1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bacher Happy Hour. 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 2: We are back with more of his story, and today 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 2: we have Bob and c K on a't CK's birthday. 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: I know he's in France and we're going to talk 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 2: to both of these guys, so let's get into it. 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: Bob, Welcome to Bacher Happy Hour. How are you. 7 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 3: I'm doing great, Thanks so much, Thanks for. 8 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 4: Having me, of course, of course, thanks for coming on. 9 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 4: So where are you located right now? You're we see 10 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 4: you're on a beautiful rooftop. It's sunny, it's warm. 11 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 3: I'm on my roof. I'm on my rooftop a block 12 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 3: from the beach down here in Marina del Rey. 13 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 4: Wow, I'm very jealous. It's cold in New York today. 14 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 5: I've not been outside. 15 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 1: And what what do you do for a living? Are 16 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: you retired? Are you still you're a chiropractor? 17 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,599 Speaker 3: Corrector I'm semi retired as a chiropractor. I'm kind of, 18 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 3: you know, trying to work my way into the sunset there. 19 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: Okay, what do you think about? 20 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: Are you familiar with all like the chiropractor videos on 21 00:00:58,080 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 2: Instagram and TikTok? 22 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on those? 23 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 3: I find them fascinating. I mean a lot of the 24 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,199 Speaker 3: techniques and they what they are claiming and what they're 25 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 3: doing is sometimes, in my conservative opinion, a little bit interesting, 26 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 3: a little esotheteric. The thing that blows me away are 27 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 3: the guys that really do nothing but do manipulation on 28 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 3: absolutely drop dead gorgeous women in little yoga outfits. And 29 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 3: then a friend of mine monetized how much they make 30 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 3: purview of these people just watching them adjust them, and 31 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 3: I'm going, that's a whole practice. 32 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, truly. 33 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 4: I'm a chiropractor fan because I grew up. I grew 34 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 4: up Dan saying so I And now we travel a 35 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 4: lot as we're doing a lot of sitting on planes. 36 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 4: Joe's never been to the chiropractor, and I think he 37 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 4: would benefit from it. I don't go off and I'm 38 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 4: like a twice a year if I really need an adjustment. 39 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 5: But he is hesitant. He's nervous about it. 40 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 4: But he loves watching the videos of people getting their 41 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 4: backs cracked. 42 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: I could crack. I could crack. 43 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 6: Well. 44 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: I also crack my own back, but I try. I 45 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 2: try to stretch a lot, but I could crack my 46 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: back through my chest so I could push my my chest. 47 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 5: It's like you're stern though it's not your back. 48 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: In my back in the middle of my back cracks. 49 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: It actually feels great when I do it. 50 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 5: But that doesn't make you a chiropractor? 51 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: Is that okay? 52 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 6: Though I hope not. 53 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 3: I've spent a lot of year the last in my 54 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 3: time if that was the case. 55 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: What do you think about people cracking their own backs? 56 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 3: It's one of those things where if you're not if 57 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 3: you're not doing it too much, it's fine. Yeah, if 58 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 3: you're overdoing it, you can create some problems for yourself. 59 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 3: But if you just kind of move, twist, h click, Oh, 60 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 3: hell that feels better, go for it. 61 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: Okay. 62 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,679 Speaker 2: And what about like Rooks where I where I crack 63 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 2: my back the most is I'll roll on one of 64 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 2: the rollers at the gym and I just like basically 65 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 2: just like cracks my back and then I just keep going. 66 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: Fine. 67 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know, unless you're starting to develop any 68 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 3: pain with that, or you got any other kind of 69 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 3: underlying stuff that I don't know about. Hell, yeah, that's fine. 70 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, that's good. That's good to know. 71 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 5: Chiropractic advice with Doctor Bob. Is there a new segment. 72 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: Okay, so let's get into the show a little bit. 73 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 2: How did you wind up on the Golden Bachelor at. 74 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 3: Oh, they found me online. They found me online, and 75 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 3: when they did I I turned to my kid Meg 76 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 3: and I said, what do you think? And they said, oh, Dad, 77 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 3: you got to do this? Yeah, well, you know, you 78 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 3: turned down being on America's Next Top Model. Why should 79 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 3: I do this? She goes, because it's twelve years later 80 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 3: and I still regret doing that. 81 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: Why did she turn it down? 82 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 3: She was a freshman in college. She wasn't so sure. 83 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 3: She was definitely not the model type. She knew that 84 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 3: if she was going into the show, that her character 85 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 3: was going to be more of the project. You know 86 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 3: when you when you break down the show into you 87 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 3: know what kind of character types you're going to be. 88 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 3: And she just analyzed who she was and she's like, 89 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 3: I just don't know if I want to do that. 90 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's fair. 91 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 4: I used to watch that show and there are some 92 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 4: good parts and there are some not so good parts. 93 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 3: And the other part was is that she would have 94 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 3: to take a semester off from college to do it. 95 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 5: Right. 96 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 3: Explained to her that you know, that's fine, that's you know, 97 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 3: but your mom and I have already paid for that semester, 98 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 3: so you're going to have to come up with the 99 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 3: money for the next one. And she's like, well, okay, 100 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 3: but how much is a semester? Twenty five thousand dollars? No, no, no, Dad, 101 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 3: a semester? I would know, just a semester's twenty five 102 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 3: thousand dollars. Screw that. 103 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 4: School is so much more expensive here than is in Canada. 104 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 5: That's all crazy, it is. It is priced very differently. 105 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. 106 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you got some great up there McGill. 107 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 4: And all, oh yeah, we have some really good schools. 108 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 4: So if we have a kid, they're going to school 109 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 4: in Canada. So did you have any regrets going on 110 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 4: the Golden bouch Rat? 111 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 3: None? 112 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:13,239 Speaker 6: None. 113 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 3: At first, when I left the show, I felt a 114 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 3: little disappointed. I wanted to have been there longer. But 115 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 3: as a friend of mine put it to me, he goes, Bob, 116 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 3: you made it to the NBA. Okay, so you sat 117 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 3: on the bench. But still, dude, you were in the NBA. 118 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 3: That's that's great. And then I got that whole second 119 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 3: life out of the out of the Marina del Rey Lesbians. 120 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's talk about that. So I am scrolling on TikTok. 121 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 4: This is maybe like two weeks after you've left the show, 122 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh, there's Bob and I see Bob's 123 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 4: house for Wayward Lesbians and I was like, what the 124 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 4: heck is going on here? And it's just you and 125 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 4: what like twenty lesbians? 