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Speaker 2: I know when you did a little handclap Brother's intro.

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Speaker 3: I y'all females.

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Speaker 1: But so just to let y'all know, we masked up today.

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Speaker 1: craziness going on. I know y'all going outside and y'all

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Speaker 1: been cutting up, having a good time. I got tested

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Speaker 1: and I'm please, be careful, be fucking careful, because Corona

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Speaker 4: Just don't understand people's logic behind going to the club

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Speaker 4: and wearing a mask, Like if you had to wear

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Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I mean I seen because Domind

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Speaker 1: But no, but when we're going to public's, we have

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're taking a risk anytime you go outside,

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Speaker 4: At the club and then people pulling their mask down

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Speaker 4: She don't even make no fucking sense. Like I was

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Speaker 5: What you was doing? Who flew you out? Myself?

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Speaker 6: Okay, right, I went to go visit my family.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, like I was out there and I was

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Speaker 4: then what's the fucking point, right, what's the fucking pointing

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So I just feel like y'all just need to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want to spread it to people who

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Speaker 1: I'll be thinking about. So, how was your past week?

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Speaker 1: Give us an update. My week was cool, Like.

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Speaker 4: It was really some chill shit because I mean, right

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Speaker 6: So I really just.

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Speaker 4: Spent a lot of time with my mom and I

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Speaker 5: So yeah, Oh that's good. Huge. Okay the Patreon Yes,

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Speaker 1: To all the patrons. Y'all have been like solid. We

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Speaker 1: love y'all dropping content for y'all every week. Shout out

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Speaker 5: This week. I'm gonna tell y'all a story, a good story.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna do a storytime.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do a story time about when I went

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Speaker 1: So shout out to the Patriots. Y'all gonna get that

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Speaker 5: Brother. I knew he was about Daddy's home. Rapper Bay

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Speaker 1: But no, I'm just happy that we're at least on

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Speaker 1: I'll be letting people just talk to me crazy sometimes

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Speaker 6: Right, people approach me.

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Speaker 1: I'm a person. I do not mind apologizing if I'm wrong.

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Speaker 5: I don't have no I don't have no ego problem

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Speaker 1: I feel like people think that I don't have feelings

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Speaker 5: But I'm like, damn, bitch, I got feelings too.

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Speaker 1: But it's like I've learned to be apologetic about my

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Speaker 5: I mean. I guess you don't know when she bothered me.

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Speaker 4: You know that you don't know when some she is

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Speaker 6: But if it's stay serious to me, it's that serious.

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Speaker 4: My feelings are always valid to me, right, Yeah, So

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Speaker 4: I feel like, you know what I mean, you have

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Speaker 6: Shit or this turt of my feeling.

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Speaker 4: You can't expect that people are just gonna automatically know it,

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Speaker 4: like yeah, you human, But if you always laughing and

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Speaker 5: I guess I feel like every time too, every time

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Speaker 1: Somebody like, oh this bothers me, They're like, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I thought we could joke around.

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Speaker 1: So it makes my feelings like I feel like my

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Speaker 3: I mean, what are some examples, like what has somebody

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Speaker 1: Okay, So for example, actually with Rapper Bank, when I

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Speaker 1: And I told him, I was like, I don't like

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Speaker 1: not that serious, you know, like stuff like that. Like

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking because like me, I'm thinking like I mean

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking like if it's not that deep, like let's

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Speaker 5: I guess it's just but I mean that goes back

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Speaker 2: If this is rapper Bade, like I mean, I'm sure,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm And that's why I was kind of like

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Speaker 5: But I mean, I do get a little emotional sometimes

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Speaker 1: I can be a little dramatic sometimes, not that I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm still a woman. Do you feel like I'll tell

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Speaker 5: Feel like we haven't had any issues.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we're really having arguments.

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Speaker 1: I mean, when we weren't getting along, it wasn't really

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think so too. I think so too. I

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Speaker 4: That's that's the most important thing in any relationship, is

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Speaker 6: Like you can't have a friendship, you can have a relationship.

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Speaker 4: You can't have anything with anybody without good communication of course.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so that let us know how y'all feel about,

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Speaker 4: What we were talking about, Yes, was on the phone

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Speaker 4: the other day and we were just having a conversation per use,

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Speaker 4: and we were just talking about like sometimes when you

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Speaker 4: because you know, I think sometimes there's women we always

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Speaker 6: But I did X, Y and Z in this situation too.

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Speaker 6: We end up having this outcome.

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Speaker 5: Right, So I'm dead. I'm dead.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like that's one thing I'm learning as

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Speaker 1: I get older. I need to just stop pointing the

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 1: I know it's kind of contradicting what I just said earlier,

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Speaker 1: that episode I talked about when Rapper Bay dumped me

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Speaker 5: Sometimes me neither.

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Speaker 1: I will say something like I'll be looking at myself like, damn, bitch,

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Speaker 1: why did you say that?

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Speaker 4: Yes, Because then after I say stuff, I'd be like, fuck,

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Speaker 5: Oh well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So it just kind of be like, how do

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Speaker 4: Yeah, meditate, But then just also going back to what

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Speaker 4: Like sometimes sh it just don't be worth your energy.

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Speaker 6: But I'm mad too. But then sometimes you gotta ask

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Speaker 4: When you be in situations with people, it's like the

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Speaker 5: Mm hmmm, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes that's that's what you have to ask, you know

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Speaker 4: like that's nothing, but then is it worth And what

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Speaker 4: if that nigga really get tired of you for really

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Speaker 4: be like I don't want.

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Speaker 5: To fuck with her, that's real thought, but I'm.

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Speaker 4: Saying for real though, Yeah, then what you're gonna do?

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Speaker 4: And it's like all of that just because you wanted

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Speaker 1: But you know it's crazy, Like I'm thirty, I feel

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Speaker 5: I'm like when the am I gonna grow up?

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Speaker 4: I had a conversation with somebody I'm cool with, like

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Speaker 4: I need to tell you that. And I was like really,

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Speaker 4: of those people where it's like when you have something,

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Speaker 4: I don't think you always see the value of it

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Speaker 5: I want to bag Yoh yeah, that's the tourist.

