WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Demented or Determined

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, update date. If you go out with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that you really really like, how long you willing to

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<v Speaker 1>wait and pursue them hoping to get that second date?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your maximimy? Is it two weeks before you tap out?

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<v Speaker 1>Four weeks?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you're gonna wait.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna wait that long to get a second date,

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>How long you're willing to wait for it?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna say two minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, one of our listeners, Jacqueline, sent us an email

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<v Speaker 1>saying she met a guy so amazing. She's been trying

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<v Speaker 1>to lock down date number two for the last four months.

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<v Speaker 4>When you said it the music chriscendo, I'm so right, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Four months to do whatever it takes. In fact, she's

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<v Speaker 1>calling in the big guns to get it done today.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's us. So, Jacqueline, thank you for calling at

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<v Speaker 1>and T Welcome to the shoot.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Four months?

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<v Speaker 3>My gosh, have you been dating other people in that time?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you just holding out for this guy?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I've like met up with some other people,

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<v Speaker 5>but I feel like most of my brain phase is

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<v Speaker 5>taken up by like thinking about Tom Ye, thinking about

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<v Speaker 5>tom Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He's guy. Number one in your heart right now? So

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<v Speaker 1>Tom is his name? How did you meet him?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Well that online?

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<v Speaker 6>Like both people.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you know as soon as you met him that

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<v Speaker 4>there was something really special about him?

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<v Speaker 5>I did. I got that like feeling. He's a lawyer

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<v Speaker 5>and he is.

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<v Speaker 1>Say no more. You have won us all over, Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Why you He's busy, That's why I was gonna say,

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<v Speaker 3>and drunk, I mean lawyers like to throw back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a lot of positives that you all just

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<v Speaker 1>said right there.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's like your dream guy, a drunken, rich guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I was never around perfect okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean maybe he's honestly been that busy.

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<v Speaker 3>Like when my best friend was working at one of

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<v Speaker 3>her firms, she was billying I think like ninety hours

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<v Speaker 3>a week.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's possible. So how did things get

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<v Speaker 1>started between you and Tom, Jacqueline?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we have like this really good advance on the app,

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<v Speaker 5>and we have a lot in common of like things

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<v Speaker 5>we like to do, and he's ridiculously good looking, Like

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<v Speaker 5>he's so good looking. At first, I was like sort

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<v Speaker 5>of scared.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, well okay, so now it feels like it

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<v Speaker 3>puts it into a little bit different perspective.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so like he probably has a waiting list of girls.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what did you guys do? Did he ask you out?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? He asked me out, and he went out to

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<v Speaker 5>dinner and he offered to pick me up, which I

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<v Speaker 5>thought was like so sweet, but you know, I just

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<v Speaker 5>had to look out for my safety. So so what

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<v Speaker 5>so I like took a car service there, and.

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<v Speaker 4>That's smart before you meet somebody.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, we went to this Mediterranean place that I'd

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<v Speaker 5>never been to. It was outside, it was really pretty

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<v Speaker 5>at all those like little chairy light.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I love it.

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<v Speaker 5>What else he did that I loved was like one

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<v Speaker 5>she was actually dressed properly, like I've gone on it

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<v Speaker 5>on so many app dates and guys are just like

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<v Speaker 5>they just came from the gym or something. And she

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<v Speaker 5>was like waiting outside the restaurant for me, which I

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<v Speaker 5>really black.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Fun okay, And so what about the actual date itself

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<v Speaker 1>when you sat down to have dinner with him?

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<v Speaker 7>How was that? It was great?

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<v Speaker 5>We had so much like we were laughing, We had

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<v Speaker 5>so much to talk about, Like we had to keep

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<v Speaker 5>asking the waiter to come back in five minutes. I

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<v Speaker 5>even looked at the venue. Oh that's a great sign, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I thought, so he never took out his phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't remember a lot from a date that happened

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<v Speaker 1>four months ago. Yeah, she found every single detail.

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<v Speaker 3>She found a lawyer that doesn't take out their phone.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that that doesn't even exist, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, yeah, like you would remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>You said a lot of good things. Did anything bad

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<v Speaker 1>happen on the date because it has been a long

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<v Speaker 1>time since you guys hung out.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I don't think anything bad, like because I've been

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<v Speaker 5>running it over and over in my mind. The only

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<v Speaker 5>thing I can think is like, I wish I could

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<v Speaker 5>sell your picture. But like his jaw is so shizzled.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like I kept saying, like, are you sure

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<v Speaker 5>you don't mew?

