Speaker 1: When did you know that you wanted to make our
Speaker 1: relationship official? I think, honestly, I think immediately, What do
Speaker 1: you like least about me? Be honest? Okay, okay, now
Speaker 1: we're getting spicy. Relationships don't have to be hard. Sometimes
Speaker 1: we make them hard. Hey, what's up, guys. Welcome to
Speaker 1: cheek Ease and Chill. I'm your host cheek Ease, and
Speaker 1: we're back with another episode. I can't believe we're already
Speaker 1: in the middle of November. Guys. I love Thanksgiving, and
Speaker 1: not because of the food. The food is good, but
Speaker 1: because of what you know you're thankful for. Anyhow, today's
Speaker 1: episode is going to get kind of personal. I'm opening
Speaker 1: up and sharing my love life with you, something I
Speaker 1: haven't done in a minute. So grab a caico a tequila. Um,
Speaker 1: you might need some tequila because it's cheek Ease and
Speaker 1: so if you listen to episode one, you'll know I'm
Speaker 1: not single anymore. My boyfriend's name is a Medial Scentez.
Speaker 1: But before we get into that, I want to take
Speaker 1: a step back and touch on my last relationship a bit.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna start off with, UM, I was married
Speaker 1: for about a year. I'm still not divorced. Actually, we're
Speaker 1: in the process. And it's not because I don't want
Speaker 1: to be divorced. Um, it's just the process is long.
Speaker 1: It's a long story. I will explain a lot more
Speaker 1: about that in my book You Guys, comes out February
Speaker 1: eight It's called Unstoppable UM. And it's something that is
Speaker 1: important because it did happen. I was married and yes
Speaker 1: now I'm dating, and I'm gonna talk about all of
Speaker 1: it in my book. UM. But I learned a lot
Speaker 1: from it. I definitely learned a lot about myself in
Speaker 1: that relationship, a lot about what I don't want in
Speaker 1: a person, what I do want, what I want to
Speaker 1: do different. Um. It was very painful, but I think
Speaker 1: with pain comes promotion. You learn, you grow, and it's
Speaker 1: all part of the process. So I'm not thankful for
Speaker 1: that partner, UM, and grateful for the lessons that I learned.
Speaker 1: My last relationship lasted about four and a half years,
Speaker 1: and uh, we got married and we started having problems
Speaker 1: like leslie here into the marriage. So we separated officially
Speaker 1: September and for those months, I want to say October
Speaker 1: it started and again I'm always really sad around the
Speaker 1: time because I lost my mom in October, like not physically,
Speaker 1: but then she passed away in December. So it's always difficult.
Speaker 1: And it was another like big thing in my life.
Speaker 1: I fell to my knees, I was depressed, UM pandemic.
Speaker 1: So many things happened at once. Um. I didn't want
Speaker 1: to get divorced. I didn't want to get separated, but
Speaker 1: I knew it was what was best for me. So
Speaker 1: I did take a break. I did meet someone rather soon. UM,
Speaker 1: I want to say, like in October, and I want
Speaker 1: and I don't know if this sounds harsh, but it's
Speaker 1: the truth. I feel like he was a devil in disguise.
Speaker 1: I felt like he was everything that I wanted. And
Speaker 1: I don't blame him completely, but I also take fault,
Speaker 1: you know. But um, he told me everything I wanted
Speaker 1: to hear, and I thought, oh my goodness, how did
Speaker 1: you send me a guy a month later? So fast? God? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: you need time to breathe guys, you need time to heal.
Speaker 1: So that brought me even more into like a dark hole.
Speaker 1: So then I decided in January, I'm gonna be single.
Speaker 1: I'm going to do self love. I am going to
Speaker 1: just love myself. I didn't want to know anything about guys.
Speaker 1: And then March came around and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: March first, actually I said it in the first episode two.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna go on dating apps. I checked
Speaker 1: out RYA, I checked out all these like high profile
Speaker 1: dating apps. Then Emilio comes into the picture that same day.
Speaker 1: So on the dating apps, I really said, I want,
Speaker 1: I want a date. I want I love to love
Speaker 1: and to be loved. I believe in marriage. I believe
Speaker 1: in love, and I don't want to be tainted and
Speaker 1: jaded for the rest of my life. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: I want to date. I want to meet new people.
