WEBVTT - AREVA MARTIN - The Poor Man's Caviar

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to another episode of Eating Wild Broke. I'm your host,

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<v Speaker 1>Colleen Witt, and today we have special guests. A Reva

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<v Speaker 1>Martin is in the building. We have civil rights attorney,

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<v Speaker 1>we have best selling authors, nonprofit leader. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>anybody that is a female that has more titles than

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<v Speaker 1>you do. I have a lot of titles, but one

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<v Speaker 1>that I really love is that of mom. So don't

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<v Speaker 1>forget and your mom. I'm a mom, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>you're a new I just joined the mom club. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. You may be a superhero. You may

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<v Speaker 1>be you may actually be a superhero. Moms are superheroes.

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<v Speaker 1>You got your I like that. I like that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so excited about having you here today. And I'm also

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<v Speaker 1>like nervous and overwhelmed because your resume says a lot

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<v Speaker 1>and you've done so much. Well. I am just like

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<v Speaker 1>you and every other mom that's dealing with raising kids,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out, you know, this crazy mixed up

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<v Speaker 1>world we live in, how to keep our kids safe,

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<v Speaker 1>how to make sure they grew up to be responsible, loving, caring,

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<v Speaker 1>nurturing adults. So hey, relax, We're here to cook today.

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<v Speaker 1>Cook and you came on eating while broke, which just

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<v Speaker 1>says a lot because I would have never Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>then on top of it, you're cooking one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite dishes and I had no idea how to make it.

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<v Speaker 1>So what are you cooking? I am making my classic

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<v Speaker 1>tuna melt. This is a dish that I perfected while

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<v Speaker 1>I was into all school and I was very, very

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<v Speaker 1>very broke. So I had to figure out Harvard. I

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<v Speaker 1>was broken her. I was broke away before I got

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<v Speaker 1>to Harvard, and I remained broke while I was at Harvard.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can figure out how to cook because you

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<v Speaker 1>could go out, you know, every night. I had the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of money, so I had to figure out how

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<v Speaker 1>I can make food that I could put a refrigerator

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<v Speaker 1>and eat, you know, on for a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 1>And I grew up. I always left tuna. Tuna was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, poor Man's caveat So I like that the

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<v Speaker 1>poor Man's cavears. You get your canra tuna, you open it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can make all kinds of things. So I started

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<v Speaker 1>making too melts, and I got pretty popular. My tona

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<v Speaker 1>melts were legendary and other people want to come over

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<v Speaker 1>and have I took melt with me. So I solved

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of problems and did a lot of studying

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<v Speaker 1>over tuna melts. Now, did you have to learn how

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<v Speaker 1>to make a tuna melt or did you feel yourself

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<v Speaker 1>through it? You know, I'm a kind of cook. I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up with my godmother and my grandmother and several aunts,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were all cooked. So I think I picked

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<v Speaker 1>up a little bit from each of the women that

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up with. I'm not a recipe cook. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very much like kind a brain cook and how I feel,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a pinch of this, a pinch of that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't have, you know, precise measurements for how

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<v Speaker 1>I cook. So I taste and I just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>wing it. Like you put a lot of love and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of hard into your cooking, it comes out

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<v Speaker 1>great sounds like what ingredients are we're using today? So today,

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<v Speaker 1>for this legendary Harvard Law School cooking, while I'm broke

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<v Speaker 1>tuna milk, we have some classic tuna, tuna and water,

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<v Speaker 1>just two cans, just you know, at any local grower

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<v Speaker 1>store tuna. We have some slices of cheddar cheese, you know, again,

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<v Speaker 1>just whatever cheese you can find. I happen to like

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<v Speaker 1>yellow cheese. You can use white cheese. We have pieces

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<v Speaker 1>of celery chopped up. We have eggs, boiled eggs, really

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<v Speaker 1>important tuna to have eggs. I have pickle, relish mustard,

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<v Speaker 1>some wheat. Read paprika, Oh my god, my favorite spice.

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<v Speaker 1>I put paprica on everything. Don't ever sleep on. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna start using paprika and smoked paprika is the absolute best.

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<v Speaker 1>Put it on everything. Some Gari seasoning salt. Couldn't cook

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<v Speaker 1>without that, you know, black folks, miracle will right, So

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<v Speaker 1>we has a miracle whil It could be mayonnaise, but

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<v Speaker 1>we have miracle whippers salt and pepper and that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>So not you know, elaborate. And the reason you can

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<v Speaker 1>make this while you're broke is because everything that all

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<v Speaker 1>the condiments, you use them, you can buy them. This

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<v Speaker 1>is probably fifteen Yeah, well actually a lot less, but

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<v Speaker 1>you it was so funny because I do a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the shopping for the show and I had to

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<v Speaker 1>shoot a lot today. But your dish was hands down

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<v Speaker 1>the cheapest dish. Yeah. I mean, I don't count the

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<v Speaker 1>condiments because like you said, you reuse them. You reuse them.

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<v Speaker 1>But the actual dish, I mean, you're talking a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of dollars prepared. You know, a couple of dollars for tuna, cheese,

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<v Speaker 1>celery is really cheap, and so this is like the

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<v Speaker 1>gold to dish. And I was excited about it because

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<v Speaker 1>I make tuna sandwiches all day and the only time

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<v Speaker 1>I buy a tuna sandwich is if it's a tuna

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<v Speaker 1>mel So I officially will learn how to make it

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<v Speaker 1>to the melt today. And you notice with our tune

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<v Speaker 1>on our eggs, lots of proteins. This is a really

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<v Speaker 1>high protein dish. So anybody that's worried, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they don't want to do the bread, you can

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<v Speaker 1>obviously leave off the bridge. You can just put it

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<v Speaker 1>on the grill without bread. You could put it in

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<v Speaker 1>a little piece of lettuce if you wanted to. You

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<v Speaker 1>leave the cheese off. That's the good part. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just doing people now. A lot of people want to

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<v Speaker 1>eat healthy, so they may be a little weary about

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<v Speaker 1>the bread or the cheese, but hands down, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a really healthy meal. So okay, well I get started, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so obviously and take the tuna that was drained open

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<v Speaker 1>the can drain the water off. You don't want it

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<v Speaker 1>to be too you know, sloppy. You put the tune

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<v Speaker 1>in a big bowl and then the cellery. Now again,

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<v Speaker 1>I like crunchy food. A lot of people don't like

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<v Speaker 1>the crunchy. So if you like crunchy, make your pieces

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<v Speaker 1>kind of nice and you know, crunchy. And we don't

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<v Speaker 1>have onions today because you're not gonna be standing next

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<v Speaker 1>to each other and and offensive or maybe made me cry.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you like onions, put some onions in your tune.

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<v Speaker 1>That's another thing, to be white onions red on this.

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<v Speaker 1>Even green onions are great in tunas. So you can

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<v Speaker 1>chop up some green onions, put the celery in here

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<v Speaker 1>and then the other like really important part of this

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<v Speaker 1>are the eggs. So we have three. I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not know eggs were part of the tuna milt. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I love eggs and tuna. So we boiled our three

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<v Speaker 1>eggs and then we're just gonna cut them up and

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<v Speaker 1>again into pieces. Some people might want them in little

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<v Speaker 1>tiny pieces. I just make mine, you know, just slice them. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>Because once you start to put it in the bowl

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<v Speaker 1>and you start to mix it all, don't break up

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<v Speaker 1>some more, so don't worry about it once you start

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<v Speaker 1>moving the eggs around in the bowl. And I love

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<v Speaker 1>eggs period. I eat them always soft boiled, hard boiled.

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<v Speaker 1>The egg girl. So it's funny because I love egg whites.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't love egg yellows except in my tuna. So

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<v Speaker 1>if I go to breakfast, I always eat egg whites.

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<v Speaker 1>But in my tuna up, I put the yellows and

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<v Speaker 1>the whites. And again, if you're like, you know, all

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<v Speaker 1>healthy and say, oh I don't eat yellows away, we

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<v Speaker 1>would have been great friends because I would eat all

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<v Speaker 1>the yellows. I'm not a fan of the white. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>find your yeah, okay. So now I have my eggs,

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<v Speaker 1>I have my celery and tune just kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>take a big spoon, stir it up a little, get

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<v Speaker 1>it all mixed in there, and thou comes your seasoning.

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<v Speaker 1>So pickle relish really important because it's gonna make it

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<v Speaker 1>a little sweet again crunchy because pickle relish is crunchy,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's juice in the pickle relish. So it gives

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<v Speaker 1>you again something to bind the big cooking word. You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta bind the ingredients and depending on your taste, like

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<v Speaker 1>I like it's sweet, Like it's sweet. Add more if

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<v Speaker 1>you're not a sweet this person, you know, add a

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<v Speaker 1>little west. But I like my tuna nice and sweets,

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<v Speaker 1>so that that put the pickle rolish in. Now Here

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<v Speaker 1>comes your male, so you know, people are really funny

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<v Speaker 1>about male. Some people like a lot, I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>big and some people like miracle whip or male. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you switch out the two or just you can use yes, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>either one gives you the same taste. I didn't put

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, I just put Maybe that's the equivalent of

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<v Speaker 1>two table spoons. Because with the pickle relish, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get the you know that that juice is binding the

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<v Speaker 1>tuna and the other ingredients, so you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>have a whole lot of mayonnaise. That's why says it's

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<v Speaker 1>a healthy dish too, because you could also buy like

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<v Speaker 1>a low calorie male if you wanted to. So, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now look look how good that looks. It's really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Already a little mustard, yellow mustard, So pickle relish makes

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<v Speaker 1>it sweet. The yellow mustard gives it that little, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that little kick. So again, not a whole lot, just

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<v Speaker 1>enough to give it a little kick. So maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>one like a little spot a tea, let's use a teaspoon.

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<v Speaker 1>And again, if you like your food less sweet and

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<v Speaker 1>more kind of tart, you might even want to use

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<v Speaker 1>more yellow mustard, but I don't want to. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to dial down the sweetness from the pickle relish,

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<v Speaker 1>which I love. Okay, So now you got all our

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<v Speaker 1>ingredients gotta mixed together. Pepper important because we got eggs

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<v Speaker 1>in here. So right at breakfast, you put salt and

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<v Speaker 1>peppers on your eggs. Right, so you put some pepper

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<v Speaker 1>on your in your bowl. And again this is to taste.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember I don't use measuring cups or spoons, but I

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<v Speaker 1>like my food kind of hot, so I'm a little

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<v Speaker 1>heavy on the pepper. Uh. Seasoning salt again, secret ingredient. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>go easy on it, because I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>have somebody at home with diabetes or you know, got

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<v Speaker 1>some kind of strict diet, you don't want to use

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<v Speaker 1>too much salt, but a little salt. And then my

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<v Speaker 1>real secret weapon is are this is an organic ground paprika.

