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Speaker 1: we're gonna talk Peter season of The Bachelor. To get

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Speaker 1: with his pants off, but you know. Um So, anyway,

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00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: was my first weekend in l A. He got invited

427
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 1: to a wedding party a reception, but we actually didn't

428
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 1: go to the wedding, but the bride and groom were

429
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: bachelor fans. So we went to the wedding and it

430
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 1: was in Santa Monica, and I didn't know who it was,

431
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 1: but we walked in and Jonah Hill and Taylor Swift

432
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 1: were there, and uh they were apparently friends with them,

433
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 1: and so it was this weird moment. At one point

434
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 1: I found myself standing next to Taylor and she turned

435
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 1: to me and goes, Hi, I'm Taylor, And I was like,

436
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 1: what why do I say? Do I pretend that like

437
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 1: I don't know who she is? Or do I just

438
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 1: be like yeah big? So I said Hi, I'm Jared,

439
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 1: and then uh, she found out I was from Rhode

440
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: Island and she has a summer home in around So

441
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 1: we bonded it over that, and that's my Taylor stuff story.

442
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 1: It was great guys, very cool, and they like actually

443
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 1: hung out like dancing in a small group of ten

444
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: for forty five minutes, and then he called me the

445
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: next day we weren't together. I think it's actually more

446
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: excited than this story right here. So she's I just

447
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 1: tried to remain like really, I mean like I was

448
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: very nonchalantly being like, should she like hit on you

449
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 1: or she flirty towards you? Was not. I was so

450
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 1: thankful for Joe Alwyn at the moment I get rid

451
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 1: of this pillow, it's really uncomfortable. Please move it, alright,

452
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna step away the night. One favorite for all

453
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: of you. You have a job to do, You have

454
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: a couple of jobs to you to night one is

455
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,959
Speaker 1: thinking of questions for everybody, including Ashley and I. The

456
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: next is when you get a chance, we gotta make

457
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 1: a young man's dream come true. And that's Jared's here.

458
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 1: Please get on your Instagram, go to the Red Sox

459
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: Instagram account and message them and please say, please let

460
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: Jared through the first pitch out at a Red Sox

461
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: game this year, guys, Please do it. Jared has another

462
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: favor for all you guys, if you just say a

463
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,120
Speaker 1: little prayer that Tom Brady returns to the Patriots next year.

464
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: By the way, I mean a lot to by the way,

465
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 1: let me say this by hey, hey, we're all friends, Jared, Okay, Hey, hey,

466
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: I don't care if he returns to the patre me

467
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: say this as a New England Patriots fan, as hold

468
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 1: on as a Patriots fan. You'll welcome from Jimmy g Okay,

469
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: you're welcome. All right. It feels good, baby, feels good. Um.

470
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: We're gonna start with Jared and I because we've never

471
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: got a chance to really talk about this on any podcast.

472
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: Before we're have we talked about Jared I's relationship where

473
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: it began. Jared and my backstage screaming it try living

474
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: with her, so I love you. There was night one

475
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: of the Bachelorette of Caitlin Bristow's season, and I was

476
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: the first one out of the limo, and I'm gonna

477
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: tell the story. I would love for you to add

478
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: in here as we go, and I'm standing here and

479
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: more and more people come in, and more and more

480
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 1: incredibly good looking people that are tall with fitted suits

481
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 1: on um, nice beards, hair slicked back, perfect hairlines. Dude.

482
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 1: When Sean Booth walked in, we both looked atach other

483
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 1: was like, Dan, how does someone how does someone look

484
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: like that and talk like that? So I'm standing at

485
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: the gate as you see, because all of a sudden,

486
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: I hear this man yelling from the parking lot and

487
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: I look out and there's this guy who has his

488
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 1: shirt like halfway um buttoned and he has a super

489
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:53,360
Speaker 1: Man thing on his chest. It was love man, okay.

490
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: And I look at him and I'm not kidding you,

491
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: my very I said, that's the nerd I need my life,

492
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: and he was correct. So Jared comes in. I walk

493
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 1: in at that point and I sit on the couch.

494
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: You've seeing the Bachelor mansion and I'm sitting in the middle.

495
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 1: I'll never forget this and that whoever the guy that

496
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: drank a lot that night? Um, Ryan job, Wow, killing

497
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: the game. Don't hide. You should be proud of you.

498
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: That's amazing. That's amazing. So Ryan is at this point,

499
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding jump. This is the scene. So if

500
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 1: if you're sitting in the living room, if you look

501
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,919
Speaker 1: to your right, there's the pool. Ryan is at this

502
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: point jumping in the pool and his underwear. And I'm

503
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: sitting there and Jared sits next to me, and I

504
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: remember looking at Jared. I said, you can't make this

505
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: stuff up. Like we get a front row sea at

506
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: a show that millions of people will watch. And I

507
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: don't know if I'll be here tomorrow, but I'm really

508
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: glad I was here tonight. And Jared looked at me

509
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: and he goes, we don't belong here, do we? We're

510
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: not comfortable here. No, this is not what I don't

511
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: know what we're doing here. Number three and number four

512
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: that season. It's pretty cool. So Jared, I really want

513
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: to get into a lot louder than that start and

514
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: fourth guys. Okay, so fast forward weeks and weeks of

515
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: Jared and I hanging out and talking, like working through

516
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: this with with Zorn up there? Um yea where the

517
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: way up there? You can't see him, it's dark. Um,

518
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: we'll bring him down. Um can somebody go grab Zorn

519
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: in a second? Um? So anyways, weeks of navigating this

520
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: whole journey that is wild and weird and we can't

521
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: wait to answer all of your questions about it. But

522
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: there's this moment there there's four of us left, and

523
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: I think this is really really interesting because it's interesting.

524
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: I mean, if it's not to you, well, it's gonna

525
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: be great on the podcast. Too bad, because Ben's the host.

526
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: He's gonna telling it. We're in Ireland and everybody else

527
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: is out on a date. It's just Jared and I

528
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: in the house. And at the beginning, I remember sitting

529
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: next to him and he goes, we don't belong here, Dewey,

530
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: and I said, no, we don't. And then throughout the

531
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: experiences be these little moments with Jared's sitting next to me,

532
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: be like I can't believe we're still here. I can't

533
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: believe we're still here, he get and I'm not kidding

534
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: these would happen. And then there is this moment where

535
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: Jared and I hadn't been able to talk for a while.

536
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: He had just taken a car right across the Ireland

537
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: Um with Caitlin. They kissed the Blarnie Larne Blarnie. It

538
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: meant nothing, Baby, it meant nothing. I normally don't get

539
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: jealous about the Caitlin stuff, but like, we don't need

540
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 1: to get too deep. They just drove across. So we

541
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: get to this hotel and Jared and I are sitting there.

