1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan 2 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: Seacrest sweating it out over the weekend. Good morning, It's 3 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,119 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest and everybody. Did you see I was just 4 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,319 Speaker 1: reading this. Good morning, y'all. But I don't know what 5 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: time you want to sleep last night? Used on Sundays. 6 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,439 Speaker 1: I'm off right, everything is a little backed up or 7 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: a little just off because of the weekend. But did 8 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you see this is interesting? And I think this came 9 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: out over the weekend or at the end of last week. 10 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: But it's like scientists telling you exactly what time to 11 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 1: go to bed that is healthiest for you, not necessarily 12 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: get you the best sleep, but it's healthiest for your heart. 13 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: And they say it's well known that too little sleep, 14 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: as we know, is not good for you. But what 15 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: time should you go to sleep that's perfect and ideal 16 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: for a healthy heart throughout life? They say between ten 17 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: and eleven is the ideal time. But is that ideal 18 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: for everybody? I mean, what what if you have to 19 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: wake up? I'm not so sure that seems like universally 20 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: ideal if you gotta get up at four? Right? Yeah? 21 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: Do they say what time the average person wakes up? No? 22 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: That's the thing I'm I'm trying to pick up. I say, 23 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: all right, to have a healthy heart, go to bed 24 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: between ten and eleven. Well, yeah, if I get to 25 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: sleep till eight, mm hmm. But is my heart gonna 26 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: be healthy if I go to bed from ten to 27 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: eleven again at four people people who go to bed 28 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: too early or too late are more likely to get 29 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: heart disease or have a stroke. But what about the 30 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: what about the wake up time? I'm not seeing it. 31 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: That's crazy. I wish I knew what they're suggesting the 32 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: wake up time. Is that I could back that window 33 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: up to suggest oh, if I go to bed at nine, 34 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 1: then my wake up is here, that will help the heart. 35 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: But the like gave me anxiety reading it. I mean, 36 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: would you ever want to go to bed? Yes? I 37 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: will want to go to bed at ten thirty or eleven. 38 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: I will. But what about now that's an average time 39 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: for me ten o'clock eleven? Oh my gosh, it feels 40 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: so late. Of course I don't have kids. When I 41 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: have kids, it's probably the time I'll go to bed 42 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: because they don't get invent to like eight and any 43 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: one an hour or so. Just some decompression. Sometimes I 44 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: get home from work and I have to just sit 45 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: in my living with a cup of tea and just there, 46 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 1: I just stare. I don't even turn on the TV anymore. 47 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: It's silence, saying just silence, silence. So, uh, Sisney was 48 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: sharing with us as we just get moving on this Monday, 49 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: what do you call them? Mom fails? And they're kind 50 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: of just like my mom fails, you know, you like 51 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: your mom fails? Like no, like I'm a mom and 52 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: I have failed because I cused in front of the kids. 53 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,839 Speaker 1: Sometimes another repeating it or you know, just like did 54 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: you did you? Did you guys resolve that No, we didn't. 55 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: Actually did you stop dropping the bomb in front of 56 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: the kids? I guess yes, kind of. But it still 57 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:12,839 Speaker 1: happens from time to time. So what are some I'm 58 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: very curious to know what's on a like what our 59 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: mom fails? What's on the list? Um? So this is 60 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: one that I'm trying to avoid. I don't want to 61 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: have a mom fail, So I make it a point 62 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: to always be the first one to sign up for 63 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: whatever it is. So like, the kids had a Halloween 64 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 1: party and there was a sign up sheet to bring 65 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: things and treats to the party for the classroom. Now 66 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: they're doing one for Thanksgiving, and I really like to 67 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: get there the first day that they put the sheet up, 68 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: because I want to pick whatever is I'm going to bring. 69 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: So you physically have to go in and sign up 70 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: on the sheet yes, and put your name in. And 71 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: so for Thanksgiving they're having a full feast. They're gonna 72 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: have a chicken or turkey and mashed potatoes and all 73 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: this stuff. And everything needs to be store bought, they said, 74 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: And you can't make anything at home this year. So 75 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: I thought, Okay, maybe we'll be cute if I like 76 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: ordered turkey cookies and made something really cute, like I 77 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: don't know, and so I siged cookies no, no, no, 78 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: And so I was about to do that, and then 79 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: I said, you know what, I know me, I have 80 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: a newborn. What am I Why am I signing myself 81 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: up to fail? I'm just gonna do juice boxes. So 82 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: I signed up for the juice boxes. Not cute, but 83 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: I know, but I know that, Like I'm gonna wait 84 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: till the last minute, and then I'm gonna be stressing 85 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: and then I'm not going to get the cookies and 86 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just panicked. So I don't know 87 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: who's not the favorite mom. Okay, stop it. I want 88 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: to be that mom so bad, but I just know 89 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 1: that I can't be that mom right now, right now. 90 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: I get it now that yeah understood. So um. Also, 91 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: you don't want to get emotion in front of the kids, 92 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: right well, that has happened. I had my first cry 93 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: in front of the twins and it was uncontrollable. It 94 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: was just the perfect storm of I think all three 95 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 1: children being with twins were just on one and they 96 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: were crying and you know, just throwing tantrums aroundn't you 97 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: know what it was. Savella was crying, so Michael was 98 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: with Savella trying to put her down, and I was 99 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: with the twins trying to put them to bed, and 100 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: they just wouldn't stop. They were just hystaring. A minute, 101 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, wait a minute, I see the light. 102 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 1: Did they stop bothering when you started crying? When I 103 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: started crying, it was a sob It was an uncontrollable, 104 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 1: just a release and it scared them and it's scared them. 105 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: They've never seen anything like it. And I do a 106 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:37,239 Speaker 1: good fake cry. I was not fake crying. No, no 107 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: going forward. When they're nuts, you fake cry and they'll stop, 108 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: they'll feel bad. No, come on, this is the trick. 