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Speaker 1: It's topic time called eight hundred and five five five

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Speaker 1: one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: Talk about it more than everybody.

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Speaker 3: It's dj n V charlamagnea God. We are the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 3: We have a special guest host this morning, Chris Kaitlyn

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Speaker 3: from South Carolina.

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Speaker 4: Good morning.

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Speaker 3: Now, if you're just joining us, we're asking eight hundred

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Speaker 3: and five eight five one oh five to one, how

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Speaker 3: long until you can post your booi your bay on

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Speaker 3: social media?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 3: That is the question. And Chris, you said, we checked

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Speaker 3: your social media. We don't see no pictures in no boo,

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Speaker 3: no bay, no you wire not.

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Speaker 4: The only thing you go see is my man and

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Speaker 4: my dog, not my man, my daddy and my dog.

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Speaker 2: Your daddy and your dog. Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 3: All right, So we're asking how long until you can

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Speaker 3: post your your bay or.

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Speaker 4: Your boot Listen, I am dating for a year. I

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Speaker 4: realized you don't know somebody until you did them for

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Speaker 4: a full year and then after that. But honestly, like

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Speaker 4: I'm not supposed to no man until you proposed to me,

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Speaker 4: then I know.

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Speaker 2: It's your proposal. Yes, that could take three years.

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Speaker 4: Well, be a wait three years until he shows up,

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Speaker 4: Jesus Christ, think.

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Speaker 6: You should go with that father and say not even proposal.

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Speaker 6: Maybe you might propose propost when he proposes to you.

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Speaker 7: With the marriage.

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Speaker 4: Even with Ray, she popped up, and she still didn't

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Speaker 4: confirm she was Like me and my friends showed up,

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Speaker 4: wore white dress. All my friends had on the same

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Speaker 4: bridesmaid's dress. Like, she never confirmed, She just posted that

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Speaker 4: she was married. We still know who her man is.

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Speaker 3: So I want to be like, so what, So let's

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Speaker 3: say you've been dating this guy for two three years,

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Speaker 3: y'all go on vacation.

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Speaker 2: It's just you're gonna crop them out.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Jesus, I don't.

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Speaker 7: The problem with that dope.

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Speaker 6: And when things don't work out, you know what I'm

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Speaker 6: saying now, you feel like you got egg on your

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Speaker 6: face because you don't bleue this man up and got

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Speaker 6: this man literally.

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Speaker 4: And at this point, I mean, let's be real, I

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Speaker 4: feel like, if you're a public figure and you're doing

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Speaker 4: things like that, like you just don't want to give

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Speaker 4: someone that much clout off of you. And that may

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Speaker 4: sound really bad and really shady, but it's just kind

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Speaker 4: of like where I'm at right now. If I'm dating

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Speaker 4: someone like one, I feel like you should have more

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Speaker 4: going on than me. So that's the first thing. But

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Speaker 4: it's just kind of like, okay, if I post you

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Speaker 4: whatever business you have going on, Like I've had a

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Speaker 4: thing of talking to guys and they'll be like, oh,

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Speaker 4: well my business is this, could you share it for me?

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Speaker 4: I don't like that. Yeah, like, don't use me for

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Speaker 4: my followers and like the access I had.

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Speaker 3: But if you do post that, gentlemen, you could also

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Speaker 3: find out information that you might not know.

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Speaker 4: That's true, and that's there's a lot of married men

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Speaker 4: who are real friendly Jesus.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well let's go to the phone lines.

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Speaker 2: We got married on the line married.

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Speaker 8: Good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 5: How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm good married? Now, now how long til you post

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Speaker 2: your boo your bay?

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Speaker 8: I don't believe that he should be posted as my husband.

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Speaker 8: Come on, Mary and listen, go go step further. If

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Speaker 8: I if I start dating someone who's on my social media,

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Speaker 8: they're coming off.

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Speaker 7: You start dating somebody who does what.

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Speaker 8: If they're already on my social media they were already

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Speaker 8: friends and we started dating follow them?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, and that's what I'm marry.

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Speaker 8: I can't. I can't control social media. I can't control

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Speaker 8: nobody else comments on my post. I can't control nothing else.

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Speaker 8: And sometimes you might post things about and then it'll

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Speaker 2: Like No, I like it.

