Speaker 1: Hello everybody. So before we start the podcast, we wanted
Speaker 1: to acknowledge what's going on in Israel right now. It's
Speaker 1: such a heavy time, and it feels like even doing
Speaker 1: a podcast feels.
Speaker 2: So feels wrong in a way, just because all the videos,
Speaker 2: everything that we've been seeing, the coverage this past weekend
Speaker 2: has been horrific. Innocent people being dragged out of their homes.
Speaker 2: It's just been so horrible to see. I have family
Speaker 2: there now that is affected by everything going on, and
Speaker 2: I just, you know, we really wanted to take the
Speaker 2: time to just stay to say that we stand with
Speaker 2: Israel and support them and everything that's going on right now.
Speaker 2: It's just a very heavy time and all.
Speaker 1: The innocent people who have been attacked or who have
Speaker 1: had families, and people all over the world who feel
Speaker 1: the weight of what's happening. I don't think we can
Speaker 1: even comprehend how severe and tragic and catastrophic this is.
Speaker 1: And it feels like very helpless in the sense that
Speaker 1: feels like there's nothing we can do. But at the
Speaker 1: very least I feel like we can acknowledge it and
Speaker 1: condemn the acts of terrorism and the violence and the
Speaker 1: pure evil that's happened and also lift up the people
Speaker 1: who are suffering and victims to what's been happening. And
Speaker 1: we know that we're not a podcast that people come
Speaker 1: to for world news or for political topics, especially.
Speaker 2: Quite the opposite. You know, we want to be a
Speaker 2: lighthearted place where people can come for joy and comfort.
Speaker 2: But we didn't want to go on with our podcast
Speaker 2: without acknowledging and just you know, being there for our
Speaker 2: Jewish community and saying that we stand with you and
Speaker 2: we are praying and praying for love and praying for peace.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Rent, an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 2: Scrub a dub dub.
Speaker 1: How you doing.
Speaker 2: I'm doing if you're doing, Yeah, I'm doing. I feel
Speaker 2: it's a long week.
Speaker 1: It was a long week.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I hadn't seen you in a
Speaker 2: very long time, although I just saw you a couple
Speaker 2: of days ago.
Speaker 1: It's Saturday, but.
Speaker 2: Like not very long. I saw you for like ten minutes.
Speaker 1: It was short because I had told you I was
Speaker 1: gonna be there too. You came strolling around three thirty.
Speaker 1: I waited for you, which I did. Yeah, I didn't
Speaker 1: leave because I was done for a while. And then
Speaker 1: I was like, it's cute. I know I'm a good friend,
Speaker 1: even though you try to make me out to look
Speaker 1: like I don't care. Sometimes, Okay, that is not what
Speaker 1: I do sometimes.
Speaker 2: First of all, sometimes that's just the difference in our personalities.
Speaker 1: No, I definitely I show up when I need to
Speaker 1: show up, That's true. And I waited for you, so
Speaker 1: I'd like for that to being knowledge you.
Speaker 2: We're waiting for me, beca.
Speaker 1: I love you, You're welcome, Thank you so much you
Speaker 1: went to you just were like hanging out with Selena
Speaker 1: and stuff this weekend or what.
Speaker 2: I had something every single night this week.
Speaker 1: So for you.
Speaker 2: No, I realized that I think I'm an introverted extrovert
Speaker 2: because I like being around people, but I also need
Speaker 2: some recharge alone time and the humans. Is it an
Speaker 2: interesting stat I used.
Speaker 1: To think that I was like pretty unique in my
Speaker 1: like I love to be around people, but I need
Speaker 1: to recharge. I thought I was so cool and like special,
Speaker 1: and then I realized, I think that's how majority of
Speaker 1: people feel.
Speaker 3: We're all introverted extroverts or extroverted introverts. We're all a combination.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had to discovery this week because mama is, uh,
Speaker 2: she needs she needs to plug in.
Speaker 1: You think it's happened with age maybe maybe yeah?
Speaker 2: Maybe?
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, was it an industry event every night?
Speaker 2: Industry? No, industry and personal?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know it's a combo, but the industry. The
Speaker 2: event that I did go to was the uh so
Speaker 2: it was supposed to be. It was initially a gala
Speaker 2: and then I saw everybody saying that it was the
Speaker 2: first Rare Impact Fund benefit. So I don't know what
Speaker 2: the difference between a benefit of gala is, but the
Speaker 2: verbiage definitely changed earlier.
Speaker 1: You called it a gala, so kala gala.
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: I thought it was gala and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's a gala, and then you just said gallas, So
Speaker 1: which is it.
Speaker 2: I think it's I think it's like tomato tomato. There's
Speaker 2: not really a right or wrong.
Speaker 1: Gala.
Speaker 2: Yeah, galla, all right, it's gala apple, I don't know whatever.
