WEBVTT - I'm Not Single Anymore 0:00:03.600 --> 0:00:05.600 When did you know that you wanted to make our 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:14.520 relationship official? I think, honestly, I think immediately, What do 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:20.119 you like least about me? Be honest? Okay, okay, now 0:00:20.160 --> 0:00:24.520 we're getting spicy. Relationships don't have to be hard. Sometimes 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:31.080 we make them hard. Hey, what's up, guys. Welcome to 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:34.640 cheek Ease and Chill. I'm your host cheek Ease, and 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:37.760 we're back with another episode. I can't believe we're already 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:40.839 in the middle of November. Guys. I love Thanksgiving, and 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:42.559 not because of the food. The food is good, but 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:45.960 because of what you know you're thankful for. Anyhow, today's 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:49.320 episode is going to get kind of personal. I'm opening 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:52.199 up and sharing my love life with you, something I 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:57.000 haven't done in a minute. So grab a caico a tequila. Um, 0:00:57.040 --> 0:00:59.800 you might need some tequila because it's cheek Ease and 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:07.600 so if you listen to episode one, you'll know I'm 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:11.039 not single anymore. My boyfriend's name is a Medial Scentez. 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:13.399 But before we get into that, I want to take 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:16.360 a step back and touch on my last relationship a bit. 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:20.480 So we're gonna start off with, UM, I was married 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:23.080 for about a year. I'm still not divorced. Actually, we're 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:25.080 in the process. And it's not because I don't want 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:27.759 to be divorced. Um, it's just the process is long. 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:30.360 It's a long story. I will explain a lot more 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:33.479 about that in my book You Guys, comes out February 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:37.400 eight It's called Unstoppable UM. And it's something that is 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:40.319 important because it did happen. I was married and yes 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:41.840 now I'm dating, and I'm gonna talk about all of 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:45.000 it in my book. UM. But I learned a lot 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:47.480 from it. I definitely learned a lot about myself in 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:50.560 that relationship, a lot about what I don't want in 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:52.720 a person, what I do want, what I want to 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:55.960 do different. Um. It was very painful, but I think 0:01:55.960 --> 0:02:00.360 with pain comes promotion. You learn, you grow, and it's 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:02.320 all part of the process. So I'm not thankful for 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:05.440 that partner, UM, and grateful for the lessons that I learned. 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:08.960 My last relationship lasted about four and a half years, 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:12.560 and uh, we got married and we started having problems 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:17.280 like leslie here into the marriage. So we separated officially 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:22.119 September and for those months, I want to say October 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:24.400 it started and again I'm always really sad around the 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:28.359 time because I lost my mom in October, like not physically, 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:30.600 but then she passed away in December. So it's always difficult. 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.880 And it was another like big thing in my life. 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:39.000 I fell to my knees, I was depressed, UM pandemic. 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:42.040 So many things happened at once. Um. I didn't want 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:43.799 to get divorced. I didn't want to get separated, but 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:46.160 I knew it was what was best for me. So 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.239 I did take a break. I did meet someone rather soon. UM, 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:52.640 I want to say, like in October, and I want 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:54.280 and I don't know if this sounds harsh, but it's 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:56.040 the truth. I feel like he was a devil in disguise. 0:02:56.160 --> 0:02:58.160 I felt like he was everything that I wanted. And 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:01.240 I don't blame him completely, but I also take fault, 0:03:01.440 --> 0:03:03.920 you know. But um, he told me everything I wanted 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:05.919 to hear, and I thought, oh my goodness, how did 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:09.080 you send me a guy a month later? So fast? God? No, no, no, 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:11.239 you need time to breathe guys, you need time to heal. 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:16.920 So that brought me even more into like a dark hole. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.720 So then I decided in January, I'm gonna be single. 0:03:20.919 --> 0:03:23.560 I'm going to do self love. I am going to 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.800 just love myself. I didn't want to know anything about guys. 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:28.680 And then March came around and I was like, okay, 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:31.160 March first, actually I said it in the first episode two. 