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Speaker 1: From Hollywood.

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Speaker 2: See you, Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 3: Ryan Air Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: Jessica and Bell Guards. Good morning, Jessica, How are you

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Speaker 2: doing good?

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Speaker 4: How are you guys doing great?

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Speaker 2: Well? You seem to be talking about what we've been

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Speaker 2: talking about a lot here, and that is invitations to weddings.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Tanya's getting married, She's trying to figure out

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Speaker 2: the guest list. Ruby is getting marriage. She's putting together

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Speaker 2: her guest list. Ty's trying to fit where to have

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Speaker 2: the wedding, and we're all just sort of waiting to

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Speaker 2: get that save the date. We haven't gotten it yet.

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Speaker 2: And Jessica, you were also invited to Tanya's wedding.

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Speaker 5: No, well not yet.

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Speaker 4: No, okay, div wedding.

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Speaker 2: You're invited to your wedding?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I was invited. It's actually my best friend

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Speaker 5: in the world's wedding. She's getting married and it's super exciting, obviously,

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Speaker 5: and she's getting married in Switzerland.

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Speaker 6: Her and her.

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Speaker 5: Fiance decided her fiancees from Switzerland, so they're getting married

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Speaker 5: there and it's great. And she asked me to be

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Speaker 5: the maid of honor and asked my two daughters to

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Speaker 5: be her flower girls, which is lovely, but she asked about,

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Speaker 5: you know, us being in the wedding. Prior to knowing

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Speaker 5: it was a destination wedding, my husband and I have been,

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Speaker 5: you know, going over the logistics of it, and it

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Speaker 5: just doesn't seem feasible to bring our daughters. First of all,

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Speaker 5: it's just so expensive, and then we have to bring

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Speaker 5: a parent, most likely one of our parents, to watch

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Speaker 5: them all the events that are going on for the wedding,

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Speaker 5: and so honestly, we're like kind of coming to the

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Speaker 5: conclusion that we're not quite care we can swing bringing them.

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Speaker 6: So I did bring it up.

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Speaker 5: To her, and she, you know, was a little she

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Speaker 5: was she was sad and like, I can't imagine having

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Speaker 5: my wedding without them being there. And we kind of

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Speaker 5: left it at that, and I'm like in between an

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Speaker 5: in a hard place. Now. Of course, I'm not quite

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Speaker 5: sure what to do or how to bring it up

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Speaker 5: to her again, but I just don't think we can

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Speaker 5: swing it.

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Speaker 1: How old are your daughters?

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Speaker 7: A weird reaction.

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Speaker 4: I know they're sick and too.

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Speaker 2: What does one expect when they invite one to go

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Speaker 2: to a wedding in Switzerland. I live in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 2: For I almost feel like you invite people to those

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Speaker 2: kinds of places because you don't want everyone to come right.

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Speaker 8: And if you if you say I can't afford to

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Speaker 8: bring my kids, and she should just say, I Sam, yeah.

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Speaker 2: We made it inconvenient that we're marrying in.

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Speaker 3: Switzerland, exactly like she's trying to make you feel guilty

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Speaker 3: for something.

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Speaker 2: Lot of reactions cost.

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Speaker 1: You thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars.

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Speaker 5: Yes, And I did not love the reaction either. And obviously,

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Speaker 5: of course I'm still going and my husband and I'm

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Speaker 5: going to the maid of honor and.

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Speaker 9: I'm so excited about that.

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Speaker 5: And I really didn't think I would get I would

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Speaker 5: have gotten the reaction I did from her, like I

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Speaker 5: really am liked it.

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Speaker 2: So your reality is your reality. You need to move

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Speaker 2: forward with what it is and go be the friend

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Speaker 2: that you're going to be, and you know, fill that

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Speaker 2: role and don't worry about it anymore.

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Speaker 8: Maybe you can have your daughters give sent her like

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Speaker 8: a video message on the day of her wedding.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't understanding. Maybe she's just stressed that all this

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Speaker 2: is happening. But I think she'll understand.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think she had this vision in her head

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Speaker 3: of having your daughters be the flower Girls, and now

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Speaker 3: she's like spiraling, like, wait, I'm not going to have

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Speaker 3: flower girls.

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Speaker 2: Book for the wed with you.

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Speaker 1: I'm with you.

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Speaker 3: She's making it very inconvenient for you to do the

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Speaker 3: right thing here.

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Speaker 2: All right, good luck the weddings. They don't come without pressure,

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Speaker 2: stress from all points and parties. Thank you very much. So, Tanya,

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Speaker 2: if you're going to be you know, booking burn Switzerland,

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Speaker 2: ceremony on a bridge or something, let us know sooner than.

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Speaker 8: You do stuff like that and a grid of edge

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Speaker 8: of the cliff of a mountain. A friend of mine

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Speaker 8: is getting married in Amsterdam and she had the same thing.

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Speaker 8: She's like, we invited people, but we understand that, like

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Speaker 8: the majority of people can't make.

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Speaker 2: When you do something like that, you know a lot

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Speaker 2: of people can't do you almost you probably over invite

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Speaker 2: because you know some people can't come. Right. So, all right,

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Speaker 2: weddings and the stress of them. Let's see here, Tanya,

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Speaker 2: what happened. You bought something online and you accidentally shifted

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Speaker 2: to the wrong address. Did it go to anybody you know?

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Speaker 8: No, that's the problem, So I have it I bought.

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Speaker 8: I guess I haven't gone to this website. I haven't

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Speaker 8: bought something on this website in a very long time. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: but I went online. I ordered this pot for a

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Speaker 8: plant in our living room, like a big pot, big

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Speaker 8: heavy pot, and I checked out, didn't even think I had,

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Speaker 8: you know, my credit card information in there. Checked out, boom, Great,

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Speaker 8: got an update when your base is going to be delivered?