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean I have to be sexual with them,
Speaker 1: it's just they can take me out to eat or whatever. Um,
Speaker 1: but I really wanted something where hey, this is an app,
Speaker 1: and you're here because for the same reason, And if
Speaker 1: it's a high profile app, then it's kind of like
Speaker 1: you pay for these apps where I feel that there's
Speaker 1: more serious people. They're just not trying to hook up
Speaker 1: with you and getting your pants. It's more of like
Speaker 1: I'm really trying to find something solid here. A friend
Speaker 1: of mine UM was on Riah and she showed me.
Speaker 1: I was like, this is kind of cool, like there's
Speaker 1: famous people on here, and I really like it because
Speaker 1: you couldn't screenshot like certain things like that I was like,
Speaker 1: this is this is this is cool, this is where
Speaker 1: I want to be. And then another friend of mine
Speaker 1: had met her husband and now has two children with him.
Speaker 1: I think they met on Plenty of Fish or something
Speaker 1: like that. So I was like, maybe this is the
Speaker 1: way to go. It's gonna be hard for me to
Speaker 1: find someone because I am who I am. I don't
Speaker 1: really go out that much and the pandemic and everything.
Speaker 1: So I was like, I just so I did it.
Speaker 1: But I never got to get into it because as
Speaker 1: soon as I had Emilio, I was like, okay, I
Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable. And then I have to tell you
Speaker 1: guys about that too. I found his ass on Riya
Speaker 1: like a month into dating my friend who was on
Speaker 1: Riya that introduced me to Riya. She says, oh my god,
Speaker 1: the guy you're dating is on here. She's like, but
Speaker 1: I can't take a screenshop, so she put it on
Speaker 1: her laptop and she took a picture of it, and
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, so we're exclusive, right, we're dating exclusively.
Speaker 1: He's like yeah. I'm like, okay, so are you on
Speaker 1: any dating apps? And he's like, riah, but that's not
Speaker 1: really a dating app. I was like, yes, it is.
Speaker 1: I looked into it and I was like, you're on there.
Speaker 1: But he was really honest about it. Anyways, I was
Speaker 1: I had forgot about that until right now. But anyways,
Speaker 1: I never really got to tap into the dating app thing,
Speaker 1: but I had thought about it. So let's go back
Speaker 1: a little bit on the d m s because that's
Speaker 1: something that I hadn't really experienced until the world knew
Speaker 1: I am separated, I'm going through a divorce. Like the
Speaker 1: d m s were hot, you guys, I was like,
Speaker 1: what the hell is this? I for a moment thought, okay, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes, like when you're married, you feel like,
Speaker 1: am I still hot? You know what I mean? Like
Speaker 1: I'm attractive to my husband, to my man. But um,
Speaker 1: I did receive a lot of d ms from regular
Speaker 1: guys and um then I also received d ms from
Speaker 1: women women that you guys may know, um that I
Speaker 1: don't want. I don't feel comfortable putting it out there,
Speaker 1: but asking me on dates, like serious dates, like, Hey,
Speaker 1: I've had an eye on you for a long time.
Speaker 1: You are so sexy and juicy, and I want to
Speaker 1: know what you taste like. She said, So I would
Speaker 1: love to take you to dinner, but let me take
Speaker 1: you to dinner first. I'm not gonna lie. I thought
Speaker 1: about it. She's very attractive. I thought about it. And
Speaker 1: also some rappers. I met one of these rappers actually
Speaker 1: at an award show in Vegas, and he said, I've
Speaker 1: seen you on Instagram and I said, oh cool. He's like,
Speaker 1: how about you give me have your Instagram? How about
Speaker 1: you give me your number? So I was like what
Speaker 1: He's like, I saw your going through a divorce. He's like,
Speaker 1: so I can make you feel better. So I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my goodness. Um. I gave him a number and
Speaker 1: we talked for a little bit. Didn't really work out. Um.
Speaker 1: And then another rapper too, Um, really nice, very respectful, Hey,
Speaker 1: what's up? We should hang out one day? Don't you
Speaker 1: gotta worry about me? We can sign N D A S,
Speaker 1: the whole thing. But I never I never want to day.
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm kind of shy in that aspect. I'm
Speaker 1: just kind of like Oh my god, I worry. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what if they say something because there I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was just very hesitant and I just decided not
Speaker 1: to go through with it. But it got pretty hot
Speaker 1: in there, guys. And then on Snapchat it got crazy.
Speaker 1: They were sending dick pics. It was insane. It gets crazy,
Speaker 1: I swear to you. I feel like Snapchat can sometimes
Speaker 1: be like, I don't know, the Devil's Manual or something.