126 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well you know Meg, Meg is queer. And 127 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 3: so it's like when we have Thanksgiving, it's like you 128 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 3: invite all your friends and it's just grown from ten 129 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 3: to fifteen to twenty to twenty seven. This year we 130 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 3: had seating and stuff for thirty and it ended up 131 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:27,799 Speaker 3: standing room onely at your house, it's at my place? Yeah, wow, 132 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 3: co come in. 133 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 5: That's so, is it? It's you and your daughter Meg 134 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 5: and all of her friends. 135 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, wow, that's in. 136 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 6: The date here and there. 137 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 3: But and what did they What are a special lady 138 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 3: to say? How would you like to come to Thanksgiving 139 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 3: with me in twenty seven lesbians? 140 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 5: That sounds like a great party. 141 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 3: That sounds like a lot of what And it also 142 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 3: tells you that that's a special lady that can do that. 143 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 5: That is true? 144 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: Were they all talking about watching you on the Golden 145 00:06:59,040 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 2: Bachelor att. 146 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, the start of Thanksgiving. 147 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's part of it. It's just yeah, you know, 148 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 3: it's it's kind of it's a topic. It's fun. They 149 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 3: have fun with it. They make fun of before it. 150 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 3: But most of them were like, way to go, way 151 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 3: to give us props. Thanks a lot. 152 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 2: So going back to your time in the mansion, you 153 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 2: mentioned you wish you could have lasted longer. 154 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: Why do you think you went home? 155 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 3: To be honest, it was just, you know, I walked 156 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 3: in there and I realized that as outgoing and as 157 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:42,239 Speaker 3: gregarious and as animated as I was, there was something 158 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 3: about doing it in front of you know, you know, 159 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 3: constantly being in front of cameras and being you know, 160 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 3: Mike and everything else. And I just seemed a little 161 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 3: out of my element there. Yeah, And with that, I 162 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 3: kind of looked at it and I went, well, what's 163 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 3: the best thing that you can do here? And I decided, well, 164 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 3: if I don't know what I'm doing, the least I 165 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 3: can do is be there for the other guys, make 166 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 3: them feel comfortable, make Joan feel acknowledged and welcomed, and 167 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 3: you know, feel fabulous about why she's there. Because I 168 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 3: can only imagine what she's going through and just try 169 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 3: to be my best person for everybody else. 170 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean you have you have, Like just 171 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:25,239 Speaker 2: having you on this podcast, even in the first five minutes, 172 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 2: you have a great personality. 173 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: So I'm actually I'm actually very. 174 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: Surprised that you went Yeah, me too, because I thought 175 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:35,079 Speaker 2: maybe you because you know, guys that are guys or 176 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 2: women that go on the show and our introverts have 177 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 2: have a tougher time, so I was maybe thinking that 178 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 2: was your case. 179 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 1: But it doesn't really seem that way. 180 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. A lot of my friends were like, we saw 181 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 3: this guy on the show, but I don't think it 182 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 3: was really you. 183 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, it can be a very overwhelming environment and. 184 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 2: Your first time in front of the cameras and that 185 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 2: just that could totally shut you down. 186 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, but wouldn't trade it in for anything. 187 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 5: What did your friends and family say about watching you? 188 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 3: It was all so positive. It was all a lot 189 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 3: of fun, very positive. I grew up on the East Coast. 190 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 3: People on the East Coast think that anything that happens 191 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 3: on TV is total magic, and they were just stoked 192 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 3: to see some kid from their high school of fifteen 193 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 3: hundred kids be on a TV show, and. 194 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, they're kind of it's exciting. 195 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was very exciting for them and did for me. 196 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: Do you think. 197 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 2: Knowing how it works and experiencing it once, if you 198 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 2: were to go back on, do you think you would 199 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 2: be able to get out of your shell and be 200 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 2: more more comfortable? 201 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 6: Oh? 202 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 3: Hell yeah, yeah yeah, I would very much. It would 203 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 3: be a very different experience. I mean, the production crew 204 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 3: does all that they can to make you feel as 205 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 3: comfortable as you can. But until you get used to 206 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 3: those cameras, until you get used to interacting with people 207 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 3: in a way that you're not used to interacting on 208 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 3: a day to day basis, you know, it. 209 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 1: Takes some time, and it just it takes time and 210 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: experiencing it once. 211 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 212 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 4: So how has been How has it been dating since 213 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 4: being on the show? 214 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: Have you been dating? 215 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 6: Ah? 216 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 3: Well dating, been on a couple of dates, But I 217 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 3: do have one lady that that we've got something I 218 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:36,319 Speaker 3: think pretty special going on. 219 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 5: Okay, that's exciting. 220 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 3: We're playing the long distance relationship and and we're just 221 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 3: we're kind of seeing how that works out. Never done 222 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 3: anything like that before. 223 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 5: So how did you meet? 224 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 3: H We met when she was visiting Santa Monica and 225 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 3: we met online And did. 226 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 2: She know that you were on the Golden Is that? 227 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 2: Is that how this came about? 228 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 3: She that's one of my big things. It's like, if 229 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 3: you're going to do anything, don't need with that. But 230 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 3: we just been having a great time. And now we're 231 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 3: kind of like zip back and zipping back and forth 232 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 3: between between states. 233 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 5: And did she make it to Thanksgiving? 234 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 3: And the visits get a little bit longer. 235 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 5: So did you make it to Thanksgiving with Meg and 236 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 5: all her friends? 237 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:29,719 Speaker 6: No? 238 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 3: Unfortunately they had they had she had stuck with with 239 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 3: her family. But I'm on my way to visit her 240 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 3: in a couple of weeks and then she's going to 241 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 3: be out here for Christmas. 242 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 5: Oh wow, that's great. 243 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 1: This isn't this isn't. 244 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 3: We got we got stuff planning. 245 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 5: Would you call? Would you call her your girlfriend yet 246 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 5: or not? 247 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 3: There love to call my girlfriends, but we're both being 248 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 3: very cautious. 249 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 5: Okay, but the time, the time may come. Yes, that's great. 