WEBVTT - The Love Guru Sam Williamson

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<v Speaker 1>Yip yet you know boys is back and reload it

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<v Speaker 1>all in your mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, now deep throating.

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<v Speaker 1>This is for the streets, the real the reilroading, the distenfranchise,

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<v Speaker 1>the truth, escapegoating.

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<v Speaker 3>And they ain't know where we speak the truth, so

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<v Speaker 3>they ain't quoted because we wrote it. The North South

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<v Speaker 3>East coaches the ge be not for keeping your head, Bobby,

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<v Speaker 3>it ain't no stopping and once to be drop sad

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<v Speaker 3>by then the system is so corrupt they threw.

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<v Speaker 4>The rock out their heads and then blame it on us.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't get it twisted on coding. We danced it put

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<v Speaker 1>no butterment biscuits. It's Willie d y'all reloaded with another

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<v Speaker 1>episode of information and instructions to help you navigate through

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<v Speaker 1>this wild, crazy, beautiful world. In the studio, Sam Williamson

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<v Speaker 1>the love guru.

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<v Speaker 4>The so what's what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 4>What exactly is a love guru?

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<v Speaker 2>So you know I get that question all the time,

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<v Speaker 2>so people always ask me how did I come up

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<v Speaker 2>with that? So when I was in college, man, I

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<v Speaker 2>was the guy that if anybody had a question they

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<v Speaker 2>were going through any problems that girl left them.

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<v Speaker 4>They caught that girl cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>They would come to me and asked me, like, what

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<v Speaker 2>do you think they would ask my advice? So they

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<v Speaker 2>saw calling me love guru. So after then I just

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<v Speaker 2>thought I thought it was funny. So I just I

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<v Speaker 2>just took the name. I just kept it. So so

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<v Speaker 2>it happened when I was in college.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so you got you the dude that the girls

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<v Speaker 1>called to. Oh yeah, so you got a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>home girls. That's these are not girls. You in relationships

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<v Speaker 1>with these women and some of them used to be

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<v Speaker 1>relationships with most relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>So they called you to ask for advice.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the advice that they ask you most that you're

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<v Speaker 1>most annoyed about.

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<v Speaker 2>My thing is I only think I get annoyed about

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<v Speaker 2>is women when they lit in themselves like to theyself

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<v Speaker 2>a lot. And that's probably that's probably the biggest issue

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<v Speaker 2>when you talk about relationships.

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<v Speaker 4>So I give you an example.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember we'll ask women like I had I forgot

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<v Speaker 2>someone had a show that was on and they're asking

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<v Speaker 2>about like if you were a high quality woman or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever you want to call it, right, So everybody has

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<v Speaker 2>their name. Now you know a woman of substance, high quality?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I always say check all the box, whether

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<v Speaker 2>it's men or women. So we was asking this young lady,

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<v Speaker 2>she was an attorney here in Houston, and they're asking her,

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<v Speaker 2>could she marry or a data man that make like

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<v Speaker 2>forty thousand dollars? Right, So she said immediately said yes, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So now I'm looking at her. She got you know, Ferragamo,

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<v Speaker 2>this Louis Baton, nad you know, you know, probably had

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<v Speaker 2>La Perla underwear on, you know, you know, and she

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<v Speaker 2>said she can date a dude that's forty thousand, makes

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<v Speaker 2>forty thousand dollars, but as long as he's ambition, And

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<v Speaker 2>were like, well, how ambitious can he be if he's

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<v Speaker 2>making forty thousand dollars? So those type of lives that

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<v Speaker 2>you're telling yourself, you say, hey, you know what, I

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<v Speaker 2>can really deal with this when you know you can't.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay if you're an attorney and you want day

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<v Speaker 2>to do to make forty thousand dollars, because you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>because you two are not equally yoked at least economically,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, right, Well, what.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just present the other side of that.

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<v Speaker 1>At some point you was you had to make five

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<v Speaker 1>figures before you started making six figures, right, that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>So and you was ambitious, yeah, yeah, but if you're

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<v Speaker 2>making she was forty some years old, so I would

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<v Speaker 2>imagine she would be dating a guy about her age.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're forty five years old making forty thousand dollars,

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<v Speaker 2>nothing wrong with that, because you may be a school

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<v Speaker 2>teacher or something like that, right, but you're what you

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<v Speaker 2>what you you you deem as import you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>more about like the feeling you get out of teaching someone, right,

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<v Speaker 2>that's rewarding to you. Right if your attorney and the

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<v Speaker 2>lifestyle that she was living, you know, that's fine, But

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<v Speaker 2>she's more looking on the economic side, and at some

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<v Speaker 2>point in time that's going to clash. So anytime a

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<v Speaker 2>woman said I want to do that's making this type

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<v Speaker 2>money and ambition. Now, if she was twenty years old,

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<v Speaker 2>that would be different. She was twenty five years old,

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<v Speaker 2>that would be different. My first job when I got

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<v Speaker 2>cut from football, and it was funny, my brother just

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<v Speaker 2>asked me, He was like, what was your What did

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<v Speaker 2>you make on your first job? I'm made twenty for

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<v Speaker 2>J and J. I'm a twenty six thousand dollars in

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<v Speaker 2>a company car. I was twenty three years old, right,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a long time, you know, and probably by the

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<v Speaker 2>time I was, you know, twenty six, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>was willing too high six figures. So I mean that

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<v Speaker 2>my girl at the time was had just came out

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<v Speaker 2>law school.

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<v Speaker 4>She was an attorney.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was cool with her because we was both

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<v Speaker 2>in our twenties, early twenties, and we was on our

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<v Speaker 2>way up. But she's forty five, and they say, you

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<v Speaker 2>will date someone that's making that type of money at

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<v Speaker 2>forty forty five years old.

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<v Speaker 4>That's you lying to yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>You said you played football, whenever did you get to

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<v Speaker 1>I went to camp with the Falcons, got cut.

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<v Speaker 4>And that was it. Act free safety and strong safety.

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<v Speaker 2>How did that affect you moving forward? So that's actually

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<v Speaker 2>a good question because I was engaged at the time,

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<v Speaker 2>So I was when I first got cut, I was

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<v Speaker 2>like I was distract because not even nothing the money,

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<v Speaker 2>it was just the whole lifestyle and stuff that came

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<v Speaker 2>along with it. I didn't feel like I got a

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<v Speaker 2>chance to live that lifestyle. So for probably the next

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<v Speaker 2>five years, all of my boys was playing, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Charles Woodson, you know Tyler, you know Keevy Baker, A

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<v Speaker 2>couple of my boys was playing.

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<v Speaker 4>Briggs.

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<v Speaker 2>All these guys was playing so I was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>living vicariously through them. So my girls that she had

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<v Speaker 2>just finished law school. She had moved to Houston and

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<v Speaker 2>she was studying for the bar. Right so she would

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<v Speaker 2>be calling me like, Hey, I'm at the library. I'll

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<v Speaker 2>be home at ten. And she'd be like, where you at.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be on my way to Miami, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>did my fought the deal? Carter would be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I got you some tickets at the airport. You know

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying. It is in Miami, So I'll be

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<v Speaker 2>in Miami. And she was just like I just took

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<v Speaker 2>her through a lot because I was trying to still navigate,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, where I thought I should be and where

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<v Speaker 2>I was. Was she a good woman?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, she was a great woman. And you blew it?

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<v Speaker 4>Blew it. How long were y'all together? We were together

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<v Speaker 4>sixteen years? Where we broke up?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell the man out there, how do the and how

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<v Speaker 1>do you identify a good woman? And what qualifies as

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<v Speaker 1>a good woman.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's a good question too, but that that differs

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<v Speaker 2>from everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you don't lie to yourself. You'll find a

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<v Speaker 4>good woman for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. So me and my boys we just had a

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<v Speaker 2>two hour conversation on Sunday about this because everyone's trying

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<v Speaker 2>to marry me out right, So I'm ready to get

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<v Speaker 2>marri you're gonna get married or you.

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<v Speaker 4>Married, will i've been married, or you're gonna get married.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm open.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I like the idea of marriage, or at

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<v Speaker 1>least what is what it traditionally means, and what it

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<v Speaker 1>stands for and everything that comes with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, absolutely, that's how I feel. I'm open.

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<v Speaker 2>So I so I've been telling them for the probably

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<v Speaker 2>the last three or four years. I'm in this space

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<v Speaker 2>where I want to get married, right, but I have

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<v Speaker 2>some strict criteria and I won't budge on you. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>So my chick has to be pretty. I mean I.

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<v Speaker 3>Was.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish that I could was one of those guys

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<v Speaker 2>that could get past looks and see that inner self,

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<v Speaker 2>see all the interviewing. I need a little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>that interviewing in the outside. I need no other worry

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<v Speaker 2>on the outside. So that sometimes people deem as superficient,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's not because the looks is what gets me. Right.

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<v Speaker 2>The personality is what keeps me right. So for me,

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<v Speaker 2>a good woman would be a woman that's you know,

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<v Speaker 2>very nice looking, right, that's loyal, right, that has accomplished

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<v Speaker 2>some things in life. Right, that's nurturing, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>family orientated, right. But you have to have a great personality,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I play a lot, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Any woman that's every dated me know, Like thest one

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<v Speaker 2>thing they'll say is I keep them laughing.

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<v Speaker 4>So you got to be able to laugh at yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you're not a woman that can laugh at herself,

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<v Speaker 2>and you get a type of woman that can have fun,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're serious a lot, you're not gonna like it

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<v Speaker 2>because it's not who I am. Are you a player? Player?

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<v Speaker 2>Not anymore?

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<v Speaker 4>But I would be lying if I said I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>have my play of days.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's how you blew the lawyer? Oh yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>how you That's.

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<v Speaker 4>How he blew a lot of women.

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<v Speaker 2>Any dude with any money, any dude that's you know

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<v Speaker 2>of that that that got four or five dollars of

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<v Speaker 2>his pocket, charismatic, nice looking.

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<v Speaker 4>They didn't brew.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of nice women over that time. So she

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<v Speaker 2>was probably the biggest one in my life. But I

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<v Speaker 2>mean that's other women that I blew uh, because I

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<v Speaker 2>had mature to the point where I understood, now this,

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<v Speaker 2>this is the deal women are.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like, how do you know when you want to

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<v Speaker 4>get married?

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<v Speaker 2>And I always tell you know, a man wants to

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<v Speaker 2>be married when he understands what place a woman plays

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<v Speaker 2>in his life and what value she brings. Because in

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning, I really didn't even know that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I just knew I loved this girl and I felt

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<v Speaker 2>like I should be marrying her because I loved it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I didn't understand what part she was gonna play.

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<v Speaker 2>I was still trying to figure myself out. I remember

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<v Speaker 2>my first house I purchased in Houston, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>so bent on buying it on my own because I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to feel like a woman helped me do

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<v Speaker 2>anything right.

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<v Speaker 4>And she used to be she had start.

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<v Speaker 2>Just started making some money as an attorney, and she

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I want to contribute. I was like, nah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good son, because I wanted to feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>did it on my own. And it was you know,

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<v Speaker 2>my first probably first ten pieces of property.

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<v Speaker 4>I about all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>I always wanted to feel like I did it on

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<v Speaker 2>my own before I had someone else help. So for

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<v Speaker 2>me to get married, that wasn't even a good time

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<v Speaker 2>for me to get married because I didn't even realize

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<v Speaker 2>what I needed from a woman to help me achieve

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<v Speaker 2>my goals because I was so hell bent on feeling

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<v Speaker 2>like I did it on my own.

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<v Speaker 1>So once you did it on your own, Once you

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<v Speaker 1>did it on your own, and you got this house.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're still with the lawyer, right, yeah, still with attorney.

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<v Speaker 1>He's still with the attorney. Okay, So she comes in,

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<v Speaker 1>and do she moves in? Did she move in with you?

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<v Speaker 4>She moved in with me?

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<v Speaker 2>And so when she graduated at law school, she immediately

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<v Speaker 2>moved to Houston. I mean that's the reason why I

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<v Speaker 2>came to Houston. Okay, yeah, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Because she wanted to do all in Gas where she

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<v Speaker 1>graduated from Thirdgood.

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<v Speaker 4>No, she went to No, she graduated from Marquette Law.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so she moves in. Everything's good for a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>but you still a player, and you ain't got no

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<v Speaker 1>intention on slowing down. Now, at what point do you

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<v Speaker 1>slow down? At what point do you catch your snap

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<v Speaker 1>and say, man, you know what, I think I can

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<v Speaker 1>do this law thing do you think you can be

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<v Speaker 1>a lawyer? Lawyer man too, So when you get to

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<v Speaker 1>the point, So that's another question women always ask when

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<v Speaker 1>you get to the point when it's no fun anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>So me dating multiple women at one time, now it

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<v Speaker 1>would be it would be almost say a job, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need any more job.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a bunch of jobs right now, so that

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<v Speaker 2>would be the last thing I want. I would make

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<v Speaker 2>the joke that, like, now I'm at the point where

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<v Speaker 2>you know, when I was twenty five thirty five, if

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<v Speaker 2>you called me and was like, hey, it's one thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>Some girl called me at one thirty to be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>come over my house. I will be up dressed, over

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<v Speaker 2>your crib.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I might have a surgery. I might have

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<v Speaker 2>a listen, I might have a surgery at like start

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<v Speaker 2>at six thirty and seven.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll be cold. I'd be like, So if I get.

