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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for not wanting to get

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Speaker 1: back together with my wife who left me after she

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Speaker 1: got in shape? Shhh, this comes from let me be alone?

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Speaker 1: Huh who says? I Am not sure why I'm posting this.

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Speaker 1: I probably want some validation as my life has just

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Speaker 1: turned upside down. Really, I thirty two male, was married

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Speaker 1: to my wife, thirty three female, for four years and

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Speaker 1: we had a great marriage so far. I was madly

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Speaker 1: in love with my wife. She fell into depression mainly

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Speaker 1: due to her job in twenty twenty two. I tried

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Speaker 1: to support her in every way and suggested her going

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Speaker 1: to the gym or doing any kind of sports to distress.

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Speaker 1: I had my own depression episode before we got married,

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Speaker 1: and what saved me was going to the gym iron

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Speaker 1: Church Baby. In church, I praised the games nice, uh da,

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Speaker 1: I mean getting going too hard over there, dude, got

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Speaker 1: to get those games true to get away the pains

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Speaker 1: by any means. She agreed to that and we started

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Speaker 1: going there together to the gym. I could not go

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Speaker 1: as frequent in the past since my workload got heavier

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Speaker 1: after my promotion. However, I tried my best to be

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Speaker 1: there with her. She used to be a bit chubby,

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Speaker 1: which I loved, and after seeing some changes with her body,

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Speaker 1: she started to go there regularly. It also helped with

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Speaker 1: to see her better and livelier. She looked more confident,

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 3: We love a little aggression in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: However, after a while that confidence level started to affect

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Speaker 1: our relationship. Or worse, Oh no, she started going to

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Speaker 1: the parties and going outside to a point she completely

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Speaker 1: stopped doing her share in the house. That proceeded with

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Speaker 1: me seeing her get flirty with the guy at.

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Speaker 2: A meetup we went to.

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Speaker 1: I communicated my feelings to her and she dismissed these.

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Speaker 1: After several of these, I had to sit her down

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Speaker 4: And emotions right now.

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Speaker 1: I clearly stated she should not make decisions or actions

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Speaker 1: according to that confidence right now. I know it well.

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Speaker 1: It was one of my worst traits. I used to

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Speaker 1: be extremely emotionally driven in the past. I suggested we

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Speaker 2: That is such a normal thing to suggest.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very very normal thing, even if there's nothing wrong,

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Speaker 1: it's you know, good to you know, talk it out,

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Speaker 1: talk it out, talk it out now, talking it out.

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Speaker 1: She said vile things to me, like how she realized

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Speaker 1: she settled down with me after getting better and she

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Speaker 1: could do much better than me. Oh no, she said,

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Speaker 1: I am insecure and other things. This woman used to

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Speaker 2: Dude, hard body, hard souled.

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Speaker 4: Apparently hard heart, but it's healthy.

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Speaker 1: She filed for divorce the following month, and I did

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Speaker 1: not hear much from her other than some lawyer talks.

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Speaker 1: Our court seeing is scheduled to be next month, and

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Speaker 1: my lawyer told me there is a high chance it

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Speaker 1: will be concluded. Then there is not much to share

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Speaker 1: a similar income. Only shared asset is our joint account,

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Speaker 1: similar savings, no kids. House is my mom's, so it's

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Speaker 1: out of vision. I accepted my marriage is going to end.

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Speaker 1: Last week she called, crying and told me she regrets everything.

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Speaker 4: Hmm, Now you come.

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Speaker 1: Crawling back, yep or army crawling bear crawling back with

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Speaker 4: Dude, what are we talking about?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 3: You know what I don't think, op, he needs to

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Speaker 3: deal with your emotional baggage.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that kind of workout, that's right. He's doing

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Speaker 1: a whole different type of workout, pulling.

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Speaker 2: His ropes because he wants to kill himself.

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Speaker 4: It was like pulling his ropes, you know.

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Speaker 2: As heart ropes. What heart? What's a heart? Rope? No?

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Speaker 4: Not heart?

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Speaker 2: No, he's pulling his rope.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how did you? You thought heart strings? You thought insanity?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 4: Wow? Wow? We were just in three completely different worlds.

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Speaker 2: I don't keep up with these old terms. Yeah, what

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Speaker 2: does it mean touching your rope? Man? We should have

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Speaker 4: Right, right?

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Speaker 1: I was that that was a hilarious uh, three way misunderstanding,

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Speaker 1: emphasis on three way. She apologized over and over again,

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Speaker 1: but I felt disappointed, not angry, not sad, but just disappointed.

