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Speaker 1: episode of information and instructions to help you navigate through

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Speaker 1: this wild, crazy, beautiful world. In the studio, Sam Williamson

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Speaker 1: the love guru.

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Speaker 4: The so what's what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 4: What exactly is a love guru?

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Speaker 2: So you know I get that question all the time,

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Speaker 4: They caught that girl cheating.

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Speaker 2: They would come to me and asked me, like, what

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Speaker 2: do you think they would ask my advice? So they

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Speaker 1: That's so you got you the dude that the girls

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Speaker 1: called to. Oh yeah, so you got a lot of

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Speaker 2: So they called you to ask for advice.

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Speaker 1: What's the advice that they ask you most that you're

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Speaker 2: My thing is I only think I get annoyed about

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Speaker 4: So I give you an example.

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Speaker 2: I remember we'll ask women like I had I forgot

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Speaker 2: You know, I always say check all the box, whether

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Speaker 2: It's okay if you're an attorney and you want day

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Speaker 4: Oh, she was a great woman. And you blew it?

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Speaker 2: Right. So me and my boys we just had a

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Speaker 4: Married, will i've been married, or you're gonna get married.

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Speaker 2: Like I play a lot, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: And that's how you blew the lawyer? Oh yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: And I always tell you know, a man wants to

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Speaker 4: I about all of that.

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Speaker 2: He does know how to do the surgery, but it's

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Speaker 2: So I give the example my guys that do screws.

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Speaker 2: Curly Johnson. So he's in every surgery right, because sometimes

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Speaker 4: He knows the basics. So it's like kind of a mechanic.

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Speaker 2: If you got a mechanic that works on has worked

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Speaker 4: Well, that's basically what reps do in the old. So

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Speaker 2: Man? What do you think about that? Is that?

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Speaker 1: Is that something that's doable in a loving relationship? And

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Speaker 2: It depends it depends on the dude destroying her. This

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Speaker 4: I couldn't. I couldn't be in that.

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Speaker 1: Like the simps when they when she when she introduced them,

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Speaker 2: So this is the deal with me. I don't want

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Speaker 2: And I know this is overused. I don't see a

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Speaker 4: But when the when, the when the when? The main

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Speaker 2: Get out the work? When when the apha, the male

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Speaker 2: So, you know, women would like us to believe that

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Speaker 4: I just don't know that.

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Speaker 2: Just don't see me in a type of alpha mentality

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Speaker 2: Can a woman participate in that type of lifestyle and

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Speaker 2: Other women don't even do it. I always tell women,

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Speaker 2: so you ask me stuff, and I say, women lie

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Speaker 2: They killing us? Right? They like all that bit nastiest hell. So,

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Speaker 2: I mean, if women don't like it, what you think

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Speaker 2: Right that because women tell all you gotta do is

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Speaker 2: But it's just it's not They don't even think like that.

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Speaker 2: Would unless you get from her. Oprah probably could do

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it.

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Speaker 1: I really do have to be I have to be

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Speaker 2: Stand on.

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Speaker 4: So so everybody got that price, I believe.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so because I because I remember going

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't because I couldn't get hard.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't. I probably would be in the same position,

443
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 2: but I would find a way. I couldn't get excited,

444
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 2: I couldn't get a riud. I'll find away with Oprah Dowg.

445
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:55,199
Speaker 2: It would have for me.

446
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,360
Speaker 1: For me, it has to be a chick that I'd

447
00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:00,960
Speaker 1: be like, damn you, Oprah. For me, it would happen

448
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 1: to be a chick that I'm that I'm attracted to.

449
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 1: And you know, the trip part is this, like how

450
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 1: do you how do you reconcile making that statement about

451
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 1: you would sleep with Oprah for money and and then

452
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Speaker 1: tell a woman where you get what you get if

453
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,639
Speaker 1: you sleep with a man from money?

454
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Speaker 2: Well, see, I don't if you're honest with it. So

455
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,640
Speaker 2: if you, if you, if you so, cause it would

456
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 2: be I mean, I'm, I'm there's a little there's a

457
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 2: little levity there. This will be being a little facetious.

458
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Speaker 4: But I know, I know this.

459
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,040
Speaker 2: If Oprah came to me and was like, yo, I

460
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 2: really want to dig you because I'm like you with

461
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 2: women like I have to be sexually especially now now.

462
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,240
Speaker 2: When I was twenty two years old, if you was bad,

463
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 2: you know, it didn't take a lot. But now I

464
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,679
Speaker 2: have to be really, really really attracted to you to

465
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 2: even want to be sexual with you at this point.

466
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,680
Speaker 2: But Oprah that type of money, and she was like,

467
00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 2: you got you get you know you got See I don't,

468
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 2: I don't. You can do whatever you want to do

469
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 2: with my money. I gotta be like, but I think

470
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:09,880
Speaker 2: about that.

471
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: But the thing is, Sam is that I from what

472
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 1: I gathered from check watching Oprah through the years, Oprah

473
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 1: is not for us. She's not for us, She's not

474
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:27,199
Speaker 1: for she's not for black men. She's not even for

475
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: black the black family nucleus, you know, black women.

476
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 4: I believe that. I just watched her. I just watch

477
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 4: how she talked.

478
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,360
Speaker 1: To women and tell women, well, you don't need a man,

479
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:40,959
Speaker 1: you know you can do this, and da da da

480
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 1: and all these type of things, like we need each

481
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,679
Speaker 1: other no matter how much, no matter how much friction

482
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:49,679
Speaker 1: we have, no matter how dirty one of us do

483
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 1: the other way, We're not going to survive without each other.

484
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,680
Speaker 1: Like we can win a lot of we've we've survived

485
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: a lot of walls, but one war we cannot win

486
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: is a the walk. I agree we can't survive agenda.

487
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: I agree with that, but see it goes back time

488
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 2: to tell her about the little Cardi b and the

489
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 2: little Megaie stallion and how they wrap and the stuff

490
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 2: that they rap about and they're not really about that.

491
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 2: But I mean, Oprah, I mean, she's had stepping around forever.

492
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: So he serves some purpose around. But he's there is

493
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: some purpose around. He had to cover.

494
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 2: Whatever it is. I mean, she need a man for something,

495
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 2: so even even if it's for cover, but she needed

496
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 2: them for something so and I think, I think, why

497
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 2: she need a man to cover for her. I mean,

498
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 2: I know you're getting that. I've heard people say that before.

499
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,919
Speaker 2: We'll say what I mean. I've heard women say like,

500
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 2: she don't she don't really go that way and he

501
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 2: kind of her.

502
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Speaker 4: What do they call that?

503
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,920
Speaker 2: Uh No, they call something like when you got like

504
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 2: you you you go the other way. A lot of

505
00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 2: those passes do yeah, I forgot whatever they yeah, right,

506
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 2: yeah exactly. But uh, I mean it's a lot of

507
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 2: it's a lot of women that do that nowadays, because

508
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 2: I think that they got past what their mothers was

509
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 2: trying to make when they were When mothers were like

510
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 2: when our mothers was trying to make our sisters independent,

511
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 2: they didn't want to make independent of men, right, That's

512
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 2: that wasn't the deal. I don't know whenmen went to

513
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: be independent of men. Independence came from you being able

514
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 2: to pull your own weight. That's that's what that's My

515
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 2: father taught my sisters to be independent, but not independent

516
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 2: of men. Right.

517
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 4: Independent he mean independent.

518
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 2: Where you go, you grow, and then you bring then

519
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 2: you're you're equal to whoever you want to bring in. Right,

520
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 2: so you know everybody come in, it's independent. You're independent.

