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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody. So before we start the podcast, we wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to acknowledge what's going on in Israel right now. It's

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<v Speaker 1>such a heavy time, and it feels like even doing

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast feels.

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<v Speaker 2>So feels wrong in a way, just because all the videos,

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<v Speaker 2>everything that we've been seeing, the coverage this past weekend

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<v Speaker 2>has been horrific. Innocent people being dragged out of their homes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just been so horrible to see. I have family

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<v Speaker 2>there now that is affected by everything going on, and

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<v Speaker 2>I just, you know, we really wanted to take the

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<v Speaker 2>time to just stay to say that we stand with

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<v Speaker 2>Israel and support them and everything that's going on right now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just a very heavy time and all.

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<v Speaker 1>The innocent people who have been attacked or who have

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<v Speaker 1>had families, and people all over the world who feel

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<v Speaker 1>the weight of what's happening. I don't think we can

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<v Speaker 1>even comprehend how severe and tragic and catastrophic this is.

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<v Speaker 1>And it feels like very helpless in the sense that

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<v Speaker 1>feels like there's nothing we can do. But at the

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<v Speaker 1>very least I feel like we can acknowledge it and

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<v Speaker 1>condemn the acts of terrorism and the violence and the

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<v Speaker 1>pure evil that's happened and also lift up the people

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<v Speaker 1>who are suffering and victims to what's been happening. And

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<v Speaker 1>we know that we're not a podcast that people come

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<v Speaker 1>to for world news or for political topics, especially.

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<v Speaker 2>Quite the opposite. You know, we want to be a

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<v Speaker 2>lighthearted place where people can come for joy and comfort.

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<v Speaker 2>But we didn't want to go on with our podcast

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<v Speaker 2>without acknowledging and just you know, being there for our

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<v Speaker 2>Jewish community and saying that we stand with you and

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<v Speaker 2>we are praying and praying for love and praying for peace.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Rent, an iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 2>Scrub a dub dub.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing if you're doing, Yeah, I'm doing. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>it's a long week.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a long week.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel like I hadn't seen you in a

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<v Speaker 2>very long time, although I just saw you a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of days ago.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Saturday, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Like not very long. I saw you for like ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>It was short because I had told you I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be there too. You came strolling around three thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>I waited for you, which I did. Yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>leave because I was done for a while. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's cute. I know I'm a good friend,

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<v Speaker 1>even though you try to make me out to look

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't care. Sometimes, Okay, that is not what

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<v Speaker 1>I do sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, sometimes that's just the difference in our personalities.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I definitely I show up when I need to

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<v Speaker 1>show up, That's true. And I waited for you, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like for that to being knowledge you.

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<v Speaker 2>We're waiting for me, beca.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, You're welcome, Thank you so much you

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<v Speaker 1>went to you just were like hanging out with Selena

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff this weekend or what.

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<v Speaker 2>I had something every single night this week.

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<v Speaker 1>So for you.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I realized that I think I'm an introverted extrovert

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<v Speaker 2>because I like being around people, but I also need

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<v Speaker 2>some recharge alone time and the humans. Is it an

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<v Speaker 2>interesting stat I used.

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<v Speaker 1>To think that I was like pretty unique in my

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<v Speaker 1>like I love to be around people, but I need

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<v Speaker 1>to recharge. I thought I was so cool and like special,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I realized, I think that's how majority of

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<v Speaker 1>people feel.

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<v Speaker 3>We're all introverted extroverts or extroverted introverts. We're all a combination.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I had to discovery this week because mama is, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>she needs she needs to plug in.

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<v Speaker 1>You think it's happened with age maybe maybe yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, was it an industry event every night?

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<v Speaker 2>Industry? No, industry and personal?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know it's a combo, but the industry. The

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<v Speaker 2>event that I did go to was the uh so

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<v Speaker 2>it was supposed to be. It was initially a gala

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<v Speaker 2>and then I saw everybody saying that it was the

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<v Speaker 2>first Rare Impact Fund benefit. So I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>the difference between a benefit of gala is, but the

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<v Speaker 2>verbiage definitely changed earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>You called it a gala, so kala gala.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was gala and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a gala, and then you just said gallas, So

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<v Speaker 1>which is it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's I think it's like tomato tomato. There's

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<v Speaker 2>not really a right or wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Gala.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, galla, all right, it's gala apple, I don't know whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was the Rare Impact Fund benefit, So that's

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<v Speaker 2>what kind of kicked off the week, the festivities, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was actually really cool. I was expecting it to

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<v Speaker 2>be very kind of you know, gala galas are little stuffy,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like rubber chicken in a ballroom, and this

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<v Speaker 2>one was very opposite. It was very lively. They were

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<v Speaker 2>like doing inscriptions in some of the rare beauty products,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I it did my new initials on one

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<v Speaker 2>of them.

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<v Speaker 1>What are your new initials? T r y Try Tanya radyad? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>How on brand? Is the word try?

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<v Speaker 1>For me?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow? It's so hopeful.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so hopeful. It's mirror ball coded. What mirror ball?

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift Oh the song?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, crazy Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, where's she going with this?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously we speak in swifty language here exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>But Taylor Lanner was there, and I just love Taylor Loner.

