Speaker 1: From Hollywood.
Speaker 2: See you, Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 3: Ryan Air Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: Jessica and Bell Guards. Good morning, Jessica, How are you
Speaker 2: doing good?
Speaker 4: How are you guys doing great?
Speaker 2: Well? You seem to be talking about what we've been
Speaker 2: talking about a lot here, and that is invitations to weddings.
Speaker 2: I mean, Tanya's getting married, She's trying to figure out
Speaker 2: the guest list. Ruby is getting marriage. She's putting together
Speaker 2: her guest list. Ty's trying to fit where to have
Speaker 2: the wedding, and we're all just sort of waiting to
Speaker 2: get that save the date. We haven't gotten it yet.
Speaker 2: And Jessica, you were also invited to Tanya's wedding.
Speaker 5: No, well not yet.
Speaker 4: No, okay, div wedding.
Speaker 2: You're invited to your wedding?
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I was invited. It's actually my best friend
Speaker 5: in the world's wedding. She's getting married and it's super exciting, obviously,
Speaker 5: and she's getting married in Switzerland.
Speaker 6: Her and her.
Speaker 5: Fiance decided her fiancees from Switzerland, so they're getting married
Speaker 5: there and it's great. And she asked me to be
Speaker 5: the maid of honor and asked my two daughters to
Speaker 5: be her flower girls, which is lovely, but she asked about,
Speaker 5: you know, us being in the wedding. Prior to knowing
Speaker 5: it was a destination wedding, my husband and I have been,
Speaker 5: you know, going over the logistics of it, and it
Speaker 5: just doesn't seem feasible to bring our daughters. First of all,
Speaker 5: it's just so expensive, and then we have to bring
Speaker 5: a parent, most likely one of our parents, to watch
Speaker 5: them all the events that are going on for the wedding,
Speaker 5: and so honestly, we're like kind of coming to the
Speaker 5: conclusion that we're not quite care we can swing bringing them.
Speaker 6: So I did bring it up.
Speaker 5: To her, and she, you know, was a little she
Speaker 5: was she was sad and like, I can't imagine having
Speaker 5: my wedding without them being there. And we kind of
Speaker 5: left it at that, and I'm like in between an
Speaker 5: in a hard place. Now. Of course, I'm not quite
Speaker 5: sure what to do or how to bring it up
Speaker 5: to her again, but I just don't think we can
Speaker 5: swing it.
Speaker 1: How old are your daughters?
Speaker 7: A weird reaction.
Speaker 4: I know they're sick and too.
Speaker 2: What does one expect when they invite one to go
Speaker 2: to a wedding in Switzerland. I live in Los Angeles.
Speaker 2: For I almost feel like you invite people to those
Speaker 2: kinds of places because you don't want everyone to come right.
Speaker 8: And if you if you say I can't afford to
Speaker 8: bring my kids, and she should just say, I Sam, yeah.
Speaker 2: We made it inconvenient that we're marrying in.
Speaker 3: Switzerland, exactly like she's trying to make you feel guilty
Speaker 3: for something.
Speaker 2: Lot of reactions cost.
Speaker 1: You thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars.
Speaker 5: Yes, And I did not love the reaction either. And obviously,
Speaker 5: of course I'm still going and my husband and I'm
Speaker 5: going to the maid of honor and.
Speaker 9: I'm so excited about that.
Speaker 5: And I really didn't think I would get I would
Speaker 5: have gotten the reaction I did from her, like I
Speaker 5: really am liked it.
Speaker 2: So your reality is your reality. You need to move
Speaker 2: forward with what it is and go be the friend
Speaker 2: that you're going to be, and you know, fill that
Speaker 2: role and don't worry about it anymore.
Speaker 8: Maybe you can have your daughters give sent her like
Speaker 8: a video message on the day of her wedding.
Speaker 2: She doesn't understanding. Maybe she's just stressed that all this
Speaker 2: is happening. But I think she'll understand.
Speaker 3: Well, I think she had this vision in her head
Speaker 3: of having your daughters be the flower Girls, and now
Speaker 3: she's like spiraling, like, wait, I'm not going to have
Speaker 3: flower girls.
Speaker 2: Book for the wed with you.
Speaker 1: I'm with you.
Speaker 3: She's making it very inconvenient for you to do the
Speaker 3: right thing here.
Speaker 2: All right, good luck the weddings. They don't come without pressure,
Speaker 2: stress from all points and parties. Thank you very much. So, Tanya,
Speaker 2: if you're going to be you know, booking burn Switzerland,
Speaker 2: ceremony on a bridge or something, let us know sooner than.
Speaker 8: You do stuff like that and a grid of edge
Speaker 8: of the cliff of a mountain. A friend of mine
Speaker 8: is getting married in Amsterdam and she had the same thing.
Speaker 8: She's like, we invited people, but we understand that, like
Speaker 8: the majority of people can't make.
Speaker 2: When you do something like that, you know a lot
Speaker 2: of people can't do you almost you probably over invite
Speaker 2: because you know some people can't come. Right. So, all right,
Speaker 2: weddings and the stress of them. Let's see here, Tanya,
Speaker 2: what happened. You bought something online and you accidentally shifted
Speaker 2: to the wrong address. Did it go to anybody you know?
Speaker 8: No, that's the problem, So I have it I bought.
Speaker 8: I guess I haven't gone to this website. I haven't
Speaker 8: bought something on this website in a very long time. Yeah,
Speaker 8: but I went online. I ordered this pot for a
Speaker 8: plant in our living room, like a big pot, big
Speaker 8: heavy pot, and I checked out, didn't even think I had,
Speaker 8: you know, my credit card information in there. Checked out, boom, Great,
Speaker 8: got an update when your base is going to be delivered?
Speaker 7: Great, didn't even think about it.
Speaker 8: So then you know, it says like your base is
Speaker 8: on its way blah blah bl So after it got delivered,
Speaker 8: I realized I looked outside our front door and there
Speaker 8: was no box. I checked the email and it was
Speaker 8: sent to my parents' old address in Rossmore, and they
Speaker 8: sold that house last year, so it's not even like
Speaker 8: my parents lived there anymore.
Speaker 7: It's I don't even.
Speaker 2: Know when this pot that is free living arrives. And
Speaker 2: the people didn't order the pot, don't they send the
Speaker 2: pot back?
Speaker 7: So I tried calling.
