Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: Good morning guys, Happy weekend over and we Yeah, I
Speaker 2: feel a little a little different because of the time change,
Speaker 2: but I did set my clock forment to bed on
Speaker 2: Saturday night. Tell you what's what the sneezing in the
Speaker 2: last couple of weeks.
Speaker 3: First of all, I wasn't sneeze. I was cracking my back.
Speaker 2: Oh how can I tell the difference when you punch
Speaker 2: over underneath the I.
Speaker 3: This was turning like this.
Speaker 1: But you're right, it has been consistent sneezing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do. You have allergies.
Speaker 3: Uh, I do have allergies. But I think because we've
Speaker 3: been cleaning the studio a lot lately, this sea have
Speaker 3: been coming.
Speaker 2: You've been cleaning the studio. Cleaned my section, Well, that's selfish.
Speaker 2: I have a john section over there. I mean that
Speaker 2: kind of buttons up.
Speaker 3: I think tub's cleaned over there.
Speaker 2: But just I was reading something about coffee. I don't
Speaker 2: know if you are getting sick or not, but if
Speaker 2: is it bad to drink coffee when you have cold
Speaker 2: or flu? Because I love coffee even when I'm not
Speaker 2: feeling well, coffee does keep you awake, and your body
Speaker 2: needs to rest when you're sick, so maybe you don't
Speaker 2: need as much coffee. Although, Tanya, we want you to
Speaker 2: have the coffee, so don't listen to me say this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm not sick, so just.
Speaker 1: Just some sneezing great not I would tell you.
Speaker 2: What are you drinking this morning? Coffee? Good?
Speaker 3: We had a puppy pody for Sunny yesterday.
Speaker 2: Was it powsome?
Speaker 3: It was powsome?
Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you do? Did you make I can't
Speaker 2: think of how to say cakes that way, but did
Speaker 2: you make cakes?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 5: We did have a cake for her though, and there
Speaker 5: was about eight dogs there. Eight dogs came over in
Speaker 5: the backyard and we just had hot dogs and hamburgers.
Speaker 2: We got these goat milk cookies and cream cookie treats
Speaker 2: from I think the Anest company that every time they
Speaker 2: look like they're a bag for humans and they smell vanilla.
Speaker 2: They smell incredible.
Speaker 3: They're for dogs.
Speaker 2: I think they are. Yeah, they're dog treats, but man,
Speaker 2: they could they smell like they should be a treat
Speaker 2: for me. I want to soak them in on the milk.
Speaker 3: They do make some treats that are dog.
Speaker 2: Or you can go on you can go on a
Speaker 2: date with your dog and share a share. Yes, yes,
Speaker 2: that's not like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom feeds her dog the fanciest streets that
Speaker 1: look so delicious and they're so tiny and she puts
Speaker 1: them in like a glass bowl. That Savella ate one
Speaker 1: the other day when we were at their house.
Speaker 2: Oh, you're too careful. Yes, I used to eat popeourrie
Speaker 2: as a kid. People put like I was.
Speaker 1: Like, Mom, have these out and like it looks like
Speaker 1: an it's appetizer. Those are loless Ah, that's funny.
Speaker 2: Monday, November sixth in the new time zone or time
Speaker 2: change right now? Uh, nice weather looking really nice? Actually
Speaker 2: all week we're paying your bills. I got Ryan's roses
Speaker 2: after seven. If you've not heard what this is about yet,
Speaker 2: she insists that she needs our help to figure out
Speaker 2: where she and her husband stand in their relationship. Ooh,
Speaker 2: so how can we help determine where they stand in
Speaker 2: their relationship? Ruby? This is not the fingernail test, is
Speaker 2: it that you talked about out on the Weekend watch
Speaker 2: List on Friday?
Speaker 1: No, it's not only to do any stuff.
Speaker 2: That's what she said. To watch on Apple TV or
Speaker 2: Apple TV plus whichever it is.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's coming up. And of course those sold
Speaker 2: out Jingle Bowl tickets presented by Capital One all morning long.
Speaker 2: Shall we do the horse copes now or DC are
Speaker 2: horsecopes for the week? Yes? They are any special theme.
Speaker 3: No special theme, just straight up horscopes.
Speaker 2: A right, Let's go listen for yours and see how
Speaker 2: it applies to your day and your week aries.
Speaker 5: When you want something, you don't let anything stand in
Speaker 5: your way, get after it.
Speaker 3: Your week is an a point zero Taurus.
Speaker 1: This week you'll set off for a destination or a
Speaker 1: goal you've been planning for a really long time. Your
Speaker 1: week is a seven point two Gemini.
Speaker 5: You were on the verge of taking a big chance,
Speaker 5: go for it. Your week is a nine point one Cancer.
Speaker 1: You will repair a relationship that was broken pretty badly.
Speaker 1: Your week is an eight point three.
Speaker 2: Saying a lot of work for you, Cancers.
Speaker 5: Yeah that's me Leo. The time is right to make
Speaker 5: a bold move in a work matter. Your week is
Speaker 5: an a point nine tubs Virgo.
