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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeart

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Speaker 1: Radio and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: Talk Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with

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Speaker 2: an opinion who talks. What's out?

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Speaker 1: Y'all tuning in for a new episode of We Talk Back,

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Speaker 1: a show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.

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Speaker 2: This is your co host, A J.

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Speaker 1: Holiday.

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Speaker 2: What's up, Tam Bam?

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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? I fucking love y'all, Lass so much.

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Speaker 2: Calm down, I do. I was trying to make your energy.

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Speaker 2: I sound excited today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm on my rise coffee, my mushroom coffee.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna have me some here in a minute. I

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Speaker 2: love my mushroom coffee. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Our weekend was great, but wake your ass.

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm tired. I'm tied. Listen, I te tied.

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Speaker 2: That was a lot my body went through this weekend.

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Speaker 1: One thing about it. I know my limitations. Tammy be

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Speaker 1: pushing it, bitch, listen, limit thinking about what I gotta do. Shit,

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Speaker 1: we had a fun filled weekend. This past weekend was

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Speaker 1: a Black Effect Podcast Festival, second annual. Okay, yeah, let

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Speaker 1: per usual. You know, we only got one other to

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Speaker 1: compare it to, and it was great. You know what

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Speaker 1: I want to see next year, which I might even

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Speaker 1: suggest because there was an R and B festival going

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Speaker 1: on simultaneously, because my homegirl came to the podcast festival

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Speaker 1: and she left and went to this R and B. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we need a stage with some with some music outside

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Speaker 1: because I don't I don't feel like that whole outside

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Speaker 1: was open like that last year.

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Speaker 2: No, because they had the food vendors all on the

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Speaker 2: other side. We didn't. It wasn't like that. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: it did split the crowd up a bit exactly.

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Speaker 1: So that big ass open outside field, they can go

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Speaker 1: ahead and throw another age out there and throw some music.

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Speaker 1: Maybe even somebody who already does podcasts can perform their

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Speaker 1: podcast and do some songs, like maybe like R and

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Speaker 1: B money to do some ship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I also think we should move to another city.

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Speaker 1: No, I think Atlanta is it. I mean it's not

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Speaker 1: like maybe another black city like Houston or something like that. Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't think they should move. They definitely shouldn't have

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Speaker 1: it in New York. Remember the first one was supposed

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Speaker 1: to be in New York. I don't think that would

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Speaker 1: have been a good move.

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Speaker 2: I think that should have it as Charlotte, so I

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Speaker 2: ain't got to travel. Oh that part.

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Speaker 1: No, I did suggest that too, So Charlotte. Charlotte definitely

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Speaker 1: would be lit.

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Speaker 2: It's the same thing. Yeah, it would be It would

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Speaker 2: be a good thing.

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Speaker 1: And people from Atlanta would you know, they will travel.

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Speaker 2: It's not that far. It's not that far, right.

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Speaker 1: Because I spoke to some people and they were alway

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Speaker 1: from Ohio. Girl, people was flying in for that ship.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, shout out to a black Effect podcast.

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Speaker 2: Network and yeah, okay, so there, we booked a we

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Speaker 2: booked a party for Sunday emphasis on week and then

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Speaker 2: this has been said. You know what I'm gonna do?

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Speaker 2: Talk back?

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Speaker 1: Oh, talk back to your ass later. We ain't doing shit,

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Speaker 1: that said tavy ass right on, Like you went home,

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Speaker 1: Like that's about right. I would have had to drive

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Speaker 1: from Atlanta to Charlotte and then back to Charleston.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was too much. Ire y'all was like, y'all

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Speaker 2: have fun. We did have a great time. It was

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Speaker 2: a good it was a good old time. But now

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Speaker 2: I'm sleeping for two days straight. You gotta we need

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Speaker 2: to recuperate. Yeah, but it was good time, good time.

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Speaker 1: Listen y'all, we did go to the strip club this weekend.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited when.

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Speaker 1: We go to the strip club, okay, because I only

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Speaker 1: go like once every ten weeks or some shit.

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Speaker 2: You looked excited to go in early, but then about

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Speaker 2: after twenty minutes to be in there, you looked over it.

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Speaker 1: It was I was over, yeah, because I didn't get

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Speaker 1: the fucking sit down. Bit ch'all was standing up in

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Speaker 1: that little ass hot box they had.

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Speaker 2: Oh you was standing while you here. I told you

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Speaker 2: could sit on my lap.

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Speaker 1: Girl, you'd had to throw some ones on the side.

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Speaker 2: Bitch. I had enough. I can't listen. I had enough one.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't one of the ones who threw my one

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Speaker 2: I was like, give me another, give me another, Can

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Speaker 2: I have another? I know I threw at least six

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars by myself.

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Speaker 1: I kept asking for a stack of one. This bitch

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Speaker 1: wanted to rotate the hose that was in it. All

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Speaker 1: of them bitches wanted to rotate the hose. Girl, I

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Speaker 1: was giving that money out. Just the only one who

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Speaker 1: said something. I was like, Chola, man, let's rotate these bitches.

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Speaker 2: Man new Batch y'all black women, black people. Nuts.

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Speaker 1: Dog. I feel like I feel like y'all motherfuckers was

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Speaker 1: discriminating a little bit.

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Speaker 2: On the light skinned girls, not even the lap I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I I just feel like we've had the

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Speaker 2: light skined strippers be celebrated since I can remember. I

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Speaker 2: just wanted some chocolate in there, right, and jocolate is

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Speaker 2: so nice? Okay, No, no shade to the light skinned strippers.

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Speaker 2: I mean, in Puerto Rican strippers, they's beautiful too, But

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to see some chocolates. You know.

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Speaker 1: I'm such a data analyst, Like I really be analyzing

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Speaker 1: the weirdest shit and the weirdest places. All I could

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Speaker 1: think about was like, damn, this is a whole new,

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Speaker 1: fresh batch of hoes like.

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Speaker 2: They mama probably used to worry.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about the girls that get up on a

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Speaker 1: pole and do all the things like how do you like,

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Speaker 1: how do you know you coming from high school to

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Speaker 2: Like what were you? Were you a dancer in high school?

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Speaker 1: Like what was y'all doing to prepare to be swinging

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Speaker 1: from the ceiling and magic City?

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Speaker 2: Okay, how does that happen? They probably learned all that

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Speaker 2: shit there you think so that they look early twenties

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Speaker 2: like y'all. Yeah, but they strong, they young, they susceptible

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Speaker 2: the information. I'm sure they understand learned how to do

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Speaker 2: it real information very very but listen, I turned around.

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Speaker 2: This girl. She did something amazing. She bent over and

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Speaker 2: put her one leg straight up in the air, and

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Speaker 2: they was like, timmy, look, I turned around, y'all was

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Speaker 2: a pussy right eye level with my face. I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, I didn't mean to be that close.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't like that. I ain't like that. I don't

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Speaker 2: want that. I'm cool. I'm cool. I'm cool, but I

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Speaker 2: just have I always wanted to understand the psychology behind

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Speaker 2: feel shame or anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all I was thinking about.

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Speaker 2: Like I'd be feeling shame when my titties a sitting

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Speaker 2: upright in my dress. I don't know, man, on the

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Speaker 2: level of is it confidence or is it something else?

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to understand.

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Speaker 1: Like, I mean, they was drinking just as much liquor

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Speaker 1: as us. So do y'all get drunk to do this?

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Speaker 1: Do you have to be on drugs to do this

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Speaker 1: is this really you?

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Speaker 2: You know? Right? So I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you watch the movies and you see the

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Speaker 1: girls they be on cocaine all that shit in the back,

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Speaker 1: like they gotta get high in order to do their job.

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Speaker 1: I don't ever want to be doing nothing in life

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Speaker 1: that I can't do one hundred percent. So I'm pretty

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Speaker 1: sure there's some women in their sober Yeah.

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Speaker 2: They don't do nothing, and then they're just having a great time, yeah,

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Speaker 2: and they feel empowered or something like that.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's two different types of strippers. It's some

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Speaker 1: it because they like.

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Speaker 2: Maybe we should get a camera behind me and I

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Speaker 2: be a strip of a day. I'd be the worst

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Speaker 2: stripper though. I'll be up there doing a robot and ship.

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Speaker 2: They be like, just been over bit, are you.

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Speaker 1: Gonna hear some fucking knees that need oil and bitch

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Speaker 1: a lot of shit.

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Speaker 2: My knees is good.

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Speaker 1: It's the hip, is that right, hire that you hear crack?

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Speaker 2: So they ain't gonna be able to hear it over

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Speaker 2: the music. Let's get it to says y'all big Lotto.

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Speaker 1: I said, y'all, Ship in front of y'all man, I

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Speaker 1: sneak downstairs. She's asking, do y'all ship in front of

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Speaker 1: your man? Or do y'all go in another room? What

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Speaker 2: First of all, everybody ain't got no downstairs Lotto, so

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Speaker 2: some of these motherfuckers got one bathroom. Okay, but listen,

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Speaker 1: Now, I was gonna say, yeah, send us some money

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Speaker 1: for a downstairs. You remember a couple of weeks ago

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Speaker 1: she sent this girl some money for her rent because

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Speaker 1: Lotto has said something. And the girl was like, now, Lotto,

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Speaker 1: everybody don't got that. She was like, oh, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: How much your runners? Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to down build on.