Speaker 8: I tried calling the company that I bought it from,
Speaker 8: and then they were like, oh, once it's out shipping,
Speaker 8: we can't do anything about it. So then I called
Speaker 8: the shipping company, but they were like it was already delivered,
Speaker 8: and that was that was basically it.
Speaker 7: I don't know these people, and so I basically I
Speaker 7: know what I said.
Speaker 8: I basically was just like I'm just gonna give them
Speaker 8: this pot, Like I guess that's oh, you're.
Speaker 2: Going to get this pot to pay it forward, right,
Speaker 2: like the need that maybe there's a couple of having
Speaker 2: a really big fight and they need a pot. I
Speaker 2: would just drive.
Speaker 1: Down there in the days delivered and be like, this
Speaker 1: is my pot.
Speaker 8: So my mom goes, you need to go to the house,
Speaker 8: knock on the door and get your pot back. And
Speaker 8: so Robbie and I are thinking about driving down the
Speaker 8: rock knocking on the door and asking for her giant O.
Speaker 2: If you just joined us and you heard Tanya say
Speaker 2: that she's speaking of her living room po face. She
Speaker 2: didn't leave her other things elsewhere?
Speaker 7: No, no, no, yes.
Speaker 3: By the way, Tony, this has happened to me multiple times
Speaker 3: with my previous home that we just moved out of
Speaker 3: in September, and there's been a few instances like same
Speaker 3: thing like pottery barn. I forgot that it was the
Speaker 3: old address, like whatever, I've ordered stuff and then I
Speaker 3: just go over there and knock on the door.
Speaker 7: She's so nice. She's that lady.
Speaker 3: She's let us in and like showed us the house
Speaker 3: and the updates that she's done.
Speaker 1: Really like you know her.
Speaker 7: I don't know these people. I know them, I don't
Speaker 7: know her.
Speaker 2: She's very nice. Stores and forward. That's good on them,
Speaker 2: And be a little bit more careful when you choose
Speaker 2: the address. I think I was on the hold activating
Speaker 2: her credit card the other day, really enjoying the awful
Speaker 2: music they play. You ever had that happened.
Speaker 1: I don't know about enjoying it, but I just deal
Speaker 1: with it.
Speaker 2: No matter what I'm trying to activate or deal, nothing
Speaker 2: ever works right. It's never. This doesn't pin, doesn't match
Speaker 2: the card ever. So I got to wait for the person.
Speaker 2: And as I was waiting for the person, I'm like,
Speaker 2: this music is so bad. I love it, the whole
Speaker 2: music the bank holds. We should be like programming bank
Speaker 2: holding music does Oh it was heard. I was off
Speaker 2: for so long. I enjoyed the loop. Yeah, Selena Montebello,
Speaker 2: thank you for listening to us this morning. How can
Speaker 2: we help you?
Speaker 4: Yes, well, thanks, I'm getting married this summer.
Speaker 2: This is everybody's getting married.
Speaker 7: I'm telling you my algorithm is all bridle.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because you're shopping for bridle stuff.
Speaker 7: No, I'm not.
Speaker 1: You're looking at it.
Speaker 7: My phone's listening, Selene.
Speaker 2: Go ahead. What happened.
Speaker 4: Well, so we've been looking at wedding bands for him,
Speaker 4: and like the whole time he's just been telling me
Speaker 4: like whatever, I don't care, Like they're.
Speaker 2: All fine wedding bands, performance bands.
Speaker 4: No great, like his ring, his ring, I got it
Speaker 4: his ring, And it's it's frustrating to hear that, like
Speaker 4: he doesn't care, you know, like they're all fine because
Speaker 4: like he's gonna wear.
Speaker 1: It the rest of his life.
Speaker 4: Right, So I guess some of a friend of his
Speaker 4: sent him like a website called, I don't know, like
Speaker 4: man bands or something. So now he wants to Superman
Speaker 4: wedding band.
Speaker 2: Does it have the S on it red and blue?
Speaker 4: Or yes, he does have the S on it, but
Speaker 4: the S is in the inside, which like it's not
Speaker 4: the worst thing.
Speaker 1: But I don't know, I've heard of this company.
Speaker 2: What is it? What they do? Superhero wedding Man's.
Speaker 1: They do like wedding bands for men.
Speaker 3: They cater to the men that if you can you
Speaker 3: want different type of designs, like not necessarily like the traditional.
Speaker 2: It's like a brushed gray with a blue stripe around
Speaker 2: and the s's on the inside. Is that the one?
Speaker 2: And so here's the thing I mean, is he a
Speaker 2: Superman fan? Is he just having some fun?
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, but I don't know. It just feels
Speaker 4: a little childish to me.
Speaker 2: This is the man you married, This is the guy
Speaker 2: you married, I know married. No, No, it's a Superman ring.
Speaker 1: It's kind of mummy.
Speaker 2: Here's the thing, Slean. I do understand what he means
Speaker 2: when he says he doesn't care, because I wouldn't either.
Speaker 2: And it's not that I don't care, but I would
Speaker 2: tell you I don't care because it's like just something simple,
Speaker 2: something easy. That's what I think I would mean when
Speaker 2: I say I don't care what you think.
Speaker 3: And until you start trying all of them on, because
Speaker 3: the same time he's like.
Speaker 1: I want it to be simple.
Speaker 3: Whatever, I don't want to know it's there, And this
Speaker 3: guy walks out of the store with like a nine
Speaker 3: princess cut diamonds on his band and it's not simple.
Speaker 1: Well, that's your mind changes, is my point. As soon
Speaker 1: as you start trying them on Selene.
Speaker 2: I don't know this one you fight. I feel like
Speaker 2: this one just maybe go with it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not gonna You're not gonna be staring at it.
Speaker 2: It's not like he's asking for the cape and running
Speaker 2: up buildings and jumping from them, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: it's just wearing.
Speaker 7: Yes, this is how it starts.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I definitely answered my question.
Speaker 1: I mean, lay, Superman's cooler than Lord of the Ring.
Speaker 2: He's got a little personality here. He's having some fun.
Speaker 1: Lord of the Rings has like the script on there.
Speaker 2: What kind of wedding band is Robbie getting.
Speaker 8: Uh, we actually haven't talked about it, but I feel
Speaker 8: like he's probably gonna do a pretty simple like gold
Speaker 8: brushed band exactly.
Speaker 2: That he doesn't care.
Speaker 7: No, it doesn't care.