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Speaker 8: I don't need to be getting on posts about what

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Speaker 8: like I just can't deal with it.

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Speaker 7: Okay, hit dog will hollow boy? You know what that

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Speaker 7: means about you?

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Speaker 9: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Who's this?

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Hey Lauren?

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Speaker 7: Good morning?

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Speaker 2: How long until you can post your buoy your bay

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Speaker 2: on social.

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Speaker 8: I'll say six months, but also I say die until

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Speaker 8: you married.

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Speaker 4: You. That's a gap six months to marry.

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Speaker 8: Yes, listen, just in case as it don't work out.

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Speaker 8: And then you was like, oh, isn't that your man

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Speaker 8: over there with that girl in the bar, you know,

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Speaker 8: just to void public embarrassment. Okay, but yeah, like Cardid said,

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Speaker 8: don't post them until you got a ring on the fingers, post.

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Speaker 7: Some card Okay, I agree?

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Speaker 2: Hellos this heyka.

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Speaker 10: Hey with her?

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Speaker 5: I don't have a ring?

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Speaker 10: You ain't?

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Speaker 9: Oh you?

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Speaker 2: Oh you're quoting Cardy too.

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Speaker 8: I definitely am because it's true marriage.

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Speaker 7: I'm still single, Okay, that's a great way to look

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Speaker 7: at it.

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Speaker 2: Man, what's that?

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Speaker 6: Because I feel like until a person makes a commitment

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: And I just feel like, now what social media is

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Speaker 4: just kind of like that is a thing. It's just

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Speaker 4: kind of like permanent. Granted you can delete it, but

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Speaker 4: it's just kind of like you know when someone post

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Speaker 4: they call it, the reveal, the Grammy revealer, your boo,

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Speaker 4: and I'm just like, yeah, no, but you.

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Speaker 3: Know, you also live life and there's so many things

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Speaker 3: and experiences that you take in right that you want

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Speaker 3: to post on social media, whether you're traveling or you're

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Speaker 4: And guess what, he can take my picture? What I boast?

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Speaker 4: I even do you wne bad at? You know that

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Speaker 4: when the Instagram, when we like reaching the hand, I

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Speaker 4: just kind of like, Okay, see this man is treating

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Speaker 4: they're going to click on that man's page and be

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Speaker 4: like ooh he fine, let me like his pictures. Let

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Speaker 4: me go in as dms and women are just like that,

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Speaker 4: So you cannot have what I have if you want to.

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Speaker 4: I was punch in the back of your head.

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Speaker 6: Jesus Chris said something that was true to me. You

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Speaker 6: don't know what these men actually want for you. If

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Speaker 6: I was a woman, I would be lary of any

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Speaker 6: Why you want to pop up in all these pictures

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Speaker 6: all the time? Why you want to just put your

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Speaker 6: head and you know when I'm posting myselfies, why do

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Speaker 7: Me to tag you thing.

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Speaker 3: Let's say, let's say you've never been at the Bai.

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Speaker 3: I take you to the Bai, I say, and I

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Speaker 3: take you to Dubai. Right, we on a beach in Dubai,

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Speaker 3: or we at the mall and we skied, or we shopping.

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Speaker 3: You can't even say thank you daddy and post a picture.

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Speaker 4: Me now, thank you in the caption, but no, you

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Speaker 4: hand feet. That's it envy, that's right.

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Speaker 6: And most of these women ain't gonna post these old

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Speaker 6: white men that be takings like you bai anyway, y'all

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Speaker 6: ashamed of him? Old sugar daddies, them old Caucasian sugar daddies.

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Speaker 3: Y'all got five a five one oh five one. How

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Speaker 3: long into dating someone before you post them on social media?

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Speaker 2: Let's discuss. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, It's topic time.

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Speaker 1: Eight hundred five five one five one to join into

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Speaker 1: the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 3: Morning, everybody in ceej Envy, Charlemagne, the God we are

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Speaker 3: the Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us. Chris

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Speaker 3: Kaitlyn is joining us. She's from South Carolina. She's our

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Speaker 3: guest co host, and we're asking how long until you

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Speaker 3: can post somebody on social media? So your boo, your babe,

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Speaker 3: that is the question, Chris Kaitlyn said. Jane posting, y'all

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Speaker 3: sind you get a rint.

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Speaker 4: Exactly only man you will see on my page right now.