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:33.200 I'm like, I'm gonna go on dating apps. I checked 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:36.040 out RYA, I checked out all these like high profile 0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:41.000 dating apps. Then Emilio comes into the picture that same day. 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.360 So on the dating apps, I really said, I want, 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:47.240 I want a date. I want I love to love 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:50.040 and to be loved. I believe in marriage. I believe 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:51.840 in love, and I don't want to be tainted and 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:53.440 jaded for the rest of my life. And I'm like, 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.040 I want to date. I want to meet new people. 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:57.080 That doesn't mean I have to be sexual with them, 0:03:57.120 --> 0:04:00.000 it's just they can take me out to eat or whatever. Um, 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.320 but I really wanted something where hey, this is an app, 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:05.040 and you're here because for the same reason, And if 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:06.920 it's a high profile app, then it's kind of like 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:08.560 you pay for these apps where I feel that there's 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:10.360 more serious people. They're just not trying to hook up 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:12.240 with you and getting your pants. It's more of like 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:14.800 I'm really trying to find something solid here. A friend 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:16.880 of mine UM was on Riah and she showed me. 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:18.720 I was like, this is kind of cool, like there's 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:21.120 famous people on here, and I really like it because 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:23.760 you couldn't screenshot like certain things like that I was like, 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:25.440 this is this is this is cool, this is where 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:27.480 I want to be. And then another friend of mine 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:32.200 had met her husband and now has two children with him. 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:34.479 I think they met on Plenty of Fish or something 0:04:34.520 --> 0:04:36.359 like that. So I was like, maybe this is the 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:37.919 way to go. It's gonna be hard for me to 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.159 find someone because I am who I am. I don't 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:43.120 really go out that much and the pandemic and everything. 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:47.159 So I was like, I just so I did it. 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:49.200 But I never got to get into it because as 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:52.640 soon as I had Emilio, I was like, okay, I 0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:54.640 don't feel comfortable. And then I have to tell you 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:57.280 guys about that too. I found his ass on Riya 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:00.640 like a month into dating my friend who was on 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:04.560 Riya that introduced me to Riya. She says, oh my god, 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:06.640 the guy you're dating is on here. She's like, but 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:08.200 I can't take a screenshop, so she put it on 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:10.680 her laptop and she took a picture of it, and 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:14.200 I was like, okay, so we're exclusive, right, we're dating exclusively. 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:16.680 He's like yeah. I'm like, okay, so are you on 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:19.719 any dating apps? And he's like, riah, but that's not 0:05:19.800 --> 0:05:21.440 really a dating app. I was like, yes, it is. 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:23.400 I looked into it and I was like, you're on there. 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:25.520 But he was really honest about it. Anyways, I was 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:29.160 I had forgot about that until right now. But anyways, 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:32.080 I never really got to tap into the dating app thing, 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:35.720 but I had thought about it. So let's go back 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:37.880 a little bit on the d m s because that's 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:42.120 something that I hadn't really experienced until the world knew 0:05:42.279 --> 0:05:44.760 I am separated, I'm going through a divorce. Like the 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.039 d m s were hot, you guys, I was like, 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:50.200 what the hell is this? I for a moment thought, okay, well, 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.920 I don't know. Sometimes, like when you're married, you feel like, 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:54.440 am I still hot? You know what I mean? Like 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:57.600 I'm attractive to my husband, to my man. But um, 0:05:58.120 --> 0:06:01.400 I did receive a lot of d ms from regular 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:05.680 guys and um then I also received d ms from 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:09.560 women women that you guys may know, um that I 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:11.880 don't want. I don't feel comfortable putting it out there, 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.640 but asking me on dates, like serious dates, like, Hey, 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.680 I've had an eye on you for a long time. 