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Speaker 1: I have more hair on my face than I've ever

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Speaker 2: It's like I'm petty Cowie. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome everybody to the Preaking.

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Speaker 1: It's been a minute. You've seen one another. I've missed

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Speaker 1: you you I would to do calm down. I saw

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Speaker 1: you was in Montana. We have to go on vacation

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Speaker 1: to see one another, and we've missed all of you.

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Speaker 1: We apologize. We have had life things happen. So we

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Speaker 1: are back, and so is in Sync, which leads us

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Speaker 1: to our first question. Anna, Oh my god, how blonde

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Speaker 1: can I be? I did just get my hair done? Ok?

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Speaker 2: Great, a natural?

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Speaker 1: I am not a natural, Rise says in Sync is back,

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Speaker 1: discuss not to be confused with backstreets back.

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Speaker 2: All right, all right, I don't I guess they're back.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Justin we were listening to his album

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Speaker 1: in Montana. I saw that they performed together. I would

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Speaker 1: go to that. I can't wait for us to go

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Speaker 1: to see Justin. When may we got to figure that out.

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Speaker 1: We have a lot of concerts were supposed to be

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Speaker 1: going to that We hid two circles, really marks marks

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Speaker 1: the spot, write it down in sync. I was definitely

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Speaker 1: more of an in sync person than Backstreet Boys, although

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Speaker 1: in high school, my high school, not my long term

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Speaker 1: high school boyfriend, but my last little fling of a

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Speaker 1: high school boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: He was older, he was a senior when I was

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Speaker 2: a sophomore.

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Speaker 1: But he was one of the Backstreet in like the

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Speaker 1: school talent show thing. He was one of them that

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Speaker 1: performed and he did like a whole serenade. Shout out

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Speaker 1: to J Lewis. Was J Lewis up to these days?

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Speaker 1: He was a great construction worker. This guy he could

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Speaker 1: fix anything. In fact, I could use him at the ranch.

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Speaker 1: Jay Lewis, are you available for hire? And he can

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Speaker 1: sing to you as well. Favorite in sync song.

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Speaker 2: Bye Vibe.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I'm not always one of those

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Speaker 1: people that I never know the name of the song.

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Speaker 2: This, I promise you. I mean really him.

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Speaker 1: Shit, wow, lifestyle love songs. Oh my god, this brings

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Speaker 1: up all kinds of emotions for you. What was his name?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I just I love when jay Z

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Speaker 1: or not jay Z JC and Justin They hit their

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Speaker 1: parts obviously dirty pop or dirty bird pop pop, dirty

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I did.

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Speaker 1: I feel like Kendron and you both knew the dance too,

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Speaker 1: Bye bye bye for sure you did? Okay, love those boys?

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Speaker 1: Next up girl, Okay? Anonymous, Yes, it's been a minute.

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Speaker 1: My fiance and I decide I like to read anonymous

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Speaker 1: with this kind of like tone. My fiance and I

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Speaker 1: decided to have a small, private ceremony with a larger reception.

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Speaker 1: After now people are upset they weren't invited to this ceremony.

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Speaker 1: How do you respond? You don't who wants to go

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Speaker 1: to a ceremony? And I'm sorry, I want to go

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Speaker 1: to yours, Chris, after no one wants to go into yours.

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Speaker 1: And it was hysterical. It was a vow about the

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Speaker 2: Oh no, they're so ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: You know what, Actually, I think this is a as

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Speaker 1: someone that's had two ceremonimonies and no one was invited,

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Speaker 1: I think this is a great way to show why

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Speaker 1: those people shouldn't have been at the ceremony to begin with. Like,

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Speaker 1: if they're going to get upset about that, then they're

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Speaker 2: Let's get the promises. This I promise you.

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Speaker 1: I will not make you go to the nuptials, only

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Speaker 1: the after party. I see this with all due respect

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Speaker 1: praying there's going to be a wedding for you, I

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Speaker 2: And then see you at the post. You know, I don't.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I got here's the only nuptials I will be doing.

