WEBVTT - "I'M DATING MY BOSS"

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<v Speaker 1>stop talking now and start talking start the episode. Okay, Hello, Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Chrissy?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes it is. How are you get.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing all right? How are you doing, Chrissy?

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty good, Chrissy?

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<v Speaker 1>What is your life like? What's going on today?

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<v Speaker 2>Just chilling doing laundry? Not really anything fun today? Are

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<v Speaker 2>you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Is my life cool today? Or what is my life like?

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<v Speaker 4>In general?

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<v Speaker 1>I let's do in general.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a pretty busy person. I'm not here maybe more

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<v Speaker 2>than half the month or so due to work. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well okay, Well let me just bring something up here,

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<v Speaker 1>because you have a thing that you called in to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about, and we could talk about that, or we

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<v Speaker 1>could have a meandering conversation about just nothing in particular.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, so how do I narrow this down? Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 2>like three years ago or so, I got this job,

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<v Speaker 2>and long story short, I started dating the manager of

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<v Speaker 2>before and it kind of like it was very secretive

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<v Speaker 2>at first, and it kept going on and on and

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<v Speaker 2>like it's this big disaster now. So we kept it

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<v Speaker 2>a secret because our company has a pretty strict like

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<v Speaker 2>no dating policy because of hr issues that have happened

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<v Speaker 2>within the company, and so we kept it hush. And

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<v Speaker 2>also my brother works there, so like it would be

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<v Speaker 2>very weird for him to find out that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>this is going on. So fast forward, like two years

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<v Speaker 2>I get promoted to like a corporate position and pretty

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<v Speaker 2>much like I got he was like kind of okay

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<v Speaker 2>with it at first, Like he was kind of he

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<v Speaker 2>was supportive. I could see that, like he was kind

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<v Speaker 2>of jealous and that made things a little rocky.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he was jealous that you got promoted.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he didn't say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You were promoted above him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So like now I have to tell him what

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<v Speaker 2>to do and sometimes like things. Yeah, and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's going on like three years now, and so nobody knows,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like, and so my brother he doesn't know

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<v Speaker 2>still either, right, my mother knows about everything, and she's

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<v Speaker 2>also keeping it a secret for my brother, And so

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking about telling him, but he started to

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<v Speaker 2>have issues at work, and my boyfriend, you know, his

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<v Speaker 2>manager as well, was giving him like right up and

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<v Speaker 2>stuff because my brother he earned it. Though you're not

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<v Speaker 2>earned it, he deserved it.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, so let me let me get the straight.

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<v Speaker 1>Your brother is getting into some shit at work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's he's he's fucking off. You are secretly dating his manager,

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<v Speaker 1>who has been, yeah, giving your brother a hard time

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<v Speaker 1>about all the fucking off that your brother is doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, And so my brother started getting like afterword, if

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<v Speaker 2>the idea his howls were hanging out, I think he

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<v Speaker 2>would just start talking crap about him, like how much

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<v Speaker 2>he hates him and this and that. So now I

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<v Speaker 2>really can't tell him. And you know, now, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we live together now, and I go on business trips

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<v Speaker 2>very frequently for my position, and people people are always

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<v Speaker 2>asking like, you know, what's my life a homelike blah

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<v Speaker 2>blah blah, you know, just small talk, and I've made

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<v Speaker 2>up this whole elaborate lie about like who I live

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<v Speaker 2>with to them because they can't know it's one of

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<v Speaker 2>the store managers, you know. And so yeah, and so

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<v Speaker 2>my friends really don't like him. They like, actually.

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<v Speaker 1>Your friends, So who does know your friends know?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so my immediate like close friends, my mom and

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<v Speaker 2>like one aunt.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do your friends hate this guy?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, he's a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot older than me, and he they feel that he's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of manipulative and like he gasslightes me a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>I have tried to leave him before, not only due

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<v Speaker 2>to the fact that I was like getting stressed out

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<v Speaker 2>about the fact that we're hiding this, but also like.

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<v Speaker 1>I just.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to like date someone that I work with.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Okay, you said you you tried to leave him.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he like I would break up with him, and

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<v Speaker 2>then like we still work in the same place. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't leave jobs, and so things we just circle

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<v Speaker 2>back over again.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so you you tried to leave him, but

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<v Speaker 1>then you guys, you know, were sort of had to

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<v Speaker 1>be in touch with each other and you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>liked being with each other, and.

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<v Speaker 2>So you stay together, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Son, there's.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and so I just feel bad because like he's

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<v Speaker 2>probably a little past the age where he would want

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<v Speaker 2>He's getting older, you know, so like he really wants

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<v Speaker 2>to have kids, and I really don't want to, Like

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<v Speaker 2>that's just at least not here and now, and I

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<v Speaker 2>just can't see myself with him any like more long term,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. And I feel bad that I'm like kind

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<v Speaker 2>of wasting his time in a sense because I know

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<v Speaker 2>he really wants children.

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<v Speaker 1>But I are you waste against? I mean, like I think,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, he he you. You are both making

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<v Speaker 1>the decision to be with each other. It's not your

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<v Speaker 1>fault is wasting it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah right, Yeah, that's what I'm trying to remind myself

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<v Speaker 2>too now. So I'm just kind of like pretty much

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<v Speaker 2>I'm nervous to like leave and like just because I

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<v Speaker 2>have to kind of work with him, you know, so

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<v Speaker 2>things might be weird.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so I am against Like, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>can I see this? Is this like a big chain?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you gotta tell you what? Like it is?

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<v Speaker 2>It's growing, It's very big in other parts of the world,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's throwing here, is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Kroger?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's I don't think you would ever guess it's

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<v Speaker 2>not that big yet, but they're they're trying to be

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<v Speaker 2>I would just say it's tour it's like Asian cultural.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it? Is it Panda Express? Do you work at

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<v Speaker 1>Panda Express?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, all right, I'll.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop trying to guess where you work. But I'm against

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<v Speaker 1>companies having like I think it's stupid for there to

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<v Speaker 1>be a rule that you can't date, Like, it's stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>It's super for them to be a rule that you

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<v Speaker 1>can't date your co workers, because like, the fuck is

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<v Speaker 1>some company going to tell people what they can and

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<v Speaker 1>can't do outside of work. I think that's stupid. Now

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<v Speaker 1>the rule aside, is it a bad idea to date

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<v Speaker 1>people you work with because of all the situations you're

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<v Speaker 1>running into? Like yeah, totally? Ah man, So I mean

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, let me ask you something. Is he not

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<v Speaker 1>like are you? Is he not like emotionally immature enough

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<v Speaker 1>to be like understanding of where you're coming from with

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<v Speaker 1>this and like no kind of leave you like you

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<v Speaker 1>don't think?

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't think?

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, what makes you say that.

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<v Speaker 2>He is very dependent?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I don't know, he put this big persona up

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<v Speaker 2>at first, like he was going to take care of

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<v Speaker 2>me and this and that, and that's not like generally

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<v Speaker 2>why I'm with someone, but it was, you know, some perks,

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<v Speaker 2>and now I'm the one like holding the fort down.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I kind of even when I was making less

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<v Speaker 2>money than him, I still kind of was. And like, yeah, wait, sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>What was the question?

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<v Speaker 1>I was asking you if you felt like he was

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<v Speaker 1>emotionally mature enough to kind of deal with being around

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<v Speaker 1>you even if you guys are broken up.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the thing. I don't think so. But no, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh. Well, listen, Uh, you have this job that you

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<v Speaker 1>seem like you like and care about him, would like

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<v Speaker 1>to stay in and would be a shame for you

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<v Speaker 1>to leave because of personal problems, right, and you could

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<v Speaker 1>you could probably say the same about him. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know this guy, but he probably also likes this job.

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<v Speaker 1>And okay, great, it's okay. So both of you guys

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<v Speaker 1>love the job. You don't see this relationship working out. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>he wants something. He wants kids, he wants like a

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he's older and he wants somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>can he he can like kind of really settle down with.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're getting at?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? And Okay. So another big issue is like, like

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<v Speaker 2>I mentioned, I traveled very frequently for work, so I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not home a lot of the time, and like the

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<v Speaker 2>time that I do have here, I'm still working, but

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<v Speaker 2>just remotely, and all my free time is filled up

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<v Speaker 2>with like taking care of the house and making food

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<v Speaker 2>and this and that, and like his like after he's

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<v Speaker 2>a child, Like I'm not a housewife. That's not what

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<v Speaker 2>I signed up for. I don't mind doing all these things.

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<v Speaker 2>But we agreed before I moved in, like that he

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<v Speaker 2>would put his effort into like equal efforts throughout the house,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, doing like tours.

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<v Speaker 1>Or like.

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<v Speaker 2>Other stuff. And then like, yeah, he owes me a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of money.

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<v Speaker 1>Too, Why does he owe you money?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>So I went to the Bahamas with him, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was under the impression he went last minute because his

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<v Speaker 2>cousins were going, and I coincidentally had like a week off,

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<v Speaker 2>like out of nowhere. My boss is like, you're working

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<v Speaker 2>like a lot, you should just take a week off,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, okay, stay less. And it coincidentally

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<v Speaker 2>had was the time that he was going to the Bahamas, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and I thought his cousin was taking care of everything,

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<v Speaker 2>and I had to pay for so much stuff, like

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you're a lot, like maybe all not including myself,

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<v Speaker 2>like on him alone, maybe around a thousand dollars, which he.