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Speaker 7: Great, didn't even think about it.

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Speaker 8: So then you know, it says like your base is

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Speaker 8: on its way blah blah bl So after it got delivered,

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Speaker 8: I realized I looked outside our front door and there

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Speaker 8: was no box. I checked the email and it was

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Speaker 8: sent to my parents' old address in Rossmore, and they

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Speaker 8: sold that house last year, so it's not even like

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Speaker 8: my parents lived there anymore.

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Speaker 7: It's I don't even.

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Speaker 2: Know when this pot that is free living arrives. And

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Speaker 2: the people didn't order the pot, don't they send the

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Speaker 2: pot back?

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Speaker 7: So I tried calling.

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Speaker 8: I tried calling the company that I bought it from,

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Speaker 8: and then they were like, oh, once it's out shipping,

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Speaker 8: we can't do anything about it. So then I called

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Speaker 8: the shipping company, but they were like it was already delivered,

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Speaker 8: and that was that was basically it.

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Speaker 7: I don't know these people, and so I basically I

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Speaker 7: know what I said.

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Speaker 8: I basically was just like I'm just gonna give them

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Speaker 8: this pot, Like I guess that's oh, you're.

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Speaker 2: Going to get this pot to pay it forward, right,

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Speaker 2: like the need that maybe there's a couple of having

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Speaker 2: a really big fight and they need a pot. I

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Speaker 2: would just drive.

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Speaker 1: Down there in the days delivered and be like, this

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Speaker 1: is my pot.

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Speaker 8: So my mom goes, you need to go to the house,

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Speaker 8: knock on the door and get your pot back. And

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Speaker 8: so Robbie and I are thinking about driving down the

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Speaker 8: rock knocking on the door and asking for her giant O.

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Speaker 2: If you just joined us and you heard Tanya say

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Speaker 2: that she's speaking of her living room po face. She

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Speaker 7: No, no, no, yes.

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Speaker 3: By the way, Tony, this has happened to me multiple times

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Speaker 3: with my previous home that we just moved out of

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Speaker 3: in September, and there's been a few instances like same

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Speaker 3: thing like pottery barn. I forgot that it was the

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Speaker 3: old address, like whatever, I've ordered stuff and then I

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Speaker 3: just go over there and knock on the door.

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Speaker 7: She's so nice. She's that lady.

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Speaker 3: She's let us in and like showed us the house

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Speaker 3: and the updates that she's done.

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Speaker 1: Really like you know her.

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Speaker 7: I don't know these people. I know them, I don't

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Speaker 2: She's very nice. Stores and forward. That's good on them,

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Speaker 2: And be a little bit more careful when you choose

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Speaker 2: the address. I think I was on the hold activating

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Speaker 2: her credit card the other day, really enjoying the awful

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Speaker 2: music they play. You ever had that happened.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about enjoying it, but I just deal

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Speaker 2: No matter what I'm trying to activate or deal, nothing

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Speaker 2: the card ever. So I got to wait for the person.

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Speaker 2: And as I was waiting for the person, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: this music is so bad. I love it, the whole

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Speaker 2: music the bank holds. We should be like programming bank

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Speaker 2: holding music does Oh it was heard. I was off

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Speaker 2: for so long. I enjoyed the loop. Yeah, Selena Montebello,

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Speaker 2: thank you for listening to us this morning. How can

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Speaker 2: we help you?

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Speaker 4: Yes, well, thanks, I'm getting married this summer.

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Speaker 2: This is everybody's getting married.

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Speaker 7: I'm telling you my algorithm is all bridle.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because you're shopping for bridle stuff.

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Speaker 7: No, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: You're looking at it.

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Speaker 7: My phone's listening, Selene.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead. What happened.

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Speaker 4: Well, so we've been looking at wedding bands for him,

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Speaker 4: and like the whole time he's just been telling me

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Speaker 4: like whatever, I don't care, Like they're.

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Speaker 2: All fine wedding bands, performance bands.

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Speaker 4: No great, like his ring, his ring, I got it

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Speaker 4: his ring, And it's it's frustrating to hear that, like

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Speaker 4: he doesn't care, you know, like they're all fine because

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Speaker 4: like he's gonna wear.

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Speaker 1: It the rest of his life.

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Speaker 4: Right, So I guess some of a friend of his

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Speaker 4: sent him like a website called, I don't know, like

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Speaker 4: man bands or something. So now he wants to Superman

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Speaker 4: wedding band.

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Speaker 2: Does it have the S on it red and blue?

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Speaker 4: Or yes, he does have the S on it, but

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Speaker 4: the S is in the inside, which like it's not

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Speaker 4: the worst thing.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know, I've heard of this company.

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Speaker 2: What is it? What they do? Superhero wedding Man's.

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Speaker 1: They do like wedding bands for men.

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Speaker 3: They cater to the men that if you can you

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Speaker 3: want different type of designs, like not necessarily like the traditional.

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Speaker 2: It's like a brushed gray with a blue stripe around

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Speaker 2: and the s's on the inside. Is that the one?

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Speaker 2: And so here's the thing I mean, is he a

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Speaker 2: Superman fan? Is he just having some fun?

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, but I don't know. It just feels

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Speaker 4: a little childish to me.

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Speaker 2: This is the man you married, This is the guy

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Speaker 2: you married, I know married. No, No, it's a Superman ring.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of mummy.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing, Slean. I do understand what he means

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Speaker 2: when he says he doesn't care, because I wouldn't either.

