WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Proposal

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood.

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<v Speaker 2>See you, Thank you for listening to us.

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<v Speaker 3>Ryan Air Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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<v Speaker 2>Jessica and Bell Guards. Good morning, Jessica, How are you

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<v Speaker 2>doing good?

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<v Speaker 4>How are you guys doing great?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? You seem to be talking about what we've been

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<v Speaker 2>talking about a lot here, and that is invitations to weddings.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Tanya's getting married, She's trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 2>the guest list. Ruby is getting marriage. She's putting together

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<v Speaker 2>her guest list. Ty's trying to fit where to have

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding, and we're all just sort of waiting to

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<v Speaker 2>get that save the date. We haven't gotten it yet.

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<v Speaker 2>And Jessica, you were also invited to Tanya's wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>No, well not yet.

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<v Speaker 4>No, okay, div wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>You're invited to your wedding?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I was invited. It's actually my best friend

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<v Speaker 5>in the world's wedding. She's getting married and it's super exciting, obviously,

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<v Speaker 5>and she's getting married in Switzerland.

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<v Speaker 6>Her and her.

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<v Speaker 5>Fiance decided her fiancees from Switzerland, so they're getting married

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<v Speaker 5>there and it's great. And she asked me to be

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<v Speaker 5>the maid of honor and asked my two daughters to

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<v Speaker 5>be her flower girls, which is lovely, but she asked about,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, us being in the wedding. Prior to knowing

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<v Speaker 5>it was a destination wedding, my husband and I have been,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, going over the logistics of it, and it

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<v Speaker 5>just doesn't seem feasible to bring our daughters. First of all,

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<v Speaker 5>it's just so expensive, and then we have to bring

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<v Speaker 5>a parent, most likely one of our parents, to watch

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<v Speaker 5>them all the events that are going on for the wedding,

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<v Speaker 5>and so honestly, we're like kind of coming to the

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<v Speaker 5>conclusion that we're not quite care we can swing bringing them.

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<v Speaker 6>So I did bring it up.

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<v Speaker 5>To her, and she, you know, was a little she

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<v Speaker 5>was she was sad and like, I can't imagine having

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<v Speaker 5>my wedding without them being there. And we kind of

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<v Speaker 5>left it at that, and I'm like in between an

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<v Speaker 5>in a hard place. Now. Of course, I'm not quite

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<v Speaker 5>sure what to do or how to bring it up

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<v Speaker 5>to her again, but I just don't think we can

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<v Speaker 5>swing it.

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<v Speaker 1>How old are your daughters?

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<v Speaker 7>A weird reaction.

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<v Speaker 4>I know they're sick and too.

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<v Speaker 2>What does one expect when they invite one to go

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<v Speaker 2>to a wedding in Switzerland. I live in Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 2>For I almost feel like you invite people to those

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<v Speaker 2>kinds of places because you don't want everyone to come right.

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<v Speaker 8>And if you if you say I can't afford to

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<v Speaker 8>bring my kids, and she should just say, I Sam, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We made it inconvenient that we're marrying in.

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<v Speaker 3>Switzerland, exactly like she's trying to make you feel guilty

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<v Speaker 3>for something.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot of reactions cost.

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<v Speaker 1>You thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, And I did not love the reaction either. And obviously,

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<v Speaker 5>of course I'm still going and my husband and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to the maid of honor and.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm so excited about that.

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<v Speaker 5>And I really didn't think I would get I would

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<v Speaker 5>have gotten the reaction I did from her, like I

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<v Speaker 5>really am liked it.

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<v Speaker 2>So your reality is your reality. You need to move

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<v Speaker 2>forward with what it is and go be the friend

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<v Speaker 2>that you're going to be, and you know, fill that

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<v Speaker 2>role and don't worry about it anymore.

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<v Speaker 8>Maybe you can have your daughters give sent her like

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<v Speaker 8>a video message on the day of her wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't understanding. Maybe she's just stressed that all this

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<v Speaker 2>is happening. But I think she'll understand.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think she had this vision in her head

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<v Speaker 3>of having your daughters be the flower Girls, and now

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<v Speaker 3>she's like spiraling, like, wait, I'm not going to have

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<v Speaker 3>flower girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Book for the wed with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you.

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<v Speaker 3>She's making it very inconvenient for you to do the

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<v Speaker 3>right thing here.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, good luck the weddings. They don't come without pressure,

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<v Speaker 2>stress from all points and parties. Thank you very much. So, Tanya,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're going to be you know, booking burn Switzerland,

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<v Speaker 2>ceremony on a bridge or something, let us know sooner than.

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<v Speaker 8>You do stuff like that and a grid of edge

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<v Speaker 8>of the cliff of a mountain. A friend of mine

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<v Speaker 8>is getting married in Amsterdam and she had the same thing.

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<v Speaker 8>She's like, we invited people, but we understand that, like

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<v Speaker 8>the majority of people can't make.

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<v Speaker 2>When you do something like that, you know a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people can't do you almost you probably over invite

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<v Speaker 2>because you know some people can't come. Right. So, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>weddings and the stress of them. Let's see here, Tanya,

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<v Speaker 2>what happened. You bought something online and you accidentally shifted

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<v Speaker 2>to the wrong address. Did it go to anybody you know?

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<v Speaker 8>No, that's the problem, So I have it I bought.

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<v Speaker 8>I guess I haven't gone to this website. I haven't

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<v Speaker 8>bought something on this website in a very long time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>but I went online. I ordered this pot for a

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<v Speaker 8>plant in our living room, like a big pot, big

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<v Speaker 8>heavy pot, and I checked out, didn't even think I had,

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<v Speaker 8>you know, my credit card information in there. Checked out, boom, Great,

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<v Speaker 8>got an update when your base is going to be delivered?

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<v Speaker 7>Great, didn't even think about it.

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<v Speaker 8>So then you know, it says like your base is

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<v Speaker 8>on its way blah blah bl So after it got delivered,

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<v Speaker 8>I realized I looked outside our front door and there

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<v Speaker 8>was no box. I checked the email and it was

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<v Speaker 8>sent to my parents' old address in Rossmore, and they

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<v Speaker 8>sold that house last year, so it's not even like

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<v Speaker 8>my parents lived there anymore.

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<v Speaker 7>It's I don't even.

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<v Speaker 2>Know when this pot that is free living arrives. And

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<v Speaker 2>the people didn't order the pot, don't they send the

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<v Speaker 2>pot back?

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<v Speaker 7>So I tried calling.

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<v Speaker 8>I tried calling the company that I bought it from,

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<v Speaker 8>and then they were like, oh, once it's out shipping,

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<v Speaker 8>we can't do anything about it. So then I called

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<v Speaker 8>the shipping company, but they were like it was already delivered,

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<v Speaker 8>and that was that was basically it.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know these people, and so I basically I

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<v Speaker 7>know what I said.

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<v Speaker 8>I basically was just like I'm just gonna give them

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<v Speaker 8>this pot, Like I guess that's oh, you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to get this pot to pay it forward, right,

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<v Speaker 2>like the need that maybe there's a couple of having

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<v Speaker 2>a really big fight and they need a pot. I

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<v Speaker 2>would just drive.

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<v Speaker 1>Down there in the days delivered and be like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is my pot.

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<v Speaker 8>So my mom goes, you need to go to the house,

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<v Speaker 8>knock on the door and get your pot back. And

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<v Speaker 8>so Robbie and I are thinking about driving down the

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<v Speaker 8>rock knocking on the door and asking for her giant O.

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<v Speaker 2>If you just joined us and you heard Tanya say

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<v Speaker 2>that she's speaking of her living room po face. She

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<v Speaker 2>didn't leave her other things elsewhere?