Speaker 1: It's crazy. You can get yourself in trouble in their guys,
Speaker 1: so be careful with that. But anyways, that was when
Speaker 1: I was single. But I'm a single no more, so
Speaker 1: I ignore those d M s now um. But people
Speaker 1: are kind of honestly, they're they're very respectful. Now that
Speaker 1: people know that I officially have a boyfriend, I'm not
Speaker 1: getting dms like that anymore. They're kind of like, I
Speaker 1: think they kind they know what kind of woman I am.
Speaker 1: Uh So, any who, and then the screenshots is not cute,
Speaker 1: you guys gotta be careful with that. So this is
Speaker 1: how we get in too. I'm not single anymore, guys,
Speaker 1: because you know is now officially my boyfriend. Okay, so
Speaker 1: let's talk a little bit about a medio or a
Speaker 1: lot of it. I talked about it briefly in episode one.
Speaker 1: But we met for the very first time in May
Speaker 1: and he was taking pictures of me and it was
Speaker 1: crazy because it was for Joline and it was during
Speaker 1: the quarantine and we couldn't Becky and I Becky Gane
Speaker 1: I didn't get together and do like a real, real
Speaker 1: um video music videos, so we had to do like animated.
Speaker 1: So it's crazy because I had all these crazy outfits
Speaker 1: on and it had to do like crazy movements and
Speaker 1: it was just not a pretty sexy type of photo shoot.
Speaker 1: So I was doing all these crazy ass things on
Speaker 1: the floor and here he is a cute guy that
Speaker 1: has really pretty eyes. That's what first attracted me to
Speaker 1: him was when I saw him, was like, wow, he
Speaker 1: has really pretty eyes. I even told him, aut you
Speaker 1: have beautiful eyeballs and he's like eyeballs. Like yeah, I
Speaker 1: like your eyeballs. He's like, oh thanks. But he was
Speaker 1: very professional, very respectful. Um he did kind of ask me, hey, so,
Speaker 1: what's up is your man here? And I'm like, oh no,
Speaker 1: he actually moved out because you know, my ex had
Speaker 1: already moved out and we were already starting the separation.
Speaker 1: So he had just recently moved out, like two weeks before,
Speaker 1: and I was really sad. So I was kind of like,
Speaker 1: I like this guy, but I'm in no position, you know.
Speaker 1: But he was cute. I had one of my guys,
Speaker 1: my makeup artists, asked, Hey, just ask if he's married.
Speaker 1: I just want to know. He said he wasn't. But
Speaker 1: I never asked if he had a girlfriend, and I
Speaker 1: think during that time he did. I learned that later,
Speaker 1: of course. Uh so that happened. I get back with
Speaker 1: my X. We try to make things work, didn't work out.
Speaker 1: We separate in September. UM rolls around after my big depression,
Speaker 1: and I went to to Loom in January, and I
Speaker 1: feel like I left all of my sadness into Loom.
Speaker 1: I just feel like I was born there. So I
Speaker 1: was like re birthed into Loom. And I went into
Speaker 1: the ocean. I meditated. I left everything there. I came
Speaker 1: back just happy or I'm like, you know what. That's
Speaker 1: where I was like, I want to love myself, I
Speaker 1: want to take care of myself. I want to learn
Speaker 1: from my mistakes. And that's when I decided. On March one,
Speaker 1: of one that I was going to do dating apps
Speaker 1: and this whole thing, and I was stopped in my
Speaker 1: tracks because Emilia walked through my door. He was invited
Speaker 1: to Becky G's party that was at my house. It
Speaker 1: was a surprise party that we had done for her
Speaker 1: at my house and he was invited. And again that
Speaker 1: same spark, that same look, that same feeling that we
Speaker 1: I think we both had that first time we had met,
Speaker 1: came back and I was just like we were inseparable.
Speaker 1: The whole night. We were talking, we were dancing, we
Speaker 1: were vibe and taking shots. Then because he used to drink,
Speaker 1: he doesn't drink anymore, so we were taking shots and everything.
Speaker 1: We got buzzed and I told him, hey, I love
Speaker 1: your dimples. Can I poke them? And he's like, you
Speaker 1: could do whatever you want. I was like, oh that
Speaker 1: mean it was so sexy When he said that. One
Speaker 1: thing led to another and we kissed, so he actually
Speaker 1: kissed me, and I thought that was really hot too.
