WEBVTT - Nip It, Tuck It, Spill It with Dr. Terry Dubrow 0:00:08.640 --> 0:00:12.719 Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:19.680 Hi my friend, Hey, how are you? I'm okay. 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:22.800 I was like, really, I was really nervous today because 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:24.279 even though we've known each. 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:27.360 Other forever, I feel like, yeah. 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:29.360 I was like, I've never I don't know if I've 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:31.960 ever seen you like on a zoom or like in 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:32.559 the daylight. 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:37.440 That came out wrong. 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:39.920 It's scared to see me in the daylight. 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:42.199 No, I'm scared for you to see me in the 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:44.120 daylight so thin. 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:48.200 So I was getting ready for this podcast and usually 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:50.279 like I just put a little makeup on and I 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:52.960 was like, oh my god, wait, everything has to look good. 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:56.480 I can't look I'm gonna judge. I'm gonna judge. 0:00:57.040 --> 0:00:59.520 No, I love you. I know you were judge. I 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:01.960 need judging for you in my own head. 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:05.360 The entire podcast. By the way, do you see all 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:08.000 this stuff? I don't know if you've seen TMZ lately, 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:09.840 but I come out of these restaurants and you know, 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:12.520 I love when the paparazzi's there. I know you probably 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:14.240 don't love it, but I love it because I'm not 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:17.800 that famous. But and they've been they've been asking me 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:22.760 about Jim Carrey, Bradley Cooper, It's like, what do you 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:25.360 say when you're confronted with that kind of stuff. 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:28.840 It's so mean, right, Terry Dubreau, what do you say? 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:33.080 Well, so you know the big deal that just happened 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:36.640 with the Jim Carrey in the Lifetime Achievement Award in Paris, 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:39.960 and he looks so different, and all they want to 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:43.440 do is talk about the way poor Jim Carey looks. 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:45.440 So I'll tell you what I said. If you want 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:50.200 to know I do. So I said, Okay, we've been 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:52.920 and this is really true. We've been used to seeing 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:55.800 Jim Carrey for so many years look so young, right, 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.080 And you know, I think when a person gets a 0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:02.440 little older and they change someone like Jim Carrey. Okay, 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:06.040 so he looks different. Whether or not he's had plastic surgery, 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:08.240 I don't know. I still think he looks great. And 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:11.840 by the way, if he's had plastic surgery, what I 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:15.200 said was, you know, plass surgery could take a long 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:17.240 time for the swelling to come down. You could look 0:02:17.840 --> 0:02:21.919 different for a while, and don't judge by what necessarily 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:24.000 he's looking like. Now. I don't know if he's had 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:26.440 plastic surgery, But I said, you know, he's kind of 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:30.040 our national comedic treasure. Can't we be a little more kind? 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:32.800 That's the part I love the most, and that's the 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:33.679 part they won't use. 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:39.320 Well, actually that was up TMZ was cool. They said 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:44.240 that TMZ put it on. Yeah, I was very pleased. 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:46.680 No, they put it in the whole national treasure. 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:47.800 Don't you agree? 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:53.600 Yes, of course. Do you think he got something done? 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:57.120 Well? I mean he does look different, right, he does 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:57.639 look different. 0:02:57.639 --> 0:02:59.520 Is it because we haven't seen him in a while. 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:03.360 I think part of it. We haven't seen him for 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:05.320 a while, and he maybe he's gotten a little bit older, 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:09.440 but I don't know. You know, they're doing Every plastic 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:11.840 surgeon in the world is going online and talking about 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:16.920 there's less skins, up rye lids and his browser higher, 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.240 and they're like dissecting him with a microscope, which is 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:26.240 so unfair, I think. And I'm cool And what happened 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:29.440 to the old stop don't body shame people and don't 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:32.520 body shame celebrities. It's kind of like body shaming to 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:33.560 really be doing this. 