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Speaker 2: Ethan is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Mia. So in
Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see if she
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him
Speaker 2: another day if he's still watch one. But first, Ethan,
Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from you?
Speaker 3: Oh? Man, it's it's been a minute. Like I just
Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on, Like it's been like,
Speaker 3: you know, a week or so, so I kind of
Speaker 3: nervous about all this, Like I don't know what the
Speaker 3: problem could be.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well was the date good? How did that go?
Speaker 3: We went rock climbing, so it was a lot of fun.
Speaker 3: I mean, it was my idea, and you know, she
Speaker 3: said that she liked being an actress, so I was like, hey,
Speaker 3: why not.
Speaker 5: Did you go actual rock climbing or do like a
Speaker 5: rock climbing gym?
Speaker 3: Oh? We went to like a jim It's still hard, right,
Speaker 3: and like, I don't tell once, but we we just
Speaker 3: laughed it off and I thought it was, you know,
Speaker 3: just a fun way to break the ice.
Speaker 5: So did it seem like she enjoyed it?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's also a good way because like near death
Speaker 2: experiences are supposed to make people horny.
Speaker 6: What really, I could see that, like did you see
Speaker 6: me though?
Speaker 5: I almost fell, almost died, Take me home.
Speaker 7: Like that?
Speaker 4: But did she fall? Because if she didn't fall, then
Speaker 4: it might have been a little bit off center.
Speaker 3: You know, maybe that maybe that was part of it,
Speaker 3: and maybe she's just afraid to come back. But no,
Speaker 3: but really, guys, like like she was, she was awesome,
Speaker 3: Like I mean, she was brilliant, like and we had
Speaker 3: good conversation. It wasn't just surface level.
Speaker 5: Did you guys talk while you were rock climbing here
Speaker 5: and there?
Speaker 3: Like while we were rock climbing, we were just kind
Speaker 3: of focused on that. But afterwards we went to a
Speaker 3: nearby smoothie bar afterwards and that's where we did like
Speaker 3: most of the talking because like I mean, it was
Speaker 3: it was for over an hour and you know that
Speaker 3: was that was really cool. But she just knows everything
Speaker 3: about like finance, which I totally don't, and I mean
Speaker 3: she just made it seem cool and her smile was amazing, guys,
Speaker 3: Like she just lit up the room.
Speaker 4: How did you guys get into a conversation about finance
Speaker 4: at some.
Speaker 5: Of the place.
Speaker 3: Well, she works in finance, so like I thought that
Speaker 3: was really cool and.
Speaker 5: Just kind of.
Speaker 3: That would be a good reason to like not want
Speaker 3: to date. But yeah, like like I was kind of curious,
Speaker 3: like you, so, so what's what's going on in the market?
Speaker 3: And she was like, oh this this has been up
Speaker 3: and that's been down, and you know, it goes up
Speaker 3: and down and up and down and all that, and
Speaker 3: it sounds like life. But maybe he was right on
Speaker 3: that whole rock climbing danger thing because we did share
Speaker 3: a kiss at the end of the eight.
Speaker 4: What do you think could have gone wrong?
Speaker 3: Okay, so there was this one minute it was kind
Speaker 3: of awkward when we were rock climbing. I reached for
Speaker 3: a rock as she was moving, and well I I
Speaker 3: ended up grabbing her butt and she screamed.
Speaker 5: Like right away, Okay, I mean that's awkward.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I I keep re playing that and I'm wondering,
Speaker 3: is that why she goes to me?
Speaker 4: How did you play it off?
Speaker 5: Though?
Speaker 6: So like did you grab it and you're like got
Speaker 6: it or you know, or was there some other kind
Speaker 6: of like I don't know how you react to something
Speaker 6: like that is kind of how you take it, you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well she was obviously more to five tides, like oh,
Speaker 3: I was so sorry, Like I seriously thought I was
Speaker 3: just I reached the wrong place. I was going for
Speaker 3: a rock and I was not looking. Okay, She's like, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5: I'm fine make any more comments about her.
Speaker 2: But I mean, because I could that could also be
Speaker 2: is you just kept talking about yeah, well I think
Speaker 2: it's rock hard because I thought it was like a rock,
Speaker 2: you know, Sorry about grabbing there.
Speaker 3: I listen, I almost said something my mistake. I was
Speaker 3: almost like, hey, I thought I was grabbing a rock.
