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Speaker 1: Transmitting Hello, that's good, Welcome to the show. Today is

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Speaker 1: International Women's Day. Let me say more in studio morning Amy,

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Speaker 1: How are you doing good? How about you good? Tell

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Speaker 1: all of our listeners what today International Women's Days about.

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Speaker 1: It's recognizing amazing women all over, lifting each other up,

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Speaker 1: encouraging people that are listening, and just amplifying women all around,

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Speaker 1: promoting them left and right. So that's what we're trying

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Speaker 1: to do today. I mean today we will do an

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Speaker 1: all all women dance party, all women artists. We will

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Speaker 1: have Andrea Kramer from ESPN, we will have Kendra Scott

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Speaker 1: on Amy's doing all the tell me something good, You're

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Speaker 1: doing the good News countdown. It's all about women. It

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Speaker 1: is Today's say. There's gonna be a lot of me today.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of aggy today. That's right. Bobby's lifting

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Speaker 1: me up. I'm lifting her up. It's right. I thought

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Speaker 1: I lifted her up a high as I could. I

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Speaker 1: want to encourage too. It's also a day to just

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Speaker 1: remind everyone listening to try to lift up women in

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Speaker 1: their lives. Like whatever that looks like for you. Can

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Speaker 1: you shop a women owned business. Can you support someone

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Speaker 1: on Instagram? Can you send a text to someone in

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Speaker 1: your life that you look up to that inspires you

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Speaker 1: and let them know that That's all about empowering women.

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Speaker 1: That's what today is about. It can me the smallest gesture,

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Speaker 1: but it can mean the most to someone. Now, what

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Speaker 1: we're doing throughout the show, much like fourth grade, I said, hey,

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Speaker 1: you guys, create a ninety second report on a woman.

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Speaker 1: It had be in your life, or just do you

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Speaker 1: know about maybe somebody famous in history alive not alive.

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Speaker 1: There were no rules. It just had to be an

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Speaker 1: awesome woman. So we're gonna do ninety second reports. Amy's

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Speaker 1: at first ninety second presentation. Forget the old women, Amy,

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Speaker 1: who do you have over there? Robin Roberts? Okay, here

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Speaker 1: we go. Amy is now doing Robin Roberts and begin,

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Speaker 1: So make your mess your message. This is something I

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Speaker 1: learned from my girl, Robin Roberts. Her mom often said

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Speaker 1: it to her, encouraging Robin not to hide but to

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Speaker 1: share more of herself when life through her some curveballs.

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Speaker 1: This became the catalyst for her success. Now a lot

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Speaker 1: of us know Robin from Good Morning America, but She's

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Speaker 1: been killing it way before then. She was a basketball

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Speaker 1: star at Southeastern Louisiana University and was later inducted into

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Speaker 1: the Women's Basketball Hall of Fame. Throughout school, she stayed

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Speaker 1: close to her true passion and broadcast journalism, which really

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Speaker 1: began to take root in her life when she landed

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Speaker 1: a sportscaster position on ESPN. Now, she certainly has an

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Speaker 1: impressive resume, but it's her vulnerability that has captured our hearts.

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Speaker 1: She inspired us all when she courageously invited us to

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Speaker 1: walk alongside her as she faced two life threatening illnesses.

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Speaker 1: Her twenty twenty Primetime special Robin's Journey, and her best

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Speaker 1: selling book Everybody's Got Something became her platforms for sharing

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Speaker 1: her story, making hers her message, and encouraging though on

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Speaker 1: a similar path, Robin is a trailblazer and an inspiring

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Speaker 1: leader for all women. And I'm honored to call her friend,

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Speaker 1: being that we occasionally DM on Twitter. Okay, maybe we've

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Speaker 1: because we have a lot in common. You know, she

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Speaker 1: I'm in media. She has makes her mess, her message.

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Speaker 1: all right, RAYMONDO. You're up next, ninety second presentation for

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Speaker 1: Internet and Old Women Day. Yeah, Bobby, I have little

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Speaker 1: After that, she gets the show. The rest is history

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Speaker 1: Neighborhoods are now safe. I'm actually a little scared of

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Speaker 1: a little peanut from Brooklyn Judge June Good. Wow, her

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Speaker 1: net worth is four hundred and forty million dollars. All right,

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Speaker 1: nice job, guys, we'll do some more later on the show.

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Speaker 1: Eddie and I have lunchbox more than we all have

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Speaker 1: some Eddie, who's yours on? Oh mine is a woman

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Speaker 1: definitely heard her work. I'm gonna leave it right there. Interesting. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: be like, who's it? Just wait and see International Women's Day.

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Speaker 1: It's the good news countdown, counting down the biggest good

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Speaker 1: news stories across the left. Usually I host this, However,

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Speaker 1: today Amy, since International Women's Day, it's all out to you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for the honor. I got a lot of

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Speaker 1: good stories about women doing good things. So there's no

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Speaker 1: Ohio kindergarten teacher named Monique Waters and she does daily

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Speaker 1: affirmations and fist pumps with her children to start the day.

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Speaker 1: on Instagram of her motivating her kids. So I got

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Speaker 1: a shout out this girl. Scout Troop in Iowa. They

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Speaker 1: have shattered its cookie sales goal for twenty twenty one,

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Speaker 1: selling an impressive five thousand boxes. Now what's even more

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Speaker 1: amazing about these girls is they have overcome a major obstacle.

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Speaker 1: So she started him a TikTok account and her first

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Speaker 1: And now he's getting calls non stop. Here's the original

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Speaker 1: this morning, so thank you very much. So. The Fortune

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Speaker 1: reached a new record for women leaders in twenty twenty,

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Speaker 1: with thirty seven of the companies being led by women,

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Speaker 1: as compared to thirty three last year. Now, the new

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Speaker 1: five hundred lists, So let's keep this trend up. Why so,

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Speaker 1: this grandmother in Texas needed open heart surgery, but she

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Speaker 1: had to get vaccinated before that could happen. Well, she

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Speaker 1: Find somebody with a heart that's women supporting women right there, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's where women they get it. Back to knee. All right,

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Speaker 1: the Bodybone Show. Amy run into one of our old interns. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Lexi's on right now. Hey Lexi, Hey everybody, how are you.

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Speaker 1: country music? It's just a huge roller coaster. One day

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Speaker 1: to keep grinding. You know, you put out you heard right,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play their seven songs on the story. I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna put you now on this show. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: play sad songs from Thank You So Much. You're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Tell me about this song before we play it. So

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Speaker 1: I wrote this with my producer Derek George and Michael White,

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Speaker 1: To spank or not to spank? And that is the question.

