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Speaker 1: Hello everybody. So before we start the podcast, we wanted

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Speaker 1: to acknowledge what's going on in Israel right now. It's

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Speaker 1: such a heavy time, and it feels like even doing

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Speaker 2: So feels wrong in a way, just because all the videos,

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Speaker 2: everything that we've been seeing, the coverage this past weekend

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Speaker 2: has been horrific. Innocent people being dragged out of their homes.

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Speaker 2: It's just been so horrible to see. I have family

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Speaker 2: there now that is affected by everything going on, and

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Speaker 2: I just, you know, we really wanted to take the

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Speaker 2: time to just stay to say that we stand with

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Speaker 2: Israel and support them and everything that's going on right now.

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Speaker 2: It's just a very heavy time and all.

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Speaker 1: The innocent people who have been attacked or who have

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Speaker 1: had families, and people all over the world who feel

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Speaker 1: the weight of what's happening. I don't think we can

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Speaker 1: even comprehend how severe and tragic and catastrophic this is.

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Speaker 1: And it feels like very helpless in the sense that

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Speaker 1: feels like there's nothing we can do. But at the

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Speaker 1: very least I feel like we can acknowledge it and

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Speaker 1: condemn the acts of terrorism and the violence and the

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Speaker 1: pure evil that's happened and also lift up the people

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Speaker 1: who are suffering and victims to what's been happening. And

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Speaker 1: we know that we're not a podcast that people come

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Speaker 1: to for world news or for political topics, especially.

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Speaker 2: Quite the opposite. You know, we want to be a

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Speaker 2: lighthearted place where people can come for joy and comfort.

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Speaker 2: But we didn't want to go on with our podcast

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Speaker 2: without acknowledging and just you know, being there for our

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Speaker 2: Jewish community and saying that we stand with you and

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Speaker 2: we are praying and praying for love and praying for peace.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Rent, an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 2: Scrub a dub dub.

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Speaker 1: How you doing.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing if you're doing, Yeah, I'm doing. I feel

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Speaker 2: it's a long week.

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Speaker 1: It was a long week.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I hadn't seen you in a

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Speaker 2: very long time, although I just saw you a couple

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Speaker 2: of days ago.

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Speaker 1: It's Saturday, but.

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Speaker 2: Like not very long. I saw you for like ten minutes.

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Speaker 1: It was short because I had told you I was

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Speaker 1: gonna be there too. You came strolling around three thirty.

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Speaker 1: I waited for you, which I did. Yeah, I didn't

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Speaker 1: I was like, it's cute. I know I'm a good friend,

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Speaker 1: even though you try to make me out to look

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Speaker 1: like I don't care. Sometimes, Okay, that is not what

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Speaker 1: I do sometimes.

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Speaker 2: First of all, sometimes that's just the difference in our personalities.

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Speaker 1: No, I definitely I show up when I need to

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Speaker 1: show up, That's true. And I waited for you, so

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Speaker 1: I'd like for that to being knowledge you.

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Speaker 2: We're waiting for me, beca.

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Speaker 1: I love you, You're welcome, Thank you so much you

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Speaker 1: went to you just were like hanging out with Selena

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Speaker 2: I had something every single night this week.

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Speaker 1: So for you.

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Speaker 2: No, I realized that I think I'm an introverted extrovert

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Speaker 1: To think that I was like pretty unique in my

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Speaker 3: We're all introverted extroverts or extroverted introverts. We're all a combination.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I had to discovery this week because mama is, uh,

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Speaker 1: You think it's happened with age maybe maybe yeah?

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Speaker 2: Maybe?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, was it an industry event every night?

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Speaker 2: Industry? No, industry and personal?

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Speaker 2: it was supposed to be. It was initially a gala

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Speaker 1: You called it a gala, so kala gala.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 2: I think it's I think it's like tomato tomato. There's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, galla, all right, it's gala apple, I don't know whatever.

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Speaker 2: So it was the Rare Impact Fund benefit, So that's

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Speaker 2: what kind of kicked off the week, the festivities, and

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Speaker 1: What are your new initials? T r y Try Tanya radyad? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: How on brand? Is the word try?

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Speaker 1: For me?

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Speaker 2: Wow? It's so hopeful.

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Speaker 1: It's so hopeful. It's mirror ball coded. What mirror ball?

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift Oh the song?

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Speaker 2: I was like, where's she going with this?

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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously we speak in swifty language here exactly.