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, no, yes.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, Tony, this has happened to me multiple times

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<v Speaker 3>with my previous home that we just moved out of

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<v Speaker 3>in September, and there's been a few instances like same

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<v Speaker 3>thing like pottery barn. I forgot that it was the

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<v Speaker 3>old address, like whatever, I've ordered stuff and then I

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<v Speaker 3>just go over there and knock on the door.

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<v Speaker 7>She's so nice. She's that lady.

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<v Speaker 3>She's let us in and like showed us the house

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<v Speaker 3>and the updates that she's done.

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<v Speaker 1>Really like you know her.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know these people. I know them, I don't

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<v Speaker 7>know her.

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<v Speaker 2>She's very nice. Stores and forward. That's good on them,

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<v Speaker 2>And be a little bit more careful when you choose

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<v Speaker 2>the address. I think I was on the hold activating

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<v Speaker 2>her credit card the other day, really enjoying the awful

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<v Speaker 2>music they play. You ever had that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about enjoying it, but I just deal

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<v Speaker 1>with it.

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<v Speaker 2>No matter what I'm trying to activate or deal, nothing

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<v Speaker 2>ever works right. It's never. This doesn't pin, doesn't match

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<v Speaker 2>the card ever. So I got to wait for the person.

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<v Speaker 2>And as I was waiting for the person, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>this music is so bad. I love it, the whole

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<v Speaker 2>music the bank holds. We should be like programming bank

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<v Speaker 2>holding music does Oh it was heard. I was off

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<v Speaker 2>for so long. I enjoyed the loop. Yeah, Selena Montebello,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you for listening to us this morning. How can

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<v Speaker 2>we help you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, well, thanks, I'm getting married this summer.

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<v Speaker 2>This is everybody's getting married.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm telling you my algorithm is all bridle.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, because you're shopping for bridle stuff.

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<v Speaker 7>No, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>You're looking at it.

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<v Speaker 7>My phone's listening, Selene.

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<v Speaker 2>Go ahead. What happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, so we've been looking at wedding bands for him,

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<v Speaker 4>and like the whole time he's just been telling me

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<v Speaker 4>like whatever, I don't care, Like they're.

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<v Speaker 2>All fine wedding bands, performance bands.

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<v Speaker 4>No great, like his ring, his ring, I got it

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<v Speaker 4>his ring, And it's it's frustrating to hear that, like

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<v Speaker 4>he doesn't care, you know, like they're all fine because

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<v Speaker 4>like he's gonna wear.

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<v Speaker 1>It the rest of his life.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, So I guess some of a friend of his

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<v Speaker 4>sent him like a website called, I don't know, like

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<v Speaker 4>man bands or something. So now he wants to Superman

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<v Speaker 4>wedding band.

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<v Speaker 2>Does it have the S on it red and blue?

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<v Speaker 4>Or yes, he does have the S on it, but

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<v Speaker 4>the S is in the inside, which like it's not

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<v Speaker 4>the worst thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know, I've heard of this company.

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<v Speaker 2>What is it? What they do? Superhero wedding Man's.

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<v Speaker 1>They do like wedding bands for men.

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<v Speaker 3>They cater to the men that if you can you

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<v Speaker 3>want different type of designs, like not necessarily like the traditional.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a brushed gray with a blue stripe around

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<v Speaker 2>and the s's on the inside. Is that the one?

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<v Speaker 2>And so here's the thing I mean, is he a

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<v Speaker 2>Superman fan? Is he just having some fun?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yeah, but I don't know. It just feels

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<v Speaker 4>a little childish to me.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the man you married, This is the guy

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<v Speaker 2>you married, I know married. No, No, it's a Superman ring.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of mummy.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's the thing, Slean. I do understand what he means

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<v Speaker 2>when he says he doesn't care, because I wouldn't either.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's not that I don't care, but I would

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<v Speaker 2>tell you I don't care because it's like just something simple,

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<v Speaker 2>something easy. That's what I think I would mean when

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<v Speaker 2>I say I don't care what you think.

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<v Speaker 3>And until you start trying all of them on, because

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<v Speaker 3>the same time he's like.

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<v Speaker 1>I want it to be simple.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever, I don't want to know it's there, And this

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<v Speaker 3>guy walks out of the store with like a nine

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<v Speaker 3>princess cut diamonds on his band and it's not simple.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's your mind changes, is my point. As soon

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<v Speaker 1>as you start trying them on Selene.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know this one you fight. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>this one just maybe go with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not gonna You're not gonna be staring at it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like he's asking for the cape and running

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<v Speaker 2>up buildings and jumping from them, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just wearing.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, this is how it starts.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, I definitely answered my question.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, lay, Superman's cooler than Lord of the Ring.

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<v Speaker 2>He's got a little personality here. He's having some fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Lord of the Rings has like the script on there.

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<v Speaker 2>What kind of wedding band is Robbie getting.

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<v Speaker 8>Uh, we actually haven't talked about it, but I feel

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<v Speaker 8>like he's probably gonna do a pretty simple like gold

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<v Speaker 8>brushed band exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>That he doesn't care.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it doesn't care.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's not that we don't care. When we say

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<v Speaker 2>we don't care, it's like we don't mind, right, we

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to cause a hassle. Don't mis understand the

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<v Speaker 2>word care when we say it. Sometimes it's not that

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<v Speaker 2>we don't have caring feelings for it. We don't care.

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<v Speaker 8>Like I think we'll probably be able to pick it

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<v Speaker 8>out within like thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he wants the green lantern ring. To be

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<v Speaker 2>honest with you, I think that's what he was trying

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<v Speaker 2>to say, that he wants.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he'll pull an audible when you're at the store.

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<v Speaker 7>No chance. He doesn't even know what the green lantern is.

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<v Speaker 2>He doesn't know the green lantern. What doubts here is

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<v Speaker 2>the hero of the green lantern?

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<v Speaker 7>He has two boys? Of course he does. No, I

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<v Speaker 7>don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>No toubs. Do you want to do those? Should I?

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<v Speaker 2>It's about the Wi Fi routers and these are the

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<v Speaker 2>top places. If you're noticing my WiFi is always slow,

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<v Speaker 2>they're saying, check your router shouldn't be in these three

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<v Speaker 2>spots tubs. Do you want to do the honors on it?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I just handed him the prep cheese, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know he can if he wants to.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, he's going to do this on the fly.

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<v Speaker 2>So cold read. Go ahead. So the first one, don't

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<v Speaker 2>put your router where in the kitchen? And why because

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<v Speaker 2>there's electrical devices, especially your microwave. It will interfere with

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<v Speaker 2>your router signal.

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<v Speaker 7>Makes sense?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, that does makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't think of it firsthand.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's the point like I'm always slow. What's the deal?

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<v Speaker 2>So think about it? So the kitchen, what else we got?

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<v Speaker 2>The attic, that's another bad one. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>throw fluff in there, tubs.

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<v Speaker 1>Just tell us about the do you you know what?

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<v Speaker 7>Let's see your person.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, the insulation and the ceiling and the dry wall.

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<v Speaker 10>It causes interference. It's just not a good place to

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<v Speaker 10>put it.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't think that either. I would think higher the better.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have drywall in an attic? I thought you

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<v Speaker 2>had just the Yeah, like the fluffy stuff. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes about drywall'll be closing up the walls. That's like

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<v Speaker 2>a bonus room.

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<v Speaker 1>That'd be great, all right, Tobs.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the third one?

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<v Speaker 10>Next to a window? It says you want to avoid

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<v Speaker 10>direct sunlight. That I don't get, but that's what they say.

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<v Speaker 7>Well overheating.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I guess the direct sunlight part because mine

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<v Speaker 3>is kind of close to window.

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<v Speaker 1>But it seems okay the heat.

