Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeart
Speaker 1: Radio and the Black Effect Network.
Speaker 2: Talk Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with
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Speaker 1: Y'all tuning in for a new episode of We Talk Back,
Speaker 1: a show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.
Speaker 2: This is your co host, A J.
Speaker 1: Holiday.
Speaker 2: What's up, Tam Bam?
Speaker 1: What's up y'all? I fucking love y'all, Lass so much.
Speaker 2: Calm down, I do. I was trying to make your energy.
Speaker 2: I sound excited today.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm on my rise coffee, my mushroom coffee.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have me some here in a minute. I
Speaker 2: love my mushroom coffee. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Our weekend was great, but wake your ass.
Speaker 2: That's why I'm tired. I'm tied. Listen, I te tied.
Speaker 2: That was a lot my body went through this weekend.
Speaker 1: One thing about it. I know my limitations. Tammy be
Speaker 1: pushing it, bitch, listen, limit thinking about what I gotta do. Shit,
Speaker 1: we had a fun filled weekend. This past weekend was
Speaker 1: a Black Effect Podcast Festival, second annual. Okay, yeah, let
Speaker 1: per usual. You know, we only got one other to
Speaker 1: compare it to, and it was great. You know what
Speaker 1: I want to see next year, which I might even
Speaker 1: suggest because there was an R and B festival going
Speaker 1: on simultaneously, because my homegirl came to the podcast festival
Speaker 1: and she left and went to this R and B. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we need a stage with some with some music outside
Speaker 1: because I don't I don't feel like that whole outside
Speaker 1: was open like that last year.
Speaker 2: No, because they had the food vendors all on the
Speaker 2: other side. We didn't. It wasn't like that. Yeah, so
Speaker 2: it did split the crowd up a bit exactly.
Speaker 1: So that big ass open outside field, they can go
Speaker 1: ahead and throw another age out there and throw some music.
Speaker 1: Maybe even somebody who already does podcasts can perform their
Speaker 1: podcast and do some songs, like maybe like R and
Speaker 1: B money to do some ship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I also think we should move to another city.
Speaker 1: No, I think Atlanta is it. I mean it's not
Speaker 1: like maybe another black city like Houston or something like that. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't think they should move. They definitely shouldn't have
Speaker 1: it in New York. Remember the first one was supposed
Speaker 1: to be in New York. I don't think that would
Speaker 1: have been a good move.
Speaker 2: I think that should have it as Charlotte, so I
Speaker 2: ain't got to travel. Oh that part.
Speaker 1: No, I did suggest that too, So Charlotte. Charlotte definitely
Speaker 1: would be lit.
Speaker 2: It's the same thing. Yeah, it would be It would
Speaker 2: be a good thing.
Speaker 1: And people from Atlanta would you know, they will travel.
Speaker 2: It's not that far. It's not that far, right.
Speaker 1: Because I spoke to some people and they were alway
Speaker 1: from Ohio. Girl, people was flying in for that ship.
Speaker 1: But yeah, shout out to a black Effect podcast.
Speaker 2: Network and yeah, okay, so there, we booked a we
Speaker 2: booked a party for Sunday emphasis on week and then
Speaker 2: this has been said. You know what I'm gonna do?
Speaker 2: Talk back?
Speaker 1: Oh, talk back to your ass later. We ain't doing shit,
Speaker 1: that said tavy ass right on, Like you went home,
Speaker 1: Like that's about right. I would have had to drive
Speaker 1: from Atlanta to Charlotte and then back to Charleston.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was too much. Ire y'all was like, y'all
Speaker 2: have fun. We did have a great time. It was
Speaker 2: a good it was a good old time. But now
Speaker 2: I'm sleeping for two days straight. You gotta we need
Speaker 2: to recuperate. Yeah, but it was good time, good time.
Speaker 1: Listen y'all, we did go to the strip club this weekend.
Speaker 2: I'm excited when.
Speaker 1: We go to the strip club, okay, because I only
Speaker 1: go like once every ten weeks or some shit.
Speaker 2: You looked excited to go in early, but then about
Speaker 2: after twenty minutes to be in there, you looked over it.
Speaker 1: It was I was over, yeah, because I didn't get
Speaker 1: the fucking sit down. Bit ch'all was standing up in
Speaker 1: that little ass hot box they had.
Speaker 2: Oh you was standing while you here. I told you
Speaker 2: could sit on my lap.
Speaker 1: Girl, you'd had to throw some ones on the side.
Speaker 2: Bitch. I had enough. I can't listen. I had enough one.
Speaker 1: I wasn't one of the ones who threw my one
Speaker 1: hundred and then said no more.
Speaker 2: I was like, give me another, give me another, Can
Speaker 2: I have another? I know I threw at least six
Speaker 2: hundred dollars by myself.
Speaker 1: I kept asking for a stack of one. This bitch
Speaker 1: wanted to rotate the hose that was in it. All
Speaker 1: of them bitches wanted to rotate the hose. Girl, I
Speaker 1: was giving that money out. Just the only one who
Speaker 1: said something. I was like, Chola, man, let's rotate these bitches.
Speaker 2: Man new Batch y'all black women, black people. Nuts.
Speaker 1: Dog. I feel like I feel like y'all motherfuckers was
Speaker 1: discriminating a little bit.
Speaker 2: On the light skinned girls, not even the lap I
Speaker 2: don't know. I I just feel like we've had the
Speaker 2: light skined strippers be celebrated since I can remember. I
Speaker 2: just wanted some chocolate in there, right, and jocolate is
Speaker 2: so nice? Okay, No, no shade to the light skinned strippers.
Speaker 2: I mean, in Puerto Rican strippers, they's beautiful too, But
Speaker 2: I just wanted to see some chocolates. You know.
Speaker 1: I'm such a data analyst, Like I really be analyzing
Speaker 1: the weirdest shit and the weirdest places. All I could
Speaker 1: think about was like, damn, this is a whole new,
Speaker 1: fresh batch of hoes like.
Speaker 2: They mama probably used to worry.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the girls that get up on a
Speaker 1: pole and do all the things like how do you like,
Speaker 1: how do you know you coming from high school to
Speaker 1: go do this?
Speaker 2: Like what were you? Were you a dancer in high school?
Speaker 1: Like what was y'all doing to prepare to be swinging
Speaker 1: from the ceiling and magic City?
Speaker 2: Okay, how does that happen? They probably learned all that
Speaker 2: shit there you think so that they look early twenties
Speaker 2: like y'all. Yeah, but they strong, they young, they susceptible
Speaker 2: the information. I'm sure they understand learned how to do
Speaker 2: it real information very very but listen, I turned around.
Speaker 2: This girl. She did something amazing. She bent over and
Speaker 2: put her one leg straight up in the air, and
Speaker 2: they was like, timmy, look, I turned around, y'all was
Speaker 2: a pussy right eye level with my face. I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I didn't mean to be that close.
Speaker 2: I wasn't like that. I ain't like that. I don't
Speaker 2: want that. I'm cool. I'm cool. I'm cool, but I
Speaker 2: just have I always wanted to understand the psychology behind
Speaker 2: being able to be fully naked in public and not
Speaker 2: feel shame or anything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all I was thinking about.
Speaker 2: Like I'd be feeling shame when my titties a sitting
Speaker 2: upright in my dress. I don't know, man, on the
Speaker 2: level of is it confidence or is it something else?
Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to understand.
Speaker 1: Like, I mean, they was drinking just as much liquor
Speaker 1: as us. So do y'all get drunk to do this?
Speaker 1: Do you have to be on drugs to do this
Speaker 1: is this really you?
Speaker 2: You know? Right? So I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, you watch the movies and you see the
Speaker 1: girls they be on cocaine all that shit in the back,
Speaker 1: like they gotta get high in order to do their job.
Speaker 1: I don't ever want to be doing nothing in life
Speaker 1: that I can't do one hundred percent. So I'm pretty
Speaker 1: sure there's some women in their sober Yeah.
Speaker 2: They don't do nothing, and then they're just having a great time, yeah,
Speaker 2: and they feel empowered or something like that.
Speaker 1: I guess it's two different types of strippers. It's some
Speaker 1: that gotta do it and some that you know, do
Speaker 1: it because they like.
Speaker 2: Maybe we should get a camera behind me and I
Speaker 2: be a strip of a day. I'd be the worst
Speaker 2: stripper though. I'll be up there doing a robot and ship.
Speaker 2: They be like, just been over bit, are you.
Speaker 1: Gonna hear some fucking knees that need oil and bitch
Speaker 1: a lot of shit.
Speaker 2: My knees is good.
Speaker 1: It's the hip, is that right, hire that you hear crack?
Speaker 2: So they ain't gonna be able to hear it over
Speaker 2: the music. Let's get it to says y'all big Lotto.
Speaker 1: I said, y'all, Ship in front of y'all man, I
Speaker 1: sneak downstairs. She's asking, do y'all ship in front of
Speaker 1: your man? Or do y'all go in another room? What
Speaker 1: should be doing?
Speaker 2: First of all, everybody ain't got no downstairs Lotto, so
Speaker 2: some of these motherfuckers got one bathroom. Okay, but listen,
Speaker 2: go ahead.
Speaker 1: Now, I was gonna say, yeah, send us some money
Speaker 1: for a downstairs. You remember a couple of weeks ago
Speaker 1: she sent this girl some money for her rent because
Speaker 1: Lotto has said something. And the girl was like, now, Lotto,
Speaker 1: everybody don't got that. She was like, oh, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: How much your runners? Right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to down build on.
Speaker 1: Top of our ship. We need to upstairs build us
Speaker 1: up because the.
Speaker 2: Fuck I used to at some point I was with
Speaker 2: my last boyfriend. We were together like four or five years,
Speaker 2: and at some point I got comfortable enough to shit.
