.

784
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 5: Now, last man, Queen.

785
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 1: Shut it's his wife? Oh god, all right, shut.

786
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 2: No, queish it.

787
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 3: Is?

788
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:07,919
Speaker 2: That's her name?

789
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 15: All right?

790
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:13,879
Speaker 3: Yeah?

791
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 1: Doesn't it? Really thought it was?

792
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 5: And she know too.

793
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 4: You know how I ain't say my name, right, I said,

794
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 4: I know, Just don't say nothing.

795
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 6: Just go get it.

796
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 2: K oh Man.

797
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 5: Yes, oh my god, thank you.

798
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 2: I appreciate it.

799
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, what do we do? Okay? Would you rather?

800
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 1: Would you rather shovel snow or rake leaves? Oh ke leaves, okay,

801
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: all right, shovel snow, yeah, all right. Would you rather

802
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: have average sex every single day for the rest of

803
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 1: your life or would you rather have great sex for

804
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: the rest of your life once a year?

805
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:06,320
Speaker 2: Once a year. I'd take the average, and take that

806
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 2: average and just go on and just get used to it.

807
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 1: That's today, he's around. Wouldn't you rather?

808
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 14: Because we spend most of the time talking about You're

809
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 14: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Junior, So now

810
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 14: you have a question for Steve.

811
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 1: What is your question?

812
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:31,879
Speaker 2: Yeah?

813
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 11: You know, uncle, let me ask you some UK and

814
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 11: I mean, and this is about your nephew. And I

815
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 11: really want to just get that the way because I

816
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 11: heard some earlier in the show today. I just want

817
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 11: to know how's this poperb Now, Tommy just said he

818
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 11: bathed three times a day because we had the story

819
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 11: with the man from nineteen fifty five.

820
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 5: He is a very clean person.

821
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 4: You can't all right, but you made a statement.

822
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 11: Yeah, you made a statement too, uncle, Yeah, you can't

823
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 11: be friends with somebody that bathed three times a day.

824
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 2: No, you explain why we First of all, it's gonna

825
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 2: interfere with our friendship.

826
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 5: Well, the fact that you got to bathe three times

827
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 5: a day.

828
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 2: Me and my partners, we do stuff like spirit a moment, Okay,

829
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 2: hey man, we finish, go down here, y'all want to

830
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 2: just meet up down here.

831
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, we do stuff like that. But if we got

832
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 5: to wait on you to bathe, see we're not We're not.

833
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 2: See see we're not finna keep calling you because you

834
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:32,879
Speaker 2: got to bathe three times a day. You gotta work

835
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 2: that in between your radio show, your TV show, yes,

836
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 2: your touring career.

837
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 5: You a father and a husband. Right, you go into

838
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 5: Jordan's games and all this here.

839
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 2: Cleaned up, you know why? And three three baths is

840
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 2: not it's not even necessary. It's really not tall. It's

841
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 2: really really not. And for you to sit up in

842
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 2: this TV on this radio show and tell people that's

843
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 2: what you do three times a day, I found Why

844
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 2: would I show up in my son gang funky as hell?

845
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 2: Why would I do that? Why wouldn't I take a bath?

846
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 2: But see, unless you have a gland problem from the

847
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 2: time you shower at five in the morning and you

848
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 2: need another one at eleven because you've been up sitting

849
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 2: up talking on the radio, then you got you need

850
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,280
Speaker 2: to go to the doctor man and get that problem.

851
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 5: You need to You needed some seal on something. You

852
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 5: Hey dog, hey, hey dog, hear what you need to do.

853
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 2: You need to stop using deodor and it start using

854
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 2: Thompson's deck sealer. You need to start. You need to

855
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: start putting primer and seala on your funking if you

856
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 2: stink from just doing this radio show. You got the

857
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 2: deodor ain't what you need, y'all. And I'm telling you

858
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 2: to hold deep. Got it, low's got it, bads, got

859
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:09,320
Speaker 2: it out now. But Thompson Thompson water sealing for dicks

860
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:10,399
Speaker 2: is what you need.

861
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 1: Let's go down the timeline here. So what time of

862
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,280
Speaker 1: the day do you are you taking all these showers?

863
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 13: Because I think that Okay, so in the morning when

864
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,839
Speaker 13: you wake up before we do the show, I take

865
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 13: and it helps you wake you up anyway, Yeah, absolutely,

866
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 13: all right.

867
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 2: Now when I get through, I can get in here.

868
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 2: Go ahead, okay. So after.

869
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: That, man, early.

870
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 2: The hell out would take a badage.

871
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 13: I'm so glad we're not in the same room because

872
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:41,320
Speaker 13: I'm here to take all that.

873
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 2: You just just get just in there.

874
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 13: Think what I don't like is I don't like all

875
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 13: day like I don't like you smell it like all day?

876
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 2: That that bothers me. Right there? What you all date?

877
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 2: You ain't bathed all day? You get y'all. I'm not

878
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: laying around next to your.

879
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 6: Lee.

880
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna cross this big platform. We're doing a radio show, okay,

881
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:13,439
Speaker 2: okay with a pillar man in my face right next

882
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 2: to y'all probably want you doing a little bit more.

883
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 2: But we come across this desk and as you glad,

884
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:23,280
Speaker 2: we zooming.

885
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 5: Now you return.

886
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 2: I came to work in that radio show. It didn't

887
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 2: take no bad when I came in there. Man, you

888
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 2: ain't never had no problem out of me.

889
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 5: Okay, so hang on, hang on.

890
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 2: Bath in the morning, okay, sir. So I go to

891
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 2: the gym.

892
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 13: When I leave the gym, no shower. Okay, Now, laid

893
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 13: on an even before you.

894
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 2: Go to bed. I want you a bath. I want

895
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 2: no shower.

896
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 1: Okay. That's dreaking out.

897
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 2: He'll work out every day. He don't work out every day, Shirley.

898
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 2: We need to sabody every day.

899
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 1: Lie, he's gonna.

900
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 5: Work out every day.

901
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 2: Shirley. You're a funky uncle. That's what you You was

902
00:45:59,480 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 2: a fuck.

903
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 3: We gotta go.

904
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 1: We'll be back. We'll be back when you need to

905
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: flash of this ignorant show. Right, good morning, This is

906
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 1: Shirley's Strawberry. Have a happy and a safe new Year

907
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the

908
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes

909
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 1: after the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today and

910
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 1: the subject is get a load of this subject? Guys,

911
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: how did he know where to put it? Okay, that's

912
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: the subject. How did he know where to put it?

913
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 2: Okay?

914
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 1: We'll get into that in just a few but right

915
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,479
Speaker 1: now it is time for the nephew and the prank

916
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: phone call. What you got neph.

917
00:46:49,640 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 8: Huh hey, yes, he yes, chop, that's right, that's right.

918
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 2: Let's going man?

919
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: Is that right now?

920
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 3: No?

921
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 2: I don't care it be in minuse twice.

922
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 3: I know, the saying hello, Hello, I'm trying to speak

923
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 3: to the man of the house. Please, it's me, uh

924
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 3: mister mister h Jason. You've got all right? How you doing? Sir?

925
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 9: All right?

926
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 3: Who's this? My name is Mark, Mark giving you a

927
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 3: call actually from uh Child Protective Services. How's your day

928
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 3: going today so far? Oh? I'm good?

929
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 9: But are you sure you call them the right please.

930
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely you you you you're you're mister Jason? Correct?

931
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 9: Correct?

932
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,800
Speaker 3: All right? Now your your your girlfriend or your wife.

933
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 3: I'm not sure if you guys are married or not

934
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:51,359
Speaker 3: as miss Stephanie, I presume right.