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<v Speaker 2>I do two you so sweet. He gave Robby the

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<v Speaker 2>biggest hug and congratulated us on our engagement. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you are just the sweetest man. And his wife. I

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<v Speaker 2>love also Tay Taylor Loner.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, she's Tay, he's Taylor. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we're in the you know how, like I've

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<v Speaker 2>always wanted. I feel like you always you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>made it in life when you can bid at like

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<v Speaker 2>a silent auction at those gayla A Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I know I'm gonna know that I've

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<v Speaker 2>made it when I can like bid, because the bidding

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<v Speaker 2>always starts at five thousand dollars, Like, who's been betting

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<v Speaker 2>five thousand dollars on anything?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you bid?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't. Oh, so I'm not there yet for our

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<v Speaker 2>future galagala, I will be there. But somebody been fifteen

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars for Taylor Swift tickets?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>What city?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it said? I think don't quote me because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I don't have a photographic memory, but I

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<v Speaker 2>believe it was kind of your choice two tickets to

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<v Speaker 2>any Taylor Swift showed.

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<v Speaker 1>Your choice fifteen k fifteen row.

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<v Speaker 2>At least didn't say front ROWLD imagine. I imagine it's

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<v Speaker 2>probably like some sort of hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it would, I would hope.

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<v Speaker 2>So there was one. There was one Auctionie though that

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<v Speaker 2>it was like a glam day with Selena's like hair,

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<v Speaker 2>makeup and stylist, and I was like, this could be

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<v Speaker 2>good for the watering. Had that thought go through my

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<v Speaker 2>head and then I was like should that go for

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I don't remember, but it was up there.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like for the fifteen Okay, here's my thing.

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<v Speaker 1>If you could throw away fifteen k would you do

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<v Speaker 1>that for Taylor Swift tickets? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>You can throw away what you could throw away?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, I'm not okay, not throw away, but like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not gonna hurt you, but you could use that

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<v Speaker 1>for something else.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the thing is it goes to charity. I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but that's the big that's the big thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like it's for charity.

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<v Speaker 3>Mark says, No, I could never ever spend I don't

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<v Speaker 3>care if I was a billionaire. I couldn't spend fifteen

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<v Speaker 3>thousand dollars on one night.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if it was for charity.

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<v Speaker 1>No, yes you could, Okay easton a meet and greet

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<v Speaker 1>with the whole Avengers cat. Well, he's like I'll do

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<v Speaker 1>in character character in CA.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would do that. I would.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you.

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<v Speaker 1>If I was guaranteed like a front row experience? And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, maybe he's gonna s been a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm teetered back and forth on a very pricey ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>The last night of her show in La everyone from

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<v Speaker 1>near fifteen thousand by was it fifty thousand for two?

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<v Speaker 1>So like seventy five hundred per each two Yeah, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so a steal really one hundred.

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<v Speaker 3>I was looking through next years, like seeing her in Milan,

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<v Speaker 3>Italy could be pretty amazing, I know, and maybe if

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<v Speaker 3>I could introduce her to my kids afterwards. Now we're talking.

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<v Speaker 1>See that's if there's some sort of meeting great edition,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah yeah maybe yeah, but if it's like a mid

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<v Speaker 1>range level, right, like.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know what kind of ticket you're getting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know about that, and it has to be.

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<v Speaker 2>The show of your choice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I would definitely go overseas. How cool

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<v Speaker 1>would it be to see her in another country? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be really cool. You seem to have Did you

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<v Speaker 1>have any hangovers over your weekend? I mean your week of.

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<v Speaker 2>How was your week before we dive into the weekend,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a week weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>What did I had to look back up? I was talking.

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<v Speaker 2>You were pretty busy too, was I? Yeah, you were

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<v Speaker 2>out in a boat in a boot out in a boat.

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<v Speaker 1>What did I do though? Because I don't remember, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really have any I don't think I did much

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think I had a pretty chill week, which

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<v Speaker 1>I needed because the last week was wild I did do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have another. I have a campaign with Taco

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<v Speaker 1>Bell which I'm so excited about and so Ali and

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<v Speaker 1>I yeah it's my second one. Wow, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I love them and I so Ali and I filmed

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<v Speaker 1>the video where she ate like, tried all my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>Taco Bell items with me. That was really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>That's your number one favorite Taco Bell item.

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<v Speaker 1>God, it's so hard, Like I just go back and

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<v Speaker 1>forth on like what what it is? Because I love

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<v Speaker 1>the crunch Trap Supreme, I love a Mexican pizza. I

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<v Speaker 1>love the new rolled chicken tacos. Those are insane. It

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<v Speaker 1>was so good, and Ali would really loved everything. I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, well, I don't know. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well I didn't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually.

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<v Speaker 2>I like a bean and cheese bruto. You can't go wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>and you get a little chip in there. Dip the

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<v Speaker 2>chip in there with a little sacho.

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<v Speaker 1>Cheese, the chip in the beans.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that was my drunken move always that I would

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<v Speaker 2>split it up, spit. I'd split it open with a

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<v Speaker 2>knife and I would just chip the dips in there,

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<v Speaker 2>dip the chips in there and just go to town.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA, Sometimes I wish I got to hang out with

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<v Speaker 1>that Tonya.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you could have hung out there on Friday things

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<v Speaker 2>got for wild.

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<v Speaker 1>You hate Taco Bell?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't Taco Bell, but I definitely ate a mozzarella

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<v Speaker 2>fried cheese dak.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that sounds so great.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait till you hear from where the Bungalow.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, honestly, the Bungalow has some incredible memories for me

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, that's where Haley came to meet up

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<v Speaker 1>with us. This the night that we kissed. Is it really?

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<v Speaker 1>She drove from Hollywood, which, like knowing her now, after rehearsal,

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<v Speaker 1>she went home and changed drove all the way from

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<v Speaker 1>Hollywood to Santa Monica to the Bungalow. We were wasted.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like one am. She shows up. She comes

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<v Speaker 1>and sits down with our group, and Taylor Banks is

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<v Speaker 1>next to me, and then Brittany's on the other side

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<v Speaker 1>of me, and Hailey's kind of like squatted down and

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<v Speaker 1>she's holding my hand behind Brittany's back, Like Haley and

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<v Speaker 1>I are holding hands on my Brittany's back.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not know.