Speaker 1: You have issues in the work world that you need
Speaker 1: to speak up about. Your week is a seven point
Speaker 1: seven Libra.
Speaker 5: Time to be less formal and take off that suit
Speaker 5: and tie, throw on some flip flops. Your week is
Speaker 5: a six point eight Scorpio.
Speaker 1: It's time to stop and enduring someone who is being
Speaker 1: rude and disrespectful. Your week is an eight point.
Speaker 2: One great Libra's and Virgos, you do the same too.
Speaker 2: It's time for that.
Speaker 3: Sagittarius.
Speaker 5: You may want to fly first class, but it's time
Speaker 5: to not be in the lap of luxury. Your week
Speaker 5: is eight point four Capricorn.
Speaker 1: You are fair, reasonable and wise, and a lot of
Speaker 1: people will be coming to you for advice. Buckle up.
Speaker 1: Your week is an eight point nine.
Speaker 2: I'll take that, thank you.
Speaker 3: Aquaria.
Speaker 5: Is time to do what you want to do rather
Speaker 5: because you have to. Your week is a seven point
Speaker 5: seven and Pisces.
Speaker 1: Let this be your reminder to do some nurturing today.
Speaker 1: You will feel better for it. Your week is a
Speaker 1: seven point zero.
Speaker 2: Well, if it does connect to with you in a way,
Speaker 2: you can aptom for yourself. But hopefully they strike a chord. Yeah,
Speaker 2: all right. If you're planning a wedding and one of
Speaker 2: us here is in twenty twenty four, there are dates
Speaker 2: you need to avoid Tanya, you're planning wedding. See, might
Speaker 2: I want to jot this down. I'm looking these will
Speaker 2: be the most popular dates, so must the venues and
Speaker 2: vendors are already booked. Ah are you thinking, Tanya, have
Speaker 2: Saturday February fourth?
Speaker 3: We are not.
Speaker 2: Saturday February twenty fourth. No, that's popular because it's a
Speaker 2: full moon.
Speaker 1: Why is the fourth not good.
Speaker 2: Because it's two four to two fourth?
Speaker 1: Oh, it's like the numbers.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, if you're into that. Saturday another one very popular,
Speaker 2: So don't try to book your wedding Saturday June twenty second,
Speaker 2: Summer Solstice.
Speaker 3: Ah.
Speaker 1: Oh, a lot of people do Summer Solstice for weddings.
Speaker 2: I feel like you're going to do a June wedding, Tanya.
Speaker 3: You think so?
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. I'm asking Honestly, we haven't.
Speaker 5: Picked a date, but are We're getting closer to the venue,
Speaker 5: so we kind of have free range of the date,
Speaker 5: if you know what I mean, like a backyard wedding.
Speaker 1: Great.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a lot to think about. You don't realize
Speaker 3: when you get engaged.
Speaker 1: Well, you think you have free range, but it all
Speaker 1: depends on what kind of vendors you want at your backyard?
Speaker 2: Is saying it free rain?
Speaker 3: Is it free rain?
Speaker 1: Yes, it is free rain.
Speaker 2: Oh, but you might have a great range in the
Speaker 2: back Yeah, a great range. All right. Saturday August seventeenth,
Speaker 2: don't do it. It's gonna be busy.
Speaker 1: Super moon and that's Savey's birthday.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so don't book don't do the wedding then. And
Speaker 2: Saturday August twenty fourth, these are the most eight twenty
Speaker 2: four to twenty fourth, these are the most popular dates
Speaker 2: for weddings next year. So the venues are gonna be tough.
Speaker 5: You know, venues are booked up already a year in advance.
Speaker 5: Like if you go to a venue they say, oh
Speaker 5: we can't do twenty twenty four, we can do twenty
Speaker 5: twenty five.
Speaker 2: That's the whole point. If this morning hack, Yeah, that's
Speaker 2: what I just went through. Yeah, but that's why you're
Speaker 2: gonna do it in Robbie's backyard or your y'all's backyard. Correct,
Speaker 2: all right, today's quote if them not choosing you forced
Speaker 2: you to finally choose yourself, you win. Think about it, right,
Speaker 2: get over it, and then you get over with the heartbreak,
Speaker 2: and then you win. Just FM headlines with Sicony Well.
Speaker 1: Ginger is going to have more info on that fire
Speaker 1: in Encino coming up in just a bit. But you know,
Speaker 1: the Highland Fire in Riverside County has been fully contained
Speaker 1: a week after that blaze broke out. It burned just
Speaker 1: about twenty four hundred acres. Public transit users should prepare
Speaker 1: as Metrolink plans for day's long closure next month due
Speaker 1: to maintenance in order to allow workers to clean and
Speaker 1: repair trains and also upgrade the regional real network. Metrolink
Speaker 1: trains will be out of service from December twenty sixth
Speaker 1: through the twenty ninth. Courtney Kardashian has welcomed her fourth
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Speaker 1: back in May of twenty twenty two. Sources confirmed she
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Speaker 1: Big Be Mountains snow season is officially under, with evening
Speaker 1: temperatures dropping into the twenties last week. Big Bear Snow
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Speaker 1: am to four pm. Glow two Bean sessions will start
Speaker 1: later this month on November twenty fourth, around Thanksgiving, and
Speaker 1: we'll continue each Friday. Saturday and Holiday from five pm
Speaker 1: to nine pm. I love that it's this time of year.