935
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 9: But uh that's it's my girl, but paying her last name.

936
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 9: But now you said you call him from w again.

937
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 3: Child Protective Service. It's a certain and uh, really what's

938
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 3: going on here, uh Jason, is that you you guys

939
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 3: have five children? Am I correct? Okay, okay, Now what

940
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 3: we're having is we can uh we've been getting, sir,

941
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 3: a few reports that these kids aren't being taken care

942
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 3: of properly.

943
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,359
Speaker 9: No, no, no, no, no, no, no reports from where

944
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 9: you know. We we take care of these kids. They

945
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 9: ain't and shouldn't. Nobody be seeding y'all, no garbage like

946
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 9: that that we ain't taking care of no kids. No,

947
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 9: we got five kids. It's hard out here, but we

948
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 9: take care of them kids, sir.

949
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 3: We're getting, sir, we're getting reports that you guys are

950
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,839
Speaker 3: not feeding them properly, that some nights and some days

951
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 3: these kids actually go without eating. Uh, that they don't

952
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 3: have proper clothing attire.

953
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:54,479
Speaker 9: That all them kids, every last one of the kids,

954
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 9: they wear a designer they you know, fashionable?

955
00:48:58,840 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 3: Is nah?

956
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 9: Ain't nobody not taking care of the kids. I don't

957
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 9: even know where you're getting that from?

958
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 3: Are you guys? Actually? Are you combing their hair and

959
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 3: brushing their teeth in the morning?

960
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 9: And come on, man like, like, is it you gotta be?

961
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 3: No, I'm not actually, And that leads me to something else.

962
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 3: I've actually had a visit with the at the school

963
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 3: today and I visited with a couple of the children. Now,

964
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 3: the younger son. I met with him today and we

965
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 3: talked and I asked him a few questions, Uh, I said,

966
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:33,839
Speaker 3: I told him, I said, I have a few more

967
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 3: questions I want you to answer and to be honest

968
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 3: with you, mister Jason. He he He stood up and

969
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,800
Speaker 3: looked me in the eye and said that and I

970
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 3: and I just I was blown away by it. And

971
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:46,759
Speaker 3: I said, wait, an excuse me? What did you say? Yeah?

972
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 3: What I said? I said that?

973
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

974
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 3: But now now I'm from my understanding, I asked him,

975
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 3: I said, where did you hear that kind of language?

976
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 3: Being said? Where did you hear that from? And he

977
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 3: said he heard it from his father at home.

978
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 9: That's like, I don't talk like that around my kids.

979
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 9: That's that's a bunch of like that.

980
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 3: You're you're not here. You are saying it now, you're cursing.

981
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 9: Now, I'm cussing to you. But I don't cuss them

982
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 9: up kids like that. I don't talk to my kids

983
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 9: like that.

984
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 3: Man, sir, If you're talking like this in front of

985
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 3: me the nine times out of team and doing it

986
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 3: in front of the kids as well.

987
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 9: Hold on, hold on, hold on, holder, listen. I'm a

988
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,720
Speaker 9: grown man. You can't you calling me telling me about

989
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 9: my kids and you're gonna tell me how I can't

990
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:33,800
Speaker 9: talk to you. I don't talk around my kids like that.

991
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:34,799
Speaker 9: That's what I'm trying to.

992
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 3: Tell you, sir. Let me, let me, let me bring

993
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 3: this to a nutshell for you. What we're doing today

994
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 3: is we are coming by there and we're gonna we're

995
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:45,360
Speaker 3: gonna have to bring all five kids in.

996
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 9: Uh uh. Hold on, hold on, listen, you coming to

997
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 9: get who five kids? You're not coming Listen to this now.

998
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 9: I'm gonna keep it real with you. Now, I've been

999
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,879
Speaker 9: trying to hold my composure. You got on the phone.

1000
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 9: First of all, I don't appreciate you calling me like this,

1001
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 9: witness like this. Now, the first three those ain't mine.

1002
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 9: They dad live up the street. You might go find

1003
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 9: him in the pool hall somewhere. You're not coming to

1004
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 9: get them last two, sir.

1005
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 3: I'm coming to get all five children. Sir, listen to this.

1006
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 9: You will not be coming to get those last two.

1007
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 9: I can guarantee you you won't be coming to get

1008
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 9: those last two.

1009
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 3: I have to bring all five children. And that's just

1010
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 3: those are. That's my assignment. That's what has to be done.

1011
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 9: Okay, want to check this out? Assignment my If you

1012
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 9: step foot up here, I'm not gonna even keep playing myself. Man,

1013
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 9: I do what I'm supposed to do by all those kids.

1014
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 9: You not taking those last two.

1015
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 3: Out of here? I'm taking all five children. Are you

1016
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 3: hearing me?

1017
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 9: Hey?

1018
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 3: Check this out? Are you listening to me?

1019
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,919
Speaker 9: Of you talking to I'm like, keep raising your voice

1020
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 9: that like I'm a grown man. You gotta slow it up.

1021
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:00,160
Speaker 10: I don't give you.

1022
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 9: Are you better not be calling me with that, sir.

1023
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,320
Speaker 3: I'm bringing a van in there at four o'clock and

1024
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 3: we're hallering needy kids in the protective services. If you

1025
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 3: want to see that name you are.

1026
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,879
Speaker 9: Let it hold on. Let me tell you something. See

1027
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 9: that's where you stuffed at. And you want to tell

1028
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 9: me what time you coming down here? That's some real gases.

1029
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 9: Bring your down here at four o'clock. I swear to

1030
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 9: God I will be waiting on you.

1031
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 3: I don't want any problems. I'm letting you know that the.

1032
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 9: Problem is my four o'clock. Show up at four o'clock.

1033
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 9: Get four o'clock. Ain't nothing else to talk about that?

1034
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 3: Tell is there is? I want you to have all

1035
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 3: the kids things packed.

1036
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:41,720
Speaker 9: Anybody listen, don't talk about it, be about it. Okay,

1037
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 9: don't talk about me no more. Be about it four o'clock.

1038
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 3: You're gonna have a life.

1039
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 9: Skit all over your four clock.

1040
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 3: So I got I got one more thing I need

1041
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 3: to say to you before I know I get there.

1042
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 9: To tell Okay, I don't want to hear that four o'clock.

1043
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 9: So I got one more thing I want to say

1044
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 9: to you four o'clock. Don't say it, man, at four o'clock.

1045
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:00,360
Speaker 9: That's what I got to say to you.

1046
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 3: But I got one more thing to say to you.

1047
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:02,800
Speaker 3: Can I say it?

1048
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 9: Say it?

1049
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:06,720
Speaker 3: Say it? This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey

1050
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 3: Morning Show. You just got prank, baby, you just got

1051
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 3: pranked by your sister. Who listen, Jason, this is nephew

1052
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:22,879
Speaker 3: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man.

1053
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 9: Listen, hey, listen. I'm gonna tell you.

1054
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 3: Everybody, your sister Resia put me up to.

1055
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 9: This man and look, Regina Needa, Well that's what we

1056
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 9: need that happen. Man, y'all playing games with me, got

1057
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:41,799
Speaker 9: these kids over here struggling like excuse me. I mean,

1058
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 9: you better be glad you said you was a nephew

1059
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 9: toll me because somebody pulled up here at four o'clock.

1060
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,360
Speaker 9: They was getting a mumbles stump in the top of

1061
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:56,720
Speaker 9: the flood. I wasn't playing that cause you know damn

1062
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 9: that you scared the hell out of me. That's just

1063
00:53:58,960 --> 00:53:59,479
Speaker 9: point blank.

1064
00:53:59,600 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 10: Man.