Speaker 2: But in the first maybe two years, no, and it
Speaker 2: used to be such a painful experience. I used to
Speaker 2: have to like send it. I said, can you gonna
Speaker 2: get me some ice cream? Ice cream? Right now? Please
Speaker 2: go go, like just trying to get that one fuck
Speaker 2: out of the house. I can take a poop and
Speaker 2: He finally caught on that I was trying to avoid
Speaker 2: like pooping around him, and he had to sit me
Speaker 2: down and be like, bro, stop sending me places just
Speaker 2: so you can use the bathroom. You're a human, are we, bitch?
Speaker 1: Because I'm still nothing. Maybe I get that from my mama,
Speaker 1: Like I feel like she ain't never.
Speaker 2: Poop or.
Speaker 1: Excuse me poop or poop in front of my daddy.
Speaker 1: Cause I don't even want to say farnt fart for
Speaker 1: this bitch to be trying to correct my uh.
Speaker 2: Ain't no internet words as up anyway.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't do it, not even far like I
Speaker 1: only farn't when I am unconscious, like in my fucking sleep,
Speaker 1: I might let one out and it might wait me up,
Speaker 1: But I'm not just intentionally letting loose. Fra Once, when I.
Speaker 2: Tell you I stayed at her house one, you feel
Speaker 2: like your ruins the intimessey.
Speaker 1: That's what I was about to say, like I had
Speaker 1: a friend who I watched her, continued, I mean, just
Speaker 1: just a weekend, I'm at her house. She just is sparting,
Speaker 1: like letting loose, letting loose, and I'm looking at her, nigga,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yo, like that does to me. I
Speaker 1: don't want my man super ripping it off all the
Speaker 1: damn time. I don't like it, and close the door
Speaker 1: when you're taking a shit.
Speaker 2: I'm cool.
Speaker 1: I don't want to see that, and I don't want
Speaker 1: to smell it.
Speaker 2: I don't like man. I almost end up in a
Speaker 2: hospital on some shit like that. Me my my ex boyfriend,
Speaker 2: not the last one, but the one prior to that.
Speaker 2: Me and him in his home his cousin, which was
Speaker 2: also a man. We went to the outlets in Myrtle
Speaker 2: Beach from Columbia, so that's like what two and a
Speaker 2: half hour drive or something like that. We stopped at
Speaker 2: McDonald's to get some breakfast. I got the steak bagel
Speaker 2: had just come out. I was like, I'm gonna try that, baby,
Speaker 2: that shit ball my stuff up. About forty five minutes
Speaker 2: to the round, I had to fart so bad, but
Speaker 2: there's no way I'm farting in front of these two men,
Speaker 2: So I held my fart and by the time we
Speaker 2: made it to the beach, I needed to go to
Speaker 2: the emergency room. It felt like I was having a
Speaker 2: heart attack. Gas was all up in my chest and everything.
Speaker 2: We were and we were going to the outlet, and
Speaker 2: I knew he was gonna buy me stuff, but I
Speaker 2: couldn't even get out the car. I stayed in the
Speaker 2: car while they went shopped, and I just laid there
Speaker 2: and farted for like forty minutes. This really happened. I
Speaker 2: was so miserable. I couldn't move.
Speaker 1: That crazy of some farns just stuck to my body
Speaker 1: like that, like I'll wait in ta take a shower.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna close the door. And I burned incense like
Speaker 1: that kid that cuts the smell immediately, right if I
Speaker 1: got to do it while he is home. But I
Speaker 1: try to let all my poops and poops out on
Speaker 1: this nigga go home.
Speaker 2: I can't do it. Eventually, I had to. Eventually, I
Speaker 2: had to just be a human being.
Speaker 1: I can't do it.
Speaker 2: So you never be. You ain't never been. Like, can
Speaker 2: you pass me tissue? Like you realized there was no
Speaker 2: rong chuck?
Speaker 1: No, actually no, I want to make sure I got
Speaker 1: all my things. I don't want to have to do that.
Speaker 2: I don't I don't want to have to, but it
Speaker 2: has happened. I'm a cat.
Speaker 1: Cats literally cove it, shut up and hide it. Y'all
Speaker 1: fucking dogs. Leave y'all shit out for people to see him. Smell, baby,
Speaker 1: give me a row, please out the cabinet, ask it
Speaker 1: to me, because what I'm gonna do?
Speaker 2: Shut up? All right? So Diddy's daughter Chance looks so
Speaker 2: beautiful attending her prom with Branson Bailey and he is
Speaker 2: the younger brother of Chloe and Halle Bailey. And they
Speaker 2: looked very beautiful. They looked very like simple and elegant prom.
Speaker 2: And one of the comments AJ is there with hard
Speaker 2: eyes under the picture, and then right under that there's
Speaker 2: a person that says, see how people with actual money
Speaker 2: do prom. She didn't need a camel, a ski mask
Speaker 2: on a yacht, a step squad to introduce her. Just
Speaker 2: be broke as hell and tacky for no reason. Laughing faces.
Speaker 1: I agree, I disagree, I agree.
Speaker 2: Listen, pomp and circumstance your shit, because a lot of
Speaker 2: times these young people are a chance. I promise you
Speaker 2: Chance and Branson probably been on the yacht. They probably
Speaker 2: can go ride a camel on their family vacations. They
Speaker 2: at least some of these people don't get to experience
Speaker 2: none of that ever in life. Like sometimes prom is
Speaker 2: the only time they'll wear a gown in their entire life.
Speaker 2: Do it big, baby, do it big. Let your people
Speaker 2: celebrate you, because they don't. Because they're rich. They've had
Speaker 2: all these expensive, extravagant experiences, and it's just not fair
Speaker 2: to judge people who don't get to have that this
Speaker 2: one day. They want to feel like the like the
Speaker 2: rich people.
Speaker 1: You saying that, but you are the one who has
Speaker 1: have been sending me these people proms over done and
Speaker 1: talking shit.
Speaker 2: Why I feel so bad?
Speaker 1: I talked shit to you about the jerseys being like
Speaker 1: a big gaudy but I wouldn't say I wouldn't either
Speaker 1: of them, like, don't do this. This is because this
Speaker 1: is for you and you may not get to experience
Speaker 1: this again. A lot of these you can see the
Speaker 1: project building in the back, you know, Like.
Speaker 2: And that is maybe problem.
Speaker 1: They are in the projects because the parents are not
Speaker 1: prioritizing what is actually important. You can say, like this
Speaker 1: may be the only time they can do this. That's
Speaker 1: not true. Those children got their whole life ahead of them,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, why go in debt
Speaker 1: for this one event when you already don't fucking have it?
Speaker 1: That is the point the people who actually have the
Speaker 1: money are doing the simplest of things. And yes they
Speaker 1: may have had those other experiences, but this is a
Speaker 1: high school PM. Why y'all got horses? Not the one
Speaker 1: little girl who had the horse her and her boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I know it was fire, that was flies, hell, dress
Speaker 1: was regular black. Nice that was and that probably didn't
Speaker 1: cost much just to get a horse to pull up
Speaker 1: in some cameras. But some of that shit I'm seeing.
Speaker 1: They gotta have a lambbo they got Come on, man.
Speaker 2: The dance crew coming out. They'll walk you out.
Speaker 1: I remember seeing a post guy posted asking if he
Speaker 1: was wrong because he's co parenting with his son's mom
Speaker 1: and the son mom is trying to go all out
Speaker 1: for his prom. He she wants to get this, get that,
Speaker 1: and the daddy's like, listen, I don't have all that
Speaker 1: money to spend on prom, and I don't think it's
Speaker 1: wise that you're doing it either. She basically call him
Speaker 1: a broke ass nigga.
Speaker 2: That is not cool. He's not a broke ass nigga.
Speaker 1: If he's trying to, like really prioritiz like y'all want
Speaker 1: to live it out for this one fucking day. What
Speaker 1: happens next week when you're renting you and all this shit,
Speaker 1: like what type of money.
Speaker 2: Are you tying to put yourself out? But look, I say,
Speaker 2: you put yourself out of your hat.
Speaker 1: But look at the proms and the things that these
Speaker 1: kids are having for the for this one day.
Speaker 2: I can appreciate it because they feel very special. They
Speaker 2: feel special on this one day. Maybe they ain't never
Speaker 2: got to feel like that before.
Speaker 1: It's all for social media. It's all for social media.
Speaker 1: It's the parents doing it for social media. It's the
Speaker 1: kids doing it for social media. Y'all doing the most
Speaker 1: for no reasons. One prom you got college coming up hopefully,
Speaker 1: y'all all motherfuckers is going to college?
Speaker 2: What type of.
Speaker 1: Money are the millennials making that they can afford this
Speaker 1: type of shit for these kids?
Speaker 2: Because I don't got no kids and not be broken
Speaker 2: as hell? What is fucking happening?
Speaker 1: If you wanted to rent a camel tomorrow, you could
Speaker 1: rent a camel, sit your ass down.
Speaker 2: And I wouldn't bitch.
Speaker 1: I like furniture and shit like that, like other things
Speaker 1: I can have for longer than a day.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean I get what I understand exactly
Speaker 2: what you're saying. But I can understand why a parents
Speaker 2: would want to do the most for their baby on
Speaker 2: they one prom. Maybe their mama didn't even get to
Speaker 2: go to prom.
Speaker 1: I do like, still wouldn't I'd be exciting when my
Speaker 1: like my youngest niece, she's ready for prom just this Saturday,
Speaker 1: and I helped her get her dress and all that stuff,
Speaker 1: Like that's enough excitement for me, and she's happy. Also,
Speaker 1: like all this extra shit is fucking wild to me.