Speaker 1: Officially on air with Ryan.
Speaker 2: Seacrest, Vanessa, good morning, how are you hi?
Speaker 7: I'm good than yourself.
Speaker 2: We're just interested in hearing about this. So you met
Speaker 2: a guy in a dating app and the guy said
Speaker 2: something weird? Did he text it or say it?
Speaker 8: He texted?
Speaker 4: What do you say?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: It was a suck.
Speaker 2: Okay, what did he say that was weird?
Speaker 7: He said, he just made a comment about my body.
Speaker 7: He basically said what he would do to me and
Speaker 7: my body. Oh, and it just, you know, it felt uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, yeah, seems a little aggressive, doesn't it unless.
Speaker 1: It's you're into him.
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm into him, but I'm not trying to be,
Speaker 7: you know, on that level yet.
Speaker 2: No, he needs to hold back ye subtlety, you know.
Speaker 7: But it feels like, I don't know, this has been
Speaker 7: like my experience like lately, it feels like I don't know,
Speaker 7: like everybody's just on that mindset. Just it's hard to
Speaker 7: find somebody that's actually looking for more.
Speaker 2: Here's the question. Now, he said that, is it enough
Speaker 2: to make you not go out with him?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 7: Well, you see that's the thing. I like, I really
Speaker 7: like I was feeling him up until that point. I
Speaker 7: like kind of want to stop talking to him. But
Speaker 7: then it's like, okay, should I just let that be
Speaker 7: the reason why I you know, don't see if there's
Speaker 7: something there.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm going to tell you what I think. I
Speaker 2: think it's a red flag, and I think it happened
Speaker 2: so you'd feel this way so you don't go out
Speaker 2: with him because he's not going to work out. That's
Speaker 2: what I think. I think their universe gave you this
Speaker 2: red flag, clear red flag, so you could say not
Speaker 2: for me, not for me.
Speaker 7: You're probably right, like I do tend to like whenever, like, okay,
Speaker 7: I questioned it is it a red flag? Or okay,
Speaker 7: let me just see if there's something there, and then
Speaker 7: that's where you know it starts to go wrong.
Speaker 2: I think this is a clear sign that you're not
Speaker 2: supposed to go out with him.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 1: I hate to say it, but I feel, yeah, you
Speaker 1: got the egg already.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's true. I appreciate your input.
Speaker 2: Of course any time. But I said, thanks for calling, right,
Speaker 2: I mean, that's especially that kind of egg might that
Speaker 2: just feels unco if you're feeling uncomfortable before you even go.
Speaker 1: Yeah, can you feel uncomfortable or disrespected and you're not
Speaker 1: into it, then that's yeah Red Flag.
Speaker 2: Never had that happen to me.
Speaker 1: Unless if she was into it, right.
Speaker 2: Well, I've never had that happen to me.
Speaker 1: Rights been turned off? Oh something about your body? No,
Speaker 1: I have, but it's been later in the relationship, I mean.
Speaker 2: In the early way earlier, no one says that's just
Speaker 2: like unless you're like on that level of sense of
Speaker 2: humor or no.
Speaker 3: But also the dating apps just make it just kind
Speaker 3: of this.
Speaker 2: Well, that's the other thing. The guys don't even know
Speaker 2: her yet. Back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't get experience so much texting early on Big.
Speaker 2: Red Flag, Big Red Flag. All right, we're getting into
Speaker 2: a Ryan's roses in just a minute. She needs our
Speaker 2: help to find out uf there and love. We will
Speaker 2: definitely do our best for that. But I was, you know,
Speaker 2: we love a list here, pizza, We'll have a food
Speaker 2: list here. Actually, best in and out burgers in Sunday, California.
Speaker 2: How many in and out burgers have you been to?
Speaker 6: There?
Speaker 9: Are?
Speaker 2: I did a little looking. There are two hundred and
Speaker 2: ninety four in and out burgers in California, and they
Speaker 2: asked to Reddit for the best ones, because they're really not.
Speaker 2: If you look at the not all the same. The scale,
Speaker 2: the size, the configuration of the parking and the driver
Speaker 2: is all the same.
Speaker 1: It's the lines. I sat forty five minutes last Saturday
Speaker 1: with the kids in the car because Michael's got the
Speaker 1: broken foot at home.
Speaker 3: Some of the longer, the one on Lankersham.
Speaker 2: Some longer lines because there is more lane for a
Speaker 2: line inside the parking space area.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. We went through like all the things.
Speaker 1: We basically came to the conclusion that Maxon might have
Speaker 1: a in and out themed birthday party next year.
