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Speaker 2: I would be like, low, Ki, maybe a little mad

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Speaker 3: You're so right, that was not on the it's whoever

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a little little wax, like where do your loyalties lie?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Now, I've been running a small book club from a

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Speaker 1: university days with just a couple of lovely women, and

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Speaker 1: we gather in my home library.

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Speaker 4: Rich okay, rich flex I home?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, inviting your mid ex'es parents to your how.

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Speaker 4: And this is a guy talking about this is a

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Speaker 1: And we gather in my home library and talk about

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Speaker 1: books on witchy and historical fiction. We also talk about

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Speaker 4: Women are.

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Speaker 3: Like just the different things. Men doing it together versus women.

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Speaker 3: It is just amazing.

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Speaker 2: Sofia wants to start a book.

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Speaker 1: I was about to say witchy or what is witch

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Speaker 5: But I don't know. There's a lot of witchy books.

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Speaker 2: Which that mean I've never heard of that witches with

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Speaker 5: Witches the ones we burned.

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Speaker 4: That's a D and D vibes.

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Speaker 5: Right, Well, there's a lot of legends and lattes.

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Speaker 3: There's a whole lot of white people. I don't even

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Speaker 5: No, it's a it's a it's a family business.

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Speaker 4: Okay about these dragons and lat.

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Speaker 1: So Jim's mom, let's call her Amy, asked me last

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Speaker 4: Plants.

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Speaker 1: Uh, she thought it sounded great, and I said yes,

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Speaker 1: And I didn't think Jim would mind. Also, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: If you think Jim will mind, yep, Jim's hella good

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Speaker 3: Anytime you're here. I didn't think Blank was gonna mind. Yeah, yep,

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Speaker 1: So my ex's mom, Amy then joined one session and

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Speaker 1: Now the problem started there. I later learned that Jim's

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Speaker 5: That's not good if they're hanging out with his ex.

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Speaker 4: Still, oh, they're like.

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Speaker 2: So the parents are trying to get Jim and Op

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Speaker 1: I see Jim's dad thinks Beatrice has nothing in common

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Speaker 4: She's a boutique. By wait, Beatrice is the daughter.

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Speaker 2: Beatrice is Jim's new fiance. Yes, yeah, Beatrice is like

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Speaker 2: the new boothing of Jim. And then Jim's parents are

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Speaker 3: Lot of there's a lot going on. There's a lot

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Speaker 3: They're planting plants? I don't even know.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's like a book club where they talk

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Speaker 1: Plus, the reason I interacted less with my ex gym

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Speaker 1: Jim's parents think Beatrice is not right for their intellectual son.

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Speaker 2: So Beatrice dumb?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so hold on. So this girl is remarried.

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Speaker 2: Literally but married.

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Speaker 2: Jim is getting married, about to be married, about to

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Speaker 4: So they're both bowed up. But why is she concerned

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Speaker 1: Because it's because because the parents don't approve of their

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Speaker 4: He's getting married. He's already already married, so yeah, no

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Speaker 4: one's ever go divorced. No, he's a deafite white people.

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Speaker 4: He is so involved. Hold on, you can't.

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Speaker 3: Your daughter's already married and you're what courting her ex

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Speaker 2: Marriages end them?

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Speaker 5: Yeah and forever?

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Speaker 4: Oh oh, marriages?

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Speaker 3: Half your stuff to someone else that you're going to

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Speaker 3: stay with them forever. Is there something you want to

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Speaker 3: I'll leave it his dad. We'll let you run with

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Speaker 1: So apparently, at some family dinner, Jim's parents kept on

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Speaker 4: Oh man and Amy, uh my exes. Mom.

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Speaker 1: Amy had been talking about what books the book club

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Speaker 4: Read not just kidding me. Wait what that was me?

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Speaker 1: So my ex gym later called me and told me

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Speaker 3: So y'all know. They all look directly at me when

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Speaker 3: So I looked at Sam for hell was like he

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Speaker 1: And can't discuss these things with the outside world. Even

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Speaker 2: Is that gonna be it. It's not gonna be guys,

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Speaker 2: It's not gonna be it. These parents Oxy, I know

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Speaker 4: In like trying to end their their child's.