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.560 You are so sexy and juicy, and I want to 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:22.680 know what you taste like. She said, So I would 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:24.080 love to take you to dinner, but let me take 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:26.640 you to dinner first. I'm not gonna lie. I thought 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:30.480 about it. She's very attractive. I thought about it. And 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:34.039 also some rappers. I met one of these rappers actually 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:38.080 at an award show in Vegas, and he said, I've 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.520 seen you on Instagram and I said, oh cool. He's like, 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:42.159 how about you give me have your Instagram? How about 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:44.360 you give me your number? So I was like what 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:47.279 He's like, I saw your going through a divorce. He's like, 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:50.080 so I can make you feel better. So I was like, 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:54.440 oh my goodness. Um. I gave him a number and 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:56.760 we talked for a little bit. Didn't really work out. Um. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:07:01.400 And then another rapper too, Um, really nice, very respectful, Hey, 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:03.400 what's up? We should hang out one day? Don't you 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:05.360 gotta worry about me? We can sign N D A S, 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:08.560 the whole thing. But I never I never want to day. 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:10.920 I'm just I'm kind of shy in that aspect. I'm 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:12.400 just kind of like Oh my god, I worry. I'm like, 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:14.000 what if they say something because there I don't know. 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:17.080 I was just very hesitant and I just decided not 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:19.400 to go through with it. But it got pretty hot 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:21.720 in there, guys. And then on Snapchat it got crazy. 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:27.120 They were sending dick pics. It was insane. It gets crazy, 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:31.080 I swear to you. I feel like Snapchat can sometimes 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:33.880 be like, I don't know, the Devil's Manual or something. 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:35.800 It's crazy. You can get yourself in trouble in their guys, 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:38.520 so be careful with that. But anyways, that was when 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:41.440 I was single. But I'm a single no more, so 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:44.160 I ignore those d M s now um. But people 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:47.600 are kind of honestly, they're they're very respectful. Now that 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:49.880 people know that I officially have a boyfriend, I'm not 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:51.880 getting dms like that anymore. They're kind of like, I 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:53.600 think they kind they know what kind of woman I am. 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:57.240 Uh So, any who, and then the screenshots is not cute, 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:59.520 you guys gotta be careful with that. So this is 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:01.440 how we get in too. I'm not single anymore, guys, 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:08.560 because you know is now officially my boyfriend. Okay, so 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:10.800 let's talk a little bit about a medio or a 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:14.880 lot of it. I talked about it briefly in episode one. 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:19.560 But we met for the very first time in May 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:21.560 and he was taking pictures of me and it was 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:24.720 crazy because it was for Joline and it was during 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:27.320 the quarantine and we couldn't Becky and I Becky Gane 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:29.600 I didn't get together and do like a real, real 0:08:30.160 --> 0:08:33.160 um video music videos, so we had to do like animated. 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:35.920 So it's crazy because I had all these crazy outfits 0:08:35.920 --> 0:08:38.280 on and it had to do like crazy movements and 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:41.520 it was just not a pretty sexy type of photo shoot. 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:44.240 So I was doing all these crazy ass things on 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:46.520 the floor and here he is a cute guy that 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:48.920 has really pretty eyes. That's what first attracted me to 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:50.240 him was when I saw him, was like, wow, he 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:51.719 has really pretty eyes. I even told him, aut you 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:53.800 have beautiful eyeballs and he's like eyeballs. Like yeah, I 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:56.120 like your eyeballs. He's like, oh thanks. But he was 0:08:56.240 --> 0:09:00.600 very professional, very respectful. Um he did kind of ask me, hey, so, 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:02.480 what's up is your man here? And I'm like, oh no, 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:04.600 he actually moved out because you know, my ex had 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:07.360 already moved out and we were already starting the separation. 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:10.040 So he had just recently moved out, like two weeks before, 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:12.200 and I was really sad. So I was kind of like, 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:14.680 I like this guy, but I'm in no position, you know. 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:17.160 But he was cute. I had one of my guys, 0:09:17.360 --> 0:09:19.400 my makeup artists, asked, Hey, just ask if he's married. 0:09:19.440 --> 0:09:21.880 I just want to know. He said he wasn't. But 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:23.720 I never asked if he had a girlfriend, and I 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:26.959 think during that time he did. I learned that later, 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:30.160 of course. Uh so that happened. I get back with 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:32.320 my X. We try to make things work, didn't work out. 