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Speaker 1: Do you want if you have an issue or a phobia

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Speaker 1: or anything with Yeah, well and then then here's a

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Speaker 1: song and then we'll go back and do it with

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Speaker 1: eating out by yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, you don't have a problem with her. You won't

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Speaker 1: do it. Oh, I don't have a problem with it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say what which which no.

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Speaker 2: Question?

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Speaker 1: You're like, no, is that no I don't care? Or

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Speaker 1: no I won't do it? So that's a no, you

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Speaker 1: don't care. I don't care. So you'll go to a

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Speaker 1: restaurant and you'll just you'll go into Chili's and you'll

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Speaker 1: say table for one. Yeah, yeah, No.

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Speaker 3: I mean I'll be on like Instagram live but yesable

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Speaker 3: for one.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're one of those. Yes, So you'll sit there

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Speaker 1: and do a live in the middle of the restaurant

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Speaker 1: to my friends. Yeah, now, could you do it without

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Speaker 1: your phone?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Why would I do that? Am doing just looking at

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Speaker 1: the margarita pelling? But could you do it without talking

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Speaker 1: to anyone?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Could you walk into the chilies the said chilis and

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Speaker 1: say table for one and have a seed and then

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Speaker 1: just sort of sit back And I mean, I don't,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have to be talking to someone.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to be on the phone. I probably

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be. It's a restaurant. Oh wait a minute, what

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Speaker 1: I don't think you need to be. I don't think

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Speaker 1: you should be talking on the phone to people at

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Speaker 1: a table in the restaurant by yourself. Yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: hear you. I don't know. I don't, I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't usually see people talking on the phone in restaurants, okay,

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Speaker 1: certainly not doing full on lives with their tripod and

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Speaker 1: their lighting system. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: guess if you're by yourself, who cares. But if I say,

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Speaker 4: I think it depends on it's on the speaker phone,

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Speaker 4: Like I don't want to have to hear your whole conversation,

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Speaker 4: you know. But I guess if you just have your

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Speaker 4: AirPod in, like, yeah, I don't know someone on the phone,

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Speaker 4: it's probably if you're by yourself, then I guess it's fine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, becauess you'd be talking to someone at

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Speaker 1: the table. I guess I don't know something about the

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Speaker 1: phone in public that this is a little rude to me.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, why would you do it, Caitlin, walk in,

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Speaker 1: have a seat, just the whole experience all by yourself.

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Speaker 2: I don't prefer it, but yes I would. But you

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Speaker 2: know me, i'd sit at the bar and talk to them.

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Speaker 2: You know all the bar fly.

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Speaker 1: Seems to be a hotel bar bartender.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or just a professional bar goer at hotels.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, then well the bartender would be the way

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Speaker 1: to accomplish it. I think it was a professional barger.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a bartender because you're professionals. You're getting

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Speaker 1: paid in your bar goer. Well I want to sit

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Speaker 1: and drink. Yeah, then that then you're not gonna like

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Speaker 1: a's a bartender. Yeah, you wouldn't have Mary, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: fire you quickly. Yeah, Jason, you know no, I could

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Speaker 4: I have gone places and eating inside like if I

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Speaker 4: then get your food in link. But for me, it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess, but that's better not going at all

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Speaker 1: like this because I'm going to tip you. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you're right, the tab is going to be less. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think about that sometimes. Can I do it all

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Speaker 4: There are people that are not Yeah, so you know

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Speaker 1: Would you do it? No? No.

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Speaker 3: So I'm trying to conquer my fears in twenty twenty five,

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Speaker 3: even though we're almost done with the air so one

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Speaker 3: like go to a restaurants take over one.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it absolutely is a.

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Speaker 3: Fear for me, and not because like it doesn't you

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Speaker 3: know whatever scare me. It's just something that I'm not

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Speaker 3: really fully comfortable with because I'd rather just bring somebody,

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Speaker 3: bring my AirPod so Johnathan, my best friend, will be

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Speaker 1: Or go to the bar, like you know, why are

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Speaker 1: people so afraid to be alone?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand it. It's like a real thing. It

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Speaker 1: if I think there are certainly people who are afraid

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Speaker 1: weighs the number of people who are afraid to be

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Speaker 1: with people. I agree, And I don't know why, Like,

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Speaker 1: why can't people just sit with their thoughts hold on?

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Speaker 2: And I didn't say all that I'm okay being alone,

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Speaker 1: You're alone, it's like there's no one to distract you

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Speaker 2: Can be alone, you guys, I know, but my thoughts

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Speaker 1: So wow, what do you think is? We're on this brain?

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on. I bring all this up because

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Speaker 1: I think there's a restaurant in Spain that's making this

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Speaker 1: all worse. Yes, but they're making it all worse. Instead

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Speaker 1: this restaurant in Spain by yourself, they put up a

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Speaker 1: cardboard divider. It's like, look at that loser, and not

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Speaker 1: opposite the solo diner. People thought this was insulting and

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Speaker 1: made solo diners feel worse, not better. Critics of eating

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Speaker 1: comes the teddy bear and the inflatable or whatever. The

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Speaker 1: I chose to be here by myself. I don't care.

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Speaker 1: I'm not missing out, then I don't think that anyone

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Speaker 2: They're projecting their feelings onto the diner. Thank you, you know,

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Speaker 2: saying like we think it's you want this, but really

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Speaker 1: You know, it's like, no, no shits just shunned this man.

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Speaker 1: She he's in shame. He's sitting alone in shop. Make

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Speaker 1: sure you block him from his shame. Help this loser.

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Speaker 1: No one right, no one loves this man. Look he

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Speaker 1: can't even get anybody to go I eat with him.

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Speaker 1: Look at it. We need like a bottle girl sign too.

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Speaker 1: That just says a loser. You know, yes, cancling around

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Speaker 1: you the whole time. You know, I don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: think that they're helping. They're helping. Someone said, doesn't Fred

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Speaker 1: not like to go to movies by himself? I think

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Speaker 1: it's less about going to the movie by myself and

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Speaker 2: I'm going by myself Friday to see the Life of

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Speaker 2: a show Girl.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and you'll be in good company, so

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Speaker 1: it'll be fine. But because I mean, that's like a

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Speaker 1: very targeted group of people that will we're allowed to

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Speaker 1: sing a day, right, It's like you want to come

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Speaker 1: a movie concert. I got a thing, I gotta thing,

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Speaker 1: come on, we'll I have a very sure it's trip

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Speaker 1: planned to the Southern Illinois Suluki's football game in Krtlondalla. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Actually the only place I coul get tickets to Life

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Speaker 1: of a Sugarl was in Cartlondlla because you didn't because

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Speaker 1: you didn't explain it to me. So now I have

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Speaker 1: go there. I had to go wait. No, I have

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Speaker 1: to go wait line to get the album there. I

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Speaker 1: figured the target there. I can get all thirteen colors

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Speaker 1: Target while you're there, seach album like twenty bucks or something.

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Speaker 4: The CDs are like thirteen or fourteen dollars, like twenty

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Speaker 1: And the CDs different colors too. I think there are

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Speaker 1: different versions of the CDs. Yeah different Wow. So for

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Speaker 1: the discount prize of one hundred and fifty bucks, I

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Speaker 1: can have the same album thirteen times. Yes. Yeah, God,

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Speaker 1: she hates you.

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Speaker 2: She's like the Zodiac Killer, like she's already capitalizing things.

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Speaker 1: She hates you. I'm sorry, she hates your fans. Friend

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