WEBVTT - Textual Healing: America's Next Top BF 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:03.840 You've got texting problems and we've got solutions. Yes, brand 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:06.279 new episode today on the Second Date podcast. 0:00:06.360 --> 0:00:07.880 You found it the official one. 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:10.280 All right, it's Brock and Jeffrey in the morning, and 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:12.440 today we got a brand new textual healing where someone 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:13.680 has a texting problem and we. 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:14.200 Help them out. 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:16.159 Yeah, you're gonna hear that in just a second. But 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:18.759 we always love to start by highlighting our listeners. 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:22.840 Yes, and tintintin Joy said, I use your podcast as 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:25.880 my daily shower timer. The second I skip the ads, 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:28.800 it's go time. I need to be out before it ends, 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:31.920 or I'm late for work. 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Because with big 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:19.920 risk comes big rewards. That's right, and that's could be. 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:22.640 That's why one of our listeners needs help today. He 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:25.440 wants to take a huge leap of faith with a 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.559 very special person in his life, and if he doesn't 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:32.240 do it right, their six year friendship could possibly be 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:37.160 ruined forever. Big risk, big reward. We're going to try 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:39.280 to help him out in a brand new textual healing 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:51.680 next text you will healing textual? Is it different texting 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:58.240 your mom versus texting your love interest? For some of us, 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:03.040 we can take the same cues. Be polite, also playful, 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:05.320 put funny over flirty? 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:07.560 No no, no. 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:09.560 More flirty first with your mom? 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:10.120 None of it? 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:12.680 Oh well, I agree. Nobody wants to be like bro, 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:14.359 can you hurry up? And you're like, hold on a 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:16.520 flirt with my mom? O, peach. 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:20.079 Emotion send See it sounds just as bad as you say, 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:21.519 hold on, I'm being funny. 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:21.760 With my mom. 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:26.320 Yeah. The differences can be very subtle, a little tough 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:29.079 to navigate, and that's where we can step in help 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:31.720 with a little textual healing. The segment where we help 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:35.280 a listener craft the perfect message to send to whoever 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:39.040 they need for whatever unusual situation they find themselves. 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:40.920 We're hanging up if they say they need help with 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:41.760 their mom. Yeah. 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:44.200 Today one of our listeners has reached out seeking some 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:49.720 tender textual gratification with one of his love interests. Definitely 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:52.440 not his mom, at least I hope not. His name 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:54.120 is Mike, Mike, Welcome to the show. 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:57.280 Hey, thanks, Yeah, sorry about that weird start. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:03:00.840 Yeah, that was. We're gonna get back on track for you. 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:02.320 Have a mom on this show that could help give 0:03:02.320 --> 0:03:04.880 you advice. If that makes you feel more comfortable. 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:07.600 That'd be good. Yeah, my mom would be good. Good. 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:11.919 Nice. Brought to hear that he's in the Moms pro 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:14.360 mom keep going, Jeff going on. 0:03:14.400 --> 0:03:17.400 The stuff or into the love into the lot. 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:20.600 Yeah, let's talk about that. Who do you want help texting? 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:23.600 I want him texting my friend Chloe? 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:24.919 Oh you say friends? 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:27.320 Tell you guys, is this one of those things where 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:29.880 you're ready to make the jump from friendship to something 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.480 more with Chloe? 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:35.160 I mean I don't know. I don't know. I don't know, 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:35.880 I don't know. 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:38.280 Okay, I love that nervous energy. 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:41.240 How long have you and Chloe been quote unquote friends, 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:43.720 like sixty or seven years? 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:46.920 And how long have you wanted more with Chloe? 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:50.960 I don't know. We've always been friendly, but like I 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.240 think from the beginning it was the full six or 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:56.280 seven years, Like you got. 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:57.480 To tell us a little more than I don't know, 0:03:57.520 --> 0:03:59.440 because we can't just text for that eight times. 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:01.960 Yeah, Like what's the nature of the friendship been. 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:05.360 Like yeah, yeah, I mean we've just always been pal 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:11.000 and she's always been in relationships and okay. 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:12.360 And your window has opened. 