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Speaker 1: Second date Update. Occasionally, we check back in with callers

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Speaker 1: months after they come on the show to see how

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Speaker 1: their relationship is going love. When we do that, we

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Speaker 1: call it a second date update update. Yeah, but today

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Speaker 1: we're doing something kind of new. We have a second

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Speaker 1: date update Update update. That's a triple update.

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Speaker 2: Now we're getting clingy, can you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like, can't we just let people live their lives at

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Speaker 3: some point, Jeff, It's second update Square.

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Speaker 1: No, we want to be as deeply involved in our listeners'

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Speaker 1: lives as possible if we live with them. We're doing

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Speaker 1: a trup date today. Yeah, a few of those different

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Speaker 1: meaning though, but seriously, one of our listeners, Anthony, reached

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Speaker 1: out to us again. So first of all, Anthony, welcome

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Speaker 1: back to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm having a hard time placing with Anthony what

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Speaker 1: So last time Anthony was on, you were dating a

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Speaker 1: woman named Mallory, and you guys were saying that you

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Speaker 1: were happy together, but she was having you pay for

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Speaker 1: a lot of her and her friend's activities.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I kind of remember this, and we're like, oh, she's

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Speaker 3: using you, And then you're.

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Speaker 2: Like No, she's hot. Is that in my remembering night?

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Speaker 4: That's pretty close.

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Speaker 1: No, Mallory, it's just you today, Anthony. What's going on?

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Speaker 4: H So with Mallory? I ran out of money?

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, you broke what?

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Speaker 1: Just go get a bank alone? Man?

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Speaker 4: Did she wait?

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Speaker 2: Did she leave you?

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Speaker 4: Well? Yeah, she basically dropped me after I stopped paying

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Speaker 4: for everything for her and her friends.

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Speaker 1: So alexis good.

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Speaker 2: Right, I see where she's coming from, Like.

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Speaker 1: You go, girl. That sucks, man, But it sounds like

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Speaker 2: Without that, which I think I told you so, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So is that it?

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Speaker 2: Guess if you went on have a date with another

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Speaker 2: person that you're interested in.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that has been happening.

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Speaker 1: Okay, who's the new girl?

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Speaker 4: I found a new woman named Lisa.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, and what do you like about her?

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Speaker 4: Well, the first thing that stands out to me about

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Speaker 4: her I find fascinating is that she does private security

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Speaker 4: detail for celebrity whoa.

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Speaker 1: Wow, one of your employees. Amazing.

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Speaker 2: Let's get her on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Was that was that like right there on her dating profile?

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Speaker 4: No, that's just something that came out after. But she

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Speaker 4: won't tell me who these clients are and that's what

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Speaker 4: I'm always trying to get out of her.

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Speaker 1: Job at least. Yeah privacy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so have you guys been on one day? Two dates?

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Speaker 2: Were yet?

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Speaker 4: We just got out once?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: How did it go?

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Speaker 4: And went pretty well? I mean another thing that I

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Speaker 4: up on people's profiles that says today's high flyer of

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Speaker 4: the week, like when they're getting a lot of action.

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Speaker 3: I guess they call it app that's funny.

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Speaker 1: Is that a good thing for you or a red

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Speaker 1: flag jury's I don't know, but I mean I was

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Speaker 1: calling her the high flyer as as a joke.

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Speaker 3: Though. Is that something that she puts on her profile

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Speaker 3: or is it something that the app does automatically? Sorry,

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Speaker 3: I'm an idiot when it comes to apps.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think the app does that if you're really

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Speaker 1: That's another interesting talking point though, to bring up on

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Speaker 1: the date, like how did it go?

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Speaker 4: I was good. At first. I couldn't tell if she

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Speaker 4: was exactly how she described herself, So she's real.

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Speaker 2: Pretty is what you're saying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, well she's pretty cas what she showed up

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Speaker 4: in Gucci sweats a tupac couldie.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she doesn't have a sense of styles.

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Speaker 2: Do a magic. I think it's kind of cute.

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Speaker 4: But I thought it was pretty cool and we did

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Speaker 4: have fun. She talked a lot about this charity where

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Speaker 2: So I hoped to say that, yeah, is that how

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Speaker 4: No, No, I made that joke in the failed to

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, so we didn't even ask what were

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Speaker 2: Were you drinking?

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Speaker 2: What was the date about?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we got a couple of drinks. We went to

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Speaker 3: Okay, so it's chill. So that's why she could wear

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Speaker 1: I see you budgeting, that's a idea.

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Speaker 4: I think she wanted to meet me in the daylight.

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Speaker 1: Did you feel like you had a good connection with her? Though?