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<v Speaker 1>Liked, but he didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well like for his past at least.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I can think you paid for him as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like I paid for the room and like

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<v Speaker 2>pretty much everything, all the food, like all the tourist

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<v Speaker 2>stuff we did, and there's like a lot of concert tickets.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so so listen. So so you have your issues

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<v Speaker 1>with these guys, is let me ask you this just

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<v Speaker 1>really quick so we can I want to understand exactly

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<v Speaker 1>where you're at with this. Is there any part of

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<v Speaker 1>you that wants to stay with him, or any part

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<v Speaker 1>of you that is even kind of considering building an

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<v Speaker 1>actual life with this person.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing is, like I do love him kind of

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<v Speaker 2>not as much as I used to. But by the

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<v Speaker 2>time I would be ready to settle down, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like you would be too old, you know, like he

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't be able to enjoy his children and like even

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<v Speaker 2>maybe ce grandchildren. He's not that old, but like he's

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<v Speaker 2>forty two right now, so like I wouldn't be ready

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<v Speaker 2>for another ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Or so, You know, Chrissy, it sounds like this. For

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like this is not great for either of

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, because he wants he's older, he wants a

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<v Speaker 1>different kind of person in a different stage of life

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<v Speaker 1>than you are. So it sounds like it's not beneficial

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<v Speaker 1>for either of you guys to continue back again. So

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<v Speaker 1>it would sounds like it like telling people this on

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<v Speaker 1>this because I've only been talking to you for fifteen minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm not going to pretend like I know every

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<v Speaker 1>single thing about your relationship. But it sounds like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys should declare yourselves to have had your fun and

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<v Speaker 1>then move on. And you know, you seem like you

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<v Speaker 1>can handle that. I don't know him. I haven't talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him. I don't know what his ability to handle

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<v Speaker 1>that is. He should understand if I could talk to him.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he should understand that if you're dating a

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<v Speaker 1>person that doesn't want the same things that you want,

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<v Speaker 1>then you're you're doomed. You're doomed, so it is of

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<v Speaker 1>nobody's benefit to stay together. So hopefully he understands that.

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<v Speaker 1>As so, look, I mean, you should have the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with him, maybe say you're goodbyes, and then you're stuck

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<v Speaker 1>with the problem of we work together.

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<v Speaker 2>So here's my plan. My brother is leaving to the

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<v Speaker 2>military in the next like a couple of months, and

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<v Speaker 2>he lives with my mom is supporting her. So he's leaving.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom can't like like pay for everything herself, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>she's not as financially stable. So we're planning on moving

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<v Speaker 2>in together next the beginning of next year.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm trying of like you and the boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm going to move in with my mom. We're

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<v Speaker 2>going to go back like a house. Yeah, And so

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<v Speaker 2>my plan is to first he's still paying me back

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<v Speaker 2>to the money he gets or owes me, like every

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<v Speaker 2>wen he gives me money, and I have to wait

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<v Speaker 2>until I get everything back, and then when it's getting

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<v Speaker 2>closer to moving, I can break up with and then

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know I forgot that you lived with this guy too.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys, you are like, yeah, merge.

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<v Speaker 2>Together in one cup, right, And you know, like I

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<v Speaker 2>have a lot of stuff here, like so much stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't just go, you know, like I Christy, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I know this is this might be tough to hear,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if I'm in the place to

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<v Speaker 1>say it, but I'm going to do it now.

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<v Speaker 2>And still live together.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the fuck you're gonna do there,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, yeah, I don't know what the fuck you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do there, But like, like, do it now, you

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<v Speaker 1>got you gotta do it now. There's no what It's

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<v Speaker 1>almost worse for you to delay it because he has

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<v Speaker 1>no I don't know if he has any clue that

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<v Speaker 1>you're thinking about doing this. So so the things only

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<v Speaker 1>get gradually worse the longer you delay ripping off this

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<v Speaker 1>band aid. So just do it now and then, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you two can figure out how you're gonna deal

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<v Speaker 1>with living with each other. But to wait and just

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<v Speaker 1>like silently resent him over dinner every night for the

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<v Speaker 1>next however many months is not a good move.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>How many months is it?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>How many months is it until you until you can

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<v Speaker 1>move out?

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<v Speaker 2>What's this month? So maybe like six seven months?

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<v Speaker 1>Find some poor sucker of a sub letter on craigslist

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<v Speaker 1>if you can. Okay, what do you can? I ask?

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<v Speaker 1>What's state? You do you guess what city you live in?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that too much information?

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<v Speaker 3>You can guess?

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't want to guess a either you're willing

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<v Speaker 1>to tell me or not.

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<v Speaker 2>You had been there pretty recently. It's kind of a

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<v Speaker 2>big city. But if I give it away like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>someone that all right, whatever, you live in a big city.

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<v Speaker 1>If you live in a big city, you'll be able

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<v Speaker 1>to find somebody who can sum let your room. But

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<v Speaker 1>don't wait, don't do not sit in all these resentful

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<v Speaker 1>dinners and uh don't don't don't sit with this in

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<v Speaker 1>your mind for six months. That's a lot. Yeah, christ

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<v Speaker 1>is there anything you want to say to the people

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<v Speaker 1>of the computer before.

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<v Speaker 4>We go.

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<v Speaker 2>No to think for or taking my call?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, probably I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to thanks.

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<v Speaker 4>I have to break it to him.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't keep doing this.

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<v Speaker 1>We're wishing you the best of luck. Chrissy, you can

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<v Speaker 1>do it. It's better than the alternative, the alternative. Here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing, and this is I'm gonna finish with this.

0:20:09.240 --> 0:20:14.960
<v Speaker 1>The when you break up, When you break up, it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of always a good thing because it was not

0:20:20.920 --> 0:20:24.880
<v Speaker 1>like things. It's never things are going good and then

0:20:24.880 --> 0:20:26.920
<v Speaker 1>you break up. You know what I'm saying. So it's

0:20:27.119 --> 0:20:29.960
<v Speaker 1>beneficial for both of you that this is happening. Think

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<v Speaker 1>of it like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you do, have a good night, Chris, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>probably night.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this about that call. Sitting with someone

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<v Speaker 1>for six months scheming about how you're going to break

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<v Speaker 1>up with them meanwhile they have no idea sounds way

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<v Speaker 1>worse than breaking up with someone and having to live

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<v Speaker 1>with them for six months, like harboring some secret thing

0:21:17.640 --> 0:21:19.679
<v Speaker 1>and going in your mind like, ah, man, this is

0:21:19.720 --> 0:21:23.479
<v Speaker 1>not gonna you know that. That just sounds that just

0:21:23.520 --> 0:21:28.480
<v Speaker 1>sounds a lot worse than just sitting in the reality

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<v Speaker 1>of it. Hello, Hello, why is this? Uh says your

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<v Speaker 1>name is mister Kats.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes I am, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Where does the name mister cats come from?

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<v Speaker 4>I just had a chat when I was a kid.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, his name was mister kat and so.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, is that mister cat or mister Cats?

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<v Speaker 4>No, mister cat, just the one cat.

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<v Speaker 1>Out the one cat. Well, how are you doing today,

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<v Speaker 1>mister cat?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm doing a light How are you? It's six

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<v Speaker 4>thirty am for.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, it's six fifteen. Yes, what where you going from?

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<v Speaker 4>So my day just to start? You know, I'm from

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<v Speaker 4>Kuwait's Middle East?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, so you're in Kuwait right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, what, Uh, what's what's your day?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm well, it's it's a sunny day. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 4>one hundred degrees outside. I think maybe one.

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<v Speaker 1>Then m Do you have any plans for the day,

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<v Speaker 1>anything that you are planning on doing. You're going to work, school,

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<v Speaker 1>leisure time.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a university student. I study history, but today I

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<v Speaker 4>think I have work at night. But the rest of

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<v Speaker 4>the day, I'm just they I'm just you know, playing

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<v Speaker 4>video games, watching movie, my friends. My ancle is here.

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<v Speaker 1>What is life? And koait like?

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<v Speaker 4>To be honest, it's it's amazing. Everything is cheap right

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<v Speaker 4>here in cheaper than your USA. It's safe. It's so safe.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I can walk like three a m outside

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<v Speaker 4>nobody will talk with me. I mean I can fill

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<v Speaker 4>off my car with guys, you know, like ten dollars,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe twelve dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>When have you ever been to the US? No, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, have you been to places that you could

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<v Speaker 1>compare kuwait with when you when you say it's safe,

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<v Speaker 1>have you been to a place that you felt was

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<v Speaker 1>was unsafe?

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<v Speaker 4>Not really? I mean I'm out a little bit out

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<v Speaker 4>of the town. You know this that is next to me,

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<v Speaker 4>So I go back to this that nobody cares. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>I worked in the city and it's okay, we don't

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<v Speaker 4>have a police, to be honest, it's not like you

0:24:13.359 --> 0:24:18.000
<v Speaker 4>say you see police everywhere. No, it's just say there

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<v Speaker 4>our police don't have a gun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, really, the police don't have guns in Kuwait.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they don't. Meant to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>M h Well, how big is Kua is Kuwait? Uh?

0:24:35.040 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 1>How big is the city?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean if you look in them up, it's not

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<v Speaker 4>that big. But when you live, it's just it's so massive.

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<v Speaker 4>To be honest, I mean, I can drive like five

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<v Speaker 4>six hours, maybe seven hours in the cities.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always wanted to go to court. What what what

0:24:54.760 --> 0:24:56.840
<v Speaker 1>country is Kuwait? And I'm I'm stupid. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about geography.

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<v Speaker 4>No, the country is called Kwait.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Kwait is okay, I'm fuck, I'm so dumb. I

0:25:05.359 --> 0:25:07.280
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to admit I didn't know that. Okay, I

0:25:07.320 --> 0:25:09.639
<v Speaker 1>don't want to admit that I don't know whether Kuwait

0:25:09.720 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 1>is a country or a city. And I was waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for you to give me some sort of context clue

0:25:15.160 --> 0:25:17.720
<v Speaker 1>that would inform me of the answer without me having

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:20.560
<v Speaker 1>to ask. But it is revealed that.