Speaker 2: So it was the Rare Impact Fund benefit, So that's
Speaker 2: what kind of kicked off the week, the festivities, and
Speaker 2: it was actually really cool. I was expecting it to
Speaker 2: be very kind of you know, gala galas are little stuffy,
Speaker 2: you know, like rubber chicken in a ballroom, and this
Speaker 2: one was very opposite. It was very lively. They were
Speaker 2: like doing inscriptions in some of the rare beauty products,
Speaker 2: and so I it did my new initials on one
Speaker 2: of them.
Speaker 1: What are your new initials? T r y Try Tanya radyad? Yeah?
Speaker 2: How on brand? Is the word try?
Speaker 1: For me?
Speaker 2: Wow? It's so hopeful.
Speaker 1: It's so hopeful. It's mirror ball coded. What mirror ball?
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift Oh the song?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, crazy Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, where's she going with this?
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously we speak in swifty language here exactly.
Speaker 1: But Taylor Lanner was there, and I just love Taylor Loner.
Speaker 2: I do two you so sweet. He gave Robby the
Speaker 2: biggest hug and congratulated us on our engagement. I was like,
Speaker 2: you are just the sweetest man. And his wife. I
Speaker 2: love also Tay Taylor Loner.
Speaker 1: Hey, she's Tay, he's Taylor. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then we're in the you know how, like I've
Speaker 2: always wanted. I feel like you always you know, you
Speaker 2: made it in life when you can bid at like
Speaker 2: a silent auction at those gayla A Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, I know I'm gonna know that I've
Speaker 2: made it when I can like bid, because the bidding
Speaker 2: always starts at five thousand dollars, Like, who's been betting
Speaker 2: five thousand dollars on anything?
Speaker 1: Would you bid?
Speaker 2: I didn't. Oh, so I'm not there yet for our
Speaker 2: future galagala, I will be there. But somebody been fifteen
Speaker 2: thousand dollars for Taylor Swift tickets?
Speaker 3: Wow?
Speaker 1: What city?
Speaker 2: I think it said? I think don't quote me because
Speaker 2: I don't I don't have a photographic memory, but I
Speaker 2: believe it was kind of your choice two tickets to
Speaker 2: any Taylor Swift showed.
Speaker 1: Your choice fifteen k fifteen row.
Speaker 2: At least didn't say front ROWLD imagine. I imagine it's
Speaker 2: probably like some sort of hook up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it would, I would hope.
Speaker 2: So there was one. There was one Auctionie though that
Speaker 2: it was like a glam day with Selena's like hair,
Speaker 2: makeup and stylist, and I was like, this could be
Speaker 2: good for the watering. Had that thought go through my
Speaker 2: head and then I was like should that go for
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't remember, but it was up there.
Speaker 1: I was like for the fifteen Okay, here's my thing.
Speaker 1: If you could throw away fifteen k would you do
Speaker 1: that for Taylor Swift tickets? Yeah?
Speaker 2: You can throw away what you could throw away?
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I'm not okay, not throw away, but like
Speaker 1: it's not gonna hurt you, but you could use that
Speaker 1: for something else.
Speaker 2: Well, the thing is it goes to charity. I'm just saying,
Speaker 2: I know, but that's the big that's the big thing.
Speaker 2: It's like it's for charity.
Speaker 3: Mark says, No, I could never ever spend I don't
Speaker 3: care if I was a billionaire. I couldn't spend fifteen
Speaker 3: thousand dollars on one night.
Speaker 2: Even if it was for charity.
Speaker 1: No, yes you could, Okay easton a meet and greet
Speaker 1: with the whole Avengers cat. Well, he's like I'll do
Speaker 1: in character character in CA.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would do that. I would.
Speaker 2: Would you.
Speaker 1: If I was guaranteed like a front row experience? And
Speaker 1: I was like, maybe he's gonna s been a lot.
Speaker 1: I'm teetered back and forth on a very pricey ticket.
Speaker 1: The last night of her show in La everyone from
Speaker 1: near fifteen thousand by was it fifty thousand for two?
Speaker 1: So like seventy five hundred per each two Yeah, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so a steal really one hundred.
Speaker 3: I was looking through next years, like seeing her in Milan,
Speaker 3: Italy could be pretty amazing, I know, and maybe if
Speaker 3: I could introduce her to my kids afterwards. Now we're talking.
Speaker 1: See that's if there's some sort of meeting great edition,
Speaker 1: yeah yeah maybe yeah, but if it's like a mid
Speaker 1: range level, right, like.
Speaker 2: You don't know what kind of ticket you're getting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know about that, and it has to be.
Speaker 2: The show of your choice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I would definitely go overseas. How cool
Speaker 1: would it be to see her in another country? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that'd be really cool. You seem to have Did you
Speaker 1: have any hangovers over your weekend? I mean your week of.
Speaker 2: How was your week before we dive into the weekend,
Speaker 2: you know, a week weekend?
Speaker 1: What did I had to look back up? I was talking.
Speaker 2: You were pretty busy too, was I? Yeah, you were
Speaker 2: out in a boat in a boot out in a boat.