Speaker 1: And guess what all you're doing is ready and your
Speaker 1: damn daughter to get smashed tonight. Also, and you know
Speaker 1: I gave her a car, all the things, she got
Speaker 1: everything she need.
Speaker 2: Listen, she gonna get. She gonna get smashed in a
Speaker 2: regular dress or that fancy dress. So I just wouldn't
Speaker 2: get a dolled up Yo.
Speaker 1: It's just too much, man, it's just too much.
Speaker 2: Did you have sex after your prom?
Speaker 1: I didn't go to prom.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I didn't go to prom because you know, I have
Speaker 1: a mom who doesn't see the importance of that type
Speaker 1: of shit. She don't think like weddings are necessary, she
Speaker 1: don't think baby showers are necessary. She didn't think prom
Speaker 1: is necessary. She was like, if you want to go
Speaker 1: to prom, you gotta buy your own prom dress. I
Speaker 1: didn't hear a prom. Yeah, so what my nieces done? Like,
Speaker 1: I make sure I show up for them and I
Speaker 1: could see them off the prom because I never.
Speaker 2: Went, I don't do. I regret it.
Speaker 1: Another problem, y'all, my big fucking young ass was talking
Speaker 1: to old ass niggas. So these niggas was not in
Speaker 1: high school to even go to prom with me. Another
Speaker 1: part fast I was just so.
Speaker 2: I was like a prom whore. I went to every nigga.
Speaker 2: I went to all the high school's proms with different niggas.
Speaker 2: I'm talking about from freshman year up. Like I was
Speaker 2: just prom prom prom. I loved it. That was my
Speaker 2: favorite pastime in the spring Well, Richland Spring Valley. I'm
Speaker 2: going to everybody's prom.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But I used to get the boy to buy my dress.
Speaker 2: I've been getting tricked down since fourteen, That's what she said.
Speaker 2: Dress because my mom she was like, I'll buy a
Speaker 2: dress for your prom. That's it. I can't buy a
Speaker 2: dress from every nigga prom in Columbia. So I think
Speaker 2: one time I wore the same dress to two different proms.
Speaker 2: You got a full mottit. Jac's Penny's finest sort, all right.
Speaker 1: So look, this is some well all of this shit
Speaker 1: is stupid internet news. So this post online. It actually
Speaker 1: was on Laura le Ross's page. So this girl tweeted
Speaker 1: and said this lady on ig posted an engagement photo
Speaker 1: and that was the first time she had ever posted
Speaker 1: her man. Soon as she posted that shit, the woman
Speaker 1: her fiance had been cheating with contacted her and now
Speaker 1: they are no longer engaged. Now I gotta been guilty
Speaker 1: of that because I don't think when I got engaged.
Speaker 1: I think I posted a candid picture of me and
Speaker 1: him and you see a ring on my finger. I
Speaker 1: never like posted like this my man and had all
Speaker 1: the wedding slew of pictures, you know, because I had
Speaker 1: gotten engaged this person. I remember one of my homegirls
Speaker 1: at the time telling me, oh, my engagement was going
Speaker 1: to be real until I post it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, what, what hey? Girl?
Speaker 1: That makes absolutely no fucking sense, because look, I didn't
Speaker 1: post it. And the only way y'all know I was
Speaker 1: engaged is because I told y'all. Now, what if I
Speaker 1: had a slew of pictures of this relationship only to
Speaker 1: now not be with the person. That's what happened when
Speaker 1: you post all this shit online.
Speaker 2: So you didn't post him at all.
Speaker 1: I had one picture, maybe two, maybe two pictures and
Speaker 1: that and he had to initiate that. Any relationship I've
Speaker 1: ever been in that work that had any posting, the
Speaker 1: man initiated it.
Speaker 2: I don't like doing it.
Speaker 1: I don't like people in my business, and I don't
Speaker 1: like bitches coming to me as a woman. Once I
Speaker 1: do post my nigga because I'm coming as a sniper
Speaker 1: every fucking time.
Speaker 2: Don't come to me as a woman. Please, But why
Speaker 2: are you gonna come to her as a sniper? WF
Speaker 2: she think that's her man too? Girl?
Speaker 1: Women be knowing if I'm engaged to this man, that
Speaker 1: means I'm probably I've probably spent every holiday with.
Speaker 2: Him where you've been at.
Speaker 1: No women be knowing, you know what?
Speaker 2: But sometimes niggas are stealthy liars. I was talking to
Speaker 2: this guy and I just was like so smitt with him.
Speaker 2: I thought, Okay, this could be a husband. Right. He
Speaker 2: was successful, he was handsome. I mean it didn't last
Speaker 2: that long, so I probably would have found out eventually,
Speaker 2: But I like we had got drunk one night, I
Speaker 2: hadn't even slept with him yet, right I was holding
Speaker 2: my vagina. Something was just telling me, like, don't rush
Speaker 2: into intimacy in that way. Make out, do some heavy petting.
Speaker 2: But it never did to do. And one night we
Speaker 2: got really drunk together and I said to him, like
Speaker 2: I got like a little emotional, and I just told
Speaker 2: I thanked him for being a good person, Like I
Speaker 2: feel like a lot of men come and try to
Speaker 2: take advantage and I just really need good people in
Speaker 2: my life, So thank you for being that baby. I
Speaker 2: ain't hear from him after that. I didn't know he disappeared.
Speaker 2: He disappeared, and then he came back like months later
Speaker 2: trying to say something to me, and I was like,
Speaker 2: you ghosted me and we were getting along so well,
Speaker 2: like why he was like, I'm married, get married, And he.
Speaker 1: Knew you were getting serious with him, like so.
Speaker 2: He just yeah, And I got all emotional and really
Speaker 2: telling him. But I let him know upfront that I
Speaker 2: was only interested in dating for marriage, so he knew
Speaker 2: that from the beginning, but he.
Speaker 1: Didn't on getting that pussy first, and you just was
Speaker 1: taking too long. This is the importance of waiting.
Speaker 2: Right, he was gonna be regardless. Yeah, he was gonna
Speaker 2: ghost me regardless. But I think he developed a little
Speaker 2: bit of a conscience when I was pouring my heart
Speaker 2: out to him and then just was like, man, I'm
Speaker 2: just gonna go now. Shame.
Speaker 1: So uh, is it true that you don't know somebody
Speaker 1: until you live with them, or you don't know him
Speaker 1: until you post him on social media?
Speaker 2: You don't know until you post them? Baby? Is that
Speaker 2: a whole nothing? So, yes, that's an episode to.
Speaker 1: Be had because I don't I can't imagine and you
Speaker 1: know anytime. That is part of the reason that might
Speaker 1: be one of the reasons why I don't post. I
Speaker 1: don't like people in my business. I'm a very private person.
Speaker 1: Even though we talk a whole lot of shit on here,
Speaker 1: you still only know what I want you to know. Okay,
Speaker 1: So now that is a part of the reason why
Speaker 1: I don't like posting people. I remember one time, this
Speaker 1: current nigga. Okay, this is when we were together years ago,
Speaker 1: a bitch came on my page and only liked a
Speaker 1: picture of him.
Speaker 2: Who fuck you playing with? And I'm like, who's this right?
Speaker 2: Because you know her? Yeah? Who the fuck? Is this.
Speaker 1: You gotta know this bitch, because why the who the
Speaker 1: fuck comes on a bitch page that only like her?
Speaker 2: Nigga? Listen, I went on a bitch page one time
Speaker 2: and like all her baby show our pictures with my
Speaker 2: ex boyfriends. You petty bitch. Congratulations, bitch, I'm praying for you.
Speaker 2: You're probably forever for real now.
Speaker 1: Yes, anyway, post your man when y'all feel like it.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't see the significance of posting relationships
Speaker 1: social media is for me. I'd like for it to
Speaker 1: be more of some business shit, but you know, people
Speaker 1: want to see a life, especially when you.
Speaker 2: Like a puppet public.
Speaker 1: About to say puppet figure, a public figure. You said
Speaker 1: it right, exactly, a puppet figure. Yeah. You want to
Speaker 1: see you and what you got going on and who
Speaker 1: you fucking with? Nah, dang your business. So I mean
Speaker 1: she did right, yeah, because when it got serious and
Speaker 1: then now she knows what time it is.
Speaker 2: I don't like when people be posting all their relationship everything.
Speaker 2: We're having ice cream today, we're doing this, or so
Speaker 2: in love and then he just disappeared. No, bitch, you
Speaker 2: need to tell us what happens. We've been to every
Speaker 2: dinner we've been to every lunch. Now I don't know. No,
Speaker 2: I'm fully investigate what happened.
Speaker 1: But how about I can count all the bodies you
Speaker 1: done had the last decade. You're not to every man
Speaker 1: you've ever been with on your soci your media. I'm
Speaker 1: carrying all your body and these the ones we know about, right,
Speaker 1: I just.
Speaker 2: Be I be in person with women who can switch
Speaker 2: boyfriends like panties like and be really like claiming niggas
Speaker 2: publicly so quickly. Who you're talking about me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all, y'all this episode is about.
Speaker 2: Cheating respectfully.
Speaker 1: Man, I love these naggets and niggas live me.
Speaker 2: He was a skill y'all?
Speaker 1: Is there such a thing as respectful cheating? So this
Speaker 1: guy who we didn't she didn't find out about any
Speaker 1: side bitches until she posted. Maybe, like if if there
Speaker 1: was no inkling he was actually cheating at any point,
Speaker 1: maybe he was doing respectfully and maybe this one person
Speaker 1: he just couldn't keep in line enough to keep the
Speaker 1: lie going. But I think that most women are more
Speaker 1: disappointed in the embarrassment that they feel when other people
Speaker 1: know that they've been cheated on. Right, So is there
Speaker 1: such a thing as respectful cheating. Y'all stay tuned for
Speaker 1: this week's episode. Will be right back after this commercial.
