Speaker 1: Second date, update date. If you go out with somebody
Speaker 1: that you really really like, how long you willing to
Speaker 1: wait and pursue them hoping to get that second date?
Speaker 1: What's your maximimy? Is it two weeks before you tap out?
Speaker 1: Four weeks?
Speaker 2: Wait, you're gonna wait.
Speaker 3: You're gonna wait that long to get a second date,
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: How long you're willing to wait for it?
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say two minutes.
Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners, Jacqueline, sent us an email
Speaker 1: saying she met a guy so amazing. She's been trying
Speaker 1: to lock down date number two for the last four months.
Speaker 4: When you said it the music chriscendo, I'm so right, Jeff.
Speaker 1: Four months to do whatever it takes. In fact, she's
Speaker 1: calling in the big guns to get it done today.
Speaker 1: And that's us. So, Jacqueline, thank you for calling at
Speaker 1: and T Welcome to the shoot.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 4: Four months?
Speaker 3: My gosh, have you been dating other people in that time?
Speaker 3: Are you just holding out for this guy?
Speaker 5: I mean, I've like met up with some other people,
Speaker 5: but I feel like most of my brain phase is
Speaker 5: taken up by like thinking about Tom Ye, thinking about
Speaker 5: tom Yeah.
Speaker 1: He's guy. Number one in your heart right now? So
Speaker 1: Tom is his name? How did you meet him?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 5: Well that online?
Speaker 6: Like both people.
Speaker 4: Did you know as soon as you met him that
Speaker 4: there was something really special about him?
Speaker 5: I did. I got that like feeling. He's a lawyer
Speaker 5: and he is.
Speaker 1: Say no more. You have won us all over, Thank
Speaker 1: you so much.
Speaker 2: I'm not going anymore.
Speaker 3: Why you He's busy, That's why I was gonna say,
Speaker 3: and drunk, I mean lawyers like to throw back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a lot of positives that you all just
Speaker 1: said right there.
Speaker 2: So that's like your dream guy, a drunken, rich guy.
Speaker 1: I was never around perfect okay.
Speaker 4: I mean maybe he's honestly been that busy.
Speaker 3: Like when my best friend was working at one of
Speaker 3: her firms, she was billying I think like ninety hours
Speaker 3: a week.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's possible. So how did things get
Speaker 1: started between you and Tom, Jacqueline?
Speaker 5: Well, we have like this really good advance on the app,
Speaker 5: and we have a lot in common of like things
Speaker 5: we like to do, and he's ridiculously good looking, Like
Speaker 5: he's so good looking. At first, I was like sort
Speaker 5: of scared.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, well okay, so now it feels like it
Speaker 3: puts it into a little bit different perspective.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so like he probably has a waiting list of girls.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what did you guys do? Did he ask you out?
Speaker 5: Yeah? He asked me out, and he went out to
Speaker 5: dinner and he offered to pick me up, which I
Speaker 5: thought was like so sweet, but you know, I just
Speaker 5: had to look out for my safety. So so what
Speaker 5: so I like took a car service there, and.
Speaker 4: That's smart before you meet somebody.
Speaker 5: So yeah, we went to this Mediterranean place that I'd
Speaker 5: never been to. It was outside, it was really pretty
Speaker 5: at all those like little chairy light.
Speaker 4: Oh, I love it.
Speaker 5: What else he did that I loved was like one
Speaker 5: she was actually dressed properly, like I've gone on it
Speaker 5: on so many app dates and guys are just like
Speaker 5: they just came from the gym or something. And she
Speaker 5: was like waiting outside the restaurant for me, which I
Speaker 5: really black.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Fun okay, And so what about the actual date itself
Speaker 1: when you sat down to have dinner with him?
Speaker 7: How was that? It was great?
Speaker 5: We had so much like we were laughing, We had
Speaker 5: so much to talk about, Like we had to keep
Speaker 5: asking the waiter to come back in five minutes. I
Speaker 5: even looked at the venue. Oh that's a great sign, yeah,
Speaker 5: I thought, so he never took out his phone.
Speaker 1: You don't remember a lot from a date that happened
Speaker 1: four months ago. Yeah, she found every single detail.
Speaker 3: She found a lawyer that doesn't take out their phone.
Speaker 3: I think that that doesn't even exist, you.
Speaker 5: Know, yeah, like you would remember that.
Speaker 1: You said a lot of good things. Did anything bad
Speaker 1: happen on the date because it has been a long
Speaker 1: time since you guys hung out.