521
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 2: I'm independent, right, But we still need women, right, So

522
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 2: you still need a woman, right. So I don't know

523
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 2: when this thing where it was like I don't need

524
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 2: men at all came about. I can't even I haven't

525
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 2: even researched it to tell you what year, because I

526
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 2: usually researched that stuff. Where it turned from being independence

527
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 2: and growth as opposed to independent, separate from from from

528
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 2: from men. So I think that's I think. I think

529
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 2: the message got hijacked at some point in time.

530
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: I think the message was purposely planted and everything's working

531
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: out just fine, you know, and the way that the

532
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: ol oligarky wanted it to work out. You know, these

533
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: the people that that try to destroy community put these

534
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: programs and initiatives in place. I can see that every

535
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 1: few years they got a new program to further subjugate us.

536
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 4: I agree with that.

537
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,679
Speaker 2: I think when you look at rich families, they pushed

538
00:26:56,680 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 2: that to be married, like they want you to meet,

539
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 2: you know, you know, the Bushes want to mingle with

540
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 2: the Kennedys, and the Kennedy's you know, want to you know,

541
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 2: wringle with the mortgage and you know, you see a

542
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 2: lot of that inner exchange between rich families. So yeah,

543
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,120
Speaker 2: I could believe that as long as you keep them

544
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 2: people below you separated, then you'll be able to control

545
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 2: the narrative, control whatever else you need to control, control them.

546
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 2: Actually got to boys reloaded podcasts which be right back

547
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: after the break.

548
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 4: Let me put you a scenario out there. I saw

549
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 4: this on.

550
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 1: A video, another one of these viral videos. Should a

551
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: let's say a guy is a baby dag he had

552
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: as a child that he's bringing food to. This child

553
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 1: has other siblings that are not He saw that.

554
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 2: I saw that.

555
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 4: He's bringing his child some McDonald's. Should he feel obligated

556
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,880
Speaker 4: to buy food for the other kids who are not here?

557
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 2: So that's the word obligation, Like he shouldn't feel obligated.

558
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 2: I would to be a nice guy. Right. And the

559
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 2: one you're talking about, he had done it before. It

560
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 2: wasn't like he had what if she has nine kids? Right,

561
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 2: she had done it before. Right, he is not his children.

562
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: He shouldn't have to do it every time, right, Because

563
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 2: I saw it growing up. So my buddy across the street,

564
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: my mother had three kids by my dad, and all

565
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 2: her all her kids was about her dad by my dad.

566
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 2: So I grew up in that type of house. I didn't.

567
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 2: I didn't know anything other until like I was probably

568
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: about nine years eight or nine years old, and I

569
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 2: started hanging it with my buddy across the street. His

570
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 2: mother had uh I think it was like eight of

571
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 2: them with four different baby daddies, right, so if I'm

572
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 2: not correct, for baby daddy.

573
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 4: So I saw like he would like.

574
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 2: There were some of her boyfriends that were coming buy

575
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 2: food for everybody, and there were some of her her

576
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 2: her boyfriend ever bring in stuff or not just not food,

577
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: but anything, like he brought toys or whatever. He tried

578
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 2: to bring everybody a toy, and then there were something

579
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 2: that would just drop off just for one kid, just

580
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 2: his daughter or his son. So I just kind of

581
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 2: saw that. I always always thought that was strange in

582
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 2: my opinion. You know, nine children to buy food for

583
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,479
Speaker 2: it is a lot. You know, I don't care what

584
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 2: you got, but I don't I think the word obligation

585
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 2: is the deal. You know, he's never obligated to do that,

586
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 2: but take care of his child, you know, if you

587
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 2: want to be a nice guy, you know, you know

588
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 2: she got other kids in the household.

589
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 4: You don't want them to feel bad.

590
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 2: New kids. You ain't my daddy that.

591
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 4: He ain't getting get ship.

592
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 2: Then you know what I gave him one pride. Get

593
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 2: that nigga one pride. You know what I agree with you.

594
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: I actually agree with that he shouldn't feel obligated. But

595
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: it is something that I would do. It was Yeah,

596
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't even feel right. It

597
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: just wouldn't even if I didn't know the kids. If

598
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: I didn't it was just some kids. If my kid

599
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 1: was just around a group of kids, I would feel awkward,

600
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: right to just bring my kids and food knowing these

601
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 1: other kids are hungry.

602
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 2: I agree, I wouldn't feel I would like so like

603
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: my son have his friends around. I always pay for

604
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 2: everybody stuff. Like if I say, hey, grab your friends

605
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 2: go to the movie. I never be like, well does

606
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 2: little Jimmy have any money? You know? I just it's me.

607
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 2: I'm going to do that, but I don't. I don't

608
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 2: have to feel obligated to do it. I do it

609
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 2: because my son and his friends. But if his parents

610
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 2: started to feel obligated, like you taking your son out,

611
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 2: you should take my son, then that's where you have it.

612
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 4: That's where you have the issues.

613
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 2: As I said, if I'm not mistaken. In his case,

614
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 2: he had done it before, right, It was just that

615
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 2: particular time where he was just like, my son is hungry.

616
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 4: So I would have asked my son to come out

617
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 4: the house.

618
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 2: Maybe we would have drove around the corner if I

619
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 2: didn't want to spend the money and then let him eat.

620
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: But yeah, I would that would be hard with nine kids,

621
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 2: that would be hard every time. I mean, just carry

622
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 2: just carrying a bag of food.

623
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: You go, tell your kids, all right, come on getting

624
00:31:54,360 --> 00:32:01,959
Speaker 1: the car, your kid to get the stomach full, right,

625
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: and take him back home with McDonald's on his bread

626
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: with a full stomach.

627
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 2: First of all, his son was one of the last kids.

628
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 2: I would never procreate with a weather that has seven Now,

629
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 2: I said, now, yeah, eight of the baby.

630
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 1: Bingo, bingo, because I was going to come around that.

631
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: I was going to come around to that.

632
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 2: And why do men do that, because I mean, you

633
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 2: grow up in that environment, it becomes as I told you,

634
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 2: like growing up, it was strange to me when my

635
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 2: parents got a divorced. Right, only other man I've ever

636
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 2: seen in my house is my dad. So when I

637
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 2: would go across the street to my boy Wheel's crib

638
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 2: and his mother would have like different boyfriends they would

639
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 2: spend the night. It would be the most foreign thing

640
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 2: I ever seen in my life. So it's always depending

641
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 2: on mentality and how you grow up always depends on

642
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 2: how you look at things. Did you grow up with

643
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 2: your dad in the house. So they got divorced when

644
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 2: I was like six, but my dad was always around.

645
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 2: So like, was your dad a player? Oh?

646
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 4: Absolutely, So that's where you get it from.

647
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna put it all on him. Yeah, I hey, listen,

648
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna put it all on him. But I

649
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 2: mean I grew up in that environment. My boy, My

650
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 2: family is boy heavy. So we got probably more boys

651
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: in the family, especially on the Williamson side than we

652
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 2: have you know, you know girls, and the women catered

653
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 2: to them, like even my father and so all my

654
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 2: father and all his brothers died of cancer, every one

655
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 2: of them. And whether they had a wife or not.

656
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,959
Speaker 2: My grandmother had two sisters. I'm sorry. My grandmother had

657
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: two girls and six boys, and them two girls took

658
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 2: her all those boys until they died, like whether they

659
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 2: had a wife or whatever. And my grandmother catered to

660
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: her boys. She my mother always said that was her

661
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: write this down, Williamson. Girls have them, cater them, and

662
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 2: that's that's how I grew up in a family like

663
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 2: that and my my father. They were very apha males.

