WEBVTT - Respectable Cheating

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeart

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<v Speaker 1>Radio and the Black Effect Network.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with

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<v Speaker 2>an opinion who talks. What's out?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all tuning in for a new episode of We Talk Back,

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<v Speaker 1>a show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.

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<v Speaker 2>This is your co host, A J.

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<v Speaker 1>Holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, Tam Bam?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up y'all? I fucking love y'all, Lass so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Calm down, I do. I was trying to make your energy.

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<v Speaker 2>I sound excited today.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm on my rise coffee, my mushroom coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have me some here in a minute. I

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<v Speaker 2>love my mushroom coffee. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Our weekend was great, but wake your ass.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I'm tired. I'm tied. Listen, I te tied.

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<v Speaker 2>That was a lot my body went through this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing about it. I know my limitations. Tammy be

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<v Speaker 1>pushing it, bitch, listen, limit thinking about what I gotta do. Shit,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a fun filled weekend. This past weekend was

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<v Speaker 1>a Black Effect Podcast Festival, second annual. Okay, yeah, let

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<v Speaker 1>per usual. You know, we only got one other to

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<v Speaker 1>compare it to, and it was great. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see next year, which I might even

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<v Speaker 1>suggest because there was an R and B festival going

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<v Speaker 1>on simultaneously, because my homegirl came to the podcast festival

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<v Speaker 1>and she left and went to this R and B. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we need a stage with some with some music outside

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't I don't feel like that whole outside

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<v Speaker 1>was open like that last year.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because they had the food vendors all on the

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<v Speaker 2>other side. We didn't. It wasn't like that. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>it did split the crowd up a bit exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So that big ass open outside field, they can go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and throw another age out there and throw some music.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe even somebody who already does podcasts can perform their

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and do some songs, like maybe like R and

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<v Speaker 1>B money to do some ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I also think we should move to another city.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think Atlanta is it. I mean it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe another black city like Houston or something like that. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they should move. They definitely shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>it in New York. Remember the first one was supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be in New York. I don't think that would

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<v Speaker 1>have been a good move.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that should have it as Charlotte, so I

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<v Speaker 2>ain't got to travel. Oh that part.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I did suggest that too, So Charlotte. Charlotte definitely

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<v Speaker 1>would be lit.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the same thing. Yeah, it would be It would

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<v Speaker 2>be a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And people from Atlanta would you know, they will travel.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that far. It's not that far, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I spoke to some people and they were alway

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<v Speaker 1>from Ohio. Girl, people was flying in for that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, shout out to a black Effect podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Network and yeah, okay, so there, we booked a we

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<v Speaker 2>booked a party for Sunday emphasis on week and then

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<v Speaker 2>this has been said. You know what I'm gonna do?

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<v Speaker 2>Talk back?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, talk back to your ass later. We ain't doing shit,

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<v Speaker 1>that said tavy ass right on, Like you went home,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's about right. I would have had to drive

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<v Speaker 1>from Atlanta to Charlotte and then back to Charleston.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was too much. Ire y'all was like, y'all

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<v Speaker 2>have fun. We did have a great time. It was

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<v Speaker 2>a good it was a good old time. But now

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sleeping for two days straight. You gotta we need

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<v Speaker 2>to recuperate. Yeah, but it was good time, good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen y'all, we did go to the strip club this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited when.

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<v Speaker 1>We go to the strip club, okay, because I only

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<v Speaker 1>go like once every ten weeks or some shit.

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<v Speaker 2>You looked excited to go in early, but then about

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<v Speaker 2>after twenty minutes to be in there, you looked over it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was I was over, yeah, because I didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>the fucking sit down. Bit ch'all was standing up in

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<v Speaker 1>that little ass hot box they had.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you was standing while you here. I told you

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<v Speaker 2>could sit on my lap.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, you'd had to throw some ones on the side.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch. I had enough. I can't listen. I had enough one.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't one of the ones who threw my one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and then said no more.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, give me another, give me another, Can

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<v Speaker 2>I have another? I know I threw at least six

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<v Speaker 2>hundred dollars by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I kept asking for a stack of one. This bitch

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to rotate the hose that was in it. All

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<v Speaker 1>of them bitches wanted to rotate the hose. Girl, I

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<v Speaker 1>was giving that money out. Just the only one who

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<v Speaker 1>said something. I was like, Chola, man, let's rotate these bitches.

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<v Speaker 2>Man new Batch y'all black women, black people. Nuts.

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<v Speaker 1>Dog. I feel like I feel like y'all motherfuckers was

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<v Speaker 1>discriminating a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>On the light skinned girls, not even the lap I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. I I just feel like we've had the

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<v Speaker 2>light skined strippers be celebrated since I can remember. I

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<v Speaker 2>just wanted some chocolate in there, right, and jocolate is

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<v Speaker 2>so nice? Okay, No, no shade to the light skinned strippers.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, in Puerto Rican strippers, they's beautiful too, But

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to see some chocolates. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm such a data analyst, Like I really be analyzing

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<v Speaker 1>the weirdest shit and the weirdest places. All I could

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<v Speaker 1>think about was like, damn, this is a whole new,

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<v Speaker 1>fresh batch of hoes like.

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<v Speaker 2>They mama probably used to worry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about the girls that get up on a

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<v Speaker 1>pole and do all the things like how do you like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you know you coming from high school to

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<v Speaker 1>go do this?

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<v Speaker 2>Like what were you? Were you a dancer in high school?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what was y'all doing to prepare to be swinging

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<v Speaker 1>from the ceiling and magic City?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, how does that happen? They probably learned all that

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<v Speaker 2>shit there you think so that they look early twenties

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<v Speaker 2>like y'all. Yeah, but they strong, they young, they susceptible

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<v Speaker 2>the information. I'm sure they understand learned how to do

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<v Speaker 2>it real information very very but listen, I turned around.

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<v Speaker 2>This girl. She did something amazing. She bent over and

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<v Speaker 2>put her one leg straight up in the air, and

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<v Speaker 2>they was like, timmy, look, I turned around, y'all was

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<v Speaker 2>a pussy right eye level with my face. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I didn't mean to be that close.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't like that. I ain't like that. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want that. I'm cool. I'm cool. I'm cool, but I

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<v Speaker 2>just have I always wanted to understand the psychology behind

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<v Speaker 2>being able to be fully naked in public and not

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<v Speaker 2>feel shame or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's all I was thinking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'd be feeling shame when my titties a sitting

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<v Speaker 2>upright in my dress. I don't know, man, on the

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<v Speaker 2>level of is it confidence or is it something else?

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm trying to understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I mean, they was drinking just as much liquor

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<v Speaker 1>as us. So do y'all get drunk to do this?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have to be on drugs to do this

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<v Speaker 1>is this really you?

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<v Speaker 2>You know? Right? So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you watch the movies and you see the

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<v Speaker 1>girls they be on cocaine all that shit in the back,

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<v Speaker 1>like they gotta get high in order to do their job.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't ever want to be doing nothing in life

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<v Speaker 1>that I can't do one hundred percent. So I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure there's some women in their sober Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't do nothing, and then they're just having a great time, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and they feel empowered or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's two different types of strippers. It's some

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<v Speaker 1>that gotta do it and some that you know, do

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<v Speaker 1>it because they like.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe we should get a camera behind me and I

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<v Speaker 2>be a strip of a day. I'd be the worst

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<v Speaker 2>stripper though. I'll be up there doing a robot and ship.

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<v Speaker 2>They be like, just been over bit, are you.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna hear some fucking knees that need oil and bitch

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of shit.

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<v Speaker 2>My knees is good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the hip, is that right, hire that you hear crack?

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<v Speaker 2>So they ain't gonna be able to hear it over

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<v Speaker 2>the music. Let's get it to says y'all big Lotto.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, y'all, Ship in front of y'all man, I

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<v Speaker 1>sneak downstairs. She's asking, do y'all ship in front of

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<v Speaker 1>your man? Or do y'all go in another room? What

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<v Speaker 1>should be doing?

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, everybody ain't got no downstairs Lotto, so

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<v Speaker 2>some of these motherfuckers got one bathroom. Okay, but listen,

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I was gonna say, yeah, send us some money

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<v Speaker 1>for a downstairs. You remember a couple of weeks ago

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<v Speaker 1>she sent this girl some money for her rent because

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<v Speaker 1>Lotto has said something. And the girl was like, now, Lotto,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody don't got that. She was like, oh, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>How much your runners? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we need to down build on.

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<v Speaker 1>Top of our ship. We need to upstairs build us

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<v Speaker 1>up because the.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck I used to at some point I was with

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<v Speaker 2>my last boyfriend. We were together like four or five years,

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<v Speaker 2>and at some point I got comfortable enough to shit.

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<v Speaker 2>But in the first maybe two years, no, and it

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<v Speaker 2>used to be such a painful experience. I used to

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<v Speaker 2>have to like send it. I said, can you gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get me some ice cream? Ice cream? Right now? Please

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<v Speaker 2>go go, like just trying to get that one fuck

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<v Speaker 2>out of the house. I can take a poop and

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<v Speaker 2>He finally caught on that I was trying to avoid

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<v Speaker 2>like pooping around him, and he had to sit me

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<v Speaker 2>down and be like, bro, stop sending me places just

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<v Speaker 2>so you can use the bathroom. You're a human, are we, bitch?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm still nothing. Maybe I get that from my mama,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like she ain't never.

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<v Speaker 2>Poop or.

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse me poop or poop in front of my daddy.

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<v Speaker 1>Cause I don't even want to say farnt fart for

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<v Speaker 1>this bitch to be trying to correct my uh.

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<v Speaker 2>Ain't no internet words as up anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I can't do it, not even far like I

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<v Speaker 1>only farn't when I am unconscious, like in my fucking sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>I might let one out and it might wait me up,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm not just intentionally letting loose. Fra Once, when I.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell you I stayed at her house one, you feel

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<v Speaker 2>like your ruins the intimessey.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I was about to say, like I had

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<v Speaker 1>a friend who I watched her, continued, I mean, just

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<v Speaker 1>just a weekend, I'm at her house. She just is sparting,

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<v Speaker 1>like letting loose, letting loose, and I'm looking at her, nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, yo, like that does to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want my man super ripping it off all the

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<v Speaker 1>damn time. I don't like it, and close the door

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<v Speaker 1>when you're taking a shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to see that, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to smell it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like man. I almost end up in a

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<v Speaker 2>hospital on some shit like that. Me my my ex boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 2>not the last one, but the one prior to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Me and him in his home his cousin, which was

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<v Speaker 2>also a man. We went to the outlets in Myrtle

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<v Speaker 2>Beach from Columbia, so that's like what two and a

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<v Speaker 2>half hour drive or something like that. We stopped at

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<v Speaker 2>McDonald's to get some breakfast. I got the steak bagel

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<v Speaker 2>had just come out. I was like, I'm gonna try that, baby,

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<v Speaker 2>that shit ball my stuff up. About forty five minutes

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<v Speaker 2>to the round, I had to fart so bad, but

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<v Speaker 2>there's no way I'm farting in front of these two men,

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<v Speaker 2>So I held my fart and by the time we

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<v Speaker 2>made it to the beach, I needed to go to

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<v Speaker 2>the emergency room. It felt like I was having a

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<v Speaker 2>heart attack. Gas was all up in my chest and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>We were and we were going to the outlet, and

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<v Speaker 2>I knew he was gonna buy me stuff, but I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't even get out the car. I stayed in the

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<v Speaker 2>car while they went shopped, and I just laid there

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<v Speaker 2>and farted for like forty minutes. This really happened. I

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<v Speaker 2>was so miserable. I couldn't move.

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<v Speaker 1>That crazy of some farns just stuck to my body

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<v Speaker 1>like that, like I'll wait in ta take a shower.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna close the door. And I burned incense like

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<v Speaker 1>that kid that cuts the smell immediately, right if I

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<v Speaker 1>got to do it while he is home. But I

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<v Speaker 1>try to let all my poops and poops out on

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga go home.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do it. Eventually, I had to. Eventually, I

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<v Speaker 2>had to just be a human being.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>So you never be. You ain't never been. Like, can

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<v Speaker 2>you pass me tissue? Like you realized there was no

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<v Speaker 2>rong chuck?

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<v Speaker 1>No, actually no, I want to make sure I got

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<v Speaker 1>all my things. I don't want to have to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I don't want to have to, but it

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<v Speaker 2>has happened. I'm a cat.

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<v Speaker 1>Cats literally cove it, shut up and hide it. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>fucking dogs. Leave y'all shit out for people to see him. Smell, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>give me a row, please out the cabinet, ask it

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<v Speaker 1>to me, because what I'm gonna do?

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<v Speaker 2>Shut up? All right? So Diddy's daughter Chance looks so

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful attending her prom with Branson Bailey and he is

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<v Speaker 2>the younger brother of Chloe and Halle Bailey. And they

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<v Speaker 2>looked very beautiful. They looked very like simple and elegant prom.

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<v Speaker 2>And one of the comments AJ is there with hard

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<v Speaker 2>eyes under the picture, and then right under that there's

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<v Speaker 2>a person that says, see how people with actual money

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<v Speaker 2>do prom. She didn't need a camel, a ski mask

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<v Speaker 2>on a yacht, a step squad to introduce her. Just

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<v Speaker 2>be broke as hell and tacky for no reason. Laughing faces.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, I disagree, I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, pomp and circumstance your shit, because a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>times these young people are a chance. I promise you

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<v Speaker 2>Chance and Branson probably been on the yacht. They probably

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<v Speaker 2>can go ride a camel on their family vacations. They

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<v Speaker 2>at least some of these people don't get to experience

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<v Speaker 2>none of that ever in life. Like sometimes prom is

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<v Speaker 2>the only time they'll wear a gown in their entire life.