542
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: Everybody's gone, and and we said, can we just hang

543
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: out and talk with the producers? For whatever reason said

544
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: do whatever you want. We went down to a steam

545
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: room in this hotel. We literally shut the door. It's

546
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: a three person steam room. We shut the door because

547
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 1: we knew at that point no mikes or cameras could

548
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: be honest, we're in the steam room because you don't

549
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: have to wear mike's in the steam room, so you

550
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: can really just let well. Also, I mean, if you

551
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 1: have an opportunity to go in to the steam room

552
00:30:55,160 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: with Ben, you don't say no. And here's the coolest

553
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 1: part of the story for me. We sat not this part,

554
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:05,719
Speaker 1: the next part of this. We sat in there for

555
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: an hour and a half. Have you ever sat in

556
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: a sauna or steam room for an hour and a half.

557
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 1: It's torture, it's brutal. But we just were talking about

558
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: life and what was coming next. And he looks at me.

559
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: Then I will never forget to see goes no matter

560
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: what happens here. What a beautiful experience this is. And

561
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: now I look at these two and it all makes sense.

562
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's so cute that, like

563
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: two very important men in my life, my husband and

564
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: my co host were just hanging out together so much.

565
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: Who would have thought me, Ashley, I've the big Lashes

566
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: card Ashley at the time, I would have never thought,

567
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 1: like somewhere in Ireland, these two my husband sitting there

568
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: taping the show. And I remember in Ireland, like Ben said,

569
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: it was the four of us, and it was the

570
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: Rose Ceremony, and it was Sean, myself, Ben and Nick.

571
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: Needless to say, I feel too confident, but I'll never

572
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: forget that day you turned to me right before we

573
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: started walking into the Roos ceremony, He's like, Buddy, I

574
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 1: think it's gonna be one of us that goes home.

575
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: And I was like, I looked at him. I was like, yeah,

576
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: she's either gonna pick me or this six ft four

577
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: better version looking at a better looking version of me.

578
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: I wonder where she's gonna go. But no, I I'll

579
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: never forget that song. It was a very, uh monumental

580
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: moment because I remember early on being close with you,

581
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: being close to Tanner Joe Bailey, Ben Uh, but then

582
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: it felt like throughout the season kind of everybody started

583
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: there was like not clicks, but I remember you were

584
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: really close with Sean and then we spent like time together.

585
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: But it wasn't till that day in Ireland in the

586
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: sauna where it's like, sounds really odd, guys, but it

587
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: was just like a moment where you you just like, Okay, yeah,

588
00:32:56,200 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 1: the mom buddy various. It's been way too long or

589
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: to finish up this thought here and and Ben, we

590
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 1: have some questions having I have to start a new

591
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: campaign after so I haven't seen Ben Zorn and probably

592
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: four years. This is wild. Um. Well, well, if you

593
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: have any questions for these, feel free to join in.

594
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: We have a really weird question. This is gonna really

595
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 1: throw it off here. But we're sitting at lunch today

596
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: and this is gonna get really awkward for a second.

597
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: Oh no, you're not gonna bring this one up now?

598
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: Do you ever bring this up? Now? Yeah, I'm gonna

599
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 1: bring it up now. This is how far Ashley and

600
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: Jared have come in my life. All Right, we're sitting

601
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: at lunch. They remember when we started this podcast and

602
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: you all listening, I hope you've listened for a few years. Um,

603
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: If you remember Ashley at the very beginning, as I've

604
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: said many times, she was emotional. UM. She was labeled

605
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: the virgin um. She was praised for that, criticized for that,

606
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: but ultimately through the podcast we always advocated on behalf

607
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: of being honest with yourself, doing what is right for you.

608
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: Actually did a great job at that um for years.

609
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 1: And then she meets Jared and she's the fullest, most

610
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 1: confident version of herself, not only physically but also emotionally.

611
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: I've seen a change in Ashley that I can't even

612
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: tell you. It's been awesome. So listen to this. At

613
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 1: lunch today, they tell me that they're signing on to

614
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: sponsor a lubricant brand. We could just leave it at that.

615
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,760
Speaker 1: Isn't married life great? Hey wait wait, wait, wait before

616
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: I have to say this, that was very funny. Thank you,

617
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: thank you for bringing it up. Um, but you guys,

618
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:52,399
Speaker 1: do you remember Joe Bailey? Yes? Do you guys think

619
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 1: that we should bring Joe Bailey back to Paradise Because

620
00:34:57,120 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: Joe Bailey he dated my sister after that whole Paradise

621
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: season and he gave me the greatest laughs of my life. Um,

622
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: Rose before Rose, before Rose. But like, you know what

623
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: was the catchphrase he said, I gotta get that rope,

624
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 1: gotta get gotta get that rose, give me that rose.

625
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 1: I know you guys don't really care, but I really

626
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: want to start this campaign and get Joe Bailey back

627
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 1: on Paradise because do you remember what he got in

628
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 1: trouble for during that Paradise season. It was for like

629
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:35,280
Speaker 1: texting Samantha before the season. And now we have Demi

630
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 1: and Christian in a full blown relationship before the season.

631
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: A lot of people, a lot of people talk before

632
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: the seasons. Now he was just the first one to

633
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: do it. Stagecoach, stagecoach exactly. The rules have changed Ashley,

634
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not again. I'm not against stop that.

635
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 1: He's a very good looking man. It doesn't matter his

636
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: personality shineing Ashley ben Zorn sitting over here. So ben

637
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: Zorn was on our season of The Bachelorette. Caitlin Bristow's

638
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 1: season The Bachelorette Kylin season was the best. He was

639
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: a fan favorite, beloved for his kindness, his teddy bear

640
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: like mentality, and also that he absolutely destroyed us in

641
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: the boxing ring. If you remember this, knock people out cold.

642
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 1: If you remember especially, that was the hell. Jared may

643
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 1: have gone to the hospital, but he put up a

644
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 1: great knocked Tiggy's out. Yeah, he knocked me out to

645
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: two people to get to Zorn, and then Zorne kicked

646
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: my ass. To be fair, to be fair, in no

647
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 1: way was that fair. I mean, I'm going in day

648
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: one and this is our first group day, like the

649
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: first day after we all make it in the house

650
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: and we all get pitted against each other. It's like, okay,

651
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 1: you guys have to go and knock each other out.

652
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: And I remember thinking myself, I'm like, I don't want

653
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: to fight Jared. I like Jared, I remember to fight

654
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: this guy before the match. I tried to be a

655
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: tough guy and I wanted to and I was like, hey, listen, man,

656
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: don't take it easy on me. And You're like, don't

657
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: worry about that, and I was like, oh no, oh no,

658
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: take it easy on me. Well, time flies, We've got

659
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: a big night ahead of us. But this was a surprise. Ben.

