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Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because

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Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are hont.

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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to another episode of the Blackouts podcast. I'm

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Speaker 2: your host, Rod joined is always with my cost and

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Speaker 2: we're live on a Sunday. We survived the Sunday morning

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Speaker 2: black Twitter gender wars to be here.

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Speaker 3: With you shit with it. I'm glad. I'm glad that

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Speaker 3: I watched animate this morning.

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Speaker 4: There.

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Speaker 2: You know, what I noticed is that every Sunday morning,

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Speaker 2: you know, those videos that are obviously fake videos, but

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Speaker 2: it's like couples arguing people. It only breaks down to

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Speaker 2: like a man did something terrible, but a woman kind

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Speaker 2: of did something terrible and they and it's over the

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Speaker 2: line for everybody, and then everybody reacts to it. Those

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Speaker 2: videos almost always come up on like a Sunday morning.

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Speaker 3: Of course, you know why because there's nothing else to do.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, like I was, and like for me, I

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Speaker 2: recognize them as fake immediately now, and I think, you know,

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Speaker 2: and I judge the people that don't recognize it's fake,

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Speaker 2: it will be an honest and for.

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Speaker 3: Some people, every single solitary.

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Speaker 5: Because it really is is what does it say about you?

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Speaker 2: And what it says is like you would like to

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Speaker 2: be upset about something, so uh so of course here

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Speaker 2: you go with some bullshit.

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Speaker 5: It's like, oh, I cannot be upset.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: I want to share the video with y'all, so y'all

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Speaker 2: can see how obviously fake it is. But we're messing

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Speaker 2: with crowdcast, so I have to like see what the

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Speaker 2: new new way of sharing stuff. I don't know how

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Speaker 2: to share my screen or share something. There we go

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Speaker 2: screen boom, okay, So then I select this and then

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Speaker 2: y'all let me know if this is gonna work. Boom,

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Speaker 2: and then y'all let me know if you can hear

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Speaker 2: the south.

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Speaker 5: So are you seeing it on your side? Karen, what

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Speaker 5: I'm saying?

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Speaker 3: I'm seeing it?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Now I'm here play on the sound.

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Speaker 2: Just as dude went off on woman after finding out

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Speaker 2: he's not biological father of his eleven year old son,

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Speaker 2: shaking my head, she lied to him for eleven years.

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Speaker 2: This is from Shannon Sharp's Burner parody account.

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Speaker 5: Uh, what's up is while you've been lying for eleven

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Speaker 5: years telling me that DJ is my real son.

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Speaker 2: Now he got the camera point pointed at his you know,

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Speaker 2: underneath his like neck or whatever. He starts with a

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Speaker 2: complete sentence of of you've been lied, Like it's it's

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Speaker 2: such a setup to me, it's like you're starting with

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Speaker 2: the thesis statement of the of the of the sketch,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like, what's up is how

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Speaker 2: you've been lying to me saying that DJ is my

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Speaker 2: real son. Why you've been lying saying that he's not

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Speaker 2: my son?

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Speaker 5: Let me see the DNA you don't need to see.

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Speaker 3: It's sound like shit. Right, there's some of y'all jam.

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Speaker 2: And like you don't see the woman here. But I

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Speaker 2: mean the thing some of them this morning was saying, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, they think a lot of this stuff is

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Speaker 2: just people trying to capitalize on massage noir, you know,

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Speaker 2: misogyny directed towards black women. And I agree it is,

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Speaker 2: you know, many times, but the black women are in

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Speaker 2: on it in the sketch, and then often the man

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Speaker 2: is made to look bad and foolish too, so like

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Speaker 2: it's it's it's like it's capitalizing.

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Speaker 5: On the fight more than just like one direction.

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Speaker 2: You know, some of them are one direction where it's

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Speaker 2: like women bitches be tripping man.

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Speaker 5: But then some of them are like you know, like

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Speaker 5: the dudes that don't want to.

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Speaker 2: Pay child support or something. It's like, well, clearly that's

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Speaker 2: not about making black women look bad.

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Speaker 5: Only a black man will.

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Speaker 2: Look bad saying some stupid ass shit like I don't

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Speaker 2: want to pay child support because y'all knew I wasn't

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Speaker 2: ship when you got me.

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Speaker 5: But then they shot.

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Speaker 2: But people share it and then it What the real

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Speaker 2: thing is the confirmation bias that we're better than these people.

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Speaker 2: So all of us want to believe that these are

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Speaker 2: people out here recording themselves, putting it out to the

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Speaker 2: internet as if they don't know the judgment's gonna come

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Speaker 2: back and where and we go, Yeah, I'm a good man.

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Speaker 2: I would raise my kids.

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Speaker 5: Like what Nigga supposed to.

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Speaker 2: I would never lie and say it was somebody else baby, Like, okay, congrats.

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Speaker 5: For eleven years.

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Speaker 6: Why would you do that to me?

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Speaker 5: You are a lie.

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Speaker 3: You have been lying to me for eleven years, having

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Speaker 3: me believe that my son I've been raised it for

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Speaker 3: eleven years, is.

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Speaker 5: Not really my son? Like how could you do that

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Speaker 5: to me?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 5: What what can you say for yourself? Right now?

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Speaker 4: What made you?

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Speaker 5: Because I went through your phone?

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Speaker 2: I'm just waiting nothing to be like line please ha

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Speaker 2: and cut at the end of the scene.

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Speaker 3: All right, I got a few not do a little

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Speaker 3: bit of a little bit more emotions.

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Speaker 5: So that was one of them. Uh, okay, I can

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Speaker 5: hit stop sharing here do that? Did that work? Okay?

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Speaker 3: I think it is. So that was one of them,

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Speaker 3: and I think it don't matter. But just so you know,

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Speaker 3: I think you're under my account.

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Speaker 5: Just so you know I'm under your account when I

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Speaker 5: share it.

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Speaker 3: Or yes, I seen my name, so I was like,

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Speaker 3: he might be, because remember I was on the computer before,

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Speaker 3: so it might be.

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Speaker 5: But I walked in me on crowdcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it says the black ou tips it's my picture

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Speaker 2: up here in the top right corner.

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Speaker 5: No problem, okay. But anyway, and then that was one

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Speaker 5: of them to me. Obviously fake. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I know a lot of people want to believe in

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Speaker 2: that because they want the drama. It's like reality. It's

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Speaker 2: like how people want to believe everything that happens on

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Speaker 2: reality TV must be real because then your judgment of

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Speaker 2: it gets to be real and you don't feel foolish

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Speaker 2: for being like invested in a fake story. But a

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Speaker 2: lot of times it is fake, and in this case.

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Speaker 2: This is like a lesser version of that. Here's another

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Speaker 2: one I saw. I thought this one was also tremendously fake,

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Speaker 2: and the main thing that made me realize this is fake.

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Speaker 2: This ship was like part six of X amount of parts.

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Speaker 2: So you've been recording this.

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Speaker 3: Ship part six? What's his?

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Speaker 2: Is this exactly? So this is this is the caption.

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Speaker 2: Men really be babies. Yes, I would be upset, but

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Speaker 2: it's never this deep. She packed her things and got

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Speaker 2: the hell out as sp It's a girl the girlfriend

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Speaker 2: of Elite's boyfriend's NBA two K overall players part six.

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Speaker 2: He is done with her part six, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Like and in scene and yes, more emotion next time,

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Speaker 3: all right, prop people, all right, exchange it out, all right,

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Speaker 3: come speak the floor, all right?

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Speaker 2: And five four three two like you didn't read about

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Speaker 2: this in the paper. There was no police report for

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Speaker 2: domestic violence or assault or cops getting called out to

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Speaker 2: hear any that music.

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Speaker 5: This immaculate mansion size house.

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Speaker 3: With no something y'all Airbnb or in it.

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Speaker 2: No signs of life in it in any other way,

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Speaker 2: you didn't gonna have closing around.

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Speaker 5: I have nothing on the right.

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Speaker 3: Everybody, all right, everybody, everybody be quiet, and I need

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Speaker 3: to sound air. Be quiet.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And actually it just happens to have perfectly situated stuff.

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Speaker 2: The only stuff sitting around is stuff sitting on the

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Speaker 2: table for him to slam down, right.

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Speaker 3: Ain't no pictures on the wall. It was like nobody

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Speaker 3: lives there. They rented this shit.

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Speaker 2: Out and like someone told me they think it might

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Speaker 2: even be an old video because they were saying that apparently,

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Speaker 2: uh this this.

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Speaker 5: Was a trend on uh like YouTube.

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Speaker 2: Couples were doing this a while ago, like a couple

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Speaker 2: of years ago, where they would be like I deleted

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Speaker 2: my man's Madden Saves and he lost his whole thing,

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Speaker 2: and then they would film the reaction and they would

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Speaker 2: always be like, oh, look at how fucked up these

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Speaker 2: people are. And so another thing I see too When

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Speaker 2: I would go on like my Facebook reels, peop will

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Speaker 2: often like repeat premises and just repeat jokes like completely

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Speaker 2: still the joke Like I seen one where there's like

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Speaker 2: a white dude who used a filter to make his

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Speaker 2: face look like a rat, and it was like, you

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Speaker 2: know pov rats when you leave poisoned cheese out.

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Speaker 5: Of something, ah, And it was like that's hilarious.

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Speaker 2: But what's crazy is like I saw it the first time.

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Speaker 2: When I laughed, I thought, man, that's funny, that's original.

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Speaker 2: I saw something the next day. It was a black dude,

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Speaker 2: same filter, saying the exact same lines. Like I don't

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Speaker 2: those lip sync things where they're just repeating somebody else

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Speaker 2: or what, but it was just like, oh, now it's

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Speaker 2: clearly you didn't create and clearly like one of y'all

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Speaker 2: line at least, if not both. And so what I'm

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Speaker 2: saying is like the incentive to fake it and make

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Speaker 2: so how that you will see somebody do some shit

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Speaker 2: he walked out and punched his car.

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Speaker 5: I gotta escalate it.

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Speaker 2: I gotta slim a PlayStation five on the ground and

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Speaker 2: then throw a chair through the wall.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got I gotta one up. This is why

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Speaker 3: I like the hello mister George shit because it's just

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Speaker 3: a dude telling Hello mister George and like, wow, shit

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Speaker 3: is happening. I mean, like, no matter who does that

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Speaker 3: it's gonna quote unquote be the same.

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Speaker 5: Right, So it's just I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It just seemed like every Sunday morning some shit like

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Speaker 2: this pop off, and it really made me think like damn,

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Speaker 2: Like it's crazy, like people are legitimately invested in.

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Speaker 5: Making sure that this content goes viral.

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Speaker 2: And by by like dunking on it like they do.

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Speaker 2: I don't even think they know that they're part of

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Speaker 2: the equation on this shit, right, you know, to them,

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Speaker 2: it's just like, oh I saw a video man men

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Speaker 2: or babies or women be lying.

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Speaker 5: About having kids.

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Speaker 2: It's like, are you fucking stupid? You don't see this

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Speaker 2: is a setup? Right, They just happen to.

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Speaker 3: Have a camera on.

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Speaker 2: Like I've seen videos too sometimes where it's like somebody

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Speaker 2: will do something like stop at an intersection in front

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Speaker 2: of a crosswalk and then like the pedestrian literally steps

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Speaker 2: They stepped inside of the car, walked over top of

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Speaker 2: people was like, yeah, man, see I would have did this.

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Speaker 2: I would have did that, And I was like, Nigga's

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Speaker 2: fake them. People know each other clearly, and the person

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Speaker 2: filming it too. They just happen to pull their phone

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Speaker 2: out and start filming. They caught that spectacular moment and

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Speaker 5: All right.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it guys, Hulu, it's creating a documentary

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Speaker 2: about Atlanta's Freaknik.

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Speaker 5: Freaknik.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just feel like it's a lot of church

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Speaker 2: The documentary is called Freaknick The Wildest Party Never Told.

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Speaker 3: I was just young enough to miss that phase, like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, ninety four ninety five was when it was at

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Speaker 3: Started changing all the rules shit to get that ship

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Speaker 2: some of y'all church aunties, Uh, pictures in the Daisy Dukes.

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Speaker 3: Come on, some of y'all say, Sancty five, hold the

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Speaker 5: But yeah.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, some of y'all might see some people that

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Speaker 2: True, some of y'all know, and y'all know what the

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Speaker 2: clock is chicken. Okay, go ahead, come clean, free up,

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Speaker 5: Jesus forgives. Okay, tell everybody what you was out here doing.

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Speaker 5: You know you used to be freaking on Saturday night

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Speaker 5: That's all I saying.

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Speaker 5: Justice Clarence Thomas says he didn't have to disclose luxury trips.

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Speaker 3: Get the fuck out of here.

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Speaker 2: So this niggas getting luxury trips from a billionaire. Him

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Speaker 3: And collect goddamn megadna. He and a regular ass donor.

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Speaker 3: He a megad big money.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and he happens to also collect Nazi member Billia.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, personal collection not on display. You can't walk and

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Speaker 3: see it. And it's only one side of the collection too.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, who the fuck? Yeah they never collected Jewish side,

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Speaker 2: First of all, Clarence Thomas is like, this is my friend,

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Speaker 2: You never had a friend give you five hundred thousand

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Speaker 5: They don't get that rich by giving.

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Speaker 2: Show me the other people he's given five hundred thousand

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Speaker 3: Bucks the investments, because that to them, that's an investment.

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Speaker 2: Secondly, you got fucking disclosure rules for every other level

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Speaker 2: So that's that bullshit, because he knows if he was

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Speaker 2: does that. His wife is responsible for the insurrection in

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Speaker 3: Anybody else that had been like, no, nigga, you need

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Speaker 3: And guess what, there's some documentation paperwork like it's some

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I mean, honestly, I think all the judges that

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Speaker 2: They already have certain loopholes that they're allowed to do,

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Speaker 5: This shit like this is partially it's like we should

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Speaker 2: You know, because it would make sense if you were

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Speaker 2: probably you know, ruling the favor of the people that

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Speaker 5: I agreed, But yet people like.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy, like listen to go listen to sisters in

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Speaker 2: Law podcasts. It's hashtag sisters in Law. Go listen to

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Speaker 2: that podcast, not this week. I'm sure they talked about

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Speaker 5: You bought my coffee. Oh you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 5: I gotta go report to somebody.

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Speaker 3: This nigga knew.

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Speaker 5: So why it's been hush hushed?

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Speaker 2: He not flexing on these trips, right, So yeah, Supreme

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Speaker 3: Right, I'm surprised they didn't put a cap on that,

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Speaker 5: All right, let's get into some more news.

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Speaker 2: Marquise Houston. Then that's how you pronounce it, Marquise Houston

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Speaker 2: has been cued in the hot seats since multi reports

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Speaker 2: they waited a year. You gotta respect that. Me and

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Speaker 5: You know she was of age.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's interesting because like mutual friends with a seventeen

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Speaker 5: Who rolling them circles? You know, like y'all been.

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Speaker 3: Kicking it as people don't even want to hang around

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Speaker 2: You ever been kicking it as a forty year old

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Speaker 5: You know, you know how that go.

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Speaker 3: You know how that go. Everybody loves and hang around

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Speaker 2: Olds, said, people don't understand it. I got a lot

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Speaker 3: What was y'all talking about? Y'all look two different girl?

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Speaker 3: You remember when I had my page.

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Speaker 5: Maybe they be young your heart? You know, maybe he

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: And CD in what's the CD?

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Speaker 2: And I feel like that's the most important thing. We

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: As long as y'all both got God. I mean, you

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Speaker 2: Here's what I will say though, because I always run

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Speaker 5: One the longevity.

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Speaker 2: If you really do stay together, most of the time

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Speaker 5: Now that's not to say that.

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Speaker 3: Regardless, some of you motherfuckers be beating each other and shit,

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Speaker 2: You go to a comedy club and they say, who

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but that's number one. Longevity seems to

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Speaker 2: We a family. Everybody's a consenting a dope, ain't nobody.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to like it, but I'm going to

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00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 2: continue to be a public person and this is what

445
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: I have to say about it.

446
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:43,360
Speaker 5: So that's one thing. The second thing, too, is and I.

447
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 2: Really don't know what to do with this, because it's

448
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 2: like we at the same time want to empower especially

449
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 2: young women to like live their sexual agency with no judgments.