Speaker 1: So I just I love his smile. I love his smile,
Speaker 1: of his eyes, his dimples. The first kiss was very nice,
Speaker 1: very soft, very respectful. He kind of put me up
Speaker 1: against the wall, which I really too and he just
Speaker 1: he kissed me and then we talked. I have like
Speaker 1: a garage that I turned into a closet at my house.
Speaker 1: We went into the closet. We were just talking and
Speaker 1: talking like I just feel like I had known him forever.
Speaker 1: It just it all helped. I felt just so nice
Speaker 1: and the kiss was nice, and he touched my butt
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, stop. It was
Speaker 1: really cute. And then I found out that he was
Speaker 1: younger than me. Guys, he's younger than me. A lot
Speaker 1: of people don't know that. I never thought I was
Speaker 1: going to date anyone younger. My ex was a year
Speaker 1: younger than I was, and I felt like that scared me.
Speaker 1: He was the first guy had ever dated that was
Speaker 1: a year younger than me. Everyone was like four or
Speaker 1: five years older. So I was like, well, I'm for
Speaker 1: sure not going to do That's another thing. This is
Speaker 1: why I know God knows what you need, because I
Speaker 1: was like, I want this. I want a guy that
Speaker 1: has already been married and divorce so he knows what
Speaker 1: I've gone through. I want him to have kids, because
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to have kids. I
Speaker 1: want him to be older and mature and God gave
Speaker 1: me the complete opposite. Emilio is twenty nine years old.
Speaker 1: He just turned this past May, and I'm thirty six
Speaker 1: and I never thought that I was going to date
Speaker 1: a guy younger. He has no kids, and he wants kids.
Speaker 1: It's just I'm like, God, what are you doing? But
Speaker 1: he knows why. But he's very mature. I'm actually going
Speaker 1: to call him in a little bit. I'm surprising with
Speaker 1: a little phone call, you guys are gonna be able
Speaker 1: to feel that he's very mature, very mature guy. So
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him Elion. And this is exclusive for
Speaker 1: all of you guys that are listening only for cheek
Speaker 1: ease and chill. I have never done this. I haven't
Speaker 1: even really talked about my relationship with anyone guys, because
Speaker 1: I kind of want to keep that part private. My
Speaker 1: last relationship really scared me and I'm just a little
Speaker 1: tainted in that area. I'm like, you know what, I
Speaker 1: just want to keep this to myself. But hey, you
Speaker 1: guys are special. This is a special podcast. So I'm
Speaker 1: going to call him. I prepared some questions and we're
Speaker 1: gonna get some truth at him. Okay, so can you
Speaker 1: call him up? Always right here, only say what's up
Speaker 1: to everybody? That's only here we go nervous, Hi, baby,
Speaker 1: Hi beautiful? What are you doing? Him walking? Oh? The
Speaker 1: puppy to give him a kiss for me? So you
Speaker 1: know how I'm like recording a podcast and stuff. Yes,
Speaker 1: so today's episode is called I Am Not Single anymore.
Speaker 1: So I'm not single and I'm talking about you and
Speaker 1: how we met and you are live with me right now.
Speaker 1: Say hi to everyone? Wow, Hello everyone, Hello, everyone. So
Speaker 1: this is a medio Sanchez. You guys already kind of
Speaker 1: told you guys how we met and what he does
Speaker 1: for a living, but I want you guys to hear
Speaker 1: it from him, so I prepared these questions for you. Baby. Um,
Speaker 1: can you talk a little bit, like for a little bit,
Speaker 1: just like for like seven minutes? Yeah, of course. Okay,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, hold on, are you nervous? Who are
Speaker 1: you nervous? Because everything with us has been so private
Speaker 1: and nice But it's okay, though. This is I think
Speaker 1: people want to know this part of my life and
Speaker 1: I would want them to know why why I am
Speaker 1: with you, and I want you to be completely honest.
Speaker 1: There's some questions on here that I just I want
Speaker 1: you to answer truthfully. Don't think I'm gonna get mad. Okay, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: So tell them straight up. What do you do for
Speaker 1: a living and where are you from. I am a
Speaker 1: photographer and director out of Los Angeles, California. I was,
Speaker 1: but I was born in Santa Monica, So I'm more
Speaker 1: of a beach boy than an l a boy. I
Speaker 1: feel he loves Santa Monica. You guys, um, do you
Speaker 1: remember the first time we met. The first time we
Speaker 1: met was on set during COVID for the Joe Ween
Speaker 1: music video that we did together. Yes, yeah, so right
Speaker 1: away on our first day we had to work together
Speaker 1: and it was kind of a any day it was.