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<v Speaker 2>Do it big, baby, do it big. Let your people

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<v Speaker 2>celebrate you, because they don't. Because they're rich. They've had

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<v Speaker 2>all these expensive, extravagant experiences, and it's just not fair

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<v Speaker 2>to judge people who don't get to have that this

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<v Speaker 2>one day. They want to feel like the like the

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<v Speaker 2>rich people.

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<v Speaker 1>You saying that, but you are the one who has

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<v Speaker 1>have been sending me these people proms over done and

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<v Speaker 1>talking shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Why I feel so bad?

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<v Speaker 1>I talked shit to you about the jerseys being like

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<v Speaker 1>a big gaudy but I wouldn't say I wouldn't either

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<v Speaker 1>of them, like, don't do this. This is because this

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<v Speaker 1>is for you and you may not get to experience

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<v Speaker 1>this again. A lot of these you can see the

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<v Speaker 1>project building in the back, you know, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>And that is maybe problem.

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<v Speaker 1>They are in the projects because the parents are not

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<v Speaker 1>prioritizing what is actually important. You can say, like this

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<v Speaker 1>may be the only time they can do this. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not true. Those children got their whole life ahead of them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Like, why go in debt

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<v Speaker 1>for this one event when you already don't fucking have it?

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<v Speaker 1>That is the point the people who actually have the

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<v Speaker 1>money are doing the simplest of things. And yes they

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<v Speaker 1>may have had those other experiences, but this is a

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<v Speaker 1>high school PM. Why y'all got horses? Not the one

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<v Speaker 1>little girl who had the horse her and her boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it was fire, that was flies, hell, dress

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<v Speaker 1>was regular black. Nice that was and that probably didn't

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<v Speaker 1>cost much just to get a horse to pull up

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<v Speaker 1>in some cameras. But some of that shit I'm seeing.

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<v Speaker 1>They gotta have a lambbo they got Come on, man.

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<v Speaker 2>The dance crew coming out. They'll walk you out.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember seeing a post guy posted asking if he

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<v Speaker 1>was wrong because he's co parenting with his son's mom

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<v Speaker 1>and the son mom is trying to go all out

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<v Speaker 1>for his prom. He she wants to get this, get that,

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<v Speaker 1>and the daddy's like, listen, I don't have all that

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<v Speaker 1>money to spend on prom, and I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>wise that you're doing it either. She basically call him

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<v Speaker 1>a broke ass nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not cool. He's not a broke ass nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>If he's trying to, like really prioritiz like y'all want

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<v Speaker 1>to live it out for this one fucking day. What

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<v Speaker 1>happens next week when you're renting you and all this shit,

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<v Speaker 1>like what type of money.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you tying to put yourself out? But look, I say,

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<v Speaker 2>you put yourself out of your hat.

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<v Speaker 1>But look at the proms and the things that these

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<v Speaker 1>kids are having for the for this one day.

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<v Speaker 2>I can appreciate it because they feel very special. They

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<v Speaker 2>feel special on this one day. Maybe they ain't never

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<v Speaker 2>got to feel like that before.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all for social media. It's all for social media.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the parents doing it for social media. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>kids doing it for social media. Y'all doing the most

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<v Speaker 1>for no reasons. One prom you got college coming up hopefully,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all all motherfuckers is going to college?

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<v Speaker 2>What type of.

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<v Speaker 1>Money are the millennials making that they can afford this

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<v Speaker 1>type of shit for these kids?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I don't got no kids and not be broken

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<v Speaker 2>as hell? What is fucking happening?

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<v Speaker 1>If you wanted to rent a camel tomorrow, you could

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<v Speaker 1>rent a camel, sit your ass down.

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<v Speaker 2>And I wouldn't bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I like furniture and shit like that, like other things

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<v Speaker 1>I can have for longer than a day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, I mean I get what I understand exactly

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<v Speaker 2>what you're saying. But I can understand why a parents

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<v Speaker 2>would want to do the most for their baby on

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<v Speaker 2>they one prom. Maybe their mama didn't even get to

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<v Speaker 2>go to prom.

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<v Speaker 1>I do like, still wouldn't I'd be exciting when my

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<v Speaker 1>like my youngest niece, she's ready for prom just this Saturday,

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<v Speaker 1>and I helped her get her dress and all that stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's enough excitement for me, and she's happy. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>like all this extra shit is fucking wild to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And guess what all you're doing is ready and your

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<v Speaker 1>damn daughter to get smashed tonight. Also, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>I gave her a car, all the things, she got

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<v Speaker 1>everything she need.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, she gonna get. She gonna get smashed in a

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<v Speaker 2>regular dress or that fancy dress. So I just wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>get a dolled up Yo.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just too much, man, it's just too much.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you have sex after your prom?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't go to prom.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't go to prom because you know, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a mom who doesn't see the importance of that type

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<v Speaker 1>of shit. She don't think like weddings are necessary, she

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<v Speaker 1>don't think baby showers are necessary. She didn't think prom

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<v Speaker 1>is necessary. She was like, if you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to prom, you gotta buy your own prom dress. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't hear a prom. Yeah, so what my nieces done? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I make sure I show up for them and I

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<v Speaker 1>could see them off the prom because I never.

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<v Speaker 2>Went, I don't do. I regret it.

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<v Speaker 1>Another problem, y'all, my big fucking young ass was talking

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<v Speaker 1>to old ass niggas. So these niggas was not in

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<v Speaker 1>high school to even go to prom with me. Another

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<v Speaker 1>part fast I was just so.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like a prom whore. I went to every nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to all the high school's proms with different niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about from freshman year up. Like I was

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<v Speaker 2>just prom prom prom. I loved it. That was my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite pastime in the spring Well, Richland Spring Valley. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to everybody's prom.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But I used to get the boy to buy my dress.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been getting tricked down since fourteen, That's what she said.

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<v Speaker 2>Dress because my mom she was like, I'll buy a

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<v Speaker 2>dress for your prom. That's it. I can't buy a

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<v Speaker 2>dress from every nigga prom in Columbia. So I think

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<v Speaker 2>one time I wore the same dress to two different proms.

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<v Speaker 2>You got a full mottit. Jac's Penny's finest sort, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So look, this is some well all of this shit

0:19:20.119 --> 0:19:24.880
<v Speaker 1>is stupid internet news. So this post online. It actually

0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:28.320
<v Speaker 1>was on Laura le Ross's page. So this girl tweeted

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<v Speaker 1>and said this lady on ig posted an engagement photo

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<v Speaker 1>and that was the first time she had ever posted

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<v Speaker 1>her man. Soon as she posted that shit, the woman

0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:41.080
<v Speaker 1>her fiance had been cheating with contacted her and now

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<v Speaker 1>they are no longer engaged. Now I gotta been guilty

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<v Speaker 1>of that because I don't think when I got engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I posted a candid picture of me and

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<v Speaker 1>him and you see a ring on my finger. I

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<v Speaker 1>never like posted like this my man and had all

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding slew of pictures, you know, because I had

0:19:57.040 --> 0:19:59.600
<v Speaker 1>gotten engaged this person. I remember one of my homegirls

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<v Speaker 1>at the time telling me, oh, my engagement was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be real until I post it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what, what hey? Girl?

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<v Speaker 1>That makes absolutely no fucking sense, because look, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>post it. And the only way y'all know I was

0:20:11.920 --> 0:20:13.760
<v Speaker 1>engaged is because I told y'all. Now, what if I

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<v Speaker 1>had a slew of pictures of this relationship only to

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<v Speaker 1>now not be with the person. That's what happened when

0:20:19.359 --> 0:20:21.160
<v Speaker 1>you post all this shit online.

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<v Speaker 2>So you didn't post him at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I had one picture, maybe two, maybe two pictures and

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<v Speaker 1>that and he had to initiate that. Any relationship I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever been in that work that had any posting, the

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<v Speaker 1>man initiated it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like people in my business, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like bitches coming to me as a woman. Once I

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<v Speaker 1>do post my nigga because I'm coming as a sniper

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<v Speaker 1>every fucking time.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't come to me as a woman. Please, But why

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<v Speaker 2>are you gonna come to her as a sniper? WF

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<v Speaker 2>she think that's her man too? Girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Women be knowing if I'm engaged to this man, that

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<v Speaker 1>means I'm probably I've probably spent every holiday with.

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<v Speaker 2>Him where you've been at.

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<v Speaker 1>No women be knowing, you know what?

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<v Speaker 2>But sometimes niggas are stealthy liars. I was talking to

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<v Speaker 2>this guy and I just was like so smitt with him.

0:21:07.960 --> 0:21:10.479
<v Speaker 2>I thought, Okay, this could be a husband. Right. He

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<v Speaker 2>was successful, he was handsome. I mean it didn't last

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<v Speaker 2>that long, so I probably would have found out eventually,

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<v Speaker 2>But I like we had got drunk one night, I

0:21:19.240 --> 0:21:21.760
<v Speaker 2>hadn't even slept with him yet, right I was holding

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<v Speaker 2>my vagina. Something was just telling me, like, don't rush

0:21:24.760 --> 0:21:27.960
<v Speaker 2>into intimacy in that way. Make out, do some heavy petting.

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<v Speaker 2>But it never did to do. And one night we

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<v Speaker 2>got really drunk together and I said to him, like

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<v Speaker 2>I got like a little emotional, and I just told

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<v Speaker 2>I thanked him for being a good person, Like I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like a lot of men come and try to

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<v Speaker 2>take advantage and I just really need good people in

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<v Speaker 2>my life, So thank you for being that baby. I

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<v Speaker 2>ain't hear from him after that. I didn't know he disappeared.

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<v Speaker 2>He disappeared, and then he came back like months later

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<v Speaker 2>trying to say something to me, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you ghosted me and we were getting along so well,

0:21:59.480 --> 0:22:05.520
<v Speaker 2>like why he was like, I'm married, get married, And he.

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<v Speaker 1>Knew you were getting serious with him, like so.

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<v Speaker 2>He just yeah, And I got all emotional and really

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<v Speaker 2>telling him. But I let him know upfront that I

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<v Speaker 2>was only interested in dating for marriage, so he knew

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<v Speaker 2>that from the beginning, but he.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't on getting that pussy first, and you just was

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<v Speaker 1>taking too long. This is the importance of waiting.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, he was gonna be regardless. Yeah, he was gonna

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<v Speaker 2>ghost me regardless. But I think he developed a little

0:22:33.920 --> 0:22:36.880
<v Speaker 2>bit of a conscience when I was pouring my heart

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<v Speaker 2>out to him and then just was like, man, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just gonna go now. Shame.

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<v Speaker 1>So uh, is it true that you don't know somebody

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<v Speaker 1>until you live with them, or you don't know him

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<v Speaker 1>until you post him on social media?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know until you post them? Baby? Is that

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<v Speaker 2>a whole nothing? So, yes, that's an episode to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be had because I don't I can't imagine and you

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<v Speaker 1>know anytime. That is part of the reason that might

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<v Speaker 1>be one of the reasons why I don't post. I

0:23:03.560 --> 0:23:05.840
<v Speaker 1>don't like people in my business. I'm a very private person.

0:23:05.880 --> 0:23:07.680
<v Speaker 1>Even though we talk a whole lot of shit on here,

0:23:07.800 --> 0:23:10.320
<v Speaker 1>you still only know what I want you to know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So now that is a part of the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like posting people. I remember one time, this

0:23:15.760 --> 0:23:19.080
<v Speaker 1>current nigga. Okay, this is when we were together years ago,

0:23:19.800 --> 0:23:24.040
<v Speaker 1>a bitch came on my page and only liked a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of him.

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<v Speaker 2>Who fuck you playing with? And I'm like, who's this right?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you know her? Yeah? Who the fuck? Is this.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta know this bitch, because why the who the

0:23:40.040 --> 0:23:42.280
<v Speaker 1>fuck comes on a bitch page that only like her?

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<v Speaker 2>Nigga? Listen, I went on a bitch page one time

0:23:45.960 --> 0:23:48.080
<v Speaker 2>and like all her baby show our pictures with my

0:23:48.119 --> 0:23:56.359
<v Speaker 2>ex boyfriends. You petty bitch. Congratulations, bitch, I'm praying for you.

0:23:56.359 --> 0:23:58.399
<v Speaker 2>You're probably forever for real now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, anyway, post your man when y'all feel like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't see the significance of posting relationships

0:24:06.200 --> 0:24:09.600
<v Speaker 1>social media is for me. I'd like for it to

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<v Speaker 1>be more of some business shit, but you know, people

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<v Speaker 1>want to see a life, especially when you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a puppet public.

0:24:17.040 --> 0:24:20.680
<v Speaker 1>About to say puppet figure, a public figure. You said

0:24:20.680 --> 0:24:24.800
<v Speaker 1>it right, exactly, a puppet figure. Yeah. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>see you and what you got going on and who

0:24:27.760 --> 0:24:31.280
<v Speaker 1>you fucking with? Nah, dang your business. So I mean

0:24:31.359 --> 0:24:33.600
<v Speaker 1>she did right, yeah, because when it got serious and

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<v Speaker 1>then now she knows what time it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like when people be posting all their relationship everything.