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:15.520 Yes, it has. I just feel like she always has 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:18.800 these like really handsome boyfriends, and like like a few 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:21.760 months ago, we were at another friend's birthday and she 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:24.640 basically just like talked to me in the corner like 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:27.920 the whole time. And this has happened before, Like we 0:04:27.960 --> 0:04:30.880 always kind of wind up together in the corner of 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:34.160 her room, and I. 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:36.080 Feel like there's something there where she's not spending time 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:40.159 with her boyfriend. She's specifically like to hang out with 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:44.239 you instead. Yeah, yeah, well that's a good sign. 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:47.440 See all I'm hearing is she has handsome ex boyfriends 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:48.320 and that's what Matt. 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:51.800 Yeah, she's an awesome girl and she's the one who 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:53.559 breaks up with them because she's great. 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:54.880 Oh that's cute. 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:56.400 She's single now though. 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:58.880 Yeah, what happened? How did this come out? So that 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:01.000 like now is the right time to make your move. 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:04.240 It just is the first time I think since I've 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:06.839 ever known her that she's like one hundred percent single. 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:12.440 There's no situationship, there's no there's no other person, And 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:16.159 I'm just wondering if it's the right time to be 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:18.920 vulnerable and see if she'd be open to something. I 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:22.280 just have no clue how to do that. Yeah, have you. 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:26.520 Ever gotten any vibes or yeah, or any friends have 0:05:26.600 --> 0:05:27.320 said anything? 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:30.520 Yeah, that Chloe may feel the same about you. 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:32.760 No one said anything. But it's just the thing I 0:05:32.800 --> 0:05:35.200 told you about the party, Like that. I have ten 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:37.960 more examples of that where it's just there's no need 0:05:38.000 --> 0:05:40.200 for her to like be with me, Like she could 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:43.039 be with her literal boyfriend, and it seems like she'd 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:46.039 rather be with me. You know, I'm just a guy, 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:49.320 but like I feel this attraction towards her, and I 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:52.520 like This can't be one sided. This can't be it's 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:52.800 just me. 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:55.760 Yeah, okay, you got to get a feeler out there 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:57.280 to see if she likes you. 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.960 Right, So, but I'm just wondering where in this puzzle 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:01.320 piece does your mom come in? 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:04.040 Leave the mom out? 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:06.280 And there's no mother involvement whatsoever? 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:09.360 No mom involvement. 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:12.000 Okay, well that takes my area of expertise out of this. 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:14.039 It's going to be more on Brook now to come 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.039 up with something good to send your love interest. 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:18.040 I was going to say, where have you left your 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:20.440 last text with her? Because I say, yeah, you guys 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:22.680 are friends, so you text. I mean, are you at 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:25.560 a friendship level where you text individually or is it 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:26.560 always group chats? 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:29.880 No? No, like we'll send each other funny videos and 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:31.880 stuff for like okay things. 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:34.440 Yeah, but how do you move the relationship now from 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:38.080 a friendship into a potential romance? That's what you're wondering 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:42.120 to do via a text message. So let's start brainstorming. 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:44.520 Let's just break the eyes with So you're single. 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:49.960 Huh, alexis what do you have any ideas of what 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:50.719 he should send? 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:57.320 Okay, that was good, she said, inside joke. 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.080 Oh that's vague. 0:06:59.120 --> 0:06:59.680 That's all I got. 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:02.400 I send each other memes and videos. You may have 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:04.280 an inside joke of something. 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:08.120 I mean, they're so like circumstantial, you know, they like 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:12.080 fade in. Yeah, no, no, okay, okay, we. 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:12.960 Almost add something. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:15.600 I mean, maybe you bring up the fact that she's single, 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:19.760 and it's like self deprecating, like, oh, you dropped another 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:21.160 model boyfriend again. 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:25.920 Huh, I hope he's not. He's not heartbroken, or you know, 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:27.680 like something sarcastic. 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:29.800 A lonely party of you. 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:35.040 Now she's doing the breaking up, she's not heartbroken about it, 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:36.640 so it's like back a compliment. 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.040 Yeah, you could actually lead that into more like good 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:40.440 thing you and me could never get together. 