Speaker 2: All right, guys, we're back. All right. So, Ninny Leeks
Speaker 2: did an interview and she said that there's a such
Speaker 2: thing as respectful cheating, and it's when a woman, the
Speaker 2: side chick, stays fifty feet away from the main tie.
Speaker 2: Just fifty rules. I must have missed that. Ye have
Speaker 2: rules fifty feet. They don't take no pictures together, no
Speaker 2: babies or anything that happens. And that was pretty much it,
Speaker 2: Like she just stays very anonymous who says the rules.
Speaker 2: I guess the party's involved. I guess her and not Yanni.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know if that's I don't know.
Speaker 2: They be on again, off again.
Speaker 1: Y'all think you what that got? I mean, was he
Speaker 1: not still married when they got together?
Speaker 2: I do not know that part, but I wanted to
Speaker 2: discuss that because that seems to be a thing. Now.
Speaker 1: Is there such thing as respectful cheating? Yes, there is
Speaker 1: such a thing as respectful cheating. I never want to
Speaker 1: know that you cheated. If you I don't. Okay, we
Speaker 1: talk about this shit a lot, like being in non
Speaker 1: monogamous relationships. I don't really believe in non monogamy, but
Speaker 1: I believe in honesty. And if you can't be fucking honest, nigga,
Speaker 1: just do it so well that I never know. When
Speaker 1: you start producing kids, Okay, I know all your dirt.
Speaker 1: At that point, you just produced a whole another human being.
Speaker 1: When a bitch is calling the phone, calling the house,
Speaker 1: messaging me from your bed.
Speaker 2: Is okay, man to have a side cheek. No, it's
Speaker 2: not okay.
Speaker 1: But I don't think that we can go through this
Speaker 1: life without ever having access to the opposite sex. And
Speaker 1: maybe you and your partner can set a standard like,
Speaker 1: look when we married, but when we turn fifty, we're
Speaker 1: gonna have some other people. Maybe it's something like that,
Speaker 1: but and we know about it. But if you happen
Speaker 1: to get your dick and some shit, I don't want
Speaker 1: to know about it. I want you to do it,
Speaker 1: so I don't want to know about that shit. Like
Speaker 1: I don't want to know that you're playing in my face.
Speaker 1: I don't want to know that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, ignorance is bliss, that's what you're basically saying.
Speaker 2: But in my opinion, there's no such thing as respectful cheating,
Speaker 2: because once you're cheating, you're disrespecting the fuck out of me.
Speaker 2: Once you're cheating is disrespect I don't think. Because yeah,
Speaker 2: because there's such thing where is twenty twenty four? There's
Speaker 2: such thing as open relationships. If that's what you want,
Speaker 2: share that with me because I can. I can open up.
Speaker 1: I can open up with your baby already. Men can't
Speaker 1: handle the shit they dish. They can't handle it.
Speaker 2: This is true.
Speaker 1: Do I want to not be with my partner because
Speaker 1: I know he can't handle me cheating on him?
Speaker 2: Quarterly? You want to respectfully cheat too? Is that what
Speaker 2: you're saying? Oh? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: So the thing is you want to respectfully do it
Speaker 1: because if I find out I don't leave you because
Speaker 1: of cheating, I am a big tit for tatter. Okay, so, motherfucker,
Speaker 1: if you tip me, I'm aa tat yourt tat tat
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Where movie is that?
Speaker 2: I don't know you? And the movie is that? Y'all?
Speaker 2: Tat tat tat what the fuck? I don't know? Y'all,
Speaker 2: go in the comments, tell us what the movie that is?
Speaker 2: I need y'all to know what if y'all's real, Because
Speaker 2: y'all know that movie. What's the movie? I'm not telling
Speaker 2: I want them to gage. Okay, they gonna know, or
Speaker 2: maybe I'll tell it at the end, but I ain't
Speaker 2: gonna tell you now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So yeah, don't tip me, and I want tat
Speaker 1: If you're faithful, I'll be faithful. If I find out
Speaker 1: you doing some ships, if you do do some shit, right,
Speaker 1: I better never find out about it because I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna leave you for jeating.
Speaker 2: I'm listening. Yeah, if you paid for some puzzy, it
Speaker 2: gotta listen. If they got pussy, they paid for it,
Speaker 2: because listen outside outside, women.
Speaker 1: Just be cheap, okay, is not you?
Speaker 2: You're man for free. You're a man somebody else's man.
Speaker 2: Those women want something and they can't have him in
Speaker 2: a real way, so they're gonna want tangible things. It
Speaker 2: just depends.
Speaker 1: Because if he's a scorpio, he definitely and multiple full
Speaker 1: fledged relationships. He is figuring out a way to juggle
Speaker 1: his dick between multiple women.
Speaker 2: Oh, I just that scares me so bad because I
Speaker 2: just I just be. I have this fear, I really
Speaker 2: have this fear, you guys, that I'm gonna end up
Speaker 2: on snap you know, that show that come on crime TV.
Speaker 1: No, you're not gonna end up on there.
Speaker 2: I have no idea because you don't play with me
Speaker 2: like that because I'm so open and like with the
Speaker 2: ships oftentimes that you can just tell me anything. Don't
Speaker 2: play with me because well everybody be like, yeah, we
Speaker 2: was watching that episode and we talked back and she
Speaker 2: said we was gonna be here evidence.
Speaker 1: They're gonna have your ass rerun it on YouTube, just
Speaker 1: like the young thug trout Yo, niggas, it's.
Speaker 2: Tuning in every day to me. Just tell me the truth,
Speaker 2: you know, because and I'm being.
Speaker 1: There as a witness, like, man, listen, it was it break.
Speaker 1: She ain't do it with a body because I didn't
Speaker 1: help you hide it with a body.
Speaker 2: Man, Y'll help you hide a body, just so y'all.
Speaker 2: So I just don't. I don't believe in cheating, respectfully,
Speaker 2: there's no such thing. There's just cheating and you just slick.
Speaker 1: But what how would you feel if your mate actually
Speaker 1: came to you and say, hey, I want to I
Speaker 1: met this person. You know, you know I wanted that
Speaker 1: business trip two weeks ago and I met a really
Speaker 1: nice No, I want to say two weeks let's say
Speaker 1: four months ago. Okay, I met a woman on a
Speaker 1: flight four months ago. You know we have been chatting
Speaker 1: up a little bit. You know, sometimes we have problems.
Speaker 1: I can't every come I can't always come to the
Speaker 1: problem with the problem. So I've been chatting it up
Speaker 1: with her, and you know, I want to fuck her.
Speaker 2: How would you take that? All? Right? First, I would
Speaker 2: want to exercise the understanding that we have a problem,
Speaker 2: but I'm not the problem. Let's attect. Let's discover what
Speaker 2: the problem is and attact that. Don't view me as
Speaker 2: the problem. There's an issue, right, and let's fix that.
Speaker 2: But that's what a coincidence that you met you met
Speaker 2: someone four months ago? Because in my DM there's this
Speaker 2: guy let him this is just one of them. But
Speaker 2: he's been at me for four months and I've been
Speaker 2: ignoring him. But he looks great. So if that's what
Speaker 2: something you want to explore, we can do that. But
Speaker 2: if you're not okay with me exploring, please don't try to.
Speaker 1: You know, Nigga gonna beat you up, Christopher Columbus baby,
Speaker 1: because that will be the Nina, the Santa, every and
Speaker 1: every other boat there is. So they can't take it,
Speaker 1: but I I if it happens, if one night. You know,
Speaker 1: this is why I'm a firm believer in Like, you know,
Speaker 1: when you you cohabitate with somebody, maybe y'all are married,
Speaker 1: living in the same space, don't ever put your nigga out.
Speaker 1: There are so many quality women like you literally sending
Speaker 1: your man to somebody else's house when you be like,
Speaker 1: get out for us. You know, the pigas is very slim,
Speaker 1: so it's always a bitch and the cut somewhere right?
Speaker 2: What was that Beyonce song? Exactly let you Go? Exactly?
Speaker 1: That's if I help you build some ship.
Speaker 2: Like what if he's a good dude, Yeah, if he's
Speaker 2: a good dude. All right, So what was that movie?
Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all saw that movie. It was
Speaker 2: with Channon Tatum and the white girl I can't remember.
Speaker 2: She real pretty and they were in a car accident
Speaker 2: in the snow. They were married, and she lost her
Speaker 2: whole memory and she could not remember her husband. And
Speaker 2: she eventually remembered that her father had sex with her
Speaker 2: homegirl and that's why she ran away. And then she
Speaker 2: came back to her mom. Yeah, and she was like, Mom,
Speaker 2: how did you not leave him. Why wouldn't you leave him?
Speaker 2: Like that's so weak of you not to leave him
Speaker 2: for that. And she was like, I analyzed over the
Speaker 2: last thirty years, and I realized how much good he
Speaker 2: had done, and I couldn't let the one bad mistake
Speaker 2: he made outweigh all the good things he had done
Speaker 2: throughout our life. And that's why I chose to stay.
Speaker 2: And that shit was like so profound for me. I
Speaker 2: was like, wait, because a lot of women leave for
Speaker 2: that one infraction even though a nigga done provided them.
Speaker 2: I mean a man. I gotta stop saying a nigga,
Speaker 2: a man has provided them such a good lifestyle and
Speaker 2: all these things, and he makes it it's one infraction
Speaker 2: and then they leave. But sometimes that's people's deal breakers.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I have one of my cousins, I mean,
Speaker 1: her baby daddy cheated on her one time girl and
Speaker 1: she literally had a whole apartment the next week and
Speaker 1: never looked back. She married so a whole other man.