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Speaker 1: That is the age on question, isn't it? And I

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Speaker 1: know family philosophies differ on this, but as a parenting educator,

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Speaker 1: I think there's always a more effective option than spanking

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Speaker 1: for so many reasons. I mean, there's a growing body

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Speaker 1: of research that shows that kids who are spanked at

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Speaker 1: young ages and I'm not talking about abuse, so I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about a swat on the bottom. The research shows

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Speaker 1: that those kids tend to be more aggressive and then

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Speaker 1: they're prone to more behavior problems and adolescents. Spanking also

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Speaker 1: sends the message that you know what, it's okay for

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Speaker 1: you to let your anger out in frustration by hitting

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Speaker 1: somebody else, or that a stronger, more powerful person can

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Speaker 1: hit a small or less powerful person, And that's not

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Speaker 1: the long term message that we want to send. On

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Speaker 1: a very practical level, what happens when a child is

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Speaker 1: being spanked, They go into that fear mode, right and

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Speaker 1: for any human, when we're experiencing fear or pain, or

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Speaker 1: anxiety or shame, we shut down and the learning event

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Speaker 1: isn't actually taking a place. So there are so many

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Speaker 1: more aspective parenting tools that actually help teach the kids

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Speaker 1: the lesson help them make better choices for the future,

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Speaker 1: rather than spanking or punishing them for something that's happened

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Speaker 1: in the past. I have one final question for her,

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Speaker 1: then you guys can ask yours, and then we have

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Speaker 1: exhausted her time. We have an expert on. We like

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Speaker 1: to squeeze as much out of an expert as we

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Speaker 1: can when we get them on here, what's the age

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Speaker 1: for the birds and the bees? Talk? Well, that talk

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Speaker 1: should start early and happen often because the sexual researchers

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Speaker 1: say that ten is the new sixteen, so girls and

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Speaker 1: boys are going through pretty earlier than ever. And when

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Speaker 1: you combine that with everything are exposed to in the

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Speaker 1: media and on the internet, we really have to up

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Speaker 1: our game there and have that conversation often. But it

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Speaker 1: starts early with a lot of little conversations. It's not

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Speaker 1: one big talk, so we can start when they're toddlers

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Speaker 1: by calling all their parts the right names and having

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Speaker 1: those conversations. Again, the research tells us that kids are

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Speaker 1: way more comfortable talking about that than their parents are,

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Speaker 1: so it's kind of our job to, even if we're

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Speaker 1: not comfortable, fake it, act comfortable, and try to have

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Speaker 1: those conversations as often as you can, because obviously, when

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Speaker 1: kids are in their tween and teen years, we want

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Speaker 1: them to feel comfortable coming to us. Our job is

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Speaker 1: to give them the right information so that they can

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Speaker 1: make informed choices, but obviously that are aligned with our

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Speaker 1: family values. Amy McCready's on with us. You can follow

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Speaker 1: her on Instagram at Positive Parenting Solutions. Amy. What is

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Speaker 1: your questions? Well, I have a thirteen year old daughter,

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Speaker 1: actually she'll be fourteen really soon, and she's super responsible

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Speaker 1: wakes up for school on time as always, in the car,

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Speaker 1: ready to go, does all her homework. But on Saturdays

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Speaker 1: she loves to sleep like she could sleep until two

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Speaker 1: pm if I don't wake her up, and most Saturdays

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Speaker 1: if I let her do it. But then I wonder,

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Speaker 1: what should any teenager be allowed to sleep until two pm?

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Speaker 1: And part of me starts to feel like I'm not

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Speaker 1: making the right decision. So is it okay one day

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Speaker 1: a week to let her have that morning? I think

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Speaker 1: it is, as long as she's getting her other responsibilities done.

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Speaker 1: She seems healthy in other ways, she's getting outdoor activity.

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Speaker 1: You know, for younger kids, if they're kind of sleep

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Speaker 1: deprived during the week, they actually can't catch up. But

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Speaker 1: for tweens and teens, you know, if they're a little

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Speaker 1: sleep deprived during the week, they actually can Their bodies

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Speaker 1: can catch up on the weekend. And it sounds like

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Speaker 1: that's what she's needing. So she sounds super response and

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Speaker 1: I'm sure she's healthy, so I don't see a big

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Speaker 1: problem with it, as long as her weekends are fulfilling,

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Speaker 1: you know, once she gets up, Oh, she's gonna love you, Eddie.

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Speaker 1: You're on what would you like to say yeah, Hi, Amy.

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Speaker 1: So we're talking about this me me me syndrome, and

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Speaker 1: I feel like I go through this with my kids

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Speaker 1: all the time. All they think about is me, me, myself, myself,

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Speaker 1: and not about others. And then we on the show

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Speaker 1: we read stories about these kids that are donating thousands

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Speaker 1: of dollars from this lemonade stand that they start, they

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Speaker 1: start or whatever, And if you have any suggestions or

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Speaker 1: recommendations to get kids to stop thinking about themselves so

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Speaker 1: much and start thinking about, oh, like, let's help other people.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like I do a pretty good job

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Speaker 1: being an example. So is there is that one way

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Speaker 1: to do it? And are there any more ways to

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Speaker 1: do it? There are? And you said the most important

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Speaker 1: thing is be the example you want your kids to be.

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Speaker 1: But I think you could take that one step further

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Speaker 1: and really make it a family value. So one of

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Speaker 1: the tools that I love to teach is the family meeting.

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Speaker 1: And it's like once a week we get together, we

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Speaker 1: talk about the family calendar, we talk about what's going on,

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Speaker 1: we have a family fun activity. It's a great ritual

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Speaker 1: to start. But one component of that for you could

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Speaker 1: be all right, what is our family gratitude. What is

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Speaker 1: our family gratitude exercise for this week or what is

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Speaker 1: our family philanthropy, our giving, whatever that happens to be.

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Speaker 1: You can actually have some focus that the whole family

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Speaker 1: engages in for that week, and that really then reinforces that, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is who we are, this is part of our

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Speaker 1: family value. And then obviously we know that kids take

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Speaker 1: that with them and we'll start to act in those

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Speaker 1: ways on their own. All right, one more question lunchbox. Yeah, Amy,

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Speaker 1: I got a que I got two and a half

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Speaker 1: year old and time out. We're trying this time out thing,

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Speaker 1: and half the times he'll do stuff and look at

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Speaker 1: mean and go go time out like he likes time out.

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Speaker 1: But then when I'm really angry and I do want

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Speaker 1: to put him in time out, he won't stay in

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Speaker 1: time out? So what do you do? Oh, that is

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Speaker 1: the classic dilemma. And you're right, especially if you have

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Speaker 1: a strong willed child. They're like yeah, right, like how

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Speaker 1: are you going to keep me in time out? And

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Speaker 1: as he gets a little bit older, like what are

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Speaker 1: you going to do? Sit on him to keep him

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Speaker 1: in the time out chair? So again I like to

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Speaker 1: look at Okay, what is the specific behavior that we're

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Speaker 1: trying to change, Like, can you give me an example

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Speaker 1: of something he would go to time out for, Oh,

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Speaker 1: he has a little brother and he'll just take toys

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Speaker 1: and hit him with the toy. Oh yeah, not good. First, obviously,

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Speaker 1: supervision for a young child like that is super important.

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Speaker 1: But the other thing that you can do is just

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Speaker 1: redirect him in the moment to something else that is

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Speaker 1: more interesting. But putting it in time out either gives

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Speaker 1: him a big hit of attention because he has all

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Speaker 1: of your attention on him at that moment, and or

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Speaker 1: escalates the power struggle, so it becomes this battle with

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Speaker 1: you and he's not even thinking about the toy anymore.

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Speaker 1: One of the great solutions for that toy thing is

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Speaker 1: if you have you can kind of have like a

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Speaker 1: sharing list where let's say one is trying to steal

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Speaker 1: a toy from the other, you could say, oh, you

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Speaker 1: want to use the toy, let me put your name

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Speaker 1: on the sharing list or on the waiting list, and

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Speaker 1: that way they have to wait till you know it's

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Speaker 1: fair turned for the toy. But for that general kind

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Speaker 1: of hitting stuff, it's especially a child that young, it's

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Speaker 1: more about just keeping at such a tight eye on

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Speaker 1: them all the time and then redirecting them when the

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Speaker 1: time comes. Amy, We really appreciate your time. Amy McCready

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Speaker 1: you guys check out Positive Parenting Solutions dot Com to

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Speaker 1: sign up for a free online class. She got two

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Speaker 1: books if I have to tell you one more time

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Speaker 1: in the Me Me Me Epidemic and follow her on

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Speaker 1: Instagram at Positive Parenting Solutions. Amy. Thank you. You were

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Speaker 1: a wonderful resource for all of us and every single

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Speaker 1: question we've had over the past five years of Thames.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Bobby and friends. It was a delight. All right,

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Speaker 1: there she is, He's Amy's pile of stories. So One

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Speaker 1: Country dot Com took a look at female country songs

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Speaker 1: from the nineties and picked these be the ones that

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Speaker 1: we all still sing along to every time we hear them.

