1 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: When did you know that you wanted to make our 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: relationship official? 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: I think, honestly, I think immediately. 4 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 3: What do you like least about me? Be honest? 5 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 4: Oh okay, okay, now we're getting spicy. 6 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,319 Speaker 1: Relationships don't have to be hard. Sometimes we make them hard. 7 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 3: Hey, what's up, guys. 8 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: Welcome to Cheeky's and Chill. I'm your host Cheeky's and 9 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: we're back with another episode. I can't believe we're. 10 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 3: Already in the middle of November. Guys. 11 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: I love Thanksgiving, and not because of the food. The 12 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 1: food is good, but because of what you know you're 13 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 1: thankful for. Anyhow, today's episode is going to get kind 14 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: of personal. I'm opening up and sharing my love life 15 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: with you, something I haven't done in a minute. So 16 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: grab a caico a tequila. You might need some tequila 17 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: because it's Cheeky's And so if you listen to episode one, 18 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: you'll know I'm not single anymore. My boyfriend's name is 19 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: Menial Sanchez. But before we get into that, I want 20 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: to take a step back and touch on my last 21 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: relationship a bit. So we're gonna start off with I 22 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: was married for about a year. I'm still not divorced. Actually, 23 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: we're in the process, and it's not because I don't 24 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: want to be divorced. 25 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 3: It's just the process is long. It's a long story. 26 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: I will explain a lot more about that in my 27 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 1: book You Guys, comes out February eighth. It's called Unstoppable, 28 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: and it's something that is important because it did happen. 29 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: I was married, and yes now I'm dating, and I'm 30 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 1: gonna talk about all of it in my book. 31 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 3: But I learned a lot from it. 32 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: I definitely learned a lot about myself in that relationship, 33 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: a lot about what I don't want in a person, 34 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: what I do want, what I want to do different. 35 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: It was very painful, but I think with pain comes promotion. 36 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: You learn, you grow, and it's all part of the process. 37 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: So I'm not thankful for that partner and grateful for 38 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: the lessons that I learned. My last relationship lasted about 39 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: four and a half years, and we got married and 40 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: we started having problems like leslie here into the marriage. 41 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 3: So we separated officially. 42 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: September twenty twenty and for those months, I want to 43 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 1: say October it started. And again I'm always really sad 44 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: around the time because I lost my mom in October, 45 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 1: like not physically, but then she passed away in December. 46 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: So it's always difficult. And it was another like big 47 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: thing in my life. I fell to my knees, I 48 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: was depressed, pandemic, So many things happened at once. I 49 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: didn't want to get divorced. I didn't want to get separated, 50 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: but I knew it was what was best for me. 51 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 3: So I did take a break. 52 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 1: I did meet someone rather soon, I want to say, 53 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: like in October, and I want and I don't know 54 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: if this sounds harsh, but it's the truth. I feel 55 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: like he was the devil in disguise. It felt like 56 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 1: he was everything that I wanted. And I don't blame 57 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 1: him completely, but I also take fault, you know. But 58 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: he told me everything I wanted to hear, and I thought, 59 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: oh my goodness, how did you send me a guy 60 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: a month later? 61 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 3: So fast? God? 62 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: No, no, no, you need time to breathe guys, you need 63 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: time to heal. So that brought me even more into 64 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: like a dark hole. So then I decided in January, 65 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: I'm going to be single. I'm going to do self love. 66 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 1: I'm going to just love myself. I didn't want to 67 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 1: know anything about guys. And then March came around and 68 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, March First, actually I said it 69 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: in the first episode two. 70 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm gonna go on dating apps. 71 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: I checked out Raya, I checked out all these like 72 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: high profile dating apps. Then Emilio comes into the picture 73 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: that same day. So on the dating apps, I really said, 74 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: I want I want to date. 75 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 3: I want I love, to love and to be loved. 76 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: I believe in marriage. I believe in love, and I 77 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: don't want to be tainted and jaded for the rest 78 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: of my life. And I'm like, I want to date. 79 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: I want to meet new people. That doesn't mean I 80 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: have to be sexual with them, it's just they can 81 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: take me out to eat or whatever. But I really 82 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: wanted something where hey, this is an app, and you're 83 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: here because for the same reason. And if it's a 84 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: high profile app, then it's kind of like you pay 85 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: for these apps where I feel that there's more serious people. 