0:24:38.760 --> 0:24:41.040
<v Speaker 2>We're having ice cream today, we're doing this, or so

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<v Speaker 2>in love and then he just disappeared. No, bitch, you

0:24:43.200 --> 0:24:45.440
<v Speaker 2>need to tell us what happens. We've been to every

0:24:45.520 --> 0:24:49.160
<v Speaker 2>dinner we've been to every lunch. Now I don't know. No,

0:24:49.520 --> 0:24:51.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm fully investigate what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>But how about I can count all the bodies you

0:24:54.960 --> 0:24:58.440
<v Speaker 1>done had the last decade. You're not to every man

0:24:58.560 --> 0:25:01.480
<v Speaker 1>you've ever been with on your soci your media. I'm

0:25:01.520 --> 0:25:04.560
<v Speaker 1>carrying all your body and these the ones we know about, right,

0:25:08.520 --> 0:25:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I just.

0:25:08.880 --> 0:25:10.880
<v Speaker 2>Be I be in person with women who can switch

0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:14.040
<v Speaker 2>boyfriends like panties like and be really like claiming niggas

0:25:14.040 --> 0:25:17.840
<v Speaker 2>publicly so quickly. Who you're talking about me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, y'all, y'all this episode is about.

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<v Speaker 2>Cheating respectfully.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, I love these naggets and niggas live me.

0:25:38.800 --> 0:25:40.399
<v Speaker 2>He was a skill y'all?

0:25:41.040 --> 0:25:44.640
<v Speaker 1>Is there such a thing as respectful cheating? So this

0:25:44.720 --> 0:25:48.280
<v Speaker 1>guy who we didn't she didn't find out about any

0:25:48.320 --> 0:25:51.720
<v Speaker 1>side bitches until she posted. Maybe, like if if there

0:25:51.800 --> 0:25:55.320
<v Speaker 1>was no inkling he was actually cheating at any point,

0:25:55.760 --> 0:25:58.760
<v Speaker 1>maybe he was doing respectfully and maybe this one person

0:25:58.800 --> 0:26:01.520
<v Speaker 1>he just couldn't keep in line enough to keep the

0:26:01.600 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 1>lie going. But I think that most women are more

0:26:05.119 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 1>disappointed in the embarrassment that they feel when other people

0:26:09.880 --> 0:26:12.600
<v Speaker 1>know that they've been cheated on. Right, So is there

0:26:12.760 --> 0:26:17.320
<v Speaker 1>such a thing as respectful cheating. Y'all stay tuned for

0:26:17.359 --> 0:26:20.400
<v Speaker 1>this week's episode. Will be right back after this commercial.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, guys, we're back. All right. So, Ninny Leeks

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<v Speaker 2>did an interview and she said that there's a such

0:26:29.280 --> 0:26:33.119
<v Speaker 2>thing as respectful cheating, and it's when a woman, the

0:26:33.240 --> 0:26:36.120
<v Speaker 2>side chick, stays fifty feet away from the main tie.

0:26:36.640 --> 0:26:38.760
<v Speaker 2>Just fifty rules. I must have missed that. Ye have

0:26:38.920 --> 0:26:42.320
<v Speaker 2>rules fifty feet. They don't take no pictures together, no

0:26:42.440 --> 0:26:47.399
<v Speaker 2>babies or anything that happens. And that was pretty much it,

0:26:47.680 --> 0:26:50.520
<v Speaker 2>Like she just stays very anonymous who says the rules.

0:26:51.800 --> 0:26:54.919
<v Speaker 2>I guess the party's involved. I guess her and not Yanni.

0:26:56.480 --> 0:26:58.199
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know if that's I don't know.

0:26:58.240 --> 0:26:59.440
<v Speaker 2>They be on again, off again.

0:26:59.520 --> 0:27:02.320
<v Speaker 1>Y'all think you what that got? I mean, was he

0:27:02.400 --> 0:27:03.879
<v Speaker 1>not still married when they got together?

0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:09.080
<v Speaker 2>I do not know that part, but I wanted to

0:27:09.080 --> 0:27:12.080
<v Speaker 2>discuss that because that seems to be a thing. Now.

0:27:12.400 --> 0:27:16.840
<v Speaker 1>Is there such thing as respectful cheating? Yes, there is

0:27:16.880 --> 0:27:21.119
<v Speaker 1>such a thing as respectful cheating. I never want to

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:24.479
<v Speaker 1>know that you cheated. If you I don't. Okay, we

0:27:24.520 --> 0:27:27.920
<v Speaker 1>talk about this shit a lot, like being in non

0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:31.919
<v Speaker 1>monogamous relationships. I don't really believe in non monogamy, but

0:27:32.440 --> 0:27:36.040
<v Speaker 1>I believe in honesty. And if you can't be fucking honest, nigga,

0:27:36.160 --> 0:27:39.200
<v Speaker 1>just do it so well that I never know. When

0:27:39.200 --> 0:27:44.119
<v Speaker 1>you start producing kids, Okay, I know all your dirt.

0:27:44.160 --> 0:27:47.680
<v Speaker 1>At that point, you just produced a whole another human being.

0:27:48.640 --> 0:27:51.560
<v Speaker 1>When a bitch is calling the phone, calling the house,

0:27:51.920 --> 0:27:53.320
<v Speaker 1>messaging me from your bed.

0:27:55.040 --> 0:27:58.600
<v Speaker 2>Is okay, man to have a side cheek. No, it's

0:27:58.640 --> 0:27:59.199
<v Speaker 2>not okay.

0:27:59.240 --> 0:28:01.040
<v Speaker 1>But I don't think that we can go through this

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:05.280
<v Speaker 1>life without ever having access to the opposite sex. And

0:28:05.359 --> 0:28:07.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe you and your partner can set a standard like,

0:28:07.800 --> 0:28:11.360
<v Speaker 1>look when we married, but when we turn fifty, we're

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:14.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna have some other people. Maybe it's something like that,

0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 1>but and we know about it. But if you happen

0:28:19.480 --> 0:28:21.920
<v Speaker 1>to get your dick and some shit, I don't want

0:28:21.960 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 1>to know about it. I want you to do it,

0:28:23.920 --> 0:28:30.199
<v Speaker 1>so I don't want to know about that shit. Like

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:34.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to know that you're playing in my face.

0:28:34.400 --> 0:28:35.119
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, ignorance is bliss, that's what you're basically saying.

0:28:38.760 --> 0:28:43.120
<v Speaker 2>But in my opinion, there's no such thing as respectful cheating,

0:28:43.760 --> 0:28:47.000
<v Speaker 2>because once you're cheating, you're disrespecting the fuck out of me.

0:28:47.800 --> 0:28:51.760
<v Speaker 2>Once you're cheating is disrespect I don't think. Because yeah,

0:28:51.800 --> 0:28:54.440
<v Speaker 2>because there's such thing where is twenty twenty four? There's

0:28:54.440 --> 0:28:57.640
<v Speaker 2>such thing as open relationships. If that's what you want,

0:28:58.240 --> 0:29:00.760
<v Speaker 2>share that with me because I can. I can open up.

0:29:01.560 --> 0:29:04.280
<v Speaker 1>I can open up with your baby already. Men can't

0:29:04.280 --> 0:29:06.719
<v Speaker 1>handle the shit they dish. They can't handle it.

0:29:06.760 --> 0:29:07.360
<v Speaker 2>This is true.

0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:10.120
<v Speaker 1>Do I want to not be with my partner because

0:29:10.160 --> 0:29:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I know he can't handle me cheating on him?

0:29:13.040 --> 0:29:16.959
<v Speaker 2>Quarterly? You want to respectfully cheat too? Is that what

0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:19.440
<v Speaker 2>you're saying? Oh? Absolutely?

0:29:19.560 --> 0:29:21.800
<v Speaker 1>So the thing is you want to respectfully do it

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 1>because if I find out I don't leave you because

0:29:24.320 --> 0:29:29.520
<v Speaker 1>of cheating, I am a big tit for tatter. Okay, so, motherfucker,

0:29:29.640 --> 0:29:33.040
<v Speaker 1>if you tip me, I'm aa tat yourt tat tat

0:29:33.120 --> 0:29:35.360
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck? Where movie is that?

0:29:36.200 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't know you? And the movie is that? Y'all?

0:29:39.280 --> 0:29:43.320
<v Speaker 2>Tat tat tat what the fuck? I don't know? Y'all,

0:29:43.360 --> 0:29:45.480
<v Speaker 2>go in the comments, tell us what the movie that is?

0:29:45.600 --> 0:29:47.560
<v Speaker 2>I need y'all to know what if y'all's real, Because

0:29:47.600 --> 0:29:50.200
<v Speaker 2>y'all know that movie. What's the movie? I'm not telling

0:29:50.360 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 2>I want them to gage. Okay, they gonna know, or

0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 2>maybe I'll tell it at the end, but I ain't

0:29:54.280 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 2>gonna tell you now.

0:29:54.960 --> 0:29:57.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So yeah, don't tip me, and I want tat

0:29:57.600 --> 0:30:01.240
<v Speaker 1>If you're faithful, I'll be faithful. If I find out

0:30:01.280 --> 0:30:04.160
<v Speaker 1>you doing some ships, if you do do some shit, right,

0:30:04.840 --> 0:30:06.959
<v Speaker 1>I better never find out about it because I'm not

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:08.040
<v Speaker 1>gonna leave you for jeating.

0:30:08.880 --> 0:30:12.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm listening. Yeah, if you paid for some puzzy, it

0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 2>gotta listen. If they got pussy, they paid for it,

0:30:17.440 --> 0:30:19.760
<v Speaker 2>because listen outside outside, women.

0:30:19.680 --> 0:30:22.280
<v Speaker 1>Just be cheap, okay, is not you?

0:30:23.880 --> 0:30:28.720
<v Speaker 2>You're man for free. You're a man somebody else's man.

0:30:28.800 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 2>Those women want something and they can't have him in

0:30:31.240 --> 0:30:33.440
<v Speaker 2>a real way, so they're gonna want tangible things. It

0:30:33.600 --> 0:30:34.280
<v Speaker 2>just depends.

0:30:34.440 --> 0:30:38.920
<v Speaker 1>Because if he's a scorpio, he definitely and multiple full

0:30:39.040 --> 0:30:43.440
<v Speaker 1>fledged relationships. He is figuring out a way to juggle

0:30:43.480 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 1>his dick between multiple women.

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I just that scares me so bad because I

0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:51.000
<v Speaker 2>just I just be. I have this fear, I really

0:30:51.000 --> 0:30:53.280
<v Speaker 2>have this fear, you guys, that I'm gonna end up

0:30:53.280 --> 0:30:56.040
<v Speaker 2>on snap you know, that show that come on crime TV.

0:30:56.400 --> 0:30:57.760
<v Speaker 1>No, you're not gonna end up on there.

0:30:57.880 --> 0:30:59.880
<v Speaker 2>I have no idea because you don't play with me

0:31:00.120 --> 0:31:04.320
<v Speaker 2>like that because I'm so open and like with the

0:31:04.360 --> 0:31:07.680
<v Speaker 2>ships oftentimes that you can just tell me anything. Don't

0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:11.920
<v Speaker 2>play with me because well everybody be like, yeah, we

0:31:11.960 --> 0:31:14.000
<v Speaker 2>was watching that episode and we talked back and she

0:31:14.080 --> 0:31:16.080
<v Speaker 2>said we was gonna be here evidence.

0:31:16.680 --> 0:31:18.640
<v Speaker 1>They're gonna have your ass rerun it on YouTube, just

0:31:18.640 --> 0:31:22.280
<v Speaker 1>like the young thug trout Yo, niggas, it's.

0:31:22.200 --> 0:31:25.560
<v Speaker 2>Tuning in every day to me. Just tell me the truth,

0:31:25.840 --> 0:31:27.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, because and I'm being.

0:31:27.480 --> 0:31:32.280
<v Speaker 1>There as a witness, like, man, listen, it was it break.

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:35.800
<v Speaker 1>She ain't do it with a body because I didn't

0:31:35.840 --> 0:31:37.640
<v Speaker 1>help you hide it with a body.

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:41.000
<v Speaker 2>Man, Y'll help you hide a body, just so y'all.

0:31:41.400 --> 0:31:44.040
<v Speaker 2>So I just don't. I don't believe in cheating, respectfully,

0:31:44.080 --> 0:31:47.360
<v Speaker 2>there's no such thing. There's just cheating and you just slick.

0:31:48.320 --> 0:31:50.719
<v Speaker 1>But what how would you feel if your mate actually

0:31:50.760 --> 0:31:53.280
<v Speaker 1>came to you and say, hey, I want to I

0:31:53.360 --> 0:31:55.840
<v Speaker 1>met this person. You know, you know I wanted that

0:31:55.880 --> 0:31:58.680
<v Speaker 1>business trip two weeks ago and I met a really

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 1>nice No, I want to say two weeks let's say

0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:04.240
<v Speaker 1>four months ago. Okay, I met a woman on a

0:32:04.280 --> 0:32:07.120
<v Speaker 1>flight four months ago. You know we have been chatting

0:32:07.240 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 1>up a little bit. You know, sometimes we have problems.

0:32:09.880 --> 0:32:12.080
<v Speaker 1>I can't every come I can't always come to the

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:14.640
<v Speaker 1>problem with the problem. So I've been chatting it up

0:32:14.680 --> 0:32:18.360
<v Speaker 1>with her, and you know, I want to fuck her.