Speaker 2: But it's not that we don't care. When we say
Speaker 2: we don't care, it's like we don't mind, right, we
Speaker 2: don't want to cause a hassle. Don't mis understand the
Speaker 2: word care when we say it. Sometimes it's not that
Speaker 2: we don't have caring feelings for it. We don't care.
Speaker 8: Like I think we'll probably be able to pick it
Speaker 8: out within like thirty minutes.
Speaker 2: I think he wants the green lantern ring. To be
Speaker 2: honest with you, I think that's what he was trying
Speaker 2: to say, that he wants.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he'll pull an audible when you're at the store.
Speaker 7: No chance. He doesn't even know what the green lantern is.
Speaker 2: He doesn't know the green lantern. What doubts here is
Speaker 2: the hero of the green lantern?
Speaker 7: He has two boys? Of course he does. No, I
Speaker 7: don't think so.
Speaker 2: No toubs. Do you want to do those? Should I?
Speaker 2: It's about the Wi Fi routers and these are the
Speaker 2: top places. If you're noticing my WiFi is always slow,
Speaker 2: they're saying, check your router shouldn't be in these three
Speaker 2: spots tubs. Do you want to do the honors on it?
Speaker 3: I mean I just handed him the prep cheese, and
Speaker 3: you know he can if he wants to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he's going to do this on the fly.
Speaker 2: So cold read. Go ahead. So the first one, don't
Speaker 2: put your router where in the kitchen? And why because
Speaker 2: there's electrical devices, especially your microwave. It will interfere with
Speaker 2: your router signal.
Speaker 7: Makes sense?
Speaker 2: All right, that does makes sense.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't think of it firsthand.
Speaker 2: Well, that's the point like I'm always slow. What's the deal?
Speaker 2: So think about it? So the kitchen, what else we got?
Speaker 2: The attic, that's another bad one. You don't have to
Speaker 2: throw fluff in there, tubs.
Speaker 1: Just tell us about the do you you know what?
Speaker 7: Let's see your person.
Speaker 10: Well, the insulation and the ceiling and the dry wall.
Speaker 10: It causes interference. It's just not a good place to
Speaker 10: put it.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't think that either. I would think higher the better.
Speaker 2: Do you have drywall in an attic? I thought you
Speaker 2: had just the Yeah, like the fluffy stuff. Yeah, that's
Speaker 2: sometimes about drywall'll be closing up the walls. That's like
Speaker 2: a bonus room.
Speaker 1: That'd be great, all right, Tobs.
Speaker 2: What's the third one?
Speaker 10: Next to a window? It says you want to avoid
Speaker 10: direct sunlight. That I don't get, but that's what they say.
Speaker 7: Well overheating.
Speaker 3: You know, I guess the direct sunlight part because mine
Speaker 3: is kind of close to window.
Speaker 1: But it seems okay the heat.
Speaker 2: The ideal spot for your Wi Fi router is the
Speaker 2: ground floor century located. If you need to make the move,
Speaker 2: check it and see if that didn't speed things up?
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Speaker 2: We are in a world of wanting to create the
Speaker 2: most efficiencies as possible many times. I mean, it's a
Speaker 2: multitasking culture right right. Their exercise is that we can
Speaker 2: do while we're on the air, and you could do
Speaker 2: them at your desk. I remember when I brought in
Speaker 2: the dumbbells and in the commercial breaks, and I should
Speaker 2: do it again. We should the commercial breaks. I would
Speaker 2: do curls just to get a few extra reps in,
Speaker 2: right and be efficient with our time. Tonny, have you
Speaker 2: ever brought in any exercise equipment, any bands or anything
Speaker 2: like that while we're on the air. No, I have not,
Speaker 2: because I could sit like this with a band across
Speaker 2: my knees and press out and that would work my
Speaker 2: glutes while we're on the.
Speaker 3: I used to have bands when I did Middays the
Speaker 3: ten to three shift. I would have like a band
Speaker 3: in the studio that I would stretch. You would, yes,
Speaker 3: and I would do push ups, twenty push ups every
Speaker 3: top of the hour.
Speaker 2: And where would you do this? On the floor?
Speaker 1: On the floor, Yeah, you never a ball or anything
Speaker 1: like that. No ball push ups.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know the big ball. You put your
Speaker 2: toes on the the bigger one, that's the half on
Speaker 2: the ball. Then you do push up from there to
Speaker 2: keep your course straight. O. That's next challenger. Yeah. Well,
Speaker 2: guess who's opening a gym?
Speaker 1: Well, guess who's working out right now as we speak.
Speaker 2: You are, yeah, on your elliptical. Can you not tell?
Speaker 2: I cannot tell he's opening a gym. Under the counter.
Speaker 2: You're cycling yet, see.
Speaker 3: It very heavy? But yes, I'm pedaling right now. I
Speaker 3: guess we can post.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, there it is here.
Speaker 1: Let me actually I'll stop right now.
Speaker 2: So you have a peddler under the chair. There she
Speaker 2: is with the peddler.
Speaker 7: Yeah. It's like an elliptic slash bike.
Speaker 2: Wow, that's great.
Speaker 1: It's called cycle.
Speaker 2: It looks like one of those things you put your
Speaker 2: feet in for a massage, like the tub.
Speaker 7: No, it looks like an elliptical.
Speaker 1: Many elliptical.
Speaker 2: Well, just the bottom part, the feet part, right. Yeah,
Speaker 2: So what's the deal. You just do cardio while you're
Speaker 2: sitting here on the air.
Speaker 1: I brought it in for show and tell kind of today,
Speaker 1: just to show you.
Speaker 3: But I have it at my desk because after this,
Speaker 3: I go and I take a bunch of meetings and
Speaker 3: I'm here until like four or five o'clock some nights.
Speaker 3: And you can get if I like consistently am pedaling
Speaker 3: throughout the day.
Speaker 1: It has a tracker.
Speaker 3: It'll show me like the calories that I'm bringing, the
Speaker 3: amount of stride, like four hundred calories on average.
Speaker 2: That's what you want and you're not and you're just
Speaker 2: sitting there anyway, right.
Speaker 3: Exactly exactly sweat so you can if I'm wearing like
Speaker 3: a sweater. I've noticed like when I'm very warm, warmly dressed,
Speaker 3: I start sweating a little bit.
Speaker 2: That's the only issue I have with working out here
Speaker 2: or doing anything extra here is when we sweat because
Speaker 2: there's no shower.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's kind of like a sweat from the gym.