86 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: They're just not trying to hook up with you and 87 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: getting your pants. It's more of like I'm really trying 88 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: to find something solid here. A friend of mine was 89 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: on Riya and she showed me I was like, this 90 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: is kind of cool, Like there's famous people on here, 91 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: and I really like it because you couldn't screenshot like 92 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 1: certain things like that I was like, this is this 93 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: is this is cool, this is where. 94 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 3: I want to be. 95 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: And then another friend of mine had met her husband 96 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: and now has two children with him. I think they 97 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: met on Plenty of Fish or something like that, so 98 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 1: I was like, maybe this is the way to go. 99 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: It's gonna be hard for me to find someone because 100 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: I am who I am. I don't really go out 101 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 1: that much and the pandemic and everything. 102 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 3: So I was like, I just so I did it. 103 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: But I never got to get into it because as 104 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 1: soon as I met Amilio, I was like, okay, I 105 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable. And then I have to tell you 106 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 1: guys about that too. I found his ass on Riya 107 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: like a month into dating my friend who was on 108 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: Riya that introduced me to Riyah. She says, oh my god, 109 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: the guy you're dating is on here. She's like, but 110 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: I can't take a screenshop, so she put it on 111 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 1: her laptop and she took a picture of it, and 112 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, so we're exclusive, right, We're dating exclusively. 113 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, I'm like, okay, so are you on 114 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: any dating apps? And he's like, riyah, but that's not 115 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 1: really a dating app. I was like, yes, it is. 116 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: I looked into it and I was like, you're on there. 117 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: But he was really honest about it. Anyways, I was 118 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: I had forgot about that until right now. But anyways, 119 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: I never really got to tap into the dating app thing, 120 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: but I had thought about it. 121 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 3: So let's go back a. 122 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 1: Little bit on the dms, because that's something that I 123 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: hadn't really experienced until the world knew I am separated, 124 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: I'm going through a divorce. Like the dms were hot, 125 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: you guys, I was like, what the hell is this? 126 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: I for a moment thought, okay, well, I don't know. Sometimes, 127 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: like when you're married, you feel like, am I still hot? 128 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Like I'm attractive to my husband, 129 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 3: to my man. 130 00:05:56,600 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: But I did receive a lot of d from regular guys, 131 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: and then I also received dms from women, women that 132 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 1: you guys may know. 133 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 3: That I don't want. 134 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable putting it out there, but asking 135 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: me on dates, like serious dates, like hey, I've had 136 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: an eye on you for a long time. You are 137 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: so sexy and juicy, and I want to know what 138 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: you taste like. She said, So I'd love to take 139 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 1: you to dinner, but let me take you to dinner first. 140 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I thought about it. She's very attractive. 141 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 3: I thought about it. And also some rappers. 142 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: I met one of these rappers actually at an awards 143 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: show in Vegas and he said, I've seen you on 144 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 1: Instagram and I said, oh cool. He's like, how about 145 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: you give me I have your Instagram? How about you 146 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 1: give me your number? So I was like, what he is? 147 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: I saw you're going through a divorce. He's like, so 148 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: I can make you feel better. So I was like, 149 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 1: oh my goodness. I gave him my number and we 150 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: talked for a little bit. Didn't really work out. And 151 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 1: then another rapper too, really nice, very respectful, Hey, what's up. 152 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: We should hang out one day. Don't you gotta worry 153 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: about me? We can sign NDA's the whole thing. But 154 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: I never I never want to a date. I'm just 155 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: I'm kind of shy in that aspect. I'm just kind 156 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: of like, oh my god, I worry. I'm like what 157 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: if they say something because I don't know. I was 158 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: just very hesitant and I just decided not to. 159 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 3: Go through with it. 160 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: But it got pretty hot in there, guys. And then 161 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: on Snapchat it got crazy. They were sending dick pics. 162 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: It was insane. It gets crazy, I swear to you. 163 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: I feel like Snapchat can sometimes be like, I don't know, 164 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: the Devil's Manual or something. 165 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 3: It's crazy. 166 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: You can get yourself in trouble in there, guys, so 167 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: be careful with that. But anyways, that was when I 168 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: was single. But I'm a single no more, so I 169 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: ignore those dms now. But people are kind of honestly, 170 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: they're they're very respectful. Now that people know that I 171 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: officially have a boyfriend, I'm not getting dms like that anymore. 