1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jana Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 2 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 2: This week's a doll education. We have on Hannah Gordon. 3 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:09,720 Speaker 1: So. 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 2: She is one of the most influential women in football 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 2: by the NFL dot Com. She is a game changer 6 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 2: and she's got a new secondition book out Call the 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 2: Season to Change the competitors Playbook for Joy on the 8 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: Path to Victory. 9 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 3: Hey, hi, Jana, how are you? I'm good? 10 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 2: Thank you? 11 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 3: How are you? I'm good? And I feel like I 12 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 3: should have a couch because. 13 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: Even if I look very business today, are you are 14 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: you at home? 15 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:39,480 Speaker 3: I am? Yeah? 16 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 2: Where's home? 17 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 3: Santa Clara so, San Francisco Bay Area? 18 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 2: Love? 19 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:44,919 Speaker 3: Okay, I love that. 20 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 2: I am in Nashville and it's a really rainy, overcast day, 21 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: so it's just like, yeah, cozy, I just want to yeah, 22 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,959 Speaker 2: get all cozy up. But we'll just jump right into it. 23 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 2: What were your thoughts on Super Bowl? 24 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: I thought Kendrick's halftime show was incredible. I think that 25 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: was my big takeaway. 26 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 2: I did not know one song, so I just must 27 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 2: be literally I was watching it and going, this is 28 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,759 Speaker 2: the first time where I'm like, I feel so incredibly old, 29 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 2: Like I didn't know one song. I thought there was 30 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 2: one that I was like, Oh, I think I know it, 31 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 2: and then I was like, nope, still don't. I didn't 32 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 2: know any of the surprise guest people. I was like, oh, 33 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 2: he didn't bring anybody out, and everyone's like, yes he did, 34 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 2: like he brought this person, this person out. I was like, 35 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 2: couldn't have told you, Like, not a clue. 36 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 3: Well, then, what did you think of the Super Bowl? Well? 37 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 2: Super Bowl? I thought it was like halftime, so I 38 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 2: met more like on the football side of things, like 39 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,680 Speaker 2: you know, between the Eagles and the Chiefs. I loved it. 40 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 2: I was rooting for the Eagles, and I thought it 41 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 2: was great. 42 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 3: It was so good. 43 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: I think the nice thing about working in football for 44 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,559 Speaker 1: a long time is you have friends in every team. 45 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, if you're not in the Super Bowl, it's 46 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: always disappointing, obviously, but you root for other people, so 47 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: you're like, you're happy for whoever it is at whatever team. 48 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 49 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 3: I was a little surprised that it was so lopsided. 50 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 1: I knew the Eagles roster was stacked, but I was expecting. 51 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 3: It to be a little closer. 52 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, for sure. I mean I think it was 53 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 2: a shock for everybody, and that's always I love I love, 54 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 2: love love football. So it was hard because I'm a 55 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: Lions fan, so it's you know, born and raised Detroit, 56 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 2: so Lions have always been And like you know, it 57 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 2: was a really tough loss this year for us. 58 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 3: It felt like your year. 59 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 2: I thought so too. But I mean the Eagles, man, 60 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 2: they were They're just so stacked and they were all 61 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 2: so healthy, it seemed like, and so we were not. 62 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: I don't we would have I think have gotten cremated 63 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 2: in the end, but like we did. But you know, 64 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 2: it's one of those where for me, I've always enjoyed, 65 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: Like it's always so sad, you know, when they go 66 00:02:56,080 --> 00:03:00,519 Speaker 2: to show the sidelines and they see, you know, the 67 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 2: people the person that the team that's losing, and I 68 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 2: feel my heart like breaks for them, but also there's 69 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 2: so much I'm so happy for these random players. I 70 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 2: don't even know it all, but they're crying and they're 71 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 2: so happy, and it's like to be able to. So 72 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 2: it's like I'm so sad, but I'm also so happy 73 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 2: for the people that went into even whether it was 74 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 2: even if the Chiefs would have won. Again, I've been 75 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 2: I love when people's dreams come true and they you know, 76 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 2: they succeed and they're happy, and like, I love that, 77 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: and then I feel so sad for the people that 78 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 2: you know lose, because losing isn't fun. 79 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: You're right, you're empathic and like it's natural, Like I 80 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: feel that way. That's why sports is so cathartic, right, 81 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: It's like you get to feel other people's pain and. 82 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 3: Also other people's joy and somebody's just claiming the other day. 83 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: The word for it in Buddhism is mudita, the details 84 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: do you feel when someone else feels joy? And I 85 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: was like, oh, that's what a great word to have 86 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: in your vocabulary or in your language, right, is to 87 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: like have a word for the joy you feel from 88 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: other people's joy. 89 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 2: Yep. 90 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 3: Absolutely. 