1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: I inherited over one million dollars for my stepdad. His 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: son wants it all, but I'm keeping it. 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 2: Here's why, father, How dare you give half brother any money? 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 3: Papa? 5 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: How will I be able to hold my fleet of 6 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: horace horses if I only have am easily six hundred 7 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: thousand dollars? 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 2: I mean, you didn't even make me a millionaire with 9 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 2: all the money. The least you could do is give 10 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 2: it all. 11 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 3: To me, Papa. 12 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: Don't you know that able vice costs at least one 13 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty k. And if I'm to win to grant, 14 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: if I'm and if I'm to win the Grand Champ, 15 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of all my horse racing terms. 16 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 2: It's about to be the You're about to be the 17 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: next like Kentucky Derby King over here. 18 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: Thank you, Kentucky Derby. That's what I was looking for. 19 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: The Grand Slam, Polo Champ. 20 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 3: Great, get your roes horse. 21 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: My twenty five female dad passed away when I was 22 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: very young, and my mom married my stepdad Lee when 23 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: I was five. Lee is wealthy and my mom never 24 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: had to work, and I was given everything growing up. 25 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: The only thing we never received was acceptance from Lee's family. 26 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: They were not pleased that Lee chose to marry a 27 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 1: widow with a child. Lee and I were close, and 28 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: he continued to care for me even after my brother, 29 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: Sam eighteen was born. My mom clearly favored Sam and 30 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: didn't really focus much on me. 31 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 2: Come on, mom, new family. Ooh, it's not a new iPhone. 32 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: Mom, Yeah, I can't just throw all the old ones 33 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: in the trash. 34 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 2: Just because I'm an iPhone three G doesn't mean kid. 35 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: iPhone three G actually would go for a lot now, 36 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: because it's like it's like a like ancient. 37 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 2: My uncle who I'm going to visit soon. He had 38 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 2: an iPhone three G until like twenty eighteen or twenty nineteen. 39 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 2: No way, he was because that was the update where 40 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 2: they like, there was some iCloud update that forced you 41 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 2: to share like a ton of information. 42 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 3: He was like, no, I'm not going to do it, dude. 43 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: I guess how much an iPhone three G in the 44 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: box goes for? 45 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 3: Ooh, a thousand might be too much. 46 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 1: It's prob five a thousand aoud one thousand a thousand 47 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: least that's. 48 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 4: Five hundred, five hundred, five thousand, oh. 49 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 3: Five thousand, oh shit. 50 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: Lee's relatives warmed up to my mom a little with 51 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: a birth of Sam, but I was still treated like 52 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: something invisible. Sam was often invited to Lee's relatives' houses 53 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: to play, and he and I are not very close. 54 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: I decided to go to university overseas, and Lee gave 55 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 1: me enough money that I didn't have to work or 56 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 1: worry financially. 57 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:44,519 Speaker 3: Wow. 58 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: He also was the only one calling, slash writing me regularly. 59 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,399 Speaker 1: I talked to my mom slash Sam like once every 60 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: couple of months during my university days. After graduation, Lee 61 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: wanted me to come home, but I wanted to work 62 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: and be on my own for a bit. The pandemic 63 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: happened and I was unable to fly back. When the 64 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: lockdown was over, my family came to visit me once 65 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 1: and then left. When I preferred to continue working where 66 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,399 Speaker 1: I am. Lee came to visit me a few more 67 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 1: times by himself. A few months ago, Lee passed from 68 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: a disease he never let anyone know he had. In 69 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: his will, he left his businesses in house and most 70 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,679 Speaker 1: valuables to his relatives. My mom got almost nothing, though 71 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: she can keep what he has already given to her 72 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 1: two cars, jewelry and cash around sixty thousand dollars. My 73 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: mom never legally married him. Sam was given one hundred 74 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: and fifty thousand dollars and the rest of the money 75 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: was given to me. It was seven figures USD, a 76 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: life changing amount. Seven figures god so millionaire day. Turns 77 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: out Sam is not Lee's biological child, which he found 78 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: out recently. My mom and Sane we're mad, of course, 79 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: and demanded that I share the money with him. I said, 80 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: I'm willing to put the money in some low risk 81 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: investments and we can split the gain. Not good enough, huh. 82 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: They want at least twenty five percent of what Lee 83 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: left me. I argued that it's not like they are 84 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 1: left destitute. Sam can still go to a good university 85 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: if he cares enough for further education, and my mom 86 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: has enough money to get her own place, and the 87 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: investments will give us all long term incomes. They called 88 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: me greedy and planned to take legal action, but Lee's 89 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: relatives told them that they could make my mom in 90 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: Sam's lives very difficult if they tried to give me 91 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: a hard time to go against Lee's wishes, I intend 92 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: to do as I promised them. Splitting the gains from 93 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: the investment with my mom and Sam. I won't let 94 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 1: them touch the money Lee left me though, because I 95 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: don't trust them to not go through that money in 96 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: just a few years. So am I the asshole? 