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Speaker 2: It's also I feel like they're way too late, you know,

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Speaker 4: But that's another question we got to answer it.

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Speaker 3: Like how involved should your parents be in your live

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Speaker 4: Very little.

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Speaker 2: They should give you advice, but they shouldn't be involved.

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Speaker 1: I don't think they should dictate anything you do. Just

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Speaker 2: And or they should just arrange everything, arrange marriage all

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Speaker 4: Some of my cousins back in Africa, right, but are

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Speaker 3: Well? One of them's got divorced this week this week. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: But and most of them work out.

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Speaker 3: Most of your arranged marriages actually work out, do you

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Speaker 2: Like what was that show that you always.

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Speaker 4: She will literally hook you up. It is. It is

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Speaker 4: Well? Do we have similar hobbies, interest, aspirations, all these things?

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Speaker 1: If we, dude, if we had Auntie Sema do matchmaking

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but by Beatrice is the one that made the

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Speaker 4: What back? Crazy? I was?

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Speaker 2: She did? She did air out the like Beatrice made

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Speaker 4: She made she made it public.

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Speaker 4: Am I a whole?

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Speaker 1: Well let's pause right here.

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Speaker 2: I think op is not the a hole, but setting

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Speaker 3: But let me ask you this because I agree with you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you're cordial with your ex.

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Speaker 3: Everything's cool, and her parents ask you, Hey, I'd love

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Speaker 4: Is that okay? How do you respond?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm trying to think if my ex's dad asks

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Speaker 4: Right, because I mean, it's kind of hard to just to

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Speaker 2: This philosophical debate thing. If my ex's dad asked to

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Speaker 5: What if he invited you, if he.

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Speaker 2: next to you know, you're yeah, that is true because

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Speaker 2: In semi Actually, this is what I would say. I

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Speaker 3: Or just say like hey, that's fine with me, but

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like that's a move because that's like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and I think that I think that's true,

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Speaker 3: Then it all feel too Yeah, and when it hits

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Speaker 3: But in the regardless of the matter, like the parents

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, but I think if I'm like to

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Speaker 2: I think the parents are the a hole for not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Opie's not an a hole. She just didn't

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Speaker 1: not the a hole. To be honest to such a degree,

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Speaker 1: Jim's parents don't like Jim's fiance. Sounds like a them problem,

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Speaker 4: To be honest, they need to grow up.

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Speaker 1: I'd be contemplating kicking her out of the book club

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Speaker 1: Ginger print seventy two says, not the a hole. Jim's

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Speaker 1: But none of this is because of you. Just stay

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Speaker 4: Yeah, OPI was.

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Speaker 1: Literally like innocent bystander here. I don't know why she Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Op is like nothing wrong. Wide Ordinary forty seventy eight says,

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Speaker 1: uh this comment right here, be a man and deal

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Speaker 1: trash bro Right there, he's calling the girl and yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's like, he's like, why are you letting her into

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's asking Op to fix everything that Like, I

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Speaker 2: Actually I didn't even want someone to be part of

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Speaker 4: Who asked they wanted into for me. Yeah, come on, well,

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Speaker 4: ladies and gentlemen, we got a juicy update juicy d

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Speaker 4: D days later. That's right, So, my god, not much

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Speaker 2: I don't believe that they always start.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but every time it says that not much has happened.

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Speaker 1: Everything has happened. Jim is dead. I murdered him. So

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Speaker 1: I hardly ever spoke to Jim and have no feelings

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Speaker 1: His parents were also very nice to me, and because

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like literally, they are friends with your husband's father.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So it's like you can't and they all live in

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Speaker 2: Also, this might be the product of a small town.

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Speaker 2: Likely if there's only so many people to have a

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Speaker 4: Real small town. Ten people. That's like saying, this room

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Speaker 2: Well but no, but like what if there's one hundred

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Speaker 3: So what you're doing back there bro zooming it on me?

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Speaker 3: Mid thought, charge John, they're just so close to fixing up.