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Speaker 1: But I ain't doing any of those other things. Third

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Speaker 1: time is not the charm ladies and gentlemen, you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep working on you and this I promise you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you and I have a better chance of getting

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Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with Steve, all right, we've

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Speaker 1: got Dennis Kovechy. By the way, this should be a

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Speaker 1: game us figuring out those names. How to deal with

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Speaker 1: to deal with jealous insecure woman who's dating your platonic

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Speaker 1: Wow, and you're like good relationship. I honestly, how come

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? Who's jealous?

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Speaker 1: So your best guy friend, okakay is dated platonic, she's

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Speaker 2: Of your friendship?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you got to ditch that chick.

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Speaker 1: You know what I started doing playing it up? Of

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Speaker 1: course you do late night sending, not even what's up?

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Speaker 1: It's me thinking about you.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm trying to think if I had

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Speaker 1: that's a problem because I want Steve to have girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm thinking to myself, Yeah, I'm thinking myself if

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Speaker 1: you mean late at night? Seriously, I'm jealous of you

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Speaker 1: and you do. I think you text Steve and call.

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Speaker 2: Him more than me and you don't answer me. I

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Speaker 1: And I love that I love I think that that's

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Speaker 2: Where your girlfriends?

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Speaker 1: Actually, I'm going to stay on track here because I

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Speaker 2: You should be able to have.

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Speaker 1: Like if I was, I don't go through his phone,

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Speaker 1: My first thought is, well, I didn't know that Hillary

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Speaker 1: I think it's hard saying the word succincly. I yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like we're not even together. I think you should talk

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Speaker 2: You know, I like to add Jarrett to it.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you start a text Shane with the three of

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Speaker 2: The jokes. Aren't that funny? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Strath monster, can we please talk about what age

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Speaker 1: I don't take it every day anymore because I don't

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Speaker 1: you get forgot these hands look cold? I'm a worker,

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Speaker 2: What do we got here? We?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Robin Lane, you little cutie, probably not even your name,

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Speaker 1: sports reporter in mid twenties. How do I put myself

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Speaker 1: first of all, congratulations for living out all of our dreams.

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Speaker 2: Who we're working for We'll tell everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, we got all the gossip offline, anonymous.

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Speaker 2: How do I put myself out there?

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Speaker 2: I would let it happen.

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Speaker 1: Naturally and date when it worked around my schedule because

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Speaker 2: Aren't, and just go have fun. Yeah. Yeah, it's not

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Speaker 2: If I could do it over, I was too.

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Speaker 2: I was like, why did you know? That's not what

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Speaker 2: A date on my rut.

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Speaker 1: But I'm trying to be nicer to myself as you

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Speaker 1: I'm okay for everyone is. I do think my hormones

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Speaker 1: if your boyfriend's husband, Steve came auntie because they aren't

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Speaker 1: is this for me? I'm kidding, joking, joking, that's not

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Speaker 1: we're on his text chain. I would see him saying

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Speaker 2: Okay, we need to go back to this.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of things that you can share with

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Speaker 1: not that. And it's also a violation of like your

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Speaker 1: I don't need them, we.

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Speaker 2: Need you need to go to her. That's just that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because imagine if it comes back and she's like,

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Speaker 1: I can't do the math today.

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Speaker 2: Who his confessions?

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Speaker 1: Like oh, so and so told me that, you know,

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Speaker 1: we should be having sex more whatever, It's like, well,

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Speaker 1: that's weird that this husband husband that too. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: He ow?

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Speaker 2: You're not going to that ceremony either, No, you're not.

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Speaker 1: Actually you're going to the divorce proceedings as the witness,

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Speaker 1: enough is enough enough and enough of the pre game.

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Speaker 1: We love you guys. You can tell there's a lot

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Speaker 1: Lots to discuss. Aaron is okay, everyone, I almost wasn't

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Speaker 1: fine last week and you don't even know this. We

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