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:38.000 We separate in September. UM rolls around after my big depression, 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:40.520 and I went to to Loom in January, and I 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:43.640 feel like I left all of my sadness into Loom. 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:45.280 I just feel like I was born there. So I 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:48.720 was like re birthed into Loom. And I went into 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:51.200 the ocean. I meditated. I left everything there. I came 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:53.400 back just happy or I'm like, you know what. That's 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:55.080 where I was like, I want to love myself, I 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:56.760 want to take care of myself. I want to learn 0:09:57.120 --> 0:10:00.800 from my mistakes. And that's when I decided. On March one, 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:03.520 of one that I was going to do dating apps 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:05.480 and this whole thing, and I was stopped in my 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:10.080 tracks because Emilia walked through my door. He was invited 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:11.880 to Becky G's party that was at my house. It 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:13.920 was a surprise party that we had done for her 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:16.440 at my house and he was invited. And again that 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:19.240 same spark, that same look, that same feeling that we 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:21.839 I think we both had that first time we had met, 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:24.079 came back and I was just like we were inseparable. 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.640 The whole night. We were talking, we were dancing, we 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:29.480 were vibe and taking shots. Then because he used to drink, 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:32.360 he doesn't drink anymore, so we were taking shots and everything. 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:35.439 We got buzzed and I told him, hey, I love 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:38.400 your dimples. Can I poke them? And he's like, you 0:10:38.440 --> 0:10:40.680 could do whatever you want. I was like, oh that 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:43.040 mean it was so sexy When he said that. One 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:45.560 thing led to another and we kissed, so he actually 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:47.680 kissed me, and I thought that was really hot too. 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:51.079 So I just I love his smile. I love his smile, 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:55.280 of his eyes, his dimples. The first kiss was very nice, 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:58.480 very soft, very respectful. He kind of put me up 0:10:58.480 --> 0:11:01.960 against the wall, which I really too and he just 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:05.040 he kissed me and then we talked. I have like 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:07.640 a garage that I turned into a closet at my house. 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:09.800 We went into the closet. We were just talking and 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:12.160 talking like I just feel like I had known him forever. 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:15.400 It just it all helped. I felt just so nice 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:17.880 and the kiss was nice, and he touched my butt 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:19.720 and I was like, oh my god, stop. It was 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:21.400 really cute. And then I found out that he was 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:23.880 younger than me. Guys, he's younger than me. A lot 0:11:23.920 --> 0:11:25.800 of people don't know that. I never thought I was 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:28.040 going to date anyone younger. My ex was a year 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:31.400 younger than I was, and I felt like that scared me. 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:33.560 He was the first guy had ever dated that was 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:35.599 a year younger than me. Everyone was like four or 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:37.960 five years older. So I was like, well, I'm for 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:39.560 sure not going to do That's another thing. This is 0:11:39.559 --> 0:11:42.280 why I know God knows what you need, because I 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:44.320 was like, I want this. I want a guy that 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.040 has already been married and divorce so he knows what 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:47.400 I've gone through. I want him to have kids, because 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:48.600 I don't know if I want to have kids. I 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:51.560 want him to be older and mature and God gave 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:55.600 me the complete opposite. Emilio is twenty nine years old. 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:59.520 He just turned this past May, and I'm thirty six 0:11:59.720 --> 0:12:01.400 and I never thought that I was going to date 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:04.839 a guy younger. He has no kids, and he wants kids. 