660
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: I would love for you to tell everybody right now

661
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: what your life looks like today, because I know you

662
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 1: have some really exciting stuff going on. Um. Yeah, my

663
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: life is is uh, it is fantastic right now. Um.

664
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: I'm so happy with with the way that everything is

665
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: right now. Um. For those of you guys that don't

666
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: have social media, which is probably none of you guys. Um,

667
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: I got engaged six months ago, so I am off

668
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: the market. We are planning a wedding and I couldn't

669
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 1: be more excited. Um. I am so in love with

670
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 1: her and we have a crazy story as well. But um,

671
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: I'm really looking forward to marrying this girl here tonight.

672
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 1: She is here tonight. That's gonna be awesome. She's backstage,

673
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 1: she's backstage. Well, hey, Ben, I couldn't be happy for you.

674
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 1: One of the nicest guys around. Uh, love is something

675
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 1: to celebrate, and we'll celebrate you here on the Almost

676
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 1: Famous Podcast. Hey, thanks for coming on, Jared, thank you

677
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 1: for coming on. Thank you tag the people when you

678
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 1: go back there, because we've got just yeah, let me

679
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,399
Speaker 1: know all your handles. I'm sure I'll tag you guys.

680
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: Off know the women in the back. Never mind. The

681
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 1: next three guests on the Almost Famous Podcast live our

682
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 1: three women who are some of Bachelor Nation's favorites. No,

683
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: just stay here for a second, some of Bachelor Nation's favorites.

684
00:38:49,800 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 1: We've got Sydney, Katie and Annale. Al Right, so this

685
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 1: is how this is gonna work. This is gonna be

686
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: the greatest game, live game and almost famous history. This

687
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 1: is gonna be the Bachelor Quiz. So if you think

688
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: you know Bachelor and Bachelorette trivia and a second, actually

689
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: is gonna step into the audience and pick three of

690
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: you to come up here on stage. I promise you.

691
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: I may be biased. I may be biased, but the

692
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 1: prize for this is worth it. Before we before we do,

693
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 1: we gotta talk to our ladies up here. Analyze everybody,

694
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 1: give it up for so analyst. Before this whole night started,

695
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: actually we're talking about the questions that we want to

696
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 1: ask everybody up here because we've gotten to know you

697
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: all a lot over, especially over the last year. But

698
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 1: in least the first question I want to ask you

699
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: because you've talked about it many times before since we

700
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,479
Speaker 1: first met you on The Bachelor, your life has had

701
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: some dramatics up and downs all leading up to these

702
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: experience where you kind of put yourself back up on TV.

703
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 1: You try to hold yourself together, you try to do

704
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: your best try keyword. What has been the biggest misconception

705
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 1: of you after kind of watching the show back? Oh Man, Yeah, okay,

706
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 1: I had a different question, guys, Okay, um, biggest mixed conception,

707
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: I think, Ah, it was really hard watching myself back

708
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:45,240
Speaker 1: the first time around, because I feel like I saw

709
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: a version of myself that I had never been confronted

710
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 1: with before. And then when I did Paradise, Uh, it

711
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,879
Speaker 1: was very different. Um. I felt more free. I felt

712
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: like I could be myself, but people would always call

713
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 1: me desperate, and I felt like that was something to

714
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,439
Speaker 1: do with my age more than anything, And I think

715
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: that was something that really troubled me because I am

716
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: one of the older people in the Bachelor franchise, which

717
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:17,440
Speaker 1: I am proud of. But if it is is that

718
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 1: just because you're of a certain age does not make

719
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 1: you desperate. So and in the real world, I am

720
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 1: not desperate. We're on a dating show. We're trying to

721
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 1: meet people who are trying to make these connections. Like

722
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 1: in that circumstance, you are gonna be a little desperate.

723
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: You gotta get that Rose. You know, how did you

724
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 1: feel this week when you saw that there was a

725
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: girl that was afraid of pick up because because they

726
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: made it seem exactly what they did with your bumper

727
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 1: cars and the dogs. All I gotta say is, if

728
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: that girl doesn't make it to the end, she will

729
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: be on paradise because they're making her very memorable. So

730
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: I feel like the producers knew that they wanted to

731
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: bring me back, and I feel like that was their

732
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 1: way of being, like, let's give this girl a good

733
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 1: storyline so that we can really see more of her.

734
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: Victoria is not her name, um, so Victoria, I support you.

735
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: I feel like trauma comes from everything and anything, and

736
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: we cannot dismiss trauma. So before we move on, the

737
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: Katie here an list, I prepped you for this question,

738
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: and I haven't heard your answer to this, but the

739
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 1: last time I really watched you on Paradise Um was

740
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: when you were very much protective of a friend and

741
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 1: you're speaking out against Clay. At the time, it felt

742
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 1: like Analize is the villain trying to ruin something good.

743
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 1: I mean, that was I think our take even on

744
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: the podcast, and somebody loves you and friends with you,

745
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: but like, what is Analyze doing this seems weird? This

746
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: is out of character for her because at the time

747
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: the only thing we saw was a love story being

748
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: displayed in front of us. Now fast forward to this moment,

749
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: we now know that that relationship has ended, it not

750
00:42:56,160 --> 00:43:00,280
Speaker 1: in a very pretty way. Do you feel just a fie?

751
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: What is your emotion after hearing kind of the criticism

752
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: for so long now saying you're right, it's a It's hard.

753
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 1: I struggled with it even being there. I didn't really

754
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,240
Speaker 1: want to confront Clay, but I felt like, in that moment,

755
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 1: it's what I would have wanted for myself if I

756
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 1: would have been an Angelis situation. I'm very close friends

757
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 1: with Angela, and all I can say is there's always

758
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 1: more to the story and what you see on TV

759
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:35,319
Speaker 1: is like one percent. So it's it's tricky. Um. I

760
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: don't like to say I told you so, but I

761
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: feel like tameful circle right, like yeah, so I don't know. Um.

762
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 1: I do think breakups are really tricky though, and I

763
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: think now, having some perspective and some time pass, uh,

764
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: I would have handled it very differently. I feel like

765
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 1: maybe I would have liked to talk to Clay and

766
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: had more of a conversation with him instead of going

767
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 1: about it the way that I went about it onto

768
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: Katie here good replicating Katie. The last time we talked

769
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 1: to you on the podcast is about I want to say,

770
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: like six seven weeks ago, and it's before you announced

771
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: your breakup with Chris. But I felt like, did you

772
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 1: feel like at the time you're on the verge? Like

773
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 1: that was your decision making weak? How what what place

774
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,760
Speaker 1: were you in then? And what place are you in now? Shoot?

