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Speaker 1: Fred's show is on now this morning show. This Lady

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Speaker 1: Margaret dm ME said, my boyfriend and I are celebrating

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Speaker 1: our fourteen month anniversary. Fourteen months. That's a very specific

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Speaker 1: amount of time to celebrate, like, not twelve months, not

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Speaker 1: six months, not a month, fourteen months. Shout out every

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Speaker 1: month count she did. She did call herself out there.

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Speaker 1: She said, yes, we are those people. We're both big

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Speaker 1: fans of the shows. Anyway, you could give him a

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Speaker 1: shout out for me. His name is Curtis to s Is,

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Speaker 1: Curtis Curtis. I love you, guys. It's so bad. The

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Speaker 1: first thing I did was to go and look at

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Speaker 1: her picture.

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 1: This is what I do. I need to have like

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Speaker 1: full as much information as possible, you know what I'm

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Speaker 1: but I'm curious. You know what does fourteen months look like?

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Speaker 1: That's what it looks like. And he is not in

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Speaker 1: her Instagram like photo. It's her another woman. So that's right.

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Speaker 3: I can't find a single sure of Mike and I

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Speaker 3: literally we try to do it the other day.

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Speaker 1: We're like looking for pictures.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to have one.

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Speaker 1: Well, we know how you feel keky about that?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, she's doing it.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 5: You know he's not no ring up on my finger.

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Speaker 5: You ain't going on my Gram period at all.

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Speaker 1: But do you know what I mean? On the grand

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Speaker 1: I saw a Big Tim on the ground this weekend

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Speaker 1: where the story.

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Speaker 5: She put the back of his.

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Speaker 1: Head on babe, Okay, he was there.

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Speaker 5: Well you didn't see that. You can't identify him with

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Speaker 5: a line up.

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Speaker 6: Exactly what I told Caitlyn yesterday. I said, you I

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Speaker 6: can switch out Big Tim at any point that I want.

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Speaker 1: To, because with another large, tall black man.

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Speaker 5: Yes, that's right.

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Speaker 7: I guess why are you stop launching him?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 6: You know, like I said, when I get a ring

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Speaker 6: he can be out for everybody.

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Speaker 5: But right now, I know you can't go on my

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Speaker 5: Gram like that. No, it's not nice.

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Speaker 8: Right, I'm gonna make this man pay like five Jesus

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Speaker 8: to get on your Instagram base.

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Speaker 1: Than that, it's Jesus the whole life, long day. Yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: the Instagram thing, though I don't agree with you on

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Speaker 1: the whole uh if I'm not if I don't have

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Speaker 1: a Ringham single thing, but the Instagram thing, I'm very

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Speaker 1: protective over who I put on my Instagram. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: because people get excited about that you know, and I

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Speaker 1: the last relationship I was in, it was a whole

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Speaker 1: big fight. You know this This woman had, like I

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Speaker 1: don't know, one hundred people follow her on a private

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Speaker 1: Instagram and I have fifty thousand people follow me on

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Speaker 1: a very public Instagram. And she saw posting me on

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Speaker 1: Instagram on her Instagram, the same as me posting her

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Speaker 1: and erased all of the pictures of me on her Instagram. Really,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, don't you understand the difference? Like the

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Speaker 1: difference is mine is essentially a billboard for me with

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Speaker 1: a bunch of people I don't know. Oh, and then

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Speaker 1: yours is only people who know you, many of whom

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Speaker 1: I've met so like family and friends. So you I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's two different things. I put you on this thing now,

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Speaker 1: I just I just put you out there on front

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Speaker 1: street for everyone to see, right, and whether you like

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Speaker 1: it or not, and you got you got these you know,

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Speaker 1: creepy people like Roofie other will go there and find

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Speaker 1: where you work and they'll look you up and they'll

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Speaker 1: try and find your profile, and they'll make they'll put

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Speaker 1: things in the comments that you're not gonna like. It's

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Speaker 1: a whole different thing. It's a whole different it's a

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Speaker 1: whole different thing. And then she's like, well, you know

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Speaker 1: you in mind delete delete. Delely took me on herself.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you got a hundred people following you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean you gotta tell her for it, like

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Speaker 6: you popping. So it's different when you know you post

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Speaker 1: I know, No, I don't think she wanted to. I

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Speaker 5: Okay, now on me.

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Speaker 1: But I would talk about her on the radio. I

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Speaker 1: not putting on my Instagram. Well that's sus right with them.

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Speaker 1: But I was. Everyone knew I had a girlfriend at

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Speaker 1: the time. I just didn't think she was ready to

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Speaker 1: They don't like that.

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Speaker 6: Pops up in the comments. Yeah, you were like Drake.

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Speaker 6: You weren't hiding her from the world.

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Speaker 1: I was just like Drake, I'm off, I'm off, just

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Speaker 1: like Drake. That's exactly who I am. That's what I

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Speaker 5: Though, Well, ain't Bobby.

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Speaker 1: That didn't work out. All that's in this fridge. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's close enough to drink. Yeah, that's right. That's all

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Speaker 1: I drank. I'll drink water. I drink champagne for hydration.

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Speaker 1: I never missed a second of the Fred Show. iHeart

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Speaker 1: radio apps were to go search for the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: On new episode of The tangent Our off air Uncensored

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Speaker 1: podcast is going up today. We have a long list

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Speaker 1: of things to discuss, don't we me too. I have

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Speaker 1: my little posty here. This is what it says so far.

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Speaker 1: All it says is poop. It's all it says. It encompasses.

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Speaker 1: That should be good. That'll go up a little bit

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Speaker 1: later on today. Jason, is you know off the year

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Speaker 1: We've been talking the last couple of weeks about a

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Speaker 1: bit of a bit of a strike just going on

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Speaker 1: at the Jason household with Mike and the mechanic. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's your partner, So what you give you. I don't

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Speaker 1: know why I'm I'm stuttering because I'm trying to First

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Speaker 1: of all, I don't know. I don't know where that came.

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Speaker 1: I don't know where that came from at all. Actually,

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Speaker 1: just watched myself do that the gig. I don't know

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Speaker 1: this you guys would talking?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we have, Yeah, we've We've got into a little

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Speaker 3: tiff and and it all stemmed from me being we

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Speaker 1: Good with his hands, he say, Mike the mechanic key,

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Speaker 1: he owns an auto facility with an auto shop.

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Speaker 3: He's very handy, you know, Like he's just good at

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Speaker 3: complete opposite of that, Like I didn't have to like

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Speaker 3: a very handy household. They used to fix everything, and like,

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Speaker 3: you know, I just I didn't have that. But I'm

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Speaker 3: always there to support, right, So, like if you're doing something,

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Speaker 3: I'll try and help you, but I don't really know

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Speaker 3: what I'm doing. And he's not like the best at

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Speaker 3: giving instructions because he thinks that I should know.

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Speaker 1: That's what my dad says, say when he gets very

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Speaker 1: frustrated with like at home projects, any sort of technical project,

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Speaker 1: He's actually very intelligent guy. He's an engineer, is whatever,

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Speaker 1: so is the same way right, And he gets frustrated

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Speaker 1: with me or you or whomever, because it's like, what

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Speaker 1: do you mean you know how to do this well?

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Speaker 1: Kind of how to do this right? Like it's second

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Speaker 3: So like he just thinks that everyone thinks that way, right,

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Speaker 3: and like it's not so anyway, he tried to help him,

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Speaker 3: but then we had just turned into a big blow

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Speaker 1: Not telling me what to do.

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Speaker 3: When I got frustrated, he got frustrated whatever, and so

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Speaker 3: I just kind of get over it. That's just like

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Speaker 1: But he got mad that I got mad, I think.

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Speaker 1: So then the strike began and you guys sleep together. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so it's been about two weeks with almost no words spoken.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'd be a few text messages here and there

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Speaker 1: And this weekend I literally was home.

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Speaker 3: I did not leave the house from Friday afternoon till

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Speaker 3: like I literally was just at home and so was he.

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Speaker 3: And no, Okay, so here's what I want to know.

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Speaker 3: Eight five five three five. And before you go, Paulina,

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Speaker 3: I'm curious about this. I want to hear about in

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Speaker 3: your relationships, any attempt that you've made to punish the

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Speaker 3: and he kind of refused, all that you've initiated.

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Speaker 1: How long did this last? And who did it ultimately hurt?

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like most of the time when I

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Speaker 1: not giving it up. I'm not giving it up till

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Speaker 1: they say they sorry, it's like, well, then that means

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Speaker 1: you're not getting any for a while. And I don't

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Speaker 1: understand how that benefits anybody, you know, or or you

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Speaker 1: know what, I'm not doing this or I'm not doing it,

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Speaker 1: or I'm not going to talk to him or her,

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Speaker 1: And it's like maybe that's what they wanted, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, Like I don't, I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I think that's the most effective way.

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Speaker 1: But you, on the other hand, you're not. You're kind

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Speaker 1: of a failure at this, aren't you.

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, because you were saying off the air that like

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Speaker 1: you'll you'll put your foot down, but then it doesn't last.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, this makes me feel so weak and like a loser.

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Speaker 7: But basically When Hobby, my fiance, and I get into fights,

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Speaker 7: his sing is silent treatment. It absolutely hurts me. And

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Speaker 7: actually the other day I was like, he's like, well whatever,

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Speaker 7: and I was like yeah, it was like I'm not

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Speaker 10: Like great that he wanted.

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Speaker 7: But my thing has been when I'm mad, I'll be like,

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Speaker 7: you're not getting any action or you're not getting any

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Speaker 7: for three months.

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Speaker 5: I don't know where I three months.

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Speaker 1: Months, guys, I'm toxic. I'm crazy.

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Speaker 10: So I'll say that and then like not even twenty four.

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Speaker 7: So that's why I failed, Like I've lost the power

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Speaker 7: I'm not going to be worried about the cheeseburger you

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Speaker 1: So I could be like, all right, I'm not putting

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Speaker 1: He caved? You know, he offered you sustenance. He caved. Adriana, Hi,

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Speaker 1: good morning. So how do you like when you're putting

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Speaker 11: I tell him I'm not cooking anything for him.

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Speaker 13: I don't hold grudges like I just let it go

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Speaker 1: I still see them.

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Speaker 12: I don't keep I don't keep my word because she

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Speaker 14: That worn't it.

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Speaker 15: Because if he leaves it to work and we don't.

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Speaker 16: Talk and it's the last time I see.

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Speaker 1: Him, God forbidden. I used to feel that way when

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Speaker 17: You know that's not a crust that we have fun

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Speaker 1: You never known anything.

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Speaker 18: The long way to work, you just never know.

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Speaker 1: And then so dumb, Well, he drives a long way

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Speaker 1: A, have a good day. Thank you so much. Glad

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Speaker 1: you called. Yes, I just I don't know. I would

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Speaker 1: love to hear from somebody who can be like, no,

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Speaker 1: they say they're sorry, because you better. You better be

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Speaker 1: it doesn't work. Like right now, this is not working

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Speaker 1: for Mike the mechanic. I don't think. I don't think

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Speaker 3: I don't really know what the endgame is, so I

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Speaker 1: If you were like, well I need you, I need

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Speaker 3: So at some point he's going to have to give in. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: That's right, Naomi, Hi guys, Hi, Naomi. So when you're

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Speaker 4: So I'm actually just finished going through this. I decided

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Speaker 4: I'm just naturally a very clean, organized person and he's

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Speaker 16: Oh?

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Speaker 19: I went two weeks. I didn't clean a single dish

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Speaker 4: I didn't pick up a little character boxters, I nothing.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking, nail me as I'm thinking, like

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Speaker 4: So I feel like it just doesn't really work. It

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Speaker 11: Up having to clean everything up and.

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Speaker 4: It just needs more work for me, and I'm even

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Speaker 1: And thank you, Naomi, have a good day. I'm glad

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Speaker 1: that's just it would only hurt me, right. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's like when people say that when they when they

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Speaker 1: doing that. Hey, Sophia, yes, hi, So this is you.

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Speaker 1: You withhold the physical aspect of your relationship when you're mad.

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Speaker 17: So for me, if I withhold anything, I get physically upset,

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Speaker 17: Like I literally get sick.

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Speaker 4: So I can't really withhold anything.

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Speaker 17: I don't know if other people get this way, but

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Speaker 11: How it happens.

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Speaker 10: That's me too.

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Speaker 1: So what can you do if you're trying to punish

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Speaker 1: somebody that you I literally can I cannot. I try.

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Speaker 16: If I try not to talk to them, I get sick.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Wow, Sophia, I need I need to hang out

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Speaker 1: with you then, because I that's what I need is

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Speaker 1: somebody who can't, who can't with help it's sad. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: that way, you don't ever have I don't want you

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Speaker 1: I need you to stay well, Sophia.

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Speaker 17: Yeah, we're very open in our relationships, so like that's why,

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Speaker 20: Upset because we always have to talk it out because

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Speaker 11: Communication such a huge thing. It's not there.

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Speaker 10: There's no relationship there, right, Sophia.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Have a good day you too. Now are

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Speaker 1: Is someone's name? B Is that b Red Brad? What's

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Speaker 5: Be Brad?

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Speaker 11: From Madam Buz Brad?

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Speaker 1: which is not anyway. How do you how do you

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Speaker 15: So well, I don't know how you punish somebody, but

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Speaker 15: and just like shit there, and she ties me up

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Speaker 15: and then.

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Speaker 5: Like quick, you got me?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what.

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Speaker 21: With us?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I know that, but I just okay, I was

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Speaker 1: trying to like make something funny out of that. But anyway, Vanessa,

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Speaker 10: From Malibu or whatever he said. I mean, I knew

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we got off to a poor start and then

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Speaker 1: My guy, so funny, Vanessa high how do you punish

440
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Speaker 1: someone except do you sit in the corner and yeah

441
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Speaker 1: and have fruit punch poured on you or whatever cookie

442
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Speaker 1: thrown at you.

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Speaker 4: You have to not care to be like your own person,

444
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Speaker 4: because like.

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Speaker 17: I went through that with the whole silent treatment, kill

446
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Speaker 17: me and I would like give in.

