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Speaker 1: You ready, colo absolutely all right, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Catherine in Buffalo writes, I'm getting a divorce and my

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Speaker 2: husband is still living in the guest bedroom. We had

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Speaker 2: sex this past weekend, and I'm all for trying to

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Speaker 2: work on our marriage. But he hit me with the cold,

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Speaker 2: hard fact that it was just sex for him. How

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Speaker 2: could he be so cruel to me? A?

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Speaker 3: Well, the truth you understand that you all are getting

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Speaker 3: a divorce for a reason. The reason you're getting divorced

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Speaker 3: still stands, y'all having sex he just told you was

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Speaker 3: just sex for him. In the famous words of Judge

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Speaker 3: Len Tolder, who said something on my talk show years

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Speaker 3: back that I never forgot.

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Speaker 1: She said her grandmother.

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Speaker 3: Told her, don't let a man have to tell you

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Speaker 3: twice he don't want you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're hear so now going bout you?

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Speaker 2: Is?

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Speaker 3: He don't won't you? How many times he got to

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Speaker 3: say you've already filed? He don't. Won't you stop passing

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Speaker 3: out yourself thinking it's going to change, So he don't

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Speaker 3: won't you.

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Speaker 1: He'll take that, but he don't want the rest that come.

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Speaker 2: With Yeah, okay, break it down, all right. Moving on

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Speaker 2: to Keith in Huntsville. Keith writes, I moved to a

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Speaker 2: new city for work, but my wife is still in

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Speaker 2: New York. She's moving after our house is sold. I

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Speaker 2: don't care if she comes or not because I have

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Speaker 2: a new side chick. I know.

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Speaker 1: Isn't this horrible? I have a new side chick that

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Speaker 1: is great in bed?

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Speaker 2: Should I tell our realtor in New York to slow

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Speaker 2: down on selling the house? What?

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Speaker 1: Wow? So you need advice? I know, Brud, you ain't.

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Speaker 1: You ain't trying to.

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Speaker 3: You ain't trying to find a way to tell your

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Speaker 3: wife you ain't you ain't trying. Ah. You trying to

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Speaker 3: do is keep the party going. I can't help you, bro,

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Speaker 3: I can't help you. You don't even care if she comes.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't care if she comes or not.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know it took this relocation to bring out

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Speaker 3: the real facts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm gonna tell I'm gonna tell you so,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna just go out on the limb and say

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Speaker 3: this right here, he had a side chick in New

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Speaker 3: York too.

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Speaker 1: Ah. Well, you dropping knowledge to that.

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Speaker 3: I'm just telling you that right there. You ain't got

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Speaker 3: to go out of town to get no side chick.

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Speaker 3: He had a side chick in New York.

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Speaker 1: We don't quote him on the show. Take it back,

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Speaker 1: Take it back, Take it back back, all right, come on,

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Speaker 1: all right.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Vet in Philly, ve Rights. My husband

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Speaker 2: of thirty years called me the B word in front

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Speaker 2: of my parents. He's never done that before, so we

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Speaker 2: were all shocked. Well, my mother, my mother wasn't she

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Speaker 2: agreed with my husband. I didn't see. I didn't know

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Speaker 2: she felt that way. Should I have a talk with

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Speaker 2: my mama?

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Speaker 1: Wait? Wait, he did that in front of birth both

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Speaker 1: her parents.

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Speaker 2: Her, Yes, her husband called her the B word, called

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Speaker 2: her a b in front of her parents.

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Speaker 1: Everybody, something to you, my fault?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: My father, Slick Harvey, m hm, he did, he'd have

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Speaker 3: turned that whole thing out his daughter, Doug, you're gonna

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Speaker 3: call one of my sisters the B word in front

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Speaker 3: of my father?

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Speaker 1: But that's unthinkable in my family.

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Speaker 3: That's it's everyone thought. No, obviously, is not?

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Speaker 1: Is not? Her mother agreed with him.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: In my family, this three would have had serious problem.

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Speaker 3: If me and my brothers had been over there or

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Speaker 3: my father and heard him call my sister b it

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Speaker 3: would have been on a cracking man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we thought it was in every book. One's family.

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Speaker 3: I'll say that, but I can't even imagine that man

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Speaker 3: not in my family.

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Speaker 1: So she wants to know since her mom.

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Speaker 3: I can't tell her none, Shirley, I can't help her.

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Speaker 3: I don't my family don't do that. No, No, that

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Speaker 3: should have been some form of violent reaction. That's all

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Speaker 3: I can say.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's what I'm trying to tell you. Her

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Speaker 2: mom got it, she agreed with the husband. She wants

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Speaker 2: to know should she.

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Speaker 1: Have a talk with the mother. That's her question.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you're going in there and talk with your mama,

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Speaker 3: But I need to go over there and talk to

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Speaker 3: my daddy too, though.

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Speaker 1: Come trying to figure out how to.

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Speaker 3: Daddy let another man come in his house and call

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Speaker 3: his daughter a bee.

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Speaker 1: That's not making I can't. I'm gonna drive, I'm gonna drop.

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Speaker 1: I'm dropping. I can't even I can't. You can't do that.

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Speaker 3: I wish one of my son in law's would call

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Speaker 3: my daughter a bee in my house. I wish either

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Speaker 3: one of them would. Yeah, they're younger than me, they

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Speaker 3: more physically fit than me. But I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 3: something when they leave that house that day right there,

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Speaker 3: they will not be in the same condition it was

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Speaker 3: when they came in.

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Speaker 1: But they were.

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Speaker 2: Thirty years Stephen Gurney, they've been married for thirty years.

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Speaker 1: This is craziness. Well years. He has done something before, exactly.

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Speaker 1: It's the mama that's agreeing with it. Yeah, mother, it

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Speaker 1: ain't father. He ain't say nothing. That's crazy. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: her issue is with all right.

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Speaker 3: Last one, I'm mad at my I'm mad at my

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Speaker 3: son in laws right now, dog, I won't be sitting

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Speaker 3: over there this year.

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Speaker 1: Just looking at him. Say it, and Philly, just save

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Speaker 1: you say it. She needed your help on that one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: Last one, This is the last one. Mac and Bethesda writes,

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Speaker 2: I'm bald by choice, but my wife likes me better

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Speaker 2: with hair. She doesn't care if it's thinning or not.

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Speaker 2: I'm self conscious, but she said it's sexy. Do I

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Speaker 2: grow it back for her or keep shaving it?

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Speaker 1: Juliu, what that's what I said? Did you hear? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I heard the question. How do you feel about it?

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Speaker 1: My hair is is none wrong? My hand?

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Speaker 3: Let's let you go that you comb through this answer,

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, there's nothing to calm through. He said it's

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Speaker 3: thinny mm hmmm, and he's ball by choice and she

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Speaker 3: wants him, would have and she don't care if it's

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Speaker 3: thinning right now. You're the only one in this situation

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Speaker 3: right now because me and Tommy is bald.

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Speaker 1: I'm not bald. I have hair. I have good hair.

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Speaker 1: We're not going to get an answer for that one, obviously.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys coming to can think. He sexty, I

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Speaker 1: can think. I got had to you said you're quite good.

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Speaker 1: Thank you something tomorrow, send it to me so I

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Speaker 1: can right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show