450
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: We want to say, Stott Lee, you know when it's

451
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,199
Speaker 2: Chloe Bailey or something. Everybody's like, shit, the fuck up

452
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 2: and she wants to show her ass it ain't got

453
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 2: nothing to do with you.

454
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 5: That's that's her life. If she want to fuck niggas

455
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 5: all the time, that's her life. It ain't got And

456
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 5: I agree with that shit. I have chosen. I don't

457
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,439
Speaker 5: say shit. I don't really give.

458
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 2: A fucking let's it's not consenting adults. I don't have

459
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 2: anything saying. So if somebody is nineteen and decides to

460
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 2: marry a forty something year old, and then these motherfuckers

461
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 2: be together and they be happy or whatever the fuck,

462
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 2: or even if they be together and eventually fizzles out,

463
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 2: which you know, grown up relationships you know with forty

464
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 2: year olds.

465
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Speaker 5: Do that shit all the time.

466
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 2: I don't be knowing what to say, to be honest, like,

467
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 2: I like I honestly like I think there's no explanation

468
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 2: that will ever sound good on the older person's part.

469
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 2: But like when it even when it was like Jada

470
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 2: fucking her son's friend, it just I just don't be

471
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 2: knowing what to say because the person is grown technically,

472
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 2: and then I don't don't I don't feel comfortable, like

473
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 2: damning these people because you can't damn them without kind

474
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 2: of infantilizing the other person. And we've seen it happen

475
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 2: all the way up to the ages of like twenty

476
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 2: five thirty year old, especially for women, where it's like

477
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,239
Speaker 2: no matter what, like it could be a thirty year

478
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 2: old woman, but if she's dating a sixty year old

479
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 2: man with like how oh, he must be taking advantage

480
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 2: of her.

481
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 5: And I'm like, I don't.

482
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 2: Maybe she cashed in that thirty year old body for

483
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:27,880
Speaker 2: sixty year old dollars.

484
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 5: Yeah.

485
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Speaker 3: And on top of that, I think it's most people

486
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 3: to an extent, have their own biases, and when you

487
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 3: get older, you know how immature people are at that age.

488
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 3: And so I think for a lot of people, they're

489
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 3: gonna with shit, nigga, I will mature. I know they're

490
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 3: not mature, Like it's more going on to this happening.

491
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 3: But at the same time, it's one of those things

492
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 3: where regardless of how quote uncros gross or disgust that

493
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 3: you might feel or something you will not allowed to

494
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 3: happen in your household or maybe with your own child,

495
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 3: they do have a lot that says, Okay, this is

496
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 3: the age because you know, the age isn't I'm grown

497
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 3: at twenty five by law. The age in most instances

498
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 3: is I'm grown at eighteen, and so when somebody turns eighteen,

499
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 3: they are legally free to do what the fuck they.

500
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Speaker 5: Want to do.

501
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 3: You might not agree, you might not like it, blah

502
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,719
Speaker 3: blah Blaoh no, I wasn't mature, and most of us

503
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 3: were not mature or grown and could still be manipulative

504
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 3: and shit at that age. But at the same time,

505
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,959
Speaker 3: it's like a catch twenty two, you know, to it.

506
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 3: You know, what do you do? You need to up

507
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 3: the age of being grown, you know, wish They're not

508
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 3: gonna do so unless you say being grown as twenty five,

509
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 3: You know, what do you do other than just be like, Okay,

510
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 3: I think it's disgusting, but it is what it is.

511
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

512
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Speaker 2: I think that's where I'm at correct because I've really

513
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 2: and honestly, to some extent, I don't even really like

514
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 2: passing the judgment. But I kind of can't help myself

515
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 2: where I'm like, that don't seem right because I know

516
00:26:56,680 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 2: it doesn't really line up with my belief system, which is, hey, man,

517
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 2: if somebody's twenty three and they want to date somebody

518
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 2: that's fucking seventy. If they happy, I really don't give

519
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 2: a fuck. Like, you know, it's like they're allowed to

520
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 2: make that decision. I don't have to support it. I

521
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 2: don't have to root for it or anything. But like

522
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 2: it's just like, okay, that's what they into. You know,

523
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 2: nobody's breaking any laws.

524
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 3: And you know.

525
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 2: It's if they break up one day and they get

526
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 2: that and they tell their story, and it is this

527
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 2: story of like manipulation and stuff, because that happens all

528
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 2: the time too, where you see like somebody come around

529
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 2: later and be like whatever. But I think also there

530
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 2: is an investment now in telling your story and making

531
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 2: yourself like the victim of the story. Like when Adam

532
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 2: Levine was trying to cheat on his wife, and then

533
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 2: the women that were clearly understood he was married, clearly

534
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 2: in his DM trying to fuck him came out and

535
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: was like he took advantage of me.

536
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 5: I was only twenty six or whatever.

537
00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, man, like I don't know what to

538
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 2: make with this because you were you made a grown

539
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 2: up decision and then try to turn to a.

540
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 5: Baby to sell like your story of it.

541
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 2: So anyway, I think it'll be interesting because I think

542
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 2: with all these relationships, if they work out, nobody's gonna

543
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 2: ever say shit again, Like it'll just be like how

544
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 2: people look at jay Z and Beyonce, where they'd be like, oh,

545
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 2: it was weird, but we still look at them like

546
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 2: jay Z and Beyonce the couple, the married couple that

547
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 2: has three kids and is moguls and shit, like, we

548
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 2: don't look at them as the abusive situation even after

549
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: he cheated on her. That the whole idea of like

550
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 2: she got to get away from him lasted a year

551
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 2: or two and now it's back to just like, oh

552
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 2: they have roomy and sir, happy couple.

553
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 5: It's not our business.

554
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 4: Yeah.

555
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 3: And also it's a catch twenty two because the way

556
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 3: society is now, it's a lot of pressure for a

557
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 3: lot of young women to get married and get a man.

558
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 3: And I'll joke aside, when you're young, guess what everybody's

559
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 3: mother fucking broke on the average, Like I'm eighteen, niggas,

560
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 3: you ain't teen, niggas, we ain't got no money. And

561
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 3: so a lot of times guess when they go after

562
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 3: older men because a lot of times older men they're

563
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 3: established they have money, you know, and shit like that.

564
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 3: You got old women going with bench what you're doing here.

565
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 2: Well, people even root for to some extent, like like

566
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 2: with Laurie Harvey and shit like, you know, people root

567
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 2: for young women to get to the bag with these

568
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: old ass niggas. But then we damn the old ass

569
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: niggas for giving them the bag to be around. It's

570
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 2: such a anyway, it's such a I know it's based

571
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 2: on power dynamics and stuff, but it still feels weirdly

572
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 2: incongruent because we are at once lionizing these young women

573
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 2: and vilifying them and infantalizing them, like all three things

574
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 2: are happening at the same time. And for the most part,

575
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 2: I've stopped that. It ain't my business.

576
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it ain't my business. Yeah, you know. You know,

577
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 3: people allowed to feel how or they want to feel

578
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 3: about it. You can think it's weird, you could think

579
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 3: it's creepy or whatever. But by the law, it's eighteen,

580
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 3: you know, Like I said, Unless you're gonna increase the

581
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 3: age of what we consider grown and making the decisions

582
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 3: and shit without your parents and shit like that, there's

583
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 3: literally nothing you can do once the child turns eighteen.

584
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, breaking up it's hard to do for young lovers.

585
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 2: Study finds that seventy percent of Gen Z millennials have

586
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: ghosted a would be partner.

587
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 5: That's a lot.

588
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 3: Because they're the age of people are disposable, like a

589
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 3: lot of people fail to realize that. And you know,

590
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 3: everybody is everybody with the Internet. Most people, even older people,

591
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 3: have hearts, have heartened to an extent and become disposable.

592
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 3: But when you are of a generation where everything is online,

593
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 3: a lot of them they text, they TikTok, they do

594
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 3: all this stuff. A lot of them have eliminated interpersonal

595
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 3: skills where you gotta do shit face to face, you know,

596
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 3: And so once you eliminate that, yes, people are disposed.

597
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 3: But when you know, back in the day, you kind

598
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 3: of had to meet people and get to know people.

599
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 3: Now I'm swiping left for swiping right, so I don't

600
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 3: know you. I don't know anything about you. I just

601
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 3: read words and then I determine this thing. So of

602
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 3: course this makes sense because they don't consider that somebody

603
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 3: that's a human being on the other end, somebody with

604
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 3: feelings and things like that. It's really easy to cut

605
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 3: somebody off when you are you know, when you are

606
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 3: a generation, it's not raised to actually have those skills

607
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 3: unless it's your family members, you know, I think for

608
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 3: a lot of people, unless you have a parent or

609
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 3: a social circle that's very aware of this and kind

610
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 3: of force their children to go out and make friends

611
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 3: and talk and interact and shit like that. Because if

612
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 3: you ever realized, if you ever out in public, a

613
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 3: lot of times, no matter where it is, even at

614
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 3: the club, and shit, where's everybody face plugged in their telephones?

615
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 3: Most people aren't looking up, looking out, looking around, trying

616
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 3: to interact. So unless they already know you, most people

617
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 3: aren't going to do kind of old school just go up,

618
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 3: but like, hey, how you doing. Most people are like you.

619
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 3: That's we ain't get right for me, And all of

620
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 3: a sudden, you know, the the the the dynamic switches,

621
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 3: All of a sudden, you're the odd ball and you're

622
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 3: the weird one for walking up and wanting to have

623
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 3: a conversation with them.

624
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 2: All right, So we had some technical difficulties, but we're

625
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 2: back up and running.

626
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 5: People in the chat got to see it all live.

627
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 2: The rest of y'all losers will never experience what just

628
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 2: happens is the time skip. But yeah, long story short,

629
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do with the messaging around

630
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 2: these summer spring relationships. And I know a lot of

631
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 2: it's about power dynamics of a gender, and very cis

632
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 2: had normative ways because you never really see this brought

633
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 2: up in other spaces. I feel like basically mainstream people

634
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 2: are like, we don't know what's okay for LGBTQ relationships,

635
00:32:56,160 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 2: so we just don't say shit. So like if Billy

636
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 2: Porter got a twenty year old boyfriend, we'd just be like,

637
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, you.

638
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 5: Know what I'm saying.

639
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 2: So all I'm saying is I think I'm done. This

640
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 2: might be the last time I even bring this up

641
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 2: on the show because I really don't know what to

642
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 2: do with it, and.

643
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 3: Everybody's opinion about those types of things all all over

644
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 3: the place. But you had also bought up an article about.

645
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm about to get to it, but it's very

646
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 2: but like also we have a very carceral mindset around

647
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 2: it to a certain extent, Like it's a very like

648
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 2: this is criminal. This is like it's not just an

649
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 2: ethical thing or a moral thing, like it's a we

650
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 2: want motherfucker's throne in jail, you know, like they're grooming

651
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 2: and shit, and I'm like, yeah, I don't know, I

652
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 2: don't know, so breaking up it's hard to do for

653
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 2: young lovers. Study find seventy percent of Gen X and

654
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 2: millennials have ghosted or would be partner. The older generation

655
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 2: are fond of saying that youth today aren't tough enough,

656
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 2: and it seems they're correct, at least when it comes

657
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 2: to their love lie Researchers have found that young lovers

658
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 2: don't have a courage to tell someone they're no longer

659
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 2: romantically interested in them, preferring instead to ghost them.

660
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 3: It's easier. People have always ghosted, you know.

661
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,919
Speaker 4: But now it's a lot easier.

662
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 3: To do it. People have always ghosted you changed a

663
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 3: telephone number, change email address, like people have found ways

664
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 3: years ago, go to another school, like people have found

665
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 3: ways to you know. I think also job, you know

666
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 3: if I have found ways to ghosts before, but now

667
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 3: people can do it differently.

668
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think having a secret family on the other

669
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 2: side of town is the most ghosting.

670
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 5: You can do, the most ghosting.

671
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 2: Like it's like you there, but you not really you know,

672
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 2: you They can't call you some days. But yeah, I

673
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 2: think there's something to it. But I think it might

674
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 2: be just a we lived in a time where there

675
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 2: wasn't the Internet and there wasn't a social media, and

676
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 2: that time was like a formative time of our lives.

677
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:03,760
Speaker 5: Like it wasn't.

678
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 2: Like I'm was talking to this dude at my job

679
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 2: and he was saying, like, I also didn't have social

680
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 2: media and the Internet my whole life, and he was

681
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:11,879
Speaker 2: like twenty six or twenty eight or something.

682
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 5: I'm like, nigga, you talking about when you was four, Like,

683
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 5: get the fuck out.

684
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 2: That's the fuck out of That didn't form That didn't

685
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 2: really form anything for you.

686
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 3: Tell that grew up on the typewriter right.

687
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 2: For me, it formed something in me because I could

688
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: not have access to this thing, right and it was

689
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 2: so new. Nobody was using you were a weirdo for

690
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: dating on the Internet and stuff that. But I think

691
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 2: since we do have the Internet, we do have social media,

692
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 2: we are also.

693
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 5: A lot more disposable to each other.

694
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,479
Speaker 2: You know, before if you ghosted somebody, what did that mean?

695
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 2: Like if I can't really got somebody I go to

696
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,879
Speaker 2: high school with, not really, because the motherfuck I'm gonna

697
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 2: see him in class the next day, I'm gonna see

698
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 2: him on the bus or whatever. If you go somebody

699
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 2: now and it's like it was always long distance or

700
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 2: it was always happening through an app, and you wouldn't really.

701
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 5: Run in the same circles. It's easier. And maybe we

702
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 5: would have done it too, if we just had the option.

703
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 3: We just didn't correct correct, yes, yes, And it's one

704
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 3: of those things where I realized this a lot of

705
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 3: people and put like this, ghosting is somewhat nebulous, like

706
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 3: you know, and ghosting means different things to different people.

707
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 3: So I would like to know what people's definition of

708
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 3: ghosting is, because you have some people they call it

709
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 3: quote unquote ghosting. But nigga, y'all already went friends. Y'all

710
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 3: ever really had a relationship. The don't think you had

711
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 3: in common with this job. So once once the common

712
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 3: thing left, that person's like, well you're no longer you know,

713
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 3: But that's just life. Yeah, you know. But a lot

714
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 3: of people quote unquote concider that ghosting. But it's like, well, nigga,

715
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 3: we were not the best of hows. And if I

716
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 3: hadn't met you do this job, I probably would not

717
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 3: have met you at all. That's different than you have

718
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 3: in some form of an intimacy with somebody and you

719
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 3: just be like I'm out.

720
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:56,839
Speaker 5: Yeah.

721
00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like Barry in the chat said, you know, ghosting

722
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 2: used to be just giving people the wrong number, but

723
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 2: it's like not really because giving someone the wrong number

724
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 2: something you do when you just meet somebody. Ghosting is

725
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 2: like some shit you could do to somebody after months

726
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 2: or weeks or a few dates, like you know, like

727
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 2: you pass the what's your number phase, would you be like, yeah,

728
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna respond.

729
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 5: To you again. And I think it does hurt to

730
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 5: be on the other side of it. But if it's

731
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 5: seventy percent, that means you've been on both sides.

732
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 3: Yes, you have.

733
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,319
Speaker 5: Seventy percent means so many people are doing it.

734
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 2: You got people that are ghosting folks and know how

735
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 2: it feels and then did it to somebody else.

736
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 3: Agreed, And that's why you have a generation now. And

737
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 3: I do believe, regardless of your age, that's going dating

738
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 3: is trash, yeah, because everybody thinks everybody's disposable. So you know,

739
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 3: it's one of those things where you can find these

740
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 3: true relationships with these true friendships, but it's a lot

741
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 3: harder when, like say, seventy percent of the people you

742
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 3: gonna meet, you probably will never have any form of

743
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 3: interaction with them on one party decide they've had enough.

744
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: I think dating might be worse now. I'm obviously not

745
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 2: doing it, so I don't know. But also I don't

746
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 2: think there's ever been a time in my life when

747
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,240
Speaker 2: people didn't think dating was trash.

748
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 3: That's true too. And when I say dating, i'm talking

749
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 3: about like that just the way people interact on the internet,

750
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 3: because you have an uptick in online dating and all

751
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 3: that stuff. Yes, Dad has always been trashed.