250 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 5: We're so happy for you. 251 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 3: Well, thank you. I'm pretty pretty excited too. You know, 252 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 3: you go into this show and you know I would 253 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 3: kind of like on ahh to dating. You know, I 254 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 3: felt like here I'm sixty six, I'm retired, you know, 255 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 3: and I feel like this guy that is out there 256 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 3: and I've got a ton of money, but it's in 257 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 3: a currency of a country that no longer exists, and 258 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 3: I'd expired and I don't know how to spend it. 259 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:30,199 Speaker 3: And and the show coming was like, oh, get out there, No, 260 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 3: there is a there is a land for that, and 261 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 3: and that kind of got me back in the saddle. 262 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: And that's great. I think that. I think that. 263 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, we when we talked to a lot of the 264 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 4: Golden Women when they came off the show, they said 265 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 4: something somewhere like it just kind of reignited their spark 266 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 4: and confidence surrounding dating, and a lot of them were 267 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 4: able to to find partners that way. 268 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. I'm I'm happy for them too. Yeah, I've met 269 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 3: a few of them and it's a cool group of 270 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 3: cool group of ladies. 271 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 2: So we're for for New Year's we're going to Costa. 272 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: Rica and I've never We're going to Tamarindo. I've never. 273 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 2: I've never served before my life. Now, I heard you're 274 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 2: a surfer, Is that correct? 275 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 3: Yes? Tamarindo is a real, real easy gentle break. The 276 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 3: only thing that you. The only thing you don't want 277 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 3: to do is serve anywhere near the mouth of the 278 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 3: river that feeds that little bay there, because uh, there 279 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 3: are crocodiles in that river and they will they don't 280 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 3: just stay. 281 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 6: There in the river. 282 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 5: Okay, good to know. That's a good tip, great zip. 283 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 3: Lining, great out Oh it's great. 284 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 6: A fact. 285 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 2: So for a first time I've never been on a surfboard. 286 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:03,839 Speaker 2: For a first time surfer, what tips. 287 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 1: Would you give me? 288 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 6: Oh? 289 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: Like, well, you think I can be able to get 290 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: up now? 291 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 3: I mean I would say the first couple of times, 292 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 3: it's number one. Learn where to put your body weight 293 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 3: on the board so that you know, because what happens 294 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 3: is you start to go off on this wave and 295 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 3: you start to the nose starts to angle down and 296 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:25,640 Speaker 3: then it digs into the water and then it flips 297 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 3: like that. So just right on your belly like it's 298 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 3: a great big boogie board, and figure out where your 299 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 3: weight needs to be to keep that nose from pearling 300 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 3: in and then from there pop up to your knees okay, 301 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 3: and from there maybe pop up on your feet, but 302 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 3: you know, but most of all, just take your time. 303 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 5: I like that. 304 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 4: I'm so excited. I've never surfed either, but I've always 305 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 4: wanted to. 306 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: How often do you surf these days? 307 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 3: Do you know? Part of my backstory is that I 308 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 3: got struck by lightning? 309 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 1: Is that the story that you told Joe night one 310 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: that was like a near death experience? Yeah, all right, 311 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: let's let's let's do yah. 312 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 5: Can you tell that? 313 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 3: So? I was teaching my kid how to surf one day, 314 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 3: and this was like middle of the summer, and and 315 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 3: I'm pushing them off on a wave and I didn't 316 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 3: even put day attention, but this one big black cloud 317 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 3: formed over the beach and the first bolt of lightning 318 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 3: that it threw down took me out hit the water. 319 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 3: You know, I'm pushing her off on this wave and 320 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 3: I'm going, oh my god, she's going to stand up. 321 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 3: And then next thing I know, I opened my eyes. 322 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 3: I'm in an ICU and full restraints and a breathing. 323 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 5: To Oh my gosh. How old was she? 324 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 3: She was fifteen at the time. 325 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 5: That's really scary. 326 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: Who got you out of the water? 327 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 3: And and the thing one of the things that saved 328 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 3: them was that they were on top of the board 329 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 3: and not in the. 330 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 6: Water, and I was in it. 331 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 3: Was not so much struck by lightning as I was 332 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 3: the guy that was in the bathtub and somebody threw 333 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 3: in a million watte hair dryer. 334 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 4: Okay, so the fact it was Meg, Yeah, So the 335 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 4: fact that Meg was on the board and not in 336 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 4: the water saved her from being electrocuted, essentially. 337 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 6: Yeah. 338 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 339 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 3: And so so they came up, they saw me floating, 340 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 3: they grabbed me, They dragged me in. The guards grabbed me, 341 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 3: they cut open my wet suit and did see p 342 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 3: rmy for about twelve minutes before they finally got a pulse. 343 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, it's on YouTube. 344 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, some guy shot it and I, frankly personally, I 345 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 3: was like still in the ICU and I'm like, no, no, no, dude, 346 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 3: you got to show it to me now. I want 347 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 3: to see it. Now. 348 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: How do we search for this video? 349 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 5: I don't know if I want to see this video. 350 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 3: I think you'd probably go Dennis Lightnings, that victim death. 351 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:05,200 Speaker 3: You see pr what you throwing those those those those 352 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 3: things under your search engine in YouTube and maybe it'll 353 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 3: come up. I haven't looked at it in about a 354 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 3: year or two. 355 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 2: What uh, What was the recovery like after something like that? 356 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 3: Well, what happens is is so the electricity stops your heart. 357 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 3: It makes your heart just go, actually makes everybody muscle 358 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 3: in your body go, fries, nerves, fries everything. It took 359 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 3: me about three days before I could get up and 360 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 3: kind of walk. I've been about a week about two 361 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:36,680 Speaker 3: weeks before I could actually not about a week and 362 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 3: a half before I walk myself. But the biggest thing 363 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 3: that was residual from it all was so I was 364 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 3: wearing a wet suit and the only part of my 365 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 3: body that was in the water that was sticking out 366 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:53,399 Speaker 3: of the wet suit was my feet and ankles, and 367 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 3: my feet are still numb, partially numb. So my yeah, 368 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 3: to this day, they're never coming back. 369 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: Wow. 370 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,640 Speaker 3: And you know what, if you're gonna walk away from 371 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 3: something like this with some sort of it's personally, I 372 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 3: think it's important to have some sort of a reminder 373 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:13,880 Speaker 3: of event event like this, so you can have a nice, 374 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 3: subtle one like that. You got lucky. 