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Speaker 4: She was like, but that's how you act with a

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Speaker 4: She was like, but you have to realize, like stuff,

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Speaker 4: A lot of the time, stuff happened to you because

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Speaker 4: of it. Just be a reaction to stuff that you've

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Speaker 1: Well, I'll say I think it's good that we've recognized it.

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Speaker 1: You know, before I used to be like I don't

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Speaker 5: And if you don't like it, then shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm all about growth.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you, at some point in your life

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Speaker 6: Like, well, it's just how I am.

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Speaker 4: It's just how I am, right, Like you could always change,

440
00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:46,479
Speaker 4: like this might be how you are, Yeah, but you

441
00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,160
Speaker 4: can always change things about.

442
00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:49,359
Speaker 5: If you want to.

443
00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:52,119
Speaker 1: You want to, because I mean, I was having a

444
00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:58,840
Speaker 1: conversation with with Throwback Day and I'm dead, and he

445
00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:00,680
Speaker 1: was just like, man, I'm thirty six years old.

446
00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:02,040
Speaker 5: I ain't about to do all this.

447
00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:05,040
Speaker 1: You know, like crazy going back and forth, like I

448
00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,480
Speaker 1: don't got time to argue, like I got kids, I

449
00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,760
Speaker 1: got shit going on, Like I'm a grown ass man.

450
00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, people really out here grown as fuck,

451
00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:12,760
Speaker 1: and I'm.

452
00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,000
Speaker 5: Grown as fucking I need to just act like it sometimes.

453
00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:17,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I agree, I feel the same way.

454
00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,040
Speaker 4: And like going back to like what I was saying

455
00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:20,760
Speaker 4: the person that I'm cool with what they were telling me,

456
00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:22,960
Speaker 4: they was just like yeah, and on top of that,

457
00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:24,800
Speaker 4: you we having to realize, like you like to fuck

458
00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,440
Speaker 4: with niggas that's older than you, niggas that be older

459
00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,600
Speaker 4: than you. They do not want no fucking dramas at all.

460
00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:34,040
Speaker 4: And you always bringing dramas. And I was like I

461
00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,399
Speaker 4: do huh And she was like yeah, she was like,

462
00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:39,160
Speaker 4: and you a person you cannot sit down. You feel

463
00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,200
Speaker 4: like somebody did you wrong. Oh you're gonna get bag.

464
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,639
Speaker 4: You gonna fly out here and fly out there and

465
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,359
Speaker 4: do these So now that you know that, are you

466
00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,760
Speaker 4: still gonna you know, are you gonna change that?

467
00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:50,480
Speaker 6: I'm I'm gonna work on it.

468
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,520
Speaker 4: But now I do see the eraor of my ways

469
00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:55,880
Speaker 4: in certain situations that I begin and why I think

470
00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,520
Speaker 4: that sometimes you don't end up working out in my

471
00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:02,439
Speaker 4: favorite because I'm to it's like, I don't know, I

472
00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,159
Speaker 4: just like you said, I'm one of those people. I

473
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:05,879
Speaker 4: just feel like I have to prove a point to

474
00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,360
Speaker 4: people that like you can't control me, you can't tang

475
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:08,679
Speaker 4: it right.

476
00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:10,360
Speaker 5: It's like, oh, he got sucked up.

477
00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:13,040
Speaker 4: And sometimes they don't even be about that when it

478
00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:18,040
Speaker 4: comes to like, I don't know, it's sometimes it's just

479
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:19,800
Speaker 4: not about that. It's just not about it.

480
00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:21,440
Speaker 3: It's them for something Like I feel like I gotta

481
00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:22,400
Speaker 3: be something deeper.

482
00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:25,080
Speaker 5: Like, I know, right, we got some real issues, like.

483
00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:25,800
Speaker 3: What happened to y'all?

484
00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,159
Speaker 5: You know what, I don't think nothing really happened to me.

485
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,920
Speaker 5: I just think, like some I just be wanting things

486
00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:31,280
Speaker 5: to be.

487
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:35,359
Speaker 1: Perfect, I know, and I just have this vision of

488
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,239
Speaker 1: how I want everything to be, so as soon as

489
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:40,639
Speaker 1: something goes left, I just flip out and I just

490
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 1: don't like it, and I get mad at everybody around me.

491
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:47,399
Speaker 1: I blame everybody else not realizing like, Okay, everything is fine.

492
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,240
Speaker 1: Everything's just not gonna be perfect, you know what I'm saying.

493
00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,359
Speaker 1: And I just be expecting people to do what I

494
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 1: want them to do when I want them to do it.

495
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Speaker 6: And I'm the same way.

496
00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 4: I just think I have like control issues to a

497
00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,800
Speaker 4: certain extent, like and when I can't control the situation,

498
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 4: I lash out, you know what I mean, because I

499
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 4: don't like to not I don't like to feel like

500
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,679
Speaker 4: I'm not in control of situations, like especially when it

501
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,440
Speaker 4: comes to dating and stuff like that, because honestly, damn

502
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:14,440
Speaker 4: near every guy every dated, I feel like the situation

503
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,360
Speaker 4: is always ended because of me, and because I got

504
00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 4: tired of it, you know what I mean.

505
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 6: And I was always in control of it.

506
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 4: So being in a situation where it's like I'm be

507
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:25,440
Speaker 4: in control of what be going on. A lot of

508
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,399
Speaker 4: the time, I think you just pieced me off. And

509
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:30,439
Speaker 4: then instead of me just having an adult conversation with people,

510
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 4: I go and do things like like she said, you

511
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:35,879
Speaker 4: know you're gonna go hang with these persons that go

512
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 4: hang with that person in the.

513
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 6: Do you think that it's gonna get you what you want?

514
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:39,200
Speaker 5: Right?

515
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 6: No, it's just gonna make somebody look at you like,

516
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 6: all right, alright, cool, are you moving on right?

517
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 5: And I'm still gonna do me right.

518
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 6: Well, it's just crazy.

519
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:51,879
Speaker 1: I think that we're doing a good job at least

520
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 1: by acknowledging our fault and working on it because I'm

521
00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 1: telling you I'm not.

522
00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:01,200
Speaker 4: Maybe we should be accountability partners.

