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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This one is

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Speaker 1: from Ashland in Chicago. Colo Ashland writes, I've been dating

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Speaker 1: a married man for two years, and I moved closer

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Speaker 1: to be with him. He's getting too comfortable with my

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Speaker 1: closeness and taking it for granted. When I come home

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Speaker 1: some days, he's already in my bed. How do I

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Speaker 1: set boundaries with him?

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Speaker 2: You haven't set any boundaries for yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have no respect for yourself, but now you

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Speaker 3: want him to have some for you. You're breaking the rules,

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Speaker 3: and so now when he breaks the rules what you

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Speaker 3: want to happen? You're seeing a married man. Okay, that's

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Speaker 3: somebody's husband. You do know that, right. I ain't passing

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Speaker 3: judgment on you, but you know that right. You move

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Speaker 3: closer to be with him, which means you're not actually

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Speaker 3: looking for your own husband. So now you think he's

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Speaker 3: taking you for granted. You done took yourself for granted.

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Speaker 3: You move moved to be closer to him, to what

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Speaker 3: make it more convenient for you and convenient for him.

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Speaker 3: So now you come home and he laying in your bed?

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Speaker 3: What what's wrong? That's what her husbands do. They go

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Speaker 3: home and get in the pad. The only thing is

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Speaker 3: that ain't your husband, but he still keep acting like

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Speaker 3: one because you performing wifely duties. So why here's another

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Speaker 3: letter written like he's normal. I'm dating the married man,

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Speaker 3: and I move closer man, then I come home here

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Speaker 3: in the bed his house.

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Speaker 4: Jesus, I love my dedication, though her dedication is out.

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Speaker 1: Oh to you now because she moved close to him, right,

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Speaker 1: she's smart? Yeah, what moving on to Pedro and Tampa.

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Speaker 1: Now you're thinking, there you go everyone, Well we got

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Speaker 1: to Pedro and Tampa. Pedro writes, My wife and I

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Speaker 1: were walking on the boardwalk and a younger woman jogged

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Speaker 1: by us and she fell. I rushed over to help her,

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Speaker 1: to help her up, and my wife has been on

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Speaker 1: my head about it for two days. As a man,

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Speaker 1: I'll always react like that, what's my wife's problem?

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Speaker 2: Okay, keep picking them up? Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Ain't nobody else run over there except you, and that's

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Speaker 3: what you're always gonna do.

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Speaker 2: H Okay.

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Speaker 1: So you think it was wrong of him to help

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Speaker 1: the woman up after she.

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Speaker 2: Fell, Absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't wrong. Okay.

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Speaker 2: It was the gentleman thing to do.

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Speaker 1: Right, right, right, But that ain't any help.

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Speaker 2: That you live with.

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Speaker 1: Dot.

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Speaker 3: See what happened was this little young fine thing went

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Speaker 3: running back and the fact that you was watching her

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Speaker 3: at hall that as soon as she failed, yo were

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Speaker 3: running right behind it because you broke our jogging behind

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Speaker 3: and when she went back.

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Speaker 1: You had to check yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because my wife wasn't that he'd have been

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Speaker 3: trotting right behind.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh uh huh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, there is nothing you can do about that.

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Speaker 2: You can't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the word you can't be captain save a blank

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Speaker 3: in front of your wife. You just can't do it. No,

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Speaker 3: you can't do it.

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Speaker 1: Wow, all right, she's just the woman is just supposed

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Speaker 1: to live there. All right, you're here, I'll be that wife.

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Speaker 3: Let's go an't nobody tell how to run out of yet?

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Speaker 1: God? All right, here we go. Lonae Linee in Seattle says,

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend never washed his clothes, so I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: if he's recycling his underwear or not. He never smells,

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Speaker 1: but I know for a fact he's barely used to

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Speaker 1: his new washing machine and he's not using a laundry service.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask him about this or not? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You can, you can ask him about it. Closed this

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Speaker 3: he don't stink. He don't use his washing machine.

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Speaker 1: And when he launch service.

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Speaker 3: And so what does she think is happening? Maybe it's

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Speaker 3: another woman doing his laundry for him. Now and what

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Speaker 3: you want to go with? Yeah, that's why she want

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Speaker 3: to ask. And that's the real question that she sent in. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and so now let uncle Steve put you eddie. It's

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Speaker 3: another woman doing his draws.

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Speaker 1: Next question? Should wow?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Last one? This is the last one, Steve. This is

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Speaker 1: from Nita and Minneapolis. Nita says, when we get married.

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Speaker 1: When we got married, my husband did all of the

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Speaker 1: cooking and the grocery shopping. Lately he's been giving me

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Speaker 1: a list of things we need from the store and

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Speaker 1: he gets mad because I have it all delivered. Why

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Speaker 1: does he care how I get the groceries? Why?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Because it's extra money.

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Speaker 2: What I mean, I don't know. Is it extra money

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Speaker 2: to have it delivered? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because when it.

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Speaker 2: Costs gas and time to go get.

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Speaker 1: It, absolutely that to more. It's more it costs.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I did never whoever had grocery set to now,

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't even know where to start.

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Speaker 1: But the grocery store. Yeah, you could do it with

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Speaker 1: the store you can so, But what have you gone

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Speaker 1: to the grocery store though? I don't even know why exactly.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know where it is.

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Speaker 2: What grocery store would I go to?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 2: What would you for? You all suggested food public. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's the last time I went with jewel in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, jewel in Chicago. Oh, they don't have that anymore

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Speaker 1: what they did when I lived there.

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Speaker 2: Regular grocery stores you could go to.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he hasn't know where one is though. He was saying,

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Speaker 1: you don't know.

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Speaker 2: This is crazy. This is rich people problem. You just

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Speaker 2: don't That's what this is.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. I can't tell you where

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Speaker 3: a Kloka head?

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Speaker 2: Now you know what.

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you something is a one by my house.

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Speaker 1: All of them are by your house.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure how long you think it'll take for you

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Speaker 4: to run in real quick, real quick and get some flour.

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Speaker 4: Go ahead, get a pack of bacon, some sugar. I

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Speaker 4: throw some sugar in. Then let's just throw something in there,

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Speaker 4: some pepperrika on a spicey.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I know where to bacon that because that's on

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Speaker 3: the outside out. I'll be able to find that. Then

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Speaker 3: I look under the aisle that say, oh, spices on it,

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Speaker 3: spices and baked goods. Okay, now, because I used to

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Speaker 3: work at the grocery store, so and them steal the

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Speaker 3: signs they got. I can get that pepperica down there

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Speaker 3: on the right side, but that fly gonna be on

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Speaker 3: the other side, on the bottom shelf.

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Speaker 2: I can get that.

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Speaker 3: And now do you know where you can get the eggs,

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Speaker 3: the yogurt, the juice edge.

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Speaker 2: And yoga is on the outside out. That's good.

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Speaker 1: To stop that, all right.

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Speaker 3: See, I'm good at that kind of stuff. I just

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Speaker 3: don't know where the grocery store of the hour.

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Speaker 1: Once I get in there, we'll have some entertainment news

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Speaker 1: for you right after this. Thank you, CLO. You're listening

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Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Morning Show