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Speaker 1: She did not text me nor call me even once

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Speaker 1: since the divorce started because she was too busy texting, hauling,

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Speaker 1: and banging her her a little crush apparently dude working

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Speaker 1: something else out.

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Speaker 2: Working out a little horizontal tango.

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Speaker 4: OUCHI.

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Speaker 1: I did not even know where she was since she

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Speaker 1: back now. She has been messaging me NonStop. My family

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Speaker 1: supports my decision and tell me I should not back down.

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Speaker 1: My in laws were shocked when they heard about the divorce.

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Speaker 1: They are now telling me to rethink everything. I will

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Speaker 1: ninety nine point nine percent not back down. But as

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Speaker 1: I said, I just was looking for validation and maybe

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Speaker 1: wanted to vent. Don't back down, don't back down, don't

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Speaker 1: do it, no back now. Thank you for reading. And

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Speaker 1: there are some quick relevant comments. Would we get these

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Speaker 1: and then break down that story?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that quick, Yes, not back don't back down, don't back.

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Speaker 4: Down, don't back don't turn that down.

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Speaker 2: Got back down to.

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Speaker 1: That ninety nine point nine percent into one hundred Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what we need. One hundred percent commitment to not

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Speaker 1: backing down. What if she proposes like Tuesdays, every tuesdays

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Speaker 1: staying to blow drum, throw back dam no, yeah, get

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Speaker 1: out of here. Okay, one hundred percent. Then now, so

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Speaker 1: some relevant comments from neander Beast. It didn't work out

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Speaker 1: with a new guy, so she's falling back to plane

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Speaker 1: B A kau.

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Speaker 4: So freaking true.

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Speaker 2: Good.

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Speaker 3: You know what, her mom should have taken some plan B.

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Speaker 4: Her mom should have christ that's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, her mom should have swallowed Hey, yoh, do another one?

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Speaker 2: Do another one? Her mom should have No, I don't

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Speaker 1: Her dad should have Oh, her dad should have had

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Speaker 1: a pool day and pulled out.

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Speaker 4: We're done with this. This is being put to rest.

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Speaker 1: He's most likely wooed her with lies and is now

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Speaker 1: showing his hue colors. Continue with the divorce and cut

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Speaker 1: her off. Her dad should have Belagio fountain himself.

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Speaker 4: We're just grasping a straws.

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Speaker 3: It's like when you know, like how the Blaggio fountain

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Ude.

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Speaker 4: No, I won't entertain it, Opie said.

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Speaker 1: Opie replies, I did not even understand why she left

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Speaker 1: me after getting in shape.

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Speaker 4: I am in shape too. It's not like I was overweight.

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Speaker 1: It's been a while since going to the gym before

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Speaker 1: at all. I could probably get back to my shredded

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Speaker 1: replies to that, someone new and shiny, he probably made

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Speaker 1: promises that he.

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Speaker 4: Would be better.

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Speaker 1: Now she realizes the grass is greater and once her

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Speaker 1: comfortable life back, don't be the beehive.

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Speaker 2: Forget the beehive. What's the beehive again?

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Speaker 4: It's it's like she's the bee and he's the beehive.

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Speaker 4: She's coming back to the beehive after going to all

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Speaker 4: the other flowers.

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Speaker 3: That's what bees do, I know. But so you're saying,

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Speaker 3: don't like, stop being a bee, don't be the beehive,

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Speaker 3: because the.

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Speaker 2: Beehive is great, like like, that's what bees.

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Speaker 4: It's great.

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Speaker 3: But the metaphor is she went out saw some other flowers,

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Speaker 3: is now coming back home. Well, really, if you're if

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Speaker 3: you're taking that metaphor all the way, if you're.

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Speaker 2: The beehive, you have like a like a million bees.

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Speaker 4: All right, let's just kill it.

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Speaker 2: No beehive.

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Speaker 4: We'll find a new analogy.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he should Maybe he should be a beehive and

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Speaker 3: have a million bees and she's just one of his bees.

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Speaker 1: Let's accept this is the worst analogies episode in OKO history.

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Speaker 4: I leave it at that.

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Speaker 3: Fine, This is an episode from deep within the archives

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Speaker 3: time for okop relash. And I'm annoyed because I don't

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Speaker 3: care if he has cancer. I'm not paying for his

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Speaker 3: meal and here's why. Okay, let's see tell me why

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Speaker 3: I will. I will.

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Speaker 4: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: So normally I don't share private business and social media,

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Speaker 4: I'm gotta do it op lay it down.