97 00:04:59,080 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 2: Day? 98 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 3: Are there are there any updates? 99 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 2: No? Okay, wow, this is this is the I feel 100 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 2: like there's like multiple players in this. There's the family, which, 101 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 2: if I'm understanding this correct, very worried about Mom and 102 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 2: Sam contesting the will because then maybe their assets are 103 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 2: at risk. 104 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: Right, So, so they got they already got some, they 105 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 1: already so like the mom got like sixty K, Sam 106 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: got one hundred and fifty K. Sam is not Lee's 107 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: biological child, which they found out recently. But what the 108 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: issue is is, oh p got like seven figures and 109 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: the mom and Sam got like way less, yeah, comparatively, 110 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:43,679 Speaker 1: And so they just want more and more equal share. 111 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 2: Yeah what what what are they going to say? 112 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 1: It was in the will, It's in the will. It's 113 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: respected the will, you know, but people don't Where people 114 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: don't respect the will, people. 115 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 3: Just take a doochie and want to wipe their booty holes. 116 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: The whole point of the will is so stuff like 117 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: this doesn't happen. Yes, where it's like no, give actually, 118 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: can you please give me more because you didn't give 119 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 1: me enough? 120 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: Also, like what do these people expect to happen when 121 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 2: they go to court and they're like, uh, let's read 122 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 2: the will. Oh you two got this much, disprission got 123 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 2: this much, but we want more case than denied. 124 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: Like oh yeah, it's like read the will. Read the 125 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: will literally, yeah, I say uh, just like throw up 126 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: a pick out of the well and say read this 127 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: and weep and. 128 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 3: Ready to do with it. 129 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: The idea of splitting the games from the investments is 130 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 2: super smart, absolutely brilliant. So I think op is like 131 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 2: super Opie is kind of an angel here because OPI's. 132 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: Like, on, I'm a bone, even though I'll throw you 133 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: about even and it's like, I don't think you can 134 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: manage the money well, like regardless, like actually giving them 135 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: income essentially for life. 136 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 3: It's a good move. 137 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good move, but let us know what 138 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: you would do in this situation. We'd love to hear it, 139 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 1: absolutely And you know what else is a good move? 140 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 1: This next story? 141 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for being upset that my 142 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 2: siblings get an inheritance? But I don't because I'm a 143 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 2: recovering addict. 144 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: Probably not. I think if you like you've you've worked 145 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: on yourself and you're recovering, I think you should be 146 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: entitled every bit of the inheritance. 147 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 2: What are you addicted to? I'm addicted to, for instance, 148 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 2: trollly semic gummy worms. 149 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:29,239 Speaker 1: M all right, then you get nothing. 150 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 3: I'm done over. 151 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: I'm addicted to, you know, working too hard, caring too much. Yeah, 152 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: you really do care too much, care too much, work 153 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: too hard, listen to deep my job too seriously. 154 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really a problem. 155 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: It's really a problem. I'm very addicted to it, Producer, 156 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: are addicted to just like you know, making sure every 157 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: woman that I date is sexually and emotionally satisfied, overly satisfied, 158 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: overly satisfied. You're just constantly you know, I'm just addicted 159 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: to it. You can call me a tear rible person, 160 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: you know, strike me from the will, but I will 161 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 1: not stop until my partner is sexually and emotionally satisfied. 162 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 2: Sam removed from the will for having too many satisfied 163 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 2: women in his life. 164 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm addicted to that too. Yeah, there was same. 165 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 2: So my parents are pretty wealthy. I thought that was 166 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 2: real for us. I was like, I'm like, I'm already 167 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 2: being an a hole, just like not letting this poor 168 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 2: man coffin be Oh my goodness, I have to take 169 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 2: a drink of water. I was a false alarm. Everybody, 170 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 2: you should take a. 171 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 3: Drink of water. 