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Speaker 1: Top of our ship. We need to upstairs build us

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Speaker 1: up because the.

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Speaker 2: Fuck I used to at some point I was with

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Speaker 2: my last boyfriend. We were together like four or five years,

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Speaker 2: and at some point I got comfortable enough to shit.

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Speaker 2: But in the first maybe two years, no, and it

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Speaker 2: used to be such a painful experience. I used to

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Speaker 2: have to like send it. I said, can you gonna

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Speaker 2: get me some ice cream? Ice cream? Right now? Please

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Speaker 2: go go, like just trying to get that one fuck

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Speaker 2: out of the house. I can take a poop and

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Speaker 2: He finally caught on that I was trying to avoid

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Speaker 2: like pooping around him, and he had to sit me

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Speaker 2: down and be like, bro, stop sending me places just

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Speaker 2: so you can use the bathroom. You're a human, are we, bitch?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm still nothing. Maybe I get that from my mama,

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like she ain't never.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me poop or poop in front of my daddy.

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Speaker 1: Cause I don't even want to say farnt fart for

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Speaker 1: this bitch to be trying to correct my uh.

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Speaker 2: Ain't no internet words as up anyway.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't do it, not even far like I

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Speaker 1: only farn't when I am unconscious, like in my fucking sleep,

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Speaker 1: I might let one out and it might wait me up,

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Speaker 1: But I'm not just intentionally letting loose. Fra Once, when I.

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Speaker 2: Tell you I stayed at her house one, you feel

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Speaker 2: like your ruins the intimessey.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was about to say, like I had

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Speaker 1: a friend who I watched her, continued, I mean, just

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Speaker 1: just a weekend, I'm at her house. She just is sparting,

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Speaker 1: like letting loose, letting loose, and I'm looking at her, nigga,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, yo, like that does to me. I

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Speaker 1: don't want my man super ripping it off all the

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Speaker 1: damn time. I don't like it, and close the door

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Speaker 1: when you're taking a shit.

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Speaker 2: I'm cool.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see that, and I don't want

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Speaker 2: I don't like man. I almost end up in a

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Speaker 2: hospital on some shit like that. Me my my ex boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: That crazy of some farns just stuck to my body

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. Eventually, I had to. Eventually, I

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Speaker 2: So you never be. You ain't never been. Like, can

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Speaker 1: No, actually no, I want to make sure I got

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Speaker 1: Cats literally cove it, shut up and hide it. Y'all

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Speaker 2: Shut up? All right? So Diddy's daughter Chance looks so

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Speaker 2: And one of the comments AJ is there with hard

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Speaker 2: Listen, pomp and circumstance your shit, because a lot of

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Speaker 2: Chance and Branson probably been on the yacht. They probably

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Speaker 2: none of that ever in life. Like sometimes prom is

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Speaker 2: the only time they'll wear a gown in their entire life.

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Speaker 2: Do it big, baby, do it big. Let your people

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Speaker 2: to judge people who don't get to have that this

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Speaker 1: You saying that, but you are the one who has

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Speaker 2: Why I feel so bad?

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Speaker 1: I talked shit to you about the jerseys being like

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Speaker 2: And that is maybe problem.

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Speaker 1: They are in the projects because the parents are not

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Speaker 1: prioritizing what is actually important. You can say, like this

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Speaker 1: That is the point the people who actually have the

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Speaker 1: high school PM. Why y'all got horses? Not the one

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Speaker 1: I know it was fire, that was flies, hell, dress

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Speaker 1: in some cameras. But some of that shit I'm seeing.

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Speaker 1: They gotta have a lambbo they got Come on, man.

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Speaker 2: The dance crew coming out. They'll walk you out.

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Speaker 1: I remember seeing a post guy posted asking if he

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Speaker 2: That is not cool. He's not a broke ass nigga.

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Speaker 1: If he's trying to, like really prioritiz like y'all want

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Speaker 1: to live it out for this one fucking day. What

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Speaker 1: happens next week when you're renting you and all this shit,

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Speaker 2: Are you tying to put yourself out? But look, I say,

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Speaker 1: But look at the proms and the things that these

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Speaker 2: I can appreciate it because they feel very special. They

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Speaker 1: It's all for social media. It's all for social media.

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Speaker 1: It's the parents doing it for social media. It's the

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Speaker 1: for no reasons. One prom you got college coming up hopefully,

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Speaker 1: y'all all motherfuckers is going to college?

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Speaker 2: What type of.

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Speaker 1: Money are the millennials making that they can afford this

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Speaker 2: Because I don't got no kids and not be broken

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Speaker 2: as hell? What is fucking happening?

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Speaker 1: If you wanted to rent a camel tomorrow, you could

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Speaker 1: rent a camel, sit your ass down.

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Speaker 2: And I wouldn't bitch.

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Speaker 1: I like furniture and shit like that, like other things

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Speaker 1: I can have for longer than a day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean I get what I understand exactly

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Speaker 1: I do like, still wouldn't I'd be exciting when my

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Speaker 1: and I helped her get her dress and all that stuff,

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Speaker 1: Like that's enough excitement for me, and she's happy. Also,

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Speaker 1: And guess what all you're doing is ready and your

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Speaker 1: I gave her a car, all the things, she got

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Speaker 2: Listen, she gonna get. She gonna get smashed in a

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Speaker 1: It's just too much, man, it's just too much.

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Speaker 2: Did you have sex after your prom?

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Speaker 1: I didn't go to prom.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I didn't go to prom because you know, I have

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Speaker 1: a mom who doesn't see the importance of that type

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Speaker 1: to prom, you gotta buy your own prom dress. I

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Speaker 1: didn't hear a prom. Yeah, so what my nieces done? Like,

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Speaker 1: I make sure I show up for them and I

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Speaker 2: Went, I don't do. I regret it.

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Speaker 1: Another problem, y'all, my big fucking young ass was talking

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Speaker 1: part fast I was just so.

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Speaker 2: I was like a prom whore. I went to every nigga.

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Speaker 2: I went to all the high school's proms with different niggas.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about from freshman year up. Like I was

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Speaker 2: favorite pastime in the spring Well, Richland Spring Valley. I'm

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Speaker 2: going to everybody's prom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But I used to get the boy to buy my dress.

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Speaker 2: I've been getting tricked down since fourteen, That's what she said.

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Speaker 2: Dress because my mom she was like, I'll buy a

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Speaker 2: dress for your prom. That's it. I can't buy a

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Speaker 2: dress from every nigga prom in Columbia. So I think

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Speaker 2: one time I wore the same dress to two different proms.

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Speaker 2: You got a full mottit. Jac's Penny's finest sort, all right.

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Speaker 1: So look, this is some well all of this shit

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Speaker 1: is stupid internet news. So this post online. It actually

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Speaker 1: and that was the first time she had ever posted

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Speaker 1: her man. Soon as she posted that shit, the woman

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Speaker 1: her fiance had been cheating with contacted her and now

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Speaker 1: they are no longer engaged. Now I gotta been guilty

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Speaker 1: of that because I don't think when I got engaged.

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Speaker 1: I think I posted a candid picture of me and

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Speaker 1: never like posted like this my man and had all

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Speaker 1: the wedding slew of pictures, you know, because I had

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Speaker 1: at the time telling me, oh, my engagement was going

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what, what hey? Girl?

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Speaker 1: That makes absolutely no fucking sense, because look, I didn't

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Speaker 2: So you didn't post him at all.

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Speaker 1: I had one picture, maybe two, maybe two pictures and

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Speaker 1: that and he had to initiate that. Any relationship I've

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Speaker 1: ever been in that work that had any posting, the

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Speaker 2: I don't like doing it.

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Speaker 1: I don't like people in my business, and I don't

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Speaker 1: like bitches coming to me as a woman. Once I

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Speaker 1: do post my nigga because I'm coming as a sniper

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Speaker 1: every fucking time.

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Speaker 2: Don't come to me as a woman. Please, But why

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Speaker 2: are you gonna come to her as a sniper? WF

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Speaker 2: she think that's her man too? Girl?

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Speaker 1: Women be knowing if I'm engaged to this man, that

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Speaker 1: means I'm probably I've probably spent every holiday with.

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Speaker 2: Him where you've been at.

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Speaker 1: No women be knowing, you know what?

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Speaker 2: But sometimes niggas are stealthy liars. I was talking to

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Speaker 2: this guy and I just was like so smitt with him.

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00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,479
Speaker 2: I thought, Okay, this could be a husband. Right. He

439
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,640
Speaker 2: was successful, he was handsome. I mean it didn't last

440
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 2: that long, so I probably would have found out eventually,

441
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,200
Speaker 2: But I like we had got drunk one night, I

442
00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 2: hadn't even slept with him yet, right I was holding

443
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 2: my vagina. Something was just telling me, like, don't rush

444
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 2: into intimacy in that way. Make out, do some heavy petting.