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<v Speaker 1>I lean over to Taylor and I'm like, we're holding

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<v Speaker 1>I remember this story. And then she drove us back

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<v Speaker 1>to Brittany's place and that's where that's when we kissed. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, so Bungalow has great memories, but it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a minute since I've been there. Yeah, did you feel old?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I've never feel older in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>And the best part is that was our third stop

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<v Speaker 2>of the night. No wait on one shooth fourth our fourth

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<v Speaker 2>stop of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, for those of you who don't know the Bungalow is,

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<v Speaker 1>it's attached to a hotel in Santa Monica, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>very like young college people that go there typically. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like Freddy. It's so fun though, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like ping pong table door indoor.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of got like a vibe that you're in

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<v Speaker 2>the living room house beach. Recently, that one's very different vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Thought more chic or was it the same?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's a lot more space.

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<v Speaker 2>What I will say is it's very jam packed. The

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<v Speaker 2>one in Santa Monica. Yeah, close corners, corners.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you hit an age going to these places

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<v Speaker 1>where you suddenly feel like I've.

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<v Speaker 2>Out done Yeah, I definitely felt that. But we came

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<v Speaker 2>from the from Shore Bar, which was which is even

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<v Speaker 2>younger if you can imagine. Yeah, we romped around town

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<v Speaker 2>on Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah exact.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's like a college with doing these activities. Everybody,

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<v Speaker 2>everybody Selena no no, no, I was with so is

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<v Speaker 2>Robbie's mom's birthday. So we like started out at dinner

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<v Speaker 2>and then just like went from there. We just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like party hopped. Paulina was involved. She can go.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like energizer bunny.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like twenty one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, twenty eight.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh she's twenty eight. Yeah, I literally thought she was

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty four.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no elder.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. Yeah, that's for great, great skin, great sunny. Truly,

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<v Speaker 1>she's one of the most beautiful humans ever.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so we stayed out until I want to say,

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<v Speaker 2>three forty five in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I went hip.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I went to bed at four am, and

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<v Speaker 2>my body is just used to waking up early, So

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<v Speaker 2>I was up at like seven forty five and was

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<v Speaker 2>just feeling immense pain.

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<v Speaker 1>When you drink like that, Like my body wakes up

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<v Speaker 1>out of just like it's almost like I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>make you pay for what you've done to me, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, and it's interesting because I never feel good after

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<v Speaker 2>I drink, and yet I continue to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that it's so fun in the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Does the fun outweigh the pain? I say no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't try to act like you're not drinking anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe there are other substances I can do. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 2>like that, we need Yeah, like marijuana.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, No, I gotta say, like it's gotten to where

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really drink, and then I'll take an If

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, I don't want to drink, but I

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<v Speaker 1>want to feel social and like relax, I'll take an

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<v Speaker 1>edible no hangover. I might snack a little more than normal.

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<v Speaker 2>But see, that's what everybody tells me. So so well,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not a pot girly. I've never actually smoked pot.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've taken one edible in my life, and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it was like a quarter of a quarter of

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<v Speaker 2>a quarter.

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<v Speaker 1>Nibble.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even think it would like affect an ant.

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<v Speaker 2>But everybody keeps telling me to try edibles, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think I need to give it a whirl.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you could just do nothing like I just

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<v Speaker 3>speaking as a guy who does nothing. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>cool doing nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>So when you go out on the town on like

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<v Speaker 2>a Friday night, everybody's enjoying a nice glass of some martina.

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<v Speaker 3>Week before last, Amy and I went out because a

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<v Speaker 3>friend of ours was singing with a band, so we

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<v Speaker 3>went to watch her and supporter sing with a band.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it a bar in Thousand Oaks? Is there a question?

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<v Speaker 2>Or yeah? So okay? So you're partaking in lively activities

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<v Speaker 2>on a Friday night. You know, how do you kick

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<v Speaker 2>back and relax?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't kick back. I'm always kicked either. Either I

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<v Speaker 3>never kick back and relax or I'm always kicked back

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<v Speaker 3>and relax because I just drink water. That's all I

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<v Speaker 3>ever drink. I drink water. I got a sandwich. It

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<v Speaker 3>was delicious. I enjoyed the band. I was singing long

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<v Speaker 3>dancing with my wife. What a great time.

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<v Speaker 2>I see, I need a glass of something.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't. I don't think you do. I think need

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<v Speaker 3>is the wrong word in that sentence. You think you do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's interesting perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a suggestion. What if you got some sparkling

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<v Speaker 1>water and put some wine in there, and you have

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<v Speaker 1>the glass and you danced and did all your things.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think maybe placebo you'd feel like.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's really interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know. It's like, it's not it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's all an interesting experiment.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you know, I'm asking you to do a social experiment.

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<v Speaker 2>I try I'll try it this weekend or like an.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't know about it. If you know about it,

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<v Speaker 3>then it's not going to work. It's like somebody has

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<v Speaker 3>to surreptitiously trade out your drink for something not alcoholic.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. Actually, what's so interesting so that.

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<v Speaker 2>That reminds me of this experiment that they did and

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<v Speaker 2>I just learned about it this weekend because I need

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<v Speaker 2>to get into the y. But they did this experiment

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<v Speaker 2>where they put all these people they like drew on

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<v Speaker 2>their faces, whether it was like a big big like

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<v Speaker 2>fatty like mole or zi or something that was just

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<v Speaker 2>like big, it was like a crater on their face.