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Speaker 4: God.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's small towns, true though there's not much else

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Speaker 2: So everyone's like, oh, it's like I don't know, what

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Speaker 4: Or break up, break up your son's relationship. That was

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Speaker 3: Over small towns push.

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Speaker 2: We we were we were doing interviews with some of

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Speaker 2: what they do is they just drive around in their car,

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Speaker 4: Damn.

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Speaker 3: I mean I went to high school in Wheeling, West

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Speaker 2: Sheets consume sofia.

446
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Speaker 3: That one works sheets is like it's like a gas

447
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Speaker 3: station that has like snacks.

448
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Speaker 4: Anyone that shot. No sheets, you.

449
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,119
Speaker 2: Hung out of the gas station, and I feel like,

450
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 2: tip it over a cow is way more fun to

451
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Speaker 2: hang out.

452
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Speaker 4: A gas bies. Yes, yeah, it's kind of like that.

453
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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, literally, bro in Florida, are you kidding me?

454
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Speaker 1: It's just like Walmart and McDonald's parking lots that is

455
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 1: like where people hang out the best hangs.

456
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Speaker 4: Literally, but you're right, tipping cows would be more lit.

457
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Speaker 6: I also realized I thought it was a thing, but

458
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Speaker 6: then I realized I was thinking about cars, you know

459
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Speaker 6: when they do like the cow to thing.

460
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Speaker 2: But oh yeah, where it's like the tractors. Wait what

461
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Speaker 2: Sophia is referencing one scene from the movie Cars, where

462
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Speaker 2: in a small town they tip over tractors that are

463
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Speaker 2: supposed to be anthropomorphic versions of cows or not anthropomorphic

464
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Speaker 2: but whatever that word is.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, car versions. Yeah, Okay, can you actually tip a cow?

466
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Speaker 4: Is that a thing?

467
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Speaker 2: Yeah?

468
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Speaker 3: If a cow is standing, you can just push it

469
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Speaker 3: and it tips over. They are like so heavy, they're

470
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Speaker 3: very heavy.

471
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Speaker 2: Would but you could do it?

472
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Speaker 4: No way?

473
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Speaker 2: And is that okay to do? No, it's me You're

474
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Speaker 2: trying to get me canceled. It's mean to tip over

475
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Speaker 2: a cow, Like, are they fine when they get tipped?

476
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Speaker 2: I think they can get back up? I don't know, dude,

477
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Speaker 2: you pull up a video of someone, can pull up

478
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Speaker 2: a video of someone push, We go and try. Then

479
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Speaker 2: he says, cow tipping breaks the cow's ribs.

480
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Speaker 4: That's why I've never done it, and when never will

481
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Speaker 4: do it. I stand behind it, behind that cow cow.

482
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Speaker 2: Pause.

483
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Speaker 3: Only tip cal forward, not behind the cow. Only tip

484
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Speaker 3: cows from the front because I care. Okay, let's get

485
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Speaker 3: back to the story.

486
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Speaker 1: I honestly didn't think that Amy was just asking to

487
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: be in my book club twice a month would make

488
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Speaker 1: things awkward, as we wouldn't be interacting outside the book

489
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Speaker 1: club or becoming friends.

490
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Speaker 4: Asked for my husband.

491
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Speaker 1: Well, he is mad about how Jim's parents have used

492
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Speaker 1: my club to take a dump on his fiance, but

493
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Speaker 1: he's madder about how Beatrice took a dig.

494
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Speaker 4: At me when she didn't even know the situation.

495
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Speaker 1: I later apologized to father in law for dragging him

496
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Speaker 1: into this, and he said that he had decided to

497
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Speaker 1: end his friendship with Amy my exes mom, so he's

498
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Speaker 1: closing it down, which kind of makes sense. Honestly, Uh,

499
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Speaker 1: the exes mom, so her current father in law is

500
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 1: no longer friends with her exes mom. Okay, yeah, I

501
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,679
Speaker 1: called Jim up, told him blaming me for his family's

502
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Speaker 1: behavior was unacceptable, and said I would not communicate with

503
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Speaker 1: him any.

504
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Speaker 4: Further about this.