172 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: I'm sick. 173 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone Sam is dying. But he he puts his 174 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 2: body through. 175 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: The line on the lot, body on the street corner 176 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 1: for all of you guys to take a little dip inside. 177 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: That's right, But I do it for you, y'all. 178 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 2: Dude, it's people, guys. This is this is this is 179 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 2: what he does. 180 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: For you. Leave it all out, asshole, gaping butt cheeks 181 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 1: to spread, just for you guys to take a peek. 182 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 2: Wow, thank you for that glorious view and image. 183 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:21,959 Speaker 1: You know, you know those like toys back in when 184 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 1: you were a kid, and it's like it's like a 185 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:27,839 Speaker 1: plastic kind of like tube and it has like fish 186 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: and stuff inside of it and like glitter and it's 187 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: like a little jelly like and like you hold it 188 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: and it kind of like slips through. 189 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 4: Yeah you know I'm talking about Yeah, Yeah, where are 190 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 4: you going with this? 191 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? Throwback that is my anus just slips out. 192 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 3: It's just, oh my god. 193 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 2: I didn't realize that was part of the package that 194 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 2: you got. I thought it was just like the oldest package. Yeah, 195 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 2: I didn't know you had, like the you got like 196 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 2: the the upgrade. 197 00:09:54,679 --> 00:10:04,079 Speaker 1: That's an upgrade is outside of your body. Yeah, exactly, collapsed, prolapsed. Yeah, 198 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: I put the pro and prolapse. 199 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 3: Yeah you do. 200 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're a professional at a professional. Well, thank you 201 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,079 Speaker 2: Sam for I feel yesterday. 202 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: I probably felt the sickest I have ever felt, because 203 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: it was the combination of feeling ridiculously sick and also 204 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: I went mountain biking on Sunday for the first time, 205 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 1: and my roommate Christian was like, oh dude, you could 206 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: do all of it, and so he took me from 207 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: like the green jumps to blue to black like and 208 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 1: it's like the same kind of it's like same kind 209 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 1: of structure as skiing. And so we were doing the 210 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: hardest things in the same day that I was learning, 211 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 1: and so and I was getting cocky and I started 212 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: sending these jumps and getting like a couple of feet 213 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: in the air, and these jumps are big, and then 214 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: I just totally ate shit and yep. 215 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 3: It is there. It is ladies and gentlemen. 216 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: Oh and so my whole right side of the body 217 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 1: is destroyed. 218 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: Sam will destroy his body for you. Sam's just his 219 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 2: legs and arms are just like about to about to 220 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 2: just break in half. And he's just like carrying us 221 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 2: on his back. 222 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. But I'm mountain bike. 223 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 2: Yeah he does, so, some would say to an extreme degree. 224 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: I do extreme mountain biking. 225 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 3: You just do you send? 226 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: I do you want to do it again? It's really fun. 227 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: I just have my fucking arm. I was supposed to 228 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: go open water swimming tomorrow morning, and I just like, 229 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 1: you cannot. 230 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 2: You you you inspire me and terrify me at the 231 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 2: same time. It truly is, it, truly is a wonder 232 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 2: to witness this man exists on the planet. 233 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 234 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. 235 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 3: He can't do it. Don't try see if I. 236 00:11:57,320 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: Needs another week. Oh my gosh, I've never hit the ground. 237 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,080 Speaker 1: Found so hard my show. I thought something was broken. 238 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: I've never broken a bone though. 239 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 3: That's that's impressed. I also have it. 240 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, but milk boy, I was thinking about getting on hinge. 241 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but then I really like all of my 242 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:20,199 Speaker 1: dating profiles have been deleted because it's been so long 243 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:21,679 Speaker 1: since I've been on dating profiles. 244 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 3: Do they do that? 245 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, all of them are gone. 246 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 3: Wow. 247 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 4: Ssh, I've been doing great on Hinge. 248 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 1: I tried to log into Hinge and then I was 249 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 1: just like, you don't exist anymore. I'm like, I'm not 250 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: going to fucking create a whole day profile. You could do, 251 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: I could do Hinge. 252 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 4: I got I got a date Friday night and Saturday 253 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 4: night from Hinge. Just do it. 254 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: How was it? 255 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 4: Oh, this Friday and Saturday. 256 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: Oh, this Friday and Saturday. How about the last couple 257 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: of weeks. 258 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's been pretty good. 259 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: But have you been going on dates? 260 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 4: And I mean, yeah, dude, they're they've been great. 261 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 3: Go detail detail that great? 262 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah. Well, I mean we've got a story 263 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 4: read though. 