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:39.320 Don't you think I'm having PTSD Because my entire career 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:44.520 since I was seventeen before there was internet. Wow, there 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:47.320 was you know, the Inquirer, the Globe. It was like 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:51.800 the tabloid paper magazines and Globe came out with something 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:53.880 when I was seventeen. I had just started nine on 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:56.240 two and zero and gotten famous, and they were like, 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:59.480 she's had all this plastic surgery. So they did something 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:01.440 like that to a seventeen year old. I had had 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:04.240 my nose done at the time. That was it and 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:09.800 cheek implants, you know, new Chin, so much stuff. But 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:14.280 that one article I remember my dad said at the time. Oh, 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:16.920 he said, oh babe, don't worry. Next week it'll they'll 0:04:16.960 --> 0:04:20.440 be on to someone else. No, that one article has 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:24.080 stayed with me my entire life. Really plastic surgery I've 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:24.479 had done? 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:29.760 Really? Oh yeah, well okay, not about me, No, no, no, 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:32.680 about me, No, no, I want to know. But I 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:37.040 think back then mm hm, there was sort of this 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:40.880 feeling like you guys were maybe more fair game. Well, 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:42.640 I guess it's the same now, but at least we 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.919 went through that period of time when the people on 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:49.440 Fashion Police were commenting on who's the name of the 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:53.440 actress who's like maybe married to Spider Man. They were 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:59.320 talking about her hair or something. Yes, and overnight it 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:02.640 became boo to body shame, and so there was a 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:05.400 big sea change right then. This is way after they 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:10.200 were going after you, where people said stop, it not cool, 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:14.640 and I thought we had gotten past that point. And 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:18.400 again here we are again with the speculating about everybody's 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:23.440 plastic surgery. And I just think it's really mean spirited 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:26.960 and uncivilized. And at least when they were doing it 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:31.000 to you, plastic surgery was, you know, sort of whoa 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:34.800 new Nobody was talking about it. It was still mean 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:38.800 and partinding for seventeen year olds, but so wrong. 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:44.440 Seventeen it like crushed my soul. I never really saw that. 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:46.359 I never unheard it like it was. I was a 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:48.800 seventeen year old girl that was like, okay, am I 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:50.960 pretty I'm trying to find myself in this world. 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:51.800 But I'm on TV. 0:05:52.000 --> 0:05:54.799 But I'm just like I was in high school for real, 0:05:55.279 --> 0:05:59.680 and it's like yeah, and then yeah, it's kids were 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:01.640 like it's like, oh my god. 0:06:01.839 --> 0:06:04.880 I know, but you know what, let's let's be empathic here. 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:07.560 I mean, don't you think Jim Carrey is not ignoring this? 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:10.400 Don't you think he actually he's trying to avoid it. 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:13.880 But as strong and as wealthy and famous as he is, 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:16.800 I'm sure it's affecting him. It would affect anyone, wouldn't it. 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:23.200 That's interesting you say that because I feel like people think, oh, celebrities, 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:25.080 they don't have a heart, like they don't care. They're 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:27.880 you know, non human. You can say whatever about them. 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:30.960 But even having like I know, it hurts me to 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:33.599 hear it. Still to this day, when I see something 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:37.279 on Instagram, I just get immediately my heart plummets. But 0:06:37.480 --> 0:06:39.520 I guess I do wonder too, Like you know, a 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.080 list celebrities do they care? 