Speaker 1: It's just like a little like a little warm.
Speaker 2: But I listen, I advocate if you can do something
Speaker 2: at your desk or do something in between the songs, yere,
Speaker 2: why not?
Speaker 1: It's honestly the talk of the office.
Speaker 3: Everyone that walks by, they are they're like wow, They're
Speaker 3: like what is that?
Speaker 2: And they're all that's the first one I've ever seen
Speaker 2: what is it actually called.
Speaker 3: This one's called the Desk Cycle ellipse I got on Amazon,
Speaker 3: so check it out.
Speaker 2: So that's what it is.
Speaker 1: Not an ad for it either.
Speaker 2: That's what's under her desk a tony you anything under yours?
Speaker 7: Literally nothing. I I don't know why. I've never thought
Speaker 7: to work out when I'm at work, like, but she.
Speaker 2: Has these meetings all day. She's in that.
Speaker 8: But it's not even that. I don't think I can't
Speaker 8: focus on on task.
Speaker 2: I can't work.
Speaker 7: I can't do it at the same time.
Speaker 8: Like I just I know myself if I was peddling
Speaker 8: right now, I would not be able to focus on
Speaker 8: you too.
Speaker 2: Well, we don't. We want to focus and we love
Speaker 2: and we.
Speaker 1: Appreciate your focus.
Speaker 7: It's hard for me. I can't do it.
Speaker 2: If I'm kind of with Tanya like I do. Need
Speaker 2: to either focus on what I'm doing and it's working out,
Speaker 2: and you focus on working out.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 3: This isn't like substitute, This isn't like take you know,
Speaker 3: it's not all I do.
Speaker 2: Basically, are you doing right now? I'm trying to like
Speaker 2: gauge your breath.
Speaker 7: No right now?
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't doing now, right now.
Speaker 3: I did my whole podcast last week pedaling, and there
Speaker 3: was moments where I was out of breath.
Speaker 2: I don't think my feet could reach it from the chair.
Speaker 2: Can you adjust it these?
Speaker 1: Yeah, just your thing.
Speaker 3: I actually had to take to get new wheels from
Speaker 3: my chair in my office because I would would scoop
Speaker 3: me back like this when I was pedaling.
Speaker 1: So I got wheels that I can lock. It's like
Speaker 1: a whole operation over there.
Speaker 2: It's got the club on it.
Speaker 7: I imagine if if I were like doing squats right now,
Speaker 7: I could not I'd be like, goodbye.
Speaker 2: Well squats are like yeah, well, maybe we'll pass it
Speaker 2: around the elliptical here, Yeah, give it a try. Do
Speaker 2: you say I'm sorry a lot? I know, when uh,
Speaker 2: we're working and maybe you screw some up, you say
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, I'm sorry, can do it again? Or
Speaker 2: I'm sorry I didn't or i'm sorry running a few
Speaker 2: minutes later. We do use it a lot. But sisiny
Speaker 2: go ahead.
Speaker 3: So there's some alternative to some of the day to
Speaker 3: day things that you might be sorry or like, let's say,
Speaker 3: here's an alternative for sorry, I messed up. Thanks for
Speaker 3: the info. I'll be sure to get up to speed
Speaker 3: on that. I can't remember that, but it's just like
Speaker 3: always using the word thank you instead of I'm sorry
Speaker 3: is a good alternative in general.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's good. That's really, really really good.
Speaker 2: Thank you for the heads up, Thank you for the tip,
Speaker 2: Thank you for that good idea when you're trying.
Speaker 3: To get the attention of somebody, like the alternative for
Speaker 3: sorry to bother you. You know you always say sorry to
Speaker 3: bother you? Is now a good time for a quick question?
Speaker 2: You know? My mom always says still to this day,
Speaker 2: she calls says this first thing, say hello, She goes,
Speaker 2: did I catch you a bad time? That's good?
Speaker 1: That's literally what that's almost.
Speaker 2: The same thing that I catch you at a bad time. Well,
Speaker 2: the answer is yeah, if I answered the phone, this
Speaker 2: is a bad time.
Speaker 1: Well no, if you answer the phone, then you can
Speaker 1: talk to your mama.
Speaker 2: No, No, I shouldn't say to me said to your friends.
Speaker 1: Go okay.
Speaker 3: And this one I'm on the fence about because I
Speaker 3: feel like, if you're late, you should apologize, but you know,
Speaker 3: maybe you don't need to, so you could say thanks
Speaker 3: for waiting for me, I appreciate your patience.
Speaker 11: Oh i'd be like, bye, thanks for waiting for me.
Speaker 2: Sounds arrogant.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so this is some a TikToker named a power mood,
Speaker 3: and so this I just pulled these from some of those.
Speaker 2: But is it better to say I apologize versus I'm sorry?
Speaker 1: I think so. Like I think, if you're late, you
Speaker 1: say you're sorry.
Speaker 2: I be apologized for being tardy.
Speaker 7: I think so.
Speaker 2: I think so.
Speaker 3: But if you do the other thing, it kind of
Speaker 3: just acknowledges that you're taking up people's times, but it
Speaker 3: gives you the impression that you're on top of things.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, it depends. Maybe you don't want
Speaker 1: to say you're late to.
Speaker 3: Like your bosses like so it makes it look like you're,
Speaker 3: you know, not responsible.
Speaker 2: I think the first step for me would be just
Speaker 2: to stop saying I'm sorry a third of the time.
Speaker 2: I'm about to say it exactly and see where that
Speaker 2: takes me. Right, Yeah, everyone says to me, and I
Speaker 2: kind of wish I did do it early on in
Speaker 2: my life, right down journal, personal, professional. You know, it
Speaker 2: seemed like a laborious task and still to this day
Speaker 2: does seem that way. But I do, in hindsight wish
Speaker 2: I wrote a journal. Kept the journal throughout the last
Speaker 2: few decades of my life. Yeah, because you can't remember everything, Noah,
Speaker 2: and you go back and read it. It's it's good
Speaker 2: and they say it's really healthy too, right.
Speaker 3: It really is. I journaled ever since probably sixth grade.
Speaker 3: Those journals are not as juicy as the ones from
Speaker 3: high school in college. But even when I got into
Speaker 3: like my career, I journaled a little bit. I know
Speaker 3: I journaled the first time I filled in for Ellen
Speaker 3: k and.
Speaker 1: Worked with you.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I did.
Speaker 1: I remember coming home to.