109 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,600 Speaker 1: But you're onto something though, because I haven't cried in 110 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 1: front of them since, but I do bring it up. 111 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: And I was just like, okay, if you guys really 112 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: don't get in bed, like, do you want mommy to 113 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: be sad again? Do you remember when mommy was sad? Like, no, Mommy, 114 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: we don't want you to be sad again. And so 115 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 1: then they exactly, you found the secret potion, Patty. You 116 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 1: don't want to say that and make them scared to 117 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 1: see you cry. Um. You know, a few a few 118 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: months ago, a few weeks ago, I was really having 119 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: a bad day and I was really overwhelmed, and I 120 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 1: just started crying and I just, you know, in front 121 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: of the kids, and I said, you know, I want 122 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: to explain why Mommy is crying. Um, I feel overwhelmed. 123 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 1: I feel this way. I feel that every time I 124 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 1: try to talk to you guys, you guys are not 125 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: listening to me. And then I asked five more times 126 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: and then I have to yell, and I don't like yelling. 127 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: And right now I just feel really broken, and I 128 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: would like for you guys to both understand that I 129 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: sometimes I can't do everything myself. And they both sat 130 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: there listening to me, and I'm sorry, I'm gonna cry 131 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: or not, I'm gonna get emotional because sometimes it's hard 132 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 1: as a mom. But that's what I told them. And 133 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: they started asking me questions like Mom, why do you 134 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 1: feel that way? And you know, and they started having 135 00:06:53,520 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: empathy toward my situation. And I feel now that they understand, like, um, 136 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: not this invincible human being, but instead I'm someone that 137 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: feels things just like them. Well, your kids are older too, 138 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: and that's they can understand, I think a little bit 139 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: better than the three year old. They looked at me 140 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: like I was a crazy person, you know. But I 141 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: think you should inside because no, and I don't think 142 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: I will because I will cry. I cry with you, guys. 143 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: I cry whenever an on Star commercial in the radio 144 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: makes me cry. Those are intense, Uh yeah, but I 145 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: think everybody handles it differently, and Patty, that is it's 146 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: pretty remarkable that they get it and understood it, and 147 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: maybe they won't get you to that place again. I 148 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: think what happens was like we didn't grow up with 149 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: that type of communication with our corns. And I think 150 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: we look back and we see that our parents held 151 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 1: a lot of things inside um that we were never 152 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: allowed to see. And I think, you know, we should 153 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: be as parents were human beings, were not superheroes, were 154 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: trying to navig get into as much as we can, 155 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: especially mothers, especially us. We're juggling a billion things, and 156 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: we should raise our children and teach our children at 157 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: at the youngest age possible that we all need help 158 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: and we all need to understand each other. So seany. Yeah, 159 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: I don't mean to sound like I don't know anything 160 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: about bringing up kids, but after hearing this, I still 161 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 1: think if you want to put on a fake crvery 162 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: once in a while, they might lay off. And it 163 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 1: may be what I do as a dad. I don't know, 164 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: but it's not a terrible idea. So it is Monday, 165 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: and some days more stressful than others. Sometimes taking a 166 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:47,199 Speaker 1: half hour break to reset is not realistic. Here's a 167 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 1: quick mental health break you can do that no one 168 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: we'll know about. It's your morning hat. Take twenty one 169 00:08:55,400 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: deep breath breath. That's a lot, but I'm told you 170 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: close your eyes in though your nose, out through your mouth. 171 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: It will lower your cortisol, your stress hormone, and boost 172 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 1: your serotone in your happiness hormone. So we can do it. 173 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: During this song, I'll play the quote keep going and counting. 174 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 1: Saying how you feel will never ruin a real connection. 175 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 1: Saying how you feel will never ruin a real connection. 176 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Secrets, you feel better relaxed after 177 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: one ins and ounce of breathing from your morning act. 178 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: I feel a little lightheaded. Is that actually me too? Yeah? 179 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: I'm I'm hungry, maybe hungry. Let's get the headlines one 180 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: or two points seven? Kiss Sissy, what do you have? So? 181 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: A nine year old Dallas boy has become the youngest 182 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: person to die from injuries sustained during a crowd surge 183 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: at the Astro World of Music festival in Houston. As 184 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: A Blount of Dallas died yesterday at Texas Children's Hospital 185 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: in Houston. He was placed in a medically induced coma 186 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:02,199 Speaker 1: after or suffering serious injuries. He is now the tenth 187 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: person who attended the festival to have died. California gas 188 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 1: prices have hit an average of four dollars and sixty 189 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: seven cents, setting the highest record average price for regular gasoline. 190 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: According to Triple A, the national average dropped slightly the 191 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: three dollars and forty one cents, and with the holiday 192 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 1: season quickly approaching, travelers are expected to return to airlines 193 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 1: at levels closer to what we were seeing before the pandemic, 194 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: air travel is expected to go up over the last year. Now, 195 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: the inflation rate in the US is its highest it's 196 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: been since the nineteen nineties. The rising prices for affecting 197 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: staples such as food, rent, auto and home heating oil. 198 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 1: Los Angeles Long Beach Anaheim area has seen a blow 199 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: below average increase of five point four percent over October 200 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: of last year. The additional strain on Americans wallets is 201 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: going to come as, of course, our country is still 202 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: on the grips of the COVID nineteen pandemic and preparing 203 00:10:55,520 --> 00:11:02,079 Speaker 1: to enter the Thanksgiving and holiday shopping season. With Ryan Seacrest, 204 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 1: we have a Ryan's Roses coming up. I gotta tell 205 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 1: you they're engaged on a fast track to a wedding, 206 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: and we gotta she thinks they have a real issue 207 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 1: that may result in no wedding and the wedding supposed 208 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: to happen next summer, so that is coming up in 209 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 1: just a few minutes. Here Monette in Santa Korea. Good 210 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: morning Monette, Good morning Ryan. How are you doing well? 211 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: I love your name, Thank you, thank you. I've not 212 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 1: met another Moniette that I recall. Actually I've met several. 