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Speaker 2: And it's not that I don't care, but I would

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Speaker 2: tell you I don't care because it's like just something simple,

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Speaker 2: something easy. That's what I think I would mean when

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Speaker 2: I say I don't care what you think.

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Speaker 3: And until you start trying all of them on, because

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Speaker 3: the same time he's like.

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Speaker 1: I want it to be simple.

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Speaker 3: Whatever, I don't want to know it's there, And this

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Speaker 3: guy walks out of the store with like a nine

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Speaker 3: princess cut diamonds on his band and it's not simple.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's your mind changes, is my point. As soon

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Speaker 1: as you start trying them on Selene.

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Speaker 2: I don't know this one you fight. I feel like

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Speaker 7: No chance. He doesn't even know what the green lantern is.

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Speaker 7: Let's see your person.

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Speaker 10: Well, the insulation and the ceiling and the dry wall.

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Speaker 2: Do you have drywall in an attic? I thought you

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Speaker 2: right and be efficient with our time. Tonny, have you

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Speaker 3: in the studio that I would stretch. You would, yes,

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Speaker 1: Well, guess who's working out right now as we speak.

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Speaker 2: You are, yeah, on your elliptical. Can you not tell?

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Speaker 2: I cannot tell he's opening a gym. Under the counter.

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Speaker 2: You're cycling yet, see.

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Speaker 3: It very heavy? But yes, I'm pedaling right now. I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, there it is here.

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Speaker 2: So you have a peddler under the chair. There she

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's great.

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Speaker 1: It's called cycle.

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Speaker 7: No, it looks like an elliptical.

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Speaker 3: It'll show me like the calories that I'm bringing, the

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Speaker 3: Exactly exactly sweat so you can if I'm wearing like

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Speaker 1: It's just like a little like a little warm.

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Speaker 2: But I listen, I advocate if you can do something

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Speaker 2: why not?

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Speaker 1: It's honestly the talk of the office.

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Speaker 3: This one's called the Desk Cycle ellipse I got on Amazon,

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Speaker 3: so check it out.

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Speaker 2: So that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: Not an ad for it either.

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Speaker 2: That's what's under her desk a tony you anything under yours?

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Speaker 7: Literally nothing. I I don't know why. I've never thought

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Speaker 7: to work out when I'm at work, like, but she.

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Speaker 8: But it's not even that. I don't think I can't

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Speaker 7: I can't do it at the same time.

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Speaker 8: Like I just I know myself if I was peddling

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Speaker 8: right now, I would not be able to focus on

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Speaker 2: Well, we don't. We want to focus and we love

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Speaker 2: and we.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate your focus.

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Speaker 7: It's hard for me. I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: If I'm kind of with Tanya like I do. Need

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Speaker 2: and you focus on working out.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: This isn't like substitute, This isn't like take you know,

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Speaker 3: it's not all I do.

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Speaker 2: Basically, are you doing right now? I'm trying to like

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Speaker 2: gauge your breath.

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Speaker 7: No right now?

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Speaker 1: No, I wasn't doing now, right now.

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Speaker 3: I did my whole podcast last week pedaling, and there

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Speaker 2: I don't think my feet could reach it from the chair.

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Speaker 2: Can you adjust it these?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just your thing.

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Speaker 3: I actually had to take to get new wheels from

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Speaker 1: So I got wheels that I can lock. It's like

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Speaker 1: a whole operation over there.

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Speaker 2: Well squats are like yeah, well, maybe we'll pass it

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Speaker 2: around the elliptical here, Yeah, give it a try. Do

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Speaker 3: So there's some alternative to some of the day to

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Speaker 3: day things that you might be sorry or like, let's say,

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Speaker 3: here's an alternative for sorry, I messed up. Thanks for

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Speaker 3: the info. I'll be sure to get up to speed

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Speaker 3: always using the word thank you instead of I'm sorry

448
00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:23,199
Speaker 3: is a good alternative in general.

449
00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's good. That's really, really really good.

450
00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,240
Speaker 2: Thank you for the heads up, Thank you for the tip,

451
00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:30,119
Speaker 2: Thank you for that good idea when you're trying.

452
00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,760
Speaker 3: To get the attention of somebody, like the alternative for

453
00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,000
Speaker 3: sorry to bother you. You know you always say sorry to

454
00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:39,159
Speaker 3: bother you? Is now a good time for a quick question?

455
00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,960
Speaker 2: You know? My mom always says still to this day,

456
00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:45,120
Speaker 2: she calls says this first thing, say hello, She goes,

457
00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,120
Speaker 2: did I catch you a bad time? That's good?

458
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:48,920
Speaker 1: That's literally what that's almost.

459
00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,920
Speaker 2: The same thing that I catch you at a bad time. Well,

460
00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,440
Speaker 2: the answer is yeah, if I answered the phone, this

461
00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:53,040
Speaker 2: is a bad time.

462
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,760
Speaker 1: Well no, if you answer the phone, then you can

463
00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:56,600
Speaker 1: talk to your mama.

464
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:58,400
Speaker 2: No, No, I shouldn't say to me said to your friends.

465
00:19:58,440 --> 00:19:59,119
Speaker 1: Go okay.

466
00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:01,959
Speaker 3: And this one I'm on the fence about because I

467
00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:05,320
Speaker 3: feel like, if you're late, you should apologize, but you know,

468
00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,480
Speaker 3: maybe you don't need to, so you could say thanks

469
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 3: for waiting for me, I appreciate your patience.

470
00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 11: Oh i'd be like, bye, thanks for waiting for me.

471
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:15,520
Speaker 2: Sounds arrogant.

472
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, so this is some a TikToker named a power mood,

473
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 3: and so this I just pulled these from some of those.

