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Speaker 1: stop talking now and start talking start the episode. Okay, Hello, Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: is this Chrissy?

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Speaker 2: Yes it is. How are you get.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing all right? How are you doing, Chrissy?

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Speaker 3: Pretty good, Chrissy?

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Speaker 1: What is your life like? What's going on today?

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Speaker 2: Just chilling doing laundry? Not really anything fun today? Are

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Speaker 2: you talking about?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: Is my life cool today? Or what is my life like?

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Speaker 4: In general?

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Speaker 1: I let's do in general.

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Speaker 2: I'm a pretty busy person. I'm not here maybe more

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Speaker 2: than half the month or so due to work. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well okay, Well let me just bring something up here,

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Speaker 1: because you have a thing that you called in to

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Speaker 1: talk about, and we could talk about that, or we

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Speaker 1: could have a meandering conversation about just nothing in particular.

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Speaker 2: All right, so how do I narrow this down? Okay, So,

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Speaker 2: like three years ago or so, I got this job,

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Speaker 2: and long story short, I started dating the manager of

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Speaker 2: before and it kind of like it was very secretive

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Speaker 2: at first, and it kept going on and on and

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Speaker 2: like it's this big disaster now. So we kept it

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Speaker 2: a secret because our company has a pretty strict like

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Speaker 2: no dating policy because of hr issues that have happened

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Speaker 2: within the company, and so we kept it hush. And

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Speaker 2: also my brother works there, so like it would be

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Speaker 2: very weird for him to find out that, you know,

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Speaker 2: this is going on. So fast forward, like two years

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Speaker 2: I get promoted to like a corporate position and pretty

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Speaker 2: much like I got he was like kind of okay

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Speaker 2: with it at first, Like he was kind of he

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Speaker 2: was supportive. I could see that, like he was kind

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Speaker 1: Oh he was jealous that you got promoted.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't say anything.

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Speaker 1: You were promoted above him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So like now I have to tell him what

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Speaker 2: it's going on like three years now, and so nobody knows,

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Speaker 2: you know, like, and so my brother he doesn't know

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Speaker 2: still either, right, my mother knows about everything, and she's

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Speaker 2: also keeping it a secret for my brother, And so

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about telling him, but he started to

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Speaker 2: have issues at work, and my boyfriend, you know, his

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Speaker 2: stuff because my brother he earned it. Though you're not

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Speaker 2: earned it, he deserved it.

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Speaker 1: But okay, so let me let me get the straight.

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Speaker 1: Your brother is getting into some shit at work. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's he's he's fucking off. You are secretly dating his manager,

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Speaker 1: who has been, yeah, giving your brother a hard time

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Speaker 1: about all the fucking off that your brother is doing.

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Speaker 2: Right, And so my brother started getting like afterword, if

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Speaker 2: the idea his howls were hanging out, I think he

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Speaker 2: would just start talking crap about him, like how much

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Speaker 2: we live together now, and I go on business trips

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Speaker 2: asking like, you know, what's my life a homelike blah

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Speaker 2: up this whole elaborate lie about like who I live

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Speaker 2: with to them because they can't know it's one of

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Speaker 2: my friends really don't like him. They like, actually.

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Speaker 1: Your friends, So who does know your friends know?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so my immediate like close friends, my mom and

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Speaker 1: Why do your friends hate this guy?

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Speaker 4: Well, he's a.

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Speaker 2: Lot older than me, and he they feel that he's

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Speaker 2: I have tried to leave him before, not only due

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Speaker 1: I just.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to like date someone that I work with.

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Speaker 1: You know, Okay, you said you you tried to leave him.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Well, he like I would break up with him, and

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Speaker 2: then like we still work in the same place. You know,

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Speaker 2: I didn't leave jobs, and so things we just circle

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so you you tried to leave him, but

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Speaker 1: then you guys, you know, were sort of had to

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Speaker 2: So you stay together, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so I just feel bad because like he's

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Speaker 2: He's getting older, you know, so like he really wants

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Speaker 2: that's just at least not here and now, and I

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Speaker 2: just can't see myself with him any like more long term,

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Speaker 2: you know. And I feel bad that I'm like kind

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Speaker 1: But I are you waste against? I mean, like I think,

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, he he you. You are both making

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, Yeah, that's what I'm trying to remind myself

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Speaker 2: too now. So I'm just kind of like pretty much

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Speaker 2: I'm nervous to like leave and like just because I

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so I am against Like, by the way,

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Speaker 1: can I see this? Is this like a big chain?

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Speaker 1: Are you gotta tell you what? Like it is?

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Speaker 2: It's growing, It's very big in other parts of the world,

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Speaker 2: but it's throwing here, is it?

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Speaker 1: Kroger?

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Speaker 2: No, it's I don't think you would ever guess it's

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Speaker 2: not that big yet, but they're they're trying to be

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Speaker 2: I would just say it's tour it's like Asian cultural.

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Speaker 1: Is it? Is it Panda Express? Do you work at

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Speaker 1: Panda Express?

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Speaker 2: No? No, all right, I'll.

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Speaker 1: Stop trying to guess where you work. But I'm against

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Speaker 1: be a rule that you can't date, Like, it's stupid.

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Speaker 1: It's super for them to be a rule that you

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Speaker 1: can't do outside of work. I think that's stupid. Now

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Speaker 1: the rule aside, is it a bad idea to date

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Speaker 1: running into? Like yeah, totally? Ah man, So I mean

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Speaker 1: this guy, let me ask you something. Is he not

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Speaker 1: like are you? Is he not like emotionally immature enough

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Speaker 2: So I don't think?

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Speaker 1: So okay, what makes you say that.

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Speaker 2: He is very dependent?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: Like I don't know, he put this big persona up

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Speaker 2: why I'm with someone, but it was, you know, some perks,

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Speaker 2: and now I'm the one like holding the fort down.

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Speaker 2: Well I kind of even when I was making less

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Speaker 2: money than him, I still kind of was. And like, yeah, wait, sorry.

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Speaker 4: What was the question?