523
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,439
Speaker 1: I can do this if if liquor is not involved,

524
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,159
Speaker 1: because once I get drunk, all that shit go out

525
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 1: the way.

526
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:06,600
Speaker 6: It's the same thing with me.

527
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 4: But then I feel like that's why I have to

528
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 4: get to a point too, to where my mama said,

529
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 4: I like everything in exes and I need to stop

530
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 4: being like this, and you need to know when to stop.

531
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 4: Like it's cool to drink, but you need to know

532
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 4: when to stop, because if you don't get to that point,

533
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 4: you really still be cool.

534
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 1: And then I'm so bad. I'd be like, oh this

535
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 1: nigga mad at me, let me suck your dick.

536
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 4: I'll be thinking of dick, thinking that sex is gonna

537
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 4: fix I mean thinking everything.

538
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,400
Speaker 5: I'm like this pussy good, this squeaky.

539
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 4: I feel that way too, but I've grown past that mentality.

540
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 1: I always I'm always apologizing and pussy. I'm always I'm like,

541
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 1: let me give you some pussy. Like the next morning

542
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 1: when were walking out.

543
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 4: People feel like your situation too, Like some of the

544
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 4: situations you be in, it's too deep at this point

545
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 4: for pussy to fix it. I be feeling I ain't

546
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:53,400
Speaker 4: knowing pussy not gonna fix it no more.

547
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 5: I think I really gotta grow up.

548
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 1: Well. I think it's because, like I know that I'm

549
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,199
Speaker 1: a super sexual person, so all of my relationship are

550
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 1: always super sexual, like it be deep relationships, but they're

551
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 1: super sexual. So like the next morning, when I woke up,

552
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 1: I knew he was like, so fucking man.

553
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 5: I was like, you want some? He was like no,

554
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 5: he mad.

555
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 6: As fucking you.

556
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:18,880
Speaker 5: And I don't mean in that situation.

557
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 6: A lot of times, I ain't trying to fuck you.

558
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 5: You know how bad you know how bad that makes

559
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 5: you feel it.

560
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 2: Turned out and I have I've been in that situation,

561
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 2: but you turned out some pussy wow mad?

562
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that really like does something?

563
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, like damn you really really fucking mad?

564
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 3: That's real. That is a real thing. Like I won't

565
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 3: even get.

566
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: Hard because I think in our mind, in our mind,

567
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 1: we feel like niggas be horny. You always want to think.

568
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: Niggas always want to funk. So it's like, if you

569
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 1: mad at me, you don't want no pussy. I'm like,

570
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,200
Speaker 1: oh ship, I don't.

571
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:57,119
Speaker 6: Up these times.

572
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 5: I don't the big time girl. So that's one thing

573
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,959
Speaker 5: I worked on to not trying to throw the pussy

574
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 5: at the apologetic Do you ever apologize?

575
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 4: I apologize with pussy, But I'm saying, do you ever

576
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 4: like genuinely apologize After the fact you be like, Okay,

577
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 4: I know that I did these I know they hurt

578
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 4: your feelings or it made you feel okay, So I

579
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 4: just want to say that I apologize. Well, this is

580
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:20,159
Speaker 4: the thing about me.

581
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: I apologize, and I expect people to take my apology

582
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: right off the bat. I feel like when I apologize,

583
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 1: you're supposed to like I'm like, damn, bet, I said,

584
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. We're friends.

585
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 5: Now, have you ever apologized like apology?

586
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 6: Right?

587
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 2: So I was like with, like with your dude, have

588
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 2: you ever like apologized or maybe like I'm a size

589
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 2: or maybe breakfast watch the nigga.

590
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 1: It'll arrange me one time. I actually I apologize to

591
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,360
Speaker 1: throw back back. I bought him like a big old

592
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 1: basket like full of liquor. So yeah, I mean gift

593
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: some time.

594
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, because I mean you can't just like honestly

595
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:56,439
Speaker 2: like just going straight to pussy.

596
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 3: That's that's weak. Well, see it is, bro, that's that's

597
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:00,119
Speaker 3: I'm I.

598
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 5: Know you're right, you're right.

599
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: But you know, I was gonna get I was gonna

600
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: get Rapper Bay a whole little thing for Father's Day.

601
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 1: I was in Houston, but he just wasn't talking to me.

602
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,640
Speaker 1: So I was like, what can I do if I

603
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: if you're not talking to me. I just felt like

604
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: he was done. So I meant one, Oh, you know

605
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 1: I like them old.

606
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 5: All these niggas got keys, Oh no, oh, no, fucking kids.

607
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 4: All these niggas be having kids. I don't know, the

608
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 4: last nigga I dated. They don't have no dawn kids.

609
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 5: Yeah, all of them have kids. I mean, it's not

610
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 5: a problem to me.

611
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 6: Come with the tear too.

612
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's another thing I'm working on. Stop apologizing

613
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 1: with pussy that doesn't always get your I'm dead, Okay.

614
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: So we're just gonna touch on this last topic before

615
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 1: we move on.

616
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 5: To the bed.

617
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 1: So Amanda Mendez sent this in She's a bottle popper

618
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: shout out to our girl. She said, question, I like

619
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 1: your opinion on what do you guys think is an

620
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 1: appropriate time to start day or have a new relationship

621
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,360
Speaker 1: with someone new after anyone.

622
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 5: The next day. As soon as I could beat my face.

623
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna say that. I say, like, how did

624
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 2: they break up? Did she get her heartbroken? Was it

625
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 2: just some mutual separation?

626
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 3: Like? How did it happen?

627
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:17,640
Speaker 5: It doesn't matter to me if.

628
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 3: Your heartbroken, don't just immediately start dating.

629
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 5: Don't do that. I mean, I feel like sometimes.

630
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 2: They get your bad blown out, like sometimes in a moment,

631
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 2: but they don't like it takes time to get over

632
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 2: that type shit.

633
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 3: Don't cap now, don't capitals cap.

634
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie like when my feelings be hurt,

635
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: I just be like, okay, well let me go see

636
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: what you talking about, and then I be happy.

637
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 5: I'm I'm a leo, so I'll be in love. I'll

638
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 5: be like, oh girl, this is my man.

639
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, let's be niggas easily.

640
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 5: I love being in love.