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<v Speaker 2>Over our house at one thirty two o clock, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>we do it till like two forty five. I get

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<v Speaker 2>some sleep.

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<v Speaker 4>I can get three hours work to sleep. I can

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<v Speaker 4>do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn. Now you call me a one thirty in morning

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<v Speaker 2>talking come over your house, I'll be like, girl, I

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<v Speaker 2>got my bonnet on.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sleep, So explain this surgery thing. Man, want to

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<v Speaker 1>back up? Are you serious? You won't you had a

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<v Speaker 1>bonnet on? I know, yeah, see you got I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>ask tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>I got asked. You know they're gonna be in the

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<v Speaker 2>comments like bonnets.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So and what was I You know, women call

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<v Speaker 1>you ask you that you ask, Hey, I'm gonna come over.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll be like, boy, you should have called me before

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<v Speaker 2>I got in the bid put my body th yo

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<v Speaker 2>put put I wrapped by her up. So that's what

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<v Speaker 2>I got. I'm trying to remember. What was that.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, before I went back to the bun.

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<v Speaker 1>You said the surgery. You said, yeah, the surgery. So

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<v Speaker 1>explain to the people what it is you do. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would you be doing a surgery?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? So?

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<v Speaker 4>I So what I do is I'm gonna the easy terms.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a device wrap right, but all my own distributorship now,

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<v Speaker 2>but I sell a product for a dominant wall reconstruction

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<v Speaker 2>and brush reconstruction. And what I do is my job

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<v Speaker 2>is to be in there and assist the surgeon if

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<v Speaker 2>he has any questions. So people always like, well, why

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<v Speaker 2>would the surgeon need you don't even know how to

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<v Speaker 2>do the surgery is the one that always to come back.

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<v Speaker 2>He does know how to do the surgery, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's your product specific that he needs to know about.

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<v Speaker 2>So I give the example my guys that do screws.

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<v Speaker 2>So I got a couple of pots that are distributed.

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<v Speaker 2>They are own distributors. They sell screws by my boy

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<v Speaker 2>Curly Johnson. So he's in every surgery right, because sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>a surgeon might drill too far in and you know

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<v Speaker 2>your product. You got to make sure you can get

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<v Speaker 2>him out of trouble because he's going to turn to you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, if he's too far in with a screw

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<v Speaker 2>he's putting screws in your back, he's going to turn

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<v Speaker 2>to you. And you got to know the anatomy. You

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<v Speaker 2>got to be able to tell him what which way

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<v Speaker 2>to turn, what two to use, and everything to get

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<v Speaker 2>that out right, So you assist him.

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<v Speaker 4>He knows the basics. So it's like kind of a mechanic.

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<v Speaker 2>If you got a mechanic that works on has worked

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<v Speaker 2>on cars, have been trained up until two thousand and two,

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty two maybe right, and then they come out

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<v Speaker 2>in twenty twenty three or twenty four with a whole

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<v Speaker 2>new engine. Right, there's some type of REP that goes

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<v Speaker 2>and retrain those mechanics.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's basically what reps do in the old. So

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<v Speaker 4>they're in there to answer any question.

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<v Speaker 2>Make sure the doctor doesn't get in trouble because if surgeons,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of times surgeons make a mistake, they're not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna take it on themselves and say I made a mistake,

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<v Speaker 2>I did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>They're gonna say your product was crappy.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. Are they going to just say that the person

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<v Speaker 2>took a turn for the worst. Yeah, but we're just

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<v Speaker 2>talking about implants. Yeah. Yeah, if they're doing the surgery,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah maybe. But if they're implanting something. That's a story

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<v Speaker 2>circulating right now. This woman who introduced her boyfriend to

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<v Speaker 2>her husband and other boyfriend. Yeah, I've said that's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of that man going on. What do they call that? Polgican?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Man? What do you think about that? Is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that something that's doable in a loving relationship? And

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<v Speaker 1>is it sustainable for some people for women, for women

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<v Speaker 1>to do because typically men would the role would be

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<v Speaker 1>a man without multiple women. This woman has three men.

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<v Speaker 1>It just depends on the dude running up there.

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<v Speaker 2>It depends it depends on the dude destroying her. This

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<v Speaker 2>defends on the dude. Man.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't. I couldn't be in that.

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<v Speaker 2>Those dudes look.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the simps when they when she when she introduced them,

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<v Speaker 1>they embraced each other like they like like he was

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<v Speaker 1>a long lost friend or something.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is the deal with me. I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about anybody, but listen to me. They are simps.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you got to have a simple mentality for you

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<v Speaker 2>to even be in that situation. I just don't see idy.

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<v Speaker 2>And I know this is overused. I don't see a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of after men doing hunters. Man. Yes, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know any after men, but that have been

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<v Speaker 2>to the dawn of time were men. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 2>you look at even the animal kingdom, it's always the

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<v Speaker 2>alpha lion, right, and then he gets what he wants right,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there's whole slew of guys that mess with

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<v Speaker 2>the other lioners right, and they all take turns on that.

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<v Speaker 4>But when the when, the when the when? The main

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<v Speaker 4>guys say would.

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<v Speaker 2>Get out the work? When when the apha, the male

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<v Speaker 2>enterprise say y'all, this is mine.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't nobody else touch them.

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<v Speaker 2>So, you know, women would like us to believe that

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<v Speaker 2>you can be like that and still be alpha.

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Just don't see me in a type of alpha mentality

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<v Speaker 2>to me. So they do seem like simps to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Can a woman participate in that type of lifestyle and

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<v Speaker 2>be respected not by other men, by the three guys

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<v Speaker 2>that she would but no other man would do that?

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<v Speaker 2>Other women don't even do it. I always tell women,

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<v Speaker 2>so you ask me stuff, and I say, women lie

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<v Speaker 2>to themselves. Other women wouldn't even like that. Like if

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<v Speaker 2>you if she told her friend that she was had

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<v Speaker 2>three dudes banging her, she be in bed with you

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<v Speaker 2>telling you how, you know, excuse my friends. Man? That

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<v Speaker 2>bit nasty as hell? You know, all them.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what that's saying in my comments sex on Instagram

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<v Speaker 4>right right?

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<v Speaker 2>They killing us? Right? They like all that bit nastiest hell. So,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if women don't like it, what you think

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<v Speaker 2>a man is gonna do?

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<v Speaker 4>If they don't say, it's okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Right that because women tell all you gotta do is

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<v Speaker 2>hang around some women hear them talk, They by themselves.

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<v Speaker 4>They tell you how they really fit.

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<v Speaker 2>Like all that stuff that women say when they with

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<v Speaker 2>you and try to get you to buy into, they

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<v Speaker 2>don't think it their own selves because just like you

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<v Speaker 2>said in your comments, I bet you there's as many

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<v Speaker 2>women as men talking about her, dogging her about having

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<v Speaker 2>three sexual partners at one time.

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<v Speaker 4>This is not It's just not how it is. It's

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<v Speaker 4>not how it's made.

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<v Speaker 2>Y know, women, it's just a difference when it's a

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<v Speaker 2>man to a woman as a woman to a man.

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<v Speaker 2>I know women want to make everything equal. Now you

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<v Speaker 2>got this Megan the Stallion and Cardi B thinking now,

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<v Speaker 2>But it's just it's not They don't even think like that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Cardi B talk about getting this money and

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<v Speaker 2>sucking a dick for free. I mean suck a dick

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<v Speaker 2>for money and sucking the dick for whatever she can get.

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<v Speaker 2>And she'll fuck your friend and your cousin's friend. But

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<v Speaker 2>she's sitting running up behind a dude that cheat on her.

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<v Speaker 2>So why would you sell yourself out like that? M So,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I could. That's all I can tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>What if she was pretty, I don't care. She's pretty

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<v Speaker 2>and pretty go a long way with me. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>hate the currency is pretty. What if she was gorgeous

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<v Speaker 2>like drop dead bad to.

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<v Speaker 4>The bond, I wouldn't like her and you could just

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<v Speaker 4>get I.

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<v Speaker 2>Would unless you get from her. Oprah probably could do

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<v Speaker 2>it to me like me and you in face. We

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<v Speaker 2>could hit Oprah because it'd be all of that's the

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<v Speaker 2>type of money and change your lifestyle for.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I really do have to be I have to be

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to a woman to do that, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>to have it was Oprah Man, I have to be attracted.

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<v Speaker 2>To one billion Opra.

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<v Speaker 1>The money don't mean money, don't mean that mean it

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<v Speaker 1>gets the money now. The money don't mean money money.

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<v Speaker 1>Money can't see your convictions cannot be compromised by money

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<v Speaker 1>under no circumstances, whether money is a dollar or a

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<v Speaker 1>billion dollars. If you have convictions, you stand. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>you have convictions, because you.

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<v Speaker 2>Stand on.

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<v Speaker 4>So so everybody got that price, I believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so because I because I remember going

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<v Speaker 1>into the entertainment industry, and well before going into the

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<v Speaker 1>entertainment industry, then my brother we sleep in the bed

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<v Speaker 1>together up until we were in this our seventh grade.

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<v Speaker 1>He was eighth grade, and we used to have a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot of talking and stuff. Man, just all these conversations,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember us. I remember us one day talking

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<v Speaker 1>about life, like what we would do for money, and

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<v Speaker 1>we bet I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't sleep with

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<v Speaker 1>a man for money. I wouldn't kill my family for money.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, that's so if you don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you will do for money, you better know what you

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<v Speaker 1>won't do for honey. So I see that you do

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<v Speaker 1>know what you will do for money. We will sleep

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<v Speaker 1>with Oprah. I wouldn't because I wouldn't because I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't because I couldn't get hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't. I probably would be in the same position,

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<v Speaker 2>but I would find a way. I couldn't get excited,

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't get a riud. I'll find away with Oprah Dowg.

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<v Speaker 2>It would have for me.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, it has to be a chick that I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, damn you, Oprah. For me, it would happen

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<v Speaker 1>to be a chick that I'm that I'm attracted to.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, the trip part is this, like how

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<v Speaker 1>do you how do you reconcile making that statement about

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<v Speaker 1>you would sleep with Oprah for money and and then

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<v Speaker 1>tell a woman where you get what you get if

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<v Speaker 1>you sleep with a man from money?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, see, I don't if you're honest with it. So

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<v Speaker 2>if you, if you, if you so, cause it would

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<v Speaker 2>be I mean, I'm, I'm there's a little there's a

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<v Speaker 2>little levity there. This will be being a little facetious.

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<v Speaker 4>But I know, I know this.

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<v Speaker 2>If Oprah came to me and was like, yo, I

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<v Speaker 2>really want to dig you because I'm like you with

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<v Speaker 2>women like I have to be sexually especially now now.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was twenty two years old, if you was bad,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it didn't take a lot. But now I

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<v Speaker 2>have to be really, really really attracted to you to

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<v Speaker 2>even want to be sexual with you at this point.

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<v Speaker 2>But Oprah that type of money, and she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you got you get you know you got See I don't,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. You can do whatever you want to do

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<v Speaker 2>with my money. I gotta be like, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>about that.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is, Sam is that I from what

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<v Speaker 1>I gathered from check watching Oprah through the years, Oprah

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<v Speaker 1>is not for us. She's not for us, She's not

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<v Speaker 1>for she's not for black men. She's not even for

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<v Speaker 1>black the black family nucleus, you know, black women.

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<v Speaker 4>I believe that. I just watched her. I just watch

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<v Speaker 4>how she talked.

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<v Speaker 1>To women and tell women, well, you don't need a man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you can do this, and da da da

0:23:41.080 --> 0:23:43.200
<v Speaker 1>and all these type of things, like we need each

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<v Speaker 1>other no matter how much, no matter how much friction

0:23:46.760 --> 0:23:49.679
<v Speaker 1>we have, no matter how dirty one of us do

0:23:49.760 --> 0:23:53.600
<v Speaker 1>the other way, We're not going to survive without each other.

0:23:53.680 --> 0:23:55.680
<v Speaker 1>Like we can win a lot of we've we've survived

0:23:55.680 --> 0:23:59.320
<v Speaker 1>a lot of walls, but one war we cannot win

0:23:59.560 --> 0:24:02.280
<v Speaker 1>is a the walk. I agree we can't survive agenda.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree with that, but see it goes back time

0:24:05.119 --> 0:24:07.280
<v Speaker 2>to tell her about the little Cardi b and the

0:24:07.320 --> 0:24:09.720
<v Speaker 2>little Megaie stallion and how they wrap and the stuff

0:24:09.720 --> 0:24:12.240
<v Speaker 2>that they rap about and they're not really about that.

0:24:12.359 --> 0:24:15.480
<v Speaker 2>But I mean, Oprah, I mean, she's had stepping around forever.

0:24:17.000 --> 0:24:20.440
<v Speaker 1>So he serves some purpose around. But he's there is

0:24:20.560 --> 0:24:23.440
<v Speaker 1>some purpose around. He had to cover.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever it is. I mean, she need a man for something,

0:24:26.920 --> 0:24:30.120
<v Speaker 2>so even even if it's for cover, but she needed

0:24:30.200 --> 0:24:35.320
<v Speaker 2>them for something so and I think, I think, why

0:24:35.560 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 2>she need a man to cover for her. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I know you're getting that. I've heard people say that before.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll say what I mean. I've heard women say like,

0:24:45.760 --> 0:24:47.879
<v Speaker 2>she don't she don't really go that way and he

0:24:48.040 --> 0:24:48.520
<v Speaker 2>kind of her.