Speaker 2: Read that I should find it.
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'd like to read what the experience was truly like.
Speaker 7: And then when I met Michael, I kind of stopped journaling.
Speaker 2: And I don't know if it was like, well, he
Speaker 2: sucks it on you, he just sucks a lot.
Speaker 3: Maybe it was that, but it was also I think
Speaker 3: I journaled to release like boy frustration, you know. I
Speaker 3: was just like sometimes I was just like, oh this guy,
Speaker 3: it's not working out with him, or we're breaking up
Speaker 3: at whatever. But it's like when I met Michael, we
Speaker 3: probably journaled for for a few.
Speaker 2: Entries and then I don't need to write this down.
Speaker 1: I don't need to yeah, but I kind of wish
Speaker 1: I still continued.
Speaker 2: So there's a journal feature on the iPhone, but what's
Speaker 2: the story?
Speaker 3: So you may have and I don't want to like
Speaker 3: call out my thea, but I feel like the older
Speaker 3: generation is kind of posting these scary alerts on Facebook
Speaker 3: or you might have seen it on Instagram even, but
Speaker 3: it's it's basically saying that if you have this thing
Speaker 3: toggled on your iPhone for journaling, then people around you
Speaker 3: can have access to all of your info and everyone.
Speaker 3: Of course, I was one of the first people to
Speaker 3: like panic and go in and see if my thing
Speaker 3: was toggled on, and sure enough it was.
Speaker 1: Then I turned it off.
Speaker 3: But then as I read more articles, fortunately it's nothing that.
Speaker 1: We actually have to worry about. What it is.
Speaker 3: It's this discoverable by others for the journaling app. So
Speaker 3: there's I don't know if you noticed that with a
Speaker 3: new iOS update maybe even this last few rounds, it
Speaker 3: added this journal app.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that because I don't I don't play
Speaker 2: with all the new toys. The only thing I notice
Speaker 2: my font is different.
Speaker 1: Yes exactly.
Speaker 3: So it sounds scary, but it's like nothing that we
Speaker 3: need to really be stressing over.
Speaker 1: It's just people around you if they want to.
Speaker 3: If you want to be discovered in order to like
Speaker 3: co journal with other people, then it would work. But
Speaker 3: if you want to still turn it off, it's in
Speaker 3: your settings.
Speaker 2: Out, you've got to go turn it off.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Privacy and Security section. You just go there and
Speaker 3: you toggle it off so that you're not searchable.
Speaker 1: Basically, hold on, let.
Speaker 2: Me see if I even have it? Which iOS am
Speaker 2: I on? Tops? Which iOS am I on?
Speaker 12: Do?
Speaker 6: You know?
Speaker 2: And you see?
Speaker 3: I have no idea, So go to your settings and
Speaker 3: then you down. No, I did that it was you know,
Speaker 3: it's a separate area. Go to Privacy and Security section.
Speaker 2: I don't have that, kay, okay, then what okay? So
Speaker 2: click on that I did.
Speaker 1: And then scroll down and then you'll see.
Speaker 3: Journaling, suggestions, suggestions and then right there discoverable.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so it's on, it's on, it's turning off
Speaker 2: right now, it's off there. Yeah, you guys could see
Speaker 2: my journals.
Speaker 3: It does not reveal your name or location or even
Speaker 3: anything like that to others nearby, but I.
Speaker 1: Still don't want it on.
Speaker 2: I also feel like, can the iOS keep things off
Speaker 2: until I turn them on?
Speaker 12: Right?
Speaker 7: Should turn them on?
Speaker 13: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Exactly for me?
Speaker 7: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 2: Uh? And is everyone's phone working equally as well as
Speaker 2: it always has because now there's a new phone out
Speaker 2: and that always stories stories that like now they glitch
Speaker 2: because there's a new phone that they wait to get.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, it happens.
Speaker 3: Your apps will start glitching or your battery doesn't battery.
Speaker 1: The whole day, and you know it's a conspiracy.
Speaker 2: Does anyone have the new phone, the new Apple phone?
Speaker 7: No, my old one is just on the fritz.
Speaker 2: I don't know. But apparently the camera's insane.
Speaker 1: They always are.
Speaker 2: My cameras a greasy.
Speaker 7: That's that's a user error.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but it's always greasy. I don't know. No
Speaker 2: matter how much I clean it, it's always greasy. You
Speaker 2: guys have greasy cameras in the back room. A greasy camera. No,
Speaker 2: I have a.
Speaker 3: Weird obsession with cleaning my lens before any pictures.
Speaker 8: You keep your phone in your kitchen while you're filming
Speaker 8: all your food stuff? You do have a thod or
Speaker 8: an octabudy.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not getting an octobudy.
Speaker 7: I sent you an octabudy that.
Speaker 2: You don't know, I don't know what an octabudy is.
Speaker 7: I sent you one to your house so that you
Speaker 7: could use it.
Speaker 1: Who knows where that thing is?
Speaker 2: Now? What's it called an octobudy? Probably sad the name
Speaker 2: and it was afraid. Yeah.
Speaker 8: It's like the thing that you put on the back
Speaker 8: of your phone and it's sticky and you can stick
Speaker 8: it to like your.
Speaker 2: Oct that's great. I can't find it.
Speaker 7: I got you a black one, like I really.
Speaker 2: It's it's in my kitchen drum. Going to look for it,
Speaker 2: all right, anyway, So turn off a journaling thing if
Speaker 2: you don't want people to read your stuff. Laura, good morning,
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 1: Good morning?
Speaker 13: Well?
Speaker 6: How are you?
Speaker 2: Hi, Laura, I'm super good, super charged for this. So
Speaker 2: you know, Tony's getting married, Ruby's getting married. Apparently collect
Speaker 2: may have gotten engaged. I forgot to check in and Laura,
Speaker 2: your fiance and you cannot agree on what, you know,
Speaker 2: I love.
Speaker 6: Him so much, but we just cannot agree on like
Speaker 6: the basic wedding details of how big our wedding is
Speaker 6: going to be. You know, I would really love, you know,
Speaker 6: all my family and friends to come celebrate us. And
Speaker 6: the more we talked about it. The more I realized
Speaker 6: he is he wants a small, intimate wedding, and it
Speaker 6: just that changes everything from where we have it to
Speaker 6: the you know, flowers, just like every detail. So we
Speaker 6: just can't get on the same page.