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Speaker 1: I was asking you if you felt like he was

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Speaker 1: you even if you guys are broken up.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing. I don't think so. But no, I

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Speaker 1: Huh. Well, listen, Uh, you have this job that you

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Speaker 1: seem like you like and care about him, would like

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Speaker 1: to stay in and would be a shame for you

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Speaker 1: to leave because of personal problems, right, and you could

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Speaker 1: you could probably say the same about him. I don't

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Speaker 1: And okay, great, it's okay. So both of you guys

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Speaker 1: love the job. You don't see this relationship working out. Uh,

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Speaker 1: he wants something. He wants kids, he wants like a

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Speaker 1: It sounds like he's older and he wants somebody who

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Speaker 1: can he he can like kind of really settle down with.

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Speaker 1: Is that what you're getting at?

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Speaker 2: Right? And Okay. So another big issue is like, like

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Speaker 2: I mentioned, I traveled very frequently for work, so I'm

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Speaker 2: a child, Like I'm not a housewife. That's not what

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Speaker 2: I signed up for. I don't mind doing all these things.

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Speaker 2: But we agreed before I moved in, like that he

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Speaker 2: like you know, doing like tours.

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Speaker 1: Or like.

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Speaker 2: Other stuff. And then like, yeah, he owes me a

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Speaker 1: Too, Why does he owe you money?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: So I went to the Bahamas with him, and I

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Speaker 2: was under the impression he went last minute because his

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Speaker 2: like out of nowhere. My boss is like, you're working

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Speaker 2: like a lot, you should just take a week off,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, okay, stay less. And it coincidentally

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Speaker 2: had was the time that he was going to the Bahamas, right,

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Speaker 2: and I thought his cousin was taking care of everything,

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Speaker 2: and I had to pay for so much stuff, like

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Speaker 2: maybe you're a lot, like maybe all not including myself,

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Speaker 2: like on him alone, maybe around a thousand dollars, which he.

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Speaker 1: Liked, but he didn't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well like for his past at least.

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Speaker 1: You know, I can think you paid for him as well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like I paid for the room and like

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Speaker 2: pretty much everything, all the food, like all the tourist

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Speaker 2: stuff we did, and there's like a lot of concert tickets.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so so listen. So so you have your issues

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Speaker 1: with these guys, is let me ask you this just

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Speaker 1: really quick so we can I want to understand exactly

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Speaker 1: where you're at with this. Is there any part of

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Speaker 1: you that wants to stay with him, or any part

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Speaker 2: The thing is, like I do love him kind of

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Speaker 2: not as much as I used to. But by the

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Speaker 2: like you would be too old, you know, like he

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Speaker 2: So here's my plan. My brother is leaving to the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right.

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Speaker 1: How many months is it?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry?

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Speaker 1: How many months is it until you until you can

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Speaker 2: What's this month? So maybe like six seven months?

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Speaker 1: Find some poor sucker of a sub letter on craigslist

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Speaker 1: if you can. Okay, what do you can? I ask?

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Speaker 1: What's state? You do you guess what city you live in?

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Speaker 1: Is that too much information?

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Speaker 3: You can guess?

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Speaker 1: But I don't want to guess a either you're willing

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Speaker 2: You had been there pretty recently. It's kind of a

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Speaker 1: If you live in a big city, you'll be able

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Speaker 1: don't wait, don't do not sit in all these resentful

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Speaker 1: dinners and uh don't don't don't sit with this in

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Speaker 1: is there anything you want to say to the people

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Speaker 4: We go.

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Speaker 2: No to think for or taking my call?

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Speaker 1: Of course, probably I'm.

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Speaker 2: Going to thanks.

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Speaker 4: I have to break it to him.

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Speaker 2: I can't keep doing this.

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Speaker 1: We're wishing you the best of luck. Chrissy, you can

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Speaker 1: do it. It's better than the alternative, the alternative. Here's

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Speaker 1: the thing, and this is I'm gonna finish with this.

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Speaker 1: The when you break up, When you break up, it's

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Speaker 2: Okay, you do, have a good night, Chris, all right,

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Speaker 1: I will say this about that call. Sitting with someone

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Speaker 1: with them for six months, like harboring some secret thing

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Speaker 1: of it. Hello, Hello, why is this? Uh says your

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Speaker 1: name is mister Kats.

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Speaker 4: Yes I am, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Where does the name mister cats come from?

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Speaker 4: I just had a chat when I was a kid.

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Speaker 4: You know, his name was mister kat and so.

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Speaker 1: You know, is that mister cat or mister Cats?

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Speaker 4: No, mister cat, just the one cat.

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Speaker 1: Out the one cat. Well, how are you doing today,

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm doing a light How are you? It's six

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Speaker 1: Me, it's six fifteen. Yes, what where you going from?

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Speaker 4: So my day just to start? You know, I'm from

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Speaker 4: Kuwait's Middle East?

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Speaker 1: Oh, so you're in Kuwait right now?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yes, what, Uh, what's what's your day?

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Speaker 4: I'm well, it's it's a sunny day. You know, it's

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Speaker 4: I'm a university student. I study history, but today I

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Speaker 1: What is life? And koait like?

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Speaker 4: To be honest, it's it's amazing. Everything is cheap right

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Speaker 4: here in cheaper than your USA. It's safe. It's so safe.

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Speaker 4: I mean I can walk like three a m outside

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Speaker 4: nobody will talk with me. I mean I can fill

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Speaker 4: off my car with guys, you know, like ten dollars,

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Speaker 1: When have you ever been to the US? No, to

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Speaker 1: be honest, have you been to places that you could

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Speaker 1: compare kuwait with when you when you say it's safe,

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Speaker 1: have you been to a place that you felt was

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Speaker 4: Not really? I mean I'm out a little bit out

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Speaker 4: So I go back to this that nobody cares. You know,

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Speaker 4: I worked in the city and it's okay, we don't

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Speaker 4: have a police, to be honest, it's not like you

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Speaker 4: say you see police everywhere. No, it's just say there

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Speaker 4: our police don't have a gun.

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Speaker 1: Yes, really, the police don't have guns in Kuwait.