172 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: They're kind of like, uh, I think they know what 173 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: kind of woman I am, so AnyWho, and then those 174 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: screenshots is not cute, you guys, gotta be careful for that. 175 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 3: So this is how we get in too. 176 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: I'm not single anymore, guys, because Emo is now officially 177 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: my boyfriend. Okay, so let's talk a little bit about 178 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: Emtio or a lot of bit. I talked about it 179 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: briefly in episode one, but we met for the very 180 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: first time in May of twenty twenty, and he was 181 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: taking pictures of me, and it was crazy because it 182 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: was for Joline and it was during the quarantine and 183 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: we couldn't Becky and I Becky Jane, I couldn't get 184 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: together and do like a real, real video music video, 185 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: so we had to do like animated. So it's crazy 186 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: because I had all these crazy outfits on and it 187 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: had to do like crazy movements and it was just 188 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: not a pretty sexy type. 189 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 3: Of photo shoot. 190 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: So I was doing all these crazy ass things on 191 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: the floor and here he is a cute guy that 192 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: has really pretty eyes. That's what first attracted me to 193 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 1: him was when I saw him, was like, wow, he 194 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:51,719 Speaker 1: has really pretty eyes. I even told him, so, you 195 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 1: have beautiful eyeballs and he's like eyeballs. Like yeah, I 196 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: like your eyeballs. He's like, oh thanks. But he was 197 00:08:56,280 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: very professional, very respectful. He did kind of ask me, hey, so, 198 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: what's up is your man here? And I'm like, oh no, 199 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: he actually moved out because you know, my ex had 200 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: already moved out and we were already starting the separation, 201 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: so he had just recently moved out like two weeks before, 202 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: and I was really sad. So I was kind of like, 203 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: I like this guy, but I'm in no position, you know. 204 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 3: But he was cute. 205 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: I had one of my guys, my makeup artists asked, hey, 206 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: just ask if he's married. 207 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 3: I just want to know. He said he wasn't. 208 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: But I never asked if he had a girlfriend, and 209 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: I think during that time he did. I learned that later, 210 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 1: of course, so that happened. I get back with my ex. 211 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: We try to make things work, didn't work out. We 212 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: separate in September of twenty twenty. Twenty twenty one rolls 213 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 1: around after my big depression, and I went to Tulum 214 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: in January, and I feel like I left all of 215 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: my sadness in tu Loom. I just felt like I 216 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: was born there, so I like rebirthed Intu Loom and 217 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: I went into the ocean. I meditated. I left everything there. 218 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: I came back just happier. I'm like, you know what, 219 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: That's where I was like, I want to love myself, 220 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:56,439 Speaker 1: I want to take care of myself. I want to 221 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,839 Speaker 1: learn from my mistakes. And that's when I decided, on 222 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: March first of twenty twenty one that I was gonna 223 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 1: do dating apps and this whole thing, and I was 224 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: stopped in my tracks because Emilio walked through my door. 225 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 1: He was invited to Beckyg's party that was at my house. 226 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 1: It was a surprise party that we had done for 227 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 1: her at my house and he was invited. And again 228 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: that same spark, that same look, that same feeling that 229 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: I think we both had that first time we had met, 230 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,079 Speaker 1: came back and I was just like we were inseparable 231 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 1: the whole night. We were talking, we were dancing, we 232 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: were vibing, taking shots then because he used to drink, 233 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: he doesn't drink anymore, so we were taking shots and everything. 234 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: We got buzzed and I told him, hey, I love 235 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 1: your dimples. Can I poke them? And He's like, you 236 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 1: could do whatever you want. I was like, ooh, that 237 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 1: made it was so sexy. When he said that, one 238 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: thing led to another and we kissed, so he actually 239 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 1: kissed me, and I thought that was really hot too. 240 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: So I just I love his smile. I love his smile, 241 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 1: love his eyes, his dimples. The first kiss was very nice, 242 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: very soft, very respectful. He kind of put me up 243 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: against the wall, which I really liked too, and he 244 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: just he kissed me and then we talked. I have 245 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: like a garage that I turned into a closet at 246 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: my house. We went into the closet and we were 247 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: just talking and talking like I just feel like I 248 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: had known him forever. 249 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 3: It it all held. 250 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 1: It felt just so nice, and the kiss was nice, 251 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: and he touched my button and I was like, oh 252 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: my god. 253 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 3: It's stop. It was really cute. 254 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: And then I found out that he was younger than me. Guys, 255 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: he's younger than me. A lot of people don't know that. 256 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: I never thought I was going to date anyone younger. 