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<v Speaker 2>And they wanted the Social Experiments to have them walk

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<v Speaker 2>down the street and just report back on how people

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<v Speaker 2>were like looking at them or how they felt walking

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<v Speaker 2>down the street with like a giant like pimple basically

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<v Speaker 2>on their on their face. So as the people, so

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<v Speaker 2>they put this grotesque, like with all the whatever it's called. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and then do a touch up before they walk out

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<v Speaker 2>the door, and they scrape it all off so there's

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<v Speaker 2>nothing there and they send them on their way. And

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<v Speaker 2>the people came back and we're like, people were staring

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<v Speaker 2>at me, people were giving me weird looks. I felt

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<v Speaker 2>so uncomfortable. And it's all this social experiment about how

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<v Speaker 2>we are so obsessed about like, you know, these little

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<v Speaker 2>blemishes or these little things on our faces, and like

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<v Speaker 2>we think that everyone's gonna stare and judge and comment

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<v Speaker 2>when nobody else sees it. But but you.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, right, Yes, that is a very interesting thing. Mm hm,

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<v Speaker 1>Because then I do feel like there would be people

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<v Speaker 1>who would be like, no, like people stare like it's

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<v Speaker 1>I do deal with people staring, you know that do

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<v Speaker 1>have like I think that there would be people who have.

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<v Speaker 2>And for sure, But I think that the moral of

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<v Speaker 2>the experiment was that, like we are, we create all

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<v Speaker 2>these narratives in our head that are not necessarily there.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so true. So don't really know how that goes

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<v Speaker 2>back to the alcohol thing, but it made me think of.

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<v Speaker 3>That that is interesting. But it's all a social experiment, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be down to try the mocktail approach this weekend

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<v Speaker 2>and see if it. Like there's just something about alcohol

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<v Speaker 2>that makes me feel like I'm off duty.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, there's one that I like called the Ocho

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<v Speaker 4>Cinco and Chatta Jaesinka. The football player doesn't drink and

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<v Speaker 4>he would he would do a red bull and cranberry

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<v Speaker 4>juice with lime in it.

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<v Speaker 3>And that the red.

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<v Speaker 4>Bull, I mean, that gets me going. My head turns

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<v Speaker 4>into a giant whistle. I'm rending circles around the place.

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<v Speaker 4>That does the trick for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, Yeah, I mean it's worth a shot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I went to dinner and at the very end, they

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<v Speaker 1>brought out the chicken, right, and you know how I

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<v Speaker 1>am about chicken. It's so freaky end well, she means

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<v Speaker 1>like like a shared place, a shared plate situation. So

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<v Speaker 1>they just like bring out things as they were ready.

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<v Speaker 1>And the last thing was that it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>chicken and like a little skillet situation. And it looked appetizing,

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<v Speaker 1>which I don't. You know, I'm pretty finicky about my chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that sounds cozy. I bite into it so

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<v Speaker 1>slimy immediately it was like absolutely not get it away.

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<v Speaker 1>From me. At the end, my friend is eating and

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<v Speaker 1>she goes she spits her chicken out and she goes,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>That's raw.

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<v Speaker 1>And we looked out it is fully pink. Oh mine wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>The bite I got wasn't. But I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not eating it. I'm not. I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so freaky. What's the point. Yeah, you know, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm off chicken again.

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<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>It sort lived, But what I do love is what

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<v Speaker 1>it was short lived. The bravery was very short lived.

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<v Speaker 1>But one thing I do love is my whole TikTok

0:19:44.359 --> 0:19:47.359
<v Speaker 1>is filled with people eating chicken fingers like dipped and ranch.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks so good and they eat it so bravely.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no fear of getting like a freaky deey piece.

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<v Speaker 2>They just go eating chicken. For thirty six years of

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<v Speaker 2>my life and I've never had a freaky diky piece.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because all are people who probably clear the bone

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<v Speaker 1>and don't consider the cartilage you're eating through.

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<v Speaker 3>I've had some.

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<v Speaker 4>Freaky mc nuggets in my chick, you know, but I

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<v Speaker 4>keep going back.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, same, Okay, Well, good for you, congrats, because

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<v Speaker 1>great protein great. It never tastes like wet dog. No,

0:20:21.880 --> 0:20:24.359
<v Speaker 1>I never ever tastes like what dog, never get a

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<v Speaker 1>weird chewy piece. So you have to kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>no and no.

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<v Speaker 2>But there I have. I've had some stinky chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that whole phrase. I've had some chicken.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's the story my daughter has. You know, we've talked

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<v Speaker 3>about this before that she deals with some anxiety and

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<v Speaker 3>that's gotten way better. But the point is, one night,

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<v Speaker 3>my wife was out of town with my other dogs,

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<v Speaker 3>just the two of us, and we got Trader Shoe's

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<v Speaker 3>chicken parmesan and so I was enjoying that. It was

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<v Speaker 3>two pieces. I gave her one. I took one. I

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<v Speaker 3>was enjoying, and she's like, it's kind of weird. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>like that mine's fine, but if you don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>donate it, it's okay. It's kind of weird. And I'm like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, then don't need it. If you don't to

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<v Speaker 3>eat it. Then she didn't like half fun. She goes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to eat the same. I'm like, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>now I'm gonna finish hers. And I took it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it was not good. It was like crunchy and weird.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, this is weird. So then, but then I

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<v Speaker 3>had a decision to make as a dad, and I

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<v Speaker 3>ate the rest of it. And I'll tell you why,

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<v Speaker 3>because at bedtime tonight, her anxiety is going to kick

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<v Speaker 3>in and she's gonna think, oh my gosh, did I

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<v Speaker 3>eat bad meat? Am I going to throw up? So

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<v Speaker 3>I ate the rest of that so that I could

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<v Speaker 3>say to her, I ate it too, and I feel fine,

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<v Speaker 3>You're going to be fine. And it worked sure enough.