445
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 2: But it never did to do. And one night we

446
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,800
Speaker 2: got really drunk together and I said to him, like

447
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 2: I got like a little emotional, and I just told

448
00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 2: I thanked him for being a good person, Like I

449
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 2: feel like a lot of men come and try to

450
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,679
Speaker 2: take advantage and I just really need good people in

451
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 2: my life, So thank you for being that baby. I

452
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 2: ain't hear from him after that. I didn't know he disappeared.

453
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 2: He disappeared, and then he came back like months later

454
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 2: trying to say something to me, and I was like,

455
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 2: you ghosted me and we were getting along so well,

456
00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 2: like why he was like, I'm married, get married, And he.

457
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: Knew you were getting serious with him, like so.

458
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 2: He just yeah, And I got all emotional and really

459
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 2: telling him. But I let him know upfront that I

460
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 2: was only interested in dating for marriage, so he knew

461
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 2: that from the beginning, but he.

462
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 1: Didn't on getting that pussy first, and you just was

463
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 1: taking too long. This is the importance of waiting.

464
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 2: Right, he was gonna be regardless. Yeah, he was gonna

465
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 2: ghost me regardless. But I think he developed a little

466
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,880
Speaker 2: bit of a conscience when I was pouring my heart

467
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 2: out to him and then just was like, man, I'm

468
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 2: just gonna go now. Shame.

469
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:45,639
Speaker 1: So uh, is it true that you don't know somebody

470
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 1: until you live with them, or you don't know him

471
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 1: until you post him on social media?

472
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 2: You don't know until you post them? Baby? Is that

473
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:54,400
Speaker 2: a whole nothing? So, yes, that's an episode to.

474
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 1: Be had because I don't I can't imagine and you

475
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 1: know anytime. That is part of the reason that might

476
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: be one of the reasons why I don't post. I

477
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: don't like people in my business. I'm a very private person.

478
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 1: Even though we talk a whole lot of shit on here,

479
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 1: you still only know what I want you to know. Okay,

480
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: So now that is a part of the reason why

481
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 1: I don't like posting people. I remember one time, this

482
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 1: current nigga. Okay, this is when we were together years ago,

483
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 1: a bitch came on my page and only liked a

484
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 1: picture of him.

485
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 2: Who fuck you playing with? And I'm like, who's this right?

486
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 2: Because you know her? Yeah? Who the fuck? Is this.

487
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 1: You gotta know this bitch, because why the who the

488
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: fuck comes on a bitch page that only like her?

489
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 2: Nigga? Listen, I went on a bitch page one time

490
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 2: and like all her baby show our pictures with my

491
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 2: ex boyfriends. You petty bitch. Congratulations, bitch, I'm praying for you.

492
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,399
Speaker 2: You're probably forever for real now.

493
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: Yes, anyway, post your man when y'all feel like it.

494
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't see the significance of posting relationships

495
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: social media is for me. I'd like for it to

496
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 1: be more of some business shit, but you know, people

497
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: want to see a life, especially when you.

498
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 2: Like a puppet public.

499
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 1: About to say puppet figure, a public figure. You said

500
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 1: it right, exactly, a puppet figure. Yeah. You want to

501
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: see you and what you got going on and who

502
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: you fucking with? Nah, dang your business. So I mean

503
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: she did right, yeah, because when it got serious and

504
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 1: then now she knows what time it is.

505
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: I don't like when people be posting all their relationship everything.

506
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 2: We're having ice cream today, we're doing this, or so

507
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 2: in love and then he just disappeared. No, bitch, you

508
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 2: need to tell us what happens. We've been to every

509
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 2: dinner we've been to every lunch. Now I don't know. No,

510
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 2: I'm fully investigate what happened.

511
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,919
Speaker 1: But how about I can count all the bodies you

512
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: done had the last decade. You're not to every man

513
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 1: you've ever been with on your soci your media. I'm

514
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: carrying all your body and these the ones we know about, right,

515
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: I just.

516
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:10,880
Speaker 2: Be I be in person with women who can switch

517
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 2: boyfriends like panties like and be really like claiming niggas

518
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 2: publicly so quickly. Who you're talking about me?

519
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all, y'all this episode is about.

520
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 2: Cheating respectfully.

521
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 1: Man, I love these naggets and niggas live me.

522
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 2: He was a skill y'all?

523
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 1: Is there such a thing as respectful cheating? So this

524
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: guy who we didn't she didn't find out about any

525
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: side bitches until she posted. Maybe, like if if there

526
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 1: was no inkling he was actually cheating at any point,

527
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: maybe he was doing respectfully and maybe this one person

528
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: he just couldn't keep in line enough to keep the

529
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: lie going. But I think that most women are more

530
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: disappointed in the embarrassment that they feel when other people

531
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: know that they've been cheated on. Right, So is there

532
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: such a thing as respectful cheating. Y'all stay tuned for

533
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 1: this week's episode. Will be right back after this commercial.

534
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 2: All right, guys, we're back. All right. So, Ninny Leeks

535
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 2: did an interview and she said that there's a such

536
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 2: thing as respectful cheating, and it's when a woman, the

537
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:36,120
Speaker 2: side chick, stays fifty feet away from the main tie.

538
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 2: Just fifty rules. I must have missed that. Ye have

539
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 2: rules fifty feet. They don't take no pictures together, no

540
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:47,399
Speaker 2: babies or anything that happens. And that was pretty much it,

541
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 2: Like she just stays very anonymous who says the rules.

542
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 2: I guess the party's involved. I guess her and not Yanni.

543
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,199
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know if that's I don't know.

544
00:26:58,240 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 2: They be on again, off again.

545
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: Y'all think you what that got? I mean, was he

546
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 1: not still married when they got together?

547
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 2: I do not know that part, but I wanted to

548
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 2: discuss that because that seems to be a thing. Now.

549
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 1: Is there such thing as respectful cheating? Yes, there is

550
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 1: such a thing as respectful cheating. I never want to

551
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,479
Speaker 1: know that you cheated. If you I don't. Okay, we

552
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 1: talk about this shit a lot, like being in non

553
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 1: monogamous relationships. I don't really believe in non monogamy, but

554
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: I believe in honesty. And if you can't be fucking honest, nigga,

555
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: just do it so well that I never know. When

556
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: you start producing kids, Okay, I know all your dirt.

557
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 1: At that point, you just produced a whole another human being.

558
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: When a bitch is calling the phone, calling the house,

559
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: messaging me from your bed.

560
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 2: Is okay, man to have a side cheek. No, it's

561
00:27:58,640 --> 00:27:59,199
Speaker 2: not okay.

562
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 1: But I don't think that we can go through this

563
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: life without ever having access to the opposite sex. And

564
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: maybe you and your partner can set a standard like,

565
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:11,360
Speaker 1: look when we married, but when we turn fifty, we're

566
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: gonna have some other people. Maybe it's something like that,

567
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 1: but and we know about it. But if you happen

568
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 1: to get your dick and some shit, I don't want

569
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: to know about it. I want you to do it,

570
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:30,199
Speaker 1: so I don't want to know about that shit. Like

571
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: I don't want to know that you're playing in my face.

572
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:35,119
Speaker 1: I don't want to know that.

573
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, ignorance is bliss, that's what you're basically saying.

574
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 2: But in my opinion, there's no such thing as respectful cheating,

575
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 2: because once you're cheating, you're disrespecting the fuck out of me.

576
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: Once you're cheating is disrespect I don't think. Because yeah,

577
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 2: because there's such thing where is twenty twenty four? There's

578
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 2: such thing as open relationships. If that's what you want,

579
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 2: share that with me because I can. I can open up.

580
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: I can open up with your baby already. Men can't

581
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,719
Speaker 1: handle the shit they dish. They can't handle it.

582
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 2: This is true.

583
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: Do I want to not be with my partner because

584
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: I know he can't handle me cheating on him?

585
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,959
Speaker 2: Quarterly? You want to respectfully cheat too? Is that what

586
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 2: you're saying? Oh? Absolutely?

587
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: So the thing is you want to respectfully do it

588
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 1: because if I find out I don't leave you because

589
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: of cheating, I am a big tit for tatter. Okay, so, motherfucker,

590
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: if you tip me, I'm aa tat yourt tat tat

591
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Where movie is that?

592
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 2: I don't know you? And the movie is that? Y'all?

593
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: Tat tat tat what the fuck? I don't know? Y'all,

594
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 2: go in the comments, tell us what the movie that is?

595
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 2: I need y'all to know what if y'all's real, Because

596
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 2: y'all know that movie. What's the movie? I'm not telling

597
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 2: I want them to gage. Okay, they gonna know, or

598
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: maybe I'll tell it at the end, but I ain't

599
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 2: gonna tell you now.

600
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, So yeah, don't tip me, and I want tat

601
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: If you're faithful, I'll be faithful. If I find out

602
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: you doing some ships, if you do do some shit, right,

603
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:06,959
Speaker 1: I better never find out about it because I'm not

604
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: gonna leave you for jeating.

605
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm listening. Yeah, if you paid for some puzzy, it

606
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: gotta listen. If they got pussy, they paid for it,

607
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 2: because listen outside outside, women.

608
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: Just be cheap, okay, is not you?

609
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 2: You're man for free. You're a man somebody else's man.

610
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 2: Those women want something and they can't have him in

611
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 2: a real way, so they're gonna want tangible things. It

612
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 2: just depends.