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Speaker 4: To be honest, I mean, I can drive like five

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Speaker 1: I've always wanted to go to court. What what what

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Speaker 4: No, the country is called Kwait.

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Speaker 1: Oh Kwait is okay, I'm fuck, I'm so dumb. I

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Speaker 4: I know it's okay, it's a normal Everyone think it's

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Speaker 1: What do you live in a small city or in

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I live in a big city. I mean

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Speaker 4: to just exit the city to go into another city.

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Speaker 1: It says you wrote for the call Screener that you

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Speaker 1: feel life in Kuwait is an epic adventure.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if you want to have an adventure, like

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Speaker 4: you know, every people just go to Europe, to Asia,

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Speaker 4: you know, mountains, natur you come here, just look to

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't do a lot of things.

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Speaker 4: I just study it right now, but I know there

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Speaker 1: What is your favorite of all the things you can do?

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Speaker 4: I think I like that we have everything here, everything

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Speaker 1: I have to ask mister kat, who are the people

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Speaker 4: Oh, it's my uncle talking the victording for snapshot. So

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Speaker 4: actually he's reading the comments.

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Speaker 1: You know, he's your uncle, is sitting and reading the chat. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: I usually tell age, well, are you and your uncle

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Speaker 1: the same age? Oh yeah, I usually tell callers not

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not Exactually I'm just looking at the window.

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Speaker 4: You know, I live in right now, an apartment. I

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Speaker 1: What's your relationship with your uncle?

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Speaker 4: Like friendship? You know, he's a cool guy. I live

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Speaker 4: with him. He got to work and we play video

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Speaker 4: I think people say he's an old game or you know,

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Speaker 1: What says he you're twenty so is he is he

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Speaker 4: As you twenty five? I think just five four years

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Speaker 4: between us.

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00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 1: Okay, what tell me about the rest of your family?

443
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: Your your your mother or your father. You have a

444
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: good relationship with them?

445
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 4: Yes, actually I have a good relationship you know, with

446
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 4: my old family. Everyone like me with you ahead, No,

447
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 4: I just my uncle told me that someone is asking

448
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 4: is alcohol is illegally? Yeah, it's a legal It's not

449
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 4: allowed in Quit. Yeah, I'm living with my friend.

450
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: Alcohol is completely illegal and Quit.

451
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't sell it, but you can somehow, you

452
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 4: know with that just drug dealers and you know those

453
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 4: people market mister.

454
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: Cat, I gotta ask you and listen. This is a

455
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: safe space, all right, me and the people listening, we

456
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: won't tell. Yes, but have you have you ever gotten

457
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: drunk before?

458
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 4: Just the one time? Yes?

459
00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: And how was that for that one time?

460
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 4: I just I don't remember what happened, to be honest,

461
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 4: I was in a party and I happened. Yeah, I

462
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 4: don't know what I drink, you know? Yeah, okay, I

463
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 4: mean I have a bottle of two in my house.

464
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: Did you have a good time.

465
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 4: And the past? You mean? Yeah?

466
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: The party?

467
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 4: Yeah? Actually I was going with my British friends, you know.

468
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: Just you said, you said you went with your British friends.

469
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 1: Are there a lot of international people in Kuwait?

470
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 4: Oh? God? Yes, yes, there is a lot. Actually there

471
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 4: is a place near the patrol that is just all

472
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 4: Americans people. You know. Really we have a base force

473
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 4: I think based American base. We have their military base.

474
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 4: It's not a lot for everyone, but you know they

475
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 4: had everything alcoholics, which I can't buy alcohol from them

476
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 4: in the base if I I want.

477
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: Interesting out on the military base, but not anywhere else.

478
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, just Americans, you know, they like to drink. What

479
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 4: is it for them? Not for the people who what?

480
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: What do you?

481
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 5: Uh?

482
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: What do people living there who are who are local

483
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 1: to Kuwait? What do they think of the foreigners? Like

484
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: the Americans that come to live there.

485
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 4: They don't care to be honest. I just like everyone.

486
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 4: We have many I mean people India and Egyptian people

487
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 4: are more like more than the KUWAITI right here you know,

488
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 4: hm and Kuwait it's almost five million and Kuwait is

489
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 4: just like a million m hm. Oh yeah. It's an

490
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 4: international country. You know, we have that from everywhere.

491
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: So what is your your goal in life? Mister kat

492
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: what do you what do you I don't think we

493
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 1: got to You might have told us what we what

494
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: you study, but I forget what is it that you study?

495
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: And what is it that you would like to.

496
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 4: I study history. I want to get a pH d.

497
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 4: I want to be a professor in the Kuwaita University

498
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 4: or any other university in the world. You know. I

499
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 4: like to teach people. Do you like to travel the world? Yeah?

500
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 1: I was gonna do you do a lot of traveling

501
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: outside of Kuwait.

502
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 4: I went to a rock during the after the war,

503
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 4: the last tour in the rack. I want to behind Lebanon, Turkya.

504
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 4: I went to Yourn. I saw many places.

505
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,959
Speaker 1: Do you have a place of all the places you've

506
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: been to that you found the most interesting?

507
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 4: Oh? God, I mean except the media. I like Iran.

508
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 4: It's a It's a beautiful country, to be honest. It's

509
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 4: just the mountains are great, you know everything great. People

510
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 4: are great, not like they you think. I used to

511
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 4: see a news audio people see the news and media.

512
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: Why why do you think the I what's your problem

513
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: with the Iranian media?

514
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 4: No, not the Iranian media, the non Iranian media, like

515
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 4: the let's say the Foxy News. You know they say

516
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 4: it's all wars and ship I went to a ruck,

517
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 4: it's it's safe. I went to Iran. People are so

518
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 4: you know, it's so funny. I lived in the house

519
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 4: with them, not terrorists. Like I'm sorry for the word

520
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 4: and the twitch, but not like the things they show.

521
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, dude, I gotta say I am I'm like

522
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: dying to go to the Middle East and do some

523
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: of these I do this like talk to a Gecko

524
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: series where I interview people just on the street, and

525
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,479
Speaker 1: I would fucking love Kuwait or Iraq or Iran.