664
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Speaker 2: Every one of them, every one of them own their

665
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 2: own businesses. Every one of them had a job, and

666
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 2: they also had side hustles, own their own business, hustled

667
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 2: all of that. So that's what that's to me. And

668
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: I grew up under right, So I don't know anything

669
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 2: other than that. So for me to go in and

670
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 2: see a one with six kids like that would be

671
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 2: a total turnoff to me.

672
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 4: I couldn't. I couldn't do that. What's your limit?

673
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 2: Kids? Wise? I would prefer one with no kids. And

674
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 2: I know that's wrong because I got kids, but I

675
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 2: would prefer with no kids. But if you do have

676
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 2: a kid, a boy that the age of my son,

677
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 2: and how old is your son? My son is twelve,

678
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 2: the young one, the youngest one is twelve, so at

679
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: least you know at least his age.

680
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: What type of advice do you give your twelve year

681
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 1: old signed by girls?

682
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:06,439
Speaker 2: It's crazy because he is girl crazy. So right now

683
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 2: I'm just telling him to seek out women that it's

684
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 2: going in that same direction.

685
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 4: The girls is going the same direction. So we talk

686
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 4: about this all the time.

687
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, because he had a little girlfriend that she

688
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 2: would like skip school, skip class classes with him and

689
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 2: stuff like that. Said, I'm telling you right now, man,

690
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,439
Speaker 2: that's not the girl you want to be with. I'm

691
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 2: like already, like I'm like at twelve.

692
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 4: Years skipping class at twelve at.

693
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 2: Twelve at twelve, man, you will be surprised at what

694
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 2: these little kids are doing. So I'm like, man, you

695
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 2: need to be with the girls. He got I think

696
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 2: I name is Sophie. So it's one little girl named Sophie.

697
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 4: Where is Sophie going?

698
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:50,399
Speaker 2: No, No, she's not skipping class. It's the other girl

699
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 2: skips class. I forgot it going. Man, they'll go up

700
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 2: to the Starbucks and you know what I'm saying, or

701
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 2: they're just being a class. It just ain't I mean

702
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: in school, they just ain't. They'll find somewhere in school.

703
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,879
Speaker 2: I did that in high school, not in junior high.

704
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 2: I did it in high school like that, but they're

705
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 2: doing it a lot earlier now. So but there's this

706
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 2: other little girl. He I told him. She played sports,

707
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 2: She played the piano, right, she she on the iron rod.

708
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, dude, that's the chick that you should be liking,

709
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 2: you know.

710
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 4: I was like this other one.

711
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 2: Now, I was like, don't even get yourself used to

712
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 2: take it easy. I was like, go for the hard one.

713
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, don't do easy, I said.

714
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,919
Speaker 2: I know, as a male sometimes and that's what gets

715
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:40,479
Speaker 2: us in trouble. Sometimes we take easy instead of going

716
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 2: for hard. And that's that's that'll always get you in trouble.

717
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 2: That got me into it was he receptive.

718
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 4: He I think he getting it. I think he's getting.

719
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 2: It, you know. But I always tell him every morning

720
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 2: we do this ritual. I say, look in the mirror,

721
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 2: what you see and he gotta tell me, you know.

722
00:36:58,040 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: And at first it used to be rehearsed.

723
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Speaker 5: You'd be I see smart kid, an intellectual kid, you know,

724
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 5: see a handsome kid. But now he's starting to speak

725
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 5: it like I'm like, because whoever you feel, whatever you

726
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 5: see looking out that mirror is the way you're gonna

727
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 5: drive yourself right. Even the mistakes I made, I always

728
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 5: knew I was saying Williamson because my daddy beat it

729
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 5: in his boy's head.

730
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 2: He's like, you you the son of Maurice Williamson. You

731
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: know you this is how you roll. Brother. He's like,

732
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 2: that's how you do it. And so he always was like,

733
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 2: what you see when you're looking in mirror? Brother? You

734
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 2: know that's our father talk. What do you see? You're

735
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: looking at the mirror?

736
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:38,919
Speaker 3: Brother?

737
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 2: And I tell him and he said, well, did that's

738
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 2: how you That's how you should.

739
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 4: Be living your life.

740
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 2: So whatever you see in that mirror is what you're

741
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 2: gonna do. So that's my biggest advice with him. I

742
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,320
Speaker 2: want him to see what he feels that he's.

743
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 4: Gonna grow up to be.

744
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: Do you have conversations with him about loyalty and sexual assault,

745
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: loyalty to his girl, to a girl?

746
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 2: Not yet, because that's a little bit too deep. I

747
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 2: don't even even though I know at that age, because

748
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 2: I didn't call him in his pot just looking that stuff.

749
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 4: I haven't gotten deep into the sex talk. Yeah you

750
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 4: should once he.

751
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 2: Turned Yeah, I mean I'm getting there a little bit,

752
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. But probably next year we

753
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 2: need an eighth I know he's going to high school.

754
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 2: I probably have a deep, deep talk with.

755
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: You should have the conversation before because he may catch

756
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 1: you off guard. You may think, Okay, now he's in

757
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 1: the eighth grade, but he just beat you by a

758
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: few weeks. Yeah, he just did something, you know, a

759
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 1: few weeks ago, and you're thinking that you're headed.

760
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 2: Ye, you're headed. He might be right. That might be

761
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 2: something I need to consider.

762
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:48,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I started talking to my son very very Yeah,

763
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: because if you think about it, we can have a

764
00:38:53,640 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: much better We can have a much better like relationship overall.

765
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: We can have a much more conducive relationship amongst us

766
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: if we start talking to our boys and not waiting

767
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 1: on the girls to be you know, assaulted or or

768
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 1: about or whatever. If we talk to our boys about accountability.

769
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 1: We talked to our boys about respectability, and we let

770
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 1: them know. Like I told my son early, look like

771
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: as many as you want, date as many as you want,

772
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: but when you pick one, you pick one. Nobody ever

773
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 1: told me that I have to learn baptism through five

774
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: by five, I assured. And the same thing with sexual assault.

775
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: No don't only mean no, It don't just mean no.

776
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: It also means that you you when you follow that

777
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:03,240
Speaker 1: that rule, you don't put yourself in a situation where

778
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: you lose your freedom, where you can lose your respect,

779
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 1: your reputation, your honor.

780
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 2: You see. And so when I haven't had that specific

781
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 2: conversation with him, but I always talk to him about

782
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 2: like so when I talk about looking in that mirror,

783
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 2: I always talk to him about.

784
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 4: How he sees himself right, and that GUIDs you right.

785
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:29,320
Speaker 2: So as a kid, So since you talked about me

786
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 2: and my boys always talk about what we got away

787
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 2: with then and what you can give away with now.

788
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 2: But that was one fundamental thing that I always had

789
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 2: to separated me for a lot of my boys is

790
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 2: I always thought like I always had, for the lack

791
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 2: of a better word, I just had a big ego.

792
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 2: So I never put myself in a situation where I

793
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,760
Speaker 2: even felt like I had to do anything that remotely

794
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 2: came to sexual assault for the simple fact.

795
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 4: I always like, if woman won't me, you know, she

796
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 4: gonna come to me.

797
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

798
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:00,359
Speaker 1: I had that same mentality. But a lot of these

799
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 1: boys they don't know they're not being taught.