613
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: Because if he's a scorpio, he definitely and multiple full

614
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: fledged relationships. He is figuring out a way to juggle

615
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: his dick between multiple women.

616
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 2: Oh, I just that scares me so bad because I

617
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 2: just I just be. I have this fear, I really

618
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 2: have this fear, you guys, that I'm gonna end up

619
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 2: on snap you know, that show that come on crime TV.

620
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: No, you're not gonna end up on there.

621
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 2: I have no idea because you don't play with me

622
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 2: like that because I'm so open and like with the

623
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 2: ships oftentimes that you can just tell me anything. Don't

624
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 2: play with me because well everybody be like, yeah, we

625
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 2: was watching that episode and we talked back and she

626
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 2: said we was gonna be here evidence.

627
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: They're gonna have your ass rerun it on YouTube, just

628
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: like the young thug trout Yo, niggas, it's.

629
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 2: Tuning in every day to me. Just tell me the truth,

630
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 2: you know, because and I'm being.

631
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: There as a witness, like, man, listen, it was it break.

632
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: She ain't do it with a body because I didn't

633
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: help you hide it with a body.

634
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: Man, Y'll help you hide a body, just so y'all.

635
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 2: So I just don't. I don't believe in cheating, respectfully,

636
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 2: there's no such thing. There's just cheating and you just slick.

637
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,719
Speaker 1: But what how would you feel if your mate actually

638
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: came to you and say, hey, I want to I

639
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 1: met this person. You know, you know I wanted that

640
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: business trip two weeks ago and I met a really

641
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: nice No, I want to say two weeks let's say

642
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: four months ago. Okay, I met a woman on a

643
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: flight four months ago. You know we have been chatting

644
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: up a little bit. You know, sometimes we have problems.

645
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: I can't every come I can't always come to the

646
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: problem with the problem. So I've been chatting it up

647
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: with her, and you know, I want to fuck her.

648
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 2: How would you take that? All? Right? First, I would

649
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: want to exercise the understanding that we have a problem,

650
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 2: but I'm not the problem. Let's attect. Let's discover what

651
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 2: the problem is and attact that. Don't view me as

652
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 2: the problem. There's an issue, right, and let's fix that.

653
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 2: But that's what a coincidence that you met you met

654
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 2: someone four months ago? Because in my DM there's this

655
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 2: guy let him this is just one of them. But

656
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 2: he's been at me for four months and I've been

657
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 2: ignoring him. But he looks great. So if that's what

658
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 2: something you want to explore, we can do that. But

659
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 2: if you're not okay with me exploring, please don't try to.

660
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: You know, Nigga gonna beat you up, Christopher Columbus baby,

661
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: because that will be the Nina, the Santa, every and

662
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: every other boat there is. So they can't take it,

663
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: but I I if it happens, if one night. You know,

664
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: this is why I'm a firm believer in Like, you know,

665
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: when you you cohabitate with somebody, maybe y'all are married,

666
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: living in the same space, don't ever put your nigga out.

667
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: There are so many quality women like you literally sending

668
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: your man to somebody else's house when you be like,

669
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: get out for us. You know, the pigas is very slim,

670
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: so it's always a bitch and the cut somewhere right?

671
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 2: What was that Beyonce song? Exactly let you Go? Exactly?

672
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 1: That's if I help you build some ship.

673
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: Like what if he's a good dude, Yeah, if he's

674
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 2: a good dude. All right, So what was that movie?

675
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all saw that movie. It was

676
00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 2: with Channon Tatum and the white girl I can't remember.

677
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 2: She real pretty and they were in a car accident

678
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 2: in the snow. They were married, and she lost her

679
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 2: whole memory and she could not remember her husband. And

680
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 2: she eventually remembered that her father had sex with her

681
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 2: homegirl and that's why she ran away. And then she

682
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 2: came back to her mom. Yeah, and she was like, Mom,

683
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: how did you not leave him. Why wouldn't you leave him?

684
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,919
Speaker 2: Like that's so weak of you not to leave him

685
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 2: for that. And she was like, I analyzed over the

686
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 2: last thirty years, and I realized how much good he

687
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 2: had done, and I couldn't let the one bad mistake

688
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 2: he made outweigh all the good things he had done

689
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 2: throughout our life. And that's why I chose to stay.

690
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 2: And that shit was like so profound for me. I

691
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 2: was like, wait, because a lot of women leave for

692
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 2: that one infraction even though a nigga done provided them.

693
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 2: I mean a man. I gotta stop saying a nigga,

694
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 2: a man has provided them such a good lifestyle and

695
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 2: all these things, and he makes it it's one infraction

696
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 2: and then they leave. But sometimes that's people's deal breakers.

697
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I have one of my cousins, I mean,

698
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: her baby daddy cheated on her one time girl and

699
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 1: she literally had a whole apartment the next week and

700
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: never looked back. She married so a whole other man.

701
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,719
Speaker 2: Now is she happier? I mean, I don't know.

702
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: I just remembered when she first met her baby daddy

703
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: and how she was talking about I remember I was

704
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 1: in town and Charleston this was years ago.

705
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 2: How she was like talking about him.

706
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: She was like, girl, that's my husband, this and that

707
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 1: and third like they didn't get married, but they did

708
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 1: produce a very beautiful young lady and she's about to

709
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 1: graduate from high school now. But one thing, she got

710
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: the fuck up out of there, and he had to

711
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: me he hasn't recovered.

712
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 2: Well that worked. They didn't always work.

713
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: Miserable if you ask me, yeah, well, I feel like

714
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: men only learn from hurt, right, So if you actually

715
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: want a man to course correct some shit, you gotta leave.

716
00:35:58,200 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 2: You gotta leave, you know what I'm saying.

717
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: And then maybe he'll get it together and come back,

718
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 1: or maybe he'll learn from the situation with you, and

719
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: then he'll go on and treat the next woman.

720
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 2: But the next woman better. He okay, was.

721
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: Giving a woman a refurbished man. It's okay, Ladies like,

722
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: don't It's like you're not building somebody else.

723
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:18,439
Speaker 2: It's so infuriating to see the nigga that the man

724
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 2: that you wanted to treat you.

725
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, Drake was better, I said, Okay, Drake, Drake, Drake,

726
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: you bad from saying niggas alone. Summons Israel on a

727
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: on uh now seeing he like, nah, I get it.

728
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: I'm in a rap battle. New bitches is talking about cheating.

729
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: I ain't cheating on nobody, committing to nobody. Y'all tell

730
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: me love fucking Drake. Okay, I told Tammy earlier, I said, Drake.

731
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 2: Is not Listen, you are not Drake type. Come about Drake.

732
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 2: He's funny to me. I mean we're getting off topic.

733
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 2: I mean drinking along anyway. So all right, So I

734
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 2: looked up an article. You guys, we love a good article.

735
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 2: I love a good article.

736
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: It's so fucked up from the solar eclips.

737
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: Because she's like, I'm Jesus said, I'm magical, and I

738
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 2: can look at the sun.

739
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: You couldn't see sis, but hold on, the only thing

740
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: I can't see is technology.

741
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: I was like, it's my last on. She's like, I

742
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 2: don't know, bitch, I can't even see you. I got

743
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 2: a small.

744
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: If you can't put three fingers on that foet between

745
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: that forehead and the.

746
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 2: Mind, brother, that's brought down low. I got four head,

747
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 2: all right. So I found an article on signs that

748
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 2: your man is cheating. So if y'all think he is cheating, respectfully,

749
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 2: here goes some signs, all right, So he has different

750
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 2: levels of sexual interaction. So if your man used to

751
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 2: wanna sleep with you all the time, and all of

752
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 2: a sudden he's like, I'm tired, that's because his balls

753
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 2: is empty. If he make him money, he's tired.

754
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 1: If your nigga is playing that he was from all

755
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: night and now he come home talk about am Dar

756
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: and me playing two K every day and saying his way,

757
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 1: he tired, that's a problem. Two K like the basketball, right,

758
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: that's my game. Like if he playing mothers still playing

759
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: that ship? I thought they was playing, Like I have

760
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 1: one in my house right now on a motherfucker chest.

761
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 2: I don't want it on.

762
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 1: I'd be worthy of the damn four arms swipe that ship. Yeah,

763
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 1: but he still want to fuck you though, absolutely? Okay,

764
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: too much sex, please, somebody tell.

765
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:35,919
Speaker 2: Me me with it.

766
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 1: I it's not moving, No, But that's what I'm saying.

767
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 1: If he is like at home, he's not that busy,

768
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 1: and he also is not having sex with you, there's a.

769
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 2: Chance that he's cheating.

770
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, But if it's a man making money, I'd

771
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: rather a busy man than anything.

772
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,320
Speaker 2: I want my man to be busy.

773
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: I want him to have a lot of shit going

774
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: on trying to get me a million dollars.

775
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 2: Absolutely. Absolutely. If we ain't having sex, I'm cool. But

776
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 2: if he turned you down for sex all the time,

777
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 2: that's the problem. Either you done got too fat and.

778
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 1: He think you Some niggas like that. Bitches like why

779
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 1: I said too fat?