264 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 2: Wow, all of a sudden, Oh now we need to 265 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 2: read this story. Wow convenient? Convenient? 266 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I go back and forth of whether I 267 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: want to get on dating apps or not. 268 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 269 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: I think actually the only reason I would want to 270 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: go on is to, like, I feel like our our 271 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: friend group is incredibly dude heavy, because whenever we introduce 272 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 1: a girl into the group, someone ends up having sex 273 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 1: with them and then as soon as it ends poorly, 274 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: which it always does, then she leaves and doesn't want 275 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 1: to be friends with the group anymore. And I keep 276 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: telling my friends like it's like, hey, it's like you 277 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,719 Speaker 1: can't overfish the ocean, you know, like if you have 278 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: fish in the sea, and they'll create more fish, but 279 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: if you keep sucking all the fish, then they won't. 280 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:05,479 Speaker 1: They won't repopulate. 281 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 2: Why does your your male group of friends just sound 282 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 2: like a pack of rabbit ross just ready to clamp 283 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 2: their jaws and. 284 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 1: The path they are hot, dude, It's it's because they're 285 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 1: all good looking too. 286 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 3: Uh oh, that's true. 287 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: Sexy hearts, especially Christian, and all the girls all always 288 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: want to date Christian, dude. And Christian's like no, no, no, 289 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 1: And then and then you know. 290 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 4: And then here we are and here we are talking 291 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 4: the guy that got a girlfriend and BALI come on. 292 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: Come on, now, come on, I don't have a girlfriend here. 293 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 4: You just got back. 294 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 3: Riley. 295 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 2: Would you like me to relist all the act activities 296 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 2: that Sam did in the three days before he got sick? 297 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 4: Please do? 298 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 2: Three days is a week? No, no, three days is a month? 299 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 2: What the fuck am I talking about? But you know 300 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 2: what producer Riley said something we do actually have a 301 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: start to read on sentence. What min this is on 302 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 2: the road absolute throwback over here. Okay, my parents are 303 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 2: pretty wealthy. I'm twenty six, and from twenty one to 304 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 2: twenty five years old, I was in and out of rehabs. 305 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 2: I was abusing so many different kinds of substances and 306 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 2: I wasted so much money. I ow deed once in 307 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 2: himbroyed my family to watch me go through that. My 308 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 2: parents are now approaching their late sixties and have started 309 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 2: finalizing their wills in inheritance. 310 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 3: Yesterday they sat me. 311 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 2: Down and they told me that I will not be 312 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 2: getting any of the inheritance as they don't trust me 313 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 2: to not relapse with all that money suddenly in my possession, 314 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 2: and as a result, my siblings will be getting my 315 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 2: share of the money. 316 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 3: That is tough. 317 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 2: It's tough, but understand. Yeah, I get where Opie's parents 318 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 2: are coming from. 319 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 3: You know, I would. 320 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: Probably do the same thing, but with a cop yacht 321 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 1: where it's like you get like you know, after like 322 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: a certain amount of years then you like vests or. 323 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 2: Something, yeah, or is there on a is there even 324 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: like a like how many years sober daily. 325 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 326 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a It gets into a hard. 327 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: To because how long has OPI been sober? 328 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 2: It seems a year a year, Yeah, because from twenty 329 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 2: one to twenty five in and out of rehab and 330 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 2: he's twenty six and he's twenty six right now. 331 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, a year of rehab or a year of sobriety. Yeah, 332 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: is does not inspire enough confidence. Yeah, it's it's that 333 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 1: you're not going to relapse. 334 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 3: It's tough. 335 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 2: I was pretty upset about this, and I said that 336 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 2: they were going to make my siblings rich while I 337 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 2: would get nothing from it, and that that wasn't fair. 338 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 2: I was almost yelling at this point, dude, I should 339 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 2: stop whinning when you coughed to get it out. Honestly, 340 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 2: they told me to calm down, but I was too 341 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 2: upset to listen and I left. 342 00:16:57,280 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 1: I mean, but you know, I mean, I get it. 343 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 1: I get it's. 344 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 2: Uh, it's I don't know the exact details of the circumstance, 345 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:07,919 Speaker 2: but I would say probably generally, I would also be 346 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 2: very hesitant to uh want to sign away that inheritance 347 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 2: right away. 348 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: If it's yeah, it's it's like you're you're you're giving 349 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: your if you're giving that can inheritance, you're giving them 350 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: like a ton of money. And I think to that 351 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 1: that is a lot of temptation. 