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<v Speaker 3>And you you don't mew the exercise to make your

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<v Speaker 3>chin better?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, And he didn't know what I was talking about,

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<v Speaker 5>so like I had blinks him.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you explain it to some of the listeners who

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what that is?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so you make like the mew sound, You're like

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<v Speaker 5>new me and it like kind of defines your job.

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<v Speaker 2>Muscles.

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<v Speaker 1>Anywait, where were you doing that to show him? During

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<v Speaker 1>the date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, any moment like you were trying to be funny.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean he's sort of couple. But I mean

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<v Speaker 5>he did look at me like what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>But like it wasn't like I didn't stand up on

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<v Speaker 5>the table and do it for eadly, But.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, I'm sure lawyers love to be on

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<v Speaker 1>a eight with cats.

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<v Speaker 3>Basically, oh come on, she just beamed playful, like you

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to date somebody that's super serious and can't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she like pulled like a ball of string around

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<v Speaker 1>on the table too, very playful.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, you know, hold on, I'm going to get

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<v Speaker 2>this hair ball.

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<v Speaker 1>So was there any like romantic stuff that happened on

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<v Speaker 1>the day. Was there a kiss?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe there wasn't, unfortunately, but he did say you wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to see me again and gave me a really long, tight,

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<v Speaker 5>tight hug.

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<v Speaker 3>So she's still living in that embrace. Have you had

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<v Speaker 3>zero contact with him since some were.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet you know what's happened the last four months?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, at first I texted him a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 5>He said he wanted to see me again and everything,

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<v Speaker 5>and then his birthday was two weeks ago, so I

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<v Speaker 5>texted him for that.

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<v Speaker 4>Why do you know that?

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<v Speaker 3>I know it.

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<v Speaker 1>Her brain naturally. Okay, So now it's been four months

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<v Speaker 1>since that dinner date with this lawyer guy, and you've

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<v Speaker 1>come to us hoping that we can get him to

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<v Speaker 1>agree to a second date.

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<v Speaker 4>Yea, all right, you have.

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<v Speaker 2>To be on your a game because this is a lawyer.

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<v Speaker 2>We maybe you get a show.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe we just say this is a belated birthday present.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that won't creep him out at all. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>do that and when we come back and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right.

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<v Speaker 6>After this second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Four months. Most people don't wait that long to reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to us trying to score another date. But our listener,

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<v Speaker 1>Jacqueline is a unique individual.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, and she met a unique man.

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<v Speaker 1>She figured out that man's birthday happened recently and won't

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<v Speaker 1>tell us how she knew that, But that really doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>The bottom line is this, Her date Tom was very attractive.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a lawyer, so duh, she wants to see him again.

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<v Speaker 4>No, the real connection, Jeffrey. It wasn't just that she.

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<v Speaker 1>Really enjoyed him, but her first two points to us

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<v Speaker 1>were he's beautiful and a lawyer to help her. He

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't even have to mete for that, Jawain. That's all natural, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>But the big problem is he's not reaching back out

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<v Speaker 1>to her in the last four months. So we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>try and change that for you today, Jacqueline, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 5>How are you guys?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know that I was totally clear. Did he

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<v Speaker 4>ever hit you back at all?

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<v Speaker 3>Just?

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<v Speaker 2>Zero?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, honestly, I don't want you to be like

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<v Speaker 4>her if he doesn't remember who you.

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<v Speaker 2>Are months ago total.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, I haven't reached back to

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<v Speaker 1>my mother in the last like four to five years,

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<v Speaker 1>so that doesn't necessarily mean that it's completely dead.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she is looking for.

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<v Speaker 4>You actively though, And do you know her first name?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? Come back to me at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the segment and.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll remember actually exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's give this guy Tom a call. Tom the

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<v Speaker 1>lawyer will see if he answers. Are we calling his

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<v Speaker 1>cell phone?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I gave you his cell phone and he's definitely going

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<v Speaker 5>to remember me.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's positive. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm not sure if I like the way that

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<v Speaker 1>you said that, but okay, we're gonna style it.