780
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 2: Too bad? Whatever he likes you ain't that. No, I'm

781
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 2: smiling at your baby mama, and nigga, I'm winning. What

782
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 2: are you talking about? I'm skinny or to something that

783
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 2: he don't like. He's not physically attracted to you anymore.

784
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 1: That's a whole nother episode because I can't really be

785
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,240
Speaker 1: feeling some type of way. I seen a court TV

786
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: video one time and the guy was saying how she

787
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: doesn't look like who he married. I mean, men are

788
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 1: I won't say men are super visual, but I know

789
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: men are predators aside a tide from being very visual,

790
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: so it's fair.

791
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 2: Like they look the same though. That's the crazy part.

792
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: Like your moms were sitting up here now they're down here,

793
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 1: and nigga, you are hips now, why are you talking shit?

794
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't do me like that wall you were changing together.

795
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 1: You had to hear when I met you and now

796
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: you don't so, but I actually to get no, man,

797
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: we I actually go to Turkey, right. I've been looking

798
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: on the boss spots, loving them, and you got the

799
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: nerve to say something about this role the fuck. Luckily,

800
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: my nigga loves rolls. Lick this roll bo rolls.

801
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: Okay, this one is inconsistent explanations. Lyne is much harder

802
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 2: than many people understand, especially constant line to a committed partner.

803
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,319
Speaker 2: While liars would do their best to repeat the same

804
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 2: story each time they lie, they usually start to give

805
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 2: inconsistent information when they when they're understressed, or if they're

806
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 2: asked the same question in the way they're not used to.

807
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 2: So a nigga started lying a man A man gets

808
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 2: the lion, Like I was.

809
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: Working later than late and they had the boss man.

810
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 1: That shit was crazy today they had like it was

811
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: like the fact went out in the building and then

812
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 1: they had to put on the half masks who and

813
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: then I came down there and it was like, it's

814
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 1: those fucking lies on the Clarence Rock somewhere because I'm

815
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 1: not buying them, right, It's all kind of crazy shit.

816
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:07,439
Speaker 2: Now, don't be offering me no lies?

817
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 1: Am I ask you no questions, don't lie, and I

818
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: really don't ask questions. And I probably enable people to

819
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,279
Speaker 1: cheat because I do like to let people do what

820
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 1: the fuck they want to do, so I can see

821
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: what you rather do. I know I've said that a

822
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: million times, but I mean it like I really just

823
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 1: let people live. I don't be on a nigga neck

824
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: and none of that shit and no whulch. You start

825
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: feeling different because we know when you're cheating, Okay. Our

826
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:33,879
Speaker 1: bodies tell us when something isn't right. Yes, so if

827
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:37,439
Speaker 1: I feel some way, if I smell some way, I'm

828
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: cutting your head off.

829
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,720
Speaker 2: But sometimes men be telling the truth, but it sound

830
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 2: like a lie. You know, give me some time, it'll

831
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 2: be like a lie might sound better than the truth

832
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 2: because the truth sound like a lie. Like did you

833
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: ever see that video where the man was pulled over

834
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 2: by the police and he was like, man, talk to

835
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 2: my girl. Man, just talk to my girl, because I

836
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,399
Speaker 2: ain't got time for that shit. When I get home,

837
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,439
Speaker 2: he put the police on facetide with his girl because

838
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 2: he's like, look, I'm with the police, man, I can't

839
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 2: believe nothing.

840
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 1: No, you better be with the police are dead. If

841
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: it's a case where you didn't come home. Yeah, I

842
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 1: don't understand how women literally be living with men who

843
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: don't come home, that.

844
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 2: Don't come home. Just said the sun beat them home.

845
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: Like he was at your house and didn't go home.

846
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 2: He don't let the sun beat you home. That's your girl.

847
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: You don't go home, right, and you just take into

848
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 1: that to me, I'm not gonna be home when he

849
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: gets there. That's how I do it. Yeah, you wanna

850
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 1: do that type of shit. You gonna be like it's

851
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: six o'clock in the morning. Oh, because then that make

852
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 1: you just as bad, and then you.

853
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 2: Don't have a leg to stand on.

854
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 1: I don't.

855
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 2: I don't go high. I don't go high.

856
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:42,879
Speaker 1: I go to hell every time.

857
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 2: I'm just sitting in there dark with gospel music playing,

858
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 2: scared of the nigga.

859
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: Like he gonna come in the house, like, oh shit,

860
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: hes a kya walker blasted to hide decibels in there,

861
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: and he just and I'm sitting in the dark. No,

862
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be there. I may not be at

863
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 1: another man's house because I do feel like when you cheat,

864
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: if you are a woman and you want to get

865
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 1: back I don't feel like giving your pussy to another

866
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 1: man is get back leaving, and leveling up is get

867
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 1: back leaving. And the fucking with a millionaire is get back.

868
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 1: That's the only way men feel the type of way.

869
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, but get back.

870
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 1: Letting somebody else borri your kouchi is not.

871
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 2: Get back with millionaires. Like it's not just like I said, millionaire.

872
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:30,959
Speaker 1: Maybe that may be extreme. Just fucking with somebody better

873
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 1: than the man you're with. Let's just say that you

874
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 1: ain't even.

875
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 2: Gotta be better. All he gotta do is be like

876
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 2: three inches taller than your nigga, and he like.

877
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: Oh hurt, mom, I kill everybody.

878
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 2: He ain't gotta have no money. He just gotta be

879
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 2: three inches taller. I swear to God, that's all I

880
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 2: gotta be. His dick is bigger.

881
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: They ready to kill everybody, nigga knocking everything over in

882
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: the house.

883
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:02,479
Speaker 2: Sorry. The next one is inconsistent expense. Oh yeah yeah,

884
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 2: hotel ship girl, I was. And spending habits can be

885
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 2: a sign that there might be something else going on

886
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 2: with your partner. A big red flat, for example, is

887
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 2: unexplained large cash withdrawals. Hmm, So can I say, like cousin.

888
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 2: I sorry, cousin. Okay. So one of my one of

889
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 2: my close friends.

890
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 1: Which is also my first cousin, she was talking to

891
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 1: this guy recently and he he flew her out, but

892
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: he wouldn't order food the polices they would go, so

893
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: you would just she would just.

894
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 2: Have one meal exactly before I came, order for yourself.

895
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: One meal because somebody else looking at the big.

896
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 2: Statements that slick.

897
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,839
Speaker 1: That's not slick. It's obvious to the woman you're with,

898
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:57,839
Speaker 1: and right now in this moment, it's one. It was

899
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 1: obvious to her, was what I'm saying. Not obvious to

900
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,760
Speaker 1: the woman that's looking at the bank statements. It's obvious

901
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:04,799
Speaker 1: to the woman that you're with.

902
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,439
Speaker 2: Your Oh he was sitting with. He was with someone

903
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: he wasn't honest about.

904
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: Yes, So she came to the conclusion that she was like, man,

905
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: I think that Nigga married. When she got back home,

906
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,839
Speaker 1: she was like, I think he's married, and I'm like, girl,

907
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 1: he probably is, because at what point do you go

908
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: visit somebody and they're not eating.

909
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 2: Y'all go out to eat right, let me taste that

910
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 2: it looks good.

911
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: No, just order something, get your own beggar boy, like

912
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:34,720
Speaker 1: the fuck, let me taste that state.

913
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got COVID in the building. You order a down,

914
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 2: She's like no, making a twelve bounce yo.

915
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: I would embarrass the dude, like what are you doing?

916
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 1: I would have asked him. I don't like to speculate.

917
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 1: I don't like to assume shit. I asked too many

918
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,839
Speaker 1: questions for nigga to lie, Like, just tell me what

919
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: it is and let me decide whether or not I

920
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: want to deal with it, you know, because once I

921
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 1: know who you are, I can deal with it. But

922
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: don't just be lying in my face and not eating,

923
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 1: Like why eat?

924
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 2: Hungry as hell? Y?

925
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 1: Yo?

926
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 2: No, that's why here's a good one. False accusations of cheating.

927
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 2: Have you ever had someone like, oh, you just on

928
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 2: you about doing shit so hard? It's like, what are

929
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 2: you doing? Because why you keep being on me so heavy?

930
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:27,760
Speaker 2: And I ain't even doing nothing.

931
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: You know, I've been in every single relationship I've been in,

932
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: I've always felt like, damn, am I doing something to

933
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: make men feel insecure? But I've never been with a

934
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 1: man who didn't cheat on me. So the whole time,

935
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: you accusing me of some shit because you out here

936
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: doing the fucking most. So you just can't fathom in

937
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 1: your mind why I wouldn't be.

938
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 2: I leave instead. I swear one time we was in

939
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 2: the drive through at bow Jangles. I'm not lying, and

940
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 2: I was like, thank you. He's like, what the fuck?

941
00:46:56,520 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 2: You smiling in a nigga faith so hard? You're always

942
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 2: smiling in a nigga face. I was like, I was

943
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 2: just being polite. He was passing the food through the window,

944
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 2: Like that's that's a problem. You're doing too much. You

945
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 2: do too fucking much like calming and smiling down. I

946
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 2: was like, this nigga is cheating on meigg That's all

947
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 2: I heard. I can't smile out all I heard window,

948
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 2: That's all I heard. Yeah, damn.