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Speaker 1: Top five gotta be Shania Twain in there. If it's nineties,

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Speaker 1: it's gotta be you know, any man of mind. Good guess,

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Speaker 1: gotta be Shanai. Who else will we pick? Though? Faith

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Speaker 1: Hill gotta be a faith here Strawberry? All right, well,

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Speaker 1: good give us number five wild one, faith Hill Okay

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Speaker 1: with the Angels Wallet Jam number four heads Carolina Tales California,

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Speaker 1: Jody Messina, Yeah, nineteen ninety six, somewhere any man of Mind,

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Speaker 1: Shani Twain from ninety five. As it wasn't number one,

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Speaker 1: the strawberry wine definitely could be. Come on, yeah, number

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Speaker 1: two strawberry wine. Sintra Carter. I wonder what one could be.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about this boy and maybe Ni again. Amy.

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Speaker 1: Is it a double up of anyone? No, okay, it's

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Speaker 1: someone for sure from the nineties, Big Time, Like she's

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Speaker 1: come over to my house. No, it's Amy Grant. No, wait,

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Speaker 1: one of the coolest Big Time superstars ever. They come

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Speaker 1: to your house. Well, I mean she's just so normal

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Speaker 1: and down to earth and to come to your house. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know you're going into my house, all right? Okay.

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Speaker 1: So there was a study done to find out who's

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Speaker 1: your favorite type of boss or leader? Is it a

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Speaker 1: man or a woman? And workplace research revealed that female

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Speaker 1: managers are more likely to receive high respect from their

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Speaker 1: team members, communicate their vision effectively and in an easy

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Speaker 1: to understand way. I would say any of my female

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Speaker 1: bosses have been as direct as any of the men,

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Speaker 1: but also have an ability to have compassion, which a

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Speaker 1: lot of the men haven't. Yeah, it's true. So it's

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Speaker 1: just a bigger They just kind of have all the

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Speaker 1: boxes checked instead of a few, because dudes just aren't like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I felt that. Let me give you a little comfort

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Speaker 1: as well. There's not that much yet compassion and empathy

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Speaker 1: because every all my bosses are hardcore, like you know

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Speaker 1: you're at this level. They it's business, we got to

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Speaker 1: get stuff done. We gotta be a efficient we're gonna

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Speaker 1: make sure that money's being made. But also any of

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Speaker 1: my female bosses have been like, hey, let's talk about

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Speaker 1: this for a second. Guys aren't like that. What else? Well?

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Speaker 1: Tim McGraw shared a story about his mom. Now. It

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Speaker 1: happened when he was around ten, as she was raising

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Speaker 1: Tim and his two sisters. He saw her late one

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Speaker 1: and he knew then how hard she struggled to keep

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Speaker 1: the family afloat. I can remember walking through the kitchen

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Speaker 1: one night getting up late. I don't know how old.

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Speaker 1: I was, ten, eleven, twelve years old, something like that,

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Speaker 1: and she had her head down on the table at

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Speaker 1: like two in the morning, with bills everywhere, and I

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Speaker 1: was crying and she didn't see me. But I've told

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Speaker 1: her that story before. She didn't remember it because she

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Speaker 1: didn't see me. But like I said, for her, that

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Speaker 1: was probably one hundred different nights I didn't know about. Dang. Wow,

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Speaker 1: you get an emotional right there. Yeah, Tim crime crazy, No,

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Speaker 1: and he's just proud of how hard his mom was

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Speaker 1: working to take care of them, and I love that.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure we have a lot of resilient moms out there,

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Speaker 1: So shout out to all the amazing women out there.

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Speaker 1: And then tonight, don't forget. We got Gwen Stefani, Kelsey Ballerini,

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Speaker 1: and Cardi b set for our iHeart International Women's Day Special.

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Speaker 1: It's called See Her, Hear Her, and it's going to

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Speaker 1: be on iHeartRadio's YouTube and Facebook pages at eight pm.

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Speaker 1: That's across all time zones and it's going to be

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Speaker 1: available on demand through March fourteenth. So it's a live,

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Speaker 1: one hour special with a lot of amazing women. I'm Amy,

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Speaker 1: and that's my pile. That was Amy's pile of stories.

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Speaker 1: It's time for the good news with Amy. So I

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Speaker 1: gotta shout out to this eight year old girl named Peyton.

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Speaker 1: She's not your average third grade student, because when she's

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Speaker 1: not in school, she's out fighting a battle much bigger

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Speaker 1: than herself, child homelessness. Now, Peyton learned that there's around

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Speaker 1: two point five million children in America who were facing

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Speaker 1: homelessness each year, and she was like, ump, I gotta

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Speaker 1: do something about this. We gotta raise awareness and send

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Speaker 1: funds and toys and products and all the things to

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Speaker 1: homeless shelters. And she forms something called I of a

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Speaker 1: Child and she does just that. She sends money to shelters, toys,

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Speaker 1: all the things. And Peyton said, quote, if you have

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Speaker 1: a dream, please follow it. Don't give up because you

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Speaker 1: probably can reach your goal, and I believe in you.

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Speaker 1: You can check out I of a Child dot org

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Speaker 1: for more info than International Women's Day. That's a good story.

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Speaker 1: I know, it's so amazing. Like she's eight years old.

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Speaker 1: We could all be inspired by this girl. International Kid

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Speaker 1: Woman's Day. That's right, Yes, all right, that's what it's

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Speaker 1: all about. That was tell me something good Women's Day,

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Speaker 1: International Women's Day. On The Bobby Bone Show, Hey, coming up, Amy,

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Speaker 1: we'll talk with Kendra Scott, who is a billionaire we

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Speaker 1: think maybe the second billionaire ever on our show, Wow.

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Speaker 1: The first billionaire is probably if we look back the pilot,

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Speaker 1: the space guy is gonna take lunchboxes of space. Hopefully

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Speaker 1: the second one will be Kendra Scott International Women's Day.

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Speaker 1: Can we think of any other billionaire we've had on

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Speaker 1: the show. It's Garth, not a billionaire. Nah, everybody's close.

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Speaker 1: They always stays around six hundred million. Oh okay, not close. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And if you've ever listened to Kendra Scott's How I

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Speaker 1: Built This with Guy Rouse, I love that podcast. It's

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Speaker 1: her story is amazing. She's definitely gonna start out. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: we knew she was selling an all beat up table

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Speaker 1: outside the radio station. She would do a little trunk shows. Wow,

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Speaker 1: so she'll be on later. And who are you talking

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Speaker 1: to in a second? Veronica Garza from SETA Foods. She's

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Speaker 1: the founder and chief innovative officer. There's we're just highlighting

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Speaker 1: amazing women today, some that are awesome leaders and those

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Speaker 1: that are rising up. And we just want to empower women.

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Speaker 1: So we're talking to empowered women that are empowering others. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all those coming up, Let's get to the morning Corny.

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Speaker 1: First morning, Corny, what is a sea Monster's favorite food.

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Speaker 1: What's a sea Monster's favorite food? Fish and ships? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that was the morning Corny. It's not lost on us

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Speaker 1: that we'll go, Hey, we're doing a real serious show today.

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Speaker 1: We're highlighting, we're promoting the name. He's like sea monster,

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Speaker 1: fish and chips. Okay, yeah, so that's exactly how we're all.