Speaker 2: That's cool.
Speaker 1: And then ASA was like, well, then what party you
Speaker 1: am I gonna have next year? I don't want any
Speaker 1: in and out birthday.
Speaker 2: Part Oh no, to have a different Gorilla Taco birthday party.
Speaker 2: All right. So, if you're new to LA or you're
Speaker 2: an aficionado, here are the top three in and out
Speaker 2: burgers in the LA area. They say Lax, which is
Speaker 2: the one at Lincoln and Sepulvida. You've probably seen that
Speaker 2: if you've traveled. It's basically everybody's first impression. When they
Speaker 2: get to La they head up to Pulvida. It's very busy.
Speaker 2: So when people visit that, I've got to taste an
Speaker 2: in and out burger, That's where they go because the
Speaker 2: first one that they see or on their way out,
Speaker 2: they didn't do it yet. They got to stop buying
Speaker 2: their way out and get one interesting to go. So
Speaker 2: that's why it's very busy. But the line does move
Speaker 2: super fast. Okay, okay, we used to move it in fast.
Speaker 2: Baldwin Park one of the best locations for in and
Speaker 2: out off the ten of Francisquito. The first ever in
Speaker 2: and out was in Baldwin Park. That one's gone, but
Speaker 2: this one is known for being really really really super
Speaker 2: over the top friendly. Oh I love.
Speaker 1: I mean they're all everyone's friendly at all in and
Speaker 1: outs I feel.
Speaker 2: The other best of the top three in and out
Speaker 2: burger locations is one in Bellflower off the ninety one.
Speaker 2: This one is reportedly the line always flies. One user said,
Speaker 2: no matter how busy it is, they have never waited
Speaker 2: for more than fifteen minutes. Oh wow, Why let's you
Speaker 2: should get the people at the one near you to
Speaker 2: call Bellflower and find out how they do that, train them,
Speaker 2: Just train them. Also getting good reviews passed Ena Glendale,
Speaker 2: Honorable mentioned, Westlake Village, Okay their best in and out
Speaker 2: locations one two point seven Kiss FM. We're gonna start
Speaker 2: Ryan's roses. If you're gonna miss any portion of this,
Speaker 2: it will be featured in our podcast later today at
Speaker 2: on aer with Ryan Seacrest, where each to your podcast guys.
Speaker 2: It says we're separated. He moved out over the weekend
Speaker 2: after saying he needs to find himself. The fear is
Speaker 2: he wants to sleep with another woman, but since we
Speaker 2: are separated, it would not be cheating. I don't expect
Speaker 2: him to send me the roses, but if he sends
Speaker 2: him to someone else, I'm filing for divorce.
Speaker 3: It skills risky.
Speaker 1: This is like the clarification that she needs.
Speaker 2: That's what she's saying. Yeah, let me grab Lydia North Hollywood,
Speaker 2: So Lydia, thanks for coming on. Let's I just want
Speaker 2: to retrace our steps here. As we understand it, he
Speaker 2: needed separation to go find himself. What did he mean
Speaker 2: by going to find himself? What was going on with him?
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean it's a lot, but we're we're separated. Right,
Speaker 9: but like you know, it's so.
Speaker 2: Hold on your fear. Is he put you on a
Speaker 2: whold essentially to go see if there's grass greener, and
Speaker 2: you want to know if that's yeah, and you want
Speaker 2: to know if if that's the case, he's going to
Speaker 2: send the flowers to somebody else not you, because you
Speaker 2: guys are separating, right, what was the problem in your relationship?
Speaker 2: Like why are you getting into the separation phase?
Speaker 9: Yeah, well, okay, it wasn't it wasn't totally out of blue,
Speaker 9: right for about like six months, we've been fighting all
Speaker 9: the time, but I've also been suspicious there is someone else.
Speaker 9: And it was just like little things Ryan like on
Speaker 9: his laptop in the middle of the night, or lots
Speaker 9: of phone calls from blocked numbers, and I never found evidence,
Speaker 9: but it like led to a lot of fighting with
Speaker 9: him blaming my jealousy and like paranoia. He seemed to
Speaker 9: like initiate almost all the fights, and he even refused
Speaker 9: to go to couples counselane when I suggested it, you know,
Speaker 9: typical like wasting money, you know, what do they know?
Speaker 9: That kind of stuff. So finally, like I guess late
Speaker 9: last week he said he thought we should have this
Speaker 9: trial separation. Honestly, he didn't give me much of a choice.
Speaker 9: You know, he moved in with his friend on Saturday.
Speaker 9: But I think this separation, as we said, is simply
Speaker 9: like this opportunity to pursue someone else, like guilt free,
Speaker 9: and like if that doesn't work out, then we can
Speaker 9: reconcile and I'll never find out. So that is exactly
Speaker 9: why I want to offer him the roses, like I
Speaker 9: know he won't send them to me, but if he
Speaker 9: sends them to someone else like Ryan, I know I
Speaker 9: was right and I will file for divorce.