949
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: Like I've said this before, like how my ex like

950
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: I would call people babe, and it's no, that's a

951
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: problem because you're a boy. That's when I called baby.

952
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 1: I really get that from my mom, Like I'm calling

953
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 1: grown people babe. I'm calling kids babe. When I get

954
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 1: like if I'm at the grocery store in line, I'm like,

955
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: think you babe, go on by my business. This nigga

956
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:42,359
Speaker 1: started doing it like intentionally though, like if you don't

957
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 1: use that word, like why are we out at a

958
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 1: restaurant and you like telling the waitress thank you, babe, bitch,

959
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: I'll smack across the.

960
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:55,760
Speaker 2: Under the don't call that bitch babe. That's not your babe.

961
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 2: Don't do that. I don't play that.

962
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: So yeah, I definitely have been accused of cheating, and

963
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:01,240
Speaker 1: I've never cheated.

964
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 2: Black women don't cheat never. I have never kid. You

965
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 2: share a story where you knew you were being cheated on,

966
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 2: I as the fucking well, like, what happened? What happened? Girl?

967
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:16,720
Speaker 2: What happened?

968
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: I always know I'm being cheating on, cheated on. I

969
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 1: just be wanting the person to be honest. You know

970
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, I remember it so my last relationship,

971
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I'm talking with you

972
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: no more. I literally it was like a Wednesday. I

973
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 1: think it was Wednesday. My memory is pretty good. It's

974
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,880
Speaker 1: like an elephant and the nigga wasn't answering the phone.

975
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: Some calling, calling, calling back to back to back to back.

976
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:43,959
Speaker 1: That's not love, y'all. If you got to call somebody

977
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:45,800
Speaker 1: more than one time, that's not like because you're in

978
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: love with them, it's actually a form of being possessive

979
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: because they saw you call the first time. Some calling, calling, calling, calling, calling, calling,

980
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:55,839
Speaker 1: He's not answering the phone. Okay, I go to sleep.

981
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 1: I couldn't sleep though, so the next morning I woke

982
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: up and I went on my little date walk and

983
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 1: he called my phone. I was like, listen, I ain't

984
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: fucking with you no more, like this shit over it.

985
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 1: I don't like feeling like that because as a woman,

986
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 1: you have this innate feeling. This this your intuition is

987
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 1: never wrong. And I think men have intuition too, because

988
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 1: I swear to God the times I've been fucking off

989
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: a nigga call your phone, like, goddamn, nigga, you smell

990
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: me on another nigga did like, what's happening?

991
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 2: God, I should know.

992
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 1: I shouldn't fuck you wrong, because I feel like you

993
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: start getting like some type of connection with somebody. Yeah,

994
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 1: so they kind of know all of a sudden as

995
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: soon as you get to where you go on a

996
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 1: nigga calling the phone, Now you got to act like

997
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,439
Speaker 1: you in bed when you're in your car. I don't

998
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. I've never been there, So

999
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm not fucking with you no more. That

1000
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: was like a Wednesday, and I feel like maybe it

1001
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: was like the following Monday. I'm on the phone with him.

1002
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: He's in waffle house ordering food, right, and I'm like

1003
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 1: on the phone with him, and also simultaneously like scrolling

1004
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 1: through Instagram, and I saw some they sent me a

1005
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:03,760
Speaker 1: request message. So I clicked the request message.

1006
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 2: It's a bitch.

1007
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: It's a bitch done sent me a video from my

1008
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: Nigga's bed from that Wednesday where you weren't answering the phone.

1009
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: So now I get to see you not answer your phone.

1010
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 1: And she's behind the camera and she's like so and

1011
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: so turn the light off. I gotta go to work tomorrow.

1012
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 1: And I'm watching him like leaning on the on the headboard,

1013
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 1: like scrolling through the phone. So and it would would

1014
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,839
Speaker 1: have synced up with the time that I was calling him.

1015
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 1: So now I get to see you now.

1016
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:35,800
Speaker 2: Girl.

1017
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: When i I'm like this is calling, I was like, oh,

1018
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: your bitch messaged me. Well that Nigga couldn't even order

1019
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: this food no more. This bore.

1020
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 2: He started trembling.

1021
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: Oh now you're not You're nervous, stand on business, bitch

1022
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 1: now you're not hungry, order your pekan waffle, your light

1023
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 1: skinned pek and waffle Nigga, and your goddamn grand slam.

1024
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 2: But did you stay with him? I did.

1025
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 1: That's my dumb bitch story for this episode. I definitely

1026
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: stayed with his ass for at least two more years.

1027
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 2: It's so dumb. You are really dumb for real?

1028
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: Okay, even got engaged in all the bullshit. Yeah, my buddy,

1029
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:14,720
Speaker 1: the addol sub meta fingers to my old life.

1030
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 2: But probably, and it was a lot of others.

1031
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: It wasn't even together, like yet, what's the girl, Realista,

1032
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 1: don't got ship on the stories I have from that

1033
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 1: one relationship.

1034
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 2: I got others, but from that one, do not compare

1035
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:33,880
Speaker 2: yourself to recent because I was like, now, girl, I

1036
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 2: was layd in the red rubbing my feet together like

1037
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 2: sus now, God damn maw, come on now.

1038
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 1: Some of that shit was like a right outlandish lies outlandish. Yeah,

1039
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 1: I ain't never had nobody lied to me like that.

1040
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 2: When I was getting cheated on, somebody else had to

1041
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 2: tell me I was in Lola Land, Like why, Nigga,

1042
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 2: that's my man, Miami and Miami. Can't nobody tell me

1043
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 2: shit about my man, and my friend was like, your

1044
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 2: man cheating on you. I'm like, no, what makes you

1045
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:04,760
Speaker 2: something like that? You're jealous?

1046
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: See, that's why I don't tell a bitch of shit

1047
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: like you have to find on your own man.

1048
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 2: Because we're so happy, bitch, I flew out because we

1049
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 2: were in a long distance relationship. We was doing like

1050
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,720
Speaker 2: little weird shit. I was like, it's the time zones.

1051
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 2: He's just so far away. He's in California. I'm in

1052
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 2: South Carolina. It's the time zones. That's why he's sometimes unavailable.

1053
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 2: It's not meanwhile, you know.

1054
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:28,399
Speaker 1: Hold.

1055
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 2: But then she told me he was cheating on me.

1056
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 2: So then I was like, no, he's not. But then

1057
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 2: I bought a plane ticket to fly out there, right,

1058
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 2: and I came in being like a South Carolina stuff

1059
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 2: for white. Oh, let me as soon as I get here,

1060
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna clean your whole house. That was me, right.

1061
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 2: I was in his closet, soaring through his dirty fucking

1062
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 2: clothes to wash him, and there was a hole. All right.

1063
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 2: That's how y'all gonna know how long ago this was.

1064
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 2: It was a photo album that a bitch made for

1065
00:52:55,760 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 2: him of a trip where they went on the wine train.

1066
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:04,399
Speaker 2: He was shet and cheating. They went on a wine train, bitch,

1067
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 2: and she took all kind of pictures and put it

1068
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 2: in a photo album. Let me tell you what I did,

1069
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 2: because man, like I was young and I was broken,

1070
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 2: he was taking so such good care of me. I

1071
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 2: ripped the ship up and put it back in the backroom.

1072
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 1: I've done that to somebody.

1073
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 2: I ripped it up and put it back in the

1074
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 2: back I ripped all the pictures, closed them up in

1075
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 2: there and put it back like you know how to

1076
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 2: they have sleeves. I ripped the picture and put it

1077
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 2: back in the sleeve, rip it and put it and

1078
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 2: then I didn't say a word. Enjoyed my weekend, went

1079
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 2: home with him and went home.

1080
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: Did he ever say anything about the pictures? Yeah?

1081
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 2: Like the next week, what is it like? That was

1082
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 2: my co worker And that was a work trip and

1083
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:48,960
Speaker 2: we was had a morale trip. Not a morale trip,

1084
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:53,760
Speaker 2: mos nuts, yo.

1085
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: Boy, men won't really try your pictures. It was morown

1086
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: because we were like we need is a team building,

1087
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 1: team building trip? Yo?

1088
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:08,479
Speaker 2: You in just one based Napa Valley had a team

1089
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 2: building trip. Okay, you think I'm fucking stupid? That'd be

1090
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 2: the thing.

1091
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: Man.

1092
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,479
Speaker 2: Look, don't tell me no fucking lies. I really don't.

1093
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 1: I don't mind lies. I don't mind liars. I be

1094
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: mad when a motherfucking think got the leader lie. That's

1095
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:23,280
Speaker 1: what gets a minor.

1096
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 2: No, I don't lie to me. Just tell me believable liar.

1097
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 1: But if you're telling traceable lies, I'm like, why, nigga,

1098
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:35,360
Speaker 1: why why are you telling traceable lies?

1099
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 2: I'm confused. And I stayed with that man for so long.

1100
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 2: I mean, he just cheating the last straw, the final straw.