Speaker 2: So does this Does this symbolize a bigger, broader, greater
Speaker 2: issue in your dynamic relationship future?
Speaker 14: I didn't.
Speaker 3: I didn't.
Speaker 6: I don't know. I didn't think about it until this moment.
Speaker 6: I thought we were totally in sync, you know, the
Speaker 6: engagement was perfect, and so did it have this come
Speaker 6: up kind of at the last minute. I just I'm
Speaker 6: not sure what to make of it.
Speaker 3: Are you guys arguing about everything or is it just
Speaker 3: the guest list?
Speaker 6: No, it's just, yeah, like the big thing of like
Speaker 6: we can't even start arguing about this, you know, really
Speaker 6: the small stuff because we're still on square one of
Speaker 6: arguing about that. He wants, you know, a small intimate
Speaker 6: wedding just immediate family, and you know, I want something
Speaker 6: a little bit bigger than that. I'm saying a huge
Speaker 6: three hundred person wedding, but maybe one hundred people, you know,
Speaker 6: and we just can't get quite past that.
Speaker 2: So Tanya effect, this is most targeted to relate to
Speaker 2: you in the moment. What guidance do you have and
Speaker 2: what do you make of it?
Speaker 8: I think at the end of the day, it's all
Speaker 8: a compromise, you know. I think it's hard to completely
Speaker 8: agree with somebody one hundred percent all the time. And
Speaker 8: if you want a bigger wedding and he wants a
Speaker 8: smaller wedding, maybe you guys can get a number together
Speaker 8: and then kind of meet in the middle.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, so, or maybe the venue now that you're
Speaker 6: saying that, maybe like the venue can help us dictate,
Speaker 6: you know, he really wants something like out in the open,
Speaker 6: and so maybe that will help.
Speaker 8: Yeah, maybe you can find like the venue of his
Speaker 8: dreams and it can fit a lot of people and
Speaker 8: you can be like, oh my gosh, imagine all of
Speaker 8: our friends and family in this venue that you love
Speaker 8: so much.
Speaker 6: Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: Totally.
Speaker 2: So good luck with the compromise. That's kind of a
Speaker 2: key term here.
Speaker 3: It's not uncommon to be stressed and argued during this process.
Speaker 1: Just make sure he's the right one.
Speaker 2: Well, good luck, Laura. I know to me again, I
Speaker 2: don't want to be an alarmist, and I have no
Speaker 2: experience in these situations. But sometimes I think, is that
Speaker 2: the universe?
Speaker 1: It's extreme thinking to think that it shouldn't.
Speaker 2: Be the Is it pragmatic?
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be that difficult.
Speaker 3: And also they should have discussed this before they even
Speaker 3: got engaged, like what type of wedding would you own?
Speaker 7: But I think things change.
Speaker 8: I think things change after you get engaged because you
Speaker 8: realize how much money and time and effort you're putting
Speaker 8: into this. So it like exacerbates things because you start
Speaker 8: seeing numbers and you're like, Okay, if I'm going to
Speaker 8: spend this much money, I want it to be what
Speaker 8: I want it to be.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: It blisps sounds so exciting. So over the course of
Speaker 2: the years, we talked about a lot of scams, and
Speaker 2: they seem to be more and more prevalent. I know,
Speaker 2: my phone rings all the time with numbers that I
Speaker 2: just ignore. Places. Sometimes it's it looks like my number,
Speaker 2: other times it's places that I just don't I know,
Speaker 2: I don't know anybody in Cedar Falls or you know,
Speaker 2: whether it's coming in from Our.
Speaker 3: Phones are getting smarter though, because it does tell me
Speaker 3: this is a spam call, so I won't.
Speaker 1: Pick it up.
Speaker 2: Also, sometimes when I get emails from the staff here,
Speaker 2: it says you don't often get emails from this person.
Speaker 2: Do you have that?
Speaker 7: No, I don't have that at all.
Speaker 2: Mark, do you have that on your iPhone?
Speaker 11: Not?
Speaker 2: Have that?
Speaker 1: Wows a feature?
Speaker 2: That a feature in my leg it just it identifies
Speaker 2: as somebody doesn't normally email me. I've never seen that.
Speaker 1: Maybe those are actually legit scams.
Speaker 2: No, No, it's like people that we know. It's people
Speaker 2: that like I know, and not everyth email but not
Speaker 2: people I'd never email or talked to you. But it
Speaker 2: says you don't often see an email from this person anyway. Wow,
Speaker 2: Ciciny is in the middle. Have you heard she's caught
Speaker 2: up in the middle of a big scam? Right now?
Speaker 2: I am, yeah, and I looks legit.
Speaker 1: I'm a victim of beating scammed.
Speaker 2: But let's be clear about what has happened. Someone or somebody,
Speaker 2: people whatever are posing as you and trying to say
Speaker 2: that you can win cash.
Speaker 3: Right Siciny, Yes, So I actually got a DM on
Speaker 3: Instagram from one of our lovely listeners, Leslie, and she said, Hey,
Speaker 3: I just wanted to know if this is real or not.
Speaker 1: And so when I looked at the DM and checked everything.
Speaker 3: It was basically screenshots of a fake Siciny account on Facebook,
Speaker 3: and it had messaged her saying, Hey, Leslie, congratulations, you
Speaker 3: were selected as the winner of my event.
Speaker 1: Visit my profile now, thank you very much.
Speaker 2: But then it gets harry for it asks for a
Speaker 2: lot of different clicks and things, and you start, I mean,
Speaker 2: go through the list of what this scam's asking people
Speaker 2: to do.
Speaker 3: And they even took our like our picture, our picture
Speaker 3: of payer bills, and they put it in there that.
Speaker 2: They took actually the promo campaign photography with the logos
Speaker 2: and everything. I mean, it looks real, except all these
Speaker 2: things they want you.
Speaker 3: To do, right, They say, go my page, like my
Speaker 3: post register here, click on the link. Then you'll get
Speaker 3: a receipt, then you can comment, and then you do
Speaker 3: this and then you can win a thousand dollars of them.
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is oh my gosh, it's so lengthy
Speaker 3: and it's face.
Speaker 2: So did you okay, So if anybody got this from
Speaker 2: siciny show.
Speaker 1: Yeesh Sicity Show.
Speaker 3: That's the name of the account on Facebook. But it
Speaker 3: has all my pictures on there, and you go through
Speaker 3: it's it looks I get I can see how you
Speaker 3: could think that it's real.