213 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 1: It's unusual for someone who you named after. Well, my 214 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 1: friends met, yet I met several. I actually had a 215 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: sister that had a Manette that went to school with her, 216 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: and she was with her all the time we were together, 217 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: and when she called her Manette, I would get so annoyed. 218 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 1: I didn't mean to bring up so how can we 219 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: help you money? At well? I wanted to call in 220 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: and referenced to uh Siphany and the dance for her 221 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: daughter and being a dance mom and that kind of 222 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 1: stuff is funny for me. It was fun um and 223 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: my little my kids were little, they were like three 224 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: and three three years old when they first started dancing, 225 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 1: and they used to dance in church. They actually danced 226 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: in my son's kindergarten class. When they were in pre K, 227 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: they danced for their class. They joined the dance group 228 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: at schools and I'm gonna tell Sephany, let her danis, 229 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: and especially if they're putting her up front, let her 230 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 1: little star shine, Let her shine because it makes a difference. 231 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 1: And kids are so honest, So if she didn't want 232 00:12:56,080 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: to do it, she wouldn't do it. My my children dance. 233 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 1: They still dance now when I'm Gonta with the cows 234 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,079 Speaker 1: and degree and dance. And she wants to open her 235 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 1: own dance school and let her let her shine. That 236 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: I tell a love of shine, they'll tell you, they'll 237 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: tell you if they don't want to do it. Well, 238 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: that's my dream. I want her to love dance. And 239 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: when I took her the first class, I was honestly 240 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: a little worried that she wasn't gonna like it, because 241 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: she's very she's a very honest kid, and she kind 242 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: of just tells you how it is. And she jumped 243 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: right in. And I swear, I mean, I'm biased because 244 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm her mom, but I'm like, she was like one 245 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: of the best ones. I felt that way. I mean, 246 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 1: come on, of course, because you were saying you thought 247 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: you were thinking says that you were becoming well pushing 248 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: too hard, and you were a question how far do 249 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: you push right right, because I'm videotaping the classes so 250 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: that she can come back home and practice the routine 251 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: with the video. Should not should sity not second guess it, 252 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: just do it, go for it, Go for it. Allowed, 253 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 1: Let's go forward, and if you need any beatup, just 254 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: call me and say my yet I'm having the same 255 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: and saying no, no no, no, no, we're going to but 256 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,200 Speaker 1: don't call the wrong one yet. She would get it, 257 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: you know. All right, Mona, thank you for your guidance. 258 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 1: As always, we appreciate you, listen to us, you take 259 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: good care. Ka, You're welcome. Than I kind of feel 260 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 1: like you should keep her number. She seems like she's 261 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: got it down. She knows what she's doing. Good morning. 262 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: Is it de London? Yes, Hi, Ryan London, It is Ryan, 263 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:41,479 Speaker 1: it is Sissony, it is Tanya and Patty. We're all 264 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: ready for you. What can we do for you? Hi? Well, 265 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: I heard the other the other morning you guys were 266 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 1: talking about adoption and we adopted a baby. And it's 267 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: been November five, was exactly a year ago since we 268 00:14:56,760 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: adopted our baby, Alexander. I have five biological children birth 269 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: and then we decided on the sixth one to adopt. 270 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: And then my better half also has adopted girl who 271 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: is now sixteen, that he adopted from China many many 272 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, so we absolutely believe in the adoption process. 273 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: It's the best thing and it's a great thing to 274 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: be able to provide a home for a child that 275 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 1: needs it. Now, I'm guessing because you're better half had 276 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: done this, you got into the conversation about doing it together. 277 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 1: Is that how it started? Well, he said he had 278 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: done it, and I've always, since I was really young, 279 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: thought that I was going to have a large family 280 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: of my own. And then so of course we started 281 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: that conversation of how is it, you know, are you 282 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 1: able to love a child the same way that's not 283 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: biologically ors And let me tell you Ryan, Yes you can, 284 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: Yes you can. Absolutely, I'm a firm belief. It's just 285 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: you know, the minute that we went into the hospital room, 286 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: he was premature. He was born at thirty weeks and um, 287 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: we were first foster parents, and then we decided to adopt. 288 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: But when we went in the hospital room at the 289 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: age of thirty seven weeks, he was three some weeks, Um, 290 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 1: we're born. Away. I left there going, oh, my God, 291 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: you know, how do you see now? De Lendon? He 292 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: just turned to in September, and so what I'm just 293 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: I'm really curious about this. So what, at what age 294 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: and at what point? What do you talk about? How 295 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: do you explain his story to him? Well? I have 296 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 1: a degree in psychology, and I you know, I'm kind 297 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: of a little bit better versed on how to handle 298 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: certain things and my determination for the situation. At least, 299 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: at least for me, we felt like we wanted from 300 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: the game to have it I don't say open, but 301 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 1: basically we try to keep in touch with the family, 302 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: his grandparents, his siblings, other siblings, um. Anytime we have 303 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 1: to get together, we always try to get them involved. 304 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,120 Speaker 1: I want him to kind of grow up thinking that 305 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 1: there's an extended family out there. I don't want it 306 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 1: to be a surprise. I don't want him to wake 307 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: up at eighteen and go, wait, what my entire life 308 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:23,199 Speaker 1: was a complete lie. No, that's just not something that 309 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: works for us. So we we do tend to keep 310 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 1: it a little bit more open. I have that line 311 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,239 Speaker 1: of communication. I take a lot of photos with him 312 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 1: and his family. I want him to see that there's 313 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:36,360 Speaker 1: a lot of love, their extended love. You can never 314 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:41,120 Speaker 1: have too much lover. Yeah, no, I think I we subscribe. Well, 315 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 1: that's great. I'm so happy you call. You heard that 316 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:46,679 Speaker 1: and then waited to call back to tell us about it. 317 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: And you've got a big family. Congratulations to London. And 318 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:51,880 Speaker 1: what a beautiful thing you've done for that baby boy. 319 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 1: You take good care. Okay, thank you, Ryan, Thank you 320 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 1: for having me on tour. Sold out jingle Ball presented 321 00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:03,120 Speaker 1: by Capital One. Next and listen how happy she sounds. 