Speaker 2: Now is she happier? I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just remembered when she first met her baby daddy
Speaker 1: and how she was talking about I remember I was
Speaker 1: in town and Charleston this was years ago.
Speaker 2: How she was like talking about him.
Speaker 1: She was like, girl, that's my husband, this and that
Speaker 1: and third like they didn't get married, but they did
Speaker 1: produce a very beautiful young lady and she's about to
Speaker 1: graduate from high school now. But one thing, she got
Speaker 1: the fuck up out of there, and he had to
Speaker 1: me he hasn't recovered.
Speaker 2: Well that worked. They didn't always work.
Speaker 1: Miserable if you ask me, yeah, well, I feel like
Speaker 1: men only learn from hurt, right, So if you actually
Speaker 1: want a man to course correct some shit, you gotta leave.
Speaker 2: You gotta leave, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And then maybe he'll get it together and come back,
Speaker 1: or maybe he'll learn from the situation with you, and
Speaker 1: then he'll go on and treat the next woman.
Speaker 2: But the next woman better. He okay, was.
Speaker 1: Giving a woman a refurbished man. It's okay, Ladies like,
Speaker 1: don't It's like you're not building somebody else.
Speaker 2: It's so infuriating to see the nigga that the man
Speaker 2: that you wanted to treat you.
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, Drake was better, I said, Okay, Drake, Drake, Drake,
Speaker 1: you bad from saying niggas alone. Summons Israel on a
Speaker 1: on uh now seeing he like, nah, I get it.
Speaker 1: I'm in a rap battle. New bitches is talking about cheating.
Speaker 1: I ain't cheating on nobody, committing to nobody. Y'all tell
Speaker 1: me love fucking Drake. Okay, I told Tammy earlier, I said, Drake.
Speaker 2: Is not Listen, you are not Drake type. Come about Drake.
Speaker 2: He's funny to me. I mean we're getting off topic.
Speaker 2: I mean drinking along anyway. So all right, So I
Speaker 2: looked up an article. You guys, we love a good article.
Speaker 2: I love a good article.
Speaker 1: It's so fucked up from the solar eclips.
Speaker 2: Because she's like, I'm Jesus said, I'm magical, and I
Speaker 2: can look at the sun.
Speaker 1: You couldn't see sis, but hold on, the only thing
Speaker 1: I can't see is technology.
Speaker 2: I was like, it's my last on. She's like, I
Speaker 2: don't know, bitch, I can't even see you. I got
Speaker 2: a small.
Speaker 1: If you can't put three fingers on that foet between
Speaker 1: that forehead and the.
Speaker 2: Mind, brother, that's brought down low. I got four head,
Speaker 2: all right. So I found an article on signs that
Speaker 2: your man is cheating. So if y'all think he is cheating, respectfully,
Speaker 2: here goes some signs, all right, So he has different
Speaker 2: levels of sexual interaction. So if your man used to
Speaker 2: wanna sleep with you all the time, and all of
Speaker 2: a sudden he's like, I'm tired, that's because his balls
Speaker 2: is empty. If he make him money, he's tired.
Speaker 1: If your nigga is playing that he was from all
Speaker 1: night and now he come home talk about am Dar
Speaker 1: and me playing two K every day and saying his way,
Speaker 1: he tired, that's a problem. Two K like the basketball, right,
Speaker 1: that's my game. Like if he playing mothers still playing
Speaker 1: that ship? I thought they was playing, Like I have
Speaker 1: one in my house right now on a motherfucker chest.
Speaker 2: I don't want it on.
Speaker 1: I'd be worthy of the damn four arms swipe that ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but he still want to fuck you though, absolutely? Okay,
Speaker 1: too much sex, please, somebody tell.
Speaker 2: Me me with it.
Speaker 1: I it's not moving, No, But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If he is like at home, he's not that busy,
Speaker 1: and he also is not having sex with you, there's a.
Speaker 2: Chance that he's cheating.
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, But if it's a man making money, I'd
Speaker 1: rather a busy man than anything.
Speaker 2: I want my man to be busy.
Speaker 1: I want him to have a lot of shit going
Speaker 1: on trying to get me a million dollars.
Speaker 2: Absolutely. Absolutely. If we ain't having sex, I'm cool. But
Speaker 2: if he turned you down for sex all the time,
Speaker 2: that's the problem. Either you done got too fat and.
Speaker 1: He think you Some niggas like that. Bitches like why
Speaker 1: I said too fat?
Speaker 2: Too bad? Whatever he likes you ain't that. No, I'm
Speaker 2: smiling at your baby mama, and nigga, I'm winning. What
Speaker 2: are you talking about? I'm skinny or to something that
Speaker 2: he don't like. He's not physically attracted to you anymore.
Speaker 1: That's a whole nother episode because I can't really be
Speaker 1: feeling some type of way. I seen a court TV
Speaker 1: video one time and the guy was saying how she
Speaker 1: doesn't look like who he married. I mean, men are
Speaker 1: I won't say men are super visual, but I know
Speaker 1: men are predators aside a tide from being very visual,
Speaker 1: so it's fair.
Speaker 2: Like they look the same though. That's the crazy part.
Speaker 1: Like your moms were sitting up here now they're down here,
Speaker 1: and nigga, you are hips now, why are you talking shit?
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't do me like that wall you were changing together.
Speaker 1: You had to hear when I met you and now
Speaker 1: you don't so, but I actually to get no, man,
Speaker 1: we I actually go to Turkey, right. I've been looking
Speaker 1: on the boss spots, loving them, and you got the
Speaker 1: nerve to say something about this role the fuck. Luckily,
Speaker 1: my nigga loves rolls. Lick this roll bo rolls.
Speaker 2: Okay, this one is inconsistent explanations. Lyne is much harder
Speaker 2: than many people understand, especially constant line to a committed partner.
Speaker 2: While liars would do their best to repeat the same
Speaker 2: story each time they lie, they usually start to give
Speaker 2: inconsistent information when they when they're understressed, or if they're
Speaker 2: asked the same question in the way they're not used to.
Speaker 2: So a nigga started lying a man A man gets
Speaker 2: the lion, Like I was.
Speaker 1: Working later than late and they had the boss man.
Speaker 1: That shit was crazy today they had like it was
Speaker 1: like the fact went out in the building and then
Speaker 1: they had to put on the half masks who and
Speaker 1: then I came down there and it was like, it's
Speaker 1: those fucking lies on the Clarence Rock somewhere because I'm
Speaker 1: not buying them, right, It's all kind of crazy shit.
Speaker 2: Now, don't be offering me no lies?
Speaker 1: Am I ask you no questions, don't lie, and I
Speaker 1: really don't ask questions. And I probably enable people to
Speaker 1: cheat because I do like to let people do what
Speaker 1: the fuck they want to do, so I can see
Speaker 1: what you rather do. I know I've said that a
Speaker 1: million times, but I mean it like I really just
Speaker 1: let people live. I don't be on a nigga neck
Speaker 1: and none of that shit and no whulch. You start
Speaker 1: feeling different because we know when you're cheating, Okay. Our
Speaker 1: bodies tell us when something isn't right. Yes, so if
Speaker 1: I feel some way, if I smell some way, I'm
Speaker 1: cutting your head off.
Speaker 2: But sometimes men be telling the truth, but it sound
Speaker 2: like a lie. You know, give me some time, it'll
Speaker 2: be like a lie might sound better than the truth
Speaker 2: because the truth sound like a lie. Like did you
Speaker 2: ever see that video where the man was pulled over
Speaker 2: by the police and he was like, man, talk to
Speaker 2: my girl. Man, just talk to my girl, because I
Speaker 2: ain't got time for that shit. When I get home,
Speaker 2: he put the police on facetide with his girl because
Speaker 2: he's like, look, I'm with the police, man, I can't
Speaker 2: believe nothing.
Speaker 1: No, you better be with the police are dead. If
Speaker 1: it's a case where you didn't come home. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't understand how women literally be living with men who
Speaker 1: don't come home, that.
Speaker 2: Don't come home. Just said the sun beat them home.
Speaker 1: Like he was at your house and didn't go home.
Speaker 2: He don't let the sun beat you home. That's your girl.
Speaker 1: You don't go home, right, and you just take into
Speaker 1: that to me, I'm not gonna be home when he
Speaker 1: gets there. That's how I do it. Yeah, you wanna
Speaker 1: do that type of shit. You gonna be like it's
Speaker 1: six o'clock in the morning. Oh, because then that make
Speaker 1: you just as bad, and then you.
Speaker 2: Don't have a leg to stand on.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't go high. I don't go high.
Speaker 1: I go to hell every time.
Speaker 2: I'm just sitting in there dark with gospel music playing,
Speaker 2: scared of the nigga.
Speaker 1: Like he gonna come in the house, like, oh shit,
Speaker 1: hes a kya walker blasted to hide decibels in there,
Speaker 1: and he just and I'm sitting in the dark. No,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be there. I may not be at
Speaker 1: another man's house because I do feel like when you cheat,
Speaker 1: if you are a woman and you want to get
Speaker 1: back I don't feel like giving your pussy to another
Speaker 1: man is get back leaving, and leveling up is get
Speaker 1: back leaving. And the fucking with a millionaire is get back.
Speaker 1: That's the only way men feel the type of way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but get back.
Speaker 1: Letting somebody else borri your kouchi is not.
Speaker 2: Get back with millionaires. Like it's not just like I said, millionaire.
Speaker 1: Maybe that may be extreme. Just fucking with somebody better
Speaker 1: than the man you're with. Let's just say that you
Speaker 1: ain't even.