375 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:21,440 Speaker 5: Does it impast you on a day to day at all? 376 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:22,159 Speaker 4: Not? 377 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because I don't have the same sense of 378 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 3: balance that I used to, So that circles back to 379 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 3: do I serf much anymore? 380 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 6: No? 381 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 3: My balance sucks. I don't skateboard, I don't surf that 382 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 3: much of boogie board our body serf, but getting up 383 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 3: on a surfboard it's just not as much fun. 384 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 5: How many years ago was this ten? Ten years? Wow? 385 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 1: That's that's an, that's an that's intense. Wow. 386 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 5: Were you pronounced dead? 387 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 6: Well? 388 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 3: I was. Basically I was flatlined. I was what they 389 00:18:55,680 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 3: call a sisterly, So my heart wasn't even beating. It 390 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 3: was just checked out. And so that's why they did 391 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 3: had to do the CPR for as long as they did. 392 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, any heart complications after something. 393 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 3: Like that, Yeah, I did have h I have an 394 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 3: occasional history, you know, occasional episode of aphib from that, 395 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 3: you know, and that usually happens if I, you know, 396 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 3: burning in the candle at two at both ends, or 397 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 3: doing something you know, excessively stressful. But I, you know, 398 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 3: I still swim a mile and a half every day 399 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:34,360 Speaker 3: and you know, work out a lot. 400 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 6: It's nice. 401 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 5: That is a wild story. 402 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 4: I can't imagine being meg on the surfboard and looking 403 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 4: back and my dad's being electrocuted in the water by lightning. 404 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, they but they handled it well. I mean 405 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 3: they knew exactly what to do. 406 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 1: They thank god they got because if they didn't, you 407 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 1: you would probably be dead. 408 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was Nobody would have found me for a while. 409 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, Yeah, wow, it was cool. 410 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 2: That's that's very intense, And honestly, that's a that's a 411 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 2: reminder to never be in the water alone. 412 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 5: Like, no, never in the water alone, and never when 413 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 5: there's lightning. 414 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:14,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, I still will cast tonight to the sky just 415 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:14,880 Speaker 3: to make sure. 416 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't blame you. 417 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 2: What what were your thoughts going back to the show. 418 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: What were your thoughts on the finale? 419 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 3: I thought it was wonderful. I mean the two guys 420 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 3: that I really felt that were that that that were 421 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 3: all in for Joan were Guy and Chalk. 422 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 2: Did you feel that way? Did you feel that way? 423 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 2: Were you able to see that week two or was 424 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 2: it still too early when you were in there? 425 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 3: Oh no, by the time I was gone, I mean 426 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 3: by the you know, by the second or third day, 427 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 3: I was like, wow, Wow, these guys are at a 428 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 3: whole another here that I wish I could be at 429 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 3: but I'm not. But you know, bravo for them for 430 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 3: knowing it, seeing it and going for it. 431 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, and it was fun. 432 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 3: To watch them get to the end, and it was, 433 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,399 Speaker 3: you know, it was tough to It was like we 434 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 3: were watching the finale and my daughter's like, Daddy, you're crying, like, 435 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 3: but you're a really nice guy. It is that it 436 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 3: was my friend, and you know, but I think she 437 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,400 Speaker 3: made a great choice and I think she's gonna there. 438 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:33,439 Speaker 3: The two of them just seem to be really like 439 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 3: they're having a great time. 440 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I agree. Do you do you keep 441 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 1: in contact with any of the guys from the house. 442 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 6: Oh heck, yeah. 443 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we've got we've got threads that we've got, 444 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 3: you know, some you know Instagram or whatever messaging threads 445 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 3: where just you know, all of a sudden, somebody will 446 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 3: erupt with some joke about something or story about something, 447 00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 3: or I'm going here today is iskse birthday? 448 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 5: Oh is it? 449 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? So we were everybody was up early at East 450 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 3: Coast six in the morning, l A three in the morning, 451 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 3: going happy birthday, Charles. 452 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 5: Oh that's so nice. 453 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:21,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, And any chance we get to get together, like 454 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 3: the girl I said, girlfriend, we're going out to Joshua 455 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 3: Tree over the years and I hope to get you know, 456 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 3: to run into Gary out there because I think he 457 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 3: lives out that way. 458 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 5: Oh really, Yeah, And if I. 459 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 3: Go visit Chicago, then I'm checking in with you know, 460 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 3: Jordan and Pascal. 461 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of uh, a lot of Chicago. I'm 462 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 1: from Chicago, so there's there's a lot of uh Chicago 463 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 1: connection on this on this show, in this season. 464 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a really cool city. 465 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I'd rather be on your rooftop right now 466 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,159 Speaker 2: and well in New York, but I rather be on 467 00:22:59,200 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 2: that rooftop then. 468 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm excited to go to Chicago for the holidays, 469 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 4: but it'll be nice to jump off to Costa Rica 470 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,119 Speaker 4: for some warmer weather. What are you what are your 471 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 4: plans for the holidays other than I know, Joshua Tree 472 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 4: for New Year's Joshua Tree. 473 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 3: We make we may take a little trip up to 474 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 3: Santa Barbara, you know, just try and hit some restaurants, 475 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 3: do some stuff together, just kind of put together some time, 476 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 3: you know, just put you together, Like, Okay, how does 477 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:30,120 Speaker 3: this how does this relationship work over a little protracted 478 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 3: period of time? You know, when when we wake up 479 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 3: and we got a routine and we're like, you know, 480 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 3: when you know exactly how they want their coffee, you 481 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 3: don't have to ask again, and you know just where 482 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 3: they're going to put this and what they're going to 483 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 3: read next, and what they like to watch in the 484 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 3: morning when they're on, and you know, you can delve 485 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 3: into those fun little niceties of. 486 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 6: Companionship. 487 00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 1: Nice. I like that, well, I really I love Santa Barbara. 488 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 1: Actually it's great. So it's so beautiful up there. But Bob, 489 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking time out of your 490 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: day and coming to talk to us. We really appreciate it. 491 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:11,719 Speaker 1: I'm glad you're alive. 492 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:15,639 Speaker 2: That story was insane and I'm going to YouTube and 493 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 2: watch it and yeah, yeah, thank you, thank you again 494 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:19,439 Speaker 2: for coming on. 495 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: Best for Happy Hour. 496 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh, thank you so much again for having you. Guys. 497 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 6: Were wonderful of course for coming. 