Speaker 1: I have more hair on my face than I've ever
Speaker 1: had in my life. I'm growing everywhere, Like I just
Speaker 1: sit here and pet my fur.
Speaker 2: It's like I'm petty Cowie. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2: Welcome everybody to the Preaking.
Speaker 1: It's been a minute. You've seen one another. I've missed
Speaker 1: you you I would to do calm down. I saw
Speaker 1: you was in Montana. We have to go on vacation
Speaker 1: to see one another, and we've missed all of you.
Speaker 1: We apologize. We have had life things happen. So we
Speaker 1: are back, and so is in Sync, which leads us
Speaker 1: to our first question. Anna, Oh my god, how blonde
Speaker 1: can I be? I did just get my hair done? Ok?
Speaker 2: Great, a natural?
Speaker 1: I am not a natural, Rise says in Sync is back,
Speaker 1: discuss not to be confused with backstreets back.
Speaker 2: All right, all right, I don't I guess they're back.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Justin we were listening to his album
Speaker 1: in Montana. I saw that they performed together. I would
Speaker 1: go to that. I can't wait for us to go
Speaker 1: to see Justin. When may we got to figure that out.
Speaker 1: We have a lot of concerts were supposed to be
Speaker 1: going to that We hid two circles, really marks marks
Speaker 1: the spot, write it down in sync. I was definitely
Speaker 1: more of an in sync person than Backstreet Boys, although
Speaker 1: in high school, my high school, not my long term
Speaker 1: high school boyfriend, but my last little fling of a
Speaker 1: high school boyfriend.
Speaker 2: He was older, he was a senior when I was
Speaker 2: a sophomore.
Speaker 1: But he was one of the Backstreet in like the
Speaker 1: school talent show thing. He was one of them that
Speaker 1: performed and he did like a whole serenade. Shout out
Speaker 1: to J Lewis. Was J Lewis up to these days?
Speaker 1: He was a great construction worker. This guy he could
Speaker 1: fix anything. In fact, I could use him at the ranch.
Speaker 1: Jay Lewis, are you available for hire? And he can
Speaker 1: sing to you as well. Favorite in sync song.
Speaker 2: Bye Vibe.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I'm not always one of those
Speaker 1: people that I never know the name of the song.
Speaker 2: This, I promise you. I mean really him.
Speaker 1: Shit, wow, lifestyle love songs. Oh my god, this brings
Speaker 1: up all kinds of emotions for you. What was his name?
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I just I love when jay Z
Speaker 1: or not jay Z JC and Justin They hit their
Speaker 1: parts obviously dirty pop or dirty bird pop pop, dirty
Speaker 1: pop pop pop.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did.
Speaker 1: I feel like Kendron and you both knew the dance too,
Speaker 1: Bye bye bye for sure you did? Okay, love those boys?
Speaker 1: Next up girl, Okay? Anonymous, Yes, it's been a minute.
Speaker 1: My fiance and I decide I like to read anonymous
Speaker 1: with this kind of like tone. My fiance and I
Speaker 1: decided to have a small, private ceremony with a larger reception.
Speaker 1: After now people are upset they weren't invited to this ceremony.
Speaker 1: How do you respond? You don't who wants to go
Speaker 1: to a ceremony? And I'm sorry, I want to go
Speaker 1: to yours, Chris, after no one wants to go into yours.
Speaker 1: And it was hysterical. It was a vow about the
Speaker 1: guests that were in the audience. It was really funny.
Speaker 2: Oh no, they're so ridiculous.
Speaker 1: You know what, Actually, I think this is a as
Speaker 1: someone that's had two ceremonimonies and no one was invited,
Speaker 1: I think this is a great way to show why
Speaker 1: those people shouldn't have been at the ceremony to begin with. Like,
Speaker 1: if they're going to get upset about that, then they're
Speaker 1: not good enough friends. By the way, I would be
Speaker 1: thanking anyone that was like, hey, yo, just show up
Speaker 1: for the party.
Speaker 2: Let's get the promises. This I promise you.
Speaker 1: I will not make you go to the nuptials, only
Speaker 1: the after party. I see this with all due respect
Speaker 1: to all of my friends and even yours. When I'm
Speaker 1: praying there's going to be a wedding for you, I
Speaker 1: want that, but I would rather cut to I would
Speaker 1: rather go pregame while you're getting married.
Speaker 2: And then see you at the post. You know, I don't.
Speaker 1: Hey, I got here's the only nuptials I will be doing.