Speaker 2: Gotta be better. All he gotta do is be like
Speaker 2: three inches taller than your nigga, and he like.
Speaker 1: Oh hurt, mom, I kill everybody.
Speaker 2: He ain't gotta have no money. He just gotta be
Speaker 2: three inches taller. I swear to God, that's all I
Speaker 2: gotta be. His dick is bigger.
Speaker 1: They ready to kill everybody, nigga knocking everything over in
Speaker 1: the house.
Speaker 2: Sorry. The next one is inconsistent expense. Oh yeah yeah,
Speaker 2: hotel ship girl, I was. And spending habits can be
Speaker 2: a sign that there might be something else going on
Speaker 2: with your partner. A big red flat, for example, is
Speaker 2: unexplained large cash withdrawals. Hmm, So can I say, like cousin.
Speaker 2: I sorry, cousin. Okay. So one of my one of
Speaker 2: my close friends.
Speaker 1: Which is also my first cousin, she was talking to
Speaker 1: this guy recently and he he flew her out, but
Speaker 1: he wouldn't order food the polices they would go, so
Speaker 1: you would just she would just.
Speaker 2: Have one meal exactly before I came, order for yourself.
Speaker 1: One meal because somebody else looking at the big.
Speaker 2: Statements that slick.
Speaker 1: That's not slick. It's obvious to the woman you're with,
Speaker 1: and right now in this moment, it's one. It was
Speaker 1: obvious to her, was what I'm saying. Not obvious to
Speaker 1: the woman that's looking at the bank statements. It's obvious
Speaker 1: to the woman that you're with.
Speaker 2: Your Oh he was sitting with. He was with someone
Speaker 2: he wasn't honest about.
Speaker 1: Yes, So she came to the conclusion that she was like, man,
Speaker 1: I think that Nigga married. When she got back home,
Speaker 1: she was like, I think he's married, and I'm like, girl,
Speaker 1: he probably is, because at what point do you go
Speaker 1: visit somebody and they're not eating.
Speaker 2: Y'all go out to eat right, let me taste that
Speaker 2: it looks good.
Speaker 1: No, just order something, get your own beggar boy, like
Speaker 1: the fuck, let me taste that state.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got COVID in the building. You order a down,
Speaker 2: She's like no, making a twelve bounce yo.
Speaker 1: I would embarrass the dude, like what are you doing?
Speaker 1: I would have asked him. I don't like to speculate.
Speaker 1: I don't like to assume shit. I asked too many
Speaker 1: questions for nigga to lie, Like, just tell me what
Speaker 1: it is and let me decide whether or not I
Speaker 1: want to deal with it, you know, because once I
Speaker 1: know who you are, I can deal with it. But
Speaker 1: don't just be lying in my face and not eating,
Speaker 1: Like why eat?
Speaker 2: Hungry as hell? Y?
Speaker 1: Yo?
Speaker 2: No, that's why here's a good one. False accusations of cheating.
Speaker 2: Have you ever had someone like, oh, you just on
Speaker 2: you about doing shit so hard? It's like, what are
Speaker 2: you doing? Because why you keep being on me so heavy?
Speaker 2: And I ain't even doing nothing.
Speaker 1: You know, I've been in every single relationship I've been in,
Speaker 1: I've always felt like, damn, am I doing something to
Speaker 1: make men feel insecure? But I've never been with a
Speaker 1: man who didn't cheat on me. So the whole time,
Speaker 1: you accusing me of some shit because you out here
Speaker 1: doing the fucking most. So you just can't fathom in
Speaker 1: your mind why I wouldn't be.
Speaker 2: I leave instead. I swear one time we was in
Speaker 2: the drive through at bow Jangles. I'm not lying, and
Speaker 2: I was like, thank you. He's like, what the fuck?
Speaker 2: You smiling in a nigga faith so hard? You're always
Speaker 2: smiling in a nigga face. I was like, I was
Speaker 2: just being polite. He was passing the food through the window,
Speaker 2: Like that's that's a problem. You're doing too much. You
Speaker 2: do too fucking much like calming and smiling down. I
Speaker 2: was like, this nigga is cheating on meigg That's all
Speaker 2: I heard. I can't smile out all I heard window,
Speaker 2: That's all I heard. Yeah, damn.
Speaker 1: Like I've said this before, like how my ex like
Speaker 1: I would call people babe, and it's no, that's a
Speaker 1: problem because you're a boy. That's when I called baby.
Speaker 1: I really get that from my mom, Like I'm calling
Speaker 1: grown people babe. I'm calling kids babe. When I get
Speaker 1: like if I'm at the grocery store in line, I'm like,
Speaker 1: think you babe, go on by my business. This nigga
Speaker 1: started doing it like intentionally though, like if you don't
Speaker 1: use that word, like why are we out at a
Speaker 1: restaurant and you like telling the waitress thank you, babe, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'll smack across the.
Speaker 2: Under the don't call that bitch babe. That's not your babe.
Speaker 2: Don't do that. I don't play that.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I definitely have been accused of cheating, and
Speaker 1: I've never cheated.
Speaker 2: Black women don't cheat never. I have never kid. You
Speaker 2: share a story where you knew you were being cheated on,
Speaker 2: I as the fucking well, like, what happened? What happened? Girl?
Speaker 2: What happened?
Speaker 1: I always know I'm being cheating on, cheated on. I
Speaker 1: just be wanting the person to be honest. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, I remember it so my last relationship,
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I'm talking with you
Speaker 1: no more. I literally it was like a Wednesday. I
Speaker 1: think it was Wednesday. My memory is pretty good. It's
Speaker 1: like an elephant and the nigga wasn't answering the phone.
Speaker 1: Some calling, calling, calling back to back to back to back.
Speaker 1: That's not love, y'all. If you got to call somebody
Speaker 1: more than one time, that's not like because you're in
Speaker 1: love with them, it's actually a form of being possessive
Speaker 1: because they saw you call the first time. Some calling, calling, calling, calling, calling, calling,
Speaker 1: He's not answering the phone. Okay, I go to sleep.
Speaker 1: I couldn't sleep though, so the next morning I woke
Speaker 1: up and I went on my little date walk and
Speaker 1: he called my phone. I was like, listen, I ain't
Speaker 1: fucking with you no more, like this shit over it.
Speaker 1: I don't like feeling like that because as a woman,
Speaker 1: you have this innate feeling. This this your intuition is
Speaker 1: never wrong. And I think men have intuition too, because
Speaker 1: I swear to God the times I've been fucking off
Speaker 1: a nigga call your phone, like, goddamn, nigga, you smell
Speaker 1: me on another nigga did like, what's happening?
Speaker 2: God, I should know.
Speaker 1: I shouldn't fuck you wrong, because I feel like you
Speaker 1: start getting like some type of connection with somebody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so they kind of know all of a sudden as
Speaker 1: soon as you get to where you go on a
Speaker 1: nigga calling the phone, Now you got to act like
Speaker 1: you in bed when you're in your car. I don't
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. I've never been there, So
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm not fucking with you no more. That
Speaker 1: was like a Wednesday, and I feel like maybe it
Speaker 1: was like the following Monday. I'm on the phone with him.
Speaker 1: He's in waffle house ordering food, right, and I'm like
Speaker 1: on the phone with him, and also simultaneously like scrolling
Speaker 1: through Instagram, and I saw some they sent me a
Speaker 1: request message. So I clicked the request message.
Speaker 2: It's a bitch.
Speaker 1: It's a bitch done sent me a video from my
Speaker 1: Nigga's bed from that Wednesday where you weren't answering the phone.
Speaker 1: So now I get to see you not answer your phone.
Speaker 1: And she's behind the camera and she's like so and
Speaker 1: so turn the light off. I gotta go to work tomorrow.
Speaker 1: And I'm watching him like leaning on the on the headboard,
Speaker 1: like scrolling through the phone. So and it would would
Speaker 1: have synced up with the time that I was calling him.
Speaker 1: So now I get to see you now.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: When i I'm like this is calling, I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: your bitch messaged me. Well that Nigga couldn't even order
Speaker 1: this food no more. This bore.
Speaker 2: He started trembling.
Speaker 1: Oh now you're not You're nervous, stand on business, bitch
Speaker 1: now you're not hungry, order your pekan waffle, your light
Speaker 1: skinned pek and waffle Nigga, and your goddamn grand slam.
Speaker 2: But did you stay with him? I did.
Speaker 1: That's my dumb bitch story for this episode. I definitely
Speaker 1: stayed with his ass for at least two more years.
Speaker 2: It's so dumb. You are really dumb for real?
Speaker 1: Okay, even got engaged in all the bullshit. Yeah, my buddy,
Speaker 1: the addol sub meta fingers to my old life.
Speaker 2: But probably, and it was a lot of others.
Speaker 1: It wasn't even together, like yet, what's the girl, Realista,
Speaker 1: don't got ship on the stories I have from that
Speaker 1: one relationship.
Speaker 2: I got others, but from that one, do not compare
Speaker 2: yourself to recent because I was like, now, girl, I
Speaker 2: was layd in the red rubbing my feet together like
Speaker 2: sus now, God damn maw, come on now.
Speaker 1: Some of that shit was like a right outlandish lies outlandish. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I ain't never had nobody lied to me like that.
Speaker 2: When I was getting cheated on, somebody else had to
Speaker 2: tell me I was in Lola Land, Like why, Nigga,
Speaker 2: that's my man, Miami and Miami. Can't nobody tell me
Speaker 2: shit about my man, and my friend was like, your
Speaker 2: man cheating on you. I'm like, no, what makes you
Speaker 2: something like that? You're jealous?
Speaker 1: See, that's why I don't tell a bitch of shit
Speaker 1: like you have to find on your own man.