Speaker 5: No, I don't think anything bad, like because I've been
Speaker 5: running it over and over in my mind. The only
Speaker 5: thing I can think is like, I wish I could
Speaker 5: sell your picture. But like his jaw is so shizzled.
Speaker 5: I was like I kept saying, like, are you sure
Speaker 5: you don't mew?
Speaker 3: And you you don't mew the exercise to make your
Speaker 3: chin better?
Speaker 5: Yes, And he didn't know what I was talking about,
Speaker 5: so like I had blinks him.
Speaker 1: Can you explain it to some of the listeners who
Speaker 1: don't know what that is?
Speaker 5: Yeah, so you make like the mew sound, You're like
Speaker 5: new me and it like kind of defines your job.
Speaker 2: Muscles.
Speaker 1: Anywait, where were you doing that to show him? During
Speaker 1: the date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, any moment like you were trying to be funny.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean he's sort of couple. But I mean
Speaker 5: he did look at me like what are you doing?
Speaker 5: But like it wasn't like I didn't stand up on
Speaker 5: the table and do it for eadly, But.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I'm sure lawyers love to be on
Speaker 1: a eight with cats.
Speaker 3: Basically, oh come on, she just beamed playful, like you
Speaker 3: don't want to date somebody that's super serious and can't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe she like pulled like a ball of string around
Speaker 1: on the table too, very playful.
Speaker 2: She's like, you know, hold on, I'm going to get
Speaker 2: this hair ball.
Speaker 1: So was there any like romantic stuff that happened on
Speaker 1: the day. Was there a kiss?
Speaker 5: Maybe there wasn't, unfortunately, but he did say you wanted
Speaker 5: to see me again and gave me a really long, tight,
Speaker 5: tight hug.
Speaker 3: So she's still living in that embrace. Have you had
Speaker 3: zero contact with him since some were.
Speaker 1: Yet you know what's happened the last four months?
Speaker 5: Well, at first I texted him a little bit more.
Speaker 5: He said he wanted to see me again and everything,
Speaker 5: and then his birthday was two weeks ago, so I
Speaker 5: texted him for that.
Speaker 4: Why do you know that?
Speaker 3: I know it.
Speaker 1: Her brain naturally. Okay, So now it's been four months
Speaker 1: since that dinner date with this lawyer guy, and you've
Speaker 1: come to us hoping that we can get him to
Speaker 1: agree to a second date.
Speaker 4: Yea, all right, you have.
Speaker 2: To be on your a game because this is a lawyer.
Speaker 2: We maybe you get a show.
Speaker 4: Maybe we just say this is a belated birthday present.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that won't creep him out at all. Let's
Speaker 1: do that and when we come back and get your
Speaker 1: second date update right.
Speaker 6: After this second date update.
Speaker 1: Four months. Most people don't wait that long to reach
Speaker 1: out to us trying to score another date. But our listener,
Speaker 1: Jacqueline is a unique individual.
Speaker 4: Hey, and she met a unique man.
Speaker 1: She figured out that man's birthday happened recently and won't
Speaker 1: tell us how she knew that, But that really doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: The bottom line is this, Her date Tom was very attractive.
Speaker 1: He's a lawyer, so duh, she wants to see him again.
Speaker 4: No, the real connection, Jeffrey. It wasn't just that she.
Speaker 1: Really enjoyed him, but her first two points to us
Speaker 1: were he's beautiful and a lawyer to help her. He
Speaker 1: doesn't even have to mete for that, Jawain. That's all natural, baby,
Speaker 1: But the big problem is he's not reaching back out
Speaker 1: to her in the last four months. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: try and change that for you today, Jacqueline, how you doing.
Speaker 6: I'm good.
Speaker 5: How are you guys?
Speaker 4: I don't know that I was totally clear. Did he
Speaker 4: ever hit you back at all?
Speaker 3: Just?
Speaker 2: Zero?
Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I don't want you to be like
Speaker 4: her if he doesn't remember who you.
Speaker 2: Are months ago total.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, I haven't reached back to
Speaker 1: my mother in the last like four to five years,
Speaker 1: so that doesn't necessarily mean that it's completely dead.
Speaker 2: No, she is looking for.
Speaker 4: You actively though, And do you know her first name?
Speaker 1: You know what? Come back to me at the end
Speaker 1: of the segment and.
Speaker 2: I'll remember actually exactly.
Speaker 1: But let's give this guy Tom a call. Tom the
Speaker 1: lawyer will see if he answers. Are we calling his
Speaker 1: cell phone?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I gave you his cell phone and he's definitely going
Speaker 5: to remember me.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's positive. I like that.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not sure if I like the way that
Speaker 1: you said that, but okay, we're gonna style it.