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<v Speaker 4>What do they call that?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh No, they call something like when you got like

0:24:54.119 --> 0:24:56.520
<v Speaker 2>you you you go the other way. A lot of

0:24:56.560 --> 0:25:01.680
<v Speaker 2>those passes do yeah, I forgot whatever they yeah, right,

0:25:02.240 --> 0:25:06.280
<v Speaker 2>yeah exactly. But uh, I mean it's a lot of

0:25:06.520 --> 0:25:08.680
<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of women that do that nowadays, because

0:25:08.720 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 2>I think that they got past what their mothers was

0:25:13.080 --> 0:25:16.800
<v Speaker 2>trying to make when they were When mothers were like

0:25:16.840 --> 0:25:19.640
<v Speaker 2>when our mothers was trying to make our sisters independent,

0:25:20.119 --> 0:25:23.880
<v Speaker 2>they didn't want to make independent of men, right, That's

0:25:24.000 --> 0:25:25.760
<v Speaker 2>that wasn't the deal. I don't know whenmen went to

0:25:25.840 --> 0:25:30.280
<v Speaker 2>be independent of men. Independence came from you being able

0:25:30.320 --> 0:25:33.720
<v Speaker 2>to pull your own weight. That's that's what that's My

0:25:33.840 --> 0:25:36.639
<v Speaker 2>father taught my sisters to be independent, but not independent

0:25:36.640 --> 0:25:37.560
<v Speaker 2>of men. Right.

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<v Speaker 4>Independent he mean independent.

0:25:39.800 --> 0:25:43.440
<v Speaker 2>Where you go, you grow, and then you bring then

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:46.440
<v Speaker 2>you're you're equal to whoever you want to bring in. Right,

0:25:46.840 --> 0:25:51.640
<v Speaker 2>so you know everybody come in, it's independent. You're independent.

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:55.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm independent, right, But we still need women, right, So

0:25:55.800 --> 0:25:59.639
<v Speaker 2>you still need a woman, right. So I don't know

0:25:59.680 --> 0:26:01.520
<v Speaker 2>when this thing where it was like I don't need

0:26:01.640 --> 0:26:04.960
<v Speaker 2>men at all came about. I can't even I haven't

0:26:04.960 --> 0:26:07.000
<v Speaker 2>even researched it to tell you what year, because I

0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:10.520
<v Speaker 2>usually researched that stuff. Where it turned from being independence

0:26:10.680 --> 0:26:15.520
<v Speaker 2>and growth as opposed to independent, separate from from from

0:26:15.520 --> 0:26:18.840
<v Speaker 2>from men. So I think that's I think. I think

0:26:18.840 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 2>the message got hijacked at some point in time.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the message was purposely planted and everything's working

0:26:28.840 --> 0:26:33.280
<v Speaker 1>out just fine, you know, and the way that the

0:26:33.440 --> 0:26:37.280
<v Speaker 1>ol oligarky wanted it to work out. You know, these

0:26:37.600 --> 0:26:42.520
<v Speaker 1>the people that that try to destroy community put these

0:26:42.560 --> 0:26:46.560
<v Speaker 1>programs and initiatives in place. I can see that every

0:26:47.080 --> 0:26:51.960
<v Speaker 1>few years they got a new program to further subjugate us.

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<v Speaker 4>I agree with that.

0:26:53.320 --> 0:26:56.679
<v Speaker 2>I think when you look at rich families, they pushed

0:26:56.680 --> 0:27:00.320
<v Speaker 2>that to be married, like they want you to meet,

0:27:00.440 --> 0:27:02.280
<v Speaker 2>you know, you know, the Bushes want to mingle with

0:27:02.320 --> 0:27:06.359
<v Speaker 2>the Kennedys, and the Kennedy's you know, want to you know,

0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:09.159
<v Speaker 2>wringle with the mortgage and you know, you see a

0:27:09.240 --> 0:27:14.480
<v Speaker 2>lot of that inner exchange between rich families. So yeah,

0:27:14.520 --> 0:27:17.120
<v Speaker 2>I could believe that as long as you keep them

0:27:17.520 --> 0:27:21.240
<v Speaker 2>people below you separated, then you'll be able to control

0:27:21.440 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 2>the narrative, control whatever else you need to control, control them.

0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:30.480
<v Speaker 2>Actually got to boys reloaded podcasts which be right back

0:27:30.600 --> 0:27:31.320
<v Speaker 2>after the break.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me put you a scenario out there. I saw

0:27:43.640 --> 0:27:43.919
<v Speaker 4>this on.

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<v Speaker 1>A video, another one of these viral videos. Should a

0:27:52.920 --> 0:27:59.960
<v Speaker 1>let's say a guy is a baby dag he had

0:28:00.040 --> 0:28:04.840
<v Speaker 1>as a child that he's bringing food to. This child

0:28:04.920 --> 0:28:07.119
<v Speaker 1>has other siblings that are not He saw that.

0:28:07.520 --> 0:28:08.120
<v Speaker 2>I saw that.

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<v Speaker 4>He's bringing his child some McDonald's. Should he feel obligated

0:28:15.359 --> 0:28:17.880
<v Speaker 4>to buy food for the other kids who are not here?

0:28:18.000 --> 0:28:23.000
<v Speaker 2>So that's the word obligation, Like he shouldn't feel obligated.

0:28:24.359 --> 0:28:28.520
<v Speaker 2>I would to be a nice guy. Right. And the

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:31.080
<v Speaker 2>one you're talking about, he had done it before. It

0:28:31.160 --> 0:28:35.120
<v Speaker 2>wasn't like he had what if she has nine kids? Right,

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:40.680
<v Speaker 2>she had done it before. Right, he is not his children.

0:28:40.800 --> 0:28:45.400
<v Speaker 2>He shouldn't have to do it every time, right, Because

0:28:45.440 --> 0:28:48.600
<v Speaker 2>I saw it growing up. So my buddy across the street,

0:28:49.280 --> 0:28:52.840
<v Speaker 2>my mother had three kids by my dad, and all

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:56.200
<v Speaker 2>her all her kids was about her dad by my dad.

0:28:56.440 --> 0:28:58.440
<v Speaker 2>So I grew up in that type of house. I didn't.

0:28:58.600 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know anything other until like I was probably

0:29:01.160 --> 0:29:03.000
<v Speaker 2>about nine years eight or nine years old, and I

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 2>started hanging it with my buddy across the street. His

0:29:06.800 --> 0:29:10.480
<v Speaker 2>mother had uh I think it was like eight of

0:29:10.560 --> 0:29:16.000
<v Speaker 2>them with four different baby daddies, right, so if I'm

0:29:16.040 --> 0:29:18.520
<v Speaker 2>not correct, for baby daddy.

0:29:18.640 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 4>So I saw like he would like.

0:29:21.400 --> 0:29:23.280
<v Speaker 2>There were some of her boyfriends that were coming buy

0:29:23.320 --> 0:29:27.680
<v Speaker 2>food for everybody, and there were some of her her

0:29:27.760 --> 0:29:31.200
<v Speaker 2>her boyfriend ever bring in stuff or not just not food,

0:29:31.240 --> 0:29:33.400
<v Speaker 2>but anything, like he brought toys or whatever. He tried

0:29:33.400 --> 0:29:35.480
<v Speaker 2>to bring everybody a toy, and then there were something

0:29:35.520 --> 0:29:37.640
<v Speaker 2>that would just drop off just for one kid, just

0:29:37.720 --> 0:29:40.040
<v Speaker 2>his daughter or his son. So I just kind of

0:29:40.080 --> 0:29:43.520
<v Speaker 2>saw that. I always always thought that was strange in

0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:47.360
<v Speaker 2>my opinion. You know, nine children to buy food for

0:29:47.480 --> 0:29:50.479
<v Speaker 2>it is a lot. You know, I don't care what

0:29:50.560 --> 0:29:54.480
<v Speaker 2>you got, but I don't I think the word obligation

0:29:55.440 --> 0:29:59.000
<v Speaker 2>is the deal. You know, he's never obligated to do that,

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:02.560
<v Speaker 2>but take care of his child, you know, if you

0:30:02.600 --> 0:30:05.800
<v Speaker 2>want to be a nice guy, you know, you know

0:30:05.920 --> 0:30:07.560
<v Speaker 2>she got other kids in the household.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't want them to feel bad.

0:30:10.440 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 2>New kids. You ain't my daddy that.

0:30:17.200 --> 0:30:18.440
<v Speaker 4>He ain't getting get ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you know what I gave him one pride. Get

0:30:21.840 --> 0:30:24.880
<v Speaker 2>that nigga one pride. You know what I agree with you.

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 1>I actually agree with that he shouldn't feel obligated. But

0:30:32.040 --> 0:30:34.520
<v Speaker 1>it is something that I would do. It was Yeah,

0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:37.600
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't even feel right. It

0:30:37.800 --> 0:30:40.680
<v Speaker 1>just wouldn't even if I didn't know the kids. If

0:30:40.680 --> 0:30:43.440
<v Speaker 1>I didn't it was just some kids. If my kid

0:30:43.640 --> 0:30:47.600
<v Speaker 1>was just around a group of kids, I would feel awkward,

0:30:47.960 --> 0:30:51.160
<v Speaker 1>right to just bring my kids and food knowing these

0:30:51.200 --> 0:30:52.280
<v Speaker 1>other kids are hungry.

0:30:52.560 --> 0:30:55.960
<v Speaker 2>I agree, I wouldn't feel I would like so like

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:58.920
<v Speaker 2>my son have his friends around. I always pay for

0:30:58.960 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 2>everybody stuff. Like if I say, hey, grab your friends

0:31:01.760 --> 0:31:04.480
<v Speaker 2>go to the movie. I never be like, well does

0:31:04.560 --> 0:31:07.600
<v Speaker 2>little Jimmy have any money? You know? I just it's me.

0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:09.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to do that, but I don't. I don't

0:31:09.400 --> 0:31:11.560
<v Speaker 2>have to feel obligated to do it. I do it

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:14.640
<v Speaker 2>because my son and his friends. But if his parents

0:31:14.680 --> 0:31:18.320
<v Speaker 2>started to feel obligated, like you taking your son out,

0:31:18.320 --> 0:31:20.680
<v Speaker 2>you should take my son, then that's where you have it.

0:31:20.840 --> 0:31:22.080
<v Speaker 4>That's where you have the issues.

0:31:22.720 --> 0:31:25.880
<v Speaker 2>As I said, if I'm not mistaken. In his case,

0:31:26.040 --> 0:31:29.160
<v Speaker 2>he had done it before, right, It was just that

0:31:29.200 --> 0:31:32.960
<v Speaker 2>particular time where he was just like, my son is hungry.

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:34.920
<v Speaker 4>So I would have asked my son to come out

0:31:35.000 --> 0:31:35.440
<v Speaker 4>the house.

0:31:36.800 --> 0:31:38.560
<v Speaker 2>Maybe we would have drove around the corner if I

0:31:38.560 --> 0:31:41.320
<v Speaker 2>didn't want to spend the money and then let him eat.

0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:46.000
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I would that would be hard with nine kids,

0:31:46.040 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 2>that would be hard every time. I mean, just carry

0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:51.240
<v Speaker 2>just carrying a bag of food.

0:31:52.080 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 1>You go, tell your kids, all right, come on getting

0:31:54.360 --> 0:32:01.959
<v Speaker 1>the car, your kid to get the stomach full, right,

0:32:02.840 --> 0:32:05.240
<v Speaker 1>and take him back home with McDonald's on his bread

0:32:05.680 --> 0:32:06.560
<v Speaker 1>with a full stomach.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, his son was one of the last kids.

0:32:11.480 --> 0:32:15.360
<v Speaker 2>I would never procreate with a weather that has seven Now,

0:32:15.440 --> 0:32:17.880
<v Speaker 2>I said, now, yeah, eight of the baby.

0:32:17.800 --> 0:32:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Bingo, bingo, because I was going to come around that.

0:32:21.080 --> 0:32:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I was going to come around to that.

0:32:22.680 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 2>And why do men do that, because I mean, you

0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:31.560
<v Speaker 2>grow up in that environment, it becomes as I told you,

0:32:32.280 --> 0:32:35.440
<v Speaker 2>like growing up, it was strange to me when my

0:32:35.480 --> 0:32:39.600
<v Speaker 2>parents got a divorced. Right, only other man I've ever

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:42.440
<v Speaker 2>seen in my house is my dad. So when I

0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:45.840
<v Speaker 2>would go across the street to my boy Wheel's crib

0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:48.160
<v Speaker 2>and his mother would have like different boyfriends they would

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:50.800
<v Speaker 2>spend the night. It would be the most foreign thing

0:32:50.920 --> 0:32:54.800
<v Speaker 2>I ever seen in my life. So it's always depending

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:57.640
<v Speaker 2>on mentality and how you grow up always depends on

0:32:57.680 --> 0:33:00.280
<v Speaker 2>how you look at things. Did you grow up with

0:33:00.320 --> 0:33:02.680
<v Speaker 2>your dad in the house. So they got divorced when

0:33:02.720 --> 0:33:06.400
<v Speaker 2>I was like six, but my dad was always around.