1065
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 3: Man, I gotta ask you, man, what is the baddest

1066
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 3: radio show in the.

1067
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 9: Land, oh, man, Steve Harvey Morning Show Man, there is CPS.

1068
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 2: Try to protect the service. Sometimes you got to put

1069
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:15,399
Speaker 2: a little threat on some people. Let them know, heype,

1070
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 2: you ain't treating these kids right. That's what we do.

1071
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 13: We come over, we pick them up, we pick them up,

1072
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 13: put them in the car. Take them away from you.

1073
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 13: If you don't know what you're doing. Man, you can

1074
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:25,239
Speaker 13: come over here, but you're not taking these kids.

1075
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:27,959
Speaker 1: Well, you said they came to your house twice though, Steve,

1076
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: What was that about?

1077
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 2: Somebody I know in my life had file a complaint?

1078
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 14: Uh huh?

1079
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 2: Did I beat your kids?

1080
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 9: Oh?

1081
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 1: Okay, in your previous life, I got you came on

1082
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 1: over well.

1083
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, because I told his can not do something

1084
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:47,720
Speaker 2: that he did.

1085
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 13: Need to use a belt, Yeah, Gucca, belt off, Stefan,

1086
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 13: don't reach your deal?

1087
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 2: What kind of best whoop these kids with you? It

1088
00:54:56,760 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 2: don't matter if you in my house and I tell

1089
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 2: you to do something, and first first I give you

1090
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 2: the ruin. Yeah. The second time I tell you and

1091
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 2: you do it, you get a punishment. Now the third time,

1092
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 2: I'm assuming you don't believe fat meat grease. That's exactly right.

1093
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 15: I always wanted I went to jail. No woman that

1094
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 15: I didn't want it, but I'd rather have that than

1095
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 15: a punishment. Dog, I wanted to die, all right, thanks,

1096
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 15: Well you're gonna make me kill you? Could you plead?

1097
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 2: Here?

1098
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 1: Job letter is up next to the subject how did

1099
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 1: he know where to put it? All right, we'll get

1100
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 1: into that. We'll find out what that's all about right

1101
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 1: after this.

1102
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 7: Nothing's worse than pet's bouncing on and off your bed

1103
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 7: on cold nights, waking you up every time. Mattress firms

1104
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 7: sleep experts can match you with a bed like a

1105
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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is

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Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:32,720
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00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,960
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00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:47,359
Speaker 1: receiving your letter. We could be reading your letter, your

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00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:50,359
Speaker 1: letter on the air. Just so, I'm going to read

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Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know.

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Speaker 1: It could be yours.

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Speaker 4: You never know it's trapping a strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: But my good friend, Shirley Strawby, thank you my good

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00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:03,880
Speaker 1: friend subject, how did he know where to put it? Okay,

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for six years and

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Speaker 1: all was well in my marriage until one of my

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00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: closest friends moved to my side of town. She's divorced,

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Speaker 1: and she bought a new home closer to where we lived.

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Speaker 1: When she and her husband started to have problems, my

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00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 1: husband stopped talking to him because he didn't like the

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00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 1: way her husband treated her. My granny lives with us,

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Speaker 1: and she didn't understand why my husband cared so much.

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00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 1: I don't get into discussions about my husband and marriage

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00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: with my grandmother because she finds fault with everything. When

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00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 1: my close friend would stop by our house, my granny

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00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 1: would keep an eye on her. She didn't like my

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00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 1: husband having kind words for my friend at all. I

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00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: took it with a grain of salt because Grannie is

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00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 1: so negative most of the time. But I did stop

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00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: my friend from popping up at our house before she

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00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 1: went out so I could see her dressed up nicely.

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00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 1: Grannie said it was more for my husband than for me,

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00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: it did raise a red flag, but I didn't let

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00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 1: Grannie know. Then my friend had a housewarming party and

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00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: she needed wood for her fireplace, so I told her

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00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: we bring some. My husband came in a few minutes

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00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: after us, and I asked him if he was going

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00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 1: to get the wood. He said, he already put it

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00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: out back. My friend thanked him, and Grannie asked how

1150
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 1: he knew where to put it. A hush fell over

1151
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: the room. He said he assumed it went on the patio.

1152
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: Grannie then asked how he knew where the patio was.

1153
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 1: Come on, Grannie, he said, he assumed it was out back.

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00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 1: My friend and my husband looked uncomfortable, and Grannie looked

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Speaker 1: at me and whispered, don't be stupid, Tam. Is she

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00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: just being Grannie? Or am I being stupid? What is

1157
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: going on?

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00:58:58,360 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 3: All right?

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00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:02,120
Speaker 1: It's a little bit of both, meaning that Granny was right,

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00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: and yes, you were stupid for ignoring that feeling you

1161
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Speaker 1: had in your gut. Or the red flags as you

1162
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 1: call them, red flags pop up for a reason, Okay,

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00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: that's why they're called red flags. And when you know

1164
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: and when has anyone's granny been wrong about this kind

1165
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: of stuff. Okay, it's called wisdom. It is called wisdom.

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00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 1: It's called they've lived long enough to have seen just

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00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 1: about everything in life, and they certainly know when a

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00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: woman is trying to get at another woman's man. It's

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00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 1: just something that grannies have, Okay, older women. But the

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00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 1: really stupid one here is your husband. Your husband who

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00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 1: couldn't even play off the fact that he knew exactly

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Speaker 1: where everything was at your friend's house, because why because

1173
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 1: could have Could it be that he's been there before?

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00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 1: Sounds like it. It looked very suspicious when you when

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00:59:56,280 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: all you guys were inside, and he took the firewood

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Speaker 1: and put it in the very place that was supposed

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Speaker 1: to go. He didn't come in and ask your friend

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Speaker 1: any questions about where it should go. He didn't bring

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Speaker 1: it inside and put it down somewhere anywhere. Nope, he

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01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: put it where he always puts it when he comes over.

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01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 1: And that's when granny knew for sure, and she put

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Speaker 1: him on blasts with her questions. And Granny's right, you

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Speaker 1: know that. Don't be stupid, tam. No, you didn't catch

1184
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Speaker 1: them together, and you don't have any facts or anything,

1185
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 1: but you got your granny on the case, and clearly

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Speaker 1: something is going on. So thank you to the granny

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Speaker 1: in this letter and for all the granny's out there.

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Speaker 2: Steve. It is so hard to follow this one because

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Speaker 2: who wants to respond after that eloquent display of respect

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Speaker 2: for the elder? A usually want to be respectful of

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Speaker 2: helding the people put come woman all the respect, Yes, elation, admiration,

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Speaker 2: credit because she just gave it up, you know, Shirley

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01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 2: trying to go Christian on this wheen honor thy mother

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Speaker 2: and their father, and our days on this earth shall

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Speaker 2: be long, you know. And I'm I'm rether fit to

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Speaker 2: run the risk of getting cut off early because I

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Speaker 2: don't really I see some other stuff in this letter,

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Speaker 2: So here I go.

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Speaker 6: Hot.

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Speaker 2: Did he know where to put it? You've been married

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Speaker 2: for six years and everything was going good until you

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01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 2: One of your closest friends moved on your side of town.

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01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 5: She got divorced, and she bought a new house closer

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01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:38,919
Speaker 5: to where y'all live.

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Speaker 2: And when she and her husband started to have problems,

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01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 2: your husband stopped talking to him because he ain't like

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01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 2: the way her husband treated her. Well, obviously he had

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Speaker 2: some information, y'all didn't have because they was boys, and

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Speaker 2: he kind of went, you old dog, that's like real stink. Damn.