91 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 2: And how did you get into football? 92 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 3: I started way back in college. 93 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: So I went to UCLA, and as a homesick freshman, 94 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: sitting on my little dorm room bed figuring out what 95 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: to major in, I started watching a ton of sports 96 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,799 Speaker 1: and I saw Hannah Storm hosting halftime during the NBA 97 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: playoffs and she was just smart and witty and funny, 98 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: and I was like, this is a job, Like you 99 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: can just talk about sports and be smart and funny, 100 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: Like how do I get that job? So I applied 101 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:37,359 Speaker 1: to the student paper and started covering football for the 102 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: student paper and did that for my junior and senior years. 103 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 1: That led to internships at the Raiders. I'm from Oakland, 104 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:48,239 Speaker 1: originally in PR. I worked at Fox Sports West in production. 105 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: After I graduated, I went to the NFL Players Association, which, 106 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: for folks who don't know, is the union for the 107 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 1: players and did digital content for them. 108 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: So it wasn't about the guys then, wasn't about the 109 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 2: football player? 110 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 3: No, to me, the game is like it's just a 111 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 3: beautiful game. 112 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: It's like chess but with sort of like brutal physicality 113 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 1: and like incredible physical skill. 114 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 2: And then your book, So now you have what I 115 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: guess for you know, for the women that are listening. 116 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: What is the message then in your book? Obviously it 117 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 2: centers around the sports, you know, in football terms, right 118 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 2: or yeah. So the book is essentially how to get 119 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 2: wherever it is you want to go and figure that 120 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 2: out through the lessons of football. So it first grew 121 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 2: out of so many people asking me like how do 122 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 2: I get where you are? Like how do I become 123 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: a woman at the top of a. 124 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 1: Male dominated industry or whatever it might their dream might be. 125 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: And so I really had to reflect on like okay, yeah, 126 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 1: like how did I get here? Like what are the 127 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: lessons that made me successful? And I realized that those 128 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: lessons really matched up to what I had learned through 129 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: the game itself. And so I take you through first 130 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: film study, which is essentially self awareness, right, which we 131 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: need to have for our own lives as well as 132 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: if we want to lead other people. Second vision, which 133 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: obviously athletes use and so many other people successfully. Third 134 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: game plan, like that once you have the vision, you 135 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: have to figure out what are the steps to get 136 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 1: where you want to go? And then fourth team, which 137 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: is who are the people around you? Like who is 138 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 1: it that you need in your life to get where 139 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: you want to go? Fifth is in game adjustments, So 140 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 1: like you have a plan, but you know the chiefs 141 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 1: had a plan too, Like it didn't work. You have 142 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,799 Speaker 1: to adjust, right, Like at halftime, you're going to make adjustments, 143 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 1: Like we. 144 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 3: All have to do the same thing. 145 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 1: Like you know I've read about like your story, like 146 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: things didn't go perfectly for you, and you made adjustments 147 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 1: right and found the way to get there, and then. 148 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 3: What I call reading the clips. 149 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: So when you are you know, like yourself, you're famous, 150 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: like people talk about you all the time. But even 151 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: if you're not famous, you're constantly getting feedback and that 152 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 1: might be on social that might be just the way 153 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 1: your coworker looks at you, or the way your spouse 154 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 1: says something in the morning. Like you're getting incoming information 155 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: all the time and you have to figure out how 156 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: to categorize that and what to do with it. And 157 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: then the seventh piece is recovery. So in sports, this 158 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: has really developed a lot in the last twenty years, 159 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: really understanding human performance and recovery, and I think it 160 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: unfortunately hasn't trickled quite enough to the rest of us 161 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: that like what our sleep, what we eat, how much 162 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: hydration we get, it is affecting our performance as well, 163 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: like our brain's performance, our bodies performance. So it doesn't 164 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: really matter, like you don't have to be a professional 165 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: athlete if you want to be great at podcasting and acting, 166 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: or you want to be great at being a parent 167 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: or anything like, you do have to take care of 168 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: your body and focus on what recovery looks like for you. 169 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 3: And then The. 170 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: Last piece is practice, So it's you've got to cycle 171 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: through all these things over and. 172 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 3: Over again because it's all practice makes perfect. 