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:43.600 I'm way too attractive for you. Something like that. 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:47.400 Okay, but silly, playful like you would with your mom. Yes, god, 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:49.920 I think I think. 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:51.960 If we start by bringing up the fact that she's 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:55.920 single right now, then it'll help us lead to. 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:58.520 The mental Yeah, okay, go ahead towards that. Start typing, 0:07:58.600 --> 0:07:59.760 remind her that she's single. 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:03.840 Mike woke up without a boyfriend. 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:10.040 Yeah, wow, dropped another from I don't know, America's top model. 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:10.960 What do you think about that? Mike? 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:13.280 I mean, yeah, that could work. 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:16.960 I would start telling, Okay, hey, like heard you had 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:20.760 to drop another beautiful model boyfriend. 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:24.600 Another heartbroken gorgeous man out on the streets, laugh emoji. 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:26.560 And ask if you're okay, but I know you're fine. 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.160 Yeah, that's good. You know if you're okay, but I 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:29.800 know you're fine. 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:31.400 Yeah, Like you're also being a good friend. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:38.440 Heard you had to drop another beautiful model boyfriend. What 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:39.040 was the next thing. 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:42.240 I'd ask if you're okay, but I know you're probably fine. 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:44.680 Yeah, and then an emoji laughomol emoji. 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:48.680 Yeah, I'd ask if you're okay, but I know you're 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:54.360 probably fine, laugh emoji. Okay, got it, And. 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:56.480 Then she can write back something sarcastic about how the 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.640 hot ones are not always the smart ones or something. 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:01.960 Yeah, or it causes a rift in your friendship because 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:04.400 you accused her of being single. So we'll see how 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:04.880 it goes. 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.160 She dumped him, Jeff, Not all breakups are bad. 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:09.960 Yeah, I don't know if you know that when they're 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:11.959 beautiful model boy friends, I would think it hurts a 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:12.520 little bit more. 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:13.760 But she's going through them, dude. 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:17.720 Yeah, so we've sent that. We'll see if your friend 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:21.000 Chloe responds, when we come back and we do more 0:09:21.240 --> 0:09:26.520 textual healing, non mom edition coming up, Why it's not 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:29.880 mom we're doing right after this. Hold on, We're in 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:34.319 the middle of textual healing with our overly talkative listener, Mike, 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:39.000 who would just not shut up about his longtime friend Chloe, 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:42.120 who he's hoping to become more than just friends with 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:46.480 now that she's finally single and moved on from her hunky, 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:50.000 well endowed model boyfriends. We didn't know that part, well, 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:52.960 we can assume. So how do we get the friend 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:57.480 ball rolling in the romantic direction? We suggested he start 0:09:57.600 --> 0:10:02.079 by first reminding her that she's single in a playful way, 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:05.760 by saying, Wow, heard you had to drop another gorgeous 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:08.920 model boyfriend. I'd ask if you're okay, but I know 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:12.240 you're fine, laugh EMOCHI. Yes, yeah, so we sent that 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:15.200 a little while ago. Has she responded yet, Mike? 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:16.800 Yeah, she actually did. 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:21.440 Oh I can never tell if you're excited, Mike, like 0:10:21.520 --> 0:10:22.600 what your emotions are? 0:10:22.920 --> 0:10:25.800 You're just so nervous right now or whatever medications you're on, 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:29.640 they're totally working. But she wrote back, What did she say? 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.680 She said? Yep, I guess I need to go to 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:36.000 the GQ store at the mall and find another. 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:38.560 Another model boyfriend. 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:40.840 That's that's pretty funny. 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:43.480 What if you rote back and said, but have you 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:44.679 ever tried the boot Barn? 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:48.640 And that's where we go on to say that I'm 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:49.719 the guy at the boot Bar. 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:52.200 Do we have to go all the way to the 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:55.200 basement from the models all the way down to like 0:10:55.360 --> 0:11:04.360 backwater about the middle the gap? Yeah, okay, cope, you're 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:05.840 not getting offended by any of this? 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:09.360 No, no, no, all right, so like we're going with 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:11.040 boot Barn or the Rack. 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:14.400 Wait, don't like us, literally, we're kind of kidding here. 0:11:14.440 --> 0:11:15.880 I wasn't. 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:19.160 I'm actually supporting brooks idea a little bit here because 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:22.439 the humors there, it's still a little flirty, playful, okay, 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:25.439 and the insinuation is look at me. 