641
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 1: And the nigga doesn't mean I'll be like fuck, I'll

642
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: be sad for like a day, maybe a day, but

643
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: the next day, I'm like, if you want to if

644
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: you don't want to be with me, that's cool, but

645
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 1: just no, I'm not about to sit around.

646
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 5: I don't have time to heal. I'm thirty, what's up?

647
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I definitely it takes me longer to

648
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 4: get over people than legs. But I definitely will still

649
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 4: date other niggas just because I mean, I'm not about

650
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 4: to just not talk. I always give myself, but I

651
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 4: up with rebound niggas and it just never work.

652
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll be falling in love with my rebound.

653
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 6: I don't be falling with a nigga.

654
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 1: Well, I won't say fall in love like you remember

655
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: the last situation I told you the guy that I

656
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: didn't want to ghost.

657
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 4: M hm.

658
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: But okay, so like after I always got out of

659
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,880
Speaker 1: the situation with like Nigerian bay Or, we weren't really

660
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 1: talking and I started kind of dating this guy and

661
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 1: we were hanging out, and I just it was kind

662
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 1: of forced because I was trying to get over the situation.

663
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 1: And now it's just like he won't go away, and

664
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 1: I feel bad about it. So I feel like that's

665
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: the bad part about rebounds, Like I need to learn

666
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 1: how to keep things the more casual instead of making niggas.

667
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 5: Think like, oh, I'm ready to be in a relationship,

668
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 5: We about to be in love?

669
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I'm really bad with that. Well, I mean

670
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 4: keeping it casual, I definitely don't.

671
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: I'll be like we just I order the appetizer and

672
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: I'll be like, okay, I want a crab cake.

673
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 5: What day you want to get married? What time I'll

674
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 5: be there, Just show up.

675
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 6: I feel like it was very it was very casual.

676
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 5: Because you kept it that way. Yeah, you kept it

677
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 5: that way.

678
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 4: But then it's like when a nigga started liking me

679
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 4: too much, then it's like, oh go because I know

680
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 4: I don't want that with certain people.

681
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: So for me, I just say whenever you're ready. I

682
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: don't give myself too long to be just. I don't

683
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: feel like you should be depressed or sad over people.

684
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: You can't let somebody have that much control over your

685
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 1: emotions and your feelings. So if I get out of

686
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: a situation, I'll let myself be sad for one or

687
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: two days max. But I can't be that person that's

688
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: moping around my house for days, not eating, not sleeping.

689
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I know some people that be sad over

690
00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: people for years years. I swear to God, don't be

691
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: dating nobody. No, they'd be dating, but they just be

692
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: like sad and can't get over.

693
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 3: How did it happen though, Like what happened to that person?

694
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: I mean it was kind of like a ghosting situation,

695
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: like they were in a serious relationship and like he

696
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 1: kind of ghosted there, but.

697
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 2: Serious relationship that's deep, No.

698
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I mean like that is yeah, yeah, it's

699
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 5: you gotta get over it. Life goes on.

700
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: One thing about life, especially if I see you out

701
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: having a good time and you live in your life,

702
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: what the fuck I look like mean in bed crying

703
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: and you out popping bottles.

704
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 3: I agree with you. Life does move on. However, to

705
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 3: your voice, you can't control what happens to you.

706
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 5: No, you can't.

707
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 2: You just said we've been in a serious relation. I

708
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 2: can see if they were just fucking right, but a

709
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 2: serious relationship and then you got ghosted.

710
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 5: That's fucked up.

711
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: That is super festive fucked up. And you do have

712
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: to heal from stuff like that. But I can't see

713
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: myself moping around for years. But you know, everybody handle

714
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: things differently. Some people just don't be as strong as

715
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: other people. Yeah, I don't think it's necessarily as being

716
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: strong though.

717
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 5: I think it's just about well, yeah.

718
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 4: I guess it's the one person. It'll break that person

719
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 4: in the same shit can happen to somebody else and

720
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 4: they just gone because I'll be ready to suck some

721
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 4: being and keep it moving.

722
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: If you don't want to be with me, I will

723
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: go suck some dick tomorrow on my lunch break.

724
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 6: Girl, I am did I don't know about I'm telling you.

725
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 5: Garfield be neath her things. Huh, you're gonna give.

726
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 4: Though, Marine is kind of right, like you gotta do

727
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 4: the work though, to get over situations.

728
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you definitely have to do the work. Now.

729
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm the type of person like I think that's why

730
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: I've been dealing with him for four years though, because

731
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh, I'm over him and I'll move on,

732
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: but I end up always going back because I never

733
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: just get over him. But I think it's because also

734
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: because I don't want to right, you know, So I

735
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: mean it is. I'm talking about Rapper Bay a lot

736
00:30:55,080 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: this episode. I'm excited, y'all a man, aren't we all? Okay,

737
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into the bed a baby.

738
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 5: Ay Okay.

739
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: So I wanted to talk about this. We've talked about

740
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: this before, but I had an adventure the other day,

741
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: so I wanted to talk about squirting, and I wanted

742
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: to teach the listeners how to squirt.

743
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 5: I feel like a lot of women don't know how

744
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:21,719
Speaker 5: to squirt.

745
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: They don't, but it's really not I hate when women

746
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: who can squirt and make themselves squirt there like you

747
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: bitches can't squirt.

748
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 5: I am that bitch. I can, Like everybody can squirt.

749
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:32,479
Speaker 5: Let's relax.

750
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, some people just haven't tapped.

751
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: They haven't tapped into it. They don't know how to squirt.

752
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: So we're gonna give y'all the lessons on how to

753
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: squirre a little tutorial on how to little squirk because

754
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, oh, sometimes you know, Chris Brown did

755
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: what he had to do when he said, I'm gonna

756
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: make you with the bed. Yeah, yeah, slippery, excuse me,

757
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: please meet.

758
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 5: I know that's right, slippy ed.

759
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 1: Okay, So the first thing for me, it always helps

760
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: when your man has a curved penis, of course, because

761
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: the way you squirt, it's kind of like what you're

762
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: gonna call it, like a button.

763
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 5: It feels like a button.

764
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 6: Right, what we gonna call it?

765
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 5: But I don't know what can we call it?