474
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 2: But is it better to say I apologize versus I'm sorry?

475
00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 1: I think so. Like I think, if you're late, you

476
00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:26,440
Speaker 1: say you're sorry.

477
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:28,480
Speaker 2: I be apologized for being tardy.

478
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 7: I think so.

479
00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:30,040
Speaker 2: I think so.

480
00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:32,040
Speaker 3: But if you do the other thing, it kind of

481
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,679
Speaker 3: just acknowledges that you're taking up people's times, but it

482
00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 3: gives you the impression that you're on top of things.

483
00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,040
Speaker 1: So I don't know, it depends. Maybe you don't want

484
00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:39,920
Speaker 1: to say you're late to.

485
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,720
Speaker 3: Like your bosses like so it makes it look like you're,

486
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 3: you know, not responsible.

487
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,760
Speaker 2: I think the first step for me would be just

488
00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,680
Speaker 2: to stop saying I'm sorry a third of the time.

489
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,679
Speaker 2: I'm about to say it exactly and see where that

490
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:56,480
Speaker 2: takes me. Right, Yeah, everyone says to me, and I

491
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:58,600
Speaker 2: kind of wish I did do it early on in

492
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 2: my life, right down journal, personal, professional. You know, it

493
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:08,080
Speaker 2: seemed like a laborious task and still to this day

494
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 2: does seem that way. But I do, in hindsight wish

495
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 2: I wrote a journal. Kept the journal throughout the last

496
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:20,199
Speaker 2: few decades of my life. Yeah, because you can't remember everything, Noah,

497
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,120
Speaker 2: and you go back and read it. It's it's good

498
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:24,640
Speaker 2: and they say it's really healthy too, right.

499
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 3: It really is. I journaled ever since probably sixth grade.

500
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 3: Those journals are not as juicy as the ones from

501
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 3: high school in college. But even when I got into

502
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,119
Speaker 3: like my career, I journaled a little bit. I know

503
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 3: I journaled the first time I filled in for Ellen

504
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:38,640
Speaker 3: k and.

505
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:39,119
Speaker 1: Worked with you.

506
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I did.

507
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 1: I remember coming home to.

508
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 2: Read that I should find it.

509
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 1: Huh.

510
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'd like to read what the experience was truly like.

511
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 7: And then when I met Michael, I kind of stopped journaling.

512
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 2: And I don't know if it was like, well, he

513
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 2: sucks it on you, he just sucks a lot.

514
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,639
Speaker 3: Maybe it was that, but it was also I think

515
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:59,719
Speaker 3: I journaled to release like boy frustration, you know. I

516
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,120
Speaker 3: was just like sometimes I was just like, oh this guy,

517
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 3: it's not working out with him, or we're breaking up

518
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 3: at whatever. But it's like when I met Michael, we

519
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 3: probably journaled for for a few.

520
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,360
Speaker 2: Entries and then I don't need to write this down.

521
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,160
Speaker 1: I don't need to yeah, but I kind of wish

522
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: I still continued.

523
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: So there's a journal feature on the iPhone, but what's

524
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 2: the story?

525
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:17,639
Speaker 3: So you may have and I don't want to like

526
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 3: call out my thea, but I feel like the older

527
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 3: generation is kind of posting these scary alerts on Facebook

528
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 3: or you might have seen it on Instagram even, but

529
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 3: it's it's basically saying that if you have this thing

530
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:32,440
Speaker 3: toggled on your iPhone for journaling, then people around you

531
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 3: can have access to all of your info and everyone.

532
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 3: Of course, I was one of the first people to

533
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 3: like panic and go in and see if my thing

534
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 3: was toggled on, and sure enough it was.

535
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 1: Then I turned it off.

536
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 3: But then as I read more articles, fortunately it's nothing that.

537
00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:50,120
Speaker 1: We actually have to worry about. What it is.

538
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 3: It's this discoverable by others for the journaling app. So

539
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 3: there's I don't know if you noticed that with a

540
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 3: new iOS update maybe even this last few rounds, it

541
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:00,639
Speaker 3: added this journal app.

542
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 2: I didn't know that because I don't I don't play

543
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 2: with all the new toys. The only thing I notice

544
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: my font is different.

545
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:08,640
Speaker 1: Yes exactly.

546
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,439
Speaker 3: So it sounds scary, but it's like nothing that we

547
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 3: need to really be stressing over.

548
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 1: It's just people around you if they want to.

549
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 3: If you want to be discovered in order to like

550
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 3: co journal with other people, then it would work. But

551
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 3: if you want to still turn it off, it's in

552
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,440
Speaker 3: your settings.

553
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 2: Out, you've got to go turn it off.

554
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, Privacy and Security section. You just go there and

555
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 3: you toggle it off so that you're not searchable.

556
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 1: Basically, hold on, let.

557
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,639
Speaker 2: Me see if I even have it? Which iOS am

558
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: I on? Tops? Which iOS am I on?

559
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 12: Do?

560
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 6: You know?

561
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 2: And you see?

562
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 3: I have no idea, So go to your settings and

563
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 3: then you down. No, I did that it was you know,

564
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 3: it's a separate area. Go to Privacy and Security section.

565
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 2: I don't have that, kay, okay, then what okay? So

566
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 2: click on that I did.

567
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: And then scroll down and then you'll see.

568
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 3: Journaling, suggestions, suggestions and then right there discoverable.

569
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:02,719
Speaker 2: But yeah, so it's on, it's on, it's turning off

570
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 2: right now, it's off there. Yeah, you guys could see

571
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 2: my journals.