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Speaker 2: He didn't stop, So that's not true. My granny lives

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Speaker 2: with us. See right there, right now, my granny lives

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Speaker 2: with us. Let's talk about the decisions that you all

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Speaker 2: can make to make. You have to live with your grande,

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Speaker 2: not your children, your grandkids, Your mama and your daddy

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01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:35,400
Speaker 2: didn't want her staying with Tea, so now staying with you.

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Speaker 2: Some people know some stuff about granny that you don't know.

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01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 2: And she didn't understand why your husband cares so much.

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01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 2: I don't get into discussions about my husband in marriage

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01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 2: with my grandmama because she finds fault with everything, and

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01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:57,280
Speaker 2: why she at your house. That's why she ain't at

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Speaker 2: your mama's house or your daddy's house. Yeah, she'd have

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01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 2: broke up a lot of families. I've bit you.

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Speaker 1: Hold that thought, Steve, hold that thought. We'll have part

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01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour today's Strawberry Letters subject how did he

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01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 1: know where to put it? We'll come back with part

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Speaker 1: two of Steve's response right after this. You're listening Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.

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1233
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01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:43,680
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01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:47,640
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1238
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 12: and subject to location. Ce store for details.

1239
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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve. Let's recap today's strawberry letter,

1240
01:03:57,760 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: the subject how did he know where to put it?

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01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've been married for a while. Your closest friend

1242
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 2: got divorced, bought a house over there by you and

1243
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 2: your husband. Your husband started having problems, and when they

1244
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 2: started having problems, your husband stopped talking to her husband

1245
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,840
Speaker 2: because he said he didn't like the way he treated her.

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01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 2: Your grandmama lived with y'all, and she didn't understand why

1247
01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 2: my husband cared so much. Because your grandmama knows it.

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01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 2: I don't get into discussions about my husband in marriage

1249
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 2: with my grandmother because she finds fault with everything. Why

1250
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 2: is your grandmama staying with y'all? Why is the grandmama

1251
01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 2: not staying with her daughter or her son? Why she

1252
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 2: got to skip over and stay with her grandkids because

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01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 2: she then already broke up your MoMA and daddy's home,

1254
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 2: so they wasn't gonna have it. So now she over here,

1255
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 2: and now guess what she fit to break yours up?

1256
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:57,280
Speaker 2: Because she find fault with everything. Everybody don't know long

1257
01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 2: little negative granny living with them, but you don't know

1258
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 2: no better. When my clothes friend would stop by her house,

1259
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 2: your grandmama would keep eye on her. She didn't like

1260
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 2: my husband having kind words for my friend at all.

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01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 2: I took her with a grain of salt. Your grandmama

1262
01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 2: dun'ky nothing. This old bit at the old lady by herself,

1263
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 2: that's what she is. Old bit at the old woman

1264
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 2: by herself staying with her grandkids. Can't stay with her

1265
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:27,360
Speaker 2: own kids, got to stay with her kids kids. She

1266
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 2: got a skipper generation because she'dne broke up too many houses.

1267
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 2: And everybody know about your grandmamaself, y'all, because you still

1268
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 2: remember her giving you candy. Well she got different kind

1269
01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 2: of CANDYNI it is called poison. What, Yeah, she got

1270
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 2: a different kind of can denied, it's called poison. Because

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01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:49,400
Speaker 2: my granted is so negative most of the time. That's

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01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 2: all the time. What is your old done that has

1273
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 2: caused you to have to live with your grandkids? Because

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01:05:57,480 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 2: she negative? Granted, don't like nobody, And I got news

1275
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 2: for you. Don't nobody like granny, but I but I

1276
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 2: did stop my friend from popping up at our house

1277
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 2: because when she went out so I could see her

1278
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:16,320
Speaker 2: all dressed up nicely, Granny said, that was more for

1279
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 2: my husband than's for lead. Granny just keeps staying the

1280
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 2: part up. See, Granny ain't got no man. Granny ain't

1281
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 2: had a man in a long time. Granny man left off.

1282
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:30,880
Speaker 2: Now she mad about everybody man. Now now, ain't nobody

1283
01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 2: got a good man? Because so Granny all me and

1284
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:36,920
Speaker 2: his dogs, yours, your mama's, your daddy's, everybody.

1285
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:40,320
Speaker 5: Granny are walking home records.

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01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 10: There.

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01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 2: My friend had a housewoman party.

1288
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:45,920
Speaker 5: Now this what threw me.

1289
01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:49,240
Speaker 2: Then my friend had a housewoman party and she needed

1290
01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 2: wood for her fireplace. What throw a party and say, hey, man,

1291
01:06:55,120 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 2: pranks some wood and bring some drake, bring some potato,

1292
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:06,920
Speaker 2: Sally bringing cups, bring plate, bring a little meat with you,

1293
01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 2: bring some who throw a party? And asked for some firewood.

1294
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:16,480
Speaker 6: That was just odd to me.

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01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:19,640
Speaker 2: I ain't out with a lot of parties. I had

1296
01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:21,640
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff under my arm. I ain't ever

1297
01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 2: walked in with some logs, n I've never had a

1298
01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 2: bought wine, alcohol, cheese, trees. I just showed them with

1299
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 2: some stuff. Gives bags, not no wood though, so I

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01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:40,400
Speaker 2: told her we bring something. My husband came in a

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01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:42,920
Speaker 2: few minutes after us, and I asked him if he

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01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:46,080
Speaker 2: was going to get the wood. He said, he already

1303
01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:46,960
Speaker 2: put it out back.

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01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 3: Now.

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01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 2: My friend thanked him, and Granny asked, now see right here,

1306
01:07:51,560 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 2: why is Granny at the part? Granmy knows that over

1307
01:07:57,240 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 2: to the party. My real thank him, and granted asked

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01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:05,560
Speaker 2: how he knew where to put it? A hush fell

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01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:08,920
Speaker 2: over the room. How he knows where to put the

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01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:11,920
Speaker 2: wood because wood has a double meaning and where to

1311
01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 2: put it? So now that's why the hush fell over

1312
01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 2: the room, because he can make this double connotation statement, well,

1313
01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:21,760
Speaker 2: how you know where to put it? Now everybody got

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Speaker 2: to figure out what is her old talking about? Put

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Speaker 2: what where? Put the wood where? Because we're talking two

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Speaker 2: things now? So then the hush fell on the roof,

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01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 2: he said, He assumed it went on the patio. Granted,

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Speaker 2: then asked how he knew where the patio was. Well,

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Speaker 2: all hell for all patios is in the back. If

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Speaker 2: if it in the back, it ain't a patio. If

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Speaker 2: it's in the front, it's a poach. Right, see that

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01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:55,599
Speaker 2: old statement right there? How he know where the patio

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01:08:55,800 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 2: is because all patios is in the back. Man? Kind

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01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:02,839
Speaker 2: of ignorant?

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Speaker 3: Is that?

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Speaker 2: Because she a home record, he said, He assumed it

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Speaker 2: was out back. I'd have told her, Hey, old hell

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Speaker 2: for all patios is in the battle, like my friend

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01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:17,680
Speaker 2: and my husband looked uncomfortable, and Granny looked at me

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01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 2: and whispered, don't be stupid, stupid, Damn.

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Speaker 5: Your man just like all of my men's is dead.

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Speaker 3: Me.

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01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:28,479
Speaker 2: I ain't been able to keep a man. No, how

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01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:30,839
Speaker 2: so why would I want to see you one? I'dn't

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01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,240
Speaker 2: got rid of your mommy and daddy's relationship. That's why

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01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:37,799
Speaker 2: I'm staying in your house. Is she just being granted?

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01:09:37,920 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 2: Or am I being stupid? What's going on? Your grandmy

1338
01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:44,320
Speaker 2: is a hater back gn she Got Wisdom.