0:33:07.040 --> 0:33:09.440
<v Speaker 2>So like, was your dad a player? Oh?

0:33:09.520 --> 0:33:12.640
<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, So that's where you get it from.

0:33:13.160 --> 0:33:16.480
<v Speaker 2>I ain't gonna put it all on him. Yeah, I hey, listen,

0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:18.560
<v Speaker 2>I ain't gonna put it all on him. But I

0:33:18.560 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 2>mean I grew up in that environment. My boy, My

0:33:20.680 --> 0:33:24.440
<v Speaker 2>family is boy heavy. So we got probably more boys

0:33:24.480 --> 0:33:27.200
<v Speaker 2>in the family, especially on the Williamson side than we

0:33:27.280 --> 0:33:32.040
<v Speaker 2>have you know, you know girls, and the women catered

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:34.640
<v Speaker 2>to them, like even my father and so all my

0:33:34.680 --> 0:33:36.960
<v Speaker 2>father and all his brothers died of cancer, every one

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:40.560
<v Speaker 2>of them. And whether they had a wife or not.

0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:44.959
<v Speaker 2>My grandmother had two sisters. I'm sorry. My grandmother had

0:33:44.960 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 2>two girls and six boys, and them two girls took

0:33:48.680 --> 0:33:51.680
<v Speaker 2>her all those boys until they died, like whether they

0:33:51.680 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 2>had a wife or whatever. And my grandmother catered to

0:33:54.720 --> 0:33:57.520
<v Speaker 2>her boys. She my mother always said that was her

0:33:57.800 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 2>write this down, Williamson. Girls have them, cater them, and

0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:06.960
<v Speaker 2>that's that's how I grew up in a family like

0:34:07.040 --> 0:34:10.920
<v Speaker 2>that and my my father. They were very apha males.

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:13.000
<v Speaker 2>Every one of them, every one of them own their

0:34:13.000 --> 0:34:15.200
<v Speaker 2>own businesses. Every one of them had a job, and

0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:18.960
<v Speaker 2>they also had side hustles, own their own business, hustled

0:34:19.120 --> 0:34:21.120
<v Speaker 2>all of that. So that's what that's to me. And

0:34:21.239 --> 0:34:25.080
<v Speaker 2>I grew up under right, So I don't know anything

0:34:25.200 --> 0:34:27.799
<v Speaker 2>other than that. So for me to go in and

0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:30.600
<v Speaker 2>see a one with six kids like that would be

0:34:30.680 --> 0:34:31.799
<v Speaker 2>a total turnoff to me.

0:34:31.880 --> 0:34:34.920
<v Speaker 4>I couldn't. I couldn't do that. What's your limit?

0:34:35.760 --> 0:34:40.719
<v Speaker 2>Kids? Wise? I would prefer one with no kids. And

0:34:40.760 --> 0:34:43.600
<v Speaker 2>I know that's wrong because I got kids, but I

0:34:43.600 --> 0:34:46.440
<v Speaker 2>would prefer with no kids. But if you do have

0:34:46.520 --> 0:34:49.120
<v Speaker 2>a kid, a boy that the age of my son,

0:34:50.000 --> 0:34:52.120
<v Speaker 2>and how old is your son? My son is twelve,

0:34:52.239 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 2>the young one, the youngest one is twelve, so at

0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:58.080
<v Speaker 2>least you know at least his age.

0:34:58.320 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 1>What type of advice do you give your twelve year

0:35:00.520 --> 0:35:02.000
<v Speaker 1>old signed by girls?

0:35:02.920 --> 0:35:06.439
<v Speaker 2>It's crazy because he is girl crazy. So right now

0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:11.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm just telling him to seek out women that it's

0:35:11.400 --> 0:35:12.680
<v Speaker 2>going in that same direction.

0:35:12.760 --> 0:35:14.640
<v Speaker 4>The girls is going the same direction. So we talk

0:35:14.680 --> 0:35:15.760
<v Speaker 4>about this all the time.

0:35:16.560 --> 0:35:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, because he had a little girlfriend that she

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:23.160
<v Speaker 2>would like skip school, skip class classes with him and

0:35:23.200 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 2>stuff like that. Said, I'm telling you right now, man,

0:35:25.600 --> 0:35:27.439
<v Speaker 2>that's not the girl you want to be with. I'm

0:35:27.480 --> 0:35:30.200
<v Speaker 2>like already, like I'm like at twelve.

0:35:29.960 --> 0:35:32.200
<v Speaker 4>Years skipping class at twelve at.

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:36.960
<v Speaker 2>Twelve at twelve, man, you will be surprised at what

0:35:37.000 --> 0:35:39.640
<v Speaker 2>these little kids are doing. So I'm like, man, you

0:35:39.719 --> 0:35:41.560
<v Speaker 2>need to be with the girls. He got I think

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:44.200
<v Speaker 2>I name is Sophie. So it's one little girl named Sophie.

0:35:44.520 --> 0:35:45.840
<v Speaker 4>Where is Sophie going?

0:35:46.280 --> 0:35:50.399
<v Speaker 2>No, No, she's not skipping class. It's the other girl

0:35:50.520 --> 0:35:53.920
<v Speaker 2>skips class. I forgot it going. Man, they'll go up

0:35:53.920 --> 0:35:56.319
<v Speaker 2>to the Starbucks and you know what I'm saying, or

0:35:56.320 --> 0:35:58.000
<v Speaker 2>they're just being a class. It just ain't I mean

0:35:58.000 --> 0:36:01.120
<v Speaker 2>in school, they just ain't. They'll find somewhere in school.

0:36:01.760 --> 0:36:04.879
<v Speaker 2>I did that in high school, not in junior high.

0:36:04.880 --> 0:36:08.359
<v Speaker 2>I did it in high school like that, but they're

0:36:08.400 --> 0:36:11.120
<v Speaker 2>doing it a lot earlier now. So but there's this

0:36:11.200 --> 0:36:15.359
<v Speaker 2>other little girl. He I told him. She played sports,

0:36:16.040 --> 0:36:20.040
<v Speaker 2>She played the piano, right, she she on the iron rod.

0:36:20.160 --> 0:36:23.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, dude, that's the chick that you should be liking,

0:36:24.000 --> 0:36:24.160
<v Speaker 2>you know.

0:36:24.239 --> 0:36:25.359
<v Speaker 4>I was like this other one.

0:36:26.400 --> 0:36:28.840
<v Speaker 2>Now, I was like, don't even get yourself used to

0:36:28.960 --> 0:36:31.839
<v Speaker 2>take it easy. I was like, go for the hard one.

0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:34.200
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying, don't do easy, I said.

0:36:34.239 --> 0:36:36.919
<v Speaker 2>I know, as a male sometimes and that's what gets

0:36:36.960 --> 0:36:40.479
<v Speaker 2>us in trouble. Sometimes we take easy instead of going

0:36:40.520 --> 0:36:44.560
<v Speaker 2>for hard. And that's that's that'll always get you in trouble.

0:36:44.640 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 2>That got me into it was he receptive.

0:36:46.680 --> 0:36:49.520
<v Speaker 4>He I think he getting it. I think he's getting.

0:36:49.280 --> 0:36:52.040
<v Speaker 2>It, you know. But I always tell him every morning

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:54.040
<v Speaker 2>we do this ritual. I say, look in the mirror,

0:36:54.040 --> 0:36:57.560
<v Speaker 2>what you see and he gotta tell me, you know.

0:36:58.040 --> 0:36:59.560
<v Speaker 2>And at first it used to be rehearsed.

0:36:59.560 --> 0:37:06.880
<v Speaker 5>You'd be I see smart kid, an intellectual kid, you know,

0:37:07.840 --> 0:37:10.480
<v Speaker 5>see a handsome kid. But now he's starting to speak

0:37:10.520 --> 0:37:13.440
<v Speaker 5>it like I'm like, because whoever you feel, whatever you

0:37:13.480 --> 0:37:16.719
<v Speaker 5>see looking out that mirror is the way you're gonna

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:20.040
<v Speaker 5>drive yourself right. Even the mistakes I made, I always

0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:22.120
<v Speaker 5>knew I was saying Williamson because my daddy beat it

0:37:22.200 --> 0:37:23.160
<v Speaker 5>in his boy's head.

0:37:23.680 --> 0:37:26.480
<v Speaker 2>He's like, you you the son of Maurice Williamson. You

0:37:26.520 --> 0:37:29.600
<v Speaker 2>know you this is how you roll. Brother. He's like,

0:37:29.640 --> 0:37:32.840
<v Speaker 2>that's how you do it. And so he always was like,

0:37:32.880 --> 0:37:35.360
<v Speaker 2>what you see when you're looking in mirror? Brother? You

0:37:35.400 --> 0:37:37.880
<v Speaker 2>know that's our father talk. What do you see? You're

0:37:37.920 --> 0:37:38.640
<v Speaker 2>looking at the mirror?

0:37:38.680 --> 0:37:38.919
<v Speaker 3>Brother?

0:37:39.440 --> 0:37:41.719
<v Speaker 2>And I tell him and he said, well, did that's

0:37:41.760 --> 0:37:43.160
<v Speaker 2>how you That's how you should.

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:43.800
<v Speaker 4>Be living your life.

0:37:44.200 --> 0:37:47.239
<v Speaker 2>So whatever you see in that mirror is what you're

0:37:47.239 --> 0:37:50.239
<v Speaker 2>gonna do. So that's my biggest advice with him. I

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:53.320
<v Speaker 2>want him to see what he feels that he's.

0:37:53.200 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 4>Gonna grow up to be.

0:37:54.840 --> 0:37:59.160
<v Speaker 1>Do you have conversations with him about loyalty and sexual assault,

0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:02.640
<v Speaker 1>loyalty to his girl, to a girl?

0:38:02.880 --> 0:38:05.920
<v Speaker 2>Not yet, because that's a little bit too deep. I

0:38:05.920 --> 0:38:07.960
<v Speaker 2>don't even even though I know at that age, because

0:38:07.960 --> 0:38:10.080
<v Speaker 2>I didn't call him in his pot just looking that stuff.

0:38:10.560 --> 0:38:13.640
<v Speaker 4>I haven't gotten deep into the sex talk. Yeah you

0:38:13.680 --> 0:38:14.640
<v Speaker 4>should once he.

0:38:14.719 --> 0:38:19.920
<v Speaker 2>Turned Yeah, I mean I'm getting there a little bit,

0:38:20.200 --> 0:38:22.279
<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying. But probably next year we

0:38:22.320 --> 0:38:24.080
<v Speaker 2>need an eighth I know he's going to high school.

0:38:24.080 --> 0:38:25.960
<v Speaker 2>I probably have a deep, deep talk with.

0:38:26.320 --> 0:38:29.160
<v Speaker 1>You should have the conversation before because he may catch

0:38:29.160 --> 0:38:31.680
<v Speaker 1>you off guard. You may think, Okay, now he's in

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:33.759
<v Speaker 1>the eighth grade, but he just beat you by a

0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:37.600
<v Speaker 1>few weeks. Yeah, he just did something, you know, a

0:38:37.680 --> 0:38:40.399
<v Speaker 1>few weeks ago, and you're thinking that you're headed.

0:38:40.800 --> 0:38:43.360
<v Speaker 2>Ye, you're headed. He might be right. That might be

0:38:43.400 --> 0:38:44.360
<v Speaker 2>something I need to consider.

0:38:44.440 --> 0:38:48.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I started talking to my son very very Yeah,

0:38:48.320 --> 0:38:52.719
<v Speaker 1>because if you think about it, we can have a

0:38:53.640 --> 0:39:01.239
<v Speaker 1>much better We can have a much better like relationship overall.

0:39:01.920 --> 0:39:06.080
<v Speaker 1>We can have a much more conducive relationship amongst us

0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:10.520
<v Speaker 1>if we start talking to our boys and not waiting

0:39:10.600 --> 0:39:15.640
<v Speaker 1>on the girls to be you know, assaulted or or

0:39:15.640 --> 0:39:19.760
<v Speaker 1>about or whatever. If we talk to our boys about accountability.

0:39:20.440 --> 0:39:24.400
<v Speaker 1>We talked to our boys about respectability, and we let

0:39:24.480 --> 0:39:30.880
<v Speaker 1>them know. Like I told my son early, look like

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:33.040
<v Speaker 1>as many as you want, date as many as you want,

0:39:33.360 --> 0:39:35.960
<v Speaker 1>but when you pick one, you pick one. Nobody ever

0:39:36.000 --> 0:39:39.879
<v Speaker 1>told me that I have to learn baptism through five

0:39:40.280 --> 0:39:46.080
<v Speaker 1>by five, I assured. And the same thing with sexual assault.

0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:50.719
<v Speaker 1>No don't only mean no, It don't just mean no.

0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:58.200
<v Speaker 1>It also means that you you when you follow that

0:39:58.200 --> 0:40:03.240
<v Speaker 1>that rule, you don't put yourself in a situation where

0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:06.960
<v Speaker 1>you lose your freedom, where you can lose your respect,

0:40:07.200 --> 0:40:10.200
<v Speaker 1>your reputation, your honor.