752
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know what you're saying.

753
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like I wonder it's like the tools,

754
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying that make it more the

755
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 2: worse for people, because I think the capacity to be

756
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: their worst self or be bad and cold towards each

757
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 2: other has always existed, but the tools probably have made it,

758
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 2: like you said, worse. Like you know before, it's like

759
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 2: if a nigga don't want to fuck with you no more, but.

760
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 5: They got to see you at the job, it's a

761
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 5: little different.

762
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 2: Or just the fact that you might not have as

763
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 2: many options, so if I have if I can line

764
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 2: up fifteen people that want to fuck me, the value

765
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: of one of you that want to fuck me is

766
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:02,959
Speaker 2: much lower.

767
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 5: Than it used to be.

768
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 2: Whereas before my reach was like that, I might could

769
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 2: only line up three people, and it's like, I'm gonna

770
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 2: treat each one of these three people like a precious,

771
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 2: you know, commodity that they are. But when it's fifteen

772
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 2: of you motherfuckers, I just gotta drive thirty minutes. And

773
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 2: you know what, I didn't like the way your shoes

774
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 2: was tired right right.

775
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 3: And it also gives people more of a like you say,

776
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 3: they could be more picky, which I completely understand that,

777
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 3: don't get me wrong. But it's just one of those

778
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 3: things to where just the dynamic changed. And I know

779
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,919
Speaker 3: me in a way I'm built. I don't think I'm

780
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 3: built for this age of dating, but nigga, you're gonna

781
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 3: have to meet me at the street and bump into

782
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 3: beat like you know, but that's just how I function.

783
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 3: But I know for a lot of people that go

784
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 3: with I don't the only way to meet people.

785
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 2: Now, I'm definitely built for this type of dating. Like

786
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 2: I could get so many holes now it's crazy. Honestly,

787
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 2: I just think about it sometimes, like, whoa glad I

788
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 2: ain't in these streets, cause I would be byes out

789
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 2: you know what.

790
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 5: They would be They had to beat me off with a.

791
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 3: Standing, all them sad holes out there.

792
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 5: Nah.

793
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, I do think the disposability is a big part.

794
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 2: And I think also the other part of the disposability

795
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 2: that doesn't get brought up as much is the ability

796
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 2: to create intimacy out of like fumes like you haven't

797
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 2: really gone through anything or done much, but you start

798
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 2: talking and you get on the social media, you get

799
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 2: on the apps, you get on the messages, and you

800
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 2: can be breaking down some of the most intimate shit

801
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 2: in your life to somebody. You may not have gone

802
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 2: on a physical date with them yet, you may not

803
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 2: have even met them in person to see what the

804
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 2: chemistry is like, and but it can create like a

805
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 2: falseness of intimacy that hurts more when you when you

806
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 2: break it off, it's like, oh, I'm I'm actually very

807
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 2: hurt by this, you know. So I could kind of

808
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 2: see that happening too.

809
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

810
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 3: And also you know, and I've experienced this not even

811
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:08,800
Speaker 3: in dating, just friendships online the internet, faith the Internet

812
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 3: creates a false illusion of time because guess what time

813
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 3: is time and you can't speed time up, you can't

814
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 3: slow time down. Time takes its own time. Every long

815
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 3: time is and it's some things that only time will tell.

816
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 3: But when you live in a society where I only

817
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 3: got fifteen seconds, this wipe left us white right on you,

818
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 3: you're not spending a lot of time. And so yeah,

819
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 3: like you said, get you go, okay, I picked you.

820
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,399
Speaker 3: Then all of a sudden you share all these things.

821
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 3: And yes, it hurts, But at the same time, it's like, well,

822
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 3: how much time have you? Well, you invested time, but

823
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 3: it's a different type of time.

824
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think your brain don't work that way, correct,

825
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 2: brain isn't making their calculations to be like, it was

826
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 2: only a month. It hurts, how much it hurts? Agreed,

827
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,240
Speaker 2: Getting ghosts gonna hurt. However much getting ghost that hurts

828
00:41:58,239 --> 00:41:59,720
Speaker 2: by that person, how much you like that person?

829
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 5: It was not. Now, what's interesting is people our age.

830
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 2: Right when you start bringing up the numbers, uh, people

831
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 2: forty to fifty five, thirty four percent say they have

832
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 2: ghosted somebody, which is a lot lower than the seventy percent.

833
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 5: And if you go to people over fifty five twenty.

834
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:21,839
Speaker 2: Percent overall, forty five percent of day that's from all

835
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 2: age groups say they've been ghosted by perspective or a

836
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 2: new partner.

837
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 5: They said, singletons from London. I guess singletons what they

838
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 5: call single people. Uh, that's a nice term.

839
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 2: I was still that singletons from London are the most

840
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 2: likely to ghost a partner, with forty seven percent on

841
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 2: it up to the practice. So this is our overseas shit.

842
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 2: Who knows how bad America is a good American?

843
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 3: Right, and some about have a good point in the

844
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 3: termine that I think about. People do confuse intimacy with sex,

845
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 3: Like you know, sometimes people actually can actually physically get

846
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 3: up and they a lot of people confuse that, even

847
00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 3: people our age. Just because we have sex, it does

848
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 3: not mean it's love and folved. Just because you know,

849
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 3: we are intimate in a sexual manner, it does not

850
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 3: mean everybody's gonna feel the same.

851
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 5: Yeah.

852
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 2: But you know what's interesting is people always say it

853
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 2: from that angle. I think that's like a common saying

854
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 2: and a common point of view. But here's the uncommon

855
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 2: point of view or the other side of that that

856
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,760
Speaker 2: you don't hear people saying it's a lot of people

857
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 2: having intimacy and not having sex. Like you've talked to

858
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 2: somebody and shared shit with them, possibly done stuff with

859
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 2: them that is more relationshippy than even fucking you know

860
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 2: what I mean, And so like I think that's what

861
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,319
Speaker 2: people get their wires crossing. It's like, why am I

862
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,760
Speaker 2: so fucking hurt? I didn't even fuck this person?

863
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 3: Right?

864
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 5: Or you know, we weren't even together like that, And.

865
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 2: It's like because we kind of are fast forwarding everything,

866
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 2: you know, whether it lea whether it be physical fast

867
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 2: forwarded or just like emotional fast forward. It's like we

868
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 2: have so much more access to each other, and I

869
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 2: know that that shit hurt. Nobody wants to be when

870
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 2: it hurts, but it fucking hurts when you's It's like

871
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 2: me and this person were talking every day and then

872
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:12,240
Speaker 2: it's just boom done. And it seems to not really

873
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 2: be any type of moral reckoning on just the idea

874
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 2: of like how much that hurts somebody and how foul

875
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 2: it is to do that shit, because I guess every

876
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 2: enough people are doing it to each other that it

877
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 2: watches out.

878
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, because because if you admit that, you know, because

879
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 3: the age of the internet, Uh, emotions are considered are

880
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 3: bad things. So when you admit that you've been hurting,

881
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 3: you admit that you've been ghost When you admit that

882
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 3: this shit is fucked up, everybody looks at you like you,

883
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 3: like you, like you're the quote unquote week one. Like

884
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:42,879
Speaker 3: showing emotions.

885
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 4: It's weak for a lot of people.

886
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 3: And I all jokes aside. A lot of people have

887
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 3: turned out its pain and hurt and shit, what the

888
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 3: ice cold? Never forgive?

889
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 5: Hoe is life?

890
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 4: No?

891
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 3: I joke on that, but before That's why a lot

892
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 3: of these terms come from. It's a self protection mechanism

893
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 3: that people put out here to protect themselves from being

894
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 3: hurt again.

895
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 2: And let's talk about some more relationships, guys. I know

896
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 2: y'all like when we talk about relationships stuff on the shelf.

897
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 2: If you don't, you just don't listen. It's fine, Harvard

898
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 2: trained psychologists. If you use any of these non phrases

899
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 2: every day, your relationship is more successful than most. Okay,

900
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 2: you wanna know what the phrases are.

901
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 3: I guess let's go.

902
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:34,280
Speaker 2: I appreciate your effort is number one. All these phrases.

903
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 2: Always every time we do an article, like this. All

904
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 2: these phrases always sound like you could also use them

905
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 2: sarcastically and they would break and you would get a divorce.

906
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 2: Come on, It's like it's like like if I come

907
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 2: by the dishwasher and Karen has an act, or like

908
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 2: if I if I come by the close the laundry

909
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 2: have or whatever. Karen's taking the clothes out of drive.

910
00:45:57,120 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 2: But she didn't drive, and so I gotta still clothes.

911
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 2: All she did was take them out of the driver.

912
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 2: If I say I appreciate your effort, I think we

913
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 2: both know I don't.

914
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 5: Mean it right now. I'm like you, you ain't really

915
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:12,839
Speaker 5: do shit. You just you did one step that I.

916
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 3: Could have done, and you could have kept them best

917
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:15,720
Speaker 3: of yourself.

918
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. So I just keep that to myself. I'll

919
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:19,880
Speaker 2: be like, Okay, a lot.

920
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 3: Of people just don't know how to shut the fuck up,

921
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 3: and did they end up starting arguments.

922
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 2: But that's how all of them feel like. I'm like,

923
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 2: I just let's be earnest and take them earnestly. But

924
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 2: just as a like a carte blanche. Just if you

925
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 2: say these sarcastically, you getting mad, You're getting divorced. I

926
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 2: appreciate your effort and similar phrasees, I appreciate that you

927
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 2: work so hard to support our family. I'm grateful that

928
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 2: you take the kids to school because it helps me

929
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 2: get things done in the morning. I do think it

930
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 2: is important to call shit like that out, like you know,

931
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 2: when we like I cook almost every day for Karen,

932
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,439
Speaker 2: and then she'll come in and say and always thank

933
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: me for cooking, And honestly, yes, I appreciate that she

934
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: appreciates it. So and I know a lot of people

935
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 2: would be like, I shouldn't even have to say that. Well, nigga,

936
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 2: I'm not psychic, And just like any human being, there's

937
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 2: a level of like expectation of where people start feeling

938
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 2: unappreciated or taken for granted.

939
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 5: So, sir, it matters to me that I get.

940
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 3: To thank you, yes, sir. And on top of that,

941
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 3: everybody has different love language, right, and so for a

942
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 3: lot of people, they need their spouse to acknowledge that

943
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 3: they appreciate these small, unseen things that fucking quote unquote

944
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 3: just get done. And so little shit like outside of

945
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:42,839
Speaker 3: the house, so little shit like washing the dishes, taking

946
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 3: the dishes in and out of the dishwasher, washing the clothes,

947
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 3: you know, sweeping, mopping, all the shit that you quote

948
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 3: unquote are supposed to do. You know, your spouse wants

949
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 3: to be acknowledged that the shit is getting done, because

950
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 3: if they know, if they if they don't do it

951
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 3: and you don't do it, the shit don't get done.

952
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:00,720
Speaker 3: And then everybody looking at it, they're like, who gonna

953
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,799
Speaker 3: do it? You know, And that's the part of the partnership.

954
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 3: So I tell, I tell Roger, go I appreciate him,

955
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 3: because what I don't want happen is one day he

956
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 3: would like, fuck it, I ain't cooking no more. You

957
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 3: have acknowledged what I do.

958
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I know people that will like somebody does

959
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 2: all the cooking and the other person's come home sitting

960
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 2: solidly at the dinner table, eat the shit without saying nothing,

961
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 2: And it's just like, man, what the fuck?

962
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 5: And like it. Don't take a second to say you

963
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 5: appreciate it, even if you don't like it.

964
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 2: It, don't take a second to save me some time.

965
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 2: I don't have to cook for your ass no more

966
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 2: if you don't like it. You know, Like, yeah, Roger

967
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 2: had to tell me, if.

968
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 3: You don't like him, let me know. I was like,

969
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 3: I don't want hurt your feelings.

970
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean cause it's just I want to be

971
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 2: better at it and I can't get better. I'm not

972
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,839
Speaker 2: gonna be making brussels sprouse that just go in the trash.

973
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 3: Yes, I like brussel sprouse if they made right.

974
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, whatever that means.

975
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: But my point being, there's certain times you see shit

976
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 2: and it's just you know, communication is key.

977
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:56,799
Speaker 5: Another one is I like you.

978
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 2: A lot of people talk about loving each other, but

979
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 2: liking each other is that part of it? Because I

980
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 2: think what love means for a lot of people is

981
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:10,399
Speaker 2: like this perseverance and staying strong and through the.

982
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:13,320
Speaker 5: Bad times through the good times. And we think about

983
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 5: love at the beginning that like very endorphing.

984
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 2: Rush type of love that you know, everything's butterflies and

985
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 2: your tummy. But like liking each other, like it's so weird,

986
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 2: And I know they mean it as a compliment, but

987
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 2: it's always so fucking weird to me when I tell

988
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 2: people what I do for a living and I tell

989
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 2: people I do this show and I do it five

990
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 2: days a week and my co host is my wife,

991
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 2: and they be like, I couldn't have did that with

992
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 2: my wife. Man, I don't know you and you and

993
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:42,760
Speaker 2: you like it, and y'all.

994
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:43,359
Speaker 3: Been doing it how long.

995
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 5: I'm always like, I like talking to my life. I

996
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 5: like you.

997
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 3: We actually really do like each other, and I think

998
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 3: it's very hard or a society or people in general,

999
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 3: misogyny whatever has painted this picture that you know, y'all

1000
00:49:57,719 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 3: not supposed to like each other. You know, the man

1001
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 3: wife is the ball and chain or whatever that other

1002
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 3: bullshit that people have body in and they try to

1003
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 3: quote unquote play these roles versus I don't want to

1004
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 3: wake up every day and look somebody in the eye.

1005
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 3: I don't like. That's dumb to me.

1006
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it even feels a little. I know people's

1007
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 2: independence is important to them, so don't not like. This

1008
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 2: is just my opinion, not not telling anybody else.

1009
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 5: How to live.

1010
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 2: But it always feels a little weird to me when

1011
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 2: people are like, I, uh, like, do I gotta go

1012
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 2: on a vacation with my husband or something or with

1013
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 2: my with my wife or whatever. It's like, you don't

1014
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 2: have to do shit, obviously, but it is weird that

1015
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,920
Speaker 2: you would not want to, right, Like, can we acknowledge

1016
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 2: that it's like even being independent for a certain amount

1017
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 2: of time, you kind of pick this person because you

1018
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 2: do want to hang out with them.

1019
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 8: You know.

1020
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 5: Maybe it's not every day, but to some level you

1021
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 5: would like to think.

1022
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 2: That that would be possible, because that's definitely what you

1023
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 2: keep signing up for with this shit. But you know,

1024
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 2: maybe that's also why people you know, get divorced, because

1025
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:03,360
Speaker 2: it's like, I actually don't believe.

1026
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 3: That I actually don't like you.

1027
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, so, and then they have similar phrases like I

1028
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:13,919
Speaker 2: like how to vote, that you are to your hobbies, yeah,

1029
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 2: which means you.

1030
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 3: Doing shit outside of me, right, you know, because a

1031
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 3: lot of people, you know, of every agenda depend on

1032
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 3: their spouse is way too much. You need social circles,

1033
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 3: You need somebody to talk to outside of your significant other,

1034
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 3: and I think a lot of people do.

1035
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 5: Well.

1036
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,359
Speaker 2: That's that's interesting though, because that I like you, That

1037
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 2: is interesting to say I like that you don't spend

1038
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 2: time with or you're spending time with something other than me,

1039
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like anyway to me, I'm like,

1040
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 2: I like you to me doesn't necessarily mean like I

1041
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 2: like that you do are.

1042
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 5: Doing this other thing.

1043
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 2: I think it just means I like you. Yes, I

1044
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 2: think it's not you that said it's the phrase in

1045
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 2: the article. The article says, I like that you are

1046
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 2: so passionate about staying healthy. I like how to voted

1047
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 2: you are your hobbies like those don't really seem to

1048
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:07,320
Speaker 2: be necessarily likes of like liking that person that seems

1049
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 2: like I don't know. That feels like a weird type

1050
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 2: of example.

1051
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, but but I do understand, you know, mean the

1052
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 3: meaning behind like this. If it's from a good place,

1053
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 3: I understand the meaning. If not, it's something different, I

1054
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 3: can understand. Somebody. Yeah, I like the fact that you

1055
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 3: you are dedicated to something outside of me, you know.