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01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 5: Trying to break up a family.

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Speaker 1: At Steve Harvey FM. To comment on today's Strawberry Letter.

1341
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,800
Speaker 1: You can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the.

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01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:57,600
Speaker 2: Man She Is Steve Harbin Martin show Man, Why do

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01:09:57,760 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 2: we have a radio show here?

1344
01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 5: We're gonna do it right?

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01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:02,799
Speaker 1: Listen to yourself.

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01:10:02,920 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 13: That's stupid, stupid, That's what I'm talking about.

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01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 2: Boy, say that. Man?

1348
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:10,479
Speaker 1: Why do we have that show?

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01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:14,760
Speaker 2: If we're going to be right coming up right after you.

1350
01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1351
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 7: Nothing's worse than pets bouncing on and off your bed

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Speaker 1: Well, it is the new year and it is time

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01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:58,599
Speaker 1: to resolve to be more positive and healthy. A new

1364
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:02,120
Speaker 1: survey has found that the average person has up to

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01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: eleven negative thoughts every day. These include things like I'm

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Speaker 1: not good enough, I'm overweight, or I'm too fat, and

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01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm not good looking, or I'm ugly. Those surveys said

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Speaker 1: these negative thoughts keep them from achieving their goals, including

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Speaker 1: getting healthy. So, Steve, I got to turn to you

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Speaker 1: on this one. I have heard you say out of

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01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:25,639
Speaker 1: your own mind. We all have on this show.

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Speaker 2: Yes, well I've never said I'm ugly, I'm not attracted. Yes,

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01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 2: that's still unhealthy, though I tell you it was even

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01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 2: more unhealthy looking in the mirror.

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Speaker 5: Actual ugly.

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Speaker 2: Is really unhealthy.

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Speaker 1: Denial right there has to stop. It sounds.

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01:11:51,360 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 2: At that and all you see is cute. Come on

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01:11:54,600 --> 01:12:00,400
Speaker 2: out that mirror, because now you're trying to force upon

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01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:04,040
Speaker 2: those of us who know it's something that we're not

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01:12:04,360 --> 01:12:05,519
Speaker 2: willing to accept.

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Speaker 1: But you don't consider yourself attractive and Tommy thinks he's

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01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:12,000
Speaker 1: dropped dead gorgeous.

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Speaker 13: Fine that I'm not gonna quit thinking this way, and

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Speaker 13: I'm sorry, I'm not doing it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna pick just said you were in denial.

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Speaker 2: I don't care what he's ugly behind seeing. See, we

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01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:31,600
Speaker 2: got a problem here. We trying to understand where Tommy coming.

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Speaker 5: From, because.

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Speaker 2: He's dealing with you know, like like you can have

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01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 2: a spraining arm, you can have a fraction arm, you

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01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:47,320
Speaker 2: can have a broken arm, and you can compound fraction.

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Speaker 5: Tommy's dealing with a compound fraction.

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Speaker 1: I knew you were gonna say, I knew you were so.

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Speaker 5: And wait whoa Okay, okay, let me say on to cuteness.

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Speaker 2: Let me say this and this last time has he

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01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 2: heard anybody say, hey, with your little cute I went

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Speaker 2: to the chi practice. Oh okay, yes, yes.

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Speaker 13: And I have been I have been stretched, I have

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01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:26,479
Speaker 13: been realigned, and I am now by ten and a half,

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01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:31,480
Speaker 13: I am now I've been elongated.

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01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:32,720
Speaker 2: I've been elongated.

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01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm telling you you ain't got the lie crea.

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Speaker 6: You know what you know.

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01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:40,560
Speaker 13: When we get off, when we get off to that

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01:13:40,680 --> 01:13:42,519
Speaker 13: this one, I'm gonna measure my height and take a

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01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 13: picture of it.

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01:13:43,520 --> 01:13:45,760
Speaker 2: Right, I'm take a picture. You can stand up on

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01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 2: this zoom. If you stand up on your zoom, you'll

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01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 2: still be in.

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Speaker 3: This all right. We gotta go.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Happy New Year From the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, Steve,

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Speaker 1: this one's for you. This one's from Derek on Facebook.

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01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 1: He writes, I'm finally starting dating again after a divorce

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01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 1: and two years off. These days, I share custody of

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Speaker 1: my daughter with my wife, and I have my little girl,

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01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:30,479
Speaker 1: Kelsey over every other weekend. The downside is that I

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01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:33,479
Speaker 1: made the mistake of introducing the woman I've been seeing

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Speaker 1: to my daughter and have regretted it ever since. Even

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Speaker 1: though she's not a parent and has only known my

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01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:43,680
Speaker 1: daughter for less than a month, she somehow got the

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Speaker 1: idea in her head that she has the right to

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Speaker 1: punish and discipline Kelsey when she comes over. It's led

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01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:54,560
Speaker 1: to some uncomfortable moments and it needs to stop. Is

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Speaker 1: this the relationship killer that I think it is? The

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Speaker 1: relationship with my little girl is far more importan and

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Speaker 1: there's a line that's going to be crossed if I

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Speaker 1: don't control its.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just a deal break, especially if she don't understand

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Speaker 2: that you better and and if the mama find dude Kilsey, Mama,

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Speaker 2: man bro, because I'm a little stunned anyway, what you

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01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:27,599
Speaker 2: finally started dating after your divorce and waited two years

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Speaker 2: You do that? Yeah, I'm not really sure that's the truth, bro,

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Speaker 2: because me and we don't. We don't wait two years

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Speaker 2: to date.

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Speaker 1: That's not who we are, even if you have a

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Speaker 1: little girl to raise or whatever. Maybe he was concentrating on.

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Speaker 5: His no, no, no, she got to go to sleep though.

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Speaker 2: Somebody coming over here, somebody coming over here when baby

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01:15:54,240 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 2: goes bed right now?

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01:15:57,280 --> 01:15:59,720
Speaker 5: Two years we feel the move your bed time up.

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Speaker 2: You put the lock on your they can't get out.

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Speaker 4: Two years, ben down, but you moved it up to

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01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:14,320
Speaker 4: bedtime was at nine?

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Speaker 2: What you moved it up to six thirty? We ain't

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01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:24,080
Speaker 2: got no more TV's in here, nothing you our pad

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01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:28,720
Speaker 2: going off? All the internet in this house go off

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Speaker 2: at five thirty.

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Speaker 1: Daddy, I'm not sleepy.

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01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:36,640
Speaker 2: I didn't ask you when you sleep. I said go

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Speaker 2: to bed. I don't give it what you're doing now, Daddy.

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01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:41,840
Speaker 1: I need some help with my homework.

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01:16:42,240 --> 01:16:46,600
Speaker 2: I need I don't know nothing about that homework. I

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01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:48,560
Speaker 2: got somebody coming over here. We can get to f

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01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 2: we can deal with the f.

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Speaker 4: You want me to fail?

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Speaker 2: You want me to fail?

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01:16:59,640 --> 01:17:00,400
Speaker 1: Are you helping?

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Speaker 10: Derek?

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01:17:00,960 --> 01:17:03,600
Speaker 1: He needs your help here Steve, what what?

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Speaker 3: What?

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01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:07,120
Speaker 2: He won't shall? He wants to know?

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01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 1: Is this a relationship killer that he thinks it is? Yeah, okay,

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01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:13,320
Speaker 1: so he should do.

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Speaker 5: She discipline in his baby and dog. You got to

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Speaker 5: get some permissions.

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Speaker 2: You've only been around for one month and you're talking

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01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:23,200
Speaker 2: about she gonna cross the line. You already know what

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Speaker 2: is going bro, Lady woman whooped whooped off.