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:46.200 They care? Of course, they're human, you know, even for 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:48.680 a D minus list like me. You know, there was 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:53.159 a time about ten years ago when I had a 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:55.880 little I got really fit. My face got a little gaunt, 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:57.680 so I had a little bow talk, I mean a 0:06:57.680 --> 0:07:01.560 little love filler put in and and I said to 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:03.520 my guy, go, oh, just put a little more because 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:05.880 I'm about to lose more weight. And I looked funky, 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:09.000 and they to this day make fun of me. Now, 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:12.200 to be honest with you, I don't really care because 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:16.320 I'm not on TV. Because the way I look, you know, 0:07:16.720 --> 0:07:18.960 has nothing to do with that. And I really and 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:20.960 maybe because I'm a guy, and maybe because I really 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:25.800 don't care, but I promise you it. Uh. You know, 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:28.160 every once in a while, scrolling around at three o'clock 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:30.640 in the morning and someone will say even to me, 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:33.560 oh his nose and his filler and his last ex 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:35.360 seried being is and I go, you know, f you. 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.920 It even bugs me too, right, So if you're human, 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:41.120 it bugs you, and I just think it's really uncool. 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:44.280 Right, So you're like as you but also internally you're like, oh, 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:45.360 that hurts my feelings. 0:07:45.400 --> 0:07:48.720 Like right at three o'clock in the morning, it hurt 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:54.280 my feelings. I think by the light. Why right when 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:56.120 I've got during day, I go, oh, f you, I'm 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:58.040 just lucky to be able to do what I do. 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:00.560 So but I just think it's you know, it's me. 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:03.760 It's horrific. 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:07.360 And yeah, I purposely like I'm fifty two, I'll be 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:11.200 fifty three in May, and I purposely go the other 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.560 way because everyone says. 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:16.800 Every photo I put up, people say stop with the filler. 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:19.440 I'm like, I'm going to do it, Like I don't know, 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:22.440 it's like I guess at this point I should be 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:24.160 like fucking and just have my whole face done, because 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:25.880 they already say I've had it done. So it's like 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:28.720 I can't win. But I don't know why that keeps 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:30.000 me from like doing stuff. 0:08:30.400 --> 0:08:33.040 Well, I think what Chris Jenner did was the most 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:35.920 brilliant think of all. She just went rather than go, oh, 0:08:36.000 --> 0:08:38.160 I'm on new hormones or I've lost a little bit 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:40.400 of weight or I'm eating better, she went, f it, 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:44.000 I had some work done. I love it. Once you 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:47.760 do that, you know it's over there. You're you're no 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:50.560 longer a target anymore because you're admitting to it. So 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:53.640 sometimes at some point, if you decide to do something 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:56.200 which you don't look like you need anything, you should 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:59.240 just go, hey, look what I'm doing. Suck it. And 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:03.880 then and then they'll go, oh, we can't hurt her feelings. Yes, 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:07.480 we can't hurt her feelings, so we're going to leave 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:08.560 her alone. 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:09.199 You know what, You're right. 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:13.280 I find myself and I don't comment back, typically on 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:17.160 Instagram when they put the mean comments, and I find 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:21.720 myself sometimes though, being like, no, it's not true. You know, 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:23.760 have I had filler in the past, Yes, Like I 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:26.520 don't have filler. Right now, I have botox, and I 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:29.360 have that like telling them what I have, like why 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:32.800 am I like it's like I'm scared to like like, no, 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:34.079 I haven't had all that done. 0:09:34.360 --> 0:09:38.040 Maybe just disarm them next time and consider going yeah, 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:41.160 isn't it great? I love it? And more true though 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:44.480 I know, or just go well or just say well 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:47.720 more to come, and they'll go, oh, we can't, we 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:50.720 can't hurt her feelings. They'll move on to somebody else. 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:54.840 But now, like now that is the hot topic that 0:09:54.880 --> 0:09:57.839 every woman is like, yes, I'm proudly getting a facelift, 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:00.720 like what you said about Chris Jenner, but like everybody 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:01.640 is following suit. 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:01.880 Now. 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:04.960 The problem is it's still not okay for a man 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:05.719 to admit it. 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:11.080 Oh oh interesting, No, you're right, isn't that weird? 