Speaker 2: Because we're so happy, bitch, I flew out because we
Speaker 2: were in a long distance relationship. We was doing like
Speaker 2: little weird shit. I was like, it's the time zones.
Speaker 2: He's just so far away. He's in California. I'm in
Speaker 2: South Carolina. It's the time zones. That's why he's sometimes unavailable.
Speaker 2: It's not meanwhile, you know.
Speaker 1: Hold.
Speaker 2: But then she told me he was cheating on me.
Speaker 2: So then I was like, no, he's not. But then
Speaker 2: I bought a plane ticket to fly out there, right,
Speaker 2: and I came in being like a South Carolina stuff
Speaker 2: for white. Oh, let me as soon as I get here,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna clean your whole house. That was me, right.
Speaker 2: I was in his closet, soaring through his dirty fucking
Speaker 2: clothes to wash him, and there was a hole. All right.
Speaker 2: That's how y'all gonna know how long ago this was.
Speaker 2: It was a photo album that a bitch made for
Speaker 2: him of a trip where they went on the wine train.
Speaker 2: He was shet and cheating. They went on a wine train, bitch,
Speaker 2: and she took all kind of pictures and put it
Speaker 2: in a photo album. Let me tell you what I did,
Speaker 2: because man, like I was young and I was broken,
Speaker 2: he was taking so such good care of me. I
Speaker 2: ripped the ship up and put it back in the backroom.
Speaker 1: I've done that to somebody.
Speaker 2: I ripped it up and put it back in the
Speaker 2: back I ripped all the pictures, closed them up in
Speaker 2: there and put it back like you know how to
Speaker 2: they have sleeves. I ripped the picture and put it
Speaker 2: back in the sleeve, rip it and put it and
Speaker 2: then I didn't say a word. Enjoyed my weekend, went
Speaker 2: home with him and went home.
Speaker 1: Did he ever say anything about the pictures? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like the next week, what is it like? That was
Speaker 2: my co worker And that was a work trip and
Speaker 2: we was had a morale trip. Not a morale trip,
Speaker 2: mos nuts, yo.
Speaker 1: Boy, men won't really try your pictures. It was morown
Speaker 1: because we were like we need is a team building,
Speaker 1: team building trip? Yo?
Speaker 2: You in just one based Napa Valley had a team
Speaker 2: building trip. Okay, you think I'm fucking stupid? That'd be
Speaker 2: the thing.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 2: Look, don't tell me no fucking lies. I really don't.
Speaker 1: I don't mind lies. I don't mind liars. I be
Speaker 1: mad when a motherfucking think got the leader lie. That's
Speaker 1: what gets a minor.
Speaker 2: No, I don't lie to me. Just tell me believable liar.
Speaker 1: But if you're telling traceable lies, I'm like, why, nigga,
Speaker 1: why why are you telling traceable lies?
Speaker 2: I'm confused. And I stayed with that man for so long.
Speaker 2: I mean, he just cheating the last straw, the final straw.
Speaker 2: So he left California, came to Atlanta. Bottom house. We're
Speaker 2: young too, this is we're in our twenties. I moved
Speaker 2: to Atlanta, I got my own place. I did not
Speaker 2: move in with him, and I came to spend the
Speaker 2: night with him, but to cry, no, girl, this girl, girl.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: I still be hurt, girl, I still be trying to
Speaker 2: care about him. My damn. He released me, and I
Speaker 2: had lived a good life. I think if I would
Speaker 2: have just stayed out, just been like just very country
Speaker 2: and not knowing nothing and never experienced nothing. So he
Speaker 2: did me a favor by doing all that. It was
Speaker 2: a condom in the bed That's when I was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: this man don't respect me at all. I have to go.
Speaker 2: And the bed was made up all nice and neat.
Speaker 2: The bed was made up so nice and neat. I
Speaker 2: got into bed and felt so like, it's a slug
Speaker 2: on my left. It's a slug in the bed, a
Speaker 2: whole condom on my left.
Speaker 1: Girl, I've literally been in a man's bed and felt
Speaker 1: some shit wrap around my toes.
Speaker 2: You know, you just wrap it, you wrap it unneath,
Speaker 2: and then you put your foot up. A whole thumb,
Speaker 2: a whole fuck it. You ain't washed these sheets. Yeah
Speaker 2: you got me, you made the bed up, but you
Speaker 2: had someone else in the bed. You ain't washed these sheets.
Speaker 1: You felthy animal.
Speaker 2: Animal. He used to lie so bad. I know, he
Speaker 2: just got tied a lion. It was like in the
Speaker 2: other bedroom, it was like some girl women's clothes in
Speaker 2: a drawer. It's nothing. It ain't even no furniture.
Speaker 1: Oh, that's his girlfriend. You leaving shit at a man's house,
Speaker 1: that's your man.
Speaker 2: That's when it's closed in the drawer. I was like,
Speaker 2: who's closing this? Oh? My homeboys girlfriend came over there.
Speaker 2: They stayed in the bathroom and then I was like,
Speaker 2: it's no bed in that room. They stayed back at yo.
Speaker 2: They just lay back there.
Speaker 1: Yo.
Speaker 2: I hate niggas, dog not men, niggas so bad goodness.
Speaker 2: So I had to get out of that. But I
Speaker 2: think that's the only time I've only had two boyfriends
Speaker 2: in my life. Everybody else I ain't claimed these niggas
Speaker 2: since these men, no, I think they are all long term,
Speaker 2: like long relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel and then I double back like I
Speaker 1: be with the same mouff fucking people. So I feel
Speaker 1: like I might have only had like four relationships. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And everybody else in between was just.
Speaker 2: That's not my man, that's not your nigga, your man,
Speaker 2: all right. I guess we told our dumbish stories. You
Speaker 2: don't have to share one, and we don't have to
Speaker 2: get no call up. Have you ever cheated? What clutches pearls?
Speaker 2: I am a patron saint, alright, So one time I'm
Speaker 2: gonna tell you all the truth. Cause that nigga, I
Speaker 2: don't know where he married somewhere. We weren't together technically,
Speaker 2: we were still living in the same house, but I
Speaker 2: was moving out. The plan was for me to move
Speaker 2: out in a couple months, right, So we weren't together.
Speaker 2: He went away and there was I went to this bar.
Speaker 2: I had like a one night stand with a guy,
Speaker 2: and like we had we were already broken up. We
Speaker 2: hadn't been sleeping together for a while, and it was
Speaker 2: just like dead in the water. We was just in
Speaker 2: the same house until we separated, because I mean, it's
Speaker 2: not like you break up and you can just move
Speaker 2: away like that. You got to separate everything, you know,
Speaker 2: got to move Yeah, it's a process.
Speaker 1: Look, I'm still going through a process, and I'm in
Speaker 1: a whole nother relationship and still going through a process
Speaker 1: right now.
Speaker 2: Right, So he went on a guy's trip to fucking
Speaker 2: where they go to fuck girls from the Midic Republic
Speaker 2: somewhere like that. So I knew what he was on.
Speaker 2: This fine ass Middle Eastern guy, right, and he had
Speaker 2: that sharp cut in his area, you know how they
Speaker 2: be putting that sharp parting. He was like all suave
Speaker 2: and he was like so fine, and we like vibe
Speaker 2: so hard. We got junk together in the bar and
Speaker 2: then we like went to his house and we were
Speaker 2: like kissing off passionately, and it was just like knocking
Speaker 2: ship off the walls. Oh my god, y'all, this man
Speaker 2: fucked me. It was so bad, so fast.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I swear to god. I drove
Speaker 1: home crying, Yah, immediately remorse and like when I laughed,
Speaker 1: I was like call me. He was like, I don't
Speaker 1: have your number.
Speaker 2: I was like, shut the door, bye bye. God. I
Speaker 2: just felt so bad, even though we weren't together. I
Speaker 2: just felt so terrible about doing that.
Speaker 1: I have never cheated in film. He is lying, I know, bitch.
Speaker 1: I said I've never cheated and felt bad about it.
Speaker 1: I'm telling the truth because if I actually engaged with
Speaker 1: somebody else, I'm done with you.
Speaker 2: We were done. Yeah, I'm with you.
Speaker 1: I don't consider it cheating. I told you a thousand
Speaker 1: times that I don't fuck with you no more. We done,
Speaker 1: did all therapy, whatever else we you do. I've given
Speaker 1: myself permission to sho on you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, it was. I don't consider I still
Speaker 2: felt like bad because we still were cohabitating. Oh no,
Speaker 2: you know he was probably having forty dollars six all
Speaker 2: week here, you know, forty dollars you know over you know,
Speaker 2: overseas he was at you know, you know, how they
Speaker 2: be having sex with the girls over there, like maybe
Speaker 2: all bad bitch's forty dollars HOLLI, you know, like having
Speaker 2: a good time. Hey, hey, you know, I know he
Speaker 2: was having his good time and I just needed to
Speaker 2: feel something, you know, But I did not feel nothing.
Speaker 2: I did not feel nothing warm, warm fuck me. And
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that is the worst.
Speaker 1: Like niggas be wanting somebody would have fat ass, but
Speaker 1: you can't even get in there. You can't even get
Speaker 1: past the fat ass. You can't get past these time
Speaker 1: get off.
Speaker 2: So, yeah, something was good.
Speaker 1: Would you still be crying in the car?
Speaker 2: Oh, you'd be like yep. I probably would have been happier.
Speaker 2: I would have been happy or I don't know what
Speaker 2: I would have felt. Honestly, I might have still felt
Speaker 2: bad about it, but the fact that I did enjoy
Speaker 2: would have been like, that is a rap for this nigga.
Speaker 2: It was already a rap. By to move all my
Speaker 2: shit out of this house. It's over. It was already
Speaker 2: a rap. But it was just like kind of sad.