447
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Speaker 4: It's kind of like a it's like a power thing

448
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Speaker 4: with the silent And.

449
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Speaker 17: Then I was like no, like I'm not playing this game.

450
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Speaker 18: And so I just started like figuring.

451
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Speaker 17: Out what I liked and what I wanted to do,

452
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Speaker 17: and like the moment is silent treatment would happen, I

453
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Speaker 17: was like, Okay, well, I'm gonna go do this. And honestly,

454
00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 17: when you're not, when you don't care, you tend to

455
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Speaker 17: have more power than then they notice and they're like, Okay,

456
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Speaker 17: well that didn't work. And honestly, I'm at a play

457
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Speaker 17: where I don't I don't care at all. I do

458
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Speaker 17: my own thing, and I get more things my way.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's true with most things in life, Vanessa.

460
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Speaker 1: I feel like it's like if you whether you like

461
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Speaker 1: someone or don't like them or whatever, if you just

462
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Speaker 1: act like it you're not faced either way, then he

463
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Speaker 1: tries a lot of people crazy, you know, because it's

464
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Speaker 1: like they really want to reaction that if you one

465
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Speaker 1: way or the other, and if you don't give it

466
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Speaker 1: to them, that's just that's the worst thing you can

467
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Speaker 1: do to some people. So I said, I don't know,

468
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Speaker 1: I gotta go, you know what, because yeah, we're doing

469
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Speaker 1: the whole thing now where first of all, I think

470
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Speaker 1: I don't know what just happens. If you'd like to

471
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,360
Speaker 1: send us a smoke signal, because that will be delivered

472
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,399
Speaker 1: to us more effectively than our phone system, which by

473
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Speaker 1: the way, was supposed to have been fixed. Wasn't it right?

474
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Speaker 1: They were like it's perfect. Got is it perfect?

475
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Speaker 16: Not?

476
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't seem perfect. I'm just less than perfect. Actually,

477
00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 1: I got to talk about Hey, do you own someone?

478
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 1: He's to explained this to me. Do you own an

479
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Speaker 1: exotic pad? Are you somebody? Do you own a snake?

480
00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:16,040
Speaker 1: I don't get it. Do you own a chinchilla? Do

481
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Speaker 1: you own a spider? Or something like this? Because there's

482
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Speaker 1: a guy that made news today. He's collected one hundred

483
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Speaker 1: and twenty pet tarantulas and they have their own bedroom.

484
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Speaker 1: They have a pet tarantula bedroom for this thing. Thirty

485
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Speaker 1: four year old guy has purchased eighty different species, some

486
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Speaker 1: of which have a legspan as big as ten inches.

487
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Speaker 1: They all have their own enclosure. I guess, well, not

488
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Speaker 1: you know each one, but I guess there's an enclosure

489
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Speaker 1: in a spare room and every morning and every night

490
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Speaker 1: he goes in there and takes care of these tarantulas.

491
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Speaker 1: He began collecting them in summer of twenty twenty one

492
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Speaker 1: after doctors told him to find a hobby, and it's

493
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Speaker 1: helped with his I guess he has a bipolar diagnosis

494
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Speaker 1: and it has helped him with his mental health. Wow,

495
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Speaker 1: I don't understand look, I love all animals. They should

496
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Speaker 1: all live and you know, live a nice, happy life.

497
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Speaker 1: They all deserve that. I'm okay. I mean, you know,

498
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Speaker 1: that doesn't mean I got to have it in my house. Though.

499
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Speaker 1: That doesn't mean I got to have a terrarium. I

500
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Speaker 1: don't understand. I have a hard time with birds. I mean,

501
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I think they're cool, but I don't know

502
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Speaker 1: about one in a cage in my house. I don't

503
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Speaker 1: really understand that. I don't and I'm sure people with

504
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Speaker 1: a bird, and this is what I want to know.

505
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 1: People with a bird can call me and explain to

506
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Speaker 1: me how the hell you can know what's going on

507
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Speaker 1: with them. But I mean a dog or a cat,

508
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:41,159
Speaker 1: they show emotion, body language, My friend, I feel like

509
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 1: they're receptive. It's kind of a two way clarity going on.

510
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell to look on a

511
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Speaker 1: spider's face is. I have no idea. I have no

512
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Speaker 1: idea if my spider is pissed or elated, I have

513
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Speaker 1: no clue. You got to explain this to me. I

514
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 1: need to understand eight five five five one three five.

515
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Speaker 1: I mean a lizard, A lizard is cool. I don't

516
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Speaker 1: need it in my house a snake. Yes, you know,

517
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 1: if a snake is you could pick up your snake,

518
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 1: your Boa constrictor, and one day, you know, you don't

519
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Speaker 1: know because you can't see on his face, and maybe

520
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 1: one day it's like I didn't like that mouse you

521
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 1: gave me yesterday and it didn't taste good. Now I'm

522
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Speaker 1: gonna eat you, and there there you go.

523
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Speaker 10: That's how it ends.

524
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Speaker 1: There's no way to read the room with a snake.

525
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Speaker 1: In my opinion, eat the room.

526
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Speaker 10: I love all the animals you're naming.

527
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Speaker 21: I almost got a chinchilla in college, but then they

528
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 21: are up all night and they're scared of loud noises,

529
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Speaker 21: so I didn't.

530
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Speaker 1: What is it like like a hamster looking thing.

531
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Speaker 21: They're cuter, they're fuzzier, They're really soft.

532
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Speaker 10: They could be like gray. They have cute little ears.

533
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Speaker 10: Oh they're so cute.

534
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Speaker 1: They they make a lot closer. Unfortunately I was Yeah.

535
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Speaker 7: I had like a frog, okay, a little frog when

536
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Speaker 7: I was little. My stepdad used to have an aquarium

537
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Speaker 7: in the basement, so we had like fish. I don't

538
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Speaker 7: know what happened to the fish, but there was a

539
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Speaker 7: frog probably ate them, and it would like jump like

540
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Speaker 7: it was so cute and then like I would take

541
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Speaker 7: it out.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she'll see yeah, and.

543
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Speaker 7: I would like pet it and like look at it

544
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Speaker 7: and stuff and then put it back in the water.

545
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Speaker 5: No, Hi, No, I wouldn't get high.

546
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Speaker 10: No, not that time.

547
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Speaker 1: I mean, like like yesterday, I was over there One

548
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: Tail at a Time and I was filming a video

549
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: for their Houndstoothball, their virtual houndsuit Ball, because it is

550
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: a virtual and a real in person event at Morgan

551
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 1: Manufacturer on Saturday. The pause event is Friday at the

552
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: same place, and I am seeing both and I love both.

553
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 1: And anyway, we were doing a virtual wal for the

554
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Speaker 1: people who don't want to go, and the live auction

555
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 1: is open for both. By the way, if you want

556
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Speaker 1: to go check out what they've got. Give him some money.

557
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: But Trout is like the mascot of One Tail at

558
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Speaker 1: a Time. He's I don't know what kind of dog.

559
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Speaker 1: He's a big ass, huge ass, fluffy dog. You can

560
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Speaker 1: go see the video of Trout, and I'm making out

561
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Speaker 1: he's a very soft kisser too, by the way, for

562
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Speaker 1: being a big ass dog that eats everything and kills

563
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 1: he's a killer. But anyway, I can read the room

564
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Speaker 1: with trout like I know, you know, I don't. I

565
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 1: don't live with I don't see tried it very often.

566
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Speaker 1: But when I saw him, you know one, I can

567
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Speaker 1: tell what he wants to be pet. I can tell

568
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Speaker 1: what he wants to be left alone. I can tell

569
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Speaker 1: when you know he wants to kiss me in the face.

570
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Speaker 1: I can tell when he does it. I do not

571
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Speaker 1: know if a spider wants to see me or not.

572
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Speaker 1: I love, I don't know. I have no idea, and

573
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Speaker 1: it freaks me to hell out. Amanda Bee, Hi, Hi,

574
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Speaker 1: what all you got?

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Speaker 11: Okay?

576
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Speaker 18: So I have a ball type. I have a salcana,

577
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Speaker 18: which is a tortoise. I have a yellow bed felly splider,

578
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Speaker 18: which is a turtle.

579
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Speaker 1: Okay.

580
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Speaker 18: I have a leopard, get go. And I have a

581
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Speaker 18: bearded dragon.

582
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Speaker 1: Okay. You you have a boyfriend?

583
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Speaker 8: I wow?

584
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Speaker 1: What's wrong with like a nice dog or a cat?

585
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Speaker 19: We do have a We have a dog and a

586
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Speaker 19: cat too, and a guineas.

587
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Speaker 1: You better not get it too closing up. Python might

588
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: get hunger.

589
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:03,679
Speaker 10: Just an animal life.

590
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: We knew.

591
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 18: We keep them separate to it love their animals and

592
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 18: it takees them responsibility.

593
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 1: So what okay? And honestly, I'm saying this out of

594
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 1: ignorance because I don't know, and again i'm not I'm

595
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Speaker 1: not advocating that anybody be mean to any of these

596
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 1: animals or anything like that, and I think they should

597
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: all live freely. And someday, when I get Ryan Seacrest money,

598
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 1: I'm buying the state of New Mexico. Everybody knows this.

599
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 1: I'm buying the entire state of New Mexico, and every

600
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Speaker 1: animal that doesn't have a home, every single animal can

601
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Speaker 1: live there, every single I'm gonna build an ocean there

602
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: because some of them are gonna need an ocean to

603
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Speaker 1: live in. I probably should pick a state that has,

604
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Speaker 1: you know, some some coverage with the ocean, but whatever,

605
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 1: a nice shoreline. But anyway, I'll take what I can get. Nonetheless,

606
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: I don't under do you get feedback from these animals

607
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: the same way that you would from like a dog.

608
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: You do? Yes, So, our.

609
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Speaker 23: Yellow belly slider, she's in a like a tank. She

610
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 23: will follow you love the tension, so like if you

611
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 23: move down her tank, she follows it.

612
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 20: Okay, my dear to dragon.

613
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 23: Actually likes to cuddle.

614
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 8: And she gets bad, so we'll put her.

615
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 18: I have one of those like foot baths that are

616
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 18: like you know that bubble up.

617
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 23: Okay, put her in there so it's like a little

618
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 23: too choosy for her.

619
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 19: We cuddle all of our animals.

620
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 1: What about the snake? You don't know what's what's the

621
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: ball python's name? What's that? That's what's his name? Ball Python?

622
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 9: Oh?

623
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 18: That his name is Slytherin.

624
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: How do you know if he's happy or not?

625
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,159
Speaker 8: Well, I mean if.

626
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 23: He's mad, they I mean he would probably go at you.

627
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: Okay. See, I don't know that.

628
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 23: The python, he's just more of like chill and he

629
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 23: comes out when you bring him food.

630
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know. I got I gotta understand what

631
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 1: kind of mood you're in, because when the python goes python,

632
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: I mean, what am I gonna do? Amanda, thank you.

633
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Speaker 1: I'm glad you enjoy this to have a good day.

634
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 3: Thank you.

635
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 18: I am so glad to get through. I listen to

636
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Speaker 18: you guys every.

637
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Speaker 16: Morning on the way.

638
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: Thank you, no, thank you so much. We appreciate that.

639
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: And I do hope you don't think I'm saying I'm

640
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: not saying anything bad about people who have these animals.

641
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 1: I just don't get it. I don't understand, but thank you, Amanda.

642
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 18: It's gotta be a vibe.

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00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 5: You know.

644
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,199
Speaker 1: I don't and I don't have that vibe. Thank you, bye,

645
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: thank you bye. All right, Renee, Renee, a lot of

646
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: people here, Renee, Hi, good morning. Hey, how you doing.

647
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: You got a room you guys love you too. You

648
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 1: got to ruin your house called the jungle? Oh boy,

649
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 1: what lives in the jungle?

650
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Speaker 19: Well, my son who is twenty Evan started off with

651
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 19: guinea pigs, which led to tree frogs, which led to

652
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Speaker 19: a bearded dragon. Now we have all types of lizards.

653
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 19: We have crested geckos, we have leopard get gos. We

654
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Speaker 19: even have something called a skin. Look it up, looking

655
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 19: have a skink. I call it the skank, but it's

656
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 19: called a skinks. And now we have the family has

657
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 19: evolved into two small snakes. I'm not quite sure they're

658
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Speaker 19: not supposed to get big, because I forbid that. I

659
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Speaker 19: think they're more like, uh, you know, just a little

660
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Speaker 19: grassy snakes.

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Speaker 1: How much it costs your feet all these things, because

662
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Speaker 1: you got to have a whole array of things to

663
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Speaker 1: give them. They don't they're not eating like pebble pebbles.

664
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Speaker 1: They're not eating kibble. I mean, you've got to go

665
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Speaker 1: get like crickets and stuff, don't you.

666
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Speaker 19: Right, it's all so Evan takes care of it all.

667
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Speaker 24: He pays for it all.

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Speaker 19: That was part of the thing.

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Speaker 9: Is this is your deal.

670
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Speaker 19: He's even going to start breeding. And yeah, so he's

671
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Speaker 19: starting to do that. We've already had a couple of babies.

672
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Speaker 19: But this is totally his thing. He pays for it,

673
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Speaker 19: but it is. He does say it's a good mental

674
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Speaker 19: health thing for him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hey, there you go.

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Speaker 19: So that they react to I do know that they

677
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Speaker 19: react to humans because when grandma me walks into the room,

678
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Speaker 19: especially the bearded dragon. We've had her the longest. Her

679
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 19: name's Reggie, and when we walk in, she runs back

680
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Speaker 19: and forth in the cage and.

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Speaker 1: Go, this is minna at take So I don't know

682
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Speaker 1: what's going that's this is my fault. I don't know

683
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Speaker 1: what's going on. Thank you, Rene, have a good day. Okay,

684
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Speaker 1: hold on a second. This nope, Katie, Nope, nope, Katie, nope.

685
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Speaker 1: This is this is where I draw the line. Katie

686
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Speaker 1: has go ahead and tell him what you're crazy ass

687
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Speaker 1: has go ahead tell him.