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:14.040 I mean not, And Tory, what's weird is why are 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:16.640 women looking so good after plastic surgery and men are 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:20.080 still looking so weird? Have you noticed that? It's almost 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:24.720 and I promise you yes, these A List celebrities and 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:27.720 I don't know, okay, I'm speculating these A List celebrities 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:29.720 are going to the same one that the A List, 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:32.520 the A List male celebrities are going to the same 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:36.120 plastic surgeons as the A list female and they're if 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:40.240 they're having it, they're coming out looking very different. 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:46.760 Right, well, what what is that mental different? 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:53.560 No? I think the plastic surgeons aren't necessarily realizing you 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.480 have to dial it back. You have to have a 0:10:55.559 --> 0:10:57.720 lighter hand, Like if you're going to do a guy's 0:10:57.840 --> 0:11:01.880 upper lidge, right, don't take all the skin, don't expose 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:05.120 the entire upright lid platform. You know why they never 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:10.000 looked like that. I mean when a woman is twenty five, 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:14.280 often commonly you can see all of her upbryeld skin. 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:17.320 They have no hooding at all. Okay, and so a 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:20.439 man never looked like that. So for a woman, if 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:21.559 she developed you. 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:24.559 Said hood sorry, I don't know, right, like a ten 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:25.920 year old kid. 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:29.000 Right, But for a woman and she goes from like 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:33.640 twenty five to fifty five, and she's developed laxity in 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:36.800 up ryelids, and you take it away, you take it away, 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:39.840 she just looks twenty five again, she looks great. If 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:42.280 you do that to a man, you didn't turn back 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:46.240 the clock. You altered them. And that's the thing about 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:51.600 plastic surgery. Even if it's perfectly executed, but you can 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:55.600 see it. It looks altered. It's no good, right. 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:58.920 Yes, you're right. They should just be like, oh you 0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:00.480 look so fresh, you look great. 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:04.240 Yeah, so for a man the twenty years, Yeah, for 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:06.760 a man, the principle is, don't take all the skin, 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:11.040 don't pull the neck completely tight, you know, just go 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:13.640 about seventy five percent of the way. All right. With 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:15.440 a woman you can go all the way. 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:18.760 I don't want that when the time comes, I don't 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:19.800 want it all the way though. 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:23.040 Well, let's say you had some laxity in your neck, 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:25.480 all right, like I did. Let's say you had this 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:27.600 this thing right, okay, so. 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:29.200 All right, this is all slipping. 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:32.080 So if you did this, if you did this, do 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:37.320 it right now. Okay, does that without without distorting the lips, right, 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:40.079 do it like that? That's all the way. Doesn't that 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:41.480 look great? Oh? 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:42.160 That looks great? 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:46.560 Okay, So that's all the way for you. For a man, if. 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:48.600 I'm doing this now, I must do this the rest of. 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:53.800 The mis If a man is sixty five and he 0:12:53.960 --> 0:13:00.280 looks like that, it's there's something and not congruent, some 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:03.760 incomebruent about it. There's something like why does this sixty 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:08.960 five seventy year old man have no laxity. It doesn't work. 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:12.679 It looks altered, particularly with the gray hair or the 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:15.360 no hair. It just looks weird. It doesn't look weird 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:17.480 for a woman. It doesn't look weird for a woman. 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:19.840 So that's the basic principle. I don't think plastic surgeons 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:20.960 are appreciating right now. 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:23.640 That's like when I used to, like when I first 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:26.200 started getting like a botox touch up, like when I 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:28.680 was in my thirties. I remember I would go with 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:32.120 like a guy friend, and yeah, it didn't look good. 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:36.199 It was like, oh wow, like you know, I looked frozen. 