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:27.760 This is what I think you should say. But have 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:30.480 you ever tried shopping at the boot Barn? I'm still 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:31.840 a boot Barn. I think it's funnier. 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:36.920 But whatever, the rack, whatever, slow class store you want 0:11:36.920 --> 0:11:39.679 to refer to yourself as put that in. 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:41.920 She still kind of likes though, yeah. 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:43.400 Yeah, like make it a good one. 0:11:43.480 --> 0:11:46.079 Yeah, I do like boot Barn. So okay, I am, 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:47.920 I'm gonna say boob barn he likes. 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:49.959 The question is, do you think that she'll one hundred 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:53.640 percent understand the subtle messaging that he's trying to put 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:54.040 out there. 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:56.440 Yeah, are best friends and they have humor. 0:11:56.679 --> 0:11:59.720 She's dropping hot boys because she's emotionally intelligent. 0:11:59.840 --> 0:12:02.120 Okay, she gets it. She's the one that brought up 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:03.040 the GQ store. 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.959 Okay, funny, all right, cowboys. Send that boot barn text 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:06.920 and see what she says. 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:11.440 All right, someone say maybe you should try shopping at 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:16.000 the boot barn and then boot emoji like that. Yeah, 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:16.680 all right, send. 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:19.880 She's gonna be like, great idea, I love cowboys, Yeah, 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.480 darned idn't. 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:23.920 Or she's just gonna go like at a wardrobe thing, 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:25.760 like takes it too literally. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.440 We may need to then follow up immediately with saying 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:31.240 that you're the option, right. 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:37.720 Like question, yes, stories, back and forth, because the joke 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:38.959 will go on for too long. 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:41.800 Like now we've been playful. I think next we need 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:42.440 to be direct. 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:44.640 Yeah, and hopefully she just gets it and it's like, 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:45.840 oh really, just. 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:47.880 Say actually I would love to take you out on 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:48.240 a date. 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:50.600 I mean, honestly, you guys. Hold on, hold on, she's 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:57.160 okay what she say, I'm actually starting to realize the 0:12:57.240 --> 0:13:01.920 pretty ones aren't as pretty on the inside. Yeah. See, 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:04.960 you're actually pretty boring eye roll. Yeah, more like a 0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:09.559 temporary cat toy. Play with them for a while till 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:10.200 it gets old. 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:11.680 Yeah. 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:14.480 Okay, Oh, I like her, like he's. 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:16.960 Getting sick of the pretty boys. So she's looking for this. 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:18.920 This is still just two friends talking, though, I mean, 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:20.880 how do we get it to be a little more flirty? 0:13:21.000 --> 0:13:22.920 Yeah? I mean I think this is part of the 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:26.000 more direct line, right because she's getting more serious right 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.760 now in this in this tax exchange, we can drop 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:29.199 the humor. 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:30.400 Now, maybe just. 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.360 Ask you said, drop the humor. Maybe it's like, have 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:34.240 you ever considered dating a friend? 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:34.840 Yeah? 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:38.560 Literally, that's a general Oh Bill, I love it. Mike, 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:39.200 what do you think? 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:41.400 I'm scared? But let's yeah, let's do it. 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:44.120 I mean, Mike, I could tell by your emotions that 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:46.199 you're super scared. You're all over the place. You got 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:49.559 to calm down a little bit, we focus, Okay. 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:52.320 Squirrely was that his big energy is that? 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:55.559 It was kind of overwhelming, Mike, So let's temper that 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.200 and write this message. What should he say, Jose, Just 0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:58.679 tell her? 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:00.800 Have you ever considered dating a friend? 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:04.760 And what about the guy shrugging emoji? Yeah that's playful. 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:09.400 I don't think Yeah, okay, buff guys shrugging. There we go. 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:14.800 Now now I feel like it's false. Advertisement said that 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:16.360 he's offering both arms. 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:19.440 Have you ever considered dating a friend shrugging? 0:14:22.960 --> 0:14:24.400 You're talking about you? 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:25.720 You have other hot friends in your group? 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:29.240 Because oh shoot, I was thinking about I wish you 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:30.880 hadn't sent it, because I was thinking of adding something 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:34.440 about a mom, like something really funny about it. It's 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:38.920 too late, a friend, a mom. 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:42.720 Looking on one thing, and we just can't let it go. 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:49.720 Yeah, come through, okay, boot lady. Geez, fine, that was clutch. 