800
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 2: And you have to be.

801
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: Purposeful about, you know, dealing with these kids and having

802
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: these conversations because you can't just think, oh, he'll get it,

803
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: he'll figure out. He already knows when you look in

804
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: the mirror, who you see respect, honor, courage, bravery and

805
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 1: you know, all of these things. But sometimes with all

806
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: the times, really you have to tell them what those

807
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 1: things mean and that type of actions that are consistent

808
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 1: with those titles.

809
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 2: Right.

810
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 1: So if our boys, if we we teach our girls

811
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 1: to be virtuous and you know, don't wear those type

812
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: of clothes, don't wear provocative clothes. You know, be a lady,

813
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: don't be sleeping around, and d well, we gotta teach

814
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:54,439
Speaker 1: our boys the same thing. Don't be sleeping around. Don't

815
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: be sleeping around. You know, be careful about the type

816
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 1: of girl that you pick. You know, because I preach

817
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: that the person that you picked, that you choose to

818
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: be in a relationship with, and specifically the one you

819
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: choose to pro create with and would be one of

820
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 1: the greatest responsibilities and decisions in your life, that person

821
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: who you choose to pro create with.

822
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 2: Absolutely because I've made some mistakes. So yeah, I agree

823
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,319
Speaker 2: with you on that, and you know what, I'm gonna

824
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 2: implement that because I never really you know what I'm saying.

825
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 4: When you when you when.

826
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Speaker 2: They start hitting about twelve thirteen years old, you're saying

827
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 2: what's too early or what's too late? You know? And

828
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 2: now that you say that, I'm definitely gonna implant and

829
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 2: implement that in my daily discussion with him. Yeah. I damn.

830
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 1: They don't even believe that it's that discussion can happen

831
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: too early, just for simple fact that if you think

832
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 1: about we teach our kids. We teach our kids about

833
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: money early on, real real early as early as three

834
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 1: four five years old. We teaching them, were giving them

835
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 1: a little small lessons about money. We teach them, you know,

836
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:08,840
Speaker 1: about budgeting.

837
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 2: We teach them.

838
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 1: We we sew into them goals. If they have something

839
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: that they want to invent, some type of company they

840
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: want to start, we get right behind them and we

841
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 1: push him. I know a little kid that started investing

842
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: in stocks when he was eleven years old. His parents,

843
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 1: his mother specifically saw it in him early on. He

844
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 1: was asking questions about it, and moms, okay, well let

845
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 1: me go buy a book. Mom went and bought a book,

846
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: and she educated herself on stocks. She didn't even know

847
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,760
Speaker 1: anything about stocks. But man, I gotta get that woman's

848
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 1: some praise. Man, that woman, she saw it in him

849
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: early on. This is what he want to do. Let

850
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: me go educate myself so I can help him get that.

851
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 1: So shots out to all the parents out there, who's

852
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 1: swing to your kids, who really.

853
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 4: Who really see the potential.

854
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:06,879
Speaker 1: In them and and and put them in in spaces

855
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: where they can actually blossom and realize their goals. Yeah,

856
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: you know that that I agree with because Cooper's had

857
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: some type of businesses he was seven years old, so

858
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: I definitely agree with you on that.

859
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 2: So I mean that that's definitely see. So I learned

860
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 2: something today because I definitely was like when do I

861
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:28,800
Speaker 2: talk have this deep dive conversation with and like he

862
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 2: crazy enough, so I don't ways put too much in

863
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 2: his head. But you know, I agree with what you say.

864
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 2: Got to boys reloaded podcasts will be right back after

865
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:38,839
Speaker 2: this break.

866
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 4: What what are you?

867
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: What is the answer for all this bickering going on

868
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: between black men and black women? You know, how how

869
00:44:56,120 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 1: do we how do we have like health conversations to

870
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 1: where you see my viewpoint, I see your viewpoint. We

871
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: come together because we both understand that we need each other.

872
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 1: It's kind of like, you know, these companies exist because

873
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 1: of as a relationship and there's a certain level of

874
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: respect that they have for their employees, and employees got

875
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,760
Speaker 1: to have a certain level of respect for the company

876
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: and their supervisors and so on and song. So the

877
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: company is not gonna just shut the doors. They're gonna

878
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 1: find somebody that fits the model, their work model, right,

879
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: and they're gonna continue to grow and advance.

880
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 2: Right.

881
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: So we don't really have a choice but to figure

882
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 1: it out. How do we figure it out? What's like

883
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: one of the first steps, like having honest conversations. That's

884
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 1: the biggest thing. I think that's the hardest thing for

885
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: people to do and be honest with themselves. You know,

886
00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 1: last time we was on here, we was talking.

887
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 2: About, uh, what's his name, Samuel Kevin Samuels, right, And

888
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 2: it's funny I always tell to women and they're like, oh,

889
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 2: you think like Kevin Samuels. I was like, I actually

890
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: think like, you know, love Guru saying Williamson. But I

891
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 2: do understand some of the things that he did. But

892
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 2: one of the biggest things that he was saying that

893
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 2: he did it in a way that sensationalized his his

894
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 2: his his point of view so that he could get

895
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 2: you know, monetize it. But what he was saying was

896
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: everybody needs to be honest with themselves. Right, and if

897
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 2: people are more honest with themselves, like there's there has

898
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,839
Speaker 2: became a time that everybody wants to be paid three

899
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 2: times what they worth, right, And people women sometimes, I

900
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: mean have sometimes have a problem with really giving theirself

901
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 2: a critical look at herself critically and being honest with

902
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 2: themselves about who they are. Right. I think if people

903
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 2: start to do that more have honest conversations about who

904
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 2: they are, I think that me against you thinking would

905
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 2: go away, right because people would be more willing to

906
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 2: you know, and I hate to say like like use

907
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,400
Speaker 2: the terms that he was using, but like, you know,

908
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 2: if you're a seven and you should be with a seven,

909
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 2: if you honest with yourself, that's nothing wrong with that, right.

910
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:22,280
Speaker 2: The problem is how the world has you know, evolved

911
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 2: in our environment as involved in us, you know, telling

912
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 2: women they should be you know, they all tense. It's

913
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 2: funny like you as any woman she a ten, right,

914
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 2: and you should think you're the greatest person in the world,

915
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 2: but you should also be be honest, you know, so

916
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 2: I give I put it in sports analogy. I was

917
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 2: talking to my son about this recently. I was like,

918
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 2: in sports I knew what I could do when I

919
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:48,879
Speaker 2: couldn't do right, So I became Because I was never

920
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:52,360
Speaker 2: the greatest athlete growing up, my cousins was better. You know.

921
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 2: I had to do some cats on the street that

922
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 2: was better. You know. Matter of fact, the whole hit

923
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 2: the street was better than me as a kid in sports.

924
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 2: But no one got a scholarship, right. I was the

925
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 2: only one that got a scholarship, got my college. This

926
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 2: is what my father paid zero. But I got that

927
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 2: because I knew what I was good at, right. I

928
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 2: know I was a hitter, right, so I know I

929
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 2: was a hitter. I tear your head off, I did.

930
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 2: So I did that to the fullest extent. I wasn't

931
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 2: a guy that was gonna be a lockdown corner, you

932
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: know what I mean. I wasn't gonna be the guy

933
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 2: that I was gonna catch all the figuretip catches. So

934
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 2: because I concentrated on what I knew, bruising people, trying

935
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:35,399
Speaker 2: to hurt the other person, it took me a long way.