257 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 1: My ex was a year younger than I was, and 258 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: I felt like that scared me. It was the first 259 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: guy had ever dated that was a year younger than me. 260 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: Everyone was like four or five years older. So I 261 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: was like, well, I'm for sure not going to date. 262 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 1: That's another thing. 263 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 3: This is why I know God knows what you need, 264 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 3: because I was like, I want this. 265 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: I want a guy that has already been married and 266 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:46,719 Speaker 1: divorced so he knows what I'd gone through. I want 267 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: him to have kids, because I don't know if I 268 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 1: want to have kids. I want him to be older 269 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: and mature, and God gave me the complete opposite. Emilio 270 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: is twenty nine years old. He just turned twenty nine 271 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: this past May, and I'm thirty six and I never 272 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: thought that I was going to date a guy younger. 273 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: He has no kids, and he wants kids. It's just 274 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, God, what do you doing? But he knows why. 275 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: But he's very mature. I'm actually gonna call him in 276 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: a little bit. I'm surprising with a little phone call, 277 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: you guys are gonna be able to feel that he's 278 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 1: very mature, very mature guy. 279 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 3: So I'm gonna call Emilio. 280 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: And this is exclusive for all of you guys that 281 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: are listening, only for Cheeky's and chill. I have never 282 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 1: done this. I haven't even really talked about my relationship 283 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: with anyone guys, because I kind of want to keep 284 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 1: that part private. My last relationship really scared me and 285 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: I'm just a little tainted in that area. I'm like, 286 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: you know what, I just want to keep this to myself. 287 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: But hey, you guys are special. This is a special podcast. 288 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna call him. I prepared some questions and 289 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: we're gonna get some truth out of him. Okay, so 290 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: Omi can you call him up. Almi's right here, Omi, 291 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 1: say what's up to everybody? 292 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 3: That's Omi? Oh, here we go. I'm nervous, Hi babe. 293 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 4: Hi beautiful, what are you doing? I am walking? I 294 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 4: just walked awry. 295 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 1: Oh the puppy to give him a kiss for me. 296 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: So you know how I'm like recording a podcast and stuff. Yes, 297 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: so today's episode is called I Am Not Single anymore. 298 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: So I'm not single and I'm talking about you and 299 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 1: how we met and you are live with me right now? 300 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 3: Say hi to everyone? Wow, Hello everyone, Hello, everyone. So 301 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 3: this is a medio Sanchez. 302 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: You guys already kind of told you guys how we 303 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: met and what he does for a living, but I 304 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 1: want you guys to hear it from him, so I 305 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:47,960 Speaker 1: prepared these questions for you. 306 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 4: Babe. 307 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 1: Can you talk a little bit, like for a little bit, 308 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: just like for like seven minutes? 309 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, of course. 310 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 3: Okay, Oh my god, hold on, are you nervous? Who 311 00:13:58,280 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 3: are you nervous? 312 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: Because everything with us has been so private and nice 313 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 1: But it's okay, though. This is I think people want 314 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 1: to know this part of my life and I would 315 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: want them to know why I'm with you, and I 316 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 1: want you to be completely honest. There's some questions on 317 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 1: here that I just I want you to answer truthfully. 318 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 1: Don't think I'm gonna get mad. Okay, Okay, okay, okay, 319 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: So tell them straight up. What do you do for 320 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: a living and where are you from? 321 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: I am a photographer and director out of Los Angeles, California. 322 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 2: I was, but I was born in Santa Monica. So 323 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 2: I'm more of a beat boy than an LA boy. 324 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 1: I feel he loves Santa Monica. You guys, do you 325 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: remember the first time we met. 326 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 2: The first time we met was on set during COVID 327 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 2: for the Joeene. 328 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 4: Music video that we did together. 329 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, so right away on our first day we 330 00:14:56,880 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 2: had to work together and it was kind of a 331 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 2: a day it was. 332 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: I kind of told him about that, see, he remembers. Yeah, 333 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: I thought maybe you had forgotten or something. 334 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 4: Why would I forget the first day? 335 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 3: I don't know. I just wanted to make sure. Okay, 336 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 3: So what was your first impression of me? 337 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 2: Well, You've had a lot of energy that I felt 338 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 2: was very attracting, Like I was attracted to that, and 339 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 2: I didn't actually I didn't know why or what, but 340 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 2: it just felt like I don't know, people just gravitate 341 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 2: towards you. 342 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 4: So I guess that's kind of what happened. 