0:32:19.880 --> 0:32:22.200
<v Speaker 2>How would you take that? All? Right? First, I would

0:32:22.440 --> 0:32:26.520
<v Speaker 2>want to exercise the understanding that we have a problem,

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:29.600
<v Speaker 2>but I'm not the problem. Let's attect. Let's discover what

0:32:29.680 --> 0:32:32.240
<v Speaker 2>the problem is and attact that. Don't view me as

0:32:32.240 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 2>the problem. There's an issue, right, and let's fix that.

0:32:34.960 --> 0:32:38.720
<v Speaker 2>But that's what a coincidence that you met you met

0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:44.040
<v Speaker 2>someone four months ago? Because in my DM there's this

0:32:44.080 --> 0:32:47.920
<v Speaker 2>guy let him this is just one of them. But

0:32:48.000 --> 0:32:49.920
<v Speaker 2>he's been at me for four months and I've been

0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:52.920
<v Speaker 2>ignoring him. But he looks great. So if that's what

0:32:53.200 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 2>something you want to explore, we can do that. But

0:32:56.880 --> 0:32:59.320
<v Speaker 2>if you're not okay with me exploring, please don't try to.

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:05.640
<v Speaker 1>You know, Nigga gonna beat you up, Christopher Columbus baby,

0:33:05.960 --> 0:33:08.760
<v Speaker 1>because that will be the Nina, the Santa, every and

0:33:08.840 --> 0:33:13.400
<v Speaker 1>every other boat there is. So they can't take it,

0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 1>but I I if it happens, if one night. You know,

0:33:18.800 --> 0:33:20.720
<v Speaker 1>this is why I'm a firm believer in Like, you know,

0:33:20.760 --> 0:33:24.280
<v Speaker 1>when you you cohabitate with somebody, maybe y'all are married,

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:27.080
<v Speaker 1>living in the same space, don't ever put your nigga out.

0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:31.920
<v Speaker 1>There are so many quality women like you literally sending

0:33:31.960 --> 0:33:34.440
<v Speaker 1>your man to somebody else's house when you be like,

0:33:34.560 --> 0:33:38.920
<v Speaker 1>get out for us. You know, the pigas is very slim,

0:33:39.080 --> 0:33:41.480
<v Speaker 1>so it's always a bitch and the cut somewhere right?

0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:47.040
<v Speaker 2>What was that Beyonce song? Exactly let you Go? Exactly?

0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:48.920
<v Speaker 1>That's if I help you build some ship.

0:33:49.040 --> 0:33:51.240
<v Speaker 2>Like what if he's a good dude, Yeah, if he's

0:33:51.240 --> 0:33:53.280
<v Speaker 2>a good dude. All right, So what was that movie?

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:55.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if y'all saw that movie. It was

0:33:56.080 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 2>with Channon Tatum and the white girl I can't remember.

0:34:00.400 --> 0:34:02.680
<v Speaker 2>She real pretty and they were in a car accident

0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:05.880
<v Speaker 2>in the snow. They were married, and she lost her

0:34:05.920 --> 0:34:09.359
<v Speaker 2>whole memory and she could not remember her husband. And

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:13.560
<v Speaker 2>she eventually remembered that her father had sex with her

0:34:13.600 --> 0:34:16.319
<v Speaker 2>homegirl and that's why she ran away. And then she

0:34:16.400 --> 0:34:20.880
<v Speaker 2>came back to her mom. Yeah, and she was like, Mom,

0:34:21.000 --> 0:34:23.520
<v Speaker 2>how did you not leave him. Why wouldn't you leave him?

0:34:23.520 --> 0:34:25.919
<v Speaker 2>Like that's so weak of you not to leave him

0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 2>for that. And she was like, I analyzed over the

0:34:29.760 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 2>last thirty years, and I realized how much good he

0:34:34.239 --> 0:34:37.600
<v Speaker 2>had done, and I couldn't let the one bad mistake

0:34:37.640 --> 0:34:41.200
<v Speaker 2>he made outweigh all the good things he had done

0:34:41.560 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 2>throughout our life. And that's why I chose to stay.

0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:47.040
<v Speaker 2>And that shit was like so profound for me. I

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:49.560
<v Speaker 2>was like, wait, because a lot of women leave for

0:34:49.640 --> 0:34:52.279
<v Speaker 2>that one infraction even though a nigga done provided them.

0:34:52.320 --> 0:34:55.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean a man. I gotta stop saying a nigga,

0:34:55.360 --> 0:34:58.440
<v Speaker 2>a man has provided them such a good lifestyle and

0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:00.720
<v Speaker 2>all these things, and he makes it it's one infraction

0:35:00.840 --> 0:35:04.279
<v Speaker 2>and then they leave. But sometimes that's people's deal breakers.

0:35:04.760 --> 0:35:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like I have one of my cousins, I mean,

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:09.960
<v Speaker 1>her baby daddy cheated on her one time girl and

0:35:10.040 --> 0:35:12.799
<v Speaker 1>she literally had a whole apartment the next week and

0:35:12.920 --> 0:35:14.960
<v Speaker 1>never looked back. She married so a whole other man.

0:35:15.040 --> 0:35:18.719
<v Speaker 2>Now is she happier? I mean, I don't know.

0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:23.680
<v Speaker 1>I just remembered when she first met her baby daddy

0:35:23.719 --> 0:35:25.239
<v Speaker 1>and how she was talking about I remember I was

0:35:25.239 --> 0:35:28.359
<v Speaker 1>in town and Charleston this was years ago.

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:30.440
<v Speaker 2>How she was like talking about him.

0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:31.800
<v Speaker 1>She was like, girl, that's my husband, this and that

0:35:31.920 --> 0:35:33.719
<v Speaker 1>and third like they didn't get married, but they did

0:35:34.040 --> 0:35:36.480
<v Speaker 1>produce a very beautiful young lady and she's about to

0:35:36.480 --> 0:35:40.960
<v Speaker 1>graduate from high school now. But one thing, she got

0:35:40.960 --> 0:35:43.840
<v Speaker 1>the fuck up out of there, and he had to

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:45.080
<v Speaker 1>me he hasn't recovered.

0:35:45.360 --> 0:35:47.719
<v Speaker 2>Well that worked. They didn't always work.

0:35:47.920 --> 0:35:51.759
<v Speaker 1>Miserable if you ask me, yeah, well, I feel like

0:35:51.800 --> 0:35:54.880
<v Speaker 1>men only learn from hurt, right, So if you actually

0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:57.520
<v Speaker 1>want a man to course correct some shit, you gotta leave.

0:35:58.200 --> 0:35:59.680
<v Speaker 2>You gotta leave, you know what I'm saying.

0:35:59.680 --> 0:36:01.759
<v Speaker 1>And then maybe he'll get it together and come back,

0:36:02.120 --> 0:36:05.880
<v Speaker 1>or maybe he'll learn from the situation with you, and

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:08.080
<v Speaker 1>then he'll go on and treat the next woman.

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:10.160
<v Speaker 2>But the next woman better. He okay, was.

0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:13.000
<v Speaker 1>Giving a woman a refurbished man. It's okay, Ladies like,

0:36:13.040 --> 0:36:15.040
<v Speaker 1>don't It's like you're not building somebody else.

0:36:15.080 --> 0:36:18.439
<v Speaker 2>It's so infuriating to see the nigga that the man

0:36:20.120 --> 0:36:22.319
<v Speaker 2>that you wanted to treat you.

0:36:22.440 --> 0:36:28.319
<v Speaker 1>Right, Okay, Drake was better, I said, Okay, Drake, Drake, Drake,

0:36:28.360 --> 0:36:35.960
<v Speaker 1>you bad from saying niggas alone. Summons Israel on a

0:36:36.239 --> 0:36:40.239
<v Speaker 1>on uh now seeing he like, nah, I get it.

0:36:40.880 --> 0:36:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm in a rap battle. New bitches is talking about cheating.

0:36:43.560 --> 0:36:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I ain't cheating on nobody, committing to nobody. Y'all tell

0:36:47.239 --> 0:36:51.400
<v Speaker 1>me love fucking Drake. Okay, I told Tammy earlier, I said, Drake.

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:53.799
<v Speaker 2>Is not Listen, you are not Drake type. Come about Drake.

0:36:53.840 --> 0:36:58.520
<v Speaker 2>He's funny to me. I mean we're getting off topic.

0:36:58.560 --> 0:37:02.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean drinking along anyway. So all right, So I

0:37:02.680 --> 0:37:06.040
<v Speaker 2>looked up an article. You guys, we love a good article.

0:37:06.120 --> 0:37:07.120
<v Speaker 2>I love a good article.

0:37:07.560 --> 0:37:10.200
<v Speaker 1>It's so fucked up from the solar eclips.

0:37:09.800 --> 0:37:14.040
<v Speaker 2>Because she's like, I'm Jesus said, I'm magical, and I

0:37:14.080 --> 0:37:15.120
<v Speaker 2>can look at the sun.

0:37:15.480 --> 0:37:17.960
<v Speaker 1>You couldn't see sis, but hold on, the only thing

0:37:18.000 --> 0:37:19.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't see is technology.

0:37:20.040 --> 0:37:21.719
<v Speaker 2>I was like, it's my last on. She's like, I

0:37:21.719 --> 0:37:23.640
<v Speaker 2>don't know, bitch, I can't even see you. I got

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:24.480
<v Speaker 2>a small.

0:37:26.400 --> 0:37:28.560
<v Speaker 1>If you can't put three fingers on that foet between

0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:29.279
<v Speaker 1>that forehead and the.

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:32.839
<v Speaker 2>Mind, brother, that's brought down low. I got four head,

0:37:34.400 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 2>all right. So I found an article on signs that

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:41.880
<v Speaker 2>your man is cheating. So if y'all think he is cheating, respectfully,

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:47.880
<v Speaker 2>here goes some signs, all right, So he has different

0:37:47.960 --> 0:37:52.400
<v Speaker 2>levels of sexual interaction. So if your man used to

0:37:52.440 --> 0:37:54.520
<v Speaker 2>wanna sleep with you all the time, and all of

0:37:54.560 --> 0:37:57.920
<v Speaker 2>a sudden he's like, I'm tired, that's because his balls

0:37:57.960 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 2>is empty. If he make him money, he's tired.

0:38:02.920 --> 0:38:06.000
<v Speaker 1>If your nigga is playing that he was from all

0:38:06.080 --> 0:38:08.000
<v Speaker 1>night and now he come home talk about am Dar

0:38:08.520 --> 0:38:11.279
<v Speaker 1>and me playing two K every day and saying his way,

0:38:11.520 --> 0:38:15.440
<v Speaker 1>he tired, that's a problem. Two K like the basketball, right,

0:38:15.760 --> 0:38:18.960
<v Speaker 1>that's my game. Like if he playing mothers still playing

0:38:18.960 --> 0:38:20.560
<v Speaker 1>that ship? I thought they was playing, Like I have

0:38:20.760 --> 0:38:23.840
<v Speaker 1>one in my house right now on a motherfucker chest.

0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:25.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't want it on.

0:38:25.280 --> 0:38:29.040
<v Speaker 1>I'd be worthy of the damn four arms swipe that ship. Yeah,

0:38:29.080 --> 0:38:32.440
<v Speaker 1>but he still want to fuck you though, absolutely? Okay,

0:38:33.400 --> 0:38:35.200
<v Speaker 1>too much sex, please, somebody tell.

0:38:35.080 --> 0:38:35.919
<v Speaker 2>Me me with it.

0:38:37.080 --> 0:38:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I it's not moving, No, But that's what I'm saying.

0:38:39.960 --> 0:38:43.880
<v Speaker 1>If he is like at home, he's not that busy,

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:47.359
<v Speaker 1>and he also is not having sex with you, there's a.

0:38:47.400 --> 0:38:49.480
<v Speaker 2>Chance that he's cheating.

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:52.399
<v Speaker 1>Right, Okay, But if it's a man making money, I'd

0:38:52.440 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 1>rather a busy man than anything.

0:38:54.320 --> 0:38:56.320
<v Speaker 2>I want my man to be busy.

0:38:56.360 --> 0:38:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I want him to have a lot of shit going

0:38:58.680 --> 0:39:00.920
<v Speaker 1>on trying to get me a million dollars.

0:39:00.920 --> 0:39:04.719
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely. Absolutely. If we ain't having sex, I'm cool. But

0:39:04.800 --> 0:39:06.560
<v Speaker 2>if he turned you down for sex all the time,

0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:08.520
<v Speaker 2>that's the problem. Either you done got too fat and.

0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:11.839
<v Speaker 1>He think you Some niggas like that. Bitches like why

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:13.840
<v Speaker 1>I said too fat?

0:39:14.239 --> 0:39:17.560
<v Speaker 2>Too bad? Whatever he likes you ain't that. No, I'm

0:39:17.600 --> 0:39:19.840
<v Speaker 2>smiling at your baby mama, and nigga, I'm winning. What

0:39:19.880 --> 0:39:22.600
<v Speaker 2>are you talking about? I'm skinny or to something that

0:39:22.680 --> 0:39:25.120
<v Speaker 2>he don't like. He's not physically attracted to you anymore.