775
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: What is that? On the podcast November early November, it

776
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:41,799
Speaker 1: was all a little rocky. Um yeah, wait, what was

777
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: the question? I know it was rocky. How was your

778
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 1: emotional state then and how is it now? My emotional

779
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: state my emotional state now is ef and awesome. So

780
00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: I feel good. I feel liberated and free, is what

781
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:06,720
Speaker 1: I can say. So I feel really good now. Then

782
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: I played the fifth But yeah, I feel great now, guys.

783
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 1: So one of the things we were talking about earlier

784
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: is Katie has gone into this new chapter where she's

785
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: super excited about what's next, and she's created a dream board.

786
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: Has anybody out here created a dream boarder vision board before? No?

787
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: Not many of us. Wow, here's the thing. Let me

788
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,280
Speaker 1: talk to you for a second. You all deserve to dream,

789
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: so start dreaming, write them down, attacking. It's it's it's

790
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 1: like a bucket list. So you create a bucket list

791
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 1: because you felt like there was a lot of things

792
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: in life you haven't done. What are some of the

793
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 1: things that are now on your bucket list as a

794
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 1: single woman stepping back out into the world. So, yeah,

795
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:51,720
Speaker 1: I created an experiences list because I found that I'm

796
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: I love learning, but I'm a googler and I'm just like,

797
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:56,320
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm just gonna google and some on

798
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: my couch and learn. But I decided to learn through

799
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: experience and try and learned by living, and so I

800
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: wrote this list. First of all, I've never been to

801
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: Vegas for fun. I'm such a workaholic. I'm going to Vegas,

802
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: m I've never been to Europe. I haven't been snowboarding

803
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 1: or skiing. I just like worked my whole life, and

804
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: so this year I'm just like doing all those things

805
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,840
Speaker 1: that I've never got to do, and I'm doing literally

806
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 1: over one of them. Next week, Katie is heading on

807
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: Tuesday to Italy with somebody that you may know. Really well,

808
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: who are you going to Italy with? I'm going to

809
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 1: Italy with Demi and then going to New York after that,

810
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 1: then skydiving after that. Then so you know what, I

811
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 1: took all my hard earned money. I worked my butt off,

812
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 1: by the way, so I took all my hard earned money,

813
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 1: even the Instagram money, and uh and I went all right. Next,

814
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: we have Sydney, who was such a hot commodity in Paradise. Here,

815
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: I felt like, you want, how many dates did you

816
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: go on total in Paradise? Just one date? It's not

817
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 1: that hot of comedy. I don't know what you're talking about.

818
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 1: I was a lot of people's friends. You're a lot

819
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 1: of those friends, okay, but you're still very very hot commodity.

820
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,399
Speaker 1: But my my biggest question as far as Paradise goes

821
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: with you is there was like a cliffhanger or like

822
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 1: an unresolved storyline. And that was what happened with you

823
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: and Mike. And why was it one day you guys

824
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,279
Speaker 1: were in a relationship. It was great, and then the

825
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: next day it was just non existent. Okay, what did

826
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,399
Speaker 1: we not see on TV? Well, you didn't see any

827
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 1: of our relationship. What happened was we were actually in

828
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: like a couple of weeks relationship. We were actually seeing

829
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: each other as much as you can call it that

830
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 1: when we were just like sitting on the beach with

831
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 1: each other. Um, I think it was the wedding. Um,

832
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: they were really mean and they took all the couples

833
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: and they split us apart, and they were like, figure

834
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,879
Speaker 1: out your relationships right now. So I was I had

835
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: to go back to the house and he got to stay.

836
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 1: And he came up to me as everyone's like running around,

837
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 1: he was like, okay, what what are we? Basically like

838
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: are we? I was like I don't. I don't know,

839
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: Like you're going to the wedding, I'm not. And I

840
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 1: wanted him to experience it because if I were in

841
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: his position, I would want to see what was out there,

842
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 1: because we hadn't been let out the house at all

843
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: at that point. So I love Mike. He's great. I'm

844
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 1: he's awesome. UM, But I let him do his thing.

845
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: And then he came back to the beach and he

846
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: was like, so I met people, and what do you

847
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 1: think we are? And I was like, well, you sound

848
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: like you like them a lot more than me, so

849
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you do that. So we kind of

850
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:30,240
Speaker 1: had like a conscious uncoupling. But I love Mike, don't worry, um,

851
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: but we're just not like romantically a thing. But that's wishes,

852
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: you know, here's the thing. And actually we were talking again,

853
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: we were prepping for all this tonight and send you.

854
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: One of the things that came to mind was how

855
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I know you don't feel I mean maybe

856
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: because of the number of dates you went on, but

857
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: we know you were based on conversations with a past guest,

858
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 1: people who are interested in you. One of the questions

859
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 1: for you, and maybe all of you up here, we

860
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,760
Speaker 1: can go down the list the line, would you ever

861
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: go back on any Batchelor related show and pursue dating

862
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 1: on these shows? Ever? Again? Said We'll start with you

863
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 1: I don't know. What do you guys think? Should I?

864
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: I love that you can we have a party to

865
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 1: this question? And who in the franchise would you want

866
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 1: to see there? Okay, all right, let's do it. Um.

867
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,439
Speaker 1: So you guys know I've never had a boyfriend before

868
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: and I still haven't. So yeah, so I feel like

869
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: you're my spirit animal. This is my ear. Um, so

870
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: I think if they asked, probably, And to be honest,

871
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: I've had a couple of conversations with Matteo and I'm intrigued.

872
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: So but we're not supposed to do that, but we

873
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: just through d M. So it's like, you know, so

874
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm interested in him. I guess. Plus whoever could be

875
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: on this next season? So I don't know, we'll see Katie.

876
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: I love that like info. Okay, uh sorry, I'm here.

877
00:49:56,600 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: Um what was a question? I you ever go back

878
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 1: on a Baturated show again? And if so, who would

879
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 1: you hope to see there? Yo? Is that you Mike?

880
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: All right? Did Mike pay someone to be here? Mike's

881
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: Mike's got box? Um. Okay, so as of now the

882
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 1: answers no, but never say never. I would like to

883
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 1: go on a Bachelor related show if it was like

884
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: competition based competition, not like that, but like you know,

885
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: like a Big Brother situation. But and who would I

886
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: go after? I think it's a little too soon for me.

