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Speaker 2: Just to be ready, Oh you're.

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Speaker 1: Willing to do that for eight hundred Barbadian dollars, you're

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Speaker 2: Is it actually the currency of Barbados?

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Speaker 1: Check Barbadiana. You'll never know. And one of our listeners

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Speaker 3: Hi, thank you so much for having me.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, this setup to all of this makes

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well, when you say it like that, I guess.

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Speaker 1: But there's no shame in doing like a sketchy money

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Speaker 3: If you're happy with the amount with pride me though.

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Speaker 1: Okay, to tell us about this person that you met

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I met the sky Sam at a charity auction.

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Speaker 3: It's basically I'm trying to raise money building a new

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Speaker 3: So part of the event was auctioning off gate.

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Speaker 4: So wait, were you being auctioned off or was he

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Speaker 1: No, I was auctioned, I will say, and I maybe shouldn't.

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Speaker 1: It's a room of experienced date auctions. How have you

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Speaker 1: But Anila, How did you feel when you were being

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Speaker 3: So then he asked me like, hey, what number are

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, and it was luckily that joke landed well.

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Speaker 4: Did Sam ever know that was your ex? Or was

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did he who won the date?

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Speaker 2: He loves? Did you actually verbally say yuck? When he won?

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Speaker 3: You start crying on stage? Well, it's obviously for charity,

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Speaker 2: It's just bad that he can't get over it.

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Speaker 1: Can we ask how much money you went for? Is

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Speaker 2: No, it's no, it's not room at all.

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Speaker 3: And I, for the record, definitely think I'm worth more

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Speaker 1: I thought you were going to say twenty grand, but okay.

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Speaker 2: It's respectable charities do you go to.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to say what the Illuminati does and

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Speaker 4: But with your ax, Yeah, but it sucks because then

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Speaker 3: No? I didn't. I'm not looking forward to it, but

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Speaker 1: But what happened after the auction ended with Sam? Were

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I told him that, and I was actually able

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Speaker 4: There we go telling you that he's like, what, I

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Speaker 2: Awesome?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I haven't contacted him yet. I was hoping

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, are we going to call him and

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm nervous. It's a crazy night and I love you

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Speaker 1: Maybe we could frame it like the other date fell

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Speaker 4: Is that he's gonna think that he still ows two

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Speaker 1: Well, then we'll take the two thousand dollars.

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Speaker 3: Okay, now we're.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we have needs, but okay, the whole point is

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Speaker 2: Like why would he say no?

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Speaker 3: I guess I'm kind of surprised that he didn't find

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Speaker 6: She's a five foot six brunette but five foot nine

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Speaker 1: Her name is Mela. Now let's start the bidding at

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Speaker 1: fourteen million dollars. Oh, I hear fourteen million? Fourteen million?

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Speaker 1: it sold.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that was actually official, Mila.

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Speaker 4: Yeah for you, you just want a lot of money

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Speaker 1: I know you're worth Mela.

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Speaker 2: How do you feel, Ameila?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so he doesn't like that much and wants to

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Speaker 2: Did you have to say that part out loud?

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Speaker 1: What is dot?

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey was gonna mention it. Yeah, you're gonna blow up her.

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Speaker 1: Spy sometimes, you know, I like to brainstorm with everybody

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Speaker 1: We're all in agreement. It was all my idea. So

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Speaker 1: number right now? Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Sam.

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Speaker 5: This is Sam.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Sam, nice to meet you. You're on a radio

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Speaker 1: show right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what an experience.

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Speaker 4: We often auctioned this type of experience off at charity

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Speaker 1: Wasn't as smooth as it head. I'm pretty sure Sam

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Speaker 1: has no idea what you so, Sam, Sorry for the

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Speaker 5: Okay, And the.

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Speaker 1: Reason that my co host eloquently broke you spilled something

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Speaker 1: Do you remember me?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah. Did you meet any cute ladies there?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 5: Actually, there was one in particular I really liked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, was her name Brooke? Brooke doesn't do a

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Speaker 2: He didn't say, He didn't say drunk lady. He said lady.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're talking about a girl named Mela. Is that

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Speaker 2: She super serious and I just heard your smile.

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Speaker 5: When we said her name.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you like about Mela?