343 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 3: Oh you've never told me that, immedio. Oh guys, this 344 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 3: is so cute. Did you think I was pretty? 345 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 4: Of course? 346 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 3: Did you like my butt? 347 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 2: Mm? Yeah, I may have looked at it a couple 348 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 2: of times. 349 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 3: He may have looked at it a couple of times. 350 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you guys. 351 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: He's very he's a very reserved type of guy, very shy. 352 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: He's used to being behind the camera, so this is 353 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 1: all very new for him. So the fact that he's 354 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: doing this and answering all these questions is a lot. 355 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: So thank you so much, Mabe. Okay, I'm not done 356 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 1: yet though, So okay, So do you remember the first date? 357 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, our first date, it was already like a few 358 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 2: weeks after we were kind of talking. 359 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 4: So I took you to catch. 360 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 2: In Hollywood because I remember you were feeling like you 361 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 2: haven't seen anything or been a part of like my 362 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 2: site or like my life. 363 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 4: So I was like, let me take you. 364 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 2: To I'm taking my hoods. Let me bring you over here. 365 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 4: And take you one of, you know, one of the 366 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 4: cool restaurants. 367 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 2: So I knew the atmosphere was movie fun and we 368 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:45,359 Speaker 2: both really love sushi. 369 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 4: So mm hmm, yeah, it was like the perfect place. 370 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: Let me tell you, guys, Emilio has introduced me to 371 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 1: so many new and different things, different places. 372 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 3: I had never been to Catch. 373 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: I had never really even hung out in that area, 374 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: and it was refreshing because we got to hang out 375 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 1: and nobody followed us, No, Papa Rozzi's no, no, Like. 376 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 1: It was just a different type of atmosphere. He comes from, 377 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 1: like Hollywood. He's a Hollywood kid and you know, so 378 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 1: he knows all these things that I'm in La girl, guys, 379 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 1: but I'm like in the valley, I'm on the outskirts, 380 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And he's taught me so 381 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 1: much a different freaking world. It's it's crazy. So Catch 382 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: was so delicious. Oh my god, I highly recommend it 383 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: in La you guys. 384 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 4: Catch? 385 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 3: Okay, So were you nervous about that first date though? Okay? 386 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 4: I think it was. 387 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 2: The first first date that I've ever been on where 388 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 2: we fought over the food. 389 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 1: Definitely first, because I could eat. That's why I'm not shy. 390 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 1: I'm not a shy girl. I'm not like, oh no, 391 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to eat, Like no, I'm like bring 392 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,640 Speaker 1: it and order whatever you want to eat all of it. 393 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 1: So I think he was like, ooh, this girl, she's cute. Okay, 394 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: So were you nervous or not? I think we were 395 00:17:57,840 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: both nervous. 396 00:17:58,400 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 3: Huh. 397 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 2: I wasn't, as you know, because we had already we 398 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 2: were talking every day, hanging out a lot, So like 399 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 2: that part, I wasn't as nervous, but I was nervous 400 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 2: to see us in like a date situation. It was like, okay, 401 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,160 Speaker 2: it's a real test. It's like, okay, how are we 402 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 2: if we started doing real relationship things. So that's kind 403 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 2: of what I was nervous for. 404 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 3: That's me too. 405 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 2: And we had a glass so it was like it 406 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:24,400 Speaker 2: kind of took a lot of pressure off. 407 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 1: It was such a nice time. Do you remember what 408 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: I was wearing? Not the very first time, not not 409 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 1: the joline on March first? Do you remember what I 410 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:32,679 Speaker 1: was wearing? 411 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 4: Oh that day? 412 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, you came out of her glamor when you were 413 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 2: wearing a purple Lakers jacket with your hair tight, and I. 414 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,400 Speaker 4: Saw it all in the slow motion. It was pretty crazy. 415 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 3: Like out of the movie or what out of a movie. 416 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 2: It was straight out of the movie. And I was like, 417 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 2: any calle resurprise. I was like, we already worked together 418 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,159 Speaker 2: once and I. 419 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:55,880 Speaker 4: Don't know why. 420 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 2: It just happened out of nowhere. 421 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 4: And I was like, and it kind of hit me 422 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 4: and I was like, oh man, that's great. 423 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 2: It may have been an alcohol, but I don't know. 424 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 3: That was crazy. It was. 425 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: It was like this electrifying feeling. Guy, that's crazy. Okay, 426 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: what color was my lipstick? 427 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with red. 428 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 3: Go with red. 429 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: No, remember it was dark. It was like a dark 430 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 1: like burgundy or something like that. Well, I guess it's 431 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: kind of red. Guys, Okay, let's give him that kind 432 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: of red. And then because okay, he doesn't want to 433 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 1: say it, but like he was like, you were in 434 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 1: these black leggings and your ass looks so nice. 435 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 3: Why don't you tell him that? Didn't you say that 436 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 3: or not? 437 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. 