887
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 1: Oh let me tell you. I said give me a

888
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: silver Fox in my interview, and I happened to be

889
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 1: talking about Peter Kross, so we all thought he was

890
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 1: coming to paradise. We sat around, like Peter today, it

891
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: comes down, and I'm pretty sure it. Looked at Chris

892
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:54,359
Speaker 1: and said, if Peter comes down, you're in trouble. So

893
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 1: who's ye, he's hot too. Give me all the people

894
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 1: from Rachel's season. You're right, Yeah, there's some good ones. Um,

895
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 1: I feel like everything you just said. But it's definitely

896
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 1: like as soon as you say no, I'm never doing

897
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: it again, then all of those people reappear. So I

898
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: don't know it's a never say never, but I feel

899
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 1: like right now, no really answered the good question. Well,

900
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: who would you do? It's so hard. I feel like

901
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 1: somebody just came to your mind. Yeah, Peter, the same

902
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: like same Chris. So specifically, Hey, well hey, it's now

903
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: time for the greatest game and almost famous live history.

904
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 1: Are you guys ready for Bachelor trivia. Actually, I'm gonna

905
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: go find the three most enthusiastic people in the crowd

906
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:53,359
Speaker 1: right now to pair up. But he's like, they're crazy.

907
00:51:54,880 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: I'm watching you impressed me do something different? Stand out?

908
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:04,879
Speaker 1: Stand out? Okay, yeah, you get off. What's her even?

909
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:06,879
Speaker 1: Where are you from? She took it. I'm Britt, I'm

910
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: from San Diego. You came up here from San Diego.

911
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 1: Girlfriend lives in one the cricket bought her tickets for

912
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: her birthday. You're coming? All right? What's your name? Are

913
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 1: you from? Sarah Ive? Hey, Ashley, Ashley. We need somebody

914
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 1: from over here Ashley. Okay, all right, we have another

915
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: one you guys. I'm sorry I took the ladies that

916
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: came up to me. But she knew who Ryan drunk.

917
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 1: Ryan was from Caitlin's Night one, so she knows her stuff. Hey,

918
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:43,720
Speaker 1: come on up. When you know the answer, the first

919
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:48,280
Speaker 1: team to either make a noise with whatever instruments they have,

920
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 1: we'll get the chance to answer. If they answer, they

921
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 1: get a point. So when you know the answer, shake, blow,

922
00:52:54,960 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 1: shake again? Ready? Who was the first ever bachelor that

923
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: was Analyst's team? Alex? Yeah, Alex? What what was Alex's

924
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: last name ms correct, Next team Alex Michel, Alex Michael WHOA, No,

925
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:24,800
Speaker 1: it's not that you say it, Mclex, Michelle, Alex Michelle,

926
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 1: Katie team one point. I feel like this is the

927
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: easiest question we could ask. Michelle. We can't remember the

928
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 1: first bachelor butt who was the first bachelor? Chester Center?

929
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 1: We have a point for Sydney, a point for Katie.

930
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: Which one of these was not a bachelor contestants job description? Hey,

931
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:55,400
Speaker 1: tickle monster, b jumbo tron operator, see free Spirit d

932
00:53:56,600 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: Mattress tester. Okay, it's team they shook first. I'm gonna

933
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: say Mattress testor. That's correct. I know. I'm glad who

934
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: was the Bachelor twice? I was Analyzea's team again, Brad Moomac,

935
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 1: that's correct. Which bachelorrette is now married to a former

936
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 1: Bachelor at contestants twin brother? Okay, that was I have

937
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 1: no ideas you said, no, God, no, next nobody Okay,

938
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 1: Sianna Patis, that's correct, my friend, which Bachelor's star went

939
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 1: skinny dipping with one of his contestants? Okay, that was

940
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:53,959
Speaker 1: Katie ben Flan Team Katie one point. Ben Bachelor contestant

941
00:54:54,360 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: Ashley Salter couldn't believe the size of what what And

942
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: it's correct. Two more questions, how many bedrooms and bathrooms

943
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:17,720
Speaker 1: are in the man? Nine bathrooms and how many bedrooms?

944
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:20,800
Speaker 1: Six is the answer? Nobody got a right. Final question,

945
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 1: Carly wan Dell and Evan Bass just welcome their second

946
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: child together. Name one? Just one of their children? Drench.

947
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: That is correct, and they're the winners. Wow, just one

948
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: almost famous chier. We're sending you here's the thing, the prize.

949
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: We're sending them and you need to listen to this

950
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 1: because I need to see you again. We're sending them

951
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:53,359
Speaker 1: to see Becca Kopern and I at Bachelor Live on

952
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 1: stage in any city you want to visit. You also

953
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: get the tumblers and the tope bag and guess what

954
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 1: the runners up get. Guess what the runners up get

955
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:09,720
Speaker 1: the same? Thank team, all of you have want tickets

956
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 1: and toebags. Thank you for playing The Bachelor Live on

957
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 1: stage almost famous trivia game. Hey, thank you all for playing.

958
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 1: Now's the time for all of you that Tories and

959
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: the audience over here. We gotta give a Tory. Do

960
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: you mind coming over here first? We gotta give him

961
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: some love to this side of the room. UM, now

962
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 1: is the time where you all we're gonna take I'd

963
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: say twenty minutes to answer all of your questions. UM,

964
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 1: please raise your hand, be patient with us. If you

965
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: have any questions that you want to ask later. UM,

966
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 1: if somebody's walking around, you can ask him, ask anything,

967
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 1: no limits, absolutely no limits, ask any of us. UM,

968
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 1: let's have a little fun first. Okay, what is your name?

969
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 1: My name is Hannah. And where are you from? M

970
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,720
Speaker 1: I live in Oakland. All right, what's your question? Okay,

971
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 1: So my question is if any of you watch the

972
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 1: most recent season of Are You the one on MTV,

973
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 1: which is another dating reality show. A lot of people

974
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: think it was the best season. Um, and it it

975
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: featured an entirely sexually fluid, bisexual cast. So I'm wondering,

976
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 1: like when you guys think Bachelor might maybe have a

977
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: lead or even more contestants who identify as queer. UM.

978
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 1: And I'm also wondering how you could maybe use your

979
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 1: platforms to sort of promote that kind of inclusion. Amazing question. UM,

980
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start on this one. I think like we

981
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 1: had a great start this summer obviously. UM. The difficult

982
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: thing is like the cycle that happens, the back and forth.

983
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:56,920
Speaker 1: So I really hope that something does occur at some

984
00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 1: point in time. I think it'll have to be like

985
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 1: a standalone thing, so or to the way that are

986
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 1: you the one does it? Right? So? Um, it's its

987
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: own separate uh like New Venture. There's there's a whole

988
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: quarter of the year that doesn't there's nothing Bachelor related.

989
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 1: So I would love if that happened and then it

990
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 1: like got integrated into everything because there's something missing. I agree.

991
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 1: Good question. Next question, Hey, Hi, what's your name Lindsay?