766
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: It's a button though, that booty button hit different anyways,

767
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: So to me, okay, So the first time I squirted,

768
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: I made myself squirt. So I feel like you have

769
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: to know what your own spot is and find it yourself.

770
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: So what you're gonna do is, first off, you need

771
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: to drink a lot of water. Whenever you drink a

772
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: lot of water, it gets that little that little button

773
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: gets real, It gets it gets real nice and gussy, gussy.

774
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: So I always say that if you want to keep

775
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: you pussy with, have good pussy. Y'all be talking about Oh,

776
00:32:58,360 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: take this pill, take that pill.

777
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 5: I mean some pills out there. Do help a little bit,

778
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 5: but but drink the fucking water. I'm telling you, if

779
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 5: you drink a lot of water, you're gonna squirt down

780
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 5: there every time. Okay, so drink your water, bam.

781
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: So when you're masturbating, if you use your fingers, cool,

782
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 1: I think it's better to use your fingers the first time.

783
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,479
Speaker 5: You're trying to make yourself work. So you're gonna insert

784
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 5: your fingers and your vagina.

785
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: If y'all are watching on YouTube, you're gonna kind of

786
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: curl your fingers like towards your stomach, like towards your

787
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: belly bad, and you're gonna feel it feels kind of.

788
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 5: Like a little it feels a little Yeah, it feels

789
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 5: like a ruffle, like a chip, like a ruffle, Okay,

790
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 5: like a soggy ruffle.

791
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 1: Okay, So you're just gonna really just rub it. You're

792
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: gonna really just rub it. Get in there and rub

793
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: that thing, sister, And and you're gonna feel like you

794
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: have to pee, but you don't have to pee.

795
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 5: You just kind of just relax and just kind of release. Yeah.

796
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, that's that's flat, that's that's blait

797
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: every time. So if you want to do this with

798
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: your man, I would suggest you lay on your stomach.

799
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 5: This position always works for me.

800
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: Lay on your stomach and just have your legs together

801
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 1: close and have him from the back, and it's gonna

802
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,760
Speaker 1: hit that spot over and over and over and over again,

803
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: and you're gonna squirt, Beach, you gonna fucking squirk every time.

804
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,439
Speaker 1: Don't ever tell y'all and big Mama and give y'all

805
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,919
Speaker 1: no tips, because that squirting shit is real.

806
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 5: Squarten is real.

807
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,240
Speaker 6: You'd be like, who yeah, I'm being buried.

808
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 5: I do too. I thought it was just me, okay,

809
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 5: So let me tell you what happened to me the

810
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 5: other day.

811
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 6: So I wasn't I told you, especially that time with

812
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 6: the towel situation.

813
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 5: Beach, I was embarrassed.

814
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, oh my god, I'm

815
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. Okay, So I wasn't gonna tell this

816
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 1: story of but fucking I'm gonna tell it. So I

817
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 1: was having sex and I was on top Beach. I

818
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 1: was on top, and I just squirted it everywhere and

819
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 1: it was just like all over him.

820
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 5: He was just looking like and I was looking like

821
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 5: it was embarrassing.

822
00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: And then it's like they get up and there's a

823
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,320
Speaker 1: big spot on the bed, look like you pissed.

824
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 5: It's just but they like it.

825
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 6: I want to tell my story, Pat.

826
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. It's super super messy something. But

827
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:12,839
Speaker 1: men I think they like it though.

828
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 5: They Yeah, you like a little squirt, you like a

829
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:17,720
Speaker 5: little squirt squad.

830
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 3: I mean it's cool because I don't.

831
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 2: I can't control your regina, right, but I will admit, like,

832
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 2: in my experience, the woman was clearly with the women.

833
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 3: They were clearly embarrassed.

834
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 5: Yes, I get so embarrassed.

835
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 6: It's embarrassing.

836
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 5: It's a little.

837
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:36,240
Speaker 1: Embarrassing sometimes I think just because it gets real messy,

838
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 1: and I'll be like.

839
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:40,959
Speaker 5: I be feeling like sometimes apologize the house right.

840
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like sometimes that men that don't really

841
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 1: know or haven't made a lot of women squirre because

842
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 1: a lot of women don't squirt. I feel like sometimes

843
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: men I'll be like, Okay, this is not I.

844
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 5: Didn't piss on myself a little. They don't smell pissy,

845
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 5: don't smell like nothing.

846
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 3: They don't smell like that.

847
00:35:55,560 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: I don't smell like nothing. I have never smelled it.

848
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: That's because you're probably pissing I'm gonna start calling.

849
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 5: You p D. Piscy Draya.

850
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: Drea's not squirting on your nigga. She is straight up

851
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: pissing on y'all. You nasty, bad, pissy ass bitch she

852
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: talking about I got that wet we no bit, you

853
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: got that pissy pissy, you fucking nasty.

854
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 5: I can't believe you, bitch.

855
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 1: I I know that's right, p D, Babby, you be

856
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 1: cutting up PD.

857
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 5: Oh lord. Okay, so that's my tips on squirting.

858
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 1: I hope all you ladies squirt this weekend on your

859
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 1: man and just blow it up in the bedroom.

860
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 5: Amen. So now we're gonna get into the bops. Do

861
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 5: you have a bot this week? No figures, I'll go.

862
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 6: Bitch, I always have about now.

863
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: Okay, So my bop is by Jack Dyne and Alex Eisley.

864
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 1: It's called Gone. Y'all know I love the eclectic, slow

865
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,280
Speaker 1: vibe music. That's what I'm my own R and B lately.

866
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's a really good song. I feel like

867
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: it's one of those songs that you definitely pull up

868
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: your little red wine, you know, get the vibes going

869
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: light some candles, you know, sitt in the tub a

870
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 1: little bits.

871
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 5: It's just one of them.

872
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: Vib so Yeah, Pop of the Week, Jack Dyne and

873
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: alex Eisley Gone you got one, No Marine?

874
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 5: What's up?

875
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 3: I know, Ma that you already know. Man.

876
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 2: I just got to say, man, double salute to the

877
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 2: man pop Smoke.

878
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:44,959
Speaker 3: This album is too hard man. Yes, the whole Yes,

879
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 3: the entire project is a man.