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Speaker 4: If y'all go, is my daddy and my dog?

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Speaker 2: Charlamagne? Are you posting your daddy and your dog?

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Speaker 7: No? No, I don't do that now. And I'm married.

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Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying. I'm just I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't showcase my my family in that way and things.

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Speaker 4: That you love me you want to keep close to you,

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Speaker 4: That's right.

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Speaker 2: Evil man, that's hello. Who's this?

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Speaker 5: He went on visiting board dingo?

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Speaker 3: What's going on?

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Speaker 5: Better stuff?

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Speaker 2: Ding ding?

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Speaker 5: Hey? Are you doing?

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Speaker 9: Wait?

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry? Who's the guest?

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Speaker 4: So today Chris Calen from Charles and South Carolina with.

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Speaker 5: tBu Chris Hayler. How you doing? You have you have

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Speaker 5: a real love your voice?

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Speaker 8: How you doing?

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Speaker 4: I'm great?

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 7: That's that?

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm talking about. I like it. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 5: gonna have to go down to the south real quick.

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Speaker 4: Okay, go ahead, follow you on Instagram. Let me see

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Speaker 4: something real quick.

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Speaker 2: Whoa hey, look put that pressure.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna put it on that girl. Uh, mister dingo

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Speaker 5: dgo so, mister d g O, go ahead?

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Speaker 2: And all right?

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Speaker 4: How do so?

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Speaker 3: Now we're talking about how long until you can post

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Speaker 5: Oh no, that's not happening, not at all. I actually

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Speaker 5: lost relationships because of this because I am a firm

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Speaker 5: believer in not hosting. I don't people be putting all

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Speaker 5: that bad juju out there. They be wanting what you got.

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Speaker 5: I don't like my business out there in the street,

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Speaker 5: So I would like to keep stuff on the laps.

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Speaker 5: And then also just to case something happened. I don't

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Speaker 5: really got to worry about the whole taking down takes

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Speaker 5: and hey what happened and all the homies because nah,

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Speaker 5: I'm good Jacob.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, say you reach out to Chris Kaitlyn, she give

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Speaker 2: you a shot.

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Speaker 3: Y'all start dating three or four months and you ain't

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Speaker 3: gonna post it, like, yeah, that's my bait.

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Speaker 5: No, No, no, not at all, because I wanted to

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Speaker 5: actually work. So you know, once we get like married,

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Speaker 5: then I'm comfortable enough to post you. And then when

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Speaker 5: we get the tattoos and all that, that's like thirty

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Speaker 4: That means you ain't going nowhere tattoos.

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Speaker 5: Hold on.

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Speaker 7: That's a great point when you brought up Chris.

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Speaker 6: If you're dating a guy and the guy wants to

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Speaker 6: post you, do you let him because you if you

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Speaker 6: you let him?

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Speaker 2: He can't post me?

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Speaker 4: That's fine, I mean, but I'm not posting you. If

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Speaker 4: you want to post me, that's fine. But I just

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Speaker 2: It's like you got some criminal activity out there. You

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Speaker 3: Nobody or something don't post me.

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Speaker 2: No social Security but nothing.

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Speaker 4: You can't post me because I mean, you know cool,

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Speaker 4: but I like, you're not. I'm not posting you and post.

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Speaker 6: You with the hashtag like they mine wifey.

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Speaker 7: Got homes.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, Troy. She listens to my podcast, Troy,

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Speaker 2: what's up?

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Speaker 9: What's up?

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Speaker 7: What's up?

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Speaker 9: Bro?

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Speaker 3: We're talking about posting your girl. You post your girl,

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Speaker 3: talk to us.

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Speaker 9: So I'm actually getting ready to post her this week

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Speaker 9: because I'm flying her out to Puerto Rico for her birthday.

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Speaker 9: And we've been talking about this our whole relationship.

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Now let me ask you a question. You said,

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Speaker 9: Right, yeah, I've been knowing her for fourteen years.

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Speaker 9: No, she lives here.

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Speaker 2: Oh y'all right?

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Speaker 5: Out to yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh birthday?

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Speaker 9: All right?

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Speaker 2: So you're about to post her. She doesn't want you

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Speaker 2: to post her?

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Speaker 9: Well, she was reluctant about it because it's my reputation

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Speaker 9: in our state but out in past the Smith text.