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<v Speaker 4>I know it's okay, it's a normal Everyone think it's

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<v Speaker 4>a city. To be honest, it's a.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you live in a small city or in

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<v Speaker 1>Kuwait or deal in one of the bigger cities.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, I live in a big city. I mean

0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:43.119
<v Speaker 4>I need to dive like an hour to in the

0:25:43.160 --> 0:25:45.440
<v Speaker 4>old city. You know, it took me half an hour

0:25:45.520 --> 0:25:48.720
<v Speaker 4>to just exit the city to go into another city.

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<v Speaker 1>It says you wrote for the call Screener that you

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:56.240
<v Speaker 1>feel life in Kuwait is an epic adventure.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if you want to have an adventure, like

0:26:02.680 --> 0:26:05.040
<v Speaker 4>you know, every people just go to Europe, to Asia,

0:26:05.119 --> 0:26:08.600
<v Speaker 4>you know, mountains, natur you come here, just look to

0:26:08.680 --> 0:26:11.359
<v Speaker 4>city and go Wait. We have the biggest mode in

0:26:11.400 --> 0:26:14.680
<v Speaker 4>the world. It's a massive I mean I can work

0:26:14.800 --> 0:26:17.040
<v Speaker 4>like three four hours. We have so many things. We

0:26:17.080 --> 0:26:21.199
<v Speaker 4>can go and do activities in the desert. I just

0:26:21.240 --> 0:26:23.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I don't do a lot of things.

0:26:23.040 --> 0:26:26.160
<v Speaker 4>I just study it right now, but I know there

0:26:26.200 --> 0:26:27.560
<v Speaker 4>is a massive thing you can do.

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<v Speaker 1>What is your favorite of all the things you can do?

0:26:35.200 --> 0:26:39.080
<v Speaker 4>I think I like that we have everything here, everything

0:26:39.119 --> 0:26:44.600
<v Speaker 4>around the world. We have everything from US, China, and

0:26:44.720 --> 0:26:45.200
<v Speaker 4>all the world.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to ask mister kat, who are the people

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:49.680
<v Speaker 1>that we can hear in the background.

0:26:51.880 --> 0:26:55.439
<v Speaker 4>Oh, it's my uncle talking the victording for snapshot. So

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<v Speaker 4>actually he's reading the comments.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he's your uncle, is sitting and reading the chat. Yeah, well,

0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:09.760
<v Speaker 1>I usually tell age, well, are you and your uncle

0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:14.960
<v Speaker 1>the same age? Oh yeah, I usually tell callers not

0:27:15.080 --> 0:27:17.000
<v Speaker 1>to read the chat, but I guess if you have

0:27:17.119 --> 0:27:19.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody else with you reading the chat.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm not Exactually I'm just looking at the window.

0:27:22.400 --> 0:27:26.439
<v Speaker 4>You know, I live in right now, an apartment. I

0:27:26.480 --> 0:27:30.600
<v Speaker 4>see the main street. You know, card is going coming sunrise.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your relationship with your uncle?

0:27:33.760 --> 0:27:39.200
<v Speaker 4>Like friendship? You know, he's a cool guy. I live

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:41.040
<v Speaker 4>with him. He got to work and we play video

0:27:41.040 --> 0:27:44.240
<v Speaker 4>games all day. He's saying hi to everyone. I don't know.

0:27:44.240 --> 0:27:47.520
<v Speaker 4>I think people say he's an old game or you know,

0:27:47.560 --> 0:27:50.919
<v Speaker 4>he's playing since nineteen. I think maybe eighteen. I don't know.

0:27:53.040 --> 0:27:54.840
<v Speaker 1>What says he you're twenty so is he is he

0:27:54.880 --> 0:27:56.480
<v Speaker 1>also twenty? You said he was the same age.

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<v Speaker 4>As you twenty five? I think just five four years

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<v Speaker 4>between us.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what tell me about the rest of your family?

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:06.920
<v Speaker 1>Your your your mother or your father. You have a

0:28:06.920 --> 0:28:10.920
<v Speaker 1>good relationship with them?

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:14.280
<v Speaker 4>Yes, actually I have a good relationship you know, with

0:28:14.359 --> 0:28:22.919
<v Speaker 4>my old family. Everyone like me with you ahead, No,

0:28:23.080 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 4>I just my uncle told me that someone is asking

0:28:25.240 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 4>is alcohol is illegally? Yeah, it's a legal It's not

0:28:27.840 --> 0:28:31.200
<v Speaker 4>allowed in Quit. Yeah, I'm living with my friend.

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Alcohol is completely illegal and Quit.

0:28:35.480 --> 0:28:38.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you can't sell it, but you can somehow, you

0:28:38.600 --> 0:28:41.480
<v Speaker 4>know with that just drug dealers and you know those

0:28:41.520 --> 0:28:44.960
<v Speaker 4>people market mister.

0:28:44.760 --> 0:28:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Cat, I gotta ask you and listen. This is a

0:28:46.240 --> 0:28:48.640
<v Speaker 1>safe space, all right, me and the people listening, we

0:28:48.680 --> 0:28:52.800
<v Speaker 1>won't tell. Yes, but have you have you ever gotten

0:28:52.880 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 1>drunk before?

0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:57.560
<v Speaker 4>Just the one time? Yes?

0:28:58.400 --> 0:28:59.800
<v Speaker 1>And how was that for that one time?

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<v Speaker 4>I just I don't remember what happened, to be honest,

0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:09.080
<v Speaker 4>I was in a party and I happened. Yeah, I

0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:13.880
<v Speaker 4>don't know what I drink, you know? Yeah, okay, I

0:29:13.880 --> 0:29:15.840
<v Speaker 4>mean I have a bottle of two in my house.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have a good time.

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<v Speaker 4>And the past? You mean? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>The party?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Actually I was going with my British friends, you know.

0:29:29.560 --> 0:29:32.560
<v Speaker 1>Just you said, you said you went with your British friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Are there a lot of international people in Kuwait?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? God? Yes, yes, there is a lot. Actually there

0:29:39.960 --> 0:29:43.480
<v Speaker 4>is a place near the patrol that is just all

0:29:43.520 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 4>Americans people. You know. Really we have a base force

0:29:48.360 --> 0:29:52.560
<v Speaker 4>I think based American base. We have their military base.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not a lot for everyone, but you know they

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<v Speaker 4>had everything alcoholics, which I can't buy alcohol from them

0:29:58.320 --> 0:30:00.520
<v Speaker 4>in the base if I I want.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting out on the military base, but not anywhere else.

0:30:06.920 --> 0:30:12.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just Americans, you know, they like to drink. What

0:30:12.720 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 4>is it for them? Not for the people who what?

0:30:15.960 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 1>What do you?

0:30:16.640 --> 0:30:17.200
<v Speaker 5>Uh?

0:30:17.280 --> 0:30:20.000
<v Speaker 1>What do people living there who are who are local

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<v Speaker 1>to Kuwait? What do they think of the foreigners? Like

0:30:22.560 --> 0:30:24.360
<v Speaker 1>the Americans that come to live there.

0:30:26.720 --> 0:30:29.720
<v Speaker 4>They don't care to be honest. I just like everyone.

0:30:29.800 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 4>We have many I mean people India and Egyptian people

0:30:34.280 --> 0:30:37.360
<v Speaker 4>are more like more than the KUWAITI right here you know,

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:41.680
<v Speaker 4>hm and Kuwait it's almost five million and Kuwait is

0:30:41.760 --> 0:30:48.160
<v Speaker 4>just like a million m hm. Oh yeah. It's an

0:30:48.160 --> 0:30:51.280
<v Speaker 4>international country. You know, we have that from everywhere.

0:30:53.400 --> 0:30:57.080
<v Speaker 1>So what is your your goal in life? Mister kat

0:30:57.160 --> 0:30:58.360
<v Speaker 1>what do you what do you I don't think we

0:30:58.440 --> 0:31:00.880
<v Speaker 1>got to You might have told us what we what

0:31:00.920 --> 0:31:03.920
<v Speaker 1>you study, but I forget what is it that you study?

0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:04.920
<v Speaker 1>And what is it that you would like to.

0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:08.960
<v Speaker 4>I study history. I want to get a pH d.

0:31:09.040 --> 0:31:11.280
<v Speaker 4>I want to be a professor in the Kuwaita University

0:31:11.400 --> 0:31:14.160
<v Speaker 4>or any other university in the world. You know. I

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 4>like to teach people. Do you like to travel the world? Yeah?

0:31:19.640 --> 0:31:21.080
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna do you do a lot of traveling

0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:21.840
<v Speaker 1>outside of Kuwait.

0:31:24.120 --> 0:31:28.920
<v Speaker 4>I went to a rock during the after the war,

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:36.120
<v Speaker 4>the last tour in the rack. I want to behind Lebanon, Turkya.

0:31:36.160 --> 0:31:38.080
<v Speaker 4>I went to Yourn. I saw many places.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a place of all the places you've

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<v Speaker 1>been to that you found the most interesting?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? God, I mean except the media. I like Iran.

0:31:51.720 --> 0:31:56.640
<v Speaker 4>It's a It's a beautiful country, to be honest. It's

0:31:56.680 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 4>just the mountains are great, you know everything great. People

0:32:01.200 --> 0:32:04.720
<v Speaker 4>are great, not like they you think. I used to

0:32:04.720 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 4>see a news audio people see the news and media.

0:32:08.760 --> 0:32:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Why why do you think the I what's your problem

0:32:11.640 --> 0:32:13.080
<v Speaker 1>with the Iranian media?