1056
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:26,320
Speaker 3: I like the fact that you know you are happy,

1057
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 3: because me saying I like your hobbies means I like

1058
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,479
Speaker 3: you being happy enjoying whatever the shit that you're doing

1059
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 3: that I might not give a fuck about.

1060
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:36,800
Speaker 5: Sure, Like I said, I think it's examples. That was

1061
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 5: just they felt like they needed some examples and those

1062
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:40,839
Speaker 5: weren't agree those weren't it?

1063
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 3: Uh, what a professor whatever wrote this? So you know,

1064
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 3: you know that's different than a normal.

1065
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 5: Person, right, you know it would have been a bad

1066
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 5: example to me.

1067
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 2: I like talking to it that that feels more like

1068
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 2: a I like than a I like when you leave

1069
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 2: a house, Like, oh, okay, I mean I like leaving

1070
00:52:58,560 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 2: the house too.

1071
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 5: But that's a weird, so weird thing to like about me.

1072
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 3: But sure, it depends on the relationships. Some people might

1073
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 3: not like leaving the house.

1074
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, anyway, help me better understand this.

1075
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 2: So this is like when somebody does something that might

1076
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 2: be upsetting you, or somebody does somewhere that you need

1077
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 2: them to communicate the issue to you. Help me better

1078
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:23,560
Speaker 2: understand this. You know, I don't know why this.

1079
00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 5: Is upsetting to you, so please help me see your perspective.

1080
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 5: I want to work through this wonderfully.

1081
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 4: Phrase.

1082
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,360
Speaker 5: I like that phrasey, I want to work through this together.

1083
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 5: I need to understand you. Better do that.

1084
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like those and yeah, and a lot of

1085
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 3: that is communication skills.

1086
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1087
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 3: And you'll be amazed how many grown as adults will

1088
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 3: fuck you but won't sit down and have a heart

1089
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:48,359
Speaker 3: to heart communication thing to let you know how they

1090
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 3: really feel, you know. And it's like, well, this relationship

1091
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 3: need to be based off more than fucking because you know,

1092
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 3: once you know, particularly if you're with somebody long enough

1093
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 3: to buy changes, everybody's body changes. You might not fuckus often,

1094
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 3: So what is the foundation of this If the foundation

1095
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 3: is just off of sex.

1096
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, help me better understand this.

1097
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 2: I think it's just a proactive phrase for something that

1098
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 2: is about communication, especially in disagreements. I think a lot

1099
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,800
Speaker 2: of times people see power dynamics. It's like winning an argument,

1100
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 2: win in a fight, you know, who got their way,

1101
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,720
Speaker 2: as opposed to like a hey man, we're in this together.

1102
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 2: Help me understand what the issue is so that I

1103
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 2: can help with whatever the problem is. Yes, because a

1104
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 2: lot of you know, a lot of times I think

1105
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 2: people are just more like do what I say.

1106
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, And that is dangerous because everybody's grown. And

1107
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 3: so it's one of those things where I don't look

1108
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 3: at a relationship and just talking for myself as a

1109
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:59,799
Speaker 3: power struggle. If I have to power struggle with you,

1110
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 3: we're together, for we're in this together. We are supposed

1111
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,359
Speaker 3: to be a unit. And so it's one of those

1112
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 3: things where all the aside people have to learn how

1113
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 3: to be a unit. People have to learn how to

1114
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 3: give and take. And it's not something particularly if you've

1115
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 3: been single for a very long time. It used to

1116
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 3: making your own decisions and haven't had to consider anybody

1117
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 3: else in anyone's opinion about what you're gonna do and

1118
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 3: all this shit and call in all that shit. It

1119
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 3: could be a shock to your routine. But if you

1120
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 3: want the unit to work, or have the dynamic of

1121
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 3: the relationship to work, there has to be forms of

1122
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 3: communication there. Like you, you can't get around that. It

1123
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 3: will cause problems sooner or later.

1124
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 5: Like for me.

1125
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 2: Example is if your wife is like, hey, I don't

1126
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 2: like what's going on with the election. I would like

1127
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:51,759
Speaker 2: to overthrow the election, and then you, as like a

1128
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 2: Supreme Court justice, you could say, hey, help me better

1129
00:55:55,520 --> 00:56:00,040
Speaker 2: understand how to help you overthrow this election? No, no, no,

1130
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 2: I just need to under disagreement, Karen.

1131
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 5: I mean, listen, the marriage is a marriage.

1132
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 3: So I no, no. If that's the case, fall out

1133
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 3: with each other.

1134
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well you just went back on all

1135
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 2: your own advice. I did know before. I'm listening. I'll

1136
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 2: stop talking now. Really try to listen to your point

1137
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 2: of view. I want to hear your side of things,

1138
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:26,879
Speaker 2: even if we ultimately disagree.

1139
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1140
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like listening has become such a

1141
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 2: loaded term that now when someone says that listening, it's

1142
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 2: more like at least my default is to be like,

1143
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 2: here comes from patronizing bullshit, you're not really listening, But

1144
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 2: if you earnestly listen, it is important. I normally say

1145
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 2: I'm listening when they're talking to Karen, but it's mostly

1146
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 2: because she repeats herself, so it's like, you already told

1147
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 2: me this, I was listening the whole time, and I

1148
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 2: listened the first time, so we can skip past this

1149
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:00,760
Speaker 2: part of it and get into the new information.

1150
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 3: And he'll tell me that sometimes I have to remind myself,

1151
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 3: and like I said, it's probably somebody to go to

1152
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 3: therapy about, because I know that that right there as

1153
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 3: a childhood thing, like like some trauma for me talking

1154
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 3: to people and people just ignoring the fuck out of me.

1155
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 3: Like I know, I think I know where that comes from.

1156
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 3: And so I'm more I'm not as bad as I

1157
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 3: used to be, but every now and then I will

1158
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 3: get like that. I had to learn that when Roger

1159
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:28,640
Speaker 3: told me he was listening, he was actually listening, because

1160
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 3: a lot of motherfuckers tell you they listening, but goddamn it,

1161
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 3: they're not listening. But no, Roger's actually listening to me.

1162
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 3: He'll actually be like, oh, yeah, I said that. I

1163
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 3: was like, oh, okay, and that's one of the thing tying

1164
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 3: to make me fall in love with you. For the

1165
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 3: fact that I was like, oh, this nigga actually heard

1166
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,920
Speaker 3: me the first time. He was like, yeah, I actually did,

1167
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:45,160
Speaker 3: I actually remember what you said. I'm actually listening to you.

1168
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, he'll keep put. He ain't just

1169
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 3: bullshitting me.

1170
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1171
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 2: I definitely saw him said stop it, Rod, but I'm

1172
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 2: not gonna stop because it's my time too.

1173
00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 5: Y'all don't live.

1174
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 2: Here, just trying to play a video game or some shit,

1175
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 2: and you want to listen to the new story, but

1176
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 2: you got to get the twenty minutes of shit you

1177
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 2: already heard.

1178
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 5: It's no I have things to do. You have things

1179
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 5: to do.

1180
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 3: Speed this ship up, and I'm a talker, so you'll

1181
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 3: want me.

1182
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 2: I want me to get They want me to get

1183
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 2: secretly get cancer from holding in my frustration all the time,

1184
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 2: and they not being honest about like, hey, we already

1185
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 2: talked about this.

1186
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,920
Speaker 3: And I'd been like okay, and I'd be like, let

1187
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 3: me fast forward the story.

1188
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 5: Oh no, man, she was talking about Clarence Thomas. Okayvern different,

1189
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:30,439
Speaker 5: different joke.

1190
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 2: I'm sorry is the next one, and that's a big

1191
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 2: one because you'd be a honey.

1192
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 3: Niggas don't like they apologize if you fucked up. Nigga,

1193
00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 3: you fucked up, just say I'm sorry. But people have

1194
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 3: all these prize and I got to win the fight

1195
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 3: and all this other bullshit and go to sleep mad

1196
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 3: and angry, en up, sit, who got time for that?

1197
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 2: I'll take a genuine I'm sorry. I don't like these

1198
00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 2: fake I'm sorry. Y'all know what I'm talking about. I'm

1199
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 2: not talking about fake apologies. No, no, you gotta hear

1200
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 2: me out caring you don't know what I'm talking about.

1201
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 2: I'm talking about these I'm sorry for ship that you

1202
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:10,439
Speaker 2: don't need to be saying I'm sorry for like where

1203
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 2: it's just like, uh like if I come, if I'm

1204
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 2: in the kitchen or something and Karen needs to get

1205
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,080
Speaker 2: like a spoon and she goes, I'm sorry.

1206
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 5: It's like for needing a spoon, nigga.

1207
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 2: Am I Ice Turner apologize and then he'll start figuring

1208
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 2: at me.

1209
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 3: Then I'll be like, oh, yeah, I'm not sorry. He'd

1210
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 3: be like right, and then there's a lot of.

1211
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 2: Childhood Yeah, I'm like you like now you make me

1212
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 2: feel like I'm a bad person. What kind of asshole

1213
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 2: needs these constant apologies all the time. I'm not better,

1214
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 2: Definitely not that person that that's sitting around like, oh,

1215
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 2: this motherfucker came in to get a spoon and I

1216
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 2: know she's singing me in the kitchen, like what kind

1217
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:53,920
Speaker 2: of asshole egomaniac with with.

1218
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 3: And a lot of that goes from being a woman,

1219
00:59:57,800 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 3: need to strench yourself and all the other bullshit. But

1220
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 3: you know, Roger isn't like that, and it's one of

1221
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 3: those things where I literally have to learn how to

1222
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 3: deprogram myself from that, you know, cause a lot of

1223
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 3: people are like the fuck you know, and they just

1224
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 3: keep it moving on and I'm like, oh, I apologize,

1225
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say I'm not. Over the years, I

1226
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 3: have improved. Roger has bought it up to my attention

1227
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 3: enough where I'm more aware of it than I used

1228
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:24,320
Speaker 3: to be, because it used to just automatically come out

1229
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 3: like program okay, program My brand is just programming it out.

1230
01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:30,280
Speaker 3: It's not as bad, but it pops out every now

1231
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 3: and then.

1232
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,760
Speaker 5: I forgive you, can you forgive me? This is a

1233
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 5: weird one to me?

1234
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 2: Because I get that I forgive you part, but the

1235
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 2: can you forgive me feels like could be some bullshit

1236
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 2: not saying it's no, it never applies. There are some

1237
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 2: times where both of you fucked up and you gotta

1238
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 2: and it applies.

1239
01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 5: But sometimes it's just one.

1240
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 2: Forgive that need to happen, Like if you fucked up,

1241
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 2: I forgive you. But if it's like we both fucked up, okay,

1242
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 2: maybe then I ad that can you forgive me?

1243
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 5: So maybe they're assuming.

1244
01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 2: That, like I just don't want to be in a

1245
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 2: situation where I was right or I was wrong, And

1246
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 2: then there's an extra level of like, hey, can you

1247
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 2: forgive so that we both feel like we both did

1248
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 2: the wrong thing, Like no, nigga, only one of us

1249
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:19,840
Speaker 2: fucked up, Like, don't trick me. I know we can't

1250
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 2: change the past, so I'm actually trying to let it

1251
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 2: go and move forward. I made a mistake and I'm

1252
01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 2: trying to forgive myself. I hope you can forgive me too.

1253
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 2: I like those two better than that first.

1254
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1255
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 2: Seven, I'm committed to you even when times of Tavis

1256
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 2: still choose to be with you.

1257
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 5: I'm here and I want to make this work. We're

1258
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:35,919
Speaker 5: a team.

1259
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think those are two good ones, you know,

1260
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 2: I think people can forget those on the daily not

1261
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 2: so it is weird to say. It's a phrase that

1262
01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 2: you have to say. Was like, if you say one

1263
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 2: of these phrases every day, I feel like that phrase

1264
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 2: is not gonna come up every day.

1265
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 3: If it does, we need to reevaluate our relationship.

1266
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,439
Speaker 2: Like that's a look you looking through my phone type

1267
01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 2: of the phrase or something.

1268
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 5: Let's have some fun. That's a good one.

1269
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 2: That's a good one because I do think a lot

1270
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 2: of times with love and relationships, the longer they last,

1271
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 2: the less shit you try to the less you're just

1272
01:02:12,800 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 2: always trying to make something fun, and sometimes you forget

1273
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 2: to have fun because like now they're part of your life.

1274
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 5: You're paying bills, you're going to work, you're.

1275
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 3: The responsibilities, and shit kick in because, like I said,

1276
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 3: at the beginning of the love it's intense, particularly young

1277
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 3: love is very intense. But the longer you be with somebody,

1278
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 3: it don't mean you don't love them. The love is

1279
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 3: just not as intense, and a lot of times you

1280
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 3: have to re remind people the reason that you do

1281
01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 3: love them and you still have those same feelings that

1282
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 3: you had a long time ago.

1283
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 5: Y'all was thinking about this today where how at the beginning,

1284
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 5: I feel like a lot of colds go through this.

1285
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 2: But at the beginning you go into the shower a

1286
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 2: shower together and try to have like a sexy shower,

1287
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 2: and then like at some point you just start having

1288
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:08,320
Speaker 2: like functional showers where it's like, one, don't even make

1289
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 2: sense to shower together.

1290
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 5: A lot of times it's not efficient.

1291
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:13,080
Speaker 2: But two, if we are, hey man, I'm just trying

1292
01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 2: to get in here and get out. I'm trying to

1293
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 2: get some of this water on me, your water being hot.

1294
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 5: You know, we both.

1295
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 2: Got our own rags. We both, yeah, got our own

1296
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:25,960
Speaker 2: different soaps, have different routines.

1297
01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 5: For the hair.

1298
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 2: Like it's not like it's it's like we gotta go

1299
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 2: to work and we gotta be there in twenty minutes.

1300
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:35,280
Speaker 2: So the shower is decidedly less skin themax and a

1301
01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 2: lot more, uh, you know, like an army movie.

1302
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 3: Let's get in and get out this bitch.

1303
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 2: And both of those are loved me, but one of

1304
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 2: them decidedly not fun.

1305
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:49,160
Speaker 5: Right, Both are intimate, but one is fun.

1306
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 2: One is like, oh yeah, let me help you floss

1307
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 2: the crack you know up in here, and then the

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01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 2: other one is like, can you move out the way?

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01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 5: I need to get to the waters.

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01:03:57,280 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 3: My time to be at the front. Oh, let me

1311
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Speaker 3: turn away.

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01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, that's my sol that's my soul.

1313
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Speaker 3: All right, because you know, I like to what a

1314
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,680
Speaker 3: high rogic like that? Beens too high? That roger?

1315
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Speaker 4: What?

1316
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:09,640
Speaker 1: Uh?

1317
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 5: We should get some fresh air. I want to do

1318
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 5: some fun today. I know I'm a lot. Sometimes let's

1319
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 5: take a breather for the tough topics and watch a comedy. Hey,

1320
01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:18,080
Speaker 5: that second one. I just don't want to be in

1321
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 5: relationship with you. I know I'm a lot. Sometimes let's

1322
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:25,680
Speaker 5: take a breather from the tough topics and watch a comedy. Man,

1323
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 5: who the fuck a my dayton? Tough topics? Every baby? Uh?

1324
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 5: And number nine is I love you? Which is? You

1325
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 5: know we say every day? Of course? All right, that

1326
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 5: was that was nice? Right, Let's get into some other news.

1327
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Speaker 5: What time are we looking at? Okay, we had an hour?

1328
01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:49,240
Speaker 2: Maybe we can do some fucking with black people, you know,

1329
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 2: I do, I do like stat And of course I

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01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 2: just remembered I restarted my computer. Had to wait for uh,

1331
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 2: wait for the foul you to.

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01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 3: Come back up because you shut everything down. It's like, oh,

1333
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 3: what you didn't do? You didn't you forgot to reopen me.

1334
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had everything open earlier, but for some reason,

1335
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:12,080
Speaker 2: File Explorers moving slow.

1336
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Speaker 5: All right, So what do we say we're gonna do?

1337
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 5: Fucking with black people?

1338
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 8: All right?