0:40:10.920 --> 0:40:14.799
<v Speaker 2>You see. And so when I haven't had that specific

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:17.840
<v Speaker 2>conversation with him, but I always talk to him about

0:40:18.160 --> 0:40:19.960
<v Speaker 2>like so when I talk about looking in that mirror,

0:40:20.000 --> 0:40:23.239
<v Speaker 2>I always talk to him about.

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 4>How he sees himself right, and that GUIDs you right.

0:40:25.719 --> 0:40:29.320
<v Speaker 2>So as a kid, So since you talked about me

0:40:29.320 --> 0:40:31.440
<v Speaker 2>and my boys always talk about what we got away

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:34.080
<v Speaker 2>with then and what you can give away with now.

0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:36.640
<v Speaker 2>But that was one fundamental thing that I always had

0:40:36.640 --> 0:40:38.839
<v Speaker 2>to separated me for a lot of my boys is

0:40:38.920 --> 0:40:42.239
<v Speaker 2>I always thought like I always had, for the lack

0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:43.800
<v Speaker 2>of a better word, I just had a big ego.

0:40:44.560 --> 0:40:46.680
<v Speaker 2>So I never put myself in a situation where I

0:40:46.719 --> 0:40:49.760
<v Speaker 2>even felt like I had to do anything that remotely

0:40:49.840 --> 0:40:52.399
<v Speaker 2>came to sexual assault for the simple fact.

0:40:52.400 --> 0:40:55.960
<v Speaker 4>I always like, if woman won't me, you know, she

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:56.719
<v Speaker 4>gonna come to me.

0:40:57.160 --> 0:40:57.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:40:57.680 --> 0:41:00.359
<v Speaker 1>I had that same mentality. But a lot of these

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:03.120
<v Speaker 1>boys they don't know they're not being taught.

0:41:03.640 --> 0:41:05.520
<v Speaker 2>And you have to be.

0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:13.080
<v Speaker 1>Purposeful about, you know, dealing with these kids and having

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:17.680
<v Speaker 1>these conversations because you can't just think, oh, he'll get it,

0:41:17.719 --> 0:41:20.279
<v Speaker 1>he'll figure out. He already knows when you look in

0:41:20.320 --> 0:41:25.640
<v Speaker 1>the mirror, who you see respect, honor, courage, bravery and

0:41:25.680 --> 0:41:29.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, all of these things. But sometimes with all

0:41:29.600 --> 0:41:31.560
<v Speaker 1>the times, really you have to tell them what those

0:41:31.560 --> 0:41:34.719
<v Speaker 1>things mean and that type of actions that are consistent

0:41:34.760 --> 0:41:35.680
<v Speaker 1>with those titles.

0:41:35.760 --> 0:41:35.920
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:41:36.560 --> 0:41:41.400
<v Speaker 1>So if our boys, if we we teach our girls

0:41:41.840 --> 0:41:44.799
<v Speaker 1>to be virtuous and you know, don't wear those type

0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:47.400
<v Speaker 1>of clothes, don't wear provocative clothes. You know, be a lady,

0:41:47.440 --> 0:41:50.359
<v Speaker 1>don't be sleeping around, and d well, we gotta teach

0:41:50.360 --> 0:41:54.439
<v Speaker 1>our boys the same thing. Don't be sleeping around. Don't

0:41:54.440 --> 0:41:58.200
<v Speaker 1>be sleeping around. You know, be careful about the type

0:41:58.239 --> 0:42:00.759
<v Speaker 1>of girl that you pick. You know, because I preach

0:42:00.840 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 1>that the person that you picked, that you choose to

0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:08.200
<v Speaker 1>be in a relationship with, and specifically the one you

0:42:08.280 --> 0:42:10.400
<v Speaker 1>choose to pro create with and would be one of

0:42:10.440 --> 0:42:16.920
<v Speaker 1>the greatest responsibilities and decisions in your life, that person

0:42:16.960 --> 0:42:18.759
<v Speaker 1>who you choose to pro create with.

0:42:18.920 --> 0:42:23.360
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely because I've made some mistakes. So yeah, I agree

0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:26.319
<v Speaker 2>with you on that, and you know what, I'm gonna

0:42:26.320 --> 0:42:30.000
<v Speaker 2>implement that because I never really you know what I'm saying.

0:42:30.200 --> 0:42:32.000
<v Speaker 4>When you when you when.

0:42:31.800 --> 0:42:34.040
<v Speaker 2>They start hitting about twelve thirteen years old, you're saying

0:42:34.400 --> 0:42:37.719
<v Speaker 2>what's too early or what's too late? You know? And

0:42:39.120 --> 0:42:41.400
<v Speaker 2>now that you say that, I'm definitely gonna implant and

0:42:41.520 --> 0:42:46.080
<v Speaker 2>implement that in my daily discussion with him. Yeah. I damn.

0:42:46.120 --> 0:42:49.920
<v Speaker 1>They don't even believe that it's that discussion can happen

0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:52.279
<v Speaker 1>too early, just for simple fact that if you think

0:42:52.320 --> 0:42:57.400
<v Speaker 1>about we teach our kids. We teach our kids about

0:42:57.440 --> 0:43:00.960
<v Speaker 1>money early on, real real early as early as three

0:43:01.000 --> 0:43:03.640
<v Speaker 1>four five years old. We teaching them, were giving them

0:43:03.640 --> 0:43:07.799
<v Speaker 1>a little small lessons about money. We teach them, you know,

0:43:07.880 --> 0:43:08.840
<v Speaker 1>about budgeting.

0:43:09.400 --> 0:43:10.040
<v Speaker 2>We teach them.

0:43:10.320 --> 0:43:17.360
<v Speaker 1>We we sew into them goals. If they have something

0:43:17.360 --> 0:43:19.759
<v Speaker 1>that they want to invent, some type of company they

0:43:19.800 --> 0:43:22.200
<v Speaker 1>want to start, we get right behind them and we

0:43:22.360 --> 0:43:26.440
<v Speaker 1>push him. I know a little kid that started investing

0:43:26.480 --> 0:43:30.000
<v Speaker 1>in stocks when he was eleven years old. His parents,

0:43:30.040 --> 0:43:33.880
<v Speaker 1>his mother specifically saw it in him early on. He

0:43:34.000 --> 0:43:37.319
<v Speaker 1>was asking questions about it, and moms, okay, well let

0:43:37.360 --> 0:43:39.960
<v Speaker 1>me go buy a book. Mom went and bought a book,

0:43:40.000 --> 0:43:42.440
<v Speaker 1>and she educated herself on stocks. She didn't even know

0:43:42.480 --> 0:43:45.760
<v Speaker 1>anything about stocks. But man, I gotta get that woman's

0:43:45.760 --> 0:43:48.799
<v Speaker 1>some praise. Man, that woman, she saw it in him

0:43:48.840 --> 0:43:50.920
<v Speaker 1>early on. This is what he want to do. Let

0:43:50.920 --> 0:43:53.600
<v Speaker 1>me go educate myself so I can help him get that.

0:43:54.320 --> 0:43:57.200
<v Speaker 1>So shots out to all the parents out there, who's

0:43:57.200 --> 0:43:59.759
<v Speaker 1>swing to your kids, who really.

0:44:01.320 --> 0:44:03.600
<v Speaker 4>Who really see the potential.

0:44:03.200 --> 0:44:06.879
<v Speaker 1>In them and and and put them in in spaces

0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:10.239
<v Speaker 1>where they can actually blossom and realize their goals. Yeah,

0:44:10.719 --> 0:44:13.480
<v Speaker 1>you know that that I agree with because Cooper's had

0:44:13.560 --> 0:44:16.680
<v Speaker 1>some type of businesses he was seven years old, so

0:44:17.120 --> 0:44:18.960
<v Speaker 1>I definitely agree with you on that.

0:44:19.360 --> 0:44:22.359
<v Speaker 2>So I mean that that's definitely see. So I learned

0:44:22.440 --> 0:44:25.120
<v Speaker 2>something today because I definitely was like when do I

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:28.800
<v Speaker 2>talk have this deep dive conversation with and like he

0:44:28.960 --> 0:44:30.759
<v Speaker 2>crazy enough, so I don't ways put too much in

0:44:30.800 --> 0:44:33.399
<v Speaker 2>his head. But you know, I agree with what you say.

0:44:35.239 --> 0:44:38.399
<v Speaker 2>Got to boys reloaded podcasts will be right back after

0:44:38.440 --> 0:44:38.839
<v Speaker 2>this break.

0:44:46.640 --> 0:44:47.759
<v Speaker 4>What what are you?

0:44:47.840 --> 0:44:52.080
<v Speaker 1>What is the answer for all this bickering going on

0:44:52.239 --> 0:44:56.080
<v Speaker 1>between black men and black women? You know, how how

0:44:56.120 --> 0:45:01.799
<v Speaker 1>do we how do we have like health conversations to

0:45:01.840 --> 0:45:05.239
<v Speaker 1>where you see my viewpoint, I see your viewpoint. We

0:45:05.360 --> 0:45:09.279
<v Speaker 1>come together because we both understand that we need each other.

0:45:09.320 --> 0:45:13.680
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like, you know, these companies exist because

0:45:13.880 --> 0:45:17.480
<v Speaker 1>of as a relationship and there's a certain level of

0:45:17.520 --> 0:45:21.440
<v Speaker 1>respect that they have for their employees, and employees got

0:45:21.480 --> 0:45:23.760
<v Speaker 1>to have a certain level of respect for the company

0:45:24.239 --> 0:45:29.680
<v Speaker 1>and their supervisors and so on and song. So the

0:45:29.680 --> 0:45:32.520
<v Speaker 1>company is not gonna just shut the doors. They're gonna

0:45:32.600 --> 0:45:36.799
<v Speaker 1>find somebody that fits the model, their work model, right,

0:45:37.120 --> 0:45:40.400
<v Speaker 1>and they're gonna continue to grow and advance.

0:45:40.560 --> 0:45:40.759
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:45:41.680 --> 0:45:47.000
<v Speaker 1>So we don't really have a choice but to figure

0:45:47.040 --> 0:45:48.840
<v Speaker 1>it out. How do we figure it out? What's like

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:52.520
<v Speaker 1>one of the first steps, like having honest conversations. That's

0:45:52.560 --> 0:45:55.120
<v Speaker 1>the biggest thing. I think that's the hardest thing for

0:45:55.200 --> 0:45:57.880
<v Speaker 1>people to do and be honest with themselves. You know,

0:45:58.000 --> 0:45:59.880
<v Speaker 1>last time we was on here, we was talking.

0:45:59.680 --> 0:46:06.160
<v Speaker 2>About, uh, what's his name, Samuel Kevin Samuels, right, And

0:46:06.280 --> 0:46:08.719
<v Speaker 2>it's funny I always tell to women and they're like, oh,

0:46:08.800 --> 0:46:12.080
<v Speaker 2>you think like Kevin Samuels. I was like, I actually

0:46:12.080 --> 0:46:15.640
<v Speaker 2>think like, you know, love Guru saying Williamson. But I

0:46:15.680 --> 0:46:17.759
<v Speaker 2>do understand some of the things that he did. But

0:46:17.800 --> 0:46:20.120
<v Speaker 2>one of the biggest things that he was saying that

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:23.840
<v Speaker 2>he did it in a way that sensationalized his his

0:46:23.840 --> 0:46:26.319
<v Speaker 2>his his point of view so that he could get

0:46:26.440 --> 0:46:29.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, monetize it. But what he was saying was

0:46:29.400 --> 0:46:32.279
<v Speaker 2>everybody needs to be honest with themselves. Right, and if

0:46:32.320 --> 0:46:36.200
<v Speaker 2>people are more honest with themselves, like there's there has

0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:38.839
<v Speaker 2>became a time that everybody wants to be paid three

0:46:38.880 --> 0:46:42.840
<v Speaker 2>times what they worth, right, And people women sometimes, I

0:46:43.000 --> 0:46:48.040
<v Speaker 2>mean have sometimes have a problem with really giving theirself

0:46:48.120 --> 0:46:51.759
<v Speaker 2>a critical look at herself critically and being honest with

0:46:51.800 --> 0:46:54.920
<v Speaker 2>themselves about who they are. Right. I think if people

0:46:54.960 --> 0:46:58.279
<v Speaker 2>start to do that more have honest conversations about who

0:46:58.320 --> 0:47:02.000
<v Speaker 2>they are, I think that me against you thinking would

0:47:02.040 --> 0:47:05.640
<v Speaker 2>go away, right because people would be more willing to

0:47:06.760 --> 0:47:09.359
<v Speaker 2>you know, and I hate to say like like use

0:47:09.440 --> 0:47:11.400
<v Speaker 2>the terms that he was using, but like, you know,

0:47:11.440 --> 0:47:13.160
<v Speaker 2>if you're a seven and you should be with a seven,

0:47:13.760 --> 0:47:17.359
<v Speaker 2>if you honest with yourself, that's nothing wrong with that, right.