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Speaker 1: Hey, she's Tay, he's Taylor. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: made it in life when you can bid at like

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Speaker 2: a silent auction at those gayla A Wow.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I know I'm gonna know that I've

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Speaker 2: I didn't. Oh, so I'm not there yet for our

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Speaker 2: future galagala, I will be there. But somebody been fifteen

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Speaker 1: What city?

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Speaker 2: I think it said? I think don't quote me because

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Speaker 2: I don't I don't have a photographic memory, but I

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Speaker 2: believe it was kind of your choice two tickets to

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Speaker 1: Your choice fifteen k fifteen row.

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Speaker 2: So there was one. There was one Auctionie though that

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Speaker 2: You can throw away what you could throw away?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I'm not okay, not throw away, but like

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Speaker 1: it's not gonna hurt you, but you could use that

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Speaker 2: Well, the thing is it goes to charity. I'm just saying,

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Speaker 2: It's like it's for charity.

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Speaker 3: Mark says, No, I could never ever spend I don't

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Speaker 2: Even if it was for charity.

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Speaker 1: No, yes you could, Okay easton a meet and greet

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would do that. I would.

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Speaker 2: Would you.

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Speaker 1: The last night of her show in La everyone from

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Speaker 1: near fifteen thousand by was it fifty thousand for two?

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Speaker 3: I was looking through next years, like seeing her in Milan,

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Speaker 1: See that's if there's some sort of meeting great edition,

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Speaker 2: You don't know what kind of ticket you're getting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know about that, and it has to be.

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Speaker 1: that'd be really cool. You seem to have Did you

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Speaker 1: have any hangovers over your weekend? I mean your week of.

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Speaker 2: How was your week before we dive into the weekend,

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Speaker 1: What did I had to look back up? I was talking.

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Speaker 2: You were pretty busy too, was I? Yeah, you were

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Speaker 1: What did I do though? Because I don't remember, I

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Speaker 1: I needed because the last week was wild I did do.

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Speaker 1: So I have another. I have a campaign with Taco

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Speaker 1: Bell which I'm so excited about and so Ali and

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Speaker 1: I love them and I so Ali and I filmed

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Speaker 1: the video where she ate like, tried all my favorite

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Speaker 2: That's your number one favorite Taco Bell item.

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Speaker 1: God, it's so hard, Like I just go back and

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Speaker 1: forth on like what what it is? Because I love

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Speaker 1: the crunch Trap Supreme, I love a Mexican pizza. I

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Speaker 1: She was like, well, I don't know. I feel like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I didn't like it.

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Speaker 1: Actually.

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Speaker 2: I like a bean and cheese bruto. You can't go wrong,

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Speaker 2: chip in there with a little sacho.

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Speaker 1: Cheese, the chip in the beans.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that was my drunken move always that I would

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Speaker 1: WHOA, Sometimes I wish I got to hang out with

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Speaker 1: that Tonya.

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Speaker 1: When you drink like that, Like my body wakes up

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Speaker 2: Know, and it's interesting because I never feel good after

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Speaker 1: Why is that it's so fun in the moment.

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Speaker 2: Does the fun outweigh the pain? I say no, no,

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Speaker 1: Don't try to act like you're not drinking anymore.

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Speaker 1: Okay, No, I gotta say, like it's gotten to where

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Speaker 2: But see, that's what everybody tells me. So so well,

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Speaker 2: I'm not a pot girly. I've never actually smoked pot.

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Speaker 2: I think I've taken one edible in my life, and

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Speaker 2: I don't even think it would like affect an ant.

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Speaker 2: But everybody keeps telling me to try edibles, and I

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Speaker 3: I mean, you could just do nothing like I just

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Speaker 2: So when you go out on the town on like

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Speaker 3: Week before last, Amy and I went out because a

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Speaker 3: Is it a bar in Thousand Oaks? Is there a question?

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Speaker 2: Or yeah? So okay? So you're partaking in lively activities

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Speaker 3: I don't kick back. I'm always kicked either. Either I

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Speaker 3: and relax because I just drink water. That's all I

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Speaker 3: was delicious. I enjoyed the band. I was singing long

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Speaker 2: I see, I need a glass of something.

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Speaker 3: You don't. I don't think you do. I think need

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting perspective.

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Speaker 1: I have a suggestion. What if you got some sparkling

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Speaker 1: Do you think maybe placebo you'd feel like.

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Speaker 3: I think that's really interesting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. It's like, it's not it's it's

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Speaker 2: it's all an interesting experiment.