880
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 5: Pop Smoke.

881
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, but the talk you're talking about is called Ain't

882
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 3: for the Moon.

883
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 2: It is hard, but yes, Man, Pop Smoke, Long lived

884
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:56,840
Speaker 2: pop Smoke.

885
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 5: Damn.

886
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,399
Speaker 2: It's crazy because I remember we had a topic about

887
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,760
Speaker 2: pop smoke and then like a week later he passed.

888
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 5: I know because I was like, I don't like I

889
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,919
Speaker 5: still don't like you. I like shaking the room. Man,

890
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 5: I did like shake the room, but I can't.

891
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 6: I never was singing pop smoke.

892
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 5: He was, you was. I'm sorry. Rest in peace.

893
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 2: Pop pop smoke, man tripping bro he did.

894
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 3: He's not here anymore.

895
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 2: Pop Smoke, Long Live pop Smoke, and Major shout out

896
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 2: to fifty Cent for checking Virgil for making that trash

897
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 2: ass cover. Fifty Cent Major shout out to you forgetting

898
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 2: that ship straight, because Virgil, I don't know what the

899
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 2: hell you've been on, but that cover was tracked.

900
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 5: They changed it, right, Yeah, they changed it. I want

901
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 5: to so who's the new person that did it.

902
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 3: I don't know who it was, but I believe it

903
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 3: was fifty cent.

904
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 2: That was the person that was adamant about getting changed. Yeah,

905
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 2: really fucked with pop Yeah like big time pop smoke.

906
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: According to like bloggers and ship like that, pop smoke

907
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 2: really looked up to fifty So but yeah, man, long

908
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 2: love Pops. Shout out to all the woo's out there.

909
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 3: Man, we lost one man.

910
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 5: Ohrighty.

911
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: So we gonna get into the Q and A segment

912
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 1: of this show. If you want your question answered on

913
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 1: the show, make sure you email us at askpoor Minds

914
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: at gmail dot.

915
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 5: Com just to let y'all know.

916
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,439
Speaker 1: I know we little bit behind, but we getting caught

917
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: up as much as we can. Please try to keep

918
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: the letters short as possible, y'all. I love y'all so much,

919
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 1: but keep it, keep it cute. Okay, So I'm gonna

920
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: read the first one. It says, please don't say my name,

921
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: Hidrea and lexp. I love the show. I'm a friendly person.

922
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 1: Whenever I enter a room, I'm willing to speak to

923
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 1: anyone and have a good time, But for some reason,

924
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: women seem to constantly be intimidated by me. When I'm

925
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 1: at parties, I consistently turn guys down and even direct

926
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: them to speak to the other girls who are clearly

927
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,399
Speaker 1: interested in them, but they don't leave me alone, which

928
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: seems to make other girls dislike me more. This happens

929
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,280
Speaker 1: to me in almost every setting I'm in. I've learned

930
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: I can't stop making guys approach me no matter what

931
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 1: I say, where, or do. But is there a way

932
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: I can make other girls feel less intimidated by me? Girl,

933
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: those are not the friends you won't anyway.

934
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 6: I wouldn't be worried about this.

935
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,800
Speaker 1: She yeah, Like, if a girl is being jealousy you

936
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: are intimidated about you, that's not a friend that you

937
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: won't anyway.

938
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 5: So you really dodge the bullets by that.

939
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: Because I feel like anytime I'm out with some girls,

940
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: even if I don't know them, and I see them

941
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: turning up, they looking good, they turning up with niggas,

942
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: I'll be like, shit, I'm about to poor shots for everybody.

943
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 1: Then I never look at another girl and be like, oh,

944
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 1: all the niggas looking at her. I'll be like no,

945
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: let's just turn up together and have a good time.

946
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: So those type of women you dodging the bullet sit

947
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 1: So don't ever feel like you gotta change who you

948
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 1: are to make other people feel more comfortable.

949
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 5: Fuck them?

950
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, I agree.

951
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 4: I feel like those those not the type of beaches

952
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 4: you want to be around, no.

953
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 6: Way, And it's like, who give a fuck? That's not

954
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 6: your problem.

955
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 4: Like if you walk in a room and you command

956
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 4: attention and everybody paying attention to you, and howse mad?

957
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 5: Howse mad? Ho's mad?

958
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 4: I was just gonna be mad. That's not your problem,

959
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 4: nor you'll consigned to worry about this. There's something they

960
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 4: need to do with internally.

961
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: Sister, you read this one, she must be fine a.

962
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 5: Baddies.

963
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 6: Okay, so this is gonna say.

964
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 4: Hi, I'm a twenty one year old Mexican American fan

965
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 4: from North Carolina who's moving to Atlanta with my sister

966
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 4: in August. I saw you girlies on horrible decisions and

967
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 4: was so intrigued with you. I started working at Lowe's

968
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 4: hard where a week ago and listened to your podcast

969
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 4: under my hair with the black Bluetooth headphone.

970
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 6: Ha ha ha.

971
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 4: Queen, question, what made you start sitting in your standards

972
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:31,720
Speaker 4: high slash boundaries when it came to dating.

973
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 6: Did you just get tired of the bullshit?

974
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 4: I'm fresh out of college, pretty cute, but having found

975
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 4: a boyfriend ever, I think it might be due to

976
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 4: being in a p W I and these me and

977
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,880
Speaker 4: really wanting to date dickies.

978
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 5: Predominantly white institution for anybody who doesn't know.

979
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 4: When I'm attracted to a dude, I usually just fuck

980
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 4: kind of easy after two days because I do be

981
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 4: getting horny.

982
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 5: Are I feel you, yess?

983
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 4: But it often may still take me for granted and

984
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 4: see me as easy. I want to make me and

985
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 4: think my pussy costs a million dollars, but I don't

986
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 4: know where to start for your time.

987
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 6: It's a question how long do you suggest to wait?

988
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 4: Have to have six slash get freaky with a man

989
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 4: when you've just started dating. It makes me sad, but

990
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 4: I feel like the boys out date up to twenty

991
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 4: nine year olds and one thirty five year old who was.

992
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 6: Really creepy, really creepy, low key.