Speaker 2: So Lydia, I just need you to say, at this stage, Ryan,
Speaker 2: you have my permission to call and then your husband's
Speaker 2: name on Kiss FM.
Speaker 9: Go ahead, okay, Ryan, you have my permission to call
Speaker 9: on Kiss FM.
Speaker 2: I're gonna do it right now. Be very quiet. Let's
Speaker 2: see we can find out and then we'll tell him
Speaker 2: he's on the air. But stay quiet until we do that.
Speaker 9: Okay, good luck, Okay, Thanks?
Speaker 4: Hello?
Speaker 1: Hi is this Taylor?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 2: Is sim Hi Taylor.
Speaker 1: My name is Gloria. I'm calling from NoHo District Flowers.
Speaker 1: How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 4: I'm fine now about yourself.
Speaker 1: I'm good, Thank you so much for asking. We're actually
Speaker 1: new to the area. We're on Lankershim and we deliver
Speaker 1: all over the valley and LA and we're offering a
Speaker 1: promotion for local residents. And since you live in the area,
Speaker 1: it's a free dozen red roses that you can send
Speaker 1: to anybody that you'd like. I don't need any cash
Speaker 1: or info from you. These would be flowers that would
Speaker 1: be sent out today by lunchtime to anybody that you'd like.
Speaker 1: They are free, like I said, on any credit card
Speaker 1: info or anything like that, just the name of the
Speaker 1: person that you want to send them to in a note.
Speaker 1: And then we hope that if you like our arrangements
Speaker 1: you come back as a customer.
Speaker 4: Wow, Okay, I almost didn't pick up. You do this?
Speaker 6: You do this just to like get the word out
Speaker 6: about your business.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Like I said, we just came here and we're trying
Speaker 1: to spread the word and hopefully if you like our arrangements,
Speaker 1: you can leave us a Yelp review or stop in
Speaker 1: one day and actually order some flowers. But for now,
Speaker 1: we do this about once a week and trying to
Speaker 1: get the word out.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, sure, Yeah, I'll take them.
Speaker 1: Okay, who do you want to send them to? What's
Speaker 1: their name?
Speaker 6: So her name is Jasmine, but just put Jazzy ja zz.
Speaker 1: Y okay, and then what do you like to put
Speaker 1: on the card?
Speaker 6: You should put just making sure you don't forget about
Speaker 6: me before this weekend?
Speaker 2: Okay, Taylor, your voice is being broadcast on the radio,
Speaker 2: and we have your technically your wife on the line, Lydia. Taylor,
Speaker 2: who is Jasmine?
Speaker 6: Hold on? Hold on?
Speaker 4: What's going on?
Speaker 2: Lydia would like to know the same thing. So you're
Speaker 2: asking the right questions. Who is Jasmine? Why are you
Speaker 2: sending roses to or saying just making sure you don't
Speaker 2: forget about me before this weekend? If indeed you're supposed
Speaker 2: to be separated to work on yourself, as you told
Speaker 2: your wife. So can you explain that your wife, your wife, Lydia?
Speaker 2: Your wife, Lydia is here, Lydia, tell him you're here.
Speaker 4: Hire no tailor.
Speaker 9: Hi, Taylor, I've actually been researching divorce attorneys and you
Speaker 9: will be hearing one from in the next twenty four
Speaker 9: to forty eight hours.
Speaker 6: So there you got hold hold on, slow down, What
Speaker 6: are you talking about, Lydia? We're separated, right, it's why
Speaker 6: did you say it across the other women while we're separated?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 9: Come on, okay, I know who Jazzy is.
Speaker 6: You worked in my office, you idiot.
Speaker 9: She will confirm that you two have been seeing each
Speaker 9: other for as long as before this weekend. So that
Speaker 9: is cheating. That is cheating, like the definition. I'm done.
Speaker 9: I want to divorce.
Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, Taylor.
Speaker 2: Office, Taylor, why in your view were you separated? What
Speaker 2: was the reason for your separation?
Speaker 6: That is none of your business exactly, but what was it?
Speaker 4: Look?
Speaker 6: I don't I don't know what's going on here. I
Speaker 6: don't like that she is pulling this kind of start
Speaker 6: like this, we.
Speaker 2: Split up, But Lydia was the deal in your separation
Speaker 2: that you allowed to see other people?
Speaker 9: Allow but like this not really like obviously they've been
Speaker 9: together before that and this is all his planned.
Speaker 2: So Taylor, when did you start your vibe with Jasmine?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 1: Why do I have to answer to you long enough
Speaker 1: for her to have a nickname?
Speaker 6: Yeah? For real, you know what I am. I'm sick
Speaker 6: of this, Lydia.
Speaker 2: I'm guy, I just gotta stopped for a second.
Speaker 6: You're paranoia Taylor and Lydia.
Speaker 2: If you're separated, why not just go ahead and get divorced.
Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like there's any love here. No, like
Speaker 2: I think you just need to follow through.
Speaker 9: I'm not paranoid. You just sent her a dozen roses. Okay,
Speaker 9: I'm going to actually hang up right now. I have
Speaker 9: to attorneys to call, and that you will be paying
Speaker 9: for one thousand percent.