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<v Speaker 1>Get white p preaka. You can get smoked grocery stores,

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<v Speaker 1>farmers markets, and you notice I'm making this really red.

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<v Speaker 1>Love the taste. It's Paprica. Now it's paprika spicy, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not spicy, it's very subtle. The smoke paprika has like

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<v Speaker 1>a smoky taste to it. The regular it has a

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<v Speaker 1>distinctive taste, but it's not overpowering. So don't let the

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<v Speaker 1>color of food. A lot of people get nervous because

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<v Speaker 1>it's red, Oh my god. And it's not hot. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like chilly powder or any kind of spice. But

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<v Speaker 1>it just has a subtle taste that makes I think

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<v Speaker 1>everything tastes a little better. So okay, now you have

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<v Speaker 1>to taste it right. It's gonna be a good, clean cook.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just gonna take a little and you have

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<v Speaker 1>your own fork so you won't use my fork. You

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<v Speaker 1>did it to have the best tunament well more. So okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go up. Now. I haven't had this in a

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<v Speaker 1>long time time. I'm like you, I'm excited. Now do

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<v Speaker 1>you usually eat out or do you do cook? I

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<v Speaker 1>know you you cook, but what do you do nowadays?

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<v Speaker 1>M Well, I go to a lot of events and

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<v Speaker 1>the food, unfortunately, is often pretty bad. So I try

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<v Speaker 1>to eat something before I get there or while I'm there,

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<v Speaker 1>if you know there's I don't eat meat. So if

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<v Speaker 1>there's meat on the menu, I try to get a vegetarian. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I stop eating meat about seven years ago and I

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<v Speaker 1>just never went back. Are you gonna be able to

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<v Speaker 1>eat this today? Eat fish? You fish? Yes, eat fish?

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, now we're ready. Our tuna is all together.

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<v Speaker 1>This will last in the fridge it least a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of days. You can put some some ran wrap on

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<v Speaker 1>and make sure it's tight, and put it in a

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<v Speaker 1>tupperware bowl. Make sure the top is type. Hey, this

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<v Speaker 1>is two three meals. So school, this was like lunch dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>lunch dinner. This was the bomb. So all right, now

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<v Speaker 1>your bread and you can we're using just regular slice

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<v Speaker 1>bread here. Another thing I used to love in law

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<v Speaker 1>school is to use English muffins. I saw that English

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<v Speaker 1>is going to do that. So again, you know, English

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<v Speaker 1>muffin is great. They come and you slice it and

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<v Speaker 1>you do it the same way you do the bread.

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<v Speaker 1>So in this case, you just take your tuna, you

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<v Speaker 1>spread it on the bread and again not too much

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<v Speaker 1>but enough, make sure, you know, cover the whole surface.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you put this is open face, open face face. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you take. And then we didn't do the craft cheese.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't know if you wanted the craft or the

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<v Speaker 1>if you're specific on your cheese, is I know? And

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<v Speaker 1>again this is you just needed slice so it could

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<v Speaker 1>be yo, it could be white. You swish you could

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<v Speaker 1>use cheddar, any kind of cheese that you like, American

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<v Speaker 1>cheese or slices. Again, in law school, it's probably that

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<v Speaker 1>big pack of American cheese that was nice and cheese.

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<v Speaker 1>So there you have it. Now we're gonna we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>make two, so one for you, one for me. Perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>move this over here and into our oven, which we

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<v Speaker 1>preheated our oven so it's nice and hot. And now

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<v Speaker 1>how long do you usually heat this for? This is

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<v Speaker 1>just about making sure your bread gets toasted, because you

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<v Speaker 1>want it to be toasted and you want the cheese

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<v Speaker 1>to actually mal start to melt and get gooley. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna turn this on like a three fifty oven.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna bake it. Let's put this oven on ten

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<v Speaker 1>minutes and see what happens. And we've already preheated it,

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<v Speaker 1>so the oven is pretty warm. So we're just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>watch it and see what happens, and see as it gets.

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<v Speaker 1>While we watch it, my favorite parts got to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I get to ask how you got to where you were.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you always want to be a civil rights attorney?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? No, I knew I wanted to do something

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<v Speaker 1>that helped people. I knew I wanted to work in

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<v Speaker 1>my community. I grew up in this housing project in St. Louis,

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<v Speaker 1>and I always knew that there was something different about

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<v Speaker 1>where I lived. And I used to catch a bus

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<v Speaker 1>to this private school, and I would see these big homes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I met kids in this high school I went

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<v Speaker 1>to whose parents were super rich. And I would go

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<v Speaker 1>actually with my godmother. She was a janitor, and we

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<v Speaker 1>would go into the wealthy parts of St. Louis, and

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<v Speaker 1>she had to clean offices and I would help her.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had all this exposure, So the big offices

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<v Speaker 1>at night that I'm helping my godmother clean, the bus

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<v Speaker 1>ride to my school, where I'm seeing these big, old houses,

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<v Speaker 1>and then these very wealthy white kids that went to

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<v Speaker 1>the school, this high school with me. So I would

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<v Speaker 1>always like ask myself why the And I wasn't using

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<v Speaker 1>the word disparity but that's what it is. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>the such the huge disparity where I live, where these

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<v Speaker 1>kids live. You know, we're cleaning these offices where you know,

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<v Speaker 1>white men mostly worked, and so I just thought there

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<v Speaker 1>was something wrong with that, and I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do something in my career, my life where I could

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<v Speaker 1>impact those people that I grew up with. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I got to civil rights. Did you ever figure

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<v Speaker 1>out the answer to that question? What was the answer?

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of a systemic racism. It's plain and simple.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was just that it was redlining uh

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<v Speaker 1>D investment in neighborhoods and black and brown neighborhoods. It

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<v Speaker 1>was discriminatory lending practices that prevented uh, people of color

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<v Speaker 1>from buying homes, are predatory lending practices that even when

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<v Speaker 1>they bought homes, they often lost the homes. Discrimination in

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<v Speaker 1>workplace that prevented uh, you know, African Americans and people

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<v Speaker 1>of color from getting jobs and then getting promotions in

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<v Speaker 1>those jobs. You know, our criminal justice system that had

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<v Speaker 1>taken literally hundreds of thousands of black men out of

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<v Speaker 1>our community and you know, put them in jails, mass incarceration.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I figured out a lot of it, And

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that's what played a pivotal role? Like

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<v Speaker 1>that answer and see you going into civil right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I discovered that answer. So as a kid, I see

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<v Speaker 1>the differences, right, I see the injustices. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a name for it, don't have words for it. And

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<v Speaker 1>then as I get to law school and I started

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<v Speaker 1>to study as I you know, and then get out

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<v Speaker 1>into the real world, then I have a clear understanding

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<v Speaker 1>of everything that I was witnessing as a kid that

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't put a label too, couldn't put words to.

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<v Speaker 1>Ok oh, and the bottom is looking good and crunchy.

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<v Speaker 1>So mid sentence, I was like, Okay, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta check on our tuna milt. Okay, so we uh, Now,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a choice. If you like your bread really crispy,

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<v Speaker 1>we can leave it in or it literally is looking

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good to me. So if it looks pretty good

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<v Speaker 1>to you, that's because the oven was already hot. So

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<v Speaker 1>we already had prepeated this oven, so we're gonna turn

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<v Speaker 1>our oven off. Speaking of systematic racism, do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that we are headed away from that or do you

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<v Speaker 1>think we still deal with it? Oh? I think it's uh,

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<v Speaker 1>in some ways worse than it has ever been. Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be safe. Don't touch a hot oven with

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<v Speaker 1>your hands, thank you, Colleen. Look how easy that is. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's for you. Well, i'll just put it out on

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<v Speaker 1>this quite then we can figure out how we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>plate it. Yeah no, unfortunately, Uh, in some ways we

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<v Speaker 1>are going backwards in this country. Look at that? How

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<v Speaker 1>cool that looks beautiful cameras. Look at that high school

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<v Speaker 1>each I've never ever witnessed one being made, so this

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<v Speaker 1>will probably be something I make at home every week. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is your point. You take that one? Quite?

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<v Speaker 1>This up so good? Yes, and this we had This

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<v Speaker 1>is where we add see when you bro ther side

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<v Speaker 1>dish is a big old bag of lais. So get

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<v Speaker 1>your chips, okay, perfect, get you some barbecue as I

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<v Speaker 1>love barbecue chips. I know this would be my little

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<v Speaker 1>side dish. A couple of chips here, as I've gotten older, though,

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<v Speaker 1>Eileen swards. Just the plain potato chips. Yeah, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>like the sweet potato friese and potato chips. Actly. Here's

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<v Speaker 1>our water. Okay, so you take a bite. Okay, tell

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<v Speaker 1>me what you think. I want your honest success month,

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<v Speaker 1>the honest success. I want the real deal. Girl spot gooley, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the real deal. It tastes really good. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>for another bite though, probably because it's really good. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you had this English muffin, you could, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>make two for yourself. You'd have to. The bread is

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<v Speaker 1>pretty big with some people. Depending on how much you eat,

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<v Speaker 1>this could be like a meal. Definitely your guy or

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<v Speaker 1>your big eater. You want to have two of these.

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<v Speaker 1>But you and I are like, I feel like this

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<v Speaker 1>is more fancy because it's open. Is that just me?

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<v Speaker 1>Does anyone else feel like that? When it's an open sandwich,

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh yeah, it's a little fancy here, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna taste it. This is manning. You see all the

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<v Speaker 1>crunchy stuff too, the way the egg hits, the way

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<v Speaker 1>the relish, it's the celery, the crunch on the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of the bread. This is the best tunament ever. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you put this in the fridge overnight mm hmm,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just gonna get even more flavor for your tuna.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the next day you have you another wonderful tuna milk.

