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Speaker 1: cheek Ease and Chill. I'm your host cheek Ease, and

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Speaker 1: not because of the food. The food is good, but

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Speaker 1: because of what you know you're thankful for. Anyhow, today's

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Speaker 1: haven't done in a minute. So grab a caico a tequila. Um,

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Speaker 1: so if you listen to episode one, you'll know I'm

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Speaker 1: not single anymore. My boyfriend's name is a Medial Scentez.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna start off with, UM, I was married

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Speaker 1: It's a long story. I will explain a lot more

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Speaker 1: about that in my book You Guys, comes out February

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Speaker 1: eight It's called Unstoppable UM. And it's something that is

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Speaker 1: said cheeks. He loves my cheeks, you guys. He's always

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Speaker 1: grabbing my cheeks from my face. Okay, the cheeks in

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Speaker 1: the bottom two, but my cheeks from my face. He

425
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 1: grabs them all day long. I've never really let anybody

426
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Speaker 1: touch my favor, but he loves my cheeks. Okay, So

427
00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:51,199
Speaker 1: about me? Characteristic a trait? Something that you like the

428
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Speaker 1: most about me? M m um. I mean, obviously there's

429
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Speaker 1: there's so many things, but my favorite is probably how

430
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:04,679
Speaker 1: genuine you are as a human being, like in public

431
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 1: but also like even bucking closed doors. You're just such

432
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,679
Speaker 1: a carrying, in loving person and all you wanna do

433
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Speaker 1: is make as many people happy as you can, And

434
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Speaker 1: it definitely rubs off on me. It motivates me to

435
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Speaker 1: want to be the best person I can be. Also, oh, babe,

436
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:25,200
Speaker 1: can't we just see you so I could just mm okay, alright, guys,

437
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 1: sorry about that. Anyways, I forgot I'm here on the podcast. Okay,

438
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 1: so what do you like least about me? Be honest? Okay, okay,

439
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Speaker 1: now we're getting spicy. Um why I think it kind

440
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Speaker 1: of goes It kind of goes with what I just

441
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Speaker 1: said was the best thing about you is that you

442
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 1: know you do. I want to please everything and everyone

443
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Speaker 1: as you possibly can. And sometimes you're a bit hard

444
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Speaker 1: on yourself mm hmmm. And sometimes I you know, being

445
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 1: hard on yourself, you forget sometimes to like give yourself,

446
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: you time for you, Oh my god. Yeah, I wish

447
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 1: you gave yourself more of your time and knowing that

448
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 1: everything doesn't have to be done yourself, you know, and

449
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: you can lean on other people, and it's okay to

450
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 1: do that, and especially now that I'm here for you know,

451
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 1: you can always lean on me as well. Thank you,

452
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 1: Thank you. See you, guys, I told you he's very

453
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Speaker 1: mature for his age, because I was talking about your

454
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Speaker 1: age and I've never dated anybody as ang as you.

455
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Speaker 1: But I was so worried and now I don't care anyways. Okay,

456
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Speaker 1: one last question, okay, because it's very important. Do you

457
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:43,159
Speaker 1: feel that I'm controlling controlling? Yes, not at all, absolutely not.

458
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Speaker 1: Thank you. I've never had any of that stience at all. Oh,

459
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,199
Speaker 1: thank god. I just needed to know I do know

460
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Speaker 1: what you like, and I know you don't like and

461
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 1: I it's just stick by those rules and I'm good. See, guys,

462
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 1: you got okay. Men that are listening to this podcast,

463
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: when they say happy wife, happy life, that's some serious ship,

464
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: you guys. It's not that. It's just kind of like

465
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: we both advice versa. We should all know what we

466
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 1: like about one another in your partner and just stay

467
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: in that lane and in those lines, and you don't

468
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: have to worry about it. Relationships don't have to be hard.

469
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Speaker 1: Sometimes we make them hard, and communication is key. And

470
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 1: that's something that him and I are on the same page.