1101
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 2: So he left California, came to Atlanta. Bottom house. We're

1102
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 2: young too, this is we're in our twenties. I moved

1103
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 2: to Atlanta, I got my own place. I did not

1104
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 2: move in with him, and I came to spend the

1105
00:54:54,600 --> 00:55:00,719
Speaker 2: night with him, but to cry, no, girl, this girl, girl.

1106
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: No.

1107
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 2: I still be hurt, girl, I still be trying to

1108
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 2: care about him. My damn. He released me, and I

1109
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:08,919
Speaker 2: had lived a good life. I think if I would

1110
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:12,240
Speaker 2: have just stayed out, just been like just very country

1111
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 2: and not knowing nothing and never experienced nothing. So he

1112
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,279
Speaker 2: did me a favor by doing all that. It was

1113
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:20,800
Speaker 2: a condom in the bed That's when I was like, Okay,

1114
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 2: this man don't respect me at all. I have to go.

1115
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: And the bed was made up all nice and neat.

1116
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 2: The bed was made up so nice and neat. I

1117
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 2: got into bed and felt so like, it's a slug

1118
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 2: on my left. It's a slug in the bed, a

1119
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 2: whole condom on my left.

1120
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 1: Girl, I've literally been in a man's bed and felt

1121
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: some shit wrap around my toes.

1122
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 2: You know, you just wrap it, you wrap it unneath,

1123
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 2: and then you put your foot up. A whole thumb,

1124
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 2: a whole fuck it. You ain't washed these sheets. Yeah

1125
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 2: you got me, you made the bed up, but you

1126
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 2: had someone else in the bed. You ain't washed these sheets.

1127
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: You felthy animal.

1128
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 2: Animal. He used to lie so bad. I know, he

1129
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 2: just got tied a lion. It was like in the

1130
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 2: other bedroom, it was like some girl women's clothes in

1131
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 2: a drawer. It's nothing. It ain't even no furniture.

1132
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 1: Oh, that's his girlfriend. You leaving shit at a man's house,

1133
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 1: that's your man.

1134
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 2: That's when it's closed in the drawer. I was like,

1135
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 2: who's closing this? Oh? My homeboys girlfriend came over there.

1136
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 2: They stayed in the bathroom and then I was like,

1137
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:24,040
Speaker 2: it's no bed in that room. They stayed back at yo.

1138
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 2: They just lay back there.

1139
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:30,440
Speaker 1: Yo.

1140
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 2: I hate niggas, dog not men, niggas so bad goodness.

1141
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 2: So I had to get out of that. But I

1142
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 2: think that's the only time I've only had two boyfriends

1143
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 2: in my life. Everybody else I ain't claimed these niggas

1144
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 2: since these men, no, I think they are all long term,

1145
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 2: like long relationship.

1146
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel and then I double back like I

1147
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 1: be with the same mouff fucking people. So I feel

1148
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 1: like I might have only had like four relationships. Yeah,

1149
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 1: And everybody else in between was just.

1150
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 2: That's not my man, that's not your nigga, your man,

1151
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 2: all right. I guess we told our dumbish stories. You

1152
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 2: don't have to share one, and we don't have to

1153
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 2: get no call up. Have you ever cheated? What clutches pearls?

1154
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 2: I am a patron saint, alright, So one time I'm

1155
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 2: gonna tell you all the truth. Cause that nigga, I

1156
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 2: don't know where he married somewhere. We weren't together technically,

1157
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 2: we were still living in the same house, but I

1158
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 2: was moving out. The plan was for me to move

1159
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 2: out in a couple months, right, So we weren't together.

1160
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 2: He went away and there was I went to this bar.

1161
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 2: I had like a one night stand with a guy,

1162
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 2: and like we had we were already broken up. We

1163
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 2: hadn't been sleeping together for a while, and it was

1164
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 2: just like dead in the water. We was just in

1165
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 2: the same house until we separated, because I mean, it's

1166
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 2: not like you break up and you can just move

1167
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 2: away like that. You got to separate everything, you know,

1168
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:11,880
Speaker 2: got to move Yeah, it's a process.

1169
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 1: Look, I'm still going through a process, and I'm in

1170
00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 1: a whole nother relationship and still going through a process

1171
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 1: right now.

1172
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 2: Right, So he went on a guy's trip to fucking

1173
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 2: where they go to fuck girls from the Midic Republic

1174
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 2: somewhere like that. So I knew what he was on.

1175
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 2: This fine ass Middle Eastern guy, right, and he had

1176
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 2: that sharp cut in his area, you know how they

1177
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 2: be putting that sharp parting. He was like all suave

1178
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 2: and he was like so fine, and we like vibe

1179
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 2: so hard. We got junk together in the bar and

1180
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 2: then we like went to his house and we were

1181
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 2: like kissing off passionately, and it was just like knocking

1182
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 2: ship off the walls. Oh my god, y'all, this man

1183
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:59,959
Speaker 2: fucked me. It was so bad, so fast.

1184
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I swear to god. I drove

1185
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 1: home crying, Yah, immediately remorse and like when I laughed,

1186
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: I was like call me. He was like, I don't

1187
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: have your number.

1188
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 2: I was like, shut the door, bye bye. God. I

1189
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 2: just felt so bad, even though we weren't together. I

1190
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 2: just felt so terrible about doing that.

1191
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: I have never cheated in film. He is lying, I know, bitch.

1192
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 1: I said I've never cheated and felt bad about it.

1193
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 1: I'm telling the truth because if I actually engaged with

1194
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: somebody else, I'm done with you.

1195
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 2: We were done. Yeah, I'm with you.

1196
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 1: I don't consider it cheating. I told you a thousand

1197
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: times that I don't fuck with you no more. We done,

1198
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 1: did all therapy, whatever else we you do. I've given

1199
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: myself permission to sho on you.

1200
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, it was. I don't consider I still

1201
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:05,080
Speaker 2: felt like bad because we still were cohabitating. Oh no,

1202
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 2: you know he was probably having forty dollars six all

1203
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 2: week here, you know, forty dollars you know over you know,

1204
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 2: overseas he was at you know, you know, how they

1205
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 2: be having sex with the girls over there, like maybe

1206
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 2: all bad bitch's forty dollars HOLLI, you know, like having

1207
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 2: a good time. Hey, hey, you know, I know he

1208
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 2: was having his good time and I just needed to

1209
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 2: feel something, you know, But I did not feel nothing.

1210
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 2: I did not feel nothing warm, warm fuck me. And

1211
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that is the worst.

1212
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: Like niggas be wanting somebody would have fat ass, but

1213
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 1: you can't even get in there. You can't even get

1214
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: past the fat ass. You can't get past these time

1215
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: get off.

1216
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 2: So, yeah, something was good.

1217
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 1: Would you still be crying in the car?

1218
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 2: Oh, you'd be like yep. I probably would have been happier.

1219
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 2: I would have been happy or I don't know what

1220
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 2: I would have felt. Honestly, I might have still felt

1221
01:00:57,120 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 2: bad about it, but the fact that I did enjoy

1222
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,920
Speaker 2: would have been like, that is a rap for this nigga.

1223
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 2: It was already a rap. By to move all my

1224
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 2: shit out of this house. It's over. It was already

1225
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 2: a rap. But it was just like kind of sad.

1226
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:14,760
Speaker 2: The way I felt. I was like, he wridden, he's winning.

1227
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: I remember this is in my early twenties, y'all. Again,

1228
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: from middle Finger to my old life. My boyfriend that

1229
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 1: I had from like sixteen to I don't know how

1230
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: long it'd be the same motherfucking people. Anyway, I remember

1231
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 1: I met this guy and we actually we still. I

1232
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:35,200
Speaker 1: haven't spoken to him in a few years now, but

1233
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 1: when we talked, it is like, all good. But he's

1234
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 1: in the military. He was stationed in not stationed, but

1235
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: in Columbia for some training shit. So I yeah, I

1236
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 1: linked up with his ass and like we was just

1237
01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 1: inseparable the month he was in Columbia and my boyfriend

1238
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 1: was busting my phone down and I wasn't answering the phone,

1239
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 1: and my funny as if I answered the phone with

1240
01:01:56,760 --> 01:01:57,880
Speaker 1: the nastiest attitude.

1241
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 2: Girl, why was in birthday? That's how I wrapped up.

1242
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 2: I was in this other person way. It was your man,

1243
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 2: y'all was still together.

1244
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: Yes, it was his birthday.

1245
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I don't know. Well you that's all right,

1246
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:18,920
Speaker 2: thank you for tuning in. You forget it, you're fucking

1247
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 2: another day. You're you're sleeping with another man? Is your

1248
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 2: man's birthday? He like, damn, you forgot my birthday?

1249
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: See this be the thing, right, This is why whenever

1250
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: I do a little sum So maybe just hanging out

1251
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:34,880
Speaker 1: with somebody or actually engaging in sex. I don't feel

1252
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,920
Speaker 1: bad because I already caught you cheating. I lit it slide.

1253
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 1: I didn't leave. I didn't cheat back, right, But now

1254
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,520
Speaker 1: I'm over all this ship and this then now this

1255
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:46,120
Speaker 1: is when I'm moving on. So he had already done

1256
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of shit. I just didn't leave. So

1257
01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:52,480
Speaker 1: we even now, right, But why didn't Because I just

1258
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: don't think like cheating.