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:51.440 I did right, I got here. 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:55.000 Oh my god, guys, she texted back. Oh my god, oh. 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:56.320 My god, oh my god. 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:57.760 Bad? What did she say? 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:01.600 Okay? She said, do you want me to date down? 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:02.680 Wink face? 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:07.240 She knows that you, she doesn't know what's him. 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:09.080 Why would she the wink face? 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:13.440 Maybe about flirting back? 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:16.360 You smji without being cleared? 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:18.840 So you want me to date down wing? 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:23.000 More? There's more, there's more, she said, I'd be lying 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:25.280 if I said it hadn't crossed my mind. 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:34.760 Gosh, wait, any clarification. I am excited. You're talking about me? Right? 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:36.920 If you're right back? You're right back? 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:39.360 Does this mean I can take you to dinner and 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:41.080 the discount Ben this weekend? 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:42.080 That's good. 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:46.040 It's called a callback, the Discount Ben and the like. 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:50.600 You know, Brook, Alexis has no idea what you said? 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:53.720 How about clearance rack? 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:55.000 Would that works for you? 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.680 If you want to throw in a Cuban joke, She's 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:00.800 giving you the green light to go for it. It 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:02.520 sounds like, so just go for it. You don't have 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:03.480 to be cute about it. 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:04.960 You need to confirm those. 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:07.280 It has to be you. Does this mean I can 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:08.640 take you to dinner this weekend? 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:09.520 There you go? 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:15.240 All right, Mike, please calm down. You are all over 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:16.160 the place right now? 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:17.840 All right? 0:16:18.160 --> 0:16:18.560 All right? 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:21.920 Does this mean I can take you to dinner this weekend? Yeah? 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:27.400 This is this could be super small. Yeah, yeah, I'm excited. 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:29.320 Your voice did crack when you say it? Are you 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:30.800 sure you want to go through with this? 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:30.720 Yes? 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:33.560 Do it? Do it? She opened the door. 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:37.640 I sent it, no turning back. 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:39.240 Now, I'm so excited. 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:41.960 This is either going she make a whole new, wonderful 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:43.640 relationship or ruin the friendship. 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:46.120 She said a week emoji it has to. 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:49.240 Be him, right, I said, My mom with emojis all 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:50.880 the time. It doesn't mean anything. 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:52.200 We're back here. 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:54.680 Okay, Mike, I'm gonna give you some instructions. First, lay 0:16:54.720 --> 0:17:00.680 on the ground. Close your eyes. Yeah, was killing time 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:03.520 until we get a message back. Close your eyes on zip. 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:07.800 We don't know. I'm just trying to fill the empty space. 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:09.399 Okay. 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:11.760 Oh my okay, oh he unzipped. 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:19.200 You say he got respond what you say? 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:20.200 What did she say? 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:22.720 She said, if you can keep your emotions in check, 0:17:23.200 --> 0:17:24.960 you can come over and spend the night. 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:31.080 Whoa, whoa, Wait a minute, this is good, right. She's 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:34.160 obviously being sarcastic about his emotions because we've seen how 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:35.240 emotional this guy is. 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:39.240 Definitely, I mean, Mike, you're not spending the night. You 0:17:39.280 --> 0:17:41.240 want a long term relationship. You don't want to be 0:17:41.280 --> 0:17:41.880 a cat toy. 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:45.240 They've been friends for six or seven years. Spend the night. 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.040 You go right over there right now. 0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:51.920 To be a cat Yeah, that's right. 0:17:52.400 --> 0:17:56.520 Plenty of dinners together. Okay, I think it's so cute. 0:17:56.680 --> 0:17:57.720 Our job is done. 0:17:58.040 --> 0:17:59.159 You have a slubber party. 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:02.760 Thank you guys, you're welcome. 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:06.000 Wait, yes, how are you feeling right now? 0:18:06.080 --> 0:18:11.400 Mike three boots, three boot Barns. Yes, really good. 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:19.040 You've ruined him right, I'm not bringing my own sleeping bag. 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:28.480 What brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:18:28.600 --> 0:18:30.800 You know, it's been about a week since we recorded that, 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:33.760 and we still have not heard how it went when 0:18:33.760 --> 0:18:36.480 he went to her place or a bad thing. I 0:18:36.520 --> 0:18:40.000 don't know. Either it went amazing and he's never left, 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:41.920 or it went horrible and he doesn't want to talk 0:18:41.960 --> 0:18:44.480 to us. We got to get an update from him 0:18:44.520 --> 0:18:45.200 at some point. 0:18:45.240 --> 0:18:48.520