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<v Speaker 7>Here we go, Hello, is it Tom?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Oh, you're so formal. Answer your phone professional. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Tom, nice to meet you. We're a radio show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>a second?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Thomas?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, did you hang up too much?

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<v Speaker 7>Hello? Tom?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you there?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm here? I'm sorry. Who is this?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from a award winning radio show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jeffrey in the.

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<v Speaker 4>Warn That's actually true.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened a long time ago, but it.

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<v Speaker 4>Happens when the book City everyone has one.

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<v Speaker 7>You're on the radio right now, man, That's what the

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<v Speaker 7>call is regarding.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's a great question actually regarding you and your

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<v Speaker 1>dating life with a woman that you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>about four months ago named Jacqueline.

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<v Speaker 6>Jacqueline.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, do you remember Jacqueline? She definitely remembers you.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys met online and went out to like a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh it was mediterranean Mediterranean food.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, she.

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<v Speaker 1>Loved your jaw.

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<v Speaker 6>I yes, I do remember who you were talking about.

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<v Speaker 7>Yees.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, I got a little laugh out of you.

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<v Speaker 4>Were you thinking about calling her back?

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<v Speaker 6>I know if I'm being completely out Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>It's okay, we hear that sometimes is there a reason.

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<v Speaker 6>Why I'm not gonna be calling Jacqueline back. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 6>be up staying away from her. Oh, it was it

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<v Speaker 6>was strange.

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<v Speaker 4>What was strange?

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<v Speaker 7>The date?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, the date, No, the date was fine. We had

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<v Speaker 6>a lovely time her out.

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<v Speaker 4>That's good.

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<v Speaker 6>The problem was that she was overly forward after the date.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean what happened after?

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<v Speaker 6>Jacqueline was leaving voicemails at my place of work. Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>she knew I was an attorney and apparently found out

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<v Speaker 6>where I worked.

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<v Speaker 7>Ill.

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<v Speaker 1>She said that you weren't answering her, and so she

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to reach you anyway possible because she was

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<v Speaker 1>really really excited about the potential for you guys's relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Did that feel like a boundary that was cross there

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<v Speaker 4>for you? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you tell her though, because you know, people who

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<v Speaker 3>maybe don't work in your line of field don't feel

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<v Speaker 3>the same.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, after about the fourth or fifth voicemail, I remember

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<v Speaker 6>she did get in contact with my secretary.

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<v Speaker 4>And what did she say to her?

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<v Speaker 6>My secretary had her on the line and I had to,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, fib and say I'm extremely busy with the case, which,

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<v Speaker 6>truth be told, I was busy with the case. But

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<v Speaker 6>the other issue with all of this is that I

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<v Speaker 6>never gave Jacqueline the information of what law firm I

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<v Speaker 6>work at.

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<v Speaker 4>How did she fight you LinkedIn?

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<v Speaker 7>You know, I do not know off the top of

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<v Speaker 7>my head.

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<v Speaker 6>I did not inquire about.

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<v Speaker 7>Her further into this, I guess lately.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, kend just wrote that off. I found that it

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<v Speaker 6>was a little bit of a really intrusive move. I'm

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<v Speaker 6>being out that.

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<v Speaker 4>It'd be good for her to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely a little odd. Yeah, and uh, I'm sorry that

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<v Speaker 1>she I know you said you're trying to avoid her. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>we made kind of an oops because she's actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us right now in the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening to this.

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<v Speaker 4>She heard all that.

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<v Speaker 1>What Yeah, that's that's how this segment works, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, hey guys, Hey cherry mom. I'm so happy that,

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<v Speaker 5>like I get to hear your voice.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm cut a while, Jacqueline, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>I was just trying to get ahold of you because

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<v Speaker 5>I've been thinking about you and I have such a

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<v Speaker 5>good time when we went out, and he said you

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<v Speaker 5>wanted to see me again, So.

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<v Speaker 6>I did at a certain point. But this is getting

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<v Speaker 6>borderline stalker behavior. This is insane.

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<v Speaker 7>You're using a ratation.

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<v Speaker 6>To contact me.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm working right now. I thought this was a client.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I'm so sorry. But if you would have gotten

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<v Speaker 5>back to me, like I wouldn't have called them. And

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<v Speaker 5>I think stalker is like way overblown. I've left a

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<v Speaker 5>couple of messages that your work.