526
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 4: I mean, you can come here. I'm here always anytime

527
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 4: you want. You can say my name.

528
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: But if you want, I actually might because if I could,

529
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: if I go, let me ask you this. In Kuwait,

530
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 1: how is there a big English speaking population?

531
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 4: Everyone talking, drifts, everyone speaking. I mean they studied, they

532
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 4: teach English in the school since the first grade.

533
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

534
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, we have an American university of a British university,

535
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 4: so many colleges. Okay, cool, Christian people too, I might.

536
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: I might want to come over there, and it's always

537
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: nest to know a local.

538
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 4: No, no, you can't talk to everyone, I mean even

539
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 4: the old people talking grist. You can go to church,

540
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 4: I mean the you Christians. There is a lot of

541
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 4: Christian people here live with us.

542
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 1: It's okay, So you were talking about sort of how

543
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 1: the media portrays I ran, how do you feel like, uh,

544
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: non Middle Eastern media portrays Kuwait.

545
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 4: I mean everyone to think Kuwait is a cross country.

546
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 4: I mean they don't have the trouble with any country

547
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 4: in the world except just one or two maybe, but

548
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 4: everyone like Kuwait, everyone respected. I mean, no one is

549
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 4: talking bad about quit. You can go to news. I

550
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 4: mean USA helped quite a lot during the golf for

551
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 4: the second gold for and now they're helping with the

552
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,240
Speaker 4: COVID and those things.

553
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, can Americans go to Kuwait right I

554
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: don't know if you have any idea about this, but

555
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 1: can Americans go to Kuwait right now? With COVID shit? Yeah?

556
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:32,959
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just saw in Tectochia like three days ago,

557
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 4: some people come like a group of family. I think

558
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 4: for a week afterwo they think here.

559
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 1: So you said you left to travel. Are there places

560
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: that you have not yet been to that you are

561
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 1: on your list?

562
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 4: Like a country or places.

563
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: In Kuwait, anywhere? I guess I guess I meant countries.

564
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 4: Well, if it was to me, I like to go

565
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 4: more to Asia, not in the West, you know, Europe, Usa.

566
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 4: I mean I look at them everywhere in the in Instagram, snapchat,

567
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 4: everywhere I go. I want to explore places that no

568
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 4: body I Actually I applied for a visa for North Korea,

569
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 4: but I didn't get it for because of the COVID.

570
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: Wait, hold on, you try.

571
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 4: I was going to Yeah, they give they give us

572
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:24,760
Speaker 4: a visa.

573
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: Yes, what were you trying to do?

574
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 4: I was going for a dude, It's an epic adventure.

575
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 4: I just want to see the country, you know. I

576
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 4: just want to go vlogging and you know, talk to

577
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 4: people or anything. They told me to try again, like

578
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 4: in the next year.

579
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 1: Then Jordan, you wanted to go. You wanted to do

580
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 1: a vlog there.

581
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:50,760
Speaker 4: You said, yeah, I mean there is a youth logs

582
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 4: in the YouTube you can see in Arabic language in English.

583
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 4: But yeah, I want to be one of them. I

584
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,400
Speaker 4: want to explore the country. I want to see that becautory.

585
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 4: Maybe it's a it's a good country, like you know

586
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 4: on when everyone says it bad, but actually it's a

587
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 4: good I don't know. I just want to see what's

588
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 4: my own eyes.

589
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: I like that you seem like you got an adventurous

590
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: spirit and you seem like, uh, you know, as you

591
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: said you don't want to take anyone's word for anything

592
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: unless if you actually are able to see it with

593
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: your own eyes. Yeah, I guess you'd whatever version they

594
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 1: would let you see.

595
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 5: But I thought I didn't hear that, I said, I

596
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 5: guess I don't think.

597
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, sure, you guys do whatever you want.

598
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 4: Uh. In the Old country and everything, we don't have

599
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:44,760
Speaker 4: text like other countries. I think there's a few countries

600
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 4: that don't have like us, and so they didn't have

601
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 4: but no they have. So we don't have texts and everything.

602
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:57,439
Speaker 4: You know, that's why everything is cheap. Yeah, we don't

603
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 4: pay text you know, like tex for the house talk

604
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 4: for the car.

605
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: So if you don't pay tax, how do how does

606
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 1: the coation? Is that aquation.

607
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 4: Good? Quite?

608
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 1: How How does how does make any money? If you

609
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: guys have tax?

610
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 4: I mean they say a little, so many aisles, they

611
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 4: have so many things to deport outside. It's basically everything free.

612
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 4: When I go to the hospital, it's free. I get

613
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 4: free medication, I free cares anything any anywhere I go,

614
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 4: I just free. You know.

615
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: Damn.

616
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 4: Even when I buy a car, I just pay for

617
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:37,800
Speaker 4: the car, not and the extra tags and the protection

618
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 4: and the blah blah of things.

619
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 1: Quait sounds pretty tense.

620
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's a good thing to live here

621
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 4: in Middle East.

622
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: Well, mister cat, you know I'm gonna I'm gonna do

623
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: for the end of this car, I want to I'm

624
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: gonna let your uncle read the chat, and if the

625
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: chat has any good questions for you, your own can ask.

626
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: I stuffed that coming.

627
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:12,439
Speaker 4: So quit is paradise, he said yes, and he said

628
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,360
Speaker 4: hi to everyone.

629
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: Someone in the chats that I mean lexic.

630
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 4: No, it isn't true. You know, if you want to

631
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 4: live a busy life, just come here, you know. I

632
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 4: mean I study in the university and I get and

633
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 4: I get paid every month. You know, the university just

634
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 4: give me money, like three hundred dollars every month.

635
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 1: Universe study, I don't think anything.

636
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can study some masters. And there is a question,

637
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 4: he said, what's your favorite food dish? I mean, we

638
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 4: have every restaurant here America restaurant we have also, but

639
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 4: I like Arabic wood more like much boo the eye.

640
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 4: It's called it's a rise with a chicken. You know,

641
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 4: it's so delicious. Everyone like it.

642
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 1: Uh, somebody wants to know how the air conditioning is.