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Speaker 1: Okay on the Bobby Bones Show. Now. Veronica Garza, Yep,

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Speaker 1: we're on with Veronica Garza, who's the co founder, president,

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Speaker 1: and chief innovation officer of Sieta Family Foods. Hey, Veronica, Hi.

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Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people have probably seen

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Speaker 1: Sisa products at the grocery store and they are amazing.

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Speaker 1: They're a family owned Mexican American food brand that offers

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Speaker 1: tortilla chips and more. So, Veronica, give us the quick

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Speaker 1: origin story of Scita. We actually started our business in

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Speaker 1: twenty fourteen with an almond flowered dothia that I had

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Speaker 1: started making really just to deal with some health issues

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Speaker 1: had to change my diet go grain free to help

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Speaker 1: deal with a lot of that, and my whole family

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Speaker 1: decided to do that with me. We're a family of seven,

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Speaker 1: and we all decided to eat grain free and then

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Speaker 1: we were feeling great following this diet, but definitely missing

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Speaker 1: out on part of our culture not being able to

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Speaker 1: participate in eating things like Topia's. So I decided to

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Speaker 1: develop at Topia that I could eat and share with

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Speaker 1: me in with my family, and the ultimate tasteester there

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Speaker 1: was You got your grandmother's approval, right, I did. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: probably a couple of years after I had been making

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Speaker 1: the product, my mom kicked up the sample for my

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Speaker 1: grandmother to try, and my grandmother tried them and said, Vettel,

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Speaker 1: which is my nickname, these are great. They're better than

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Speaker 1: my own. My grandmother made flower tortillas, I guess, all

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Speaker 1: of her adult life, so that was huge that my

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Speaker 1: grandmother liked them and was willing to eat them. So

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Speaker 1: it's kind of her stampled approval that told us we

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Speaker 1: should turn this into a business. What would be your

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Speaker 1: advice to women listening now who are maybe thinking about

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Speaker 1: starting their own business. I know, especially as women, we

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Speaker 1: probably have a lot of fear going into something like this,

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Speaker 1: so I would say, don't let that fear hold you

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Speaker 1: back from actually taking the risk. Do you know any

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Speaker 1: country artists to our fans of siete. Yeah. So actually

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Speaker 1: the person that comes to mine, and I'm a huge

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Speaker 1: fan of hers is Casey Musgraves. I know, at least

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Speaker 1: it was probably a couple of years ago. We saw

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Speaker 1: on Instagram that she had posted about us, and we

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Speaker 1: were able to reach out to her and connect with

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Speaker 1: her thundersome goodies and we even created a special, very

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Speaker 1: limited edition because only she got it a slow burned

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Speaker 1: hot sauce and that was really cool. And then it

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Speaker 1: was amazing. Just a few months later I was able

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Speaker 1: to see her at Aco. She's awesome. Oh yeah, I

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Speaker 1: love that oh slow. So would y'all ever consider making

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Speaker 1: that a staple? I'm assuming maybe that slower and hot

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Speaker 1: sauce was pretty hot. Yeah, you know what, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: extremely hot. I think the kick came a little bit

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Speaker 1: after you tasted it. But maybe I'd want to get

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Speaker 1: her feedback to see how she liked it, and then

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Speaker 1: then we could consider putting it out on shelves. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: if you ever need taste testers for other things or feedback,

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Speaker 1: we're happy to participate here on the Bobby Bone Show.

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Speaker 1: What are some characteristics of a boss like What's what

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Speaker 1: puts a bow on a boss for you? Okay, So honestly,

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Speaker 1: I've never really identified with that word. I've never been

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Speaker 1: called a boss, and I don't really think of myself

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Speaker 1: at that as that. So at least as Yetta, we

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Speaker 1: kind of operate more like a family and we tend

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Speaker 1: to think of, you know, people more as leaders. So

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Speaker 1: as a leader, you know, there are some characteristics that

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Speaker 1: I think are very important. So one would be humility.

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Speaker 1: We need to be aware of our weaknesses just as

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Speaker 1: much as our strength and be able to admit when

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Speaker 1: we're wrong. And then probably the next thing would be

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Speaker 1: to have compassion for everybody that you work with, whether

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Speaker 1: that's co workers, employees, business partners, and especially customers. You

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Speaker 1: never know what people are going through, so you know,

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Speaker 1: just being kind and listening and being compassionate can really

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Speaker 1: help solve a lot of problems. Definitely signs of a

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Speaker 1: leader right there. And I love that you have what

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Speaker 1: makes you feel comfortable, and that's that you're a leader,

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Speaker 1: and y'all all are and the family component go ahead

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Speaker 1: and share with everyone. I already know it. But your

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Speaker 1: company motto which is regarding family. Yeah, so our first

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Speaker 1: core value is family first. Family, second, business third. Love

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Speaker 1: that and I feel like anybody else listening when they're

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Speaker 1: starting a business, I think that y'all have modeled that beautifully,

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Speaker 1: putting that first. And you don't just mean because you

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Speaker 1: did start it with your family. Family, but you don't

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Speaker 1: just mean your family, mean your entire Siete family. And

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Speaker 1: I think that y'all even include your your customers in

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Speaker 1: that as well. That's exactly right. Yeah, so we're not

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Speaker 1: talking about just the Gospa family, the seven of us.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about all of the people that join have

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Speaker 1: joined our team throughout the years, all of the business

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Speaker 1: partners that we work with, whether it's grocery stores, distributors,

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Speaker 1: and yes, especially our customers. They are part of that

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Speaker 1: bigger set, the family that we're always thinking about. First, Well,

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Speaker 1: we are definitely rooting you on all the way always,

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Speaker 1: and you know, we want to take this women supporting

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Speaker 1: women beyond just conversation. We want to put it into actions.

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Speaker 1: So do you have any simple things that maybe you

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Speaker 1: could share right now quickly that are easy ways to

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Speaker 1: support more women? Yeah, I mean I feel like some

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Speaker 1: of these are probably pretty obvious. I mean, actively seek

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Speaker 1: out businesses that are owned by women or led by women,

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Speaker 1: buy their products, recognize them on social media as much

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Speaker 1: as you can, and if you're in a position to

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Speaker 1: do so, be a mentor to women who are interested

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Speaker 1: in starting their own businesses so that we can see

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Speaker 1: more and more women in positions like this and help

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Speaker 1: them to become more successful. Awesome. Love that. And if

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Speaker 1: people want to follow y'all on social media, and then

796
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Speaker 1: also throw y'all some support. You are at CSA Foods

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Speaker 1: and thank you Veronica for all of the amazing food

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Speaker 1: that you give us and being a great leader. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. It's International Women's Day, Amy, tell everybody

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Speaker 1: what todays shows all about. It's all about lifting up

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Speaker 1: women and encouraging everyone listening, male and female, to reach

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Speaker 1: out to someone in your life that inspires and encourages

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Speaker 1: you and find a way to support women on the daily.

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Speaker 1: So about a week ago, I give everybody the task

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Speaker 1: of you had to come up with a report on

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Speaker 1: a historical woman, celeb, historical figure, a musician, entrepreneur. It

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Speaker 1: didn't matter really, I mean, I say, historical history is

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Speaker 1: all in the eye of the beholder, I guess, and

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Speaker 1: so Eddie, I'll let you go now with yours. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here you go, you have ninety seconds. Who is yours about?

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Speaker 1: The amazing woman that I chose to do my report

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Speaker 1: on is Carol Kay. Now, Carol Kay may not know

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Speaker 1: her name, but you definitely have heard her work. In

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Speaker 1: the last fifty years, Carol Kay has played on over

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Speaker 1: ten thousand recordings. As a studio musician. She plays the guitar,

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Speaker 1: but mostly known for her work on the bass guitar.