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<v Speaker 1>You can taste all the ingredients Yeah, nothing's overpowering, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's the key. Now, a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>You may want to put some olives in here. We

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<v Speaker 1>can get real creative. You can put raises, you can

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<v Speaker 1>put dried cranberries, you can put you know, some dried fruit, um,

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<v Speaker 1>even nuts if you like it. I mean tuna. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I love about tuna. I mean, you can make

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<v Speaker 1>it however you want. You put some sprouts in there,

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<v Speaker 1>if you can put some lettuce. After you finish this,

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<v Speaker 1>you can do some slices of tomato. You're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to add chef to your titles set, because you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>it's every every grade you use really holds his own,

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<v Speaker 1>like the celery, the way you can fight into and

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<v Speaker 1>crunch into it, the egg like all these things I

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<v Speaker 1>never knew went with tuna. Clearly go with tuna. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you thought about each element, like each bite,

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<v Speaker 1>each from the textures to the flavors. That's what you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta add steps to your title. Okay, well show I

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<v Speaker 1>love cooking though. It's like therapeutic in some ways. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you're in the kitchen, you just kind of turn

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<v Speaker 1>on your music at your glass of wine and cook uh,

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<v Speaker 1>And I like making. I'm a big entertainer, so I

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<v Speaker 1>love having people over. I love entertaining and sometimes a

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<v Speaker 1>big party make cater but I like always making something myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, uh, putting my own personal touches on it.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I was in college, I was in college

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<v Speaker 1>in Chicago and my uncle was like a really really

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<v Speaker 1>phenomenal caterer. So I got to work with him during college.

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<v Speaker 1>So I learned some tricks from Uncle Floyd about how

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, whip up certain dishes and hit this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>my uncle. Oh my god, he could go into a

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<v Speaker 1>refrigerator and whatever is there he needs coming to my house.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you Atman? The most amazing meal? That's how

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<v Speaker 1>you say that, because I would have never thought all

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<v Speaker 1>these ingredients would have made such an amazing dish. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's good, I mean, and that's a mad I jipped

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<v Speaker 1>you on your onions. But when you make it at home, See,

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<v Speaker 1>you can add those green onions. You can add some

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<v Speaker 1>green pepper, some red peppers, some yellow peppers. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what's amazing about this. You can make this super healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>Throw a ton of vegetables in there. Uh, some broccoli,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some asparagus, green beans, just make it a

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<v Speaker 1>big old and you put us on a bed of

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<v Speaker 1>letts and now you got your serious tuna salad and

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's just delicious and affordable. So let's dive into you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Now we know you can cook, know you sell at all, that,

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<v Speaker 1>we know all these things. But I want to know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you go from you said you're from St. Louis.

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<v Speaker 1>From St. Louis to seeing an analyst? Too? Like how

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<v Speaker 1>how did you go from there to here? And we

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<v Speaker 1>could start maybe at the Harvard level if you want. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I when I left Harvard, I went and worked

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<v Speaker 1>at a big corporate Wall Street offering I wanted, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>big biggest law firms in the country. And I went

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<v Speaker 1>there because I needed to earn some money because I

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of student loan depth. But I always

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<v Speaker 1>knew I wasn't gonna stay. I just needed to get out,

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<v Speaker 1>earn some dough and figure out, you know, what I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do with my life. But I stayed about

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<v Speaker 1>a year and a half. I got real anty, real fast,

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<v Speaker 1>and I started my own law firm at about a

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<v Speaker 1>year and a half after working. And it was scary

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<v Speaker 1>I had to call my family in St. Louis and

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<v Speaker 1>tell them I was leaving this really high paying job.

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<v Speaker 1>I had an office like on the thirty third floor

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<v Speaker 1>of this amazing building, and you're gonna step away to

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<v Speaker 1>start your own Yeah, And I was moving into this

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<v Speaker 1>tiny little office over a nightclub on Worlfship Boivarts. So

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<v Speaker 1>I wanna tell this really funny story. When you graduate

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<v Speaker 1>from Harvard, you have the blessing, I should say, an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to pretty much work wherever. You get recruited from

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<v Speaker 1>all the big law firms, the big companies, so you

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of choices to make. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you take one of these jobs at these big

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<v Speaker 1>law firms, you make a lot of money. Your first

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<v Speaker 1>paycheck is more than some people will ever make, uh

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<v Speaker 1>in their entire life. So you know, I'm growing up poor,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So here I am making more money than

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<v Speaker 1>I could have ever imagined. And all my friends are

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<v Speaker 1>buying sports cars and you know, Mercedes and all these

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<v Speaker 1>big fancy cars, and a lot of us had moved

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<v Speaker 1>here from Boston and they were living here in l A.

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<v Speaker 1>They're moving to the beach there, you know, uh, moving

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<v Speaker 1>into these really expensive condos and expensive apartments, and my

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<v Speaker 1>first car and never own a car. My first car

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<v Speaker 1>was a ten year old Jetta. My car note was

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<v Speaker 1>a hundred dollars and my friends thought I was absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>crazy because they're all driving these big Beamers and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Mercedes and all these sportions and fancy cars. And my

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<v Speaker 1>first apartment was downtown l a off of McArthur Park,

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<v Speaker 1>so one bedroom, sporting and seventy five Why were you

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<v Speaker 1>living like that? Because I was wrote But I thought, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you said that you after Harvard, they were

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<v Speaker 1>paying you, but you still broke. I had all the

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<v Speaker 1>student owned debt, so I was making more money than

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<v Speaker 1>you know, ungodly amount of money. But I had come

0:25:16.440 --> 0:25:18.879
<v Speaker 1>out of law school. I didn't nobody paid for that,

0:25:18.920 --> 0:25:20.240
<v Speaker 1>and I had to take out a lot of loans,

0:25:20.240 --> 0:25:22.520
<v Speaker 1>which is the reality of a lot of students who

0:25:22.520 --> 0:25:24.880
<v Speaker 1>graduated and lost. We have a lot of debt. So

0:25:25.400 --> 0:25:29.360
<v Speaker 1>my friends who were living large, they're just adding more

0:25:29.400 --> 0:25:31.879
<v Speaker 1>debt to the debt we already had. So when you

0:25:31.960 --> 0:25:33.879
<v Speaker 1>grow up in the Midwest, it's you know, you have

0:25:34.000 --> 0:25:37.080
<v Speaker 1>these u values that we grew up with, and you're

0:25:37.119 --> 0:25:40.119
<v Speaker 1>not gonna be out. We don't traditionally, you don't be

0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:42.439
<v Speaker 1>flossing in a big car and you got a lot

0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:45.320
<v Speaker 1>of debt. So my upbringing was like, yeah, you're making

0:25:45.320 --> 0:25:46.919
<v Speaker 1>a lot of money, but you gotta pay down some

0:25:47.000 --> 0:25:50.120
<v Speaker 1>of this debt. So my friends, they were pretty cruel.

0:25:50.480 --> 0:25:52.320
<v Speaker 1>You don't know in high school if you were the

0:25:52.359 --> 0:25:54.840
<v Speaker 1>kid that didn't have a cool clothes, how the popular

0:25:54.920 --> 0:25:57.199
<v Speaker 1>kids would mock you and you know, make fun of you.

0:25:57.280 --> 0:25:59.760
<v Speaker 1>That what happened to me as an adult because my

0:26:00.080 --> 0:26:03.720
<v Speaker 1>r was old and I can remember, just like you said,

0:26:03.720 --> 0:26:05.920
<v Speaker 1>why were you living like that? My car broke down,

0:26:06.040 --> 0:26:08.040
<v Speaker 1>and this lady said the same thing to me, like

0:26:08.200 --> 0:26:10.760
<v Speaker 1>why are you driving that car with all this disdain

0:26:10.920 --> 0:26:13.560
<v Speaker 1>on her face? Because it's my car and I chose

0:26:13.560 --> 0:26:18.919
<v Speaker 1>a body act. Do you do you think that some

0:26:19.000 --> 0:26:21.800
<v Speaker 1>of your parents, their parents were paying it down or

0:26:21.920 --> 0:26:23.320
<v Speaker 1>do you think that they were in the same boat

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:25.280
<v Speaker 1>where they were responsible for their dead It was a

0:26:25.359 --> 0:26:27.640
<v Speaker 1>mixed bag. I had some who didn't have debt because

0:26:27.680 --> 0:26:29.840
<v Speaker 1>they had wealthy parents, so they didn't even have the debt.

0:26:29.840 --> 0:26:34.520
<v Speaker 1>And I had others who they just like, you know,

0:26:34.720 --> 0:26:36.440
<v Speaker 1>a kid in the candy store, right it was their

0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:40.520
<v Speaker 1>first big check and they just lost their minds, But

0:26:40.840 --> 0:26:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I didn't do that. I saved as much of my

0:26:45.080 --> 0:26:47.080
<v Speaker 1>check as I could. I paid my little four seventy

0:26:47.080 --> 0:26:49.560
<v Speaker 1>five rent, I paid my little hundred cardinal, paid my

0:26:49.600 --> 0:26:52.280
<v Speaker 1>student loans. I was banking my money. Uh, and it

0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:53.919
<v Speaker 1>made it easier. So when I had to make the

0:26:53.960 --> 0:26:56.560
<v Speaker 1>decision to go out on my own and leave that

0:26:56.600 --> 0:26:59.760
<v Speaker 1>cushy job, I didn't have the pressure of like all

0:26:59.800 --> 0:27:03.640
<v Speaker 1>these bills, and I had cushion. I had savings. So

0:27:03.760 --> 0:27:06.439
<v Speaker 1>if it didn't work out, I told myself, hey, you

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:08.639
<v Speaker 1>know what, I just go back to the firm and

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:13.000
<v Speaker 1>get another job. So a lot of entrepreneurs, you know,

0:27:13.240 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>people want to become entrepreneurs, they're fearful that they don't

0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:18.159
<v Speaker 1>have that kind of financial cushion, Like what am I

0:27:18.160 --> 0:27:20.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna do? How am I gonna pay my bills? So

0:27:20.720 --> 0:27:22.600
<v Speaker 1>I always knew I wanted to start my own firm

0:27:22.680 --> 0:27:24.760
<v Speaker 1>once I graduated, so I knew I needed to have

0:27:24.840 --> 0:27:28.680
<v Speaker 1>that cushion. So but trying to explain this to some relatives,

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:32.280
<v Speaker 1>You're doing what leaving that job to go work like

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:35.200
<v Speaker 1>in this tiny little office. So it was hard. And

0:27:35.240 --> 0:27:40.639
<v Speaker 1>even my friends too, Again they're disdained because seems like

0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 1>you were an entrepreneur before you were attorney. You know,

0:27:44.680 --> 0:27:47.760
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of funny thought process, because that's how entrepreneurs think,

0:27:47.840 --> 0:27:51.439
<v Speaker 1>is like produced as much of our personal overload so

0:27:51.440 --> 0:27:54.000
<v Speaker 1>we can take as much risk as possible. And it's

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:57.440
<v Speaker 1>funny that you say that because my husband grew up

0:27:57.600 --> 0:28:00.359
<v Speaker 1>with a family of entrepreneurs. He's like been working for

0:28:00.440 --> 0:28:02.520
<v Speaker 1>himself since he was twelve. He's never had a quote

0:28:02.560 --> 0:28:05.000
<v Speaker 1>unquote job. I didn't really grow up that way. My

0:28:05.000 --> 0:28:07.919
<v Speaker 1>grandmother was a janitor, so she worked. She cleaned homes

0:28:07.920 --> 0:28:10.240
<v Speaker 1>in the daytime offices at night. So I didn't really

0:28:10.240 --> 0:28:12.840
<v Speaker 1>grow up in an entrepreneurial family. But I think it

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:15.040
<v Speaker 1>was always just kind of a free spirit and I

0:28:15.080 --> 0:28:17.560
<v Speaker 1>was always a risk taker, so I wasn't afraid. And

0:28:17.600 --> 0:28:20.040
<v Speaker 1>when I left that job, I was like, you know what,

0:28:20.200 --> 0:28:22.200
<v Speaker 1>I got the first job, I'll get a second job.