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Speaker 12: Amongst all our animals, we have a Asian rainforce scorpio. Nope, nope, no.

689
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Speaker 1: Pink toa charantula. Yeah, well you pick its nails, we

690
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Speaker 1: take it to the salon. What's going on?

691
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Speaker 12: It's she are like pink and it's still big.

692
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Speaker 11: We just got that wie two three weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: How do you know the scorpion is not going to

694
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Speaker 1: scorpion your ass?

695
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Speaker 9: Uh?

696
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Speaker 12: It has scorpion another scorpion that we actually I'm sorry, Yeah.

697
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Speaker 19: We had had one.

698
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 12: We got another one and they are the same species.

699
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Speaker 12: Tickets you can keep them together. But then, like one guy,

700
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Speaker 12: after a couple of weeks, I was like, what's going

701
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Speaker 12: on here? And then it was like six months ago

702
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Speaker 12: and was looking at it. He's like, baby's gonna kill me.

703
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 12: And I'm like why and I look and it's pregnant.

704
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Speaker 1: Oh boy, you got baby baby scorpion. No nope, nope, nope. No.

705
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Speaker 1: How big is this thing, this Asian rainforest scorpion? How

706
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Speaker 1: big is it is?

707
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Speaker 12: About the size of my hand?

708
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Speaker 1: No? No, no, no, nope, nope, nope, nope. You don't know.

709
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Speaker 1: You can't see if that thing's happening, or said, you

710
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Speaker 1: don't even know. You can't if I can't look you

711
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 1: in the eye and then ascertain something from you about

712
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Speaker 1: your emotional state that day.

713
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Speaker 12: But I'm not okay, so I'm not a big fan

714
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Speaker 12: of like the scorpion or the transla. I'm the furry

715
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Speaker 12: woodland creature person in the family. This is this is dad,

716
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Speaker 12: This is my fiancee. He loves all these things, like

717
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 12: he wants to get a bird eating tarantula.

718
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, this job this what is wrong with

719
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Speaker 1: this person? Yeah? What does your house smell?

720
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Speaker 9: Like?

721
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Speaker 1: That's what I want to know. We're never gonna find

722
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: out because we're not going there because now maybe scorpions

723
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Speaker 1: running around the place.

724
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Speaker 12: I mean, okay, so like we have we have nine

725
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Speaker 12: in total animals, nine total animals.

726
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Speaker 1: Why are you going to have like eight or seven

727
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: or six if you let them loose? Because they eat

728
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: each other? What do you what do you feel the

729
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: said scorpion? What do you what do they eat?

730
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Speaker 5: Right now?

731
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Speaker 12: It's all crickets. I think it's a big cricket. The

732
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Speaker 12: pink sat spider is he's like a size of like

733
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Speaker 12: a silver dollar, and we give him baby cricket and

734
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Speaker 12: he wasn't eating.

735
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Speaker 1: No, no, no, These animals are part of the ecosystem.

736
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Speaker 1: And when we're not in the wild and they eat

737
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Speaker 1: each other in the circle life, they do the whole time.

738
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Speaker 12: Watching them snatch the cricket.

739
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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, yeah, yeah, real cool until they snatch

740
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: your fingers, sting it. And then you got to go

741
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: get the anti X animal there, you got to go

742
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 1: to the emergency room. Is your Asian rainforest scorpiing the

743
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: size of your hand? Try to eat your face? I can't.

744
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: I gotta go have a good day. I'm sorry. Hey,

745
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: we got hedgehog. Stephanie has. Now we got a bird,

746
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: twenty seven year old bird. Okay, Amanda has ferrets. Another

747
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: bald python over here, Mikey's got that. You know what

748
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: you all just no hand size scorpion is where I

749
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Speaker 1: draw the line.

750
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Speaker 10: Yeah, it's hard for me to defend.

751
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: Put that on a lease walking down a street. I mean,

752
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: the Fresh Show is on. Oh I gotta look at

753
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: my monitor over here. See how just how strung eye

754
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: I look? And this. You know, we got video cameras

755
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: in here now that we're using, and then we got

756
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 1: these surgical fluorescent lights in here that we're using. We

757
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: gotta fix that. No, that ain't gonna work for me. No,

758
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 1: it's too fluorescent. No, we need we need to get

759
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: I don't know some uplighting we need. I don't know

760
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: we need something. It's a nice warm light. Yeah, I

761
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: think it's way right. I mean you could see my pores,

762
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Speaker 1: you know, I don't.

763
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Speaker 22: I don't.

764
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Speaker 1: We're on the radio, Like, I don't need people to

765
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: see like all my imperfections, because they see them if

766
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:10,879
Speaker 1: I were, if I were good looking, i'd be on TV.

767
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 1: Just sit up straight.

768
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 8: Because you know you complained last time that you were

769
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 8: slouchy monster.

770
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Speaker 1: Well I think this this okay, Well I was slouchy monster,

771
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Speaker 1: but now I have a high fiber diet as of

772
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 1: two days ago, so I'm in great shape because you know,

773
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: when you're sick. That was the one thing about not

774
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,240
Speaker 1: feeling well all weekend was that I was hungry at least,

775
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 1: which I don't appreciate. I would rather if I'm going

776
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Speaker 1: to be sick, let's I mean, I don't want to

777
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: be miserable, but I can't do anything already, and I

778
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 1: was miserable with other symptoms, so let's just go for it, Like,

779
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: don't I don't want to be hungry, And like maybe

780
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: a little stomach flood to go with it too. You know,

781
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: let's lose some weight. Let's make this time count. Let's

782
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: come out of a four day illness looking fresh, if

783
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: you know. And I didn't have that luxury. I was

784
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: hungry the whole time. But then when I'm sick, then

785
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: it's like, well I'm hungry, at better eat. Then I

786
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 1: would just eat anything. I would eat anything I could

787
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 1: get my hands on, and that's not good. So now

788
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 1: I'm on my high fiber diet and intermittent vesting. Okay,

789
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 1: we'll see how it goes. See how long are you

790
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: are you in the car right now? Well, here's the thing.

791
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 1: I kind of already intermittent ill do I just when

792
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: I eat, it's just like toxic everything, nuclear anything. And

793
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:22,359
Speaker 1: then the problem is I eat and sleep always like

794
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: I eat. I eat my little meal and then I

795
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: take a nap, and then I get up and go

796
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: through the rest of my day and then eat my

797
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 1: dinner and then I go to bed. And that's the

798
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 1: worst thing you can do. But you know, what are

799
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: you gonna do. I've been trying to get this show

800
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: to air from you know, uh, eleven am to two

801
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: pm for my whole career, and for some reason they

802
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: tell me we can't do that. You know, I don't

803
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: think as many people would listen. They tell me that,

804
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 1: you know, drive in the car and you know you

805
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 1: works your whole career for this, and I'm like.

806
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 21: Eh, remember when we achieved mental health or the pandemic?

807
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: My god, But I'm campaigning for the whole world, like

808
00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: I'm not. It's not the people listening. It's not just

809
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: to us like I go. If they go, I think

810
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: the whole world shifts to in eleven am start That's

811
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: what I'm advocating for. And in New Mexico till.

812
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Speaker 22: No.

813
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 1: Two we'll do like just a three hour work day.

814
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: I think, oh wow. I think if you ask most

815
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: people how many actual hours of work they do, I

816
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: bet you. I bet you that you could fit it

817
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: into a twenty hour if if they were like, you

818
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: only have twenty hours to get your job done this place,

819
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: there would be no problem because I at least have

820
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: the date. The few people that show up here. I

821
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: love everybody, but there is a few people to show

822
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: up here are digging around most of the time. And

823
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: so it's like if I were to say to you,

824
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Speaker 1: the office is only you can only work for four hours?

825
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: What is it for? Three hours a day? Four hours

826
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: a day? That's it and the office closes, the computer

827
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Speaker 1: shut off. You cannot possibly do your job after that.

828
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: And if you don't do your job well, then we

829
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: are going to fire you. I guarantee, no, no, I'm

830
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: saying it would all get done in four hours? Do

831
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Speaker 1: we would? I think most if you talk to most,

832
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: most people who have a forty hour work you know,

833
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: ish a week work job whatever I just said, I

834
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: think they could probably get it done. And about what'd

835
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: you say? Maybe half sixty percent of the time. That's

836
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 1: my theory on this because I think a lot of

837
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: time is spent on calls that don't need to happen,

838
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: zoom calls, emails, projects, presentations that people do to fill

839
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: the day. I don't think they have to happen though,

840
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,760
Speaker 1: And I think if you cut out all the bs

841
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: and you we're like, no, you just have to work.

842
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone, it's the French

843
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: shout morning Tyler, welcome, Hey, good morning, thanks for having me.

844
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Speaker 1: You know, it's great to have you here. Let's hear

845
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: about this date with a raven Now, here's one that

846
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: we don't often hear about. You slid in the old

847
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: DMS on the ground.

848
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Speaker 11: Dumb times works, it's dun times work. I don't know

849
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 11: if people are the Instagram with other people. I know

850
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 11: it's like it's like people don't care, like how that

851
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 11: can happen, But.

852
00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: I don't know.

853
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,439
Speaker 11: It's like we follow somebody, do you like see them

854
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 11: post on their story and some people post all the time.

855
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 11: For example, like Raby, She's always posted on the story

856
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 11: like workout videos, like like walk something outside, it's nice out, and.

857
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: So you'd comment on them and then she responded like.

858
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 11: The comment I like, I comment on something in the

859
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 11: background that's funny, and she'd be like, well or whatever.

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00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: And then we start talking and start talking to her, Michael, Hey.

861
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 11: Couldn't say see you hanging up, Like let's let's let's

862
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 11: let's go hang out.

863
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 1: Let's let's go on dat. And so we like I thought,

864
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 1: we sat down, had a good time. He's like, and

865
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Speaker 1: then not only that, like we went on a date

866
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 1: and she looked even better in person, and she did

867
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Hey, that's hoping for man, that's we all

868
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: dream about this happening. Yeah, that's rare. I like the

869
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 1: slide move. I've been known to slide every now and again,

870
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Speaker 1: and I've had various levels of success. I think it's

871
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: all in how you You slide maybe once and if

872
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: you don't get any bite, no bites, then you're done.

873
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: You know, you don't eat. And it sounds though like

874
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 1: that's what happened. You know, maybe you commented a couple

875
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: of times and some photos got her attention. Boom, when bam,

876
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: you're on a date. You thought that day went well,

877
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 1: except she's ghosting you. Now.

878
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 11: Yeah, I don't know what happened.

879
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: Man, I really don't know what happened. Maybe I need

880
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: to be like a radio host to be like, yo,

881
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 1: what's up. No, it doesn't help, but let's see. Yeah, No,

882
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 1: let's call this woman Raven and we'll see if we

883
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: can get her on the phone, ask some questions, and

884
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 1: hopefully we can figure out what's going on for you.

885
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 1: I don't want you to say anything at first, but

886
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 1: at some point you're welcome to a jumping on the call,

887
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 1: and hopefully whatever's going on we can straighten out and

888
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date and we'll pay

889
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 1: for that. Okay, all right, all right, I'll stay quiet,

890
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:33,800
Speaker 1: all right. Can you hang off for just a second.

891
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting by

892
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: the Phone after this song on The Fred Show. Good morning,

893
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,280
Speaker 1: It's The Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone.

894
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 1: Hey Tyler, Oh yeah, what's up? Guess us again? So

895
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna call Raven. You you slid in the DMS

896
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 1: on the gram and that worked out for you. You

897
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 1: went on a date, you thought it went well. Now

898
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 1: she's ghosting and you want to know why. Oh yeah, okay,

899
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 1: let's call her now. Good luck?

900
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 2: All right?

901
00:39:58,640 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 6: Thanks?

902
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 2: Hello?

903
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 1: Hi? Is this Raven? Yes, Hi Raven, It's Fred the

904
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 1: Fred Show. Everybody's here for one O three five Kiss

905
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 1: FM in Chicago. And I'm sorry to bother, but I

906
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: do have to tell you that we are on the

907
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,280
Speaker 1: radio and I need your consent to continue. Is that okay?

908
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sure, thank you so much. So we're calling

909
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 1: on me. Half of this dude named Tyler who reached

910
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,320
Speaker 1: out to us said that he may have hit you

911
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 1: up in the DMS and you went on a date.

912
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: Do you remember all of that?

913
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 25: Uh?

914
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, I do?

915
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: Okay, So you know the dude was into you. He

916
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: says you were really attractive. In fact, he complimented you,

917
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 1: said you were more attractive in person than on the ground.

918
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: But he says that now you're not responding to him

919
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 1: at all after the date, So can you kind of

920
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,879
Speaker 1: help us figure out why and then we'll let him

921
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: know and go from there.

922
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 22: Okay, Well, yeah, everything was fine, everything was normal, and

923
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 22: then in the middle of the date, like out of nowhere,

924
00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 22: he asked me if I've ever considered getting a boob job.

925
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 1: So you're on the date. You know, the guy said

926
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 1: you were better looking to him than he even expected,

927
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 1: and so you know, he seemed pleased. So you're on

928
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 1: this date, and how does that come up?

929
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I have no idea why he thought he

930
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 2: could say it, but like it, I remember it coming

931
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 2: out of literally nowhere. We weren't talking about anything like that. Yeah,

932
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:28,399
Speaker 2: it was really shocking, obviously, and I sort of didn't

933
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 2: say anything, like it was one of those moments where

934
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 2: I was actually speechless because.

935
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:33,800
Speaker 6: What are you supposed to?

936
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, that's totally inappropriate. So what did you do?

937
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 13: So?

938
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 22: I mean I just sort of like took a moment

939
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 22: to compose myself.

940
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: But he could see that.

941
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,320
Speaker 2: I was really like shocked, and he like kept going.

942
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 14: He put his hand on my hands and he was like,

943
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 14: he's like, no, I don't mean it in a bad way.

944
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 14: Like my mom and my sisters all had small two

945
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 14: and they got boob jobs and now they.

946
00:41:58,960 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 2: Look on me.