0:47:17.960 --> 0:47:22.280
<v Speaker 2>The problem is how the world has you know, evolved

0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:25.000
<v Speaker 2>in our environment as involved in us, you know, telling

0:47:25.040 --> 0:47:27.520
<v Speaker 2>women they should be you know, they all tense. It's

0:47:27.520 --> 0:47:30.000
<v Speaker 2>funny like you as any woman she a ten, right,

0:47:30.360 --> 0:47:32.600
<v Speaker 2>and you should think you're the greatest person in the world,

0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:36.520
<v Speaker 2>but you should also be be honest, you know, so

0:47:36.560 --> 0:47:38.960
<v Speaker 2>I give I put it in sports analogy. I was

0:47:38.960 --> 0:47:41.040
<v Speaker 2>talking to my son about this recently. I was like,

0:47:42.280 --> 0:47:44.200
<v Speaker 2>in sports I knew what I could do when I

0:47:44.239 --> 0:47:48.879
<v Speaker 2>couldn't do right, So I became Because I was never

0:47:48.920 --> 0:47:52.360
<v Speaker 2>the greatest athlete growing up, my cousins was better. You know.

0:47:52.440 --> 0:47:54.440
<v Speaker 2>I had to do some cats on the street that

0:47:54.640 --> 0:47:56.880
<v Speaker 2>was better. You know. Matter of fact, the whole hit

0:47:56.960 --> 0:48:00.000
<v Speaker 2>the street was better than me as a kid in sports.

0:48:00.360 --> 0:48:03.400
<v Speaker 2>But no one got a scholarship, right. I was the

0:48:03.440 --> 0:48:05.920
<v Speaker 2>only one that got a scholarship, got my college. This

0:48:05.960 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 2>is what my father paid zero. But I got that

0:48:09.280 --> 0:48:11.960
<v Speaker 2>because I knew what I was good at, right. I

0:48:12.000 --> 0:48:13.920
<v Speaker 2>know I was a hitter, right, so I know I

0:48:13.960 --> 0:48:16.279
<v Speaker 2>was a hitter. I tear your head off, I did.

0:48:16.320 --> 0:48:19.800
<v Speaker 2>So I did that to the fullest extent. I wasn't

0:48:19.800 --> 0:48:22.560
<v Speaker 2>a guy that was gonna be a lockdown corner, you

0:48:22.600 --> 0:48:24.640
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean. I wasn't gonna be the guy

0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:27.960
<v Speaker 2>that I was gonna catch all the figuretip catches. So

0:48:28.080 --> 0:48:32.040
<v Speaker 2>because I concentrated on what I knew, bruising people, trying

0:48:32.040 --> 0:48:35.399
<v Speaker 2>to hurt the other person, it took me a long way.

0:48:35.680 --> 0:48:37.200
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. It's the same thing you

0:48:37.239 --> 0:48:40.560
<v Speaker 2>look at somebody like, you know, did his Robin and

0:48:40.600 --> 0:48:44.839
<v Speaker 2>your boy with the Golden State right now, Draymond Green.

0:48:45.400 --> 0:48:47.960
<v Speaker 2>The reason why Draymond Green is great, it's not that

0:48:48.040 --> 0:48:51.360
<v Speaker 2>he'll give you ten points of thirty points. He knows

0:48:51.400 --> 0:48:56.160
<v Speaker 2>exactly what he does well, right, and that's rebound costs

0:48:56.160 --> 0:48:56.560
<v Speaker 2>had it.

0:48:56.520 --> 0:48:57.920
<v Speaker 4>Giving people's head all.

0:48:57.960 --> 0:49:02.320
<v Speaker 2>He is a modern day robbing, right, And because Robin

0:49:02.400 --> 0:49:08.080
<v Speaker 2>knew what he was, he revolutionized that specialized a rebounding.

0:49:08.360 --> 0:49:10.560
<v Speaker 2>I was never a person that did that, right. So,

0:49:10.600 --> 0:49:13.200
<v Speaker 2>because if you know who you are, then that's what

0:49:13.280 --> 0:49:16.400
<v Speaker 2>you go for. That's that's how that's the limits you set.

0:49:16.680 --> 0:49:18.840
<v Speaker 2>You know, that's what you get for yourself when you

0:49:18.920 --> 0:49:22.239
<v Speaker 2>think that you should be here or you here, you know,

0:49:22.600 --> 0:49:26.239
<v Speaker 2>a vice versa. That's what everything gets mixed up, right,

0:49:26.320 --> 0:49:30.239
<v Speaker 2>And that's where people have problems. Women have problems because

0:49:30.239 --> 0:49:32.160
<v Speaker 2>I think women have more problems with it than men.

0:49:32.280 --> 0:49:34.359
<v Speaker 4>Because we taught who we are they want.

0:49:35.400 --> 0:49:38.759
<v Speaker 1>I was I was about to say that because I

0:49:38.840 --> 0:49:43.160
<v Speaker 1>know that a guy who doesn't make good money, like

0:49:43.400 --> 0:49:44.400
<v Speaker 1>really good money.

0:49:44.200 --> 0:49:47.480
<v Speaker 4>Even told that he's he's he's going to be told that.

0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:49.960
<v Speaker 1>He believes that, and so he don't He's not going

0:49:50.040 --> 0:49:52.520
<v Speaker 1>to go try to go get a holly berry, right.

0:49:52.640 --> 0:49:55.960
<v Speaker 1>He knows that. Look that that's how my pay scaled.

0:49:56.120 --> 0:49:59.680
<v Speaker 1>But a woman could be like, you know, that's that's

0:49:59.760 --> 0:50:02.399
<v Speaker 1>set in that six or whatever that you talk about

0:50:02.400 --> 0:50:05.960
<v Speaker 1>that five, and she thinks she can go get you

0:50:05.960 --> 0:50:08.200
<v Speaker 1>know that she could go get that she deserves.

0:50:08.960 --> 0:50:11.680
<v Speaker 2>So if you think you deserve a tad, you know,

0:50:11.840 --> 0:50:14.719
<v Speaker 2>even though you never get it, you still feel that's

0:50:14.719 --> 0:50:15.839
<v Speaker 2>you're still shooting for that.

0:50:16.400 --> 0:50:19.960
<v Speaker 1>Right and you're still looking down on the guy exactly,

0:50:20.000 --> 0:50:21.520
<v Speaker 1>that's actually where you are.

0:50:21.600 --> 0:50:24.600
<v Speaker 2>Right, That's how you miss out. And that's what he

0:50:24.719 --> 0:50:27.319
<v Speaker 2>was saying. And that's what I always say. So if

0:50:27.320 --> 0:50:30.440
<v Speaker 2>you be honest, like that's the hardest thing, the hardest.

0:50:30.440 --> 0:50:32.279
<v Speaker 2>That girl asked me this recently. She said, what do

0:50:32.400 --> 0:50:34.680
<v Speaker 2>you right? She said, what do you think you are?

0:50:35.239 --> 0:50:35.359
<v Speaker 4>So?

0:50:35.600 --> 0:50:36.600
<v Speaker 2>I said, I'm a strong eight.

0:50:37.520 --> 0:50:39.600
<v Speaker 4>She was like, you eight a ten? I said, I

0:50:39.640 --> 0:50:40.760
<v Speaker 4>lose these fifteen pounds.

0:50:41.000 --> 0:50:43.120
<v Speaker 2>I pushed myself over to I said, I pushed myself

0:50:43.200 --> 0:50:45.839
<v Speaker 2>until eight point five. I was like, you had another

0:50:45.920 --> 0:50:47.759
<v Speaker 2>zero in my name, I'd be a nine nine and

0:50:47.840 --> 0:50:53.200
<v Speaker 2>a half. But the eighty percent of anything is great. Like, hey,

0:50:53.360 --> 0:50:54.960
<v Speaker 2>she was like, why would you not? I was like,

0:50:54.960 --> 0:50:57.399
<v Speaker 2>because I'm honest with myself. I was like, I think

0:50:57.440 --> 0:51:00.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm an extremely nice looking. God, I think I'm very telligy.

0:51:00.400 --> 0:51:03.440
<v Speaker 2>I got swagged, right, I said, but people to be

0:51:03.480 --> 0:51:04.720
<v Speaker 2>at an eight eight point five?

0:51:05.239 --> 0:51:08.200
<v Speaker 4>I mean that's pretty, that's pretty honest with myself. All

0:51:08.239 --> 0:51:09.360
<v Speaker 4>you got to do is go get some of that

0:51:09.440 --> 0:51:10.359
<v Speaker 4>open money.

0:51:10.160 --> 0:51:12.839
<v Speaker 2>Right, go go put me out of ten.

0:51:13.760 --> 0:51:13.960
<v Speaker 4>Right?

0:51:14.120 --> 0:51:17.480
<v Speaker 2>But see, but see a man could be honest with that.

0:51:17.560 --> 0:51:21.560
<v Speaker 2>With that, I make magnificit money. I've done very well

0:51:21.600 --> 0:51:24.520
<v Speaker 2>for myself, right, But I know if you put me,

0:51:24.560 --> 0:51:27.399
<v Speaker 2>you give me jay Z money. You know what I'm saying,

0:51:27.400 --> 0:51:30.400
<v Speaker 2>Because jay Z is not the nicest looking guy. But

0:51:30.719 --> 0:51:34.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't think no woman wouldn't say his total package

0:51:34.440 --> 0:51:37.040
<v Speaker 2>and a team with most women? Will you know most?

0:51:37.040 --> 0:51:39.719
<v Speaker 2>He probably get most women if he wanted to, Right,

0:51:40.520 --> 0:51:42.400
<v Speaker 2>I said most, I say all, because there's always that

0:51:42.440 --> 0:51:45.399
<v Speaker 2>one Chiger I wouldn't. Okay, I get you. I'm saying

0:51:45.440 --> 0:51:48.560
<v Speaker 2>he would get most, he would give most women. But

0:51:48.640 --> 0:51:52.200
<v Speaker 2>men could be more critical of themselves. Because she just

0:51:52.200 --> 0:51:53.719
<v Speaker 2>felt like I should have said I was a teen.

0:51:54.680 --> 0:51:56.840
<v Speaker 2>I was like, but I'm not. You know what I'm saying.

0:51:56.920 --> 0:51:59.920
<v Speaker 2>Eight point five? Man, that's I'd go anywhere to cut

0:52:00.000 --> 0:52:02.320
<v Speaker 2>tree with that. You know what I'm saying. Can't go

0:52:02.480 --> 0:52:04.719
<v Speaker 2>any where. The country will dominate. Yo, you used to't

0:52:04.760 --> 0:52:08.600
<v Speaker 2>get a ten and get nine tens. I'll mean, you know,

0:52:08.719 --> 0:52:11.080
<v Speaker 2>it ain't too many of them in the world, you know, So,

0:52:11.719 --> 0:52:14.279
<v Speaker 2>I mean that's the d I think I've never met

0:52:14.320 --> 0:52:16.560
<v Speaker 2>a woman. Say, well, let me take that. I've met

0:52:16.560 --> 0:52:18.160
<v Speaker 2>a couple of girls. Say when you ask her and

0:52:18.200 --> 0:52:21.320
<v Speaker 2>they gave them a they gave you a legitimate, somewhere

0:52:21.400 --> 0:52:24.680
<v Speaker 2>in the area number. When you say, you know, I've

0:52:24.719 --> 0:52:26.839
<v Speaker 2>talked to a girl that was a six, it was like, oh,

0:52:26.880 --> 0:52:32.399
<v Speaker 2>I was ten. I was like, on what date? What

0:52:32.560 --> 0:52:35.959
<v Speaker 2>more than, what type of makeup did you? You can't

0:52:35.960 --> 0:52:39.040
<v Speaker 2>be a six of your ten, There's no way. But

0:52:39.680 --> 0:52:42.120
<v Speaker 2>and that's how she carried herself like she was a ted.

0:52:42.440 --> 0:52:46.000
<v Speaker 1>How do you feel about women? That women makeup? So

0:52:46.360 --> 0:52:51.480
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. So I used to date a makeup artists, right,

0:52:52.280 --> 0:52:58.560
<v Speaker 1>and on the surface, I hated makeup. I once again,

0:52:58.880 --> 0:53:02.600
<v Speaker 1>my mom didn't marry word much makeup. The family I

0:53:02.640 --> 0:53:05.799
<v Speaker 1>grew in, the women didn't wear much makeup. So I

0:53:05.880 --> 0:53:08.759
<v Speaker 1>was I'm not a.

0:53:07.680 --> 0:53:10.880
<v Speaker 2>Great fan of makeup. Well, let me take that, but

0:53:11.320 --> 0:53:13.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm a fan of makeup. You put on makeup to

0:53:13.760 --> 0:53:17.200
<v Speaker 2>enhance your beauty. And that's a whole difference than having

0:53:17.200 --> 0:53:20.920
<v Speaker 2>a beat face trying to cover it up. Having a

0:53:20.960 --> 0:53:22.920
<v Speaker 2>beat face is something totally different.

0:53:23.120 --> 0:53:25.920
<v Speaker 4>You know, putting up, putting a little you know what

0:53:25.960 --> 0:53:26.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm saying.

0:53:26.520 --> 0:53:28.759
<v Speaker 2>You know, you line your nose a little bit, you

0:53:29.360 --> 0:53:32.640
<v Speaker 2>can contour your face a little bit or whatever, you know,

0:53:32.800 --> 0:53:37.120
<v Speaker 2>a little foundation, you know. But you know, when you

0:53:37.280 --> 0:53:40.440
<v Speaker 2>got the whole layers and layers and your nose is

0:53:40.800 --> 0:53:42.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, your nose this why But after you get

0:53:42.680 --> 0:53:45.640
<v Speaker 2>through it looked like it looked like it's that big.