498 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 5: So nice to meet you. 499 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 4: Bye, c K Hello, welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour. 500 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,639 Speaker 6: Thank you all. Thank you so much for having me. 501 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 6: It's a pleasure as well as an honor. Thank you. 502 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Happy birthday. 503 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 4: Thank you for taking time out of your birthday to 504 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 4: view with us today. And we have a quick surprise 505 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 4: for you to kick this episode off. 506 00:24:48,200 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 3: Hello, Happy birthday, Golden Handsome. All right, man, if you're 507 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 3: going to celebrate your birthday. You're doing it the right way. 508 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,119 Speaker 6: Good job, Thank you man. I appreciate it, doctor Bob. 509 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 6: I need you to work with my back. 510 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 4: Oh my god, doctor Bob, are you doing adjustments in 511 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:12,919 Speaker 4: the house. 512 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 6: Oh? 513 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 3: I was just I was, yes, I was. That was one. Yeah. 514 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 3: We thought when I left, everybody's back was going to 515 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 3: go to hell and Jack left all going to start. 516 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 3: But somehow you made it through and you still look 517 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 3: ri fabulous. 518 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 7: Yeah. Same to you, doctor Bob. It's I love that 519 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,440 Speaker 7: sunshine behind you, so you're in your element. 520 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 6: I am. 521 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 3: I am all right. Happy birthday, my friend, and especially 522 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,639 Speaker 3: from everybody else that was up at all hours of 523 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,199 Speaker 3: the morning testing you. 524 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 4: We heard the group chat was going crazy for your birthday. 525 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's just my I tried to turn my phone 526 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,120 Speaker 7: off and I just I just heard this ding dinging. 527 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:57,880 Speaker 7: I'm like, stop it, guys, stop it. 528 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 3: You're going to be popular. 529 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 5: No great reference, doctor Bob. 530 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:08,640 Speaker 1: All right, So c. 531 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 6: K you are. 532 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: You're in France right now. 533 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,159 Speaker 6: I am in France celebrating my birthday. I wanted to 534 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 6: go my boss, who is from France. He recommended that 535 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 6: I visit the Monseille Michel, which is just outside of 536 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 6: France in Normany. So we just got here. It's an 537 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 6: amazing experience so far, so I'm looking forward to the 538 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 6: rest of the trip. 539 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 1: What so is it? Is it like wine country up there? 540 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 6: No, it's it's an island that's kind of out in 541 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 6: the distance, and it's it's really sort of had this 542 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 6: gothic look. It sits by itself, and it's this historic 543 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,880 Speaker 6: landmark and monks used to live there at the top 544 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,399 Speaker 6: where they have this church, and so it's just an 545 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 6: amazing scenic view. I felt special just to see it 546 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,680 Speaker 6: at the distance. So I'm looking forward to as actually 547 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,120 Speaker 6: visiting the island tomorrow. 548 00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,480 Speaker 5: Wow, that's exciting. Who are you there with? 549 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 6: A friend? 550 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,200 Speaker 5: Nice, a lady friend. 551 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 6: A local friend friend. 552 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna ask about are you how long are 553 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 2: you there for? 554 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 6: We're gonna be here to the end of the week 555 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:21,879 Speaker 6: on Friday, and people ask me that. I get so confused, 556 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 6: like is this your birthday today or tomorrow? Like, well, 557 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 6: what day is it? What time is it? 558 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 1: So are you shooting over to like Paris or anything 559 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:30,359 Speaker 1: or no? 560 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:35,120 Speaker 6: Just yeah, we started. We started in Paris and it's 561 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 6: a two hour drive. So we started in Paris and 562 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 6: we kind of get a car made away over and 563 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,880 Speaker 6: then we're going to visit dining tomorrow and then we're 564 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,920 Speaker 6: going to make our way back to Paris and then 565 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:48,120 Speaker 6: back to Columbia and Maryland on the end of the week. 566 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 5: Have you been to Paris before. 567 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 6: No, It's my first time. So it's a very romantic city. 568 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 6: My boss teaches me how to order wine in French 569 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 6: to impress the ladies, and I always screw it. 570 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 7: Up, so my hand effort. 571 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: What do you do for a living? 572 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 6: I worked for a cybersecurity company in clumb based in Columbia, Maryland. 573 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,439 Speaker 6: I took a job over five years ago when my 574 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 6: younger friend went away to college and I wanted to 575 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,959 Speaker 6: change my life and do some things for me, and 576 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 6: he wanted me to do some things for me as well. 577 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 6: And one of the best moves I've ever made my 578 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,880 Speaker 6: entire life. I mean, I love living in Los Angeles, 579 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,320 Speaker 6: but I also loved living in the East Coast in Columbia, 580 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 6: Maryland as well. 581 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 4: So we heard from our producer that when you got 582 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 4: on the Golden Bacherette, your company did something fun for you. 583 00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 5: Can you tell us about it? 584 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, they did a bunch of fun things for me, 585 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 6: and I got to tell you that's one of the 586 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 6: biggest wins in me actually going on this journey was 587 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 6: the validation and respect that I've learned from my colleagues. 588 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 6: We had national kDa for tenable and September eighteenth, I 589 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 6: think it is, which was the first day, and all 590 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 6: of my colleagues joined and we had a channel and 591 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 6: it was just the channel was just going crazy, and 592 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 6: so I felt very really special. I got to say 593 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 6: that my boss taught me into doing this and I 594 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 6: didn't want to do it. I did it. I didn't 595 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 6: want to do it, he talked me back. And just 596 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 6: a fabulous experience in support from my company and my colleagues. 597 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 5: That's amazing. 598 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 4: It's good for company culture, you know, something that brings 599 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 4: everyone together. 600 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was. I got so many people from the 601 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 6: executive rank saying, Charles, what you did? Actually they said, 602 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 6: c k what you did. What you did really sort 603 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 6: of galvanize the company. And I couln't even walk the 604 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 6: halls in the company. Well, just people I never knew 605 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 6: a ck you a great job and the. 606 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 7: One hand to push up man. I tried doing one 607 00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 7: of those. I could never do it. 608 00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 6: So it was just great morale for the entire company 609 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 6: from top to bottom. So very very glad I did it. 610 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 5: That's fantastic. 611 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 1: You look you look great. You're doing one handed push ups. 612 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 1: What's what's your secret? 613 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 6: You know? Jones said something to be quot honest at 614 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 6: I think at one of the last episodes, she said, 615 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 6: I'm not looking forward to retirement, but I'm looking forward 616 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 6: to adventure and the next thing in my life. And 617 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 6: while I was already there when she said that, it 618 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 6: really resonated to kind of how I live my life. 619 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:35,479 Speaker 6: I work out every day, whether weights are walking or running. 