947
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:04,399
Speaker 1: No way to make it better with that comment. Oh

948
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:09,800
Speaker 1: my god, Tyler, what the.

949
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 3: What is it not normal to get boob doogs?

950
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: But is it normal for you to tell another woman

951
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:15,240
Speaker 1: who you don't know.

952
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,760
Speaker 10: And admire your families to give.

953
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: Advice and then compare to your mom and sister like,

954
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:23,439
Speaker 1: I don't rack, I'm my mom. What we were talking about?

955
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 11: She was talking about here here, I'll give you the concept.

956
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 11: She was talking about her dogs, which is.

957
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 1: Really I can't wait. How do you I'm bom and.

958
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 11: My sister bulls have little dogs. They're like kind of

959
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 11: the same for a dog, and so it reminded me

960
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 11: that they pull boot dogs before. And I was like,

961
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 11: I've you ever considered getting a book?

962
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:43,720
Speaker 1: Doog you go from little dogs to boobs?

963
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 24: I know I was looking.

964
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm striving a conversation. I didn't mean

965
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:50,399
Speaker 1: an offend, Like I said, I didn't need a fend

966
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: my god. I mean, did your mom and sister not

967
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: teach you that those aren't things that you say to

968
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 1: a woman who you just met. I mean, those are

969
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: those are things that you have to be careful saying

970
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,280
Speaker 1: to a woman who you've known for a long time.

971
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 8: I just feel comfortable.

972
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 5: I just felt like we had a connection.

973
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 11: I felt really comfortable.

974
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 1: Apparently you did. You felt a little over there.

975
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 10: She's unfortunately still here unforture for herself.

976
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: You were kind enough to sit through the rest of

977
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: this date, I assume. But then, I mean, that was

978
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 1: just what to be polite. And then you bounced and

979
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 1: you're like, I'm done with this guy.

980
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:23,839
Speaker 22: Yeah, I just like I couldn't get my head back

981
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 22: to where it was before. It was just like it

982
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 22: was such a surprising and like offensive thing to say.

983
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 22: It was like it was human, like, hey, I noticed that.

984
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 12: You're too small.

985
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 1: This will have said that, Yeah, I don't there's no

986
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: I don't think there's any excuse for that.

987
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 7: We never come in on her like body appearance, as

988
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:44,320
Speaker 7: far as like you know, the size of her boobs

989
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:45,879
Speaker 7: or her butt or even her weight, like these are

990
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 7: just no, no, don't we all know this?

991
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: By now never No, you don't never no. All right,

992
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: look is there any way? Uh, Raven, I don't even

993
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,399
Speaker 1: have to ask, You're not there's we're not doing this again?

994
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 9: Right?

995
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 22: You were not doing this again?

996
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 1: Okay, Tyler, we're not doing this again.

997
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 11: Well, I'll be on Instagram.

998
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: I would I would not. I would leave her alone

999
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,240
Speaker 1: on Instagram too. It's how are you?

1000
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 11: Oh no, I'm like that.

1001
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 16: I didn't mean.

1002
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 25: I can't say.

1003
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 11: Goddamn right, I guess you.

1004
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: Good luck to you, Ravin, thanks for your time. Good

1005
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 1: luck to you, Tyler. You and your sister too. Brought

1006
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: up his mom's sister's rack on the first day. Good luck, guys.

1007
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's just me, but I feel

1008
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,839
Speaker 1: like I have my disproportionate amount of stories. I think

1009
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: it's me. I think it's because I'm way too. I'm

1010
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: inquisitive to my own peril. Like I I ask questions

1011
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: I don't want the answer to because it's I think

1012
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 1: it's wired in my brain. It's it's it's who I

1013
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: have become. It's who I am. A curious person, you know,

1014
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 1: and I make money. People call up here and I

1015
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: talk to him and if there's a you know, if

1016
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: there's a little string, I pull on it see what

1017
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 1: I can get. And I feel like I do the

1018
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: same thing in my relationship, which is why occasionally I'm

1019
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 1: considered inappropriate and a little invasive and interesting. Can I

1020
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: just I'll just ask, I'll ask questions, and I'll you know,

1021
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: if you give me an inch, I'll try and take

1022
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: a mile see what I can find out about you.

1023
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: I'm a very curious person, and so I find out

1024
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: from this woman. I don't even know how it came up.

1025
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 1: I think she was like, yeah, I have a Delta

1026
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 1: Buddy pass, which you and there's a couple different ways.

1027
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: I guess that terminology could work. Either you have a

1028
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,280
Speaker 1: pass an individual pass given to you by an employee,

1029
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,720
Speaker 1: which means you can fly stand by in this case

1030
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: though she's listed as somebody's domestic partner, this woman, so

1031
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 1: she gets a good one. Yeah, that's the golden one. Yeah,

1032
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: that's the one where you know you don't need an

1033
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: individual path. You show up and it's almost you're the

1034
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 1: same as the employee the way that I understand it,

1035
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: or the way you can list yourself on flights to

1036
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: fly okay, because it's a privilege that you would get

1037
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 1: if you were married to somebody who works for the airline.

1038
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 21: Because I've gotten buddy passes because my friend's mom works

1039
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 21: for Delta, but they they're not as good as they

1040
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 21: seem to be.

1041
00:45:58,239 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 10: But that's like the best one you can.

1042
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think you still run into the same

1043
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: issues where you might get stranded, but nonetheless, you know,

1044
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 1: it's unlimited from the way I understand it, at least,

1045
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: and I'm sure people are like, well, no, whatever, it

1046
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 1: doesn't anyway. So this and apparently this has been going

1047
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 1: on for like ten years. She's been on this guy

1048
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: for a long time, She's been on this guy's buddy list,

1049
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 1: has she been named his domestic partner for a long time.

1050
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, like, you're sleeping with this guy obviously,

1051
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: right because and here I am trying to talk to her,

1052
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 1: but it's like sleep this dude, he still got you

1053
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: on his benefits. And she's like, well, my ex thought

1054
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 1: the same thing. But this is all I'm going to say. Nothing,

1055
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 1: nothing's happening anymore. So at one point she slept with

1056
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: this guy, yes, and for through multiple other boyfriends in

1057
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,879
Speaker 1: the amount of time. He still hasn't removed her as

1058
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: his domestic partner, so she must have some bomb dignity, yes,

1059
00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:59,879
Speaker 1: I mean, and but why would you do that if

1060
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: you had no hope of potentially reuniting. I mean, that

1061
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: would be the if I broke up with somebody, even

1062
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: if it were friendly, I still don't think that they

1063
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: would be listed as my domestic partner. Because what happens

1064
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 1: when I date somebody else and they're like, why can't

1065
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 1: we go anywhere on your past? It's like, well, because

1066
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: my ex is on it, right, that wouldn't work. I mean,

1067
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: can you imagine if I don't know, like if I'm

1068
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 1: a pilot, I meet some new woman and I'm like,

1069
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: I'm into you. Yeah, well, my prime, the main work

1070
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,760
Speaker 1: benefit I have is still devoted to my ex girlfriend.

1071
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: I don't think that would go.

1072
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 7: No, but no, it would not go.

1073
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: But he did get me thinking about what, like, what

1074
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 1: is there any benefit that you're still receiving from an ex?

1075
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: And I'm not talking about like, you know, child support,

1076
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 1: I mean I'm talking about, like, is there anything that

1077
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: you're still getting from an ex that you probably should

1078
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: get for yourself? At this point? Is my question? Eight

1079
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,919
Speaker 1: five five five won one three five In this case

1080
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: This woman's flying around the world for free because of

1081
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 1: a guy that she may or may not have once

1082
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: hooked up with, who years later Stele was giving her

1083
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: this benefit. Why would you do that if you weren't

1084
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,720
Speaker 1: trying to hang on to something.

1085
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 10: Right, Yeah, I can't for her.

1086
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 1: When did she say they stopped hooking up? Did she

1087
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 1: say that she was not she was not clear on that, Okay,

1088
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: Oh no clarity. Huh, she was not clear yesterday?

1089
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 25: Right.

1090
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean people in between, you know.

1091
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: But my thing is, like I don't know if I

1092
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 1: had some like free concert ticket benefit here where like

1093
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 1: if you knew me and you could just go to

1094
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 1: any venue and get in, that's coming back with me,

1095
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like we're taking that. No,

1096
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: you don't get to keep that after you break up

1097
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: with me, because I don't want to have to explain

1098
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 1: to the next girl. Yeah, And I know you can

1099
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 1: only change them every now, and like you can't just

1100
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: I think it's every year on the airline. I know

1101
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:05,800
Speaker 1: you can't just like constantly be updating with new domestic partners.

1102
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: But I mean, I think it's been long enough where

1103
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,760
Speaker 1: he could take her off if he wanted to someone's

1104
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: his costco membership, Netflix subscription, nikor bill. Oh yeah, this

1105
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: text says the same thing. You can't constantly change the

1106
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: domestic partner pass over to someone else. If you do,

1107
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: the airline will flag it. They still hooking up, bro,

1108
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: so for a certain period of time. I can see

1109
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 1: why he wouldn't switch it because he can't. My ex

1110
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: husband still has me listed. It's his primary beneficiary in

1111
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 1: his will. Ooh girl, yes.

1112
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 10: You know mine.

1113
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 21: I will have a free lawyer for the rest of

1114
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:45,719
Speaker 21: my life.

1115
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 1: Hey, page, high page, how are you? I'm great? What

1116
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 1: benefit are you still receiving from an ex?

1117
00:49:56,040 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 9: She is still paying for free free music for me?

1118
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 9: And I do still have his debit card saved on

1119
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 9: my phone in my Apple.

1120
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this page, if you charge stuff

1121
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 1: on it? Would he say anything?

1122
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 9: I don't think he would because he does still try

1123
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 9: to get back with me, so I don't think he

1124
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 9: would say anything.

1125
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 10: He knows I still have.

1126
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 24: It on my phone, but.

1127
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 9: Huh for my music every month?

1128
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, because if I yeah, if I if your

1129
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 1: credit card, if my credit card is on your phone,

1130
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: and I don't want to have some connection to you

1131
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 1: or see you ever again. Or whatever. Then I change

1132
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 1: the card so that you can't show. You know what

1133
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:43,399
Speaker 1: I mean. And I think that this is his way

1134
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 1: of hoping, you know, it's like you're still attached in

1135
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 1: some way.

1136
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean I don't use it, but I just

1137
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 9: I still have it there. I'll, I know, I want

1138
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 9: to use it them like.

1139
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 1: Well, because you have no attention to get back at him,

1140
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 1: because you have integrity and RUFO doesn't. Hey, thank you,

1141
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 1: have a good day. Yeah, glad you called. Thank you

1142
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:10,760
Speaker 1: for listening. Hey, Amber, good morning, Good morning, Hi Amber.

1143
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 1: What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?

1144
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 11: So my divorce is.

1145
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 12: Just finalized in July and I still have my phone

1146
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 12: totally paid for for his company?

1147
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: Do you think that does he have any control that way?

1148
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 1: Do you think he's doing that on purpose so he

1149
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:27,919
Speaker 1: can have access to what you're doing?

1150
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 12: I honestly, that has definitely crossed my mind because he

1151
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 12: definitely was that kind of person.

1152
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,359
Speaker 11: But I'm taking it.

1153
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 2: Man.

1154
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 11: We've got four kids and I.

1155
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 9: Was staying home on for sixteen years, so switching that

1156
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 9: over it's been a slower process for me, and I'm

1157
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 9: going to take advantage of the fact that it's one

1158
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 9: less the last to carry.

1159
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: Now, okay, good for you. Amber. I'm just I'm paranoid.

1160
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 1: I would I would figure somebody was doing that to

1161
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: to check out who I was texting, or you know

1162
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 1: what I mean, against me. Yeah, yeah, but it's all good.

1163
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 1: It's over now, so yeah, exactly. Hamber enjoyed the single life.

1164
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: It's it's it's okay, it's not bad. I thank you,

1165
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: you'll be all right. I'm enjoying it. Yeah, it's all right,

1166
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: super convincing. I have a great day. He says. It's

1167
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 1: a crist I don't know how old she is, but

1168
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 1: that must be wild. I mean, can you imagine any

1169
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: more than ten years maybe even I don't know what

1170
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 1: the threshold, let's just say ten. Any more than ten

1171
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: years of having not dated and then now dating. It's

1172
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 1: a different world entirely, Like it's a whole different thing.

1173
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 10: Yeah, it's really not.

1174
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 21: Though it's I was in a seven year relationship and

1175
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 21: it seemed so scary, but it's really not. I feel

1176
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 21: like people make it sound so bad.

1177
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 5: It's scary. I wouldn't know what to do, like, I

1178
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 5: wouldn't know the no, why how do.

1179
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 1: You get hit on?

1180
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 9: And girl?

1181
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:50,799
Speaker 5: You know how to flirt back.

1182
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 1: You don't know if it's scary, it's just different. It's

1183
00:52:55,120 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: really different. Yeah, because you close with Big Ti. You

1184
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: right there?

1185
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 5: His way to be a single without me?

1186
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, man, Yeah, I don't know, you guys, I mean

1187
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 6: Fred talking to Russians.

1188
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 5: It's like.

1189
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: I'm still talking to the Russian. I think she might

1190
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: I think she might be legit. I'm not sure. I mean,

1191
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 1: she was wearing a lion sweatshirt in one of the

1192
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:25,399
Speaker 1: pictures that she's because you know, I made her send

1193
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 1: the four fingers. She's from Michigan, supposedly.

1194
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 10: It's not a scammer. No one would choose that this Russians.

1195
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: From Michigan, apparently. But I made her hold up four fingers,

1196
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:35,839
Speaker 1: as you know. And then I had people, I had

1197
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 1: people on the text line yesterday telling me, well, you know,

1198
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 1: the scammers have like women on the ready to do

1199
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 1: whatever you ask him to do. And I'm like, well,

1200
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 1: that that makes sense. I can see that. But why

1201
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:46,319
Speaker 1: would she wear a lion switch?

1202
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 21: All the NFL teams of scammers not picking the lions,

1203
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 21: Please don't ever believe that.