993
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 4: I just attract those type of men, but whatever, just

994
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 4: aren't ready for sexually charged women. Just wanted to say

995
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 4: I appreciate you ladies take talking so openly and nonjudgmentally

996
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 4: and buy some topics when it comes to six, from

997
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 4: the male booty button to sexual harassment. You ladies are

998
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 4: so fun and eloquent when explaining your views. I love

999
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 4: to see you ladies make me excited to move to

1000
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 4: Atlanta and meet some cool women and maybe bdb's thank

1001
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 4: you for doing you. Here's some pieks of me so

1002
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 4: you can see my face.

1003
00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 5: Let me see I'm so cute. Oh she is cute. Yeah,

1004
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 5: it's cute. Okay, So I'll say this whenever you'reig, whenever

1005
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:09,760
Speaker 5: you're young.

1006
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times it's a little

1007
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: different because when I be like, okay, I want to

1008
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: fuck on the second day, I'm thirty. So it's a

1009
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: little different coming from a thirty year old versus a

1010
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 1: twenty one year old for me, and I feel like,

1011
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: do you agree with that?

1012
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 3: Marin h Absolutely.

1013
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 5: Yeah twenty one.

1014
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 6: I was not giving up like that.

1015
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:25,919
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1016
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's a little different because you

1017
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: are a little younger. So unfortunately you do kind of

1018
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: have to, you know, just hold out a little bit

1019
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 1: longer and just kind of let niggas know what your

1020
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,280
Speaker 1: standards are. And what you expect, because I let niggas

1021
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 1: know off the gate. They know I have a podcast.

1022
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: I talk about that shit every every fucking day. You

1023
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 1: gotta take me out, you gotta want to die me,

1024
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: and this is it. If you want to fuck with me,

1025
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 1: you gotta do this period. So but you can let

1026
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: niggas know that now. I mean, that's nothing wrong with

1027
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 1: being like, Okay, this is what I expect. I'm not

1028
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: saying you gotta have a nigga, you know, pay your

1029
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 1: fucking rent every month and buy you a car and

1030
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 1: buy you this and that. But you should definitely want

1031
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: a man that wines and dines you, that cares about you,

1032
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: that wants to, you know, take you out and show

1033
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: you a good time. I think that's the first step

1034
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: in you know, getting btb's. You know, you gotta let

1035
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,720
Speaker 1: niggas court you. That's the first step.

1036
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 5: To me, I mean I.

1037
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 4: Agree with that, and then I also just feel like

1038
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 4: what was the second question that she asked?

1039
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 6: How long toil you wait?

1040
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, to get freakyboy?

1041
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 6: Like I always say this on the show.

1042
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 4: Like, to me, it's not no time limit on how

1043
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 4: long you should wait to have six with somebody. It's

1044
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 4: just when you feel comfortable and after you feel like

1045
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 4: whatever your standard is for what you feel like.

1046
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 5: You he hit that standard then exactly.

1047
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 1: And that's the main thing. Make sure everything that you

1048
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 1: want he's done. So whether it's like, oh, I want

1049
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: this man to take me out to a nice restaurant

1050
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: and he has to be whatever it is, make sure

1051
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 1: that he meets your standards. Don't be like, Okay, well

1052
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: he did three out of the five. No, he needs

1053
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 1: to hit all five targets and then the puppy gets

1054
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: a treat.

1055
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 5: Okay, exactly. Compromising that show exactly.

1056
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 3: At her, she's definitely so herself.

1057
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 5: Short. Yeah, she's beautiful, pretty, she pretty, she's pretty. I

1058
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 5: know that's right. Freaky was good.

1059
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 3: Hey, No, I'm just saying like, don't don't.

1060
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: Don't sell yourself, especially because you're young, you're beautiful, you

1061
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: got an education, You're about to do that Atlanta.

1062
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 5: You about to be a hot commodity queen.

1063
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 6: I mean it's understandable.

1064
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll figure it out. So this says bish, I

1065
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: need help. Hey, ladies, I love the podcast.

1066
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:30,240
Speaker 5: I got a big dilemma.

1067
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: So I used to fuck with this one nigga, and

1068
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:33,840
Speaker 1: we ended things because he left me to be with

1069
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,959
Speaker 1: his baby mama. I was so fucking hurt, maybe because

1070
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: I helped him out when he was locked up, and Ship,

1071
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: I know stupid. I bossed up and got an old

1072
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: ass nigga and I'm cool.

1073
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:45,959
Speaker 5: But he ugly, but the money is why and cut

1074
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 5: it off.

1075
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 1: I almost said, my ex nigga keeps d M and

1076
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: me and Ship and I missed that dick. So I

1077
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: just want to fuck this nigga one time for the

1078
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 1: one time. But I d care if I should. I

1079
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,760
Speaker 1: don't care about him, but the dick is fire. Assist

1080
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: I love y'all. Just let me know what to do. Girl,

1081
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: masturbat and get.

1082
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:06,800
Speaker 4: Your Messn't give another niggas pussy. If you got to

1083
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 4: cheat on your nigga, not that we condone, but if

1084
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:13,240
Speaker 4: you got to cheat on your nigga, go another nigga.

1085
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 5: Don't go back. He already dogged you, yeah with him

1086
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 5: and he was in jail and she We don't.

1087
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: We are not in the business of holding niggas down. Okay,

1088
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 1: Let that nigga go.

1089
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 5: Let that nigga go. I feel like you just need

1090
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 5: a masturbate, get your nuts your nigga, Ma mama have him.

1091
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got a new nigga and he got money, sis,

1092
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: but ugly, So when did that ever matter? I don't

1093
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 1: like I know that's right, queen. Okay, I'm gonna read

1094
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 1: one more. Okay, it says, hello, ladies. I'd like to

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Speaker 1: keep it one hundred anonymous. I absolutely love the show.

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Speaker 1: You ladies have a very special chemistry that cannot be

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Speaker 1: duplicated or faked, and it shows.

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Speaker 5: To me.

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Speaker 1: So the first question is one of the best ways

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Speaker 1: to get intention of U bad bes on the ground.

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Speaker 5: If you do not have thousands of followers, show that ass?

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Speaker 5: What else? I mean, honestly, I post your degree. I'm dead.

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00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 5: I'll tell you all.