936
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It's the same thing you

937
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 2: look at somebody like, you know, did his Robin and

938
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:44,839
Speaker 2: your boy with the Golden State right now, Draymond Green.

939
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 2: The reason why Draymond Green is great, it's not that

940
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 2: he'll give you ten points of thirty points. He knows

941
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 2: exactly what he does well, right, and that's rebound costs

942
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 2: had it.

943
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 4: Giving people's head all.

944
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 2: He is a modern day robbing, right, And because Robin

945
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 2: knew what he was, he revolutionized that specialized a rebounding.

946
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 2: I was never a person that did that, right. So,

947
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 2: because if you know who you are, then that's what

948
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 2: you go for. That's that's how that's the limits you set.

949
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 2: You know, that's what you get for yourself when you

950
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 2: think that you should be here or you here, you know,

951
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 2: a vice versa. That's what everything gets mixed up, right,

952
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 2: And that's where people have problems. Women have problems because

953
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 2: I think women have more problems with it than men.

954
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 4: Because we taught who we are they want.

955
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 1: I was I was about to say that because I

956
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: know that a guy who doesn't make good money, like

957
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 1: really good money.

958
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 4: Even told that he's he's he's going to be told that.

959
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: He believes that, and so he don't He's not going

960
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: to go try to go get a holly berry, right.

961
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: He knows that. Look that that's how my pay scaled.

962
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 1: But a woman could be like, you know, that's that's

963
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,399
Speaker 1: set in that six or whatever that you talk about

964
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: that five, and she thinks she can go get you

965
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 1: know that she could go get that she deserves.

966
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 2: So if you think you deserve a tad, you know,

967
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 2: even though you never get it, you still feel that's

968
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 2: you're still shooting for that.

969
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: Right and you're still looking down on the guy exactly,

970
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: that's actually where you are.

971
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 2: Right, That's how you miss out. And that's what he

972
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 2: was saying. And that's what I always say. So if

973
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 2: you be honest, like that's the hardest thing, the hardest.

974
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,279
Speaker 2: That girl asked me this recently. She said, what do

975
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 2: you right? She said, what do you think you are?

976
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:35,359
Speaker 4: So?

977
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 2: I said, I'm a strong eight.

978
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 4: She was like, you eight a ten? I said, I

979
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:40,760
Speaker 4: lose these fifteen pounds.

980
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 2: I pushed myself over to I said, I pushed myself

981
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 2: until eight point five. I was like, you had another

982
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 2: zero in my name, I'd be a nine nine and

983
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 2: a half. But the eighty percent of anything is great. Like, hey,

984
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 2: she was like, why would you not? I was like,

985
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,399
Speaker 2: because I'm honest with myself. I was like, I think

986
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 2: I'm an extremely nice looking. God, I think I'm very telligy.

987
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 2: I got swagged, right, I said, but people to be

988
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:04,720
Speaker 2: at an eight eight point five?

989
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 4: I mean that's pretty, that's pretty honest with myself. All

990
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:09,360
Speaker 4: you got to do is go get some of that

991
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:10,359
Speaker 4: open money.

992
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 2: Right, go go put me out of ten.

993
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 4: Right?

994
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 2: But see, but see a man could be honest with that.

995
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 2: With that, I make magnificit money. I've done very well

996
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 2: for myself, right, But I know if you put me,

997
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,399
Speaker 2: you give me jay Z money. You know what I'm saying,

998
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 2: Because jay Z is not the nicest looking guy. But

999
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 2: I don't think no woman wouldn't say his total package

1000
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 2: and a team with most women? Will you know most?

1001
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 2: He probably get most women if he wanted to, Right,

1002
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 2: I said most, I say all, because there's always that

1003
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,399
Speaker 2: one Chiger I wouldn't. Okay, I get you. I'm saying

1004
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 2: he would get most, he would give most women. But

1005
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 2: men could be more critical of themselves. Because she just

1006
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 2: felt like I should have said I was a teen.

1007
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 2: I was like, but I'm not. You know what I'm saying.

1008
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 2: Eight point five? Man, that's I'd go anywhere to cut

1009
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,320
Speaker 2: tree with that. You know what I'm saying. Can't go

1010
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 2: any where. The country will dominate. Yo, you used to't

1011
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 2: get a ten and get nine tens. I'll mean, you know,

1012
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 2: it ain't too many of them in the world, you know, So,

1013
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 2: I mean that's the d I think I've never met

1014
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 2: a woman. Say, well, let me take that. I've met

1015
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 2: a couple of girls. Say when you ask her and

1016
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 2: they gave them a they gave you a legitimate, somewhere

1017
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 2: in the area number. When you say, you know, I've

1018
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 2: talked to a girl that was a six, it was like, oh,

1019
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:32,399
Speaker 2: I was ten. I was like, on what date? What

1020
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:35,959
Speaker 2: more than, what type of makeup did you? You can't

1021
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 2: be a six of your ten, There's no way. But

1022
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 2: and that's how she carried herself like she was a ted.

1023
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: How do you feel about women? That women makeup? So

1024
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: that's crazy. So I used to date a makeup artists, right,

1025
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 1: and on the surface, I hated makeup. I once again,

1026
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 1: my mom didn't marry word much makeup. The family I

1027
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,799
Speaker 1: grew in, the women didn't wear much makeup. So I

1028
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 1: was I'm not a.

1029
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 2: Great fan of makeup. Well, let me take that, but

1030
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 2: I'm a fan of makeup. You put on makeup to

1031
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 2: enhance your beauty. And that's a whole difference than having

1032
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 2: a beat face trying to cover it up. Having a

1033
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 2: beat face is something totally different.

1034
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 4: You know, putting up, putting a little you know what

1035
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 4: I'm saying.

1036
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 2: You know, you line your nose a little bit, you

1037
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 2: can contour your face a little bit or whatever, you know,

1038
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 2: a little foundation, you know. But you know, when you

1039
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 2: got the whole layers and layers and your nose is

1040
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 2: you know, your nose this why But after you get

1041
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 2: through it looked like it looked like it's that big.

1042
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 2: That's just just too much because it's just hiding who

1043
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 2: you are. But I mean, I don't really like weave.

1044
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 2: So every girl I've ever had they took up. I

1045
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 2: made him take the weave out while we would date.

1046
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 2: Every check I've ever had took the weave out that

1047
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 2: if she had we.

1048
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 1: What would have happened if one of them decided I'm

1049
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,360
Speaker 1: not taking the weave out. I'm talking about one of

1050
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 1: them that you really really liked, you was in love with.

1051
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 1: Which one did you did you find? Did you fall

1052
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: in love with it before she took it out of you?

1053
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 2: Better? So that's a good question because the girl was

1054
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 2: that was a makeup artist used to work like, and

1055
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 2: what's crazy is she was more beautiful without the makeup,

1056
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 2: like when she do the fresh face. Oh she was

1057
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:33,319
Speaker 2: very hard to tell it convinced woman that she was

1058
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 2: stunning with this fresh face, but like she put up

1059
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 2: all the makeup or sometimes you I was like, like

1060
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 2: we would go to my corporate function. I was like,

1061
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 2: she was like, well, I word it because trying to

1062
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 2: sell it. Yeah, because she said this is my business.

1063
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 2: So I got that. So to ask you a question,

1064
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,280
Speaker 2: I fell in love with her. I want to marry

1065
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 2: this chick, and I accepted it. So I don't know.

