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Speaker 1: Right now it is time to ask the CLO Steve Harvey,

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Speaker 1: chief Love Officer in the building.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Denay in Columbia writes, I worked for my aunt's party,

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Speaker 1: her party planning business, and I did an engagement party

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Speaker 1: for one of my friends that I've been having casual

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Speaker 1: sex with for years. He asked me to have a

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Speaker 1: menaje twad with him and his fiance because it's his.

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Speaker 2: Wedding gift from her. Should I give him one last

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Speaker 2: to rot or tell him to kick rocks?

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Speaker 3: Well for you to write into the show to see

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Speaker 3: if you should participate in a menage tis or not,

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Speaker 3: And then asked me, it only means to me that

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Speaker 3: you're giving it some serious consideration.

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Speaker 2: Who else to do it?

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Speaker 1: Not?

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Speaker 4: So what do hear you call it?

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Speaker 1: Me?

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Speaker 3: Fo asking me to COASA for this? Because well, let's

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Speaker 3: look at a couple of things right here. You know,

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Speaker 3: you know you ain't it, you know you're not going

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Speaker 3: to be it, and she obviously is okay with this,

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Speaker 3: and this shouldn't be a mess.

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Speaker 4: So hanging there, this ain't gonna last. And I don't

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Speaker 4: mean to sound.

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Speaker 3: Spiritual about it, but you best believe this too shall pass.

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Speaker 3: And all this is gonna piece a bunch of mess.

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Speaker 3: It's all this is so I can't help you do

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Speaker 3: like you want to do. Don't call me and ask

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Speaker 3: me should you sing?

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Speaker 1: Well, wait a minute now, I am not seeing free

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Speaker 1: but the fiance gave this to her future husband as

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Speaker 1: a wedding gift.

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Speaker 3: Don't get in this mess, beautiful, You're not a gift.

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Speaker 3: You're a piece of tradable meat. You ain't no gift. Well,

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Speaker 3: you can thank you all if you will to ah,

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Speaker 3: y'all crazy? Next one ship All right?

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Speaker 2: Edna in Detroit.

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Speaker 1: I'm an older woman and I'm dating again after leaving

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Speaker 1: a long term relationship. There are not many things for

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Speaker 1: older couples to do to have fun. Movies make me sleepy,

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Speaker 1: Bowling is too aggressive, and I don't like picnic skiing,

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Speaker 1: swimming or any other daredevil activities.

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Speaker 2: What do people of my age do for fun on dates?

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Speaker 4: Okay, now let's go over this. You're an older person.

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Speaker 4: She's back on the Dayton scene. I didn't say.

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Speaker 2: Happen but no, But her name is thatna.

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Speaker 3: Edna is a great clue that you were born before

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Speaker 3: nineteen sixty, probably sixty. I know you were born before

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Speaker 3: nineteen seventy. But edna listen to me. If you can't

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Speaker 3: go to movies because they make you sleepy, if you

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Speaker 3: can't bowld cause it make you aggressive, You can't ski

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Speaker 3: because probably you tain't ever been skiing before, and and

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Speaker 3: all people don't need to try to learn how to

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Speaker 3: ski because falling is not what you do.

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Speaker 4: Now you don't yet skiing, swimming, what else, Shirley.

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Speaker 2: Other dared devil activities?

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Speaker 3: Swimming is not a Dad Devil activity, movies is not

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Speaker 3: Dad devil, and bowling is a dare devil activity. What

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Speaker 3: I suggest is you and him go to an assisted

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Speaker 3: living facility. And the reason I'm suggested general, don't listen

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Speaker 3: to me go down to an assisted living facility because

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Speaker 3: watching movies, bowling and walking is a Dad devil activity.

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Speaker 3: They need some assist suns. That's what it sounds like.

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Speaker 3: Can't nothing else?

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Speaker 1: Hell, we have all activities like bungee jumping.

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Speaker 4: You know that ain't what was daddy.

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Speaker 3: She ain't saying bolding, skined, swimming and watching.

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Speaker 2: Movies or any dared devil activities.

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Speaker 3: None of them was Dad devil. Dad devil is bungee jumping, sail.

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Speaker 4: Gud right glad. That's dad devil. The boney. Ain't dad devil?

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Speaker 4: You're old girl.

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Speaker 2: She give her a suggestion, Girl, girl.

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Speaker 4: He could let me do this shit.

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Speaker 3: Girl, He come talking about put your fingers in this

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Speaker 3: hole on his ball. I said, what, Then he's gonna

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Speaker 3: talking about something rolling down this plank of wood. Girl,

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Speaker 3: I was sitting on now, I ain't knowing what to do.

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Speaker 3: I was so scared. What was y'all doing? Bowling both?

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Speaker 3: How did you just describe both? Then we had to

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Speaker 3: go down there, all that noise. Girl, I messed around

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Speaker 3: and then fell in this thing. They got gutters down there. Girl,

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Speaker 3: you don't want to be in.

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Speaker 2: No gunner, not a guda ball. Oh, she's talking to

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Speaker 2: her girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: Girl, Danny, I'm talking about knocked these pears down. Look

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Speaker 3: how far out at him? Oh? I said, girl, this

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Speaker 3: bad right here. He too much, He be wanting to

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Speaker 3: do too much. I'm gonna have to take me somebody else.

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Speaker 2: All right, we're moving on Quay Seller, walk.

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Speaker 4: Up them steps all the way up through steps, all

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Speaker 4: the way all the way.

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Speaker 1: Quay Sela and Huntsville, says. My husband and I live

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Speaker 1: above our means. And he's always talking about traveling and

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Speaker 1: seeing the world. I can't see past credit card debt

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Speaker 1: and car notes, so it's frustrating to me. He can't

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Speaker 1: understand why I'm stressed. So I stopped having sex to

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Speaker 1: get his attention. I missed the sex. So is there

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Speaker 1: a better way?

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Speaker 4: What you know? Okay? So Quay Selah, let me ask you.

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Speaker 4: So got quite right, q Q.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to travel mm hmm, and you don't

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Speaker 3: want to have sex.

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Speaker 2: She's stressed.

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Speaker 3: Well guess well, well, guess what Herbert gonna do?

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Speaker 2: Qucella and Herbert Herbert.

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Speaker 4: HQ headquarters raise.

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Speaker 3: Herbert is gonna find somebody that like to travel, that

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Speaker 3: don't get stressed out and want to have sex.

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Speaker 4: That's coming.

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Speaker 1: But you know she's stressed because you know they're living

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Speaker 1: above their means. She says it's about the money.

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Speaker 3: They compromise. There is a compromise, and she'd havene made it.

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Speaker 3: She didn't just shot it. We're not having sex.

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Speaker 2: But she regrets that decision.

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Speaker 4: She regrets the start having sex tonight. She wants to

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Speaker 4: as soon as Herbert get in from work.

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Speaker 3: Herbert, because you know Herbert done that because they oh,

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Speaker 3: they got Quay Sella.

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Speaker 4: He is heating and air he do.

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Speaker 2: Air condition Oh does he okay? Well that's good money.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's good money. And and and Herbert deserved the

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Speaker 3: life he working for. You need to have sex with

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Speaker 3: Herbert before he crawled up in one of the windows.

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Speaker 3: He down there working on bo he all in the bushes,

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Speaker 3: looking at the wom look at him. Herb gonna mentioned

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Speaker 3: on tap on one of good windows. And somebody gonna

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Speaker 3: let me inquire because some other people stretched out to it.

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Speaker 4: They handle it different.

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Speaker 2: All right, thank you, cilo, you're listening. Steve Harvey Morning

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