0:32:16.000 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 4>No, not the Iranian media, the non Iranian media, like

0:32:19.840 --> 0:32:22.000
<v Speaker 4>the let's say the Foxy News. You know they say

0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:24.360
<v Speaker 4>it's all wars and ship I went to a ruck,

0:32:24.560 --> 0:32:27.160
<v Speaker 4>it's it's safe. I went to Iran. People are so

0:32:27.440 --> 0:32:29.920
<v Speaker 4>you know, it's so funny. I lived in the house

0:32:29.960 --> 0:32:33.040
<v Speaker 4>with them, not terrorists. Like I'm sorry for the word

0:32:33.120 --> 0:32:36.000
<v Speaker 4>and the twitch, but not like the things they show.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm, dude, I gotta say I am I'm like

0:32:39.840 --> 0:32:42.720
<v Speaker 1>dying to go to the Middle East and do some

0:32:42.800 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 1>of these I do this like talk to a Gecko

0:32:45.560 --> 0:32:48.480
<v Speaker 1>series where I interview people just on the street, and

0:32:48.560 --> 0:32:51.479
<v Speaker 1>I would fucking love Kuwait or Iraq or Iran.

0:32:54.120 --> 0:32:56.520
<v Speaker 4>I mean, you can come here. I'm here always anytime

0:32:56.560 --> 0:32:58.200
<v Speaker 4>you want. You can say my name.

0:32:58.240 --> 0:33:00.880
<v Speaker 1>But if you want, I actually might because if I could,

0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:02.640
<v Speaker 1>if I go, let me ask you this. In Kuwait,

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:05.960
<v Speaker 1>how is there a big English speaking population?

0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:12.600
<v Speaker 4>Everyone talking, drifts, everyone speaking. I mean they studied, they

0:33:12.680 --> 0:33:15.200
<v Speaker 4>teach English in the school since the first grade.

0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:16.320
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm.

0:33:17.160 --> 0:33:20.160
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we have an American university of a British university,

0:33:20.280 --> 0:33:27.760
<v Speaker 4>so many colleges. Okay, cool, Christian people too, I might.

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:29.320
<v Speaker 1>I might want to come over there, and it's always

0:33:29.360 --> 0:33:30.120
<v Speaker 1>nest to know a local.

0:33:32.880 --> 0:33:35.760
<v Speaker 4>No, no, you can't talk to everyone, I mean even

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:38.440
<v Speaker 4>the old people talking grist. You can go to church,

0:33:38.520 --> 0:33:41.000
<v Speaker 4>I mean the you Christians. There is a lot of

0:33:41.080 --> 0:33:43.240
<v Speaker 4>Christian people here live with us.

0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:47.080
<v Speaker 1>It's okay, So you were talking about sort of how

0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 1>the media portrays I ran, how do you feel like, uh,

0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:53.080
<v Speaker 1>non Middle Eastern media portrays Kuwait.

0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:58.520
<v Speaker 4>I mean everyone to think Kuwait is a cross country.

0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:00.880
<v Speaker 4>I mean they don't have the trouble with any country

0:34:00.880 --> 0:34:03.800
<v Speaker 4>in the world except just one or two maybe, but

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:07.280
<v Speaker 4>everyone like Kuwait, everyone respected. I mean, no one is

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:10.799
<v Speaker 4>talking bad about quit. You can go to news. I

0:34:10.800 --> 0:34:13.400
<v Speaker 4>mean USA helped quite a lot during the golf for

0:34:13.600 --> 0:34:16.200
<v Speaker 4>the second gold for and now they're helping with the

0:34:16.280 --> 0:34:18.240
<v Speaker 4>COVID and those things.

0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, can Americans go to Kuwait right I

0:34:22.320 --> 0:34:23.560
<v Speaker 1>don't know if you have any idea about this, but

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:28.879
<v Speaker 1>can Americans go to Kuwait right now? With COVID shit? Yeah?

0:34:29.000 --> 0:34:32.959
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just saw in Tectochia like three days ago,

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:35.640
<v Speaker 4>some people come like a group of family. I think

0:34:36.920 --> 0:34:38.680
<v Speaker 4>for a week afterwo they think here.

0:34:40.719 --> 0:34:42.560
<v Speaker 1>So you said you left to travel. Are there places

0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:44.719
<v Speaker 1>that you have not yet been to that you are

0:34:44.800 --> 0:34:45.360
<v Speaker 1>on your list?

0:34:48.440 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 4>Like a country or places.

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:54.040
<v Speaker 1>In Kuwait, anywhere? I guess I guess I meant countries.

0:34:56.360 --> 0:34:59.680
<v Speaker 4>Well, if it was to me, I like to go

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:03.200
<v Speaker 4>more to Asia, not in the West, you know, Europe, Usa.

0:35:03.320 --> 0:35:06.920
<v Speaker 4>I mean I look at them everywhere in the in Instagram, snapchat,

0:35:06.960 --> 0:35:09.880
<v Speaker 4>everywhere I go. I want to explore places that no

0:35:10.080 --> 0:35:13.760
<v Speaker 4>body I Actually I applied for a visa for North Korea,

0:35:14.480 --> 0:35:16.840
<v Speaker 4>but I didn't get it for because of the COVID.

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:18.799
<v Speaker 1>Wait, hold on, you try.

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:23.880
<v Speaker 4>I was going to Yeah, they give they give us

0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:24.760
<v Speaker 4>a visa.

0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Yes, what were you trying to do?

0:35:27.440 --> 0:35:31.360
<v Speaker 4>I was going for a dude, It's an epic adventure.

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:33.480
<v Speaker 4>I just want to see the country, you know. I

0:35:33.520 --> 0:35:35.680
<v Speaker 4>just want to go vlogging and you know, talk to

0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:39.719
<v Speaker 4>people or anything. They told me to try again, like

0:35:40.400 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 4>in the next year.

0:35:42.080 --> 0:35:44.360
<v Speaker 1>Then Jordan, you wanted to go. You wanted to do

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:45.000
<v Speaker 1>a vlog there.

0:35:45.040 --> 0:35:50.760
<v Speaker 4>You said, yeah, I mean there is a youth logs

0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:53.440
<v Speaker 4>in the YouTube you can see in Arabic language in English.

0:35:53.480 --> 0:35:54.920
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I want to be one of them. I

0:35:54.920 --> 0:35:57.400
<v Speaker 4>want to explore the country. I want to see that becautory.

0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:00.160
<v Speaker 4>Maybe it's a it's a good country, like you know

0:36:00.200 --> 0:36:02.640
<v Speaker 4>on when everyone says it bad, but actually it's a

0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:04.719
<v Speaker 4>good I don't know. I just want to see what's

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:05.440
<v Speaker 4>my own eyes.

0:36:06.880 --> 0:36:08.680
<v Speaker 1>I like that you seem like you got an adventurous

0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:11.000
<v Speaker 1>spirit and you seem like, uh, you know, as you

0:36:11.040 --> 0:36:13.080
<v Speaker 1>said you don't want to take anyone's word for anything

0:36:13.160 --> 0:36:15.480
<v Speaker 1>unless if you actually are able to see it with

0:36:15.520 --> 0:36:21.120
<v Speaker 1>your own eyes. Yeah, I guess you'd whatever version they

0:36:21.160 --> 0:36:21.879
<v Speaker 1>would let you see.

0:36:21.960 --> 0:36:30.200
<v Speaker 5>But I thought I didn't hear that, I said, I

0:36:30.200 --> 0:36:32.319
<v Speaker 5>guess I don't think.

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:34.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, sure, you guys do whatever you want.

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:39.400
<v Speaker 4>Uh. In the Old country and everything, we don't have

0:36:39.520 --> 0:36:44.760
<v Speaker 4>text like other countries. I think there's a few countries

0:36:44.800 --> 0:36:47.840
<v Speaker 4>that don't have like us, and so they didn't have

0:36:47.960 --> 0:36:51.719
<v Speaker 4>but no they have. So we don't have texts and everything.

0:36:53.480 --> 0:36:57.439
<v Speaker 4>You know, that's why everything is cheap. Yeah, we don't

0:36:57.440 --> 0:37:00.319
<v Speaker 4>pay text you know, like tex for the house talk

0:37:00.400 --> 0:37:00.839
<v Speaker 4>for the car.

0:37:02.080 --> 0:37:04.600
<v Speaker 1>So if you don't pay tax, how do how does

0:37:04.680 --> 0:37:07.880
<v Speaker 1>the coation? Is that aquation.

0:37:09.000 --> 0:37:10.480
<v Speaker 4>Good? Quite?

0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:14.880
<v Speaker 1>How How does how does make any money? If you

0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:15.600
<v Speaker 1>guys have tax?

0:37:17.480 --> 0:37:19.920
<v Speaker 4>I mean they say a little, so many aisles, they

0:37:19.920 --> 0:37:23.759
<v Speaker 4>have so many things to deport outside. It's basically everything free.

0:37:24.160 --> 0:37:26.200
<v Speaker 4>When I go to the hospital, it's free. I get

0:37:26.239 --> 0:37:30.480
<v Speaker 4>free medication, I free cares anything any anywhere I go,

0:37:30.560 --> 0:37:32.040
<v Speaker 4>I just free. You know.

0:37:32.280 --> 0:37:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Damn.

0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:34.920
<v Speaker 4>Even when I buy a car, I just pay for

0:37:34.960 --> 0:37:37.800
<v Speaker 4>the car, not and the extra tags and the protection

0:37:37.920 --> 0:37:39.880
<v Speaker 4>and the blah blah of things.

0:37:41.239 --> 0:37:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Quait sounds pretty tense.

0:37:45.120 --> 0:37:47.600
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean that's a good thing to live here

0:37:47.640 --> 0:37:48.239
<v Speaker 4>in Middle East.