Speaker 1: I kind of told him about that, see, he remembers,
Speaker 1: he I thought you maybe you had forgotten or something.
Speaker 1: Why would I forget the first day? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to make sure. Okay. So what was
Speaker 1: your first impression of me? Um? Well, you had a
Speaker 1: lot of energy that I felt was very attracting, Like
Speaker 1: I was attracted to that, and I didn't I didn't
Speaker 1: know why or what, but it just felt like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, people just gravitate towards you. So I guess
Speaker 1: that's kind of what happened. Oh, you've never told me
Speaker 1: that immedial. Oh guys, this is so cute. Did you
Speaker 1: think I was pretty? Of course? Did you like my butt?
Speaker 1: Mm hmm yeah. I may have looked at it a
Speaker 1: couple of times. He may have looked at it a
Speaker 1: couple of times. Oh my god, you guys. He's very
Speaker 1: He's a very reserve type of guy, very shy. Um.
Speaker 1: He's used to being behind the camera, so this is
Speaker 1: all very new for him. So the fact that he's
Speaker 1: doing this and answering all these questions is a lot.
Speaker 1: So thank you so much. Maybe okay, I'm not done
Speaker 1: yet though, So okay, So do you remember the first date? Yeah,
Speaker 1: our first day. It was already like a few weeks after.
Speaker 1: We were kind of talking. So I took you to
Speaker 1: Catch in Hollywood because I remember you were feeling like
Speaker 1: you haven't seen anything or been a part of like
Speaker 1: my side or like my life. So I was like,
Speaker 1: let me take you to I'm taking mind her. Let
Speaker 1: me bring it over here and take you one of,
Speaker 1: you know, one of the cool restaurants. So I knew
Speaker 1: the atmosphere was going to be fun, and we both
Speaker 1: really love sushi, so mm hmm, yeah, it was like
Speaker 1: the perfect place. Let me tell you, guys, Emilio has
Speaker 1: introduced me to so many new and different things, different
Speaker 1: places I had never been to Catch. I had never
Speaker 1: really even hung out in that area, and it was
Speaker 1: refreshing because we got to hang out and nobody followed us.
Speaker 1: No paparazzis, no, no, like. It was just a different
Speaker 1: type of atmosphere. He comes from, like Hollywood. He's a
Speaker 1: Hollywood kid, and you know, so he knows all these
Speaker 1: things that I'm in l a girl, guys, but I'm
Speaker 1: like in the valley, I'm on the outskirts, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. And he's taught me so much a
Speaker 1: different freaking world. It's it's crazy. So Catch was so
Speaker 1: delicious and I gotta highly recommended and ll at you guys. Catch. Okay,
Speaker 1: So were you nervous about that first date though? Okay,
Speaker 1: I think it was the first first date that I've
Speaker 1: ever been on where we fought over the food. Definitely
Speaker 1: your first because I could eat. That's why I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm not shy. I'm not a shy girl. I'm not like,
Speaker 1: oh no, I don't want to eat Like now, I'm like,
Speaker 1: bring it and order whatever you want to eat all
Speaker 1: of it. So I think he was like this girl,
Speaker 1: she's cute. Okay, So we're you nervous or not. I
Speaker 1: think we were both nervous. Huh. I wasn't, as you know,
Speaker 1: because we had already was talking every day, hanging out
Speaker 1: a lot, So like that part, I wasn't as nervous,
Speaker 1: but I was nervous to see us in like a
Speaker 1: date situation. It was like, okay, so a real test.
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, how are we if we start doing
Speaker 1: real relationship things. So that's kind of what I was
Speaker 1: nervous for. We had a glass so it was like
Speaker 1: it kind of took a lot of pressure off. It
Speaker 1: was such a nice time. Do you remember what I
Speaker 1: was wearing, not the very first time, not not the
Speaker 1: Julian on March one? Do you remember what I was wearing?
Speaker 1: Oh that day? Yeah, he came out of your glamor
Speaker 1: when you were wearing a purple Lakers jacket. It's your
Speaker 1: hair tight. And I saw it all in slow motion.
Speaker 1: It was pretty crazy, like out of the movie or
Speaker 1: what out of a movie. It was straight out of
Speaker 1: the movie. And I was like any college rest probably.
Speaker 1: I was like, we already worked together once and I
Speaker 1: don't I don't know why. It just happened out of nowhere.