Speaker 2: The way I felt. I was like, he wridden, he's winning.
Speaker 1: I remember this is in my early twenties, y'all. Again,
Speaker 1: from middle Finger to my old life. My boyfriend that
Speaker 1: I had from like sixteen to I don't know how
Speaker 1: long it'd be the same motherfucking people. Anyway, I remember
Speaker 1: I met this guy and we actually we still. I
Speaker 1: haven't spoken to him in a few years now, but
Speaker 1: when we talked, it is like, all good. But he's
Speaker 1: in the military. He was stationed in not stationed, but
Speaker 1: in Columbia for some training shit. So I yeah, I
Speaker 1: linked up with his ass and like we was just
Speaker 1: inseparable the month he was in Columbia and my boyfriend
Speaker 1: was busting my phone down and I wasn't answering the phone,
Speaker 1: and my funny as if I answered the phone with
Speaker 1: the nastiest attitude.
Speaker 2: Girl, why was in birthday? That's how I wrapped up.
Speaker 2: I was in this other person way. It was your man,
Speaker 2: y'all was still together.
Speaker 1: Yes, it was his birthday.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I don't know. Well you that's all right,
Speaker 2: thank you for tuning in. You forget it, you're fucking
Speaker 2: another day. You're you're sleeping with another man? Is your
Speaker 2: man's birthday? He like, damn, you forgot my birthday?
Speaker 1: See this be the thing, right, This is why whenever
Speaker 1: I do a little sum So maybe just hanging out
Speaker 1: with somebody or actually engaging in sex. I don't feel
Speaker 1: bad because I already caught you cheating. I lit it slide.
Speaker 1: I didn't leave. I didn't cheat back, right, But now
Speaker 1: I'm over all this ship and this then now this
Speaker 1: is when I'm moving on. So he had already done
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of shit. I just didn't leave. So
Speaker 1: we even now, right, But why didn't Because I just
Speaker 1: don't think like cheating.
Speaker 2: Is the all n be all?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
Speaker 2: It was you forgot a nigger birthday? Was it being
Speaker 2: like a whole a whole slewis shit?
Speaker 1: And at that time I was in a relationship with
Speaker 1: somebody where I felt like I was a breadwinner, like
Speaker 1: I swear to guy, y'all I was. I feel like
Speaker 1: I was a millionaire in my twenties. I had so
Speaker 1: much money in back I don't know what the fuck
Speaker 1: is my money?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, don't even get on that. Cause when
Speaker 2: I was living in England, I was like making so
Speaker 2: much money, where's my money? And I was just so
Speaker 2: reckless with my money. I was like just paying for friendships,
Speaker 2: like girl.
Speaker 1: You get came, I'm taking this nigga on vacation.
Speaker 2: I'm the man doing all that shit.
Speaker 1: I'm the man, and you cheat on me. Okay, you're
Speaker 1: not the man.
Speaker 2: You'll still never be the man. You know if you are, If.
Speaker 1: You're not being a man in a relationship, and now
Speaker 1: your girl is wearing a wearing a.
Speaker 2: Pussy and a dick, how you wearing a dick? Y'all?
Speaker 1: My mom would be saying that that's why I got
Speaker 1: that from. That's bad, right, Yeah, you can't listen.
Speaker 2: Even if he don't make as much money as you,
Speaker 2: he's still the man. He's still the man, is he?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I guess no, y'all.
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all wearing the pantsy y, our relationship make
Speaker 1: you a woman.
Speaker 2: But money isn't the only way to wear the paint
Speaker 2: we live in. I know women who make more money
Speaker 2: than they man, and they man still is the hell.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be doing all the things, and you're
Speaker 1: still cheating.
Speaker 2: But he had he provides value in other ways.
Speaker 1: This same nigga hacked my computer. This motherfucker did not
Speaker 1: even have a high school diploma. But he's an evil genius,
Speaker 1: like he would sit up in a laboratory like Jill
Speaker 1: not the science guy and like shit pinky and the
Speaker 1: brain type ass do. But he literally hacked my computer
Speaker 1: and this is like a long ass time ago, So
Speaker 1: how do you even know how to do this shit?
Speaker 1: Nigga had a children horse on my computer and anytime
Speaker 1: I would type my password into anything, it would automatically
Speaker 1: send him an email.
Speaker 2: Yeah, bitch, I see what you're doing.
Speaker 1: Well. I remember one time I came to my apartment
Speaker 1: that he's up and visiting me in my apartment.
Speaker 2: I'm coming home from work.
Speaker 1: He's at my apartment. This nigga, I went through all
Speaker 1: my like I had like his college trunk which I
Speaker 1: still have in storage that I need to burn, just
Speaker 1: burn a whole True, it's so much incriminating. No, it's
Speaker 1: some incriminating shit in there. It's some incriminating shit in
Speaker 1: this trunk.
Speaker 2: You know what. He went through that trunk and found
Speaker 2: my list up of everybody. He found a list, and
Speaker 2: he was mad that he wasn't one on the list.
Speaker 2: He was mad he wasn't at the top of the list.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I wasn't a virgin like niggas listed based
Speaker 1: on who I've had.
Speaker 2: Sex with you. You weren't my first? Oh, he thought
Speaker 2: it was listening. I don't know what he thought, but I.
Speaker 1: Was honest when I'm like, listen, you looking at a
Speaker 1: ship that's not for your eyes one And that list
Speaker 1: is not based on like good divad or no shit
Speaker 1: like that. It's just from my first to now you somewhirst. Anyway, Look,
Speaker 1: this is my twenties. It wasn't no nigga was turning pages.
Speaker 1: Don't play with me like you have the most of
Speaker 1: your sex in your twenties, right, absolutely, especially.
Speaker 2: If you went to college.
Speaker 1: You really no reason, no reason. Ain't nobody buying no bags.
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody paying no bills. You need a wash machine,
Speaker 1: ain't doing that. They ain't doing ship but smiling your face.
Speaker 2: Yeah you're like, what's up?
Speaker 1: But now these young girl today a tumble we rolled
Speaker 1: past my bitches, prairie dogs that like this is ry there.
Speaker 2: I don't have nothing going on, So.
Speaker 1: God send me somebody Jesus every day, all right, we
Speaker 1: will cheat a right not cheat in this big age nowadays?
Speaker 2: What's the last last?
Speaker 1: My last last is communicate with your partner. Talk to
Speaker 1: your partner, put down rules. I mean, like every single
Speaker 1: thing you could think of from cheating, from other people
Speaker 1: from cleaning, Okay, everything, Just write it all down and
Speaker 1: have a discussion to make sure that the person you're with,
Speaker 1: y'all on the same page. You know what I'm saying, because,
Speaker 1: like you said, there's no respectful cheating. But for me,
Speaker 1: there is such thing as respectful cheating. Right if it
Speaker 1: happens to happen, maybe we had an argument, you end
Speaker 1: up at a bar, you end up having a white
Speaker 1: one night said with a bitch strap up, And I
Speaker 1: don't ever have to know about it because you don't
Speaker 1: bring home an SCD and you don't bring home a kid.
Speaker 2: That's all you really can ask for from another Oh
Speaker 2: that's all you can ask or there's the bare minimum
Speaker 2: of things to ask.
Speaker 1: Girl, I'm being realistic at this page. I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: I'm just being really.
Speaker 2: Is like alternative facts. It's the same thing like if
Speaker 2: you're cheating, you're deceitful. You can't be deceitful respectfully. Just
Speaker 2: be honest, Just be honest.
Speaker 1: But we ask men to be honest all the time,
Speaker 1: but are we actually in the mental state to accept
Speaker 1: honesty because for men, for men, they think that when
Speaker 1: they're honest they can still have you. But sometimes when
Speaker 1: you're honest, I still make a choice to leave you.
Speaker 1: So just because you tell the truth doesn't mean I'm mistake.
Speaker 1: And in their minds, they feel like if I tell
Speaker 1: the truth, they'll stay. So that's why they lie because
Speaker 1: they know you gonna leave.
Speaker 2: Right, Okay, they're gonna tell me the truth. Like, just
Speaker 2: be honest, be real, because some people are not gonna leave.
Speaker 2: A lot of women ain't gonna leave, you know.
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of men don't leave. Men
Speaker 1: have been cheated on and they don't leave. But like
Speaker 1: I said before, and it actually we're viral. If you
Speaker 1: cheat on the man and he keeps you, bitch, you
Speaker 1: better leave. You better, you better leave, because he gonna
Speaker 1: make you pay every day of that relationship.
Speaker 2: Cheated on him.
Speaker 1: He may not even Actually I would prefer for you
Speaker 1: to actually go out and cheat, then to want to
Speaker 1: have periodic arguments with me about what may or may
Speaker 1: not have trans transpired. Yeah, I would prefer that leave
Speaker 1: me or go cheat on me and get it over with.
Speaker 1: Don't be harassing me in the fucking relationship.
Speaker 2: Dog. You can't try to.
Speaker 1: Keep me hostage here and we have sex and have
Speaker 1: a good night and have a good day, maybe even
Speaker 1: on vacation. As soon as we get back, you on
Speaker 1: some bullshit about what happened a month ago.
Speaker 2: Nah, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 1: Leave me this because I'm like a nigga like y'all get.
Speaker 2: He's ow day. I don't care.
Speaker 1: I don't care, don't do that, don't give no money away,
Speaker 1: give it all right, you guys?
Speaker 2: All right? Listen, all right, y'all, hit hit him with it.
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Speaker 2: Oh way, have to fuck?
Speaker 1: Oh wait wait wait wait wait you say? All right,
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Speaker 2: You're grade A B and uh speak now or forever.
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