1204
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go, unless it was one of those

1205
00:53:52,960 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: like donated switch, you know, what her sweatshirt said, lie

1206
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 1: in Super Bowl him. I know she's not real. Let

1207
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 1: me see that sweatshirt Chicago Bears champion. I know this

1208
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:14,479
Speaker 1: isn't real.

1209
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 10: Where in Michigan does she say she's from, because I

1210
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 10: think I can help you.

1211
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 1: Detroit.

1212
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:21,359
Speaker 10: Well, ask her to get more specific, and I can

1213
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 10: tell you.

1214
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 21: Because that's trust that you can fit three Chicago's in Detroit.

1215
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:30,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll see. I don't know. I think it's maybe

1216
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 1: I'll like what I'll have a public meeting with a

1217
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 1: witness or something, and I'll wave off the witness if

1218
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: I feel safe. Whatever she starts cutting down my organs,

1219
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 1: he'll run. Do you have any friends that have like

1220
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,920
Speaker 1: strange rules that you have to follow when you go

1221
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 1: to their house, Like anybody who's like this, you gotta

1222
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 1: do this, you gotta do that. I bring it up

1223
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: because a woman, I guess this is from TikTok. She

1224
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:58,720
Speaker 1: says she doesn't keep any toilet paper in her house

1225
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: and force guests to use the bidet after going to

1226
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 1: the bathroom. So she went viral on TikTok after she

1227
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: admitted that she stopped using tissues, napkins, paper towels, even

1228
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: toilet paper in an attempt to spend less money. The

1229
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 1: woman claims that the switch has saved her thousands of

1230
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: dollars and has kept her cleaner than ever. She also

1231
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: made the swab after discovering all the chemicals that are

1232
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,720
Speaker 1: in toilet paper, so it's not even there. You can't

1233
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 1: even get you're trying to use that at her house.

1234
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 1: It doesn't exist. You have to use the bidet. I've

1235
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,359
Speaker 1: never used a bidet? Does it get it on clean?

1236
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 21: I don't feel my friend, I don't feel clean without

1237
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 21: the wipe afterwards. But the new ones, like I said

1238
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 21: on one recently that you could spray the front and

1239
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:44,360
Speaker 21: the back, and I was like, oh my god, this thing.

1240
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 10: Needs to that should be legal, the way that thing

1241
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 10: was spraying me.

1242
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 1: So you were there for a while.

1243
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:51,520
Speaker 21: I wasn't because my friends and I were all trying it,

1244
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 21: like in front of each other and like filming, I

1245
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 21: don't know whatever.

1246
00:55:54,120 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 26: Wooa website, right, look, okay, wait a minute, what's up

1247
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 26: with your friend over there?

1248
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: So you you were all taking turns and filming each other. Well, yeah,

1249
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 1: not in a.

1250
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 10: Sexual way at all, Like it was just funny.

1251
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 21: We've never used one, and my friend has one, and

1252
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:25,359
Speaker 21: we all were like pranking the next person, like press

1253
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 21: this button, press that button, and everybody's reaction were funny.

1254
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 1: But why were you all in the same room in

1255
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 1: such a way?

1256
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 10: Girls who go to the bathroom?

1257
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's that's the thing that blows me away.

1258
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 1: Let me ask you, Okay, so let me this is.

1259
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:41,799
Speaker 1: I know that women go to the bathroom together, but

1260
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 1: I don't think. But then I learned, like sometimes you

1261
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: guys will all go and if it's like a one

1262
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 1: room thing where the toilet's right there, then you guys

1263
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 1: will all go in together and do your business and

1264
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:51,799
Speaker 1: all just stand around. Yeah.

1265
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 10: Correct, problem.

1266
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:56,479
Speaker 1: What happens if you like there's more going on, excellental poop,

1267
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: you just tell them what happened. But what happens if

1268
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:00,520
Speaker 1: it's more than just a piece situation and it's a

1269
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 1: little more advanced or involved, So you just do that

1270
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 1: in front of your friends?

1271
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, they all have the same parts, they

1272
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 10: all do the same stuff.

1273
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 1: You don't do that. See, I don't know you with

1274
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 1: your friends. I can't imagine like two for sure.

1275
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 21: Oh I'm not like sitting there like I mean, was

1276
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 21: talking about changing a tampon right, weren't you or not?

1277
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: Or that yeah or that yeah, I'm not.

1278
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 10: Going to say, you guys, this is going to be

1279
00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 10: twenty minutes.

1280
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 1: Can you keep a company and see how well the

1281
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:28,439
Speaker 1: day really works?

1282
00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 10: Never make my friends in the room.

1283
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: No, but I just like, but when you guys all

1284
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: get up to go to the other room, like, do

1285
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 1: you have like a little brief little like powwow, Like Okay, hey,

1286
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:42,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to need a little more time than the

1287
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 1: rest of you, or like, hey, I'm actually going to

1288
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 1: the bathroom. Do you have like a code like no, no,

1289
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: this isn't Hitch had time, Like I actually have to

1290
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom.

1291
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 21: I mean, Paulina and I will be like I'm going

1292
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 21: to the bathroom, don't follow me, and then like, well no,

1293
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 21: like it's a private moment.

1294
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah wow, or.

1295
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 10: Like you don't go in there for me?

1296
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, like hold on, yeah, I just I don't know.

1297
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: I know women, Yeah, you guys are a lot more

1298
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 1: comfortable with each other and and your bodily functions. I think,

1299
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: because like I don't I don't know that I could

1300
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: even do that. I feel like I would just like

1301
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: I would get like poop. Fright if I tried to

1302
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 1: go into the bathroom and my buddies are also just

1303
00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: bsing in there, and I'm.

1304
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 21: Like, hold on a minute again, I'm not intentionally pooping

1305
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 21: with my friends in front of my bed.

1306
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: Its like, no, that's just a level of.

1307
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 9: Piece.

1308
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 13: Yeah.

1309
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 6: I mean, guys pretty much whip it out in front

1310
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 6: of each other every time.

1311
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 1: You don't really have a choice. You guys think it's

1312
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 1: wild bathroom Like we walk into the men's room and

1313
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: then just win it out. Wild barriers here, Jason, just

1314
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 1: want sit next to each other.

1315
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, you stay right next to you.

1316
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 6: You're tall over the divider if I'm looking, But I

1317
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 6: don't look.

1318
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 24: How you don't ever live like no, because you're supposed

1319
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 24: to make space. There's there's rules to how many urinals

1320
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 24: are on the wall and what space you're supposed to

1321
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 24: go into. If I go into number one, no one

1322
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 24: should go into number two. They should be like three

1323
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 24: or four or five.

1324
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:12,479
Speaker 1: The only time you could go to the one next

1325
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 1: to somebody is if they're all filled.

1326
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 6: Yes, okay, yeah, but you don't see anything ever, not

1327
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 6: on purpose.

1328
00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 1: No, what if it.

1329
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 10: Was like Michael Jordan pissing next to you.

1330
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 5: I'm looking.

1331
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 1: Are you here?

1332
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 24: Why you got six rings on that bad boy?

1333
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:38,800
Speaker 1: I was wondering where you kept it? Where they are

1334
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 1: take that night like that one. The rest are nice

1335
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 1: looking though. No, no, no, no, no one's looking. You

1336
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,439
Speaker 1: guys are so funny with what you think is going

1337
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 1: on in the men's room, like trust me, no one, No,

1338
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:01,920
Speaker 1: it's not nearly as as open as apparently you guys are.

1339
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: You would want it, yeah, Sted promoth that, but.

1340
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 5: It's yeah, take the dividers down.

1341
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 8: Yes, If you don't, I'm gonna be like friend, I'm

1342
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:15,200
Speaker 8: only going to the bathroom at.

1343
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 1: Home, said all of a sudden, and there with a

1344
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 1: drill doing some construction here as fresh show is on.

1345
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 1: We were talking to Shelley a minute ago about uh

1346
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 1: military Mike, her husband you know who, as as you

1347
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 1: may have heard, is deployed in the Navy. It's a

1348
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: very important guy, and uh she has no idea where

1349
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 1: he is a lot of the time. I of course

1350
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:50,280
Speaker 1: know where he is all the time because he tells me.

1351
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: But it reminded me of a TikTok that I saw

1352
01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 1: yesterday that was wild. I didn't know this is how

1353
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 1: this happened, and again, I don't know how you can verify,

1354
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 1: because I saw two tiktoks yesterday that we're mind blowing.

1355
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: The first was a guy describing working at Area fifty one,

1356
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 1: whoa and describing his work with actual extraterrestrials at Area

1357
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:16,080
Speaker 1: fifty one in Nevada, our secret military base that's clearly

1358
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 1: not very secret, but he goes into great detail. He

1359
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: goes up into detail about having to run out into

1360
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 1: the desert, according to him, to capture one of the

1361
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 1: aliens that escaped, and he describes it as looking like

1362
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:31,240
Speaker 1: some kind of a big ass bug. And then he

1363
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: was chasing around the desert with the cacti and stuff,

1364
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 1: trying to catch this thing to put it back in

1365
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 1: its cage or whatever. That was wild to me, but

1366
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:39,240
Speaker 1: not what I'm I don't know if I believe that,

1367
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 1: by the way, But what I did hear about on

1368
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: TikTok yesterday was a guy who was recruited by the CIA,

1369
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 1: and I didn't realize this is how they do it.

1370
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 1: But apparently you might apply for like a government job,

1371
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 1: and then somewhere in the process you might get a

1372
01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 1: phone call from a nondescript number and the person might

1373
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 1: be like, hey, on the phone, Hey, would you be

1374
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 1: interested in another kind of government job? And you're like,

1375
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe, and then you say sure. And

1376
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: so then they send you a plane ticket from a

1377
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 1: generic address and you go to a generic city and

1378
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 1: just a nondescript building and you walk in and a

1379
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: person who only tells you their first name interviews you.

1380
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: And then from that point on you become like an

1381
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:24,320
Speaker 1: operative and they send you around the world and you

1382
01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 1: like do secret stuff, espionage and all this crazy stuff.

1383
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 1: Oh and all of that just from applying for I mean,

1384
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 1: it was crazy. It was a crazy story, talk about

1385
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: top secret. I mean, none of you guys are none

1386
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 1: of you guys are as fired up about this as

1387
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:37,440
Speaker 1: I am, Because now I kind of want to go

1388
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:39,439
Speaker 1: apply for government jobs if I'm going to become a

1389
01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 1: CIA operative.

1390
01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 10: You can't. You and Rufeo would spill the beans in

1391
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:44,880
Speaker 10: like two minutes.

1392
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 1: Yeah you so you think I'm as bad of a

1393
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 1: secret keeper as Rufeo is.

1394
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 21: Sometimes Yeah, wow, you pretty good.

1395
01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:58,560
Speaker 1: I can find stuff out real quick about people you can't.

1396
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 10: But then you'd blab I'm.

1397
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 1: Not gonna bled to the right people. You know what

1398
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying?

1399
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 5: What you got to.

1400
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 1: Tell my bosses back at Langley, you know, corupt, Well, no,

1401
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 1: because I mean you'd be safe to tell people with Langley,

1402
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 1: I guess, but right, yeah, I don't know, Rufio. I'm

1403
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: not sure. But I was fascinated because I always wonder like,

1404
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 1: how do they find people to be spies? And it's

1405
01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 1: like they can't. You can't just apply to be a spy,

1406
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Right right, it's not like

1407
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 1: right right, you know what I mean. So I've often

1408
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 1: wondered like, how do they how do they find people

1409
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 1: to do this stuff? And I guess that's how is

1410
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 1: You think you're going down one path and then you

1411
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 1: go down another, and then you live this life, I guess,

1412
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 1: because I guess the whole thing about the CIA it's

1413
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 1: based on control and they want to control people, and

1414
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 1: so I guess the whole thing is you live your

1415
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 1: whole life just doing the next thing you're told to do,

1416
01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 1: and you don't necessarily know what that is. But I

1417
01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 1: don't know. It's very interesting to me and now makes

1418
01:03:57,760 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 1: you want to dig in and read a bunch of

1419
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:00,840
Speaker 1: books about aliens and CIA stuff.

1420
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 8: I can't see that alien one being a real TikTok,

1421
01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 8: like you gonna you're gonna be in Siberia like tomorrow

1422
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 8: if you spilling the ball, say area fifty one.

1423
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, is this guy's on TikTok and

1424
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 1: he's and he's just blabbing about all this stuff, and

1425
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: I'm going, how in his face and his name and

1426
01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 1: the whole thing, And I'm going like, how how are

1427
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 1: how are you not like exactly like, why isn't the

1428
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:28,440
Speaker 1: government gonna come and gets you and make you like

1429
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 1: disappear for doing that? I don't know. The other thing

1430
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 1: I heard about Area fifty one, which is actually very interesting,

1431
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 1: and this may explain it, is that if you work

1432
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 1: on like secret, top secret government and I'm not this

1433
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:41,440
Speaker 1: is like public information. I'm not saying. I don't this

1434
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 1: is all hearsay google it. I don't know. I don't

1435
01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 1: know anything about anything, but I guess if you work

1436
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: on like top secret stuff, they'll have you. They'll have

1437
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,840
Speaker 1: like four teams work on four things, and only one

1438
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 1: of them is real and the other three are like fake,

1439
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 1: So you might work on something for years that's not

1440
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: even a real thing because they want to know who's

1441
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 1: blabbing you know what I mean. So maybe this dude

1442
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 1: was working on fake aliens or whatever, and it wasn't

1443
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 1: that it had nothing to do. It was a distraction

1444
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,120
Speaker 1: from like the real thing that was going on in

1445
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:15,440
Speaker 1: the other building over there, that's like really important, And

1446
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,040
Speaker 1: they just want to know if this dude is like

1447
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 1: Rufio and he's gonna tell everybody about it, got it?

1448
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:23,320
Speaker 1: So so you might work your whole life on some

1449
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 1: some part of a spaceship that you think is going

1450
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:27,920
Speaker 1: to do whatever, whatever, whatever, and only to find out

1451
01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: that it was it was a decoy for the real

1452
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: thing that was going on over here that was like

1453
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: the you know, the real alien spaceship thing. I don't know.