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<v Speaker 2>The ideal spot for your Wi Fi router is the

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<v Speaker 2>ground floor century located. If you need to make the move,

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<v Speaker 2>check it and see if that didn't speed things up?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? Today's quote, Thank you jeffre Dubbs our engineer.

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<v Speaker 2>So many people from your past, no a version of

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<v Speaker 2>What are we doing on a Wednesday morning? Just FM

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<v Speaker 11>Kiss FM, good morning, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>We are in a world of wanting to create the

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<v Speaker 2>most efficiencies as possible many times. I mean, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>multitasking culture right right. Their exercise is that we can

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<v Speaker 2>do while we're on the air, and you could do

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<v Speaker 2>them at your desk. I remember when I brought in

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<v Speaker 2>the dumbbells and in the commercial breaks, and I should

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<v Speaker 2>do it again. We should the commercial breaks. I would

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<v Speaker 2>do curls just to get a few extra reps in,

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<v Speaker 2>right and be efficient with our time. Tonny, have you

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<v Speaker 2>ever brought in any exercise equipment, any bands or anything

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<v Speaker 2>like that while we're on the air. No, I have not,

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<v Speaker 2>because I could sit like this with a band across

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<v Speaker 2>my knees and press out and that would work my

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<v Speaker 2>glutes while we're on the.

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<v Speaker 3>I used to have bands when I did Middays the

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<v Speaker 3>ten to three shift. I would have like a band

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<v Speaker 3>in the studio that I would stretch. You would, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>and I would do push ups, twenty push ups every

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<v Speaker 3>top of the hour.

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<v Speaker 2>And where would you do this? On the floor?

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<v Speaker 1>On the floor, Yeah, you never a ball or anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that. No ball push ups.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you know the big ball. You put your

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<v Speaker 2>toes on the the bigger one, that's the half on

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<v Speaker 2>the ball. Then you do push up from there to

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<v Speaker 2>keep your course straight. O. That's next challenger. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>guess who's opening a gym?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, guess who's working out right now as we speak.

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<v Speaker 2>You are, yeah, on your elliptical. Can you not tell?

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot tell he's opening a gym. Under the counter.

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<v Speaker 2>You're cycling yet, see.

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<v Speaker 3>It very heavy? But yes, I'm pedaling right now. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess we can post.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, there it is here.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me actually I'll stop right now.

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<v Speaker 2>So you have a peddler under the chair. There she

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<v Speaker 2>is with the peddler.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. It's like an elliptic slash bike.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called cycle.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks like one of those things you put your

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<v Speaker 2>feet in for a massage, like the tub.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it looks like an elliptical.

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<v Speaker 1>Many elliptical.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, just the bottom part, the feet part, right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So what's the deal. You just do cardio while you're

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<v Speaker 2>sitting here on the air.

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<v Speaker 1>I brought it in for show and tell kind of today,

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<v Speaker 1>just to show you.

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<v Speaker 3>But I have it at my desk because after this,

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<v Speaker 3>I go and I take a bunch of meetings and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm here until like four or five o'clock some nights.

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<v Speaker 3>And you can get if I like consistently am pedaling

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<v Speaker 3>throughout the day.

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<v Speaker 1>It has a tracker.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll show me like the calories that I'm bringing, the

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<v Speaker 3>amount of stride, like four hundred calories on average.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what you want and you're not and you're just

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<v Speaker 2>sitting there anyway, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly exactly sweat so you can if I'm wearing like

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<v Speaker 3>a sweater. I've noticed like when I'm very warm, warmly dressed,

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<v Speaker 3>I start sweating a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the only issue I have with working out here

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<v Speaker 2>or doing anything extra here is when we sweat because

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<v Speaker 2>there's no shower.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's kind of like a sweat from the gym.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like a little like a little warm.

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<v Speaker 2>But I listen, I advocate if you can do something

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<v Speaker 2>at your desk or do something in between the songs, yere,

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<v Speaker 2>why not?

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<v Speaker 1>It's honestly the talk of the office.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone that walks by, they are they're like wow, They're

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<v Speaker 3>like what is that?

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<v Speaker 2>And they're all that's the first one I've ever seen

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<v Speaker 2>what is it actually called.

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<v Speaker 3>This one's called the Desk Cycle ellipse I got on Amazon,

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<v Speaker 3>so check it out.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Not an ad for it either.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what's under her desk a tony you anything under yours?

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<v Speaker 7>Literally nothing. I I don't know why. I've never thought

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<v Speaker 7>to work out when I'm at work, like, but she.

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<v Speaker 2>Has these meetings all day. She's in that.

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<v Speaker 8>But it's not even that. I don't think I can't

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<v Speaker 8>focus on on task.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't work.

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<v Speaker 7>I can't do it at the same time.

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<v Speaker 8>Like I just I know myself if I was peddling

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<v Speaker 8>right now, I would not be able to focus on

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<v Speaker 8>you too.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we don't. We want to focus and we love

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<v Speaker 2>and we.

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<v Speaker 1>Appreciate your focus.

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<v Speaker 7>It's hard for me. I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm kind of with Tanya like I do. Need

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<v Speaker 2>to either focus on what I'm doing and it's working out,

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<v Speaker 2>and you focus on working out.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>This isn't like substitute, This isn't like take you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not all I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically, are you doing right now? I'm trying to like

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<v Speaker 2>gauge your breath.

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<v Speaker 7>No right now?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I wasn't doing now, right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I did my whole podcast last week pedaling, and there

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<v Speaker 3>was moments where I was out of breath.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think my feet could reach it from the chair.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you adjust it these?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just your thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually had to take to get new wheels from

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<v Speaker 3>my chair in my office because I would would scoop

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<v Speaker 3>me back like this when I was pedaling.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got wheels that I can lock. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>a whole operation over there.

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<v Speaker 2>It's got the club on it.

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<v Speaker 7>I imagine if if I were like doing squats right now,

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<v Speaker 7>I could not I'd be like, goodbye.

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<v Speaker 2>Well squats are like yeah, well, maybe we'll pass it

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<v Speaker 2>around the elliptical here, Yeah, give it a try. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you say I'm sorry a lot? I know, when uh,

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<v Speaker 2>we're working and maybe you screw some up, you say

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry, I'm sorry, can do it again? Or

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry I didn't or i'm sorry running a few

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<v Speaker 2>minutes later. We do use it a lot. But sisiny

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's some alternative to some of the day to

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<v Speaker 3>day things that you might be sorry or like, let's say,

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<v Speaker 3>here's an alternative for sorry, I messed up. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 3>the info. I'll be sure to get up to speed

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<v Speaker 3>on that. I can't remember that, but it's just like

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<v Speaker 3>always using the word thank you instead of I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 3>is a good alternative in general.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, that's good. That's really, really really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for the heads up, Thank you for the tip,

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for that good idea when you're trying.

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<v Speaker 3>To get the attention of somebody, like the alternative for

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<v Speaker 3>sorry to bother you. You know you always say sorry to

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<v Speaker 3>bother you? Is now a good time for a quick question?

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<v Speaker 2>You know? My mom always says still to this day,

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<v Speaker 2>she calls says this first thing, say hello, She goes,

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<v Speaker 2>did I catch you a bad time? That's good?

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<v Speaker 1>That's literally what that's almost.

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<v Speaker 2>The same thing that I catch you at a bad time. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>the answer is yeah, if I answered the phone, this

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<v Speaker 2>is a bad time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well no, if you answer the phone, then you can

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<v Speaker 1>talk to your mama.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, I shouldn't say to me said to your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Go okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And this one I'm on the fence about because I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like, if you're late, you should apologize, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe you don't need to, so you could say thanks

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<v Speaker 3>for waiting for me, I appreciate your patience.

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<v Speaker 11>Oh i'd be like, bye, thanks for waiting for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds arrogant.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so this is some a TikToker named a power mood,

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<v Speaker 3>and so this I just pulled these from some of those.