620 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 6: I try to eat healthy, I take my medications, and 621 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 6: I live a good life and the clean life, and 622 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 6: I treat people well. So I think there's somewhere in 623 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:44,959 Speaker 6: there's the sum reciprocations. 624 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 7: So and I tease Jonathan. He and I talk all 625 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 7: the time. Go Jonathan, you know what, man, I think 626 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 7: we're about to sing made brother. But I'm going back 627 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 7: in time with you. So whatever he's doing I'm doing 628 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 7: with them. 629 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 1: There we go. 630 00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 2: I love that you have You have five kids? How 631 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 2: old your oldest and how young is the youngest? 632 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 3: Kids? 633 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 6: Wow? Five kids? Yeah? I always wanted a big family, 634 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 6: just great times growing up. The family trips were amazing. 635 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 6: The oldest is thirty six and the youngest is twenty two. Yeah, 636 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 6: he's a junior in college University of Hawaii. So they're 637 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 6: all gone and I poured into them. And now with 638 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 6: this journey in my life forward, it's about pointing to 639 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 6: Charles and you know, just making up, just going up 640 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 6: to France. Oh yeah right so yeah why not? Yeah 641 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 6: yeah yeah yeah yeah. So but I five kids, It 642 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 6: keeps me active. They have an active life. They all 643 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 6: live in different areas throughout the United States, but they're 644 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 6: all doing very very well. And if I had to 645 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 6: do it all over againta, I would have five more 646 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 6: or additional Yeah. Love. Big families are amazing. So it's 647 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 6: a little hard, you know, growing up, and you know 648 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 6: when you're growing up. You know, during the episode, Mark 649 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 6: and I was talking about when we were young or 650 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 6: we wanted sports cars and we'd go to the dealership 651 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 6: and are you crazy you got five kids? Man, we 652 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 6: got to the minivan so so and we all kids. Funny, 653 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 6: you know we all got sports cars now, so yeah, yeah. 654 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, what did your kids think about all of this? 655 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 7: My boys like, yeah, god, Dad, Yeah, go do it. 656 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 6: And my daughter's like, I don't know. And then the 657 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 6: daughter's formed up to it a little bit, you know, 658 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,920 Speaker 6: because they thought it was a good journey and maybe 659 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 6: a good process and it would be good for me 660 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:38,960 Speaker 6: as well. 661 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 2: After they saw after they watched you on the show, 662 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 2: were they all happy with it? 663 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 6: Oh? Yeah, Listen. I have to give a shout out 664 00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 6: to all of the producers. They did a really really 665 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 6: good job, in my opinion, of keeping all the men 666 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 6: in a good light. You know. One of the things 667 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 6: that was important for me was to always go back 668 00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 6: to to tenabout where I work and maintain respect for 669 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 6: my colleagues, and I think they did it for all 670 00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 6: of the gentlemen. So it was just a big, big 671 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 6: win all the way around. 672 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:14,960 Speaker 2: So what going cutting to the show, what was the 673 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 2: experience like of walking out of limo and seeing Joan 674 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 2: and just being in that moment? 675 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,960 Speaker 6: Oh? Sure, absolutely, stepping out of the limmo, of course, 676 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 6: it's it's a very tense moment and your nerves and 677 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 6: thoughts are just all over the place. And Joan was 678 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 6: beautiful and she's standing there and the under the lights 679 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 6: and she's beautiful gown that she's wearing, and you just 680 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 6: kind of lose your thoughts in the moment because it's 681 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 6: such a big moment, and no matter how confident you are, 682 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 6: you lose your stuff in that moment. And yeah, so 683 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 6: the objective is stay composed, keep it short, and just 684 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,080 Speaker 6: be natural. Right, And then for me, I'm going to 685 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:55,560 Speaker 6: do a wanting to push up and then I look 686 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,960 Speaker 6: down and the grounds with and my first thought is, kay, 687 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 6: don't let your hands slip and fall on your literally 688 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 6: fall on your face. So when I did that, I 689 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:05,520 Speaker 6: was okay after. 690 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 1: That, so nice? Did you What did you think when 691 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 1: you walked in the house and realized. 692 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:16,760 Speaker 2: You're about to live with thirty twenty five other guys? 693 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 3: Yeah? 694 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,520 Speaker 6: I know, I know. And then the guys kept coming 695 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 6: and kept coming, and then at the end, you know, 696 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 6: kind of get together. And my first thought was this 697 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 6: a song a few years ago, you know, when I 698 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,879 Speaker 6: looked at all the guys, that there's a song that says, 699 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,320 Speaker 6: y'all will make me lose my mind up in there. 700 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 5: Here, up in here. 701 00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,799 Speaker 6: Yeah, I was totally thinking that. But all of the 702 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:39,279 Speaker 6: guys were, you know, my colleagues, and we were all 703 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,840 Speaker 6: of the same mindset and you know, thought process and 704 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,640 Speaker 6: conversation and just talking to all the guys from different 705 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 6: parts of the country. So you know, immediately after that, 706 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,600 Speaker 6: I thought, this is going to be, you know, a 707 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 6: great experience, end of nothing else. I've gained twenty four 708 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,960 Speaker 6: or twenty three other really really good friends, and that 709 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 6: has not disappointed. 710 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 4: Was going on the old and batch rat what you 711 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 4: expected it to be or was it totally different? 712 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 6: A little bit of both, right, a little bit of both. 713 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,239 Speaker 6: And you know, I tell people all the time, you 714 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 6: know that there's one woman and there's twenty four men, 715 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 6: and that you know there's a there's a good chance 716 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 6: you're not gonna get picked every single round, and so 717 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,240 Speaker 6: you kind of really have to level sit your thought 718 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,160 Speaker 6: process and then really rethink what is a win to you? Charles, 719 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,319 Speaker 6: you know, what does a win look like? And then 720 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 6: kind of position yourself in that way. And I think 721 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,279 Speaker 6: one of the big wins for me was Charles Lee 722 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 6: and I we had a debate about who's the real 723 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 6: Charles that was I had a lot of fun with that, 724 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 6: and then after that discussion, I walked away being known 725 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 6: as c K. And then that was a big win 726 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:45,040 Speaker 6: for me because anywhere and everywhere I go now people 727 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 6: like c K, c K, c K and I so 728 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 6: super super did. 729 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 2: One of the things that caught the audience's eye was 730 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 2: your eye for fashion. 