0:39:25.120 --> 0:39:27.360
<v Speaker 1>That's a whole nother episode because I can't really be

0:39:27.400 --> 0:39:30.240
<v Speaker 1>feeling some type of way. I seen a court TV

0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:33.239
<v Speaker 1>video one time and the guy was saying how she

0:39:33.400 --> 0:39:37.000
<v Speaker 1>doesn't look like who he married. I mean, men are

0:39:37.040 --> 0:39:38.880
<v Speaker 1>I won't say men are super visual, but I know

0:39:38.960 --> 0:39:42.160
<v Speaker 1>men are predators aside a tide from being very visual,

0:39:42.760 --> 0:39:44.520
<v Speaker 1>so it's fair.

0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Like they look the same though. That's the crazy part.

0:39:48.400 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 1>Like your moms were sitting up here now they're down here,

0:39:51.040 --> 0:39:53.200
<v Speaker 1>and nigga, you are hips now, why are you talking shit?

0:39:53.400 --> 0:39:56.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't do me like that wall you were changing together.

0:39:56.480 --> 0:39:58.440
<v Speaker 1>You had to hear when I met you and now

0:39:58.480 --> 0:40:01.480
<v Speaker 1>you don't so, but I actually to get no, man,

0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:05.200
<v Speaker 1>we I actually go to Turkey, right. I've been looking

0:40:05.239 --> 0:40:07.680
<v Speaker 1>on the boss spots, loving them, and you got the

0:40:07.760 --> 0:40:11.560
<v Speaker 1>nerve to say something about this role the fuck. Luckily,

0:40:11.840 --> 0:40:16.680
<v Speaker 1>my nigga loves rolls. Lick this roll bo rolls.

0:40:16.760 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 2>Okay, this one is inconsistent explanations. Lyne is much harder

0:40:22.120 --> 0:40:25.920
<v Speaker 2>than many people understand, especially constant line to a committed partner.

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:28.319
<v Speaker 2>While liars would do their best to repeat the same

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:31.080
<v Speaker 2>story each time they lie, they usually start to give

0:40:31.200 --> 0:40:34.680
<v Speaker 2>inconsistent information when they when they're understressed, or if they're

0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:36.840
<v Speaker 2>asked the same question in the way they're not used to.

0:40:38.120 --> 0:40:41.680
<v Speaker 2>So a nigga started lying a man A man gets

0:40:41.680 --> 0:40:44.000
<v Speaker 2>the lion, Like I was.

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:47.600
<v Speaker 1>Working later than late and they had the boss man.

0:40:47.640 --> 0:40:50.120
<v Speaker 1>That shit was crazy today they had like it was

0:40:51.000 --> 0:40:55.040
<v Speaker 1>like the fact went out in the building and then

0:40:55.719 --> 0:40:57.440
<v Speaker 1>they had to put on the half masks who and

0:40:57.440 --> 0:41:00.239
<v Speaker 1>then I came down there and it was like, it's

0:41:00.239 --> 0:41:03.120
<v Speaker 1>those fucking lies on the Clarence Rock somewhere because I'm

0:41:03.120 --> 0:41:05.879
<v Speaker 1>not buying them, right, It's all kind of crazy shit.

0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:07.439
<v Speaker 2>Now, don't be offering me no lies?

0:41:07.480 --> 0:41:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Am I ask you no questions, don't lie, and I

0:41:09.480 --> 0:41:13.000
<v Speaker 1>really don't ask questions. And I probably enable people to

0:41:13.120 --> 0:41:15.279
<v Speaker 1>cheat because I do like to let people do what

0:41:15.320 --> 0:41:16.759
<v Speaker 1>the fuck they want to do, so I can see

0:41:16.760 --> 0:41:18.160
<v Speaker 1>what you rather do. I know I've said that a

0:41:18.160 --> 0:41:21.680
<v Speaker 1>million times, but I mean it like I really just

0:41:21.760 --> 0:41:24.239
<v Speaker 1>let people live. I don't be on a nigga neck

0:41:24.320 --> 0:41:26.000
<v Speaker 1>and none of that shit and no whulch. You start

0:41:26.000 --> 0:41:29.080
<v Speaker 1>feeling different because we know when you're cheating, Okay. Our

0:41:29.120 --> 0:41:33.879
<v Speaker 1>bodies tell us when something isn't right. Yes, so if

0:41:33.880 --> 0:41:37.439
<v Speaker 1>I feel some way, if I smell some way, I'm

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 1>cutting your head off.

0:41:38.600 --> 0:41:41.720
<v Speaker 2>But sometimes men be telling the truth, but it sound

0:41:41.840 --> 0:41:44.680
<v Speaker 2>like a lie. You know, give me some time, it'll

0:41:44.719 --> 0:41:46.879
<v Speaker 2>be like a lie might sound better than the truth

0:41:46.920 --> 0:41:49.040
<v Speaker 2>because the truth sound like a lie. Like did you

0:41:49.080 --> 0:41:51.160
<v Speaker 2>ever see that video where the man was pulled over

0:41:51.200 --> 0:41:52.759
<v Speaker 2>by the police and he was like, man, talk to

0:41:52.800 --> 0:41:55.400
<v Speaker 2>my girl. Man, just talk to my girl, because I

0:41:55.440 --> 0:41:57.399
<v Speaker 2>ain't got time for that shit. When I get home,

0:41:57.800 --> 0:42:00.439
<v Speaker 2>he put the police on facetide with his girl because

0:42:00.480 --> 0:42:02.560
<v Speaker 2>he's like, look, I'm with the police, man, I can't

0:42:02.600 --> 0:42:03.320
<v Speaker 2>believe nothing.

0:42:03.760 --> 0:42:06.000
<v Speaker 1>No, you better be with the police are dead. If

0:42:06.040 --> 0:42:08.560
<v Speaker 1>it's a case where you didn't come home. Yeah, I

0:42:08.560 --> 0:42:11.480
<v Speaker 1>don't understand how women literally be living with men who

0:42:11.480 --> 0:42:14.160
<v Speaker 1>don't come home, that.

0:42:14.280 --> 0:42:17.200
<v Speaker 2>Don't come home. Just said the sun beat them home.

0:42:17.320 --> 0:42:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Like he was at your house and didn't go home.

0:42:19.880 --> 0:42:22.040
<v Speaker 2>He don't let the sun beat you home. That's your girl.

0:42:22.160 --> 0:42:25.520
<v Speaker 1>You don't go home, right, and you just take into

0:42:25.600 --> 0:42:27.360
<v Speaker 1>that to me, I'm not gonna be home when he

0:42:27.400 --> 0:42:30.719
<v Speaker 1>gets there. That's how I do it. Yeah, you wanna

0:42:30.719 --> 0:42:32.359
<v Speaker 1>do that type of shit. You gonna be like it's

0:42:32.400 --> 0:42:34.480
<v Speaker 1>six o'clock in the morning. Oh, because then that make

0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:37.480
<v Speaker 1>you just as bad, and then you.

0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:38.719
<v Speaker 2>Don't have a leg to stand on.

0:42:38.960 --> 0:42:39.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't.

0:42:39.360 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't go high. I don't go high.

0:42:41.640 --> 0:42:42.879
<v Speaker 1>I go to hell every time.

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:45.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm just sitting in there dark with gospel music playing,

0:42:45.840 --> 0:42:46.960
<v Speaker 2>scared of the nigga.

0:42:46.719 --> 0:42:49.160
<v Speaker 1>Like he gonna come in the house, like, oh shit,

0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:56.080
<v Speaker 1>hes a kya walker blasted to hide decibels in there,

0:42:56.160 --> 0:42:58.040
<v Speaker 1>and he just and I'm sitting in the dark. No,

0:42:59.080 --> 0:43:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna be there. I may not be at

0:43:00.640 --> 0:43:03.080
<v Speaker 1>another man's house because I do feel like when you cheat,

0:43:03.120 --> 0:43:06.600
<v Speaker 1>if you are a woman and you want to get

0:43:06.640 --> 0:43:08.799
<v Speaker 1>back I don't feel like giving your pussy to another

0:43:08.840 --> 0:43:12.600
<v Speaker 1>man is get back leaving, and leveling up is get

0:43:12.680 --> 0:43:16.359
<v Speaker 1>back leaving. And the fucking with a millionaire is get back.

0:43:16.480 --> 0:43:18.480
<v Speaker 1>That's the only way men feel the type of way.

0:43:18.640 --> 0:43:20.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but get back.

0:43:20.320 --> 0:43:22.239
<v Speaker 1>Letting somebody else borri your kouchi is not.

0:43:22.239 --> 0:43:27.120
<v Speaker 2>Get back with millionaires. Like it's not just like I said, millionaire.

0:43:27.160 --> 0:43:30.959
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that may be extreme. Just fucking with somebody better

0:43:31.040 --> 0:43:33.239
<v Speaker 1>than the man you're with. Let's just say that you

0:43:33.239 --> 0:43:33.720
<v Speaker 1>ain't even.

0:43:33.560 --> 0:43:35.360
<v Speaker 2>Gotta be better. All he gotta do is be like

0:43:35.440 --> 0:43:37.440
<v Speaker 2>three inches taller than your nigga, and he like.

0:43:37.440 --> 0:43:43.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh hurt, mom, I kill everybody.

0:43:44.239 --> 0:43:46.000
<v Speaker 2>He ain't gotta have no money. He just gotta be

0:43:46.000 --> 0:43:48.160
<v Speaker 2>three inches taller. I swear to God, that's all I

0:43:48.200 --> 0:43:50.080
<v Speaker 2>gotta be. His dick is bigger.

0:43:51.280 --> 0:43:54.600
<v Speaker 1>They ready to kill everybody, nigga knocking everything over in

0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:55.000
<v Speaker 1>the house.

0:43:57.000 --> 0:44:02.479
<v Speaker 2>Sorry. The next one is inconsistent expense. Oh yeah yeah,

0:44:02.719 --> 0:44:06.480
<v Speaker 2>hotel ship girl, I was. And spending habits can be

0:44:06.560 --> 0:44:09.640
<v Speaker 2>a sign that there might be something else going on

0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:11.880
<v Speaker 2>with your partner. A big red flat, for example, is

0:44:11.960 --> 0:44:18.440
<v Speaker 2>unexplained large cash withdrawals. Hmm, So can I say, like cousin.

0:44:18.520 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 2>I sorry, cousin. Okay. So one of my one of

0:44:22.160 --> 0:44:23.320
<v Speaker 2>my close friends.

0:44:23.080 --> 0:44:25.680
<v Speaker 1>Which is also my first cousin, she was talking to

0:44:25.719 --> 0:44:29.759
<v Speaker 1>this guy recently and he he flew her out, but

0:44:29.880 --> 0:44:33.239
<v Speaker 1>he wouldn't order food the polices they would go, so

0:44:33.680 --> 0:44:34.799
<v Speaker 1>you would just she would just.

0:44:34.760 --> 0:44:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Have one meal exactly before I came, order for yourself.

0:44:45.080 --> 0:44:48.080
<v Speaker 1>One meal because somebody else looking at the big.

0:44:47.880 --> 0:44:51.040
<v Speaker 2>Statements that slick.

0:44:51.239 --> 0:44:53.839
<v Speaker 1>That's not slick. It's obvious to the woman you're with,

0:44:54.360 --> 0:44:57.839
<v Speaker 1>and right now in this moment, it's one. It was

0:44:57.920 --> 0:45:00.759
<v Speaker 1>obvious to her, was what I'm saying. Not obvious to

0:45:00.800 --> 0:45:03.760
<v Speaker 1>the woman that's looking at the bank statements. It's obvious

0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:04.799
<v Speaker 1>to the woman that you're with.

0:45:05.160 --> 0:45:08.439
<v Speaker 2>Your Oh he was sitting with. He was with someone

0:45:08.560 --> 0:45:09.680
<v Speaker 2>he wasn't honest about.

0:45:10.680 --> 0:45:12.960
<v Speaker 1>Yes, So she came to the conclusion that she was like, man,

0:45:12.960 --> 0:45:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I think that Nigga married. When she got back home,

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:16.839
<v Speaker 1>she was like, I think he's married, and I'm like, girl,

0:45:16.840 --> 0:45:18.840
<v Speaker 1>he probably is, because at what point do you go

0:45:19.040 --> 0:45:20.680
<v Speaker 1>visit somebody and they're not eating.

0:45:20.920 --> 0:45:23.000
<v Speaker 2>Y'all go out to eat right, let me taste that

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:23.640
<v Speaker 2>it looks good.

0:45:26.040 --> 0:45:30.400
<v Speaker 1>No, just order something, get your own beggar boy, like

0:45:30.480 --> 0:45:34.720
<v Speaker 1>the fuck, let me taste that state.

0:45:35.760 --> 0:45:41.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we got COVID in the building. You order a down,

0:45:41.600 --> 0:45:45.600
<v Speaker 2>She's like no, making a twelve bounce yo.

0:45:48.160 --> 0:45:50.160
<v Speaker 1>I would embarrass the dude, like what are you doing?

0:45:50.280 --> 0:45:52.719
<v Speaker 1>I would have asked him. I don't like to speculate.

0:45:52.800 --> 0:45:57.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't like to assume shit. I asked too many

0:45:57.480 --> 0:45:59.839
<v Speaker 1>questions for nigga to lie, Like, just tell me what

0:45:59.840 --> 0:46:01.640
<v Speaker 1>it is and let me decide whether or not I

0:46:01.680 --> 0:46:04.040
<v Speaker 1>want to deal with it, you know, because once I

0:46:04.080 --> 0:46:06.480
<v Speaker 1>know who you are, I can deal with it. But

0:46:06.560 --> 0:46:08.560
<v Speaker 1>don't just be lying in my face and not eating,

0:46:08.600 --> 0:46:09.680
<v Speaker 1>Like why eat?