173 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 2: What do you think of out of those what has 174 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 2: been the most helpful football analogy lesson in your life 175 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 2: film study? 176 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: So I think for me, like that was understanding that 177 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: observing yourself kind of from the outside or replaying things, 178 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,559 Speaker 1: not in a like self critical to be self critical way, 179 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: but just to step outside yourself as the observer and 180 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: be like, okay, like what are the things I'm doing 181 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: over and over again? 182 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 3: Like what are my patterns? Like how could I break that? 183 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: So for me, that's the most powerful piece, and that's 184 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: why it's the first piece, because I think for most 185 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,439 Speaker 1: people it's like until you work through whatever that stuff is, 186 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: the rest of it's never going to work without fixing that. 187 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 2: No, It's true. I remember when I used to tour on 188 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 2: the road, we would listen back to the to the 189 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 2: board tape and it was probably my least favorite thing 190 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 2: that I did with the band, but it was the 191 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 2: best thing that I did to grow and to become 192 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 2: a better, better singer and you know, better entertainer because 193 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 2: I would listen to be like, oh, God, that was 194 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 2: so incredibly flat or that or you know, I'm so 195 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 2: out of breath here, how can I change this? Or 196 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,319 Speaker 2: you know that well that joke actually wasn't that funny, 197 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 2: And like, you know, there's just so many things where 198 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, it was the hardest thing to listen and 199 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 2: watch myself not do great at But there was also 200 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,319 Speaker 2: moments where I was like, Okay, I got better throughout it, 201 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 2: and the I became more confident through the process of it, too, 202 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 2: like being able to go, Okay, you know, I've got 203 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 2: stuff I need to work on, and I think that's 204 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 2: that's a good you know. I kind of I kind 205 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: of think back now on that with other areas of 206 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 2: my life. I don't love to watch myself when a 207 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: movie comes out, but I think there's certain scenes and 208 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, I want to see how that. Like I 209 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 2: need to watch some pieces of it to be able 210 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 2: to go, okay, I really wasn't as connected as I 211 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,439 Speaker 2: should have been or whatever it was, you know, how 212 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:00,839 Speaker 2: to improve because I think that is a really good 213 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 2: tool for everybody. 214 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 3: One hundred percent. Like what you described is exactly film 215 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 3: study for athletes. 216 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting, it was very Yeah, I'm I totally 217 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 2: just like I remember that. I was like, but I 218 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 2: got to think how I can incorporate that now into 219 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 2: you know, today, And then what for you do you think? 220 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 2: Where do you think people? Obviously you know the playbook 221 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: and stuff, but where do you think you know other people, 222 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 2: like another one that people could really dive into to 223 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 2: be able to to grow. 224 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, so well, the. 225 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: Whole book is the combination of a memoir and a 226 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: journal for you. So it's like the person reading and 227 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: is creating half of the book. And one of the 228 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: things they kind of to is like the three daily 229 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:05,319 Speaker 1: tools I've used for years and I hope will continue 230 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 1: to use forever, which is and they sound simple, but 231 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: they're they're profound if you actually do them every day. 232 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: Number one is gratitude, So just writing down three things 233 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: that you're grateful for, and it could be you know, 234 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 1: three wins you. 235 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 3: Had, like you can kind of shape it how you want. 236 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: The second is affirmation, so writing down I am blank 237 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: whatever you know, if you're Jana, you're I am a 238 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 1: great actress, an awesome mom, a wonderful wife, a you know, 239 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: a successful podcaster. I or it could be you know, 240 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: like I am incredibly present with you, like whatever it 241 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: is that you're affirming about yourself. 242 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 3: And then the third is focus. 