1066
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 2: I just don't like weed. It just feels like it

1067
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 2: feels like Easter egg hurt on your chest or so

1068
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 2: when I Easter egg, he's the egg grass when you know,

1069
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:14,399
Speaker 2: you know, eas the egg grass like that Easter egg

1070
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 2: grass when you put it on your chest. So I

1071
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:19,280
Speaker 2: don't I don't really like. I don't really like weed.

1072
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 2: But as I said, I I fell in love with

1073
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 2: this chick with it, So I don't know. I just

1074
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 2: know I don't like the smell of it, none of it.

1075
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 1: What do you think about that millionaire soccer guy who's smart?

1076
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 1: Who I played he's smart his wife or his former wife. Listen,

1077
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 1: it's a strange wife and put all of the assets.

1078
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 2: Man.

1079
00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:47,720
Speaker 4: I said that to all my boys.

1080
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 2: Is married. So I think he a smart, a very

1081
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 2: smart guy. So I remember, I don't know if I

1082
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 2: told you that. Me and you was talking one time.

1083
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 2: I was telling my uncle came to me. Now, this

1084
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 2: guy has been worked since he was seventeen years old

1085
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:07,400
Speaker 2: and a mass of little small fortune, right well off,

1086
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 2: retired at fifty five, can do whatever he want to do.

1087
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 2: So he got married when he was sixty. And he

1088
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 2: came to me and he asked me, he said, should

1089
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 2: I do a prenup? And I was just like, hell yeah.

1090
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 2: I was like all the sweating tears you did? I

1091
00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 2: mean because he wasn't a guy that got it because

1092
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 2: made that money. Because he just had a great, a

1093
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 2: super high paining job. He sacrificed a lot, paid a lot,

1094
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 2: made good investments, didn't mess off his money. So when

1095
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 2: he had fifty five, he was straight. You know what

1096
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying. He sacrificed a lot, He deprived his stuff

1097
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:50,759
Speaker 2: of a lot. My uncle was so cheap he was

1098
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 2: when of those uncles like he would know what the

1099
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:57,359
Speaker 2: temperature was because I grew up in the Midwest where.

1100
00:56:57,480 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 4: And he come in and it was hotter.

1101
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 2: He'll go, look at you, look at the thirdst stat

1102
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 2: what the thirdstats say? That's that's who he was, he said,

1103
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 2: He said, what was what you go? What should I

1104
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 2: do if she get angry? If I say she got

1105
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 2: side of prenup? And I said, I said, uh, the

1106
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 2: prenup only matters that she don't love you anymore. That's

1107
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 2: what you tell him. I said, the predn up only

1108
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 2: matters if you don't love me anymore. As long as

1109
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 2: you love me, were good. So I think he felt

1110
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 2: like that too, like as long as we in love,

1111
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,120
Speaker 2: it didn't matter. It didn't because I'm I'm pretty sure

1112
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 2: she had access to all the money. Anywhere they went

1113
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 2: was paid for it. She lived the lifestyle. He gave

1114
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 2: her the lifestyle. It did not matter until she wanted

1115
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 2: to take half this man money. So I think it

1116
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 2: was smart. Yeah, and and and and friend of mine

1117
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:53,439
Speaker 2: sent me some better. I don't know if you see

1118
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 2: this one. I forgot who's a billionaire, but he took

1119
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 2: his wife. They been married forty two years. She's probably

1120
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 2: about fifteen, twenty years younger than him, and they was

1121
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 2: married like twenty five years something like that, was married

1122
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 2: like twenty twenty five years, and she she went to

1123
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 2: go did a divorce and they had been divorced since

1124
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 2: the fifth year.

1125
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 4: Did you see that?

1126
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:21,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, he took it at dr No.

1127
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 1: No, No, they had they had been they had been

1128
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 1: divorced since like the six months, the six month.

1129
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1130
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, he took it to the DRR. Yeah, and divorced her.

1131
00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 2: But they was together.

1132
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 1: They lost together twenty years. They were together twenty years

1133
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 1: and then she filed for it. This was a younger woman, right,

1134
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 1: And she filed for divorce after twenty years. And he

1135
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,440
Speaker 1: said that he divorced her then because he knew that

1136
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:44,760
Speaker 1: eventually she would leave him.

1137
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 2: Right.

1138
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: It's a cold game, man, It's a cold game. It's

1139
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 1: a relationship. Do you ever get any pressure from from

1140
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:59,439
Speaker 1: women when you state your opinion because you're this guy

1141
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 1: who uh is a basically relationship guru. Your love guru

1142
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 1: is that anytime when you meet a woman and you're

1143
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 1: interested in her, you want her to be interested in you.

1144
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: But she's she's hesitant, she has some trepidation because of

1145
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 1: your your reputation.

1146
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean yeah, I mean you anytime you a

1147
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 2: guy that's been out here for a while, I mean,

1148
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,440
Speaker 2: you're gonna deal with a little bit of that. I'm

1149
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 2: what I'm talking about, mainly just just knowing that, OKAYU.

1150
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 4: I've only had that one one time.

1151
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. Actually just recently I had too man, bad bad

1152
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 2: and she just didn't trust you. She's just like, she

1153
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 2: don't like dudes that be all on Instagram and doing

1154
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 2: talk radio and you know, podcast. And I was like, Okay,

1155
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 2: I ain't mad at you. I have a big personality.

1156
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 4: Ye.

1157
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:56,439
Speaker 2: I was like, baby, you know, if you don't like it,

1158
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 2: then you don't like it. I can't do nothing about it.

1159
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 2: So I never upset if some woman doesn't like something

1160
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 2: about me. I'm like, I'm glad she got it out

1161
01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 2: early on.

1162
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 1: There's a lot of advice that you that obviously that

1163
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: you can offer for people that are in relationships, are

1164
01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 1: people that want to enter into relationships. But one of

1165
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 1: the most significant pieces of advice that you can share

1166
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: right now, I'm.

1167
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 2: Telling you it all boils now that people don't lie

1168
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 2: to themselves about anything anything. I was talking to a

1169
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:37,040
Speaker 2: friend of mine and she was telling me that her

1170
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 2: husband had died, right, and then she said that she

1171
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 2: wanted a relationship with this type of guy, right, but

1172
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 2: she don't like that type of guy. I was like,

1173
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 2: you like jazzy dudes, Like you like dudes that like

1174
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 2: when they walk in the room, everybody pay attention to them.

1175
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 2: And she was like, but I've had that, and I

1176
01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 2: loved my husband when he died, but you know, we

1177
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,919
Speaker 2: had issues, blah blah blah. I was like, but you're

1178
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 2: not gonna be happy with that other dude, so you'll

1179
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:07,560
Speaker 2: be lying to yourself, right, Ill be like, you'll be

1180
01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 2: lying to yourself. You get that other guy, it'll be

1181
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 2: good for the first couple of two or three years,

1182
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 2: but then all of a sudden, you'll be resorting back

1183
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:18,840
Speaker 2: to the guy that you wanted. That's why so many

1184
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 2: women are happy that's married. Like, do you know how

1185
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 2: many women cheat that's married? Like it's ridiculous now, because

1186
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 2: I believe my hypothesis is most women married for the

1187
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:33,920
Speaker 2: wrong reasons. One of the things is most of the

1188
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 2: women dudes that they marry men. Me and my partners

1189
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 2: had an argument about this. I would say, and I'm

1190
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 2: gonna ask you this question, do you think that most

1191
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:45,360
Speaker 2: people are married to the man or the woman that's

1192
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 2: their first choice.

1193
01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 1: No, absolutely not, because I know as far as like

1194
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 1: with women. When it comes to women, women marry men

1195
01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: that they.

1196
01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 2: Can live with.