1339
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 5: Let me get the fucking with black people music, trying

1340
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 5: to do those jackasm.

1341
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 9: With black people, Fucking with black people, fucking fucking with

1342
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 9: black people, fucking with black people.

1343
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 2: Donald Glover claims, oh, fucking with black people where we

1344
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 2: go around the glow, find different articles and talk about

1345
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 2: how much we feel fucked with by those articles as

1346
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,240
Speaker 2: black people, and we score on from zero to one hundred,

1347
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 2: and it was twenty five today's contestants everybody. Donald Glover

1348
01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 2: claims Tina Fey told him he was a diversity higher

1349
01:05:59,440 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 2: on thirty.

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01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:02,160
Speaker 5: Oh yeah.

1351
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 2: In two thousand and six, he got hired for the role.

1352
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 2: While he was still a resident assistant at the time.

1353
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 2: He said he often fell out of place. It definitely

1354
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 2: didn't feel like I was supposed to be there, he

1355
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 2: told GQ. I used to have stress strings every night

1356
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 2: where I was doing tartwheels on the top of a

1357
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:20,480
Speaker 2: New York skyscraper with other writers watching me. According to Glover,

1358
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 2: the series creator and actress Tina Fey told him that

1359
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 2: he had only been recruited to make the team more diverse.

1360
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 2: There's no animosity between us or anything like that. But

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01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 2: Tina said to herself it was a diversity thing. The

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Speaker 2: last two people who were fighting for the job with

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01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 2: me and Kenya Barras. I didn't know it was between

1364
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 2: me and him until later. He hit me one day

1365
01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:44,040
Speaker 2: and he was like, I hated you for years. Yeah,

1366
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Speaker 2: Zeero T one hundred.

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Speaker 3: I guess I'm a little irritated. But it's one of

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01:06:57,160 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 3: those things where sometimes a diversity high is how on

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01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 3: the way some of us get in the room. Sometimes

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01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So it's like, oh, I

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01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 3: get it. You know, I completely understand. You know, her

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01:07:15,080 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 3: telling him that is a whole nother thing, and you

1373
01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 3: know that was, you know, her choice. She didn't have

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01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 3: to tell him anything, but for the fact that she did,

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01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:23,240
Speaker 3: you know, I guess the one of them things where

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01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 3: she was like, Okay, I can this is something I

1377
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 3: can tell you, you know, and it kind of sucks.

1378
01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 3: There can only be one type of mentality because you

1379
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 3: know what, they may have could have hired them both,

1380
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:35,360
Speaker 3: but they only decided for one.

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01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, well, he says, there's no animosity. That's

1382
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 2: a big clue as to how she told him and

1383
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 2: that it wasn't her belitting him and being like, you know,

1384
01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:47,040
Speaker 2: you're only here because you're a diversity higher some you know,

1385
01:07:47,120 --> 01:07:49,640
Speaker 2: the verse is why the people say it and this

1386
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 2: is the cash twenty two of intentional diversity, intentional.

1387
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:59,600
Speaker 5: Mixing up of different people into your writer's room.

1388
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 2: You know, with us, we really didn't have women writers

1389
01:08:05,080 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 2: for the most part for our show the first season.

1390
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,040
Speaker 2: You know, we had arguably one woman who was a

1391
01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 2: writing for the show. This year we have two women

1392
01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:20,919
Speaker 2: writers for the show. And when we did the Women's

1393
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 2: n C double A, even though like two women pitched

1394
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 2: it and two dudes pitched it, the women were the

1395
01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:31,560
Speaker 2: ones who wrote the piece, and you could feel it

1396
01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 2: around the office. It was very important that they be

1397
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:37,760
Speaker 2: the ones who write it because you know, you still

1398
01:08:37,800 --> 01:08:40,040
Speaker 2: got to go through the process. There's all this you know,

1399
01:08:40,120 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 2: all this stuff about it, but it was important that

1400
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:45,720
Speaker 2: they be the ones that write it because everybody else

1401
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:48,720
Speaker 2: and got the lived experience and you fucking around to

1402
01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 2: say it do some shit that's highly offensive or highly

1403
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:56,640
Speaker 2: just unconnected, and now we all got to live with

1404
01:08:56,680 --> 01:09:00,720
Speaker 2: that failure, you know, anywhere. It's like, damn, who thought

1405
01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:02,040
Speaker 2: this would be a good part to write?

1406
01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:03,760
Speaker 5: And it's like some dude, you know.

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01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:06,439
Speaker 2: So the point being like, I don't think it is

1408
01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 2: something that's upsetting. I think if anything, it shows the

1409
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 2: intentionality about diversity. But at the same time, the more

1410
01:09:14,320 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 2: the only part that's quote unquote upsetting to me is like,

1411
01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 2: as you said, this weird limitation mindset of like we

1412
01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 2: need black writers will get one, you know, or something

1413
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 2: like that way, you know, because no one wants to

1414
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:29,920
Speaker 2: lose their job, and then they don't want to expand

1415
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:32,879
Speaker 2: it by like five jobs and five black people or whatever.

1416
01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:36,200
Speaker 2: And that's just the one. That's just one area, right

1417
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:38,640
Speaker 2: black they might have needed. They might not have had

1418
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:40,880
Speaker 2: any LGBTQ people in it. They might not have had

1419
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 2: any they might not have a lot of women, they

1420
01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 2: might not have had people from other ethnic origins, other

1421
01:09:46,479 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 2: locations around the world. So yeah, but yeah, I'm not

1422
01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 2: fucked with it really, to be honest, because I just

1423
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:54,639
Speaker 2: I can see how somebody would tell you that out

1424
01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:57,479
Speaker 2: of a good place, and it not be bad thing.

1425
01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 3: Right, and it not means be a bad I think

1426
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:02,880
Speaker 3: a lot of times people associate that with a bad

1427
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:06,439
Speaker 3: thing because their own personal interactions with people. But a

1428
01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:08,960
Speaker 3: lot of it is just between a doubt you know,

1429
01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 3: we went through you know versus you only got here,

1430
01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:14,760
Speaker 3: because those are two said.

1431
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 2: If he said if he said it, if he had

1432
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 2: animosity or beef for her, I would assume she said

1433
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,400
Speaker 2: it in a fuck that way, agreed, But being that

1434
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:24,680
Speaker 2: he don't, I assume she said it to him in

1435
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:27,439
Speaker 2: the way that a lot of people say it when

1436
01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:29,760
Speaker 2: they're giving you some real talk, when they're when they're

1437
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:32,639
Speaker 2: you know, like, we've had instances in our writers room

1438
01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:35,120
Speaker 2: where something comes up and we're like, I'm glad a

1439
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 2: person from this background was in this room because we

1440
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 2: was about to go out here fuck up and that,

1441
01:10:41,160 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 2: And I don't think there's anything wrong acknowledging that that

1442
01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:47,120
Speaker 2: is the value to the room partially is not just

1443
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:49,919
Speaker 2: you're not just here because you're talented and stuff here because.

1444
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:51,080
Speaker 5: You know shit that we don't know.

1445
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,439
Speaker 2: Agreed, And a bunch of white people sitting around writing

1446
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:55,360
Speaker 2: some shit is definitely gonna fuck up in a bunch

1447
01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 2: of different areas, So you know, you might be the

1448
01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:00,360
Speaker 2: person that can get us to finesse it through in

1449
01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 2: a way that we wouldn't. So I think if he

1450
01:11:02,640 --> 01:11:06,760
Speaker 2: had beef, I feel differently. But my guessing she just

1451
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,080
Speaker 2: hit him with that, like you look you're doing You're

1452
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 2: kicking ass. She's doing a great job here, and you know,

1453
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 2: I'm glad that we got you on board, you know.

1454
01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 2: And he knows he not stupid. He look around that room,

1455
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:21,160
Speaker 2: he knows who else is not in that room. So,

1456
01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 2: like I said, but that's just me being on the

1457
01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:25,679
Speaker 2: other side of things where I wouldn't have been offended

1458
01:11:25,720 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 2: by that either.

1459
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 4: You know.

1460
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 2: Anyway, Candace Owns cries about a designer who refused to

1461
01:11:32,720 --> 01:11:35,840
Speaker 2: work with her husband and suggest it's like Jim Crow.

1462
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 5: Uh. I guess so Vanity Fair interviewed her. What is

1463
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:49,000
Speaker 5: Vanity Fair doing?

1464
01:11:50,280 --> 01:11:51,559
Speaker 3: I really?

1465
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:54,679
Speaker 5: Wow, that's that's wild as fuck.

1466
01:11:55,800 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, Vanity Fair did a Canvas Owns interview the Cannis

1467
01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 2: Owen's friend to Kanye.

1468
01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 5: Powerful powertroll parlor tradwife.

1469
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:08,080
Speaker 2: Is playing for Keys. This is by Emily Jane Fox

1470
01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:11,360
Speaker 2: from April fifth. Triggering People is her business and business good,

1471
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:14,599
Speaker 2: she tells Vanity Fair. As for Trump twenty twenty four,

1472
01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 2: it's complicated. I feel like there's a movement happening around

1473
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:23,639
Speaker 2: the media right now, as Trump prepares to run again

1474
01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:26,839
Speaker 2: and is obviously under heavy fire from.

1475
01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:27,759
Speaker 5: His legal issues.

1476
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:31,759
Speaker 2: I feel like there's a movement to legitimize his folks

1477
01:12:32,040 --> 01:12:34,240
Speaker 2: in the press because like Marty Taylor.

1478
01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:36,759
Speaker 5: Green got interviewed on Sixty Minutes, they did a profile

1479
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:37,240
Speaker 5: on her.

1480
01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:40,960
Speaker 2: It feels like that, like we need to bring these

1481
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:44,559
Speaker 2: people back to the forefront and treat them like, you know,

1482
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:47,360
Speaker 2: fixtures of life and just like hey, this is just

1483
01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:48,320
Speaker 2: their business model.

1484
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:52,719
Speaker 5: It's crazy. But yeah, She trying to talk about how

1485
01:12:53,600 --> 01:12:54,480
Speaker 5: her husband.

1486
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 2: Sent an email to this dude, David Netto, who apparently

1487
01:12:57,560 --> 01:13:05,560
Speaker 2: is like an interior designer or something, architect whatnot, and

1488
01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:07,479
Speaker 2: they had went to a friend's house that he had

1489
01:13:07,479 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 2: worked on and was like, oh, we like to have

1490
01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 2: him come work on our shit, and apparently he sent

1491
01:13:13,200 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 2: back an email like yeah, no, you know what I mean, Like,

1492
01:13:18,880 --> 01:13:19,920
Speaker 2: I'm not working with y'all.

1493
01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 5: Y'all terrible. Dear George, thank you for the inquiry.

1494
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:25,519
Speaker 2: I'd rather get beating the ass with a Wooden Plank

1495
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:28,200
Speaker 2: to ever go near either of you con regards David

1496
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:38,280
Speaker 2: huh So, yeah, it was. He definitely was not feeling them,

1497
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:43,839
Speaker 2: and she, of course was acting sad about it. Suddenly

1498
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:46,720
Speaker 2: she cares about racism. If a white conservative mail had

1499
01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:49,920
Speaker 2: written that email to an outspoken black liberal, he would

1500
01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 2: have lost everything.

1501
01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 5: They would have said. It was like Jim Crow. Well,

1502
01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:56,639
Speaker 5: here's what's interesting.

1503
01:13:57,720 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 2: If that was the case, you would have been the

1504
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 2: one to the white person, because that's what you do

1505
01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:05,360
Speaker 2: for a living. You would have said it was his right,

1506
01:14:05,680 --> 01:14:09,160
Speaker 2: and it wasn't no problem. You just want to outrage

1507
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 2: when it benefits you. You don't want it when it

1508
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:14,320
Speaker 2: go the other way. You always telling us not to

1509
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 2: get outraged. When you said George Floyd's murder was was

1510
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:22,000
Speaker 2: not murder at all and made a whole documentary about it,

1511
01:14:23,120 --> 01:14:24,439
Speaker 2: the black people got upset.

1512
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:25,519
Speaker 5: We didn't matter.

1513
01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 2: So it's just funny to see her try to pull

1514
01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:32,920
Speaker 2: that out anyway. Your cars for me, she's a permanent

1515
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:36,880
Speaker 2: your cars. She's just a terrible person.

1516
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 3: Care a zero girl.

1517
01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:41,840
Speaker 5: I don't care zero, okay, cares not fuck it, don't care.

1518
01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 5: I feel like sus I hear her name, your cars.

1519
01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:50,080
Speaker 5: You know she on the list. Let's see what else happened.

1520
01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 2: Gloilla said she was racially profiled by employee at a

1521
01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 2: hotel valet parking lot while trying to verify that she

1522
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:00,440
Speaker 2: owned her own car.

1523
01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:02,599
Speaker 5: Mm hmm yeah uh.

1524
01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 2: On Sadday, Glorella took the Instagram event about her being

1525
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:13,920
Speaker 2: racially profiled. I guess you know, they say she came

1526
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 2: up with them, but then they really fucked with her.

1527
01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:20,240
Speaker 5: Just like to ask you everywhere.

1528
01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 3: Okay, So all right, I'm sorry, I don't Hey, what

1529
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 3: the fuck is up?

1530
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 5: Y'all?

1531
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:27,680
Speaker 3: Yes, it's me.

1532
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 5: I'm driving again Beechwood.

1533
01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:31,200
Speaker 3: I'm driving his hold now. I don't get no foot

1534
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:34,800
Speaker 3: with my nails on my mo way to get him

1535
01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:36,719
Speaker 3: done right now. But y'all quick story.

1536
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:41,760
Speaker 10: So I was, uh, I was leaven my hotel. I

1537
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:44,240
Speaker 10: went down to the valet to get him the keys,

1538
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 10: I mean get the keys, had to bring my car

1539
01:15:46,560 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 10: back down, and so I'm telling them the number on

1540
01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:51,120
Speaker 10: my room. I'm like, zero zero zero zero. That's not

1541
01:15:51,160 --> 01:15:52,679
Speaker 10: the real number. But you know that's just a number

1542
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 10: I'm saying. And so he like he looked at it.

1543
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 10: He said, you said, zero zero zero zero I'm like, yeah,

1544
01:15:59,280 --> 01:16:02,360
Speaker 10: He like, mm hmm, this isn't George.

1545
01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:03,960
Speaker 5: This is a Mercedes car.

1546
01:16:04,400 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 3: This car is expensive. This isn't George.

1547
01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:08,680
Speaker 10: I'm like, what the fuck you mean, bitch.

1548
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:10,680
Speaker 3: Give me my motherfucker car. Is my motherfucking car?

1549
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:13,280
Speaker 10: Just talk to the motherfucking numb on the room and

1550
01:16:13,280 --> 01:16:14,840
Speaker 10: then I ain't give me the car. He just knew

1551
01:16:14,880 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 10: I was sitting like people you steal someth races these days,

1552
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:18,600
Speaker 10: Like how you gonna look at me and tell me

1553
01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:19,160
Speaker 10: this sain't.

1554
01:16:18,920 --> 01:16:21,160
Speaker 3: My motherfucker car. The fuck?

1555
01:16:22,439 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 10: So I had the motherfucking pull up my video. I

1556
01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 10: don't know who the fuck he thought I was, y'all.

1557
01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:29,600
Speaker 10: Then like I don't know if he thought because I

1558
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:31,599
Speaker 10: had some sweats on and shit that I want she did?

1559
01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 10: I want on she cause you know I'll be trying

1560
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:35,200
Speaker 10: to have I don't be wrong people to seize me

1561
01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:35,559
Speaker 10: and sit.

1562
01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:37,720
Speaker 3: But I had to go on a lie to his

1563
01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:38,400
Speaker 3: ass real quick.

1564
01:16:38,600 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 5: I'm a beer, you know, stop playing with me.

1565
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:42,400
Speaker 3: Oh could you think you're talking to you know you're

1566
01:16:42,439 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 3: talking to a motherfucking bitch. I will have my people

1567
01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:48,200
Speaker 3: to suit you in this whole motherfucking god damn. She

1568
01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:50,479
Speaker 3: fuck how you gonna tell me this ain't my call?

1569
01:16:50,640 --> 01:17:00,240
Speaker 3: You Rachel propiling me out? Fuck you profilow me. Ho, man,

1570
01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 3: she is a do that's hilarious.