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:24.800
<v Speaker 1>Did you always know you're going to go into work

0:28:24.800 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>for yourself as an attorney? When I graduated, I pretty

0:28:27.840 --> 0:28:30.080
<v Speaker 1>much had made up my mind that I wanted to

0:28:30.080 --> 0:28:32.520
<v Speaker 1>have control over the kinds of cases that I took.

0:28:32.600 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to have control over my work schedule. But

0:28:36.840 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you, people think working for yourself is you

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:43.120
<v Speaker 1>know Cake Wall. In those early days, I would leave

0:28:43.200 --> 0:28:46.960
<v Speaker 1>my apartment at nine. I didn't get back till midnight

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:49.040
<v Speaker 1>because what I had to do. I had to do

0:28:49.080 --> 0:28:51.520
<v Speaker 1>the case work, the legal work in the daytime. Then

0:28:51.520 --> 0:28:53.320
<v Speaker 1>that nine I had to go hustle. I was new

0:28:53.360 --> 0:28:55.320
<v Speaker 1>to LN and know anyone, so I had to go

0:28:55.520 --> 0:28:58.200
<v Speaker 1>meet people. Had to go to clubs and parties and

0:28:58.720 --> 0:29:01.480
<v Speaker 1>gagas and wherever abody was having something where there would

0:29:01.480 --> 0:29:03.040
<v Speaker 1>be people. I had to be there because I had

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:06.320
<v Speaker 1>to meet you to convince you to make me your lawyer.

0:29:06.760 --> 0:29:09.480
<v Speaker 1>So I had to hustle business at night. A lot

0:29:09.480 --> 0:29:11.720
<v Speaker 1>of times I would go back to the office at nine,

0:29:11.760 --> 0:29:15.920
<v Speaker 1>ten o'clock at night after having been out you know, networking, uh,

0:29:16.000 --> 0:29:17.840
<v Speaker 1>and then do some more work. So some nights I

0:29:17.840 --> 0:29:19.800
<v Speaker 1>got I'm like one o'clock in the morning. So it

0:29:19.880 --> 0:29:22.880
<v Speaker 1>was a grueling schedule. But I loved it. I love

0:29:22.960 --> 0:29:25.480
<v Speaker 1>the independence. I didn't mind. You know, I'm a hard

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:28.680
<v Speaker 1>work I'm from saying Louis, you cannot outwork me, and

0:29:28.720 --> 0:29:31.880
<v Speaker 1>I did. I was just happy. Now was the money

0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:39.240
<v Speaker 1>there as an entrepreneur in the beginning or no, no, no,

0:29:41.360 --> 0:29:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I was easing that and but it didn't matter to

0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:47.360
<v Speaker 1>me because I didn't have that pressure. So it's one

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:50.000
<v Speaker 1>thing to be broken. You do owe anybody, but you

0:29:50.040 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 1>know when you owe everybody and your phone is blowing

0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:55.200
<v Speaker 1>up from bill collectors, that's a level of stress. And

0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:57.360
<v Speaker 1>I did not want that stress. So that's why I

0:29:57.520 --> 0:30:01.520
<v Speaker 1>saved that money. And it okay, I could go without

0:30:01.520 --> 0:30:04.080
<v Speaker 1>a paycheck. Youah, no, I took a huge pay cut.

0:30:04.280 --> 0:30:06.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean it was what did your family say this

0:30:07.080 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 1>entire time while you're taking these pay cuts and hustling?

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:12.680
<v Speaker 1>They thought I was crazy. You didn't go to Harvard

0:30:12.720 --> 0:30:14.920
<v Speaker 1>to do that. You could have gone to any school

0:30:14.960 --> 0:30:17.360
<v Speaker 1>if you wanted to go hang out your shingo, what

0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:20.960
<v Speaker 1>are you doing? There was a lot of a lot

0:30:21.040 --> 0:30:23.560
<v Speaker 1>of shaming. I would call you know now we say

0:30:23.560 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 1>everything is shaming, A lot of shaming. It wasn't a

0:30:25.720 --> 0:30:28.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of support, and even my colleagues, a lot of

0:30:28.800 --> 0:30:33.480
<v Speaker 1>my friends were very Ariva Stone was left that job.

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:36.920
<v Speaker 1>It was a lot of whispering. Uh, it was were

0:30:37.000 --> 0:30:38.960
<v Speaker 1>you scared at all? While all that was going on.

0:30:39.480 --> 0:30:41.320
<v Speaker 1>I probably would have been more afraid, but I was

0:30:41.440 --> 0:30:45.440
<v Speaker 1>dating my uh now husband than boyfriend, and he had

0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:48.320
<v Speaker 1>always worked for himself. So he was like, go out there,

0:30:48.360 --> 0:30:51.840
<v Speaker 1>but you could do it. They're gonna be laughing, they're

0:30:51.840 --> 0:30:54.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna be crying when you, you you know, walk into the

0:30:55.000 --> 0:30:58.360
<v Speaker 1>bank with all this money you're gonna make eventually. So

0:30:58.400 --> 0:31:01.320
<v Speaker 1>he kept me encouraged. And he had been through the process,

0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:04.640
<v Speaker 1>so he had already uh, you know, he had been there.

0:31:04.760 --> 0:31:08.520
<v Speaker 1>So having someone on that journey with you definitely makes

0:31:08.520 --> 0:31:10.160
<v Speaker 1>a big difference. And he made a big difference. And

0:31:10.160 --> 0:31:12.320
<v Speaker 1>then eventually, as I started meeting people in the last,

0:31:12.360 --> 0:31:14.960
<v Speaker 1>started meeting other entrepreneurs, started to meeting other women in

0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:20.200
<v Speaker 1>particular who had their own businesses, and that was very much. So,

0:31:20.520 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, I had to leave my Harvard friends alone

0:31:23.200 --> 0:31:24.800
<v Speaker 1>for a minute. I just had to put them over

0:31:24.840 --> 0:31:27.960
<v Speaker 1>here because our lives were going in such divergent past,

0:31:28.800 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 1>and that negativity can get in your brain and start

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:34.360
<v Speaker 1>making you doubt yourself, and so I had to shelter

0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 1>my brain from that. So I really left my classmates

0:31:39.080 --> 0:31:40.840
<v Speaker 1>for a minute, and you know, I had to meet

0:31:40.840 --> 0:31:44.760
<v Speaker 1>new friends. Was there ever point during that chapter where

0:31:44.760 --> 0:31:46.960
<v Speaker 1>you were like, I don't know if I can stick

0:31:47.000 --> 0:31:51.080
<v Speaker 1>this through. I never thought about getting a job. There

0:31:51.120 --> 0:31:55.120
<v Speaker 1>were hard times though, Man, being self employed, I had

0:31:55.160 --> 0:32:01.360
<v Speaker 1>some rough rough years years because my firm started to grow,

0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:03.280
<v Speaker 1>I started to hire people. You know, at one point

0:32:03.320 --> 0:32:07.239
<v Speaker 1>I had the largest African American owned law firm in

0:32:07.280 --> 0:32:09.520
<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles. So my firm got to be really big

0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:15.360
<v Speaker 1>and we start hiring people. Talk about nightmares. People. You

0:32:15.400 --> 0:32:19.320
<v Speaker 1>know you can control and manage you, right, But the

0:32:19.480 --> 0:32:23.000
<v Speaker 1>minute you know there's a second person to that equation,

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:25.400
<v Speaker 1>everything changed. And I was so nice. I'm young, I'm

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:30.520
<v Speaker 1>like seven years old. I'm young, and I thought everybody

0:32:31.040 --> 0:32:33.360
<v Speaker 1>it was like me, that you've come to work and

0:32:33.400 --> 0:32:35.640
<v Speaker 1>you give, and you just grind it out and you

0:32:35.800 --> 0:32:37.760
<v Speaker 1>work hard. I didn't know a lot of people just

0:32:37.800 --> 0:32:40.760
<v Speaker 1>came to work to piss off and get a check

0:32:40.760 --> 0:32:43.560
<v Speaker 1>and do nothing. I didn't know that. See, so I

0:32:43.600 --> 0:32:46.360
<v Speaker 1>would and I spent a lot of time. I've made

0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:49.400
<v Speaker 1>a lot of mistakes as a young entrepreneur, as a woman.

0:32:49.880 --> 0:32:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about that as a black woman in a

0:32:52.960 --> 0:32:56.560
<v Speaker 1>white male dominated profession, because that's what the legal profession is.

0:32:57.440 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 1>Getting people to respect you. People used to always asked

0:33:00.680 --> 0:33:02.640
<v Speaker 1>me if I was a court reporter. They'd asked me

0:33:02.680 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 1>if I was secretary. Uh, I had a male partner

0:33:06.120 --> 0:33:08.680
<v Speaker 1>they always thought, you know, you're hitting that. They thought,

0:33:08.760 --> 0:33:11.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, we were sleeping together, and this guy was

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:14.680
<v Speaker 1>my husband's best friend, and we were like family, like

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:16.800
<v Speaker 1>brother and sister, and we would be out at night,

0:33:16.840 --> 0:33:19.560
<v Speaker 1>going to events and going to see clients. But I mean,

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:24.440
<v Speaker 1>nothing ever remotely romantic between us. But everybody just assume.

0:33:24.720 --> 0:33:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Do you think it was also hard because you're attractive

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:31.680
<v Speaker 1>or do you think that helps you or hurt you? Well,

0:33:31.800 --> 0:33:36.120
<v Speaker 1>thank you for the compliment. So I don't know. Here's

0:33:36.160 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 1>what I do dressing. So I've always like my mom

0:33:41.040 --> 0:33:43.560
<v Speaker 1>was just a major fashionista, So I always grew up

0:33:43.560 --> 0:33:46.680
<v Speaker 1>wearing bright colors, big earrings. I was always gonna fashion.