Speaker 7: Here we go, Hello, is it Tom?
Speaker 5: Uh.
Speaker 1: Hi, Oh, you're so formal. Answer your phone professional. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Hey Tom, nice to meet you. We're a radio show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have
Speaker 1: a second?
Speaker 2: Hello, Thomas?
Speaker 1: Okay, did you hang up too much?
Speaker 7: Hello? Tom?
Speaker 4: Are you there?
Speaker 7: I'm here? I'm sorry. Who is this?
Speaker 1: My name is jeff from a award winning radio show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the.
Speaker 4: Warn That's actually true.
Speaker 1: It happened a long time ago, but it.
Speaker 4: Happens when the book City everyone has one.
Speaker 7: You're on the radio right now, man, That's what the
Speaker 7: call is regarding.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's a great question actually regarding you and your
Speaker 1: dating life with a woman that you went out with
Speaker 1: about four months ago named Jacqueline.
Speaker 6: Jacqueline.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, do you remember Jacqueline? She definitely remembers you.
Speaker 1: You guys met online and went out to like a restaurant.
Speaker 4: Oh it was mediterranean Mediterranean food.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she.
Speaker 1: Loved your jaw.
Speaker 6: I yes, I do remember who you were talking about.
Speaker 7: Yees.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I got a little laugh out of you.
Speaker 4: Were you thinking about calling her back?
Speaker 6: I know if I'm being completely out Okay.
Speaker 4: It's okay, we hear that sometimes is there a reason.
Speaker 6: Why I'm not gonna be calling Jacqueline back. I'm gonna
Speaker 6: be up staying away from her. Oh, it was it
Speaker 6: was strange.
Speaker 4: What was strange?
Speaker 7: The date?
Speaker 6: Well, the date, No, the date was fine. We had
Speaker 6: a lovely time her out.
Speaker 4: That's good.
Speaker 6: The problem was that she was overly forward after the date.
Speaker 1: What do you mean what happened after?
Speaker 6: Jacqueline was leaving voicemails at my place of work. Oh,
Speaker 6: she knew I was an attorney and apparently found out
Speaker 6: where I worked.
Speaker 7: Ill.
Speaker 1: She said that you weren't answering her, and so she
Speaker 1: was trying to reach you anyway possible because she was
Speaker 1: really really excited about the potential for you guys's relationship.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Did that feel like a boundary that was cross there
Speaker 4: for you? Okay?
Speaker 3: Did you tell her though, because you know, people who
Speaker 3: maybe don't work in your line of field don't feel
Speaker 3: the same.
Speaker 6: Well, after about the fourth or fifth voicemail, I remember
Speaker 6: she did get in contact with my secretary.
Speaker 4: And what did she say to her?
Speaker 6: My secretary had her on the line and I had to,
Speaker 6: you know, fib and say I'm extremely busy with the case, which,
Speaker 6: truth be told, I was busy with the case. But
Speaker 6: the other issue with all of this is that I
Speaker 6: never gave Jacqueline the information of what law firm I
Speaker 6: work at.
Speaker 4: How did she fight you LinkedIn?
Speaker 7: You know, I do not know off the top of
Speaker 7: my head.
Speaker 6: I did not inquire about.
Speaker 7: Her further into this, I guess lately.
Speaker 6: Okay, kend just wrote that off. I found that it
Speaker 6: was a little bit of a really intrusive move. I'm
Speaker 6: being out that.
Speaker 4: It'd be good for her to hear.
Speaker 1: Definitely a little odd. Yeah, and uh, I'm sorry that
Speaker 1: she I know you said you're trying to avoid her. Sorry,
Speaker 1: we made kind of an oops because she's actually on
Speaker 1: the phone with us right now in the other line
Speaker 1: listening to this.
Speaker 4: She heard all that.
Speaker 1: What Yeah, that's that's how this segment works, and she's
Speaker 1: wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, hey guys, Hey cherry mom. I'm so happy that,
Speaker 5: like I get to hear your voice.
Speaker 7: I'm cut a while, Jacqueline, what are you doing?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 5: I was just trying to get ahold of you because
Speaker 5: I've been thinking about you and I have such a
Speaker 5: good time when we went out, and he said you
Speaker 5: wanted to see me again, So.
Speaker 6: I did at a certain point. But this is getting
Speaker 6: borderline stalker behavior. This is insane.
Speaker 7: You're using a ratation.
Speaker 6: To contact me.
Speaker 7: I'm working right now. I thought this was a client.