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<v Speaker 3>Bedtimes she's like, Dad, do you think I'm gonna throw up?

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<v Speaker 3>You think that meat was bad? I'm like, I don't know, hun,

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<v Speaker 3>but I ate everything. You wait just to be safe,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm okay. I think my stomach is a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>It's in your head because I ate it and I'm fine.

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<v Speaker 3>And that is the sacrifice we make as a father,

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<v Speaker 3>bad bad meat, just to make sure your daughter is

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<v Speaker 3>going to be okay. Did you say good night?

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<v Speaker 4>Turn and then hold your mouth projectile?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I really did feel fine, but I didn't feel fine.

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<v Speaker 3>We'd be together.

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<v Speaker 1>That's very sacrificial. I don't know that I could do

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<v Speaker 1>the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I definitely didn't do the same. Once we got

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<v Speaker 2>some raw chicken tenders out when we're skiing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was literally not right now? Actually see that. Robbie

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<v Speaker 1>posted a picture of it.

0:22:17.400 --> 0:22:19.960
<v Speaker 2>Robbie posted a picture of it on Instagram. Is yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a visual.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're going to take a break and we'll be

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Okay, I had to cleanse my palate from

0:22:42.880 --> 0:22:46.200
<v Speaker 1>that previous conversation. Should have had a trigger warning on there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sorry, we're all the.

0:22:48.280 --> 0:22:52.840
<v Speaker 1>Chicken freaky chicken dog. Did you watch Love Is Blind?

0:22:52.840 --> 0:22:54.080
<v Speaker 1>Has anyone watched Love Is Blind?

0:22:54.440 --> 0:22:57.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm deep in this season spoiler alert.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so irritated that there's only two couples that were like, yeah, hoping.

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<v Speaker 2>For It's a bad season and the two couples kind

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<v Speaker 2>of suck.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I don't hate I don't really not.

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<v Speaker 2>Like uh Lydia and Milton.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really hate either of them. Like I'm not like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh about any I'm just kind of like, eh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not like I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Either of them, but I'm not invested, like I'm like Izzy,

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<v Speaker 2>like Izzy, Yeah, what's the girl's name? He's with Stacy?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Is that right? And Stacy? Yeah? I think they

0:23:31.119 --> 0:23:34.040
<v Speaker 1>go together. Yes, they make sense to me. Yeah, they do,

0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:40.639
<v Speaker 1>and then I feel like Milton, yeah, is very into Lydia,

0:23:41.600 --> 0:23:43.800
<v Speaker 1>but I think she's a lot for him, and I.

0:23:43.760 --> 0:23:45.920
<v Speaker 2>Think she went on the show to get back together

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<v Speaker 2>with her ex boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Ouch.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so in that conspiracy theory and.

0:23:52.080 --> 0:23:57.240
<v Speaker 1>The whole thing. I just was like, this is a disaster.

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<v Speaker 2>And actually posted something on his Instagram saying you're only

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<v Speaker 2>getting one side of the story. Wait till like, yeah, yeah,

0:24:04.880 --> 0:24:07.040
<v Speaker 2>they all bugged me at that dinner where they all

0:24:07.080 --> 0:24:07.600
<v Speaker 2>came back.

0:24:07.680 --> 0:24:09.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is just a recipe for disaster.

0:24:10.200 --> 0:24:11.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this season does feel.

0:24:11.680 --> 0:24:14.120
<v Speaker 1>Was like, oh my gosh, this season's crazy. It's amazing,

0:24:14.119 --> 0:24:16.040
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, I don't like it.

0:24:16.280 --> 0:24:19.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh really, Yeah, I don't like I like to like

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<v Speaker 2>root for people.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't love the drama. That's why I love The

0:24:22.600 --> 0:24:29.159
<v Speaker 1>Golden Bachelor. It is so amazing. Yeah, they really have

0:24:29.400 --> 0:24:32.119
<v Speaker 1>cast the perfect man to be the first Golden Bachelor. No.

0:24:32.200 --> 0:24:34.840
<v Speaker 2>I came around on The Golden Bachelor and yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're just we just got to the point where

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna watch it.

0:24:39.480 --> 0:24:45.960
<v Speaker 2>Watch no again. It was very busy adventure and I

0:24:46.000 --> 0:24:47.600
<v Speaker 2>watched the David Beckham documentary.

0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I was just talking to Tawny about this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I did that. But I am going to

0:24:52.880 --> 0:24:55.640
<v Speaker 2>watch The Golden Bachelor because it feels like hopeful and

0:24:56.240 --> 0:24:57.600
<v Speaker 2>it's yeah best.

0:24:57.800 --> 0:25:02.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love it. It's so emotional. He's precious. Okay,

0:25:02.200 --> 0:25:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I think we should take a break and then come

0:25:04.000 --> 0:25:04.960
<v Speaker 1>back with some emails.

0:25:25.080 --> 0:25:27.040
<v Speaker 3>I could just take it if you want. No one

0:25:27.080 --> 0:25:27.560
<v Speaker 3>else is going.

0:25:27.680 --> 0:25:30.120
<v Speaker 1>It was like blocked down. I don't even know what happened. Mark,

0:25:31.240 --> 0:25:33.919
<v Speaker 1>you were just in another world even look, I was

0:25:33.960 --> 0:25:36.280
<v Speaker 1>just looking straight at the paper.