243 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: So every day I set what is the focus for today, 244 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 1: And I find that that's really helpful for prioritization because 245 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 1: none of us can do all the things, So being 246 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: really clear about what's the most important today, I find 247 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 1: really helpful. 248 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was interesting too. While I was reading this 249 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 2: came up online. I don't know if it was true 250 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 2: or not, but it said it was the most watched 251 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 2: super Bowl in like forever. 252 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: That. 253 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 3: I mean, that's what all the articles are saying. 254 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm going to same there's a data point, 255 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 1: but I think one hundred and twenty eight million local 256 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 1: viewers of just the halftime, but usually they have even 257 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 1: more than that, I think globally. 258 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 2: Do you think the t Swift effect plays into that 259 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 2: a little bit too, That's a good question. 260 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 1: I don't know sort of what research was done to 261 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: see like how much that effect has had over time. 262 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 1: I mean Super Bowl generally is watched even by like 263 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: super casual fans all over the world, because for people 264 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 1: who don't even watch football, they watch it for the 265 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 1: commercials or for the halftime. Sure, I do think some 266 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: people who are more football fans definitely wanted to see, 267 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: like if the Chiefs with repeat obviously, that would be 268 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 1: like a really historic thing. And then I think, you know, 269 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 1: the Eagles have a very strong, you know, fan base, 270 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: those are you know, sizable enough, I think markets it's 271 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 1: not surprising. 272 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, for sure. I was just find it so 273 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 2: interesting because you know, I have some people on accounts 274 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, you know Taylor stuff. I'm like, hey, 275 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 2: like she's brought a lot of you know, women over 276 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 2: to football and like, and again, I love football, so 277 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 2: I think it's I think it's great, you know. And yeah, 278 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 2: so I think that's I think that's a cool thing. 279 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's a great thing. 280 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: The fan base, even before you know, Taylor and Travis 281 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: were together, was already forty eight percent female, which I 282 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 1: think a lot of people don't realize. 283 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 2: Oh that's interesting. 284 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 3: I had no idea it was already forty eight percent females. 285 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 3: So it's like we were already there, but right, for sure. 286 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: But I still think it's great that they're obviously, you know, 287 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 1: you can see by the follower accounts that he had 288 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: change and that the Chiefs had changed. 289 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 3: That. Certainly they got extra fans from her, no doubt. 290 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 2: What would you like to see change in football? 291 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 3: M It's not so. 292 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's an amazing, great game and 293 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: it's always evolving. They're always pushing the rules to be 294 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 1: not only safer, but to be faster. So, like I 295 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:11,319 Speaker 1: both have very small children, I always I have always 296 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: appreciated defense. I kind of understand now why there's always 297 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 1: a push for offense now that I have very small 298 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: children who are like, I want to see another touchdown, 299 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: you know, They're like, they just want to see touchdowns. 300 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 3: So I get that. 301 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: I think one of the things that's kind of exciting 302 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: as a change is that flag is going to be 303 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: in the Olympics in twenty twenty eight, which also obviously 304 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: opens up a lot of opportunity for women because it's 305 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 1: going to be a male and female sport in the Olympics, 306 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 1: and there's some talk now that there may be a 307 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 1: professional women's. 308 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 3: Flag lead coming. 309 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 2: Interesting A flag yeah, because yeah, well you know you 310 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 2: look at hockey though, and they're all padded up, So 311 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 2: why does it have to be flag? 312 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: Well, you know, it doesn't have to be flag, But 313 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: I'll say I don't know how many. If you go 314 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 1: to really competitive flag game, it is a pretty like 315 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: aggressive intense contact. 316 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean kind of like lacrosse. I've seen you know, 317 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 2: women playing like man, it's intense, physical, very I mean 318 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 2: I kind of have a little PTSD when I think 319 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 2: about the flag football just goes back to my powder 320 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 2: puff days and high school. And I was like, on 321 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 2: the target list, I'm like, how. 322 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 3: Did I do? Like what? 323 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 2: I don't understand? Why? Why are the seniors targeting? 