0:53:47.080 --> 0:53:50.160
<v Speaker 2>That's just just too much because it's just hiding who

0:53:50.200 --> 0:53:53.320
<v Speaker 2>you are. But I mean, I don't really like weave.

0:53:53.920 --> 0:53:57.000
<v Speaker 2>So every girl I've ever had they took up. I

0:53:57.040 --> 0:53:59.640
<v Speaker 2>made him take the weave out while we would date.

0:54:01.400 --> 0:54:03.520
<v Speaker 2>Every check I've ever had took the weave out that

0:54:03.560 --> 0:54:04.239
<v Speaker 2>if she had we.

0:54:05.840 --> 0:54:08.000
<v Speaker 1>What would have happened if one of them decided I'm

0:54:08.040 --> 0:54:10.360
<v Speaker 1>not taking the weave out. I'm talking about one of

0:54:10.400 --> 0:54:13.160
<v Speaker 1>them that you really really liked, you was in love with.

0:54:13.200 --> 0:54:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Which one did you did you find? Did you fall

0:54:15.080 --> 0:54:16.960
<v Speaker 1>in love with it before she took it out of you?

0:54:16.960 --> 0:54:20.520
<v Speaker 2>Better? So that's a good question because the girl was

0:54:20.600 --> 0:54:23.319
<v Speaker 2>that was a makeup artist used to work like, and

0:54:23.400 --> 0:54:27.200
<v Speaker 2>what's crazy is she was more beautiful without the makeup,

0:54:27.600 --> 0:54:30.279
<v Speaker 2>like when she do the fresh face. Oh she was

0:54:30.960 --> 0:54:33.319
<v Speaker 2>very hard to tell it convinced woman that she was

0:54:33.400 --> 0:54:37.120
<v Speaker 2>stunning with this fresh face, but like she put up

0:54:37.120 --> 0:54:41.600
<v Speaker 2>all the makeup or sometimes you I was like, like

0:54:41.680 --> 0:54:43.960
<v Speaker 2>we would go to my corporate function. I was like,

0:54:44.080 --> 0:54:47.160
<v Speaker 2>she was like, well, I word it because trying to

0:54:47.160 --> 0:54:49.920
<v Speaker 2>sell it. Yeah, because she said this is my business.

0:54:49.920 --> 0:54:52.080
<v Speaker 2>So I got that. So to ask you a question,

0:54:52.880 --> 0:54:55.280
<v Speaker 2>I fell in love with her. I want to marry

0:54:55.280 --> 0:54:59.239
<v Speaker 2>this chick, and I accepted it. So I don't know.

0:54:59.480 --> 0:55:01.680
<v Speaker 2>I just don't like weed. It just feels like it

0:55:01.719 --> 0:55:03.880
<v Speaker 2>feels like Easter egg hurt on your chest or so

0:55:04.000 --> 0:55:10.239
<v Speaker 2>when I Easter egg, he's the egg grass when you know,

0:55:10.480 --> 0:55:14.399
<v Speaker 2>you know, eas the egg grass like that Easter egg

0:55:14.440 --> 0:55:16.040
<v Speaker 2>grass when you put it on your chest. So I

0:55:16.080 --> 0:55:19.280
<v Speaker 2>don't I don't really like. I don't really like weed.

0:55:20.040 --> 0:55:23.239
<v Speaker 2>But as I said, I I fell in love with

0:55:23.280 --> 0:55:27.640
<v Speaker 2>this chick with it, So I don't know. I just

0:55:27.960 --> 0:55:30.400
<v Speaker 2>know I don't like the smell of it, none of it.

0:55:31.040 --> 0:55:35.560
<v Speaker 1>What do you think about that millionaire soccer guy who's smart?

0:55:35.680 --> 0:55:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Who I played he's smart his wife or his former wife. Listen,

0:55:40.239 --> 0:55:44.719
<v Speaker 1>it's a strange wife and put all of the assets.

0:55:45.160 --> 0:55:45.680
<v Speaker 2>Man.

0:55:46.480 --> 0:55:47.720
<v Speaker 4>I said that to all my boys.

0:55:47.719 --> 0:55:51.719
<v Speaker 2>Is married. So I think he a smart, a very

0:55:51.760 --> 0:55:54.000
<v Speaker 2>smart guy. So I remember, I don't know if I

0:55:54.040 --> 0:55:55.560
<v Speaker 2>told you that. Me and you was talking one time.

0:55:55.640 --> 0:55:58.440
<v Speaker 2>I was telling my uncle came to me. Now, this

0:55:58.560 --> 0:56:01.640
<v Speaker 2>guy has been worked since he was seventeen years old

0:56:02.360 --> 0:56:07.400
<v Speaker 2>and a mass of little small fortune, right well off,

0:56:08.000 --> 0:56:10.960
<v Speaker 2>retired at fifty five, can do whatever he want to do.

0:56:11.280 --> 0:56:15.920
<v Speaker 2>So he got married when he was sixty. And he

0:56:15.960 --> 0:56:19.080
<v Speaker 2>came to me and he asked me, he said, should

0:56:19.080 --> 0:56:25.480
<v Speaker 2>I do a prenup? And I was just like, hell yeah.

0:56:26.320 --> 0:56:28.560
<v Speaker 2>I was like all the sweating tears you did? I

0:56:28.560 --> 0:56:31.120
<v Speaker 2>mean because he wasn't a guy that got it because

0:56:31.560 --> 0:56:34.920
<v Speaker 2>made that money. Because he just had a great, a

0:56:34.960 --> 0:56:38.520
<v Speaker 2>super high paining job. He sacrificed a lot, paid a lot,

0:56:38.600 --> 0:56:42.080
<v Speaker 2>made good investments, didn't mess off his money. So when

0:56:42.080 --> 0:56:44.600
<v Speaker 2>he had fifty five, he was straight. You know what

0:56:44.640 --> 0:56:48.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying. He sacrificed a lot, He deprived his stuff

0:56:48.440 --> 0:56:50.759
<v Speaker 2>of a lot. My uncle was so cheap he was

0:56:51.000 --> 0:56:53.640
<v Speaker 2>when of those uncles like he would know what the

0:56:53.680 --> 0:56:57.359
<v Speaker 2>temperature was because I grew up in the Midwest where.

0:56:57.480 --> 0:56:59.120
<v Speaker 4>And he come in and it was hotter.

0:56:59.239 --> 0:57:01.600
<v Speaker 2>He'll go, look at you, look at the thirdst stat

0:57:02.160 --> 0:57:06.080
<v Speaker 2>what the thirdstats say? That's that's who he was, he said,

0:57:06.160 --> 0:57:08.799
<v Speaker 2>He said, what was what you go? What should I

0:57:08.800 --> 0:57:11.680
<v Speaker 2>do if she get angry? If I say she got

0:57:12.120 --> 0:57:14.719
<v Speaker 2>side of prenup? And I said, I said, uh, the

0:57:14.800 --> 0:57:18.800
<v Speaker 2>prenup only matters that she don't love you anymore. That's

0:57:18.800 --> 0:57:21.880
<v Speaker 2>what you tell him. I said, the predn up only

0:57:21.920 --> 0:57:24.440
<v Speaker 2>matters if you don't love me anymore. As long as

0:57:24.480 --> 0:57:28.200
<v Speaker 2>you love me, were good. So I think he felt

0:57:28.240 --> 0:57:31.200
<v Speaker 2>like that too, like as long as we in love,

0:57:31.920 --> 0:57:34.120
<v Speaker 2>it didn't matter. It didn't because I'm I'm pretty sure

0:57:34.240 --> 0:57:36.840
<v Speaker 2>she had access to all the money. Anywhere they went

0:57:37.120 --> 0:57:40.080
<v Speaker 2>was paid for it. She lived the lifestyle. He gave

0:57:40.120 --> 0:57:43.440
<v Speaker 2>her the lifestyle. It did not matter until she wanted

0:57:43.480 --> 0:57:47.640
<v Speaker 2>to take half this man money. So I think it

0:57:47.720 --> 0:57:51.160
<v Speaker 2>was smart. Yeah, and and and and friend of mine

0:57:51.240 --> 0:57:53.439
<v Speaker 2>sent me some better. I don't know if you see

0:57:53.600 --> 0:57:58.000
<v Speaker 2>this one. I forgot who's a billionaire, but he took

0:57:58.040 --> 0:58:02.440
<v Speaker 2>his wife. They been married forty two years. She's probably

0:58:02.440 --> 0:58:05.960
<v Speaker 2>about fifteen, twenty years younger than him, and they was

0:58:06.000 --> 0:58:08.040
<v Speaker 2>married like twenty five years something like that, was married

0:58:08.080 --> 0:58:12.400
<v Speaker 2>like twenty twenty five years, and she she went to

0:58:12.440 --> 0:58:17.200
<v Speaker 2>go did a divorce and they had been divorced since

0:58:17.240 --> 0:58:17.920
<v Speaker 2>the fifth year.

0:58:18.040 --> 0:58:18.800
<v Speaker 4>Did you see that?

0:58:19.160 --> 0:58:21.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he took it at dr No.

0:58:21.400 --> 0:58:23.840
<v Speaker 1>No, No, they had they had been they had been

0:58:23.920 --> 0:58:27.880
<v Speaker 1>divorced since like the six months, the six month.

0:58:28.160 --> 0:58:28.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:58:28.440 --> 0:58:31.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he took it to the DRR. Yeah, and divorced her.

0:58:31.920 --> 0:58:33.000
<v Speaker 2>But they was together.

0:58:33.160 --> 0:58:35.760
<v Speaker 1>They lost together twenty years. They were together twenty years

0:58:35.760 --> 0:58:38.200
<v Speaker 1>and then she filed for it. This was a younger woman, right,

0:58:38.240 --> 0:58:40.960
<v Speaker 1>And she filed for divorce after twenty years. And he

0:58:41.080 --> 0:58:43.440
<v Speaker 1>said that he divorced her then because he knew that

0:58:43.520 --> 0:58:44.760
<v Speaker 1>eventually she would leave him.

0:58:44.800 --> 0:58:45.040
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:58:46.120 --> 0:58:48.680
<v Speaker 1>It's a cold game, man, It's a cold game. It's

0:58:48.720 --> 0:58:52.840
<v Speaker 1>a relationship. Do you ever get any pressure from from

0:58:52.880 --> 0:58:59.439
<v Speaker 1>women when you state your opinion because you're this guy

0:58:59.520 --> 0:59:05.160
<v Speaker 1>who uh is a basically relationship guru. Your love guru

0:59:06.240 --> 0:59:10.720
<v Speaker 1>is that anytime when you meet a woman and you're

0:59:10.760 --> 0:59:12.960
<v Speaker 1>interested in her, you want her to be interested in you.

0:59:13.040 --> 0:59:16.880
<v Speaker 1>But she's she's hesitant, she has some trepidation because of

0:59:17.240 --> 0:59:18.400
<v Speaker 1>your your reputation.

0:59:20.360 --> 0:59:23.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean yeah, I mean you anytime you a

0:59:23.920 --> 0:59:27.200
<v Speaker 2>guy that's been out here for a while, I mean,

0:59:27.240 --> 0:59:29.440
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna deal with a little bit of that. I'm

0:59:30.160 --> 0:59:36.360
<v Speaker 2>what I'm talking about, mainly just just knowing that, OKAYU.

0:59:34.520 --> 0:59:36.240
<v Speaker 4>I've only had that one one time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Actually just recently I had too man, bad bad

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<v Speaker 2>and she just didn't trust you. She's just like, she

0:59:44.160 --> 0:59:47.400
<v Speaker 2>don't like dudes that be all on Instagram and doing

0:59:47.440 --> 0:59:51.440
<v Speaker 2>talk radio and you know, podcast. And I was like, Okay,

0:59:51.520 --> 0:59:53.280
<v Speaker 2>I ain't mad at you. I have a big personality.

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<v Speaker 4>Ye.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, baby, you know, if you don't like it,

0:59:56.640 --> 0:59:58.840
<v Speaker 2>then you don't like it. I can't do nothing about it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I never upset if some woman doesn't like something

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<v Speaker 2>about me. I'm like, I'm glad she got it out

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<v Speaker 2>early on.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of advice that you that obviously that

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<v Speaker 1>you can offer for people that are in relationships, are

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<v Speaker 1>people that want to enter into relationships. But one of

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<v Speaker 1>the most significant pieces of advice that you can share

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<v Speaker 1>right now, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Telling you it all boils now that people don't lie

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<v Speaker 2>to themselves about anything anything. I was talking to a

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<v Speaker 2>friend of mine and she was telling me that her

1:00:37.080 --> 1:00:39.600
<v Speaker 2>husband had died, right, and then she said that she

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<v Speaker 2>wanted a relationship with this type of guy, right, but

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<v Speaker 2>she don't like that type of guy. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you like jazzy dudes, Like you like dudes that like

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<v Speaker 2>when they walk in the room, everybody pay attention to them.