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Speaker 3: A cow?

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Speaker 1: All right, here's another one, another relationship question from Tracy

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Speaker 1: Steve uh. This is from Steve Steve Harvey dot com.

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Speaker 1: It's been over two years since I was in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: I have a pretty active social life. I meet lots

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01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:49,320
Speaker 1: of new people, but I just don't ever seem to

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01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:53,920
Speaker 1: meet anyone that I'm particularly trackeded to. I'm afraid that

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01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm going to spend the rest of my life alone.

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01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:57,880
Speaker 1: Is there something wrong with me? Should I be doing

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01:17:57,960 --> 01:17:58,759
Speaker 1: something different?

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Speaker 2: YEP? First of all, why don't you quit putting that

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01:18:01,640 --> 01:18:08,800
Speaker 2: in the atmosphere that it's something wrong with you? Am

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01:18:08,840 --> 01:18:13,040
Speaker 2: I doing something wrong? I'm socially in EP? Why don't

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01:18:13,080 --> 01:18:15,439
Speaker 2: you stop saying that. It's been two years of you

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01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:19,759
Speaker 2: saying that, and so you keep attracting the wrong people

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01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 2: and you keep claiming that you're socially in f and

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01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:25,959
Speaker 2: so you keep winding up in the same situation.

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Speaker 5: Positive affirmation is the first thing.

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01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:29,439
Speaker 3: You need to do.

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01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:30,759
Speaker 2: I like that, Steve.

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01:18:31,200 --> 01:18:36,639
Speaker 5: Every day, in every way, I'm getting better and better.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, that was good. Coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 2: Hey say, was hanning?

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Speaker 10: Y'all?

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Speaker 1: This cip mailhus a game here hot Yoda king Good.

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Speaker 2: This is Kim Whitley, This is Frankie a maze.

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Speaker 3: And you listen to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:07,479
Speaker 1: So Steve our last break, we were talking trying to

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01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:11,400
Speaker 1: help Tracy, who said, you know, it's been two years

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01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:13,679
Speaker 1: since she's been in a relationship. She has a pretty

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01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:17,280
Speaker 1: active social life. She meets new people, but she doesn't

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01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:21,000
Speaker 1: ever meet anyone that she's interested in. And she's asking herself,

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01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:23,639
Speaker 1: is there something wrong with her? Should she be doing

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01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:26,200
Speaker 1: something different? And you said, don't put that out in

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01:19:26,240 --> 01:19:27,880
Speaker 1: the atmosphere first.

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Speaker 5: What you know, like, is this something wrong with her?

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01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:33,920
Speaker 5: I think only she can answer that question.

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Speaker 2: But now What a lot of mistake a lot of

1512
01:19:36,240 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 2: women do is they listen to other people talking about girl,

1513
01:19:39,360 --> 01:19:41,519
Speaker 2: you too picky and all that is here. And there's

1514
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:46,639
Speaker 2: no such thing as being too picky unless you're underqualified

1515
01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 2: for the things that a man has to be qualified for. See.

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01:19:51,280 --> 01:19:53,840
Speaker 2: If you're looking for a man that's all that, then

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01:19:53,920 --> 01:19:55,800
Speaker 2: I hate to tell you these ladies, but you need

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01:19:55,880 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 2: to be all that too, right. That's a huge part

1519
01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:01,519
Speaker 2: of it. And a lot of times you go in

1520
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:04,040
Speaker 2: here and you dump all this on this man, but

1521
01:20:04,200 --> 01:20:07,120
Speaker 2: then the man wants something dumped on him too. And

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01:20:07,240 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 2: if you're not gonna be what you're looking for, what

1523
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:13,920
Speaker 2: do you think a man who has all that? Y'all

1524
01:20:13,920 --> 01:20:16,040
Speaker 2: think we just out here because you got some lashes on,

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01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:19,799
Speaker 2: That's what you think. If you watch the African Famous

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01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:23,840
Speaker 2: and Rich, you've seen that show? Uh huh, yes, I

1527
01:20:23,920 --> 01:20:29,799
Speaker 2: don't know how they open their eyes with them show.

1528
01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:32,320
Speaker 1: Heavy lids.

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01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:36,680
Speaker 2: Man, you touch your eyebrow?

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01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:41,320
Speaker 1: Fall coming up in thirty three minutes, thank you, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play around, would

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01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:47,439
Speaker 1: you rather? Right after this you're listening to the Steve

1533
01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:48,559
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.

1534
01:20:53,600 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 7: Nothing's worse than pet's bouncing on and off your bed

1535
01:20:56,560 --> 01:20:59,920
Speaker 7: on cold nights, waking you up every time. Mattress for

1536
01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:03,280
Speaker 7: Terms Sleep experts can match you with a bed like

1537
01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:06,800
Speaker 7: a temper Pedic with a unique material that absorbs motion

1538
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:08,479
Speaker 7: for undisturbed rest.

1539
01:21:08,760 --> 01:21:10,759
Speaker 1: Shop mattress firms once.

1540
01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:13,320
Speaker 7: A year's sale and clearance and save up to five

1541
01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:17,680
Speaker 7: hundred dollars on select temper Pedic mattresses with next day delivery.

1542
01:21:17,880 --> 01:21:20,880
Speaker 12: Restrictions apply. Next day delivery available on select mattresses and

1543
01:21:20,920 --> 01:21:22,839
Speaker 12: subject to location. Sea store for details.

1544
01:21:23,680 --> 01:21:26,519
Speaker 1: And it's time now for a round of would you rather?

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01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 1: Would you rather? On a cold winter day, enjoy a

1546
01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:33,400
Speaker 1: bowl of hot chili or a bowl of gumbo.

1547
01:21:34,120 --> 01:21:36,280
Speaker 2: Junior. Better eat that hot chili as soon as you

1548
01:21:36,360 --> 01:21:41,679
Speaker 2: get cold, for I got to eat the chili chili

1549
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:42,160
Speaker 2: or something.

1550
01:21:42,360 --> 01:21:43,960
Speaker 4: I want the gumbo to gumbo hot.

1551
01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:47,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, Why you deal any cold climbs? You need to

1552
01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:47,479
Speaker 5: take your.

1553
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 1: This is not about sickle cell.

1554
01:21:53,200 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 2: Cold enough, this is how I do right here, I've

1555
01:21:57,600 --> 01:22:00,920
Speaker 2: learned about sickle cell leaning I have never known in

1556
01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:03,280
Speaker 2: my life, hanging with my little home at Junior. We're

1557
01:22:03,320 --> 01:22:04,160
Speaker 2: going to tell you right now.

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01:22:04,439 --> 01:22:06,679
Speaker 4: Though you got the best phone call, still does don't

1559
01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:07,760
Speaker 4: nobody call better than you do?

1560
01:22:07,920 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 2: Dog?

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01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:13,640
Speaker 4: Hello, Hey all right now, no, no, no, no, no,

1562
01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:14,400
Speaker 4: this is how it goes.

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01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:16,960
Speaker 2: Hey, Junior's having it.

1564
01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:22,360
Speaker 1: You're doing you're doing well.

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01:22:22,400 --> 01:22:24,320
Speaker 5: He hold up dog hanging that dog.

1566
01:22:24,439 --> 01:22:28,680
Speaker 2: Click. Because I don't want to be the one on

1567
01:22:28,760 --> 01:22:31,599
Speaker 2: the phone that he last talked to, because he's all

1568
01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:35,120
Speaker 2: in the criminal investigation. You know, they're looking at his phone.

1569
01:22:35,439 --> 01:22:38,400
Speaker 2: No see they looking at his phone log and they

1570
01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:40,559
Speaker 2: looking at her the last phone call. Now, I'm down

1571
01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:44,200
Speaker 2: at the police station. What did he say? You now?