Speaker 1: I don't stop it. I'm never getting married again. I
Speaker 1: will have a party, though we've talked to great this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we will have a party. You pick the venue, tell
Speaker 1: me what day it is, and I will show up.
Speaker 1: But I ain't doing any of those other things. Third
Speaker 1: time is not the charm ladies and gentlemen, you know,
Speaker 1: and I disagree.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep working on you and this I promise you.
Speaker 1: Okay, you and I have a better chance of getting
Speaker 1: married before I get married again to Steve, God love him.
Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with Steve, all right, we've
Speaker 1: got Dennis Kovechy. By the way, this should be a
Speaker 1: game us figuring out those names. How to deal with
Speaker 1: jealous insecure women? Who's dating your platonic guy friend? How
Speaker 1: to deal with jealous insecure woman who's dating your platonic
Speaker 1: guy friend? Oh, like the new girlfriend's jealous of you?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Wow, and you're like good relationship. I honestly, how come
Speaker 1: I'm not getting it?
Speaker 2: What do you mean? Who's jealous?
Speaker 1: So your best guy friend, okakay is dated platonic, she's
Speaker 1: insecure and jealous.
Speaker 2: Of your friendship?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you got to ditch that chick.
Speaker 1: You know what I started doing playing it up? Of
Speaker 1: course you do late night sending, not even what's up?
Speaker 1: It's me thinking about you.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm trying to think if I had
Speaker 1: a situation. Yeah, I mean I think that if if
Speaker 1: you're not secure enough with your boyfriend to have girlfriends,
Speaker 1: that's a problem because I want Steve to have girlfriends.
Speaker 1: Because I'm thinking to myself, Yeah, I'm thinking myself if
Speaker 1: you mean late at night? Seriously, I'm jealous of you
Speaker 1: and you do. I think you text Steve and call.
Speaker 2: Him more than me and you don't answer me. I
Speaker 2: call him, where is she that son?
Speaker 1: And I love that I love I think that that's
Speaker 1: a fantastic relationship to have.
Speaker 2: Where your girlfriends?
Speaker 1: Actually, I'm going to stay on track here because I
Speaker 1: could go on a whole tangent about this, but as
Speaker 1: it pertains to this, I want Steve to have girlfriends
Speaker 1: because if I don't trust him to have a girlfriend,
Speaker 1: that he can't keep his in the pants and like
Speaker 1: not want to just jump every woman he sees, well,
Speaker 1: then we have a bigger problem.
Speaker 2: You should be able to have.
Speaker 1: Like if I was, I don't go through his phone,
Speaker 1: but if I ever wanted to, he would give it
Speaker 1: to me. If I saw girls names, my first thought
Speaker 1: is not like, oh my god, he's having an affair.
Speaker 1: My first thought is, well, I didn't know that Hillary
Speaker 1: worked for you, like I wouldn't. My first thought is
Speaker 1: not like I don't know to answer the question succincly,
Speaker 1: which is hard for me. Sometimes I think that's a
Speaker 1: huge I think that's a massive red flag. And if
Speaker 1: it's a brand new relationship, then talk to her and
Speaker 1: be like, Hey, if you're going to have an issue
Speaker 1: with this, then this isn't going to work out because
Speaker 1: I'm not getting rid of my friends or getting rid
Speaker 1: of anything just because you don't like it. Like my
Speaker 1: lifelong friend, I'm going to have to leave because you're insecure. No,
Speaker 1: I think it's hard saying the word succincly. I yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like at first I'd be difficult to deal with,
Speaker 1: and then I would have a flat out conversation with
Speaker 1: him and be like, listen, she's got an issue with this,
Speaker 1: Like we're not even together. I think you should talk
Speaker 1: to her, maybe you take her out. But I'm just
Speaker 1: one you and then I are also people on the
Speaker 1: other side of this. Think about how many men we
Speaker 1: talk to in our lives, Like I would say it's
Speaker 1: ninety percent men in our phones, as for all the
Speaker 1: guys that we work with or whatever it is in
Speaker 1: our lives that we have the majority of men. And
Speaker 1: if we had insecure significant others, that would be a
Speaker 1: massive problem. So conversely, I think you gotta either you
Speaker 1: got to nip that in the But I'm also wine
Speaker 1: in the bud or butt bud, yeah, bud succinctly. I'm
Speaker 1: also one that, if you know, prime example, I like
Speaker 1: to be friends with everybody within the family. So like,
Speaker 1: I'm on so many texts with Kevin and Rachel Burkhardt
Speaker 1: and I'll text them Kara and Greg Olsen, so I'll
Speaker 1: text them together.