731 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 1: Have you always been a guy? Have you always a 732 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:01,040 Speaker 1: fashionable guy? 733 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:07,800 Speaker 6: I have five kids, never fashionable, you know, five kids 734 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:11,360 Speaker 6: are wearing sandals most of the time. But yeah, yeah, 735 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 6: but yeah, in my adult life, you know, particularly the 736 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:19,439 Speaker 6: last five years, I've had an image consultant and she's 737 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 6: just an amazing, amazing person that keeps my image on point, 738 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 6: regardless of budget. Whether it's one hundred dollars or a 739 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 6: thousand dollars, doesn't matter. She's done a really, really good 740 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,600 Speaker 6: job of that. And image is important in terms of 741 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 6: how you present yourself because it's a conduit to get 742 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 6: in the room. Right, So from that standpoint, yeah, I 743 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,880 Speaker 6: mean it's kind of important. I kind of enjoy it. K. 744 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 6: The name c K kind of carries a little weight now, 745 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 6: so I'm very happy and excited. 746 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 1: So yeah, there you go. 747 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 2: You have a great taste, and you're in you're you're 748 00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,600 Speaker 2: close to Paris, so you could do some shopping. 749 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:55,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, I know. The men are dressed so amazing. I'm like, 750 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,800 Speaker 6: oh my god, I neet new stuff. 751 00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:58,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 752 00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:00,879 Speaker 5: I was on vacation too. 753 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. I do like to shop on vacation. 754 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 6: I do. 755 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,360 Speaker 2: So you ended up going home week three on the show. 756 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,680 Speaker 2: How was your connection with Joan? What was your relationship 757 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:13,400 Speaker 2: like with her? Did you get enough time? 758 00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,640 Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, I didn't get a lot of time. Yeah. 759 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,040 Speaker 6: I'm not sure if the right thing to say is 760 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 6: if I got enough time. But I got time with 761 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 6: her enough to know her. I think that for me, 762 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,880 Speaker 6: I get to know her, but she didn't get to 763 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,359 Speaker 6: know me from the same point. There's one of her 764 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,920 Speaker 6: and there's many ments, so you get time to kind 765 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 6: of who she is. I do know she's from Maryland, 766 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 6: and I think we had that connection. I think that's 767 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,320 Speaker 6: a very very strong connection. She went to the University 768 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,560 Speaker 6: of Maryland and my son went there, and so it 769 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,799 Speaker 6: was that connection as well. And then one of my 770 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,400 Speaker 6: son's friends I stayed at her place for a while, 771 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:54,399 Speaker 6: so that that was another Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I think 772 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 6: more importantly we walked away at least to extent I 773 00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:01,600 Speaker 6: did with good, I mean good with it being friends, 774 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 6: you know, having that connection with Joan or now with 775 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,879 Speaker 6: Chalk or with guy whoever the guy was I think 776 00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,239 Speaker 6: it's going to be really, really and super super good. 777 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,200 Speaker 6: When I'm in Maryland, I'm there all the time because 778 00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,760 Speaker 6: I have a place. It wouldn't be beyond the scope, 779 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 6: uh for to call Chalk and go, hey, you know what, 780 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,359 Speaker 6: let's go out for sneak dinner. You're paying for it, so. 781 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, have are you? What is what is dating life? 782 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,760 Speaker 2: Whe you been like after the show? Are you actively dating? 783 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:38,320 Speaker 6: Yes? I was actually actually actively dating before the show, 784 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 6: but obviously after the show. With the name c L 785 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 6: I'll tell your quick story. I was in Maryland at 786 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,279 Speaker 6: Federal Hill night on my way to work, and I 787 00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:50,719 Speaker 6: stopped at Starbuck's Coffee get coffee, and it's crowded, a 788 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 6: bunch of people there, and it's been you know e collected, 789 00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:57,880 Speaker 6: vibrant area of about more and I ordered my cafe 790 00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,160 Speaker 6: latte and the lady screams. 791 00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:05,279 Speaker 7: Out CAVI, lating for c K. I'm like, there's some 792 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,279 Speaker 7: ladies that come over. Are you c K from the 793 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 7: Golden bathroom. I'm like, no, no, that's not me. It 794 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 7: looks like me, but that's not me. And the lady 795 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 7: pulls up a picture goes, yeah, it's you, and she 796 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,399 Speaker 7: puts your camera and it's me and we're taking I'm 797 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 7: taking pictures with like ten different women. 798 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 6: It was absolutely amazing And that has gone on like 799 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,360 Speaker 6: time after time after time again, whether you're in the 800 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 6: supermarket or you're out about Los Angeles or I met 801 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,759 Speaker 6: my son's football game. It's just it's just been an 802 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 6: amazing experience. And I walk away from that think my 803 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,040 Speaker 6: first thought is I'm kind of glad I did this, 804 00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,839 Speaker 6: but uh, yeah, it happens more often than not. 805 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:43,360 Speaker 2: Do you think that makes it Do you think that 806 00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:47,520 Speaker 2: now makes it easier to potentially date or just you know, 807 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 2: it's easier to have a conversation with a woman because yeah, 808 00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:51,840 Speaker 2: some of them. 809 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 1: Know who you are. 810 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 6: Now. Yeah, that's a very good question. I was just 811 00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 6: telling my friend that having more options is not a 812 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 6: good thing because sometimes you and very you make the 813 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 6: wrong decision when you have so more options. It's so 814 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,399 Speaker 6: much better when you don't. And having to pick from 815 00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,760 Speaker 6: three is harder than having to pick from one hundred, 816 00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,319 Speaker 6: because you can inbarably make the wrong decision. But you know, 817 00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 6: I'm sixty two, I'm principaled and centered. I know what 818 00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,759 Speaker 6: I'm looking for, and I know when I see it 819 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,120 Speaker 6: so it typically doesn't bother me, but having a lot 820 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 6: of options is problematic. 821 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, are there any of the Golden Bachelor women that 822 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 4: catch your eye? 823 00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,799 Speaker 6: You know, I haven't had. I spoke with Sandra. Sandra 824 00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,359 Speaker 6: and I was just in Atlanta two weeks ago and 825 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 6: I called Sandra and we're gonna go hang out and 826 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,839 Speaker 6: have dinner and just kind of catch up. But unfortunately 827 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,920 Speaker 6: she fell ill and we kind of had to reschedule. 828 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:49,920 Speaker 6: But yeah, it's just so hard. And I know I'm 829 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 6: in Los Angeles and I think one of the young 830 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,440 Speaker 6: ladies there in y'all lost and we're supposed to catch 831 00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 6: up as well, but you know, life is just so difficult. 832 00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 6: And like I said earlier, you know, I'm on the 833 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,919 Speaker 6: go all the time, you know, and I move around 834 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:06,239 Speaker 6: quite a bit. But it's very, very difficult. But yeah, 835 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:10,560 Speaker 6: they're beautiful, beautiful, beautiful elegant women. I mean, the exact 836 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 6: thing that we looked for right as a mature man, 837 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 6: which is a mature, elegant, charming woman is top tier 838 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:19,879 Speaker 6: in money, and all of them are. 839 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,239 Speaker 1: When looking for a partner, what I guess, what is 840 00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 1: the ideal situation for your lifestyle? 