1454
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 1: All right, I'm over it now, I'm real fired up.

1455
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 1: Order a fresh show. It's it is time that you

1456
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:53,320
Speaker 1: enter and all rise for the honorable Kiki in Kiki's cord.

1457
01:05:55,280 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 1: You're gonna tell us to sit down or.

1458
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 6: We all gotta keep saying it, yeah, just stand ups.

1459
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:03,640
Speaker 5: It is okay, yeah, yes, all right.

1460
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 1: Oh wow. Normally the judge would say you can be

1461
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:09,440
Speaker 1: seated now, but the priest would say the priest, no,

1462
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 1: We're all gonna stand for Kik. The whole time. Okay,

1463
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: go ahead, tell us what's up?

1464
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, I gotta hit the gabble. There we go.

1465
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:17,959
Speaker 5: All right, so cord is in order.

1466
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 1: Now.

1467
01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 6: This letter says high key key, and please use my

1468
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 6: name because I want my ex friend to hear this.

1469
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:26,480
Speaker 5: My name is Mariah.

1470
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:29,680
Speaker 6: And back in January, my friend Alyssa asks to borrow

1471
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 6: five hundred dollars for her car notes. She promised that

1472
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:35,640
Speaker 6: she would pay it back within two weeks, and now

1473
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:38,680
Speaker 6: it's been almost two months since the two weeks past,

1474
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 6: she's just been acting normal like nothing has happened.

1475
01:06:41,680 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 5: But I've been feeling this awkward feeling.

1476
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 6: So on Friday, I finally text her and said, hey,

1477
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 6: can I get that money back?

1478
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:50,200
Speaker 5: It's been like two months. Do you know?

1479
01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 6: The girl had the audacity to say, please, don't press

1480
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 6: me about that. You'll get it soon. You know I

1481
01:06:57,680 --> 01:07:01,400
Speaker 6: have stuff going on but me she's living it up

1482
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:05,600
Speaker 6: on Instagram, so I admit it. After she responded like that,

1483
01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:08,520
Speaker 6: I snapped on her and now our eight year friendship

1484
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 6: is in the trash. My fiance says, I overreacted with

1485
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 6: my response, but it was the audacity for me.

1486
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 5: Was I wrong?

1487
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 1: Do we know what the response was do we know

1488
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 1: what she said?

1489
01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 6: She didn't show me the response, but whatever it is,

1490
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:25,120
Speaker 6: she says, it ended their eight year friendship.

1491
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 5: It's in the trash now.

1492
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 1: Oh you know how I feel about loaning money to friends.

1493
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 1: I mean, she's not wrong, but I Kicky, what do

1494
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:36,440
Speaker 1: you think? I'll let you you say your piece and

1495
01:07:36,480 --> 01:07:37,920
Speaker 1: then and then we'll go around the room.

1496
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 5: Yes.

1497
01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 6: Well, one thing I want people to get from Kiki's

1498
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 6: court is the lessons. Every week we need to get

1499
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 6: a lesson in today's lesson is you do not loan

1500
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:49,600
Speaker 6: money to friends or family. Okay, under any circumstances, if

1501
01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 6: you don't have it to give, you do not loan it.

1502
01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:53,560
Speaker 1: And let me tell you this.

1503
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 6: I don't loan money because simply, I just don't want

1504
01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 6: to interfere with whatever God is doing in your life.

1505
01:07:58,720 --> 01:08:02,120
Speaker 6: Like if you you want a place where you struggling, yes,

1506
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:04,200
Speaker 6: you there for a reason. It's some lessons He wants

1507
01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:06,160
Speaker 6: you to learn, and I don't want to interfere with that.

1508
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 6: And also, if you really need some money, it's a

1509
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 6: lot of payday loan places around here.

1510
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 1: It's a lot of yeah, no, no, no.

1511
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 5: You have.

1512
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:23,759
Speaker 6: Yes you guys, you cannot be out here loaning money

1513
01:08:23,760 --> 01:08:26,720
Speaker 6: to people. But in this case, she her friend is

1514
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:30,639
Speaker 6: absolutely wrong. Absolutely I agree.

1515
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 1: First of all, you can't be if you go a

1516
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:36,799
Speaker 1: loan money to somebody, friends or family. In my opinion,

1517
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 1: you got to assume that it's a gift. In the

1518
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 1: back of your mind. You got to assume there's a

1519
01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:45,080
Speaker 1: chance that I will never get this back, and is

1520
01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:48,519
Speaker 1: it is it worth my friendship? If I don't, you

1521
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:51,920
Speaker 1: gotta be prepared for that. You gotta be prepared for

1522
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 1: you money. There's an agreement between the two people that

1523
01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 1: you're gonna pay me to.

1524
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:56,920
Speaker 2: The bank.

1525
01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:02,720
Speaker 1: Saying that you're wrong, you're right. But what I am

1526
01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:06,400
Speaker 1: saying though, is that if it's a friend or family

1527
01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 1: that's more important than money, Like the relationship is is

1528
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 1: you know, very important in your life that I think

1529
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 1: you have to be prepared. If you intend to be

1530
01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:18,479
Speaker 1: friends with this person much longer, you got to be

1531
01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:22,280
Speaker 1: prepared that they might not pay you back. Now, the

1532
01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: problem is, and this happens all the time, I feel like,

1533
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 1: is people get loan money and then they don't pay

1534
01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 1: back the money, and then you see them on vacation.

1535
01:09:31,640 --> 01:09:34,640
Speaker 1: You know they out here and you know the Bahamas.

1536
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 1: They out here buying a new car. They out here,

1537
01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 1: you know, showing off some kind of new you know,

1538
01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:43,320
Speaker 1: shoes or something that they bought on Instagram. And the

1539
01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:46,560
Speaker 1: truth is, it's like, wait a minute, now, now you've

1540
01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:49,639
Speaker 1: offended me because you can't afford to pay me back.

1541
01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 1: You're just you just think that we're good enough friends

1542
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:55,360
Speaker 1: that it doesn't matter. So you've decided not to go

1543
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 1: against our agreement. Because I don't know why. What does that?

1544
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 1: Because I guess you don't care enough about me and

1545
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:04,880
Speaker 1: my finances to pay me back. So as much as

1546
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:06,640
Speaker 1: I think you got to be willing if you if

1547
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 1: the friendship means that much to you, you got to

1548
01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:11,639
Speaker 1: be willing to lose the money. I don't blame her

1549
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 1: for being like we made it. We had a deal,

1550
01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 1: we're friends. I thought you cared about me. Where's my money? YEP?

1551
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:19,759
Speaker 10: I hate borrowing money to people.

1552
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:22,640
Speaker 7: I've done it, yes, do I regret it, yes, But

1553
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,639
Speaker 7: don't make me feel like I'm you know, missus broke

1554
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 7: over here just because like you can't afford to pay

1555
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 7: me back.

1556
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 10: Like like you said, rufeo, you make the agreement pay

1557
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:31,120
Speaker 10: me back.

1558
01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 7: I don't care if it's twenty dollars or two thousand dollars,

1559
01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 7: Like I came up with that money for you, so

1560
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:37,719
Speaker 7: pay it back. People out here though, will take advantage

1561
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 7: of that.

1562
01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 8: And boy ol, boy do I know me, rufio, I'm

1563
01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 8: getting my money worth either way. Like see, you don't

1564
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:44,759
Speaker 8: pay me back, your car window going to be smashed.

1565
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 8: Oh slash, Then we're evil. Go get paid back. Then

1566
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 8: they have to fix their cart.

1567
01:10:55,439 --> 01:11:00,080
Speaker 1: Then they spend that five hundred dollars wisely. So I

1568
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 1: also addressed, and I want to get it. Can I

1569
01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:03,400
Speaker 1: also address? Is it a Midwest thing to say that

1570
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:05,920
Speaker 1: you borrowed somebody something, you lent them something.

1571
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 10: I don't think it's Midwest.

1572
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:09,680
Speaker 21: Only a few people, like my friends from Minnesota say it,

1573
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:12,920
Speaker 21: but I've never heard it until borrowed, like when you

1574
01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 21: when you borrow something to someone, that's a different way

1575
01:11:15,560 --> 01:11:17,960
Speaker 21: than like when you borrow you're lending it to someone.

1576
01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 1: Feel Midwest.

1577
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:20,160
Speaker 10: I think it's Chicago thing.

1578
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:20,559
Speaker 25: It's not.

1579
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:24,639
Speaker 1: I hear it. I hear it all the time around here,

1580
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:26,599
Speaker 1: but I just didn't know if you know, because your

1581
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:31,240
Speaker 1: technically borrow you're lending would say I would borrow it

1582
01:11:31,280 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 1: from you. You wouldn't borrow it to me. But I mean,

1583
01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:36,040
Speaker 1: I just was curious about that. I'm sorry. Who they

1584
01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:37,920
Speaker 1: interrupt somebody, I think you were saying something.

1585
01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:40,840
Speaker 6: No, I was just saying, to Paulina's point, if I

1586
01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:43,680
Speaker 6: if I ever loan you some money, trust me, I

1587
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 6: feel very bad, okay, because I don't do it. But

1588
01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 6: if I ever do, don't make me feel like I'm

1589
01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 6: bothering you my hand for my money back, especially when

1590
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:55,840
Speaker 6: it's at its way past the time that we agreed

1591
01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:58,040
Speaker 6: on for you to repay me. Like people have a

1592
01:11:58,080 --> 01:12:00,519
Speaker 6: real problem with that, like they make it. We're like,

1593
01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:02,719
Speaker 6: I'm asking you now. I feel like I'm borrowing money.

1594
01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:03,639
Speaker 5: From you to get my money.

1595
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 1: Here, right right right. If you say you're gonna pay

1596
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:08,920
Speaker 1: me back in two weeks, I give you two months.

1597
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 1: You can't be offended that I asked you all this

1598
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,639
Speaker 1: time later eight five, five, five, nine one one three five.

1599
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:17,320
Speaker 1: You are the jury. Of course, Kiki is the judge

1600
01:12:17,800 --> 01:12:20,880
Speaker 1: in Kiki's court. Apparently it's a Midwestern thing to borrow thing.

1601
01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:25,439
Speaker 1: Somebody says on the text, completely agree, consider it a

1602
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:28,120
Speaker 1: gift to that person because it rarely works out. Yeah,

1603
01:12:28,600 --> 01:12:31,719
Speaker 1: I'm not that kind. I don't get gifts like that, right,

1604
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know that you want your

1605
01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 1: money back. Everybody does. I'm just saying, if the friendship

1606
01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:40,920
Speaker 1: means more to you than a lot of other things,

1607
01:12:41,280 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 1: I think in your mind, you got to be prepared

1608
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:46,760
Speaker 1: that you might you might not get your money back,

1609
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 1: or just don't loan the money at all. Jason, go ahead.

1610
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:52,479
Speaker 3: I even though no one would ask me for any money,

1611
01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:56,719
Speaker 3: but if this were me, I would not even think

1612
01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:00,559
Speaker 3: about ever asking for it back, like even before getting it.

1613
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:01,760
Speaker 1: I just know how I am.

1614
01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 3: And even if we're splitting bills at dinner or whatever,

1615
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:06,440
Speaker 3: I will never.

1616
01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:08,200
Speaker 1: Caln rulers because she was. It's a fight for me.

1617
01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I will never ask for your share of any

1618
01:13:11,000 --> 01:13:12,799
Speaker 3: I just know that's who I am as a person.

1619
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 3: So if someone came to me was hard up enough

1620
01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 3: to ask me for money, I would give it and

1621
01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:20,320
Speaker 3: I would go into it knowing I am never going

1622
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:21,280
Speaker 3: to ask for this back.

1623
01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:23,559
Speaker 1: So here you go. I'll ask for him.

1624
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:25,360
Speaker 10: I do all the time.

1625
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 1: That's in it because I don't have fun enough.

1626
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:33,519
Speaker 10: And the worth of Fred. I say now, I am

1627
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 10: no longer equipped. I learned that from Fred.

1628
01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:40,599
Speaker 1: I know I've said that before. Yeah, I don't loan

1629
01:13:40,680 --> 01:13:43,720
Speaker 1: money to people because unless I'm in a position to

1630
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:45,439
Speaker 1: give it to you, I just I don't know. I

1631
01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 1: don't want to be in that position where I did

1632
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 1: something for you, you agree to something, and I'm completely in

1633
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:55,880
Speaker 1: the right, but yet I don't wind up, you don't

1634
01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:57,800
Speaker 1: wind up living up to your end of the deal.

1635
01:13:57,880 --> 01:13:59,599
Speaker 1: I just I don't want to be in that position,

1636
01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:04,080
Speaker 1: So I just don't really do that. Hey Sergio, Hey,

1637
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:07,240
Speaker 1: good morning guys. How's it going. Hey Sergio, good morning man.

1638
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:09,759
Speaker 1: What do you think? So Kiki was talking in Kiki's

1639
01:14:09,840 --> 01:14:12,240
Speaker 1: quarter about a woman who loaned five hundred dollars to

1640
01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 1: somebody and said, Hey, a couple of weeks, stay me back.

1641
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:17,559
Speaker 1: Two months later she asked for the money, and this

1642
01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:20,800
Speaker 1: woman's like, hey, you know, stop pressing me. But yeah,

1643
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:23,559
Speaker 1: she's out here living, probably has the dough What do

1644
01:14:23,600 --> 01:14:23,960
Speaker 1: you think.

1645
01:14:25,360 --> 01:14:28,560
Speaker 13: I completely agree with Kiki because I've had two situations

1646
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 13: like this happened to me personally, one in twenty sixteen

1647
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:34,360
Speaker 13: and one in twenty eighteen. And the folks that I

1648
01:14:34,439 --> 01:14:36,680
Speaker 13: lent the money to they still haven't paid me back

1649
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 13: to the state, and I'm charging them interest.

1650
01:14:38,400 --> 01:14:44,760
Speaker 1: It is on site, no man on site? Dam money?

1651
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:47,639
Speaker 1: And so how are you staying on top of these people?