352 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, that it comes with this like unintended effect, which 353 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 2: is like all that money is now going this to 354 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 2: the siblings and also you get nothing maybe like donating 355 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 2: it or something is like. 356 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't donate, I would give it to the sibling. 357 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 4: I would. 358 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 1: You know what I would do? I would put in 359 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 1: a trust, an interest bearing trust that OP could like 360 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: maybe take out uh, like a certain amount of year. 361 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. I think there's some way. 362 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 1: Some way where it's not just giving it to the siblings. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 363 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: I called you know what, you would be a good one? 364 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 1: What so, uh, you can take out a certain amount 365 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: of year if you pass a drug test. 366 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:12,880 Speaker 2: That's true, but I could see it like, yeah, it's 367 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 2: like check points. 368 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 4: It's like every month you get you get like two K, 369 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 4: and then you get like another month you get like five, 370 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:20,880 Speaker 4: and then it goes up. 371 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 372 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 2: Maybe it's random. So it's like all right, you well, 373 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 2: part of the money goes to like random tests, and 374 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 2: then if you pass that random test, the. 375 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 1: Like dude shows up your house and says time for 376 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 1: your drug test. 377 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's hard. It's hard to find a good solution. 378 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 2: There is tough, like I don't know either even any 379 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 2: solution will have some sort of blowback blowback, yeah, or 380 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 2: or you just straight up give the money in some 381 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:54,719 Speaker 2: capacity and then there's just the risk of of. 382 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 3: Of the relapse. 383 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 2: So I called my brother and sister and I left 384 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 2: and told them what my parents said, and they said 385 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 2: it was their choice and there wasn't anything that they 386 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 2: could do about it. I accuse them of just wanting 387 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 2: all the money for themselves and not caring about what 388 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 2: happened to me. 389 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: Hit that thing. Oh yeah, ba fan, So you change 390 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 1: that things a whole setting, dude. 391 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 3: Dude, I spank this thing into submission. 392 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 1: It went like down a whole optivity. God, damn, damn. 393 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: The boy knows how to treat a fam. 394 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I fucking do make my family bitch. Every day 395 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 2: Today I have my dad texting me that they are 396 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:45,439 Speaker 2: worried about me and disappointed in my behavior. Yesterday I 397 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 2: talked to my sponsor and he said that while anger 398 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 2: is understandable, I have to do everything in my power 399 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 2: not to ruin the trust that I've built with my 400 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 2: family over the past year, and acting like an asshole 401 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 2: addict won't help. Sometimes I still have trouble with my 402 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:02,400 Speaker 2: reactions to think now that I'm sober. However, I don't 403 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 2: feel as though I'm entirely unjustified. Here Am I the 404 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 2: a hole for getting upset? 405 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 3: There is an. 406 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:15,119 Speaker 1: Update, but right now I'm curious everyone watching and Sam like, 407 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 1: especially if anyone has dealt with addiction. You love to 408 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 1: know your thoughts. 409 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean in either position the parents, a parent, or. 410 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 1: Or you have suffered from addiction yourself. I think the 411 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: issue is like the parents don't want it so like 412 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 1: the parents don't want to give the money to OP 413 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: because they are worried that OP will use it for 414 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: drugs yep, or it will be a temp take, it 415 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 1: will create a temptation that OP will use it for drugs, 416 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: which I think after only a year of sobriety, Like, yes, 417 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 1: a year of sobriety awesome is a like that's great work, 418 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 1: but it is only a year you were it was 419 00:20:56,000 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: five years that you were using. So I think it 420 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:06,360 Speaker 1: is it is understandable for them to be concerned. Yeah, 421 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: for sure, I think giving it all to the siblings 422 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 1: doesn't feel right either though. Yeah, I think it's more like, hey, 423 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: we still. What they really want is like they want 424 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: there to be trust between op and the family, and 425 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 1: they feel like there's not enough trust yet, So I 426 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:33,119 Speaker 1: think probably setting up some rules and regulations about how 427 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: to dole out the money. Yeah, so it's like okay, 428 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 1: you've been you know, three years sober or four years 429 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,879 Speaker 1: ob or five years sober, then more of the money 430 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:47,640 Speaker 1: comes out or something like that, or even like you're 431 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: getting in the interest from the principle and that you 432 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: can always access. But if you ever want to take 433 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 1: out the principle, you have to do like