1572
01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:52,080
Speaker 2: On forty eight hours, when they find the phone, they

1573
01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:54,960
Speaker 2: always want to talk to the last person that talked

1574
01:22:55,000 --> 01:22:57,120
Speaker 2: to him. I've seen that on forty eight.

1575
01:22:57,040 --> 01:22:59,000
Speaker 1: Hours murder investigator.

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01:23:01,120 --> 01:23:03,840
Speaker 5: But he had a crisis. I'm not finna be the

1577
01:23:03,960 --> 01:23:04,599
Speaker 5: last one.

1578
01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:08,000
Speaker 2: Click. He got dead. But he can talk to you

1579
01:23:08,080 --> 01:23:12,479
Speaker 2: got he got he can talk to He can talk

1580
01:23:12,560 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 2: to all the people, and he got kids.

1581
01:23:14,960 --> 01:23:24,320
Speaker 1: Now Queenshu White show come all he shut door.

1582
01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:29,439
Speaker 2: No, queish, it is clear that's her name?

1583
01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:37,280
Speaker 1: All yeah, doesn't it really thought it was.

1584
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:46,479
Speaker 2: There? He said nothing and she knows to shed you

1585
01:23:46,520 --> 01:23:46,800
Speaker 2: know hard.

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01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:48,240
Speaker 4: I ain't say my name, right, I said, I know,

1587
01:23:48,600 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 4: just don't say nothing.

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01:23:49,560 --> 01:23:52,440
Speaker 5: Just go get it told little kk.

1589
01:23:52,360 --> 01:23:55,599
Speaker 1: Neil oh Man.

1590
01:23:56,800 --> 01:24:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, thank you. I appreciate it. All right,

1591
01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:01,560
Speaker 2: what do we do?

1592
01:24:01,720 --> 01:24:04,960
Speaker 1: Okay? Would you rather? Would you rather shovel snow or

1593
01:24:05,120 --> 01:24:05,920
Speaker 1: rake leaves?

1594
01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:07,400
Speaker 2: Oh right, leaves?

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01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:11,880
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, then shovel snow? Yeah, all right? Would

1596
01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:15,439
Speaker 1: you rather have average sex every single day for the

1597
01:24:15,520 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 1: rest of your life or would you rather have great

1598
01:24:18,439 --> 01:24:21,720
Speaker 1: sex for the rest of your life once a year?

1599
01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:26,800
Speaker 2: Once a year? Oh god, take the average. Didn't take

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01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:29,240
Speaker 2: that average and just go and just get used to it.

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01:24:31,680 --> 01:24:32,880
Speaker 1: That's today's round.

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01:24:33,000 --> 01:24:35,160
Speaker 14: And wouldn't you rather Because we spend most of the

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01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:36,960
Speaker 14: time talking about sickle.

1604
01:24:36,800 --> 01:24:42,200
Speaker 1: Cell coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour,

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01:24:42,280 --> 01:24:44,439
Speaker 1: we'll have some closing remarks from the one and only

1606
01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:45,120
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey.

1607
01:24:45,280 --> 01:24:45,800
Speaker 2: Right after this.

1608
01:24:46,120 --> 01:24:48,599
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1609
01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:54,519
Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, listen to Steve Harvey on behalf of all

1610
01:24:54,560 --> 01:24:56,639
Speaker 2: of us here to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Want to say,

1611
01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:59,960
Speaker 2: have a very happy and a safe holiday and happy

1612
01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:04,960
Speaker 2: New Year. Man, have a happy, safe and prosperous new year.

1613
01:25:05,280 --> 01:25:08,120
Speaker 2: Be greater this year than you were. Lash.

1614
01:25:09,960 --> 01:25:12,840
Speaker 7: Nothing's worse than pets bouncing on and off your bed

1615
01:25:12,920 --> 01:25:16,799
Speaker 7: on cold nights, waking you up every time. Mattress Firms

1616
01:25:17,040 --> 01:25:19,800
Speaker 7: Sleep experts can match you with a bed like a

1617
01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:23,560
Speaker 7: temper pedic with a unique material that absorbs motion for

1618
01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:24,960
Speaker 7: undisturbed rest.

1619
01:25:25,240 --> 01:25:27,240
Speaker 1: Shop mattress firms once.

1620
01:25:27,040 --> 01:25:29,800
Speaker 7: A year's sale and clearance and save up to five

1621
01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:34,200
Speaker 7: hundred dollars on select temperpeding mattresses with next day delivery.

1622
01:25:34,439 --> 01:25:37,439
Speaker 12: Restrictions apply. Next day delivery available on select mattresses and

1623
01:25:37,479 --> 01:25:39,400
Speaker 12: subject to location. See store for details.

1624
01:25:40,320 --> 01:25:42,400
Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of

1625
01:25:42,479 --> 01:25:45,320
Speaker 1: the day. You ready see to take us out?

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01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:46,280
Speaker 9: Yeah?

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01:25:48,200 --> 01:25:55,240
Speaker 5: Just thinking of a couple of things. I've been watching

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01:25:55,360 --> 01:25:56,520
Speaker 5: a lot of people.

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01:25:59,600 --> 01:26:04,640
Speaker 2: Who you know, on the news and stuff like this,

1630
01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:14,800
Speaker 2: who seem that are in such despair, you know, and

1631
01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:17,960
Speaker 2: I've listened. I was watching somebody online the other day

1632
01:26:18,080 --> 01:26:21,960
Speaker 2: talking about how hopeless their life seem to them.

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01:26:24,160 --> 01:26:25,760
Speaker 5: I want to offer.

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01:26:27,040 --> 01:26:37,160
Speaker 2: People something to think about. Be very very conscious of

1635
01:26:37,320 --> 01:26:43,519
Speaker 2: the word hopeless, you know, Be very very conscious of

1636
01:26:45,080 --> 01:26:53,400
Speaker 2: feeling hopeless, because it can happen if you're not careful.

1637
01:26:55,080 --> 01:26:59,360
Speaker 2: And I've had to end my life on several times.

1638
01:27:00,120 --> 01:27:04,240
Speaker 2: Become very acutely aware of this trick that the devil

1639
01:27:04,479 --> 01:27:08,559
Speaker 2: uses and if the devil can get you to feel

1640
01:27:08,880 --> 01:27:12,880
Speaker 2: like it's hopeless, oh man, he's got you.

1641
01:27:12,960 --> 01:27:14,640
Speaker 5: He's got you right where he wants you.

1642
01:27:15,800 --> 01:27:20,720
Speaker 2: I remember several times, man, when I was homeless, Man,

1643
01:27:20,800 --> 01:27:25,320
Speaker 2: when I just didn't see this career going the way

1644
01:27:25,360 --> 01:27:28,160
Speaker 2: I wanted it to go. I was just in some

1645
01:27:28,439 --> 01:27:29,400
Speaker 2: dark places.

1646
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:29,760
Speaker 6: Man.