0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:49.120
<v Speaker 1>And you grew up in saying, Lucian, your clothes always

0:33:49.120 --> 0:33:52.360
<v Speaker 1>super clean, iron press, you know, your your appearances. Everything

0:33:52.440 --> 0:33:53.920
<v Speaker 1>didn't have the cost a lot, but it had to

0:33:53.960 --> 0:33:57.280
<v Speaker 1>be clean and just neat. So I didn't dress like

0:33:57.360 --> 0:34:00.040
<v Speaker 1>your traditional lawyer. I don't have any blue suits and

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:02.200
<v Speaker 1>i'm gray suit, so I'm you know, I'm rolling red

0:34:02.360 --> 0:34:05.080
<v Speaker 1>and yellow and bright colors. So people would say to

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:07.640
<v Speaker 1>me things like, well, you don't look like your typical lawyer.

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:09.719
<v Speaker 1>So I got a lot of that. So I think

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:14.600
<v Speaker 1>my style more so than quote unquote my looks bothered people.

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:18.719
<v Speaker 1>And again, now you know, women shouldn't wear anything. We

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 1>can show up any way that we wanted to, any

0:34:21.520 --> 0:34:24.719
<v Speaker 1>way that we want to in most environments. But there

0:34:24.880 --> 0:34:27.720
<v Speaker 1>was a time when if you were a professional woman,

0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:29.759
<v Speaker 1>you were supposed to look a certain way, and that

0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 1>look was in some ways very close to how men dressed.

0:34:33.239 --> 0:34:36.840
<v Speaker 1>So women are supposed to were very conservative. Blue suits,

0:34:36.920 --> 0:34:41.640
<v Speaker 1>gray suits, white brows, the pearls. That was the uniform

0:34:41.760 --> 0:34:45.200
<v Speaker 1>for a lawyer. And so I didn't that was never

0:34:45.640 --> 0:34:47.759
<v Speaker 1>that was not gonna be me. Just it's never gonna

0:34:47.800 --> 0:34:50.560
<v Speaker 1>be my uniform. So people had a problem with how

0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I would roll into court, uh, and how I just

0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:58.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, presented myself overall. But you over time, you

0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:02.080
<v Speaker 1>feel your confidence and you don't let other people define

0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:05.680
<v Speaker 1>your worth. And you know, I wasn't gonna change who

0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:10.319
<v Speaker 1>I was. So so you you're how did you transition

0:35:10.360 --> 0:35:14.960
<v Speaker 1>to the CNN? So media good questions? So I started

0:35:14.960 --> 0:35:19.480
<v Speaker 1>asked again early stages, grinding trial, lawyer in cord working

0:35:19.640 --> 0:35:23.280
<v Speaker 1>crazy hours. I was representing some families in Las Vegas,

0:35:23.360 --> 0:35:26.839
<v Speaker 1>five families of kids who have been physically abused by

0:35:26.880 --> 0:35:29.960
<v Speaker 1>their teacher in the classroom, and the Dr Phil Show

0:35:30.120 --> 0:35:34.239
<v Speaker 1>was interested in the story of my clients, so his

0:35:34.400 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 1>produced production team reached out to me to get to

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 1>my clients. They wanted my clients to come on and

0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:43.000
<v Speaker 1>tell the story of what it happened. The case made

0:35:43.640 --> 0:35:45.480
<v Speaker 1>national news because it was the first time in the

0:35:45.480 --> 0:35:48.839
<v Speaker 1>state of Nevada where a teacher was actually criminally prosecuted

0:35:49.160 --> 0:35:51.759
<v Speaker 1>for her treatment of kids in the classroom. And these

0:35:51.800 --> 0:35:55.400
<v Speaker 1>were a combination of kids uh gon verbal artistic kids

0:35:55.520 --> 0:35:59.320
<v Speaker 1>and kids with special needs and horrible allegations of like

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:02.640
<v Speaker 1>putting is in a trash can and just horrible. And

0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:05.160
<v Speaker 1>so this teacher actually got criminally prosecuted, so it made

0:36:05.160 --> 0:36:08.279
<v Speaker 1>the national news. The families found me. I ended up

0:36:08.320 --> 0:36:11.319
<v Speaker 1>representing them in a civil case against the school, and

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:14.680
<v Speaker 1>so the Doctor Field team read the story wanted to

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:18.440
<v Speaker 1>bring the families on to talk about this case, and

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:20.839
<v Speaker 1>so I went on. You know, I was there on

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:28.240
<v Speaker 1>the show with my families and the taping a taping

0:36:28.520 --> 0:36:32.120
<v Speaker 1>a show went so well. The producer came over to

0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:34.239
<v Speaker 1>me and says, Heyrie, but you know, will you you

0:36:34.239 --> 0:36:36.319
<v Speaker 1>want to stick around for the B show. We're doing

0:36:36.320 --> 0:36:41.160
<v Speaker 1>a show on dog the Bounty Hunter using the in word.

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 1>And we have this male panel including Bishop TV, Jake's

0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:50.000
<v Speaker 1>and some activists, but they're all men. We don't have

0:36:50.080 --> 0:36:52.160
<v Speaker 1>a female voice on this panel. You want to stick

0:36:52.160 --> 0:36:54.920
<v Speaker 1>around and join this panel? And in my mind, I'm like,

0:36:54.920 --> 0:36:56.880
<v Speaker 1>at first, I don't even know the story. I like,

0:36:56.960 --> 0:36:59.680
<v Speaker 1>don't watch reality team? Who was Dog the Bounty Hunever,

0:37:00.040 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yes, and I'm scared to death because I

0:37:03.320 --> 0:37:06.239
<v Speaker 1>literally I don't know anything about this. Is this your

0:37:06.239 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 1>first time in front of the camera at this point, Uh,

0:37:09.120 --> 0:37:12.600
<v Speaker 1>pretty much. I mean maybe an occasional appearance here and there,

0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:15.960
<v Speaker 1>but this is the first time, you know, national syndicated,

0:37:16.120 --> 0:37:20.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, show like Dr Phields between A and B show,

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:24.880
<v Speaker 1>maybe there's an hour and a half maybe two. So

0:37:24.960 --> 0:37:27.880
<v Speaker 1>I've got to learn and i gotta develop. Because the

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:30.400
<v Speaker 1>question was gonna be what should happen to him for

0:37:30.520 --> 0:37:32.279
<v Speaker 1>using the inn word? Should you think maybe a show

0:37:32.320 --> 0:37:34.239
<v Speaker 1>had been taken off the air, So that was gonna

0:37:34.280 --> 0:37:37.640
<v Speaker 1>be the question should he be punished in that way?

0:37:38.160 --> 0:37:40.359
<v Speaker 1>And then all the things that go with the N word, right,

0:37:40.400 --> 0:37:42.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, rappers use it, black people use it. So

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I had to have an opinion wasn't just gonna be

0:37:45.120 --> 0:37:46.799
<v Speaker 1>there as I had have a point of view on this.

0:37:47.400 --> 0:37:50.480
<v Speaker 1>So in this hour hour and a half period, I

0:37:50.600 --> 0:37:54.839
<v Speaker 1>have to like read the whole like what did he say,

0:37:54.880 --> 0:37:56.719
<v Speaker 1>who did he say it to, what was the context?

0:37:57.120 --> 0:37:59.279
<v Speaker 1>I gotta think about what I'm gonna say. And TV

0:37:59.440 --> 0:38:03.719
<v Speaker 1>Jake's is like, god, yeah, people, so I never met him,

0:38:03.760 --> 0:38:05.200
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, oh my god, I might be sitting

0:38:05.239 --> 0:38:07.200
<v Speaker 1>next to D D Jase. He's so smart. I don't

0:38:07.200 --> 0:38:10.120
<v Speaker 1>know what nervous. I mean. I wasn't nervous with my

0:38:10.160 --> 0:38:12.480
<v Speaker 1>clients because I was talking about something I knew about, Like,

0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:14.959
<v Speaker 1>ask me anything about this case. I'm you know, I'm there,

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:19.160
<v Speaker 1>but this in word, you know, it's so violato, so explosive.

0:38:19.160 --> 0:38:22.560
<v Speaker 1>People have so many different opinions about it. So here

0:38:22.600 --> 0:38:26.640
<v Speaker 1>I am sitting there four men, T D Jake's and

0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:31.200
<v Speaker 1>these other three guys, and you know, I held my own, Okay,

0:38:31.280 --> 0:38:33.520
<v Speaker 1>I held my own. You know, I didn't represent the

0:38:33.840 --> 0:38:37.799
<v Speaker 1>I didn't embarrass my family or anything, and apparently to

0:38:37.880 --> 0:38:42.399
<v Speaker 1>these producers I did more than you know, just okay,

0:38:42.480 --> 0:38:46.080
<v Speaker 1>because after that taping, the producer said to me, you know,

0:38:46.360 --> 0:38:48.680
<v Speaker 1>we'd love to have you back if you have any

0:38:48.719 --> 0:38:51.680
<v Speaker 1>other cases like the cases you know we're in a show.

0:38:51.960 --> 0:38:54.920
<v Speaker 1>Let us know. We'll have your clients on and we

0:38:55.000 --> 0:38:58.920
<v Speaker 1>may have shows where we'd love to have your expertise.

0:38:59.040 --> 0:39:02.640
<v Speaker 1>And that began my relationship with the Doctor Phil show.

0:39:02.640 --> 0:39:05.279
<v Speaker 1>And they started calling me and they had me come

0:39:05.280 --> 0:39:07.600
<v Speaker 1>on and talk about, you know, stories that Dr Phil

0:39:07.719 --> 0:39:10.840
<v Speaker 1>was doing. I had some other really interesting cases. I

0:39:10.880 --> 0:39:14.200
<v Speaker 1>would pitch stories to them, and I started going on,

0:39:14.320 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, Dr Phil has been and at the time

0:39:16.680 --> 0:39:21.440
<v Speaker 1>probably was the number one rated time talk show. And

0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:25.080
<v Speaker 1>it just started from there. And from Dr Phil, I

0:39:25.080 --> 0:39:29.120
<v Speaker 1>started doing other shows, including cable News, and one day

0:39:29.239 --> 0:39:33.000
<v Speaker 1>I got a call from the talent director at CNN

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:37.600
<v Speaker 1>and she said I had been guesting. So as an expert,

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:40.680
<v Speaker 1>typically you will start off some people, not everyone, but

0:39:41.120 --> 0:39:44.279
<v Speaker 1>the typical pathway is they'll say, hey, you're a great cook.

0:39:44.280 --> 0:39:46.360
<v Speaker 1>We're doing a segment on cooking. Will you come on

0:39:46.520 --> 0:39:49.680
<v Speaker 1>and talk about cooking. You don't get paid. A lot

0:39:49.680 --> 0:39:52.600
<v Speaker 1>of people do it for promoting, right, be promoting a cookbook.