505
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 1: I have been more than gracious and honestly, some of

506
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 1: the comments were right To ask me why I was

507
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Speaker 1: still taking take that, Jim, I guess I need a

508
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Speaker 1: wake up call.

509
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Speaker 4: To stop being polite to my ex and his family.

510
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Speaker 1: Jim surprisingly apologized for blaming me and passed the phone

511
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Speaker 1: to Beatrice.

512
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Speaker 4: Uh oh, that's the ops.

513
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Speaker 3: Oh okay, So Beatrice and opre on the phone at

514
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Speaker 3: this point.

515
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Speaker 4: Yes, they just got on the phone. Okay.

516
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:36,199
Speaker 1: So Beatrice surprised me more as she started by apologizing

517
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Speaker 1: to me for the post and admitted that was uncalled for. Also,

518
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Speaker 1: I got my husband on board for the call too. Dude,

519
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:45,639
Speaker 1: what you get in the whole talent on the phone needed?

520
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 4: Though?

521
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 2: There's so much like discord.

522
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 4: We gotta work it out. We gotta work it out.

523
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Speaker 1: This might be the answer, And he asked her why

524
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Speaker 1: she was taking digs at me when she didn't even

525
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Speaker 1: know me. Because they didn't know each other, Beatrice didn't

526
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Speaker 1: reply of that, and Jim took over the phone and

527
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 1: apologized to both of us about the call locked him.

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00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 4: Wait what yeah, yeah, that's right. You apologize to me.

529
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 4: That's right. Click block, that's right. Did you talk to me?

530
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Speaker 2: I did not see that this was where it was

531
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Speaker 2: going to go because I thought it was gonna be

532
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:21,640
Speaker 2: like are they apologized?

533
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Speaker 4: Then?

534
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, No, it's totally fine, and everyone

535
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 2: kumbayas and it's a great time.

536
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Speaker 4: But no, but it's you. I run this book club.

537
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Speaker 1: Okay, who else runs a book Oh.

538
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 4: It's only me. Yeah, I'm running this. Get off of me.

539
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

540
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Speaker 3: I didn't know if there's gonna be a healthy ending,

541
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 3: but I did think it's gonna be a conversation.

542
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Speaker 1: They went healthy, everyone's reversed. One person is healthy and

543
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Speaker 1: one person is toxic.

544
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Speaker 4: Bam.

545
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 1: They're just like playing, you're gonna go healthy and toxic, dude.

546
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 1: So I also wanted to get this over in one setting,

547
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: so I called Amy, the ex's mom, and told her

548
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 1: that it might be in her best interest not to

549
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 1: come in, not to come into my book club, as

550
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: it was causing problems in her family. True, albeit very

551
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 1: politely sorry. The Asian in me cannot bring herself to

552
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: be rude to elders no matter what. Amy took it

553
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,919
Speaker 1: in stride and admitted that dragging me into this was

554
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: not acceptable. Everyone's kind of seeing reason.

555
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 4: Now.

556
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 2: I think we're getting we're getting out of this hole.

557
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: She said she would miss my friendship, but she understood

558
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: if I didn't want to be dragged into her family's affairs.

559
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: She then started a rant about how shallow her son's

560
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: choice of a woman was and whatnot, and tried to

561
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Speaker 1: explain the situation.

562
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 4: So pissed.

563
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 2: But I mean, I mean, like Beatrice is probably hot,

564
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 2: oh like physically yeah.

565
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 4: Oh, I don't look dumb. True. Other women are only

566
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 4: not ugly. Oh that's we look at it. That's anytime

567
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 4: like uh Sam's oh oh she's not ugly. That is true.

568
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 2: John says that I am.

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Speaker 4: I am consistent. That's smart. Check my record, yeah clean, right.

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00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 1: So but I was done with it, So I excuse

571
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: myself and cut the call again.

572
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 4: Boom, you think you could talk to me? Why is

573
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 4: she on? Bro? They to cancel her fucking phone plan.

574
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 4: I wrot this.

575
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: Town, Okay, I run these books, I run this town.

576
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: I run it all Okay, you gotta come through me,

577
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: you gotta check in with me.

578
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 4: Okay. Oh.