0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:52.040
<v Speaker 1>Well, mister cat, you know I'm gonna I'm gonna do

0:37:52.120 --> 0:37:53.640
<v Speaker 1>for the end of this car, I want to I'm

0:37:53.640 --> 0:37:57.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna let your uncle read the chat, and if the

0:37:57.160 --> 0:38:00.600
<v Speaker 1>chat has any good questions for you, your own can ask.

0:38:02.040 --> 0:38:03.640
<v Speaker 1>I stuffed that coming.

0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:12.439
<v Speaker 4>So quit is paradise, he said yes, and he said

0:38:12.560 --> 0:38:14.360
<v Speaker 4>hi to everyone.

0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:18.960
<v Speaker 1>Someone in the chats that I mean lexic.

0:38:22.719 --> 0:38:24.920
<v Speaker 4>No, it isn't true. You know, if you want to

0:38:25.000 --> 0:38:27.880
<v Speaker 4>live a busy life, just come here, you know. I

0:38:27.920 --> 0:38:31.160
<v Speaker 4>mean I study in the university and I get and

0:38:31.400 --> 0:38:34.160
<v Speaker 4>I get paid every month. You know, the university just

0:38:34.160 --> 0:38:36.239
<v Speaker 4>give me money, like three hundred dollars every month.

0:38:37.480 --> 0:38:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Universe study, I don't think anything.

0:38:41.400 --> 0:38:49.600
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I can study some masters. And there is a question,

0:38:49.680 --> 0:38:52.360
<v Speaker 4>he said, what's your favorite food dish? I mean, we

0:38:52.440 --> 0:38:56.319
<v Speaker 4>have every restaurant here America restaurant we have also, but

0:38:56.520 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 4>I like Arabic wood more like much boo the eye.

0:38:59.239 --> 0:39:02.080
<v Speaker 4>It's called it's a rise with a chicken. You know,

0:39:02.160 --> 0:39:03.880
<v Speaker 4>it's so delicious. Everyone like it.

0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:10.319
<v Speaker 1>Uh, somebody wants to know how the air conditioning is.

0:39:12.680 --> 0:39:16.000
<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's a hundred degrees outside and in the

0:39:16.040 --> 0:39:18.600
<v Speaker 4>house it's so comfortableness. I'm working jacket, I'm wearing a

0:39:18.840 --> 0:39:21.080
<v Speaker 4>check it right now. You know, heavery close.

0:39:22.040 --> 0:39:27.279
<v Speaker 1>Somebody said, we have Someone says, how is Kuwait for

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:28.640
<v Speaker 1>women's rights?

0:39:31.040 --> 0:39:34.840
<v Speaker 4>I mean they have their rights. You know, no one cares.

0:39:34.840 --> 0:39:37.200
<v Speaker 4>No one saying no, we don't have blah blah blah

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:39.799
<v Speaker 4>like any other countries. They have their own rights. You know,

0:39:41.239 --> 0:39:43.760
<v Speaker 4>we respect them, they respect us. We live in together.

0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:49.600
<v Speaker 4>We have actually in Congress, we have women in Congress.

0:39:49.600 --> 0:39:52.160
<v Speaker 4>So many women's in Congress. They're not talking about the

0:39:52.200 --> 0:39:53.319
<v Speaker 4>women the woman.

0:39:53.960 --> 0:39:58.920
<v Speaker 1>Can women drive in Kuwait? Someone asked that, oh, yes.

0:39:58.880 --> 0:40:01.799
<v Speaker 4>They can, Yeah, yeah they can't sense. I don't know.

0:40:01.920 --> 0:40:03.440
<v Speaker 4>Fifty years ago, so many.

0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:08.880
<v Speaker 1>Years someone said they have recreational drugs. I'm going to

0:40:08.920 --> 0:40:10.560
<v Speaker 1>assume if they don't have alcohol, they don't have.

0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:18.360
<v Speaker 4>Weed, they don't spatia and also like alcohol. You know, okay,

0:40:18.360 --> 0:40:18.640
<v Speaker 4>so what.

0:40:19.239 --> 0:40:22.239
<v Speaker 1>If if you got if you got caught with alcohol

0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:25.080
<v Speaker 1>or weed in Kuwait? How bad would it be? Like?

0:40:25.120 --> 0:40:27.560
<v Speaker 1>What would you know? Like, what what would the boot?

0:40:27.920 --> 0:40:31.880
<v Speaker 4>But you just go if you go for jail, just

0:40:32.120 --> 0:40:35.560
<v Speaker 4>living one night if they release you, nothing bad, it's easy.

0:40:36.560 --> 0:40:38.680
<v Speaker 1>Someone wants to know what gay right now?

0:40:42.040 --> 0:40:47.000
<v Speaker 4>Okay, about that. We don't have lgbt's right in Kuwait.

0:40:47.080 --> 0:40:51.000
<v Speaker 4>I mean it's not like we hate them, but they

0:40:51.080 --> 0:40:53.080
<v Speaker 4>got to wait. You know, they don't go to jail

0:40:53.200 --> 0:40:55.640
<v Speaker 4>to punish it. There's nobody cares about them. Okay, you

0:40:55.680 --> 0:40:58.160
<v Speaker 4>can live with your life the way you want. We

0:40:58.200 --> 0:41:00.160
<v Speaker 4>don't give a ship like with everyone saying.

0:41:01.560 --> 0:41:07.759
<v Speaker 1>All right, that sounds like a sounds like an answer. Chah,

0:41:07.800 --> 0:41:09.760
<v Speaker 1>any other questions about kuwaits.

0:41:11.920 --> 0:41:15.839
<v Speaker 4>Any other questions? It says we legal and Kuwait. Yeah,

0:41:15.880 --> 0:41:18.520
<v Speaker 4>it's no, it's not a criminal. It just if they

0:41:18.600 --> 0:41:20.160
<v Speaker 4>got you with the weird there, you will go to

0:41:20.719 --> 0:41:23.440
<v Speaker 4>you will get away. It's okay, just one night, Jim,

0:41:24.760 --> 0:41:25.040
<v Speaker 4>all right.

0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Last question. Someone wants to know what club scene is.

0:41:27.840 --> 0:41:35.320
<v Speaker 4>Like, okay, just private clubs. No, it's not public everyone.

0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 4>We have the music festivals. We get people from all

0:41:38.719 --> 0:41:42.440
<v Speaker 4>the world, you know, Japan, American, Italian, everywhere.

0:41:46.160 --> 0:41:48.439
<v Speaker 1>Oh, actually, okay, this will be the last question. Does

0:41:48.480 --> 0:41:51.600
<v Speaker 1>anything suck about Kuwait? You've been saying all the good stuff,

0:41:51.600 --> 0:41:54.760
<v Speaker 1>but every no place is perfect. You kind of glossed

0:41:54.760 --> 0:41:55.839
<v Speaker 1>over the gay stuff. A little bit.

0:41:55.840 --> 0:42:02.600
<v Speaker 4>But let me ask what kwait? Okay, what do you

0:42:02.600 --> 0:42:05.200
<v Speaker 4>think about goes? Is there any anything suckses that I

0:42:05.200 --> 0:42:05.640
<v Speaker 4>can talk?

0:42:09.040 --> 0:42:09.680
<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm asking.

0:42:12.040 --> 0:42:15.520
<v Speaker 4>Okay, there is a little bit racist between like let's say,

0:42:16.120 --> 0:42:20.800
<v Speaker 4>for An for an Indian people. I know, just because

0:42:20.880 --> 0:42:23.600
<v Speaker 4>there are just a worker. You know, it's just work.

0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:26.279
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't know how to say it. But

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<v Speaker 4>I did not think that you will notice it. Just

0:42:28.840 --> 0:42:34.280
<v Speaker 4>you think sometimes you see, not always from all people.

0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:40.440
<v Speaker 4>Especially did you say racism not for everyone, just for

0:42:40.600 --> 0:42:43.160
<v Speaker 4>Egyptian and Indian? I mean, to be honest, they deserve

0:42:43.160 --> 0:42:45.680
<v Speaker 4>it, it did They just destroying the country if you want,

0:42:46.640 --> 0:42:47.359
<v Speaker 4>you want to do it.

0:42:48.080 --> 0:42:51.359
<v Speaker 1>I won't get involved in that. But uh, mister Cat,

0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:53.000
<v Speaker 1>is there anything you want to say to the people

0:42:53.000 --> 0:42:54.120
<v Speaker 1>of the computer before we go?

0:42:57.640 --> 0:43:01.120
<v Speaker 4>It was nice to talk to you guys. I yes,

0:43:01.520 --> 0:43:06.719
<v Speaker 4>someone asks we have apeak donut you have just let

0:43:06.760 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 4>me just say anything, okay, Chrispy donnut. Someone asking their comments.

0:43:10.880 --> 0:43:15.319
<v Speaker 4>We have every restaurant, every American restaurant, everything you can name,

0:43:15.360 --> 0:43:17.680
<v Speaker 4>we have it there. It's just the different is we

0:43:17.680 --> 0:43:19.040
<v Speaker 4>don't have that song.

0:43:21.080 --> 0:43:25.120
<v Speaker 1>Well, mister Kat, thank you for sharing with us. I

0:43:25.120 --> 0:43:27.239
<v Speaker 1>feel like I got to know. I'm dying to go

0:43:27.280 --> 0:43:29.520
<v Speaker 1>to Kuwait. I might hate you up if I if

0:43:29.560 --> 0:43:31.680
<v Speaker 1>I end up going there. You could do a little thing.

0:43:31.719 --> 0:43:32.680
<v Speaker 1>We could do a Gecko video.

0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:34.960
<v Speaker 4>Save my number if any time you want to come,

0:43:35.440 --> 0:43:37.759
<v Speaker 4>just give me a call. You're always a.

0:43:37.719 --> 0:43:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Real number I have. I assume to go to hotel.

0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:42.480
<v Speaker 1>I assume this is the this is a WhatsApp number.