992
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 1: And where are you from? Nappa? I love Nappa. My

993
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 1: question is for you Ben Um. If and when Chris

994
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:36,919
Speaker 1: Harrison possibly your retires, would you ever would you ever

995
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 1: consider taking over the host position? I've never been asked

996
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: this question. Um, yeah, sarcasm um, great question. I was

997
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 1: just with Chris a couple of weeks ago and he

998
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 1: took his job. Yeah. I said, hey, man, take your

999
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: time's up now. Um. You know, Chris is super young

1000
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: still most people don't know this. Chris isn't even fifty

1001
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: year and so you gotta think. Yeah, so Chris started

1002
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: this show when he was twenty nine years old. He

1003
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:08,479
Speaker 1: was the host of the show when he was twenty

1004
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: nine years old. So here's the variables that I would

1005
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: picture in my head with Chris is He's done it

1006
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 1: for a long time. He's invested a lot into the

1007
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 1: lives of all of us here and the cast members

1008
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 1: and the people watching. At some point, you have to

1009
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: imagine it gets exhausting, like at some point you just

1010
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: have to imagine that you've seen it before, you've experienced before.

1011
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 1: I don't know how much longer he has left. I hope,

1012
00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 1: I hope. I really hope Chris is around for a

1013
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 1: long time, because he is great at what he does. Now,

1014
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: given the scenario that he retires and they asked me,

1015
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,479
Speaker 1: of course I would say, yes, it's the best job

1016
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 1: in the world. Next question, Hi, what's your name? Rosa

1017
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: from Granted? So I have UM, a statement and a question.

1018
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: A statement is to analyst and actually and Sydney and Katie,

1019
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:10,439
Speaker 1: you are beautiful woman inside and out and I love

1020
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 1: your girls. Yes. And my question is to Ben are

1021
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: you in love? Oh my love? Oh hell? Yes? Yeah,

1022
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 1: just to say I got a brag about her. Um.

1023
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 1: I was. We were sitting at lunch today talking um

1024
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 1: and we're just all expressing kind of where we're at life,

1025
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 1: and I said, here's the part about Jessica that I

1026
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: never realized really exists until I met her. That Once

1027
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 1: I met Jessica and this isn't my life was enhanced

1028
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 1: at every level. I've never been more at peace with

1029
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 1: who I am. As you all know, I struggle with

1030
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: my own insecurities. We all do. We all have our stuff.

1031
01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: I've never had a partner look at me in the

1032
01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: eyes and say I'll fight with this, like with you

1033
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 1: through this, and that's awesome. So yes, I'm very much

1034
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 1: up with that girl. She's the best. Thank you, all right.

1035
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 1: I want a shout out to whoever's birthday it is today, Laura,

1036
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 1: where are you? Yeah, birthday? Thank you for choosing to

1037
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 1: spend your birthday with us. Also to this guy and

1038
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:23,600
Speaker 1: the friend who's like, I'm just here all right? What's

1039
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:27,000
Speaker 1: your name? I'm Tracy. I'm from Atlanta and y'all briefly

1040
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: at lunch today. Wait, you're from Atlanta. Yeah, we didn't

1041
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 1: come here for this, right, No, I live here now.

1042
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 1: She was at the High Tea with us. Okay, cool, okay,

1043
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 1: So mine is taking Ashley up on her dare about

1044
01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 1: if anybody would ask Derek on a date tonight. Um,

1045
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: so I'll describe the date first and you can tell

1046
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: me yes or no, no worries, no hard feelings. But

1047
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 1: I can't like steal anybody for a sex. So this

1048
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 1: is my chance. Um, so my date idea. I know

1049
01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:58,919
Speaker 1: you guys are really busy, so I figured we would

1050
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: sit on my couch, um, eat a wheel of brie

1051
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 1: and listen to Don't Cry for Me Argentina on repeat.

1052
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 1: So you chose the exact soundtrack that was in my

1053
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 1: head the entire time I was eating that cheese. So

1054
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Speaker 1: you guys, we're gonna do after the show. Please grab

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01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 1: have Tori grab your walking back stage. Will do a

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01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 1: little date backstage. We'll see if this works and if so,

1057
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: we'll we'll see. We'll let you guys decide with the

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01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:28,440
Speaker 1: night takes you. Hey, Tori, Tori? Three more? Two more questions?

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01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: Come on it Hi? What's your name Danielle? And where

1060
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: are you from? Scott sailor Zona? But live here? Now?

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Speaker 1: All right? What's your question? Al right? First, want to

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01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 1: shout out Ben, You're my favorite bachelor of all time.

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01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 1: Thank you, and sorry to plug another podcast, But Derek

1064
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 1: huge fan of the Bachelor. Go ahead, it's a good podcast.

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01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 1: Any help, I suck it? Help I sucker? Help I

1066
01:02:56,400 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: suck at dabting? Help I suck at dating? If I

1067
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 1: suckers dead? And God, I love my sockarm. You guys

1068
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: are the freaking best. Where is Dean when I need him?

1069
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:11,440
Speaker 1: But my question is two pronged to both Ashley and

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01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 1: Jared as a fellow Jonas Brother's lover, Pete my pop

1071
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: my pop stock, Kevin is the best Jonas You're right, Um,

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01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 1: I want to know, Jared, what is your favorite Jonas

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01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 1: Brothers song? I have one, I have two. We're on

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01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 1: a time. I have a roller coaster because if anybody's

1075
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:37,439
Speaker 1: been to their concert and how they intro to that song,

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01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 1: it is pretty freaking awesome. And then and then secondly,

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01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:43,960
Speaker 1: the year three thousand is wait. I thought you were

1078
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 1: gonna say soccer No, sucker is great, But I've been

1079
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 1: really listening to Year three thousand behind your back. It's

1080
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:52,360
Speaker 1: quite pathetic, you guys. I love that. Sometimes I see

1081
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 1: him like skipping through his iPod and I'm like, oh

1082
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 1: my god, I can't believe be download that song. Oh

1083
01:03:56,640 --> 01:04:02,160
Speaker 1: he download that song too, So I just said, iPod,

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01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 1: what's your favorite songs? Actually? Oh, um, I believe, I believe,

1085
01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,479
Speaker 1: I believe is my favorite Jonah song? Oh my god

1086
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 1: you you know of it? At our wedding, um, as

1087
01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 1: Jared and I left in like the White Old Rolls Royce,

1088
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 1: we have that song playing as everybody had sparklers. It's cool.

1089
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 1: It's a moment. That's that's special. Alright, next question, all right,

1090
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 1: our last question is right over here. Hi, what's your name?

1091
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:37,080
Speaker 1: Can I be anonymous? Of course? I like the mystery Derek.