Speaker 1: And I was like, and it kind of hit me
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh man, that's may have been alcohol,
Speaker 1: but I don't know. That was crazy. It was. It
Speaker 1: was like this electrifying feeling. Guys, it's crazy. Okay, what
Speaker 1: color was my lipstick? I'm gonna go with red, Go
Speaker 1: with red. No, remember it was dark. It was like
Speaker 1: a dark like burgundy or something like that. Well, I
Speaker 1: guess it's kind of red. Guys. Okay, let's give him
Speaker 1: that kind of red. And then because okay, he doesn't
Speaker 1: want to say it, but like he was like, you
Speaker 1: were in these black leggings and your asks looks so nice.
Speaker 1: What don't you tell him that? Didn't you say that
Speaker 1: or not? M he's shy, he's shy. But anyways, he
Speaker 1: did say that. He said that my butt looked really
Speaker 1: nice in those in those um leggings. Okay, do you
Speaker 1: remember our first kiss and where it was m M, yeah,
Speaker 1: definitely it wasn't. It wasn't much long after that that
Speaker 1: same night or what I think, So who kissed who me,
Speaker 1: are you. I definitely kissed you. He kissed me because
Speaker 1: you told me I can cook your dimples. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: could do whatever you want. Yeah, you said that. Um,
Speaker 1: when did you know that you wanted to make our
Speaker 1: relationship official? I think, uh, honestly, I think immediately everything
Speaker 1: was like wow, okay, everything, everything, everything that I felt
Speaker 1: for you happened so fast, like and you just like
Speaker 1: I said, you have like this very strong force of
Speaker 1: attraction that I was like, I just honestly, I just
Speaker 1: kind of knew. Since since that night, since the beginning,
Speaker 1: hasn't really changed. Mm hmm, thank you. I was gonna
Speaker 1: ask you another question, okay, but wait, um, because when
Speaker 1: we first started dating you guys, the conversations were very different.
Speaker 1: They were like, Okay, we're gonna chill, and we didn't
Speaker 1: talk about all kinds of things like kids and all
Speaker 1: this stuff. And now it's kind of like, hey, you
Speaker 1: make me feel things that I've never felt before, you know,
Speaker 1: and that makes me excited. Dabe. You know that I
Speaker 1: can do that because it's all organic. Yes, it's authentic,
Speaker 1: and we don't there's no pressure. We let it flow. Um. Okay,
Speaker 1: so what do you like the most about me physically firstly, yeah,
Speaker 1: physically first, and then we'll go into the you know,
Speaker 1: the rest. I want you to guess what my favorite
Speaker 1: thing My butt, but give okay, my smile, my cheeks.
Speaker 1: It's true, I should have said, yeah, I should have
Speaker 1: said cheeks. He loves my cheeks, you guys. He's always
Speaker 1: grabbing my cheeks from my face. Okay, the cheeks in
Speaker 1: the bottom two, but my cheeks from my face. He
Speaker 1: grabs them all day long. I've never really let anybody
Speaker 1: touch my favor, but he loves my cheeks. Okay, So
Speaker 1: about me? Characteristic a trait? Something that you like the
Speaker 1: most about me? M m um. I mean, obviously there's
Speaker 1: there's so many things, but my favorite is probably how
Speaker 1: genuine you are as a human being, like in public
Speaker 1: but also like even bucking closed doors. You're just such
Speaker 1: a carrying, in loving person and all you wanna do
Speaker 1: is make as many people happy as you can, And
Speaker 1: it definitely rubs off on me. It motivates me to
Speaker 1: want to be the best person I can be. Also, oh, babe,
Speaker 1: can't we just see you so I could just mm okay, alright, guys,
Speaker 1: sorry about that. Anyways, I forgot I'm here on the podcast. Okay,
Speaker 1: so what do you like least about me? Be honest? Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: now we're getting spicy. Um why I think it kind
Speaker 1: of goes It kind of goes with what I just
Speaker 1: said was the best thing about you is that you
Speaker 1: know you do. I want to please everything and everyone
Speaker 1: as you possibly can. And sometimes you're a bit hard
Speaker 1: on yourself mm hmmm. And sometimes I you know, being
Speaker 1: hard on yourself, you forget sometimes to like give yourself,
Speaker 1: you time for you, Oh my god. Yeah, I wish
Speaker 1: you gave yourself more of your time and knowing that
Speaker 1: everything doesn't have to be done yourself, you know, and
Speaker 1: you can lean on other people, and it's okay to
Speaker 1: do that, and especially now that I'm here for you know,
Speaker 1: you can always lean on me as well. Thank you,
Speaker 1: Thank you. See you, guys, I told you he's very
Speaker 1: mature for his age, because I was talking about your
Speaker 1: age and I've never dated anybody as ang as you.