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<v Speaker 2>But is it better to say I apologize versus I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>I think so. Like I think, if you're late, you

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<v Speaker 1>say you're sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I be apologized for being tardy.

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<v Speaker 7>I think so.

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<v Speaker 2>I think so.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you do the other thing, it kind of

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<v Speaker 3>just acknowledges that you're taking up people's times, but it

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<v Speaker 3>gives you the impression that you're on top of things.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know, it depends. Maybe you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to say you're late to.

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<v Speaker 3>Like your bosses like so it makes it look like you're,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, not responsible.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the first step for me would be just

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<v Speaker 2>to stop saying I'm sorry a third of the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about to say it exactly and see where that

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<v Speaker 2>takes me. Right, Yeah, everyone says to me, and I

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<v Speaker 2>kind of wish I did do it early on in

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<v Speaker 2>my life, right down journal, personal, professional. You know, it

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<v Speaker 2>seemed like a laborious task and still to this day

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<v Speaker 2>does seem that way. But I do, in hindsight wish

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<v Speaker 2>I wrote a journal. Kept the journal throughout the last

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<v Speaker 2>few decades of my life. Yeah, because you can't remember everything, Noah,

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<v Speaker 2>and you go back and read it. It's it's good

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<v Speaker 2>and they say it's really healthy too, right.

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<v Speaker 3>It really is. I journaled ever since probably sixth grade.

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<v Speaker 3>Those journals are not as juicy as the ones from

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<v Speaker 3>high school in college. But even when I got into

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<v Speaker 3>like my career, I journaled a little bit. I know

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<v Speaker 3>I journaled the first time I filled in for Ellen

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<v Speaker 3>k and.

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<v Speaker 1>Worked with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember coming home to.

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<v Speaker 2>Read that I should find it.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we'd like to read what the experience was truly like.

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<v Speaker 7>And then when I met Michael, I kind of stopped journaling.

0:21:51.760 --> 0:21:53.119
<v Speaker 2>And I don't know if it was like, well, he

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<v Speaker 2>sucks it on you, he just sucks a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it was that, but it was also I think

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<v Speaker 3>I journaled to release like boy frustration, you know. I

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<v Speaker 3>was just like sometimes I was just like, oh this guy,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not working out with him, or we're breaking up

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<v Speaker 3>at whatever. But it's like when I met Michael, we

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<v Speaker 3>probably journaled for for a few.

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<v Speaker 2>Entries and then I don't need to write this down.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need to yeah, but I kind of wish

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<v Speaker 1>I still continued.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's a journal feature on the iPhone, but what's

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<v Speaker 2>the story?

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<v Speaker 3>So you may have and I don't want to like

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<v Speaker 3>call out my thea, but I feel like the older

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<v Speaker 3>generation is kind of posting these scary alerts on Facebook

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<v Speaker 3>or you might have seen it on Instagram even, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's it's basically saying that if you have this thing

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<v Speaker 3>toggled on your iPhone for journaling, then people around you

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<v Speaker 3>can have access to all of your info and everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, I was one of the first people to

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<v Speaker 3>like panic and go in and see if my thing

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<v Speaker 3>was toggled on, and sure enough it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I turned it off.

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<v Speaker 3>But then as I read more articles, fortunately it's nothing that.

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<v Speaker 1>We actually have to worry about. What it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's this discoverable by others for the journaling app. So

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<v Speaker 3>there's I don't know if you noticed that with a

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<v Speaker 3>new iOS update maybe even this last few rounds, it

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<v Speaker 3>added this journal app.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that because I don't I don't play

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<v Speaker 2>with all the new toys. The only thing I notice

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<v Speaker 2>my font is different.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>So it sounds scary, but it's like nothing that we

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<v Speaker 3>need to really be stressing over.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just people around you if they want to.

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<v Speaker 3>If you want to be discovered in order to like

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<v Speaker 3>co journal with other people, then it would work. But

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<v Speaker 3>if you want to still turn it off, it's in

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<v Speaker 3>your settings.

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<v Speaker 2>Out, you've got to go turn it off.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Privacy and Security section. You just go there and

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<v Speaker 3>you toggle it off so that you're not searchable.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically, hold on, let.

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<v Speaker 2>Me see if I even have it? Which iOS am

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<v Speaker 2>I on? Tops? Which iOS am I on?

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<v Speaker 12>Do?

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<v Speaker 6>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>And you see?

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<v Speaker 3>I have no idea, So go to your settings and

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<v Speaker 3>then you down. No, I did that it was you know,

0:23:42.840 --> 0:23:46.359
<v Speaker 3>it's a separate area. Go to Privacy and Security section.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have that, kay, okay, then what okay? So

0:23:50.480 --> 0:23:52.160
<v Speaker 2>click on that I did.

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<v Speaker 1>And then scroll down and then you'll see.

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<v Speaker 3>Journaling, suggestions, suggestions and then right there discoverable.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so it's on, it's on, it's turning off

0:24:02.800 --> 0:24:07.200
<v Speaker 2>right now, it's off there. Yeah, you guys could see

0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:07.760
<v Speaker 2>my journals.

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<v Speaker 3>It does not reveal your name or location or even

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<v Speaker 3>anything like that to others nearby, but I.

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<v Speaker 1>Still don't want it on.

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<v Speaker 2>I also feel like, can the iOS keep things off

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<v Speaker 2>until I turn them on?

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<v Speaker 12>Right?

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<v Speaker 7>Should turn them on?

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly for me?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh? And is everyone's phone working equally as well as

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<v Speaker 2>it always has because now there's a new phone out

0:24:33.960 --> 0:24:37.840
<v Speaker 2>and that always stories stories that like now they glitch

0:24:37.960 --> 0:24:39.720
<v Speaker 2>because there's a new phone that they wait to get.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, it happens.

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<v Speaker 3>Your apps will start glitching or your battery doesn't battery.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole day, and you know it's a conspiracy.

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<v Speaker 2>Does anyone have the new phone, the new Apple phone?

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<v Speaker 7>No, my old one is just on the fritz.

0:24:54.760 --> 0:24:57.359
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. But apparently the camera's insane.

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<v Speaker 1>They always are.

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<v Speaker 2>My cameras a greasy.

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<v Speaker 7>That's that's a user error.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, but it's always greasy. I don't know. No

0:25:05.160 --> 0:25:07.240
<v Speaker 2>matter how much I clean it, it's always greasy. You

0:25:07.280 --> 0:25:10.520
<v Speaker 2>guys have greasy cameras in the back room. A greasy camera. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a.

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<v Speaker 3>Weird obsession with cleaning my lens before any pictures.

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<v Speaker 8>You keep your phone in your kitchen while you're filming

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<v Speaker 8>all your food stuff? You do have a thod or

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<v Speaker 8>an octabudy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm not getting an octobudy.

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<v Speaker 7>I sent you an octabudy that.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know, I don't know what an octabudy is.

0:25:27.760 --> 0:25:29.919
<v Speaker 7>I sent you one to your house so that you

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<v Speaker 7>could use it.

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<v Speaker 1>Who knows where that thing is?

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<v Speaker 2>Now? What's it called an octobudy? Probably sad the name

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<v Speaker 2>and it was afraid. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>It's like the thing that you put on the back

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<v Speaker 8>of your phone and it's sticky and you can stick

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<v Speaker 8>it to like your.

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<v Speaker 2>Oct that's great. I can't find it.