324 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: Like? 325 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 2: This did not feel fun? I think we lost too, 326 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 2: so but I would like it. I would like a 327 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 2: repeat that. I mean for you is it? I think 328 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 2: it's got to be great because I love I love 329 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 2: Aaron Andrews and I love Chris A. Thompson. I think 330 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 2: it's I love to see women in sports. So that's 331 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 2: why I was excited to see your name on the 332 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 2: rundown because you, like you said, like, you're in a 333 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 2: male dominated sport and you're making waves, and so what 334 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 2: is what is it about you that was able to 335 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 2: really get in there and for women that also want to, 336 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 2: you know, follow the same path in which is mostly business, 337 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 2: a male dominated world with business. 338 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think a lot of it comes down to confidence. 339 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: I think to survive in any type of highly competitive 340 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: and sometimes difficult environments, like you have to really believe 341 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 1: in yourself so that when people are either putting you 342 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 1: down or whatever it is, that you are very clear 343 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 1: about like who you are. So I think that's probably 344 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 1: the most important part. Like anyone who's trying to succeed 345 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: in a field like that, I always tell them, like, 346 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: you've got to have confidence and competence, Like you've got 347 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: to be great at what you do, but you also 348 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: have to project to everyone else that you know that 349 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: you're great at what you do. 350 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to do it yourself. 351 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 2: And how old you say your kids were? 352 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 3: My kids are three and one. 353 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 2: Any boys. My one year old's a boy, a boy? 354 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 2: Would you let him play football? 355 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 1: Oh? What a good question that we discuss our house 356 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: all the time. He loves basketball and football, but mostly basketball. 357 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:07,439 Speaker 1: It's a favorite card right now. I would definitely let 358 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 1: both of them play flag. I'm the type of like 359 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 1: hyper warrior that like I worry about them playing like anything. 360 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:16,199 Speaker 1: Like I'm like, I'm like, I need to get them 361 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: hard tested to play basketball, like I'm just so I'm 362 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: probably not the right person to ask, because I'm like, 363 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 1: can I bubble wrap them? Like can they like should 364 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: you even be tumbling right now? 365 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 2: I know, but I think there's such a difference. And 366 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 2: you see all the stuff about the you know, what 367 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 2: happens with the concussions and the what's the CTE? 368 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:35,880 Speaker 3: Is that right? 369 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 2: So that's scary stuff, you know, and especially if you 370 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 2: started a young age. I remember talking to my ex 371 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 2: husband about it because he obviously he played football, and 372 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:49,919 Speaker 2: you know, I now that our son's older, we know 373 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 2: that that's definitely not in his lane. Like he doesn't 374 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 2: like to be he doesn't love the wrestling like that. 375 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: So that's great, so we don't have to have that conversation. 376 00:17:58,119 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 2: But like you know, it was one of those things 377 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 2: where he was like, we're gonna wait until later down 378 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 2: the line, you know, where it's not super super young, 379 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 2: and yeah, I mean even then, it's like I just 380 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 2: you just hear stories and it's as a mom, it's 381 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 2: like I can't even like imagine I don't want him 382 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 2: to get you know, wrestled or. 383 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 3: I mean that's the case of like every right, like 384 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 3: I'm always. 385 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,640 Speaker 1: Like, ah, they built down, I'm like, are you okay? 386 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 2: My gosh, my son he was at a baseball and 387 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 2: I was my daughter. He was at baseball and then 388 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 2: my daughter. They were same time game. And so I'm 389 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 2: going from his field to my daughter's field, and all 390 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 2: I saw was my son holding his like nose and 391 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: like blood coming down. And I and like my gut 392 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 2: instinct is what I did. But I ran into the 393 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 2: field like like I just had But I just saw 394 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 2: blood in my child. And you know, like the coaches 395 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 2: like he's fine. I'm like no, I'm like, Jay's like, 396 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:55,199 Speaker 2: you know, but the ball like hit him in the 397 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 2: nose and it gave him a bloody nose. And so 398 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 2: but I'm even just stuff like that, I can't imagine 399 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 2: if you got like Hackle, I would be pulling the 400 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 2: kids off and be like throwing them off like idea psycho. 