1571
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 2: I know Twitter Black Twitter tried to cancel her, but

1572
01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:06,519
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna stop supporting her.

1573
01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 5: I love her.

1574
01:17:09,080 --> 01:17:11,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, uh zero ten, one hundred, Karen, we got the

1575
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:14,360
Speaker 2: story you know from straight from glow mouth.

1576
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:19,880
Speaker 3: Oh that's that's a hundred because, uh, bench if I

1577
01:17:19,920 --> 01:17:21,800
Speaker 3: tell you my number is one two three fold, you

1578
01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:25,080
Speaker 3: better go pick my ship up. Like I'm the one

1579
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 3: that you know. Roger will be like, oh I knew

1580
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:28,880
Speaker 3: some ship was gonna go wrong. I'd be like, can

1581
01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 3: I speak to the manager?

1582
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 5: Karen is definitely to speak to the manager.

1583
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, the funk you mean? This ain't going right?

1584
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:36,759
Speaker 3: I got my my ship in the row. We gonna

1585
01:17:36,840 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 3: we're gonna handle this right here.

1586
01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, So what did you score it?

1587
01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:42,639
Speaker 3: A hundred?

1588
01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:44,559
Speaker 5: One hundred? I gave it one hundred two.

1589
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:48,599
Speaker 2: Like I also like, you know, if a white person

1590
01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:51,200
Speaker 2: we know, but if a white person was showed up

1591
01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 2: in some sweats and said it was the.

1592
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:54,880
Speaker 5: BMW, it wouldn't have been a problem all.

1593
01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:57,960
Speaker 2: They wouldn't have been a problem. It would be like, oh,

1594
01:17:57,960 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 2: this billionaire must like to dress down. That would have

1595
01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:03,840
Speaker 2: the answer all a sudden when her was like you stealing.

1596
01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:11,839
Speaker 5: All right. Last one, Daniel Caesar is back in the news.

1597
01:18:13,400 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 2: He of course famously asked black Twitter to cancel him

1598
01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:20,719
Speaker 2: a long time ago.

1599
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:23,360
Speaker 5: He's a musician, Okay.

1600
01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:26,519
Speaker 3: He's young, right, yeah, and he had went up for

1601
01:18:27,560 --> 01:18:28,679
Speaker 3: his girl, yes.

1602
01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:33,920
Speaker 1: Jewels, Oh I remember this, Yes, And he said cancel

1603
01:18:34,000 --> 01:18:38,639
Speaker 1: me then, and they did and kinda kinda I found

1604
01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:40,240
Speaker 1: this out months ago because I was curious.

1605
01:18:40,280 --> 01:18:41,599
Speaker 5: I just asked about him on Twitter.

1606
01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:45,960
Speaker 2: Apparently he's been like producing and writing and doing a

1607
01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:49,200
Speaker 2: bunch of he's been making a shit ton of money. Okay, yeah,

1608
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:51,400
Speaker 2: like nobody knows it because he hadn't been doing it

1609
01:18:51,439 --> 01:18:52,680
Speaker 2: for himself.

1610
01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:56,519
Speaker 3: Right, But you know they quote unquote, they was like, Okay,

1611
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 3: we're just not gonna buy your album, But that don't

1612
01:18:58,240 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 3: mean he can't do other shit to make money.

1613
01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like apparently he worked with some pretty big fucking

1614
01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:08,000
Speaker 2: acts and probably getting some pretty big checks from that shit.

1615
01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 2: But you know, it's fine. He said that dumb ass shit,

1616
01:19:15,320 --> 01:19:22,240
Speaker 2: but you know, he he he courted with being canceled

1617
01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:25,719
Speaker 2: on purpose in twenty eighteen, he retweeted and deleted tweets

1618
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 2: from conservative Candice Owens. He noted that he did not

1619
01:19:28,439 --> 01:19:31,320
Speaker 2: want to be tomorrow for the tweets and that people

1620
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:33,800
Speaker 2: should hear posting arguments. He later clarifies comments in the

1621
01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 2: podcasts for any misunderstandings.

1622
01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:38,120
Speaker 5: Let's see.

1623
01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:42,479
Speaker 2: He defended his friend yes Jules via Instagram. She had

1624
01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:45,760
Speaker 2: been criticized for her insensitive comments on race, particularly those

1625
01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:48,800
Speaker 2: regarding black women. He came to her defense, asking why

1626
01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:50,880
Speaker 2: some black people were being so mean and called her

1627
01:19:51,120 --> 01:19:55,560
Speaker 2: call out culture overly sensitive. His comments were received negatively

1628
01:19:55,600 --> 01:19:57,720
Speaker 2: by some on social media. Let her apologize for the

1629
01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:00,599
Speaker 2: way he gave his opinions, saying, and I was talking

1630
01:20:00,640 --> 01:20:03,320
Speaker 2: down to you guys. I apologize for I expressed my idea.

1631
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:05,880
Speaker 2: There was no one there to challenge my ideas. That's

1632
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:09,519
Speaker 2: also dangerous. That's why it's tyrannical. That's why I went wrong.

1633
01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:10,679
Speaker 2: I believe in what I said.

1634
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:12,680
Speaker 5: A real man can admit when he's wrong. I can

1635
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:13,639
Speaker 5: admit when I'm wrong.

1636
01:20:15,240 --> 01:20:18,920
Speaker 2: So then to this what I saw this last night

1637
01:20:19,400 --> 01:20:21,880
Speaker 2: where someone was like, he apologized, So I guess I

1638
01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:24,240
Speaker 2: didn't know he had already apologized before or maybe that's

1639
01:20:24,240 --> 01:20:28,240
Speaker 2: the apologies we're about to see. But here's here's the

1640
01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:30,040
Speaker 2: one from last night.

1641
01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:38,559
Speaker 11: I completely understand where like the the the response, and

1642
01:20:38,640 --> 01:20:42,599
Speaker 11: I was, yeah, in time after taking time to get

1643
01:20:42,600 --> 01:20:48,879
Speaker 11: over myself and to to really honestly look at myself

1644
01:20:48,920 --> 01:20:50,439
Speaker 11: and everything else happening like.

1645
01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:51,000
Speaker 2: I was wrong.

1646
01:20:51,200 --> 01:20:56,680
Speaker 5: You know I was wrong, and you know I'm sorry. Hem.

1647
01:20:56,760 --> 01:20:59,559
Speaker 2: It took him five years for that, because that was

1648
01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:01,960
Speaker 2: twenty eight TEENA said, right, like, or was it?

1649
01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:05,880
Speaker 5: Let me see what was twenty nineteen? That was twenty nineteen.

1650
01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:08,280
Speaker 5: Took him four years to say that.

1651
01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:13,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, the thing is he has not

1652
01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 2: really been canceled. He's been canceled by y'all quote unquote

1653
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:22,840
Speaker 2: like the social media. I'm looking at Grammy Awards. Oh,

1654
01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 2: he got tons of justice as a featured artist and

1655
01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:29,240
Speaker 2: songwriter Album of the Year, Record of the Year, Song

1656
01:21:29,320 --> 01:21:33,280
Speaker 2: of the Year of Peaches twenty twenty two. He made

1657
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:36,240
Speaker 2: that song with Justin Bieber and Give You on Best

1658
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:39,479
Speaker 2: R and B Performance, Best Music Video, nominated in all

1659
01:21:39,520 --> 01:21:43,439
Speaker 2: those categories one Best Part with Her in.

1660
01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:48,679
Speaker 5: Twenty nineteen for Best R and P B Performance. Yeah,

1661
01:21:49,040 --> 01:21:51,479
Speaker 5: he seems to clearly still be working.

1662
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:54,559
Speaker 3: Oh, yeah. People, people don't quote unquote I was joking

1663
01:21:54,560 --> 01:21:55,920
Speaker 3: about the cauncel who don't keep canceled.

1664
01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:57,800
Speaker 5: They just no, no, no, It's fine if you thought

1665
01:21:57,800 --> 01:21:58,840
Speaker 5: he did, because I thought he did.

1666
01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 3: Okay, people just then they move around and you know,

1667
01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 3: and I'm talking about it. I don't keep up. So

1668
01:22:04,240 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 3: I was like, well, I guess he was quote unquote

1669
01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:07,960
Speaker 3: canceled because I know the album came out and everybody

1670
01:22:08,040 --> 01:22:09,720
Speaker 3: made jokes and then I just didn't hear about no more.

1671
01:22:09,760 --> 01:22:10,680
Speaker 3: That's because I don't keep up.

1672
01:22:10,720 --> 01:22:10,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1673
01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:14,200
Speaker 2: Nominated for bill Boarder Wheels, Askap Awards This is in

1674
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:17,440
Speaker 2: twenty twenty two and twenty twenty one, and TV.

1675
01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:19,960
Speaker 5: Awards in our JA Awards, People's Choice Awards, like.

1676
01:22:20,080 --> 01:22:28,400
Speaker 2: He never stopped being somebody but uh yes zero ten hundred.

1677
01:22:27,280 --> 01:22:30,840
Speaker 5: Oh zero zero all right, can said zero?

1678
01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:36,080
Speaker 2: Oh man accidentally, uh put somebody's message on the stage.

1679
01:22:36,120 --> 01:22:37,920
Speaker 2: I don't mean that, but I can't.

1680
01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:40,840
Speaker 5: Wondering whatever, I'm like, I made a mistake. You know,

1681
01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:42,519
Speaker 5: I'll be making mistakes my parents.

1682
01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:44,240
Speaker 3: I was wondering. I was like, how did I take

1683
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 3: that down?

1684
01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:47,880
Speaker 5: No joke I've ever told his made Karen as me

1685
01:22:47,960 --> 01:22:48,719
Speaker 5: making a mistake.

1686
01:22:48,880 --> 01:22:50,040
Speaker 3: I don't know why either.

1687
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:55,080
Speaker 5: It's funny to be right for a whole last TV

1688
01:22:55,200 --> 01:23:02,679
Speaker 5: show anyway, This is what love is, y'all. What number

1689
01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:03,320
Speaker 5: did you say?

1690
01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:04,120
Speaker 3: Zero?

1691
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:05,080
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1692
01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:08,080
Speaker 3: I yeah, I too.

1693
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:11,400
Speaker 2: It was weird for me because I never really was

1694
01:23:11,439 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 2: a fan of his in a way that made me

1695
01:23:13,520 --> 01:23:14,599
Speaker 2: feel like I lost something.

1696
01:23:14,640 --> 01:23:17,040
Speaker 3: I would bet gonna lie.

1697
01:23:17,120 --> 01:23:17,799
Speaker 5: It's a very.

1698
01:23:17,680 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 2: Easy foulcut for me. So I got zero if I'm

1699
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:23,840
Speaker 2: being honest, because I don't care. I wasn't castling him

1700
01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:26,680
Speaker 2: or uncastling him, and I thought that, Yes, jud shit

1701
01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:27,599
Speaker 2: was just stupid.

1702
01:23:27,680 --> 01:23:31,960
Speaker 5: He just sounded stupid and young like, and he sounded

1703
01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:34,479
Speaker 5: like that was his friend. That's how now I don't

1704
01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:36,120
Speaker 5: know that they were really friends because I ain't.

1705
01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:37,680
Speaker 2: Never heard her say a word in his defense, but

1706
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:42,479
Speaker 2: it sounded like some dumb shit you say when he's like.

1707
01:23:42,560 --> 01:23:45,800
Speaker 5: My friend's not racist, guns, come on you being mean?

1708
01:23:46,640 --> 01:23:54,880
Speaker 2: And it's like, okay, for real, dog, all right, let uh.

1709
01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:57,040
Speaker 5: Let's do some guests the race and then we'll get

1710
01:23:57,080 --> 01:24:01,160
Speaker 5: out of here. Everybody. It was my guest the race music?

1711
01:24:02,640 --> 01:24:06,760
Speaker 5: Oh what the here? We go?

1712
01:24:11,479 --> 01:24:11,679
Speaker 4: Right?

1713
01:24:16,800 --> 01:24:17,160
Speaker 2: All right?

1714
01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:28,280
Speaker 3: All right? All right?

1715
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:34,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know what happened to yes, juice

1716
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:38,679
Speaker 2: either y'all feeless she had like a horn tape released

1717
01:24:38,840 --> 01:24:40,760
Speaker 2: or some ship, and then that was the last I

1718
01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:41,360
Speaker 2: heard about it.

1719
01:24:41,439 --> 01:24:43,360
Speaker 3: I do not know.

1720
01:24:43,600 --> 01:24:47,040
Speaker 2: I'm sure she's somewhere with a lot of famous black

1721
01:24:47,120 --> 01:24:47,840
Speaker 2: men trying to funk.

1722
01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:50,040
Speaker 5: Still, she is a white woman with a big ass

1723
01:24:50,080 --> 01:24:53,160
Speaker 5: so and they can always have a home in the community,

1724
01:24:53,200 --> 01:24:57,799
Speaker 5: if you know what I'm saying. Guys. Uh, it's well,

1725
01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:03,360
Speaker 5: it's well documented how we how we how we get down?

1726
01:25:04,200 --> 01:25:06,479
Speaker 3: Uh?

1727
01:25:06,600 --> 01:25:13,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, isbell document? I like fat as white goes a

1728
01:25:13,439 --> 01:25:13,960
Speaker 5: thick time.

1729
01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all know how you know she's gonna always have

1730
01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:24,280
Speaker 2: a home amongst the bruthers.

1731
01:25:24,920 --> 01:25:28,880
Speaker 5: Uh, but anyway, this sacond is true.

1732
01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:32,920
Speaker 2: First Class American Airlines passenger, Oh, guess the races we

1733
01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:36,360
Speaker 2: go around the globe, read different articles and guess the

1734
01:25:36,439 --> 01:25:37,400
Speaker 2: race of the people involved.

1735
01:25:37,400 --> 01:25:39,400
Speaker 5: Can play as long chap and plays long, and we're

1736
01:25:39,479 --> 01:25:40,639
Speaker 5: all racist.

1737
01:25:41,200 --> 01:25:44,000
Speaker 2: First Class American Airlines passenger has a tantrum like a

1738
01:25:44,000 --> 01:25:46,519
Speaker 2: five year old when he can't get a drink before takeoff,

1739
01:25:46,560 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 2: forcing the police to drag him off in handcuffs.

1740
01:25:49,760 --> 01:25:53,400
Speaker 3: What mm hmm, you know, get it, give you a drink?

1741
01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:53,639
Speaker 4: Right?

1742
01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1743
01:25:55,040 --> 01:26:00,479
Speaker 2: The unidentified man was supposedly requesting a cocktail but denied

1744
01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:04,000
Speaker 2: it by officers, uh, prompting a row that caused the

1745
01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:05,280
Speaker 2: staff to call the police.

1746
01:26:05,560 --> 01:26:08,519
Speaker 3: Was like, sir, yeah, you see, all these people were

1747
01:26:08,560 --> 01:26:10,599
Speaker 3: waiting to get on the plane. You're gonna have to wait.

1748
01:26:11,120 --> 01:26:13,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, Or even if they just didn't want to.

1749
01:26:12,960 --> 01:26:15,760
Speaker 3: Do it, yeah, right, they could have been preparing to

1750
01:26:15,800 --> 01:26:17,559
Speaker 3: take off, and it could be a lot of reasons why.

1751
01:26:17,680 --> 01:26:20,160
Speaker 2: And if anything, you just made it longer to take

1752
01:26:20,200 --> 01:26:23,240
Speaker 2: off and longer to get to your destination and eventually

1753
01:26:23,479 --> 01:26:26,320
Speaker 2: much longer when you got thrown off the plane. I

1754
01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:28,280
Speaker 2: don't know if y'all can hear this audio, So let

1755
01:26:28,280 --> 01:26:29,759
Speaker 2: me know. I'm gonna play the audio.

1756
01:26:30,439 --> 01:26:33,000
Speaker 3: This isn't I don't need nobody else.

1757
01:26:33,360 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 5: I don't need nobody else. So can y'all hear that audio?

1758
01:26:37,920 --> 01:26:39,080
Speaker 3: I can, but I don't know if they can.

1759
01:26:39,280 --> 01:26:41,559
Speaker 5: Yeah, the chat room, Can y'all hear that audio?