841 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:32,520 Speaker 6: Someone who loves adventure, someone who loves good and nice things, 842 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:36,400 Speaker 6: and not so it's expensive things, but nice things, elegant things, 843 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:41,400 Speaker 6: charming things, someone who is spontaneous, who doesn't want to 844 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,799 Speaker 6: just reside in one city at one place all the time. 845 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 6: Now that being said, I do get tired, and I 846 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 6: do stay home from time to time. In fact, I 847 00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,840 Speaker 6: spend more time at home when I'm in Los Angeles, 848 00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,800 Speaker 6: and then when I'm outside of Los Angeles, I'm just rambunctious, 849 00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,000 Speaker 6: you know, kind of god. But that's the type of 850 00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:00,160 Speaker 6: woman I think that would probably be more ideal for 851 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 6: for ck. 852 00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:02,920 Speaker 1: That makes sense. That makes sense. 853 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:08,280 Speaker 4: Joe and I are going to Costa Rica over the holidays, 854 00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,759 Speaker 4: and we were talking to Bob about it earlier. I 855 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,399 Speaker 4: know that you, I know it's not the exact same. 856 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,840 Speaker 4: What close by is Nicaragua, right, We know that you 857 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:17,759 Speaker 4: spent some time there. 858 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:18,719 Speaker 5: Can you tell us about that? 859 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:23,440 Speaker 6: Oh my god? You know, Costa Rica is a beautiful city. 860 00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:27,120 Speaker 6: I've been there as well. What I didn't know was 861 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 6: how much of a third world country certain parts of 862 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 6: nick Rock was. And we built to be We built 863 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 6: several homes in one day. I mean, it's just not 864 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:42,720 Speaker 6: hard to build and the people were so appreciative. It's 865 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:47,120 Speaker 6: just I get as at this age, I get to 866 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,920 Speaker 6: do everything that my heart's desire, just in terms of 867 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 6: work and giving back to the community and giving and 868 00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,880 Speaker 6: making a difference in the world and impacting people's lives 869 00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:03,120 Speaker 6: and building those homes and don't any money. Was almost 870 00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 6: almost teered up, and I almost never cried, but almost 871 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,280 Speaker 6: teered up because it meant so much to the people 872 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:12,080 Speaker 6: there and to be I never made it to the 873 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,480 Speaker 6: sort of the metropolitan area of Nicaraguay. I stayed in 874 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 6: the rural areas where it's really third world and the 875 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,759 Speaker 6: people really need help. And so that was a big, big, 876 00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:23,600 Speaker 6: big thing for me. 877 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,120 Speaker 2: Did you did you have any experience building homes or 878 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:31,160 Speaker 2: was there like somebody overseeing the operation that kind of like, okay, 879 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:34,160 Speaker 2: just move this piece of wood hair into this Yeah. 880 00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:38,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, I shadowed a guy. Of course, I fought on 881 00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:40,200 Speaker 6: all this stuff that look like I know what I 882 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 6: was doing. I mean, you know, gloves and they have them, 883 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:46,759 Speaker 6: like oh yeah. But I shadowed a guy and it 884 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,840 Speaker 6: was just amazed at how quickly you can build homes 885 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,440 Speaker 6: there because you don't really have to dig a foundation 886 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:57,799 Speaker 6: and just put pieces together and yeah, but I love 887 00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,799 Speaker 6: to try. I love to do it again one day 888 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:00,960 Speaker 6: never I can find the urn. 889 00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:02,920 Speaker 5: How long were you there for? 890 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 6: I was there for two weeks. 891 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,680 Speaker 1: Well that's great for you making a difference in the world. 892 00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:14,200 Speaker 1: I love that. What are your thoughts on the happy 893 00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:18,120 Speaker 1: couple Joan and Chock? Makes sense to you? Happy for them? 894 00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:22,560 Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, no. Listen, we talked about my experience on 895 00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:26,480 Speaker 6: the show, and Chalk was jones first one O one 896 00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:30,480 Speaker 6: to Disneyland, and when I remember sitting on the couch 897 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,279 Speaker 6: and all the guys we came graduating Chalk and I 898 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,720 Speaker 6: told ch'ak, I can see what she sees in him, 899 00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,920 Speaker 6: and so I wasn't surprise. I mean, if she had 900 00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 6: chose guy, of course I can. But I can see 901 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,359 Speaker 6: what she sees in him, and I'm very happy for them. 902 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,759 Speaker 6: I think they work together. I think they're both in 903 00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,799 Speaker 6: a good place. So I'm very very happy for the 904 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:53,879 Speaker 6: both of them. And that's when when she chose Chalk 905 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,879 Speaker 6: for the first group date, that's when in my mind 906 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,239 Speaker 6: I have to think, Okay, c K, Now what does 907 00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,400 Speaker 6: a win look like here? Right? Because it's not about oh, 908 00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,319 Speaker 6: c K, you got voted off, you got vooted off 909 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,040 Speaker 6: or you lost. I like to look at it the 910 00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,560 Speaker 6: other way, like how did I win? Like what did 911 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:11,440 Speaker 6: I do to walk away with the win? And I 912 00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:15,520 Speaker 6: feel real good about that, so very excited. I remember 913 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 6: the Last Day episode. I was in my car in 914 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:24,759 Speaker 6: Los Angeles and Chuck called and I screwed. I looked 915 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:28,120 Speaker 6: at my phone and said, Chuck, I'm in traffic. I 916 00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:33,719 Speaker 6: screamed congratulations, and then he says, hang on c K, 917 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:37,120 Speaker 6: someone wants to talk to you, and Jones says, and 918 00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 6: it was just an amazing experience and so very very 919 00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 6: happy for both of them. I think they're going to 920 00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:43,960 Speaker 6: do well, live well together. 921 00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, they seem to be very compatible having met them. 922 00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 6: Yeah. 923 00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:48,759 Speaker 1: Yeah. 924 00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:53,840 Speaker 2: Lastly, before we let you go and enjoy your birthday, 925 00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 2: if there was a golden Bachelor in Paradise, would you 926 00:45:58,080 --> 00:45:58,399 Speaker 2: do it? 927 00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:01,840 Speaker 6: You know? To be honest with you, I didn't know 928 00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:03,640 Speaker 6: what that was. I heard people talking about it, and 929 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:05,840 Speaker 6: I asked one what isn't like? 930 00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:06,319 Speaker 3: What is it? 931 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 6: How does this differ? 932 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:07,520 Speaker 3: What is it? 933 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 6: They told me. I thought. My first thought was if 934 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,920 Speaker 6: there was a golden in Paradise, what I do it? 935 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,560 Speaker 6: I don't know, you know what, here's I'm going to 936 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,680 Speaker 6: give you the right answer. I might be in a 937 00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,719 Speaker 6: relationship by the time that even thinks about happening. But 938 00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 6: if I wasn't sure, I mean, those are beautiful, beautiful women, 939 00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,560 Speaker 6: all of them are gorgeous women. How can you lose? 940 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:34,360 Speaker 1: So of course I think that was I think that 941 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 1: was the correct answer. 942 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 3: C K. 943 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for taking time out of your day. 944 00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:41,880 Speaker 2: We hope you enjoy the rest of your birthday and 945 00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:43,480 Speaker 2: it was really nice chatting with you. 946 00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 6: Well. Thank you all for having me. I do appreciate 947 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:50,080 Speaker 6: time and great experience. 948 00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,680 Speaker 4: Well enjoy the rest of your trip and hopefully we'll 949 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 4: see you again soon. 950 00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 2: And to all our to all our listeners, thank you 951 00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,879 Speaker 2: guys so much for tuning in The Bachelor Happy Hour. 952 00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,920 Speaker 1: We really appreciate it. Make sure you download and subscribe. 953 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 4: We have more of his story interviews coming your way, 954 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,320 Speaker 4: some holiday episodes, so be sure to keep listening. 955 00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:11,000 Speaker 5: Bye.