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Speaker 1: Because you know, I'm asking you to do a social experiment.

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Speaker 2: I try I'll try it this weekend or like an.

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Speaker 3: You can't know about it. If you know about it,

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Speaker 3: then it's not going to work. It's like somebody has

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Speaker 1: You know what. Actually, what's so interesting so that.

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Speaker 2: And they wanted the Social Experiments to have them walk

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Speaker 2: And for sure, But I think that the moral of

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Speaker 3: That that is interesting. But it's all a social experiment, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'd be down to try the mocktail approach this weekend

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Speaker 4: You know, there's one that I like called the Ocho

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Speaker 4: he would he would do a red bull and cranberry

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Speaker 4: Bull, I mean, that gets me going. My head turns

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Speaker 1: Interesting, Yeah, I mean it's worth a shot.

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Speaker 1: And we looked out it is fully pink. Oh mine wasn't.

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Speaker 1: It sort lived, But what I do love is what

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Speaker 1: But one thing I do love is my whole TikTok

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Speaker 1: There's no fear of getting like a freaky deey piece.

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Speaker 2: They just go eating chicken. For thirty six years of

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Speaker 3: I've had some.

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Speaker 2: But there I have. I've had some stinky chicken.

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Speaker 1: I hate that whole phrase. I've had some chicken.

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Speaker 3: Here's the story my daughter has. You know, we've talked

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Speaker 3: chicken parmesan and so I was enjoying that. It was

443
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,199
Speaker 3: two pieces. I gave her one. I took one. I

444
00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:58,640
Speaker 3: was enjoying, and she's like, it's kind of weird. I'm

445
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 3: like that mine's fine, but if you don't want to

446
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:04,879
Speaker 3: donate it, it's okay. It's kind of weird. And I'm like, oh, well,

447
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:06,159
Speaker 3: I mean, then don't need it. If you don't to

448
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:07,880
Speaker 3: eat it. Then she didn't like half fun. She goes, yeah,

449
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 3: I don't want to eat the same. I'm like, all right,

450
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 3: now I'm gonna finish hers. And I took it. Yeah,

451
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 3: it was not good. It was like crunchy and weird.

452
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:15,919
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is weird. So then, but then I

453
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,439
Speaker 3: had a decision to make as a dad, and I

454
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,560
Speaker 3: ate the rest of it. And I'll tell you why,

455
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 3: because at bedtime tonight, her anxiety is going to kick

456
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,159
Speaker 3: in and she's gonna think, oh my gosh, did I

457
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:27,080
Speaker 3: eat bad meat? Am I going to throw up? So

458
00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 3: I ate the rest of that so that I could

459
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 3: say to her, I ate it too, and I feel fine,

460
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 3: You're going to be fine. And it worked sure enough.

461
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,119
Speaker 3: Bedtimes she's like, Dad, do you think I'm gonna throw up?

462
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 3: You think that meat was bad? I'm like, I don't know, hun,

463
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 3: but I ate everything. You wait just to be safe,

464
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:42,919
Speaker 3: and I'm okay. I think my stomach is a little bit.

465
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 3: It's in your head because I ate it and I'm fine.

466
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:48,399
Speaker 3: And that is the sacrifice we make as a father,

467
00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 3: bad bad meat, just to make sure your daughter is

468
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 3: going to be okay. Did you say good night?

469
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 4: Turn and then hold your mouth projectile?

470
00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 1: No?

471
00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,640
Speaker 3: I really did feel fine, but I didn't feel fine.

472
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 3: We'd be together.

473
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 1: That's very sacrificial. I don't know that I could do

474
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 1: the same.

475
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely didn't do the same. Once we got

476
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 2: some raw chicken tenders out when we're skiing.

477
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 1: It was literally not right now? Actually see that. Robbie

478
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: posted a picture of it.

479
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 2: Robbie posted a picture of it on Instagram. Is yes,

480
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 2: I have a visual.

481
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:23,919
Speaker 1: So we're going to take a break and we'll be

482
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 1: right now. Okay, I had to cleanse my palate from

483
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 1: that previous conversation. Should have had a trigger warning on there.

484
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, we're all the.

485
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: Chicken freaky chicken dog. Did you watch Love Is Blind?

486
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 1: Has anyone watched Love Is Blind?

487
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 2: I'm deep in this season spoiler alert.

488
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 1: I'm so irritated that there's only two couples that were like, yeah, hoping.

489
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 2: For It's a bad season and the two couples kind

490
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 2: of suck.