Speaker 3: But I thought real quick, I was like, oh, if
Speaker 3: I say that, that's you're not going to sound right.
Speaker 3: So let me just be like, oh, I would grab
Speaker 3: it in the wrong place.
Speaker 2: Because yeah, yeah, we'll seem like she got over it, right, Yeah,
Speaker 2: as long as you didn't say that to her, maybe
Speaker 2: it's okay.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I mean she did kiss you at the end, so
Speaker 5: it seems like she got over it.
Speaker 3: Exactly like I kept that thought to myself.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 5: for you.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back and then call her
Speaker 2: and get your first day follow up next.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up,
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Ethan is on the phone
Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Mia. So we're about to
Speaker 2: call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
Speaker 2: ghosting him. But before we do that, Ethan, why don't
Speaker 2: you break down your date for us one more time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we had a lot of fun going rock climbing.
Speaker 3: I accidentally grabbed her button and hollo. We went out
Speaker 3: for smoothies afterwards. Uh, maybe she got horned from the
Speaker 3: rock climbing because we ended up with a kids.
Speaker 5: All right, well, here we go. But she's ghusting you,
Speaker 5: so we don't know why. So maybe she did it
Speaker 5: cold shower.
Speaker 2: I'll call it right now, Okay you ready?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 8: All right?
Speaker 5: Here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to me? Please?
Speaker 7: This is she?
Speaker 5: Hey me? How are you? This is the Jubil Show.
Speaker 5: It's a radio show.
Speaker 4: Him. I'm Nina.
Speaker 5: Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jubil. How are you doing?
Speaker 7: Wait? This is on TikTok I've seen you guys. I
Speaker 7: heard these on TikTok.
Speaker 5: Cool now you're on one on TikTok and gosh.
Speaker 7: I did not think that this would ever be me,
Speaker 7: so we.
Speaker 2: Checked out the podcast at jubilestart dot com. It's all
Speaker 2: there now it's you mea.
Speaker 5: Yeah. We do a segment called the first a follow up.
Speaker 2: That's where if you go on a date with someone
Speaker 2: and end up ghosting them, that person can email us
Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and ask why you're
Speaker 2: ghosting them, and we got an email about you.
Speaker 8: This is Ethan, right, Yeah.
Speaker 5: It is about Ethan.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you're pretty confident about that. What happened?
Speaker 7: He's like too much?
Speaker 9: I guess I'll say, I'm look, I'm ghosting him because honestly,
Speaker 9: I couldn't stop staring.
Speaker 8: At his like his business.
Speaker 5: You know, like not a good.
Speaker 6: Way you're ghosting somebody because you couldn't stop staring at something.
Speaker 4: Did you like.
Speaker 6: It like that?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 8: You know it's not like that, I swear, Okay.
Speaker 9: So.
Speaker 4: I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: We're laughing.
Speaker 9: Okay. We want rock climbing, right, and you know when
Speaker 9: you go rock climbing, you wear the harness and it
Speaker 9: kind of goes around your hips area, and it very
Speaker 9: much frames you're drunk.
Speaker 7: You have junk like that, And I get it.
Speaker 9: The harnesses are tight. It's a safety thing. I totally understand.
Speaker 9: But for the entire date after we got down from
Speaker 9: the rock climbing wall, he kept adjusting himself like.
Speaker 7: Every five minutes. Oh he was adjusting. Move man, his
Speaker 7: handle was down there doing something.
Speaker 8: It was driving me crazy, and I could not focus on.
Speaker 9: Anything else no matter what we were talking about, because
Speaker 9: his hand is got another adjustment, another shift, another.
Speaker 4: That's like this after the harness is off.
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, this is after the hardness. I mean maybe
Speaker 7: it was like super tight. I don't have dunk like that.
Speaker 2: So I don't know what it's find So it's like
Speaker 2: you're on a date with a toddler and you have
Speaker 2: to keep being like, get your hands.
Speaker 5: Out of your pants, stop touching yourself. Right, Okay. Other
Speaker 5: than that, did you like him?
Speaker 9: I mean we definitely had a good talk, you know.
Speaker 9: Sometimes I mean there are I'm in like finance, and
Speaker 9: there are guys who get kind of worried about that.
Speaker 9: But there's some who are into it and someone aren
Speaker 9: do it too much. And they try to mansplain it
Speaker 9: to me.
Speaker 7: Well, we had a good time.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean he listened to what I was saying,
Speaker 9: and it felt nice to be able to sort of
Speaker 9: teach someone about the stuff that I do.