322 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 1: That is what strikes me. How happy she sounds one 323 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: of two point seven Kiss FM. Let's get to Ryan's roses. 324 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:23,159 Speaker 1: We have Isabel on the phone from GINO. Check the 325 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: timing out on this. She says we're getting married next summer, 326 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: but no one knows. It's starting to bother me that 327 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: he wants to keep our engagement a secret. Weird. Now 328 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: that I've found a second phone, I wonder if there's 329 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 1: someone else, so I want to make sure we fact 330 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: check this. Isabel, good morning, and thank you for coming on. 331 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 1: No one knows about good morning. No one knows about 332 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: your wedding next summer. No one are you eloping? Oh 333 00:18:55,840 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 1: well no, necessarily we both turned thirty next summer, and 334 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:03,199 Speaker 1: so we wanted to do a joint birthday party and 335 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,919 Speaker 1: kind of like be a surprise, like, oh surprise, we're 336 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: getting married instead like that. All right, So let's get 337 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: to the difficult stuff. It's starting to bother. He wants 338 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 1: to keep the engagement a secret. Why is that, Well, 339 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: part of it is because I've found a second phone 340 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:28,120 Speaker 1: that he has, uh, and so I'm starting to get 341 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 1: suspicious that maybe there's somebody else. And part of it 342 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: is because I want to tell my parents, Like I 343 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,439 Speaker 1: have this dream of like buying my wedding dress with 344 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: my mom and telling my best friend and doing all 345 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: theok of that you know a bride wants to do, 346 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 1: and I'm not able to do that. Did you ask 347 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 1: him about the second phone and what its purposes? I 348 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 1: actually did ask him, like what was that? And he 349 00:19:56,640 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 1: said that it was a work phone, but could be 350 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: confused because he uses his personal phone as a work phone. 351 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 1: All of a sudden, this second phone appeared and it's 352 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 1: supposed to be a work phone, and I'm actually thinking 353 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: maybe he has somebody else, and that's why he doesn't 354 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: want me to say anything about this engagement. It seems 355 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: like a lot of assuming yes, this mee go ahead 356 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:18,879 Speaker 1: is about Okay, think about this for just one second 357 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 1: before we go down this road. You want to have 358 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: this surprise wedding next year, so maybe this is all 359 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 1: part of it, Like does he Maybe there's just a 360 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 1: miscommunication that like you want to keep the engagement a 361 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: secret as well, so everyone is just boom surprised. I 362 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 1: don't know, because I feel like if I tell my 363 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,679 Speaker 1: parents and I tell them, I want my parents to 364 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 1: be able to go to that party. If I don't, 365 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 1: if I don't say anything to my parents, what if 366 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 1: they just don't go to the party. I want my 367 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 1: parents to be there. And it's so weird that I 368 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:53,360 Speaker 1: have to keep it fully a secret to everybody, including 369 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 1: the people that are really close to me. It's just 370 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: but that seems like something like a different she's been cheating. 371 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 1: We're in the middle of Ryan's roses. So many times 372 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 1: you go into these and I think, Okay, we are 373 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: a real issue here. I'm not so sure. I think 374 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 1: there's a real issue here. She and our fiancee are 375 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: getting married next summer. They're gonna say it's their dual 376 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: thirty birthday party, and then surprised, just kidding. It's our wedding. 377 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:24,359 Speaker 1: This is kind of fun. They also are not telling 378 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 1: people that they're engaged, but she wants to tell people. 379 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 1: He's saying no, no no, no, kidd, keep it s here. 380 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 1: But that kind of blows the thirties celebration if they 381 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 1: tell people they're engaged, I think. But you can tell 382 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,199 Speaker 1: your mom and your dad, I think, or you know, 383 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,400 Speaker 1: your best friend, of anybody in the world, you can't 384 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: trust to tell other people your mom and your dad 385 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 1: when you get engaged, I mean, tell me about it. 386 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: They're going to spill the beans for sure, right, they're 387 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: the ones that want to tell everybody about it. So 388 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 1: now she found his second phone. So what's the second 389 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: phone about? So she's taken all these things and adding 390 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:02,679 Speaker 1: them up to think he might be cheating. But the 391 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: second phone could be a work phone, could be for 392 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 1: planning stuff, who knows. So let's find out what we can. 393 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,199 Speaker 1: Isabelle is on the line, it's about I need you 394 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 1: to say, Ryan, you have my permission to call, and 395 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: then your fiance's name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, by okay, 396 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 1: we are going to do that. Now, be very quiet 397 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,360 Speaker 1: until we tell him he's on the air. Okay, good 398 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: luck and here we go. Okay, Hello, Hi is this Dustin? Yes, 399 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 1: Hi Dustin. My name is Winnie. I'm calling from the 400 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 1: Fresh Florist. How are you doing this morning? Great? Thank you. 401 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: So we service the Cheeto area and actually we're offering 402 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 1: at local residents a promotion today. It's a dozen free 403 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 1: roses that you could send to anybody that you'd like. 404 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 1: So what that means is that we would just need 405 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: the name of the person you want to send them 406 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: to in a note and they're absolutely free. They would 407 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 1: get them today by lunchtime. Huh really? So, like, I mean, 408 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: how are you guys like turning a profit giving away 409 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: free flowers? We just do this promotion once a month, gotcha? 410 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 1: And then like, how did you get your number? You 411 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,879 Speaker 1: may have purchased something online with one of our partners 412 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 1: and opted to receive promotional um things. So that's how 413 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:38,439 Speaker 1: we get our database. I got you? Um? I mean, sure, 414 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:42,120 Speaker 1: why not? Let's try it? Great? So, I just need 415 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 1: the name of the person you want to send the 416 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 1: roses to be Peyton? Peyton? Is that with a P 417 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 1: A Y T O N? Yes? Okay? And what would 418 00:23:54,440 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 1: you like to put on the note, Um, good luck tonight, 419 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 1: love mom and dad. That's cute, okay, Dustin? Um, hello, Dustin, 420 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 1: your voice is being broadcast on the radio right now. 421 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: I need you to know that. And I have your 422 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 1: fiance Isabel on the line, a king. Who's Payton? Who? 423 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:37,919 Speaker 1: Dustin Payton? Um? It's my daughter? You have a daughter? 