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01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:33,400
Speaker 2: You know, look, man, when you don't have a house

1648
01:27:33,520 --> 01:27:35,599
Speaker 2: to go to at the end of the day, it's

1649
01:27:35,720 --> 01:27:38,840
Speaker 2: it's it's a it's a it's a it's a debilitating

1650
01:27:39,040 --> 01:27:43,080
Speaker 2: thought repeatedly to go wow, to not be able to

1651
01:27:43,120 --> 01:27:46,040
Speaker 2: say I'm going home, Cause you know, I mean, no

1652
01:27:46,160 --> 01:27:49,040
Speaker 2: matter how rough a day you have, if you have

1653
01:27:49,280 --> 01:27:52,599
Speaker 2: the comfort to say, man, well skip all this, I'm

1654
01:27:52,640 --> 01:27:55,720
Speaker 2: going home, and you can turn that key and get

1655
01:27:55,800 --> 01:27:58,920
Speaker 2: into this place that you stay as no matter what

1656
01:27:59,080 --> 01:28:01,920
Speaker 2: it looks like, a how small or how big, it's

1657
01:28:02,000 --> 01:28:04,000
Speaker 2: your home. If you can turn that key and go

1658
01:28:04,080 --> 01:28:05,760
Speaker 2: in there and shut that door and lock out them

1659
01:28:05,800 --> 01:28:08,000
Speaker 2: troubles for a minute, it gives you a moment to

1660
01:28:08,120 --> 01:28:13,720
Speaker 2: regroup yourself. So not having the comfort of saying I'm

1661
01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:16,600
Speaker 2: going home was rough on me at times, and it

1662
01:28:16,760 --> 01:28:20,120
Speaker 2: was times where the devil would get into my mind

1663
01:28:20,680 --> 01:28:24,680
Speaker 2: and say, man, it ain't no way out of this.

1664
01:28:26,320 --> 01:28:31,639
Speaker 2: You just homeless. You not getting these gigs. Ain't nobody

1665
01:28:31,840 --> 01:28:35,479
Speaker 2: calling you all this? You want to be on TV,

1666
01:28:35,640 --> 01:28:42,240
Speaker 2: you want to be a star, Steve, this is hopeless.

1667
01:28:43,800 --> 01:28:49,720
Speaker 2: I had to catch myself because hope is a very

1668
01:28:49,840 --> 01:28:54,320
Speaker 2: important thing to cling on to, because sometimes you only

1669
01:28:54,479 --> 01:28:55,960
Speaker 2: have hope to cling on to.

1670
01:28:57,200 --> 01:28:59,759
Speaker 5: And you've got to keep hope alive.

1671
01:29:00,000 --> 01:29:02,479
Speaker 2: I remember when Jesse Jackson used to say it, keep

1672
01:29:02,560 --> 01:29:05,840
Speaker 2: hope alive, keep hope alive. People don't know how really

1673
01:29:05,880 --> 01:29:11,679
Speaker 2: important that is. To keep hope alive, not faith, not belief,

1674
01:29:13,160 --> 01:29:16,479
Speaker 2: not being factual that I know this is gonna happen.

1675
01:29:16,960 --> 01:29:20,880
Speaker 2: But if you can just say the mere words, man,

1676
01:29:21,000 --> 01:29:25,000
Speaker 2: I hope I be okay. Man, I hope this workout.

1677
01:29:26,080 --> 01:29:30,800
Speaker 2: I hope God hear me. I hope I get a break.

1678
01:29:31,880 --> 01:29:34,280
Speaker 2: I hope this don't last too much longer.

1679
01:29:34,760 --> 01:29:35,559
Speaker 5: Just say hope.

1680
01:29:36,800 --> 01:29:37,320
Speaker 2: Just say it.

1681
01:29:39,080 --> 01:29:42,200
Speaker 5: I'm telling you, man, clinging on to that word hope.

1682
01:29:42,600 --> 01:29:46,320
Speaker 2: Hope is the beginning of faith, because, like I say

1683
01:29:46,360 --> 01:29:49,240
Speaker 2: all the time, sometimes I used to hope I got

1684
01:29:49,280 --> 01:29:51,360
Speaker 2: a bike for Christmas. I used to hope I would

1685
01:29:51,400 --> 01:29:55,080
Speaker 2: get a toy. I used to hope you know that

1686
01:29:55,520 --> 01:29:59,479
Speaker 2: I graduated. I hope I get a job one day. Well, eventually,

1687
01:29:59,560 --> 01:30:02,320
Speaker 2: as I got older, all that hope and I used

1688
01:30:02,360 --> 01:30:07,320
Speaker 2: to do, eventually I learned how wow, this is really faith.

1689
01:30:08,240 --> 01:30:10,639
Speaker 5: Faith is a belief in things that you cannot see.

1690
01:30:11,080 --> 01:30:15,080
Speaker 5: But it begins with hope, because when you're young, it's

1691
01:30:15,240 --> 01:30:19,360
Speaker 5: just hope. I hope Santa Claus bring me this. I

1692
01:30:19,520 --> 01:30:22,639
Speaker 5: hope I get a bike. Man, I hope I get

1693
01:30:22,680 --> 01:30:25,519
Speaker 5: that die house. I hope I get that on this year.

1694
01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:30,800
Speaker 5: I hope I hope he asked me out. I hope

1695
01:30:30,880 --> 01:30:34,519
Speaker 5: she say yes. I hope she'll be my Valentine. I

1696
01:30:34,680 --> 01:30:37,920
Speaker 5: used to hope for so many things, man, But as

1697
01:30:38,000 --> 01:30:41,560
Speaker 5: I got older, I understood that hope was just a

1698
01:30:41,720 --> 01:30:46,080
Speaker 5: pure essence. There's a scripture, man, I wish I could

1699
01:30:46,080 --> 01:30:48,519
Speaker 5: think of it right now. Faith is the substance of

1700
01:30:48,680 --> 01:30:52,800
Speaker 5: things hope for it. That's it, and the evidence of

1701
01:30:53,040 --> 01:30:59,959
Speaker 5: things not seen. Faith is the substance of things hopeful.

1702
01:31:01,160 --> 01:31:03,880
Speaker 2: That's why you got to keep saying, I hope even

1703
01:31:03,960 --> 01:31:05,639
Speaker 2: if you ain't strong enough to believe.

1704
01:31:06,400 --> 01:31:06,719
Speaker 6: Hope.

1705
01:31:08,800 --> 01:31:14,480
Speaker 2: It's the substance of faith. Because faith is the substance

1706
01:31:14,560 --> 01:31:18,479
Speaker 2: of things. Hope for You can't have faith without first hoping.

1707
01:31:19,280 --> 01:31:20,360
Speaker 2: I hope this happened.

1708
01:31:20,600 --> 01:31:20,800
Speaker 3: Well.

1709
01:31:21,000 --> 01:31:23,080
Speaker 5: Faith is a belief in things that you cannot see.

1710
01:31:23,400 --> 01:31:25,479
Speaker 2: So what are you hoping it? What are you thinks

1711
01:31:25,560 --> 01:31:28,200
Speaker 2: that you cannot see something you hope for? You got

1712
01:31:28,320 --> 01:31:30,920
Speaker 2: to keep hope alive, y'all. When you feel like you

1713
01:31:31,040 --> 01:31:34,599
Speaker 2: ain't gonna make it, just keep saying, I hope, Lord,

1714
01:31:34,720 --> 01:31:39,200
Speaker 2: I hope God, I hope Lord, Please, I hope. And

1715
01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:42,320
Speaker 2: I'm telling you he'll come to you. He'll come to you.

1716
01:31:42,960 --> 01:31:47,040
Speaker 2: And faith is the substance of things hope. For hope

1717
01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:50,559
Speaker 2: turns into faith if you just keep saying it. Keep

1718
01:31:50,680 --> 01:31:55,000
Speaker 2: hope alive, y'all. Always just keep saying you hope. That's

1719
01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:57,840
Speaker 2: the beginning of things happening and changing in your life.

1720
01:31:58,080 --> 01:32:00,320
Speaker 2: Those are my closing remarks. And they'll hope that something

1721
01:32:00,360 --> 01:32:02,400
Speaker 2: for somebody. Hey, listen, y'all, talk to God.

1722
01:32:02,479 --> 01:32:05,080
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