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Speaker 5: Mela was just breathtaking. She stood out from the crowd,

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Speaker 1: You know, was so sweet and so relatable and so breathtaking,

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Speaker 1: But not breathtaking enough to spend more than two thousand

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there was another guy outbid me.

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Speaker 2: What were you feeling when that was happening.

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Speaker 5: It was kind of intense. I mean I didn't have

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Speaker 1: It sounds like that guy had a lot of money.

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Speaker 2: You really, she's not actually a thing an item. You

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, but right after somebody bid on her,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well if you don't want to do it in

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Speaker 2: But these things are your actual romance. I mean, they're

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Speaker 1: Work where they are. Yeah, they're not supposed to did

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Speaker 5: He is definitely was on my mind. So funny thing

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Speaker 2: Oh you did?

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Speaker 1: Did you run up your sleeves and say best man wins?

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Speaker 5: I mean, like I said, I really had a connection

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Speaker 6: Yeah, oh no, wow, whoa that is news?

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Speaker 2: Come on, we knew that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, I mean I tell her was bad. I

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Speaker 5: He was getting all teary eyed talking about how much

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Speaker 2: Did he listen to you? Has he moved on?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Well, I mean it took a little bit of

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Speaker 2: Why does Mela not know this?

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Speaker 5: Well, it's going to be a surprise, like people's going

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me by not saying one thing? We

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Speaker 2: That's actually really cute and really sweet.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, dude. The reason why we're reacting this way

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Speaker 5: Are you there? It was going to be a nice surprise.

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Speaker 5: I was looking forward to saying.

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Speaker 4: We feel bad already, Mela, Mela, No, I'm still surprised.

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Speaker 3: I'm so surprised. That's so sweet.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 5: Get to see your reaction in person.

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Speaker 1: But wait, wait, hold on, Mela, Mela, are you okay

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Speaker 3: You guys are so sweet. Like, I know you feel

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Speaker 1: Are you sure? Yeah? Are you sure, Mela? Because we

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Speaker 1: to let's see how high we can go with this,

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Speaker 5: He's gonna have to pay me a lot if he

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Speaker 2: I feel like you.

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Speaker 4: Need to start calling more exes of just other random

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Speaker 2: So like move on.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, not unless that Mela's.

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Speaker 2: How were you planning on telling her?

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Speaker 1: I mean it was all, yeah, you're just gonna be

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Speaker 2: But this is going to get more ready, I care

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Speaker 1: What she would have worn before? Yeah, because Mela, you

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no, not at all.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure Mela would have looked amazing no matter of

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Speaker 6: Sick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now I'm giving a little nauseous.

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Speaker 1: So, well, what we normally do is we offer to

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Speaker 2: They're going to go on two dates now.

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Speaker 1: After the date that you've already paid for, would you

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Speaker 1: like to go on another date after that and we'll

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Speaker 1: pay for that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Oh my god, he is so too. He's already

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Speaker 2: planning the next days.

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Speaker 1: So cute, well Brook, Technically I plan this so I

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, technically the X plan the first one.

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Speaker 1: So you're really have to step up your game here. Okay, Sam,

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Speaker 1: You're not doing a whole lot over there.

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Speaker 7: I'll try my best spear cut brooking Jeffrey in the

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Speaker 7: morning and the award for the cutest couple in a

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Speaker 7: second date update.

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Speaker 1: For this entire year goes to and Sam dead well,

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Speaker 1: they do.

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Speaker 2: Not polis batter an update. I am going to be

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Speaker 2: so upset.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, you're the chemistry. So many texts into seven eighty

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Speaker 4: We didn't know and he wasn't even mad that he

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like he could have been, like, what she was gonna

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Speaker 2: go out with me anyway?

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Speaker 1: What I spent on my money for more than that

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Speaker 1: I knew we could. But anyway, I can't wait to

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Speaker 1: hear from them again. As long as their update is

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Speaker 1: and that the X showed up to the date anyway

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Speaker 1: and decided to fight for her, that could be entertaining. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're right, I would like to hear.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't sound like a fighter. He sounds like more

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Speaker 2: of a crier. Yeah, he's like with check Bounce.

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Speaker 1: But we can always try and help you with your

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Speaker 1: love life. If you ever need a little bit of assistance,

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Speaker 1: email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 1: you back. You can go check out all of our

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Speaker 1: second dates wherever you get your podcasts at Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning