WEBVTT - How Long Until You Post Your Bae On Social Media?

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<v Speaker 1>It's topic time called eight hundred and five five five

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<v Speaker 1>one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk about it more than everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>It's dj n V charlamagnea God. We are the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 3>We have a special guest host this morning, Chris Kaitlyn

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<v Speaker 3>from South Carolina.

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, if you're just joining us, we're asking eight hundred

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<v Speaker 3>and five eight five one oh five to one, how

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<v Speaker 3>long until you can post your booi your bay on

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<v Speaker 3>social media?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>That is the question. And Chris, you said, we checked

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<v Speaker 3>your social media. We don't see no pictures in no boo,

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<v Speaker 3>no bay, no you wire not.

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<v Speaker 4>The only thing you go see is my man and

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<v Speaker 4>my dog, not my man, my daddy and my dog.

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<v Speaker 2>Your daddy and your dog. Jesus Christ.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So we're asking how long until you can

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<v Speaker 3>post your your bay or.

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<v Speaker 4>Your boot Listen, I am dating for a year. I

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<v Speaker 4>realized you don't know somebody until you did them for

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<v Speaker 4>a full year and then after that. But honestly, like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not supposed to no man until you proposed to me,

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<v Speaker 4>then I know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's your proposal. Yes, that could take three years.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, be a wait three years until he shows up,

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<v Speaker 4>Jesus Christ, think.

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<v Speaker 6>You should go with that father and say not even proposal.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe you might propose propost when he proposes to you.

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<v Speaker 7>With the marriage.

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<v Speaker 4>Even with Ray, she popped up, and she still didn't

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<v Speaker 4>confirm she was Like me and my friends showed up,

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<v Speaker 4>wore white dress. All my friends had on the same

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<v Speaker 4>bridesmaid's dress. Like, she never confirmed, She just posted that

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<v Speaker 4>she was married. We still know who her man is.

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<v Speaker 3>So I want to be like, so what, So let's

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<v Speaker 3>say you've been dating this guy for two three years,

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<v Speaker 3>y'all go on vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just you're gonna crop them out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, Jesus, I don't.

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<v Speaker 7>The problem with that dope.

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<v Speaker 6>And when things don't work out, you know what I'm

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<v Speaker 6>saying now, you feel like you got egg on your

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<v Speaker 6>face because you don't bleue this man up and got

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<v Speaker 6>this man literally.

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<v Speaker 4>And at this point, I mean, let's be real, I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like, if you're a public figure and you're doing

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<v Speaker 4>things like that, like you just don't want to give

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<v Speaker 4>someone that much clout off of you. And that may

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<v Speaker 4>sound really bad and really shady, but it's just kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like where I'm at right now. If I'm dating

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<v Speaker 4>someone like one, I feel like you should have more

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<v Speaker 4>going on than me. So that's the first thing. But

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<v Speaker 4>it's just kind of like, okay, if I post you

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<v Speaker 4>whatever business you have going on, Like I've had a

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<v Speaker 4>thing of talking to guys and they'll be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>well my business is this, could you share it for me?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like that. Yeah, like, don't use me for

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<v Speaker 4>my followers and like the access I had.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you do post that, gentlemen, you could also

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<v Speaker 3>find out information that you might not know.

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<v Speaker 4>That's true, and that's there's a lot of married men

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<v Speaker 4>who are real friendly Jesus.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, well let's go to the phone lines.

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<v Speaker 2>We got married on the line married.

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<v Speaker 8>Good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning.

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<v Speaker 5>How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good married? Now, now how long til you post

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<v Speaker 2>your boo your bay?

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<v Speaker 8>I don't believe that he should be posted as my husband.

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<v Speaker 8>Come on, Mary and listen, go go step further. If

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<v Speaker 8>I if I start dating someone who's on my social media,

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<v Speaker 8>they're coming off.

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<v Speaker 7>You start dating somebody who does what.

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<v Speaker 8>If they're already on my social media they were already

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<v Speaker 8>friends and we started dating follow them?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, and that's what I'm marry.

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<v Speaker 8>I can't. I can't control social media. I can't control

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<v Speaker 8>nobody else comments on my post. I can't control nothing else.

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<v Speaker 8>And sometimes you might post things about and then it'll

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<v Speaker 8>be like, oh that's how you feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Like No, I like it.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't need to be getting on posts about what

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<v Speaker 8>I'm posted. They thinking I'll make a subliminals against them,

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<v Speaker 8>like I just can't deal with it.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, hit dog will hollow boy? You know what that

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<v Speaker 7>means about you?

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<v Speaker 9>Hello?

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<v Speaker 2>Who's this?

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<v Speaker 5>Hello?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey Lauren?

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<v Speaker 7>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 2>How long until you can post your buoy your bay

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<v Speaker 2>on social.

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<v Speaker 8>I'll say six months, but also I say die until

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<v Speaker 8>you married.

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<v Speaker 4>You. That's a gap six months to marry.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, listen, just in case as it don't work out.

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<v Speaker 8>And then you was like, oh, isn't that your man

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<v Speaker 8>over there with that girl in the bar, you know,

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<v Speaker 8>just to void public embarrassment. Okay, but yeah, like Cardid said,

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<v Speaker 8>don't post them until you got a ring on the fingers, post.

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<v Speaker 7>Some card Okay, I agree?

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<v Speaker 2>Hellos this heyka.

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<v Speaker 10>Hey with her?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't have a ring?

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<v Speaker 10>You ain't?

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<v Speaker 9>Oh you?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you're quoting Cardy too.

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<v Speaker 8>I definitely am because it's true marriage.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm still single, Okay, that's a great way to look

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<v Speaker 7>at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, what's that?

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<v Speaker 6>Because I feel like until a person makes a commitment

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<v Speaker 6>to you, you shouldn't make a commitment to this.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 4>And I just feel like, now what social media is

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of like that is a thing. It's just

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<v Speaker 4>kind of like permanent. Granted you can delete it, but

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<v Speaker 4>it's just kind of like you know when someone post

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<v Speaker 4>is like oh you did it pop out or what

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<v Speaker 4>they call it, the reveal, the Grammy revealer, your boo,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm just like, yeah, no, but you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, you also live life and there's so many things

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<v Speaker 3>and experiences that you take in right that you want

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<v Speaker 3>to post on social media, whether you're traveling or you're

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<v Speaker 3>enjoying something, and a lot of times that might be

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<v Speaker 3>with your bull or your baby.

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<v Speaker 4>And guess what, he can take my picture? What I boast?

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<v Speaker 4>I even do you wne bad at? You know that

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<v Speaker 4>when the Instagram, when we like reaching the hand, I

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<v Speaker 4>will let his hand be in the picture because it's

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of like, Okay, see this man is treating

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<v Speaker 4>me well, taking me out just as a woman. Like

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<v Speaker 4>they're going to click on that man's page and be

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<v Speaker 4>like ooh he fine, let me like his pictures. Let

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<v Speaker 4>me go in as dms and women are just like that,

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<v Speaker 4>So you cannot have what I have if you want to.

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<v Speaker 4>I was punch in the back of your head.

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<v Speaker 6>Jesus Chris said something that was true to me. You

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<v Speaker 6>don't know what these men actually want for you. If

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<v Speaker 6>I was a woman, I would be lary of any

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<v Speaker 6>man who constantly want to be up in the picture.

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<v Speaker 6>Why you want to pop up in all these pictures

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<v Speaker 6>all the time? Why you want to just put your

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<v Speaker 6>head and you know when I'm posting myselfies, why do

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<v Speaker 6>you want.

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<v Speaker 7>Me to tag you thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's say, let's say you've never been at the Bai.

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<v Speaker 3>I take you to the Bai, I say, and I

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<v Speaker 3>take you to Dubai. Right, we on a beach in Dubai,

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<v Speaker 3>or we at the mall and we skied, or we shopping.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't even say thank you daddy and post a picture.

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<v Speaker 4>Me now, thank you in the caption, but no, you

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<v Speaker 4>hand feet. That's it envy, that's right.

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<v Speaker 6>And most of these women ain't gonna post these old

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<v Speaker 6>white men that be takings like you bai anyway, y'all

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<v Speaker 6>ashamed of him? Old sugar daddies, them old Caucasian sugar daddies.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all got five a five one oh five one. How

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<v Speaker 3>long into dating someone before you post them on social media?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's discuss. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, It's topic time.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight hundred five five one five one to join into

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<v Speaker 1>the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 3>Morning, everybody in ceej Envy, Charlemagne, the God we are

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<v Speaker 3>the Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us. Chris

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<v Speaker 3>Kaitlyn is joining us. She's from South Carolina. She's our

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<v Speaker 3>guest co host, and we're asking how long until you

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<v Speaker 3>can post somebody on social media? So your boo, your babe,

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<v Speaker 3>that is the question, Chris Kaitlyn said. Jane posting, y'all

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<v Speaker 3>sind you get a rint.

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<v Speaker 4>Exactly only man you will see on my page right now.