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Speaker 1: In the nineteen sixties and seventies, she recorded basslines for

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Speaker 1: so many artists, including The Beach Boys, Elvis, Glenn Campbell,

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Speaker 1: the Monkeys, Frank Sinatra. The list goes on and on.

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Speaker 1: Here are a few songs that Carol played on that

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Speaker 1: you just might recognize, Starting with Good Vibrations by the

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Speaker 1: Beach Boys. Do you may also have heard this song

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Speaker 1: A Little Less Conversation by Elvis Presley. That's her on

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Speaker 1: the bass. Here is I'm a Believer by the Monkeys,

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Speaker 1: And then, of course we all know Unchanged Melody by

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Speaker 1: She also recorded and helped create some of these famous

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Speaker 1: famous popular TV show themes, including the Brady Bunch, Hawaii

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Speaker 1: five Oh, and the original Batman's Long. We even play

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Speaker 1: some of Carol's music on the show here whenever Lunchbox

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Speaker 1: does some hidden mic stuff. She also helped create Mission Impossible.

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Speaker 1: In twenty twenty, Rolling Stone magazine ranked k number five

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Speaker 1: in its Top fifty Greatest bases of All Times. A

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Speaker 1: lot of the times these session players don't get the recognition.

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Speaker 1: So I felt I need to shine a little spotlight

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Speaker 1: on Carol k the baddest woman around International Women's Day.

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Speaker 1: I have Oprah Winfrey, who I've chosen iTEC. Oprah was

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Speaker 1: born in Mississippi to an unmarried teenage mother. You know,

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Speaker 1: her name's Orpa no o rpah wow because it was

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Speaker 1: after the biblical figure in the Book of Ruth. But

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Speaker 1: people kept saying Oprah, so that's stuck. But her name's Orpa.

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Speaker 1: She grew up dirt poor. Family was really poor. She

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Speaker 1: was teased at high school and in school for wearing

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Speaker 1: dresses made of potato sacks. She also didn't get her

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Speaker 1: first pair of shoes until she was six years old.

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Speaker 1: Oprah graduated from East Nashville High in nineteen seventy one,

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Speaker 1: attended Tennessee State University began her college. After college, she'd

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Speaker 1: be in her television career on Channel five in Nashville,

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Speaker 1: and so she's doing local news. She went to Baltimore,

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Speaker 1: and then here she is talking about getting fired from

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Speaker 1: that job in Baltimore. I was not a good television reporter.

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Speaker 1: I was too emotional. I was making twenty two thousand

853
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Speaker 1: dollars a year. Once I got demoted, they didn't want

854
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Speaker 1: to pay out my contract. I was making twenty five

855
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Speaker 1: thousand dollars a year. They didn't want to pay me

856
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Speaker 1: the twenty five thousand, so they kept me on and said,

857
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Speaker 1: we'll put you on this talk show just to run

858
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Speaker 1: out your contract. It was called people Are Talking in

859
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Speaker 1: That Constellation prize took off. Yeah. She eventually became the

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Speaker 1: host of The Oprah Winfrey Show, which you ever twenty

861
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Speaker 1: five seasons. Her most who do you think her biggest

862
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Speaker 1: watch interview was Tom Cruise. Yeah. Michael Jackson, Oh nineteen

863
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Speaker 1: ninety three become the most watch interview of all time

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Speaker 1: with thirty six million viewers in the United States. She

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Speaker 1: was a billionaire two point six billion dollars. She is

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Speaker 1: the richest African American of the twentieth century. In two

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Speaker 1: thousand and nine. The last ten minutes of her show

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Speaker 1: confirmed that Oprah would cease September nine, two eleven. Here

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Speaker 1: she is talking about why she's leaving the show, so

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Speaker 1: why walk away and make next season the last? Here

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Speaker 1: is the real reason I love this show. This show

872
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Speaker 1: has been my life, and I love it enough to

873
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Speaker 1: know when it's time to say goodbye. Twenty five years

874
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 1: feels right in my bones, and it feels right in

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Speaker 1: my spirit. It's the perfect number, the exact right time,

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Speaker 1: the best to ever do it. She was once told

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Speaker 1: she wasn't good enough to do it, and now she's

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Speaker 1: a billionaire of you and Prince Harry and Markle whatever

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Speaker 1: the Megan whatever, Yeah yeah, Prince Harry and Markle Mega Markle. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there you go, Ope Winfrey, there you go. She is

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Speaker 1: who I chose today. It's time for the good news.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, this is crazy. So this third grader was

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Speaker 1: walking out of a mall in Waco with her mom

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Speaker 1: wearing her birthday crown because it was her birthday, and

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Speaker 1: a homeless woman that was there was like, oh hey,

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Speaker 1: it's your birthday. I gotta give you twenty dollars, and

887
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: the mom and the dollar were like no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: we cannot take your money. No, but someone had just

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Speaker 1: given the homeless woman one hundred dollars and she wanted

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Speaker 1: to share some with the birthday girl. Well, this really

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Speaker 1: brought to attention the need in the area. So the

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Speaker 1: little girl started helping homeless in the community and they

893
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Speaker 1: did an event where they were able to feed over

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Speaker 1: forty people, and they named the event Pizza My Heart

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Speaker 1: like Pizza mart get it. And the young girl is

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Speaker 1: hoping to make the Pizza My Heart Day a quarterly

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Speaker 1: event and is already fundraising for the next one. So

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Speaker 1: shout out to Jada Holmes. You are amazing. And she's

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Speaker 1: only an elementary school. There you go, that's what it's

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Speaker 1: all about. That was tell me something good International Women's Day.

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Speaker 1: On The Bobby Bones Show. Okay, on the Bobby Bones

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Speaker 1: Show now. Andrea Kreamer, Hey, Andrea, thanks for joining us. Hi, Amy,

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Speaker 1: how are you? I am wonderful. We're excited to have

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Speaker 1: a multi Emmy Award winning journalist and sports reporter, and

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Speaker 1: you're also a lecturer at Boston University. So I want

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Speaker 1: to ask you right out of the gate, Andrea, what

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Speaker 1: was the most defining moment you felt when breaking through

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Speaker 1: such a male dominated industry. I guess Amy, it was

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Speaker 1: so long ago. I really didn't try to think about

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Speaker 1: it because I think if you, I think, even as

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Speaker 1: a very very young CUB reporter, that if you think

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Speaker 1: about those things, that can be very daunting, and it

913
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Speaker 1: can dissuade you from what you're trying to do, which

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Speaker 1: is ironically prove yourself that you belong. So I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that I ever, even as I kept

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Speaker 1: being hired as the first woman in various jobs, it

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Speaker 1: just didn't phase me. People would bring it up, and

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Speaker 1: I was aware of it, but I never wanted it

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Speaker 1: to define me. I want, I wanted. I felt pressure

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Speaker 1: because I wanted to perform and hopefully open up doors

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Speaker 1: for other women down the road, but I never let

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Speaker 1: it deter me. Yeah, I mean, and that you definitely have.

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Speaker 1: You you're a trailblazer. You opened a lot of doors.

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Speaker 1: So what advice would you give to young women that

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Speaker 1: are looking to get into sports journalism. There's nothing that

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Speaker 1: makes up for hard work, and I always call it

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Speaker 1: doing it the right way, and that can be sort

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Speaker 1: of an amorphous designation, but it does mean that there's

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Speaker 1: There's a reason that they call it paying your dues

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Speaker 1: and really working your way up because it gives you

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Speaker 1: incredible personal and professional capital. It gives you the experience

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Speaker 1: that is just so valuable. I mean I came up.