0:46:09.800 --> 0:46:10.560
<v Speaker 2>Hungry as hell? Y?

0:46:12.239 --> 0:46:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Yo?

0:46:15.400 --> 0:46:18.720
<v Speaker 2>No, that's why here's a good one. False accusations of cheating.

0:46:18.920 --> 0:46:21.120
<v Speaker 2>Have you ever had someone like, oh, you just on

0:46:21.320 --> 0:46:23.600
<v Speaker 2>you about doing shit so hard? It's like, what are

0:46:23.640 --> 0:46:26.520
<v Speaker 2>you doing? Because why you keep being on me so heavy?

0:46:26.560 --> 0:46:27.760
<v Speaker 2>And I ain't even doing nothing.

0:46:27.960 --> 0:46:30.520
<v Speaker 1>You know, I've been in every single relationship I've been in,

0:46:30.640 --> 0:46:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I've always felt like, damn, am I doing something to

0:46:33.560 --> 0:46:37.000
<v Speaker 1>make men feel insecure? But I've never been with a

0:46:37.040 --> 0:46:39.319
<v Speaker 1>man who didn't cheat on me. So the whole time,

0:46:39.400 --> 0:46:42.000
<v Speaker 1>you accusing me of some shit because you out here

0:46:42.120 --> 0:46:44.680
<v Speaker 1>doing the fucking most. So you just can't fathom in

0:46:44.760 --> 0:46:46.160
<v Speaker 1>your mind why I wouldn't be.

0:46:47.680 --> 0:46:50.200
<v Speaker 2>I leave instead. I swear one time we was in

0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:53.680
<v Speaker 2>the drive through at bow Jangles. I'm not lying, and

0:46:53.840 --> 0:46:56.480
<v Speaker 2>I was like, thank you. He's like, what the fuck?

0:46:56.520 --> 0:47:00.520
<v Speaker 2>You smiling in a nigga faith so hard? You're always

0:47:00.560 --> 0:47:03.480
<v Speaker 2>smiling in a nigga face. I was like, I was

0:47:03.600 --> 0:47:06.000
<v Speaker 2>just being polite. He was passing the food through the window,

0:47:06.320 --> 0:47:08.759
<v Speaker 2>Like that's that's a problem. You're doing too much. You

0:47:08.880 --> 0:47:11.600
<v Speaker 2>do too fucking much like calming and smiling down. I

0:47:11.680 --> 0:47:14.759
<v Speaker 2>was like, this nigga is cheating on meigg That's all

0:47:14.800 --> 0:47:17.920
<v Speaker 2>I heard. I can't smile out all I heard window,

0:47:18.320 --> 0:47:20.200
<v Speaker 2>That's all I heard. Yeah, damn.

0:47:20.320 --> 0:47:22.440
<v Speaker 1>Like I've said this before, like how my ex like

0:47:22.560 --> 0:47:25.719
<v Speaker 1>I would call people babe, and it's no, that's a

0:47:25.800 --> 0:47:29.520
<v Speaker 1>problem because you're a boy. That's when I called baby.

0:47:29.560 --> 0:47:31.560
<v Speaker 1>I really get that from my mom, Like I'm calling

0:47:31.640 --> 0:47:34.279
<v Speaker 1>grown people babe. I'm calling kids babe. When I get

0:47:34.520 --> 0:47:36.080
<v Speaker 1>like if I'm at the grocery store in line, I'm like,

0:47:36.120 --> 0:47:39.160
<v Speaker 1>think you babe, go on by my business. This nigga

0:47:39.239 --> 0:47:42.359
<v Speaker 1>started doing it like intentionally though, like if you don't

0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:44.279
<v Speaker 1>use that word, like why are we out at a

0:47:44.360 --> 0:47:47.640
<v Speaker 1>restaurant and you like telling the waitress thank you, babe, bitch,

0:47:47.680 --> 0:47:48.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll smack across the.

0:47:49.520 --> 0:47:55.760
<v Speaker 2>Under the don't call that bitch babe. That's not your babe.

0:47:55.840 --> 0:47:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Don't do that. I don't play that.

0:47:57.160 --> 0:47:59.759
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I definitely have been accused of cheating, and

0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:01.240
<v Speaker 1>I've never cheated.

0:48:01.640 --> 0:48:06.400
<v Speaker 2>Black women don't cheat never. I have never kid. You

0:48:06.600 --> 0:48:11.040
<v Speaker 2>share a story where you knew you were being cheated on,

0:48:12.080 --> 0:48:16.200
<v Speaker 2>I as the fucking well, like, what happened? What happened? Girl?

0:48:16.280 --> 0:48:16.720
<v Speaker 2>What happened?

0:48:16.719 --> 0:48:19.000
<v Speaker 1>I always know I'm being cheating on, cheated on. I

0:48:19.160 --> 0:48:23.640
<v Speaker 1>just be wanting the person to be honest. You know

0:48:23.680 --> 0:48:27.120
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like, I remember it so my last relationship,

0:48:29.280 --> 0:48:30.560
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know what, I'm talking with you

0:48:30.640 --> 0:48:33.080
<v Speaker 1>no more. I literally it was like a Wednesday. I

0:48:33.120 --> 0:48:35.400
<v Speaker 1>think it was Wednesday. My memory is pretty good. It's

0:48:35.440 --> 0:48:38.880
<v Speaker 1>like an elephant and the nigga wasn't answering the phone.

0:48:39.360 --> 0:48:41.600
<v Speaker 1>Some calling, calling, calling back to back to back to back.

0:48:42.040 --> 0:48:43.959
<v Speaker 1>That's not love, y'all. If you got to call somebody

0:48:44.080 --> 0:48:45.800
<v Speaker 1>more than one time, that's not like because you're in

0:48:45.880 --> 0:48:49.040
<v Speaker 1>love with them, it's actually a form of being possessive

0:48:49.600 --> 0:48:53.680
<v Speaker 1>because they saw you call the first time. Some calling, calling, calling, calling, calling, calling,

0:48:53.719 --> 0:48:55.839
<v Speaker 1>He's not answering the phone. Okay, I go to sleep.

0:48:55.920 --> 0:48:58.759
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't sleep though, so the next morning I woke

0:48:58.840 --> 0:49:00.640
<v Speaker 1>up and I went on my little date walk and

0:49:00.760 --> 0:49:02.359
<v Speaker 1>he called my phone. I was like, listen, I ain't

0:49:02.400 --> 0:49:04.480
<v Speaker 1>fucking with you no more, like this shit over it.

0:49:05.080 --> 0:49:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't like feeling like that because as a woman,

0:49:07.520 --> 0:49:11.239
<v Speaker 1>you have this innate feeling. This this your intuition is

0:49:11.440 --> 0:49:14.520
<v Speaker 1>never wrong. And I think men have intuition too, because

0:49:14.520 --> 0:49:16.279
<v Speaker 1>I swear to God the times I've been fucking off

0:49:16.280 --> 0:49:19.040
<v Speaker 1>a nigga call your phone, like, goddamn, nigga, you smell

0:49:19.120 --> 0:49:20.920
<v Speaker 1>me on another nigga did like, what's happening?

0:49:24.719 --> 0:49:25.400
<v Speaker 2>God, I should know.

0:49:25.440 --> 0:49:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't fuck you wrong, because I feel like you

0:49:27.680 --> 0:49:31.239
<v Speaker 1>start getting like some type of connection with somebody. Yeah,

0:49:31.440 --> 0:49:33.480
<v Speaker 1>so they kind of know all of a sudden as

0:49:33.480 --> 0:49:34.680
<v Speaker 1>soon as you get to where you go on a

0:49:34.760 --> 0:49:36.400
<v Speaker 1>nigga calling the phone, Now you got to act like

0:49:36.440 --> 0:49:38.439
<v Speaker 1>you in bed when you're in your car. I don't

0:49:38.440 --> 0:49:42.239
<v Speaker 1>know what you're talking about. I've never been there, So

0:49:42.880 --> 0:49:45.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm like I'm not fucking with you no more. That

0:49:45.840 --> 0:49:48.000
<v Speaker 1>was like a Wednesday, and I feel like maybe it

0:49:48.200 --> 0:49:51.680
<v Speaker 1>was like the following Monday. I'm on the phone with him.

0:49:52.120 --> 0:49:55.680
<v Speaker 1>He's in waffle house ordering food, right, and I'm like

0:49:55.840 --> 0:49:58.600
<v Speaker 1>on the phone with him, and also simultaneously like scrolling

0:49:58.680 --> 0:50:00.480
<v Speaker 1>through Instagram, and I saw some they sent me a

0:50:00.560 --> 0:50:03.760
<v Speaker 1>request message. So I clicked the request message.

0:50:03.880 --> 0:50:04.399
<v Speaker 2>It's a bitch.

0:50:05.680 --> 0:50:08.920
<v Speaker 1>It's a bitch done sent me a video from my

0:50:09.160 --> 0:50:15.160
<v Speaker 1>Nigga's bed from that Wednesday where you weren't answering the phone.

0:50:15.239 --> 0:50:18.640
<v Speaker 1>So now I get to see you not answer your phone.

0:50:18.719 --> 0:50:21.840
<v Speaker 1>And she's behind the camera and she's like so and

0:50:22.000 --> 0:50:24.200
<v Speaker 1>so turn the light off. I gotta go to work tomorrow.

0:50:24.960 --> 0:50:28.040
<v Speaker 1>And I'm watching him like leaning on the on the headboard,

0:50:28.120 --> 0:50:30.120
<v Speaker 1>like scrolling through the phone. So and it would would

0:50:30.160 --> 0:50:32.839
<v Speaker 1>have synced up with the time that I was calling him.

0:50:33.440 --> 0:50:35.080
<v Speaker 1>So now I get to see you now.

0:50:35.520 --> 0:50:35.800
<v Speaker 2>Girl.

0:50:35.880 --> 0:50:38.719
<v Speaker 1>When i I'm like this is calling, I was like, oh,

0:50:38.760 --> 0:50:41.560
<v Speaker 1>your bitch messaged me. Well that Nigga couldn't even order

0:50:41.600 --> 0:50:42.600
<v Speaker 1>this food no more. This bore.

0:50:42.640 --> 0:50:43.440
<v Speaker 2>He started trembling.

0:50:44.160 --> 0:50:46.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh now you're not You're nervous, stand on business, bitch

0:50:46.920 --> 0:50:50.360
<v Speaker 1>now you're not hungry, order your pekan waffle, your light

0:50:50.440 --> 0:50:54.120
<v Speaker 1>skinned pek and waffle Nigga, and your goddamn grand slam.

0:50:54.360 --> 0:50:56.399
<v Speaker 2>But did you stay with him? I did.

0:51:01.280 --> 0:51:03.520
<v Speaker 1>That's my dumb bitch story for this episode. I definitely

0:51:03.560 --> 0:51:06.120
<v Speaker 1>stayed with his ass for at least two more years.

0:51:06.160 --> 0:51:09.239
<v Speaker 2>It's so dumb. You are really dumb for real?

0:51:09.600 --> 0:51:13.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, even got engaged in all the bullshit. Yeah, my buddy,

0:51:13.080 --> 0:51:14.720
<v Speaker 1>the addol sub meta fingers to my old life.

0:51:15.239 --> 0:51:17.640
<v Speaker 2>But probably, and it was a lot of others.

0:51:17.680 --> 0:51:21.520
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't even together, like yet, what's the girl, Realista,

0:51:21.600 --> 0:51:24.759
<v Speaker 1>don't got ship on the stories I have from that

0:51:25.000 --> 0:51:25.800
<v Speaker 1>one relationship.

0:51:25.840 --> 0:51:28.880
<v Speaker 2>I got others, but from that one, do not compare

0:51:28.920 --> 0:51:33.880
<v Speaker 2>yourself to recent because I was like, now, girl, I

0:51:34.000 --> 0:51:35.960
<v Speaker 2>was layd in the red rubbing my feet together like

0:51:36.239 --> 0:51:38.239
<v Speaker 2>sus now, God damn maw, come on now.

0:51:38.440 --> 0:51:45.000
<v Speaker 1>Some of that shit was like a right outlandish lies outlandish. Yeah,

0:51:45.040 --> 0:51:46.440
<v Speaker 1>I ain't never had nobody lied to me like that.

0:51:46.560 --> 0:51:48.440
<v Speaker 2>When I was getting cheated on, somebody else had to

0:51:48.480 --> 0:51:50.520
<v Speaker 2>tell me I was in Lola Land, Like why, Nigga,

0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:54.800
<v Speaker 2>that's my man, Miami and Miami. Can't nobody tell me

0:51:54.920 --> 0:51:57.640
<v Speaker 2>shit about my man, and my friend was like, your

0:51:57.680 --> 0:52:02.279
<v Speaker 2>man cheating on you. I'm like, no, what makes you

0:52:02.800 --> 0:52:04.760
<v Speaker 2>something like that? You're jealous?

0:52:06.680 --> 0:52:08.200
<v Speaker 1>See, that's why I don't tell a bitch of shit

0:52:08.280 --> 0:52:10.960
<v Speaker 1>like you have to find on your own man.