Speaker 2: So did it go to a lot of people or
Speaker 2: fifty people?
Speaker 11: So far?
Speaker 3: Just one person reached out to me, but I have
Speaker 3: no idea who else it's gone to.
Speaker 1: So I kind of wanted to bring it up.
Speaker 3: And in case you guys see it, it don't take
Speaker 3: on anything. I've reported it. But my dad's Facebook got
Speaker 3: hacked and nothing.
Speaker 2: Told your dad about it. I haven't told my dad
Speaker 2: about it, No, I said, he reported to your father.
Speaker 3: No, But my poor dad his account got hacked like
Speaker 3: months ago and it was all bad.
Speaker 2: My mom's as well. Yeah, so all right, Well that
Speaker 2: the sisiny if you are seeing her one thousand dollars
Speaker 2: cash prize giveaway is a scam. We do pay your
Speaker 2: bills here on the air, and I'm authenticating this is us.
Speaker 2: This is not an AI voice. I want to grab
Speaker 2: Rachel here, who's been to hold for a second. Here's
Speaker 2: a Rachel. Good morning, Rachel. How are you doing?
Speaker 9: I'm good?
Speaker 15: Thanks?
Speaker 6: How are you great?
Speaker 2: So you're calling about a friend of yours who got
Speaker 2: cheated on? Yes, what happened? And how can we help?
Speaker 9: So my friend recently proposed to his boyfriend, but my
Speaker 9: friends and I are having a hard time feeling excited
Speaker 9: or happy for him because last year's boyfriend teated on
Speaker 9: him and it was.
Speaker 15: Devastating from friend because they've been dating for years and years,
Speaker 15: and after he found out about the cheating, he was heartbroken.
Speaker 15: My friend ended up mending things with his boyfriend and
Speaker 15: they've been together ever since.
Speaker 9: And now my friend proposed, So it was kind of shocking,
Speaker 9: and he didn't tell anyone he was going to do it,
Speaker 9: and he only sent us pictures after the proposal. In
Speaker 9: our group CHET, they're just trying to get us to celebrate,
Speaker 9: and we want to support our friend and be happy
Speaker 9: for him. But now that we know that fiance cheated
Speaker 9: orthing to be happy or support.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, so does he yeah, exactly, he knows that
Speaker 2: he was cheated on by the person he just proposed to. Yes, okay,
Speaker 2: so your friend, friend, your your pal. He went through it.
Speaker 2: He forgave his partner at the time, right, and they
Speaker 2: moved on and now he's proposed. I mean, look, you
Speaker 2: can't really be in their shoes. And if everybody knows
Speaker 2: about it and they made the choice to move past it,
Speaker 2: then that's their prerogative and it looks like they're trying
Speaker 2: to move on and celebrate hopefully a new chapter.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's hard of a friend to view your own
Speaker 9: their relationships differently, harder what happened.
Speaker 2: It'd be harder if you knew that his partner cheated,
Speaker 2: but he didn't know and he proposed. That would be
Speaker 2: a real twist. This one is their choice. They're in it,
Speaker 2: their relationship. They decided to move past it. What can
Speaker 2: we do.
Speaker 3: I know a couple that went through this and then
Speaker 3: ended up getting engaged and married and all that, and
Speaker 3: they seem very happy. But like if I was sitting
Speaker 3: in here dwelling on it, or that's going to take
Speaker 3: years off your life.
Speaker 2: Rachel, and you can't control it. They made a decision,
Speaker 2: so I think it embraced their happiness. If they're happy now, I.
Speaker 9: Agree, Okay, I guess that's their.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you very much. It wo'd be trickier. We've
Speaker 2: had the calls like that where the partner didn't know
Speaker 2: and there was a proposal and the friends saying, hey,
Speaker 2: I have some information, do I tell.
Speaker 16: Ya?
Speaker 2: Horrible? You just never know what anybody's going through. And
Speaker 2: if they decide that they can make it work. And
Speaker 2: they want to try again start over. Then, yeah, that's
Speaker 2: their decision.
Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: Let's get to some of these talkbacks. You know, you
Speaker 2: can go inside the free i HET radio app. It's
Speaker 2: a great way to listen to the show and not
Speaker 2: miss anything if you're on the go and send us
Speaker 2: a talkback message with the microphone, the red microphone that's
Speaker 2: inside the page we got. Then these are gonna be
Speaker 2: all over the map. I think let's start with this one.
Speaker 2: Last week, we had a hack that hotel lobbies are
Speaker 2: the best place to use the bathroom when you're on
Speaker 2: a road trip. Susie and Santa Monica actually tried this.
Speaker 2: Here's Susie time. I used the.
Speaker 16: Bathroom at a hotel lobby and I felt so guilty
Speaker 16: about it that I pretended like I was there to
Speaker 16: look at their wedding venue. And then they ended up
Speaker 16: sending me home with like ten packets of information about
Speaker 16: the and it wasn't even engaged for dating anybody.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they got to play out the charade, right. Let's
Speaker 2: see Kelly and Orange County knows why avocados sometimes taste buttery.
Speaker 2: I've talked about avocado. Sometimes I get an avocado. Get
Speaker 2: very excited about my Avocado's got no avocado flavor. It's done.
Speaker 2: It's just it's cream but cream of air, but cream
Speaker 2: of not air. Could but it's no flavor.
Speaker 10: Good morning.
Speaker 4: You were mentioning the buttery flavor on avocados.
Speaker 5: A lot of them have to do with grown.
Speaker 4: Versus getting produced.
Speaker 5: Veggies and fruit as a store.
Speaker 10: So that buttery flavor.
Speaker 15: You will get that if you.
Speaker 4: Have homegrown avocados, But if you've gotten them in the store,
Speaker 4: not so much.
Speaker 2: No, I don't have an avocado tree, so I get one.
Speaker 1: I think that checks out.
Speaker 3: My parents avocados are like the creamiest buttery.
Speaker 2: And they and they're green and they get that real flavor.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you for that. This is Natalie here.
Speaker 2: We also talked about someone dating their ex'es mom. We
Speaker 2: asked if that really happens. Remember that story you did, Tanya?
Speaker 7: Yeah, no one cyrus.
Speaker 2: So here's what she said.
Speaker 13: Now, guys, I just want to say, I've been listening
Speaker 13: to you guys for twenty years.
Speaker 16: I love you.
Speaker 13: About that thing. They're saying if a guy has dated
Speaker 13: his exes mom. Unfortunately that kind of happened to me.