Speaker 6: Okay, you want a divorce, you want to divorce Lydia,
Speaker 6: that's fine. You do what you gotta do, but that
Speaker 6: is on you.
Speaker 2: Okay, you want to stay with Lydia, now you're with Jasmine.
Speaker 1: You're the one that's cheating.
Speaker 2: I'm confused.
Speaker 6: I did not ask for this. Okay, I'm gonna hang up.
Speaker 6: I'm done.
Speaker 9: Ryan, thank you so much, but thank you for your time,
Speaker 9: and go to hell.
Speaker 2: Taylor. Yeah, okay, I think and Taylor go to hell. No,
Speaker 2: I don't want to take it the wrong way. It's you,
Speaker 2: she said, thank you to you. It could be confusing,
Speaker 2: all right, let's go back to Ryan's roses. Both Lydia
Speaker 2: and Taylor seemed very upset about the situation. Right, So,
Speaker 2: whatever happened in their marriage, they got separated, He or
Speaker 2: she told us he was going to work on himself
Speaker 2: during that separation, but she also said that they were
Speaker 2: allowed to see other people during that separation. Once that
Speaker 2: starts in a separation, it's hard to go back. Even
Speaker 2: though I felt like she thought maybe if he didn't
Speaker 2: send the flowers to somebody else, she might want to go.
Speaker 1: Back with him, because he told her, I'm moving out
Speaker 1: this weekend because I need to find myself. I need
Speaker 1: a soul search.
Speaker 7: I think.
Speaker 2: But to us, he said, you Lydia made me do this.
Speaker 1: We don't know.
Speaker 2: I'm totally we don't, but I'm confused. I just think
Speaker 2: that once they got separated, they were on the path
Speaker 2: to finalize.
Speaker 1: For sure, there's definitely no love there.
Speaker 2: And he sent the roses to a woman that she
Speaker 2: works with named Jasmine, so she's upset about that too.
Speaker 1: Just making sure you don't forget about me before this weekend.
Speaker 2: But I'm curious to know about separations. You know, how
Speaker 2: often do they go all the way and how often
Speaker 2: do they go back? I don't know. I wonder, especially
Speaker 2: if you say you can see other people.
Speaker 1: And she did tell us they were fighting for six months.
Speaker 2: So Wendy, you're in South Kate, you heard this. What's
Speaker 2: your view?
Speaker 8: I think, Okay, yes they're separated, but they like just separated.
Speaker 8: It's so soon. I think this is really clever by Lydia,
Speaker 8: and I cannot wait to people to blow up in
Speaker 8: his face because I mean, come on, if Jazzy rejects him,
Speaker 8: he was just going to go right back to Lendia.
Speaker 8: So honestly, I really hope Jazzy does reject him.
Speaker 2: Well, at this point, it sounded like Taylor is fully
Speaker 2: into the other woman, right, so.
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, exactly, But still I really hope that this
Speaker 8: other woman sort of realizes what's happening and throws it
Speaker 8: right back in the face.
Speaker 2: All Right, Wendy, thanks for listening to us. All Right,
Speaker 2: here's the fact. Here's the stat. Eighty seven percent of
Speaker 2: couples who legally separate eventually get a divorce. And that's
Speaker 2: where they're going. Very few come back together. That makes
Speaker 2: total sense. All right. Ryan's Roses, Mondays and Thursdays here.
Speaker 2: If you miss any of it, it's on our podcast
Speaker 2: on air Throwing Seacrest wherever you get your podcast on
Speaker 2: air with Ryan Seacread. Sleep is just as important as
Speaker 2: a healthy eating plan. What else as healthy, good exercise,
Speaker 2: and one of the ways that we were all taught
Speaker 2: as kids to fall asleep before fallens, before all the
Speaker 2: different devices. If you can't fall asleep at night, count sheep,
Speaker 2: not mongoose, not puma. But now I guess they're saying no,
Speaker 2: don't count sleep.
Speaker 1: Experts say no, absolutely not. It doesn't work. It might
Speaker 1: even take longer to finally rest if you count sheep.
Speaker 2: So why this breaking news?
Speaker 7: Now?
Speaker 2: What happened?
Speaker 1: Basically, what you're supposed to do is go on a
Speaker 1: mental walk if you're having a restless time going to bed.
Speaker 1: So if you're sitting there tossing and turning, and I
Speaker 1: think we've all been there, right, your mind is racing
Speaker 1: and you can't fall asleep. I tried this last night,
Speaker 1: you guys, and let me tell you it worked.
Speaker 2: What did you do on a mental get your head
Speaker 2: to go?
Speaker 1: So this is what you do. You're supposed to think
Speaker 1: about a walk that you know very well.
Speaker 2: Okay, actually go on the walk mental walk time.
Speaker 3: I thought you meant, just like, for your mental peace,
Speaker 3: go on a walk.
Speaker 1: Help this child.