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<v Speaker 4>If y'all go, is my daddy and my dog?

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<v Speaker 2>Charlamagne? Are you posting your daddy and your dog?

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<v Speaker 7>No? No, I don't do that now. And I'm married.

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<v Speaker 7>You know what I'm saying. I'm just I don't.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't showcase my my family in that way and things.

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<v Speaker 4>That you love me you want to keep close to you,

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<v Speaker 4>That's right.

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<v Speaker 2>Evil man, that's hello. Who's this?

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<v Speaker 5>He went on visiting board dingo?

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<v Speaker 3>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>Better stuff?

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<v Speaker 2>Ding ding?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey? Are you doing?

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<v Speaker 9>Wait?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry? Who's the guest?

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<v Speaker 4>So today Chris Calen from Charles and South Carolina with.

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<v Speaker 5>tBu Chris Hayler. How you doing? You have you have

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<v Speaker 5>a real love your voice?

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<v Speaker 8>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm great?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you?

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<v Speaker 7>That's that?

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<v Speaker 5>That's what I'm talking about. I like it. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>gonna have to go down to the south real quick.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, go ahead, follow you on Instagram. Let me see

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<v Speaker 4>something real quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa hey, look put that pressure.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna put it on that girl. Uh, mister dingo

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<v Speaker 5>dgo so, mister d g O, go ahead?

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<v Speaker 2>And all right?

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<v Speaker 4>How do so?

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<v Speaker 3>Now we're talking about how long until you can post

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<v Speaker 3>somebody on social media?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, that's not happening, not at all. I actually

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<v Speaker 5>lost relationships because of this because I am a firm

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<v Speaker 5>believer in not hosting. I don't people be putting all

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<v Speaker 5>that bad juju out there. They be wanting what you got.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't like my business out there in the street,

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<v Speaker 5>So I would like to keep stuff on the laps.

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<v Speaker 5>And then also just to case something happened. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>really got to worry about the whole taking down takes

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<v Speaker 5>and hey what happened and all the homies because nah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm good Jacob.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, say you reach out to Chris Kaitlyn, she give

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<v Speaker 2>you a shot.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all start dating three or four months and you ain't

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<v Speaker 3>gonna post it, like, yeah, that's my bait.

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, no, not at all, because I wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>actually work. So you know, once we get like married,

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<v Speaker 5>then I'm comfortable enough to post you. And then when

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<v Speaker 5>we get the tattoos and all that, that's like thirty

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<v Speaker 5>years down.

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<v Speaker 4>That means you ain't going nowhere tattoos.

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<v Speaker 5>Hold on.

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<v Speaker 7>That's a great point when you brought up Chris.

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<v Speaker 6>If you're dating a guy and the guy wants to

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<v Speaker 6>post you, do you let him because you if you

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<v Speaker 6>not posting him but you want to post you, do

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<v Speaker 6>you let him?

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<v Speaker 2>He can't post me?

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<v Speaker 4>That's fine, I mean, but I'm not posting you. If

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<v Speaker 4>you want to post me, that's fine. But I just

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<v Speaker 4>don't want you to feel away because I'm not going

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<v Speaker 4>to post.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like you got some criminal activity out there. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to be a.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody or something don't post me.

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<v Speaker 2>No social Security but nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't post me because I mean, you know cool,

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<v Speaker 4>but I like, you're not. I'm not posting you and post.

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<v Speaker 6>You with the hashtag like they mine wifey.

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<v Speaker 7>Got homes.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I'm sorry, Troy. She listens to my podcast, Troy,

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<v Speaker 2>what's up?

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<v Speaker 9>What's up?

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<v Speaker 7>What's up?

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<v Speaker 9>Bro?

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<v Speaker 3>We're talking about posting your girl. You post your girl,

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<v Speaker 3>talk to us.

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<v Speaker 9>So I'm actually getting ready to post her this week

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<v Speaker 9>because I'm flying her out to Puerto Rico for her birthday.

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<v Speaker 9>And we've been talking about this our whole relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Now let me ask you a question. You said,

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<v Speaker 3>flying rough from Puerto Rico. I know a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people do this, Like she speaks English and you know her.

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<v Speaker 9>Right, yeah, I've been knowing her for fourteen years.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, and she lives in Puerto Rico.

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<v Speaker 9>No, she lives here.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh y'all right?

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<v Speaker 5>Out to yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh birthday?

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<v Speaker 9>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>So you're about to post her. She doesn't want you

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<v Speaker 2>to post her?