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Speaker 1: I started off as a writer, then I was a producer,

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Speaker 1: and then I got put on air. But being a

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Speaker 1: writer and a producer helped me so much because when

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Speaker 1: I would go out in the field, for example, and

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Speaker 1: I'd work with crews and they say, hey, we can't

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Speaker 1: get that shot or we can't get it, I go, well,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I think we can because I have

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Speaker 1: done it before myself. Writing skills are so underrated. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you want to get experienced, but you got to know

942
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Speaker 1: con pardonment. You've got to know how to write. It

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter what you go into if you go into radio,

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Speaker 1: if you go into print, if obviously if you go

945
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Speaker 1: into video, you have to know how to write. So

946
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Speaker 1: really working hard and then understanding you should learn as

947
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Speaker 1: much about as many different things possible. It's the proverbial.

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Speaker 1: The more you can do, the more you can do,

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Speaker 1: and it just it just increases your value to people

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Speaker 1: love that and you know you're involved in so many things.

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Speaker 1: I mean from Thursday Night Football for Amazon Prime, HBO,

952
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Speaker 1: NFL Network, and CBS Sports Network. And that's just to

953
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Speaker 1: name a few. So what's the most fulfilling part of

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Speaker 1: your job or I should say all of your jobs? Well,

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Speaker 1: I think you kind of hit it. There's something really

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Speaker 1: fulfilling in each one. And uh, you know, I was

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Speaker 1: at ESPN for seventeen years and I loved it. And

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Speaker 1: the only reason I left is because, truthfully, I got

959
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Speaker 1: a I got the offer I couldn't refuse from NBC

960
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Speaker 1: to do Sunday Night Football and to do the Olympics.

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Speaker 1: So I was very lucky that I left on great

962
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Speaker 1: terms and I left completely of my own accord. But

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Speaker 1: when you're at ESPN, you can you can only work

964
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Speaker 1: for ESPN, can't do anything for anybody else. A minute

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Speaker 1: I left ESPN, Wow, all these stories are opened up.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I signed with NBC HDIO Real Sports,

967
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 1: who had been talking to me for years. They they

968
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Speaker 1: hired me right away. And then the CBS Show, the

969
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: first all female sports show, opened up, and that presented

970
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: a totally different opportunity to work with some of the

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Speaker 1: best women, not just broadcasters, but athletes and and all

972
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: female staff. It was just a great opportunity and truthfully, Amy,

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00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: you know, an all female show I used to call it,

974
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 1: which you know, kind of makes people wins a little

975
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: bit the view for sports, but that's in essence what

976
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: the pitch was, and that's, you know, it's it's the

977
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 1: show is morphed into so much more than that. And

978
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: then of course Thursday night football was just something that

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00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 1: you kind of never even think of. I mean, I'm

980
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 1: going to analyze football games. It just it wasn't something

981
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:55,719
Speaker 1: that was ever on my radar. But truthfully, when you

982
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 1: have I got to say it, when you have the

983
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 1: best agent in the business who is constantly thinking ahead

984
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: and thinking about what's really great strategy wise for your career,

985
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 1: for him to put both Hannah Storm and me in

986
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:18,399
Speaker 1: that position is amazing. So each each each job brings

987
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: its unique challenges. But listen, I mean, I'm a journalist

988
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 1: at heart, long form journalism. I think it's what I do.

989
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: You know you mentioned all my awards. I mean, that's

990
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 1: what my awards are for. It's it's incredibly fulfilling. You know,

991
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 1: certain stories that I've done which you really feel have

992
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 1: made an impact on people in a variety of ways.

993
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: That's hugely important to me. We're talking with Andrea Kramer,

994
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Speaker 1: Emmy Award winning journalists for International Women's Day. And Andrea,

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00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,840
Speaker 1: we want to take amplifying women beyond a conversation and

996
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: put it into action. So what's a simple thing that

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00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: you would share with everyone right now? Is a way

998
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: that they can support other women? Well, just that you know,

999
00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: there's what's what's the stereotype of women? Let's be catty

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00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 1: and trust me, I think that men who lie in

1001
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:08,839
Speaker 1: wait looking for that, well, you sure as heck don't

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Speaker 1: want to feed that. Also, Amy, truthfully, I subscribe to

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Speaker 1: what your mom told you. If you've got nothing nice

1004
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 1: to say, don't say anything at all. But it is

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00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:26,320
Speaker 1: really important to support women. And that's one thing that

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Speaker 1: I am hugely proud of my friendship and partnership with

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Speaker 1: Hannah Storm. People they can they can tell what's real, okay,

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Speaker 1: And ultimately, we want our listeners that are choosing the

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Speaker 1: head of Storm Andrea Kramer option on Amazon Prime Video

1010
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: Thursday Night Football, we want them to say, hey, you know,

1011
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: we're just hanging out with Hannah Andrea watching a game,

1012
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: but you know what they want to sense and feel

1013
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 1: our personalities. They want to sense and feel our interaction

1014
00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: when we joke with each other. When Hannah went to

1015
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 1: Notre Dame, the world knows that I never let her

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00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: forget that. I'll let the audience forget it. All right, Hannah,

1017
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,239
Speaker 1: here we go another Golden dome or you know, just

1018
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 1: joking with people but supporting each other is very very genuine,

1019
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:17,359
Speaker 1: you know, Amy, I'm all about action. You can talk

1020
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 1: a lot about things, but let your actions truly speak

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00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 1: for themselves. And I think that that what Hannah and

1022
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 1: I have together is is something that really does that,

1023
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,359
Speaker 1: it speaks for itself. Well, Andrea, thank you for all

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Speaker 1: of your wisdom today. It's truly an honor to have

1025
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 1: you on. So thanks for joining us for International Women's Day.

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00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: Andrea Kramer, everybody, well, thank you, Amy, thanks for having

1027
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,720
Speaker 1: me on. And to you, your families, your listeners. Everybody

1028
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 1: stay healthy and stays out there. All right. Thanks bye,

1029
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 1: thank you boyd Bye International Women's Day. On the Bodybones Show.

1030
00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 1: All right, we have two reports left. By the way,

1031
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Speaker 1: go back and listen to the podcast. You'll hear ninety

1032
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: second reports on Judge Judy from Raimundo, Amy had Robin Roberts,

1033
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 1: I did Oprah Winfrey, Eddie did Carol Kid, Carol Kaya

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Speaker 1: bassist Up left is Morgan number two and Lunchbox Morgan.

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Speaker 1: You're up first. Well I have Dolly Parton all right,

1036
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 1: Here we go ninety second presentation Forget Her Death at

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Speaker 1: Women There. Dolly Parton is a legendary singer, songwriter, performer, actor, philanthropist,

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00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: and just an all around cultural icon. And yes, she

1039
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Speaker 1: even has her own theme park. Out of the thousands

1040
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Speaker 1: of songs she's written, her biggest hits include Joe Lene Joy,

1041
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 1: I Will Always Love You, Nine to Five, Code of

1042
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 1: Mini Colors, and Islands in the Stream with Bonnie Rogers.

1043
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: That Is What Deal. And That's just to name a few.

1044
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 1: And Dolly didn't get where she is without being multitalented.

1045
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 1: There's at least eight instruments we know of that Dolly

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00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: can play, including the banjo, saxophone, guitar, and piano. Dolly

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Speaker 1: Parton didn't always have things easy, though. She grew up

1048
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Speaker 1: very poor and was one of twelve kids. During her

1049
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: first performance on the syndicated television show The Porter Wagner Show,

1050
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Speaker 1: she was booed offstage. And now she's been married to

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Speaker 1: her husband Carl Dean for fifty five years. This May,

1052
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Speaker 1: she founded the Imagination Library to make sure kids all

1053
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 1: over had access to books, and that was in honor

1054
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Speaker 1: of her father, who was never able to read her write,

1055
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Speaker 1: and that program has since given out over one hundred

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Speaker 1: and fifty million books. Dolly's ability to have fans of

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Speaker 1: all walks of life and continually inspire those fans is

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Speaker 1: what makes her legendary, but not only that. She turned

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Speaker 1: down Elvis Presley's request to record one of her famous songs.