438 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 3: He's shy. 439 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:38,640 Speaker 1: He's shy, but anyways, he did say that. He said 440 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: that my bull look really nice in those in those leggings. Okay, 441 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,479 Speaker 1: do you remember our first kiss and where it was? 442 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 4: M definitely it wasn't. It wasn't much long after. 443 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 3: That that same night or what I think? So who 444 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 3: kissed who? 445 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 2: Me? 446 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:56,640 Speaker 3: Or you? 447 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:58,439 Speaker 4: I definitely kissed you. 448 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 3: He kissed me because you told me I can poke 449 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 3: your dimples. 450 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you could do whatever you want. 451 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, you said that. 452 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 1: When did you know that you wanted to make our 453 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: relationship official? 454 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 2: I think, uh, honestly, I think immediately. 455 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 3: Everything was like wow, okay. 456 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:23,119 Speaker 2: Everything, everything, everything that I felt for you happened so fast, 457 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 2: like and you, just like I said, you have like 458 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 2: this very strong force of attraction that I was like, 459 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:31,919 Speaker 2: I just honestly, I just. 460 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 4: Kind of knew. 461 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 2: Since since that night, since the beginning, hasn't really changed. 462 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 3: Hmm, thank you. I was gonna ask you another question. 463 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 1: Okay, but wait, because when we first started dating you guys, 464 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:50,360 Speaker 1: the conversations were very different. They were like, Okay, we're 465 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: gonna chill, and we didn't talk about all kinds of 466 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 1: things like kids and all this stuff. And now it's 467 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: kind of like, hey, you make me feel things that 468 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,360 Speaker 1: I've never felt before, you know, and that makes me excited. 469 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:01,640 Speaker 4: Dave. 470 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 1: You know that I can do that because it's all organic. Yes, 471 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 1: it's authentic, and we don't there's no pressure. We let 472 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: it flow Okay, so what do you like the most 473 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 1: about me? 474 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:19,399 Speaker 3: Physically? First? Yeah, physically first, and then we'll go into that, 475 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,199 Speaker 3: you know the rest. 476 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 2: I want you to guess what my favorite thing? My butt, 477 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 2: but well, I mean that's a given. 478 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:32,399 Speaker 3: Okay, my smiles, My cheeks. It's true. 479 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 1: I should have said, yeah, I should have said cheeks. 480 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 1: He loves my cheeks, you guys. He's always grabbed my 481 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 1: cheeks from my face. Okay, the cheeks on the bottom tube, 482 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: but my cheeks from my face. He grabs him all 483 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: day long. I've never really let anybody touch my favor, 484 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 1: but he loves my cheeks. Okay, So about me? A characteristic, 485 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 1: a trait, something that you like the most about me? 486 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:59,199 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously there's there's so many things, but my 487 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 2: favorite is probably how genuine you are as a human being, 488 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 2: like in public but also like even bucking closed doors. 489 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 4: You're just such a carrying, in a. 490 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 2: Loving person and all you want to do is make 491 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,959 Speaker 2: as many people happy as you can, and it definitely 492 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 2: rubs off on me. It motivates me to want to 493 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 2: be the best person I can be. 494 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 1: Also, oh, babe, can't wait to see you, so I 495 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: could just m okay, all right, guy, sorry about that. Anyways, 496 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 1: I forgot I'm here on the podcast. 497 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 3: Okay, So what do you like least about me? Be honest? 498 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, now we're getting spicy. 499 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 4: Well, I think it kind of goes. It kind of 500 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 4: goes with, uh, what I just said about the best 501 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:49,160 Speaker 4: thing about you is that you. 502 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 2: Know you do want to please everything and everyone as 503 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:53,959 Speaker 2: you possibly can. 504 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 4: And sometimes you're a bit hard on yourself mm hmmm. 505 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 2: And sometimes I you know, being hard on yourself, you 506 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 2: forget sometimes to like give yourself, you. 507 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 3: Time for you, Oh my god. 508 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wish you gave yourself more of your time 509 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 2: and knowing that everything doesn't have to be done yourself, 510 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:15,439 Speaker 2: you know, and you can lean on other people and 511 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 2: it's okay to do that, and especially now that I'm 512 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 2: here for you, you know, you can always leave on 513 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 2: me as well. 514 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 3: Thank you being thank you. 515 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: See, guys, I told you he's very mature for his age, 516 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: because I was talking about your age and I've never 517 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:28,639 Speaker 1: dated anybody as saying as you. But I was so 518 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 1: worried and now I don't care. 519 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 3: Anyways. 