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:38.920 It was cool, Like he looked frozen. And he was like, 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:41.240 oh no. 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:44.600 It's too much. It's you shouldn't look shiny and frozen 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:47.680 as a guy. It doesn't. We just were supposed to 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:51.800 have lines. It's masculine to have the elevens, to have 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:55.640 transverse forehead lines. You're supposed to have some crows feed, 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.679 all right. I mean you look at who is the 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:01.559 guy who drove the Ferrari and why that's one of 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:03.920 the most gorgeous men of all time? You know the 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:10.200 tv PI, what's the most Selick. Tom Okay, you take 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:15.520 Tom Selleck at thirty five, right, he had wrinkles. Yeah, 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:19.880 it looked awesome. If Tom Sellick today were to have 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:24.640 female type plastic surgery and have everything erased, it would 0:14:24.680 --> 0:14:25.200 look weird. 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:29.320 But in all fairness, like that was the eighties. Like 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:35.280 what it's like the Golden Girls notion. It's like, it's true, 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:38.480 everyone's starting earlier and earlier, but. 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:41.640 Even you know, thirty five year old, forty year old 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:45.480 guys got upper eye lid litting and wrinkling, it's still 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:48.560 still good. You know. The only one I've seen who 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:51.760 really has gotten away with it completely. 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:54.440 I don't know that not plastic surgery. I just mean 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:57.720 looking like kill his age, but he's still so hot. 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:00.400 Well yeah, he's great. But the one who's have gotten 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:03.200 away with and I don't know what he's done, okay, 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:05.840 but the one who sort of hasn't aged at all 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:10.520 and it doesn't look like plastic surgery is Brad Pitt. 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.640 Brad Pitt really looks good. And I don't know if 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:15.480 he's had a face left, but we know he has, 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:17.240 but I don't know if he's had a face, but. 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:22.680 He looks really good. Yeah, I saw f one and 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:25.960 I was like, what, but. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:27.520 I have a theories to what he looks good and 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:31.440 not weird? Looking like ready, why Brad Pitt? Okay, you 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:32.240 tell me yours first. 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:38.800 I feel like his overall like being in skin, and 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:41.880 everything got better when he got sober. 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:46.080 Oh so I felt like the lifestyle changed. 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:49.240 Well, I just mean, why does Brad Pitt at sixty 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:52.400 with no wrinkles and no Lasia's face, why does that 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:56.200 look okay? Whereas another male at sixty sixty five with 0:15:56.240 --> 0:15:59.640 no wrinkles and no laxity, why do they look weird? 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:04.520 Because Brad Pitt's looks are based on feminine beauty. If 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:06.840 you look at him in the Legends of the Fall, 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:11.560 he's hotter than any female who's in the movie, right, 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:15.680 he's prettier. So I think, if you're a pretty guy, 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.600 oh yeah, if you're a raw blow, if you're a 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:21.800 John Stamos, if you're a Brad Pitt, you can have 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:25.840 feminizing plastic surgery and it looks good. But if you're 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:29.680 you know, a different kind of handsome that's not based 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:33.680 on a feminine look and you have feminizing plastic surgery, 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:35.280 it's super weird. 0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:40.760 Would you drop the scalpel like that you did. Yes, 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:43.880 you just explained it all. This is right. 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:48.520 Yeah, you have to be a feminine looking guy to 0:16:48.640 --> 0:16:53.680 have full plastic surgery when you're in your sixties, late fifties, 0:16:53.760 --> 0:16:59.360 early seventies to not look weird. Boy, there you go. 0:17:07.640 --> 0:17:09.760 What if you already well, I don't know, like look 0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:12.879 like a masculine woman. Me, I don't know. 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:16.040 You don't look like a masculine What do you mean about? 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:17.040 I don't know. 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.359 I read the comments over the years and it sticks 0:17:19.359 --> 0:17:23.240 in my brain. Are people mean you say I look 0:17:23.320 --> 0:17:27.639 like Wendy Williams and Marlon and Sean Wayms from White Chicks? 