1760
01:26:41,840 --> 01:26:44,240
Speaker 3: He just played? Chat room? Let us know, because we

1761
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:46,439
Speaker 3: don't know. We don't know if y'all can hear it?

1762
01:26:47,800 --> 01:26:51,280
Speaker 2: They say, yes, okay, cool, all right, So let's this

1763
01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:53,439
Speaker 2: will give you some audio clues as to his race.

1764
01:26:54,200 --> 01:26:54,720
Speaker 3: We're not going to.

1765
01:26:56,520 --> 01:26:59,280
Speaker 5: We're not going to go back and forth investigation. Now

1766
01:26:59,320 --> 01:27:03,280
Speaker 5: you have oh about the sea, and we need an exit.

1767
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:06,560
Speaker 5: You can record if you can do all that protectiction.

1768
01:27:08,960 --> 01:27:11,080
Speaker 5: You've been asking from the pilot off the plane.

1769
01:27:10,960 --> 01:27:13,960
Speaker 12: Ustile time somebody have called the police and can move

1770
01:27:14,040 --> 01:27:15,240
Speaker 12: on planes respectful.

1771
01:27:16,880 --> 01:27:18,000
Speaker 5: You're not respectful.

1772
01:27:19,680 --> 01:27:21,040
Speaker 2: You're not asking to.

1773
01:27:21,040 --> 01:27:25,080
Speaker 5: You just trying to got the connections for everyone.

1774
01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:43,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, so he's not letting fast forward a bit

1775
01:27:43,360 --> 01:27:47,240
Speaker 2: to the more. When he got louder, I didn't realize

1776
01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:52,240
Speaker 2: this video is gonna be so long. It really pops

1777
01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:58,040
Speaker 2: off with one of the officers grabs his phone.

1778
01:28:00,400 --> 01:28:10,479
Speaker 3: You know you stole my phone.

1779
01:28:12,120 --> 01:28:19,320
Speaker 5: You don't know.

1780
01:28:18,720 --> 01:28:20,439
Speaker 4: A lot to record my phone.

1781
01:28:20,520 --> 01:28:22,799
Speaker 2: Now, normally I am on the side of citizens reporting

1782
01:28:23,000 --> 01:28:23,920
Speaker 2: recording the police.

1783
01:28:24,280 --> 01:28:29,000
Speaker 5: Okay, I just not say that. You can't do that.

1784
01:28:30,160 --> 01:28:31,280
Speaker 5: I'll get up, you.

1785
01:28:34,080 --> 01:28:38,760
Speaker 3: Get your phone and you know up stop.

1786
01:28:44,920 --> 01:28:52,960
Speaker 5: Something now.

1787
01:28:53,520 --> 01:28:56,280
Speaker 2: I know in your minds, seeing hearing the audio, not

1788
01:28:56,320 --> 01:28:59,280
Speaker 2: seeing that video, you probably think they're like choking him

1789
01:28:59,320 --> 01:28:59,880
Speaker 2: or beating him.

1790
01:29:00,120 --> 01:29:00,640
Speaker 5: They are not.

1791
01:29:01,720 --> 01:29:04,320
Speaker 2: They just made him get up and he started walking

1792
01:29:04,320 --> 01:29:06,160
Speaker 2: off the plane, saying.

1793
01:29:05,880 --> 01:29:29,280
Speaker 12: Stopping stop, I.

1794
01:29:36,960 --> 01:29:37,599
Speaker 3: Don't feel that.

1795
01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:45,120
Speaker 8: Hold on him going down the hallway screaming because you

1796
01:29:45,160 --> 01:29:47,800
Speaker 8: know how you got that rimped on the plane.

1797
01:29:47,880 --> 01:29:48,720
Speaker 5: And what's having it?

1798
01:29:48,880 --> 01:29:50,680
Speaker 3: And so he's screaming.

1799
01:29:50,320 --> 01:29:54,080
Speaker 8: Going down, going down that hallway as cold as ship

1800
01:29:55,479 --> 01:30:06,519
Speaker 8: back into the airport.

1801
01:30:01,320 --> 01:30:03,920
Speaker 3: That uneven hallway. You fucking around and tumbled down if

1802
01:30:03,960 --> 01:30:04,960
Speaker 3: you ain't paying no attention.

1803
01:30:05,120 --> 01:30:07,719
Speaker 2: And they got like three officers, a bunch of people

1804
01:30:07,760 --> 01:30:10,479
Speaker 2: in the that loaded the luggage on with the yellow

1805
01:30:11,280 --> 01:30:14,320
Speaker 2: flight like the yellow vest on and shit.

1806
01:30:14,439 --> 01:30:17,639
Speaker 3: So and you know, plane people going, oh lord, now

1807
01:30:17,640 --> 01:30:19,720
Speaker 3: it's gonna take us forty five minutes because now I

1808
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:22,680
Speaker 3: got to restart my video. Well, I tell everybody your

1809
01:30:23,080 --> 01:30:25,240
Speaker 3: ostagar mad. Your oxygen mags fall.

1810
01:30:25,160 --> 01:30:28,320
Speaker 5: From the left right. If you want to drink, wanna

1811
01:30:28,400 --> 01:30:29,240
Speaker 5: be provided to you.

1812
01:30:29,240 --> 01:30:32,200
Speaker 2: You don't need to throw a tantrum, right, all right, Karen,

1813
01:30:32,200 --> 01:30:32,800
Speaker 2: guess the race?

1814
01:30:33,520 --> 01:30:36,799
Speaker 3: Oh oh White? The flight attendant was black.

1815
01:30:37,840 --> 01:30:40,920
Speaker 2: The flight attendant was black. They weren't flight attendant, they

1816
01:30:40,920 --> 01:30:44,960
Speaker 2: were police officers. But all right, let's check the chat

1817
01:30:45,040 --> 01:30:49,519
Speaker 2: room and see what they believe. Uh, screaming like White,

1818
01:30:51,800 --> 01:30:54,920
Speaker 2: I don't know if it posted argue with police and

1819
01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:59,760
Speaker 2: live to tailtale White he was swimming in entitlement, but

1820
01:30:59,840 --> 01:31:02,280
Speaker 2: now he was drowning in Fuck around and find out white.

1821
01:31:02,760 --> 01:31:06,639
Speaker 2: He wanted to hendy and sprite up at the Negro cousin.

1822
01:31:06,680 --> 01:31:09,639
Speaker 2: Greg White cut the malarkey ass white man. The correct

1823
01:31:09,680 --> 01:31:10,679
Speaker 2: answer is.

1824
01:31:11,320 --> 01:31:13,000
Speaker 5: Most of you went white. You got it right.

1825
01:31:28,439 --> 01:31:37,000
Speaker 2: One person did say black. Yeah, you can see all

1826
01:31:37,000 --> 01:31:39,759
Speaker 2: the officers around him are black. They were not playing

1827
01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:42,280
Speaker 2: that shit. That's where him going.

1828
01:31:44,240 --> 01:31:48,479
Speaker 3: I said stop, and they got they got the nice planes, y'all. Y'all,

1829
01:31:48,560 --> 01:31:50,320
Speaker 3: y'all know what I mean when I say nice planes.

1830
01:31:50,320 --> 01:31:52,479
Speaker 3: They got like the ones that's made out of cotton,

1831
01:31:52,479 --> 01:31:54,080
Speaker 3: and they got the ones that made out of leather.

1832
01:31:54,160 --> 01:31:56,519
Speaker 3: They was on the nice little leather planes, the one

1833
01:31:56,560 --> 01:31:59,280
Speaker 3: that sometimes go international across the country.

1834
01:32:00,760 --> 01:32:09,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the part where he started freaking out here. Also,

1835
01:32:10,080 --> 01:32:13,880
Speaker 2: only I'm sorry, only a white person thinks they can

1836
01:32:14,360 --> 01:32:18,200
Speaker 2: calm down and arrest like in the middle of like

1837
01:32:18,240 --> 01:32:21,120
Speaker 2: you just talked all that shit, and then when it's

1838
01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:25,120
Speaker 2: like stop, I'm fine. We're not securing you to protect

1839
01:32:25,160 --> 01:32:28,320
Speaker 2: you from you, nigga. You're going home today.

1840
01:32:28,320 --> 01:32:30,360
Speaker 5: Or you're going to jail. You're not going to home.

1841
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:32,639
Speaker 5: You're going off this plane right now.

1842
01:32:32,800 --> 01:32:35,080
Speaker 3: They probably got a jail inside the airport that your

1843
01:32:35,120 --> 01:32:37,200
Speaker 3: ass gonna be sitting there at Joe. Now, your family

1844
01:32:37,439 --> 01:32:39,559
Speaker 3: who just dropped you off twenty five minutes ago, got

1845
01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:41,360
Speaker 3: to come back around and pick your ass up.

1846
01:32:41,560 --> 01:32:41,720
Speaker 5: Right.

1847
01:32:41,760 --> 01:32:45,719
Speaker 2: He's like, I considered my actions and I think they're fine.

1848
01:32:46,320 --> 01:32:49,960
Speaker 2: I'm like Clarence Thomas, I think what I'm doing is fine,

1849
01:32:51,160 --> 01:32:53,080
Speaker 2: and I just don't know why anyone else needs to

1850
01:32:53,080 --> 01:32:53,559
Speaker 2: be involved.

1851
01:32:53,560 --> 01:32:55,559
Speaker 3: I will not recuse myself from this plane.

1852
01:32:55,800 --> 01:33:12,160
Speaker 13: Right, they're trying to run away from them.

1853
01:33:03,280 --> 01:33:13,760
Speaker 7: Shoot lord, they got all the people in the.

1854
01:33:13,800 --> 01:33:16,720
Speaker 3: Yellow vests down there, the person that's supposed to be

1855
01:33:16,800 --> 01:33:20,000
Speaker 3: controlling there's a person that actually controlled the thing that

1856
01:33:20,040 --> 01:33:21,599
Speaker 3: connects to the plane. All of them had to come

1857
01:33:21,600 --> 01:33:25,040
Speaker 3: out there. They look cubical. You got you got the

1858
01:33:25,120 --> 01:33:29,360
Speaker 3: people that help assist people down the ramp down there,

1859
01:33:29,360 --> 01:33:31,920
Speaker 3: because there's people that actually, you know, for people that

1860
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:34,080
Speaker 3: can't walk the remp they got pushed in, you know.

1861
01:33:34,479 --> 01:33:36,280
Speaker 3: And on top of that, you're trying to for you

1862
01:33:36,320 --> 01:33:38,400
Speaker 3: to go into the airport for somebody else to arrest

1863
01:33:38,439 --> 01:33:40,320
Speaker 3: you because you're not gonna get through the airport.

1864
01:33:40,520 --> 01:33:43,160
Speaker 2: They're clearly not trying to help them either. No, they're

1865
01:33:43,200 --> 01:33:45,160
Speaker 2: there to be like, come watch this. You got to

1866
01:33:45,280 --> 01:33:46,040
Speaker 2: watch this.

1867
01:33:46,040 --> 01:33:48,160
Speaker 3: This man crying and he lost the shoe, which she

1868
01:33:48,320 --> 01:33:48,840
Speaker 3: probably would.

1869
01:33:49,080 --> 01:33:50,280
Speaker 5: Is somebody gonna pick the shoe up?

1870
01:33:50,280 --> 01:33:56,280
Speaker 3: Ship, I would try the last but in the trying

1871
01:33:56,280 --> 01:33:56,760
Speaker 3: not to laugh.

1872
01:33:56,840 --> 01:33:58,679
Speaker 5: Look right there, that's whom holding that laughing.

1873
01:33:59,120 --> 01:34:01,320
Speaker 2: You're like, I'm not gonna make our contact because I'm

1874
01:34:01,320 --> 01:34:02,080
Speaker 2: about to crack up.

1875
01:34:02,560 --> 01:34:06,000
Speaker 3: And my thing is he really thought him him shaking

1876
01:34:06,080 --> 01:34:07,479
Speaker 3: him off was gonna help him.

1877
01:34:07,720 --> 01:34:08,000
Speaker 7: Dog.

1878
01:34:08,520 --> 01:34:10,680
Speaker 3: When you go through the airport, you gotta have a

1879
01:34:10,760 --> 01:34:13,800
Speaker 3: former I d a passport. They know who you are.

1880
01:34:14,240 --> 01:34:17,040
Speaker 3: They will lock the airport down. You not get out

1881
01:34:17,040 --> 01:34:18,599
Speaker 3: that bitch, you're going off.

1882
01:34:18,360 --> 01:34:28,440
Speaker 2: The plane, which is the opposite of leaving right.

1883
01:34:22,439 --> 01:34:35,520
Speaker 5: I don't know just what he sounds like a turkey.

1884
01:34:38,080 --> 01:34:39,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, that dude in the glasses would last.

1885
01:34:39,680 --> 01:34:42,320
Speaker 2: He was like if I was not being now the

1886
01:34:42,439 --> 01:34:46,080
Speaker 2: palette checking it out, like, oh you forgot the shoe,

1887
01:34:46,120 --> 01:34:46,680
Speaker 2: bro he threw.

1888
01:34:46,840 --> 01:34:48,040
Speaker 5: He tossed his shoe over to.

1889
01:34:48,040 --> 01:34:48,439
Speaker 3: Him the.

1890
01:34:53,920 --> 01:34:54,160
Speaker 4: Ship.

1891
01:35:01,000 --> 01:35:08,920
Speaker 3: You're delaying the flight, sir, you are delayed the flight.

1892
01:35:09,800 --> 01:35:15,559
Speaker 2: This man had a full like crying session, like that

1893
01:35:15,680 --> 01:35:16,520
Speaker 2: is a tantrum.

1894
01:35:16,600 --> 01:35:19,240
Speaker 3: You're delaying a whole ass flight. What are you doing

1895
01:35:19,640 --> 01:35:22,559
Speaker 3: for the fact that put like this? I guarantee you

1896
01:35:22,680 --> 01:35:25,960
Speaker 3: the last thing the flight attendant wont it was to

1897
01:35:26,040 --> 01:35:28,920
Speaker 3: call them because now they know that it's going to

1898
01:35:28,960 --> 01:35:32,320
Speaker 3: be a thirty minute delay on the flight, which means,

1899
01:35:32,320 --> 01:35:35,320
Speaker 3: if I got some shit connecting now all of a sudden,

1900
01:35:35,720 --> 01:35:37,880
Speaker 3: my two hour flight gonna be two and a half

1901
01:35:37,880 --> 01:35:39,840
Speaker 3: to three hours because you're gonna throw a fucking fit.

1902
01:35:40,240 --> 01:35:41,320
Speaker 5: Also, the last.

1903
01:35:41,040 --> 01:35:45,120
Speaker 2: Thing I want to do, and as a flight attendant,

1904
01:35:45,760 --> 01:35:49,479
Speaker 2: serve you alcohol because your ass seem like you already

1905
01:35:49,520 --> 01:35:54,040
Speaker 2: on edge. You definitely don't need no drinks. All right,

1906
01:35:54,080 --> 01:35:56,240
Speaker 2: let's go to the next On authorities, A kilo of

1907
01:35:56,360 --> 01:35:59,519
Speaker 2: myth found in a backpack at the North Carolina Mass

1908
01:35:59,560 --> 01:36:06,880
Speaker 2: traffic stop. John John Ray Campbell, fifty of Gastonia in

1909
01:36:06,920 --> 01:36:10,759
Speaker 2: North Carolina, I robbed a Streak five the gas house.

1910
01:36:11,640 --> 01:36:15,360
Speaker 2: He was charged with myth trafficking. He was booked Wednesday,

1911
01:36:15,560 --> 01:36:17,920
Speaker 2: April fifth, and the Hall County Jail, where he remains

1912
01:36:17,920 --> 01:36:22,160
Speaker 2: a no bond. Hall County Sheriff's Office deputies stopped him

1913
01:36:22,400 --> 01:36:25,839
Speaker 2: his pickup truck around four pm Wednesday near their intersection

1914
01:36:25,920 --> 01:36:32,120
Speaker 2: of Old Winder Highway and Friendship Road. Uh, they said, Uh.

1915
01:36:32,640 --> 01:36:35,080
Speaker 2: The truck had a tag belonging to a different vehicle

1916
01:36:35,080 --> 01:36:41,200
Speaker 2: with no insurance. Ah, I didn't think that went through.