Speaker 1: What did I do though? Because I don't remember, I
Speaker 1: don't really have any I don't think I did much
Speaker 1: Like I think I had a pretty chill week, which
Speaker 1: I needed because the last week was wild I did do.
Speaker 1: So I have another. I have a campaign with Taco
Speaker 1: Bell which I'm so excited about and so Ali and
Speaker 1: I yeah it's my second one. Wow, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: I love them and I so Ali and I filmed
Speaker 1: the video where she ate like, tried all my favorite
Speaker 1: Taco Bell items with me. That was really fun.
Speaker 2: That's your number one favorite Taco Bell item.
Speaker 1: God, it's so hard, Like I just go back and
Speaker 1: forth on like what what it is? Because I love
Speaker 1: the crunch Trap Supreme, I love a Mexican pizza. I
Speaker 1: love the new rolled chicken tacos. Those are insane. It
Speaker 1: was so good, and Ali would really loved everything. I thought.
Speaker 1: She was like, well, I don't know. I feel like
Speaker 1: you'd be like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I didn't like it.
Speaker 1: Actually.
Speaker 2: I like a bean and cheese bruto. You can't go wrong,
Speaker 2: and you get a little chip in there. Dip the
Speaker 2: chip in there with a little sacho.
Speaker 1: Cheese, the chip in the beans.
Speaker 2: Yes, that was my drunken move always that I would
Speaker 2: split it up, spit. I'd split it open with a
Speaker 2: knife and I would just chip the dips in there,
Speaker 2: dip the chips in there and just go to town.
Speaker 1: WHOA, Sometimes I wish I got to hang out with
Speaker 1: that Tonya.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you could have hung out there on Friday things
Speaker 2: got for wild.
Speaker 1: You hate Taco Bell?
Speaker 2: I didn't Taco Bell, but I definitely ate a mozzarella
Speaker 2: fried cheese dak.
Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds so great.
Speaker 2: Wait till you hear from where the Bungalow.
Speaker 1: Okay, honestly, the Bungalow has some incredible memories for me
Speaker 1: because you know, that's where Haley came to meet up
Speaker 1: with us. This the night that we kissed. Is it really?
Speaker 1: She drove from Hollywood, which, like knowing her now, after rehearsal,
Speaker 1: she went home and changed drove all the way from
Speaker 1: Hollywood to Santa Monica to the Bungalow. We were wasted.
Speaker 1: It was like one am. She shows up. She comes
Speaker 1: and sits down with our group, and Taylor Banks is
Speaker 1: next to me, and then Brittany's on the other side
Speaker 1: of me, and Hailey's kind of like squatted down and
Speaker 1: she's holding my hand behind Brittany's back, Like Haley and
Speaker 1: I are holding hands on my Brittany's back.
Speaker 2: I did not know.
Speaker 1: I lean over to Taylor and I'm like, we're holding
Speaker 1: I remember this story. And then she drove us back
Speaker 1: to Brittany's place and that's where that's when we kissed. Wow,
Speaker 1: I know, so Bungalow has great memories, but it's been
Speaker 1: a minute since I've been there. Yeah, did you feel old?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I've never feel older in my life.
Speaker 2: And the best part is that was our third stop
Speaker 2: of the night. No wait on one shooth fourth our fourth
Speaker 2: stop of the night.
Speaker 1: Okay, for those of you who don't know the Bungalow is,
Speaker 1: it's attached to a hotel in Santa Monica, and it's
Speaker 1: very like young college people that go there typically. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's kind of like Freddy. It's so fun though, it's
Speaker 1: like ping pong table door indoor.
Speaker 2: It's kind of got like a vibe that you're in
Speaker 2: the living room house beach. Recently, that one's very different vibe.
Speaker 1: Thought more chic or was it the same?
Speaker 4: I mean it's a lot more space.
Speaker 2: What I will say is it's very jam packed. The
Speaker 2: one in Santa Monica. Yeah, close corners, corners.
Speaker 1: It's like you hit an age going to these places
Speaker 1: where you suddenly feel like I've.
Speaker 2: Out done Yeah, I definitely felt that. But we came
Speaker 2: from the from Shore Bar, which was which is even
Speaker 2: younger if you can imagine. Yeah, we romped around town
Speaker 2: on Friday.
Speaker 1: Yeah exact.
Speaker 2: I think it's like a college with doing these activities. Everybody,
Speaker 2: everybody Selena no no, no, I was with so is
Speaker 2: Robbie's mom's birthday. So we like started out at dinner
Speaker 2: and then just like went from there. We just kind
Speaker 2: of like party hopped. Paulina was involved. She can go.
Speaker 2: She's like energizer bunny.
Speaker 1: She's like twenty one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty eight.
Speaker 1: Oh she's twenty eight. Yeah, I literally thought she was
Speaker 1: like twenty four.
Speaker 2: No, no, no elder.