424 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 1: What the hell? Dustin? What the hell? Man? Why? Wait? 425 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: Is like? What's going on? What are we doing right now? 426 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:56,639 Speaker 1: You had a daughter? What is Yeah? I have a daughter? 427 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 1: Like I want to tell you, and I was going 428 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: to it, just like it just wasn't the right time. 429 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Justin are you kidding me? When you 430 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:09,680 Speaker 1: proposed to me, would have been a freaking perfect time 431 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: to tell me that you have a daughter? About like 432 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: you just please do this another time? Can we please 433 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,400 Speaker 1: do this another time? To do this another time? We 434 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: cannot do this another time. You needed to be honest 435 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 1: with me. Why you thinking I'm telling me all this? 436 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 1: I can't even believe it, all this, All this time 437 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: we've been engaged and you have a secret and you're 438 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,359 Speaker 1: not telling me that you have. I'm sorry, Like, I'm 439 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:45,879 Speaker 1: so sorry. I just know you're not sorry. I'm horrible 440 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 1: You're so shaky. How did I believe you all this time? 441 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: You can believe? You're not telling me anything. I'm gonna 442 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,920 Speaker 1: tell you. You You just talk about it later, Like I am. 443 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about this right now. We 444 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 1: just talked about this later. This is what I have thought. 445 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:12,439 Speaker 1: This is not okay, Dustin, Dustin, this is all on 446 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 1: the air, and I just want to I want to 447 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: ask you who is mom? Oh? Her names? Like, I'm 448 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: not gonna I'm not gonna say her name on the radio. Okay, 449 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,719 Speaker 1: But then, dust are you in addition to you not 450 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: telling your fiance you have a daughter, do you also 451 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: have another significant other that you're in a relationship with 452 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 1: right now? Yeah? Like it's just a really complicated situation. Okay, 453 00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 1: I clearly understand that. But was your plan? Is your 454 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 1: plan to mary Isabel and have a another relationship at 455 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:59,639 Speaker 1: the same time. Look, I'm just I'm trying to figure 456 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 1: this out. I'm not going to figure this out right 457 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 1: now on the radio. And when were you going to 458 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,399 Speaker 1: tell Isabel you had to daughter? I'm I was going 459 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 1: to tell her obviously, I can't keep it a secret forever. 460 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 1: I was going to tell her. It's just really complicated. 461 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 1: But it sounds like a relationship with somebody else to 462 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: her mom. Like I said, it's just really complicated. It's 463 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: not what you guys think. It is not that type 464 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 1: of relationship. You know. We're kind of co parenting and 465 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 1: what we think is a good way, the best way possible. 466 00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 1: And um, and that's it. And so why didn't you 467 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 1: so Dustin, why didn't you want to tell Isabel? What 468 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: was the reason? I just I don't know. I just 469 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 1: haven't figured out how to tell her. And it hasn't 470 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,960 Speaker 1: been you know, it's just been recently that it's gotten 471 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: a little bit more complicated with the whole situation. I was, 472 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,359 Speaker 1: see what the engagement, but also with what's going on 473 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 1: in my daughter's life. And you know, it's I've been 474 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: able to manage it a little bit easier up until 475 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,639 Speaker 1: this point. It's just what it is. How old is Peyton, Dustin? 476 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 1: She is nine? Oh my god? How long have you 477 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: been together Isabel? We've been together for about a year. 478 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 1: And the house, Oh my goodness, I cannot even believe this. 479 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,880 Speaker 1: I would how did you keep this secret? Like I mean, 480 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 1: I don't even understand when you see her, are you 481 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 1: want to I'm not married I was. I'm gonna talk 482 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: to you about it. I don't want to do it 483 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: on air. We just have you anymore. I don't even 484 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 1: want to spons to you anymore. So, Isabel, there's no 485 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 1: coming back. There's no coming back on this. No, no, 486 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: how do you? How do I trust him? This is 487 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 1: like a really big thing. How do you trust him? Many? Like? No, no, no, no, 488 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 1: you can definitely trust me. It's not it's not that crazy. 489 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:18,400 Speaker 1: I just want to talk to you. I have to 490 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: figure something. That's it. Oh my god. No, I don't 491 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 1: want to talk to you. I don't any I can. 492 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 1: I cannot imagine You're shock and you're what you feel 493 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: right now? No, I mean like he's supposed to be 494 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 1: my life, like we were supposed to get married, and 495 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: like I don't know what I'm gonna do. Well, I 496 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: he's hung up, you feel, and say it's hung up? 497 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 1: I mean I I questions I have are? I mean, look, 498 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:11,160 Speaker 1: it's this is a real It's a tough one because 499 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 1: you need to think through this, and I think let 500 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 1: the emotions settle at some point, and then do you 501 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,440 Speaker 1: want to try to find out what he was trying 502 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 1: to protect his daughter from Maybe there's something to that. 503 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 1: I mean, like, I just don't understand how I didn't. 504 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 1: I didn't know about this, you know, like, yes, I 505 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 1: know she's thinking of all the past year and a 506 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 1: half somewhere and yeah, yeah, and who knows what he 507 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 1: was really doing all of those situations. But look, uh, 508 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 1: I would take a minute to just work through the 509 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: emotions you've got, or talk to somebody that's close to 510 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: you and then a conversation with him and find out 511 00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,360 Speaker 1: what's really going on. All right, Okay, all right, Isabel, 512 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, big hugs to you, good luck, Thank 513 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 1: you so much. Isabel found out that Dust and her 514 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: fiance has a child that's nine years old. They've been 515 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,479 Speaker 1: together for a year and a half. She didn't know 516 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 1: about this child at all at all. He says. He 517 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 1: was going to tell her they're gonna get married. Most 518 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 1: schedule to get married next summer, and she just found 519 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: out about it. He said, well, I was gonna tell you. 520 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 1: I was protecting her by not telling you. I'm co 521 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 1: parenting with her mom. But there's nothing going on. I mean, 522 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 1: it is. I almost have to I need a pen, 523 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: not a sharp Pieter write down on a piece of paper. 