643
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 4: I mean, it's a hundred degrees outside and in the

644
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 4: house it's so comfortableness. I'm working jacket, I'm wearing a

645
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 4: check it right now. You know, heavery close.

646
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 1: Somebody said, we have Someone says, how is Kuwait for

647
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: women's rights?

648
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 4: I mean they have their rights. You know, no one cares.

649
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 4: No one saying no, we don't have blah blah blah

650
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 4: like any other countries. They have their own rights. You know,

651
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,760
Speaker 4: we respect them, they respect us. We live in together.

652
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 4: We have actually in Congress, we have women in Congress.

653
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 4: So many women's in Congress. They're not talking about the

654
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 4: women the woman.

655
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 1: Can women drive in Kuwait? Someone asked that, oh, yes.

656
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 4: They can, Yeah, yeah they can't sense. I don't know.

657
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 4: Fifty years ago, so many.

658
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 1: Years someone said they have recreational drugs. I'm going to

659
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: assume if they don't have alcohol, they don't have.

660
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:18,360
Speaker 4: Weed, they don't spatia and also like alcohol. You know, okay,

661
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 4: so what.

662
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: If if you got if you got caught with alcohol

663
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: or weed in Kuwait? How bad would it be? Like?

664
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: What would you know? Like, what what would the boot?

665
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 4: But you just go if you go for jail, just

666
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 4: living one night if they release you, nothing bad, it's easy.

667
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: Someone wants to know what gay right now?

668
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 4: Okay, about that. We don't have lgbt's right in Kuwait.

669
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 4: I mean it's not like we hate them, but they

670
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 4: got to wait. You know, they don't go to jail

671
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 4: to punish it. There's nobody cares about them. Okay, you

672
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 4: can live with your life the way you want. We

673
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 4: don't give a ship like with everyone saying.

674
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: All right, that sounds like a sounds like an answer. Chah,

675
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,760
Speaker 1: any other questions about kuwaits.

676
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 4: Any other questions? It says we legal and Kuwait. Yeah,

677
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 4: it's no, it's not a criminal. It just if they

678
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 4: got you with the weird there, you will go to

679
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 4: you will get away. It's okay, just one night, Jim,

680
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 4: all right.

681
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: Last question. Someone wants to know what club scene is.

682
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:35,320
Speaker 4: Like, okay, just private clubs. No, it's not public everyone.

683
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 4: We have the music festivals. We get people from all

684
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 4: the world, you know, Japan, American, Italian, everywhere.

685
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,439
Speaker 1: Oh, actually, okay, this will be the last question. Does

686
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: anything suck about Kuwait? You've been saying all the good stuff,

687
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 1: but every no place is perfect. You kind of glossed

688
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 1: over the gay stuff. A little bit.

689
00:41:55,840 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 4: But let me ask what kwait? Okay, what do you

690
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 4: think about goes? Is there any anything suckses that I

691
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 4: can talk?

692
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: That's why I'm asking.

693
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 4: Okay, there is a little bit racist between like let's say,

694
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:20,800
Speaker 4: for An for an Indian people. I know, just because

695
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 4: there are just a worker. You know, it's just work.

696
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know how to say it. But

697
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 4: I did not think that you will notice it. Just

698
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:34,280
Speaker 4: you think sometimes you see, not always from all people.

699
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 4: Especially did you say racism not for everyone, just for

700
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 4: Egyptian and Indian? I mean, to be honest, they deserve

701
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 4: it, it did They just destroying the country if you want,

702
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:47,359
Speaker 4: you want to do it.

703
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,359
Speaker 1: I won't get involved in that. But uh, mister Cat,

704
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: is there anything you want to say to the people

705
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: of the computer before we go?

706
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 4: It was nice to talk to you guys. I yes,

707
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 4: someone asks we have apeak donut you have just let

708
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 4: me just say anything, okay, Chrispy donnut. Someone asking their comments.

709
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 4: We have every restaurant, every American restaurant, everything you can name,

710
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 4: we have it there. It's just the different is we

711
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 4: don't have that song.

712
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: Well, mister Kat, thank you for sharing with us. I

713
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: feel like I got to know. I'm dying to go

714
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 1: to Kuwait. I might hate you up if I if

715
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: I end up going there. You could do a little thing.

716
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: We could do a Gecko video.

717
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 4: Save my number if any time you want to come,

718
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 4: just give me a call. You're always a.

719
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: Real number I have. I assume to go to hotel.

720
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: I assume this is the this is a WhatsApp number.

721
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 4: Uh not Actually I think it's a fake number. But

722
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 4: I can't send.

723
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 1: But thank you very much for calling mister kat and

724
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: Wishield guest of the day. I know it's it's.

725
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 4: A pleasure to you, and I hope I have a

726
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:06,399
Speaker 4: I think it's a nice Yeah, okay, happy for of July.

727
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 4: Actually and yeah, he's he's saying happy for July. And

728
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 4: good night America. I'm sick. Hey, have a good morning,

729
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 4: have a good say thank you, thank you so much.

730
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: All right, if you can handle like a little bit

731
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: of racism and uh uh ambiguous gay rights and no pork,

732
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: then come to Kuwait. Hello, how are we going? Is

733
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: this Rob?

734
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 4: Yes?

735
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:46,439
Speaker 3: This is this therapy back?

736
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? How's it going? Rob?

737
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:51,720
Speaker 3: Not too bad? How about yourself?

738
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: Not too bad? Uh? Well, it says here Rob that

739
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 1: you have dabbled with ecstasy for the first time this evening.

740
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 3: Yes, I did. I'm feeling kind of weird as I

741
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 3: sit in my room and just stare on my white walls.

742
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: Are you Are you rolling currently?

743
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 4: Uh? No?

744
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 3: This is about an hour ago?

745
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: Okay, and how did How did the experience fair for you?

746
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean the whole thing of leading

747
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 3: into the experience is just me being thirty five year

748
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,760
Speaker 3: old man, losing my life, going down the drain, getting

749
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 3: a divorce, losing my house, losing my business, kind of

750
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 3: just pear pressure me into doing something different tonight and

751
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,359
Speaker 3: around a couple of friends and they decided to see

752
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 3: if I want to try something new, and I said, sure,

753
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 3: why not? Have nothing else to lose the life, so

754
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 3: let's just go for it.