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, that's for great, great skin, great sunny. Truly,
Speaker 1: she's one of the most beautiful humans ever.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so we stayed out until I want to say,
Speaker 2: three forty five in the morning.
Speaker 3: I went hip.
Speaker 2: I know, I went to bed at four am, and
Speaker 2: my body is just used to waking up early, So
Speaker 2: I was up at like seven forty five and was
Speaker 2: just feeling immense pain.
Speaker 1: When you drink like that, Like my body wakes up
Speaker 1: out of just like it's almost like I'm going to
Speaker 1: make you pay for what you've done to me, you.
Speaker 2: Know, and it's interesting because I never feel good after
Speaker 2: I drink, and yet I continue to it.
Speaker 1: Why is that it's so fun in the moment.
Speaker 2: Does the fun outweigh the pain? I say no, no,
Speaker 2: So I don't know.
Speaker 1: Don't try to act like you're not drinking anymore.
Speaker 2: Maybe there are other substances I can do. Yeah, you
Speaker 2: like that, we need Yeah, like marijuana.
Speaker 1: Okay, No, I gotta say, like it's gotten to where
Speaker 1: I don't really drink, and then I'll take an If
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I don't want to drink, but I
Speaker 1: want to feel social and like relax, I'll take an
Speaker 1: edible no hangover. I might snack a little more than normal.
Speaker 2: But see, that's what everybody tells me. So so well,
Speaker 2: I'm not a pot girly. I've never actually smoked pot.
Speaker 2: I think I've taken one edible in my life, and
Speaker 2: maybe it was like a quarter of a quarter of
Speaker 2: a quarter.
Speaker 1: Nibble.
Speaker 2: I don't even think it would like affect an ant.
Speaker 2: But everybody keeps telling me to try edibles, and I
Speaker 2: think I need to give it a whirl.
Speaker 3: I mean, you could just do nothing like I just
Speaker 3: speaking as a guy who does nothing. It's kind of
Speaker 3: cool doing nothing.
Speaker 2: So when you go out on the town on like
Speaker 2: a Friday night, everybody's enjoying a nice glass of some martina.
Speaker 3: Week before last, Amy and I went out because a
Speaker 3: friend of ours was singing with a band, so we
Speaker 3: went to watch her and supporter sing with a band.
Speaker 3: Is it a bar in Thousand Oaks? Is there a question?
Speaker 2: Or yeah? So okay? So you're partaking in lively activities
Speaker 2: on a Friday night. You know, how do you kick
Speaker 2: back and relax?
Speaker 3: I don't kick back. I'm always kicked either. Either I
Speaker 3: never kick back and relax or I'm always kicked back
Speaker 3: and relax because I just drink water. That's all I
Speaker 3: ever drink. I drink water. I got a sandwich. It
Speaker 3: was delicious. I enjoyed the band. I was singing long
Speaker 3: dancing with my wife. What a great time.
Speaker 2: I see, I need a glass of something.
Speaker 3: You don't. I don't think you do. I think need
Speaker 3: is the wrong word in that sentence. You think you do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting perspective.
Speaker 1: I have a suggestion. What if you got some sparkling
Speaker 1: water and put some wine in there, and you have
Speaker 1: the glass and you danced and did all your things.
Speaker 1: Do you think maybe placebo you'd feel like.
Speaker 3: I think that's really interesting.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. It's like, it's not it's it's
Speaker 2: it's all an interesting experiment.
Speaker 1: Because you know, I'm asking you to do a social experiment.
Speaker 2: I try I'll try it this weekend or like an.
Speaker 3: You can't know about it. If you know about it,
Speaker 3: then it's not going to work. It's like somebody has
Speaker 3: to surreptitiously trade out your drink for something not alcoholic.
Speaker 1: You know what. Actually, what's so interesting so that.
Speaker 2: That reminds me of this experiment that they did and
Speaker 2: I just learned about it this weekend because I need
Speaker 2: to get into the y. But they did this experiment
Speaker 2: where they put all these people they like drew on
Speaker 2: their faces, whether it was like a big big like
Speaker 2: fatty like mole or zi or something that was just
Speaker 2: like big, it was like a crater on their face.
Speaker 2: And they wanted the Social Experiments to have them walk
Speaker 2: down the street and just report back on how people
Speaker 2: were like looking at them or how they felt walking
Speaker 2: down the street with like a giant like pimple basically
Speaker 2: on their on their face. So as the people, so
Speaker 2: they put this grotesque, like with all the whatever it's called. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and then do a touch up before they walk out
Speaker 2: the door, and they scrape it all off so there's
Speaker 2: nothing there and they send them on their way. And
Speaker 2: the people came back and we're like, people were staring
Speaker 2: at me, people were giving me weird looks. I felt
Speaker 2: so uncomfortable. And it's all this social experiment about how
Speaker 2: we are so obsessed about like, you know, these little
Speaker 2: blemishes or these little things on our faces, and like
Speaker 2: we think that everyone's gonna stare and judge and comment
Speaker 2: when nobody else sees it. But but you.