0:52:11.080 --> 0:52:13.640
<v Speaker 2>Because we're so happy, bitch, I flew out because we

0:52:13.719 --> 0:52:16.200
<v Speaker 2>were in a long distance relationship. We was doing like

0:52:16.280 --> 0:52:18.720
<v Speaker 2>little weird shit. I was like, it's the time zones.

0:52:20.160 --> 0:52:22.680
<v Speaker 2>He's just so far away. He's in California. I'm in

0:52:22.760 --> 0:52:26.000
<v Speaker 2>South Carolina. It's the time zones. That's why he's sometimes unavailable.

0:52:26.200 --> 0:52:28.160
<v Speaker 2>It's not meanwhile, you know.

0:52:28.200 --> 0:52:28.399
<v Speaker 1>Hold.

0:52:28.800 --> 0:52:30.520
<v Speaker 2>But then she told me he was cheating on me.

0:52:30.640 --> 0:52:32.600
<v Speaker 2>So then I was like, no, he's not. But then

0:52:32.640 --> 0:52:34.319
<v Speaker 2>I bought a plane ticket to fly out there, right,

0:52:35.480 --> 0:52:38.239
<v Speaker 2>and I came in being like a South Carolina stuff

0:52:38.239 --> 0:52:39.600
<v Speaker 2>for white. Oh, let me as soon as I get here,

0:52:39.600 --> 0:52:42.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna clean your whole house. That was me, right.

0:52:42.960 --> 0:52:46.000
<v Speaker 2>I was in his closet, soaring through his dirty fucking

0:52:46.080 --> 0:52:49.440
<v Speaker 2>clothes to wash him, and there was a hole. All right.

0:52:49.520 --> 0:52:51.680
<v Speaker 2>That's how y'all gonna know how long ago this was.

0:52:52.239 --> 0:52:55.600
<v Speaker 2>It was a photo album that a bitch made for

0:52:55.760 --> 0:53:00.680
<v Speaker 2>him of a trip where they went on the wine train.

0:53:01.000 --> 0:53:04.399
<v Speaker 2>He was shet and cheating. They went on a wine train, bitch,

0:53:04.480 --> 0:53:06.080
<v Speaker 2>and she took all kind of pictures and put it

0:53:06.120 --> 0:53:11.000
<v Speaker 2>in a photo album. Let me tell you what I did,

0:53:12.680 --> 0:53:14.880
<v Speaker 2>because man, like I was young and I was broken,

0:53:14.920 --> 0:53:17.360
<v Speaker 2>he was taking so such good care of me. I

0:53:17.520 --> 0:53:19.520
<v Speaker 2>ripped the ship up and put it back in the backroom.

0:53:19.520 --> 0:53:20.440
<v Speaker 1>I've done that to somebody.

0:53:22.480 --> 0:53:24.000
<v Speaker 2>I ripped it up and put it back in the

0:53:24.080 --> 0:53:26.000
<v Speaker 2>back I ripped all the pictures, closed them up in

0:53:26.040 --> 0:53:27.680
<v Speaker 2>there and put it back like you know how to

0:53:27.880 --> 0:53:29.759
<v Speaker 2>they have sleeves. I ripped the picture and put it

0:53:29.840 --> 0:53:31.239
<v Speaker 2>back in the sleeve, rip it and put it and

0:53:31.280 --> 0:53:33.719
<v Speaker 2>then I didn't say a word. Enjoyed my weekend, went

0:53:33.800 --> 0:53:35.040
<v Speaker 2>home with him and went home.

0:53:36.239 --> 0:53:38.520
<v Speaker 1>Did he ever say anything about the pictures? Yeah?

0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:42.400
<v Speaker 2>Like the next week, what is it like? That was

0:53:42.480 --> 0:53:44.640
<v Speaker 2>my co worker And that was a work trip and

0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:48.960
<v Speaker 2>we was had a morale trip. Not a morale trip,

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:53.760
<v Speaker 2>mos nuts, yo.

0:53:55.680 --> 0:53:59.200
<v Speaker 1>Boy, men won't really try your pictures. It was morown

0:53:59.280 --> 0:54:01.640
<v Speaker 1>because we were like we need is a team building,

0:54:02.360 --> 0:54:04.279
<v Speaker 1>team building trip? Yo?

0:54:05.880 --> 0:54:08.479
<v Speaker 2>You in just one based Napa Valley had a team

0:54:08.520 --> 0:54:12.880
<v Speaker 2>building trip. Okay, you think I'm fucking stupid? That'd be

0:54:12.960 --> 0:54:13.279
<v Speaker 2>the thing.

0:54:13.440 --> 0:54:13.640
<v Speaker 1>Man.

0:54:13.960 --> 0:54:16.479
<v Speaker 2>Look, don't tell me no fucking lies. I really don't.

0:54:16.800 --> 0:54:19.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't mind lies. I don't mind liars. I be

0:54:19.920 --> 0:54:22.120
<v Speaker 1>mad when a motherfucking think got the leader lie. That's

0:54:22.200 --> 0:54:23.280
<v Speaker 1>what gets a minor.

0:54:23.600 --> 0:54:27.560
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't lie to me. Just tell me believable liar.

0:54:28.560 --> 0:54:32.000
<v Speaker 1>But if you're telling traceable lies, I'm like, why, nigga,

0:54:32.200 --> 0:54:35.360
<v Speaker 1>why why are you telling traceable lies?

0:54:35.560 --> 0:54:38.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm confused. And I stayed with that man for so long.

0:54:38.360 --> 0:54:41.200
<v Speaker 2>I mean, he just cheating the last straw, the final straw.

0:54:42.400 --> 0:54:46.000
<v Speaker 2>So he left California, came to Atlanta. Bottom house. We're

0:54:46.040 --> 0:54:50.000
<v Speaker 2>young too, this is we're in our twenties. I moved

0:54:50.000 --> 0:54:51.640
<v Speaker 2>to Atlanta, I got my own place. I did not

0:54:51.719 --> 0:54:54.520
<v Speaker 2>move in with him, and I came to spend the

0:54:54.600 --> 0:55:00.719
<v Speaker 2>night with him, but to cry, no, girl, this girl, girl.

0:55:01.360 --> 0:55:01.400
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:55:02.160 --> 0:55:04.000
<v Speaker 2>I still be hurt, girl, I still be trying to

0:55:04.120 --> 0:55:07.440
<v Speaker 2>care about him. My damn. He released me, and I

0:55:07.520 --> 0:55:08.919
<v Speaker 2>had lived a good life. I think if I would

0:55:08.920 --> 0:55:12.240
<v Speaker 2>have just stayed out, just been like just very country

0:55:12.320 --> 0:55:14.920
<v Speaker 2>and not knowing nothing and never experienced nothing. So he

0:55:15.000 --> 0:55:17.279
<v Speaker 2>did me a favor by doing all that. It was

0:55:17.320 --> 0:55:20.800
<v Speaker 2>a condom in the bed That's when I was like, Okay,

0:55:21.400 --> 0:55:25.000
<v Speaker 2>this man don't respect me at all. I have to go.

0:55:26.560 --> 0:55:29.200
<v Speaker 2>And the bed was made up all nice and neat.

0:55:30.080 --> 0:55:32.840
<v Speaker 2>The bed was made up so nice and neat. I

0:55:32.920 --> 0:55:35.520
<v Speaker 2>got into bed and felt so like, it's a slug

0:55:35.640 --> 0:55:39.040
<v Speaker 2>on my left. It's a slug in the bed, a

0:55:39.120 --> 0:55:40.120
<v Speaker 2>whole condom on my left.

0:55:40.160 --> 0:55:43.160
<v Speaker 1>Girl, I've literally been in a man's bed and felt

0:55:43.200 --> 0:55:44.640
<v Speaker 1>some shit wrap around my toes.

0:55:45.120 --> 0:55:47.200
<v Speaker 2>You know, you just wrap it, you wrap it unneath,

0:55:47.360 --> 0:55:49.480
<v Speaker 2>and then you put your foot up. A whole thumb,

0:55:51.520 --> 0:55:54.279
<v Speaker 2>a whole fuck it. You ain't washed these sheets. Yeah

0:55:54.360 --> 0:55:56.400
<v Speaker 2>you got me, you made the bed up, but you

0:55:56.520 --> 0:55:59.160
<v Speaker 2>had someone else in the bed. You ain't washed these sheets.

0:55:59.239 --> 0:56:00.960
<v Speaker 1>You felthy animal.

0:56:01.120 --> 0:56:03.120
<v Speaker 2>Animal. He used to lie so bad. I know, he

0:56:03.280 --> 0:56:05.880
<v Speaker 2>just got tied a lion. It was like in the

0:56:06.000 --> 0:56:08.520
<v Speaker 2>other bedroom, it was like some girl women's clothes in

0:56:08.560 --> 0:56:10.680
<v Speaker 2>a drawer. It's nothing. It ain't even no furniture.

0:56:11.000 --> 0:56:13.319
<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's his girlfriend. You leaving shit at a man's house,

0:56:13.360 --> 0:56:13.799
<v Speaker 1>that's your man.

0:56:14.840 --> 0:56:16.719
<v Speaker 2>That's when it's closed in the drawer. I was like,

0:56:16.800 --> 0:56:19.960
<v Speaker 2>who's closing this? Oh? My homeboys girlfriend came over there.

0:56:20.000 --> 0:56:22.120
<v Speaker 2>They stayed in the bathroom and then I was like,

0:56:22.200 --> 0:56:24.040
<v Speaker 2>it's no bed in that room. They stayed back at yo.

0:56:24.120 --> 0:56:25.080
<v Speaker 2>They just lay back there.

0:56:30.280 --> 0:56:30.440
<v Speaker 1>Yo.

0:56:30.480 --> 0:56:35.480
<v Speaker 2>I hate niggas, dog not men, niggas so bad goodness.

0:56:35.520 --> 0:56:37.200
<v Speaker 2>So I had to get out of that. But I

0:56:37.239 --> 0:56:40.600
<v Speaker 2>think that's the only time I've only had two boyfriends

0:56:40.680 --> 0:56:44.960
<v Speaker 2>in my life. Everybody else I ain't claimed these niggas

0:56:45.000 --> 0:56:51.319
<v Speaker 2>since these men, no, I think they are all long term,

0:56:51.480 --> 0:56:52.759
<v Speaker 2>like long relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel and then I double back like I

0:56:54.680 --> 0:56:56.719
<v Speaker 1>be with the same mouff fucking people. So I feel

0:56:56.760 --> 0:56:59.000
<v Speaker 1>like I might have only had like four relationships. Yeah,

0:57:00.000 --> 0:57:01.719
<v Speaker 1>And everybody else in between was just.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not my man, that's not your nigga, your man,

0:57:11.480 --> 0:57:14.600
<v Speaker 2>all right. I guess we told our dumbish stories. You

0:57:14.640 --> 0:57:17.080
<v Speaker 2>don't have to share one, and we don't have to

0:57:17.160 --> 0:57:21.600
<v Speaker 2>get no call up. Have you ever cheated? What clutches pearls?

0:57:21.640 --> 0:57:28.680
<v Speaker 2>I am a patron saint, alright, So one time I'm

0:57:28.720 --> 0:57:30.160
<v Speaker 2>gonna tell you all the truth. Cause that nigga, I

0:57:30.200 --> 0:57:35.600
<v Speaker 2>don't know where he married somewhere. We weren't together technically,

0:57:35.840 --> 0:57:38.840
<v Speaker 2>we were still living in the same house, but I

0:57:39.040 --> 0:57:41.160
<v Speaker 2>was moving out. The plan was for me to move

0:57:41.240 --> 0:57:45.240
<v Speaker 2>out in a couple months, right, So we weren't together.

0:57:45.880 --> 0:57:50.280
<v Speaker 2>He went away and there was I went to this bar.

0:57:50.440 --> 0:57:52.120
<v Speaker 2>I had like a one night stand with a guy,

0:57:54.840 --> 0:57:57.840
<v Speaker 2>and like we had we were already broken up. We

0:57:57.880 --> 0:58:00.400
<v Speaker 2>hadn't been sleeping together for a while, and it was

0:58:00.520 --> 0:58:02.520
<v Speaker 2>just like dead in the water. We was just in

0:58:02.600 --> 0:58:05.560
<v Speaker 2>the same house until we separated, because I mean, it's

0:58:05.600 --> 0:58:07.520
<v Speaker 2>not like you break up and you can just move

0:58:07.520 --> 0:58:09.720
<v Speaker 2>away like that. You got to separate everything, you know,

0:58:09.960 --> 0:58:11.880
<v Speaker 2>got to move Yeah, it's a process.

0:58:12.320 --> 0:58:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Look, I'm still going through a process, and I'm in

0:58:14.720 --> 0:58:17.280
<v Speaker 1>a whole nother relationship and still going through a process

0:58:17.440 --> 0:58:17.720
<v Speaker 1>right now.

0:58:17.920 --> 0:58:22.520
<v Speaker 2>Right, So he went on a guy's trip to fucking

0:58:23.320 --> 0:58:25.600
<v Speaker 2>where they go to fuck girls from the Midic Republic

0:58:25.920 --> 0:58:27.720
<v Speaker 2>somewhere like that. So I knew what he was on.