755
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:51,720
Speaker 1: And wait a minute, Wait a minute. So the losing

756
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: your life, you, losing business, losing divorce thing is that you?

757
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: Or is that your friend?

758
00:45:58,360 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 4: No, that's me.

759
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 3: So I was hanging out with some friends on try

760
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 3: to clear my head and try to wrap my head around. Unfortunately,

761
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 3: just wind up getting wrapped around a drug that I've

762
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 3: never done before instead.

763
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: Okay, so you'll are you it says you're twenty eight?

764
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 1: Is that a lie? You thirty five?

765
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 4: No?

766
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 3: Sorry, I'm just honest. So my birthdays eighty seven, so

767
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:20,720
Speaker 3: I'm thirty five.

768
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 4: I'm just all over.

769
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 3: Like I said, I'm staring at the white walls expaying

770
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 3: so something I've never done before.

771
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: So all right, So I mean, how about how did you?

772
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: How how was the experience for you?

773
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:31,800
Speaker 4: Did you?

774
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 1: Would you say? Would you rade it a good one

775
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 1: or a bad one?

776
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 3: But here it wasn't that bad. It was actually actually

777
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 3: pretty cool. I'm actually determined whether I should try some

778
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 3: more or not, if I should be turned to something else.

779
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 1: Okay, well let me let's let's dive into some stuff

780
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 1: real quick. Because you're saying all these bad things, you

781
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 1: got to divorce, your business is failing, uh whatnot. But

782
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: when you're on ecstasy, I find that you're you like,

783
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: can't at least for me, I find that I can't

784
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: think of anything negative. I find that my brain is

785
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: only focused on all the positive feelings in life. Did

786
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 1: you find that to be a similar thing?

787
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 3: I don't know. I haven't really had anything. I mean,

788
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 3: I'm in a happy mood right now. It makes me.

789
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: Okay, exactly right, now I'm talking about right now, yeah.

790
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 3: Right now. Yeah. I feel like I'm just like on

791
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 3: top of the road and I have nothing to lose.

792
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I feel like nothing can get in my way.

793
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 3: I can just go out and do anything I want

794
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 3: to do right now?

795
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 1: Hm, what do you want to do? Uh?

796
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 4: Tix my life?

797
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 3: Try to go back up the round zero, get back

798
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 3: to where I was. I don't know if I want

799
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 3: to do it again, because just like I said, it

800
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 3: makes you forget about everything in life.

801
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I.

802
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 3: Mean the only thing I've ever ever done side shying

803
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 3: that to night to smoke a little bit of pot

804
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 3: here and there. But tonight was the first. So I

805
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 3: don't know if it should be a last or if

806
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 3: I should go for it again. I just don't know.

807
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 3: I don't have nobody, I really. I mean a lot

808
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 3: of my friends are drug addicts, so it's not like

809
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 3: I could term to them for my problems. So just

810
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 3: with losing my job, I'm not having insurance, not like

811
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 3: go see a therapist or anything. They're expensive by the pocket,

812
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 3: and I don't have that kind of money.

813
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 1: It's true, they are expensive. Okay, so you don't, all right,

814
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: So what's the laundry list again. You you got divorced,

815
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 1: your business is failing. There's a third thing. What's the

816
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: third thing?

817
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 3: Just a divorce, my business failing pretty much, just everything

818
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 3: in life's going wrong pretty much. I forgot what the

819
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 3: third thing was.

820
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 1: The kids.

821
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 3: I do not have kids.

822
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: Okay, that's great. I feel like I've always felt like

823
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: if unless if you have kids or go to jail,

824
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 1: you can you can bounce act from anything. I think

825
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 1: you can bounce back. What's your name, Rob, Rob? I

826
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: think you can bounce back. I mean, if you had kids,

827
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: you'd be fucked. But you don't have kids. That's great.

828
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 1: So you're not really responsible for anyone except for yourself.

829
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 1: That's great. I think you can bounce back, Rob, What

830
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:16,479
Speaker 1: do you What was the business? Can I ask?

831
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 3: I was actually owning a power washing company. I was

832
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 3: doing power washing and houses and stuff.

833
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Why what happened to make it fail?

834
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 4: I don't know.

835
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:33,319
Speaker 3: I just feel like the state I live in just

836
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,720
Speaker 3: isn't good. Like I live in Connecticut, so it gets cold,

837
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 3: it gets hot, you can only do it like three

838
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 3: months four months out of the year. So I don't know.

839
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 3: I just tried to run with an opportunity. I feel

840
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 3: it just wasn't the right one. So I just don't

841
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 3: know if I should try to take a different course,

842
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 3: maybe find something else.

843
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: What do you do? You have a job that you

844
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,240
Speaker 1: do in addition to the business, or was the business

845
00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 1: you're only income?

846
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 3: The business was my only income?

847
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: Okay?

848
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 5: Uh?

849
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: Is there a job you could pick up while you

850
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: try to start a different business.

851
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 3: I mean, I can try, but I don't know this

852
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 3: is gonna well, I don't think ectually. I don't know

853
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 3: if that will affect your credibility and taking the drives.

854
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 3: I don't even think there's a drug test anymore. It's

855
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 3: been a while to have a job. I don't even know.

856
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 1: I kind of hold on, hold on. Well, so if

857
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,360
Speaker 1: you were to find another job, what would the industry be,

858
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: would be like for a different power washing company?

859
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 3: Probably truck driving?

860
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 4: You don't want to be a truck driver?

861
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: Do they drug test for truck driving?

862
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 3: Well, I know you got to go through your CDL.

863
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 3: So out here, I mean, I don't know how any

864
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 3: other stages, but I know out here in Connecticut you

865
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 3: gotta go get a CDL. If you gotta pay for school,

866
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 3: you got to take your class you go for school

867
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 3: for about six months to a year, depend on what

868
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 3: cl he's going for, and uh, you know, then it

869
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 3: all goes from there. So I'm assuming you got to

870
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 3: apply for a company or they help you get a

871
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 3: job from once you're out of school and everything.