491
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,640
Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't hate I don't really not.

492
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 2: Like uh Lydia and Milton.

493
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 1: I don't really hate either of them. Like I'm not like,

494
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,400
Speaker 1: oh about any I'm just kind of like, eh, I'm

495
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 1: not like I don't.

496
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 2: Either of them, but I'm not invested, like I'm like Izzy,

497
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 2: like Izzy, Yeah, what's the girl's name? He's with Stacy?

498
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:31,120
Speaker 1: Okay? Is that right? And Stacy? Yeah? I think they

499
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 1: go together. Yes, they make sense to me. Yeah, they do,

500
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 1: and then I feel like Milton, yeah, is very into Lydia,

501
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: but I think she's a lot for him, and I.

502
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 2: Think she went on the show to get back together

503
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 2: with her ex boyfriend.

504
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 1: Ouch.

505
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 2: I'm so in that conspiracy theory and.

506
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 1: The whole thing. I just was like, this is a disaster.

507
00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 2: And actually posted something on his Instagram saying you're only

508
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 2: getting one side of the story. Wait till like, yeah, yeah,

509
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 2: they all bugged me at that dinner where they all

510
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 2: came back.

511
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: I was like, this is just a recipe for disaster.

512
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, this season does feel.

513
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 1: Was like, oh my gosh, this season's crazy. It's amazing,

514
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't like it.

515
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 2: Oh really, Yeah, I don't like I like to like

516
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 2: root for people.

517
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: I don't love the drama. That's why I love The

518
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:29,159
Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor. It is so amazing. Yeah, they really have

519
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 1: cast the perfect man to be the first Golden Bachelor. No.

520
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 2: I came around on The Golden Bachelor and yeah, I'm

521
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 2: gonna watch it.

522
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: Okay, we're just we just got to the point where

523
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna watch it.

524
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: Watch no again. It was very busy adventure and I

525
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 2: watched the David Beckham documentary.

526
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 1: I was just talking to Tawny about this.

527
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I did that. But I am going to

528
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 2: watch The Golden Bachelor because it feels like hopeful and

529
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 2: it's yeah best.

530
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. It's so emotional. He's precious. Okay,

531
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: I think we should take a break and then come

532
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: back with some emails.

533
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 3: I could just take it if you want. No one

534
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 3: else is going.

535
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 1: It was like blocked down. I don't even know what happened. Mark,

536
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 1: you were just in another world even look, I was

537
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 1: just looking straight at the paper.

538
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 3: Laura is a newer listener, said I'm a huge fan

539
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 3: of Haley, so I started listening after her and Becca's

540
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 3: relationship became public, and now I'm a bigger fan of

541
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 3: you guys.

542
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 1: Hot take that Hailey. Wow Hailey.

543
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 3: First of all, a bit overdue, but so happy for

544
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 3: Becca and Haley and their relationship launch. And huge congrats

545
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 3: to Tanya on her engagement. So Laura binges this entire

546
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 3: podcast over the past six months, and she was hoping

547
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 3: for some plot twists that could be answered. Number one.

548
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 3: In twenty nineteen, Timey visited a psychic and was given

549
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 3: two initials of a man she would meet in the

550
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 3: month of May. What were those initials?

551
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 2: They were not Robbie's, okay, yeah.

552
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 3: And you can't say what they were you don't remember.

553
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 2: I do?

554
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 1: I think? Wait, I feel like it's not Robbie's. Definitely

555
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: not Robby's, right.

556
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 3: Did you write them down? Are you going through your notes?

557
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see if I have it enough? Did you?

558
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 1: I was trying to look them down to see so.

559
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 3: We know where they aren't Robbies, but what they were

560
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 3: would be kind of interesting withdn't they Okay?

561
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: Do you know what they are?

562
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 2: No?

563
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 1: C H?

564
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 2: Where did you write those?

565
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 1: I just typed in initials on my text thread and

566
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 1: it popped up. Yeah, came back.

567
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 3: In a smart, smart sleuthing over there. Do you know

568
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 3: anyone named c H? Chris Harrison's Collett Hubert works for

569
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 3: our morning show. No, no, it is.

570
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 2: He's like married guys.

571
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 3: Come on, come on, that's true?

572
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: Is he? That wasn't he engaged?

573
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 2: He's married but like multiple children and he's married with

574
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 2: Liam is the one that but he's not LH.