0:25:37.440 --> 0:25:39.800
<v Speaker 3>Laura is a newer listener, said I'm a huge fan

0:25:39.840 --> 0:25:42.840
<v Speaker 3>of Haley, so I started listening after her and Becca's

0:25:42.880 --> 0:25:45.359
<v Speaker 3>relationship became public, and now I'm a bigger fan of

0:25:45.400 --> 0:25:45.840
<v Speaker 3>you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Hot take that Hailey. Wow Hailey.

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:51.960
<v Speaker 3>First of all, a bit overdue, but so happy for

0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:54.760
<v Speaker 3>Becca and Haley and their relationship launch. And huge congrats

0:25:54.800 --> 0:25:58.359
<v Speaker 3>to Tanya on her engagement. So Laura binges this entire

0:25:58.400 --> 0:26:01.000
<v Speaker 3>podcast over the past six months, and she was hoping

0:26:01.040 --> 0:26:03.880
<v Speaker 3>for some plot twists that could be answered. Number one.

0:26:04.200 --> 0:26:06.840
<v Speaker 3>In twenty nineteen, Timey visited a psychic and was given

0:26:06.880 --> 0:26:08.520
<v Speaker 3>two initials of a man she would meet in the

0:26:08.520 --> 0:26:10.399
<v Speaker 3>month of May. What were those initials?

0:26:12.119 --> 0:26:14.560
<v Speaker 2>They were not Robbie's, okay, yeah.

0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:16.400
<v Speaker 3>And you can't say what they were you don't remember.

0:26:18.240 --> 0:26:19.600
<v Speaker 2>I do?

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<v Speaker 1>I think? Wait, I feel like it's not Robbie's. Definitely

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:31.040
<v Speaker 1>not Robby's, right.

0:26:33.200 --> 0:26:35.680
<v Speaker 3>Did you write them down? Are you going through your notes?

0:26:35.760 --> 0:26:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to see if I have it enough? Did you?

0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:43.120
<v Speaker 1>I was trying to look them down to see so.

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:45.240
<v Speaker 3>We know where they aren't Robbies, but what they were

0:26:45.240 --> 0:26:47.080
<v Speaker 3>would be kind of interesting withdn't they Okay?

0:26:47.119 --> 0:26:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Do you know what they are?

0:26:48.200 --> 0:26:48.440
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:26:48.680 --> 0:26:49.679
<v Speaker 1>C H?

0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:50.960
<v Speaker 2>Where did you write those?

0:26:51.160 --> 0:26:53.639
<v Speaker 1>I just typed in initials on my text thread and

0:26:53.680 --> 0:26:55.440
<v Speaker 1>it popped up. Yeah, came back.

0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:58.159
<v Speaker 3>In a smart, smart sleuthing over there. Do you know

0:26:58.200 --> 0:27:03.600
<v Speaker 3>anyone named c H? Chris Harrison's Collett Hubert works for

0:27:03.640 --> 0:27:13.160
<v Speaker 3>our morning show. No, no, it is.

0:27:13.600 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 2>He's like married guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Come on, come on, that's true?

0:27:19.800 --> 0:27:20.960
<v Speaker 1>Is he? That wasn't he engaged?

0:27:21.080 --> 0:27:23.720
<v Speaker 2>He's married but like multiple children and he's married with

0:27:23.800 --> 0:27:26.640
<v Speaker 2>Liam is the one that but he's not LH.

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<v Speaker 3>Number two. In the podcast Back Ahead with Jojo, she

0:27:29.720 --> 0:27:31.719
<v Speaker 3>mentioned going a date with a known man at the

0:27:31.720 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 3>time she met Haley. Is there any chance you could

0:27:33.840 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 3>reveal the known man you were on a date with.

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:42.760
<v Speaker 1>No, what I just revealed? Line? Yeah, the yous didn't

0:27:42.760 --> 0:27:55.080
<v Speaker 1>reveal anything. No, it's way too obvious, Chris, I remember. Yeah,

0:27:56.040 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 1>I'll give you the starting letter of the first name.

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<v Speaker 3>Intriguing.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, do what you want with that?

0:28:02.280 --> 0:28:02.679
<v Speaker 3>All right?

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:07.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it was it was like, it's almost laughable

0:28:07.720 --> 0:28:09.040
<v Speaker 1>to even call it a date.

0:28:10.359 --> 0:28:12.160
<v Speaker 3>But then why not say it if it's if it

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:12.920
<v Speaker 3>was just a hangout?

0:28:13.000 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 1>He's famous and I like, you know, I don't know.

0:28:15.960 --> 0:28:18.800
<v Speaker 1>He was very private, So yeah, you.

0:28:18.800 --> 0:28:19.920
<v Speaker 2>Should say a show.

0:28:20.320 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 1>No, that will absolutely get it.

0:28:22.600 --> 0:28:25.560
<v Speaker 2>On a show, a different one, they will all obviously.

0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:25.680
<v Speaker 3>Give it away.

0:28:25.760 --> 0:28:32.560
<v Speaker 4>We've narrowed it down now, guy, with a show, everybody.

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:36.720
<v Speaker 1>Sorts of them. Anyways, it was crazy and fun and

0:28:37.640 --> 0:28:38.880
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't believe it happened.

0:28:39.760 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 3>I'll just do one guess. Was it Michael Jordan, the

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:51.920
<v Speaker 3>greatest basketball player of all time? No, that's not bad, actually.

0:28:51.560 --> 0:28:52.440
<v Speaker 1>Good guess?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right. Brittany says she's been with her boyfriend

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:01.120
<v Speaker 3>for two years and and they went really fast. They

0:29:01.160 --> 0:29:04.800
<v Speaker 3>got they moved in very quickly. He moved cities, moving

0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:06.600
<v Speaker 3>in with me at six months about a house together.