Speaker 1: But I was so worried and now I don't care anyways. Okay,
Speaker 1: one last question, okay, because it's very important. Do you
Speaker 1: feel that I'm controlling controlling? Yes, not at all, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: Thank you. I've never had any of that stience at all. Oh,
Speaker 1: thank god. I just needed to know I do know
Speaker 1: what you like, and I know you don't like and
Speaker 1: I it's just stick by those rules and I'm good. See, guys,
Speaker 1: you got okay. Men that are listening to this podcast,
Speaker 1: when they say happy wife, happy life, that's some serious ship,
Speaker 1: you guys. It's not that. It's just kind of like
Speaker 1: we both advice versa. We should all know what we
Speaker 1: like about one another in your partner and just stay
Speaker 1: in that lane and in those lines, and you don't
Speaker 1: have to worry about it. Relationships don't have to be hard.
Speaker 1: Sometimes we make them hard, and communication is key. And
Speaker 1: that's something that him and I are on the same page.
Speaker 1: We both come from relationships that were a little difficult
Speaker 1: and we weren't necessarily our best selves in those relationships,
Speaker 1: and now we want to be the best self for
Speaker 1: each other. So we're both very intentional, um doing that.
Speaker 1: So I think this is why it's it's working, you know.
Speaker 1: And and um, I just I love them, guys. I
Speaker 1: do what the hell I do if it can, I say,
Speaker 1: I'm telling the world now, I love Amelio. Oh, I
Speaker 1: love you, Janey. Thank you, babe, Okay, So it is
Speaker 1: Jenney the one, And look, you don't have to answer
Speaker 1: that right now. It's it's it's just you know. But
Speaker 1: if you do, you feel that Genet is the one? Absolutely,
Speaker 1: oh my god, absolutely okay. And you know that every
Speaker 1: day he does guys, he says he wants Yeah, he
Speaker 1: wants everything with me. That's what he says. I want
Speaker 1: everything with you, That's what he says. Um. You know
Speaker 1: a lot of people ask me, will you ever get
Speaker 1: married again? Do you still believe in love? Is Amilia
Speaker 1: the one? I get that question all the time, and
Speaker 1: I have learned that I want to live in the
Speaker 1: moment and right now he is the one, and right
Speaker 1: now I wouldn't mind getting married again. And I am
Speaker 1: still healing some things from my past and I'm going
Speaker 1: to therapy and seeing my life coach and stuff because
Speaker 1: it really did damage me and I want to heal
Speaker 1: myself of that before stepping into something else more serious.
Speaker 1: He understands it, and I'm very very honest with him.
Speaker 1: But he makes me happy and he has made me,
Speaker 1: honestly think of having children more than I ever have
Speaker 1: in my life. He'd be a wonderful father and i'd
Speaker 1: feel safe, that's the word. I would feel safe marrying him,
Speaker 1: and I would feel safe having children with him. So yes,
Speaker 1: I mean he is he's he's the guy. Um. He
Speaker 1: teaches me something every single day, and sometimes I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm the little Toxica on the relationship. So I'm
Speaker 1: trying to just keep myself from making the same mistakes
Speaker 1: as before. Um. But it's all learning. It's a it's
Speaker 1: a learning process. You gotta take a day by day. Okay, baby,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking my call for doing this.
Speaker 1: I know it's not your thing, but I wanted people
Speaker 1: to see how wise he is, how mature, how loving
Speaker 1: and anyways, so I'll call you in a little bit.
Speaker 1: I okay, yeah, go go pick it up. Okay, I
Speaker 1: love you. Okay, bye. Well, there you have it, guys,
Speaker 1: And again, let me reiterate, I have not talked about
Speaker 1: my relationship in this way, and he doesn't give interviews.
Speaker 1: He's just talked that to pipe. So we're breaking nice
Speaker 1: here on chickens and chill. It's so I hope that
Speaker 1: you guys enjoyed that little glimpse into my relationship with Amilium.
Speaker 1: Now we're gonna get a little deeper. Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you know, but I'm a cancer and Emilio
Speaker 1: is a Gemini. This crazy as it sounds. I'm all
Speaker 1: about horoscopes and everything usually on the type of person
Speaker 1: to like look up like, are we compatible for one another?