524 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 1: All the different levels here, Yeah, so many layers of 525 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 1: the onion. So she clearly isabel is shocked and feels 526 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 1: duped and lied to and all of those synonyms because 527 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 1: she was it. I mean she she did not really 528 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 1: know everything about the man and she's about to marry 529 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 1: If the man is a father with somebody else, Yeah, 530 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 1: that's shocking. You think about your life and the future 531 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 1: with this person, and it's completely shattered now because it's 532 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 1: completely different. So now let's let's work a week out, 533 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:21,400 Speaker 1: like a week out from now. Okay, Isabelle has emotions 534 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 1: have subsided. I don't like the words calmed down. I 535 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 1: don't like him, I don't use him for myself or 536 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:34,920 Speaker 1: anybody else. Don't like tou touche. Emotions have subsided, and 537 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 1: he dustin. The fiancee says, look, I didn't tell you 538 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 1: about my nine year old because her mom is crazy 539 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 1: and she I don't know what she would have done 540 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:55,240 Speaker 1: and she would have completely ruined our relationship and made 541 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 1: your life hell or or not blame the mom, but 542 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 1: said say I am a coward and I don't have me. 543 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 1: He won't say that the guts to face my daughter 544 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,920 Speaker 1: and tell her I found someone else. That's part of 545 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 1: it too, But I mean she is nine years old, 546 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 1: so she's too young to understand. Maybe, But nonetheless, we 547 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,200 Speaker 1: shouldn't blame the mom. We don't know the mom. So 548 00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 1: there's a scenarios. There could be a plethora of scenarios 549 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 1: as to why he felt he was protecting his daughter 550 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 1: or himself by not telling his girlfriend, the fiance of 551 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 1: a year and a half, about the daughter. But does 552 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 1: it mean the relationship totally ends or is there a 553 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 1: I mean, he's not seeing anybody else, not cheating. I'm 554 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,800 Speaker 1: just making up some scenario here. He's not cheating. He 555 00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 1: just was a coward or made a mistake or couldn't 556 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: face it or whatever. And he calls himself out on it, Like, 557 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 1: does that mean that she shouldn't marry? No. I think 558 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 1: he can redeem himself by telling the truth to everyone involved, 559 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 1: including his daughter and the baby mama, and make this 560 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 1: wedding public and do all of do does Dustin, Isabel 561 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: and the mother of Peyton? Do they all need to 562 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:20,439 Speaker 1: sit in a room and talk about it. I don't 563 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 1: know that it's necessary alright. At the end of the day, 564 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 1: he lied for a year and a half there might 565 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 1: have I don't I yes, But did he do it 566 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:38,840 Speaker 1: because he was a coward? Did he do it because 567 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 1: there was some sort of other protective reason that may 568 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,759 Speaker 1: have been right or wrong that he felt was right. 569 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 1: I just don't know that you can say I'm not 570 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 1: gonna be with you until you really get to the 571 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:53,400 Speaker 1: bottom of it. And yeah, look, in Isabel's mind and 572 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,360 Speaker 1: in our mind, like all of us, of course, we 573 00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,279 Speaker 1: feel like we were dating somebody we didn't even know 574 00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:01,840 Speaker 1: or engaged to. But I have a soft spot for 575 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:07,320 Speaker 1: somebody doing something to protect their kid. That makes me think, Okay, 576 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,360 Speaker 1: you suck for a little bit here, Dustin, and it 577 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,319 Speaker 1: sucks to be me here because I'm in the dark. 578 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,279 Speaker 1: But maybe you were putting your kid first. However, does 579 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 1: that mean that I'm not a priority to you if 580 00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 1: we do get married. I mean there's another level of 581 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 1: questions there. I know what you mean with the kid 582 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,799 Speaker 1: thing in the soft spot, like could this be a 583 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 1: funny story in ten years? You know? Well, no, I 584 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 1: don't everything it's going to be a comedy, But who'd 585 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 1: they get past it? But I think what matters is 586 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 1: how he moves forward and how he tries to fix this. 587 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 1: He could either crawl under a rock and say you 588 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: know this, you know I I can't do this, I 589 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:47,160 Speaker 1: can't fix this, or he can, you know, take ownership 590 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 1: of this. And yeah, but I think I'm saying she 591 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 1: should hear him out right. I think so too. It's 592 00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,759 Speaker 1: not walk away if she didn't want to, she has 593 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 1: all right, But wouldn't you want to make But wouldn't 594 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 1: you want to make a thoughtful, non emotional decision involved 595 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:14,799 Speaker 1: because there's a kid involved. Maybe she isn't. She doesn't 596 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 1: all him anything. He lied to her for a year 597 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:23,120 Speaker 1: and a half on air with Ryan Seacrest. So I 598 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 1: thought of you guys before I went to sleep. I 599 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,880 Speaker 1: was gonna watch, you know, a few minutes of the 600 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 1: Adele special. Wow, if you haven't seen it. First of all, 601 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,640 Speaker 1: she's magic and it's beautifully shot at the Griffith Observatory 602 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 1: at the top of the mountain there, and she comes 603 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,320 Speaker 1: out and the first time in six years she's performed 604 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 1: and does her kids that we play new music too. 605 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:50,719 Speaker 1: She sets up this this proposal. I'll spare you in 606 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:54,520 Speaker 1: this moment, but I'm gonna look for the The video 607 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,640 Speaker 1: I took from my bed while I was watching. I 608 00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 1: think we can get the actual audio. But yeah, you 609 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 1: have the audio, Yeah, we have it. How did you 610 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 1: get the audio? Tops? What are you doing on my phone? 611 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,840 Speaker 1: We have our ways, not your bed audio. No, the 612 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 1: video I shot from my bed is in my phone. No, 613 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:18,280 Speaker 1: that we have. We were like, spare everyone your grainy 614 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 1: audio from your phone. We have the actual audio from 615 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,360 Speaker 1: the special Okay, got it? I thought you had the 616 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 1: audio from the video I shot from my phone and 617 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,880 Speaker 1: trying to figure how he sync up to this. But 618 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 1: we'll get tit in a minute because the adult specialist 619 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 1: something to talk about. So is the Brittany news. Brittany 620 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,960 Speaker 1: is all freed up? She's officially free. Can you believe 621 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:40,560 Speaker 1: this conservativeship was nearly fourteen. I still don't totally understand 622 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 1: how as a grown, grown, grown adult that happened to her. 623 00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:45,919 Speaker 1: And obviously this is what she's been fighting to get 624 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,480 Speaker 1: her freedom back and now but she now she's got 625 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: the right to do a lot of things. So break 626 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 1: it down for us, isn't he? Yeah, she can basically 627 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:55,800 Speaker 1: do anything. Before she had, they kept track of even 628 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,680 Speaker 1: a Starbucks strength that she had daily. Why what's the 629 00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,360 Speaker 1: point because they're monitoring her intake of anything. Yeah, and 630 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 1: then I think after the years it just kind of 631 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 1: kept like getting more serious and more serious. And then 632 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 1: that also made it harder for her to detach from 633 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:15,800 Speaker 1: this conservatorship. So here we are Friday afternoon, like hundreds 634 00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: of supporters in downtown l A for Britney Spears, and 635 00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:23,680 Speaker 1: then the judge finally says Brittney has granted her request 636 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:27,560 Speaker 1: to completely be you know, torn apart from this conservatorship. 