1092
01:04:37,160 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 1: I think you put yourself over when he said that

1093
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:43,439
Speaker 1: you'd say yes to anything once. Um, take the mic away,

1094
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: take the mic away. Where is this going? Because it

1095
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: can't be not good? Hypothetically, would you ever be a

1096
01:04:53,560 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: sperm donor for a queer couple? Absolutely? Yes, absolutely, that's

1097
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:10,520
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing. Yes, absolutely, that's like the most beautiful

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01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:15,000
Speaker 1: thing I've ever been asked before. Okay, Tori has been

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01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 1: taking the questions and she's just didn't she this is

1100
01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 1: a pretty little gig who did look alike. She's that's

1101
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:24,320
Speaker 1: a lot for us. She puts so much effort and

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01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:26,040
Speaker 1: positivity into our show. I just want to give her

1103
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:27,360
Speaker 1: a little shout out, and if we can give a

1104
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:29,760
Speaker 1: little shout out to Easton, who you guys probably know,

1105
01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 1: Mark Danielle Amy, Amy, Sugarman, all the people to make

1106
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 1: everybody that makes a podcast, this podcast happened, and all

1107
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 1: the other high podcast thank you. Okay, we have to

1108
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:45,720
Speaker 1: have a little chat. We've really enjoyed hanging out with

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01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 1: you tonight. This has been the very first time that

1110
01:05:48,200 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 1: we've ever done this, and it's meant a lot for

1111
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 1: us to come here and do this with you all.

1112
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:55,480
Speaker 1: We hope to do this many more times over. I'll

1113
01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 1: be hitting the road here in two weeks through The

1114
01:05:57,680 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 1: Bachelor Live on stage. UM. Our next guest has a

1115
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 1: story to tell, and so because we're almost famous, and

1116
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 1: because we only want to share the truth, even if

1117
01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:12,080
Speaker 1: it's ugly and it's thirty and it doesn't look good,

1118
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:14,400
Speaker 1: we want to talk to truth and we want to

1119
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 1: wait to listen first before we assume and judge. So

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01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 1: do me one favor tonight, only one. I haven't asked

1121
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 1: a lot of you, actually hasn't asked anything of you

1122
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:28,480
Speaker 1: except to come up on stage. Give this guy a chance.

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01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 1: Our next guest, Jed Wyatt, Hello, alrighty well, thank you

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01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley for having me out my Heart Radio.

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01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: You guys look great out there, Thanks for being patient,

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01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 1: Thanks for not doing me off the stage yet. That's

1127
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 1: really a sweet of you. I did bring my guitar. No,

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01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:05,600
Speaker 1: that's a shocker. So but uh, I want to share

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01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 1: some of my new music with you. This is a

1130
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:10,360
Speaker 1: song that's actually coming out next Friday. So this is

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01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:23,480
Speaker 1: risk baby or is a cold Harbrey is written on

1132
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:32,960
Speaker 1: your lips and there ain't no saving me from your touch? Poison?

1133
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 1: Is love hitting undep skin baby? Or is a risk

1134
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:51,760
Speaker 1: worth tak can? Thank you, thank you, thank you, love

1135
01:07:51,800 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 1: you guys for that. Thanks for clapping. All right, you

1136
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 1: guys look good out there. You're having fun. I don't

1137
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 1: know that didn't sound like the loudest you could be.

1138
01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:17,480
Speaker 1: That's great. Alright. So this song I wrote about California.

1139
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:21,200
Speaker 1: This is like this was me like being at peace

1140
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 1: in my mind and just kind of like chilling in

1141
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:28,800
Speaker 1: a car. I know that sounds like not very deep,

1142
01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:31,600
Speaker 1: but really that's what it's about. That's all right. So

1143
01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: this song is called forty five and hope you guys

1144
01:08:33,360 --> 01:09:08,480
Speaker 1: like it. I've been driving every time. Yeah, the horizon

1145
01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 1: going righting just forty five? Then, thank you, thank you, Jed.

1146
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:31,400
Speaker 1: Can I request Mr Wright? I want Mr Wright do it.

1147
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:36,240
Speaker 1: It's been a minute. That would be the best. I

1148
01:09:36,680 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 1: give us a couple of lines of Mr Right. It's

1149
01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: been a hot minute. Oh yeah, you know, happy on this?

1150
01:09:48,479 --> 01:10:07,559
Speaker 1: All right? All right? Thank good? All right? Um, okay,

1151
01:10:08,439 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 1: let's dive in. Let's dive. When we announced that you

1152
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 1: were coming on tonight, We've talked about this. There you

1153
01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 1: heard the response. You're right here right. It wasn't a

1154
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:22,360
Speaker 1: massive eruption of excitement like we would expect for somebody

1155
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:26,720
Speaker 1: who was the one that was chosen at the end

1156
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:29,720
Speaker 1: of the most recent season of the bachel Threat. And

1157
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:32,320
Speaker 1: you know the reasons why this is has been No

1158
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:41,320
Speaker 1: how would you respond to that? Um, it wasn't cheating

1159
01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:44,759
Speaker 1: because I wasn't in our relationship, to be honest. But hey,

1160
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:46,600
Speaker 1: but here's an important thing that I think we have

1161
01:10:46,680 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 1: to do right now, because you have a bunch of

1162
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 1: people out here who assume and think this, and I,

1163
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:53,640
Speaker 1: honestly I don't know the story. I'm asking you this

1164
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 1: because if you did, we either have to agree to

1165
01:10:57,439 --> 01:11:01,200
Speaker 1: give you a second chance. If you did it, then

1166
01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:05,439
Speaker 1: we have to hear the story. So jed, here's your

1167
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:13,679
Speaker 1: moment to speak your truth, to speak my truth. Wow,

1168
01:11:15,280 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 1: I thought I thought I was just saying, UM. I mean, well,

1169
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 1: for one, I want to just thank everyone here for

1170
01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 1: being so awesome and supportive. That's really cool. Love you

1171
01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:31,160
Speaker 1: for coming out to all of this. Um. I mean,

1172
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 1: I don't know how many of you have heard the

1173
01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:35,920
Speaker 1: podcast that I've said, but I've been very open and

1174
01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:39,320
Speaker 1: I realized all the things that I did that we're wrong,

1175
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:42,639
Speaker 1: and I learned from them and have since then moved

1176
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:47,120
Speaker 1: on and really worked on myself and I'm very happy

1177
01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:54,440
Speaker 1: and it's all good. I'm very happy though, and UM,

1178
01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:56,240
Speaker 1: you know, that was a big lesson. That was hard.