Speaker 1: Interesting, right, Yes, that is a very interesting thing. Mm hm,
Speaker 1: Because then I do feel like there would be people
Speaker 1: who would be like, no, like people stare like it's
Speaker 1: I do deal with people staring, you know that do
Speaker 1: have like I think that there would be people who have.
Speaker 2: And for sure, But I think that the moral of
Speaker 2: the experiment was that, like we are, we create all
Speaker 2: these narratives in our head that are not necessarily there.
Speaker 2: It's so true. So don't really know how that goes
Speaker 2: back to the alcohol thing, but it made me think of.
Speaker 3: That that is interesting. But it's all a social experiment, Yeah.
Speaker 2: I'd be down to try the mocktail approach this weekend
Speaker 2: and see if it. Like there's just something about alcohol
Speaker 2: that makes me feel like I'm off duty.
Speaker 4: You know, there's one that I like called the Ocho
Speaker 4: Cinco and Chatta Jaesinka. The football player doesn't drink and
Speaker 4: he would he would do a red bull and cranberry
Speaker 4: juice with lime in it.
Speaker 3: And that the red.
Speaker 4: Bull, I mean, that gets me going. My head turns
Speaker 4: into a giant whistle. I'm rending circles around the place.
Speaker 4: That does the trick for me.
Speaker 1: Interesting, Yeah, I mean it's worth a shot.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I went to dinner and at the very end, they
Speaker 1: brought out the chicken, right, and you know how I
Speaker 1: am about chicken. It's so freaky end well, she means
Speaker 1: like like a shared place, a shared plate situation. So
Speaker 1: they just like bring out things as they were ready.
Speaker 1: And the last thing was that it was like a
Speaker 1: chicken and like a little skillet situation. And it looked appetizing,
Speaker 1: which I don't. You know, I'm pretty finicky about my chicken.
Speaker 1: I thought that sounds cozy. I bite into it so
Speaker 1: slimy immediately it was like absolutely not get it away.
Speaker 1: From me. At the end, my friend is eating and
Speaker 1: she goes she spits her chicken out and she goes,
Speaker 1: oh my god.
Speaker 2: That's raw.
Speaker 1: And we looked out it is fully pink. Oh mine wasn't.
Speaker 1: The bite I got wasn't. But I was like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not eating it. I'm not. I can't do it.
Speaker 1: It's so freaky. What's the point. Yeah, you know, so
Speaker 1: I'm off chicken again.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 1: It sort lived, But what I do love is what
Speaker 1: it was short lived. The bravery was very short lived.
Speaker 1: But one thing I do love is my whole TikTok
Speaker 1: is filled with people eating chicken fingers like dipped and ranch.
Speaker 1: It looks so good and they eat it so bravely.
Speaker 1: There's no fear of getting like a freaky deey piece.
Speaker 2: They just go eating chicken. For thirty six years of
Speaker 2: my life and I've never had a freaky diky piece.
Speaker 1: That's because all are people who probably clear the bone
Speaker 1: and don't consider the cartilage you're eating through.
Speaker 3: I've had some.
Speaker 4: Freaky mc nuggets in my chick, you know, but I
Speaker 4: keep going back.
Speaker 1: I mean, same, Okay, Well, good for you, congrats, because
Speaker 1: great protein great. It never tastes like wet dog. No,
Speaker 1: I never ever tastes like what dog, never get a
Speaker 1: weird chewy piece. So you have to kind of like
Speaker 1: no and no.
Speaker 2: But there I have. I've had some stinky chicken.
Speaker 1: I hate that whole phrase. I've had some chicken.
Speaker 3: Here's the story my daughter has. You know, we've talked
Speaker 3: about this before that she deals with some anxiety and
Speaker 3: that's gotten way better. But the point is, one night,
Speaker 3: my wife was out of town with my other dogs,
Speaker 3: just the two of us, and we got Trader Shoe's
Speaker 3: chicken parmesan and so I was enjoying that. It was
Speaker 3: two pieces. I gave her one. I took one. I
Speaker 3: was enjoying, and she's like, it's kind of weird. I'm
Speaker 3: like that mine's fine, but if you don't want to
Speaker 3: donate it, it's okay. It's kind of weird. And I'm like, oh, well,
Speaker 3: I mean, then don't need it. If you don't to
Speaker 3: eat it. Then she didn't like half fun. She goes, yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't want to eat the same. I'm like, all right,
Speaker 3: now I'm gonna finish hers. And I took it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it was not good. It was like crunchy and weird.
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is weird. So then, but then I
Speaker 3: had a decision to make as a dad, and I
Speaker 3: ate the rest of it. And I'll tell you why,
Speaker 3: because at bedtime tonight, her anxiety is going to kick
Speaker 3: in and she's gonna think, oh my gosh, did I
Speaker 3: eat bad meat? Am I going to throw up? So
Speaker 3: I ate the rest of that so that I could
Speaker 3: say to her, I ate it too, and I feel fine,
Speaker 3: You're going to be fine. And it worked sure enough.