0:58:29.040 --> 0:58:33.200
<v Speaker 2>This fine ass Middle Eastern guy, right, and he had

0:58:33.240 --> 0:58:34.840
<v Speaker 2>that sharp cut in his area, you know how they

0:58:34.920 --> 0:58:38.720
<v Speaker 2>be putting that sharp parting. He was like all suave

0:58:38.920 --> 0:58:41.880
<v Speaker 2>and he was like so fine, and we like vibe

0:58:41.960 --> 0:58:44.200
<v Speaker 2>so hard. We got junk together in the bar and

0:58:44.280 --> 0:58:45.800
<v Speaker 2>then we like went to his house and we were

0:58:45.800 --> 0:58:48.480
<v Speaker 2>like kissing off passionately, and it was just like knocking

0:58:48.520 --> 0:58:53.320
<v Speaker 2>ship off the walls. Oh my god, y'all, this man

0:58:53.440 --> 0:58:59.959
<v Speaker 2>fucked me. It was so bad, so fast.

0:59:00.240 --> 0:59:04.240
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, I swear to god. I drove

0:59:04.280 --> 0:59:14.000
<v Speaker 1>home crying, Yah, immediately remorse and like when I laughed,

0:59:14.040 --> 0:59:15.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like call me. He was like, I don't

0:59:15.520 --> 0:59:16.000
<v Speaker 1>have your number.

0:59:16.040 --> 0:59:22.840
<v Speaker 2>I was like, shut the door, bye bye. God. I

0:59:23.000 --> 0:59:25.320
<v Speaker 2>just felt so bad, even though we weren't together. I

0:59:25.440 --> 0:59:27.720
<v Speaker 2>just felt so terrible about doing that.

0:59:30.280 --> 0:59:35.240
<v Speaker 1>I have never cheated in film. He is lying, I know, bitch.

0:59:35.320 --> 0:59:37.920
<v Speaker 1>I said I've never cheated and felt bad about it.

0:59:38.480 --> 0:59:42.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling the truth because if I actually engaged with

0:59:42.360 --> 0:59:44.000
<v Speaker 1>somebody else, I'm done with you.

0:59:44.400 --> 0:59:46.360
<v Speaker 2>We were done. Yeah, I'm with you.

0:59:46.960 --> 0:59:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't consider it cheating. I told you a thousand

0:59:49.760 --> 0:59:53.080
<v Speaker 1>times that I don't fuck with you no more. We done,

0:59:53.120 --> 0:59:56.160
<v Speaker 1>did all therapy, whatever else we you do. I've given

0:59:56.200 --> 0:59:57.800
<v Speaker 1>myself permission to sho on you.

0:59:58.360 --> 1:00:00.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was, it was. I don't consider I still

1:00:00.400 --> 1:00:05.080
<v Speaker 2>felt like bad because we still were cohabitating. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 2>you know he was probably having forty dollars six all

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<v Speaker 2>week here, you know, forty dollars you know over you know,

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<v Speaker 2>overseas he was at you know, you know, how they

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<v Speaker 2>be having sex with the girls over there, like maybe

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<v Speaker 2>all bad bitch's forty dollars HOLLI, you know, like having

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<v Speaker 2>a good time. Hey, hey, you know, I know he

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<v Speaker 2>was having his good time and I just needed to

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<v Speaker 2>feel something, you know, But I did not feel nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not feel nothing warm, warm fuck me. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, that is the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>Like niggas be wanting somebody would have fat ass, but

1:00:37.280 --> 1:00:39.960
<v Speaker 1>you can't even get in there. You can't even get

1:00:40.080 --> 1:00:42.680
<v Speaker 1>past the fat ass. You can't get past these time

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<v Speaker 1>get off.

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<v Speaker 2>So, yeah, something was good.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you still be crying in the car?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you'd be like yep. I probably would have been happier.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have been happy or I don't know what

1:00:55.240 --> 1:00:57.080
<v Speaker 2>I would have felt. Honestly, I might have still felt

1:00:57.120 --> 1:01:00.600
<v Speaker 2>bad about it, but the fact that I did enjoy

1:01:01.760 --> 1:01:03.920
<v Speaker 2>would have been like, that is a rap for this nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>It was already a rap. By to move all my

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<v Speaker 2>shit out of this house. It's over. It was already

1:01:08.200 --> 1:01:10.080
<v Speaker 2>a rap. But it was just like kind of sad.

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<v Speaker 2>The way I felt. I was like, he wridden, he's winning.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember this is in my early twenties, y'all. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>from middle Finger to my old life. My boyfriend that

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<v Speaker 1>I had from like sixteen to I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>long it'd be the same motherfucking people. Anyway, I remember

1:01:30.680 --> 1:01:33.640
<v Speaker 1>I met this guy and we actually we still. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't spoken to him in a few years now, but

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<v Speaker 1>when we talked, it is like, all good. But he's

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<v Speaker 1>in the military. He was stationed in not stationed, but

1:01:40.280 --> 1:01:43.280
<v Speaker 1>in Columbia for some training shit. So I yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>linked up with his ass and like we was just

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<v Speaker 1>inseparable the month he was in Columbia and my boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>was busting my phone down and I wasn't answering the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and my funny as if I answered the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>the nastiest attitude.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, why was in birthday? That's how I wrapped up.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in this other person way. It was your man,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all was still together.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it was his birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, I don't know. Well you that's all right,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you for tuning in. You forget it, you're fucking

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<v Speaker 2>another day. You're you're sleeping with another man? Is your

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<v Speaker 2>man's birthday? He like, damn, you forgot my birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>See this be the thing, right, This is why whenever

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<v Speaker 1>I do a little sum So maybe just hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody or actually engaging in sex. I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad because I already caught you cheating. I lit it slide.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't leave. I didn't cheat back, right, But now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm over all this ship and this then now this

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<v Speaker 1>is when I'm moving on. So he had already done

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<v Speaker 1>a whole bunch of shit. I just didn't leave. So

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<v Speaker 1>we even now, right, But why didn't Because I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't think like cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>Is the all n be all?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>It was you forgot a nigger birthday? Was it being

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<v Speaker 2>like a whole a whole slewis shit?

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<v Speaker 1>And at that time I was in a relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody where I felt like I was a breadwinner, like

1:03:06.520 --> 1:03:08.320
<v Speaker 1>I swear to guy, y'all I was. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I was a millionaire in my twenties. I had so

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<v Speaker 1>much money in back I don't know what the fuck

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<v Speaker 1>is my money?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, don't even get on that. Cause when

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<v Speaker 2>I was living in England, I was like making so

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<v Speaker 2>much money, where's my money? And I was just so

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<v Speaker 2>reckless with my money. I was like just paying for friendships,

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<v Speaker 2>like girl.

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<v Speaker 1>You get came, I'm taking this nigga on vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the man doing all that shit.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the man, and you cheat on me. Okay, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not the man.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll still never be the man. You know if you are, If.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not being a man in a relationship, and now

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<v Speaker 1>your girl is wearing a wearing a.

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<v Speaker 2>Pussy and a dick, how you wearing a dick? Y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>My mom would be saying that that's why I got

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<v Speaker 1>that from. That's bad, right, Yeah, you can't listen.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if he don't make as much money as you,

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<v Speaker 2>he's still the man. He's still the man, is he?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess no, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure y'all wearing the pantsy y, our relationship make

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<v Speaker 1>you a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>But money isn't the only way to wear the paint

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<v Speaker 2>we live in. I know women who make more money

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<v Speaker 2>than they man, and they man still is the hell.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna be doing all the things, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>still cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>But he had he provides value in other ways.

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<v Speaker 1>This same nigga hacked my computer. This motherfucker did not

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<v Speaker 1>even have a high school diploma. But he's an evil genius,

1:04:27.000 --> 1:04:30.400
<v Speaker 1>like he would sit up in a laboratory like Jill

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<v Speaker 1>not the science guy and like shit pinky and the

1:04:34.720 --> 1:04:37.840
<v Speaker 1>brain type ass do. But he literally hacked my computer

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<v Speaker 1>and this is like a long ass time ago, So

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<v Speaker 1>how do you even know how to do this shit?

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<v Speaker 1>Nigga had a children horse on my computer and anytime

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<v Speaker 1>I would type my password into anything, it would automatically

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<v Speaker 1>send him an email.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, bitch, I see what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. I remember one time I came to my apartment

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<v Speaker 1>that he's up and visiting me in my apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm coming home from work.

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<v Speaker 1>He's at my apartment. This nigga, I went through all

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<v Speaker 1>my like I had like his college trunk which I

1:05:06.600 --> 1:05:10.040
<v Speaker 1>still have in storage that I need to burn, just

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<v Speaker 1>burn a whole True, it's so much incriminating. No, it's

1:05:13.240 --> 1:05:16.400
<v Speaker 1>some incriminating shit in there. It's some incriminating shit in

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<v Speaker 1>this trunk.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what. He went through that trunk and found

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<v Speaker 2>my list up of everybody. He found a list, and

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<v Speaker 2>he was mad that he wasn't one on the list.

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<v Speaker 2>He was mad he wasn't at the top of the list.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I wasn't a virgin like niggas listed based

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<v Speaker 1>on who I've had.

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<v Speaker 2>Sex with you. You weren't my first? Oh, he thought

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<v Speaker 2>it was listening. I don't know what he thought, but I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was honest when I'm like, listen, you looking at a

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<v Speaker 1>ship that's not for your eyes one And that list

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<v Speaker 1>is not based on like good divad or no shit

1:05:51.480 --> 1:06:00.320
<v Speaker 1>like that. It's just from my first to now you somewhirst. Anyway, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my twenties. It wasn't no nigga was turning pages.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't play with me like you have the most of

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<v Speaker 1>your sex in your twenties, right, absolutely, especially.

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<v Speaker 2>If you went to college.

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<v Speaker 1>You really no reason, no reason. Ain't nobody buying no bags.

1:06:16.520 --> 1:06:19.280
<v Speaker 1>Ain't nobody paying no bills. You need a wash machine,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't doing that. They ain't doing ship but smiling your face.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you're like, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>But now these young girl today a tumble we rolled

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<v Speaker 1>past my bitches, prairie dogs that like this is ry there.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have nothing going on, So.

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<v Speaker 1>God send me somebody Jesus every day, all right, we

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<v Speaker 1>will cheat a right not cheat in this big age nowadays?

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<v Speaker 2>What's the last last?

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<v Speaker 1>My last last is communicate with your partner. Talk to

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<v Speaker 1>your partner, put down rules. I mean, like every single

1:06:53.920 --> 1:06:58.640
<v Speaker 1>thing you could think of from cheating, from other people

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<v Speaker 1>from cleaning, Okay, everything, Just write it all down and

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<v Speaker 1>have a discussion to make sure that the person you're with,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all on the same page. You know what I'm saying, because,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, there's no respectful cheating. But for me,

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<v Speaker 1>there is such thing as respectful cheating. Right if it

1:07:16.320 --> 1:07:18.680
<v Speaker 1>happens to happen, maybe we had an argument, you end

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<v Speaker 1>up at a bar, you end up having a white

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<v Speaker 1>one night said with a bitch strap up, And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't ever have to know about it because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>bring home an SCD and you don't bring home a kid.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all you really can ask for from another Oh

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<v Speaker 2>that's all you can ask or there's the bare minimum

1:07:34.000 --> 1:07:34.760
<v Speaker 2>of things to ask.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, I'm being realistic at this page. I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just being really.

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<v Speaker 2>Is like alternative facts. It's the same thing like if

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<v Speaker 2>you're cheating, you're deceitful. You can't be deceitful respectfully. Just

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<v Speaker 2>be honest, Just be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>But we ask men to be honest all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>but are we actually in the mental state to accept

1:08:00.160 --> 1:08:03.120
<v Speaker 1>honesty because for men, for men, they think that when

1:08:03.120 --> 1:08:07.000
<v Speaker 1>they're honest they can still have you. But sometimes when

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<v Speaker 1>you're honest, I still make a choice to leave you.

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<v Speaker 1>So just because you tell the truth doesn't mean I'm mistake.

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<v Speaker 1>And in their minds, they feel like if I tell

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<v Speaker 1>the truth, they'll stay. So that's why they lie because

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<v Speaker 1>they know you gonna leave.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Okay, they're gonna tell me the truth. Like, just

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<v Speaker 2>be honest, be real, because some people are not gonna leave.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of women ain't gonna leave, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of men don't leave. Men

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<v Speaker 1>have been cheated on and they don't leave. But like

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<v Speaker 1>I said before, and it actually we're viral. If you

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<v Speaker 1>cheat on the man and he keeps you, bitch, you

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<v Speaker 1>better leave. You better, you better leave, because he gonna

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<v Speaker 1>make you pay every day of that relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Cheated on him.

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<v Speaker 1>He may not even Actually I would prefer for you

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<v Speaker 1>to actually go out and cheat, then to want to

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<v Speaker 1>have periodic arguments with me about what may or may

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<v Speaker 1>not have trans transpired. Yeah, I would prefer that leave

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<v Speaker 1>me or go cheat on me and get it over with.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be harassing me in the fucking relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Dog. You can't try to.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep me hostage here and we have sex and have

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<v Speaker 1>a good night and have a good day, maybe even

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<v Speaker 1>on vacation. As soon as we get back, you on

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<v Speaker 1>some bullshit about what happened a month ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Nah, I'm not doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave me this because I'm like a nigga like y'all get.

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<v Speaker 2>He's ow day. I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care, don't do that, don't give no money away,

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<v Speaker 1>give it all right, you guys?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? Listen, all right, y'all, hit hit him with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh way, have to fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait wait wait wait wait you say? All right,

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