0:43:45.080 --> 0:43:48.520
<v Speaker 4>Uh not Actually I think it's a fake number. But

0:43:48.760 --> 0:43:49.279
<v Speaker 4>I can't send.

0:43:50.600 --> 0:43:53.319
<v Speaker 1>But thank you very much for calling mister kat and

0:43:53.719 --> 0:43:56.080
<v Speaker 1>Wishield guest of the day. I know it's it's.

0:43:55.880 --> 0:43:59.799
<v Speaker 4>A pleasure to you, and I hope I have a

0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:06.399
<v Speaker 4>I think it's a nice Yeah, okay, happy for of July.

0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:10.520
<v Speaker 4>Actually and yeah, he's he's saying happy for July. And

0:44:10.600 --> 0:44:14.080
<v Speaker 4>good night America. I'm sick. Hey, have a good morning,

0:44:16.160 --> 0:44:18.000
<v Speaker 4>have a good say thank you, thank you so much.

0:44:22.360 --> 0:44:25.200
<v Speaker 1>All right, if you can handle like a little bit

0:44:25.239 --> 0:44:34.440
<v Speaker 1>of racism and uh uh ambiguous gay rights and no pork,

0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:43.560
<v Speaker 1>then come to Kuwait. Hello, how are we going? Is

0:44:43.600 --> 0:44:44.120
<v Speaker 1>this Rob?

0:44:44.840 --> 0:44:45.080
<v Speaker 4>Yes?

0:44:45.160 --> 0:44:46.439
<v Speaker 3>This is this therapy back?

0:44:47.239 --> 0:44:48.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? How's it going? Rob?

0:44:50.320 --> 0:44:51.720
<v Speaker 3>Not too bad? How about yourself?

0:44:53.800 --> 0:44:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Not too bad? Uh? Well, it says here Rob that

0:44:59.680 --> 0:45:02.920
<v Speaker 1>you have dabbled with ecstasy for the first time this evening.

0:45:04.480 --> 0:45:06.799
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I did. I'm feeling kind of weird as I

0:45:06.800 --> 0:45:09.440
<v Speaker 3>sit in my room and just stare on my white walls.

0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Are you Are you rolling currently?

0:45:14.040 --> 0:45:14.480
<v Speaker 4>Uh? No?

0:45:14.760 --> 0:45:16.400
<v Speaker 3>This is about an hour ago?

0:45:17.680 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay, and how did How did the experience fair for you?

0:45:23.520 --> 0:45:25.280
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I mean the whole thing of leading

0:45:25.320 --> 0:45:29.239
<v Speaker 3>into the experience is just me being thirty five year

0:45:29.280 --> 0:45:32.760
<v Speaker 3>old man, losing my life, going down the drain, getting

0:45:32.760 --> 0:45:37.360
<v Speaker 3>a divorce, losing my house, losing my business, kind of

0:45:37.400 --> 0:45:40.279
<v Speaker 3>just pear pressure me into doing something different tonight and

0:45:40.960 --> 0:45:43.359
<v Speaker 3>around a couple of friends and they decided to see

0:45:43.400 --> 0:45:46.319
<v Speaker 3>if I want to try something new, and I said, sure,

0:45:46.400 --> 0:45:48.600
<v Speaker 3>why not? Have nothing else to lose the life, so

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:49.880
<v Speaker 3>let's just go for it.

0:45:49.920 --> 0:45:51.720
<v Speaker 1>And wait a minute, Wait a minute. So the losing

0:45:51.760 --> 0:45:55.719
<v Speaker 1>your life, you, losing business, losing divorce thing is that you?

0:45:55.880 --> 0:45:56.680
<v Speaker 1>Or is that your friend?

0:45:58.360 --> 0:45:59.000
<v Speaker 4>No, that's me.

0:45:59.560 --> 0:46:02.160
<v Speaker 3>So I was hanging out with some friends on try

0:46:02.200 --> 0:46:06.360
<v Speaker 3>to clear my head and try to wrap my head around. Unfortunately,

0:46:06.480 --> 0:46:08.879
<v Speaker 3>just wind up getting wrapped around a drug that I've

0:46:08.880 --> 0:46:10.520
<v Speaker 3>never done before instead.

0:46:10.920 --> 0:46:14.120
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you'll are you it says you're twenty eight?

0:46:14.200 --> 0:46:15.319
<v Speaker 1>Is that a lie? You thirty five?

0:46:16.239 --> 0:46:16.279
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:46:16.560 --> 0:46:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Sorry, I'm just honest. So my birthdays eighty seven, so

0:46:19.920 --> 0:46:20.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm thirty five.

0:46:20.840 --> 0:46:21.920
<v Speaker 4>I'm just all over.

0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:23.960
<v Speaker 3>Like I said, I'm staring at the white walls expaying

0:46:24.040 --> 0:46:25.680
<v Speaker 3>so something I've never done before.

0:46:25.800 --> 0:46:29.200
<v Speaker 1>So all right, So I mean, how about how did you?

0:46:29.719 --> 0:46:31.560
<v Speaker 1>How how was the experience for you?

0:46:31.680 --> 0:46:31.800
<v Speaker 4>Did you?

0:46:31.760 --> 0:46:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Would you say? Would you rade it a good one

0:46:33.239 --> 0:46:33.960
<v Speaker 1>or a bad one?

0:46:36.320 --> 0:46:38.360
<v Speaker 3>But here it wasn't that bad. It was actually actually

0:46:38.400 --> 0:46:40.600
<v Speaker 3>pretty cool. I'm actually determined whether I should try some

0:46:40.680 --> 0:46:42.799
<v Speaker 3>more or not, if I should be turned to something else.

0:46:43.800 --> 0:46:47.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well let me let's let's dive into some stuff

0:46:47.480 --> 0:46:49.719
<v Speaker 1>real quick. Because you're saying all these bad things, you

0:46:49.840 --> 0:46:54.759
<v Speaker 1>got to divorce, your business is failing, uh whatnot. But

0:46:54.880 --> 0:46:59.239
<v Speaker 1>when you're on ecstasy, I find that you're you like,

0:46:59.520 --> 0:47:04.040
<v Speaker 1>can't at least for me, I find that I can't

0:47:04.400 --> 0:47:07.000
<v Speaker 1>think of anything negative. I find that my brain is

0:47:07.080 --> 0:47:10.759
<v Speaker 1>only focused on all the positive feelings in life. Did

0:47:10.800 --> 0:47:12.960
<v Speaker 1>you find that to be a similar thing?

0:47:15.040 --> 0:47:17.600
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I haven't really had anything. I mean,

0:47:17.640 --> 0:47:19.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm in a happy mood right now. It makes me.

0:47:19.800 --> 0:47:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, exactly right, now I'm talking about right now, yeah.

0:47:23.560 --> 0:47:25.400
<v Speaker 3>Right now. Yeah. I feel like I'm just like on

0:47:25.480 --> 0:47:27.600
<v Speaker 3>top of the road and I have nothing to lose.

0:47:28.360 --> 0:47:32.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I feel like nothing can get in my way.

0:47:32.719 --> 0:47:34.239
<v Speaker 3>I can just go out and do anything I want

0:47:34.320 --> 0:47:34.920
<v Speaker 3>to do right now?

0:47:36.120 --> 0:47:41.719
<v Speaker 1>Hm, what do you want to do? Uh?

0:47:42.320 --> 0:47:43.120
<v Speaker 4>Tix my life?

0:47:43.520 --> 0:47:46.160
<v Speaker 3>Try to go back up the round zero, get back

0:47:46.160 --> 0:47:49.319
<v Speaker 3>to where I was. I don't know if I want

0:47:49.360 --> 0:47:52.680
<v Speaker 3>to do it again, because just like I said, it

0:47:52.719 --> 0:47:54.560
<v Speaker 3>makes you forget about everything in life.

0:47:55.080 --> 0:47:56.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I.

0:47:56.480 --> 0:47:59.480
<v Speaker 3>Mean the only thing I've ever ever done side shying

0:47:59.520 --> 0:48:01.120
<v Speaker 3>that to night to smoke a little bit of pot

0:48:01.160 --> 0:48:04.480
<v Speaker 3>here and there. But tonight was the first. So I

0:48:04.520 --> 0:48:05.839
<v Speaker 3>don't know if it should be a last or if

0:48:05.880 --> 0:48:08.279
<v Speaker 3>I should go for it again. I just don't know.

0:48:08.320 --> 0:48:10.560
<v Speaker 3>I don't have nobody, I really. I mean a lot

0:48:10.600 --> 0:48:13.799
<v Speaker 3>of my friends are drug addicts, so it's not like

0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:17.600
<v Speaker 3>I could term to them for my problems. So just

0:48:17.640 --> 0:48:19.799
<v Speaker 3>with losing my job, I'm not having insurance, not like

0:48:19.840 --> 0:48:22.920
<v Speaker 3>go see a therapist or anything. They're expensive by the pocket,

0:48:22.920 --> 0:48:24.120
<v Speaker 3>and I don't have that kind of money.

0:48:24.600 --> 0:48:30.920
<v Speaker 1>It's true, they are expensive. Okay, so you don't, all right,

0:48:30.920 --> 0:48:33.719
<v Speaker 1>So what's the laundry list again. You you got divorced,

0:48:33.760 --> 0:48:35.759
<v Speaker 1>your business is failing. There's a third thing. What's the

0:48:35.760 --> 0:48:36.200
<v Speaker 1>third thing?

0:48:37.840 --> 0:48:42.680
<v Speaker 3>Just a divorce, my business failing pretty much, just everything

0:48:42.680 --> 0:48:44.520
<v Speaker 3>in life's going wrong pretty much. I forgot what the

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:45.120
<v Speaker 3>third thing was.