Speaker 3: Bedtimes she's like, Dad, do you think I'm gonna throw up?
Speaker 3: You think that meat was bad? I'm like, I don't know, hun,
Speaker 3: but I ate everything. You wait just to be safe,
Speaker 3: and I'm okay. I think my stomach is a little bit.
Speaker 3: It's in your head because I ate it and I'm fine.
Speaker 3: And that is the sacrifice we make as a father,
Speaker 3: bad bad meat, just to make sure your daughter is
Speaker 3: going to be okay. Did you say good night?
Speaker 4: Turn and then hold your mouth projectile?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: I really did feel fine, but I didn't feel fine.
Speaker 3: We'd be together.
Speaker 1: That's very sacrificial. I don't know that I could do
Speaker 1: the same.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely didn't do the same. Once we got
Speaker 2: some raw chicken tenders out when we're skiing.
Speaker 1: It was literally not right now? Actually see that. Robbie
Speaker 1: posted a picture of it.
Speaker 2: Robbie posted a picture of it on Instagram. Is yes,
Speaker 2: I have a visual.
Speaker 1: So we're going to take a break and we'll be
Speaker 1: right now. Okay, I had to cleanse my palate from
Speaker 1: that previous conversation. Should have had a trigger warning on there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, we're all the.
Speaker 1: Chicken freaky chicken dog. Did you watch Love Is Blind?
Speaker 1: Has anyone watched Love Is Blind?
Speaker 2: I'm deep in this season spoiler alert.
Speaker 1: I'm so irritated that there's only two couples that were like, yeah, hoping.
Speaker 2: For It's a bad season and the two couples kind
Speaker 2: of suck.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't hate I don't really not.
Speaker 2: Like uh Lydia and Milton.
Speaker 1: I don't really hate either of them. Like I'm not like,
Speaker 1: oh about any I'm just kind of like, eh, I'm
Speaker 1: not like I don't.
Speaker 2: Either of them, but I'm not invested, like I'm like Izzy,
Speaker 2: like Izzy, Yeah, what's the girl's name? He's with Stacy?
Speaker 1: Okay? Is that right? And Stacy? Yeah? I think they
Speaker 1: go together. Yes, they make sense to me. Yeah, they do,
Speaker 1: and then I feel like Milton, yeah, is very into Lydia,
Speaker 1: but I think she's a lot for him, and I.
Speaker 2: Think she went on the show to get back together
Speaker 2: with her ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Ouch.
Speaker 2: I'm so in that conspiracy theory and.
Speaker 1: The whole thing. I just was like, this is a disaster.
Speaker 2: And actually posted something on his Instagram saying you're only
Speaker 2: getting one side of the story. Wait till like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: they all bugged me at that dinner where they all
Speaker 2: came back.
Speaker 1: I was like, this is just a recipe for disaster.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this season does feel.
Speaker 1: Was like, oh my gosh, this season's crazy. It's amazing,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't like it.
Speaker 2: Oh really, Yeah, I don't like I like to like
Speaker 2: root for people.
Speaker 1: I don't love the drama. That's why I love The
Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor. It is so amazing. Yeah, they really have
Speaker 1: cast the perfect man to be the first Golden Bachelor. No.
Speaker 2: I came around on The Golden Bachelor and yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna watch it.
Speaker 1: Okay, we're just we just got to the point where
Speaker 1: you're gonna watch it.
Speaker 2: Watch no again. It was very busy adventure and I
Speaker 2: watched the David Beckham documentary.
Speaker 1: I was just talking to Tawny about this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I did that. But I am going to
Speaker 2: watch The Golden Bachelor because it feels like hopeful and
Speaker 2: it's yeah best.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. It's so emotional. He's precious. Okay,
Speaker 1: I think we should take a break and then come
Speaker 1: back with some emails.
Speaker 3: I could just take it if you want. No one
Speaker 3: else is going.
Speaker 1: It was like blocked down. I don't even know what happened. Mark,
Speaker 1: you were just in another world even look, I was
Speaker 1: just looking straight at the paper.
Speaker 3: Laura is a newer listener, said I'm a huge fan
Speaker 3: of Haley, so I started listening after her and Becca's
Speaker 3: relationship became public, and now I'm a bigger fan of
Speaker 3: you guys.
Speaker 1: Hot take that Hailey. Wow Hailey.
Speaker 3: First of all, a bit overdue, but so happy for
Speaker 3: Becca and Haley and their relationship launch. And huge congrats
Speaker 3: to Tanya on her engagement. So Laura binges this entire
Speaker 3: podcast over the past six months, and she was hoping
Speaker 3: for some plot twists that could be answered. Number one.
Speaker 3: In twenty nineteen, Timey visited a psychic and was given
Speaker 3: two initials of a man she would meet in the
Speaker 3: month of May. What were those initials?
Speaker 2: They were not Robbie's, okay, yeah.