872
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 1: All right, so it's doable.

873
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 4: Sorry, my bad?

874
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:09,360
Speaker 1: What happened?

875
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 3: Freaking out?

876
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 1: It sounded like you were trying to kill a fly.

877
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 3: I don't know what the hell that was. I'm just

878
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 3: like bugging out right now. These walls are just sleaky?

879
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 1: Are you are? Are you? It was that? What was

880
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 1: that noise? Just now?

881
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 3: Oh? That was my wall? I think I just put

882
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 3: a hole in it.

883
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: Did you you punched a hole in your wall?

884
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 4: I think so?

885
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 3: Can't take you dark?

886
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: Kay?

887
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 4: Hmmm?

888
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: Punched holes on? What? What?

889
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 2: What?

890
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 4: What?

891
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: What? What? What? Who is that?

892
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 3: What is that?

893
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 4: Oh?

894
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 3: My god?

895
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: What's going on? What's happening here? Rob What are you saying?

896
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 3: I don't know? There's like these black shadows everywhere?

897
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 1: Is that, Robbie? Sure it's not just a shadow.

898
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 3: I don't think so it's dark where I am outside?

899
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 1: Was it you just yelling? Just now?

900
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 3: I think I should somebody walking by my house?

901
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: Are you alone or you with people?

902
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:14,840
Speaker 3: I'm alone right now?

903
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: Where where?

904
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 4: Where?

905
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:18,720
Speaker 1: Where were your friends that you were hanging out with earlier?

906
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:20,960
Speaker 2: Uh?

907
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,919
Speaker 3: Branford, I think like an hour of like a half

908
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 3: hour from where I live you.

909
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 1: Were hanging you were hanging out with them half How

910
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: How did you get home?

911
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 3: I think I drove my cars in the driveway.

912
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:36,720
Speaker 1: Right, Rob.

913
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm still there, Rob.

914
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,879
Speaker 1: I think I think I think I think you should.

915
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: I think you should go to sleep? Rob?

916
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 3: Did I take anything to go to sleeper? So I

917
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 3: just try to fall asleep.

918
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 1: I think you should just try to follows. I think

919
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,840
Speaker 1: I think you should, Rob. I think you Rob this.

920
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:58,720
Speaker 1: I'm gona tell you this. I don't think you're fucked, Okay,

921
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 1: I I mean I would dry.

922
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 3: Okay?

923
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,439
Speaker 1: Hell is that Bro Robbie there?

924
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I'm still here. This thing is fretty. You're black?

925
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 1: Rob? Who?

926
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 3: Rob?

927
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: Who are yelling at?

928
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:16,240
Speaker 4: Okay?

929
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 3: I think Robot is trying to come to my house? Rob.

930
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: I don't think any roped. Hello are you there?

931
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 3: I'm still here. I'm just trying to see who's out here.

932
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 4: Rob.

933
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 1: How are you feeling right now?

934
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 3: Did he Rob?

935
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: You got bed?

936
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 3: I don't even know where my bed is where's my best? Wow?

937
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: Rob?

938
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 3: Rob, I think somebody's at my door right sure, I

939
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 3: don't know. I hear it's laming.

940
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:02,719
Speaker 1: Hell. Rob.

941
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 3: Well all right, I don't know. I think I think

942
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 3: it's all.

943
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,439
Speaker 1: Right now, Okay, are you feeling better?

944
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 3: I just need to go smoke.

945
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 1: I think, all right, where are your Rob? Where are

946
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: you right now?

947
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 3: I'm at my house. I think. Okay, I'm on like

948
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 3: a porch.

949
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:28,720
Speaker 1: You're a you're on a porch.

950
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like on a porch with screen screened in

951
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 3: porch them outside of the house.

952
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:41,399
Speaker 1: Kah m hm, Rob, I Rob, Man, I you sound

953
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 1: like you're bugging out. I think you should go to sleep.

954
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 3: I'm just smoking right now, trying to calm the nurse.

955
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 1: All right, man, I don't bet.

956
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 3: Okay, walk to when I just came across. Because I

957
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 3: watched Twitch a lot and I've seen your you know,

958
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 3: your twitch therapy diagnost. I figure maybe if I talk

959
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:06,439
Speaker 3: to somebody, just try to keep myself calm mm hmm.

960
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: I think, how do you feel? How do you feel?

961
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: How do you feel calmer?

962
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 4: Yeah?

963
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 3: I'm smoking now?

964
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: If I feel okay? Good?

965
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:15,840
Speaker 2: Is there everything?

966
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 4: Rob?

967
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: Is there anything else that I can help you with

968
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: before before we go.

969
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I I appreciate everything. I think just

970
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 3: really helped out.

971
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 1: Okay, good, I'm glad to hear that. Rob. Listen, I'm

972
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:29,439
Speaker 1: gonna say this before we go. I really do think

973
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: that I think he can bounce back. I think you

974
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 1: should find some kind of help. I know it's hard

975
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:37,400
Speaker 1: if you don't have insurance to find a real therapist,

976
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 1: but uh, there are a lot of ways you can

977
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 1: do it. You know. There's local community centers, there's a

978
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 1: you go to the university, talk to some of the

979
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 1: graduate students there. Those are two options that I've researched before.

980
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:54,879
Speaker 1: But stay safe, man, don't don't don't don't go. Don't

981
00:55:54,880 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: go too crazy you know? Of course? Of course, Man,

982
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: are you feeling okay?

983
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:07,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just write some motions though, but I appreciate have.

984
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 1: A great now of course, Man, is there is there anything?

985
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:11,439
Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to talk about before

986
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: we go?

987
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 3: That's it?

988
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 2: Thank you.

989
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:15,879
Speaker 4: I appreciate it all.

990
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 1: Right, Man, Listen, Like I said, I think I think

991
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 1: it a bounce back. Rob.

992
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 4: Thank you. That's the most positive thing anybody said.

993
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:39,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, are you who lives with you? Can I

994
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:39,879
Speaker 1: ask you that.

995
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 3: Just me by myself.