0:48:45.920 --> 0:48:46.840
<v Speaker 1>The kids.

0:48:49.040 --> 0:48:50.360
<v Speaker 3>I do not have kids.

0:48:50.600 --> 0:48:53.719
<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's great. I feel like I've always felt like

0:48:54.560 --> 0:48:58.400
<v Speaker 1>if unless if you have kids or go to jail,

0:48:58.960 --> 0:49:01.000
<v Speaker 1>you can you can bounce act from anything. I think

0:49:01.040 --> 0:49:03.279
<v Speaker 1>you can bounce back. What's your name, Rob, Rob? I

0:49:03.320 --> 0:49:05.239
<v Speaker 1>think you can bounce back. I mean, if you had kids,

0:49:05.239 --> 0:49:07.200
<v Speaker 1>you'd be fucked. But you don't have kids. That's great.

0:49:08.400 --> 0:49:10.840
<v Speaker 1>So you're not really responsible for anyone except for yourself.

0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:14.719
<v Speaker 1>That's great. I think you can bounce back, Rob, What

0:49:14.760 --> 0:49:16.479
<v Speaker 1>do you What was the business? Can I ask?

0:49:18.160 --> 0:49:20.600
<v Speaker 3>I was actually owning a power washing company. I was

0:49:20.640 --> 0:49:22.520
<v Speaker 3>doing power washing and houses and stuff.

0:49:23.600 --> 0:49:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Why what happened to make it fail?

0:49:31.320 --> 0:49:31.640
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:49:31.640 --> 0:49:33.319
<v Speaker 3>I just feel like the state I live in just

0:49:33.440 --> 0:49:35.720
<v Speaker 3>isn't good. Like I live in Connecticut, so it gets cold,

0:49:35.719 --> 0:49:37.560
<v Speaker 3>it gets hot, you can only do it like three

0:49:37.600 --> 0:49:40.360
<v Speaker 3>months four months out of the year. So I don't know.

0:49:40.360 --> 0:49:42.319
<v Speaker 3>I just tried to run with an opportunity. I feel

0:49:42.320 --> 0:49:45.120
<v Speaker 3>it just wasn't the right one. So I just don't

0:49:45.120 --> 0:49:46.960
<v Speaker 3>know if I should try to take a different course,

0:49:48.400 --> 0:49:49.640
<v Speaker 3>maybe find something else.

0:49:52.920 --> 0:49:55.520
<v Speaker 1>What do you do? You have a job that you

0:49:55.560 --> 0:49:57.240
<v Speaker 1>do in addition to the business, or was the business

0:49:57.280 --> 0:49:57.960
<v Speaker 1>you're only income?

0:49:59.239 --> 0:50:00.640
<v Speaker 3>The business was my only income?

0:50:01.680 --> 0:50:02.000
<v Speaker 1>Okay?

0:50:03.000 --> 0:50:03.120
<v Speaker 5>Uh?

0:50:03.280 --> 0:50:05.000
<v Speaker 1>Is there a job you could pick up while you

0:50:05.040 --> 0:50:06.600
<v Speaker 1>try to start a different business.

0:50:08.760 --> 0:50:12.040
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I can try, but I don't know this

0:50:12.160 --> 0:50:14.239
<v Speaker 3>is gonna well, I don't think ectually. I don't know

0:50:14.239 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 3>if that will affect your credibility and taking the drives.

0:50:16.680 --> 0:50:18.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't even think there's a drug test anymore. It's

0:50:18.440 --> 0:50:21.040
<v Speaker 3>been a while to have a job. I don't even know.

0:50:21.760 --> 0:50:24.880
<v Speaker 1>I kind of hold on, hold on. Well, so if

0:50:24.880 --> 0:50:27.360
<v Speaker 1>you were to find another job, what would the industry be,

0:50:27.400 --> 0:50:30.160
<v Speaker 1>would be like for a different power washing company?

0:50:31.480 --> 0:50:32.520
<v Speaker 3>Probably truck driving?

0:50:32.760 --> 0:50:34.000
<v Speaker 4>You don't want to be a truck driver?

0:50:35.120 --> 0:50:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Do they drug test for truck driving?

0:50:39.000 --> 0:50:40.520
<v Speaker 3>Well, I know you got to go through your CDL.

0:50:40.719 --> 0:50:42.160
<v Speaker 3>So out here, I mean, I don't know how any

0:50:42.200 --> 0:50:43.920
<v Speaker 3>other stages, but I know out here in Connecticut you

0:50:43.920 --> 0:50:46.200
<v Speaker 3>gotta go get a CDL. If you gotta pay for school,

0:50:46.840 --> 0:50:48.560
<v Speaker 3>you got to take your class you go for school

0:50:48.600 --> 0:50:50.360
<v Speaker 3>for about six months to a year, depend on what

0:50:50.480 --> 0:50:54.279
<v Speaker 3>cl he's going for, and uh, you know, then it

0:50:54.320 --> 0:50:56.200
<v Speaker 3>all goes from there. So I'm assuming you got to

0:50:56.200 --> 0:50:57.759
<v Speaker 3>apply for a company or they help you get a

0:50:57.840 --> 0:51:00.160
<v Speaker 3>job from once you're out of school and everything.

0:51:02.400 --> 0:51:03.400
<v Speaker 1>All right, so it's doable.

0:51:07.480 --> 0:51:08.239
<v Speaker 4>Sorry, my bad?

0:51:08.880 --> 0:51:09.360
<v Speaker 1>What happened?

0:51:09.480 --> 0:51:09.920
<v Speaker 3>Freaking out?

0:51:10.760 --> 0:51:12.200
<v Speaker 1>It sounded like you were trying to kill a fly.

0:51:14.040 --> 0:51:15.680
<v Speaker 3>I don't know what the hell that was. I'm just

0:51:15.719 --> 0:51:17.920
<v Speaker 3>like bugging out right now. These walls are just sleaky?

0:51:18.920 --> 0:51:21.279
<v Speaker 1>Are you are? Are you? It was that? What was

0:51:21.320 --> 0:51:22.120
<v Speaker 1>that noise? Just now?

0:51:23.880 --> 0:51:25.520
<v Speaker 3>Oh? That was my wall? I think I just put

0:51:25.520 --> 0:51:26.000
<v Speaker 3>a hole in it.

0:51:26.760 --> 0:51:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Did you you punched a hole in your wall?

0:51:29.920 --> 0:51:30.400
<v Speaker 4>I think so?

0:51:30.840 --> 0:51:32.040
<v Speaker 3>Can't take you dark?

0:51:32.960 --> 0:51:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Kay?

0:51:35.160 --> 0:51:35.520
<v Speaker 4>Hmmm?

0:51:38.680 --> 0:51:40.120
<v Speaker 1>Punched holes on? What? What?

0:51:40.120 --> 0:51:40.359
<v Speaker 2>What?

0:51:40.360 --> 0:51:40.560
<v Speaker 4>What?

0:51:40.560 --> 0:51:43.160
<v Speaker 1>What? What? What? Who is that?

0:51:45.080 --> 0:51:46.120
<v Speaker 3>What is that?

0:51:46.960 --> 0:51:47.080
<v Speaker 4>Oh?

0:51:47.120 --> 0:51:47.520
<v Speaker 3>My god?

0:51:48.160 --> 0:51:53.600
<v Speaker 1>What's going on? What's happening here? Rob What are you saying?

0:51:55.120 --> 0:51:57.560
<v Speaker 3>I don't know? There's like these black shadows everywhere?

0:51:58.520 --> 0:52:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Is that, Robbie? Sure it's not just a shadow.

0:52:01.520 --> 0:52:03.880
<v Speaker 3>I don't think so it's dark where I am outside?

0:52:04.480 --> 0:52:05.799
<v Speaker 1>Was it you just yelling? Just now?

0:52:07.640 --> 0:52:09.920
<v Speaker 3>I think I should somebody walking by my house?

0:52:10.840 --> 0:52:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Are you alone or you with people?

0:52:13.719 --> 0:52:14.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm alone right now?

0:52:15.960 --> 0:52:16.520
<v Speaker 1>Where where?

0:52:16.520 --> 0:52:16.759
<v Speaker 4>Where?

0:52:16.760 --> 0:52:18.720
<v Speaker 1>Where were your friends that you were hanging out with earlier?

0:52:20.560 --> 0:52:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:52:21.080 --> 0:52:23.919
<v Speaker 3>Branford, I think like an hour of like a half

0:52:23.920 --> 0:52:26.440
<v Speaker 3>hour from where I live you.

0:52:26.360 --> 0:52:28.759
<v Speaker 1>Were hanging you were hanging out with them half How

0:52:28.880 --> 0:52:29.600
<v Speaker 1>How did you get home?

0:52:31.640 --> 0:52:34.160
<v Speaker 3>I think I drove my cars in the driveway.

0:52:34.440 --> 0:52:36.720
<v Speaker 1>Right, Rob.

0:52:40.200 --> 0:52:42.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm still there, Rob.

0:52:42.640 --> 0:52:45.879
<v Speaker 1>I think I think I think I think you should.

0:52:45.920 --> 0:52:47.040
<v Speaker 1>I think you should go to sleep? Rob?

0:52:49.360 --> 0:52:51.040
<v Speaker 3>Did I take anything to go to sleeper? So I

0:52:51.160 --> 0:52:52.120
<v Speaker 3>just try to fall asleep.

0:52:52.600 --> 0:52:54.239
<v Speaker 1>I think you should just try to follows. I think

0:52:54.600 --> 0:52:56.840
<v Speaker 1>I think you should, Rob. I think you Rob this.

0:52:56.880 --> 0:52:58.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm gona tell you this. I don't think you're fucked, Okay,

0:52:58.760 --> 0:53:00.520
<v Speaker 1>I I mean I would dry.