Speaker 5: I was like, well, that sounds counter to getting out
Speaker 5: of bed, getting your feet cold, walking.
Speaker 3: Around the house a mental mental.
Speaker 2: Walk, all right, So you have to picture it, so
Speaker 2: you take your mind out of all.
Speaker 1: Those stars you're laying there. It's almost like meditation, right,
Speaker 1: so you you visualize it, but it has to be
Speaker 1: very detail oriented. You have to picture yourself leaving the house,
Speaker 1: locking the door, walking down your steps, going down you like,
Speaker 1: really leaving your house. So I I kid you not.
Speaker 1: I was so detailed with my walk. I barely made
Speaker 1: it down my street and I was already asleep. So
Speaker 1: I was trying on my mental walk. I was trying
Speaker 1: to get down my street and go into this little
Speaker 1: like hiking drop on my house that like I know
Speaker 1: very well. And I didn't even make it down my
Speaker 1: street before I was asleep. It was very impressive. I
Speaker 1: was like, so I woke up this morning and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my.
Speaker 2: God, it worked. It worked. So wait, so could I
Speaker 2: forget lee mask? Could I just automatically, you know, zap
Speaker 2: myself to the beach.
Speaker 1: Yes, if you love walking the board walk or the
Speaker 1: strand in Manhattan Beach or like wherever, like wherever your
Speaker 1: great place that you love to walk, running canyon you
Speaker 1: know once you park, like you know, like your place
Speaker 1: that you love that is your mental walk.
Speaker 2: What if I'm out on my walk and I passed
Speaker 2: tubs mentally like he's on a walk too, would that
Speaker 2: be weird?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Whatever, you startle your wake you guys, you're on a
Speaker 2: walk at the same time because you can't sleep.
Speaker 3: Fine, And what if there's like a dog barking, like, well,
Speaker 3: you have to.
Speaker 2: I guess you've kind of got to control your thoughts
Speaker 2: A little bit is a little bit. Yeah, I think
Speaker 2: it's a great idea. I'm going to try it. And
Speaker 2: there are also those walks that, like when you're on
Speaker 2: the traamill they show you those videos of a walk around. Yeah,
Speaker 2: maturing those my work too.
Speaker 1: Uh huh. It was so nice. I had a great sleep.
Speaker 2: I slept so wild.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to wake up this morning.
Speaker 2: I didn't want to come to work so well, I
Speaker 2: didn't well mab as shorter walk Nathan, good morning, How
Speaker 2: are you morning?
Speaker 4: I'm good ish?
Speaker 2: How about I'm good more than ish, But I could
Speaker 2: be ished some days too, I got it. So you
Speaker 2: have a dilemma about a coworker. What's the issue?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's part of the reason why I'm
Speaker 4: feeling only good ish today. So there's this girl that
Speaker 4: I work with and I have a pretty big crush
Speaker 4: on her. I work as a teacher, we're both we're
Speaker 4: both teachers, and I just, you know, I'm I'm not
Speaker 4: sure whether or not I should ask her out, Like
Speaker 4: is that is it appropriate? You know, I'm just some
Speaker 4: some of my co workers are saying that it is,
Speaker 4: and others are saying that it's not, because you know,
Speaker 4: it's the workplace romance.
Speaker 2: That's going to be that's going to be, like the answer.
Speaker 2: No matter who you focus group on that question, butt,
Speaker 2: you're gonna get some of those responses. We both ways.
Speaker 2: The thing is, you know, if you do work with
Speaker 2: this person and you don't have a lot of other socializing,
Speaker 2: then odds are you going to meet and have a
Speaker 2: connection with somebody you work with? Right? Yeah, is there
Speaker 2: a policy? Is there any school policy against it?
Speaker 4: I don't think so as long as it's consensual.
Speaker 1: But what's the vibe that you're getting back from this person?
Speaker 4: I don't know. It's kind of like it's flirty, but
Speaker 4: like kind of loose loosely flirty. Like they're a little
Speaker 4: older than me, so they kind of treaty, they call
Speaker 4: me like, oh, you're just a daby sometimes, you know,
Speaker 4: but it's kind of like in a fun, flirty way.
Speaker 4: I'm just yeah, she's yeah. It's it's complicated.
Speaker 2: Do you Are you sure she feels the same way
Speaker 2: about you? Are you worried about that too?
Speaker 4: I'm I'm worried about that too. I'm kind of getting
Speaker 4: that vibe because you know, we work closely together. Sometimes
Speaker 4: we're both mass teachers, so we're always you know, sharing notes,
Speaker 4: talking about assignments with each other, so we spend a
Speaker 4: lot of time with each other.
Speaker 2: Nathan. My guidance on this is you, since you do
Speaker 2: work together, and it could be really super uncomfortable for
Speaker 2: everyone at school if it didn't go right. You don't
Speaker 2: want to guess on this. You want to know that
Speaker 2: she's kind of feeling the same way you do. Now,
Speaker 2: how you get there? I have no idea, but I
Speaker 2: don't think this is one where you take the leap
Speaker 2: of faith and the risk in it not knowing if
Speaker 2: she feels the same way reciprocally reciprocally, which is hard
Speaker 2: to say, you know what I mean, Nathan, So you
Speaker 2: might need to give this a few more beats to
Speaker 2: read the situation. Read the room before you make the leap.