572
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 3: It does not reveal your name or location or even

573
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,880
Speaker 3: anything like that to others nearby, but I.

574
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: Still don't want it on.

575
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,640
Speaker 2: I also feel like, can the iOS keep things off

576
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: until I turn them on?

577
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 12: Right?

578
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 7: Should turn them on?

579
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 13: Yeah?

580
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 2: Exactly for me?

581
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 7: Yeah exactly.

582
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 2: Uh? And is everyone's phone working equally as well as

583
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 2: it always has because now there's a new phone out

584
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 2: and that always stories stories that like now they glitch

585
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 2: because there's a new phone that they wait to get.

586
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, it happens.

587
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 3: Your apps will start glitching or your battery doesn't battery.

588
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 1: The whole day, and you know it's a conspiracy.

589
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 2: Does anyone have the new phone, the new Apple phone?

590
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 7: No, my old one is just on the fritz.

591
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 2: I don't know. But apparently the camera's insane.

592
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:58,360
Speaker 1: They always are.

593
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 2: My cameras a greasy.

594
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 7: That's that's a user error.

595
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but it's always greasy. I don't know. No

596
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 2: matter how much I clean it, it's always greasy. You

597
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 2: guys have greasy cameras in the back room. A greasy camera. No,

598
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 2: I have a.

599
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 3: Weird obsession with cleaning my lens before any pictures.

600
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 8: You keep your phone in your kitchen while you're filming

601
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 8: all your food stuff? You do have a thod or

602
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 8: an octabudy.

603
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not getting an octobudy.

604
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 7: I sent you an octabudy that.

605
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 2: You don't know, I don't know what an octabudy is.

606
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 7: I sent you one to your house so that you

607
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 7: could use it.

608
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: Who knows where that thing is?

609
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 2: Now? What's it called an octobudy? Probably sad the name

610
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 2: and it was afraid. Yeah.

611
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 8: It's like the thing that you put on the back

612
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 8: of your phone and it's sticky and you can stick

613
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 8: it to like your.

614
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 2: Oct that's great. I can't find it.

615
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 7: I got you a black one, like I really.

616
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 2: It's it's in my kitchen drum. Going to look for it,

617
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 2: all right, anyway, So turn off a journaling thing if

618
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 2: you don't want people to read your stuff. Laura, good morning,

619
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 2: How are you?

620
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:54,959
Speaker 1: Good morning?

621
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 13: Well?

622
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 6: How are you?

623
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 2: Hi, Laura, I'm super good, super charged for this. So

624
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,679
Speaker 2: you know, Tony's getting married, Ruby's getting married. Apparently collect

625
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 2: may have gotten engaged. I forgot to check in and Laura,

626
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 2: your fiance and you cannot agree on what, you know,

627
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 2: I love.

628
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:15,199
Speaker 6: Him so much, but we just cannot agree on like

629
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 6: the basic wedding details of how big our wedding is

630
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 6: going to be. You know, I would really love, you know,

631
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 6: all my family and friends to come celebrate us. And

632
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 6: the more we talked about it. The more I realized

633
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,919
Speaker 6: he is he wants a small, intimate wedding, and it

634
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 6: just that changes everything from where we have it to

635
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 6: the you know, flowers, just like every detail. So we

636
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 6: just can't get on the same page.

637
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 2: So does this Does this symbolize a bigger, broader, greater

638
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 2: issue in your dynamic relationship future?

639
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 14: I didn't.

640
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 3: I didn't.

641
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 6: I don't know. I didn't think about it until this moment.

642
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 6: I thought we were totally in sync, you know, the

643
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 6: engagement was perfect, and so did it have this come

644
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 6: up kind of at the last minute. I just I'm

645
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 6: not sure what to make of it.

646
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 3: Are you guys arguing about everything or is it just

647
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 3: the guest list?

648
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 6: No, it's just, yeah, like the big thing of like

649
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 6: we can't even start arguing about this, you know, really

650
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 6: the small stuff because we're still on square one of

651
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 6: arguing about that. He wants, you know, a small intimate

652
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 6: wedding just immediate family, and you know, I want something

653
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 6: a little bit bigger than that. I'm saying a huge

654
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 6: three hundred person wedding, but maybe one hundred people, you know,

655
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 6: and we just can't get quite past that.

656
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 2: So Tanya effect, this is most targeted to relate to

657
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 2: you in the moment. What guidance do you have and

658
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 2: what do you make of it?

659
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 8: I think at the end of the day, it's all

660
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 8: a compromise, you know. I think it's hard to completely

661
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 8: agree with somebody one hundred percent all the time. And

662
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 8: if you want a bigger wedding and he wants a

663
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 8: smaller wedding, maybe you guys can get a number together

664
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 8: and then kind of meet in the middle.

665
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, so, or maybe the venue now that you're

666
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 6: saying that, maybe like the venue can help us dictate,

667
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 6: you know, he really wants something like out in the open,

668
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 6: and so maybe that will help.

669
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, maybe you can find like the venue of his

670
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 8: dreams and it can fit a lot of people and

671
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,439
Speaker 8: you can be like, oh my gosh, imagine all of

672
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,880
Speaker 8: our friends and family in this venue that you love

673
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 8: so much.

674
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 6: Mm hmm.

675
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 1: Totally.

676
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 2: So good luck with the compromise. That's kind of a

677
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 2: key term here.

678
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 3: It's not uncommon to be stressed and argued during this process.

679
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: Just make sure he's the right one.

680
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 2: Well, good luck, Laura. I know to me again, I

681
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 2: don't want to be an alarmist, and I have no

682
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 2: experience in these situations. But sometimes I think, is that

683
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 2: the universe?

684
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: It's extreme thinking to think that it shouldn't.