471
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Speaker 1: We both come from relationships that were a little difficult

472
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Speaker 1: and we weren't necessarily our best selves in those relationships,

473
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Speaker 1: and now we want to be the best self for

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Speaker 1: each other. So we're both very intentional, um doing that.

475
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Speaker 1: So I think this is why it's it's working, you know.

476
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Speaker 1: And and um, I just I love them, guys. I

477
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Speaker 1: do what the hell I do if it can, I say,

478
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Speaker 1: I'm telling the world now, I love Amelio. Oh, I

479
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 1: love you, Janey. Thank you, babe, Okay, So it is

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Speaker 1: Jenney the one, And look, you don't have to answer

481
00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: that right now. It's it's it's just you know. But

482
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Speaker 1: if you do, you feel that Genet is the one? Absolutely,

483
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: oh my god, absolutely okay. And you know that every

484
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: day he does guys, he says he wants Yeah, he

485
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: wants everything with me. That's what he says. I want

486
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: everything with you, That's what he says. Um. You know

487
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: a lot of people ask me, will you ever get

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Speaker 1: married again? Do you still believe in love? Is Amilia

489
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Speaker 1: the one? I get that question all the time, and

490
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 1: I have learned that I want to live in the

491
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Speaker 1: moment and right now he is the one, and right

492
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: now I wouldn't mind getting married again. And I am

493
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Speaker 1: still healing some things from my past and I'm going

494
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 1: to therapy and seeing my life coach and stuff because

495
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: it really did damage me and I want to heal

496
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Speaker 1: myself of that before stepping into something else more serious.

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Speaker 1: He understands it, and I'm very very honest with him.

498
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Speaker 1: But he makes me happy and he has made me,

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Speaker 1: honestly think of having children more than I ever have

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Speaker 1: in my life. He'd be a wonderful father and i'd

501
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Speaker 1: feel safe, that's the word. I would feel safe marrying him,

502
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Speaker 1: and I would feel safe having children with him. So yes,

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00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: I mean he is he's he's the guy. Um. He

504
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 1: teaches me something every single day, and sometimes I feel

505
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 1: like I'm the little Toxica on the relationship. So I'm

506
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: trying to just keep myself from making the same mistakes

507
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: as before. Um. But it's all learning. It's a it's

508
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Speaker 1: a learning process. You gotta take a day by day. Okay, baby,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking my call for doing this.

510
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 1: I know it's not your thing, but I wanted people

511
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: to see how wise he is, how mature, how loving

512
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 1: and anyways, so I'll call you in a little bit.

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00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: I okay, yeah, go go pick it up. Okay, I

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00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 1: love you. Okay, bye. Well, there you have it, guys,

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00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: And again, let me reiterate, I have not talked about

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Speaker 1: my relationship in this way, and he doesn't give interviews.

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00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 1: He's just talked that to pipe. So we're breaking nice

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00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 1: here on chickens and chill. It's so I hope that

519
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: you guys enjoyed that little glimpse into my relationship with Amilium.

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00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: Now we're gonna get a little deeper. Okay, I don't

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00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: know if you know, but I'm a cancer and Emilio

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00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: is a Gemini. This crazy as it sounds. I'm all

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00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 1: about horoscopes and everything usually on the type of person

524
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: to like look up like, are we compatible for one another?

525
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: And I haven't done that with the Meilio. Why? I

526
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 1: have no clue, But I'm gonna do it here with you, guys,

527
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: I promise you. I haven't read it before. Um, So

528
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go on horoscope dot com to see Emilio

529
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: and I are truly quote unquote compatible for one another

530
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 1: according to astrology. All right, pulling it up right now.

531
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 1: I'm kind of nervous. I'm not gonna lie. I don't

532
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: know why I haven't done it with him. That's so crazy.

533
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:02,439
Speaker 1: Um let's see, Okay, Jim and I and cancer in

534
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 1: love and sex. Okay, When Gemini and cancer come together

535
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: in a love affair, it may be a rather curious relationship.