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<v Speaker 7>I got you a black one, like I really.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's in my kitchen drum. Going to look for it,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, anyway, So turn off a journaling thing if

0:25:50.400 --> 0:25:52.800
<v Speaker 2>you don't want people to read your stuff. Laura, good morning,

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<v Speaker 2>How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 13>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Laura, I'm super good, super charged for this. So

0:25:59.840 --> 0:26:02.679
<v Speaker 2>you know, Tony's getting married, Ruby's getting married. Apparently collect

0:26:02.720 --> 0:26:06.639
<v Speaker 2>may have gotten engaged. I forgot to check in and Laura,

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<v Speaker 2>your fiance and you cannot agree on what, you know,

0:26:11.359 --> 0:26:11.920
<v Speaker 2>I love.

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<v Speaker 6>Him so much, but we just cannot agree on like

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<v Speaker 6>the basic wedding details of how big our wedding is

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<v Speaker 6>going to be. You know, I would really love, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>all my family and friends to come celebrate us. And

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<v Speaker 6>the more we talked about it. The more I realized

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<v Speaker 6>he is he wants a small, intimate wedding, and it

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<v Speaker 6>just that changes everything from where we have it to

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:36.760
<v Speaker 6>the you know, flowers, just like every detail. So we

0:26:36.920 --> 0:26:38.560
<v Speaker 6>just can't get on the same page.

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<v Speaker 2>So does this Does this symbolize a bigger, broader, greater

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<v Speaker 2>issue in your dynamic relationship future?

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<v Speaker 14>I didn't.

0:26:48.560 --> 0:26:48.880
<v Speaker 3>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I didn't think about it until this moment.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought we were totally in sync, you know, the

0:26:53.440 --> 0:26:56.320
<v Speaker 6>engagement was perfect, and so did it have this come

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<v Speaker 6>up kind of at the last minute. I just I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not sure what to make of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you guys arguing about everything or is it just

0:27:02.880 --> 0:27:04.119
<v Speaker 3>the guest list?

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<v Speaker 6>No, it's just, yeah, like the big thing of like

0:27:07.520 --> 0:27:09.920
<v Speaker 6>we can't even start arguing about this, you know, really

0:27:10.000 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 6>the small stuff because we're still on square one of

0:27:13.200 --> 0:27:16.359
<v Speaker 6>arguing about that. He wants, you know, a small intimate

0:27:16.400 --> 0:27:19.400
<v Speaker 6>wedding just immediate family, and you know, I want something

0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 6>a little bit bigger than that. I'm saying a huge

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<v Speaker 6>three hundred person wedding, but maybe one hundred people, you know,

0:27:24.760 --> 0:27:26.600
<v Speaker 6>and we just can't get quite past that.

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<v Speaker 2>So Tanya effect, this is most targeted to relate to

0:27:31.560 --> 0:27:33.359
<v Speaker 2>you in the moment. What guidance do you have and

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<v Speaker 2>what do you make of it?

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<v Speaker 8>I think at the end of the day, it's all

0:27:36.040 --> 0:27:40.760
<v Speaker 8>a compromise, you know. I think it's hard to completely

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:44.040
<v Speaker 8>agree with somebody one hundred percent all the time. And

0:27:44.119 --> 0:27:45.879
<v Speaker 8>if you want a bigger wedding and he wants a

0:27:45.880 --> 0:27:49.639
<v Speaker 8>smaller wedding, maybe you guys can get a number together

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:51.320
<v Speaker 8>and then kind of meet in the middle.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Yeah, so, or maybe the venue now that you're

0:27:55.640 --> 0:27:58.280
<v Speaker 6>saying that, maybe like the venue can help us dictate,

0:27:58.440 --> 0:28:01.520
<v Speaker 6>you know, he really wants something like out in the open,

0:28:01.680 --> 0:28:02.960
<v Speaker 6>and so maybe that will help.

0:28:03.200 --> 0:28:05.280
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, maybe you can find like the venue of his

0:28:05.440 --> 0:28:07.439
<v Speaker 8>dreams and it can fit a lot of people and

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:09.439
<v Speaker 8>you can be like, oh my gosh, imagine all of

0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:11.880
<v Speaker 8>our friends and family in this venue that you love

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:13.240
<v Speaker 8>so much.

0:28:14.240 --> 0:28:14.880
<v Speaker 6>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Totally.

0:28:17.840 --> 0:28:19.960
<v Speaker 2>So good luck with the compromise. That's kind of a

0:28:20.040 --> 0:28:20.720
<v Speaker 2>key term here.

0:28:21.040 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 3>It's not uncommon to be stressed and argued during this process.

0:28:26.000 --> 0:28:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Just make sure he's the right one.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, good luck, Laura. I know to me again, I

0:28:30.400 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 2>don't want to be an alarmist, and I have no

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:36.159
<v Speaker 2>experience in these situations. But sometimes I think, is that

0:28:36.240 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 2>the universe?

0:28:38.720 --> 0:28:42.280
<v Speaker 1>It's extreme thinking to think that it shouldn't.

0:28:41.840 --> 0:28:42.880
<v Speaker 2>Be the Is it pragmatic?

0:28:43.000 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 1>It shouldn't be that difficult.

0:28:44.080 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 3>And also they should have discussed this before they even

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:48.240
<v Speaker 3>got engaged, like what type of wedding would you own?

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<v Speaker 7>But I think things change.

0:28:50.000 --> 0:28:52.120
<v Speaker 8>I think things change after you get engaged because you

0:28:52.480 --> 0:28:55.600
<v Speaker 8>realize how much money and time and effort you're putting

0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:58.760
<v Speaker 8>into this. So it like exacerbates things because you start

0:28:58.800 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 8>seeing numbers and you're like, Okay, if I'm going to

0:29:00.480 --> 0:29:03.040
<v Speaker 8>spend this much money, I want it to be what

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:03.760
<v Speaker 8>I want it to be.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>It blisps sounds so exciting. So over the course of

0:29:11.440 --> 0:29:13.720
<v Speaker 2>the years, we talked about a lot of scams, and

0:29:13.760 --> 0:29:16.000
<v Speaker 2>they seem to be more and more prevalent. I know,

0:29:16.080 --> 0:29:19.000
<v Speaker 2>my phone rings all the time with numbers that I

0:29:19.160 --> 0:29:22.840
<v Speaker 2>just ignore. Places. Sometimes it's it looks like my number,

0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:25.160
<v Speaker 2>other times it's places that I just don't I know,

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:27.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't know anybody in Cedar Falls or you know,

0:29:27.440 --> 0:29:28.560
<v Speaker 2>whether it's coming in from Our.

0:29:28.520 --> 0:29:30.280
<v Speaker 3>Phones are getting smarter though, because it does tell me

0:29:30.360 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 3>this is a spam call, so I won't.

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<v Speaker 1>Pick it up.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, sometimes when I get emails from the staff here,

0:29:36.280 --> 0:29:38.720
<v Speaker 2>it says you don't often get emails from this person.

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 2>Do you have that?

0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:44.160
<v Speaker 7>No, I don't have that at all.

0:29:43.520 --> 0:29:44.960
<v Speaker 2>Mark, do you have that on your iPhone?

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<v Speaker 11>Not?

0:29:45.280 --> 0:29:45.560
<v Speaker 2>Have that?

0:29:45.640 --> 0:29:46.760
<v Speaker 1>Wows a feature?

0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:50.000
<v Speaker 2>That a feature in my leg it just it identifies

0:29:50.000 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 2>as somebody doesn't normally email me. I've never seen that.

0:29:53.400 --> 0:29:55.320
<v Speaker 1>Maybe those are actually legit scams.

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:58.640
<v Speaker 2>No, No, it's like people that we know. It's people

0:29:58.640 --> 0:30:01.200
<v Speaker 2>that like I know, and not everyth email but not

0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:02.960
<v Speaker 2>people I'd never email or talked to you. But it

0:30:02.960 --> 0:30:06.880
<v Speaker 2>says you don't often see an email from this person anyway. Wow,

0:30:07.120 --> 0:30:09.960
<v Speaker 2>Ciciny is in the middle. Have you heard she's caught

0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 2>up in the middle of a big scam? Right now?