685
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: Be the Is it pragmatic?

686
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be that difficult.

687
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 3: And also they should have discussed this before they even

688
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 3: got engaged, like what type of wedding would you own?

689
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 7: But I think things change.

690
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 8: I think things change after you get engaged because you

691
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 8: realize how much money and time and effort you're putting

692
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 8: into this. So it like exacerbates things because you start

693
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 8: seeing numbers and you're like, Okay, if I'm going to

694
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 8: spend this much money, I want it to be what

695
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 8: I want it to be.

696
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 5: You know.

697
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 2: It blisps sounds so exciting. So over the course of

698
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 2: the years, we talked about a lot of scams, and

699
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 2: they seem to be more and more prevalent. I know,

700
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 2: my phone rings all the time with numbers that I

701
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 2: just ignore. Places. Sometimes it's it looks like my number,

702
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 2: other times it's places that I just don't I know,

703
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 2: I don't know anybody in Cedar Falls or you know,

704
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: whether it's coming in from Our.

705
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 3: Phones are getting smarter though, because it does tell me

706
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 3: this is a spam call, so I won't.

707
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: Pick it up.

708
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 2: Also, sometimes when I get emails from the staff here,

709
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 2: it says you don't often get emails from this person.

710
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 2: Do you have that?

711
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 7: No, I don't have that at all.

712
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 2: Mark, do you have that on your iPhone?

713
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 11: Not?

714
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 2: Have that?

715
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 1: Wows a feature?

716
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: That a feature in my leg it just it identifies

717
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: as somebody doesn't normally email me. I've never seen that.

718
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 1: Maybe those are actually legit scams.

719
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 2: No, No, it's like people that we know. It's people

720
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 2: that like I know, and not everyth email but not

721
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 2: people I'd never email or talked to you. But it

722
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 2: says you don't often see an email from this person anyway. Wow,

723
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 2: Ciciny is in the middle. Have you heard she's caught

724
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 2: up in the middle of a big scam? Right now?

725
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 2: I am, yeah, and I looks legit.

726
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: I'm a victim of beating scammed.

727
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 2: But let's be clear about what has happened. Someone or somebody,

728
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 2: people whatever are posing as you and trying to say

729
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 2: that you can win cash.

730
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 3: Right Siciny, Yes, So I actually got a DM on

731
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 3: Instagram from one of our lovely listeners, Leslie, and she said, Hey,

732
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 3: I just wanted to know if this is real or not.

733
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 1: And so when I looked at the DM and checked everything.

734
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 3: It was basically screenshots of a fake Siciny account on Facebook,

735
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 3: and it had messaged her saying, Hey, Leslie, congratulations, you

736
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: were selected as the winner of my event.

737
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: Visit my profile now, thank you very much.

738
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 2: But then it gets harry for it asks for a

739
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: lot of different clicks and things, and you start, I mean,

740
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 2: go through the list of what this scam's asking people

741
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 2: to do.

742
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 3: And they even took our like our picture, our picture

743
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 3: of payer bills, and they put it in there that.

744
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 2: They took actually the promo campaign photography with the logos

745
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 2: and everything. I mean, it looks real, except all these

746
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 2: things they want you.

747
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 3: To do, right, They say, go my page, like my

748
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 3: post register here, click on the link. Then you'll get

749
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 3: a receipt, then you can comment, and then you do

750
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 3: this and then you can win a thousand dollars of them.

751
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is oh my gosh, it's so lengthy

752
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 3: and it's face.

753
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 2: So did you okay, So if anybody got this from

754
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: siciny show.

755
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: Yeesh Sicity Show.

756
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 3: That's the name of the account on Facebook. But it

757
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 3: has all my pictures on there, and you go through

758
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 3: it's it looks I get I can see how you

759
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 3: could think that it's real.

760
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 2: So did it go to a lot of people or

761
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 2: fifty people?

762
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 11: So far?

763
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 3: Just one person reached out to me, but I have

764
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 3: no idea who else it's gone to.

765
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,719
Speaker 1: So I kind of wanted to bring it up.

766
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 3: And in case you guys see it, it don't take

767
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 3: on anything. I've reported it. But my dad's Facebook got

768
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 3: hacked and nothing.

769
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 2: Told your dad about it. I haven't told my dad

770
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 2: about it, No, I said, he reported to your father.

771
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 3: No, But my poor dad his account got hacked like

772
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 3: months ago and it was all bad.

773
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 2: My mom's as well. Yeah, so all right, Well that

774
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 2: the sisiny if you are seeing her one thousand dollars

775
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 2: cash prize giveaway is a scam. We do pay your

776
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 2: bills here on the air, and I'm authenticating this is us.

777
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 2: This is not an AI voice. I want to grab

778
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 2: Rachel here, who's been to hold for a second. Here's

779
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 2: a Rachel. Good morning, Rachel. How are you doing?

780
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 9: I'm good?

781
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 15: Thanks?

782
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 6: How are you great?

783
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 2: So you're calling about a friend of yours who got

784
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 2: cheated on? Yes, what happened? And how can we help?

785
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 9: So my friend recently proposed to his boyfriend, but my

786
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 9: friends and I are having a hard time feeling excited

787
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 9: or happy for him because last year's boyfriend teated on

788
00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 9: him and it was.

789
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 15: Devastating from friend because they've been dating for years and years,

790
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 15: and after he found out about the cheating, he was heartbroken.

791
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 15: My friend ended up mending things with his boyfriend and

792
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 15: they've been together ever since.