1917
01:36:42,520 --> 01:36:42,600
Speaker 4: This.

1918
01:36:42,720 --> 01:36:43,800
Speaker 3: Ain't got no insurance.

1919
01:36:43,960 --> 01:36:46,559
Speaker 5: Police say they saw open beer containers in the vehicle.

1920
01:36:46,920 --> 01:36:50,439
Speaker 5: Oh shit, he was giving a field sobriety test. He

1921
01:36:50,520 --> 01:36:54,360
Speaker 5: was charged of driving under I don't know. He was

1922
01:36:54,439 --> 01:36:56,960
Speaker 5: charge of driving under influence. He searched. They searched the

1923
01:36:57,000 --> 01:36:57,799
Speaker 5: car to found.

1924
01:36:57,560 --> 01:37:00,240
Speaker 2: A bag in a backpack in the truck bed more

1925
01:37:00,280 --> 01:37:03,280
Speaker 2: than a kilo of myth. Estimate the street value seventy

1926
01:37:03,400 --> 01:37:04,759
Speaker 2: seven thousand dollars.

1927
01:37:06,600 --> 01:37:07,160
Speaker 5: That's the race.

1928
01:37:08,479 --> 01:37:08,799
Speaker 4: White.

1929
01:37:09,080 --> 01:37:12,000
Speaker 2: Karen's going white for this one. Let's check the chat

1930
01:37:12,080 --> 01:37:16,360
Speaker 2: room and see what y'all believe. Uh, the race was on.

1931
01:37:16,360 --> 01:37:17,360
Speaker 3: My post posting.

1932
01:37:17,400 --> 01:37:19,840
Speaker 5: Hold up, I don't see I don't see it either.

1933
01:37:19,960 --> 01:37:24,599
Speaker 2: Are you in the right chat? Are you in the

1934
01:37:24,640 --> 01:37:28,800
Speaker 2: back room chat or something? Or because I know there's

1935
01:37:28,840 --> 01:37:32,280
Speaker 2: like a producer's chat and then like a chat chat. Okay, anyway,

1936
01:37:32,439 --> 01:37:34,800
Speaker 2: they said, uh, man with three names a lot of myth.

1937
01:37:34,800 --> 01:37:37,840
Speaker 2: Of course, he white, pickup truck, white, the cracker with

1938
01:37:38,320 --> 01:37:41,519
Speaker 2: from the gas house. I'm the danger, white Walter White,

1939
01:37:42,160 --> 01:37:43,160
Speaker 2: I am the danger.

1940
01:37:43,240 --> 01:37:43,599
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1941
01:37:43,760 --> 01:37:47,759
Speaker 2: Oh, open container, white math, white man's crack white life.

1942
01:37:48,040 --> 01:37:53,439
Speaker 2: Damn everyone's saying white. Uh, the correct answer is white.

1943
01:37:53,479 --> 01:38:10,720
Speaker 2: He was white, and that's him right there, very tatted up.

1944
01:38:10,920 --> 01:38:14,720
Speaker 2: He looked, he looked like he said me. You know,

1945
01:38:17,720 --> 01:38:21,559
Speaker 2: he got a very messy our to him, you know.

1946
01:38:25,479 --> 01:38:28,920
Speaker 2: But yeah he uh he saw that he got caught.

1947
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:31,439
Speaker 3: Tattoos.

1948
01:38:32,280 --> 01:38:34,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh you did see it. Okay, I couldn't tell

1949
01:38:34,320 --> 01:38:38,479
Speaker 2: if he was well on screen or not. All right,

1950
01:38:38,560 --> 01:38:40,840
Speaker 2: let's go to the bonus round. So far, can you're

1951
01:38:41,080 --> 01:38:41,679
Speaker 2: two for two?

1952
01:38:41,720 --> 01:38:44,080
Speaker 5: I think? All right, all right?

1953
01:38:46,800 --> 01:38:48,879
Speaker 12: Why I am racist?

1954
01:38:49,840 --> 01:38:55,439
Speaker 3: How can I be racist about anybody or anything in

1955
01:38:55,560 --> 01:38:56,280
Speaker 3: my life?

1956
01:38:56,920 --> 01:39:01,160
Speaker 1: How can I call just call them?

1957
01:39:02,680 --> 01:39:02,720
Speaker 3: Go?

1958
01:39:04,080 --> 01:39:07,240
Speaker 2: Chain wearing, fried and skinny.

1959
01:39:08,400 --> 01:39:09,479
Speaker 4: Bo big.

1960
01:39:11,040 --> 01:39:15,440
Speaker 2: High jumping, speed chucking three hundred and sixteen degree basketball.

1961
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:20,479
Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the last one. Woman posing

1962
01:39:20,520 --> 01:39:23,200
Speaker 2: as a security guard broke into Atlanta houses.

1963
01:39:23,320 --> 01:39:26,240
Speaker 5: Police say, mm hm hmmm.

1964
01:39:27,680 --> 01:39:28,000
Speaker 3: Uh.

1965
01:39:28,560 --> 01:39:32,280
Speaker 2: Felicea searching for an older woman who they say was

1966
01:39:32,320 --> 01:39:35,360
Speaker 2: pretending to be a security guard when she started breaking

1967
01:39:35,400 --> 01:39:36,040
Speaker 2: into houses.

1968
01:39:37,240 --> 01:39:41,280
Speaker 14: Oh, he was a burglarising at home and buck had

1969
01:39:41,360 --> 01:39:44,520
Speaker 14: once in December and then again in January. They identified

1970
01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:47,800
Speaker 14: this woman as Birdie Millsap Police says she had a

1971
01:39:47,840 --> 01:39:51,440
Speaker 14: security patch on her shirt as she was checking doors

1972
01:39:51,479 --> 01:39:54,360
Speaker 14: on a house on p Street. Battle Avenue. If you

1973
01:39:54,360 --> 01:39:56,600
Speaker 14: have any information about the suspect, you were asked to

1974
01:39:56,640 --> 01:39:58,719
Speaker 14: call Atlanta Police or crime stuck.

1975
01:40:00,040 --> 01:40:02,639
Speaker 3: That's a quick one engagement stuff.

1976
01:40:03,040 --> 01:40:06,519
Speaker 5: I go like, I haven't done that, but stop, all right?

1977
01:40:06,640 --> 01:40:13,600
Speaker 5: So care I guess the race of Birdie. What's her name? Uh?

1978
01:40:14,640 --> 01:40:18,320
Speaker 5: Birdie mill sap Black? Care's going black?

1979
01:40:19,880 --> 01:40:25,320
Speaker 2: Oh, Nana is black, says jump from Harlan. I live

1980
01:40:25,360 --> 01:40:29,759
Speaker 2: around the corner from there. She black says, aerial, sappy, sad,

1981
01:40:30,080 --> 01:40:35,920
Speaker 2: Black says a mill mammy disguise activate, black says site

1982
01:40:35,960 --> 01:40:36,200
Speaker 2: for ms.

1983
01:40:36,360 --> 01:40:40,400
Speaker 5: Birdie is assist a t L shouted black Blake.

1984
01:40:40,880 --> 01:40:45,920
Speaker 2: I believe young looking ass miss Parker black, Lunell black, blue,

1985
01:40:46,000 --> 01:40:46,759
Speaker 2: nail white.

1986
01:40:47,200 --> 01:40:50,519
Speaker 5: The correct answer is uh. At the saw said black scheme,

1987
01:40:50,600 --> 01:40:51,559
Speaker 5: the correct answer is black.

1988
01:41:07,200 --> 01:41:09,400
Speaker 2: I feel like Trey must have seen this story already

1989
01:41:09,400 --> 01:41:15,360
Speaker 2: because he said Lunelle one person did miss it, I'm sorry,

1990
01:41:16,800 --> 01:41:18,920
Speaker 2: And she do kind of look like Lunelle, So I

1991
01:41:18,960 --> 01:41:20,880
Speaker 2: think he may have seen this one because.

1992
01:41:23,040 --> 01:41:25,799
Speaker 5: This is her right there now. What's going on her eyebrows?

1993
01:41:25,880 --> 01:41:26,040
Speaker 3: Oh?

1994
01:41:28,320 --> 01:41:30,040
Speaker 5: I don't know what happened with the eyebrowsis?

1995
01:41:30,800 --> 01:41:32,879
Speaker 3: Oh, somebody was angry with you.

1996
01:41:33,120 --> 01:41:37,200
Speaker 5: Like the joker. It looked like it's given uneven too.

1997
01:41:37,520 --> 01:41:39,200
Speaker 5: It's given missus potato head. You know.

1998
01:41:39,320 --> 01:41:41,679
Speaker 3: Oh no, somebody drew them too.

1999
01:41:41,920 --> 01:41:43,880
Speaker 2: Maybe that's part of the sky. She's like, they'll never

2000
01:41:43,960 --> 01:41:47,200
Speaker 2: catch me with these eyebrows. See, they gonna be looking

2001
01:41:47,240 --> 01:41:50,720
Speaker 2: for a person with normal human being eyebrows. See that

2002
01:41:50,840 --> 01:41:51,559
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna do.

2003
01:41:51,920 --> 01:41:54,200
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do. I'm gonna draw him on my face

2004
01:41:54,280 --> 01:41:55,320
Speaker 5: like a clown.

2005
01:41:56,360 --> 01:41:58,160
Speaker 3: So they they'll never catch me.

2006
01:41:58,640 --> 01:42:00,800
Speaker 5: That none of the facial recognition she's gonna match.

2007
01:42:01,000 --> 01:42:02,920
Speaker 2: See that's what I'm saying. I can't even open my

2008
01:42:02,960 --> 01:42:06,600
Speaker 2: iPhone with these damn eyebrows. Okay, no mo, my my

2009
01:42:06,680 --> 01:42:09,400
Speaker 2: iPhone can't even recognize me. My face don't even compute

2010
01:42:09,439 --> 01:42:12,760
Speaker 2: right now. So see's I'll be off the grid all right,

2011
01:42:12,800 --> 01:42:13,519
Speaker 2: sore ratchiness.

2012
01:42:22,080 --> 01:42:34,599
Speaker 4: See a fat man billing Browns.

2013
01:42:34,840 --> 01:42:38,360
Speaker 2: That's no I forgot. I had turned on an option,

2014
01:42:38,960 --> 01:42:40,920
Speaker 2: and now I just realize why I don't have that

2015
01:42:41,000 --> 01:42:44,280
Speaker 2: option anymore. I turn on an option that makes my

2016
01:42:44,560 --> 01:42:48,880
Speaker 2: songs blend to the next song on my Spotify, so

2017
01:42:48,960 --> 01:42:52,080
Speaker 2: when I'm listening to a playlist, it'll automatically kind of

2018
01:42:52,360 --> 01:42:55,400
Speaker 2: have a seamless mix, like it's a Beyonce album and

2019
01:42:55,640 --> 01:42:57,960
Speaker 2: uh yeah, and now I realize that that you can't

2020
01:42:58,000 --> 01:42:58,960
Speaker 2: do that.

2021
01:42:58,760 --> 01:43:00,000
Speaker 5: It don't work for everything.

2022
01:43:01,400 --> 01:43:05,320
Speaker 2: Sword ratchetness is uh when we go around the globe

2023
01:43:05,360 --> 01:43:08,440
Speaker 2: and we find different articles about these people with sores

2024
01:43:08,479 --> 01:43:12,200
Speaker 2: and we're trying to spread awareness about the scourge that

2025
01:43:12,240 --> 01:43:14,599
Speaker 2: they are to our society, and so we can take

2026
01:43:14,640 --> 01:43:18,800
Speaker 2: it seriously. In this case, a man would sentenced to

2027
01:43:18,840 --> 01:43:20,519
Speaker 2: a violent sword attack.

2028
01:43:22,600 --> 01:43:26,080
Speaker 5: Wait, why did this video stop playing? Is this it?

2029
01:43:26,520 --> 01:43:28,160
Speaker 2: But this man will sent us to a for a

2030
01:43:28,240 --> 01:43:33,479
Speaker 2: violent sword attack that he did at a peer recovery center.

2031
01:43:33,520 --> 01:43:35,240
Speaker 2: I think we've covered this story from the root of

2032
01:43:35,280 --> 01:43:38,280
Speaker 2: to the tudor, so now we're at the sentence in phase.

2033
01:43:39,120 --> 01:43:43,080
Speaker 5: Oh, this is just to say news. This just him talking. Yeah.

2034
01:43:43,160 --> 01:43:46,400
Speaker 2: Randall Mason, forty two, plead guilty to an attempted murder charge.

2035
01:43:46,720 --> 01:43:51,040
Speaker 5: He's gonna get twenty five years in prison. Yeah, and

2036
01:43:51,120 --> 01:43:57,320
Speaker 5: I think he's a black dude, but yeah he Uh.

2037
01:43:58,120 --> 01:44:00,680
Speaker 2: Back in August twenty nine two, I was responded to

2038
01:44:00,720 --> 01:44:04,599
Speaker 2: Capital Connections Dropping Center, Sheridan Avenue for reports of an assault.

2039
01:44:04,600 --> 01:44:06,960
Speaker 2: Just for two PM. A thirty four year old man

2040
01:44:07,040 --> 01:44:08,639
Speaker 2: was found with severe last arrange to his body.

2041
01:44:08,720 --> 01:44:09,559
Speaker 5: Bleeding profusely.

2042
01:44:09,880 --> 01:44:12,960
Speaker 2: Mason was accused of slashing victims several times with the sword.

2043
01:44:14,960 --> 01:44:17,719
Speaker 2: John Romano was later revealed as the victim of the attack,

2044
01:44:17,800 --> 01:44:20,879
Speaker 2: and he was taken to the hospital in critical condition.

2045
01:44:22,160 --> 01:44:24,559
Speaker 2: He said, there's a quote that I love that says, well,

2046
01:44:24,640 --> 01:44:25,799
Speaker 2: maybe this is the clip.

2047
01:44:26,240 --> 01:44:28,360
Speaker 6: I'm sure you already know. My life went up pretty same,

2048
01:44:31,160 --> 01:44:33,000
Speaker 6: and some people would think that I'd be filled with

2049
01:44:33,040 --> 01:44:38,479
Speaker 6: anger and rich that words that would drew me no

2050
01:44:38,600 --> 01:44:42,960
Speaker 6: goodt that would hard. There's a quote that I love

2051
01:44:43,040 --> 01:44:45,559
Speaker 6: that says, to hold on to anger is to drink

2052
01:44:45,640 --> 01:44:49,880
Speaker 6: poison and expect the other person to suffer. So I

2053
01:44:49,960 --> 01:44:52,760
Speaker 6: want you to know that although my life will never

2054
01:44:52,840 --> 01:44:56,920
Speaker 6: gan decend, I will move forward.

2055
01:45:00,240 --> 01:45:04,040
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I disagree, Dog. These are swords we're talking about.

2056
01:45:04,080 --> 01:45:07,680
Speaker 2: It's too serious for that. Okay, this man needs to

2057
01:45:07,680 --> 01:45:09,680
Speaker 2: go to prison forever. This is why I'm glad you're

2058
01:45:09,720 --> 01:45:10,679
Speaker 2: not a charge of citizen.

2059
01:45:11,120 --> 01:45:12,280
Speaker 5: All Right, y'all, that's it.

2060
01:45:12,680 --> 01:45:17,639
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening, everybody, for Jordan to show everybody tapped

2061
01:45:17,640 --> 01:45:18,160
Speaker 2: in live.

2062
01:45:18,280 --> 01:45:20,000
Speaker 5: I know we had some.

2063
01:45:19,920 --> 01:45:22,640
Speaker 2: Technical difficulties, but we weathered the storm. I don't know

2064
01:45:22,640 --> 01:45:26,120
Speaker 2: how I'm gonna edit this shit for the YouTube. Well,

2065
01:45:26,320 --> 01:45:29,840
Speaker 2: maybe they'll just get several minutes of me off camera

2066
01:45:30,000 --> 01:45:33,400
Speaker 2: refreshing and Karen trying to play music. Who knows, But

2067
01:45:34,720 --> 01:45:37,720
Speaker 2: we'll talk to y'all soon. Until then, I love you.

2068
01:45:38,160 --> 01:45:38,400
Speaker 5: Why