575
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 3: Number two. In the podcast Back Ahead with Jojo, she

576
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:31,719
Speaker 3: mentioned going a date with a known man at the

577
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 3: time she met Haley. Is there any chance you could

578
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 3: reveal the known man you were on a date with.

579
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: No, what I just revealed? Line? Yeah, the yous didn't

580
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: reveal anything. No, it's way too obvious, Chris, I remember. Yeah,

581
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: I'll give you the starting letter of the first name.

582
00:27:58,600 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 3: Intriguing.

583
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:01,919
Speaker 1: Wow, do what you want with that?

584
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:02,679
Speaker 3: All right?

585
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was it was like, it's almost laughable

586
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 1: to even call it a date.

587
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 3: But then why not say it if it's if it

588
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 3: was just a hangout?

589
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: He's famous and I like, you know, I don't know.

590
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 1: He was very private, So yeah, you.

591
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 2: Should say a show.

592
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: No, that will absolutely get it.

593
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 2: On a show, a different one, they will all obviously.

594
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 3: Give it away.

595
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 4: We've narrowed it down now, guy, with a show, everybody.

596
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: Sorts of them. Anyways, it was crazy and fun and

597
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it happened.

598
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 3: I'll just do one guess. Was it Michael Jordan, the

599
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 3: greatest basketball player of all time? No, that's not bad, actually.

600
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: Good guess?

601
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 3: Okay, all right. Brittany says she's been with her boyfriend

602
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 3: for two years and and they went really fast. They

603
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 3: got they moved in very quickly. He moved cities, moving

604
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 3: in with me at six months about a house together.

605
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 3: We've been trying for a baby for over a year now,

606
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 3: but they're not married. But all this has been going on,

607
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 3: he'sn't bringing up combining bank accounts. It's this is an

608
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 3: interesting dilemma because she says, I'm much more financially responsible

609
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 3: and I have virtually no debt, but he makes twice

610
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 3: what I do. He has debt, car payment, credit card payment,

611
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 3: line of credit, and our agreement is he pays the

612
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 3: mortgage payment because I paid the down payment. I paid

613
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 3: the utility bills, and then we have separate bills and

614
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 3: debts and whatnot. Anyway, I'm a little concerned that if

615
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 3: we put our money together it's going to be a

616
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 3: problem because he always ends up in the negative every month,

617
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 3: where I always contribute to my savings account every month

618
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 3: and he makes double what I do. He thinks by

619
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 3: sharing account, we'll and it further ahead, but I'm afraid

620
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 3: he will suck us dry. How and when do you

621
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 3: know if it's time to share finances?

622
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 2: Damn that is you know. It's such an interesting question

623
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: that I find so fascinating because I've been asking a

624
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 2: lot of married people how they do with their finances

625
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 2: because I'm obviously engaged, and I've seen everything from like

626
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 2: married couples venmowing each other for the utilities, splitting stuff

627
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 2: completely down the middle. Some people combine, some people don't

628
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 2: combine but have different responsibilities, like I'll take care of

629
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 2: the kids this, and you take care of the kids this.

630
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 3: What that al strikes me. It's so odd and only

631
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 3: odd because it's foreign to me.

632
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, the venmowing is wild too.

633
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the splitting, like you take care of this bill,

634
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 3: I'll pay for the kids soccer, you do this. And

635
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 3: now that's all very strange to me because we just

636
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 3: compiled everything from day one. So it's all very foreign

637
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 3: to me. I'm not saying it's bad to each their own,

638
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:39,959
Speaker 3: but it's very foreign to me, and it's hard for

639
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 3: me to understand.

640
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: What are you saying? The separation?

641
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 3: The separation?

642
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you so that's how it works. Is that

643
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 2: how it works in your marriages? You both just it's

644
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 2: all just one big pot and that you just yeah.

645
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 4: I mean, because the way I look at it is

646
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 4: I make more than Alison does, but she works on

647
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 4: this job whether or not her name is on it.

648
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 4: You know, Like I'm always like complaining about work and

649
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 4: stuff like that. So she's she's contributing that way.

650
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a therapist. Yeah.

651
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 2: It's interesting because like the older you get and like

652
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 2: when there's you know, kids involved kids prior to your

653
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 2: you know, your marriage, there's there's a lot of nuance

654
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 2: to it. And so I've just been I've been asking

655
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 2: a lot of people how they deal with their finances,

656
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 2: and I think the thing that I realized through all

657
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 2: my research is that there really isn't a wrong way

658
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 2: to do it. You know, like I know so many

659
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 2: different couples that do it in so many different ways.