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Speaker 7: So you know, I'm what you got a reputation for

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Speaker 7: being musty. But she smells what you're talking about?

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Speaker 9: Are you?

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Speaker 4: Are you community peen?

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Speaker 9: I have yeah, yeah, I was a horror.

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Speaker 4: To how long y'all been together since March. I'm sorry, sir,

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Speaker 4: you could be working on yourself though. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 9: I mean I got her divorce and I was single

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Speaker 4: Wait now wait, you you're divorced. Yeah, and you've been

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Speaker 7: For?

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Speaker 9: Four year?

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Speaker 5: Sir?

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Speaker 4: I think you need to heal some more.

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Speaker 5: Are you healing though?

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Speaker 4: Are you healing? Are you holing?

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Speaker 9: I'm you like I have a dual relationship with my

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Speaker 9: ex co parent. I don't care what she got going on.

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Speaker 9: I don't stalk Facebook, Instagram.

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Speaker 7: I think he's holding. He's in between holding and pulling

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Speaker 7: and healing. That's what I hear.

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Speaker 10: But I have fun.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I love her.

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Speaker 6: I don't believe you. I think you should let that

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Speaker 6: woman trust her instincts. Women, things are never really wrong.

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Speaker 6: She don't want to be posted. She don't want to

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Speaker 4: She wants you know why. She wants their trip and

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Speaker 4: the trip includes being posted. But she's gonna tell me

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Speaker 4: archive that picture, man, archive mona.

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Speaker 2: Now you're posting your boo, your bay on social media.

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Speaker 10: I am not not no more. I absolute recently just

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Speaker 10: went through this.

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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 8: I'm a big fan.

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Speaker 10: I'm so surprised I got through.

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Speaker 7: I feel like retriggering some traumas.

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Speaker 10: I am here for you girls, all right, So let

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Speaker 10: me tell you guys, I dated that you're just being

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Speaker 10: for a year, and then we after a year, we

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Speaker 10: caute official. He posted me first, and that's why I

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Speaker 10: felt like kind of obligated because I didn't want to

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Speaker 10: not post him. And at this time he was good,

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Speaker 10: so all right, I posted him. Now he had a whole,

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Speaker 10: full grown relationship, full grow or over social media. Anybody

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Speaker 10: here so that they happy, all kind of good. If

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Speaker 10: this means a cheat.

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Speaker 7: On me his baby mother, damn, he cheated on you

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Speaker 7: with his baby mother.

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Speaker 10: Cheat on me his baby mother, and I don't play

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Speaker 10: those games now, anybody embarrassing. Had to take all them

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Speaker 10: pictures down, all them videos down, and it's a grab.

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Speaker 3: Well will say this, if you didn't post him, you

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Speaker 3: probably would have never found out that.

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Speaker 10: No, no, that's not true, that's not true.

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Speaker 9: I would have follo out anyway.

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Speaker 10: But I really wish I didn't post him because I

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Speaker 10: somebody who posted. So it's that I really went out

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Speaker 10: on a limb. And yeah, doing that again.

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Speaker 7: You should have trusted your gut, your your own relationship.

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Speaker 2: Damn it.

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 4: Well he still had a baby she didn't know about.

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Speaker 7: Still in the know.

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Speaker 4: And this is why you don't d baby daddies.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, what's the moral of the story.

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Speaker 4: Don't post that man.

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Speaker 6: Until you get a ring. I agree with him, Chris

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Speaker 6: and everybody else calling up. Don't post that man until

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Speaker 6: you get a ring. Until he makes a real commitment

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Speaker 6: to you. Don't make a real commitment to him. The

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Speaker 6: post go on Instagram official is a real commitment.

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Speaker 4: That is a real commitment. And everyone's gonna know, like

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Speaker 4: when you're when you go out or something like that,

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Speaker 4: they're gonna be like, yeah, I saw your man. That

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Speaker 4: was always the thing. I saw your man. I saw

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Speaker 4: your man.

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Speaker 2: Nobody wants all that.

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Speaker 3: Jesus, all right, Well, when we come back, we got

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Speaker 3: your room and report JT. She she wild out on

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Speaker 3: somebody on social media.

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Speaker 2: We'll get to it next, it don't move. It's the

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Speaker 2: Breakfast Club on morning