Speaker 1: And I haven't done that with the Meilio. Why? I
Speaker 1: have no clue, But I'm gonna do it here with you, guys,
Speaker 1: I promise you. I haven't read it before. Um, So
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go on horoscope dot com to see Emilio
Speaker 1: and I are truly quote unquote compatible for one another
Speaker 1: according to astrology. All right, pulling it up right now.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of nervous. I'm not gonna lie. I don't
Speaker 1: know why I haven't done it with him. That's so crazy.
Speaker 1: Um let's see, Okay, Jim and I and cancer in
Speaker 1: love and sex. Okay, When Gemini and cancer come together
Speaker 1: in a love affair, it may be a rather curious relationship.
Speaker 1: Sensitive emotional cancer O Sagio has trouble communicating clearly. I
Speaker 1: think I've grown that, okay, but clear communication is what
Speaker 1: defines Gemini. Gemini's nature and silver tongue may encourage the
Speaker 1: crab to come out of its shell more quickly than usual.
Speaker 1: Cancer intern can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate
Speaker 1: the world, which the frantic twins hardly ever take time
Speaker 1: to do. If Gemini seems to ignore cancer or doesn't
Speaker 1: provide them with as much reassurance and intimacy as needed,
Speaker 1: trouble may ensue. I'm laughing, guys, because it's so true.
Speaker 1: That's true. My love language is words of affirmation. But
Speaker 1: he knows that, so he's really good at that. Okay,
Speaker 1: these two signs approach the world in different manners that
Speaker 1: they must be able to under done and except one
Speaker 1: Another's difference is Cancer is the sign of home and heart,
Speaker 1: while Gemini is the thinker. Gemini can easily slip into
Speaker 1: the role of cancer's night in shining armor. Quality of
Speaker 1: home life is important to cancer and gem Gemini will
Speaker 1: be oiled by their cancer lover, hearty home cooking, which
Speaker 1: is true, kind of soft bed and other creature comforts. Okay, look, guys,
Speaker 1: what I'm getting out of here is that cancers and
Speaker 1: Gemini's aren't necessarily compatible because we're very different. I'm very emotional,
Speaker 1: He's more in his mind, which is very true. But
Speaker 1: let me tell you something about this. You don't necessarily
Speaker 1: have to be quote unquote compatible. It's just where you
Speaker 1: are in your life. When you meet your person, are
Speaker 1: they in a healthy state of mind? And Emilia and
Speaker 1: I both do therapy every week. He knows he has
Speaker 1: things he has to work on. We're very honest with
Speaker 1: each other. I have things I have to work on.
Speaker 1: I see my life coach. I'm very intentional about doing
Speaker 1: my work because I can be a very unhealthy cancer,
Speaker 1: and obviously geminis can also be unhealthy. Every sign really,
Speaker 1: but it's all about you being intentional every day and
Speaker 1: being the best version of yourself for your partner, for yourself.
Speaker 1: So I think Emilia and I work, even though it
Speaker 1: says that we're not that compatible. I think because we're
Speaker 1: both on the same page and we both want the
Speaker 1: same thing. Some people are like, no, I gott stay
Speaker 1: away from this sign because they're not good for me. Hey,
Speaker 1: you might run into the love of your life, and
Speaker 1: astrology says that's you know, that's not your match. And
Speaker 1: you know what, I have never dated Gemini, and I
Speaker 1: was a little skeptical in the beginning because my mom's
Speaker 1: love of her life, his name is Fernie and he
Speaker 1: is a Gemini. My mom was a cancer like me,
Speaker 1: and that was my mom's soulmate. She always said, that's
Speaker 1: my soul made. But he's just he wasn't necessarily a
Speaker 1: healthy gemini. So I was kind of like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: like they're you know, you always hear that they're too
Speaker 1: face and they're not to face. I've learned what they are.
Speaker 1: That's why I was a little bit like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: But with Emilio Selo, you know, so, yeah, this is
Speaker 1: my first time day your joy. I hope that you
Speaker 1: learned a little bit about my relationship and also about yours,
Speaker 1: or if you're not in a relationship, what you want
Speaker 1: to do in the next relationship, how you want to act. Um.
Speaker 1: All I can tell you is communication is key. Always
Speaker 1: be honest. Honesty is the best policy. Communicate because through
Speaker 1: communication comes clarity. Anyhow, I hope that you enjoyed this podcast,
Speaker 1: and don't forget to listen to Cheeks and Chill every
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