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Speaker 3: So my female twenty eight fiance, Jack male thirty has

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Speaker 3: a friend, Steve male thirty three, who had cancer but

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Speaker 3: now is doing better.

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Speaker 4: That's good.

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Speaker 3: Good that Steve is doing better. He's one of Jack's

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Speaker 4: Meals and drinks.

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Speaker 3: Excuse me using the excuse he had cancer. Shows some empathy.

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Speaker 3: Pay for a shit?

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Speaker 4: Why don't you show some empathy.

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Speaker 3: Then we went to an electronics shop once and Jack

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Speaker 3: I secked it up once or twice. He's like buying

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Speaker 3: like like three xboxes and PS three like I secked

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Speaker 3: Steve had cancer and reminded me of how his financial

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Speaker 3: time to time. Yo, just because Steve had cancer and

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Speaker 3: his financial situation is affected, doesn't mean my financial situation

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Speaker 3: has to be affected because Steve had cancer.

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Speaker 1: Literally, how about let's how about we let it affect

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Speaker 1: your financial situation?

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Speaker 4: Yes, Steve, how your cancers?

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Speaker 2: Politude?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, no, no, no boyfriend, Opie's boyfriend. But because Opie's

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Speaker 3: I know, that's what's weird crazy, it's funny how and

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Speaker 3: now hope he's getting to it. How I'm always the

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Speaker 3: Steve's meal too. Bro I played dumb and said, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 3: but why should I pay for his meal? Jack obviously

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Speaker 3: didn't want to say, because he has cancer and is

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Speaker 3: He glanced at Jack, and Jack was fewing. He told

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Speaker 3: But I only paid for our lunch and then got

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Speaker 1: I like how she still pays for her boyfriend. Yeah too,

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Speaker 1: It's like I would have if I'm making that statement.

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Speaker 1: I'm only paying for myself. Come try to get your

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Speaker 2: Fam.

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Speaker 3: Literally, I heard him repeatedly apologize to Steve as I

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry my fiance to pay for your food, Like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna make sure she is opening her wallet

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Speaker 1: for you have an open wall policy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for me, but for her Yeah, I'm gonna keep

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Speaker 4: Lay it down.

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Speaker 3: Jack didn't come home, but left four nasty texts, calling

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Speaker 3: unsympathetic to what his friend was going through. I text

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Speaker 4: It's true.

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Speaker 3: He said that I'd lose nothing if I just paid

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Speaker 3: Saying that I was being willingly ignorant because I know

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Speaker 1: Of his shit, like honestly, like, why has that's the question?

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Speaker 1: Why isn't Steve smoking to be like, hey, like I

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Speaker 1: your friends like paying for you. Every your friend's significant

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Speaker 2: You're like a boo.

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Speaker 3: Right, he's still mad, saying he won't speak to me

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Speaker 3: walking and refusing to pay, Okay, so here's what I'll say. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But I would bring it up beforehand. I would have

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Speaker 3: And just be like because it doesn't sound like she

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like that that is I would say, Like it does.

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Speaker 3: Could just do it himself. Exactly. I think everyone's the

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Speaker 1: It's still I would say she went a bit hard

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Speaker 4: Yeah, before you eat. Yeah, I'm not paying for him.

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Speaker 3: You don't ask me, yeah yeah, or just be like

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Speaker 4: Oh that's true. That's true. That's true.

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Speaker 2: I think. I mean, I understand that she's sped up.

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Speaker 3: I think she's gonna be like, hey, I'm not I'm sorry,

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: She kind of did say that, but it also seems

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe a little bit. Man. It's just.

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Speaker 3: I think actually the husband or her her soon to

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, he's absolutely more than I think Steve. Questionably, I

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Speaker 4: think even Steve is actually.

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Speaker 1: He deserves I don't know if he's more of the

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Speaker 2: More of the ale.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he wants to take your tongue.

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Speaker 2: You can send some shit and be like yo, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Good, yeah, thank you, But you've done enough.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to, you know, keep going.

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Speaker 1: And it's also it's not like, oh my gosh, like

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Speaker 1: he needs to cover them, like if they were talking

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Speaker 1: about medical bills, are like, oh, like, let's don'ate to

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Speaker 4: Makes a lot xbox from an electronics store.

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Speaker 1: Literally, he's like and he's clearly going intending to purchase

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think Steve's a little bit of a mooch Yes,

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Speaker 3: sounds like and the fiance is enabling the moochiness.

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Speaker 4: Case closed, case closed, boom