1652
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 1: I mean, are you like calling them every week, Oh

1653
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:51,080
Speaker 1: where's my money? And here's the interest? Or how are

1654
01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:52,720
Speaker 1: you what are you doing to try and get the

1655
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: money bag?

1656
01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 13: So one was in high school. I get times, we're

1657
01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 13: tough back then, but even then, it's like it was

1658
01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 13: just twenty bucks. You're gonna pay me five?

1659
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 1: That guy was you eighty seven dollars apparently his damn.

1660
01:15:05,320 --> 01:15:07,840
Speaker 13: And then I lent somebody one hundred dollars because they

1661
01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 13: were going through tough times. I get that.

1662
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:11,000
Speaker 1: They're like, oh yeah, I'll pay you back.

1663
01:15:11,280 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 13: It took me nine months just to get forty.

1664
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:14,400
Speaker 1: Dollars out of them.

1665
01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:17,400
Speaker 13: But they're here. They are on instant Snapchat, live in

1666
01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 13: their best life. Bottle service after bottle service, where's my money?

1667
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:22,840
Speaker 11: Yeah?

1668
01:15:22,920 --> 01:15:24,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's you better. I'll be doing that.

1669
01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:25,200
Speaker 25: I know.

1670
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:27,400
Speaker 27: Have you ever seen the movie The Bronxtail A Bronxtail

1671
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:29,880
Speaker 27: where he's just like that. He was trying to chase

1672
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 27: something to do for twenty dollars and then the guys

1673
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 27: is like, you just paid pretty much may twenty dollars

1674
01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 27: to get that guy out of your life because he's

1675
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:41,280
Speaker 27: never going to bother you again, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah,

1676
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:41,800
Speaker 27: that's true.

1677
01:15:41,920 --> 01:15:44,320
Speaker 13: I completely agree with Tiki on this. And it's like

1678
01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 13: some people take advantage of other people and that's when

1679
01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 13: that's when sticker skin comes around and you got to

1680
01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 13: realize not everyone will have the same good intentions in

1681
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:52,880
Speaker 13: their heart, just like you.

1682
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 1: That's right me, And thank you, Sergie. You'll have a

1683
01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:55,720
Speaker 1: good day.

1684
01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 13: Thanks you guys too.

1685
01:15:57,360 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that that's a great point. It's like

1686
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:02,599
Speaker 1: if if you give money to a friend, a good friend,

1687
01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:04,880
Speaker 1: I'm assuming because you're giving them money and they don't

1688
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:06,559
Speaker 1: pay you back and they treat you like that, then

1689
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:09,040
Speaker 1: that says you maybe have just invested in knowing what

1690
01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:12,519
Speaker 1: kind of friend that person is, because if they're putting

1691
01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:14,920
Speaker 1: you in that position, then they're not that they don't

1692
01:16:14,920 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 1: care about you that much, in which case you should

1693
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 1: know where you stand now. Hey Caitlin, Hi, Hey, good morning,

1694
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:24,760
Speaker 1: welcome to the Friend Show. How are you?

1695
01:16:25,040 --> 01:16:25,639
Speaker 16: Good morning?

1696
01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 5: Good hair?

1697
01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 1: Are you?

1698
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:26,679
Speaker 7: Guys?

1699
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:28,240
Speaker 5: I love you guys every.

1700
01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:29,960
Speaker 16: Morning, listen to you make my whole morning.

1701
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:31,880
Speaker 1: Thank you. We love you too. So what do you

1702
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 1: think here? Kigy's court, what's going on.

1703
01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:38,400
Speaker 16: I totally agree with Keki. I've been in that situation,

1704
01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:40,840
Speaker 16: you know, with as little as you know, borrowing twenty

1705
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:43,320
Speaker 16: bucks to a good friend of mine, and it just

1706
01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:45,839
Speaker 16: takes forever to get it back. And then you see,

1707
01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 16: you know, she'll message me saying that she went out

1708
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 16: and with her friends and her boyfriend's buying beer, and

1709
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,120
Speaker 16: I'm like, you can afford to buy beer, but you

1710
01:16:54,160 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 16: can't afford to pay me twenty dollars. And it's like, okay,

1711
01:16:57,240 --> 01:17:00,280
Speaker 16: it's only twenty bucks, but you know, still, like, you know,

1712
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:02,800
Speaker 16: I worked hard to give you that twenty bucks, you know,

1713
01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 16: but money will break up friendships, that'll break up family,

1714
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:08,840
Speaker 16: as it's happened with my mom. You know, she went

1715
01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:11,800
Speaker 16: my sister a bunch of money to get herself out

1716
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:14,960
Speaker 16: of debt, and they had an agreement, Okay, pay me back.

1717
01:17:15,000 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 16: I don't care if it's twenty bucks a month or

1718
01:17:17,320 --> 01:17:21,040
Speaker 16: twenty bucks a week, whatever you can afford. And she

1719
01:17:21,439 --> 01:17:23,639
Speaker 16: just felt that she didn't have to pay her back

1720
01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 16: because it was family. And we haven't spoken to my

1721
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:30,479
Speaker 16: sister in probably about five years woow. And it's just

1722
01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:33,400
Speaker 16: it's really sad. You know, because money will do that,

1723
01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 16: whether it's family.

1724
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:35,880
Speaker 10: Or friends, little or big.

1725
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:38,360
Speaker 16: And you know, you make an agreement with somebody, you

1726
01:17:38,400 --> 01:17:40,120
Speaker 16: pay them back. That's just that's just right.

1727
01:17:40,320 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 13: It's just the right thing.

1728
01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:43,280
Speaker 9: I agree with you for sure.

1729
01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:48,200
Speaker 1: That is Thank you, Caitlyn. Have a good day, you too. Bye, guys,

1730
01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 1: glad you called Bube buh Justin. Hey, good morning, Justin,

1731
01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:57,640
Speaker 1: Good morning girls, good morning, and man Kicky's court. So

1732
01:17:58,040 --> 01:17:59,439
Speaker 1: who was it? I mean, I think we all know

1733
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 1: that the woman who not paying the other person back

1734
01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:04,559
Speaker 1: is in the wrong. But you know, how hard do

1735
01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:06,759
Speaker 1: you fight over the money or what are the terms?

1736
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 1: You know, how do you how do you decide whether

1737
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 1: you should loan somebody money or not?

1738
01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:14,360
Speaker 25: Well, she's definitely wrong. I mean, I you know, I

1739
01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:17,080
Speaker 25: have that kind heart and open enough to you know,

1740
01:18:17,120 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 25: if somebody needs it and I see they're struggling, I

1741
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:20,800
Speaker 25: don't mind offering to help.

1742
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:23,120
Speaker 13: But you know, like I just.

1743
01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:25,400
Speaker 25: Had a similar situation happen where I had a buddy

1744
01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:27,439
Speaker 25: of mine, like I helped him make a sale on

1745
01:18:28,000 --> 01:18:29,600
Speaker 25: his car he wanted to get rid of and I

1746
01:18:29,640 --> 01:18:31,639
Speaker 25: told him me. You know the only reason I asked,

1747
01:18:31,680 --> 01:18:33,599
Speaker 25: I said, hey, can you you know, can you throw me.

1748
01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 5: Some money my way?

1749
01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:36,519
Speaker 25: I you know, I'm kind of needed some money.

1750
01:18:36,520 --> 01:18:37,080
Speaker 13: Blah bah blah.

1751
01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:38,000
Speaker 25: I just help you out.

1752
01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 28: He's like, yeah, I got you. I'll pay you two

1753
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 28: fifty right now, and I'll pay you two fifty next week.

1754
01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:45,400
Speaker 28: Next week comes around. I didn't say nothing. Waited for

1755
01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:47,760
Speaker 28: him to say anything. Send him a message, Ay, you know,

1756
01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:49,559
Speaker 28: I got to pay some bills by a certain time.

1757
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:51,880
Speaker 28: Can't You can't send it when you have a chance. Oh,

1758
01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:54,400
Speaker 28: he never replied. Then I see him going out talking

1759
01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:57,439
Speaker 28: about he has no money. But you know he's out,

1760
01:18:57,680 --> 01:18:59,400
Speaker 28: you know, he's talking about his friends are paying for

1761
01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 28: his deer for end him. And I'm like, really, you

1762
01:19:01,160 --> 01:19:04,599
Speaker 28: think I'm that slow? You know, like you don't want

1763
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 28: to see you don't want to see the old side

1764
01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:06,360
Speaker 28: of me.

1765
01:19:06,520 --> 01:19:06,720
Speaker 1: Rock.

1766
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:12,760
Speaker 25: I'll pull Rufio and I'll pull and I'll go some

1767
01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:15,679
Speaker 25: tires or you know that's good.

1768
01:19:16,360 --> 01:19:18,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go slash them two hundred dollars tires so

1769
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:20,800
Speaker 1: that you definitely don't get paid back. That's right. Yeah,

1770
01:19:21,280 --> 01:19:23,000
Speaker 1: you gotta spend that money, you know what I'm saying.

1771
01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:26,000
Speaker 6: But see it makes you feel this way, get paid

1772
01:19:26,240 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 6: justify exactly.

1773
01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:31,280
Speaker 25: It makes you feel some type of way, like because

1774
01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:32,439
Speaker 25: you know now he blocked me.

1775
01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:33,599
Speaker 11: From his Instagram story.

1776
01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:36,599
Speaker 25: Wow, And I had to pull up to his house

1777
01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:38,320
Speaker 25: and wait for him to get home from work to

1778
01:19:38,400 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 25: time to be like, yo, that's what's going up like.

1779
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:43,680
Speaker 1: Home.

1780
01:19:43,760 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 25: You don't play that.

1781
01:19:47,320 --> 01:19:50,479
Speaker 1: I did. Another moral of the story here is don't

1782
01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:56,000
Speaker 1: don't borrow money from a psychopath. You should be very

1783
01:19:56,040 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 1: careful who you borrow money from. Justin and Rufie are

1784
01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:03,440
Speaker 1: off my list. Justin thank you have a good day.

1785
01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:06,639
Speaker 1: I love you too. Man, If you gonna borrow money,

1786
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:09,080
Speaker 1: make sure they're mentally stable before you take their money.

1787
01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:16,280
Speaker 1: Hey Stacy, Hi, Hi Stacy, good morning. So somebody owes

1788
01:20:16,320 --> 01:20:16,960
Speaker 1: you some money?

1789
01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:21,720
Speaker 20: Oh yeah. So I had this friend. She was like

1790
01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 20: my best friend since like sixth grade, and you know,

1791
01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:28,479
Speaker 20: we were really close and you know, once we were

1792
01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:31,799
Speaker 20: like adults and stuff. She had she had like two kids,

1793
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:33,880
Speaker 20: and she was going through some time. She was going

1794
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:36,800
Speaker 20: to be homeless. She asked me to borrow some money.

1795
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:40,240
Speaker 20: I think I loaned her like four hundred dollars and

1796
01:20:40,479 --> 01:20:42,720
Speaker 20: at that time I was struggling and she's like, I'll

1797
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:44,760
Speaker 20: give it back to you, and like within the month,

1798
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:47,160
Speaker 20: and she said she was struggling to get her checked.

1799
01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:51,120
Speaker 20: And you know, she's like, oh, she kept giving me excuses.

1800
01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:53,200
Speaker 20: I'm getting my check next week. I'm getting my check

1801
01:20:53,240 --> 01:20:56,200
Speaker 20: next week. And it's been almost ten years and she

1802
01:20:56,240 --> 01:20:58,840
Speaker 20: still hasn't paid me. She blocked me. She blocked all

1803
01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:01,360
Speaker 20: of my family. And she had told me. She's like,

1804
01:21:01,520 --> 01:21:03,920
Speaker 20: I will remember those who helped me. You were there

1805
01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 20: for me, and nothing she ghosted me. So now I

1806
01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:10,360
Speaker 20: don't land money out. I only leant to maybe two people,

1807
01:21:10,439 --> 01:21:12,599
Speaker 20: but that's because they have lent me. I have paid

1808
01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:14,880
Speaker 20: them back, you know, I have learned them. They have

1809
01:21:14,960 --> 01:21:16,519
Speaker 20: paid me back, but no more.

1810
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:17,479
Speaker 5: That's right.

1811
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:20,240
Speaker 1: Let me know my house, Stacy, let me know if

1812
01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 1: you need my health, well, you're going to jail. Let

1813
01:21:25,320 --> 01:21:33,920
Speaker 1: Rufio know if you'd like to get locked up money.

1814
01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:36,280
Speaker 1: Hopefully your friend will come through to get you out

1815
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 1: of jail, because that's what you. Thank you, Stacey, have

1816
01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:39,840
Speaker 1: a good day.

1817
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:41,839
Speaker 20: Thank you.

1818
01:21:40,800 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 1: Look at it Ruby over here talking about oh I

1819
01:21:44,520 --> 01:21:47,439
Speaker 1: slash tires, I break windows and stuff. It's like that's

1820
01:21:47,479 --> 01:21:49,760
Speaker 1: gonna cost you more. I'm so petty if like.

1821
01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:51,880
Speaker 27: If I borrow some money they didn't pay me back

1822
01:21:51,920 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 27: and you see them out of the club and the

1823
01:21:53,320 --> 01:21:54,200
Speaker 27: Instagram stories.

1824
01:21:54,320 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show up at the club and drink that

1825
01:21:56,520 --> 01:21:59,639
Speaker 1: bottle they drink it out of. You know, I'm here

1826
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:08,640
Speaker 1: for thee later. That's right. I know who in this

1827
01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:11,880
Speaker 1: room I'm gonna loan money to it.

1828
01:22:10,160 --> 01:22:17,880
Speaker 10: I also know who money to.

1829
01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:21,679
Speaker 1: I know who I'd borrow money from and who I wouldn't.

1830
01:22:22,080 --> 01:22:28,680
Speaker 1: We're learning about each other this morning.

1831
01:22:29,120 --> 01:22:29,400
Speaker 6: Thank you.