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:30.960 Wow, that is so incredibly mean. 0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:35.000 Yeah, well you can smile. I think it's fun. 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:37.600 I don't think. I think, well, those are the people. 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:40.639 I mean, we're poaching on the housewife with the comments. 0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:43.119 You know what I mean? You know, it's it's so 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:46.199 much easier to sit as a keyboard warrior behind this, 0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:49.800 you know, behind your little screen, being so mean to 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:52.719 people poaching at you. But you know what's weird. The 0:17:52.760 --> 0:17:56.000 weird phenomenon of being famous is that. And see if 0:17:56.040 --> 0:17:57.800 you agree, well, tell me if you do agree with this, 0:17:58.200 --> 0:18:02.240 there could be a thou you're the greatest. I love you, 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:05.879 look how hot you look? And three you've had too 0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:08.919 much plastic surgery. You look a certain terrible way and 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:12.600 you don't even see the good comments. All you really 0:18:12.720 --> 0:18:15.520 register are the negative comments. 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:20.560 Right, yes, oh thousand percent. But that's like in life 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:23.439 in general, whether it's in high school, if it's in 0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:26.720 your workplace, if it's in your community. People could say 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:28.760 great things to you, and it's that one person that 0:18:28.840 --> 0:18:32.000 bullies you or says something that you heard about and 0:18:32.040 --> 0:18:34.159 you're like, oh, you can't un hear it. 0:18:34.320 --> 0:18:36.840 So that's true. You could be going about your day 0:18:37.000 --> 0:18:40.080 and having the greatest day and that one comment from 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:46.719 that one person just ruins everything, even though everyone has 0:18:46.760 --> 0:18:49.200 told you up until that point, how great you look, 0:18:49.320 --> 0:18:52.520 and oh my gosh, you've done you're doing so well. 0:18:52.920 --> 0:18:55.520 I think that's human nature. I think that's something we 0:18:55.560 --> 0:18:59.560 all have to work on. It's really hard and it's unfortunate. 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:04.400 I agree. Wait, offline, can we talk about my facelift 0:19:04.440 --> 0:19:05.080 in the future. 0:19:07.119 --> 0:19:10.960 By the way, truthfully, you are the world's easiest facelift. 0:19:11.040 --> 0:19:14.760 You you can, You're going to do it. If you 0:19:14.960 --> 0:19:17.720 do it in the future, you're going to do a christianametrical. 0:19:17.920 --> 0:19:18.760 I'm screwed. 0:19:19.440 --> 0:19:21.800 No you're not. You're going to do a Christian everything because, uh, 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:25.960 you're gonna look I mean, you look great, because when 0:19:25.960 --> 0:19:30.760 you do this, it is like, I know, isn't that pretty? People? 0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:33.680 Well, a lot of times I see these facelifts, beautiful women. 0:19:33.760 --> 0:19:36.119 I'm like, gosh, they look great. Oh you know what. 0:19:36.320 --> 0:19:37.480 Sorry, I'm like distracted. 0:19:37.840 --> 0:19:38.119 You know what. 0:19:38.200 --> 0:19:39.639 I love when people. 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:42.320 Here's how I am starting to know people got a facelift, 0:19:42.359 --> 0:19:45.080 even if I can't really tell. They start wearing ponytails 0:19:45.160 --> 0:19:50.040 all the time. Everyone has their hair back in a ponytail. 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:52.320 I'm like, wow, they're proud. They're proud they have a 0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:56.000 new draw line. Great and new neck awesome. Okay, sorry, 0:19:56.040 --> 0:19:56.680 what was I saying? 0:19:56.760 --> 0:20:00.280 That's that's a good sign? Yeah yeah, well well I 0:20:00.280 --> 0:20:01.920 mean that the position goes away. 0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:02.640 I'm worried about. 0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:04.359 I see people and all of a sudden, their chin's 0:20:04.359 --> 0:20:07.200 gone because it gets olden, it gets too Do you 0:20:07.240 --> 0:20:08.119 think that's too tiny? 0:20:08.280 --> 0:20:12.560 You're to know. I think what happens with certain faces 0:20:12.680 --> 0:20:17.399 is when you get some laxity in particularly along the 0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:20.919 jaw line, it makes the shape the shape of the 0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:22.480 face more square. 0:20:23.880 --> 0:20:27.879 Ew just like people get killer in their drawing, it 0:20:27.880 --> 0:20:28.919 can be more square. 0:20:29.000 --> 0:20:31.919 Okay, yeah, but you know it can widen the face, 0:20:32.040 --> 0:20:36.359 and that can have a masculinizing effect on a female 0:20:37.080 --> 0:20:41.600 and for some people, just by virtue of doing you know, 0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:45.760 lower mini lift and getting more definition along the jaw line, 0:20:45.960 --> 0:20:49.680 it's super feminizing in a good way for women. Obviously, 0:20:49.920 --> 0:20:52.360 that's a really good thing. And I think that's kind 0:20:52.400 --> 0:20:54.639 of what happened to Chris Jenner in a way. She 0:20:54.840 --> 0:20:57.919 really got a really nice dep definition and it really 0:20:58.119 --> 0:21:02.120 had an incredibly positive effect on her facial shape. 0:21:02.480 --> 0:21:05.520 You know, do you feel like, I mean she had 0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:06.840 had something done before. 0:21:07.240 --> 0:21:09.679 Yeah, she admitted to it. Yeah, she admitted to having 0:21:10.000 --> 0:21:11.000 a facelift before. 0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:15.399 Okay, yeah, well that's scary because you're like, well, if 0:21:15.440 --> 0:21:18.320 I don't get it right this time, second time, maybe 0:21:18.320 --> 0:21:20.400 third times, the charm like. 0:21:21.840 --> 0:21:25.720 Well, I think you know, she had a procedure that 0:21:26.320 --> 0:21:31.000 improved or decreased the width, made the jawnline more narrow. 0:21:31.040 --> 0:21:34.240