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Speaker 1: This Instagram is a shopping mall for bdbs. I say

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00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 1: this all the time. You gotta show that body, you

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00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: gotta show that face, you gotta be looking good, y'all.

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Speaker 5: See y'all. All I do is post this ass and

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00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 5: its titties, and cause these niggas be shopping and I'm

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00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 5: trying to get picked up. Bitch, I'm gonna sell.

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Speaker 6: And every day I'll be going through my requests.

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Speaker 1: Full of blue checks. So I say, honestly, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I have a lot of followers, but not

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Speaker 1: at times.

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Speaker 6: It is easier when you have followers.

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Speaker 5: It is ei.

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Speaker 6: Extensible as far as like, yeah.

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00:47:58,800 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 5: Like you're more seen.

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Speaker 1: But I don't feel like I have a hell of

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Speaker 1: a lot of followers, but I post I'll be posting

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Speaker 1: pretty consistently.

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Speaker 6: Followers in comparison to people that don't have no followers.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I just.

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Speaker 2: Feel like, just just for clarity, I just went on

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Speaker 2: one of your pics right now.

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Speaker 3: Looks you got more than five thousand likes on them

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Speaker 3: near all your pictures.

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00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: Well, the ass be asking and the titties be tittying,

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Speaker 1: and the niggas be liking they do they shall do?

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00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 1: They be in my dns heavy ooh, I gotta zel.

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Speaker 1: I gotta zel this morning from looking so goddamn good.

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Speaker 4: Who bitch, I don't know, but like I just feel like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: just make sure you have to be consistent, because I mean,

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00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 4: anybody can grow a following on Instagram.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I just feel like, be consistent and just post

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00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 5: and you could. You don't have to post like quality pictures.

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00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like that's the main thing, not saying

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Speaker 1: that you have to have your ass out and your

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00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:50,320
Speaker 1: titties out in every picture, but post clear quality pictures,

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00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: pictures that look good in the sunlight. Like people be

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00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: posting these black ass, android, grady ass pictures and niggas

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Speaker 1: don't want to see that ship.

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Speaker 2: And I also want to say it's up. I'm looking

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00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 2: at this one pick of lex p and action. This

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00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 2: one got like you working the carpet at the BET Awards,

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00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 2: This picture only got two thousand likes, like you doing

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00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 2: something constructive only got two thousand, But the ass got

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Speaker 2: close to seven thousand.

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Speaker 5: See that's all. I give the people what they want

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Speaker 5: to see.

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00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 1: They want to see this ass, and I'm gonna give

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Speaker 1: it to them every fucking time.

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Speaker 4: Anytime I post anything about poor minds on my page.

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00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: To ask it go crazy postial degree challenge.

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Speaker 5: Oh hell no, I don't even know if I exactly

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00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 5: if that.

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00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 1: So she has a second question. It says, what are

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Speaker 1: your thoughts on tester dates? By tester dates, I mean

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Speaker 1: low effort first date at a coffee shop, bar for

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Speaker 1: a quick drink, walk around the park, et cetera. I

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Speaker 1: personally hate them. So what are some ways to suggest

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00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: another option?

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Speaker 6: Another option?

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00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like we're doing that as we

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Speaker 1: get to know each other. This is the test date

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00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 1: us texting and talking on the phone. So once we

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Speaker 1: decide that we want to be in person, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to go on no coffee fucking date.

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Speaker 5: If a nigga don't.

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Speaker 4: Want to take me where I want to go on

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Speaker 4: to day, we're not going period. I just feel like

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Speaker 4: testimizing about where I want to go on to day.

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Speaker 5: Tester dates are stupid.

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Speaker 1: We can recording, right, we can FaceTime for all to

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Speaker 1: see if the chemistry is right. We can talk on

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Speaker 1: the phone, or we can text. I'm not doing no

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Speaker 1: fucking tester day. That's just to waste of time.

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Speaker 6: Nigga would be like, let's go get some coffee.

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Speaker 4: So motherfucking coffee now, I'll do that. If we've been dating,

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00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 4: what's wrong with that. If we've been dating, that's cool.

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Speaker 4: Before our first date, that's wrong. I don't even drink day.

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Speaker 4: I don't even drink coffee. Okay, because once we date

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Speaker 4: each other ship we gonna wake up together and go

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Speaker 4: get coffee.

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Speaker 5: I know that's right.

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Speaker 4: You're you're about to take me on the first fucking

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Speaker 4: day to go get coffee.

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Speaker 1: That's not a date to me. Yeah, that's too, that's

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Speaker 1: way too cast, way too. Then they're putting you in

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Speaker 1: the friend zone because I'm like, if we meet enough

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Speaker 1: for coffee, we must be about to work on something

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00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 1: like pull off the laptop. No tests to say no

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Speaker 1: to tester dates, ladies, pre dates week Who created we

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Speaker 1: call them these cheap ass niggas. That's exactly who did it.

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00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,919
Speaker 1: That's exactly who did it. So thank y'all so much

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Speaker 1: for the emails. Make sure y'all email us at ask

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Speaker 1: poor Minds at gmail dot com. If you haven't made

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Speaker 1: sure you sign up for the Patreon. I'll put that

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Speaker 1: link at the bottom as well. Shout out to Velvet Noir,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. What else you got to add?

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Speaker 1: A little dress?

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Speaker 5: Nothing? Make sure that y'all Patreon.

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00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 4: I have Part two to Me and Kellen's Truth or

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Speaker 4: Drink is gonna be dropping this week.

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Speaker 5: Oh you're gonna drop that this week?

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00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 6: I mean we could drop both of them.

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00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,720
Speaker 5: No we can't. They get one goddamn this shit hard

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Speaker 5: bitch the fuck you?

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Speaker 6: But yeah, I told them that I was gonna drop.

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Speaker 5: Okay, well you can drop you and I'll do my

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Speaker 5: stripper story next week.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so you can This week.

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Speaker 1: Part two to the Killing Andreas. Oh good, I ain't

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Speaker 1: got a record one this week. Then bet I love

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Speaker 1: Whenrea make my job easy. Okay anyway, thank y'all so

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Speaker 1: much for tuning in. We'll see y'all next week. Bye bye,