0:30:11.800 --> 0:30:14.040
<v Speaker 2>I am, yeah, and I looks legit.

0:30:14.200 --> 0:30:16.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm a victim of beating scammed.

0:30:16.800 --> 0:30:22.440
<v Speaker 2>But let's be clear about what has happened. Someone or somebody,

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:26.520
<v Speaker 2>people whatever are posing as you and trying to say

0:30:26.560 --> 0:30:27.480
<v Speaker 2>that you can win cash.

0:30:27.560 --> 0:30:30.480
<v Speaker 3>Right Siciny, Yes, So I actually got a DM on

0:30:30.640 --> 0:30:36.160
<v Speaker 3>Instagram from one of our lovely listeners, Leslie, and she said, Hey,

0:30:36.480 --> 0:30:39.960
<v Speaker 3>I just wanted to know if this is real or not.

0:30:41.080 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 1>And so when I looked at the DM and checked everything.

0:30:44.200 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 3>It was basically screenshots of a fake Siciny account on Facebook,

0:30:50.120 --> 0:30:53.520
<v Speaker 3>and it had messaged her saying, Hey, Leslie, congratulations, you

0:30:53.520 --> 0:30:55.480
<v Speaker 3>were selected as the winner of my event.

0:30:55.720 --> 0:30:58.200
<v Speaker 1>Visit my profile now, thank you very much.

0:30:58.920 --> 0:31:01.040
<v Speaker 2>But then it gets harry for it asks for a

0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 2>lot of different clicks and things, and you start, I mean,

0:31:04.440 --> 0:31:06.640
<v Speaker 2>go through the list of what this scam's asking people

0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:07.000
<v Speaker 2>to do.

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:10.840
<v Speaker 3>And they even took our like our picture, our picture

0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:14.400
<v Speaker 3>of payer bills, and they put it in there that.

0:31:14.400 --> 0:31:18.640
<v Speaker 2>They took actually the promo campaign photography with the logos

0:31:18.640 --> 0:31:21.760
<v Speaker 2>and everything. I mean, it looks real, except all these

0:31:21.800 --> 0:31:22.480
<v Speaker 2>things they want you.

0:31:22.520 --> 0:31:25.200
<v Speaker 3>To do, right, They say, go my page, like my

0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:27.600
<v Speaker 3>post register here, click on the link. Then you'll get

0:31:27.640 --> 0:31:29.440
<v Speaker 3>a receipt, then you can comment, and then you do

0:31:29.480 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 3>this and then you can win a thousand dollars of them.

0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:33.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, this is oh my gosh, it's so lengthy

0:31:34.480 --> 0:31:35.120
<v Speaker 3>and it's face.

0:31:35.080 --> 0:31:37.200
<v Speaker 2>So did you okay, So if anybody got this from

0:31:37.240 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 2>siciny show.

0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:39.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeesh Sicity Show.

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:42.280
<v Speaker 3>That's the name of the account on Facebook. But it

0:31:42.320 --> 0:31:45.320
<v Speaker 3>has all my pictures on there, and you go through

0:31:45.400 --> 0:31:48.040
<v Speaker 3>it's it looks I get I can see how you

0:31:48.080 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 3>could think that it's real.

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:51.960
<v Speaker 2>So did it go to a lot of people or

0:31:52.000 --> 0:31:52.560
<v Speaker 2>fifty people?

0:31:52.640 --> 0:31:53.000
<v Speaker 11>So far?

0:31:53.240 --> 0:31:56.200
<v Speaker 3>Just one person reached out to me, but I have

0:31:56.280 --> 0:31:57.360
<v Speaker 3>no idea who else it's gone to.

0:31:57.440 --> 0:31:58.719
<v Speaker 1>So I kind of wanted to bring it up.

0:31:58.720 --> 0:32:01.000
<v Speaker 3>And in case you guys see it, it don't take

0:32:01.040 --> 0:32:05.320
<v Speaker 3>on anything. I've reported it. But my dad's Facebook got

0:32:05.320 --> 0:32:06.280
<v Speaker 3>hacked and nothing.

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:08.640
<v Speaker 2>Told your dad about it. I haven't told my dad

0:32:08.680 --> 0:32:11.080
<v Speaker 2>about it, No, I said, he reported to your father.

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:13.400
<v Speaker 3>No, But my poor dad his account got hacked like

0:32:13.560 --> 0:32:15.760
<v Speaker 3>months ago and it was all bad.

0:32:16.400 --> 0:32:18.720
<v Speaker 2>My mom's as well. Yeah, so all right, Well that

0:32:18.880 --> 0:32:22.480
<v Speaker 2>the sisiny if you are seeing her one thousand dollars

0:32:22.480 --> 0:32:25.480
<v Speaker 2>cash prize giveaway is a scam. We do pay your

0:32:25.480 --> 0:32:28.400
<v Speaker 2>bills here on the air, and I'm authenticating this is us.

0:32:29.560 --> 0:32:32.080
<v Speaker 2>This is not an AI voice. I want to grab

0:32:32.200 --> 0:32:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Rachel here, who's been to hold for a second. Here's

0:32:34.880 --> 0:32:36.720
<v Speaker 2>a Rachel. Good morning, Rachel. How are you doing?

0:32:37.920 --> 0:32:38.320
<v Speaker 9>I'm good?

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:38.640
<v Speaker 15>Thanks?

0:32:38.640 --> 0:32:40.280
<v Speaker 6>How are you great?

0:32:40.560 --> 0:32:43.320
<v Speaker 2>So you're calling about a friend of yours who got

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:47.280
<v Speaker 2>cheated on? Yes, what happened? And how can we help?

0:32:48.520 --> 0:32:51.760
<v Speaker 9>So my friend recently proposed to his boyfriend, but my

0:32:51.800 --> 0:32:54.000
<v Speaker 9>friends and I are having a hard time feeling excited

0:32:54.120 --> 0:32:57.200
<v Speaker 9>or happy for him because last year's boyfriend teated on

0:32:57.280 --> 0:32:59.120
<v Speaker 9>him and it was.

0:32:59.040 --> 0:33:02.320
<v Speaker 15>Devastating from friend because they've been dating for years and years,

0:33:02.320 --> 0:33:05.360
<v Speaker 15>and after he found out about the cheating, he was heartbroken.

0:33:06.240 --> 0:33:08.480
<v Speaker 15>My friend ended up mending things with his boyfriend and

0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:09.840
<v Speaker 15>they've been together ever since.

0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:13.760
<v Speaker 9>And now my friend proposed, So it was kind of shocking,

0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:15.640
<v Speaker 9>and he didn't tell anyone he was going to do it,

0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:18.560
<v Speaker 9>and he only sent us pictures after the proposal. In

0:33:18.600 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 9>our group CHET, they're just trying to get us to celebrate,

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:24.520
<v Speaker 9>and we want to support our friend and be happy

0:33:24.520 --> 0:33:28.280
<v Speaker 9>for him. But now that we know that fiance cheated

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:31.040
<v Speaker 9>orthing to be happy or support.

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:34.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, so does he yeah, exactly, he knows that

0:33:34.720 --> 0:33:38.760
<v Speaker 2>he was cheated on by the person he just proposed to. Yes, okay,

0:33:38.800 --> 0:33:44.239
<v Speaker 2>so your friend, friend, your your pal. He went through it.

0:33:44.280 --> 0:33:47.240
<v Speaker 2>He forgave his partner at the time, right, and they

0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:50.840
<v Speaker 2>moved on and now he's proposed. I mean, look, you

0:33:50.880 --> 0:33:54.080
<v Speaker 2>can't really be in their shoes. And if everybody knows

0:33:54.120 --> 0:33:56.560
<v Speaker 2>about it and they made the choice to move past it,

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<v Speaker 2>then that's their prerogative and it looks like they're trying

0:34:00.320 --> 0:34:04.320
<v Speaker 2>to move on and celebrate hopefully a new chapter.