Speaker 1: I think so too, because you don't want to risk
Speaker 1: your job or the awkwardness every day at work.
Speaker 2: Will that work, Nathan, I think that works.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And thanks for reaching out to us with this. I
Speaker 2: really appreciate it.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 2: Good luck with school this year.
Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you.
Speaker 2: I feel like at the workplace, you got to know. Yeah,
Speaker 2: like if it's out in another circle, you could just
Speaker 2: go with your gut. But I don't know, you can't.
Speaker 2: There's just too much at steak there. Yep.
Speaker 5: Your horoscope did say that people who are going to
Speaker 5: be coming to you for a lot of advice see
Speaker 5: every day. I'm just saying it might be a little
Speaker 5: amped up this week.
Speaker 2: All I'm ready for it, Okay, I'll try and do
Speaker 2: my best. A lot of restaurants have secret menus, and
Speaker 2: you know, when it's a staple in a certain region,
Speaker 2: a lot of people talk about it. They post it
Speaker 2: up on TikToker, like.
Speaker 3: A puppuccino at Starbucks.
Speaker 2: Well, that I did not know about.
Speaker 1: Really, that's the only one I know about.
Speaker 2: But do you know there are more so a lot
Speaker 2: of talk on TikTok right now about a McDonald's breakfast
Speaker 2: burger if you come right when they switch from breakfast
Speaker 2: to lunch, a breakfast burger. Do you know about the
Speaker 2: breakfast burger? Yeah, the breakfast burger McMuffin. No, it's a
Speaker 2: breakfast burger like they're they're switching meals and they'll merge
Speaker 2: the two for you for if you are in the know. Now.
Speaker 2: It also turns out a lot of restaurants have these.
Speaker 2: It's for your dog. You tough to know word, so
Speaker 2: you'd mentioned the Strawbucks puppaccino. It's free. It's whipped cream
Speaker 2: in an espresso cup for your dog to slurp. If
Speaker 2: your dog is cool with dary and sugar. Good. Now
Speaker 2: Georgia would get sick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I don't know. I don't ever
Speaker 1: given that to my dogs.
Speaker 2: No. I love that people want to feed Georgia all
Speaker 2: the time. But things, I'm afraid she's gonna splash out
Speaker 2: of her you know, rear.
Speaker 3: Sonny does too.
Speaker 2: Cheese, I can't.
Speaker 3: No, she's sensitive, well.
Speaker 2: Of course cheese, all right. Next, there's an in and
Speaker 2: out pop patty. Do you know about that?
Speaker 1: I didn't know about this because once we got the
Speaker 1: dogs in the car when we went through in and
Speaker 1: out and they when they were taking our order, they
Speaker 1: offered they were like, you guys want to get some
Speaker 1: patties for the dogs?
Speaker 2: Were like, no, for the dogs, for us, because I'll
Speaker 2: say for the dogs, we're paying for us. You know,
Speaker 2: it's really just plain unseasoned burger.
Speaker 1: Yeah, some patties take it.
Speaker 2: Next, Dairy Queen has a secret dog menu and I'm
Speaker 2: that secret dog menue. Vanilla soft sir top with a
Speaker 2: dog biscuit. Again, I'd be worried to give it to Georgia,
Speaker 2: but it sounds really fun for the dog. Sprinkles Cupcakes
Speaker 2: has one yes, super cupcake with a yogurt frosting and
Speaker 2: a dog bone decoration on top. Problem with that is
Speaker 2: I might think that's for me.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Sometimes dog treats look incredible.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we got those for Sunny's birthday party.
Speaker 2: Georgia had a cake one time if there was a
Speaker 2: carrot cake.
Speaker 1: The twins eight dog treats at my parents' house once
Speaker 1: because my mom had them for her dog in a glass,
Speaker 1: little like cute bowl, and the twins didn't know they
Speaker 1: were just they were like one or no, they didn't.
Speaker 1: They were like two years old. And they were like, mom,
Speaker 1: why do you have these? Like it looks nice, so confusing,
Speaker 1: like that's how Lola eats her treats.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh gosh, oh, one more thing before
Speaker 2: we go. Who was the last time you wore a turtleneck?
Speaker 2: I think it's because of a romantic night? Wow, probably
Speaker 2: like nineteen ninety eight turn Neck recently. Yeah, wasn't they
Speaker 2: have a vampire night one night and someone had one
Speaker 2: on here?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 2: We did? Is that you? Yeah? Okay, well I.
Speaker 3: Were turtle next a lot.
Speaker 1: I have like a half one.
Speaker 2: I can't do this show in a turtle next.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this show is hard to do, this show.
Speaker 2: But other shows, like a podcast, so much easier, so
Speaker 2: much easier.
Speaker 1: Interesting.
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