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<v Speaker 2>Say that often it's not technically jack.

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<v Speaker 7>If it's not stalkers, how did you find out where

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<v Speaker 7>I work?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 4>It's going to be hard to win an argument against

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<v Speaker 4>the lawyer right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay. In my defense, it was so simple, like all

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<v Speaker 5>your pictures on the app, Like I saw that there

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<v Speaker 5>was one picture of you outside the courtyard and you

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<v Speaker 5>could see the courthouse across the street. So all I

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<v Speaker 5>did was go on Google find the courthouse, and then

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<v Speaker 5>I knew you were working in the building across from it.

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<v Speaker 5>So you know, I called the couple of different law firms,

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<v Speaker 5>well I find you.

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<v Speaker 4>That made it sound worse, are you?

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<v Speaker 1>You did detective work based on a picture on his profile?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, all ladies will do that, Like you look for

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<v Speaker 5>contract clues in the pictures.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't voicemails.

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<v Speaker 2>You're saying, so you do it, but you just where's

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<v Speaker 2>the harm? I don't tell them.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't leave the evidence behind that you've been okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I wouldn't have left voicemails if you would have just

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<v Speaker 5>returned my call. And you know he had mentioned that

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<v Speaker 5>he wasn't really loving his new secretary, so I thought,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe you didn't love Wait did you just say he

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<v Speaker 5>didn't like his new secretary? He mentioned that when we

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<v Speaker 5>had dinner.

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<v Speaker 7>To be the new secretary.

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<v Speaker 1>Tom, can you see how maybe you've brought some of

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<v Speaker 1>this upon yourself? Stop it, But at a bare minimum,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be impressed with how she was able

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out where.

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<v Speaker 4>Or scared Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 7>This is insane.

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<v Speaker 5>New section me Tom on the date, what's your best quality?

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<v Speaker 5>And I said, I'm determined, and so I think I'm proving,

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<v Speaker 5>but I was determined to get a hold of you again.

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<v Speaker 3>You know there's a good side and a bad side

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<v Speaker 3>to every quality.

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<v Speaker 5>Tom, I'm gonna have to like disagree with you about

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<v Speaker 5>your secretary because she's totally friendly. When I call.

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<v Speaker 2>There, she's still there, we can confirm, not for long.

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<v Speaker 4>If she keeps giving out Tom's information.

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<v Speaker 5>I found his information. I figured that all out on

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<v Speaker 5>my own to like find a lot credit for that. O.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not impressed, Tom, Maybe he'll be impressed if you

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<v Speaker 1>wish him happy belated birthday right now.

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<v Speaker 7>What are you talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's figure out it's your birthday. That's called persistence.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought she texted you the birthday message.

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<v Speaker 6>I blocked her a long time ago. I don't see

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<v Speaker 6>anything she sends to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why he didn't get the message? You better tell it

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Better wish him happy birthday right now?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>Or better yet, you can wish him happy birthday when

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<v Speaker 1>you meet face to face for your second date, a

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<v Speaker 1>date that we will pay for if Tom agrees to it.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think Tom?

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I think that's a pretty clear message.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, are you sure you want to say that, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure Jacquelin's on the other side of the

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<v Speaker 1>door from wherever you are right now, so you might

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<v Speaker 1>want to say yes, Just say yes.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll go right now.

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<v Speaker 7>I would not be surprised at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh my god, Jacqueline, you do understand what he's saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, Yeah, No, I get it. I mean there was

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<v Speaker 5>a couple of times, Like one of my friends wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to meet for lunch and she sort of lived over

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<v Speaker 5>by that courthouse, like down that way. So we went

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<v Speaker 5>and we had lunch, trying to maybe run into Tom

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<v Speaker 5>and I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, there's.

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<v Speaker 4>More than one crazy of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't want Jacqueline to leave this phone call

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<v Speaker 1>empty handed. That's why, Jacquelin, we're going to offer to

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<v Speaker 1>send you out to lunch with Tom's secretary. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>get a long.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 6>Please don't go to lunch with my secretary, please, brooked

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<v Speaker 6>Jeffrey in the morning,