1259
01:02:53,520 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 2: Is the all n be all?

1260
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

1261
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:58,960
Speaker 2: It was you forgot a nigger birthday? Was it being

1262
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:00,960
Speaker 2: like a whole a whole slewis shit?

1263
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:03,440
Speaker 1: And at that time I was in a relationship with

1264
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:06,160
Speaker 1: somebody where I felt like I was a breadwinner, like

1265
01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:08,320
Speaker 1: I swear to guy, y'all I was. I feel like

1266
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 1: I was a millionaire in my twenties. I had so

1267
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 1: much money in back I don't know what the fuck

1268
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:14,160
Speaker 1: is my money?

1269
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god, don't even get on that. Cause when

1270
01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:19,960
Speaker 2: I was living in England, I was like making so

1271
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 2: much money, where's my money? And I was just so

1272
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 2: reckless with my money. I was like just paying for friendships,

1273
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 2: like girl.

1274
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 1: You get came, I'm taking this nigga on vacation.

1275
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:31,160
Speaker 2: I'm the man doing all that shit.

1276
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm the man, and you cheat on me. Okay, you're

1277
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: not the man.

1278
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 2: You'll still never be the man. You know if you are, If.

1279
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 1: You're not being a man in a relationship, and now

1280
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 1: your girl is wearing a wearing a.

1281
01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 2: Pussy and a dick, how you wearing a dick? Y'all?

1282
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: My mom would be saying that that's why I got

1283
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: that from. That's bad, right, Yeah, you can't listen.

1284
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 2: Even if he don't make as much money as you,

1285
01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 2: he's still the man. He's still the man, is he?

1286
01:03:59,720 --> 01:03:59,919
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1287
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 2: I guess no, y'all.

1288
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all wearing the pantsy y, our relationship make

1289
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Speaker 1: you a woman.

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Speaker 2: But money isn't the only way to wear the paint

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01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 2: we live in. I know women who make more money

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Speaker 2: than they man, and they man still is the hell.

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01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be doing all the things, and you're

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01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 1: still cheating.

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01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:19,000
Speaker 2: But he had he provides value in other ways.

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Speaker 1: This same nigga hacked my computer. This motherfucker did not

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01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 1: even have a high school diploma. But he's an evil genius,

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01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 1: like he would sit up in a laboratory like Jill

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Speaker 1: not the science guy and like shit pinky and the

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01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 1: brain type ass do. But he literally hacked my computer

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01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 1: and this is like a long ass time ago, So

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Speaker 1: how do you even know how to do this shit?

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01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:46,240
Speaker 1: Nigga had a children horse on my computer and anytime

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01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:49,640
Speaker 1: I would type my password into anything, it would automatically

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01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: send him an email.

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01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, bitch, I see what you're doing.

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01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,400
Speaker 1: Well. I remember one time I came to my apartment

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01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 1: that he's up and visiting me in my apartment.

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Speaker 2: I'm coming home from work.

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Speaker 1: He's at my apartment. This nigga, I went through all

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01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:06,480
Speaker 1: my like I had like his college trunk which I

1312
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:10,040
Speaker 1: still have in storage that I need to burn, just

1313
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 1: burn a whole True, it's so much incriminating. No, it's

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01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 1: some incriminating shit in there. It's some incriminating shit in

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01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 1: this trunk.

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Speaker 2: You know what. He went through that trunk and found

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01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 2: my list up of everybody. He found a list, and

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01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 2: he was mad that he wasn't one on the list.

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01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 2: He was mad he wasn't at the top of the list.

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01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, I wasn't a virgin like niggas listed based

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01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 1: on who I've had.

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01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 2: Sex with you. You weren't my first? Oh, he thought

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01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 2: it was listening. I don't know what he thought, but I.

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01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 1: Was honest when I'm like, listen, you looking at a

1325
01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 1: ship that's not for your eyes one And that list

1326
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 1: is not based on like good divad or no shit

1327
01:05:51,480 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 1: like that. It's just from my first to now you somewhirst. Anyway, Look,

1328
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 1: this is my twenties. It wasn't no nigga was turning pages.

1329
01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 1: Don't play with me like you have the most of

1330
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:10,840
Speaker 1: your sex in your twenties, right, absolutely, especially.

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01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:11,280
Speaker 2: If you went to college.

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01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:16,480
Speaker 1: You really no reason, no reason. Ain't nobody buying no bags.

1333
01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody paying no bills. You need a wash machine,

1334
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: ain't doing that. They ain't doing ship but smiling your face.

1335
01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 2: Yeah you're like, what's up?

1336
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: But now these young girl today a tumble we rolled

1337
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 1: past my bitches, prairie dogs that like this is ry there.

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01:06:33,120 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 2: I don't have nothing going on, So.

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01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 1: God send me somebody Jesus every day, all right, we

1340
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 1: will cheat a right not cheat in this big age nowadays?

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01:06:45,000 --> 01:06:45,840
Speaker 2: What's the last last?

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01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 1: My last last is communicate with your partner. Talk to

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01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:53,840
Speaker 1: your partner, put down rules. I mean, like every single

1344
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 1: thing you could think of from cheating, from other people

1345
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:03,040
Speaker 1: from cleaning, Okay, everything, Just write it all down and

1346
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 1: have a discussion to make sure that the person you're with,

1347
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 1: y'all on the same page. You know what I'm saying, because,

1348
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 1: like you said, there's no respectful cheating. But for me,

1349
01:07:12,160 --> 01:07:16,200
Speaker 1: there is such thing as respectful cheating. Right if it

1350
01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 1: happens to happen, maybe we had an argument, you end

1351
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 1: up at a bar, you end up having a white

1352
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:22,880
Speaker 1: one night said with a bitch strap up, And I

1353
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:24,480
Speaker 1: don't ever have to know about it because you don't

1354
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:26,640
Speaker 1: bring home an SCD and you don't bring home a kid.

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01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:29,880
Speaker 2: That's all you really can ask for from another Oh

1356
01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:33,760
Speaker 2: that's all you can ask or there's the bare minimum

1357
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 2: of things to ask.

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01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:37,840
Speaker 1: Girl, I'm being realistic at this page. I'm telling you,

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01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm just being really.

1360
01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 2: Is like alternative facts. It's the same thing like if

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01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 2: you're cheating, you're deceitful. You can't be deceitful respectfully. Just

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01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:51,120
Speaker 2: be honest, Just be honest.

1363
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 1: But we ask men to be honest all the time,

1364
01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 1: but are we actually in the mental state to accept

1365
01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 1: honesty because for men, for men, they think that when

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01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:07,000
Speaker 1: they're honest they can still have you. But sometimes when

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01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 1: you're honest, I still make a choice to leave you.

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01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:12,000
Speaker 1: So just because you tell the truth doesn't mean I'm mistake.

1369
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 1: And in their minds, they feel like if I tell

1370
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:17,920
Speaker 1: the truth, they'll stay. So that's why they lie because

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01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 1: they know you gonna leave.

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01:08:20,040 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 2: Right, Okay, they're gonna tell me the truth. Like, just

1373
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 2: be honest, be real, because some people are not gonna leave.

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01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:34,080
Speaker 2: A lot of women ain't gonna leave, you know.

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01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:36,680
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of men don't leave. Men

1376
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 1: have been cheated on and they don't leave. But like

1377
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:41,960
Speaker 1: I said before, and it actually we're viral. If you

1378
01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:44,439
Speaker 1: cheat on the man and he keeps you, bitch, you

1379
01:08:44,560 --> 01:08:48,080
Speaker 1: better leave. You better, you better leave, because he gonna

1380
01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:51,320
Speaker 1: make you pay every day of that relationship.

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01:08:53,200 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 2: Cheated on him.

1382
01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:56,720
Speaker 1: He may not even Actually I would prefer for you

1383
01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:59,680
Speaker 1: to actually go out and cheat, then to want to

1384
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 1: have periodic arguments with me about what may or may

1385
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 1: not have trans transpired. Yeah, I would prefer that leave

1386
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 1: me or go cheat on me and get it over with.

1387
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: Don't be harassing me in the fucking relationship.

1388
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:14,479
Speaker 2: Dog. You can't try to.

1389
01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:18,000
Speaker 1: Keep me hostage here and we have sex and have

1390
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:20,000
Speaker 1: a good night and have a good day, maybe even

1391
01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:22,600
Speaker 1: on vacation. As soon as we get back, you on

1392
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:24,920
Speaker 1: some bullshit about what happened a month ago.

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01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:25,960
Speaker 2: Nah, I'm not doing it.

1394
01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:30,639
Speaker 1: Leave me this because I'm like a nigga like y'all get.

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01:09:32,439 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 2: He's ow day. I don't care.

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01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 1: I don't care, don't do that, don't give no money away,

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01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:41,280
Speaker 1: give it all right, you guys?

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01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:45,760
Speaker 2: All right? Listen, all right, y'all, hit hit him with it.

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Speaker 2: Oh way, have to fuck?

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01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:53,320
Speaker 1: Oh wait wait wait wait wait you say? All right,

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01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:55,240
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Speaker 2: You're grade A B and uh speak now or forever.

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