Speaker 2: You know, I like to add Jarrett to it.
Speaker 1: Maybe you start a text Shane with the three of
Speaker 1: you guys, or that's an idea, so to show to
Speaker 1: her she's not really missing out.
Speaker 2: The jokes. Aren't that funny? You know what I mean?
Speaker 2: I think that's a good idea, good advice.
Speaker 1: Okay, Strath monster, can we please talk about what age
Speaker 1: you have to stop worrying about, stop worry about and
Speaker 1: acne at the same time. I don't know what that means,
Speaker 1: but I stopped reading after acne, and the answer is forever,
Speaker 1: if you're us forever.
Speaker 2: I had this right here. Good thing? Is that a mole? No,
Speaker 2: it's not a wal Cyndy Crawford, it is it?
Speaker 1: Although my face has gotten a lot great better because
Speaker 1: guess what, I'm not picking as much and I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna say it.
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say it.
Speaker 1: I'm not getting as many facials and I love a facial.
Speaker 1: I think that facial just brings it all out. So
Speaker 1: I mean, don't get a magnifying glass around this face.
Speaker 1: But right now, if I'm not in there digging and
Speaker 1: I'm not in there extracting everything, everything's just laying dormant. Again,
Speaker 1: if we did a scam on layer four, it might
Speaker 1: not look good.
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I think I've for the most part,
Speaker 2: grown out of it.
Speaker 1: But I get like, yeah, I get this jawline stuff
Speaker 1: a little bit here, there spara lactil. No, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm the biggest proponent of the nantibiotic when it comes
Speaker 1: ounds great. That is something a dermatologist in Nashville for
Speaker 1: any of you that have had chronic acne your whole life. Me,
Speaker 1: I finally went to a different dermatologist in Nashville and
Speaker 1: she prescribed spar lactone and it.
Speaker 2: Changed my life.
Speaker 1: I don't take it every day anymore because I don't
Speaker 1: want to be on an antibiotic all the time. But
Speaker 1: when I see it flaring up, I go back into
Speaker 1: the old bottle and start taking some. It probably is
Speaker 1: expired at this point, but I just go back two years.
Speaker 1: You know, got two years in it's definitely expired. I
Speaker 1: haven't lived in Nashville in four so doctor's license, my doctor.
Speaker 1: You know training I've done. I am taking a pill
Speaker 1: for hair, not like neutrafl I'll say it, y yeah,
Speaker 1: and because I just like you know, we're giving our
Speaker 1: hair break and not styling it obviously as much as
Speaker 1: I do during the season, I have more hair on
Speaker 1: my face than I've ever had in my life. I'm
Speaker 1: growing everywhere, like hair just on my face. I just
Speaker 1: sit here and pet with her. You're just like, I'm
Speaker 1: petty cowie. Oh my god, and then I get I
Speaker 1: hate getting the derma flash out because that.
Speaker 2: Brings me out. So I'm here. You know what I do,
Speaker 2: and you know where I'm going.
Speaker 1: After this podcast with Jinga Linz, She's taking that box
Speaker 1: cutter straight to this face and straight to this Now. Hey, look,
Speaker 1: when you're a rancher and you come home, that's what
Speaker 1: you get forgot these hands look cold? I'm a worker,
Speaker 1: you know were What are you gonna do?
Speaker 2: What do we got here? We?
Speaker 1: Okay, Robin Lane, you little cutie, probably not even your name,
Speaker 1: sports reporter in mid twenties. How do I put myself
Speaker 1: out there dating wise? When this job is a lot. Well,
Speaker 1: first of all, congratulations for living out all of our dreams.
Speaker 2: Who we're working for We'll tell everything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, we got all the gossip offline, anonymous.
Speaker 2: How do I put myself out there?
Speaker 1: So I'll tell you this. Here's my advice on this one.
Speaker 1: Don't be in a rush because I thought that being
Speaker 1: in a relationship really early on professionally was going to
Speaker 1: be great for me because then I wasn't distracted and
Speaker 1: I had this you know, constant at home, and I
Speaker 1: married the wrong person. Then later in life, I married
Speaker 1: the wrong person again. But I think that give yours
Speaker 1: for me. If I had to go back and do
Speaker 1: it again, I would not feel like I just had
Speaker 1: to be with someone just to be with someone.
Speaker 2: I would let it happen.
Speaker 1: Naturally and date when it worked around my schedule because
Speaker 1: I was making and continued to make at times my
Speaker 1: job more of a priority.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to do a better job of that now.