Speaker 13: But if we weren't together, me and him, and he
Speaker 13: was my age. And then I caught him with my
Speaker 13: mom and really really destroyed our relationship. And then he
Speaker 13: left her. Of course.
Speaker 2: Wow, so they were together and then he hooked up
Speaker 2: with her mom. Well, Natalie, thank you for calling. I
Speaker 2: can understand how that would damage some relationships.
Speaker 1: Wow, coming back from that, All right, let's go.
Speaker 2: Now, let's just wrap it up here with Tony. So, Tony,
Speaker 2: he's back. This is the guy that reached out to
Speaker 2: Tubbs it wants to get on the jiu jitsu mat
Speaker 2: with him. Would you call it roll around or someth
Speaker 2: would you say, yep? Roll around? All right, Well he's back.
Speaker 2: He's not taking no for an answer, and I think
Speaker 2: he's on his way out here. Let's see, this is
Speaker 2: Tony from Virginia wants to book a trip to go
Speaker 2: play jiu jitsu with Tubs.
Speaker 12: Tony from Virginia Beach, Ryan, Bro, you should absolutely go
Speaker 12: with Tubs to a jiu jitsu class and try it out.
Speaker 12: I'm telling you you'll be hooked, not heel hooked, just don't.
Speaker 2: You'll love it.
Speaker 12: It's a workout you're not used to, and you'll just
Speaker 12: you'll be exhausted.
Speaker 2: He sounds like bigger than I am, for sure, and
Speaker 2: stronger than I am for sure.
Speaker 1: What is st hooked?
Speaker 2: Yeah? What is that?
Speaker 1: You started cracking up?
Speaker 2: You really got it.
Speaker 10: There's a little insider pun there. He'l hook is a
Speaker 10: type of submission where you're basically just trying to break
Speaker 10: the person's knee.
Speaker 2: This is like a It's a serious discipline, right, I
Speaker 2: mean it's very hard. I've actually been to some places
Speaker 2: where people are doing this, and it's really the amount
Speaker 2: of energy that you exert, right, I mean it's really
Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah. Yeah, it's crazy. It's like.
Speaker 10: I just did a trial and I got hooked. As
Speaker 10: Tony said, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Knowed his girlfriend. Do they have a Matt in the garage?
Speaker 2: We thank you for those talkback all right, very excited.
Speaker 2: Let me grab Sam and send Gabriel before anything else. Sam,
Speaker 2: good morning morning Ryan. How can we help you? It
Speaker 2: sounds not good?
Speaker 14: Yeah, I just I don't really know what to do
Speaker 14: about this situation. I'm kind of freaked out about the
Speaker 14: whole thing. I don't know, but my few the future
Speaker 14: father in law meant by it. But I recently asked
Speaker 14: my girlfriend's parents if it was okay with them, if
Speaker 14: I know, proposed and eventually got married. But when I did,
Speaker 14: my future father in law kind of looked at me
Speaker 14: and said, well, I don't know why you'd want to
Speaker 14: do that, but good luck.
Speaker 2: Well that's you know, discouraging.
Speaker 14: It was just kind of it was just a little jar.
Speaker 14: It seemed it seemed pretty serious. I don't know, marriage,
Speaker 14: no comment.
Speaker 2: Because maybe he's referring to like I made this mistake.
Speaker 7: However, it is harsh.
Speaker 2: It's harsh, it's not little like I'm discouraged by it,
Speaker 2: and it makes me think, well, they don't like me.
Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean we've we've been dating for a few years,
Speaker 14: so I thought we got along or maybe yeah, maybe he.
Speaker 3: Just wants to make sure that you're really serious about
Speaker 3: it and going to go the distance.
Speaker 14: Hopefully that's it. I mean I am pretty serious. I
Speaker 14: love her a lot, but just the way he said it, like, yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't love it. Have you talked to your girlfriend
Speaker 2: about it?
Speaker 14: Yeah? We talked about it.
Speaker 2: And what did she say?
Speaker 5: You know?
Speaker 14: She she is just as confused and as I am was.
Speaker 14: She was weirded out when I told her about it.
Speaker 3: I think she should just have a conversation with him separately,
Speaker 3: then maybe she can get to the bottom of it
Speaker 3: if there's something deeper.
Speaker 2: But I also feel like you may never win them over.
Speaker 1: Oh I don't think that.
Speaker 13: Well.
Speaker 2: I mean, this guy sounds like he's got an issue.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's about him though.
Speaker 7: I don't think so either.
Speaker 2: Well, maybe it's because he's not happy in his own
Speaker 2: I don't know, but Sam, I guess well, he.
Speaker 3: Could have just panicked too, Like dads just sometimes don't
Speaker 3: know what to say. Like when Michael asked for my
Speaker 3: dad's hand in marriage. My dad was like great and everything,
Speaker 3: but then he's like, you know, Mike.
Speaker 2: Asked for your dad's hand.
Speaker 3: In, Man, I'm sorry for my hand in.
Speaker 2: That's a twist.
Speaker 3: But he basically told Michael, you know, Sisani's really tough,
Speaker 3: like almost like trying to scare Michael off.
Speaker 2: He still came back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, uh, you know, maybe he just didn't really know
Speaker 1: how to put his words together.
Speaker 2: I think you're doing the elegant, very gentleman thing, which
Speaker 2: is going this path, and if you hit a dead end,
Speaker 2: you still love her, then you do you need to
Speaker 2: do for your heart? Buddy.
Speaker 14: I think you're right. Yeah, Oh good luck man.
Speaker 2: All right, you can mit in there, take care of that, Thank.
Speaker 14: You, thank you, good bye.
Speaker 2: I'd be I mean, I kind of would know going
Speaker 2: in right what the parents might feel or think and
Speaker 2: just go for it. But it would also be really disheartening, discouraging.
Speaker 8: I mean, at least he didn't say no, yeah, and
Speaker 8: it sounds like he's projecting like he's like not happily married,
Speaker 8: and he's.
Speaker 2: Like oh, and then I turn it and say, well, listen, sir,
Speaker 2: I mean, do you want to talk? Yeah, do you
Speaker 2: want to talk about what's going on here with you
Speaker 2: and the missus? Because if you're this cynical about our
Speaker 2: love and ours is young love hoping for a big future.
Speaker 2: If you're saying about it, let's talk about what you're
Speaker 2: projecting here. Sit down here? What can I buy you?
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