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:07.120 It's just I'm like, God, what are you doing? But 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:11.560 he knows why. But he's very mature. I'm actually going 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:13.199 to call him in a little bit. I'm surprising with 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:15.280 a little phone call, you guys are gonna be able 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:25.480 to feel that he's very mature, very mature guy. So 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:28.480 I'm gonna call him Elion. And this is exclusive for 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:30.680 all of you guys that are listening only for cheek 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:32.440 ease and chill. I have never done this. I haven't 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:35.000 even really talked about my relationship with anyone guys, because 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:38.120 I kind of want to keep that part private. My 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:41.640 last relationship really scared me and I'm just a little 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:43.520 tainted in that area. I'm like, you know what, I 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:46.800 just want to keep this to myself. But hey, you 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:49.000 guys are special. This is a special podcast. So I'm 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:51.600 going to call him. I prepared some questions and we're 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:54.160 gonna get some truth at him. Okay, so can you 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:57.040 call him up? Always right here, only say what's up 0:12:57.080 --> 0:13:09.640 to everybody? That's only here we go nervous, Hi, baby, 0:13:10.400 --> 0:13:17.959 Hi beautiful? What are you doing? Him walking? Oh? The 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:20.720 puppy to give him a kiss for me? So you 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.800 know how I'm like recording a podcast and stuff. Yes, 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:28.760 so today's episode is called I Am Not Single anymore. 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:30.880 So I'm not single and I'm talking about you and 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:35.000 how we met and you are live with me right now. 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:40.800 Say hi to everyone? Wow, Hello everyone, Hello, everyone. So 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:42.599 this is a medio Sanchez. You guys already kind of 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:44.480 told you guys how we met and what he does 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:46.040 for a living, but I want you guys to hear 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:49.120 it from him, so I prepared these questions for you. Baby. Um, 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:50.640 can you talk a little bit, like for a little bit, 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:54.600 just like for like seven minutes? Yeah, of course. Okay, 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:58.320 Oh my god, hold on, are you nervous? Who are 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:03.040 you nervous? Because everything with us has been so private 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:05.200 and nice But it's okay, though. This is I think 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:07.600 people want to know this part of my life and 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:10.040 I would want them to know why why I am 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:12.480 with you, and I want you to be completely honest. 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:14.720 There's some questions on here that I just I want 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:21.640 you to answer truthfully. Don't think I'm gonna get mad. Okay, okay, okay, okay. 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:23.680 So tell them straight up. What do you do for 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:28.160 a living and where are you from. I am a 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:32.040 photographer and director out of Los Angeles, California. I was, 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:35.360 but I was born in Santa Monica, So I'm more 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:37.240 of a beach boy than an l a boy. I 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:43.400 feel he loves Santa Monica. You guys, um, do you 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:46.200 remember the first time we met. The first time we 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:51.320 met was on set during COVID for the Joe Ween 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:55.720 music video that we did together. Yes, yeah, so right 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:57.640 away on our first day we had to work together 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:01.320 and it was kind of a any day it was. 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:03.080 I kind of told him about that, see, he remembers, 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:04.880 he I thought you maybe you had forgotten or something. 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:09.320 Why would I forget the first day? I don't know. 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:10.640 I just wanted to make sure. Okay. So what was 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:14.720 your first impression of me? Um? Well, you had a 0:15:14.720 --> 0:15:21.360 lot of energy that I felt was very attracting, Like 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:25.520 I was attracted to that, and I didn't I didn't 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:29.000 know why or what, but it just felt like, I 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:31.360 don't know, people just gravitate towards you. So I guess 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:34.720 that's kind of what happened. Oh, you've never told me 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:40.240 that immedial. Oh guys, this is so cute. Did you 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:44.200 think I was pretty? Of course? Did you like my butt? 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:49.960 Mm hmm yeah. I may have looked at it a 0:15:49.960 --> 0:15:53.560 couple of times. He may have looked at it a 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:55.960 couple of times. Oh my god, you guys. He's very 0:15:56.000 --> 0:16:00.000 He's a very reserve type of guy, very shy. Um. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:02.360 He's used to being behind the camera, so this is 0:16:02.400 --> 0:16:04.440 all very new for him. So the fact that he's 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:06.200 doing this and answering all these questions is a lot. 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:07.640 So thank you so much. Maybe okay, I'm not done 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:14.280 yet though, So okay, So do you remember the first date? Yeah, 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:19.480 our first day. It was already like a few weeks after. 