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<v Speaker 9>Well, she was reluctant about it because it's my reputation

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<v Speaker 9>in our state but out in past the Smith text.

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<v Speaker 7>So you know, I'm what you got a reputation for

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<v Speaker 7>being musty. But she smells what you're talking about?

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<v Speaker 9>Are you?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you community peen?

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<v Speaker 9>I have yeah, yeah, I was a horror.

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<v Speaker 4>To how long y'all been together since March. I'm sorry, sir,

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<v Speaker 4>you could be working on yourself though. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean I got her divorce and I was single

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<v Speaker 9>for over a year and a half, so I healed.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait now wait, you you're divorced. Yeah, and you've been

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<v Speaker 4>single for a year and how long were you married?

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<v Speaker 7>For?

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<v Speaker 9>Four year?

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<v Speaker 5>Sir?

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<v Speaker 4>I think you need to heal some more.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you healing though?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you healing? Are you holing?

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<v Speaker 9>I'm you like I have a dual relationship with my

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<v Speaker 9>ex co parent. I don't care what she got going on.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't stalk Facebook, Instagram.

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<v Speaker 7>I think he's holding. He's in between holding and pulling

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<v Speaker 7>and healing. That's what I hear.

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<v Speaker 10>But I have fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I love her.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't believe you. I think you should let that

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<v Speaker 6>woman trust her instincts. Women, things are never really wrong.

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<v Speaker 6>She don't want to be posted. She don't want to

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<v Speaker 6>be posted.

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<v Speaker 4>She wants you know why. She wants their trip and

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<v Speaker 4>the trip includes being posted. But she's gonna tell me

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<v Speaker 4>archive that picture, man, archive mona.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you're posting your boo, your bay on social media.

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<v Speaker 10>I am not not no more. I absolute recently just

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<v Speaker 10>went through this.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm a big fan.

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<v Speaker 10>I'm so surprised I got through.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like retriggering some traumas.

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<v Speaker 10>I am here for you girls, all right, So let

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<v Speaker 10>me tell you guys, I dated that you're just being

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<v Speaker 10>for a year, and then we after a year, we

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<v Speaker 10>caute official. He posted me first, and that's why I

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<v Speaker 10>felt like kind of obligated because I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 10>not post him. And at this time he was good,

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<v Speaker 10>so all right, I posted him. Now he had a whole,

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<v Speaker 10>full grown relationship, full grow or over social media. Anybody

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<v Speaker 10>here so that they happy, all kind of good. If

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<v Speaker 10>this means a cheat.

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<v Speaker 7>On me his baby mother, damn, he cheated on you

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<v Speaker 7>with his baby mother.

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<v Speaker 10>Cheat on me his baby mother, and I don't play

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<v Speaker 10>those games now, anybody embarrassing. Had to take all them

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<v Speaker 10>pictures down, all them videos down, and it's a grab.

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<v Speaker 3>Well will say this, if you didn't post him, you

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<v Speaker 3>probably would have never found out that.

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<v Speaker 10>No, no, that's not true, that's not true.

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<v Speaker 9>I would have follo out anyway.

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<v Speaker 10>But I really wish I didn't post him because I

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<v Speaker 10>just feel like, dang man, anybody I'm not I'm not

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<v Speaker 10>somebody who posted. So it's that I really went out

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<v Speaker 10>on a limb. And yeah, doing that again.

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<v Speaker 7>You should have trusted your gut, your your own relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn it.

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<v Speaker 7>Man.

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<v Speaker 4>Well he still had a baby she didn't know about.

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<v Speaker 7>Still in the know.

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<v Speaker 4>And this is why you don't d baby daddies.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, what's the moral of the story.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't post that man.

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<v Speaker 6>Until you get a ring. I agree with him, Chris

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<v Speaker 6>and everybody else calling up. Don't post that man until

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<v Speaker 6>you get a ring. Until he makes a real commitment

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<v Speaker 6>to you. Don't make a real commitment to him. The

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<v Speaker 6>post go on Instagram official is a real commitment.

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<v Speaker 4>That is a real commitment. And everyone's gonna know, like

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<v Speaker 4>when you're when you go out or something like that,

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<v Speaker 4>they're gonna be like, yeah, I saw your man. That

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<v Speaker 4>was always the thing. I saw your man. I saw

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<v Speaker 4>your man.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody wants all that.

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<v Speaker 3>Jesus, all right, Well, when we come back, we got

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<v Speaker 3>your room and report JT. She she wild out on

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<v Speaker 3>somebody on social media.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll get to it next, it don't move. It's the

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<v Speaker 2>Breakfast Club on morning