0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:08.520
<v Speaker 3>We've been trying for a baby for over a year now,

0:29:08.520 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 3>but they're not married. But all this has been going on,

0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 3>he'sn't bringing up combining bank accounts. It's this is an

0:29:15.200 --> 0:29:18.200
<v Speaker 3>interesting dilemma because she says, I'm much more financially responsible

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:21.280
<v Speaker 3>and I have virtually no debt, but he makes twice

0:29:21.320 --> 0:29:24.560
<v Speaker 3>what I do. He has debt, car payment, credit card payment,

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:28.320
<v Speaker 3>line of credit, and our agreement is he pays the

0:29:28.360 --> 0:29:31.480
<v Speaker 3>mortgage payment because I paid the down payment. I paid

0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 3>the utility bills, and then we have separate bills and

0:29:34.360 --> 0:29:37.200
<v Speaker 3>debts and whatnot. Anyway, I'm a little concerned that if

0:29:37.200 --> 0:29:38.960
<v Speaker 3>we put our money together it's going to be a

0:29:38.960 --> 0:29:41.400
<v Speaker 3>problem because he always ends up in the negative every month,

0:29:41.400 --> 0:29:43.760
<v Speaker 3>where I always contribute to my savings account every month

0:29:43.920 --> 0:29:46.360
<v Speaker 3>and he makes double what I do. He thinks by

0:29:46.360 --> 0:29:48.320
<v Speaker 3>sharing account, we'll and it further ahead, but I'm afraid

0:29:48.320 --> 0:29:49.840
<v Speaker 3>he will suck us dry. How and when do you

0:29:49.880 --> 0:29:51.200
<v Speaker 3>know if it's time to share finances?

0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:54.600
<v Speaker 2>Damn that is you know. It's such an interesting question

0:29:54.840 --> 0:29:57.480
<v Speaker 2>that I find so fascinating because I've been asking a

0:29:57.520 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 2>lot of married people how they do with their finances

0:30:00.760 --> 0:30:06.560
<v Speaker 2>because I'm obviously engaged, and I've seen everything from like

0:30:07.040 --> 0:30:11.680
<v Speaker 2>married couples venmowing each other for the utilities, splitting stuff

0:30:11.840 --> 0:30:16.280
<v Speaker 2>completely down the middle. Some people combine, some people don't

0:30:16.320 --> 0:30:19.280
<v Speaker 2>combine but have different responsibilities, like I'll take care of

0:30:19.320 --> 0:30:21.360
<v Speaker 2>the kids this, and you take care of the kids this.

0:30:22.720 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 3>What that al strikes me. It's so odd and only

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:26.760
<v Speaker 3>odd because it's foreign to me.

0:30:26.880 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the venmowing is wild too.

0:30:28.400 --> 0:30:30.280
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and the splitting, like you take care of this bill,

0:30:30.320 --> 0:30:31.960
<v Speaker 3>I'll pay for the kids soccer, you do this. And

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:33.680
<v Speaker 3>now that's all very strange to me because we just

0:30:33.680 --> 0:30:35.880
<v Speaker 3>compiled everything from day one. So it's all very foreign

0:30:35.880 --> 0:30:38.360
<v Speaker 3>to me. I'm not saying it's bad to each their own,

0:30:38.400 --> 0:30:39.959
<v Speaker 3>but it's very foreign to me, and it's hard for

0:30:39.960 --> 0:30:40.640
<v Speaker 3>me to understand.

0:30:40.760 --> 0:30:42.040
<v Speaker 1>What are you saying? The separation?

0:30:42.240 --> 0:30:42.840
<v Speaker 3>The separation?

0:30:43.000 --> 0:30:46.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like you so that's how it works. Is that

0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:48.560
<v Speaker 2>how it works in your marriages? You both just it's

0:30:48.600 --> 0:30:52.440
<v Speaker 2>all just one big pot and that you just yeah.

0:30:51.920 --> 0:30:53.960
<v Speaker 4>I mean, because the way I look at it is

0:30:54.120 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 4>I make more than Alison does, but she works on

0:30:58.200 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 4>this job whether or not her name is on it.

0:31:00.680 --> 0:31:03.680
<v Speaker 4>You know, Like I'm always like complaining about work and

0:31:03.680 --> 0:31:06.400
<v Speaker 4>stuff like that. So she's she's contributing that way.

0:31:07.040 --> 0:31:08.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a therapist. Yeah.

0:31:08.360 --> 0:31:10.880
<v Speaker 2>It's interesting because like the older you get and like

0:31:10.960 --> 0:31:15.400
<v Speaker 2>when there's you know, kids involved kids prior to your

0:31:15.680 --> 0:31:18.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, your marriage, there's there's a lot of nuance

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:20.080
<v Speaker 2>to it. And so I've just been I've been asking

0:31:20.120 --> 0:31:22.960
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people how they deal with their finances,

0:31:22.960 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 2>and I think the thing that I realized through all

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:28.640
<v Speaker 2>my research is that there really isn't a wrong way

0:31:28.680 --> 0:31:31.240
<v Speaker 2>to do it. You know, like I know so many

0:31:31.320 --> 0:31:33.840
<v Speaker 2>different couples that do it in so many different ways.

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:35.760
<v Speaker 2>And so it's whatever is comfortable to you. If you

0:31:35.800 --> 0:31:39.920
<v Speaker 2>want to be contributing to your savings account and your

0:31:39.960 --> 0:31:43.320
<v Speaker 2>partner is not great with money and not good with budgeting,

0:31:43.840 --> 0:31:46.360
<v Speaker 2>that's your gut instinct. I would go with your gut instinct.