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:24.240 We were kind of talking. So I took you to 0:16:24.320 --> 0:16:27.600 Catch in Hollywood because I remember you were feeling like 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.480 you haven't seen anything or been a part of like 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:34.040 my side or like my life. So I was like, 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:36.880 let me take you to I'm taking mind her. Let 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:38.440 me bring it over here and take you one of, 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:40.920 you know, one of the cool restaurants. So I knew 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:44.000 the atmosphere was going to be fun, and we both 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:47.440 really love sushi, so mm hmm, yeah, it was like 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:50.360 the perfect place. Let me tell you, guys, Emilio has 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:54.120 introduced me to so many new and different things, different 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:56.480 places I had never been to Catch. I had never 0:16:56.520 --> 0:17:01.160 really even hung out in that area, and it was 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:05.840 refreshing because we got to hang out and nobody followed us. 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:08.439 No paparazzis, no, no, like. It was just a different 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:10.879 type of atmosphere. He comes from, like Hollywood. He's a 0:17:10.880 --> 0:17:12.920 Hollywood kid, and you know, so he knows all these 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:15.520 things that I'm in l a girl, guys, but I'm 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:17.600 like in the valley, I'm on the outskirts, you know 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:20.040 what I mean. And he's taught me so much a 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:22.960 different freaking world. It's it's crazy. So Catch was so 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:26.320 delicious and I gotta highly recommended and ll at you guys. Catch. Okay, 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:31.000 So were you nervous about that first date though? Okay, 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:35.640 I think it was the first first date that I've 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:41.520 ever been on where we fought over the food. Definitely 0:17:41.600 --> 0:17:44.080 your first because I could eat. That's why I don't know. 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:46.360 I'm not shy. I'm not a shy girl. I'm not like, 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:48.080 oh no, I don't want to eat Like now, I'm like, 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:50.280 bring it and order whatever you want to eat all 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:52.440 of it. So I think he was like this girl, 0:17:52.520 --> 0:17:57.399 she's cute. Okay, So we're you nervous or not. I 0:17:57.400 --> 0:18:00.560 think we were both nervous. Huh. I wasn't, as you know, 0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:03.280 because we had already was talking every day, hanging out 0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:06.520 a lot, So like that part, I wasn't as nervous, 0:18:06.600 --> 0:18:11.119 but I was nervous to see us in like a 0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:13.920 date situation. It was like, okay, so a real test. 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:16.560 It's like, okay, how are we if we start doing 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:19.679 real relationship things. So that's kind of what I was 0:18:19.720 --> 0:18:22.879 nervous for. We had a glass so it was like 0:18:22.920 --> 0:18:24.879 it kind of took a lot of pressure off. It 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:27.760 was such a nice time. Do you remember what I 0:18:27.800 --> 0:18:29.399 was wearing, not the very first time, not not the 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:32.600 Julian on March one? Do you remember what I was wearing? 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:37.320 Oh that day? Yeah, he came out of your glamor 0:18:37.400 --> 0:18:40.600 when you were wearing a purple Lakers jacket. It's your 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:43.840 hair tight. And I saw it all in slow motion. 0:18:44.080 --> 0:18:46.080 It was pretty crazy, like out of the movie or 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:47.960 what out of a movie. It was straight out of 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:50.520 the movie. And I was like any college rest probably. 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:55.119 I was like, we already worked together once and I 0:18:55.119 --> 0:18:57.000 don't I don't know why. It just happened out of nowhere. 0:18:57.040 --> 0:18:58.879 And I was like, and it kind of hit me 0:18:58.920 --> 0:19:02.240 and I was like, oh man, that's may have been alcohol, 0:19:02.280 --> 0:19:05.000 but I don't know. That was crazy. It was. It 0:19:05.040 --> 0:19:07.560 was like this electrifying feeling. Guys, it's crazy. Okay, what 0:19:07.600 --> 0:19:12.960 color was my lipstick? I'm gonna go with red, Go 0:19:13.119 --> 0:19:16.280 with red. No, remember it was dark. It was like 0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:18.680 a dark like burgundy or something like that. Well, I 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:20.600 guess it's kind of red. Guys. Okay, let's give him 0:19:20.640 --> 0:19:23.240 that kind of red. And then because okay, he doesn't 0:19:23.240 --> 0:19:24.600 want to say it, but like he was like, you 0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:27.160 were in these black leggings and your asks looks so nice. 0:19:27.160 --> 0:19:32.280 What don't you tell him that? Didn't you say that 0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:37.879 or not? M he's shy, he's shy. But anyways, he 0:19:37.920 --> 0:19:39.320 did say that. He said that my butt looked really 0:19:39.400 --> 0:19:42.280 nice in those in those um leggings. Okay, do you 0:19:42.320 --> 0:19:47.760 remember our first kiss and where it was m M, yeah, 0:19:47.920 --> 0:19:52.359 definitely it wasn't. It wasn't much long after that that 0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:56.200 same night or what I think, So who kissed who me, 0:19:56.280 --> 0:20:00.480 are you. I definitely kissed you. He kissed me because 0:20:00.480 --> 0:20:03.280 you told me I can cook your dimples. Yeah, you 0:20:03.320 --> 0:20:06.960 could do whatever you want. Yeah, you said that. Um, 0:20:07.000 --> 0:20:09.040 when did you know that you wanted to make our 0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:17.600