1179
01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 1: It was hard to see two people be hurt. It

1180
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:01,519
Speaker 1: was hard to see the people coming at my family,

1181
01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 1: and it was just, you know, it's something that in

1182
01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:08,920
Speaker 1: a normal scenario you wouldn't normally experience, but it was

1183
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:14,519
Speaker 1: just it was crazy and I did learn and from it,

1184
01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm better and I'm happier, and that's really all I

1185
01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:22,760
Speaker 1: have to say. I just I've moved on. I think

1186
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:27,559
Speaker 1: I think you're obviously always get bachelor faithful to say

1187
01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 1: this wasn't right, And you know, I guess ash and

1188
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 1: I have talked about it many times on and off air.

1189
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:34,680
Speaker 1: It wasn't right, right. I mean, you just say, this

1190
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:37,680
Speaker 1: is an experience you've had to learn from, You had

1191
01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 1: had to ask the almost famous followers to give you

1192
01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 1: a second chance. Um, you're happy now though, and before

1193
01:12:45,280 --> 01:12:54,519
Speaker 1: Ashley is unleashed, Um, give one little explanation of where

1194
01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 1: you're at right now with somebody very special to you. Okay, Yeah,

1195
01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:03,640
Speaker 1: So I just really started working on myself, and you know,

1196
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:06,439
Speaker 1: in the midst of that, I had a really good

1197
01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 1: friend introduced me to someone. So I do have a

1198
01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:13,240
Speaker 1: girlfriend now, so everyone here knows I have a girlfriend,

1199
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:17,920
Speaker 1: and uh, she's amazing and I'm like so thankful for her,

1200
01:13:18,160 --> 01:13:20,479
Speaker 1: and everything has been going really well and I feel

1201
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 1: like it's going to continue going well. So you know,

1202
01:13:23,240 --> 01:13:25,519
Speaker 1: you never know what could happen. But I'm just really

1203
01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:28,639
Speaker 1: thankful for all the people that have decided to give

1204
01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:31,760
Speaker 1: me a second chance, and for those who don't. You know,

1205
01:13:32,200 --> 01:13:36,640
Speaker 1: it's I don't blame you. I mean, that's that's that's

1206
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:39,200
Speaker 1: that's on that's on you at this point, because I'm

1207
01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 1: I'm happy to be moved on. I don't know. I

1208
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 1: would just say, if you're gonna stay stagnant, stay stagnant,

1209
01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 1: people are moving. Was the song risk that you're just

1210
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 1: saying for us inspired by a new girlfriend? No, that's

1211
01:13:55,280 --> 01:13:57,600
Speaker 1: actually wrote that song with my friend samu Ari I

1212
01:13:57,600 --> 01:14:01,000
Speaker 1: got two years ago. Okay, so how did you meet you?

1213
01:14:01,000 --> 01:14:04,599
Speaker 1: Your girlfriend? So I had a friend in Nashville. He

1214
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:07,680
Speaker 1: was like, man, you gotta meet this girl. And I

1215
01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:10,880
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know if I'm like completely ready

1216
01:14:10,880 --> 01:14:14,439
Speaker 1: for any of that. And so a couple of months

1217
01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 1: go by, I'm feeling like I'm not sure what I

1218
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:21,240
Speaker 1: want at this point. So he kind of like set

1219
01:14:21,280 --> 01:14:25,040
Speaker 1: us up on like an Instagram DM and we started,

1220
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: we started messaging, and then I, you know, took a

1221
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:32,120
Speaker 1: trip to Miami and I was like, this is amazing.

1222
01:14:32,640 --> 01:14:37,840
Speaker 1: Miami is pretty popping, right. More love via Instagram d M.

1223
01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:41,639
Speaker 1: It's really cool. Jp J doesn't approved, but there's been

1224
01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 1: lots of love that's happened from them. My final question,

1225
01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:47,720
Speaker 1: and this could be your last question that you ever

1226
01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 1: answered about Hannah, but how did you feel about her?

1227
01:14:51,080 --> 01:14:54,320
Speaker 1: Um asking Tyler out on that on that live show

1228
01:14:54,439 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: and then going after Peter and this season, Um, I'm

1229
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 1: I'm just so happy. I don't really care. That's fair. Um,

1230
01:15:07,120 --> 01:15:12,680
Speaker 1: so hey, I'll make a statement here for Jed. Um.

1231
01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:15,719
Speaker 1: I don't I don't necessarily know how to live life

1232
01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 1: without giving second chances. And I mean that. I mean,

1233
01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:22,760
Speaker 1: how many of us out here, this is my bien,

1234
01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:28,240
Speaker 1: bitches for the night. How many of us out here

1235
01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:31,800
Speaker 1: have messed up? Raise your ham okay, how many of

1236
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:33,879
Speaker 1: us have messed up and hurt somebody in the process.

1237
01:15:33,920 --> 01:15:39,160
Speaker 1: Raise your hand and it's never okay, It's never okay.

1238
01:15:39,240 --> 01:15:42,160
Speaker 1: I promise you that I'm not standing here saying it's okay.

1239
01:15:42,360 --> 01:15:46,240
Speaker 1: What happened. Honestly, I have zero idea what happened. Whatever

1240
01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:52,320
Speaker 1: it was, it's pretty messed up. But I will tell

1241
01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:55,479
Speaker 1: you this. Unless we look to the person to your

1242
01:15:55,560 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 1: left and to your right and say I forgive you,

1243
01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:01,599
Speaker 1: we'll move on. We're gonna try to do this thing together.

1244
01:16:02,560 --> 01:16:04,920
Speaker 1: This life gets way too hard. You can agree with

1245
01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 1: me or not, but please consider forgiveness because it's the

1246
01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:12,760
Speaker 1: only way we move forward. Jed, thank you for coming

1247
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 1: up here, and and to Ashley. We've done this thing

1248
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:32,160
Speaker 1: for two years together, over sixty million downloads. It's insane

1249
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:35,360
Speaker 1: and like, obviously, we wouldn't be here for Arren, for Ben,

1250
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:42,519
Speaker 1: the ultimate Prince Charming of the Bachelor franchise, and I

1251
01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:45,800
Speaker 1: love that Ben always has words when I am speechless,

1252
01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:48,680
Speaker 1: and I think it's a nice balance. But it definitely

1253
01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 1: wouldn't be still going onto what will be three years

1254
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:54,840
Speaker 1: in May if it weren't for you guys, and all

1255
01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:56,680
Speaker 1: of you guys who took your Saturday night to come

1256
01:16:56,720 --> 01:17:01,680
Speaker 1: here like we are beyond thankful. Seriously, it means a

1257
01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:04,200
Speaker 1: lot to walk out here and see you all. Life

1258
01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:07,360
Speaker 1: gets really lonely sometimes I'm not gonna preach again, but

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