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:48.560
<v Speaker 3>One thing we did do before we got married is

0:31:48.600 --> 0:31:50.600
<v Speaker 3>I made an effort to get my wife out of debt.

0:31:50.680 --> 0:31:51.959
<v Speaker 3>She had a lot of credit card debt when we

0:31:51.960 --> 0:31:54.479
<v Speaker 3>were dating, So I just I took care of that

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:57.200
<v Speaker 3>so that when we got married we could start fresh. Yeah,

0:31:57.240 --> 0:31:58.960
<v Speaker 3>that's what I wanted to do. I think, maybe you

0:31:59.040 --> 0:32:00.880
<v Speaker 3>tell this guy I'm happy to do that, but you

0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:03.400
<v Speaker 3>got to clear out the debt you're dealing with, at

0:32:03.480 --> 0:32:05.320
<v Speaker 3>least your credit card debt, because that can be really

0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:07.480
<v Speaker 3>a struggle. If you can get rid of that. Okay,

0:32:07.480 --> 0:32:08.800
<v Speaker 3>he's got a car payment, but get rid of the

0:32:08.800 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 3>credit card debt and then may able to talk about it.

0:32:10.360 --> 0:32:12.240
<v Speaker 3>And honestly, I think you should get married first.

0:32:12.480 --> 0:32:15.360
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, I won't even think about combining

0:32:15.400 --> 0:32:18.240
<v Speaker 1>anything with someone who is just a boyfriend or girlfriend.

0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:20.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I feel like she thinks that they're on

0:32:20.560 --> 0:32:23.360
<v Speaker 2>their way, so she wouldn't be asking that, right because like,

0:32:23.400 --> 0:32:24.880
<v Speaker 2>these are the conversations that we're having now.

0:32:24.960 --> 0:32:27.360
<v Speaker 1>No, but I think it's worth a conversation of like, hey,

0:32:27.440 --> 0:32:30.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm totally down to like have a joint account that

0:32:30.680 --> 0:32:34.280
<v Speaker 1>we both put into it. But I I would feel

0:32:34.280 --> 0:32:36.280
<v Speaker 1>more comfortable if you had cleared if you cleared your

0:32:36.280 --> 0:32:38.880
<v Speaker 1>debt before we even took that step. Yeah, I think

0:32:38.920 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 1>that's totally fair. I don't think there should be any

0:32:40.880 --> 0:32:44.560
<v Speaker 1>pressure for her to merge their finances as boyfriend and girlfriend.

0:32:46.200 --> 0:32:48.479
<v Speaker 3>And also I think it works best if one of

0:32:48.480 --> 0:32:50.440
<v Speaker 3>you handles the finances.

0:32:51.200 --> 0:32:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Is that weird, I mean, it's so my relationships so

0:32:56.080 --> 0:32:59.280
<v Speaker 1>different because I, you know, we're both and like we're

0:32:59.280 --> 0:33:01.680
<v Speaker 1>both like have our our own thing. We're very separate

0:33:01.680 --> 0:33:04.000
<v Speaker 1>in sense of finances. But like I like, if if

0:33:04.000 --> 0:33:05.840
<v Speaker 1>we go to dinner, one of us will pay and

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<v Speaker 1>it's never a thought again.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, And that seems like there's a Stree store too,

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<v Speaker 2>like sometimes he goes sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we just very much split costs. But like we

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<v Speaker 1>each have our own home, so we obviously pay for that,

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<v Speaker 1>all the utilities whatever. But yeah, it'd be obviously there

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<v Speaker 1>will be a different conversation when we live fully together.

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<v Speaker 1>But I I don't even know. We both have our

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<v Speaker 1>own things.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think it's just easier if one person can

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<v Speaker 3>do all that stuff. And it sounds like it should

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<v Speaker 3>be her, It should not be him. She should be handled.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she definitely needs to be handling. Definitely her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think that'll make it help.

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<v Speaker 1>But good luck, wish you the best, wish the best.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all for now, but we do have a Thursday

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<v Speaker 1>episode somehow. The book called is still happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, the feedback I saw it was overwhelmingly positive for

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<v Speaker 3>the book club.

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<v Speaker 1>Great.

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<v Speaker 3>If people didn't like it, they didn't share that opinion because.

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<v Speaker 1>A few posts that we're not supportive of the book

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<v Speaker 1>club continuing, So there was some conflict there, But don't

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<v Speaker 1>you worry that people who like it. There's a third day,

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<v Speaker 1>so we will be doing chapters.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you're not reading the book, you should still

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<v Speaker 4>listen because there's fun stuff in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's the thing is. People were like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>even reading the book. I've never read the book. I

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<v Speaker 1>have no desire to read the book. But I like

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<v Speaker 1>the conversations that it has sparked because it's a kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a deeper look into some things that we typically

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<v Speaker 1>don't hear on the podcast. So I like that aspect too.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying as far as like like recapping the book,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, people are like waiting with baited breath.

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<v Speaker 4>There's no pop quiz or anything. If you don't know

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<v Speaker 4>how to read it, you can still listen to the episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, it's this kind of a book. If it

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<v Speaker 3>was like a narrative, Okay, so then this week Josie

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<v Speaker 3>went down to the river and the treasure, it'd be different.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not. I don't know, something like.

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<v Speaker 1>The parts that we're reading are recapping this week are

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<v Speaker 1>burn aches or let it burn? Aches and ghosts, So

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<v Speaker 1>we'll be back Thursday. We love you all. Be kind

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<v Speaker 1>to each other, love each other kind, and we will

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<v Speaker 1>be back Thursday. Love you bye, Love you,