1197
01:01:57,080 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 1: Yes, so okay, they want to be with him, but

1198
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be able to live with that, right,

1199
01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 1: I can live with him.

1200
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 2: I want, I really want to be with him, but

1201
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 2: a lot of women pay attention to him or I

1202
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 2: want to really I really want to be with him,

1203
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 2: but because of his money, then I would have to

1204
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 2: deal with this.

1205
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 4: But they really like that. I respect the girl. She

1206
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:21,440
Speaker 4: this other girl I was talking to.

1207
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:24,120
Speaker 2: She was just like, Oh, I already know whatever man

1208
01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 2: I married ain't gonna be totally right.

1209
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:28,640
Speaker 4: She was like, cause I like those type of dudes.

1210
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:31,160
Speaker 2: So she was like, so if I'm married, I go

1211
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 2: into it knowing that that's what it is.

1212
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 1: But is she also going into it with the idea

1213
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 1: that she's gonna cheat.

1214
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 2: That he's gonna cheat, that she gonna I think I

1215
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 2: think she's gonna be lawyer. I think she would be.

1216
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:46,120
Speaker 2: There's some women that accept it. I mean, you know

1217
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:49,160
Speaker 2: there's women out there, you know, I want to put

1218
01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 2: it on athletes and irritators or anything. But I mean

1219
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 2: the lifestyle. It You're privy to a lot, right, So

1220
01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:00,160
Speaker 2: if I'm if I'm married, you know, Willie deep, like

1221
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 2: when Willie d was the hottest ever. You know what

1222
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Women was coming everywhere at you. Right, So

1223
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 2: even though you might have been the type of guy

1224
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 2: that'd be like no, no, no, that's very hard for

1225
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 2: most people.

1226
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 4: So we'll see, there you go.

1227
01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:17,440
Speaker 2: I wasn't well see there you go. Uh you know,

1228
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 2: I wasn't. I wasn't easy, but.

1229
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 1: I was easy on the ones who were easy on

1230
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:28,480
Speaker 1: the eye and had and had good personality, the ones

1231
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 1: like like So that was women who were very very attractive,

1232
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 1: very attractive, but they had stink attitudes. And I've never

1233
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 1: been a type that could get excited by by a

1234
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: woman who wasn't principled, right, you know what I'm saying,

1235
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:53,160
Speaker 1: Like women who wasn't like like, who wasn't really about something.

1236
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: I never liked women who looked down on other people,

1237
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 1: who thought that it's fine if you think that you're

1238
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:01,280
Speaker 1: you're you're in the sense that I'm not a better

1239
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:03,840
Speaker 1: human being, but I'm a better person because of the

1240
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 1: way I carried myself.

1241
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 2: I have character, that's fine.

1242
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 1: But to look down on someone because of their lot

1243
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 1: in life and you know what they have or what

1244
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 1: they don't have, you know, I just like I'm better

1245
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 1: like that, And I never liked those type of women.

1246
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 2: Never. Now. How about expectations though, in regards to what

1247
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:28,760
Speaker 2: so so so does? Expectations sometimes get mixed up with

1248
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 2: like someone looking down on you, expectations in regards to

1249
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 2: what would look like lifestyles you like. So, So I

1250
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 2: was telling buddy mine, we was talking about this when

1251
01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 2: I first well not when I first moved here, but

1252
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 2: probably about two thousand and five or whatever. Uh my

1253
01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:55,440
Speaker 2: all my prothems from Saint Louis. They moved here and

1254
01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 2: I met this girl named Erica. I forgot erica last name.

1255
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 2: Kevin Lowes is so it's Kevin Lowles's wife, right, So

1256
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 2: I met.

1257
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:07,760
Speaker 1: You talk about Kevin Lyves in Houston or Kevin Lowes

1258
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:08,960
Speaker 1: the record exactly?

1259
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 2: The record is that, OK, so I met his wife

1260
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 2: like in Miami, and you could clearly see that, like

1261
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 2: it was just something different about her, right, you could

1262
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 2: clearly see that. So we was down in Miami together,

1263
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 2: and uh, you know, I went up there. Macdonod was like, hey,

1264
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:31,120
Speaker 2: come holl let me you know I did. So we

1265
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 2: was talking on the phone, but I could tell it

1266
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 2: was just something about her that was just different than

1267
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,400
Speaker 2: than you know, every other woman. And she was just

1268
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 2: super classy, right, and you could just tell a by

1269
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 2: the jewelry.

1270
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 4: Everything about her was just it was elegant.

1271
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:47,920
Speaker 2: Right. So I remember she came to visit and tell

1272
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 2: your story. I remember she came to visit and, uh,

1273
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 2: my buddy used to throw parties at the Saxo Fifth

1274
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 2: Avenue restaurant. It was fifty something something before you know

1275
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 2: what I'm talking about the restaurant and they used to

1276
01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 2: be upstairs before they redid sacks. And he was every

1277
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 2: for his birthday every year he would throw this like

1278
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 2: seven course meal, you know everything, free liquor, premium.

1279
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 4: Across the boy. He would just killing.

1280
01:06:13,520 --> 01:06:15,280
Speaker 2: So I told her to come in town, but I

1281
01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 2: knew she was coming in town for the question that

1282
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 2: she was asking me to see how.

1283
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 4: I was living.

1284
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:24,480
Speaker 2: Right, she came in town. She walked in the door

1285
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 2: and I remember my buddy turned to me and say, oh,

1286
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:30,000
Speaker 2: you guys, give me that he was He was like

1287
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:31,960
Speaker 2: a hustle dude. You know what I'm saying the street dude.

1288
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 2: So he was like, you must give me that, and

1289
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 2: I said why. I was like, I got made great money.

1290
01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 2: He was like, I'm looking at adult like you don't

1291
01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:44,080
Speaker 2: have that type of money, right, So this was probably

1292
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:46,640
Speaker 2: you know, I'm still on my way up. He was like,

1293
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:48,919
Speaker 2: he's like, she got a burking You said that bag

1294
01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 2: she got. I was like yeah. He was like, that's

1295
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 2: a burking bag. So that's one of the big ones.

1296
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 2: That's fifteen eight ggs at the time. He was like

1297
01:06:56,760 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 2: he was ten and fifty eight g's. I says, so

1298
01:06:59,120 --> 01:07:02,760
Speaker 2: who bag, Like that's a burket bag. And see, by

1299
01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 2: that time, I didn't know what a lurking was, a

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Speaker 2: burker or slurker that. I was like, I ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: get but none of that. So he was, oh, yes,

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Speaker 2: burker bag. He said, I bet you she wear a

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Speaker 2: La parlel underwear. I was like, what the fuck is

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01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:17,280
Speaker 2: lat Perarl underwear? He was like, oh, it's you know,

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01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 2: a bra costs you one hundred and fifty dollars, right.

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01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 2: He's like, remember that box I had delivered to the

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Speaker 2: house and all that I waside for my wife.

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Speaker 4: I was like yeah.

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Speaker 2: He was just like, oh that box, Alan was like

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Speaker 2: fifteen thousand dollars. I was like serious, he was like yes.

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Speaker 2: He was like, I'm telling you, I'm looking at it.

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01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:37,040
Speaker 2: He was like so because my partner, he was the

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01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 2: one that tad I had a part of the Fat Cat.

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01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 2: He went and taught me about all like jewelry, watches,

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Speaker 2: all that.

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Speaker 4: So I walked up to her.

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Speaker 2: I was like yo.

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Speaker 4: I was like yeah. So I was like talking to her.