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00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: Sensitive emotional cancer O Sagio has trouble communicating clearly. I

537
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 1: think I've grown that, okay, but clear communication is what

538
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: defines Gemini. Gemini's nature and silver tongue may encourage the

539
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: crab to come out of its shell more quickly than usual.

540
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 1: Cancer intern can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate

541
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Speaker 1: the world, which the frantic twins hardly ever take time

542
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: to do. If Gemini seems to ignore cancer or doesn't

543
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: provide them with as much reassurance and intimacy as needed,

544
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: trouble may ensue. I'm laughing, guys, because it's so true.

545
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: That's true. My love language is words of affirmation. But

546
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: he knows that, so he's really good at that. Okay,

547
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: these two signs approach the world in different manners that

548
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,719
Speaker 1: they must be able to under done and except one

549
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: Another's difference is Cancer is the sign of home and heart,

550
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: while Gemini is the thinker. Gemini can easily slip into

551
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: the role of cancer's night in shining armor. Quality of

552
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: home life is important to cancer and gem Gemini will

553
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 1: be oiled by their cancer lover, hearty home cooking, which

554
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 1: is true, kind of soft bed and other creature comforts. Okay, look, guys,

555
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: what I'm getting out of here is that cancers and

556
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: Gemini's aren't necessarily compatible because we're very different. I'm very emotional,

557
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: He's more in his mind, which is very true. But

558
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: let me tell you something about this. You don't necessarily

559
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: have to be quote unquote compatible. It's just where you

560
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: are in your life. When you meet your person, are

561
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 1: they in a healthy state of mind? And Emilia and

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00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: I both do therapy every week. He knows he has

563
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: things he has to work on. We're very honest with

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00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 1: each other. I have things I have to work on.

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00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: I see my life coach. I'm very intentional about doing

566
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,479
Speaker 1: my work because I can be a very unhealthy cancer,

567
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: and obviously geminis can also be unhealthy. Every sign really,

568
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 1: but it's all about you being intentional every day and

569
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 1: being the best version of yourself for your partner, for yourself.

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00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: So I think Emilia and I work, even though it

571
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: says that we're not that compatible. I think because we're

572
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: both on the same page and we both want the

573
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: same thing. Some people are like, no, I gott stay

574
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: away from this sign because they're not good for me. Hey,

575
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: you might run into the love of your life, and

576
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: astrology says that's you know, that's not your match. And

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Speaker 1: you know what, I have never dated Gemini, and I

578
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: was a little skeptical in the beginning because my mom's

579
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: love of her life, his name is Fernie and he

580
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: is a Gemini. My mom was a cancer like me,

581
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: and that was my mom's soulmate. She always said, that's

582
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: my soul made. But he's just he wasn't necessarily a

583
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: healthy gemini. So I was kind of like, oh my god,

584
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: like they're you know, you always hear that they're too

585
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: face and they're not to face. I've learned what they are.

586
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 1: That's why I was a little bit like, oh my god.

587
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: But with Emilio Selo, you know, so, yeah, this is

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00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: my first time day your joy. I hope that you

589
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: learned a little bit about my relationship and also about yours,

590
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: or if you're not in a relationship, what you want

591
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: to do in the next relationship, how you want to act. Um.

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00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: All I can tell you is communication is key. Always

593
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: be honest. Honesty is the best policy. Communicate because through

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00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: communication comes clarity. Anyhow, I hope that you enjoyed this podcast,

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00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: and don't forget to listen to Cheeks and Chill every

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Speaker 1: Monday on the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or

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00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. This is a

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Speaker 1: production of I Heart Radio and Michael podcast Network. Follow

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Speaker 1: us on Instagram, at Michael Podcasts and follow me cheek

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Speaker 1: eas on Instagram at cheek Ease. And I'll see you

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Speaker 1: guys next week. And remember Nana two three,