Speaker 5: Oh, I'm so sorry. But if you would have gotten
Speaker 5: back to me, like I wouldn't have called them. And
Speaker 5: I think stalker is like way overblown. I've left a
Speaker 5: couple of messages that your work.
Speaker 2: Say that often it's not technically jack.
Speaker 7: If it's not stalkers, how did you find out where
Speaker 7: I work?
Speaker 1: Actually, that's a good question.
Speaker 4: It's going to be hard to win an argument against
Speaker 4: the lawyer right now.
Speaker 5: Okay. In my defense, it was so simple, like all
Speaker 5: your pictures on the app, Like I saw that there
Speaker 5: was one picture of you outside the courtyard and you
Speaker 5: could see the courthouse across the street. So all I
Speaker 5: did was go on Google find the courthouse, and then
Speaker 5: I knew you were working in the building across from it.
Speaker 5: So you know, I called the couple of different law firms,
Speaker 5: well I find you.
Speaker 4: That made it sound worse, are you?
Speaker 1: You did detective work based on a picture on his profile?
Speaker 5: Yeah, all ladies will do that, Like you look for
Speaker 5: contract clues in the pictures.
Speaker 4: I can't voicemails.
Speaker 2: You're saying, so you do it, but you just where's
Speaker 2: the harm? I don't tell them.
Speaker 1: You can't leave the evidence behind that you've been okay.
Speaker 5: I wouldn't have left voicemails if you would have just
Speaker 5: returned my call. And you know he had mentioned that
Speaker 5: he wasn't really loving his new secretary, so I thought,
Speaker 5: maybe you didn't love Wait did you just say he
Speaker 5: didn't like his new secretary? He mentioned that when we
Speaker 5: had dinner.
Speaker 7: To be the new secretary.
Speaker 1: Tom, can you see how maybe you've brought some of
Speaker 1: this upon yourself? Stop it, But at a bare minimum,
Speaker 1: you have to be impressed with how she was able
Speaker 1: to figure out where.
Speaker 4: Or scared Jeffrey.
Speaker 7: This is insane.
Speaker 5: New section me Tom on the date, what's your best quality?
Speaker 5: And I said, I'm determined, and so I think I'm proving,
Speaker 5: but I was determined to get a hold of you again.
Speaker 3: You know there's a good side and a bad side
Speaker 3: to every quality.
Speaker 5: Tom, I'm gonna have to like disagree with you about
Speaker 5: your secretary because she's totally friendly. When I call.
Speaker 2: There, she's still there, we can confirm, not for long.
Speaker 4: If she keeps giving out Tom's information.
Speaker 5: I found his information. I figured that all out on
Speaker 5: my own to like find a lot credit for that. O.
Speaker 1: He's not impressed, Tom, Maybe he'll be impressed if you
Speaker 1: wish him happy belated birthday right now.
Speaker 7: What are you talking about.
Speaker 1: Let's figure out it's your birthday. That's called persistence.
Speaker 4: I thought she texted you the birthday message.
Speaker 6: I blocked her a long time ago. I don't see
Speaker 6: anything she sends to me.
Speaker 1: Why he didn't get the message? You better tell it
Speaker 1: to him. Better wish him happy birthday right now?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: Or better yet, you can wish him happy birthday when
Speaker 1: you meet face to face for your second date, a
Speaker 1: date that we will pay for if Tom agrees to it.
Speaker 1: What do you think Tom?
Speaker 6: Absolutely not.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think that's a pretty clear message.
Speaker 1: Well, are you sure you want to say that, because
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Jacquelin's on the other side of the
Speaker 1: door from wherever you are right now, so you might
Speaker 1: want to say yes, Just say yes.
Speaker 2: We'll go right now.
Speaker 7: I would not be surprised at this point.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, Jacqueline, you do understand what he's saying.
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, No, I get it. I mean there was
Speaker 5: a couple of times, Like one of my friends wanted
Speaker 5: to meet for lunch and she sort of lived over
Speaker 5: by that courthouse, like down that way. So we went
Speaker 5: and we had lunch, trying to maybe run into Tom
Speaker 5: and I didn't.
Speaker 1: Oh no, there's.
Speaker 4: More than one crazy of you.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't want Jacqueline to leave this phone call
Speaker 1: empty handed. That's why, Jacquelin, we're going to offer to
Speaker 1: send you out to lunch with Tom's secretary. Did you
Speaker 1: get a long.
Speaker 5: Thank you?
Speaker 6: Please don't go to lunch with my secretary, please, brooked
Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the morning,