996
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 1: Mhm.

997
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 3: Well, what time is it one you guys think, uh,

998
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 3: twelve o'clock in the morning, twelve thirty.

999
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 1: Okay, what are you What are you got going on tomorrow?

1000
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna relax, I think, maybe play some games.

1001
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:09,239
Speaker 1: Done good mm hmm. Rob, do you have ah? Do you?

1002
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 1: I know you said that your friends are you said

1003
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 1: your friends with drug addicts? Do you have like, do

1004
00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: you have friends that that you talk to regularly who

1005
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 1: have drug addicts?

1006
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 3: Just one but he's like go all the way out

1007
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 3: with Florida mm hmm kind of far. But I mean

1008
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 3: I've talked to him sometimes who helps me, helps me

1009
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 3: through a little bit.

1010
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Do you uh? Do you have you have

1011
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,520
Speaker 1: uh your parents that are that you have a good

1012
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 1: relationship with.

1013
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 3: I do, I do, but I don't talk to them

1014
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 3: as often.

1015
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Do they do? They live with in the

1016
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 1: same area as.

1017
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 3: You, Uh they do, about an hour about an hour

1018
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 3: away from it mm hmm.

1019
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: Mhm.

1020
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 3: But just a whole other subject. That's you know, just

1021
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 3: for my mother meeting a boyfriend, I mean just being

1022
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 3: with him over her own son, So you know, m

1023
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 3: h I guess I'm just trying to survive, that's all.

1024
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: Mm hm.

1025
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, I don't I don't know. I think I,

1026
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 3: like I said, maybe I just need some rest and

1027
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:24,479
Speaker 3: just try to find myself a fair case.

1028
00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.

1029
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 4: Now yeah, mm hmm, k okay, No, I don't know.

1030
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 3: There's just so much stuff mixed know what I've done.

1031
00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:47,920
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

1032
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 1: Man, you know, look, I mean I'm at what I said.

1033
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 1: I really do feel like, uh, you know, obviously, it

1034
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 1: sounds it sounds like everything that's happened to you has

1035
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 1: been very It's like it sounds like it's a recent thing,

1036
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:03,240
Speaker 1: all this stuff happening.

1037
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 3: Yes, it's been building up somewhere over the past year

1038
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 3: and nothing too pravam.

1039
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it sounds like and I'm not a real therapist.

1040
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: I'm a stupid guy in a gecko costume on the internet.

1041
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 1: But it sounds like it's all happening like right fucking now,

1042
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 1: and you're like dealing with it emotionally right fucking now.

1043
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: So you're like really feeling the heights of all these

1044
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 1: emotions right fucking now. And all these emotions are maybe

1045
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 1: like making you feel hopeless and whatnot. But I think

1046
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 1: if you get a little bit of rest. I think

1047
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 1: if you be a little patient and you let some

1048
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 1: time go by and you let the emotions Understandably, the

1049
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 1: emotions are very high right now. But I think if

1050
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 1: and trust me on this, if you give yourself some time,

1051
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 1: you be a little bit patient, you let the emotions

1052
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 1: cool down. I can tell. And I can tell this

1053
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: because you started your own business before, and not a

1054
00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 1: lot of people do that. I can tell that you

1055
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 1: have a a logical, ambitious mind. I think if you

1056
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 1: let the emotions kind of simmer a little bit and

1057
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 1: then you let yourself have enough time for your head

1058
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 1: to be cleared, I think that you are the type

1059
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: of guy that you're going to see a nice way

1060
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 1: forward for yourself.

1061
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,440
Speaker 3: I appreciate that. Thank you. And as far as your

1062
01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 3: comment about stupid right though, you know, I just feel

1063
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 3: really helped. I means, you know, I think you and

1064
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 3: McDonald's a great therapist.

1065
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:28,400
Speaker 1: Well thanks, I appreciate that.

1066
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 3: No problem.

1067
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 1: How are you feeling right now? Do you feel like

1068
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:36,840
Speaker 1: you're winding down? You're about to go to bed? Do

1069
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 1: you feel like you're staying up?

1070
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm winding down. I think I might

1071
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 3: just put into the house and trying to go lay down.

1072
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 1: Okay, cool, I need to do that.

1073
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:50,280
Speaker 3: Yeah all right, Yeah I am home on a my house.

1074
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 5: Okay.

1075
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 3: I think I was just zoned out. Like you said,

1076
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 3: all these emotions coming together at once.

1077
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, just a lot. It's a lot. But just please,

1078
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're thinking about anything, but get

1079
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 1: give be patient with yourself to let the emotional highs

1080
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 1: cool down.

1081
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:12,800
Speaker 3: Okay. I think that's what Michael trying to go. Okay, good,

1082
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 3: Oh sorry, just forwarded.

1083
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 1: A nice.

1084
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 3: I think I gotta use the bathle well, thank you

1085
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 3: again for everything. I appreciate it. I'm gonna try to

1086
01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 3: get some rest.

1087
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 1: Now, for sure. Rob, good luck to you. I think

1088
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 1: thank you a good path forward for you, and I

1089
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: really do hope you have a good rest of the night.

1090
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1091
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 3: I appreciate you too, and thank you for everything.

1092
01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: So of course, man, you have a good night, you too,

1093
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 1: Love you bye, Love you too. Baby. I liked Rob,

1094
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:03,360
Speaker 1: I did h I think I think he's gonna be okay.

1095
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 1: Sounds like a lot is going on with him. Sounds

1096
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:15,920
Speaker 1: like a lot was going on with him, and I think, uh,

1097
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:22,240
Speaker 1: I think if he's patient and he lets the uh

1098
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: emotional highs of everything that is going on with him,

1099
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:38,040
Speaker 1: kind of play out their course. Then uh, he'll he'll

1100
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 1: he'll be able to use his clear headed mind to

1101
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: move forward.

1102
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:45,600
Speaker 5: Really goes on.

1103
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 4: The line, taking your phone calls.

1104
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 3: Every night, the rely goes doing his ride.

1105
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 5: He's teaching you Cloud in the mitereal line, but he's

1106
01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 5: not really an expert.