579
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,880
Speaker 1: My god father in law then told me that Beatrice

580
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,360
Speaker 1: had taken down the posts.

581
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 2: Okay, that's progress, but he was pissed.

582
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: So my father in law had already made another post

583
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: tagging Jim and his family.

584
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:51,719
Speaker 4: We're back. We're back, ladies and gentlemen.

585
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 2: I thought this would wind down.

586
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 3: They're just going back on Facebook over the phone.

587
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 1: Everyone fully just wore in the open on how they

588
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: didn't know how to keep it in the family. You

589
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: want to talk, you're literally doing the same thing, and

590
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: we're certainly not as classy as they seem to be

591
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: if they were slandering other people on Facebook. You're literally

592
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,880
Speaker 1: doing the same thing. What are you talking about? Needless

593
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 1: to say, it was a tiring evening.

594
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 2: It's tiring to listen to.

595
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 4: I guess that would be it. We guess that would

596
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 4: be all. You think it's over.

597
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 1: Remember hey, remember when she said, oh, there isn't much

598
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: update said yeah, yeah, you remember.

599
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 4: This is two days later. This is just two days later.

600
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 4: This happened.

601
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 2: It's always such bullshit with people are not much.

602
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 3: War. That also tells you that their level of like stress,

603
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 3: like I knew, No, it's not much to update. Then,

604
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 3: what the fuck in your life is a crazy update?

605
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 4: Dude?

606
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 1: It would just want to know now that forgive me anxiety.

607
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 4: Oh my goodness. So I love how you read this

608
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 4: story with some passion. I'm a passionate person. I love it.

609
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: You're not involved, You're like talking back to them. Yes, so,

610
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: I guess that would be it. From what little I

611
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: gathered from Amy's rants, Beatrice was insecure.

612
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 4: That's fun.

613
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: Most people in Jim circle thought of her as the

614
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: affair partner and did not respect her.

615
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 4: Oh maybe she was back to our original theory.

616
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: Plus, she was always self conscious that Jim was more

617
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: well read than her, And I guess that Amy, my

618
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: ex'es mom, Jim's mom mentioned me, triggering some old insecurity

619
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Speaker 1: in her.

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00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 2: Damn. Why is everyone in this town so focused on books?

621
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 3: To be like, it's a bunch of intellectual people doing

622
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 3: a lot of dumb shit.

623
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Like what when you're book smart, you're not

624
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 4: like it's or whatever.

625
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so he's more well read than she's.

626
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 2: Like, well, okay, books aren't everything.

627
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

628
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 3: Literally, one of the time you reach a YouTube video high school.

629
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 3: Now the only book I've actually read. I read the

630
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 3: Harry Potter book when I was younger, but in school

631
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 3: I read half to Kill a Mockingbird half of That's

632
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 3: the most I've ever like physically read a book.

633
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 2: I spark noted every book sparks.

634
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 5: No spark notes, no, no, no, no lit charts. That's where it's at.

635
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: I don't know what that is.

636
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 4: Better sparks for people who can read.

637
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I actually read read. She read reads like

638
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 2: she's like has her nose in a book most days.

639
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, but maybe that was our generation sparks.

640
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 2: I think there's spark notes. There's cliff notes for me.

641
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 2: What dude, Yahoo answers, that's the thing that my driver's

642
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 2: test with yaho answers joking, Florida.

643
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Speaker 4: What about quiz? You guys have quizler?

644
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 3: I was.

645
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:45,719
Speaker 6: I had so many quizzlet like flashcard things, quiz famous

646
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Speaker 6: at my high school.

647
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 4: Really yeah, I use your you know.

648
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Speaker 6: I had two people I remember in like major and

649
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 6: my high school. I had these two like freshman girls

650
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 6: walk past me. Not I didn't know them. They weren't

651
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Speaker 6: talking to me, and they were like, oh my god,

652
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Speaker 6: did you use essay Donner's quiz lit her for uh

653
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 6: gov or whatever, and I was.

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00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 4: Like, Wow, that's me. You're like the underground quisling, Like wow,

655
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 4: this is my time.