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Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, you're lucky, right, got a little.

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Speaker 2: Little parlel you see he tell you know about a

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01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 2: little pearl. I was like, you know, I'm just that

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01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:58,880
Speaker 2: type of player, you know. But her expectation, so as

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01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 2: we got to know each other, she was just like

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Speaker 2: I don't want to marry. She's like, I think I'm

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Speaker 2: better than just marrying a dude that make two hundred

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Speaker 2: thousand dollars a year. Right.

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Speaker 4: She was just like not that. Let me just straighten

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Speaker 4: that something real quick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're talking to her before she married Kevin, before

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Speaker 1: she married Kid, just before she married she still married Vin.

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Speaker 4: She's married to Kevin this day.

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Speaker 2: So at the time, she she was messed with Katino

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01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:28,840
Speaker 2: Mobiley She had just stopped dating Katino Mobile and was

1334
01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 2: engaged to what's his name, Sean Mary and played basketball

1335
01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 2: for Phoenix, right, So she was just like I just

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01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:39,320
Speaker 2: she was just like, this is the lifestyle I want.

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01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 2: This is what my expectations for myself is. She was

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01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:47,640
Speaker 2: at the time, she was a VP, no VP, but

1339
01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:51,759
Speaker 2: a manager for Jay and J Pharmaceuticals, right, regional manager,

1340
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 2: a district manager. So she was just like, I worked

1341
01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 2: hard to get here, and this is what I expect

1342
01:08:57,240 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 2: my life to be now. I said that to rap

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01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:02,320
Speaker 2: it all in about the expectation. I never felt bad

1344
01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 2: about that because I was just like, I feel you,

1345
01:09:05,560 --> 01:09:08,200
Speaker 2: I'm not there yet, So you got to get that, dude.

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01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 2: That's that's that's there, right. And I think she dated

1347
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:18,519
Speaker 2: Puffy's lawyer and then she married Kevin Lyles and everything.

1348
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:22,479
Speaker 2: All her expectations of what she thought for herself is

1349
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:26,920
Speaker 2: what what she did. So some men would have probably

1350
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 2: got mad and been like, oh, well, you're looking down

1351
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:30,599
Speaker 2: on me, right.

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01:09:30,760 --> 01:09:31,840
Speaker 4: I never felt like that.

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01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 2: I just felt like that wasn't I wasn't her expectation

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01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,040
Speaker 2: at that moment or whatever she was. So that's why

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01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 2: I was asking you when you say, you don't like

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01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:42,280
Speaker 2: a woman that looks at somebody like they're better than them,

1357
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:46,519
Speaker 2: but that maybe can be misconscrewed as someone that feels like.

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01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 1: They just have a different expectation. No, no, no, no, no no.

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01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 1: I'm talking about women who look down on people, period.

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01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 1: I'm not even talking about men. I'm talking about women

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01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:57,080
Speaker 1: who would look down on another even looking down on

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01:09:57,080 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 1: another woman. They're a human being.

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01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,120
Speaker 2: But don't you think she felt like that when it

1364
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:04,240
Speaker 2: came to anybody that wasn't what she felt like was

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01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 2: on her level.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but what I'm what I'm saying. What I'm saying

1367
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 1: is that there are people human beings who think they

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01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: should don't stink, right, That's what I'm talking about. I'm

1369
01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:18,120
Speaker 1: not talking about money, clothes, who I'm talking about as

1370
01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 1: a human being. I'm talking about it some people. It's

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01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 1: some people who would look at I don't know, look

1372
01:10:27,600 --> 01:10:29,719
Speaker 1: at a bus drive and say, oh he's nothing.

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01:10:30,640 --> 01:10:31,599
Speaker 2: You know, you're nothing.

1374
01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 4: You can get it.

1375
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 1: It ain't boy, it ain't about it ain't about you

1376
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:36,840
Speaker 1: wanting to date me or you're trying to holler at me.

1377
01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 1: It's just like, oh, you're a bus drive. You nobody

1378
01:10:40,200 --> 01:10:44,439
Speaker 1: that's what that type of personality, you know, like, I'm

1379
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:45,080
Speaker 1: not with that.

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01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:47,760
Speaker 2: I get what you said. I get that part, but

1381
01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:51,240
Speaker 2: sometimes expect I do feel like sometimes people feel like

1382
01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:55,280
Speaker 2: if their expectations is greater than yours, they feel like

1383
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:59,719
Speaker 2: you think they're they're better than you. Well, they might, right.

1384
01:10:59,760 --> 01:11:03,040
Speaker 1: But just might be they might they might in their

1385
01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:07,840
Speaker 1: head might be because I would never concede that anybody

1386
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 1: is better.

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01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 2: Than right, I'm saying they might feel like that. Yeah,

1388
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:14,320
Speaker 2: I just feel like I never felt bad because I

1389
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:18,639
Speaker 2: felt like, that's your expectations, right. So I never felt like, oh,

1390
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:20,800
Speaker 2: you know, because we used to argue about the whole

1391
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:24,479
Speaker 2: money thing, Like we have discussions about the whole money thing,

1392
01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:28,320
Speaker 2: and she's be like, Sam, I just expect to be here, right.

1393
01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:30,720
Speaker 2: So I used to be like, I feel you right.

1394
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:32,759
Speaker 2: I was like, and I and if I meet somebody

1395
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:33,680
Speaker 2: like that, I'll hook Yo.

1396
01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:37,960
Speaker 1: Did you feel any pressure to perform to get it,

1397
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:39,400
Speaker 1: to get hurry up and get there? No?

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01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 4: I never was that guy.

1399
01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:45,720
Speaker 2: I would just say you're not you catch next catch

1400
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:47,960
Speaker 2: the next bus. Yeah, I catch you. I catch you

1401
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:50,400
Speaker 2: when I get there. And a lot of times when

1402
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:51,960
Speaker 2: you get that YO want to mess with him a

1403
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 2: little more anyway, you know what I'm saying. So that's

1404
01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:57,680
Speaker 2: been me since I was a kid. Are you? Are

1405
01:11:57,680 --> 01:11:58,479
Speaker 2: you messed with him?

1406
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:01,800
Speaker 1: Just as it out of the way again, keep it

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01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:08,000
Speaker 1: moving right, yeah, oh absolutely, Ladies and gentlemen, Sam Williamson,

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01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:14,320
Speaker 1: the Love Guru is about to exit the building. What

1409
01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:15,200
Speaker 1: you got going on?

1410
01:12:15,280 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 2: Man? And how can people get in touch with you? Well,

1411
01:12:17,439 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 2: you know always you can hit me on Instagram at

1412
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:23,760
Speaker 2: love Guru eighty one. So that's the that's the that's

1413
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 2: the best way to get me. But people been saying

1414
01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:30,919
Speaker 2: they love my podcast when I'm on someone else's podcast

1415
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:34,280
Speaker 2: and stuff. So I'm about to start trying to put

1416
01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:36,360
Speaker 2: me a team together and kind of do something myself,

1417
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:39,120
Speaker 2: you know, Are you and I could just keep doing

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01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:41,559
Speaker 2: these yeah? Yea love things? Yeah?

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01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 1: Well I can definitely have you back on man, you know,

1420
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:47,320
Speaker 1: because you know, I always like to get your perspective

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01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 1: on things.

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01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:53,000
Speaker 2: Absolutely, absolutely, I appreciate you. I always love the conversation man,

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01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:53,720
Speaker 2: No more talk.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: This episode was produced by a King and brought to

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Speaker 3: you by

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