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Speaker 4: I did, but yeah, I could definitely tell why she

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Speaker 4: is the high flyer Because her phone keeps buzzing the

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Speaker 4: whole time we're together. I have a suspicion that she's

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Speaker 4: definitely talking to more guys than just me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Probably, I mean, Jose, if you were out on a

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Speaker 1: date with someone who was a high flyer, is that

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Speaker 1: a red flag to you? No, I would just be happy.

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Speaker 2: That I'm on a date.

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Speaker 1: You're buying a ticket onto that.

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Speaker 3: Point, maybe she wants to take step off the fast.

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Speaker 2: Plane, move on to the slope plane with him, and

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Speaker 2: I'm definitely.

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Speaker 1: Over overall, though, how do you think the first date

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Speaker 4: Bad? I think it went good, Okay. I was hoping

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Speaker 4: that we're gonna go on another date. But her responses

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and I don't know if you did

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Speaker 1: your phone is buzzing a lot, or you're getting a

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Speaker 4: Come across as weirdly, I didn't think that would be

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Speaker 4: a good style on my fire. I played it cool.

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Speaker 4: I played it cool.

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Speaker 5: It was.

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Speaker 4: It was just slightly leading me up inside.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you seem to have answers. Let's find out what

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Speaker 1: Lisa has to say for herself. We're gonna call the

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Speaker 1: high flyer director.

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Speaker 2: Maybe as well.

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Speaker 1: What's on her chart? Your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 4: Date.

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Speaker 1: Imagine being out with someone you're very interested in in

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Speaker 1: finding out that they do security detail for the rich

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Speaker 1: and famous. Cool, but they won't tell you who. Not

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Speaker 1: only that they're a verified high flyer on the dating

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Speaker 1: app where you met them.

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Speaker 2: Which means that they get a lot of action.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I don't know, someone just paid to feature them

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Speaker 1: or something like that. And they wear Gucci sweats with

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Speaker 1: Tupac hoodies to first dates like it's no big deal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean they're cool.

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Speaker 1: For me personally. This is a very interesting second date

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Speaker 1: call because, like jose said before, I really hope that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he cannot be the one that also like prize

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Speaker 1: Just ask why.

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Speaker 2: I know he already did on the date. She didn't

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Speaker 1: But if she's like standing next to Kim Kardashian right now,

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Speaker 1: is like I can't talk. I mean we do want

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Speaker 1: a lot of answers from her, but the main thing

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Speaker 1: we want to know is why she's not going out

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Speaker 1: with Anthony. That's true because this is a very unique

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Speaker 1: type of woman and Anthony. The best part is she

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Speaker 1: hasn't made you pay for anything yet either, but you

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Speaker 3: Wait, oh yeah, wait you paid for the date though, right, Anthony?

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Speaker 2: You paid for happy Hour?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I paid for the date at the bar. But

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Speaker 4: it wasn't like with Mallory. I wasn't paying for her

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Speaker 2: Last girl that you were on the show with.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but you'll pay for he parking on the second

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Speaker 1: figure out where that's going to be and if she'll

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Speaker 1: go out with you. Here we go. Hello, Hey is

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Speaker 1: this Lisa?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 1: It is Hey Lisa. What's up? You're on the radio

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Speaker 1: right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show, Lisa.

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Speaker 5: Oh hi, I.

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Speaker 1: Guess I can't project us if you haven't heard us before.

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Speaker 1: We're low key Bougie, the lowest key.

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Speaker 3: I feel like he's wearing a free show shirt.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what is it all about? I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're one of those weird shows that helps listeners

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Speaker 1: with their dating lives. When they go out with someone

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Speaker 1: and they're not getting a return callback, we reach out

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Speaker 1: and try and help figure out the reason why. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I know, pretty pathetic on our part, but people get

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Speaker 2: Thanks Jeff. I kind of like this segment.

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Speaker 1: But I like it too. My parents are really ashamed

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Speaker 1: of it. But that's not it's not about us. We're

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, you guys went to a happy hour? Yeah

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Speaker 5: we did.

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Speaker 1: Okay, pretty great guy, huh.

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Speaker 5: I mean yeah, he's a nice guy, good looking.

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Speaker 3: Oh what was your thoughts on the date?

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Speaker 5: I mean it was really chill. We just had a

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Speaker 5: couple of drinks at happy hour and it was just

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, nothing to write home about.

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Speaker 1: Okay. I mean, was there any like big red flags

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Speaker 1: to you for why you're not going out with him again?

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Speaker 1: Because he said he's been trying to organize a second

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Speaker 5: I mean no, there weren't any red flags when we

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Speaker 5: were sitting there talking. I mean, he was very interesting.