656
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 2: I loved Yeah, really all the pop quizzes and most

657
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 2: of them came from Quizleteah.

658
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 5: But now quizzle is like money thing.

659
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 4: Wow, they sold out. Tragic. I didn't know her then

660
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 4: and I don't know her now.

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00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: I am very happily married, and I haven't really thought

662
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: about them in these years before all of this drama. Hopefully,

663
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 1: hopefully this is the end of it, so I won't

664
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Speaker 1: be updating anymore.

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Speaker 4: Is an update?

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Speaker 1: No, yes, yes, but we do have two quick roll

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Speaker 1: of comics clothes. It's out Classic Step eighty two oh

668
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Speaker 1: seven cents. Thank you for the update. I hope you

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Speaker 1: have peace now. I don't think this town has or

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Speaker 1: ever will have peace. And then, Cynthia G. Brady says,

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Speaker 1: cutting tides with drama and toxicity takes strength. Kudos for

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Speaker 1: prioritizing your peace and standing firm in your boundaries.

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Speaker 3: My comment would be congratulations or sorry that happened to you,

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Speaker 3: whichever applies.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, to whom it may concern, sorry slash congratulations.

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Speaker 2: Long, but I feel like the follow at the end

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Speaker 2: of like people like coming out of the woodwork and

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Speaker 2: just saying awful things in a public forum like that

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Speaker 2: just made it. Yeah, it just like it almost was

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Speaker 2: dying down and then it was all reignited by all

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Speaker 2: those things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's let's answer the question. Can you maintain

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Speaker 1: a relationship with an ex after you break up?

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Speaker 2: You can, but the whole town might crucify you.

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Speaker 4: Also, like there's your ex and your ex's parents. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: like now you know what I mean, that's like what

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Speaker 4: this really was.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, taking it public, I think is just a bad idea,

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Speaker 3: regardless of any any family problem.

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Speaker 4: Why are you on Facebook? Like why do you need

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Speaker 4: to go over you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: But have you ever known someone that's like done something

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Speaker 1: that is like so crazy to air out things like

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Speaker 1: that on like Facebook or Instagram or something, I mean

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Speaker 1: other than celebrities, know, right.

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Speaker 5: Like on Facebook?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like on.

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Speaker 4: The internet, like on Twitter.

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Speaker 3: You know, rap beefs Like it's I think it's hilarious

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Speaker 3: that like gangster rappers the way they beef is like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna write this poem about you.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna read you my poetry show you how real tough.

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Speaker 3: I am, yeah, that is I read I'm release it.

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Speaker 4: He said this about me.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, I'm let me get my pen in a

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Speaker 3: note pet Yeah, roses are read right, it's a blue

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Speaker 3: I hate you, you know, it's like, but that's just

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Speaker 3: how we are. But if you're not famous, Like, why

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Speaker 3: do you think people would care to read all that?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. It's yeah, low key, it is like

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Speaker 4: pretty egotistical. Let me yeah.

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Speaker 2: Also unpopular opinion. But I was watching straight out of

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Speaker 2: the Compton and I feel like it's going I feel

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Speaker 2: like the differences between n w A and in Sync

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Speaker 2: are not massive in terms of they're both boy bands.

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Speaker 3: Except maybe one had a little bit of an easier

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Speaker 3: time than the other.

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Speaker 2: But in terms of the terms of in terms of

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Speaker 2: the construction.

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Speaker 3: Format privilege going up in the nineties fighting oppression band

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Speaker 3: and in Sync, and to me, they're about the same

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Speaker 3: in terms of format.

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Speaker 2: In terms of format music both the music differently, but

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Speaker 2: in terms of format, it's a bunch of guys taking

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Speaker 2: their time on the stage and like and like saying

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Speaker 2: their thing.

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Speaker 1: Justin Timberlake, uh ak forty seven, it is a tool.

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Speaker 1: Don't make me act a motherfucking fool. Of course the

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Speaker 1: JT's classic line.

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Speaker 3: Dude, like, I want to just for the record, wholeheartedly disagree,

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Speaker 3: carry on, just for anybody watching out to make sure

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Speaker 3: I disagree with the statement it, but I respect the

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Speaker 3: opinion honestly, dude, Sam, Sam says what's on his mind.