793
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 9: And now my friend proposed, So it was kind of shocking,

794
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 9: and he didn't tell anyone he was going to do it,

795
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 9: and he only sent us pictures after the proposal. In

796
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 9: our group CHET, they're just trying to get us to celebrate,

797
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 9: and we want to support our friend and be happy

798
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 9: for him. But now that we know that fiance cheated

799
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 9: orthing to be happy or support.

800
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 2: Oh wait, so does he yeah, exactly, he knows that

801
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 2: he was cheated on by the person he just proposed to. Yes, okay,

802
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:44,239
Speaker 2: so your friend, friend, your your pal. He went through it.

803
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 2: He forgave his partner at the time, right, and they

804
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 2: moved on and now he's proposed. I mean, look, you

805
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 2: can't really be in their shoes. And if everybody knows

806
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 2: about it and they made the choice to move past it,

807
00:33:56,880 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 2: then that's their prerogative and it looks like they're trying

808
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 2: to move on and celebrate hopefully a new chapter.

809
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's hard of a friend to view your own

810
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 9: their relationships differently, harder what happened.

811
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 2: It'd be harder if you knew that his partner cheated,

812
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,919
Speaker 2: but he didn't know and he proposed. That would be

813
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 2: a real twist. This one is their choice. They're in it,

814
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 2: their relationship. They decided to move past it. What can

815
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 2: we do.

816
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 3: I know a couple that went through this and then

817
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 3: ended up getting engaged and married and all that, and

818
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 3: they seem very happy. But like if I was sitting

819
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 3: in here dwelling on it, or that's going to take

820
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:43,240
Speaker 3: years off your life.

821
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:46,760
Speaker 2: Rachel, and you can't control it. They made a decision,

822
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 2: so I think it embraced their happiness. If they're happy now, I.

823
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 9: Agree, Okay, I guess that's their.

824
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you very much. It wo'd be trickier. We've

825
00:34:58,000 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 2: had the calls like that where the partner didn't know

826
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 2: and there was a proposal and the friends saying, hey,

827
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 2: I have some information, do I tell.

828
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 16: Ya?

829
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 2: Horrible? You just never know what anybody's going through. And

830
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 2: if they decide that they can make it work. And

831
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 2: they want to try again start over. Then, yeah, that's

832
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 2: their decision.

833
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest.

834
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 2: Let's get to some of these talkbacks. You know, you

835
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 2: can go inside the free i HET radio app. It's

836
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 2: a great way to listen to the show and not

837
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 2: miss anything if you're on the go and send us

838
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 2: a talkback message with the microphone, the red microphone that's

839
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 2: inside the page we got. Then these are gonna be

840
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 2: all over the map. I think let's start with this one.

841
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 2: Last week, we had a hack that hotel lobbies are

842
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 2: the best place to use the bathroom when you're on

843
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 2: a road trip. Susie and Santa Monica actually tried this.

844
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 2: Here's Susie time. I used the.

845
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 16: Bathroom at a hotel lobby and I felt so guilty

846
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 16: about it that I pretended like I was there to

847
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 16: look at their wedding venue. And then they ended up

848
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 16: sending me home with like ten packets of information about

849
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 16: the and it wasn't even engaged for dating anybody.

850
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, they got to play out the charade, right. Let's

851
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:12,240
Speaker 2: see Kelly and Orange County knows why avocados sometimes taste buttery.

852
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 2: I've talked about avocado. Sometimes I get an avocado. Get

853
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 2: very excited about my Avocado's got no avocado flavor. It's done.

854
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,439
Speaker 2: It's just it's cream but cream of air, but cream

855
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 2: of not air. Could but it's no flavor.

856
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 10: Good morning.

857
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 4: You were mentioning the buttery flavor on avocados.

858
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 5: A lot of them have to do with grown.

859
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 4: Versus getting produced.

860
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 5: Veggies and fruit as a store.

861
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,320
Speaker 10: So that buttery flavor.

862
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 15: You will get that if you.

863
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 4: Have homegrown avocados, But if you've gotten them in the store,

864
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 4: not so much.

865
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: No, I don't have an avocado tree, so I get one.

866
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: I think that checks out.

867
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 3: My parents avocados are like the creamiest buttery.

868
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 2: And they and they're green and they get that real flavor.

869
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you for that. This is Natalie here.

870
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: We also talked about someone dating their ex'es mom. We

871
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,720
Speaker 2: asked if that really happens. Remember that story you did, Tanya?

872
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, no one cyrus.

873
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 2: So here's what she said.

874
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 13: Now, guys, I just want to say, I've been listening

875
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 13: to you guys for twenty years.

876
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 16: I love you.

877
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 13: About that thing. They're saying if a guy has dated

878
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 13: his exes mom. Unfortunately that kind of happened to me.

879
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 13: But if we weren't together, me and him, and he

880
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 13: was my age. And then I caught him with my

881
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 13: mom and really really destroyed our relationship. And then he

882
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 13: left her. Of course.

883
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 2: Wow, so they were together and then he hooked up

884
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: with her mom. Well, Natalie, thank you for calling. I

885
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 2: can understand how that would damage some relationships.

886
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 1: Wow, coming back from that, All right, let's go.

887
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 2: Now, let's just wrap it up here with Tony. So, Tony,

888
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: he's back. This is the guy that reached out to

889
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 2: Tubbs it wants to get on the jiu jitsu mat

890
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: with him. Would you call it roll around or someth

891
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 2: would you say, yep? Roll around? All right, Well he's back.

892
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,439
Speaker 2: He's not taking no for an answer, and I think

893
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 2: he's on his way out here. Let's see, this is

894
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 2: Tony from Virginia wants to book a trip to go

895
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 2: play jiu jitsu with Tubs.