637 00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 1: She didn't have to go any additional mental evaluations, which 638 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 1: is what they wanted her to do. So it was 639 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,280 Speaker 1: a great day for Britney Spears and all Britney fans basically. 640 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 1: So fourteen years later, she finally gets her freedom back. 641 00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 1: But I think now she can come after anybody that 642 00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 1: she's upset with. Yes, so legal documents detail that she 643 00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 1: had been paying, even the people that she said acted 644 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 1: against her wishes. So like her father, um that stems 645 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:59,560 Speaker 1: down to his lawyers, also his security team. Um, she 646 00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 1: didn't have any kind of veto power over any of 647 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:06,400 Speaker 1: her money that way was spent. So it was a 648 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,160 Speaker 1: pain a lot of people's salaries who are now no 649 00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 1: longer going to get that money from her, and we're 650 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,279 Speaker 1: talking like five hundred thousand dollars a year per some 651 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 1: of these people, right, So some of these people were 652 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:21,520 Speaker 1: motivated to not let her get control and see where 653 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 1: this money is going. Obviously, I mean they all had 654 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:27,319 Speaker 1: not all some may have had agendas, yeah, which is 655 00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,960 Speaker 1: so crazy to think of. I mean, for her father, 656 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,880 Speaker 1: Jamie Spears, for example, he was being paid a personal 657 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,920 Speaker 1: salary and concert commissions and that was over the last decade. 658 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,400 Speaker 1: So they're saying that it's over two million dollars just 659 00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:41,799 Speaker 1: with him. But did she come back after that because 660 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,920 Speaker 1: she do you think she goes and tries to get 661 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:48,440 Speaker 1: some of that back? I mean, why not if you 662 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 1: want to, if you can, or maybe she's tired, maybe 663 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 1: she's just like I don't know, it's still crazy to believe. 664 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:57,280 Speaker 1: Thirteen plus years later, it happens, and I still picture 665 00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 1: Brittany as the Brittany Weeks to see when she came 666 00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 1: in here, whenever the last time, when she came here, 667 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,800 Speaker 1: and when she performed in Hollywood and Highland when Toxic 668 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,960 Speaker 1: came out. She performed in person live on Kiss That 669 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 1: Song at Hollywood Highland. However, many years, maybe years ago, right, No, 670 00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:19,279 Speaker 1: wouldn't have been. It could have been nineteen, could have 671 00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:22,719 Speaker 1: been yeah, actually could have been. Uh. She turns uh 672 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 1: forty December two, and she's got a whole new life, 673 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 1: and she looks like from now. I don't really pay 674 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,839 Speaker 1: attention to my feed too much, but it looks like 675 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,280 Speaker 1: she's popping up inside my feed more often than before. 676 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,960 Speaker 1: I think so too. But I just I'm really curious 677 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:37,520 Speaker 1: to see what she's gonna do with her life. She's 678 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: mentioned in the past that she wanted to have a 679 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,399 Speaker 1: baby a few years ago, but even they controlled that 680 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 1: aspect of her life, So who knows. I mean, it's 681 00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:47,240 Speaker 1: like the sky's limit now for Brittany. All right, well listen, 682 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 1: I um, I'm happy we're fans. She's been nothing but 683 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 1: sweet to us over the years. I did find the 684 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:58,320 Speaker 1: video from my bed after I watched the Adele special 685 00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 1: last night, and I'll play yeah, okay, oh yeah, I 686 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 1: just watched them. I watched the proposal. I'm the playback. 687 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 1: I just in the moment Ryan Seacrest with your sunny 688 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:13,640 Speaker 1: not quite as warm as it was over the weekend. 689 00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:16,200 Speaker 1: Today U c l A beat Colorado. They go to 690 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,880 Speaker 1: six and four. Chargers lost at Home to Minnesota, dropping 691 00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,000 Speaker 1: a five and four and out of first place in 692 00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 1: the a f C West. Sisney's dealing with that. I 693 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:28,399 Speaker 1: am uh and adult. So I had heard she's gonna 694 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,280 Speaker 1: do that special last night on television and I watched. 695 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,960 Speaker 1: It was beautifully shot at sunset at the Griffith Observatory. 696 00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:38,400 Speaker 1: I haven't watched it yet. You're gonna you're gonna like it. 697 00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,440 Speaker 1: I mean, it's gorgeous. The sun is literally setting and 698 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 1: she's singing the songs, and Oprah does some interstitial interviews 699 00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:48,239 Speaker 1: with or throughout where she talks about everything back and 700 00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,320 Speaker 1: she sat down with Oprah. Lizza was in the audience. 701 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:54,680 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, well, I I it was interesting. Want 702 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,319 Speaker 1: to takeaways for me? I'm gonna talk to her on 703 00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:00,160 Speaker 1: Friday and that's gonna be on the radio. But want 704 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:05,800 Speaker 1: takeaways for me? Was she said she can write down 705 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,879 Speaker 1: the difficult, deep, hurtful, painful thing she was going through 706 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 1: in a song, but she can't talk about him. She 707 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 1: can't discuss him. Yeah, like she can't sit with her son. 708 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,319 Speaker 1: I mean, from what I gathered from that special, it's 709 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 1: harder to sit with her son and talk about the 710 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:26,120 Speaker 1: pain that she had or any pain she caused, but 711 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 1: she can put into a song for all of us 712 00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 1: to consume, which is fascinating to me. Yeah, it's very 713 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 1: selfless of her. So here is uh a little of 714 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:42,520 Speaker 1: Adele last night. She sings brilliantly and it all happens, 715 00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 1: and it's just well done, and Oprah's great and all 716 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:48,840 Speaker 1: that happens. But it kept hooking me. One more commercial right, well, 717 00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,439 Speaker 1: still to come. I was like, all right, I'm gonna 718 00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,080 Speaker 1: sit through that and one more to com still to come. 719 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit through that one. Well, then they showed 720 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,160 Speaker 1: me up. Next we're gonna surprise this couple. This guy 721 00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 1: is gonna propose. Well, I'm a sucker for a proposal, 722 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,560 Speaker 1: we all are. So he walks her out and his 723 00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:07,320 Speaker 1: soon to be fiance's got an oculus on headphones and 724 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 1: you can't see her here anything. They dimmed the lights 725 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:13,040 Speaker 1: and make it totally quiet. And here's what happens. Listen, 726 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:15,960 Speaker 1: I need every single person to be really dotey quiet. 