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Speaker 1: You can never not say this man does not share

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Speaker 1: exactly what is going on.

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Speaker 4: And it's funny because I see where you're coming from.

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Speaker 3: At face value, makes sense.

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Speaker 4: What do you think about it? But just two minutes

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Speaker 4: you're like, I don't know. They are boys in a

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Speaker 4: mutiful group. Yes, and that's they all.

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Speaker 2: They take turns singing about what's on their mind.

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Speaker 4: Yes, in that sense they are the same.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're a group of men who sing songs together.

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Speaker 3: Or yeah, yeah, well they're like their boy band. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I agree with that. They're both they're both boy bands.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to take you down this road with me.

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Speaker 3: It's not safe. But wait, how does that relate to

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Speaker 3: the who we're talking about.

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Speaker 2: We were talking about we're talking about rappers and how

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Speaker 2: they're just like writing poetry and it's just poems to

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Speaker 2: each other. And I'm like, yeah, you know what, and

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Speaker 2: they're just all boy bands.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to decide if I want to entertainer or

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Speaker 3: let y'all sit in the awkward silence. I can't make

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Speaker 3: up my mind. I'm like, I just let them sit

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Speaker 3: in that, I guess. But that's one way to, like,

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Speaker 3: I guess, deal with beef.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 3: It's like that's how musicians do it. Actors sometimes go

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Speaker 3: on li like TMZ beef. Yeah, they talk to the paparazzi.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you live.

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Speaker 3: In fucking Schenectady, like, shut the fuck ups, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, just just call your friends and

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Speaker 3: don't hang up on them and deal with it.

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Speaker 1: Going on Facebook is not going to solve anything nothing.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna make everything worse. If anything, it would be

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Speaker 1: better to just like go no contact, yeah, and just

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Speaker 1: move on with your life.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, give them.

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Speaker 3: So.

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Speaker 2: I think it's like you can be friends with your

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Speaker 2: ex and your exes family, Yes, but be prepared for

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Speaker 2: their potentially to be more drama as a result. And

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Speaker 2: if drama ensuites, don't air it out in public because

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Speaker 2: it will just be get more drama.

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Speaker 4: You can't do it.

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Speaker 3: This consequences to everything you can. You can do whatever this.

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Speaker 3: This is my philosophy. You can do whatever you want

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Speaker 3: in this life as long as you're willing to deal

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Speaker 3: with a comment.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: You can do anything you can hear any fucking date, whoever,

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Speaker 3: bring up with whoever.

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Speaker 4: I could punch John in the face right now.

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Speaker 3: I can do what as a boy band you can compare.

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Speaker 4: It's sick in nw A. You can do anything you

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Speaker 4: want as long as you're willing to deal with the consequences.

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Speaker 3: So if you're wanting to deal with the consequences of

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Speaker 3: your ex's parents joining your book club, then.

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Speaker 4: Do you boo boo. Also, I don't know if they know.

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Speaker 3: I want you guys to know how hard these people

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Speaker 3: work to bring all everything they do. They have three

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Speaker 3: cameras in here, and all three cameras have ice packs

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Speaker 3: on top, Like I don't.

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Speaker 4: Know, I don't know what y'all have been told.

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Speaker 3: There's I'm looking at three cameras and there's ice packs

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Speaker 3: on the cameras to keep the camera cool.

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Speaker 4: Even our cameras are working hard.

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Speaker 3: Like, I just want you to know what they're the

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Speaker 3: extent they're going to to bring y'all. Whatever they're bringing y'all,

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Speaker 3: that's right. There's a mirror next to me with numbers

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Speaker 3: and dollars signs on the I don't know what's going

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Speaker 3: on here, but I know people are working hard.

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Speaker 4: That's I just want to say that it.

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Speaker 3: Looks the framing looks like they got their life together.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if they're they're fine to bring out

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Speaker 3: good comment.

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Speaker 4: I'm say that I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Trying our best. If you love us, make sure to

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Speaker 2: subscribe we love

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Speaker 4: You, and see