Speaker 3: And you can't say what they were you don't remember.
Speaker 2: I do?
Speaker 1: I think? Wait, I feel like it's not Robbie's. Definitely
Speaker 1: not Robby's, right.
Speaker 3: Did you write them down? Are you going through your notes?
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see if I have it enough? Did you?
Speaker 1: I was trying to look them down to see so.
Speaker 3: We know where they aren't Robbies, but what they were
Speaker 3: would be kind of interesting withdn't they Okay?
Speaker 1: Do you know what they are?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: C H?
Speaker 2: Where did you write those?
Speaker 1: I just typed in initials on my text thread and
Speaker 1: it popped up. Yeah, came back.
Speaker 3: In a smart, smart sleuthing over there. Do you know
Speaker 3: anyone named c H? Chris Harrison's Collett Hubert works for
Speaker 3: our morning show. No, no, it is.
Speaker 2: He's like married guys.
Speaker 3: Come on, come on, that's true?
Speaker 1: Is he? That wasn't he engaged?
Speaker 2: He's married but like multiple children and he's married with
Speaker 2: Liam is the one that but he's not LH.
Speaker 3: Number two. In the podcast Back Ahead with Jojo, she
Speaker 3: mentioned going a date with a known man at the
Speaker 3: time she met Haley. Is there any chance you could
Speaker 3: reveal the known man you were on a date with.
Speaker 1: No, what I just revealed? Line? Yeah, the yous didn't
Speaker 1: reveal anything. No, it's way too obvious, Chris, I remember. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll give you the starting letter of the first name.
Speaker 3: Intriguing.
Speaker 1: Wow, do what you want with that?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was it was like, it's almost laughable
Speaker 1: to even call it a date.
Speaker 3: But then why not say it if it's if it
Speaker 3: was just a hangout?
Speaker 1: He's famous and I like, you know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: He was very private, So yeah, you.
Speaker 2: Should say a show.
Speaker 1: No, that will absolutely get it.
Speaker 2: On a show, a different one, they will all obviously.
Speaker 3: Give it away.
Speaker 4: We've narrowed it down now, guy, with a show, everybody.
Speaker 1: Sorts of them. Anyways, it was crazy and fun and
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it happened.
Speaker 3: I'll just do one guess. Was it Michael Jordan, the
Speaker 3: greatest basketball player of all time? No, that's not bad, actually.
Speaker 1: Good guess?
Speaker 3: Okay, all right. Brittany says she's been with her boyfriend
Speaker 3: for two years and and they went really fast. They
Speaker 3: got they moved in very quickly. He moved cities, moving
Speaker 3: in with me at six months about a house together.
Speaker 3: We've been trying for a baby for over a year now,
Speaker 3: but they're not married. But all this has been going on,
Speaker 3: he'sn't bringing up combining bank accounts. It's this is an
Speaker 3: interesting dilemma because she says, I'm much more financially responsible
Speaker 3: and I have virtually no debt, but he makes twice
Speaker 3: what I do. He has debt, car payment, credit card payment,
Speaker 3: line of credit, and our agreement is he pays the
Speaker 3: mortgage payment because I paid the down payment. I paid
Speaker 3: the utility bills, and then we have separate bills and
Speaker 3: debts and whatnot. Anyway, I'm a little concerned that if
Speaker 3: we put our money together it's going to be a
Speaker 3: problem because he always ends up in the negative every month,
Speaker 3: where I always contribute to my savings account every month
Speaker 3: and he makes double what I do. He thinks by
Speaker 3: sharing account, we'll and it further ahead, but I'm afraid
Speaker 3: he will suck us dry. How and when do you
Speaker 3: know if it's time to share finances?
Speaker 2: Damn that is you know. It's such an interesting question
Speaker 2: that I find so fascinating because I've been asking a
Speaker 2: lot of married people how they do with their finances
Speaker 2: because I'm obviously engaged, and I've seen everything from like
Speaker 2: married couples venmowing each other for the utilities, splitting stuff
Speaker 2: completely down the middle. Some people combine, some people don't
Speaker 2: combine but have different responsibilities, like I'll take care of
Speaker 2: the kids this, and you take care of the kids this.
Speaker 3: What that al strikes me. It's so odd and only
Speaker 3: odd because it's foreign to me.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the venmowing is wild too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the splitting, like you take care of this bill,
Speaker 3: I'll pay for the kids soccer, you do this. And
Speaker 3: now that's all very strange to me because we just
Speaker 3: compiled everything from day one. So it's all very foreign
Speaker 3: to me. I'm not saying it's bad to each their own,
Speaker 3: but it's very foreign to me, and it's hard for
Speaker 3: me to understand.
Speaker 1: What are you saying? The separation?
Speaker 3: The separation?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you so that's how it works. Is that
Speaker 2: how it works in your marriages? You both just it's
Speaker 2: all just one big pot and that you just yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean, because the way I look at it is
Speaker 4: I make more than Alison does, but she works on
Speaker 4: this job whether or not her name is on it.