727 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 1: All right, let's turn the lights down. If if you 728 00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 1: make condos, I'm going to kill me. So now you 729 00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,120 Speaker 1: can't hear a thing but that airplane over the Griffin 730 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:28,880 Speaker 1: observatory right there. So as this woman walks in or 731 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,480 Speaker 1: soon to be fiance's guiding her in and she's just 732 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:33,920 Speaker 1: been on a picnic at the observatory earlier, and that's 733 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,880 Speaker 1: all she thinks is happening. Well then this this has 734 00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:46,280 Speaker 1: been a long time comrad a little baby. Oh my god. Well, okay, 735 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:54,000 Speaker 1: she's still doesn't know I can't see it down. Yeah. 736 00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,720 Speaker 1: So Adele stays back in the dark until the last second. 737 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:05,640 Speaker 1: Then she comes out when the piano begins to play me, 738 00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:14,480 Speaker 1: I'm the mess watching your go sit it front row, 739 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,719 Speaker 1: sit down, do the show. O. Thank god you said yes, 740 00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 1: because I didn't know who I was gonna have to 741 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:25,239 Speaker 1: sing this song to you next you Okay, how she's 742 00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:29,919 Speaker 1: started to shock Quentin and Ashley. That's the happy couple there, 743 00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:31,839 Speaker 1: so but was I mean, she's like, we have been 744 00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:36,080 Speaker 1: you're going for so long they've been dating seven years? Wow. Lord, 745 00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,040 Speaker 1: So I get all wrapped up in it and I 746 00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,319 Speaker 1: was about to go to bed, but let me just 747 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:47,120 Speaker 1: play this is from my from my headboard. I'm gonna 748 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 1: play it back here you go. I just swatched the 749 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:59,239 Speaker 1: Proposal Special. Pretty good, pretty good? Okay, Yes, this is 750 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:04,680 Speaker 1: me that was me and tears. You're just crying video. 751 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:10,080 Speaker 1: I'm crying. How bad is that? You can hear the 752 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,640 Speaker 1: TV in the background. And I'm about to go to sleep. 753 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,480 Speaker 1: She pushed me three commercial breaks past my bedtime and 754 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 1: I'm in tears, and I'm wearing that shirt that my 755 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:21,759 Speaker 1: friend sent me that I found out was I guess 756 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 1: it was not made for men. Yeah, that the big 757 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:30,719 Speaker 1: scoop neck one. Yeah it turn yeah, so you let 758 00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,200 Speaker 1: it out? Got me tumes. You want to just take 759 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 1: a look at yourself on your own over there post 760 00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:41,160 Speaker 1: that videoing them Malone. Yeah, yeah, let me figure out 761 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,680 Speaker 1: how to do that first. Let me tell you, dal 762 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:45,719 Speaker 1: I think is that going to be Friday? Dal the 763 00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:49,760 Speaker 1: Art Radio album release party? Friday? I'll be hosting that, Danya. 764 00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,960 Speaker 1: I needs some tips on these album release parties. How 765 00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,840 Speaker 1: do they how do they roll? Show up? Do your job? 766 00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,560 Speaker 1: I can't wait one or two seven yr kids of him? 767 00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:04,920 Speaker 1: Tell me some been good Air with Ryan Seacrest. Lania 768 00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 1: in Riverside, Lania, good morning, we are ready. We want 769 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:13,240 Speaker 1: good news. Tell us something good in your life. Okay, 770 00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: So I've had a horrible year, but then all of 771 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:20,440 Speaker 1: a sudden, after eleven years, a daughter, Jade, who has 772 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,520 Speaker 1: never in her life met her father, who live in 773 00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 1: the same city, has decided that since he's gone back 774 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,200 Speaker 1: to church and he's a good man, he's finally in 775 00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:32,440 Speaker 1: her life. And it's like, from zero to one hundred, 776 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,960 Speaker 1: were you trying to encourage her to meet her father 777 00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,239 Speaker 1: before that? Or how did how did you get to 778 00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:42,600 Speaker 1: this place? Well, she's only eleven, so she knew there 779 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:44,799 Speaker 1: was a man, but we didn't really get into it. 780 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,680 Speaker 1: And so I even told her, like his numbers in 781 00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:49,720 Speaker 1: your phone because she has my old phones and stuff. 782 00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 1: And but I let it go because I mean, he 783 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,360 Speaker 1: didn't want to be there, so I don't want to 784 00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,200 Speaker 1: say anving. And so one day I finally found out 785 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 1: he was going to church until I kind of sent 786 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,200 Speaker 1: a mean message and then he broke back my IM 787 00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 1: going to church because I want to meet Jade, And 788 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:08,440 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm just kidding now. Express Like, 789 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,239 Speaker 1: but what's so funny is like the Ryan's rot this 790 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,720 Speaker 1: thing where the guy didn't say you had a kid 791 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:16,360 Speaker 1: That totally happened in the beginning of his relationship. He 792 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,680 Speaker 1: pretended like he didn't know he had Jade, and like 793 00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:21,120 Speaker 1: they found out at the same time together, which is 794 00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:24,600 Speaker 1: so not true. He pretended he did not have a 795 00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:29,480 Speaker 1: daughter to his whoever he was seeing. Yeah, and then 796 00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,240 Speaker 1: and I told him. And then finally after I submitted 797 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:35,279 Speaker 1: for child support, he was like, okay, I actually do 798 00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,000 Speaker 1: because you can't hide that with it, you know. But 799 00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,680 Speaker 1: are you are you happy that all this has come 800 00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 1: full circle and everybody's where they are now? Okay? I 801 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:47,719 Speaker 1: think so right? Oh yeah, it's just I didn't think 802 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,120 Speaker 1: he would ever come and now he is. And he 803 00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:53,319 Speaker 1: was like, she's going there every weekend and he's they're 804 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:57,120 Speaker 1: going to pull her express next month. And he takes 805 00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:58,880 Speaker 1: her shopping and we go to dinner and we actually 806 00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:02,319 Speaker 1: hang out all like my fiance, his wife and all 807 00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:05,759 Speaker 1: the kids. And that's good. It's a good situation. It's 808 00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:09,200 Speaker 1: happiness and positivity. Well, Nna, thank you so much for calling. 809 00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,520 Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Good luck with it, keep it up. 810 00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:17,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, I love you too. Bye bye with Ryan Seacrest. 811 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:22,719 Speaker 1: That's it for us today. Tomorrow we're into a second date. Update. Uh, 812 00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,719 Speaker 1: they met and started flirting at work. It's back on 813 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:28,839 Speaker 1: or not. We'll find out at seven twenty tomorrow. Thanks 814 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 1: for listening. So on air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure 815 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:33,680 Speaker 1: to subscribe it, and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.