0:39:52.600 --> 0:39:54.720
<v Speaker 1>He may be promoting your restaurant, so there's a reason

0:39:54.760 --> 0:39:57.480
<v Speaker 1>to do it. Uh. So I was guesting what they

0:39:57.520 --> 0:39:59.040
<v Speaker 1>called guesting, So I would go on and give my

0:39:59.120 --> 0:40:01.759
<v Speaker 1>legal opinions, get in and miss NBC even at that

0:40:01.800 --> 0:40:04.120
<v Speaker 1>time Fox, so you know, whatever station would call me

0:40:04.120 --> 0:40:05.440
<v Speaker 1>because I was trying to get my name, I was

0:40:05.480 --> 0:40:07.919
<v Speaker 1>trying to get exposure. And then I got the call

0:40:08.040 --> 0:40:13.760
<v Speaker 1>from the talent director CNN offering me a paid position

0:40:13.880 --> 0:40:33.839
<v Speaker 1>as a contributor. Huhh. And he was like, yeah, let's

0:40:33.880 --> 0:40:36.480
<v Speaker 1>do it. So that was that was going on through

0:40:36.480 --> 0:40:38.760
<v Speaker 1>your mind when that happened. You know, I was so shocked,

0:40:39.000 --> 0:40:41.239
<v Speaker 1>and it was kind of similar. So I was I

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:44.000
<v Speaker 1>coasted a couple of our daytime talk shows, uh, some

0:40:44.120 --> 0:40:47.040
<v Speaker 1>produced by Dr Phil, and something very similar happened one

0:40:47.040 --> 0:40:49.480
<v Speaker 1>of the shows that I was on with Dr Phil

0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:52.000
<v Speaker 1>that I was a co hosting. I was at home

0:40:52.000 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 1>and I just got a call and it was Dr

0:40:54.160 --> 0:40:56.080
<v Speaker 1>Phil saying, hey, he wanted to meet with me. So

0:40:56.600 --> 0:41:00.440
<v Speaker 1>most of my blessed scenes or my my TV westerns

0:41:00.440 --> 0:41:03.080
<v Speaker 1>have come where I'm just at home, chilling and looking

0:41:03.120 --> 0:41:06.120
<v Speaker 1>up the phone and that CNN, it's Dr Phield someone

0:41:06.160 --> 0:41:09.080
<v Speaker 1>offering me a job. So it was surreal in some

0:41:09.120 --> 0:41:12.120
<v Speaker 1>ways because I knew I wanted to help people. I

0:41:12.320 --> 0:41:14.719
<v Speaker 1>never and you grow up in the Midwest, you're not

0:41:14.800 --> 0:41:17.160
<v Speaker 1>thinking Hollywood is like way over there. For me, it's

0:41:17.200 --> 0:41:20.720
<v Speaker 1>not even something that most people think about. So TV

0:41:20.920 --> 0:41:24.319
<v Speaker 1>was not in the uh you know, the blueprint in

0:41:24.360 --> 0:41:27.640
<v Speaker 1>the plan. But I realized very early on that once

0:41:27.680 --> 0:41:31.360
<v Speaker 1>I started, that it was a way to have a voice,

0:41:31.560 --> 0:41:33.719
<v Speaker 1>and it was a way to talk about issues that

0:41:33.719 --> 0:41:37.440
<v Speaker 1>are important to people. And I my proudest moment and

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:41.640
<v Speaker 1>being on television was during Team with Michael Brown was

0:41:41.680 --> 0:41:44.960
<v Speaker 1>shot and killed by the Ferguson Police because a part

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:46.360
<v Speaker 1>of where I grew up and saying, oh, it's this

0:41:46.440 --> 0:41:50.760
<v Speaker 1>next door to Ferguson. And I was on Don Women

0:41:50.920 --> 0:41:54.520
<v Speaker 1>other CNN shows throughout that whole period, and all the

0:41:54.520 --> 0:41:57.200
<v Speaker 1>stuff that happened after Michael Brown was shot, the issues

0:41:57.239 --> 0:42:00.680
<v Speaker 1>with the prosecutor and some of the protests were happening,

0:42:01.280 --> 0:42:04.640
<v Speaker 1>and I was so angry by what I would often

0:42:04.680 --> 0:42:07.120
<v Speaker 1>see other people, how they talked about that saint was

0:42:07.239 --> 0:42:11.280
<v Speaker 1>community and how they were villainizing and and just uh,

0:42:11.320 --> 0:42:14.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, really painting those families in a negative life.

0:42:14.840 --> 0:42:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Because at some point, you know, buildings started to burn

0:42:17.560 --> 0:42:20.600
<v Speaker 1>and cars were burning, so the stuff was happening, uh,

0:42:20.640 --> 0:42:24.680
<v Speaker 1>and I was so angry, and I felt so proud

0:42:24.840 --> 0:42:27.160
<v Speaker 1>to be able to go on. I would call my

0:42:27.320 --> 0:42:29.640
<v Speaker 1>family and friends at home. I'd get there like real,

0:42:29.760 --> 0:42:32.400
<v Speaker 1>like what's going on on the ground, not what people

0:42:32.400 --> 0:42:34.440
<v Speaker 1>are repeating on television. And so I was able to

0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:38.520
<v Speaker 1>represent that community and help I think in some ways

0:42:38.560 --> 0:42:43.680
<v Speaker 1>people better understand. Put some faces to those people, help

0:42:43.719 --> 0:42:47.000
<v Speaker 1>people understand that these were not quote unquote thugs, that

0:42:47.080 --> 0:42:50.120
<v Speaker 1>this was a community of homeowners and you know, educated

0:42:50.160 --> 0:42:53.240
<v Speaker 1>people with hard working people and families and mothers and fathers.

0:42:53.600 --> 0:42:56.880
<v Speaker 1>So that was probably the thing that made me feel

0:42:56.920 --> 0:42:59.799
<v Speaker 1>the best, like, thank you Jesus for allowing me this

0:43:00.000 --> 0:43:03.160
<v Speaker 1>at for him to paint my community a community that

0:43:03.200 --> 0:43:05.160
<v Speaker 1>I love, because I love saying was I go there

0:43:05.239 --> 0:43:08.719
<v Speaker 1>all the time. I'm so connected to my hometown. To

0:43:08.840 --> 0:43:10.879
<v Speaker 1>get to paint it in a different light and and

0:43:10.920 --> 0:43:14.560
<v Speaker 1>really bringing out that humanity that was so missing and

0:43:14.600 --> 0:43:19.960
<v Speaker 1>a lot of the reporting. Wow, I have some questions,

0:43:20.040 --> 0:43:22.960
<v Speaker 1>like personal questions that I go into debate with my friends.

0:43:23.040 --> 0:43:27.160
<v Speaker 1>But since I have you here, why not right? So

0:43:28.440 --> 0:43:34.080
<v Speaker 1>I I started to learn about like systematic racism and redlining.

0:43:35.120 --> 0:43:36.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say it was a long time ago.

0:43:36.760 --> 0:43:39.279
<v Speaker 1>Was definitely more recent than a long time ago, But

0:43:39.560 --> 0:43:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I when everything happened during the pandemic with George Floyd

0:43:43.680 --> 0:43:46.319
<v Speaker 1>and everything. I kept telling all my friends, We're gonna

0:43:46.360 --> 0:43:48.640
<v Speaker 1>have reparations. They'd be like, no, you're crazy, it's not

0:43:48.680 --> 0:43:51.359
<v Speaker 1>gonna happen. I'm like, mm hmm, Now it's gonna happen.

0:43:51.440 --> 0:43:53.600
<v Speaker 1>This was before the bailouse. By the way, what's the

0:43:53.640 --> 0:43:57.040
<v Speaker 1>bailouse happened? I said, Oh, reparations coming, It's coming, right,

0:43:57.880 --> 0:44:01.319
<v Speaker 1>I kept telling my friends, and I have good relationships

0:44:01.360 --> 0:44:03.759
<v Speaker 1>with banks because of some of the work I do

0:44:03.800 --> 0:44:07.759
<v Speaker 1>on the side. Um, but I hold the banks responsible

0:44:07.840 --> 0:44:12.720
<v Speaker 1>for most of our issues, mainly because of generational wealth

0:44:12.760 --> 0:44:17.560
<v Speaker 1>and just the roller coaster of effect that happens with it.

0:44:18.120 --> 0:44:21.680
<v Speaker 1>How do you feel about that, Well, I feel strongly

0:44:21.760 --> 0:44:24.879
<v Speaker 1>that when you're talking about generational wealth. I'm writing a book.

0:44:24.960 --> 0:44:28.600
<v Speaker 1>My fifth book is on h it's called the working

0:44:28.600 --> 0:44:31.640
<v Speaker 1>title right now, it's called Where's Black Wealth? And it

0:44:31.840 --> 0:44:36.600
<v Speaker 1>really delves into this issue of how black wealth has been,

0:44:37.120 --> 0:44:41.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, ripped away from the black community and some

0:44:41.280 --> 0:44:46.600
<v Speaker 1>of the policies, banking policies, housing policies, transportation policies, the

0:44:46.800 --> 0:44:50.040
<v Speaker 1>role that they have played in reducing black wealth and

0:44:50.080 --> 0:44:52.200
<v Speaker 1>what we need to do in this country because the

0:44:52.239 --> 0:44:57.080
<v Speaker 1>wealth gap between blacks and whites is growing exponentially and

0:44:57.120 --> 0:44:59.960
<v Speaker 1>there you know, like a twenty year period, so black

0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:03.719
<v Speaker 1>wealth will be at zero if we don't make some

0:45:04.360 --> 0:45:09.040
<v Speaker 1>systemic changes to some of these UH institutions and some

0:45:09.160 --> 0:45:11.640
<v Speaker 1>of these policy changes that lots of folks have talked about.