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Speaker 1: She's been nominated for a Grammy fifty times. She wrote

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Speaker 1: her first song at the age of five, and she

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Speaker 1: holds two Guinness World Records. I Totally stand Dolly parton

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Speaker 1: There Is God and wrapping up our presentations today, lunchbox.

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Speaker 1: Are you doing someone by the name of Anime Bullock? Okay, yeah, okay, Also, yeah,

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Speaker 1: here we go hit it. Let me introduce you to

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Speaker 1: Anime Bullock. Oh you don't know that name? Does the name?

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Speaker 1: Tina Turner ring a bell? That's right for a nut

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Speaker 1: push shitty Tennessee, the one, the only Tina Turner. She

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Speaker 1: wants to teach all of you women, and all you kids,

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Speaker 1: and all you people out there. If you want something,

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Speaker 1: you go get it. She was in a club in

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Speaker 1: Saint Louis. She sees Ike's band up there. She's like,

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Speaker 1: I want to sing. She goes up, Dike says, let

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Speaker 1: me sing on that mic. He goes, yeah, yeah, I'll

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Speaker 1: call you. He never calls, so during intermission, she gets

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Speaker 1: on the mic and sings, and Ike's like, this girl's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Says you're gonna be in my band. And then Ike

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Speaker 1: writes a song for another dude and they go to

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Speaker 1: the studio to record it. The guy never shows up,

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Speaker 1: and Tina Turner says, I'll sing it, sings it, and

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Speaker 1: that's what gets him the record deal. It was supposed

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Speaker 1: to be a demo and it was just just supposed

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Speaker 1: to be thrown in the trash. Ike and Tina the review.

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Speaker 1: They go on to have huge success, make Grammys, they're

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Speaker 1: nominated for the Rock and Rail Roll Hall of Fame.

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Speaker 1: But but Ike is a jerk, abusive. He beats Tina

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Speaker 1: and she's tired of it. So finally, one night they

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Speaker 1: land in Dallas. On the way of the hotel, he

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Speaker 1: beats her. She sneaks out of the hotel and hides

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Speaker 1: and she files for divorce, and she walks into that

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Speaker 1: courtroom and she says, I don't want any of the money.

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Speaker 1: I don't want the houses. All I want is my name.

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Speaker 1: And Ike Turner had trademarked Tina Turner, so she wasn't

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Speaker 1: gonna be able to get it. That's all I want

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01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 1: because I want to be able to perform. And she

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Speaker 1: got the name, and for seven years she performed at

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Speaker 1: hotels and things that she was just a novelty act.

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Speaker 1: Then she hits it out of the park with Let's

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Speaker 1: Stay Together. She does the cover that Whoa, she does

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Speaker 1: Private Dancer. Two weeks she makes the album. She goes

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Speaker 1: on to sell overall hundred million records. Do you understand

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Speaker 1: She's gonna gettest Buck a world record? She was performing

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Speaker 1: for one hundred and eighty thousand people in Brazil, the

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Speaker 1: most ever for a single artist at that time. She

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Speaker 1: is one of the greatest of all time. Twelve Grammy Awards.

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Speaker 1: She was the first female and first black artist on

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Speaker 1: the cover Rolling Stone. So if you want something, you

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Speaker 1: go get it. That is Tina Turner. And I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: cry there it is Shuck Wait laughing because he loves

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Speaker 1: Tina Turner and he always has, and I loved seeing him.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you guys, there wasn't a lot written down

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Speaker 1: in front of him. That was all well, obviously because

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Speaker 1: in time, I guess about four minutes long. Her her

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Speaker 1: tour in nineteen eighty eight over four million fans, the

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Speaker 1: most ever for a female artist, saying, hey, Scuba, we've

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Speaker 1: been trying to get Tina Turner for like my years. Listen, listen,

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Speaker 1: and no one's been at it. We've tried to get

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Speaker 1: her for fifteen years. I don't know. I didn't know this.

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Speaker 1: I'll get her on if you're okay with it, I'll

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Speaker 1: put her on the show. Would love to have her on.

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Speaker 1: Try not success for years, Okay, I'll do it. Listen.

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Speaker 1: She has the thing on HBO Max coming out, and

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Speaker 1: she's up for the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame

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Speaker 1: if we can get her on. Well, that's true, that

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Speaker 1: HBO Max thing may actually be, oh my gosh, a

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Speaker 1: way in to go. We'd like to interview her. Can

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Speaker 1: I at least ask one question? Though? When she comes on?

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Speaker 1: That's it with International Women's Day on The Bobby Bone

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Speaker 1: Show with Amy Brown. So I became a mom three

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Speaker 1: years ago when I adopted two kids from Haiti, And

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Speaker 1: as for my thirteen year old daughter, I really hope

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Speaker 1: that our relationship builds up herself of steam. Like I

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Speaker 1: want her to know that she has loved, that she

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Speaker 1: is awesome, and that she has the ability to grow

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Speaker 1: up and do anything she wants. I also wanted to

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Speaker 1: know that I'm always in her corner and she'll never

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Speaker 1: have to be alone. And you know, that's what I

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Speaker 1: want for the women that listen to our show, Like,

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Speaker 1: whatever they're going through, I don't want them to feel alone.

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Speaker 1: I want to empower them by sharing and highlighting other

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Speaker 1: women's stories, stories of perseverance that offer a lot of

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Speaker 1: hope international. On The Bobby Bones Show. Okay, on The

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Speaker 1: Bobby Bones Show now, Kendra Scott so super excited to

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Speaker 1: be joined right now by fashion designer and TV personality

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Speaker 1: Kendra Scott. Hey, Kendra, Hey, Amy, how are you? I'm

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Speaker 1: doing good now? Kinder Scott joins Forbes lists of America's

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Speaker 1: richest self made women thanks to her fast growing jewelry line.

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Speaker 1: And Kendra, I remember listening to your episode with Guy

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Speaker 1: Raza on How I Built This and I was just

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Speaker 1: so fascinated. Plus being that I was born and raised

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Speaker 1: in Austin. I knew of your line early early on,

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Speaker 1: so I feel like I've watched your business grow and

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01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 1: it makes me think about my daughter because she loves

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Speaker 1: to make bracelets and she gets so excited when they

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Speaker 1: sell out online and she uses what she makes to,

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Speaker 1: you know, buy supplies, and then keeps a little for

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Speaker 1: her hard work, and then she donates the rest to

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Speaker 1: the orphanage that she grew up in Haiti. So I'm

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Speaker 1: just curious what advice that you would give young girls

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Speaker 1: that want to start their own business. Well, first of all,

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Speaker 1: I want to hire your daughter, so we got to

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Speaker 1: work on We got to work on, Matt. She absolutely

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Speaker 1: sounds like an amazing girl. Oh my goodness. You must

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Speaker 1: be so proud of her amy. You know, I think,

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Speaker 1: first of all, you have to do something you love, right,

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Speaker 1: you got to be passionate about it. You've got to

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Speaker 1: be excited, And I think that's key. You know, I

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Speaker 1: just invested on the last Shark Tank episode in this

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Speaker 1: amazing seventeen year old girl who started a sauce company

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Speaker 1: called Enna Sauce. And she started making her sauces when

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Speaker 1: she was just eight years old. So you're never too

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Speaker 1: young to start. And if you've got a dream, you've

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Speaker 1: got a great idea, you know, go for it and

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01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 1: try to do something that no one else is doing.