Speaker 5: You know, I adjusting himself.
Speaker 9: He just wouldn't stop adjusting himself, so sometimes I definitely
Speaker 9: would lose.
Speaker 7: My train of thought.
Speaker 8: It was that was also embarrassing for I don't think
Speaker 8: I could see him after that.
Speaker 5: Experience, you know what I mean, Well, thank you for
Speaker 5: being honest with us. I appreciate that.
Speaker 2: And Ethan is actually on the phone listening and wants
Speaker 2: to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Like, wait, what I he realized I was doing that exactly?
Speaker 7: You were? Yeah, you were even you were doing that.
Speaker 8: It was I don't know, I don't know, it was
Speaker 8: just a lot I get it.
Speaker 9: Maybe the harness was tight.
Speaker 3: But yeah, for sure, you know it was just sorry
Speaker 3: I saw.
Speaker 5: You. Didn't realize you were, you know, moving stuff around
Speaker 5: a lot.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I just kind of thought like, well, if I
Speaker 3: just kind of shift a little bit, I'll be fine.
Speaker 3: But maybe every time I shifted as bad and I
Speaker 3: didn't know I wasn't doing it on purpose. I swear
Speaker 3: it must have been like, you know, just the harness
Speaker 3: like you said.
Speaker 9: Okay, I get that, but I don't. It just it
Speaker 9: made me uncomfortable.
Speaker 7: It made me feel kind of weird, like it couldn't
Speaker 7: stop looking.
Speaker 9: And I know it sounds weird or silly or I
Speaker 9: don't know if it sounds superficial, but it just made
Speaker 9: me question if we should go out again because I
Speaker 9: just didn't feel great about that.
Speaker 3: You know, I just want to be clear, So you're
Speaker 3: ghosting me because I couldn't stop adjusting my area.
Speaker 7: I mean pretty much. It's just I don't know. I
Speaker 7: never had it happened, and it just really threw me off.
Speaker 4: You know, is there a lot to adjust? Why is
Speaker 4: it so distracting?
Speaker 3: I'm listen, I'm a great guy. Aside from all the
Speaker 3: accidental adjusting, Like we could just listen, we could do
Speaker 3: something totally different. I could take you to the place
Speaker 3: with zero chance of awkwardness. Uh okay, the grab that
Speaker 3: I grab the wrong thing. Plus you told me you
Speaker 3: think I'm attractive and a really good picture, so I
Speaker 3: mean yeah, I can definitely not adjust myself in normal clothing.
Speaker 7: Okay, so that's not the norm for you, That's not
Speaker 7: how it's going to be that's right. Yeah, no issue.
Speaker 4: No, you didn't even know you were doing it, Ethan,
Speaker 4: How do you know that? Do you do this? And
Speaker 4: as nobody ever said that you adjust often before?
Speaker 3: No, nobody's ever said that. I mean, like I guess
Speaker 3: maybe they'd be afraid to mention that, but I haven't noticed. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean apparently now I want to like go back
Speaker 3: and look at any videos I'm in and just make sure,
Speaker 3: I mean, the harness was tight, you know, like it was.
Speaker 5: Paying me up. Would you like to go on another
Speaker 5: day with Ethan won't pay for it?
Speaker 2: I mean, if he promises to use duct tape or
Speaker 2: something so he doesn't have to adjust.
Speaker 4: I feel like you have to just the sef that
Speaker 4: is going to do it again.
Speaker 9: And maybe no like no rock himbing, no horseback riding,
Speaker 9: nothing like that. Nothing involving that.
Speaker 3: We can chill at, like a coffee spots, something nice
Speaker 3: and like a It can be similar to an office,
Speaker 3: like a financial office, you know.
Speaker 2: Something a financial office.
Speaker 4: I don't, Oh my god, just go to dinner.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there you go. See.
Speaker 7: Okay.
Speaker 9: I feel like it's you're making it pretty hard to
Speaker 9: say no. And I feel like I should give you
Speaker 9: another chance, because you're right about what I said. I
Speaker 9: don't know that you had to tell everybody in the world,
Speaker 9: but yes, I had a good time, and I think
Speaker 9: cute and look, but seriously, if there's one.
Speaker 8: Adjustment, I am all right.
Speaker 5: Well, congratulations, you got another day.
Speaker 4: Yeah fun you Will's first
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