WEBVTT - Why not throw money at the problem?

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's tip is to consider whether some creative budgeting can

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<v Speaker 1>make a big irritation disappear. In other words, consider the

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<v Speaker 1>wisdom of just throwing money at the problem. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>naturally a frugal person. Well, honestly, I think the correct

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<v Speaker 1>word here is cheap. I am forever trying to avoid

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<v Speaker 1>spending money. Some of this I just accept as my personality.

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<v Speaker 1>I am sitting on a desk chair right now that

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<v Speaker 1>has a giant hole in the upholstery. I could replace it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm probably not going to. It still works, and

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<v Speaker 1>anyone who gets invited into my home office already knows

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<v Speaker 1>my quirks. It will be okay. But other cheap decisions

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<v Speaker 1>have been more problematic. I've resisted investing money in my

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<v Speaker 1>business in the past, which is pretty shortsighted in any case.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure some people are naturally spending, but I'm addressing

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<v Speaker 1>this episode to people like me, people who do not

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<v Speaker 1>automatically think about using money as a tool. And we

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<v Speaker 1>all have irritations in our lives. It's possible that throwing

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<v Speaker 1>money at the problem could in fact make it go away.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it even involves less money than we might think.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's how we can start thinking this way. At

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<v Speaker 1>some point during a break today, make a list of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that have irritated you over the past few days.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's that your car seems constantly dirty. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>feel that making dinner falls on your plate too frequently,

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<v Speaker 1>so to speak. Maybe you get annoyed running errands. Or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you keep telling yourself that you're going to paint

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom at your house that's a really ugly shade

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<v Speaker 1>of gray, but you don't get as specific as possible.

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<v Speaker 1>Then ask yourself if by spending money you could reduce

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<v Speaker 1>this irritation or even make it go away. It's possible.

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<v Speaker 1>The answer is no. But maybe you start springing to

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<v Speaker 1>have your card detailed frequently enough that you no longer

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<v Speaker 1>fear finding French fries under the seats. Or maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>create a standing delivery order from your favorite relatively healthy

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant twice a week. Yes, dinner is now more expensive,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're cooking it much less frequently. You could abandon

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<v Speaker 1>the fantasy that the bathroom painting job will be a

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<v Speaker 1>do it yourself sort of thing. Just pay a pro

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<v Speaker 1>and get it over with. Sometimes even issues that seem

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<v Speaker 1>like they might be deeper and more contentious can be

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<v Speaker 1>solved by throwing money at the problem. I know a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of couples fight about housework, but maybe rather than

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<v Speaker 1>have a knockdown argument every weekend about why party A

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't vacuum and is it because party A has outdated

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<v Speaker 1>beliefs about domestic responsibilities, or doesn't value party bees time,

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<v Speaker 1>or however you argue this, you decide that neither of

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<v Speaker 1>you will do it, You pay a cleaning service to

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<v Speaker 1>come in once a week instead. Now, obviously none of

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<v Speaker 1>this works if money is really tight, and I get that,

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<v Speaker 1>but sometimes creative budgeting can make things possible. I've realized

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<v Speaker 1>in my life that I'd rather buy time and household

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<v Speaker 1>harmony than things like an office chair. On the other hand,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who's really irritated by bad seating might make a

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<v Speaker 1>different choice and prioritize that. But the point is that

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<v Speaker 1>all of us can consciously choose to use what money

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<v Speaker 1>we have at our disposal to build lives that maximize

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<v Speaker 1>the good stuff and minimize the bad. This is very

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<v Speaker 1>much a work in progress. For me, but I do

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<v Speaker 1>like to think that I'm making progress. Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>thrown money at a problem and actually how to go away?

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<v Speaker 1>Please let me know at Before Breakfast podcast at i

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