0:34:06.360 --> 0:34:10.200
<v Speaker 9>Yeah, it's hard of a friend to view your own

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<v Speaker 9>their relationships differently, harder what happened.

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:18.480
<v Speaker 2>It'd be harder if you knew that his partner cheated,

0:34:18.560 --> 0:34:21.919
<v Speaker 2>but he didn't know and he proposed. That would be

0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:26.799
<v Speaker 2>a real twist. This one is their choice. They're in it,

0:34:27.120 --> 0:34:30.120
<v Speaker 2>their relationship. They decided to move past it. What can

0:34:30.160 --> 0:34:30.440
<v Speaker 2>we do.

0:34:31.200 --> 0:34:33.960
<v Speaker 3>I know a couple that went through this and then

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:37.120
<v Speaker 3>ended up getting engaged and married and all that, and

0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:39.120
<v Speaker 3>they seem very happy. But like if I was sitting

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:42.200
<v Speaker 3>in here dwelling on it, or that's going to take

0:34:42.239 --> 0:34:43.240
<v Speaker 3>years off your life.

0:34:43.120 --> 0:34:46.760
<v Speaker 2>Rachel, and you can't control it. They made a decision,

0:34:47.680 --> 0:34:51.799
<v Speaker 2>so I think it embraced their happiness. If they're happy now, I.

0:34:51.719 --> 0:34:54.880
<v Speaker 9>Agree, Okay, I guess that's their.

0:34:56.000 --> 0:34:58.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank you very much. It wo'd be trickier. We've

0:34:58.000 --> 0:34:59.920
<v Speaker 2>had the calls like that where the partner didn't know

0:35:00.320 --> 0:35:02.920
<v Speaker 2>and there was a proposal and the friends saying, hey,

0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:04.800
<v Speaker 2>I have some information, do I tell.

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<v Speaker 16>Ya?

0:35:06.640 --> 0:35:09.400
<v Speaker 2>Horrible? You just never know what anybody's going through. And

0:35:09.480 --> 0:35:11.440
<v Speaker 2>if they decide that they can make it work. And

0:35:11.480 --> 0:35:14.919
<v Speaker 2>they want to try again start over. Then, yeah, that's

0:35:14.960 --> 0:35:15.560
<v Speaker 2>their decision.

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<v Speaker 1>On air with Ryan Seacrest.

0:35:23.280 --> 0:35:24.960
<v Speaker 2>Let's get to some of these talkbacks. You know, you

0:35:24.960 --> 0:35:26.920
<v Speaker 2>can go inside the free i HET radio app. It's

0:35:26.920 --> 0:35:28.440
<v Speaker 2>a great way to listen to the show and not

0:35:28.520 --> 0:35:30.920
<v Speaker 2>miss anything if you're on the go and send us

0:35:30.920 --> 0:35:34.160
<v Speaker 2>a talkback message with the microphone, the red microphone that's

0:35:34.160 --> 0:35:36.840
<v Speaker 2>inside the page we got. Then these are gonna be

0:35:36.840 --> 0:35:38.759
<v Speaker 2>all over the map. I think let's start with this one.

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<v Speaker 2>Last week, we had a hack that hotel lobbies are

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<v Speaker 2>the best place to use the bathroom when you're on

0:35:43.560 --> 0:35:46.520
<v Speaker 2>a road trip. Susie and Santa Monica actually tried this.

0:35:46.600 --> 0:35:47.920
<v Speaker 2>Here's Susie time. I used the.

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<v Speaker 16>Bathroom at a hotel lobby and I felt so guilty

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:53.440
<v Speaker 16>about it that I pretended like I was there to

0:35:53.440 --> 0:35:56.520
<v Speaker 16>look at their wedding venue. And then they ended up

0:35:56.960 --> 0:35:59.640
<v Speaker 16>sending me home with like ten packets of information about

0:35:59.760 --> 0:36:03.879
<v Speaker 16>the and it wasn't even engaged for dating anybody.

0:36:04.000 --> 0:36:08.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they got to play out the charade, right. Let's

0:36:08.080 --> 0:36:12.240
<v Speaker 2>see Kelly and Orange County knows why avocados sometimes taste buttery.

0:36:12.840 --> 0:36:14.880
<v Speaker 2>I've talked about avocado. Sometimes I get an avocado. Get

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:18.360
<v Speaker 2>very excited about my Avocado's got no avocado flavor. It's done.

0:36:18.719 --> 0:36:21.439
<v Speaker 2>It's just it's cream but cream of air, but cream

0:36:21.440 --> 0:36:22.880
<v Speaker 2>of not air. Could but it's no flavor.

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<v Speaker 10>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 4>You were mentioning the buttery flavor on avocados.

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:29.960
<v Speaker 5>A lot of them have to do with grown.

0:36:29.840 --> 0:36:31.839
<v Speaker 4>Versus getting produced.

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:35.440
<v Speaker 5>Veggies and fruit as a store.

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<v Speaker 10>So that buttery flavor.

0:36:37.840 --> 0:36:40.319
<v Speaker 15>You will get that if you.

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:43.640
<v Speaker 4>Have homegrown avocados, But if you've gotten them in the store,

0:36:43.960 --> 0:36:44.640
<v Speaker 4>not so much.

0:36:45.080 --> 0:36:48.600
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't have an avocado tree, so I get one.

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I think that checks out.

0:36:49.840 --> 0:36:53.520
<v Speaker 3>My parents avocados are like the creamiest buttery.

0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:55.360
<v Speaker 2>And they and they're green and they get that real flavor.

0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:59.120
<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, thank you for that. This is Natalie here.

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:02.920
<v Speaker 2>We also talked about someone dating their ex'es mom. We

0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:05.720
<v Speaker 2>asked if that really happens. Remember that story you did, Tanya?

0:37:05.800 --> 0:37:07.200
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, no one cyrus.

0:37:07.400 --> 0:37:08.279
<v Speaker 2>So here's what she said.

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<v Speaker 13>Now, guys, I just want to say, I've been listening

0:37:10.080 --> 0:37:11.160
<v Speaker 13>to you guys for twenty years.

0:37:11.160 --> 0:37:11.759
<v Speaker 16>I love you.

0:37:13.200 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 13>About that thing. They're saying if a guy has dated

0:37:19.520 --> 0:37:22.840
<v Speaker 13>his exes mom. Unfortunately that kind of happened to me.

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:26.560
<v Speaker 13>But if we weren't together, me and him, and he

0:37:26.680 --> 0:37:30.000
<v Speaker 13>was my age. And then I caught him with my

0:37:30.120 --> 0:37:34.719
<v Speaker 13>mom and really really destroyed our relationship. And then he

0:37:34.800 --> 0:37:35.840
<v Speaker 13>left her. Of course.

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:38.840
<v Speaker 2>Wow, so they were together and then he hooked up

0:37:38.880 --> 0:37:41.160
<v Speaker 2>with her mom. Well, Natalie, thank you for calling. I

0:37:41.200 --> 0:37:43.200
<v Speaker 2>can understand how that would damage some relationships.

0:37:43.239 --> 0:37:46.719
<v Speaker 1>Wow, coming back from that, All right, let's go.

0:37:46.840 --> 0:37:49.440
<v Speaker 2>Now, let's just wrap it up here with Tony. So, Tony,

0:37:49.920 --> 0:37:51.719
<v Speaker 2>he's back. This is the guy that reached out to

0:37:51.760 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 2>Tubbs it wants to get on the jiu jitsu mat

0:37:54.040 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 2>with him. Would you call it roll around or someth

0:37:56.600 --> 0:37:59.080
<v Speaker 2>would you say, yep? Roll around? All right, Well he's back.