520 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: Okay, one last question, okay, because it's very important. Do 521 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 1: you feel that I'm controlling. 522 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 4: Controlling, Yes, not at all, absolutely not, thank you. 523 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 2: I've never had any of that sums at all. 524 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 3: Oh thank god. I just needed to know. 525 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,199 Speaker 2: I do know what you like and I know what 526 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 2: you don't like, and it's just stick by those rules 527 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:54,359 Speaker 2: and I'm good. 528 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: See, guys, you got okay. Men that are listening to 529 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: this podcast when they a happy wife, happy life, that's 530 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: some serious shit, you guys. 531 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 3: It's not that. 532 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: It's just kind of like we both and vice versa. 533 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 1: We should all know what we like about one another 534 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 1: in your partner and just stay in that lane and 535 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 1: in those lines and you don't have to worry about it. 536 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 1: Relationships don't have to be hard. Sometimes we make them hard, 537 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 1: and communication is key. And that's something that him and 538 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: I are on the same page. 539 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 3: We both come. 540 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,920 Speaker 1: From relationships that were a little difficult and we weren't 541 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: necessarily our best selves in those relationships, and now we 542 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,199 Speaker 1: want to be the best self for each other. So 543 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 1: we're both very intentional doing that. So I think this 544 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 1: is why it's it's working, you know, And and I 545 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 1: just I love them, guys. 546 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,199 Speaker 3: I do what the hell I do? That's it? Can 547 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 3: I say? I'm telling the world. 548 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 4: Now. 549 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 3: I love Emilio. Oh, I love you, Janey, Thank you, babe. Okay, 550 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 3: So is Janey the one? And look, you don't. 551 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: Have to answer that right now, it's just you know, 552 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: but if do you feel that Jana. 553 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 3: Is the one? 554 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 4: Absolutely? 555 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 3: Oh my god, absolutely okay. And you know that I 556 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 3: tell you that every day he does guys. 557 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 1: He says he wants Yeah, he wants everything with me. 558 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 1: That's what he says. I want everything with you. That's 559 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 1: what he says. You know, a lot of people ask me, 560 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 1: will you ever get married again? Do you still believe 561 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 1: in love? Is Emilia the one? I get that question 562 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 1: all the time, and I have learned that I want 563 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: to live in the moment and right now he is 564 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 1: the one, and right now I wouldn't mind getting married again. 565 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 1: And I am still healing some things from my past 566 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: and I'm going to therapy and seeing my life coach 567 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: and stuff because it really did damage me and I 568 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: want to heal myself of that before stepping into something 569 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: else more serious. He understands it, and I'm very very 570 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,440 Speaker 1: honest with him. But he makes me happy and he 571 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: has made me, honestly think of having children more than 572 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: I ever have in my life. He'd be a wonderful father, 573 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 1: and I'd feel safe, that's the word. I would feel 574 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,919 Speaker 1: safe marrying him, and I would feel safe having children 575 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 1: with him. So yes, I mean he is. He's the guy. 576 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:13,679 Speaker 1: He teaches me something every single day, and sometimes I 577 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 1: feel like I'm the little foxic in the relationship. So 578 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: I'm trying to just keep myself from making the same 579 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 1: mistakes as before. But it's all learning. It's a learning process. 580 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 1: You got to take it day by day. Okay, baby, 581 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking my call for doing this. 582 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,920 Speaker 1: I know it's not your thing, but I wanted people 583 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: to see how wise he is, how mature, how loving 584 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: and anyways, so. 585 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:40,479 Speaker 3: I'll call you in a little bit. 586 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,919 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, go go pick it up. 587 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 3: Okay, I love you, Okay, Bye. 588 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 1: Well, there you have it, guys, And again, let me reiterate, 589 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 1: I have not talked about my relationship in this way, 590 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:58,120 Speaker 1: and he. 591 00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 3: Doesn't give interviews. He's just that. 592 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 4: Ye. 593 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 3: So we're recognized here on Cheeky's and Chill. 594 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: So I hope that you guys enjoyed that little glimpse 595 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,879 Speaker 1: into my relationship with Emilium. Now we're gonna get a 596 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,679 Speaker 1: little deeper. Okay, I don't know if you know, but 597 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,200 Speaker 1: I'm a cancer and Emilio is a Gemini. As crazy 598 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 1: as it sounds, I'm all about horoscopes and everything. Usually 599 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:26,879 Speaker 1: I'm the type of person to like look up like, 600 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 1: are we compatible for one another? And I haven't done 601 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 1: that with the media. Why I have no clue, But 602 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it here with you, guys, I promise you. 603 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 3: I haven't read it before, So I'm. 604 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: Gonna go on horoscope dot com to see Emilio and 605 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 1: I are truly quote unquote compatible for one another according 606 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 1: to astrology. 