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<v Speaker 2>And she was like, but I've had that, and I

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<v Speaker 2>loved my husband when he died, but you know, we

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<v Speaker 2>had issues, blah blah blah. I was like, but you're

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna be happy with that other dude, so you'll

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<v Speaker 2>be lying to yourself, right, Ill be like, you'll be

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<v Speaker 2>lying to yourself. You get that other guy, it'll be

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<v Speaker 2>good for the first couple of two or three years,

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<v Speaker 2>but then all of a sudden, you'll be resorting back

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<v Speaker 2>to the guy that you wanted. That's why so many

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<v Speaker 2>women are happy that's married. Like, do you know how

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<v Speaker 2>many women cheat that's married? Like it's ridiculous now, because

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<v Speaker 2>I believe my hypothesis is most women married for the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong reasons. One of the things is most of the

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<v Speaker 2>women dudes that they marry men. Me and my partners

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<v Speaker 2>had an argument about this. I would say, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna ask you this question, do you think that most

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<v Speaker 2>people are married to the man or the woman that's

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<v Speaker 2>their first choice.

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<v Speaker 1>No, absolutely not, because I know as far as like

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<v Speaker 1>with women. When it comes to women, women marry men

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<v Speaker 1>that they.

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<v Speaker 2>Can live with.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so okay, they want to be with him, but

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna be able to live with that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I can live with him.

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<v Speaker 2>I want, I really want to be with him, but

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of women pay attention to him or I

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<v Speaker 2>want to really I really want to be with him,

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<v Speaker 2>but because of his money, then I would have to

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<v Speaker 2>deal with this.

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<v Speaker 4>But they really like that. I respect the girl. She

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<v Speaker 4>this other girl I was talking to.

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<v Speaker 2>She was just like, Oh, I already know whatever man

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<v Speaker 2>I married ain't gonna be totally right.

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<v Speaker 4>She was like, cause I like those type of dudes.

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<v Speaker 2>So she was like, so if I'm married, I go

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<v Speaker 2>into it knowing that that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But is she also going into it with the idea

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<v Speaker 1>that she's gonna cheat.

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<v Speaker 2>That he's gonna cheat, that she gonna I think I

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<v Speaker 2>think she's gonna be lawyer. I think she would be.

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<v Speaker 2>There's some women that accept it. I mean, you know

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<v Speaker 2>there's women out there, you know, I want to put

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<v Speaker 2>it on athletes and irritators or anything. But I mean

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<v Speaker 2>the lifestyle. It You're privy to a lot, right, So

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm if I'm married, you know, Willie deep, like

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<v Speaker 2>when Willie d was the hottest ever. You know what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying. Women was coming everywhere at you. Right, So

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<v Speaker 2>even though you might have been the type of guy

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<v Speaker 2>that'd be like no, no, no, that's very hard for

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<v Speaker 2>most people.

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<v Speaker 4>So we'll see, there you go.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't well see there you go. Uh you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't. I wasn't easy, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I was easy on the ones who were easy on

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<v Speaker 1>the eye and had and had good personality, the ones

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<v Speaker 1>like like So that was women who were very very attractive,

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<v Speaker 1>very attractive, but they had stink attitudes. And I've never

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<v Speaker 1>been a type that could get excited by by a

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<v Speaker 1>woman who wasn't principled, right, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like women who wasn't like like, who wasn't really about something.

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<v Speaker 1>I never liked women who looked down on other people,

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<v Speaker 1>who thought that it's fine if you think that you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're in the sense that I'm not a better

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<v Speaker 1>human being, but I'm a better person because of the

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<v Speaker 1>way I carried myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I have character, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>But to look down on someone because of their lot

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<v Speaker 1>in life and you know what they have or what

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<v Speaker 1>they don't have, you know, I just like I'm better

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<v Speaker 1>like that, And I never liked those type of women.

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<v Speaker 2>Never. Now. How about expectations though, in regards to what

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<v Speaker 2>so so so does? Expectations sometimes get mixed up with

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<v Speaker 2>like someone looking down on you, expectations in regards to

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<v Speaker 2>what would look like lifestyles you like. So, So I

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<v Speaker 2>was telling buddy mine, we was talking about this when

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<v Speaker 2>I first well not when I first moved here, but

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<v Speaker 2>probably about two thousand and five or whatever. Uh my

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<v Speaker 2>all my prothems from Saint Louis. They moved here and

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<v Speaker 2>I met this girl named Erica. I forgot erica last name.

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin Lowes is so it's Kevin Lowles's wife, right, So

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<v Speaker 2>I met.

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<v Speaker 1>You talk about Kevin Lyves in Houston or Kevin Lowes

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<v Speaker 1>the record exactly?

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<v Speaker 2>The record is that, OK, so I met his wife

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<v Speaker 2>like in Miami, and you could clearly see that, like

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<v Speaker 2>it was just something different about her, right, you could

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<v Speaker 2>clearly see that. So we was down in Miami together,

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<v Speaker 2>and uh, you know, I went up there. Macdonod was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>come holl let me you know I did. So we

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<v Speaker 2>was talking on the phone, but I could tell it

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<v Speaker 2>was just something about her that was just different than

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<v Speaker 2>than you know, every other woman. And she was just

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<v Speaker 2>super classy, right, and you could just tell a by

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<v Speaker 2>the jewelry.

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<v Speaker 4>Everything about her was just it was elegant.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. So I remember she came to visit and tell

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<v Speaker 2>your story. I remember she came to visit and, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>my buddy used to throw parties at the Saxo Fifth

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<v Speaker 2>Avenue restaurant. It was fifty something something before you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm talking about the restaurant and they used to

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<v Speaker 2>be upstairs before they redid sacks. And he was every

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<v Speaker 2>for his birthday every year he would throw this like

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<v Speaker 2>seven course meal, you know everything, free liquor, premium.

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<v Speaker 4>Across the boy. He would just killing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I told her to come in town, but I

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<v Speaker 2>knew she was coming in town for the question that

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<v Speaker 2>she was asking me to see how.

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<v Speaker 4>I was living.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, she came in town. She walked in the door

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<v Speaker 2>and I remember my buddy turned to me and say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, give me that he was He was like

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<v Speaker 2>a hustle dude. You know what I'm saying the street dude.

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<v Speaker 2>So he was like, you must give me that, and

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<v Speaker 2>I said why. I was like, I got made great money.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, I'm looking at adult like you don't

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<v Speaker 2>have that type of money, right, So this was probably

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm still on my way up. He was like,

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, she got a burking You said that bag

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<v Speaker 2>she got. I was like yeah. He was like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>a burking bag. So that's one of the big ones.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fifteen eight ggs at the time. He was like

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<v Speaker 2>he was ten and fifty eight g's. I says, so

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<v Speaker 2>who bag, Like that's a burket bag. And see, by

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<v Speaker 2>that time, I didn't know what a lurking was, a

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<v Speaker 2>burker or slurker that. I was like, I ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get but none of that. So he was, oh, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>burker bag. He said, I bet you she wear a

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<v Speaker 2>La parlel underwear. I was like, what the fuck is

1:07:14.720 --> 1:07:17.280
<v Speaker 2>lat Perarl underwear? He was like, oh, it's you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a bra costs you one hundred and fifty dollars, right.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, remember that box I had delivered to the

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<v Speaker 2>house and all that I waside for my wife.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>He was just like, oh that box, Alan was like

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<v Speaker 2>fifteen thousand dollars. I was like serious, he was like yes.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, I'm telling you, I'm looking at it.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like so because my partner, he was the

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<v Speaker 2>one that tad I had a part of the Fat Cat.

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<v Speaker 2>He went and taught me about all like jewelry, watches,

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<v Speaker 2>all that.

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<v Speaker 4>So I walked up to her.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like yo.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like yeah. So I was like talking to her.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, yeah, you're lucky, right, got a little.

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<v Speaker 2>Little parlel you see he tell you know about a

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<v Speaker 2>little pearl. I was like, you know, I'm just that

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<v Speaker 2>type of player, you know. But her expectation, so as

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<v Speaker 2>we got to know each other, she was just like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to marry. She's like, I think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>better than just marrying a dude that make two hundred

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars a year. Right.

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<v Speaker 4>She was just like not that. Let me just straighten

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<v Speaker 4>that something real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're talking to her before she married Kevin, before

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<v Speaker 1>she married Kid, just before she married she still married Vin.

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<v Speaker 4>She's married to Kevin this day.

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<v Speaker 2>So at the time, she she was messed with Katino

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<v Speaker 2>Mobiley She had just stopped dating Katino Mobile and was

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<v Speaker 2>engaged to what's his name, Sean Mary and played basketball

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<v Speaker 2>for Phoenix, right, So she was just like I just

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<v Speaker 2>she was just like, this is the lifestyle I want.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what my expectations for myself is. She was

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<v Speaker 2>at the time, she was a VP, no VP, but

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<v Speaker 2>a manager for Jay and J Pharmaceuticals, right, regional manager,

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<v Speaker 2>a district manager. So she was just like, I worked

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<v Speaker 2>hard to get here, and this is what I expect

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<v Speaker 2>my life to be now. I said that to rap

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<v Speaker 2>it all in about the expectation. I never felt bad

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<v Speaker 2>about that because I was just like, I feel you,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not there yet, So you got to get that, dude.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's that's there, right. And I think she dated

1:09:14.280 --> 1:09:18.519
<v Speaker 2>Puffy's lawyer and then she married Kevin Lyles and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>All her expectations of what she thought for herself is

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<v Speaker 2>what what she did. So some men would have probably

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<v Speaker 2>got mad and been like, oh, well, you're looking down

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<v Speaker 2>on me, right.

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<v Speaker 4>I never felt like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I just felt like that wasn't I wasn't her expectation

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<v Speaker 2>at that moment or whatever she was. So that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I was asking you when you say, you don't like

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<v Speaker 2>a woman that looks at somebody like they're better than them,

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<v Speaker 2>but that maybe can be misconscrewed as someone that feels like.

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<v Speaker 1>They just have a different expectation. No, no, no, no, no no.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about women who look down on people, period.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even talking about men. I'm talking about women

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<v Speaker 1>who would look down on another even looking down on

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<v Speaker 1>another woman. They're a human being.

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<v Speaker 2>But don't you think she felt like that when it

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<v Speaker 2>came to anybody that wasn't what she felt like was

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<v Speaker 2>on her level.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but what I'm what I'm saying. What I'm saying

1:10:07.439 --> 1:10:10.519
<v Speaker 1>is that there are people human beings who think they

1:10:10.520 --> 1:10:14.280
<v Speaker 1>should don't stink, right, That's what I'm talking about. I'm

1:10:14.320 --> 1:10:18.120
<v Speaker 1>not talking about money, clothes, who I'm talking about as

1:10:18.120 --> 1:10:21.960
<v Speaker 1>a human being. I'm talking about it some people. It's

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<v Speaker 1>some people who would look at I don't know, look

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<v Speaker 1>at a bus drive and say, oh he's nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you're nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>You can get it.

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<v Speaker 1>It ain't boy, it ain't about it ain't about you

1:10:35.160 --> 1:10:36.840
<v Speaker 1>wanting to date me or you're trying to holler at me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like, oh, you're a bus drive. You nobody

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<v Speaker 1>that's what that type of personality, you know, like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I get what you said. I get that part, but

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes expect I do feel like sometimes people feel like

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<v Speaker 2>if their expectations is greater than yours, they feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you think they're they're better than you. Well, they might, right.

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<v Speaker 1>But just might be they might they might in their

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<v Speaker 1>head might be because I would never concede that anybody

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<v Speaker 1>is better.

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<v Speaker 2>Than right, I'm saying they might feel like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like I never felt bad because I

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<v Speaker 2>felt like, that's your expectations, right. So I never felt like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because we used to argue about the whole

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<v Speaker 2>money thing, Like we have discussions about the whole money thing,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's be like, Sam, I just expect to be here, right.

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<v Speaker 2>So I used to be like, I feel you right.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, and I and if I meet somebody

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<v Speaker 2>like that, I'll hook Yo.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel any pressure to perform to get it,

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<v Speaker 1>to get hurry up and get there? No?

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<v Speaker 4>I never was that guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I would just say you're not you catch next catch

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<v Speaker 2>the next bus. Yeah, I catch you. I catch you

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<v Speaker 2>when I get there. And a lot of times when

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<v Speaker 2>you get that YO want to mess with him a

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<v Speaker 2>little more anyway, you know what I'm saying. So that's

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<v Speaker 2>been me since I was a kid. Are you? Are

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<v Speaker 2>you messed with him?

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<v Speaker 1>Just as it out of the way again, keep it

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<v Speaker 1>moving right, yeah, oh absolutely, Ladies and gentlemen, Sam Williamson,

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<v Speaker 1>the Love Guru is about to exit the building. What

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<v Speaker 1>you got going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Man? And how can people get in touch with you? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>you know always you can hit me on Instagram at

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<v Speaker 2>love Guru eighty one. So that's the that's the that's

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<v Speaker 2>the best way to get me. But people been saying

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<v Speaker 2>they love my podcast when I'm on someone else's podcast

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff. So I'm about to start trying to put

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<v Speaker 2>me a team together and kind of do something myself,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, Are you and I could just keep doing

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<v Speaker 2>these yeah? Yea love things? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Well I can definitely have you back on man, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, I always like to get your perspective

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<v Speaker 1>on things.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, absolutely, I appreciate you. I always love the conversation man,

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<v Speaker 2>No more talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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