1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,239 Speaker 1: It is asked to c l O our Chief Love Officer, 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Tracy in Detroit. Tracy says, 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 1: my husband's twin brother created problems in our friend group 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: because he slept with two of my single girlfriends. I 5 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: uninvited him to our cookout for the fourth and he 6 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: told my husband to check me. Why is my husband 7 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 1: mad at me and not his brother? 8 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, why are you mad after brother. 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 3: Because he slept with two of her single girlfriends. 10 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: Your friend slept with him too. 11 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: But oh yeah, she's thinking he's causing problems in the 12 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 1: group because he slept with both of them. 13 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 2: May call. 14 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 4: So now and this is his brother. He gonna side 15 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 4: with his brother. Why are you in it? But hey, 16 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 4: why are you in it? Why are you blocking his 17 00:00:55,680 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 4: brother to say? It ain't your business, that's his Why 18 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 4: he slept with two of your friends. Your friends slept 19 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 4: with him. They both wanted him. 20 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 3: You know they're mad The two girlfriends aren't getting along. 21 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 4: Now, okay, so now he can't come to the cookout. No, 22 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 4: it ain't causing him, he's cause of them. Both of 23 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 4: them slept with it with him. 24 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 3: They're mad at him. 25 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 2: At fault? 26 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 3: You know they didn't know he was sleeping around you 27 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 3: know that. 28 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 2: See sure you don't. You don't know that. 29 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 4: See they friends, they won them. Okay, but listen to Michelley. 30 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,199 Speaker 4: One of them could have been in front of girl. 31 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 4: I got with him and he was everything, and then 32 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 4: the other one old really well, let me let me 33 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 4: see what it's about, and it could have been that. 34 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 2: See you don't know. But see y're always. 35 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 4: Taking the side of each other without knowing what happened. Yeah, girl, 36 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 4: and yeah, so yeah, see that's what I'm here for. 37 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 3: Huh and brother. 38 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: Twin brothers obviously stick together as they shoot against his wife. 39 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 4: Now that ain't against his wife. The wife is against 40 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 4: the twin brother. The brother ain't said nothing to the wife. 41 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 3: Why is my husband mad at me and not his brother? 42 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: Because his brother ain't did nothing wrong. He's singing. 43 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 4: He mad at you because you're trying to check a 44 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,119 Speaker 4: grown man that this ain't your husband. 45 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: You check me, you don't check my brother. 46 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 3: Mind Joe business, Well his brother told him to check her. 47 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, because he could have been the twin brother that 48 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 4: was over there could have been your hood. 49 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 2: They is identical. 50 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, all right, we're gonna move on. 51 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 3: After that, that was good? 52 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 2: All right? 53 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: Eileen in Tampa says, my husband told me that my 54 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 1: ex husband is in the hospital. I asked so many 55 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: questions that my husband told me. I'm too concerned. I 56 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: called my ex sister in law to check on my axe. 57 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: Why would my husband mention it and then get upset 58 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: about it? 59 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. I wouldn't say it nothing. Yeah, you 60 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 2: wanted to see your reaction. You gave it to him. 61 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 2: I don't give it. 62 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 4: If you accident, a car accident would meet anything. 63 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 3: You're not saying anything. 64 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: He can hit my call. 65 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 3: Snee whatever, open your mouth. 66 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: I was an accident. Who hit you? You won't believe 67 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: who I ran into today? 68 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 3: Literally? 69 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 2: All right? 70 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 3: Okay? Moving on to Vic in DC. 71 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 1: Vic says, I'm the chapter president for my fraternity and 72 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: I'm not with the brothers doing all the line dances, 73 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: but my chapter plans to enter a competition. I'm side eyeing, 74 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: side eyeing my brothers, but they're still doing it. 75 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 3: Do I have to be a team player? Or can 76 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 3: I sit this one out? 77 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 2: Can I say something? Tell you all your cap is 78 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 2: right now. 79 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:17,919 Speaker 4: If y'all pull all them fans out and start dancing 80 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 4: with them fans. 81 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 2: I'm gonna hooop you all. I'm telling y'all that right now. 82 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 3: Well, you feel the same way as Vick the chapter president. 83 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, hey man, you ain't to go along with See 84 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 4: let me tell you something. 85 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 2: Everything is instat ain't for you. 86 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 4: No, I wish your qu's we would pull out some 87 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: purple fans. We we're not finna have that. Well, I'm 88 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 4: telling you right now the older brothers don't go. Hey man, 89 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 4: where y'all what y'all doing? 90 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 2: Now? 91 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 3: No, everybody's doing it. 92 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 2: Can need it? I don't need it. 93 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 3: Why are you so mad about it? 94 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 2: It's just a dance? Yeah, I'm cool with What is 95 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 2: we dancing for? 96 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 3: Whoa d party is social? 97 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 2: Will Fred? 98 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 4: What is we getting in line? Dance and conference? You 99 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 4: go to stomp shows? 100 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 2: Why not? You're grown? 101 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 3: That was fraternity stuff was in college anyway? 102 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 2: Right? Wait, miss Ship, you don't know what. 103 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 4: You don't know what you I pull up your way 104 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 4: out line now see right there? 105 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 3: Show o man. 106 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, get a towel, it's not your finger or something. 107 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 3: Don't don't pop no fan. But there's more than just 108 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 3: that one you can do to keep it shopping one. 109 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't do that. 110 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,799 Speaker 3: Look you know, I look yeah, yeah, shutupid. 111 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 1: Yeah to me, that one's hard, hard and turning. 112 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 4: Yes, you got to stand up the old fashioned. 113 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 2: Way we we stomped. Those days are done. You bruthers. 114 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 2: Got new ways of doing this a lot. 115 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 4: More, a lot more integral, a lot lot deeper than 116 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 4: what we did. But that's the way it is, you know, 117 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 4: splits and twirls and hops, and you know it's it's cool. 118 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 4: I mean the brothers and brothers, the things that evolved. 119 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 4: It's different now. So it is what it is. But 120 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 4: we're not if I catch it with a fan though, 121 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 4: just don't take take our take our take our letters off. 122 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 4: They don't have our colors out there. What is we're 123 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 4: in in a dance contest for stomp shows, step shows, 124 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 4: whatever you want to call it, stomps and steps? 125 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 2: What is you out here? Lying dancing folks? 126 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 3: If that's what people do now, it's fun fun. 127 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 4: The fraternities q's been having boots on the ground. So 128 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 4: that was a song all boots on the ground. We 129 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 4: was always boosting. 130 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 2: On the ground. See Shirley, we're gonna stick with you, 131 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 2: We're gonna stick. 132 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 3: With I came, I don't understand why you gots it 133 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 3: so mad? 134 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 2: All right? 135 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 1: Last one, Coco and Mesquite says, I'm forty four years 136 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: old and I'm sleeping with a guy that's married. He 137 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: spends most of his time at my house, but he's 138 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: still living with his wife. I saw legal separation papers, 139 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: so I expect him to move. He gets testy when 140 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: I ask him about it. Is he lying to me? 141 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 4: No, he tested because it's hard. You know, you keep 142 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 4: asking him about it. You can't move it along no 143 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 4: faster than it's. 144 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 3: Going okay, all right? 145 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 4: And his marriage ain't billy your business because you didn't 146 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 4: have no problem with him when you were sleeping with him, 147 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 4: when you knew he was married. 148 00:07:56,400 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: Right, all right, Clo, you're listening Harvey Morning Show