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Speaker 5: He was interested in me, asked me a lot of questions.

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Speaker 1: Can I offer something up that he told us? Because sure,

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Speaker 1: he said he was worried he may have offended you

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Speaker 1: by prying too much into your job because he found

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Speaker 5: My gosh, yeah, I just made that up to sound

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Speaker 5: Wait what.

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Speaker 1: Man, I was interested even us. We were prepared with

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Speaker 3: Usually when somebody lies on a date, there's like shame

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Speaker 5: Well, I couldn't tell him what my real job is.

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Speaker 1: What do you do?

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Speaker 5: So I am actually part owner of the dating site?

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Speaker 1: Wait way, wait a minute, you met Anthony?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, some friends had the idea and we were

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Speaker 3: So it says when it says high flyer on your

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Speaker 1: Modeling pretty much.

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Speaker 5: I mean, we were looking for trying to like do

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Speaker 3: Wow, market research apparently it makes an impact.

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Speaker 3: So Okay, So wait, why did you just tell him

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Speaker 5: Well, to be honest, I go on a lot of dates,

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Speaker 5: I would think in.

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Speaker 1: The beginning, we're trying to help him figure out what's

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Speaker 1: he's confused about. Okay, okay, is it so many men?

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Speaker 5: No, that is not the reason. So as an ad men,

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Speaker 5: I can tell that he's been messaging other women, and

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Speaker 2: That feels like invasion.

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Speaker 5: Listen when you check off on the agreement, I mean,

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Speaker 5: it says any co founder or manager can monitor your

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Speaker 1: That's crazy and it.

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Speaker 5: Just proves that men are pigs.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Anthony, what do you think about hearing all that?

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Speaker 5: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Hi Lisa, Yeah, yeah, I forgot to tell you, Lisa,

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Speaker 1: it's down way way deep in our agreement when you

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Speaker 4: I'm a little shocked, but I totally understand like that

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Speaker 3: And feels like the last time you were on the show,

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Speaker 4: So wait a second. You could actually go into my

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Speaker 5: Yes, I can.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: I know Anthony's thinking of like three things said.

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Speaker 1: Hope you keep a PG on overbody. I'll tell you know.

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Speaker 1: She cares.

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Speaker 4: You can't see pictures, right, Yes, I can, So you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why do I doubt that?

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Speaker 1: I doubt that let's go down a bad path.

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Speaker 3: Does that mean that you weren't talking to anybody else either,

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Speaker 5: Mean, yeah, I'm talking to some people. Oh, I was

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Speaker 1: But you wouldn't have cared if you had said, but

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Speaker 2: Why why did you say that, Anthony?

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Speaker 4: Well, you're the only person that I've met on the

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Speaker 1: Oh, you don't respect.

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Speaker 3: You don't respect any other person you're talking about?

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Speaker 4: What good? I mean, I came out wrong, maybe, but

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Speaker 4: you're the only one I have really found interested in

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Speaker 5: Well, I have your profile pulled up right now, and

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Speaker 5: it looks like that you're trying to set up something

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Speaker 1: Oh, respect her, Lisa. You said a little bit jealous

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Speaker 5: Know about jealous. But look, I would have been totally

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Speaker 4: I'm blocking I'm blocking Clarissa right now.

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Speaker 3: Wow, it just sounds like you need to be truthful

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Speaker 1: Definitely, something is happening here for sure, and it feels good.

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Speaker 1: It does feel good. And I'd like to offer to

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Speaker 4: Can I just reiterate that I'm serious. You are the

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Speaker 4: and I'm really hoping that you're going to say yes.

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Speaker 5: Well, that's very sweet, Anthony, I appreciate that. Yeah, I

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Speaker 5: mean I'm a yes. I would say yes, start over,

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Speaker 1: Okay, And we also have fourteen other guys who want

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Speaker 1: to know if you'll go out with them. What would

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean, if I'm being honest, I am still

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Speaker 1: But how many of those guys do you respect?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 1: Well, more research with the second day on our bill,

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Speaker 1: We're going to pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Before you go, can you force matches because there's a

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Speaker 3: I don't know that's creepy.

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Speaker 5: That's a hard no, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and it's not so much if you lie,

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Speaker 1: it's what you lie about that's really important. She lied

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Speaker 1: It sounds like one of those nice lies that you

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Speaker 3: I never do this when you know that that person

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Speaker 1: I never feel like society has really progressed because they

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Speaker 2: In the end, well, we put each other out Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That's how lies work. Yes, make a right Yes, No

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Speaker 1: matter what, no lie. You can always email the show

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Speaker 1: calling you back. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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