607 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:52,439 Speaker 3: All bring it up right now. I'm kind of nervous. 608 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I don't know why I haven't 609 00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:55,880 Speaker 3: done it with him. That's so crazy. 610 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: Let's see, Okay, and cancer in love and sex. Okay, 611 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 1: When Gemini and cancer come together in a love affair, 612 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 1: it may be a rather curious relationship. Sensitive emotional cancer 613 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 1: osag Yo has trouble communicating clearly. 614 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:15,960 Speaker 2: Hmm. 615 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 1: I think I've grown that, Okay, but clear communication is 616 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:25,679 Speaker 1: what defines Gemini. Gemini's nature and silver tongue may encourage 617 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 1: the crab to come out. 618 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 3: Of its shell more quickly. Than usual. 619 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 1: Cancer, in turn, can teach Gemini to slow down and 620 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: appreciate the world, which the frantic twins hardly ever take 621 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: time to do. If Gemini seems to ignore cancer or 622 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: doesn't provide them with as much reassurance and intimacy as needed, 623 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 1: trouble may ensue. I'm laughing, guys, because it's so true. 624 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: That's true. My love language is words of affirmation. But 625 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 1: he knows that, so he's really good at that. Okay, 626 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 1: these two signs approach the world in different manners that 627 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: they must be able to underst and accept one another's differences. 628 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 1: Cancer is the sign of home and heart, while Gemini 629 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: is the thinker. Gemini can easily slip into the role 630 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 1: of cancer's night in shining armor. Quality of home life 631 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: is important to cancer, and Gemini will be oiled by 632 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: their cancer lover, hearty home cooking, which is true, kind 633 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: of soft bed, and other creature comforts. Okay, look, guys, 634 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 1: what I'm getting out of here is that cancers and 635 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 1: geminis aren't necessarily compatible because we're very different. I'm very emotional, 636 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 1: he's more in his mind, which is very true. But 637 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: let me tell you something about this. You don't necessarily 638 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 1: have to be quote unquote compatible. It's just where you 639 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 1: are in your life when you meet your person, are 640 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: they in a healthy state of mind? And Emilio and 641 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 1: I both do therapy every week. He knows he has 642 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 1: things he has to work on. We're very honest with 643 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 1: each other. I have things I have to work on. 644 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: I see my life coach. I'm very intentional about doing 645 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 1: my work because I can be a very unhealthy cancer, 646 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,480 Speaker 1: and obviously geminis can also be unhealthy. Every sign really, 647 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 1: but it's all about you being intentional every day and 648 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 1: being the best version of yourself for your partner, for yourself. 649 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: So I think Emilio and I work, even though it 650 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 1: says that we're not that compatible. I think because we're 651 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 1: both on the same page and we both want the 652 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 1: same thing. Some people are like, no, I gotta stay 653 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,000 Speaker 1: away from this sign because they're not good for me. Hey, 654 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: you might run into the love of your life, and 655 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 1: astrology says that's you know, that's not your match. 656 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 3: And you know what. 657 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 1: I have never dated a Gemini, and I was a 658 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 1: little skeptical in the beginning because my mom's love of 659 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: her life. His name is Fernie and he is a Gemini. 660 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 1: My mom is a cancer like me, and that was 661 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 1: my mom's soul may She always said that's my soulmate. 662 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 1: But he's just he wasn't necessarily a healthy gemini. So 663 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 1: I was kind of like, oh my god, like they're 664 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: you know, you always hear that they're two face, and 665 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 1: they're not two face. 666 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 3: I've learned what they are. That's why I was a 667 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:55,760 Speaker 3: little bit like, oh my god. 668 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 1: But with Emilio, you know, so yeah, this is my 669 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 1: first time to day good joy. I hope that you 670 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 1: learned a little bit about my relationship and also about yours, 671 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 1: or if you're not in a relationship, what you want 672 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,480 Speaker 1: to do in the next relationship, how you want to act. 673 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 1: All I can tell you is communication is key. Always 674 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 1: be honest. Honesty is the best policy. Communicate because through 675 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 1: communication comes clarity. AnyWho, I hope that you enjoyed this podcast, 676 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: and don't forget to listen to Cheeky's and Chill every 677 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 1: Monday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you 678 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 1: listen to your favorite podcasts. This is a production of 679 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio and Mykura podcast Network. Follow us on Instagram at 680 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 1: my Kultura podcasts and follow me Cheeky's on Instagram at 681 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 1: Cheeky's and I'll see you guys next week. Listen loom 682 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 1: Bezo and remember cond Nel Narada