401 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 2: But you know they'll figure it out. But but geting 402 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:13,919 Speaker 2: back to football, though, I mean, I think there is 403 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 2: so much you know, it's a it's a great game, 404 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:21,360 Speaker 2: and the fact that you know, you get pushed back, 405 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,400 Speaker 2: you get pushed down, you get back up, and there's 406 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,159 Speaker 2: so many lessons in football that totally you know, are 407 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 2: great to teach kids. Yeah, yeah, what do you hope 408 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 2: readers take away from the second edition of your book. 409 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: I hope they just take away their their own confidence 410 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 1: when they're done, their own clarity. I think what I've 411 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 1: heard from readers, like I've had people who've reached out 412 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 1: with been like I I left an abusive marriage after 413 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 1: I used this book. 414 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 3: I changed shops after I use this book. And it 415 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 3: doesn't have to. 416 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: Be anything that dramatic, but I think both that confidence 417 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 1: and also that clarity, right, it's I think the film 418 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 1: study is really the piece that like changes people, because 419 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: if you're not somebody already who journals every day, I 420 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 1: think just that act of having that time to not 421 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 1: only reflect. But Julia Cameron, who's the author of The 422 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:18,199 Speaker 1: Artist's Way, which I don't know if you've ever done, 423 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: I feel like it's very popular among all artists. I 424 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 1: know she has talked about for decades that you can 425 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 1: only lie to yourself on the page for so long, 426 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: Like if you're writing consistently, like you are going to 427 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,200 Speaker 1: start seeing like kind of what's really going on in there. 428 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:37,439 Speaker 1: And I think that that's a really powerful tool. And 429 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: so I hope that what people take away from it 430 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: is clarity and confidence. 431 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 2: I like that. And then one of the things too 432 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 2: in your book, you said, you know, playing to win 433 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 2: while still prioritizing joy. How do you find that balance 434 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 2: because it's really hard even for me, where it's I 435 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 2: want to win, I want to book these things, and 436 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 2: when I don't, I feel like when I don't book them, 437 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 2: and then my joy goes away, and so much of 438 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 2: my joy is dependent on my wins. And how do 439 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 2: you manage that when the wind isn't there but you 440 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 2: want the joy to be there? 441 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 3: Yes, one hundred. 442 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: So I love that you said that that it really 443 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: comes back to like those gratitude exercises, Like we have 444 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: to start choosing to find joy in everything, and then 445 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 1: you start seeing it more places, because like you're essentially 446 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 1: training your brain to see the joy instead of to 447 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 1: see the lack. And so like when you're doing that 448 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 1: every day, like you'll find it easier and easier because 449 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: you're realized like, oh wait, like I didn't book that event, 450 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 1: but like I'm a beautiful, famous actress, married to somebody 451 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:42,160 Speaker 1: who loves me, who has you know, multiple healthy children 452 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: and like a dope podcasts, and like. 453 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 3: You start it just trains your brain. 454 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,480 Speaker 1: To be like oh Wow, wait, my life is awesome, 455 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,680 Speaker 1: Like I have so much that is bringing me joy. 456 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 1: And also you start finding the joy and like just 457 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: really small basic things like whether it's like a hot shower, 458 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,919 Speaker 1: your favorite type of pop coffee, or whatever, you realize 459 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 1: like there's joy around you all the time. So like 460 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: if you don't book that, you're more likely to be like, huh, 461 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 1: maybe it wasn't meant for me. Like, guess guess my 462 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 1: joy is coming in the next. 463 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 2: Thing, right, Ye know that makes sense. I like that. Well, 464 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 2: thank you for coming on. Uh wait, by the way, 465 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,400 Speaker 2: who do you root for? Since you have so many 466 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 2: friends and different yeah, rot you have one. 467 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 3: I don't have a single team. 468 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 2: I need you to pick one. I really do. 469 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 3: Oh you do? Okay, well. 470 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 1: Really, I mean obviously I was with the forty nine 471 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: ers for so long, so I guess I'll say the 472 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: forty nine ers. 473 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 3: But I am from Oakland, so you. 474 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 2: Stole our coach from Michigan. 475 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,919 Speaker 1: Yes, but yeah, so I'm from Oakland, so I'll always 476 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 1: have silver and black and me as well. 477 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:42,879 Speaker 3: Okay, I like that. 478 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 2: Well, thank you for coming on, and everyone go get 479 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 2: the Season of Change. The competitors playbook for Joy On 480 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 2: The Path to Victory second edition. 481 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 3: Thank you girl. I have a great thing