a drug 434 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: test or something, which I know it's like it definitely 435 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 1: is more restrictions, but I think there probably needs to 436 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: be some kind. 437 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 3: Of sort of yeah given get. 438 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 1: Or even like putting U the other kids as custodians 439 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:15,119 Speaker 1: of that uh Opie's part of the well yeah, something 440 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 1: like that. 441 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 2: I know, I can see I can get so tricky 442 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 2: because one of the what if the other kids just 443 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 2: like becomes an asshole and is like nah, you know. 444 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 3: It's like ten fifteen years in I. 445 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 1: Mean I could see my parents like I mean when 446 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 1: my sister was younger, putting me in charge of I 447 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,439 Speaker 1: don't know what my parents will is, but like putting 448 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: me in charge of the finances and then doling it 449 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: out to my sister. Sure. Yeah, like an older brother 450 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,160 Speaker 1: a little sister kind of thing, just because they would 451 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: see me as a bit more responsible. 452 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 453 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 2: Oh, you're saying Sophia is unresponsible. 454 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 1: She's actually more responsible than me in a lot of ways. Yeah, 455 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 1: in a lot of ways, most ways, most ways, she's 456 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 1: like she she I've in like a lot of our dynamic. 457 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 1: I feel like the little brother because she's like saying 458 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 1: I'm stopped dancing on the table or like why are 459 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 1: you going and talking to those strange people stuff like that. 460 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:08,639 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say it's immature or responsible, unresponsible. 461 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: It's like it's a little it's just like a little 462 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: like a little ball of energy. 463 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, little let your let your spirit fly. But yeah, 464 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 2: it's definitely a tricky situation. But we do have an update. 465 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's hear the update after what happened with 466 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 2: my parents. I won't lie. I relapsed. I had a week. Yeah, 467 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:34,199 Speaker 2: fuck that is awful. I'm sorry, op sucks. I had 468 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 2: a weekend where I blacked out. I remember getting back 469 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,679 Speaker 2: to my apartment and all of the drugs and booze 470 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 2: I had bought was gone, and it was a Monday morning. Oh, 471 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,439 Speaker 2: it was a lot of stuff. I scared myself so 472 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 2: much that I ended up calling my parents and saying 473 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 2: that they were right. And I remembered everyone's advice on 474 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 2: my last post and apologized for how I treated them 475 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 2: and that they were right in not giving me any 476 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 2: of their money. I'm now three weeks sober, and I 477 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:03,400 Speaker 2: took Reddit's advice and made a compromise with my parents 478 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 2: in regards to my inheritance. If I remain at least 479 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 2: five years sober and submit to a bi monthly drug test, 480 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 2: they will reconsider part of the money. 481 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 3: I hope they do reconcent that's kind of what we 482 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 3: were saying. Yeah, that's that's pretty close. I think what 483 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 3: we're saying. 484 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,239 Speaker 2: I know I have a lot of work to do, 485 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 2: and I still have a lot of selfishness to overcome, 486 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 2: but I wanted to thank everyone for helping me try 487 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 2: to realize that. Here's to three weeks and more. Dang ah, man, Well, 488 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 2: you know, I'm glad that op is kind of like 489 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 2: it seems like Op's kind of like realizing everything. Everything's 490 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:43,480 Speaker 2: coming into clarity, he wants to sober up. He's more 491 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,679 Speaker 2: more empathetic in understanding towards his parents. 492 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like we're getting to a stronger place overall. 493 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 1: And also maybe like this is like the inheritance might 494 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:59,160 Speaker 1: be another thing that keeps Ope on the right track. 495 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 1: If Op is having to do these like drug tests 496 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 1: every once in a while, maybe that's like the little 497 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 1: extra kick that Op needs to stay sotober. 498 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking where it's like at first 499 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 2: the word like, oh, the money could like encourage him 500 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 2: to relapse, but could it do thee the opposite. 501 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, if it's if it's contingent on Op being sober, 502 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:18,440 Speaker 1: maybe maybe it does. 503 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:18,919 Speaker 3: I think so. 504 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 2: I think that was a smart, a smart solution on 505 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 2: the parents part. I'm really glad to hear that Op 506 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,479 Speaker 2: is doing better and is like it's it's it seems 507 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 2: like he's realizing a lot of things that will actually 508 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 2: like help him in the long run, which is very 509 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 2: excited about. 510 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:36,959 Speaker 1: I think so. I think so we got one more 511 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: story for you, what's do it? Are we gonna comment? 512 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 4: Though? 513 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: Before we get into this next story. Did you know 514 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,640 Speaker 1: you could call in with a story of your own, Yes, 515 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: you can. 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