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Speaker 4: Oh his step father his sorry, So her father's father

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Speaker 2: Yes we are, okay, sorry, Oh yeah, Nicole. You are

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Speaker 4: But my only problem with it is I feel like

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Speaker 2: And I think that's like the best you could do.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm totally totally in agreement, and I definitely

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Speaker 2: Let's go to call.

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Speaker 7: Heck.

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Speaker 4: Well, you guys definitely should do twenty three and me

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Speaker 2: The toy three means that actually is a great suggestion

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Speaker 2: we could do in twenty three episode where we actually

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Speaker 4: Because I mean I found out that my grandma probably

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Speaker 2: What they're Yeah, that is a box of worms, a

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Speaker 5: That you might not open, but definitely you guys might

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Speaker 2: Shit, I don't know if I'm ready to open pen doors.

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Speaker 2: Will appear on our own show. Well the call it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for calling it. We really appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: And if you have any other crazy stories, uh, please

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Speaker 2: I definitely have a couple that there we go.

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Speaker 1: So this is a great Hopefully you'll hear from me again.

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Speaker 2: Please thanks to call no problem. Uh wow, so cool.

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Speaker 2: Our very first call in first call in. If you

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Speaker 8: Am I asshole for blocking a guy on Bumble after

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Speaker 2: Oh my god years.

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Speaker 7: Old, I'm really starting to go on Bumble and I

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Speaker 8: I will tour guide you around country places when you

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Speaker 1: I see her on mumble ah, okay, flabbergasted.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, we need to call her right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: let's do it. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell you right now.

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Speaker 2: That's okay. Oh bye, all right, we're gonna calls. We're

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Speaker 2: going to call Kaz right now. But who asked that?

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Speaker 2: That's crazy? Here we go. My heart's beating again. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 3: This is a John from the okop show him.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: Wow, thank you so much. So let's go. Yes, we

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Speaker 2: just finished playing your voicemail. And wow.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't a bit flabber as to be honest, it's say,

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Speaker 1: Have been like, like I didn't feel like a little

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Speaker 1: I am flabbergasted that that's one of the first things

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Speaker 2: I so can a test that I have never had

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Speaker 2: I do have a question. Was his sister cute?

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Speaker 1: Oh? She was absolutely hot? You know you know how

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Speaker 1: they say I'm sorry, Uh, they say, don't bang crazy.

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Speaker 1: Exactly I'm saying, nisuring myself because I don't good money.

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Speaker 2: Don't put your dick in crazy. Yeah, thank you, there

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Speaker 1: You don't do that so both of the sisters, because

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Speaker 1: he sent me pictures of both of his sisters foursomes.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand how that happened.

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Speaker 2: He's the family pimp. Wow, that is way too much.

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Speaker 2: Wait wait did he oh you.

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Speaker 1: Think my sister's hot? Please tell me what one of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so not not to defend this guy at all,

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Speaker 7: Just like absolutely damn, I don't think it will a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your points in the conversation where he could have

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Speaker 2: Of it, yeah exactly, like.

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. But the moment it's like like I

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Speaker 2: But yeah, this, this seems like it was not lost

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Speaker 2: you're terrible comedian question for you. If it was his stepsister,

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Speaker 1: Hinge and all those dating sites, they called them unicorn horne?

441
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Speaker 1: What these were looking for an extra rare unicorn?

442
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Speaker 3: Who the rarest of unicorns? Maybe he's a collector. Yeah.

443
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Speaker 2: So, so after this experience, have you just dived back

444
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Speaker 2: into bumble? Have you switched dating apps? Are you still

445
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 2: looking for love? What? What's has this changed how you've

446
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,199
Speaker 2: approached the dating world at all?

447
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: Delete both apps and just accept being single? Oh that well,

448
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: things absolutely will get better, I'm but oh my god,

449
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: that confidence, like if you're like, you know the thing

450
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 1: about the boiling frog, like putting up a frog in

451
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Speaker 1: hot water. Yeah, if you're putting up a frog on

452
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Speaker 1: boiling water front, the frog will jump out. That's the

453
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Speaker 1: crazy of coming like you wouldn't mind that we're both

454
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Speaker 1: siblings kind of deal that. Yeah, yeah, d come out

455
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Speaker 1: like once I was sorry. Once I was already in

456
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Speaker 1: the deep end.

457
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Speaker 2: Imagine if you had met up with.

458
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Speaker 1: Him, Oh god, if I am so glad that he

459
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: came with a giant, noormous red flag.

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Speaker 2: Like Luckily, his craziness like was very upfront, like he

461
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 2: was just waving that red flag. But you're like, I

462
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 2: am here and I'm crazy, and uh, please have a

463
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 2: threesome with me and my sister. Luckily he said that

464
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 2: stirs then and not after you met her and you

465
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Speaker 2: meet up at a bar, it's like, hey, also, my

466
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: sister's here, Oh I have.