0:45:12.040 --> 0:45:15.200
<v Speaker 1>So I'm so glad we started having those conversations because

0:45:15.200 --> 0:45:17.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people didn't even know about Tulsa. They

0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:20.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't know about Black Wall Street until after George Floyd,

0:45:20.560 --> 0:45:23.920
<v Speaker 1>after the worldwide protests that we saw UH, and you know,

0:45:24.000 --> 0:45:27.239
<v Speaker 1>we started to hear that history has been hidden from

0:45:27.280 --> 0:45:30.799
<v Speaker 1>so many generations, from you know, students. And I have

0:45:30.880 --> 0:45:33.720
<v Speaker 1>a web based show where I interviewed about a thousand

0:45:33.800 --> 0:45:38.640
<v Speaker 1>people since the pandemic, and I've interviewed some descendants of

0:45:38.680 --> 0:45:45.279
<v Speaker 1>those business owners in Tulsa, and they said their ancestors,

0:45:45.320 --> 0:45:48.640
<v Speaker 1>their parents, and grandparents were so traumatized by that they

0:45:48.640 --> 0:45:50.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't even talk about it. That many of them didn't

0:45:50.760 --> 0:45:54.919
<v Speaker 1>learn about it until either they got to school or

0:45:55.040 --> 0:45:57.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, they started being more prevalent in the news

0:45:57.960 --> 0:46:01.960
<v Speaker 1>because there's still so much trauma associated with it by

0:46:02.000 --> 0:46:06.760
<v Speaker 1>the black families who were impacted so I feel like, yeah,

0:46:06.920 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 1>banks play a big role in this huge wealth gap,

0:46:11.200 --> 0:46:12.920
<v Speaker 1>and there's a lot that we could do in this

0:46:13.000 --> 0:46:17.640
<v Speaker 1>country to address it. What can we do to address it, though, well,

0:46:17.680 --> 0:46:22.239
<v Speaker 1>we've seen some things already. Remember just recently, there was

0:46:22.280 --> 0:46:25.880
<v Speaker 1>the Child Tax Credit, So if you were a parent, uh,

0:46:25.920 --> 0:46:28.600
<v Speaker 1>and depending on how much you earned, it was up

0:46:28.600 --> 0:46:31.040
<v Speaker 1>to a hundred fifty thou dollars you could earn, you

0:46:31.080 --> 0:46:34.280
<v Speaker 1>would receive literally a check up to three hundred dollars

0:46:34.840 --> 0:46:40.279
<v Speaker 1>per child. And that tax credit played a huge role

0:46:40.320 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 1>in pulling like millions of kids out of poverty. So

0:46:43.600 --> 0:46:46.520
<v Speaker 1>one way we reduced the wealth gap is by creating

0:46:46.880 --> 0:46:50.799
<v Speaker 1>even more income earning opportunities for African Americans and just

0:46:50.880 --> 0:46:53.480
<v Speaker 1>by having more income, right, you know, there were some

0:46:53.560 --> 0:46:56.359
<v Speaker 1>others who were getting dollars. Yeah, five kids, you'd get

0:46:56.360 --> 0:46:58.920
<v Speaker 1>fifteen hundred dollars, and that was on top of you

0:46:58.960 --> 0:47:01.640
<v Speaker 1>know it, But it wasn't on own you have to

0:47:01.680 --> 0:47:05.799
<v Speaker 1>do anything to get it. But it recognized that a

0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:08.759
<v Speaker 1>mother of three, four or five kids is likely to

0:47:08.800 --> 0:47:12.040
<v Speaker 1>be impacted in her earnings because she may not be

0:47:12.080 --> 0:47:15.480
<v Speaker 1>able to work full time because of childcare. How expensive

0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:17.560
<v Speaker 1>child care is, so she may not be able to

0:47:17.560 --> 0:47:20.440
<v Speaker 1>take a promotion that would maybe have her travel or

0:47:20.440 --> 0:47:24.000
<v Speaker 1>do something else because of childcare. And so that three

0:47:24.640 --> 0:47:27.799
<v Speaker 1>that tax credit played a huge role in helping a

0:47:27.800 --> 0:47:31.800
<v Speaker 1>lot of parents be able to afford childcare. Uh maybe

0:47:32.160 --> 0:47:35.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, pay for after school activities for their kids. Again,

0:47:35.440 --> 0:47:39.720
<v Speaker 1>if you a kid gets out of school at three o'clock, jobs,

0:47:39.880 --> 0:47:42.040
<v Speaker 1>most jobs on into five or six o'clock, right, so

0:47:42.040 --> 0:47:43.480
<v Speaker 1>you gotta figure out what are you gonna do with

0:47:43.480 --> 0:47:45.799
<v Speaker 1>your kid for those two or three hours. So there

0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:49.520
<v Speaker 1>are things like that those you know, our countries failure

0:47:49.560 --> 0:47:54.920
<v Speaker 1>to provide um paid family lead. All those things negatively

0:47:55.000 --> 0:47:59.280
<v Speaker 1>impact go income people. Women in particular to or usually

0:47:59.280 --> 0:48:01.320
<v Speaker 1>because we're the care give her. So if the child

0:48:01.360 --> 0:48:02.719
<v Speaker 1>is sick and she was gonna be the mom that's

0:48:02.760 --> 0:48:06.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna take off if grandma grandpa six, usually gonna be

0:48:06.360 --> 0:48:08.279
<v Speaker 1>the woman that's gonna take off to care for the

0:48:08.680 --> 0:48:11.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, the sick relative. So all of that depresses

0:48:11.880 --> 0:48:16.120
<v Speaker 1>our earning potential if we can't be free to earn

0:48:16.719 --> 0:48:19.160
<v Speaker 1>like men are. No one expects a man to quit

0:48:19.200 --> 0:48:21.640
<v Speaker 1>their job to stay home, you know, with a sick child,

0:48:21.719 --> 0:48:24.160
<v Speaker 1>or to quit their job to go take care of

0:48:24.160 --> 0:48:26.480
<v Speaker 1>a sick mother and father. But that's always the burden

0:48:26.520 --> 0:48:30.680
<v Speaker 1>that falls on women. And we saw that during the pandemic. Literally, women,

0:48:30.960 --> 0:48:35.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, bore the brunt of the economic downfall that

0:48:35.160 --> 0:48:38.120
<v Speaker 1>happened during the pandemic. Do you think the black community

0:48:38.160 --> 0:48:41.200
<v Speaker 1>we'll see separations. Absolutely, And you know why we should

0:48:41.239 --> 0:48:46.040
<v Speaker 1>all be encouraged. Bruce's Beach in California. Bruce's Beach you're

0:48:46.040 --> 0:48:49.279
<v Speaker 1>talking about the Manhattan Beach. I was going to next

0:48:49.320 --> 0:48:54.600
<v Speaker 1>we are twin flames Ruce's Beach, hundred million dollars property

0:48:55.080 --> 0:49:00.840
<v Speaker 1>restored to this black the descendants of Willow Bruce and

0:49:00.880 --> 0:49:05.000
<v Speaker 1>her husband who owned this property on the beachfront property

0:49:05.280 --> 0:49:08.600
<v Speaker 1>they could have been the Hilton's, could have been the

0:49:10.360 --> 0:49:14.480
<v Speaker 1>and the government comes in uses imminent domain, takes the

0:49:14.520 --> 0:49:16.839
<v Speaker 1>property away from them under the guys who're gonna build

0:49:16.840 --> 0:49:20.080
<v Speaker 1>a park park never got built. Uh And for years

0:49:20.160 --> 0:49:24.680
<v Speaker 1>that property was illegally in the hands of the state

0:49:24.760 --> 0:49:27.600
<v Speaker 1>of California, the County of Los Angeles, and that city,

0:49:27.600 --> 0:49:31.000
<v Speaker 1>Manhattan Beach. And so that property, now I'm proud my

0:49:31.040 --> 0:49:34.600
<v Speaker 1>friend George Fatherley did there. He's a real estate lawyer,

0:49:34.920 --> 0:49:38.520
<v Speaker 1>did pro bono charge the family nothing very instrumental. Steve

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<v Speaker 1>Bradford is a state senator here in California. He was

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<v Speaker 1>also instrumental in moving the legislation that made it possible

0:49:45.840 --> 0:49:48.319
<v Speaker 1>for the property to be returned. So I think the

0:49:48.360 --> 0:49:51.080
<v Speaker 1>deal now is they're gonna reach the property back to

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<v Speaker 1>the county for about I think like four hundred thousand

0:49:54.280 --> 0:49:57.080
<v Speaker 1>a month or something, and then they're gonna decide after

0:49:57.120 --> 0:49:59.200
<v Speaker 1>three years if they sell it to the county, because

0:49:59.200 --> 0:50:02.920
<v Speaker 1>now it's like a public beach, but even beyond Bruce's Beach.

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<v Speaker 1>The State of California, then assembly Woman Shirley Webber, she's

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<v Speaker 1>now our Secretary of State in California, she put forth

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<v Speaker 1>a piece of legislation for California to create a committee

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<v Speaker 1>to study reparations. And that committee has now made some findings,

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<v Speaker 1>some recommendations, and they when they get to the final

0:50:24.000 --> 0:50:27.840
<v Speaker 1>recommendations about who should get what what form should this

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<v Speaker 1>reparations come in, UH, and what time period of some

0:50:30.840 --> 0:50:33.000
<v Speaker 1>other things, they have to decide. They're gonna make those

0:50:33.000 --> 0:50:36.600
<v Speaker 1>recommendations to the state legislature in California and then they

0:50:36.640 --> 0:50:40.239
<v Speaker 1>get to vote. And we have a Democratic legislature here

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<v Speaker 1>in California, so it's very likely that those recommendations California.

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<v Speaker 1>That's California. But you know, as California goes, so does

0:50:49.880 --> 0:50:52.719
<v Speaker 1>the rest of the nation. So imagine California then one

0:50:52.719 --> 0:50:56.000
<v Speaker 1>of the biggest state in the country, you know, with

0:50:56.080 --> 0:51:00.800
<v Speaker 1>a thirty three million people live here. If black folks

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<v Speaker 1>in California get reparations, that's gonna put pressure on New

0:51:04.200 --> 0:51:06.799
<v Speaker 1>York and Illinois and you know other states. And there's

0:51:06.840 --> 0:51:10.240
<v Speaker 1>some cities like h Evans in Illinois, will suburb outside

0:51:10.239 --> 0:51:16.240
<v Speaker 1>of Chicago. They have started reparations. They're giving forty thousand,

0:51:16.239 --> 0:51:19.520
<v Speaker 1>i think in some kind of home loan, home grant

0:51:19.560 --> 0:51:23.240
<v Speaker 1>program to black residents. So it's starting to happen. Remember

0:51:23.239 --> 0:51:24.880
<v Speaker 1>it used to be such a like your friends who

0:51:24.920 --> 0:51:28.279
<v Speaker 1>laughed at you, and you know, because reparations was thought

0:51:28.360 --> 0:51:30.879
<v Speaker 1>to be a French concept and nobody ever thought we'd

0:51:30.880 --> 0:51:33.440
<v Speaker 1>be gonna happen. It's gonna happen. I'm gonna happen. It's

0:51:33.480 --> 0:51:36.919
<v Speaker 1>gonna now we don't know. Like a friend of mine

0:51:37.040 --> 0:51:38.719
<v Speaker 1>works for the city of l A and they have

0:51:38.880 --> 0:51:43.440
<v Speaker 1>their own reparations committee. She said that their committee is

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<v Speaker 1>recommending giving mental health counseling as a form of reparations.