0:37:59.120 --> 0:38:01.439
<v Speaker 2>He's not taking no for an answer, and I think

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:03.239
<v Speaker 2>he's on his way out here. Let's see, this is

0:38:03.280 --> 0:38:05.759
<v Speaker 2>Tony from Virginia wants to book a trip to go

0:38:05.840 --> 0:38:09.120
<v Speaker 2>play jiu jitsu with Tubs.

0:38:09.280 --> 0:38:15.200
<v Speaker 12>Tony from Virginia Beach, Ryan, Bro, you should absolutely go

0:38:15.239 --> 0:38:17.840
<v Speaker 12>with Tubs to a jiu jitsu class and try it out.

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:22.200
<v Speaker 12>I'm telling you you'll be hooked, not heel hooked, just don't.

0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:23.719
<v Speaker 2>You'll love it.

0:38:23.719 --> 0:38:27.440
<v Speaker 12>It's a workout you're not used to, and you'll just

0:38:27.760 --> 0:38:28.680
<v Speaker 12>you'll be exhausted.

0:38:29.120 --> 0:38:32.759
<v Speaker 2>He sounds like bigger than I am, for sure, and

0:38:32.840 --> 0:38:34.040
<v Speaker 2>stronger than I am for sure.

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:35.640
<v Speaker 1>What is st hooked?

0:38:36.200 --> 0:38:36.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? What is that?

0:38:37.719 --> 0:38:38.600
<v Speaker 1>You started cracking up?

0:38:39.040 --> 0:38:39.600
<v Speaker 2>You really got it.

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:42.880
<v Speaker 10>There's a little insider pun there. He'l hook is a

0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:46.520
<v Speaker 10>type of submission where you're basically just trying to break

0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:47.720
<v Speaker 10>the person's knee.

0:38:49.760 --> 0:38:52.200
<v Speaker 2>This is like a It's a serious discipline, right, I

0:38:52.280 --> 0:38:56.600
<v Speaker 2>mean it's very hard. I've actually been to some places

0:38:56.600 --> 0:38:59.960
<v Speaker 2>where people are doing this, and it's really the amount

0:38:59.960 --> 0:39:02.360
<v Speaker 2>of energy that you exert, right, I mean it's really

0:39:02.440 --> 0:39:04.200
<v Speaker 2>a lot. Yeah. Yeah, it's crazy. It's like.

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:08.719
<v Speaker 10>I just did a trial and I got hooked. As

0:39:08.760 --> 0:39:11.239
<v Speaker 10>Tony said, yeah, I.

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:13.840
<v Speaker 2>Knowed his girlfriend. Do they have a Matt in the garage?

0:39:14.080 --> 0:39:16.920
<v Speaker 2>We thank you for those talkback all right, very excited.

0:39:17.640 --> 0:39:20.520
<v Speaker 2>Let me grab Sam and send Gabriel before anything else. Sam,

0:39:20.600 --> 0:39:24.960
<v Speaker 2>good morning morning Ryan. How can we help you? It

0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:26.480
<v Speaker 2>sounds not good?

0:39:27.480 --> 0:39:29.759
<v Speaker 14>Yeah, I just I don't really know what to do

0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:33.520
<v Speaker 14>about this situation. I'm kind of freaked out about the

0:39:33.560 --> 0:39:37.240
<v Speaker 14>whole thing. I don't know, but my few the future

0:39:37.280 --> 0:39:41.200
<v Speaker 14>father in law meant by it. But I recently asked

0:39:41.320 --> 0:39:45.040
<v Speaker 14>my girlfriend's parents if it was okay with them, if

0:39:45.080 --> 0:39:49.640
<v Speaker 14>I know, proposed and eventually got married. But when I did,

0:39:49.800 --> 0:39:51.759
<v Speaker 14>my future father in law kind of looked at me

0:39:51.840 --> 0:39:54.040
<v Speaker 14>and said, well, I don't know why you'd want to

0:39:54.080 --> 0:39:55.680
<v Speaker 14>do that, but good luck.

0:39:57.360 --> 0:39:58.640
<v Speaker 2>Well that's you know, discouraging.

0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:02.600
<v Speaker 14>It was just kind of it was just a little jar.

0:40:05.800 --> 0:40:12.960
<v Speaker 14>It seemed it seemed pretty serious. I don't know, marriage,

0:40:13.560 --> 0:40:14.480
<v Speaker 14>no comment.

0:40:14.840 --> 0:40:17.120
<v Speaker 2>Because maybe he's referring to like I made this mistake.

0:40:17.800 --> 0:40:19.640
<v Speaker 7>However, it is harsh.

0:40:19.680 --> 0:40:22.719
<v Speaker 2>It's harsh, it's not little like I'm discouraged by it,

0:40:22.800 --> 0:40:25.239
<v Speaker 2>and it makes me think, well, they don't like me.

0:40:27.600 --> 0:40:31.120
<v Speaker 14>Yeah, I mean we've we've been dating for a few years,

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<v Speaker 14>so I thought we got along or maybe yeah, maybe he.

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<v Speaker 3>Just wants to make sure that you're really serious about

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<v Speaker 3>it and going to go the distance.

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<v Speaker 14>Hopefully that's it. I mean I am pretty serious. I

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<v Speaker 14>love her a lot, but just the way he said it, like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't love it. Have you talked to your girlfriend

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<v Speaker 2>about it?

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<v Speaker 14>Yeah? We talked about it.

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<v Speaker 2>And what did she say?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 14>She she is just as confused and as I am was.

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<v Speaker 14>She was weirded out when I told her about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she should just have a conversation with him separately,

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<v Speaker 3>then maybe she can get to the bottom of it

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<v Speaker 3>if there's something deeper.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also feel like you may never win them over.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I don't think that.

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<v Speaker 13>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this guy sounds like he's got an issue.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's about him though.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think so either.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, maybe it's because he's not happy in his own

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but Sam, I guess well, he.

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<v Speaker 3>Could have just panicked too, Like dads just sometimes don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what to say. Like when Michael asked for my

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<v Speaker 3>dad's hand in marriage. My dad was like great and everything,

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<v Speaker 3>but then he's like, you know, Mike.

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<v Speaker 2>Asked for your dad's hand.

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<v Speaker 3>In, Man, I'm sorry for my hand in.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a twist.

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<v Speaker 3>But he basically told Michael, you know, Sisani's really tough,

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<v Speaker 3>like almost like trying to scare Michael off.

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<v Speaker 2>He still came back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, uh, you know, maybe he just didn't really know

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<v Speaker 1>how to put his words together.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're doing the elegant, very gentleman thing, which

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<v Speaker 2>is going this path, and if you hit a dead end,

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<v Speaker 2>you still love her, then you do you need to

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<v Speaker 2>do for your heart? Buddy.

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<v Speaker 14>I think you're right. Yeah, Oh good luck man.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, you can mit in there, take care of that, Thank.

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<v Speaker 14>You, thank you, good bye.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be I mean, I kind of would know going

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<v Speaker 2>in right what the parents might feel or think and

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<v Speaker 2>just go for it. But it would also be really disheartening, discouraging.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, at least he didn't say no, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 8>it sounds like he's projecting like he's like not happily married,

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<v Speaker 8>and he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like oh, and then I turn it and say, well, listen, sir,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, do you want to talk? Yeah, do you

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<v Speaker 2>want to talk about what's going on here with you

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<v Speaker 2>and the missus? Because if you're this cynical about our

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<v Speaker 2>love and ours is young love hoping for a big future.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're saying about it, let's talk about what you're

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<v Speaker 2>projecting here. Sit down here? What can I buy you?

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