Speaker 4: You know, Like I'm always like complaining about work and
Speaker 4: stuff like that. So she's she's contributing that way.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a therapist. Yeah.
Speaker 2: It's interesting because like the older you get and like
Speaker 2: when there's you know, kids involved kids prior to your
Speaker 2: you know, your marriage, there's there's a lot of nuance
Speaker 2: to it. And so I've just been I've been asking
Speaker 2: a lot of people how they deal with their finances,
Speaker 2: and I think the thing that I realized through all
Speaker 2: my research is that there really isn't a wrong way
Speaker 2: to do it. You know, like I know so many
Speaker 2: different couples that do it in so many different ways.
Speaker 2: And so it's whatever is comfortable to you. If you
Speaker 2: want to be contributing to your savings account and your
Speaker 2: partner is not great with money and not good with budgeting,
Speaker 2: that's your gut instinct. I would go with your gut instinct.
Speaker 3: One thing we did do before we got married is
Speaker 3: I made an effort to get my wife out of debt.
Speaker 3: She had a lot of credit card debt when we
Speaker 3: were dating, So I just I took care of that
Speaker 3: so that when we got married we could start fresh. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's what I wanted to do. I think, maybe you
Speaker 3: tell this guy I'm happy to do that, but you
Speaker 3: got to clear out the debt you're dealing with, at
Speaker 3: least your credit card debt, because that can be really
Speaker 3: a struggle. If you can get rid of that. Okay,
Speaker 3: he's got a car payment, but get rid of the
Speaker 3: credit card debt and then may able to talk about it.
Speaker 3: And honestly, I think you should get married first.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I won't even think about combining
Speaker 1: anything with someone who is just a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like she thinks that they're on
Speaker 2: their way, so she wouldn't be asking that, right because like,
Speaker 2: these are the conversations that we're having now.
Speaker 1: No, but I think it's worth a conversation of like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm totally down to like have a joint account that
Speaker 1: we both put into it. But I I would feel
Speaker 1: more comfortable if you had cleared if you cleared your
Speaker 1: debt before we even took that step. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: that's totally fair. I don't think there should be any
Speaker 1: pressure for her to merge their finances as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Speaker 3: And also I think it works best if one of
Speaker 3: you handles the finances.
Speaker 1: Is that weird, I mean, it's so my relationships so
Speaker 1: different because I, you know, we're both and like we're
Speaker 1: both like have our our own thing. We're very separate
Speaker 1: in sense of finances. But like I like, if if
Speaker 1: we go to dinner, one of us will pay and
Speaker 1: it's never a thought again.
Speaker 2: Right, And that seems like there's a Stree store too,
Speaker 2: like sometimes he goes sometimes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we just very much split costs. But like we
Speaker 1: each have our own home, so we obviously pay for that,
Speaker 1: all the utilities whatever. But yeah, it'd be obviously there
Speaker 1: will be a different conversation when we live fully together.
Speaker 1: But I I don't even know. We both have our
Speaker 1: own things.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's just easier if one person can
Speaker 3: do all that stuff. And it sounds like it should
Speaker 3: be her, It should not be him. She should be handled.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she definitely needs to be handling. Definitely her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that'll make it help.
Speaker 1: But good luck, wish you the best, wish the best.
Speaker 1: That's all for now, but we do have a Thursday
Speaker 1: episode somehow. The book called is still happening.
Speaker 3: Well, the feedback I saw it was overwhelmingly positive for
Speaker 3: the book club.
Speaker 1: Great.
Speaker 3: If people didn't like it, they didn't share that opinion because.
Speaker 1: A few posts that we're not supportive of the book
Speaker 1: club continuing, So there was some conflict there, But don't
Speaker 1: you worry that people who like it. There's a third day,
Speaker 1: so we will be doing chapters.
Speaker 4: And if you're not reading the book, you should still
Speaker 4: listen because there's fun stuff in there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's the thing is. People were like, I'm not
Speaker 1: even reading the book. I've never read the book. I
Speaker 1: have no desire to read the book. But I like
Speaker 1: the conversations that it has sparked because it's a kind
Speaker 1: of a deeper look into some things that we typically
Speaker 1: don't hear on the podcast. So I like that aspect too.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying as far as like like recapping the book,
Speaker 1: I don't know, people are like waiting with baited breath.
Speaker 4: There's no pop quiz or anything. If you don't know
Speaker 4: how to read it, you can still listen to the episode.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's this kind of a book. If it
Speaker 3: was like a narrative, Okay, so then this week Josie
Speaker 3: went down to the river and the treasure, it'd be different.
Speaker 2: It's not. I don't know, something like.
Speaker 1: The parts that we're reading are recapping this week are
Speaker 1: burn aches or let it burn? Aches and ghosts, So
Speaker 1: we'll be back Thursday. We love you all. Be kind
Speaker 1: to each other, love each other kind, and we will
Speaker 1: be back Thursday. Love you bye, Love you,