896
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 12: Tony from Virginia Beach, Ryan, Bro, you should absolutely go

897
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,840
Speaker 12: with Tubs to a jiu jitsu class and try it out.

898
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 12: I'm telling you you'll be hooked, not heel hooked, just don't.

899
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 2: You'll love it.

900
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 12: It's a workout you're not used to, and you'll just

901
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 12: you'll be exhausted.

902
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 2: He sounds like bigger than I am, for sure, and

903
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 2: stronger than I am for sure.

904
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: What is st hooked?

905
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 2: Yeah? What is that?

906
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: You started cracking up?

907
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 2: You really got it.

908
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 10: There's a little insider pun there. He'l hook is a

909
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 10: type of submission where you're basically just trying to break

910
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:47,720
Speaker 10: the person's knee.

911
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 2: This is like a It's a serious discipline, right, I

912
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 2: mean it's very hard. I've actually been to some places

913
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 2: where people are doing this, and it's really the amount

914
00:38:59,960 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 2: of energy that you exert, right, I mean it's really

915
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah. Yeah, it's crazy. It's like.

916
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 10: I just did a trial and I got hooked. As

917
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 10: Tony said, yeah, I.

918
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 2: Knowed his girlfriend. Do they have a Matt in the garage?

919
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 2: We thank you for those talkback all right, very excited.

920
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 2: Let me grab Sam and send Gabriel before anything else. Sam,

921
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 2: good morning morning Ryan. How can we help you? It

922
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 2: sounds not good?

923
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 14: Yeah, I just I don't really know what to do

924
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 14: about this situation. I'm kind of freaked out about the

925
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 14: whole thing. I don't know, but my few the future

926
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 14: father in law meant by it. But I recently asked

927
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 14: my girlfriend's parents if it was okay with them, if

928
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 14: I know, proposed and eventually got married. But when I did,

929
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 14: my future father in law kind of looked at me

930
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 14: and said, well, I don't know why you'd want to

931
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 14: do that, but good luck.

932
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 2: Well that's you know, discouraging.

933
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 14: It was just kind of it was just a little jar.

934
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 14: It seemed it seemed pretty serious. I don't know, marriage,

935
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 14: no comment.

936
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: Because maybe he's referring to like I made this mistake.

937
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 7: However, it is harsh.

938
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 2: It's harsh, it's not little like I'm discouraged by it,

939
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 2: and it makes me think, well, they don't like me.

940
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean we've we've been dating for a few years,

941
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 14: so I thought we got along or maybe yeah, maybe he.

942
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 3: Just wants to make sure that you're really serious about

943
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,240
Speaker 3: it and going to go the distance.

944
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 14: Hopefully that's it. I mean I am pretty serious. I

945
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 14: love her a lot, but just the way he said it, like, yeah.

946
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 2: I don't love it. Have you talked to your girlfriend

947
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 2: about it?

948
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 14: Yeah? We talked about it.

949
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:55,879
Speaker 2: And what did she say?

950
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 5: You know?

951
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 14: She she is just as confused and as I am was.

952
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 14: She was weirded out when I told her about it.

953
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 3: I think she should just have a conversation with him separately,

954
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 3: then maybe she can get to the bottom of it

955
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 3: if there's something deeper.

956
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 2: But I also feel like you may never win them over.

957
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:14,879
Speaker 1: Oh I don't think that.

958
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 13: Well.

959
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,320
Speaker 2: I mean, this guy sounds like he's got an issue.

960
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:18,919
Speaker 1: I don't think it's about him though.

961
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:19,959
Speaker 7: I don't think so either.

962
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 2: Well, maybe it's because he's not happy in his own

963
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 2: I don't know, but Sam, I guess well, he.

964
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 3: Could have just panicked too, Like dads just sometimes don't

965
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 3: know what to say. Like when Michael asked for my

966
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 3: dad's hand in marriage. My dad was like great and everything,

967
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 3: but then he's like, you know, Mike.

968
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 2: Asked for your dad's hand.

969
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 3: In, Man, I'm sorry for my hand in.

970
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 2: That's a twist.

971
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 3: But he basically told Michael, you know, Sisani's really tough,

972
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,439
Speaker 3: like almost like trying to scare Michael off.

973
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 2: He still came back.

974
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, uh, you know, maybe he just didn't really know

975
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:51,399
Speaker 1: how to put his words together.

976
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 2: I think you're doing the elegant, very gentleman thing, which

977
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 2: is going this path, and if you hit a dead end,

978
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 2: you still love her, then you do you need to

979
00:41:58,719 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 2: do for your heart? Buddy.

980
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 14: I think you're right. Yeah, Oh good luck man.

981
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 2: All right, you can mit in there, take care of that, Thank.

982
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 14: You, thank you, good bye.

983
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 2: I'd be I mean, I kind of would know going

984
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 2: in right what the parents might feel or think and

985
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 2: just go for it. But it would also be really disheartening, discouraging.

986
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 8: I mean, at least he didn't say no, yeah, and

987
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 8: it sounds like he's projecting like he's like not happily married,

988
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 8: and he's.

989
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 2: Like oh, and then I turn it and say, well, listen, sir,

990
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 2: I mean, do you want to talk? Yeah, do you

991
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 2: want to talk about what's going on here with you

992
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 2: and the missus? Because if you're this cynical about our

993
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 2: love and ours is young love hoping for a big future.

994
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 2: If you're saying about it, let's talk about what you're

995
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 2: projecting here. Sit down here? What can I buy you?

996
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 2: Right by your dad? Tomorrow we are back with a

997
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 2: Ryan's roses. She's afraid her husband is cheating, and it

998
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:57,120
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999
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:01,960
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1000
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,760
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1001
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