660
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: And so it's whatever is comfortable to you. If you

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Speaker 2: want to be contributing to your savings account and your

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Speaker 2: partner is not great with money and not good with budgeting,

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Speaker 2: that's your gut instinct. I would go with your gut instinct.

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Speaker 3: One thing we did do before we got married is

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Speaker 3: I made an effort to get my wife out of debt.

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Speaker 3: She had a lot of credit card debt when we

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Speaker 3: were dating, So I just I took care of that

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Speaker 3: so that when we got married we could start fresh. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's what I wanted to do. I think, maybe you

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Speaker 3: tell this guy I'm happy to do that, but you

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Speaker 3: got to clear out the debt you're dealing with, at

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Speaker 3: least your credit card debt, because that can be really

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Speaker 3: a struggle. If you can get rid of that. Okay,

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Speaker 3: he's got a car payment, but get rid of the

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Speaker 3: credit card debt and then may able to talk about it.

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Speaker 3: And honestly, I think you should get married first.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I won't even think about combining

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Speaker 1: anything with someone who is just a boyfriend or girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like she thinks that they're on

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Speaker 2: their way, so she wouldn't be asking that, right because like,

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Speaker 2: these are the conversations that we're having now.

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Speaker 1: No, but I think it's worth a conversation of like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm totally down to like have a joint account that

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Speaker 1: we both put into it. But I I would feel

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Speaker 1: more comfortable if you had cleared if you cleared your

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Speaker 1: debt before we even took that step. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: that's totally fair. I don't think there should be any

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Speaker 1: pressure for her to merge their finances as boyfriend and girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: And also I think it works best if one of

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Speaker 3: you handles the finances.

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Speaker 1: Is that weird, I mean, it's so my relationships so

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Speaker 1: different because I, you know, we're both and like we're

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Speaker 1: both like have our our own thing. We're very separate

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Speaker 1: in sense of finances. But like I like, if if

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Speaker 1: we go to dinner, one of us will pay and

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Speaker 1: it's never a thought again.

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Speaker 2: Right, And that seems like there's a Stree store too,

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Speaker 2: like sometimes he goes sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we just very much split costs. But like we

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Speaker 1: each have our own home, so we obviously pay for that,

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Speaker 1: all the utilities whatever. But yeah, it'd be obviously there

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Speaker 1: will be a different conversation when we live fully together.

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Speaker 1: But I I don't even know. We both have our

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Speaker 1: own things.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's just easier if one person can

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Speaker 3: do all that stuff. And it sounds like it should

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Speaker 3: be her, It should not be him. She should be handled.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she definitely needs to be handling. Definitely her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that'll make it help.

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Speaker 1: But good luck, wish you the best, wish the best.

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Speaker 1: That's all for now, but we do have a Thursday

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Speaker 1: episode somehow. The book called is still happening.

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Speaker 3: Well, the feedback I saw it was overwhelmingly positive for

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Speaker 3: the book club.

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Speaker 1: Great.

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Speaker 3: If people didn't like it, they didn't share that opinion because.

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Speaker 1: A few posts that we're not supportive of the book

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Speaker 1: club continuing, So there was some conflict there, But don't

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Speaker 1: you worry that people who like it. There's a third day,

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Speaker 1: so we will be doing chapters.

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Speaker 4: And if you're not reading the book, you should still

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Speaker 4: listen because there's fun stuff in there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's the thing is. People were like, I'm not

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Speaker 1: even reading the book. I've never read the book. I

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00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: have no desire to read the book. But I like

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Speaker 1: the conversations that it has sparked because it's a kind

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Speaker 1: of a deeper look into some things that we typically

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00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: don't hear on the podcast. So I like that aspect too.

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Speaker 1: But I'm saying as far as like like recapping the book,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, people are like waiting with baited breath.

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Speaker 4: There's no pop quiz or anything. If you don't know

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Speaker 4: how to read it, you can still listen to the episode.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's this kind of a book. If it

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Speaker 3: was like a narrative, Okay, so then this week Josie

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Speaker 3: went down to the river and the treasure, it'd be different.

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Speaker 2: It's not. I don't know, something like.

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Speaker 1: The parts that we're reading are recapping this week are

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Speaker 1: burn aches or let it burn? Aches and ghosts, So

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Speaker 1: we'll be back Thursday. We love you all. Be kind

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Speaker 1: to each other, love each other kind, and we will

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Speaker 1: be back Thursday. Love you bye, Love you,