0:51:48.719 --> 0:51:53.759
<v Speaker 1>To address the trauma. And I see your face, and

0:51:53.800 --> 0:51:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I gave her to say, I gave her the same

0:51:55.680 --> 0:52:03.160
<v Speaker 1>face she told me that, like all right, okay, right,

0:52:03.200 --> 0:52:05.240
<v Speaker 1>But so the point is it's gonna come a different

0:52:05.280 --> 0:52:08.240
<v Speaker 1>form some you know, it might be a cash, maybe

0:52:08.239 --> 0:52:12.440
<v Speaker 1>a check. Some people are talking about free college tuition. Uh,

0:52:12.600 --> 0:52:16.640
<v Speaker 1>paying off STO loan debt is a form maybe homeown assistance.

0:52:16.640 --> 0:52:18.560
<v Speaker 1>So I mean, you can think of all these ways

0:52:18.600 --> 0:52:21.440
<v Speaker 1>because the name of the game with reparations is to

0:52:21.640 --> 0:52:24.839
<v Speaker 1>try to even the playing field, is to reduce that

0:52:25.000 --> 0:52:28.719
<v Speaker 1>huge wealth gap that exists in this country because the

0:52:28.800 --> 0:52:33.640
<v Speaker 1>systemic racism, because of very intentional policies by the US

0:52:33.719 --> 0:52:37.600
<v Speaker 1>government that have stripped African Americans of wealth. So you know,

0:52:37.719 --> 0:52:40.680
<v Speaker 1>home ownership is I'm going to tell you right now,

0:52:40.719 --> 0:52:43.640
<v Speaker 1>that's that's all I want to see as homeownership because

0:52:43.719 --> 0:52:46.840
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, you know, even living in Los Angeles,

0:52:46.920 --> 0:52:49.279
<v Speaker 1>if you walk behind my house, because I don't live

0:52:49.280 --> 0:52:51.440
<v Speaker 1>on the block with a million dollar homes, I live

0:52:51.440 --> 0:52:54.400
<v Speaker 1>in the condos in front of them. And if you

0:52:54.480 --> 0:52:57.280
<v Speaker 1>walk that block, most of the houses on that million

0:52:57.360 --> 0:53:02.440
<v Speaker 1>dollar block were inherited, and I'm like, wow, must be nice.

0:53:02.480 --> 0:53:06.600
<v Speaker 1>And that's why white folks is so far ahead of

0:53:06.680 --> 0:53:11.440
<v Speaker 1>us is because of inheritances and homeownership being one of them.

0:53:11.480 --> 0:53:13.480
<v Speaker 1>If you live in one of those million dollar houses

0:53:13.520 --> 0:53:16.920
<v Speaker 1>now and say these the parents bought it in the sixties,

0:53:16.920 --> 0:53:21.000
<v Speaker 1>they may have paid seventy five dollars. Uh. So, my

0:53:21.080 --> 0:53:25.320
<v Speaker 1>husband's parents, they lived in South l A around sixty seven,

0:53:25.560 --> 0:53:30.120
<v Speaker 1>and western bought their house for under forty thousand dollars.

0:53:30.560 --> 0:53:33.920
<v Speaker 1>When they sold it in the like late two thousand,

0:53:33.960 --> 0:53:37.479
<v Speaker 1>mid two thousand, houses like six hundred thousand dollars. So

0:53:37.920 --> 0:53:42.319
<v Speaker 1>literally there could be millions of dollars in equity that

0:53:42.440 --> 0:53:46.200
<v Speaker 1>then gets passed down to those kids. And that's when

0:53:46.280 --> 0:53:48.839
<v Speaker 1>we've been robbed of that opportunity to create that well,

0:53:49.160 --> 0:53:52.759
<v Speaker 1>to pass it down to you, our children and our grandchildren.

0:53:52.920 --> 0:53:56.359
<v Speaker 1>So now the last thing I want to mention, are

0:53:56.360 --> 0:53:59.160
<v Speaker 1>you familiar with birthright? I'm pretty sure you are. Are

0:53:59.160 --> 0:54:03.120
<v Speaker 1>you It's birthright? Is I'm Jewish and Jamaican. So in

0:54:03.280 --> 0:54:07.799
<v Speaker 1>Jewish culture they have this this thing called birthright where

0:54:07.880 --> 0:54:09.719
<v Speaker 1>I believe, up to the age of twenty seven, you

0:54:09.760 --> 0:54:12.520
<v Speaker 1>can fly fly to Israel for I think it's two

0:54:12.560 --> 0:54:16.200
<v Speaker 1>weeks for free, fully paid. They you know, they teach

0:54:16.239 --> 0:54:19.440
<v Speaker 1>you everything about your Jewish culture and what the Jews

0:54:19.480 --> 0:54:24.320
<v Speaker 1>went through. I feel like the black community desperately needs

0:54:24.360 --> 0:54:28.240
<v Speaker 1>that because, you know, we don't fully know our last names,

0:54:28.280 --> 0:54:30.279
<v Speaker 1>Like we don't really know who we are. And I

0:54:30.320 --> 0:54:33.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like, boy, what it would do for blacks to

0:54:33.520 --> 0:54:35.880
<v Speaker 1>be able to have their own version of a birthright?

0:54:35.960 --> 0:54:37.440
<v Speaker 1>You know, So where would you have them go? You

0:54:37.440 --> 0:54:39.640
<v Speaker 1>would have to leave the US and go to certain

0:54:39.680 --> 0:54:42.440
<v Speaker 1>countries in Africa or what I would say? Yeah, I

0:54:42.440 --> 0:54:45.879
<v Speaker 1>would lean towards that because I also feel like some

0:54:46.200 --> 0:54:49.920
<v Speaker 1>black people, you know, if you say African American or African,

0:54:51.280 --> 0:54:56.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel like maybe because of the American culture, there's

0:54:56.560 --> 0:55:03.239
<v Speaker 1>like a weird negative of like disassociation with it. And

0:55:03.520 --> 0:55:05.759
<v Speaker 1>if you talk to people that visit Africa, they're like,

0:55:05.800 --> 0:55:08.480
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, we're kings and queens and we're living

0:55:08.480 --> 0:55:10.880
<v Speaker 1>a life. Are you kidding me? And it's like portrayed

0:55:10.920 --> 0:55:14.120
<v Speaker 1>so differently in America. And I think that experience, I

0:55:14.160 --> 0:55:18.040
<v Speaker 1>think that experience of reminding like how powerful our melanin is.

0:55:19.040 --> 0:55:22.279
<v Speaker 1>Also when it's utilized and it has its full potential, well,

0:55:22.360 --> 0:55:24.759
<v Speaker 1>that could be a form of reparations. Right, So you

0:55:24.880 --> 0:55:28.840
<v Speaker 1>need to write into that committee I help you do.

0:55:28.880 --> 0:55:32.600
<v Speaker 1>That's that's not her, but I mean that's that's what

0:55:32.640 --> 0:55:35.440
<v Speaker 1>they're grappling with, like what is going to be the

0:55:35.480 --> 0:55:38.640
<v Speaker 1>most substant what's going to have the most impact. Uh.

0:55:38.680 --> 0:55:41.759
<v Speaker 1>And that's why my friend at the city said mental health.

0:55:41.920 --> 0:55:43.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a lot of money either, she said this,

0:55:44.320 --> 0:55:48.960
<v Speaker 1>Their options were limited by their resources. But I like that.

0:55:49.040 --> 0:55:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I like the idea of us being able to go,

0:55:52.560 --> 0:55:55.640
<v Speaker 1>whether it's to Africa or some other, you know country

0:55:56.280 --> 0:56:03.040
<v Speaker 1>and just see how you know, regal and royal uh

0:56:03.400 --> 0:56:05.720
<v Speaker 1>people that we come from. Because I think that would

0:56:05.719 --> 0:56:08.879
<v Speaker 1>help to a lot of younger black folks who kind

0:56:08.880 --> 0:56:12.960
<v Speaker 1>of you know, have lost touch with their ancestors and

0:56:13.000 --> 0:56:16.799
<v Speaker 1>don't know that they are from such noble people. Maybe

0:56:16.800 --> 0:56:18.960
<v Speaker 1>it helped build their confidence. You know, young men you

0:56:19.000 --> 0:56:22.440
<v Speaker 1>see who have been so beaten down, feel like you

0:56:22.480 --> 0:56:24.160
<v Speaker 1>know that they have no hope. We see these really

0:56:24.239 --> 0:56:28.320
<v Speaker 1>high rates of suicide amongst African American men and young women,

0:56:28.400 --> 0:56:30.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, those growing races, and you often ask the

0:56:30.360 --> 0:56:34.440
<v Speaker 1>do they know that they are descendants of kings and queens?

0:56:34.480 --> 0:56:36.680
<v Speaker 1>And if they knew that, you know, would that make

0:56:36.719 --> 0:56:41.319
<v Speaker 1>a difference. So I like it. Thank you I'm glad

0:56:41.360 --> 0:56:43.920
<v Speaker 1>you like my little idea. I like it. I like it.

0:56:43.960 --> 0:56:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I can't always go up with the race. I'm there

0:56:46.080 --> 0:56:49.359
<v Speaker 1>for you. Well, thank you so much for taking time

0:56:49.360 --> 0:56:53.400
<v Speaker 1>out of your busy schedule to eat Barbara, and I

0:56:53.440 --> 0:56:56.560
<v Speaker 1>am going to eat all of this because it is

0:56:56.600 --> 0:57:00.919
<v Speaker 1>absolutely delicious. I encourage my production crew to enjoy the meal.

0:57:01.640 --> 0:57:04.560
<v Speaker 1>Um and uh yeah, thank you. And then where can

0:57:04.840 --> 0:57:07.759
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0:57:07.800 --> 0:57:10.600
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0:57:11.480 --> 0:57:13.640
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<v Speaker 1>So I'm a talker and I like to talk to people,

0:57:52.240 --> 0:57:54.760
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0:57:54.760 --> 0:57:56.760
<v Speaker 1>know a lot of stuff. We get a lot of

0:57:56.760 --> 0:57:59.960
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0:58:00.040 --> 0:58:03.920
<v Speaker 1>and people often don't know you know, how to decipher it.

0:58:03.960 --> 0:58:06.880
<v Speaker 1>What's real, what's not real? What should I you know? Follow?

0:58:06.960 --> 0:58:09.440
<v Speaker 1>What you know shouldn't I follow? And I like to

0:58:09.480 --> 0:58:12.840
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