1832
01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:35,800
Speaker 1: Guys. Here's one and this I didn't really know. Some

1833
01:22:35,840 --> 01:22:38,519
Speaker 1: of these I do know, and this one I and

1834
01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:40,280
Speaker 1: and some of these I don't know because I don't

1835
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:43,040
Speaker 1: know how they like yesterday the bone and the knee

1836
01:22:43,080 --> 01:22:45,959
Speaker 1: that did some people have Some people I don't know. Anatomy,

1837
01:22:46,040 --> 01:22:48,880
Speaker 1: it's something. It's my world anymore ever since I stopped

1838
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:51,920
Speaker 1: operating on brains. But this, this is something I do

1839
01:22:52,040 --> 01:22:54,040
Speaker 1: consume from time to time. So you think I would

1840
01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:57,680
Speaker 1: know this, Ibervio, you would too. The next time you

1841
01:22:57,720 --> 01:23:00,920
Speaker 1: see a can of pringles, take a very close look.

1842
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:04,120
Speaker 1: You will not see the word chip anywhere on the packaging.

1843
01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:07,920
Speaker 1: Why is that because they are not chips. Pringles are

1844
01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:12,320
Speaker 1: made of thinly sliced potatoes, but instead of dehydrated potato

1845
01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 1: flakes pressed into their signature. That's what they are. They're

1846
01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:19,559
Speaker 1: dehydrated potato flakes pressed in to the parabolic shape, so

1847
01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:22,840
Speaker 1: they're not actually slices of potatoes, so they're not called

1848
01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:25,559
Speaker 1: a chip. That's what makes them less greasy. But when

1849
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:29,000
Speaker 1: other potato chip manufacturers complained, the Food and Drug Administration

1850
01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:31,479
Speaker 1: ruled the Pringles could not be marketed as a chip.

1851
01:23:31,600 --> 01:23:35,920
Speaker 1: They are instead a potato crisp because of how they're

1852
01:23:35,960 --> 01:23:39,719
Speaker 1: made around a potato. Formed can't call that a chip,

1853
01:23:40,280 --> 01:23:42,120
Speaker 1: cannot You didn't know? I did you? No?

1854
01:23:42,120 --> 01:23:42,280
Speaker 17: No?

1855
01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:45,120
Speaker 1: You ever go on Jeopardy and they're like, what popular

1856
01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:48,880
Speaker 1: Well they can't call it chip? What popular snack? Yeah,

1857
01:23:49,760 --> 01:23:53,000
Speaker 1: it looks like a chip, not a chip, say Pringles.

1858
01:23:53,680 --> 01:23:55,919
Speaker 1: I like, I'm a Pringles guy. Though I like Pringles.

1859
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:57,400
Speaker 1: I can eat. The problem is I can eat the

1860
01:23:57,400 --> 01:24:01,760
Speaker 1: whole container, the whole sleeve or whatever, hand or round.

1861
01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:05,360
Speaker 8: I even I'll even dump the crumbs into my mouth,

1862
01:24:05,400 --> 01:24:06,240
Speaker 8: you know what I'm saying, Like.

1863
01:24:07,080 --> 01:24:10,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's that's a portion size. That doesn't seem

1864
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 1: like enough, Like it's that seems like the whole can.

1865
01:24:15,240 --> 01:24:17,040
Speaker 1: That seems like a portion to me. That should be

1866
01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:19,599
Speaker 1: a portion, like a big bag, like an entire bag

1867
01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:22,719
Speaker 1: of chips, like not a portion, but the pringles can

1868
01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 1: How isn't that many? Was it fifty? Nothing?

1869
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:27,960
Speaker 8: And I know they try to make it like you

1870
01:24:27,960 --> 01:24:29,679
Speaker 8: can barely fit your hand in there. She could stop eating.

1871
01:24:29,680 --> 01:24:30,760
Speaker 8: No I'm gonna shove my hand.

1872
01:24:30,800 --> 01:24:33,240
Speaker 1: No, I just dump it over, Just jump it over.

1873
01:24:35,560 --> 01:24:38,760
Speaker 1: That's not gonna stop me talking about you can't fit

1874
01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:39,360
Speaker 1: my hand in there.

1875
01:24:39,439 --> 01:24:47,760
Speaker 7: Dump more. Fread show next, You've got to wait.

1876
01:24:48,479 --> 01:24:55,599
Speaker 1: Fread show is on the Morning show? Is there anything

1877
01:24:55,640 --> 01:25:00,240
Speaker 1: more annoying? Which is more annoying? Is it the thing

1878
01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:02,000
Speaker 1: that you have to do online to prove that you're

1879
01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:05,400
Speaker 1: not a robot? Where you have to like yesterday was chimneys.

1880
01:25:05,840 --> 01:25:08,840
Speaker 1: I had to choose all the chimneys, yeah, you know

1881
01:25:08,920 --> 01:25:11,080
Speaker 1: in like the nine boxes or whatever, And of course

1882
01:25:11,120 --> 01:25:13,519
Speaker 1: I overthink it. So I'm staring at this thing, going

1883
01:25:13,600 --> 01:25:14,919
Speaker 1: like the way is there sweating?

1884
01:25:15,680 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 15: Yeah? Right?

1885
01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:20,240
Speaker 1: Like is there is there a chimney? I don't know,

1886
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:22,200
Speaker 1: Like what if I can't see the chimney in this picture?

1887
01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm sure. Is that more annoying or is

1888
01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:30,680
Speaker 1: it the the authentic I almost made up a word authentication,

1889
01:25:31,120 --> 01:25:34,479
Speaker 1: the verification code that you have to type into access like.

1890
01:25:34,960 --> 01:25:36,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if everyone's company is like this, but

1891
01:25:36,920 --> 01:25:38,439
Speaker 1: it seems like every time I have to log into

1892
01:25:38,479 --> 01:25:40,680
Speaker 1: my email, it has to text me first, and then

1893
01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:42,200
Speaker 1: I have to put the code in to make sure

1894
01:25:42,200 --> 01:25:46,439
Speaker 1: it's really me. You know what I'm saying, like the yeah, Well,

1895
01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:48,400
Speaker 1: because I got like two computers going, so I got

1896
01:25:48,439 --> 01:25:51,599
Speaker 1: to do it like four times a morning. It's annoying

1897
01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:54,880
Speaker 1: as hell. I don't that and the stupid Microsoft Viva thing.

1898
01:25:55,120 --> 01:25:56,880
Speaker 1: I can't handle it anymore. Get off me.

1899
01:25:57,080 --> 01:25:59,400
Speaker 8: Well, you know, if Pauline over here would stop clicking

1900
01:26:00,000 --> 01:26:02,759
Speaker 8: eternal links that take you to viruses, then we probably

1901
01:26:02,800 --> 01:26:04,599
Speaker 8: wouldn't have to enter all these.

1902
01:26:04,840 --> 01:26:07,040
Speaker 10: And train so long and hard. I don't want to

1903
01:26:07,040 --> 01:26:08,040
Speaker 10: be trained anymore.

1904
01:26:08,080 --> 01:26:08,479
Speaker 5: So tired.

1905
01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:09,520
Speaker 10: I want to click.

1906
01:26:10,920 --> 01:26:14,040
Speaker 1: Paulina like, stop training.

1907
01:26:14,280 --> 01:26:15,800
Speaker 10: Jason Brown did it the other day too.

1908
01:26:15,840 --> 01:26:18,720
Speaker 5: I love you, Jason bro. I thought someone was faxing me.

1909
01:26:20,280 --> 01:26:23,320
Speaker 10: Where's the I'm like, no one is faxing you, it's.

1910
01:26:24,720 --> 01:26:32,639
Speaker 1: The fax machine. No woman, If they're faxing you wanted

1911
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:38,960
Speaker 1: to show up in your email, they got Well, we

1912
01:26:38,960 --> 01:26:41,439
Speaker 1: were messing with you too, because you clicked on it

1913
01:26:41,520 --> 01:26:43,040
Speaker 1: and then you were all worried about it, and then

1914
01:26:43,040 --> 01:26:44,599
Speaker 1: you gotta have to walk away, and we're like, dude,

1915
01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:51,160
Speaker 1: your mouse is moving. So it's because of you. Two,

1916
01:26:52,280 --> 01:26:55,080
Speaker 1: it's seventeen codes to get in my email every day.

1917
01:26:55,080 --> 01:26:57,559
Speaker 10: What do they think we're emailing about? Like, it's not

1918
01:26:57,880 --> 01:27:02,280
Speaker 10: like high security, it's not necess.

1919
01:27:01,040 --> 01:27:05,000
Speaker 1: Well, speak speak for yourself, because Paulina over here, you know,

1920
01:27:05,120 --> 01:27:08,120
Speaker 1: she she emails high level politicians all the time the

1921
01:27:08,280 --> 01:27:10,559
Speaker 1: secret information. Wow, okay, got it.

1922
01:27:10,720 --> 01:27:13,639
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm the reason, yes, our CEO needed those gift

1923
01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:15,240
Speaker 7: cards that one day.

1924
01:27:16,120 --> 01:27:20,679
Speaker 1: I'm the reason that that was another scam is that

1925
01:27:21,200 --> 01:27:25,600
Speaker 1: some scammer was emailing random employees, like totally random employees

1926
01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:27,800
Speaker 1: in the company and being like the chairman of the

1927
01:27:27,800 --> 01:27:31,519
Speaker 1: board needs you to go to Apple and by hard

1928
01:27:31,600 --> 01:27:36,000
Speaker 1: times and this person in which it's always like, I've

1929
01:27:36,040 --> 01:27:38,720
Speaker 1: never even met the guy. You want me to go

1930
01:27:38,760 --> 01:27:42,400
Speaker 1: to the Apple store buy you gift cards. His name

1931
01:27:42,439 --> 01:27:48,360
Speaker 1: was Simon Levive. His enemies are after him and he

1932
01:27:48,439 --> 01:27:51,360
Speaker 1: needs the Apple gift cards in order to operate the company.

1933
01:27:51,760 --> 01:27:54,800
Speaker 1: Like I met this girl on Saturday at that the

1934
01:27:55,080 --> 01:27:57,559
Speaker 1: helicopter thing, you know, flat around in the on the

1935
01:27:57,600 --> 01:28:00,720
Speaker 1: black Hawk and she texts me on Monday day. She's like, oh,

1936
01:28:00,800 --> 01:28:02,800
Speaker 1: excuse me. Sunday, She's like, what did you do last night?

1937
01:28:03,320 --> 01:28:05,439
Speaker 1: And I told the story about my glorious night. I

1938
01:28:05,479 --> 01:28:08,080
Speaker 1: had pretty bad allergies after being out there in the

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Speaker 1: grass all day, so I took two Bena drill and

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Speaker 1: slept for twelve hours. It was glorious. Then I woke

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Speaker 1: up and ordered a bagel and coffee to my house

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Speaker 1: and ate it. And I was the greatest. It was

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Speaker 1: the greatest thirteen hour spread that I've had in a

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Speaker 1: long time. I was so happy about him. And I'm

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Speaker 1: surprised this girl still wants to talk to me after that.

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Speaker 1: But that's the Abcason me. Man, that's where I was.

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Speaker 1: Oh my okay, you didn't answer your phone all night.

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Speaker 1: You must have been in the club with seven hundred girls.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I didn't answer my phone because I

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Speaker 1: was physically passed out because I drug myself. And it

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Speaker 1: was amazing, twelve straight hours of sleep. That's amazing, Caitlin. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: don't even tell me that you wouldn't wake up refreshed

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Speaker 1: after that.

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Speaker 21: Yeah, No, I don't know her. I would never know

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Speaker 21: that I would have had COVID I was sleeping for that.

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Speaker 1: Long, but my allergy said, my allergies are killing me. Man.

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Speaker 1: I took the Bena drill twelve hours. I feel like

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Speaker 1: I would be more tired after twelve hours.

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Speaker 10: I didn't know where I was.

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Speaker 1: I felt pretty good yesterday. I did like I were

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Speaker 1: a part of the day four or five hours, two

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Speaker 1: and then if I give it even eight, I feel

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Speaker 1: like But if I'm not feeling well, and it's a luxury, right,

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Speaker 1: because it's all mental. It's a mental game. It's like

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to sleep and I don't and the

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Speaker 1: alar are not going to go off. I don't have

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Speaker 1: to get up at any time. That for those of

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Speaker 1: us who get up that early. If you get up

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Speaker 1: at four o'clock in the morning most days, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. And you guys do if you

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Speaker 1: could do it, you would love it. But I don't

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Speaker 1: think you just don't. You don't sleep like that.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, no, I would do it.

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Speaker 21: I always say when people are like, what power would

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Speaker 21: you want if you were a superhero? Just the ability

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Speaker 21: to sleep when I wanted for as long as I wanted.

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Speaker 1: That's yeah, I can do that. I have that power.

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Speaker 1: I know you do I have that superpower.

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Speaker 10: Well, sometimes I stare at you and I'm just like I.

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Speaker 1: Wish I could zoomoom and then like you know, with

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Speaker 1: my magic wand just go and then you would get

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Speaker 1: I think that's how it. It would sound like that

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Speaker 1: if I could spread my superpowers, we go zoom zoomoom,

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Speaker 1: and then I would just do it.

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Speaker 10: And for some reason, this is what it sounded like

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Speaker 10: when I was taking it.

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Speaker 1: That's whoa wait.

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Speaker 22: You guy?

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Speaker 1: Oh No, I didn't even have anything to do. I

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Speaker 1: didn't mean I want to use your back.

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Speaker 10: I didn't mean it like that.

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Speaker 1: I went to zoom zoom and she went up slur

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Speaker 1: but like old I was a slur. No, do we

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Speaker 1: have instant replay because I'd like to. I'd like to

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Speaker 1: review that moment. I didn't mean it your superpowers like

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Speaker 1: It's like that guy waiting by the phone who was

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Speaker 1: able to inoculate. He was able to innoculate that woman

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Speaker 1: and give her the benefits of the of the antibodies.

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Speaker 1: I remember, remember that one he had the cure. You

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Speaker 1: don't want to get COVID, I can give you those antibodies.

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Speaker 10: Exactly.

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Speaker 1: Catch up with the

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