467
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Speaker 1: It would have been more like I have a friend,

468
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 1: and I would have been like, I've never tried it,

469
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Speaker 1: but go up, and then he would be like, this

470
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Speaker 1: is actually my sister, and I would have been horrified.

471
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Speaker 2: And oh my goodness, that would have that would have

472
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Speaker 2: me updating red flag, let you know, let you know. Yeah, well,

473
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Speaker 2: I'm I'm glad that you narrowly escaped this, this crazy,

474
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Speaker 2: freaking situation, and I'm also glad that that your spirits

475
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 2: are are still high even after having to deal with

476
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Speaker 2: all this ship.

477
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's it's not like this is the worst

478
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Speaker 1: thing I've found on dating sites, but it's not the

479
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: only story I have. So I'm I'm gonna stop searching

480
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 1: for love in all the wrong places.

481
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Speaker 2: Wait, what are the other stories?

482
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Speaker 1: Oh? No, okay, So I was during the pandemic. I

483
00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: was like very lonely, okay, so m hmm. I decided to,

484
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: you know, get on Tinder and I was with this

485
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Speaker 1: guy that I actually did know in real life, but

486
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Speaker 1: he was like, oh, we should like hang out. And

487
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Speaker 1: then I went to his house because pandemic and we

488
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Speaker 1: couldn't do anything because I lived with my parents and

489
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: I went to his house. Uh, and you know, things

490
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Speaker 1: get seen and like that, it happens. Have you had

491
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Speaker 1: the miss about men not washing their butts? Yeah, he

492
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Speaker 1: proved it. It wasn't.

493
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Speaker 2: Like down there.

494
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Speaker 1: I regret everything for you and you couldn't even have

495
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Speaker 1: the dignity to wash your butt.

496
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 2: How did you find out, uh, his underwear.

497
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: Had all, you know, a skin mark.

498
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Speaker 3: Oh oh no, no, he.

499
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Speaker 2: Doesn't even wipe.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand. That's so gross. So I literally no

501
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: red flags. That's the problem. No reflags. And I was like,

502
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: you know, suddenly my hands hurting. I need to leave.

503
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: I think I have COVID.

504
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 2: Oh that needs a bidet. Dude, he needs that. But hole,

505
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Speaker 2: squeaky wash.

506
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Speaker 1: I was willing to ask him what the problem was.

507
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Speaker 2: Yeah, he needs he needs some wiping techniques. Okay. Also question,

508
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Speaker 2: do you wipe from the back so like hand behind

509
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,719
Speaker 2: the bum or there? Or do you wipe from the front,

510
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 2: hand between the legs?

511
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 1: Uh? Back?

512
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Speaker 2: You know there's a whole group of people that wipe

513
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Speaker 2: from the front.

514
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Speaker 1: Yeah that's not good for you.

515
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: I get it, that's true.

516
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not good for you, not good for your

517
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Speaker 1: health at all.

518
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Speaker 2: Especially Yeah you don't want everything to be contaminated. Uh yeah, well, kuz,

519
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 2: thank you so much for sharing your stories.

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00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: Well, I'm so glad that you decided my story was

521
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: whacky enough for for your show.

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00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 2: Actually, of course it was talking to you. Well, Well,

523
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 2: thank you again, and if you have any other crazy stories,

524
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 2: please call in.

525
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 1: I will believe me. The moment I saw the number,

526
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 1: I was like, this just happened to know.

527
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

528
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: Like I was like watching them like like I usually

529
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: just like we like you my phone and just you're

530
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: a lot of the problem with you. Guys are also

531
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: background at least for my life essentially, So it's just like, oh,

532
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: they said a phone number, what are they doing? Then

533
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: I was like watching your videos and it was just like, oh, wow,

534
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: I have a perfect story for you too.

535
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 2: You did you did you?

536
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Speaker 4: You?

537
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Speaker 2: You? You have definitely run the GABT. We went through

538
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Speaker 2: a lot of stories and yours is one of our favorites.

539
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 2: So thanks again. You're awesome. Guys.

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00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for for enjoying my my, my, my,

541
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Speaker 1: my pain.

542
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: Well it was our pleasure. It was our pleasure. Your

543
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 2: pain is our pleasure. Cause we'll talk to you soon.

544
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Sea Bye. These are so good.

545
00:32:55,520 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 3: Wow wow wow wow good. Are amazing, No, are amazing.

546
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Speaker 3: Please call in right now, right now. What's the number?

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Speaker 3: Four four zero five zero eight six five six freaking seven.

548
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Speaker 2: Please send in your stories, send in your story. This

549
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 2: is awesome. Alright, let's see if we got one more

550
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 2: in the bag for you,