0:53:05.040 --> 0:53:05.360
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

0:53:05.360 --> 0:53:07.439
<v Speaker 1>Hell is that Bro Robbie there?

0:53:08.080 --> 0:53:11.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Yeah, I'm still here. This thing is fretty. You're black?

0:53:13.120 --> 0:53:13.680
<v Speaker 1>Rob? Who?

0:53:13.840 --> 0:53:13.960
<v Speaker 3>Rob?

0:53:14.000 --> 0:53:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Who are yelling at?

0:53:15.920 --> 0:53:16.240
<v Speaker 4>Okay?

0:53:18.120 --> 0:53:20.480
<v Speaker 3>I think Robot is trying to come to my house? Rob.

0:53:20.480 --> 0:53:28.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't think any roped. Hello are you there?

0:53:29.840 --> 0:53:32.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm still here. I'm just trying to see who's out here.

0:53:32.560 --> 0:53:32.719
<v Speaker 4>Rob.

0:53:32.760 --> 0:53:33.600
<v Speaker 1>How are you feeling right now?

0:53:36.160 --> 0:53:38.120
<v Speaker 3>Did he Rob?

0:53:38.280 --> 0:53:39.160
<v Speaker 1>You got bed?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even know where my bed is where's my best? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>Rob?

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<v Speaker 3>Rob, I think somebody's at my door right sure, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know. I hear it's laming.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell. Rob.

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<v Speaker 3>Well all right, I don't know. I think I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, Okay, are you feeling better?

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<v Speaker 3>I just need to go smoke.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, all right, where are your Rob? Where are

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<v Speaker 1>you right now?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm at my house. I think. Okay, I'm on like

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<v Speaker 3>a porch.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a you're on a porch.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm like on a porch with screen screened in

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<v Speaker 3>porch them outside of the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Kah m hm, Rob, I Rob, Man, I you sound

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<v Speaker 1>like you're bugging out. I think you should go to sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just smoking right now, trying to calm the nurse.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, man, I don't bet.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, walk to when I just came across. Because I

0:54:56.840 --> 0:54:59.200
<v Speaker 3>watched Twitch a lot and I've seen your you know,

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<v Speaker 3>your twitch therapy diagnost. I figure maybe if I talk

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<v Speaker 3>to somebody, just try to keep myself calm mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, how do you feel? How do you feel?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you feel calmer?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm smoking now?

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<v Speaker 1>If I feel okay? Good?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there everything?

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<v Speaker 4>Rob?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else that I can help you with

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<v Speaker 1>before before we go.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, I I appreciate everything. I think just

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<v Speaker 3>really helped out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good, I'm glad to hear that. Rob. Listen, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say this before we go. I really do think

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<v Speaker 1>that I think he can bounce back. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>should find some kind of help. I know it's hard

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have insurance to find a real therapist,

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<v Speaker 1>but uh, there are a lot of ways you can

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<v Speaker 1>do it. You know. There's local community centers, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>you go to the university, talk to some of the

0:55:46.719 --> 0:55:50.520
<v Speaker 1>graduate students there. Those are two options that I've researched before.

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<v Speaker 1>But stay safe, man, don't don't don't don't go. Don't

0:55:54.880 --> 0:56:00.960
<v Speaker 1>go too crazy you know? Of course? Of course, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>are you feeling okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I just write some motions though, but I appreciate have.

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<v Speaker 1>A great now of course, Man, is there is there anything?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else you want to talk about before

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<v Speaker 1>we go?

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<v Speaker 3>That's it?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>I appreciate it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Man, Listen, Like I said, I think I think

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<v Speaker 1>it a bounce back. Rob.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you. That's the most positive thing anybody said.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, are you who lives with you? Can I

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<v Speaker 1>ask you that.

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<v Speaker 3>Just me by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Mhm.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, what time is it one you guys think, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>twelve o'clock in the morning, twelve thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what are you What are you got going on tomorrow?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna relax, I think, maybe play some games.

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<v Speaker 1>Done good mm hmm. Rob, do you have ah? Do you?

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<v Speaker 1>I know you said that your friends are you said

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<v Speaker 1>your friends with drug addicts? Do you have like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you have friends that that you talk to regularly who

0:57:17.600 --> 0:57:20.520
<v Speaker 1>have drug addicts?

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<v Speaker 3>Just one but he's like go all the way out

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<v Speaker 3>with Florida mm hmm kind of far. But I mean

0:57:26.760 --> 0:57:29.320
<v Speaker 3>I've talked to him sometimes who helps me, helps me

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<v Speaker 3>through a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. Do you uh? Do you have you have

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<v Speaker 1>uh your parents that are that you have a good

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with.

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<v Speaker 3>I do, I do, but I don't talk to them

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<v Speaker 3>as often.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. Do they do? They live with in the

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<v Speaker 1>same area as.

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<v Speaker 3>You, Uh they do, about an hour about an hour

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<v Speaker 3>away from it mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Mhm.

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<v Speaker 3>But just a whole other subject. That's you know, just

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<v Speaker 3>for my mother meeting a boyfriend, I mean just being

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<v Speaker 3>with him over her own son, So you know, m

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<v Speaker 3>h I guess I'm just trying to survive, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hm.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, yeah, I don't I don't know. I think I,

0:58:21.000 --> 0:58:22.680
<v Speaker 3>like I said, maybe I just need some rest and

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<v Speaker 3>just try to find myself a fair case.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 4>Now yeah, mm hmm, k okay, No, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>There's just so much stuff mixed know what I've done.

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<v Speaker 4>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, you know, look, I mean I'm at what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I really do feel like, uh, you know, obviously, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds it sounds like everything that's happened to you has

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<v Speaker 1>been very It's like it sounds like it's a recent thing,

0:59:02.280 --> 0:59:03.240
<v Speaker 1>all this stuff happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, it's been building up somewhere over the past year

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<v Speaker 3>and nothing too pravam.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, it sounds like and I'm not a real therapist.

0:59:14.480 --> 0:59:17.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm a stupid guy in a gecko costume on the internet.

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<v Speaker 1>But it sounds like it's all happening like right fucking now,

0:59:22.440 --> 0:59:25.680
<v Speaker 1>and you're like dealing with it emotionally right fucking now.

0:59:25.840 --> 0:59:28.320
<v Speaker 1>So you're like really feeling the heights of all these

0:59:28.360 --> 0:59:32.160
<v Speaker 1>emotions right fucking now. And all these emotions are maybe

0:59:32.200 --> 0:59:35.840
<v Speaker 1>like making you feel hopeless and whatnot. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>if you get a little bit of rest. I think

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<v Speaker 1>if you be a little patient and you let some

0:59:40.360 --> 0:59:44.200
<v Speaker 1>time go by and you let the emotions Understandably, the

0:59:44.240 --> 0:59:46.720
<v Speaker 1>emotions are very high right now. But I think if

0:59:46.760 --> 0:59:50.280
<v Speaker 1>and trust me on this, if you give yourself some time,

0:59:50.480 --> 0:59:52.360
<v Speaker 1>you be a little bit patient, you let the emotions

0:59:52.400 --> 0:59:55.120
<v Speaker 1>cool down. I can tell. And I can tell this

0:59:55.200 --> 0:59:57.080
<v Speaker 1>because you started your own business before, and not a

0:59:57.120 --> 0:59:59.000
<v Speaker 1>lot of people do that. I can tell that you

0:59:59.040 --> 1:00:04.120
<v Speaker 1>have a a logical, ambitious mind. I think if you

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<v Speaker 1>let the emotions kind of simmer a little bit and

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<v Speaker 1>then you let yourself have enough time for your head

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<v Speaker 1>to be cleared, I think that you are the type

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<v Speaker 1>of guy that you're going to see a nice way

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<v Speaker 1>forward for yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I appreciate that. Thank you. And as far as your

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<v Speaker 3>comment about stupid right though, you know, I just feel

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<v Speaker 3>really helped. I means, you know, I think you and

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<v Speaker 3>McDonald's a great therapist.

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<v Speaker 1>Well thanks, I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 3>No problem.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you feeling right now? Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you're winding down? You're about to go to bed? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like you're staying up?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I'm winding down. I think I might

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<v Speaker 3>just put into the house and trying to go lay down.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, cool, I need to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah all right, Yeah I am home on a my house.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I was just zoned out. Like you said,

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<v Speaker 3>all these emotions coming together at once.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just a lot. It's a lot. But just please,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you're thinking about anything, but get

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<v Speaker 1>give be patient with yourself to let the emotional highs

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<v Speaker 1>cool down.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. I think that's what Michael trying to go. Okay, good,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh sorry, just forwarded.

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<v Speaker 1>A nice.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I gotta use the bathle well, thank you

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<v Speaker 3>again for everything. I appreciate it. I'm gonna try to

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<v Speaker 3>get some rest.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, for sure. Rob, good luck to you. I think

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<v Speaker 1>thank you a good path forward for you, and I

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<v Speaker 1>really do hope you have a good rest of the night.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>I appreciate you too, and thank you for everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So of course, man, you have a good night, you too,

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<v Speaker 1>Love you bye, Love you too. Baby. I liked Rob,

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<v Speaker 1>I did h I think I think he's gonna be okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a lot is going on with him. Sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot was going on with him, and I think, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think if he's patient and he lets the uh

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<v Speaker 1>emotional highs of everything that is going on with him,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of play out their course. Then uh, he'll he'll

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<v Speaker 1>he'll be able to use his clear headed mind to

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<v Speaker 1>move forward.

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<v Speaker 5>Really goes on.

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<v Speaker 4>The line, taking your phone calls.

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<v Speaker 3>Every night, the rely goes doing his ride.

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<v Speaker 5>He's teaching you Cloud in the mitereal line, but he's

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<v Speaker 5>not really an expert.