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Speaker 1: You know, I always say he just erupted and that

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Speaker 1: there's no dream that's too big. You know, I started

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Speaker 1: with five hundred dollars out of my extra bedroom, making

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Speaker 1: everything by hand, selling my product door to door. No

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Speaker 1: way in a million bazillion years would I have thought

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Speaker 1: you would have just said the words you said that

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Speaker 1: I am one of Forbes's richest self made women. At

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Speaker 1: the time, I was just hoping to pay my rent amy,

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Speaker 1: So don't you know, don't think your dream is too big? Truly.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm a I'm here to say that, you know, truly,

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Speaker 1: anything is possible. And Kendrell, what made you decide to

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Speaker 1: encourage philanthropy? You know, I mentioned that my daughter likes

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Speaker 1: to donate back to the orphanage in Haiti, But you've

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Speaker 1: made philanthropy is one of your core values of your company,

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Speaker 1: So why was that super important to you? You know,

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Speaker 1: I lost my stepfather to brain cancer when I was

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01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:48,000
Speaker 1: just a junior in high school. He was diagnosed and

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Speaker 1: from that moment, my whole life changed. You know, I

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01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 1: realized how precious life was, and he was such an

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Speaker 1: example of helping others and really enforcing to me that

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Speaker 1: we have a short time on this and while we're here,

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Speaker 1: we need to do something good, we need to make

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Speaker 1: a positive impact. And so my first company I started,

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Speaker 1: I did headwear for women undergoing chemotherapy, men and women

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Speaker 1: because of him. He inspired me to do that. And

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Speaker 1: when that business didn't work out the way I wanted

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Speaker 1: it to and I started my jewelry line, I knew

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Speaker 1: that for me success would mean to be able to

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Speaker 1: make a difference in the world. That when I sit

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Speaker 1: on my front porch, you know, at eighty ninety years old,

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01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:31,080
Speaker 1: that I wanted to look back and know that I

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Speaker 1: did something good, that I helped people around me and

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Speaker 1: I made a difference. And that's how we measure success

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01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:40,400
Speaker 1: at Kendri Scott and that's for all of us. And

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Speaker 1: so from day one, you know, I was making necklaces.

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Speaker 1: It's a charity called for a silent auction because that's

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Speaker 1: what I could do. I couldn't write a big check

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Speaker 1: because I didn't have the money in my account to

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Speaker 1: do that. But now as we've grown. Over the last

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Speaker 1: nineteen years, we've been able to do both. We've been

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Speaker 1: able to show up physically build homes for people through

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Speaker 1: Habitat for Humanity. We've been able to give large research

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Speaker 1: grants to breast cancer research foundations. We're able to help

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01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 1: local communities by you know, saying like, look, if there

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01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 1: a flood, is there a hurricane, how can we come

1220
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Speaker 1: in and help you locally? So since twenty ten, we've

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01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:21,840
Speaker 1: given forty million dollars AMY to women's and children's charities,

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Speaker 1: which is, like, I think, for me, the biggest number.

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Speaker 1: I'm the most proud of what we're doing, which just

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Speaker 1: blows me away. No, it's truly amazing. I love that.

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Speaker 1: And can you share with our listeners about the hashtag

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Speaker 1: choose to challenge for International Women's Day. I would love

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Speaker 1: to hear more about that. Yeah. Absolutely, Well, first of all,

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Speaker 1: you know what a day. It's never been a better

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Speaker 1: time to be a woman. And I think it's so

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Speaker 1: important that you know, we really do challenge ourselves to

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Speaker 1: try to do more. And I always say that as women,

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Speaker 1: when we hold hands, when we stand together and lift

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Speaker 1: each other up, we've got, you know, stopping breaking those

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01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 1: barriers of putting each other down, right, It's time to

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Speaker 1: lift each other up, fulled hands, support each other. And

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Speaker 1: when we do that, we're unstoppable. Right now, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm challenging myself to help raise the amount of venture

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Speaker 1: capital given to women founded companies. Only seventeen percent of

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Speaker 1: funding goes to women founded companies. That to me is

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Speaker 1: just not okay. And so my challenge is that I

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01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 1: want to see that change. And even with my exposure

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Speaker 1: on Shark Tanks this season, you'll see I invest it

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01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 1: in a lot. You know, really all female founded companies

1244
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Speaker 1: not just because they were females, because they were the

1245
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 1: best ones there, the greatest ideas, And so I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: I think we all need to choose to challenge ourselves

1247
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:51,599
Speaker 1: in how we can support women, how we can support

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01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: and believe in ourselves as women to really go after

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Speaker 1: our dreams and achieve success and happiness in our lives. So,

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Speaker 1: you know, we want to take beyond conversation this women

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01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:06,400
Speaker 1: empowering women, beyond just talk. So what are some simple

1252
01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 1: things that everyone can do right now to support more women?

1253
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 1: You know, I think that's a really beautiful thing to say.

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01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 1: First of all, be there for each other. Celebrate when

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01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:20,959
Speaker 1: you hear someone have an achievement, another friend, a promotion

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01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:25,000
Speaker 1: at their jobs, they're starting a business. I want to

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Speaker 1: see us women reaching out with celebration, with congratulations, with

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01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:33,800
Speaker 1: again that lifting each other up and showing up for

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Speaker 1: each other. This mentality of being jealous or you know,

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Speaker 1: all of those things. We've got to put those actions

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Speaker 1: outside of our brain. When we put out good, positive energy,

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Speaker 1: it will come back to us. Good things happen to

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Speaker 1: I think that's such an easy thing for us to do.

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Speaker 1: You know, and support local businesses owned by women and

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Speaker 1: do what you can to just go out there and

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Speaker 1: really support them day to day. You know, we have

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Speaker 1: Fight for your higher pay, go in and not be

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Speaker 1: afraid to say I deserve this, I am working hard

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Speaker 1: for this. Use your voice to make a difference in

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Speaker 1: a positive way. Well, Kendra, thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: your encouragement today. If people want to find you on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: you are at Kendra Scott And I'll get my daughter

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Speaker 1: Stush here at a stick a bracelet in the mail

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Speaker 1: for you. Oh, I can't wait. And I've got an

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Speaker 1: Shark Tank later this spring. Don't have a date yet,

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Speaker 1: but should be soon, so I'd love for you guys

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Speaker 1: to watch. It'll be another great one. Oh for sure.

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Speaker 1: We love seeing you on Shark Tank. You've as an

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Speaker 1: Austinite you. I feel like a bond with you, but

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Speaker 1: I know that women all over are definitely cheering you

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Speaker 1: on always. Oh, thank you so much and happy International

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Speaker 1: Women's Say. You are an amazing woman, Amy, and I'm

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Speaker 1: so happy that we could talk today. Awesome. Yeah same

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Speaker 1: here thanks Ken draw Bye bye bye, thank you. International

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Speaker 1: Women's Day on the Bobby Bones Show to see her,

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Speaker 1: hear her event it's happening. So that's on Facebook tonight

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Speaker 1: like our YouTube, Abe YouTube YouTube many Facebook both at

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Speaker 1: eight pm across the board, all time zones. Yes. Also

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Speaker 1: check out the Seneca Women's podcast. One hundred Women's Voice

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Speaker 1: is featured all month on the IR Radio app. Each

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Speaker 1: episode you have from many different women who made a

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Speaker 1: huge impact. They will motivate generations of women to be brave,

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Speaker 1: be bold and be heard. Also got to thank Allergen

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Speaker 1: Aesthetics for supporting us and for supporting women on International

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Speaker 1: Women's Day. All right, we'll see you guys tomorrow by

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