Speaker 1: I think we both are, but it took at least
Speaker 1: until my late thirties to realize that. And obviously, if
Speaker 1: you want a date and you want to still have
Speaker 1: a personal life, I would just say make sure that
Speaker 1: you pick someone that is very secure, going back to
Speaker 1: our previous conversation, and understands that your job is really
Speaker 1: important because especially in your twenties. I mean, think about
Speaker 1: what we were doing in our twenties with our job,
Speaker 1: and they have to be open to traveling and being
Speaker 1: able to leave on a whim and all these kinds
Speaker 1: of things. So find a guy that is open minded
Speaker 1: and secure and also don't be in a rush in
Speaker 1: your twenties, right, but enjoy it too. I would just date.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be honest and say I didn't do
Speaker 1: a lot of it because I was doing three hoops
Speaker 1: games a week, two football games a week, two baseball games.
Speaker 1: I had a good time when I did it, but
Speaker 1: I wish I had done it more. I was literally
Speaker 1: married to the job in my twenties because I had
Speaker 1: this thought process that if I did as much as
Speaker 1: I could, then I wouldn't have to work a lot
Speaker 1: in my forties. Okay, so, yeah, you brought up a
Speaker 1: good point. They have to be secure in themselves with
Speaker 1: all the traveling you may have to do for your job.
Speaker 1: You'll figure it out really quick if they are or.
Speaker 2: Aren't, and just go have fun. Yeah. Yeah, it's not
Speaker 2: that serious.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: If I could do it over, I was too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I give off a lot of bad signals apparently,
Speaker 1: did you do they come back around and talk about.
Speaker 2: Them around away girl?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: Somehow Yeah have told me yep, yeah, bamboo era and
Speaker 2: I was like, why did you know? That's not what
Speaker 2: I was saying or doing. Wow.
Speaker 1: But though I don't think those people are very smart either,
Speaker 1: I also think that we've tried to be too cool
Speaker 1: in so many situations. This just in I am so
Speaker 1: far from being cool.
Speaker 2: It's wow.
Speaker 1: The lighting where it right now on you is fantastic.
Speaker 1: Oh god, those people can either.
Speaker 2: A date on my rut.
Speaker 1: But I'm trying to be nicer to myself as you
Speaker 1: and I had this discussion with somebody at a dinner
Speaker 1: and I was thinking a lot about it.
Speaker 2: But anyways, we'll give an update on the rut.
Speaker 1: I'm okay for everyone is. I do think my hormones
Speaker 1: played a lot into it as well, but work also
Speaker 1: affected that. Whoa any who anonymous? What would you do
Speaker 1: if your boyfriend's husband, Steve came auntie because they aren't
Speaker 1: having bedroom time and he's not dead? Oh oh my god, Jared,
Speaker 1: is this for me? I'm kidding, joking, joking, that's not
Speaker 1: we're on his text chain. I would see him saying
Speaker 1: that to you. That is awkward.
Speaker 2: Okay, we need to go back to this.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of things that you can share with
Speaker 1: your girlfriend's boyfriend or whatever, but like this, come on,
Speaker 1: not that. And it's also a violation of like your
Speaker 1: friendship where it's like why are we talking about that? No, No,
Speaker 1: I don't need them, we.
Speaker 2: Need you need to go to her. That's just that's
Speaker 2: red flag.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because imagine if it comes back and she's like,
Speaker 1: I can't do the math today.
Speaker 2: Who his confessions?
Speaker 1: Like oh, so and so told me that, you know,
Speaker 1: we should be having sex more whatever, It's like, well,
Speaker 1: why are you having those conversations with my boyfriend? Ew? Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: that's weird that this husband husband that too. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: best friend's husband. You took a vow or you gave
Speaker 1: a vow?
Speaker 2: What is it?
Speaker 1: He ow?
Speaker 2: You're not going to that ceremony either, No, you're not.
Speaker 1: Actually you're going to the divorce proceedings as the witness,
Speaker 1: and you need to be a witness protection program. After
Speaker 1: she finds out that you've been talking to him that way,
Speaker 1: enough is enough enough and enough of the pre game.
Speaker 1: We love you guys. You can tell there's a lot
Speaker 1: to talk about. Join us for the full length episode.
Speaker 1: Lots to discuss. Aaron is okay, everyone, I almost wasn't
Speaker 1: fine last week and you don't even know this. We
Speaker 1: did an emergency security landing, had an episode on the plane.
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